"how disrespectful to you, to your inner child, to not get something you want because you're embarrassed or you think it's embarrassing to be seen trying". You said it all.
Nailed it! I am 50 and Realizing this NOW before it gets too late. I had 7 kids and now that youngest is in 2nd grade, get lots of ME time. Enjoying it!!
I don't have a problem with trying and failing, because I know that's the key to success. But the way other people perceive it, pisses me off badly! They behave like they already know everything, and make me feel stupid for not being there already. I once told a guy that I'm preparing for a programming interview and I have to learn really hard in order to get the job, and he was like: "But don't you already know?". I was totally shocked by what he told me! I was doing programming for 10 years before that point, of course I knew what the hell I was doing, but that doesn't mean that I didn't have to prepare for the interview. I tried to explain to him that programming interviews are absolutely brutal, and that I needed to rehearse the stuff I'm going to say ahead of time, but he made me feel like it was my personal failing for having to prepare for the interview. We are absolutely not friends today!
That's relatable! It helps to think of it being an inability to understand the nuance of your experience more so than it is a reflection of your worth or capability.
the sad part about having a big ego is never admiting that you are so good, or so bad, you did you best, or that was your worst. Its always the state of never getting there that keeps the game exciting for me, the whole trying thing for me as a person its always call for attention, until you feel that there's something that's actually yours. Set up a perfect action that doesn't come from a natural state of mind it always gets like "i am being controled" situation, the urge to be different and do things no one is doing just to remain singular to a essence that you want to achieve, but at the same time you will never, because doing would make you lose interest, or not... that's why it's called trying. Yeah, i rather try again, and again, than to admit that i got something i don't want. But i'm needy tho, you got me thinking.....
This video helped so much. I realised that I haven't been able to focus on studying for university because I'm afraid of seeming boring, too studious, nerdy when in fact, not only is there nothing wrong with being studious, not only can boring be a good thing, but also I actually want to be a nerd, I aspire to be a knowledgable and interested individual to the extent I can be. Because me studying might seem boring to others but it isn't to me.
Destiny Where are we going? I should have asked. I did not Without thinking, without hesitation, I got in For I was not going anywhere, just coming from Choosing ferry over destiny Questions and decisions and doubts Mind untethered - Adrift You say you need a travel companion? I said I don’t have much to offer, but I have some talents Take me with you, I will share all Where are we going? I asked. There were no answer And the road laid ahead, unrelenting, unending Through barren lands and hollowed efforts In the desert, beauty is the enemy of the traveler, Do not wander for only purpose can keep you alive Spellbound, confined by the incessant rhythms, Obedient, I hang on. Where are we going? There. Always there Where hope is just around the bend There, just a little further Yesterday I died- Waiting So do not look for me there anymore For here is where I shall now be from
What do you do when you have feelings for more than one person? Yeah. No easy answer there. I can try but don't want to try in front of my crush (that ironically hates me) so then my feelings are compromised. You ladies are all so lovable and men are lovable too because this would be a lonely planet without some support. They're all the sons of a women. The gals that I love. It's not so easy as a male. I don't want to leave and if I do leave I don't want to leave alone. You can do so mumbo jumbo and meaningful "I'll always be with you." It doesn't feel that way though when I'm jacking off. Don't mind my words. I'm trying to start my point of view at this point in time and maybe I'm way off. I love you all....probably to a fault as I'm forever alone. Speak to that dude please. We need help.
Couple typos but I've also been drinking. My meaning is probably lost because of it but whatever. Men are wired to fall in love. We put ourselves out there and it's for better or worse a competition for men and women. Why spend 10 minutes with you when I could spend 10 minutes with some other UA-cam guru? Nobody has patience. I've dated a gal for 8 years. I wish it were longer but whatever. I'm not scared of attempting to try. I ain't in high school. I'm trying to say you are all beautiful and I wish anyone of you would give me a second to explain. Not for sex. For love in all its form.
I did. But now i accepted myself and ive started this little buisness on insta and tiktok..even though I post something that isnt perfect i srill post it. And u think that's healing my weird inclination towards being hidden
Hello Kat, I'd love to invite you on our PODCAST as a valuable Guest please. I think you have some extremely valuable insights and our viewers would love to understand some of your positive concepts better :) Looking forward to connecting with you)) Greetings Anant
"how disrespectful to you, to your inner child, to not get something you want because you're embarrassed or you think it's embarrassing to be seen trying".
You said it all.
Nailed it! I am 50 and Realizing this NOW before it gets too late. I had 7 kids and now that youngest is in 2nd grade, get lots of ME time. Enjoying it!!
I don't have a problem with trying and failing, because I know that's the key to success. But the way other people perceive it, pisses me off badly! They behave like they already know everything, and make me feel stupid for not being there already.
I once told a guy that I'm preparing for a programming interview and I have to learn really hard in order to get the job, and he was like: "But don't you already know?". I was totally shocked by what he told me! I was doing programming for 10 years before that point, of course I knew what the hell I was doing, but that doesn't mean that I didn't have to prepare for the interview. I tried to explain to him that programming interviews are absolutely brutal, and that I needed to rehearse the stuff I'm going to say ahead of time, but he made me feel like it was my personal failing for having to prepare for the interview. We are absolutely not friends today!
That's relatable! It helps to think of it being an inability to understand the nuance of your experience more so than it is a reflection of your worth or capability.
the sad part about having a big ego is never admiting that you are so good, or so bad, you did you best, or that was your worst. Its always the state of never getting there that keeps the game exciting for me, the whole trying thing for me as a person its always call for attention, until you feel that there's something that's actually yours. Set up a perfect action that doesn't come from a natural state of mind it always gets like "i am being controled" situation, the urge to be different and do things no one is doing just to remain singular to a essence that you want to achieve, but at the same time you will never, because doing would make you lose interest, or not... that's why it's called trying. Yeah, i rather try again, and again, than to admit that i got something i don't want. But i'm needy tho, you got me thinking.....
Great Vid! I'm slowly getting over the fear of being seen, in regards to making Tik Toks about my art, but comparison gets the best of sometime.
You can do it!
This video helped so much. I realised that I haven't been able to focus on studying for university because I'm afraid of seeming boring, too studious, nerdy when in fact, not only is there nothing wrong with being studious, not only can boring be a good thing, but also I actually want to be a nerd, I aspire to be a knowledgable and interested individual to the extent I can be. Because me studying might seem boring to others but it isn't to me.
So true! I'm glad this helped :)
Great message! The way you frame all of this really resonates with me. Thanks for posting.
You're welcome!
Girl I come across your video and you’re amazing really amazing. And now I’ve to watch all of your videos ❤ keep it up
Thank you so much!!
Thank you, what an insightful video
You're welcome!
This resonated and helped a lot, thanks sister 🙌🏻
You're welcome!
Destiny
Where are we going? I should have asked. I did not
Without thinking, without hesitation, I got in
For I was not going anywhere, just coming from
Choosing ferry over destiny
Questions and decisions and doubts
Mind untethered - Adrift
You say you need a travel companion? I said
I don’t have much to offer, but I have some talents
Take me with you, I will share all
Where are we going? I asked. There were no answer
And the road laid ahead, unrelenting, unending
Through barren lands and hollowed efforts
In the desert, beauty is the enemy of the traveler,
Do not wander for only purpose can keep you alive
Spellbound, confined by the incessant rhythms,
Obedient, I hang on. Where are we going?
There. Always there
Where hope is just around the bend
There, just a little further
Yesterday I died-
Waiting
So do not look for me there anymore
For here is where I shall now be from
I ❤ your content!
Thank you!
Love this video. Thank you!
amazing video wow , i'll def be quoting youu
The opening alone 😮…
I feel personally attacked in the best possible way.
There's no one within a 20 miles radius of me and I still suck at everything ^_^
Hello Kat.
10:22
What do you do when you have feelings for more than one person? Yeah. No easy answer there. I can try but don't want to try in front of my crush (that ironically hates me) so then my feelings are compromised. You ladies are all so lovable and men are lovable too because this would be a lonely planet without some support. They're all the sons of a women. The gals that I love. It's not so easy as a male. I don't want to leave and if I do leave I don't want to leave alone. You can do so mumbo jumbo and meaningful "I'll always be with you." It doesn't feel that way though when I'm jacking off. Don't mind my words. I'm trying to start my point of view at this point in time and maybe I'm way off. I love you all....probably to a fault as I'm forever alone. Speak to that dude please. We need help.
Couple typos but I've also been drinking. My meaning is probably lost because of it but whatever. Men are wired to fall in love. We put ourselves out there and it's for better or worse a competition for men and women. Why spend 10 minutes with you when I could spend 10 minutes with some other UA-cam guru? Nobody has patience. I've dated a gal for 8 years. I wish it were longer but whatever. I'm not scared of attempting to try. I ain't in high school. I'm trying to say you are all beautiful and I wish anyone of you would give me a second to explain. Not for sex. For love in all its form.
Thanks
I did. But now i accepted myself and ive started this little buisness on insta and tiktok..even though I post something that isnt perfect i srill post it. And u think that's healing my weird inclination towards being hidden
That's definitely a great place to start!
Hello Kat,
I'd love to invite you on our PODCAST as a valuable Guest please. I think you have some extremely valuable insights and our viewers would love to understand some of your positive concepts better :)
Looking forward to connecting with you))
Greetings
Anant
this is a very Gen X issue
This is only an issue for people 45+?
This is me, I'm a millenial