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  • @JaxnVideos
    @JaxnVideos  5 місяців тому +59

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    • @JaxnVideos
      @JaxnVideos  5 місяців тому +4

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    • @GreeneChakra
      @GreeneChakra 4 місяці тому +3

      Keep Going Jaxn, if God gave you the Spiritual Awakening to give to the World, just keep it up, we need it! Love you! ❤
      We need the details you provide, because its rare that we even get the “Details” of what the Storyline is really looking like.

    • @SherriMusick
      @SherriMusick 4 місяці тому +2

      I need to do this TONIGHT! I’m done

    • @user-mq6zn9pc8o
      @user-mq6zn9pc8o 4 місяці тому +1

      Two wrong never make a right just saying

    • @user-mq6zn9pc8o
      @user-mq6zn9pc8o 4 місяці тому

      Sound Touching 🙏

  • @normaespinoza1228
    @normaespinoza1228 4 місяці тому +719

    A woman is done way before she ever leaves.

    • @AxelLovesSomeone
      @AxelLovesSomeone 4 місяці тому +23

      Truth

    • @tiffany4951
      @tiffany4951 4 місяці тому +23

      So true...Im in this situation right now

    • @latyneyez1
      @latyneyez1 4 місяці тому +4

      😚

    • @glee105
      @glee105 4 місяці тому +12

      Exactly.

    • @angelacarraway1811
      @angelacarraway1811 4 місяці тому +27

      So true i was that woman and never looked back since the best decision I ever made I give the most high God thanks for that...

  • @user-iu6bv8vu8o
    @user-iu6bv8vu8o 3 місяці тому +160

    If he went cold out the blue- he went back to his ex or got with the next- either way let the trash take itself out… 🗑️

    • @TBirdBabe88
      @TBirdBabe88 2 місяці тому +2

      Couldnt have said that any better myself.?? 😊

  • @wanderingaudi4138
    @wanderingaudi4138 3 місяці тому +129

    Love yourself enough to be able to walk away, and walk away.

  • @Truckhergirl
    @Truckhergirl 4 місяці тому +456

    Some men won’t respect any woman and it doesn’t matter what you do! He doesn’t define your worth because if you know you are a good woman then it’s his loss. Period

    • @shaylanewlife
      @shaylanewlife 4 місяці тому +14

      EXACTLY 💯

    • @elizabethsanchez145
      @elizabethsanchez145 4 місяці тому +13

      I kicked my ex to curb as soon as he started showing red flags. I only give 3 strikes and then ur out.

    • @Kaylab5371
      @Kaylab5371 2 місяці тому +1

      Speak on that truth thanks it was my life

    • @monir3275
      @monir3275 2 місяці тому

      Men long for Respect...Women desires to be Acknowledged

  • @TwilaB0721
    @TwilaB0721 5 місяців тому +771

    He's not thinking anything, he really didn't like me anyway since he pulled away so easily.

    • @susanhampton9671
      @susanhampton9671 5 місяців тому +64

      HIs actions show everything. I told him I don't do casual relationships. I told him to move on. He said he needed to move on. We will see if he will contact me again...I doubt it.

    • @ceecee811
      @ceecee811 5 місяців тому +43

      DERRICK THIS IS TRUE, BUT DON'T CARE WHAT HE'D THINK. I JUST KEEP IT MOVING ESPECIALLY WHEN I'VE GIVEN YOU A CHANCE & YOU BLOW IT. I'M JUST NOT FOR DRAMA & DON'T LET MY TIRED GET TIRED! "BY FELECIA".

    • @prettypearls26
      @prettypearls26 5 місяців тому +27

      ⁠@@susanhampton9671….it’s not something your health will want to wait to see. If that’s guys response. Even if y’all get back it’s Gina be dead. The feeling you have right now won’t completely go away.

    • @dmysterious61
      @dmysterious61 4 місяці тому +8

      EXACTLY!!!...It's really that simple

    • @Marian_Perry
      @Marian_Perry 4 місяці тому +17

      @@ceecee811”DON’T LET MY TIRED GET TIRED!” 👈🏽 That part!!! I hear that!!! 💯👏🏽

  • @annsumrall2593
    @annsumrall2593 5 місяців тому +496

    He always said i deserve better. Come to find out I DO

  • @alitamodeste7256
    @alitamodeste7256 4 місяці тому +389

    If they don't really care about you, its nothing to them if you've walked away

    • @girlinthesouth850
      @girlinthesouth850 3 місяці тому +9

      Yep! If he wanted to, he would!

    • @janetroth782
      @janetroth782 2 місяці тому +5

      Very true then you didn't mean a lot for them and they didn't invest much emotions on you.

  • @carlamitchell466
    @carlamitchell466 4 місяці тому +553

    My husband went cold on me bc he was messing with a jezebel from his pass, now that I have filed for divorce he doesn't want it but I'm done with his mind games and manipulation. I went to court today to get my default signature judge rewarded it

    • @riasb
      @riasb 4 місяці тому +58

      Ou sis, God is about to bless you. Be ready 🌹

    • @haitiqueen0119
      @haitiqueen0119 4 місяці тому +47

      Cheers to you Carla, now shift your focus more on yourself. Implement self care as much possible. These people out here will never learn; sometimes the grass is only greener bc its fertilized with bullcrap! Totally his loss Carla✅

    • @musicjunkieaddict6600
      @musicjunkieaddict6600 4 місяці тому +27

      Good for you. His loss. When you truely love someone you don’t risk loosing them. Best of luck!!!

    • @sharonhorton31
      @sharonhorton31 4 місяці тому +15

      Yesss sister, stand your ground.

    • @user-wu7oj2oj4b
      @user-wu7oj2oj4b 4 місяці тому +9

      It’s always a blame game
      Take accountability in your part too

  • @terrigriffey4846
    @terrigriffey4846 5 місяців тому +378

    It actually hurts like hell but you always see the true colors of someone sooner or later. 🙏🏼💛 you just have to pray 🤲 for them and always give it to the lord. I don’t know 🤷🏻‍♀️ about other woman but I’m tired of being treated like I’m nothing when I know what I’m really worth. ❤️💛✨✨🤲🙏🏼

    • @BrendaBaBoom
      @BrendaBaBoom 5 місяців тому +15

      Right, you are worth it! That’s why using Emotional Intelligence (E.I.) is important in “seeing” the true colors of an individual before you invest in any relationship. Like another commenter stated on this thread “DON’T LET MY TIRED GET TIRED” …. avoid that possibility. 🙏🏽

    • @user-dk1im2le9p
      @user-dk1im2le9p 5 місяців тому +13

      Unfortunately most of us don't know our worth

    • @user-dk1im2le9p
      @user-dk1im2le9p 5 місяців тому +3

      @@BrendaBaBoom l love the fact you just mentioned E.I it's only something l have recently looked at and def gonna work on for the future!

    • @Ame-vo4pc
      @Ame-vo4pc 4 місяці тому +2

      👍🙏✝️

    • @marcelinaun3304
      @marcelinaun3304 4 місяці тому

      You are complete in him

  • @judywheeler2549
    @judywheeler2549 4 місяці тому +167

    I'm not gonna invest my emotions into someone that's not emotionally available

  • @shivangii102
    @shivangii102 3 місяці тому +67

    Nothing goes in a man's mind. They just don't care.

  • @ricquelricks5639
    @ricquelricks5639 2 місяці тому +45

    I rather be alone then be someones after thought ....

  • @user-pk4qb2we5w
    @user-pk4qb2we5w 4 місяці тому +114

    A woman gets tired of not being chased

    • @annetterobinson6439
      @annetterobinson6439 3 місяці тому +10

      ABSOLUTELY TRUE. YOU FEEL LIKE YOUR NOT INTERESTED...

    • @suem7500
      @suem7500 3 місяці тому +20

      Not chased... Pursued.

  • @annatischner3500
    @annatischner3500 4 місяці тому +169

    If hes interest is low, or non-existant, he will stop communication.
    Better that way so hes not wasting your time!

  • @lindagiles9883
    @lindagiles9883 5 місяців тому +263

    Games equal “goodbye”

  • @dr.judymurray1900
    @dr.judymurray1900 4 місяці тому +139

    A strong woman will understand how to create strong boundaries

  • @positivevibe7684
    @positivevibe7684 4 місяці тому +149

    I mentally detached because my feelings are being ignored. When i bring up something that is bothering me in the relationship, they make it about them in some way.😢 If nothing changes, I'm planning my exit.

    • @lorettaknox154
      @lorettaknox154 4 місяці тому +9

      EXIT !!!

    • @user-wl2so8wf5e
      @user-wl2so8wf5e 4 місяці тому +10

      That's emotional blackmail don't allow him to make you doubt your sanity

    • @positivevibe7684
      @positivevibe7684 4 місяці тому +4

      @user-wl2so8wf5e Thank you...I won't. Not to make no excuses for him. However, in working on my inner self, I understand he is emotionally hurt by childhood and adult baggage. He's not emotionally available to help heal my hurt. Which some of it, he caused. Therefore, I'm choosing to heal myself through different channels. Counseling is one of them. I'm sure he may have hurt that I caused. How can I help heal the unknown. ❤️❤️

    • @christine1962ful
      @christine1962ful 3 місяці тому

      ​@@positivevibe7684sounds like you are making excuses for him. You already answered your own query. You just need to take the steps in putting yourself 1st ! If you are in counselling, you should be on your own for a while and focus on yourself and get into a position that you are ready to take on a relationship.

    • @empressniki11
      @empressniki11 2 місяці тому

      exit ...

  • @lashondalambrecht4566
    @lashondalambrecht4566 5 місяців тому +200

    Ain't no fun when the Rabbit has the gun!

  • @jeanqmarykay
    @jeanqmarykay 3 місяці тому +62

    He always detach and becomes cold and indifferent when he has a woman he’s distracted by. Then he comes back realizing what he’s leaving behind.

    • @hopewilliams7081
      @hopewilliams7081 3 місяці тому +17

      Don't be his safety net. Eventually, he'll find the one he wants, and you will be history and left broken. Don't take him back, let go, heal, and grow.

    • @missy4915
      @missy4915 3 місяці тому +15

      He comes back because he knows that even though he may cheat/entertain another woman you are not going anywhere. How many women does he have to be 'distracted' by before he realizes 'what he's leaving behind?' He sounds like a master manipulator...

    • @Sandra.B
      @Sandra.B 3 місяці тому +18

      He comes back because he hasnt been able to replace you yet...

    • @cumanobles4166
      @cumanobles4166 3 місяці тому +2

      Yes too little too late

    • @Virgolove
      @Virgolove 9 днів тому

      He comes back because u allow it and he needs an ego boost. That's it.

  • @christineribone9351
    @christineribone9351 5 місяців тому +117

    He warned that he wouldnt be in it as much, so I went cold on him.
    Thanks everyone!!

  • @brendadean9291
    @brendadean9291 4 місяці тому +100

    I did gift my husband with my absence. I divorced him.

    • @nic3715
      @nic3715 2 місяці тому +1

      Very good bx it hurts

    • @blesseddeshawna89
      @blesseddeshawna89 Місяць тому

      😁WOAH🤐You SHOWED Him BETTER THAN YOU could TELL HIM...

  • @sharonhorton31
    @sharonhorton31 4 місяці тому +67

    He has to be Consistent in all areas in my presence. If he's not responsible for his actions. Let him out free yourself, sisters.

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      @JaxnVideos  4 місяці тому +1

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    • @nicolemartin-pz1wl
      @nicolemartin-pz1wl 3 місяці тому +1

      Amen Sharon 🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯❤️

  • @ebland64
    @ebland64 4 місяці тому +92

    I’m doing that now. I’m the one falling back.

    • @empressniki11
      @empressniki11 2 місяці тому

      CONGRATULATIONS 👑🌹🙏🏾...you deserve as good as you give...never settle!!!

  • @lindafuentes5152
    @lindafuentes5152 4 місяці тому +67

    Yes , real love is unconditional but relationships aren’t unconditional they are all about reciprocity! You can love someone and not be in a relationship with them. Love and relationship are two separate entities!!!

  • @esmeraldayachting
    @esmeraldayachting 5 місяців тому +123

    Unconditional love doesn't exist, men evolve throughout conditions👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @gretchenguichard1623
    @gretchenguichard1623 5 місяців тому +109

    Facts!!! Thanks for being so real and raw.... You helping both sides. I have boundaries, I'm trusting GOD and not falling for the same old BS!!!!! I don't have time to throw away.

  • @angelarussell3948
    @angelarussell3948 4 місяці тому +39

    I withdrew because he kept hurting my feelings

    • @kimm31
      @kimm31 10 днів тому +1

      Yeah then he says YOUR WAY TOO EMOTIONAL 😤

  • @user-ji1cs5ee8e
    @user-ji1cs5ee8e 4 місяці тому +42

    NEVER GOING BACK!!!!!!!!
    TRUSTING IN GOD IAM WORKING ON SELF CARE AND PEACE 💗💗💗💗💗

  • @user-ji1cs5ee8e
    @user-ji1cs5ee8e 4 місяці тому +32

    I got tired of the Disrespect

  • @janelljenkins5190
    @janelljenkins5190 4 місяці тому +35

    It’s important to know when it’s done.

  • @robertaford2127
    @robertaford2127 4 місяці тому +58

    Some people are so broken, hurt & traumatized. Of past, or present brokenness
    Soul Ties Tumble weed spirits, strong holds.
    That have left them
    So gaurded stand offish.
    Yet wants the freedom to come in & out at his leasure.
    Kenship to a Narsasitic mindset.
    Only to pick you up
    When he / she
    Chooses. Very condiscending
    Manipulation...
    Only to pick you up
    at a later convenience.
    But this seamingly
    Narsasitic person...
    Needs to be in Control.
    Only because somewhere in his life
    He's become detatched, broken
    Insecure, underneath
    his drama that he presents a facad to you.

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      @JaxnVideos  4 місяці тому +2

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    • @DM-sv2ei
      @DM-sv2ei 3 місяці тому +2

      Narcissistic mindset.
      Yes!

  • @michelehernandez4217
    @michelehernandez4217 4 місяці тому +24

    Players, Narcs, Hustlers, Gigalos, Grifters, etc...the men just go mean with you, to spend time with his other supplies, trying to use you for supporting the other women he prefers. SICK 🤢.

  • @TheGreyArea_LuLaKye
    @TheGreyArea_LuLaKye 5 місяців тому +58

    I checked out. Anything blocking me mentally. Is a No Go. At some point ain't No more buttons left to push or conversion. Great messages

  • @saleenastone
    @saleenastone 5 місяців тому +116

    As an empath, my love doesn't hold anyone hostage to the expectation of love returned. I give love freely. My Creator fills my love tank. The only One who can dictate my value, which I find in my Creator. When you love someone so deeply, so truly, it is not that they have loved you back, it is that they have learned to love themselves more. Expectations and assumptions do not serve anyone. When you feel opposed, and you react in the negative in return, it merely speaks to where you are in your relationship with the I Am. So align yourself, remember who you are, where you came from and where you are going and that we do not get what we want, rather what we are. If we want love, we must become it. It is so lovely to hear another speak such words of wisdom. I am thankful this came into my algorithm. Appreciate your wisdom and time brother and may you be blessed overwhelmingly, abundant in all things, Amen 🙏 Ephesians 3:20-21, 2 Corinthians 9:8

    • @JaxnVideos
      @JaxnVideos  5 місяців тому +3

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    • @marcelinaun3304
      @marcelinaun3304 5 місяців тому +3

      Ty❤

    • @live.life.secure.coaching
      @live.life.secure.coaching 4 місяці тому +4

      Incredible response ❤❤❤

    • @danastewart3494
      @danastewart3494 4 місяці тому +3

      Yes - Amen .. totally resonate with what you’re saying .. very ‘Course in Miracles’ … 🙏🏾🙏🏾💗💗

    • @angelicalee6
      @angelicalee6 3 місяці тому +2

  • @hawwasalahuddin9463
    @hawwasalahuddin9463 3 місяці тому +10

    Most men don’t understand that when a woman is emotionally invested, She doesn’t see you any lesser than you were when you did have the cash flow… if he remains ambitious

  • @user-mq6zn9pc8o
    @user-mq6zn9pc8o 4 місяці тому +34

    Manipulation is really ugly

  • @iamtaliba.divine.love1322
    @iamtaliba.divine.love1322 3 місяці тому +15

    I’m just done with all the nonsensical games…PERIOD!!!💯💯💯

  • @shariharris6698
    @shariharris6698 4 місяці тому +27

    I’m 62 years young and can relate entirely to this segment. It amazes me how age might or might not make a difference when it comes to dating and new relationships. Thanks for clearing things up . I really appreciate you Big Brother !

  • @imspecial2286
    @imspecial2286 5 місяців тому +40

    I'm an Old G, and everything he said is absolutely 💯 straight-up fa fa facts. It makes sense to me.
    Again, thank you, Internet Brother.

  • @robbieharper1705
    @robbieharper1705 3 місяці тому +17

    The door was closed, because he wasn't invested in me.

  • @sonjacox4874
    @sonjacox4874 5 місяців тому +47

    Yup!!! Been there two many times brother! I was a "placeholder " until he thought he could do so much better!

  • @user-zq5sz4km8n
    @user-zq5sz4km8n 4 місяці тому +27

    THAT HAPPENED TO ME IN MY LAST RELATIONSHIP. I NEVER ASKED HIM FOR ANYTHING OR TRIED TO USE HIM....I ALWAYS TOLD HIM TO BE HONEST WITH ME AND BE HIMSELF. I NEVER JUDGED HIM WHEN HE CHANGED AND COULDN'T KEEP UP THINGS HE DID IN THE RELATIONSHIP. I'M NOT TRIPPING!

  • @rjames9266
    @rjames9266 4 місяці тому +16

    He out here saving lives and teaching the masses! My God! Thank you for the free knowledge

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      @JaxnVideos  4 місяці тому

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  • @angelamoore8161
    @angelamoore8161 3 місяці тому +6

    I was taking care of my mom and sister both transitioned …he said I did t have time for him… showed me he was selfish and had no compassion despite me being there for him for surgeries illnesses etc oh and I had asked him for flowers 🌺 and he said that was too much so I had checked out … he broke up with me on Christmas Eve… I did not and have not shed a tear 😢 since … 😅I know I dodged a bullet

  • @temirarountree4553
    @temirarountree4553 3 місяці тому +37

    Why so many damn rules? It makes you not want to date/marry. The dating pool is full of games and manipulation.

    • @esh2616
      @esh2616 2 місяці тому +1

      He’s right tho

    • @nomalangamkwananzi803
      @nomalangamkwananzi803 2 місяці тому

      Everything has rules, school, God, work, trying to find a job....are you gonna give up just because you have to pull your weight somehow. That's how the world works, nothing comes easy

    • @karenbrooks3134
      @karenbrooks3134 2 місяці тому +1

      O​@@esh2616

    • @karenbrooks3134
      @karenbrooks3134 2 місяці тому +1

      Just sick of the games .

  • @ricquelricks5639
    @ricquelricks5639 2 місяці тому +15

    It was made clear he has a lot going on and I am not a priority ... I respectful turn toward my other responsibilities and I no longer feel safe emotionally and neither does he. I understand it and I am ok. I am no longer interested in being on the roller coaster.... I have to much to get done..

  • @heatheranndemar
    @heatheranndemar 5 місяців тому +39

    36 minutes of straight facts 🔥🙌

  • @ShellySmithkpministry
    @ShellySmithkpministry 3 місяці тому +27

    Yes, you are correct. Especially a woman who knows her worth and who she is, she won't waste time.❤

  • @sweetie932
    @sweetie932 5 місяців тому +22

    Healing is not a bad thing instead of bringing down the good people left in this world. # yes loss of safety.👍🏾

  • @elizebethgoldman2156
    @elizebethgoldman2156 2 місяці тому +11

    When we emotional pull away and no longer interested that is most definitely because we feel it's a waste of our time and our self-respect it's not getting anywhere and Turned off at this point

  • @candyp.8220
    @candyp.8220 5 місяців тому +19

    I found all of this out on my own through the experience and yes I am an empath. I am so happy to hear and see that there is a growing awareness of this dynamic.

  • @janinenoreiga6749
    @janinenoreiga6749 4 місяці тому +18

    He went cold on me after I talked about to him about his lack of communication and so I did the same thing I stopped communicating

    • @ceecee8924
      @ceecee8924 4 місяці тому +10

      Ooop that's on him. There's no excuse to not communicate. My ex worked 10 hr shifts at Amazon and still texted me through the day

  • @kiarisby2471
    @kiarisby2471 3 місяці тому +5

    This is literally what happened in my last connection. His closed off energy made me feel like I should be guarded and closed off.

  • @kimsanders8262
    @kimsanders8262 5 місяців тому +32

    My friend and I kissed and then he called me and said I forced him and stopped speaking to me. He just wants to be a servant of the Lord, but we both kissed each other. When I think about it I just laugh.

    • @trudy-annsmall9600
      @trudy-annsmall9600 4 місяці тому +25

      He sounds like a christian player.....those are danger to a good woman heart

    • @ariraquel4567
      @ariraquel4567 4 місяці тому +15

      😅 narcissistic smh

    • @chanteynk7324
      @chanteynk7324 4 місяці тому +21

      If he can't take accountability now that you are not married, he will later blame you for marrying him, raping him to get pregnant and trap him with children. He will never take accountability until he repents of his sins.

    • @rosemariecampbell7205
      @rosemariecampbell7205 4 місяці тому +11

      Like Adam blamed mama Eve😢

    • @dr.hannah1155
      @dr.hannah1155 4 місяці тому +8

      He's afraid of what he felt from that kiss! Scared he's gonna lose his religion & backslide! 😅

  • @TinaHarris-vh4uu
    @TinaHarris-vh4uu 4 місяці тому +13

    I just let him leave. I stand my ground.

  • @linetteluckett3795
    @linetteluckett3795 4 місяці тому +14

    I'm done with relationships..after this 💯

  • @janicemohamed2754
    @janicemohamed2754 2 місяці тому +7

    Why do some people think that you've pulled back because someone else is getting what they ain't getting, when in actuality they could be tired of the BS....

  • @cynthiathurman6991
    @cynthiathurman6991 4 місяці тому +10

    I am a woman and I’m asking you to please make more content like this!

  • @user-qn6fq4ur4d
    @user-qn6fq4ur4d 5 місяців тому +25

    This is really good. Straight FACTS 💯 Thankyou BIG BROTHER for always looking out for us.

  • @Beautiful_Divine
    @Beautiful_Divine 5 місяців тому +20

    It’s called an emotional discard but not physically

  • @gloriacastro3939
    @gloriacastro3939 4 місяці тому +18

    I wish I can say something but I can't but I appreciate you from the bottom of my heart God bless you I just wanted to say this person confusing me I just pray God to give me the discernment to do right decision, thank you so much.

  • @April-dt8pp
    @April-dt8pp 4 місяці тому +24

    I already KNOW love is for other people but not for me...I DO love hard, but haven't been able to find anyone who loves me back the same. Thought I had finally found that at 51, but taking a closer look only reveals to me that he still has feelings for someone else, and even though he cares about me as a person, I'm not all that special to him....😢

  • @ladybrandi1
    @ladybrandi1 5 місяців тому +18

    FACTS FACTS!!!!! Imma fall back I know my value

    • @dr.hannah1155
      @dr.hannah1155 4 місяці тому +6

      ... falling back now! Actually I'm running 🏃🏽‍♀️! I found the exit portal!

  • @MIMIAk1890
    @MIMIAk1890 2 місяці тому +4

    thank you for this video, unfortunately, I'm in a situation where he just likes me and doesn't want a relationship, and I'm the chaser, I think I finally came to my senses and I think it's time for me to just ignore him

  • @vettethomas5625
    @vettethomas5625 5 місяців тому +28

    Interest Holds Interest!!!!!

  • @Blessed591
    @Blessed591 4 місяці тому +18

    When I left him I told him in no uncertain terms that I was NEVER EVER going back . He knew I meant it and has never tried to reconcile . . . I get messages from strange numbers which I block immediately. . . He knows. I am totally done . Totally !!

  • @lindaclark3993
    @lindaclark3993 4 місяці тому +4

    OMG your every word
    I could cry...
    You know everything that is happening in my life.
    You can see in men and women's minds.
    Everything you say is so true x

  • @carmosin
    @carmosin 4 місяці тому +12

    I withdrew because cyclically stonewalled me, especially if I in any way was showing feelings outside of his control.

  • @deborahsmith-xg5ts
    @deborahsmith-xg5ts 5 місяців тому +30

    10:35 pm. My ex husband actually became indignant, when he understood that I was dating again.

  • @godisamazingcandilove7270
    @godisamazingcandilove7270 4 місяці тому +15

    I Been through so much !!!! I closed my Emotions off and ghosted the ex and narcissistic mother !!!! Aways remember silent treatment!!!!!

  • @lauranaleon9725
    @lauranaleon9725 19 днів тому +1

    “He was aligned for the women he wasn’t really that serious about; but he wasn’t aligned for the Queen that he was in the presence of…”😮 (32:02)
    Wow!

  • @FoluFam
    @FoluFam 4 місяці тому +10

    Happening to me right now and I'm done. Life's too short to be flogging a dead horse

  • @qianagray9399
    @qianagray9399 5 місяців тому +13

    You were 1000 percent correct on this!! Thanks for sharing!❤

  • @shelleymilford757
    @shelleymilford757 3 місяці тому +12

    Low self-worth people attracts other low self-worth people.

  • @allapples
    @allapples 4 місяці тому +22

    Just happened to me recently. Bet it won’t happen again.

  • @barbierozita
    @barbierozita 3 місяці тому +6

    You right! Speak on it!

  • @dinakindred
    @dinakindred 5 місяців тому +42

    I'm so glad Derrick is BACK BACK on here like this 🙌🏾 pull ah him on him 😂 I will

  • @Hardworkdedication777
    @Hardworkdedication777 Місяць тому +1

    Yes one of my best friends use to always tell me let them miss you, don’t chase don’t jump to every lil thing.

  • @jennydavy2027
    @jennydavy2027 3 місяці тому +4

    What I do not like is the constant shutting down so I don’t talk to him too

  • @Irina77888
    @Irina77888 3 місяці тому +4

    I actually did & they always come back running..😎 The only thing that varies is how fast they do.

  • @missymckinnney
    @missymckinnney 4 місяці тому +6

    It feels absolutely horrible. Hurts😊

  • @Butterfly-444
    @Butterfly-444 3 місяці тому +1

    I like the fact that you GET TO THE POINT! Thank you… no one has time for an hour intro! 🙏❤️🙏

  • @libralady1780
    @libralady1780 2 місяці тому +2

    This is Gospel.....Thank you for reminding me that we should recognize the 'behavior' ~ more than the words.

  • @lindasims3877
    @lindasims3877 4 місяці тому +3

    My brother…
    You are definitely spot on with this topic! Dealt with this, but the tables turned on him!!! Karma is dangerous!❤

  • @HaileysGiftShop
    @HaileysGiftShop 4 місяці тому +7

    Brother Derrick, I have seen one of your pieces of work previously and this one was just as good. I see that you consistently bring excellence to the stage. Keep up the good work!!!

  • @kittylew5895
    @kittylew5895 2 місяці тому +1

    I pulled away and initially he asked how to fix it but in the same breath he was defensive and pointed out all the things he felt he did right and implied that I didn’t reciprocate. You hit the nail on the head for me, I didn’t feel safe emotionally so I checked out.

  • @MS-ns4ki
    @MS-ns4ki 4 місяці тому +14

    His loss heavily

  • @BBsweetiepie
    @BBsweetiepie 2 місяці тому +4

    When you try to push a good woman away, it will work because she will be gone and she will not be coming back. 💯🎯👍🏽
    Meh!

  • @kimcash2362
    @kimcash2362 4 місяці тому +9

    I am going through this now. Have already done the cute off. Haven’t heard a peep.

  • @alaina8874
    @alaina8874 5 місяців тому +12

    You snapped with this message!!!

  • @cutie9481
    @cutie9481 3 місяці тому +17

    I just ended things with someone I really love because I wasn't his priority and blocked him. I did a lot for him and went above and beyond and I am sure he didn't see it coming but I am done.

  • @jessyon6274
    @jessyon6274 4 місяці тому +6

    Yeah Narcs don’t discard. They Hoover! Fudge that!

  • @mgpsaroudaki
    @mgpsaroudaki 4 місяці тому +6

    Κάηκε ο εγκέφαλος μου ! Ειμαι τοσο καλά και χαρουμενη που δεν το θυσιαζω για κανέναν άντρα ! Δόξα τω θεώ 🙏❤️💪😁

  • @carolynartes6033
    @carolynartes6033 4 місяці тому +3

    It only took a day. He called 5 times, every hour. When I finally answered he was on his way worried. I caved

  • @charlenecarver9234
    @charlenecarver9234 4 місяці тому +2

    Yes it definitely happened to me! I love him but if he doesn’t love me I’m ok with it ! I want him to be happy no matter what! That’s how much I loved him!❤️

  • @Unfold818
    @Unfold818 4 місяці тому +6

    You nailed it. Thanks for revealing the nuances that many omit 🙏

  • @theuniverseisabundantwigs
    @theuniverseisabundantwigs 4 місяці тому +10

    Long distance relationship. Keeps delaying meeting at 48. I don't have time to waste.. I'm ready to end it.. he keeps delaying meeting..

  • @tamaralandreneau8005
    @tamaralandreneau8005 3 місяці тому +2

    You're really good at what you do ! You're hitting me proverbial nail on the head.

  • @MsLadyBlack100
    @MsLadyBlack100 4 місяці тому +5

    You are always right on point to my current situation with every video my brother I promise you I really thank you just for giving me an inward look from a male's point of view it allows me to make a healthy decision as to dismounting or continuing to try and make things work I appreciate you