How to Love After Being Hurt (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)
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Ever been hurt or betrayed?
Maybe someone broke your trust, cheated, or took your love for granted...
If so, I’m really sorry.
The pain that can come from heartbreak is unlike anything else. It’s sickening.
But, there is something even more heartbreaking than heartbreak itself: Allowing the ghosts of the past to trick you into giving up on your next great love story.
If you’re finding it hard to open yourself up to love again…
If you are spending your life avoiding rejection right now instead of going after what you really want…
If being vulnerable and letting your guard down scares you to death…
This new video is for you.
It’s natural to want to protect your heart…
But if constantly playing defense is preventing you from meeting the REAL love of your life, you’ll never get to see just how much happiness your future still has in store for you.
Come on. We’ve got this, you and I. Let’s be courageous together. No more holding yourself back.
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“The most loving thing you can do for someone is show them a good example.” 👏💯❤️👏💯❤️
“It doesn’t matter how much I get hurt because I am going to keep doing this shit because that’s who I am” wow ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Not allowing yourself to love again is giving your EX way too much power. Each experience we allow in our lives gets us closer to our desires becoming a reality. Look what you did in your career! Change your thinking to change your path. Believe you deserve love because you do! You got this Winda! ❤
Yesss!!!
I love that first sentence!
Aww! She is so adorable! I hope she finds great things in her future!
If she lost the weight, she wouldn’t need “hope”.
@@qmulus1 bruh chill
@@unicornbubbles2446 It's true though.
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Matthew it's Obvious you are more than a Relationship Coach you are now A Life Coach! Love it❤👏👏🙌
Ive been socially isolated for years due to ill mental health and being trapped in a toxic codependent relationship. I'm 6 months out of that situation, working, expanding my business, and most importantly making real connections. Matthew has truly changed my mindset and I've become a more open and exciting person - someone I'd want to be friends with. His advice works for forming friendships too, not just romantic relationships. I talk to people more wherever I am - maybe one day my Mr Right will be someone I start a conversation with, who knows. There is beauty in human interaction. Thank you Matthew for spreading wisdom.
Well said Chiquita!
Stay strong Angelika, you're making a great progress ♡
Angelika Krawczyk You let yourself get isolated you let yourself get mental issues because of a guy that was your choice. The way I see it is that if it was that bad you should’ve let them go but you couldn’t that’s the problem with you women he cannot go of a man no matter how bad he treats you. Facts
I’m Scorpio and my ex Sagittarius.... this story also belongs to me..... I have left the shit lately been 4 days.... I can’t go back and beg for nonsense again. I am happy now releasing a thorn out of my life. I love myself... I can feel you @angelika.
@@madridista703usa3 how fucking DARE you?!?!? You have no right to judge me or my mental illness. Get the fuck out of this thread because there's no space for shame here!
My husband broke my heart after I got pregnant and he just messaged me saying good bye and I’m sorry I’m not happy a week later I saw his Instagram he was enjoying a holiday in Hawaii with a young girl I was confused and just in shock so I was destroyed mentally emotionally
I thought of committing suicide because I have severe morning sickness I was admitted in hospital for so I wasn’t mentally capable of having a child I was in shock I didn’t speak to anyone I only cried alone I was like on another planet
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I suffer from anxiety and depression 😭
Hikkrz Minzzy So sorry to hear that! As Matt says, ‘We are bigger and stronger than any pain”. Keep strong dear lady. Think that you are not alone in this journey. Many other heartbroken women like you, trying to see the light at the end of the tunnel. Also as Matt says, now you owe showing a good example to your child. Show her love, happiness and strength. She will be so proud by seeing how strong her mother is 💪 🙏🏻😊
Hikkrz Minzzy that is so terrible I’m so sorry you went through that. I hope you find peace
please do contact ur loved ones/family/friends, if ur thinking about suicide : know that ure loved and the world needs you, reach to suicidepreventionlifeline.org/
It sucks but you're gonna make it.
Damn, that sounds like a lot to go through all at once!
What that guy did shows clearly the kind of person he is, nothing to do with you. I'm sorry you were blindsided at such a crucial moment in your life. But don't let him take what is yours, your mind needs to be guarded and fed good things. Keep listening and watching positive videos like this one. I know you can make it through this, because we humans have it us to go through much worse and still come out better and stronger. You got this! ... Sending you good vibes today. Xx
Hikkrz Minzzy how are you holding up? Pls update us
Women need to understand that heart break happens it’s a part of life you will get hurt you won’t pick the right guy off the bat. Pain and heart break is part of life push through it and keep going don’t let pain stop you from finding love. No risk no reward
Thank you for this Matt, I’ve been hiding away for about 5 years now, after two very unhealthy relationships, I wasn’t thinking about the example I was showing my children. This has really struck a chord. To be braver. ❤️
I'm crying my eyes out all through this vid! I'm in a kind of hell right now, terribly hurt and betrayed, I've been treated abominably and it's killing me right now - but I'm getting out of there, slowly but surely, agonizingly slowly - by watching other videos of yours.
I recently found you - UA-cam plopped you bang smack in the middle of their 'suggestions' and I grabbed your vids like a drowning wretch. My heart is shattered....this has been the THIRD relationship that turned out to be anything BUT. I've been 'had', 'duped', 'played' and cheated on.
And the bastard is a cold, unfeeling robot who has no GUILT for the pain he's caused me.
But I'm finding a sort of consolation, watching this amazing Matthew Hussey - who the hell is he?! WHERE has he been all my life?!
He's phenomenal, so uplifting, that I've almost found my validation, that I AM worthy dammit, I'm a loving, faithfull, supportive and sensitive lady who has been DUPED once again, by a little, cowardly, fraudulent 'man'. 😫
“you are bigger than any pain”💗💗💗
Wow I can relate so much to this woman. My fiancé passed away unexpectedly 4 years ago. I was crushed. It has taken me a long time to even consider dating and now that I finally am ready, I sabotage and resist. I find myself only attracted to men who either live in a different city or are emotionally unavailable. And I know that my fiancé would want me to find a wonderful person to spend my life with, he would never want to see me alone for the rest of my life because he died. I’m just really struggling with it.
Marisa Jane Get back on that pogo stick girl you’ll be OK
Marisa Jane I feel shattered and broken because the only time I gave love a chance, I end up feeling heartbroken, I’m scared and sad because I don’t think I’ll ever recover from this pain, but one day I pick up my pieces and move on with life, but still hoping to find a true love one day
Thank you Matthew, got me thinking of this quote. Your joy is your sorrow unmasked. And the selfsame well from which your laughter rises was oftentimes filled with your tears. - Gibran Kahlil
Wow what a beautiful quote
Sharzad Modeli Angela Hernandez I feel shattered and broken because the only time I gave love a chance, I end up feeling heartbroken, I’m scared and sad because I don’t think I’ll ever recover from this pain, but one day I pick up my pieces and move on with life, but still hoping to find a true love one day
Thanks Matthew you completed my final stages of healing after this video ..love and respect ❤️
Thank you, I've been in constant abusive relationships since I was a young child. I am 35 and have been trying to avoid getting hurt all my life. When you are in constant fight, flight or freeze mode it can make you feel exhausted with life and disappointed in yourself. I've constantly lost myself because I have always been thinking about how I can keep people by pleasing them and not filling my own cup. This video is just one of many after a long journey to self acceptance. I needed to say this to myself today. "Who do I want to be?". For me, myself and I. Thank you Michael Hussey for always coming up in my feed when I've needed it in the right moment. I need to live after pain not die. My daughter needs to start seeing her mother live life. She's counting on me. Please continue to spread seeds of kindness everyone. It's the only reason why I'm here. Thank you Matthew Hussey.
G A Relate on every level....take care of you & your girl 💕
I'm a man, and even though I know this video was spoken to a crowd of women and maybe even intended for that audience, it genuinely spoke to me as well. I think every person on earth should take these words to heart ❤
Matthew, how you responded to this woman was absolutely beautiful!!! Made me cry.... because it was exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you for doing what you’re passionate about. You are an absolutely amazing man. Wish more men had your depth, your soul, your spirit, your insight, your empathy, your compassion, your creativity and your wisdom. I’m so grateful for you.
Janelle Berryman-Nosik lol
Janelle Berryman-Nosik heartbreaks isn’t really easy and it doesn’t heal faster, you feel broken, some people tends to lose their sleep, some their appetite for food is gone and nothing seems right to them.
If you’re dealing with heartbreak and you’re feeling down, well we just want to let you know things would get better and you’ll be fine with Time, People express their pain in different ways and heal differently, the best way to fall back on track is courage and give love a chance again to coming, I hope I find mine too one day
Man you made me cry.Thanks for this video Mathew, It open my eyes and see my situation from another perspective 😘😁
Matt is so good at this!!!
Amazing message❤️ you have to change the goal. Not "I want to avoid pain" but "I want to be a Person that takes oportunities and I Do what I can to get what I deserve. Cause thats how I Show my love to the World."
Im currently in the same situation as the lady , all my relationships have been failures, i have been betrayed more times than i like to admit. The wall i have put up is so visible i have not had a man approach me for fun flirting in a very long time. This video has come at a perfect time as im slowly beginning to bring down that wall after 4 years. I hope to see more videos on this topic, I know it will help many women ,and men, go about getting back out there in the battlefield of love lol.
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Can you talk about the same concept but in friendships . Sometimes I dont try to make new friends because of things that happened in the past .
I feel like it would be basically the same for friendships, just tweak the advice a bit to fit how you are afraid to make or get hurt in friendships. ☺
Matthew always makes me feel better
I cried watching this because I felt exactly the same way.. thank you Matthew
😭 I know those twins. Last time I saw them probably 14 years ago I was surprised to see them in this vid and brings back cute memories. It is amazing to see how they have grown to be great women and to have that love for each other. Thank you Matthew for your words and insights, to just go there and try again and not being scared even tho we were hurt so many times.
This is something I really needed. I've put on this brave face, telling my friends that I don't need this silly vulnerable thing called "love" (I know how cliche that sounds). I've been telling myself that I would never give anyone the power to hurt me again. But dang it, Matthew! "Don't get hurt... It's kind of a boring goal."
Well, crap.
Boring is the one thing I can't stand! Lol.
My tears won’t stop. This was so powerful I can’t thank you enough Matt. The only way to conquer fear is love
Santa Maria ayyyaayaay Santa Maria
Santa Maria Why do you women make it so complicated either he likes you are you down all of those conquer your fear love crap that’s issues you have to deal with little man breathe and see if you guys like each other it’s so simple
I feel this is one of the videos that I related to. Thank you Matthew and team for constantly sharing positivity and being great role models for people.
Reframing that into "changing your goal" is key!
It hurts so much seeing kindness. Thank you.
Thank you mathew for the wonderful guidance you shared with the twins. Thank you twins for sharing and opening up your life! I am grateful for the inspiration and courage the twin stood up and bare her truthfulness for many of us to be encourage to dropdown our guard to be vulnerable and challenge our fears head on. Powerful!!!
This man is amazing
He cheated on Camila Cabello
Star F he’s still amazing
👌 Fantastic Matthew! so grateful that you get to share this with us. Amazing impact 🥂
This video couldnt have popped up at a better time. Thank you, Matthew! 💕
Incredibly powerful.
I don't think this would just be for relationships but can also be for friendships as well
Matthew
Its not enough to be Competent at something
Its your Internal programs that stopping you reaching your potential in this area of life or any area of life
Something about your self worth or lack of it thats holds you back
Fear if pain fear from getting hurt from self actualising in your life
Change the program in everything you do
I needed this. It is sooo hard to keep my gaurd down because I have been hurt so many times.😭💔
Erin Pennington, I feel shattered and broken because the only time I gave love a chance, I end up feeling heartbroken, I’m scared and sad because I don’t think I’ll ever recover from this pain, but one day I pick up my pieces and move on with life, but still hoping to find a true love one day
My physical scars of a bad marriage/divorce are healed but the mental ones are still controlling my life 12 years on 😫
A powerful message to not only girls but for everyone
I'll keep doing that shit because of who i am, thank you so much. I won't give up.
After leaving my narcissist ex... I still hear his toxic phrases in my mind and having a hard time not listening to them. How do you overcome this?
Maybe you should go to therapy? It’s hard to cope with results of psychological abuse.
@@margaritam.9118 , No i think killing the person who caused you psycological abuse helps a lot better than going to psychiatrists who do victim blaming and give sleeping pills in the name of antidepressants
@@margaritam.9118 yes I am going to therapy for it.
carla j Give it all to God, pray to hear Gods views about you over his, God loves us & designed each of us special, beautiful, & good. Listen to positive affirmations on UA-cam, keep at it, it didn’t go over night but it’s definitely better. I had a Narc ex too. I recommend Reading a book by Joyce Myers titled Healing The Soul of a Woman. I bought mine at Walmart, you get it online too. Those things he said to you weren’t true, it’s a reflection of him. And if he said some things that were true but used them in a way to hurt you it says a lot about them as a human. They’re dealing with some demons. Pray for that person. Seek God dear. He can heal you
@@shea88barbie thank you ! I will look into that book. Yes I've been listening to lots of positive healing podcasts and it helps but I still got those phrases :( god knows the truth
Thank you Matthew for another excellent video of enlightenment . I see myself as not good enough , to be in a healthy thriving relationship . How odd that it’s come to this ?
Same
Super powerful reasoning as to the Why and the Purpose behind getting up again and again and not letting anything crush you. 👍🏼
Loving means Showing,Loving & Giving
I love it when he is so straightforward and just points it out hey it's boring, it's bullshit. It really cures my insecurity love it
Yo I've been dead inside for years, no biggie
That is your choice
You arnt dead, your numb because your ego says so. Now its time to love yourself and stop being a victim
@@NaomiChambers clinical depression is not anyone's choice, being judgemental and ignorant like you is though
I know the feeling!😢
No human being is ever going to "fulfill you" or be your source of happiness. Look to Jesus for that. Secure a Bible and begin reading the New Testament and when finished with that half, go back and read the Old. You don't have to feel empty inside. Let Christ fill your heart with hope and love as only He can do. Then you can "love your neighbor as you love yourself." Find a Christian friend you can talk to. Please don't deny yourself a new start in life. Reach out to someone. You're special to God and He wants you to have a full life. Start with forgiving who ever hurt you in the past which isn't easy without God's help--kind of impossible really. A great book to read is "Total Forgiveness." It's helped me countless times to forgive those I didn't think I could, which brings peace to the soul..... Bless you, 91claire! I'll be praying for you. If you were born in 91, you're young and have so many years of joy ahead of you. I pray for your joy. :)
That girl is so brave!
I heard that! Show them what a powerful woman looks like! Love love love no matter what!
I love how this is not necessarily just for relationships but for other aspects in life too thank you!!
You and your team always help me refocus on the important things again. My goals sometimes change and then I get off track. Thanks so much, every video helps. 💖
Aimee Miletic Yeah focus on your kids
When does SELF-love come in to play. This is very "sweet" but how do women get past the idea that “It doesn’t matter how much I get hurt because I am going to keep doing this shit because that’s who I am?" I just think this sounds kind of like self-harm.
If you put this together with all the things Matthew has said about dating. You see red flags? The relationship is toxic? Or your partner is abusive? Get out of there!!! It is not about staying with the source of pain. It is about keep going though you've eben hurt :)
I don't feel he means keep doing the same thing. I felt that he was saying don't give up on the right one cause the wrong one hurt you ❤ you are right self love is very important
@@katc5292 I love that. Wise words💕💕
I’ve been burned to many times I broke a promise to myself that I wouldn’t let my guard down then I met the love of my life 7 weeks we dated after a week and now I’m getting burned again he’s been distant for the last 5 days he’s stopped saying I love you which is painful he hasn’t messaged me for 24 hour which isn’t like him I don’t know what to do about it I can’t stop the tears from falling 😭🥺😭🥺😭🥺😭💔💔💔💔
Wow this person is so amazing ... every single word is creating an impact in my life....you are not just a relationship coach....you are something more than that..... Thank you so much Matthew Hussey..😊
This video makes me cry because I think I am lost cause. I have watched every video you take and not just once because I want to move on. I was in love and we broke up. Whenever I thought I moved on, he showed up and I forgave him and he broke my heart again. After a while I realize I was in manipulative relationship but this didn’t stop me from loving him. However, I tried to date and I tried to move on and I met someone we dated couple of months but it didn’t work out because I was still thinking about my ex. I think I am not in love with him anymore, I am just obsessed and right now I pretty sure that I don’t want someone like him in my life. However, I try to meet new people and no first date makes me feel same as my ex and i’s first date. Also, this dating marathon makes me realize that I am only attract to guys who will hurt me eventually. Whenever I meet a good guy I only see him as a friend. I accepted that part of me and I know for sure now that I will not choose a guy who makes me happy. Anyway, I love your videos and your ideas I wish they worked for me, at least I tried 🤷🏻♀️❤️
Same i feel literally exactly the same
Me too.
as someone with social anxiety and afraid of rejection this video was awesome to watch for motivation
I’m literally crying. Thank you for this, I really needed this 🙏🏽
He is so genuine 😍
Sounds great. And I’m so messed up that I automatically think...”they won’t pick you if you apply. All the ppl who attend are pretty, thin and you wouldn’t fit in.”
And this was a great vid though. Good message.
Honey I've been twice. Women are of all ages, all sizes, all backgrounds. You'll do just fine.
Hi Hussey...a good philosophy of getting back on the horse, but did you really listen to that beautiful woman?. I believe she mentioned she was physically abused in her last two relationships. She's a highly accomplished woman in getting her law degree. She wanted advice on healing and how long it can take and an approach on dating again, but with the permission to give space in her life for just her. She needs to work on herself a while.
I completely agree with your comment. I think once you’ve been through any sort of abusive or toxic relationship, it’s important to get therapy, process those emotions, and also possibly detect any negative patterns one may have that could lead to falling into another one. It’s not as simple as “don’t be afraid to get hurt” someone could get seriously seriously hurt 😔
@@MassielMancebo Yes you explain this so well. On further thought I was also thinking a good therapist could help her work through issues. Also, there may be cultural issues in that country that make things more perilous for women, but i have no idea. A pat answer is far less than any women deserves when it comes to surviving abuse.
Diane S I feel shattered and broken because the only time I gave love a chance, I end up feeling heartbroken, I’m scared and sad because I don’t think I’ll ever recover from this pain, but one day I pick up my pieces and move on with life, but still hoping to find a true love one day
Loving means more giving..I'm not afraid getting hurt again..!
Brisbane,Australia needs to see you soon Matt! 💕💕💕💕🇦🇺🐨🦘
Just love your channel,books and podcast!
Also your complete honesty!
I don't believe, in sugar coating anything eithier.
The truth will set you free.
I couldn't agree, with you more after watching this.
We've all been hurt,but what doesn't kill us,makes us stronger.
I'd rather have high standards and knowing my own worth than be in a less than stellar relationship or stay in a toxic one.
Too many times,I've experience in my past relationships the same thing.
Love yourself first and the rest will follow.🥰🥰
Thank you Matt, for your constant hard work and may your success continue always.😘 Xxxx
Yes, nothing hurt or bigger than you
Love yourself
Damn how did you find my deep existential problem like that on a Saturday afternoon lol
Tiffany Zoe Existential Don’t ruin your life around a man and make it so complicated either he likes you or he don’t anything else that’s your issue you have to deal with it’s really simple you know he wants to fuck or he don’t
amazing, my brother was right all along, I dated twice as much but he's been married for 3 years and I have just been dating for almost 10 years in bad relationships.
Wish he specifically did videos for men too! But this is great because it applies to everyone!
I would love to hear what you want Matthew to cover for men?
@@JanelleFraser Well, when I posted thisover a month ago I'd been struggling to get over my recent break up. I'd been in a really unhealthy relationship with someone that had narcissistic tendencies and used "gaslighting" frequently.
This happening during lockdown really put me in a situation where I had to just deal with the feelings myself, without friends or family to distract me - I had to also see my ex partner in work, who was a colleague. I'd revisit this video to just remind myself that we all live and learn and to think of it as a massive learning curve.
As a man, when I watch Matthews videos it really puts things in perspective how different male and female communication styles are and how different each's perceptions are in given situations. He's really good at giving down to earth advice to women from a male perspective, and I'd be interested in him doing content for men too i.e. communication, emotional intelligence. So that when I feel like I'm ready to put myself back out there again and start dating (not for a long time!) that I feel like I'm a better version of myself- like I felt every time I watched this video over the last few weeks.
Women feel like they don't understand men, and men feel like they don't understand women - having content for both sides will be beneficial to everyone involved.
That's so strong. I want to be a great example for my son. I couldn't go on being so miserable and weak with his dad. I imagined for a moment that our horrible relationship would become an example of what our son thinks is the norm and that's one of the things that helped me finish this.
I am getting back on my feet now. And I want to be a self-worth person, courageous and yet sensitive. I want to raise my son teaching that the world is a good place, and although you can get hurt sometimes, it doesn't mean you need to close up from everyone. But at the same time, keep up to your standards and not let anyone ever cross your boundaries.
Don’t believe in many things, but you actually make me me think I should. Cheers
Thank you sooo soo much Matthew!! This simple mindset change just set me free from years of fear
ibtissam latachi Years of fear of what did you ask visual up why do you make it so complicated either he likes you or he don’t
Amazing !!! Love isn’t “ what can I get out of that person” and if it’s possible heartache …I quit !! No no
Love is being the best version of yourself and no matter what happens …you survive anything because love conquers all!
And fear is not how you live!!!
Fear feels like death !
Love and live to the fullest even if it means getting hurt !
Good luck everyone 🙏❤️🙏
My life will be better, thanks to you, Matthew Hussey! Thank you!
I signed up the Home Retreat Program a few months ago, & I would say its one of the best gift I could ever give it to myself. The only thing that's disappointed me was Matt's team, I have to wait for at least 3 weeks to 1 month to get a response from them. And it was not helpful to me at all after a long wait. Personally I just feel that they are not sincere & authentic to help. Its very different from the energy I got it from Matt. But his IT team was great, they replied to me within a day or two. No matter what this is still a great program to join, it will change your life.
Basically saying face your fears!
Wow!!! Matthew Hussey gives the best advice! So brilliant and articulate! Truly moving So amazing!!! 🔥🔥🔥
This video hit home, and I’m thankful to have heard it. 🙏🏻 I’m a woman of faith, and I believe that God has worked through you and that brave woman to help me really root the things out of my heart that’s holding me back to date and truly start reprogramming my mind. Thank you so much! ❤️ Keep up the amazing and uplifting and encouraging work, Matthew! 😊
I absolutely love this but the fact of the matter is sometimes reality becomes too much and you may just not be able to be stronger... For some of us, it's just over.
This video was so much more than I thought it was going to be.
I looked at the title and thought; that’s not me, but I’m curious to watch it.
I learnt so much from this and will be using these ideas to move my life forward ...being a powerful woman for myself!
Thank you x
Thank you Matthew you really change my love life so I'm so grateful for having you as my favorite couch
An amazing video, thanks, Matthew!
I should've been at this meet, the same day we reach a year being together then 3 days later we ended it. No one can really know what's gonna happen until you learn from this amazing man and how to read signs. Be brave guys!
An important message. This Doctor knows his stuff (on love dating advice). 2024
man i couldnt love again, its been 3 years and i have ghosted so many fricken women because once they show interest, its like i get scared or it just doesnt feel right. my ex did probably the nastiest things to me, kicking me out of our home and moving another man in after 8 years, calling social services on me out of no where and getting me arrested.
my heart aches, its like the betrayal is a venom that is slowly killing me. i dont understand betrayal , i dont think i ever will
Yes! This is so wonderful. I needed this reminder today. Thank you
Love your work!
Cried so much during this video.
Some serious life coaching vibes from this clip!! 👌
Thanks for making it more profound ;)
Hey Matt! Are you ever coming to Australia? We’d love to have you here!
You made me crying... I will do same... you are my best Matthew...
Being scared and trying to avoid pain is actually what attracts people who are abusers and narcs because they can sense when you have pain, then they act like they understand you, will try to heal you, will try making you feel safe and tell you sob stories to make you trust them... Trauma bond with you and shit, then keep hurting you later when you walked into the trap... Fact that she already had a second abusive relationship is the voucher for this ... So he's right... Goal is to look for a good person and happiness not to avoid pain because if follow love the avoid pain is a part of the pact, you don't have to treat it like a separate issues...
Thank you Matthew...your advise heal my pain ...yes...no body can stop me to find true love🤗
Watching this video through tears
Thank you Mathew Hussey 🤗
Love from Manipur, INDIA💖
I love that your the real life hitch
How beautifully you explained it mathew , so awesome ❤️
3:33 that shirt looks good on him
I agree!! It flatters him very well :0)
Started watching your videos since 2015 and I'm glad you are still around after all these years☺
This is the wisest message I've heard in a long time. Thanks so much for your great energy and for constantly reminding us why it's worth doing our best.
The answer is...if the guy who hurts you can move on to find a diff person to have fun or love.
Why should u mourn as if you just receive a death of ur life. Move on. Find happiness. Forgive yourself. Give urself a chance to love again. Loving is a beautiful feeling. Go & feel it again. Love doesnt have to be someone else. Love can be loving yourself. Your family. Your dreams. Your goals. So go ahead. Dont stop here.
You guys need to realise you cant expect a person to not hurt you. Neither can u guarantee you would not hurt anyone. At least learn to choose the people who will love you right and who will respect you as a person.
Oh MY GOD i needed this today holy shit wow