4 Simple Ways to Stop Caring What Others Think of You | The Mel Robbins Podcast
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Imagine how liberating it would be to not care about what other people think of you. You’d take more risks. You’d stop holding yourself back. You’d make more money and have more fun.
This episode is hilarious, relatable, and packed with takeaways and research. It’s entertaining and personal, and yet still empowers you with 4 simple ways to stop caring about what other people think.
Want to know what life looks like when you don’t care?
I’ll go first.
One of the benefits of not caring about what other people think is that you don’t take yourself too seriously.
Why? Because you have much more important things to care about.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you'll learn:
00:00 Intro
03:26 Hilarious story of me taking my shirt off at an LA restaurant.
09:50 Christine says you’re not supposed to show up to meetings this way.
17:25 Christine’s profound point about judgment really opened my eyes.
20:02 When you stop worrying about how you look, others around you will too.
25:25 It’s not normal to wear a child-size space suit in front of your students?
32:42 Once you align your values with your actions, nothing else matters
36:36 What I think about ugly troll comments so that I can rise above it.
41:29 If you’re part of a gossip loop, here’s what you need to do.
43:23 Jessie could not stop laughing after I did this.
45:36 How can you give honest feedback and not sound like a jerk?
52:25 The wake-up moment for me around relationships.
57:59 My four rules about how not to give a sh*t about stupid stuff.
01:16:57 Kendall revealed something to me that I still can’t believe.
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One of the reasons I listen to Mel is because I feel like she is honest and real when she communicates and shares with us.
Normalize showing the reality of everyday life and stop glamorizing social perfectionism, sooo love this! Authentic living ❤
Sadly as a woman of color if I went to a store looking like crap, I might get followed. We have to acknowledge that not all of us can completely free ourselves from social norms without major consequences in this nation. At the same time, I do believe we must find places to show up as a true authentic selves😊
@@JennyGaston can I repharse : completely free ourselves YET
You daughter has a gorgeous voice!!!
As for your video after yoga, you looked like you had just left yoga, thanks!!! I love that you are your genuine self in videos, meaning sometimes you look like a real person does at home and don't feel the need to always have coifed hair and makeup. Thanks for keeping it real. 👍
Nips, toes, sweat... most judgmental, superficial comments. Thank you so much Mel for actually being authentic. Clearly we need way more of it in this world.
Mel is the goat. It’s very clear she has reached a freedom to be herself, in a way that others can’t imagine.
I really apire daily to get to this level of not giving a shit genuinely xx
Czech actress Helena Ružičkova was comedian in movies.Obese lady...People asked her questions about her weight.
She said me who can dress myself behind a tiny tree?
She said with humor:
I go to a beach, and throw away my bra, and kids make a tent of it.
The employees sound pretty uptight!! LOL! I'm glad I never had to work in a corporate environment. this is great!😂
Right?! But in her previous corporate experience.....as if that justifies ANYTHING. It doesn't. In fact if a corporation says "this is acceptable" you can bet it's the most bland, generic, vanilla BS designed so as to not offend anyone ever, even your 90 yr old grandma whose style sense is rooted in the good ole days of the 1940s.
Omg those ladies are way to sensitive! Love how real Mel is! Makes me love her even more! Thank you for being transparent and super down to earth.
That’s absolutely nothing to worry about, Mel looked fine, I’m glad she didn’t give a shit. Mel’s comfortable in her own skin , and I’d like a body like hers. Open toes shoes, are they kidding ? They need to get real, and if you want to stay in the sun, that’s up to you, let them go into the shade. ( Let them 😉 ) I think these ladies are a little snobby to be honest.
Totally Agree! I love MEL even more now. Talk about uptight and freaking Puritanical. Mel was with all women. She had to cover her nips. Get outta here. How does she work with them? They wish they could be as cool 😎 as MEL!
I agree, Mel, you help me so much how to live my life FREE.
It’s shocking how women are always the one judging other women. Men wouldn’t care if their male colleague is exposing his toes or is shirtless. Who gives a s* that your nipples are showing during a meeting with 4 other women colleagues in a very informal/ casual environment? Come on.
As I said in another comment, there is nothing wrong with wanting to see a video where the person doing the podcast has cleaner language. It doesn't mean the person who wants that is 'uptight', it just means they want more clean, respectful language and there is nothing wrong with that.
All I can think is your team is too uptight ;) I love that you don't care what people think. it's an inspiration to many people that always feel judged by others. Also, I think that playful don't care nature could have something to do with ADHD, because everyone I know who's diagnosed, are more playful and less serious. Thanks for being awesome
Lol I might want to think so too but they are a great balance for her. I love them all
I agree I have adhd and am playful and can act goofy ….
Hmmm
Never considered that theory..
Maybe true!
Yeah, jeez, who knew Mel's team is so uptight? Yikes. Seriously, OPEN TOED SHOES?!!!
Yes absolutely, I love Mel, she’s being her self, get over it ladies your too critical.
Who Cares if you have bare toes in a meeting.
I never heard of covering toes for meeting. Your employee is too uptight
Oh my goodness these ladies are wayyyy too judgmental!! I could NOT work with people like them much less want to be friends with them. They are way too uptight. Keep being YOU Mel! This is why we love you!! ♥️♥️♥️
Being your authentic self has got to be the most liberating experience ever, despite social norms and expectations. Thank you Mel for leading the way.
Totally 💯 ❤
Be free... Always.
The judgement in this is unreal!! Is Mel not giving a shit or keeping it real? Mel, I love you for what you are not...I salute you for bringing humour to this - cause damn, I can't - the average woman on my current continent cannot afford good, supportive shoes for work, standing all day - nevermind judging another person for (assuming they had choice) in footwear. Ugh, I bless these ladies with deep empathy and compassion for the unknown situations of others, I bless them with the deep knowing that their exterior look/presentation is finite and fleeting and I also bless the shit out of them with gratitude and humility for their 1st world problems. Rock on Mel, with your tits out all the way, your bare feet in the dirt and letting the F bombs rain down in glory! You are authentic, real and natural - a breath of fresh air in a plastic society.
Oh boy, do I love your comment!!! This is the best, ever!!
@eloise3280 your comment is absolutely spot on!! The best ever!!
Naming the point of view (HR) does not cover up that these practices/the advice is rooted in judgement. Somehow natural and even 'not pretty' is perceived as wrong. Even if corporate/societal norms are the driving factor, it does not make it just, inclusive or kind. Yes, boobs out around an immature group/corporate is highly inappropriate. This is not the case here though...Did you notice the refined wrongness for being more natural? The lady needed Vitamin D, can we allow her to do what her body requires without making it wrong? Did you hear that having blood vessels dilated in the face after exercise in a hot room is now 'looking like shit'? I don't prefer it AND it is okay if you are fine with that sort of setup too. I would like to see less shame and wrongness when it comes to the female (in particular) body, and other natural body processes, especially from other women.
@@elizabethbooth7084 I am speaking to that part of you (and the part of the collective) that thinks; looking pretty will protect you, that you need armour to be amongst strangers, that not being made up is "your worst", the part that will avoid getting a coffee even though you want to - because your face is red and you fear judgement so much, you got put yourself right (according to others) first. Only because there is so much more to humans and what we look like is overemphasized in the current culture. I don't agree or disagree with you.
I am never forced to do anything...If I don't like the way someone smells, I move. Who forces you to sit in these situations you find yourself in?
My daughter is a tattoo artist, and tattoed all over her body EXCEPT her face. In the beginning I was horrified, people stare at her. But now I am so FREAKING PROUD of her, she owns her own business, purchased her own house, has a GOLDEN HEART, has raised money for the unfortunate, and is socially aware and gives back! She was SELF TRAINED, did not go to college but COULD HAVE with her grades. People judge her by her looks, but she is the most AWESOME PERSON I KNOW!!!!!
The people that work for you are EXTREMELY UPTIGHT! I think this is honestly ridiculous and idk how they are living normal happy lives trying to fit into all these ridiculous society norms. I thought they were going to say some real idgaf stuff but this is absurd. Mel, you are actually the normal one and this has given me the courage to really not gaf because people are going to judge you ridiculously anyway. Love You Mel and please don’t begin to take any of this any way! WEAR THE VALENTINO’S WITHOUT NAIL POLISH. I’m Soooo For It!
Oh and everything they said hasn’t stopped you by far.
Im sure these women are great people but they are a true reflection of what society is struggling with. Being authentic to who we are seems to be unacceptable.
That first part was a hard watch but shows you exactly why you shouldn't care what others think. Those ladies have been conditioned by societal standards and expectations which have made them so concerned as to how others view them which causes them to judge others, it sounds exhausting.
Agree. I would not want to work with them. That was very concerning.
I am here crying Mel. Thank you. ❤️ I was bullied in corporate America and i wasn't a shark. This was so healing. Not the right fit. I found my purpose and I am grateful for the experience and for the opportunity. I learned a lot.
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Being authentic is so important. Connecting on a real level - really needed these days. Yes, there are social norms, however, being free to carry yourself without self critical judgement or from others for that matter, so good for our mental health.
I can’t tell you how badly I needed to hear this entire episode. I’m a self loathing SOB and have imprisoned my 50 year old self since the 3rd grade. Thank you for being real and bringing humor into my day.
Talk to Mel!!
You are never to old to Start living youre best life!!! You go ❤
You are never to old to Start living your best life!!! You go ❤
I'm very self conscious how I look and what people will think.
Mel, you devoured this. I adore how at peace you are with yourself I don't see anything wrong with you showing off your feet or being at ease in your own skin you are so genuine and honest and don't put on this façade based on society insecurities and preconceived notions.
maybe a touch of narcissism also. Comes with being a multimillionaire. There is such a thing as having a sense of decorum, out of respect for others.
@@now591 It appears to be a catch-22 I understand what you are saying because some people place a high importance on social customs. I believe that in some circumstances acting a specific manner would be respectful. Personally, I find that letting go some of the formalities of personal settings makes me feel more honest and relieved. Having respect that goes beyond decorum and just having genuine interactions without formality can be positive. :)
I lost confidence when I lost a lot of hair and was ill but have recently hit record again. I agree it’s important to let people see you not being some impossible perfect ideal all the time. It’s been hard though.
I love you so much and what you’re saying here about NOT caring!!!! Who the heck cares if your toes are exposed at a meeting!!! What the heck do your feet have to do with your character or what you have to offer? You are sooo GENUINE! I think it’s refreshing! At almost 50, I’ve lived my entire life caring what people think, and listening to you is sooo inspiring and FREEING! I finally don’t give a shit, and it is liberating!!! How you’re being described here is exactly why I LOVE who you are!
Only 20 minutes in and sounds more like they have their own insecurities & are putting too much energy into shit that doesn't matter. That's why Mel is the boss & a mover in her life. She is putting her energy & focus on the things that matter to move the dial, to better show up to the meeting to be a cleaner in life.
You nailed it Mel! I used to worry about how I look till my early 30's, I am 36 now, I have some fine lines when I smile and some adult acne which a couple of years ago I would spend an hour covering it..Right now literally I don't give a shit, I am perfect in my own imperfection!
Great! You sound smart,young lady!& beautiful going with your life!🧚♀️❤️💪🌹
I love whats happening here in this podcast. So it's completely refreshing to see beautiful grown ass women keeping it all the way real, being completely honest with one another and not taking huge offense and getting mad at their friends or coworkers for telling them how they really feel or what they think. I love the acceptance and I love you Mel Robbins not only because of you as a person but bc of your embracement, courage and being so transparent for other women who desperately need these things in their own lives, including mine. Thank you ladies!
Thank you!! I have always cared what other thought because that was what my mother always taught me. She was raised very co-dependent and could never see that it was wrong. She raised me the same way, my father was always very demanding and I was taught to always cater to the men in my family. Never talk like I am smart, because someone may think I think I am better than them. Well I am the only high school and college graduate in my family and I deserve to be free to speak the way I want to. It is not my problem that others are so insecure that they feel put off by my intelligence. I have a bachelors degree in law, I am a paralegal at a very large firm and I should be proud of that not made to hide those facts because it may make someone else feels a certain way. That is not my problem. Your videos and podcast have been so liberating for me. Please never stop speaking the truth. It took me 50 years to embrace who I am. BTW your daughters singing made this military mom cry. She has an amazing voice and hope she shares it with the world.
That’s why we love Mel! She is real!! ❤ That is how she connects with real people!! Mel, please don’t change!!! 😘
Exactly. Her being "polarizing" pushes away the people who can't handle her and attracts those who fiercely admire her😁❤
Mel you are ruck! I like you so much and appreciate your amazing humility. ❤❤
36:55
Because I’m smarter than YOU FF!!! 😂 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love you Mel!!!
Mel you have the RIGHT attitude. Do not give a shit what anyone else says. And your team needs to keep their judgments and opinions to themselves.
Maybe so, but I do wish she would watch her language a little bit. I've watched a lot of her videos now and have noticed more and more that she will let F bombs and the 's' word slip. She can get her point across just as well without the constant 's' and F words. With the language she sometimes uses, my grandmother would be a bit offended by her videos.
Big takeaway is to ask, what do I value? Why do I get worried about what others think when I am doing something that I value? That’s huge. Thank you ❤️
My favorite quote of this episode: “you are you 100% all the time”
Wow Mel! This podcast really hit home for me! I'm a guitarist/songwriter and performing my songs for people can be nerve-wracking because I've given a shit what people think of me and my work. What you said about Kendall at the end had me really thinking that I've been doing the same thing - keeping myself in a cage and not sharing my truest form of self expression. Thank you for sharing this and I always learn so much. I love you Mel. Please keep up the good work of sharing all that you learn in your life with us in your most authentic way.
❤ Thank you!
I hope you share some of your music more after this.
Maybe a few videos on UA-cam too.
I listened to this today while working out and I LAUGHED OUT LOUD sooo many times!! It is a freeing escape not to give a $hit about what anyone thinks about you!! It took me a minute, but I am at a point in my life where I CARE NOT!!!
Mel Robbins is my spirit animal! I think this is why I'm not invited to meetings at work. 😂😂😂
I just don't see anything wrong with any of the moments they were all 😮about.
I don’t see a problem with the sun bathing. You go, Mel!
Mel, I agree with you!! The person that criticized you with all those cruel things behind a computer is unhappy with themselves. You’re so Awesome and smart and loving and helpful towards everyone. It’s obvious they are jealous and don’t like their life. It’s sad that people waist energy cutting people down!! Thanks for all you do!! You’re so inspiring ❤
We love you Mel 💕⚡️ please never change your authenticity. This world needs more!
We absolutely love you Mel for not being afraid to be yourself at all times. In fact, this is one of the sexiest traits you have. You are definitely a heroine to me for helping me to learn how not to give a s--t what other people think of me and being more thoughtful about what I really care about. ⭐️
Mel, we love your authenticity! ❤
You are freaking Mel Robbins! I seriously don't think your shoes matter AT ALL! I just came across your content and I absolutely love you!!!
I spent most of my life hiding, camouflaged myself so I didn't stick out and have negative feedback and look foolish, I was depressed and practiced self preservation by being invisible.. I'm now 54, overweight, colour my hair blue, pink or purple because I don't care now, I'm a Reiki healer, I found that people smiled and say positive things about my hair, if I can make just one person smile for the day then I'm doing my job ☺️ if they are happy, I am happy 😊 you do you boo❤
Honestly I just love how real you are Mel and see nothing wrong with what this lady is bringing up that you did. Keep being your real self Mel. Some people just overthink everything.
U being u is what we luv about u and please don't stop cussing. A wise older woman once told me "it's none of my business what u think of me" and since she told me that, I live by that. Thanks for being real!
Holy crap!! I live barefoot as often as possible! I am a Massage Therapist & Reiki Master. When will we evolve beyond antiquated "nipples & toes must be covered" male demeaning women, thinking???!!!! I am so happy Mel rises above this nonsense! I am truly shocked at these corporate women and their boxed in ideals. Hopefully Mel will help them to ease up and see how free REAL WOMEN can be in their own confidence. Hugs to you all!! I am still trying to get this!! Love, love, love YOU, MEL!!!!! Be.YOU.tiful.
Good for you Mel! I’m 74 years old & not happy to say it took me to age 60 to stop worrying about what other people think of me. As a lifetime empath, I’ve been a kind, loving supportive & successful person but self acceptance was my challenge. Life is soooooo sweet once you stop the constant worry. I’m sorry you have to work with judgmental people.
Mel is so childlike. That’s the word that comes to mind whenever I watch or listen to Mel. ❤️
This episode is so timely. Thank you. Caring a little less what others think. It's a process.
I love the advice you gave Dr Amy! She deserves to be recognized for her accomplishments. I think she felt undeserving and self conscious about the title. She should be proud if it!!
Please don’t censor yourself to conform to society’s “rules.” We
need more authentic people in the world! Open toe shoes and sunbathing at lunch should be acceptable behavior!!
We need more company leaders like Mel Robbins and Gary Vee to show people that all these silly corporate fashion rules don’t need to be followed in order to be happy & successful. Just be you…everyone else is taken.😁
I love that, that’s a great comment.
Mel you are a freaking rockstar! I love love love this episode! I love how real you are! You’re a true inspiration. And cheers to not giving a sh*t 🥂
First 20mins in and I can't stop laughing. Thank you Mel for being authentic. 🙏
i feel really uncomfortable and find it hard to believe how much HER STAFF were judging and getting her to conform to their norms. mel wasnt wearing PJs at the audible meeting, nor was she nude by the pool. the q that crosses my mind is: where does the judgement end? or does it?
Love you Mel. More people need to be raw and real as you are ❤ I'm raw and real and some people just can't handle it. Its not like we are disrespecting anyone or hurting anyone. We are just real and down to earth. Totally agree with you. It's so freeing.
OY VEY!!!! You go, girl! You taught me "LET THEM" and I am forever in your debt! Don't care if your toes are funky or not:)
I absolutely LOVE that you don’t give a shit!! You are real and AWESOME!!
I teared up when Kendal sang - and I’m not even an American!
You are inspirational, Mel.
I realized something eye opening. I beat myself up sometimes for saying dumb or cringe things but seeing Mel do those things is endearing and lovely! The ones who look back are the employeees looking petty for pointing out “mistakes”
This was awesome! Because of you I experienced some healing today. I've laughed and felt your excitement and love for life. You shared your pain and volunabilities I resiginated with. When I thought it couldn't get any better, you shared your daughters voice. I couldn't hold back my tears when you said to fly. Thank you Mel.
I resent how your staff takes such enjoyment in finding such fault in your actions. I hope they have your sense of humor and confidence as they age!🤔🤨😍
Came over for the photo and it did not disappoint!! Saturday I wore a top to the farmer's market that I love but never wear because it doesn't work with a bra. It def pushed my comfort zone as I felt I could see my nipples more than I'd like. I wore it, got a complement and lived to tell the tale here! Wooohooo! Giving less f*cks every day!! Love you so much Mel and team!
Thank you for being you Mel and being a true version of yourself! Love “spending time on what matters and going out not all done up!” 🥰
Oh my gosh!! Your daughter is amazing!!!! 🥲🥲🥰 Congratulations Mel!!!
Mel sweetheart, I so appreciate your thinking. To be comfortable being your authentic self. To choose how to act, dress, and speak around those you know and don't know. It shows respect for them and yourself when you think just beyond yourself.
I love that you are you and that gives everyone else to be "real" which as women we have been told to shut it down, look a certain way, don't be to smart etc Women think they have to be perfect and wait until everything is in perfect place. meaning we never do the things we want to do.
Be you Mel
As a naturist I'm shocked that other women are shocked by seeing another womans nipples, and through a top at that! Good for you going against the grain Mel and being you x
I wonder if they shame women for nursing in public by their actions/looks.
My favorite phrase is: "What you think of me is none of my business" what I think of me is my business" and I had to learn to love myself, and that is what I do.. First I had to learn what Love, happiness, peace and harmony REALLY mean. "Try it" hagd...
The more i hear you explain how you are focused on what really matters,and how you overcame the hurt,i so admire your wisdom. Your a beautiful strong teacher!
I am dying of laughter in the gym, ppl are looking and everything… I needed this laugh this morning. I had absolutely no motivation but this is so helping! Thank you Mel! ❤
I LOVE all the REALS of Mel Robbins. I identify with not being perfect and I love learning from (and listen more to) someone who is authentic. Like a best friend. Thanks for being you Mel Robbins.
This is WHY you are Mel Robbins and THEY work for YOU!
Mel you're awesome! You crack me up. Not only because you are real....but because you help the rest of us to be so as well. Thank you for all you do!
the last 5 minutes of the pod was by far the most profound i ever heard by mel.... bravo
Really shows how much superficial BS the world worshipes! Good choices Mel!!😘
Your daughter’s voice is truly a gift to the world! Thank you for such a great episode. It has me reflecting on who I am and how I present myself to the people around me. Now, I’m off to caring about the stuff that matters. Thank you. ❤
Wow! Thank you Mel for being your authentic self and reminding us what really matters! We need to focus on what’s important and not focus on the small stuff, be able to laugh at ourselves and not take ourselves so seriously…..I am a work in progress and love watching your videos! Thank you! Here’s to not giving a shit!
Mel, I am the same way when the sun is out! I live in the northeast and we need to take the sun when we can!
Also- I just finished the episode and your daughter’s singing gave me goosebumps! How beautiful!
Wow! How can you relax and be free!
I must break a few rules too.
I think about living more than making errors.
This is getting hurtful. So many love you Mel.
We have your back.
It’s amazing how judgemental some people are.
Life is worth living without worrying about not always appearing perfect. Thanks for keeping it real Mel!
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THANKS FOR LOVING YOURSELF NO MATTER WHAT!
Great role model on air.
I love this sooo much. I very recently found (& subscribed!) to the Mel Robbins channel!! I'm a 43 y'o finally finishing my BA studying psychology. 14 year practicing LMT (massage) & going through a personal transition on becoming my ideal self! What I loved about this session is the openness to constructive criticism. No one was being mean nor tearing each other down. It was all loving and honest without being * brutal*. This is one of those concepts that is changing for the better in our currently society!! Having an open discussion with our peers about *norms* and conformity versus being most authentic selves by doing what brings us joy and confidence!! I do think if it effects other people directly even if just making something socially awkward, we should be able to have a discussion JUST LIKE THIS with people we care about!! Not take it super personally as an attack but an opportunity for growth and gives the open opportunity for a response... not a defense... because it's not an attack!!! I applaud the content I've watched thus far!! Keep up the amazing work/content/creation/openness/honesty/awesomeness!!!
Mel! You are such an inspiration. Hearing this is so enlightening. We will always be surrounded by people who are judging us one way or another. Whether they agree or disagree, you give so authentically of yourself. Along with hundreds of thousands of other people on the other side of the mic - Thank you!
Thank you so much for what you do and who you are Mel. You’re helping me change my life ❤
Mel, you looked awesome in the picture. In the military the commander determines the uniform of the day. I think in this situation you are the commander, dress as you want.
Mel, You read my mind. I really needed to hear all of what you and your crew had to say today. I laughed. I cried. And I pray when I start my coaching business I can do just that and only care about what matters. Many many thanks Mel for being you and sharing all that you share. Xo
You guys are so right …it’s way better seeing what we’re listening to as well here on UA-cam 😂. I am learning so much from your podcasts and no words will describe how grateful I am for real humans like you . Thank you so much ❤💚💙
I love listening to Mel. She is such a force for good and for surviving and thriving. I love her zesty personality! It is the vivacity and personality of Mel Robbins that makes her so special and attractive. Safety and conformity lead to MEH. She's not out of order.
I wouldn't have thought twice about it. It's awesome that you appreciate your body including your toes!
Huge ah ha moment!!!! “If you look at the people in your circle, and you’re not inspired, you’re in a cage…..”
Mel, you have to be the coolest person to hang out with. That’s why you’re helping so many people just love your show ! Keep being you and not giving a darn about what other people think. You are helping me so much to look at things in a different light.
Dr. Bryant is incredible. She’s so inspiring! I’m headed back to school this autumn to work toward becoming a therapist. I appreciate this interview so much. I can’t wait to read her book. Thank you Mel and team!! ❤❤
This episode is so inspiring yet incredibly entertaining ❣️ Nice to see some of the team behind The Mel Robbins 😃perhaps this is a theme for a series in the making!
This was terrific, Mel! And I just loved your team being on here with you. This was the first time I've listened to the Podcast on UA-cam, and it was awesome! It adds so much to be able to see your faces as you talk. Thanks for doing this!
Do we really want to live in a corporate world that is based on such shallow judgement? I remember being chastised for wearing white shoes after Labor Day. Our societal 'norms' are a bunch of made up rules that keep us from being our authentic selves. Go Mel🎉
I LOVE this about Mel - too many people only show the glamorous version of themselves. Reality is what we need to see. I can tell Mel does this because she’s trying to help herself first and her listeners if that works for them!
Love you too Mel ❤ I appreciate you so much for being you. I needed to hear this message so much. Been afraid to show who I am for fear of haters. I love the way you explain things so matter of fact. I know for years I cared way too much about what people think. Bless you you just saved my life.
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Thank you Mel Robbins. Blessings.
Wow! I’m reading comments and every one is supporting you on this Mel!! Wow ❤
I love you Mel! Keep being you! Your realness and authenticity is what we need in this world right now. Watching your videos has helped me to be more comfortable in my own skin and also the best ME I can be and i really appreciate that. ❤ Im an African American female working in corporate america right now and you touched on some real struggles we have in this kind of work environment. As I step into my role as a mental health provider, which is my passion, i know that what ive been learning from you will also help me be a better provider to my patients and I can also pay it forward. Love ya! You are beautiful, don't let anyone else tell you otherwise. ♥️
You are so right on, Mel!! Every single thing you spoke here, I say myself. The world would be a better place if more people did the same. It all comes from experience, seeing things in your life that you want to change and the want to change your life. Love listening to your shows! Thank you for all you share and teach!!
I'm with ya Mel. When I need my sun, I need my sun 🌞
The only place I dont want to see open toed shoes is in a professional kitchen.
I think those ladies have a bit of pucker in their b-holes. Keep being you. Every response they gave seemed to be based on what society thinks, what other people think, and not coming from a sense of freedom. I say you keep being you. You're fabulous.
Thank you so much for your raw truths! This episode was so moving that it made me cry.
And made me realize my real problem. I always thought it was fear and I was half right. The real answer is its the fear of what others think.
It's easier to solve a problem once you have identified what the problem is.
And I have you to thank for that. So now after living a lifetime trying to fix me. I feel that if I fix this there is nothing holding me back. So here I go.. love ❤️ u Mel!!!!
Thank you for showing up and being a lighthouse for sooo many of us!! I love your work and share favourite episodes with friends. Thank you so much. ❤xo
Listened on my phone on Monday and then on my laptop today! Your podcasts are so insightful and motivating! Loved your daughter signing ~ definitely a proud mama moment... she nailed it!
I worked from home today and really needed a little company so I put this podcast on for company. You are all now my favourite co-workers. I laughed so hard and worked really hard too. Thank you xx
I think it's absolutely great! Being in that form is absolutely liberating and the fact that you have enough confidence to sit like that whether by yourself or with a group of people is very encouraging. I am so proud of you and I encourage other women to embrace themselves the same way that you have.
I never comment, ever,…but Mel, you are a saint for keeping these young ladies in your camp. Ladies, take notes. You are going to age & your comments will be brought up sooner than you can imagine….then look out!
& probably in a way you will contact Mel about b/c you will feel bad.