5 Steps to Make Someone Fall Fast, Hard and Painfully in Love
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In this video I discuss DENNIS theory
Demonstrate value
Engage physically
Nurture dependence
Neglect
Inspire hope
Separate entirely
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Because there seems to be confusion here... this video is not encouraging people to do this. It is educating people so they can avoid this. As stated in part one of my mind games series, no one wins when these techniques are used. The only thing I am encouraging you to do in this video is to be more aware and if using my Audible code to listen to my book :) or others, helps with that, AWESOME
now I understand what was done to mee.. thanks!
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I’m doing this right back to my narcissistic boyfriend 😝😝😝🙏🙏🙏thank you
How do you avoid getting DENNISED all together?
If you have been love starved all relationships start off as a love bomb. Especially if you choose somebody who isnt as love starved as you are. For somebody who is love starved they are more hyper sensitive to gestures of affection than someone who recieves affection on a regular basis. If you recieve affection on a regular basis it loses its value(withdrawal). So to make a long stary short; your perception of what a love bomb is equavilant to the amount of love you recieve or dont recieve. Your experiences is what shapes your idea of normal. If your isolated(starving) your idea of over the top love could be you being treated like a human for once, and somebody love bombing you could be because they rarely see the good in people. Example: for someone who is love starved they fall in love before the relationship starts, so when the relationship starts its very intense because they have had more time to plan and fantasize (Hints the purpose of the starvation: self preservation) Now imagine laying that level of intensity on somebody who doesnt experience such large gaps between partners. Its not going to take long before you both come to the same conclusion "something is wrong with you", and the rest is history given on how our "tribal" way of thinking treats people with difference. If there was a song for the love starved it would be Marvin Gaye-I want you.
PS love bombing is real, but trauma will have you remembering people you have never met.
Narcissist tactics lol. Learn them especially if you’re an empath. Then develop strong boundaries so you can stop getting your feelings hurt.
Haha yes...
Yes yes and yes!
Yesssssss I'm an empath and this was an awesome addition to what I've just learned from the video.
I'm an empath and I got suckered into this cycle multiple times. It's really affected my self esteem and peace of mind. 😖😖
You're completely right! As empaths and codependents we are the biggest victims of narcissists. It's almost impossible for us to imagine that EVIL NARCISSISTS exist. To target US because we are the perfect prey. I'm learning narcissistic techniques to keep me in the loop. And also to use them because I'm a fucking doormat. NARCISSISTS SUCK! One guy RUINED my life. Or whatever. I can never find myself sucked into any toxic situation.
Am I the only that loves watching relationship videos without even being in a relationship or even wanting one?😂
Saaaaammeee
Nope... I'm with you... It's just confirmation that It's not me, it's them.For now and maybe for a while, I'm happy being single and focused on me.
Saaame!
I rather learn now to avoid toxic relationships in the future
right here
Love yourself, respect yourself because there has never been a person like you and there never will be again
So true x
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ truth
hell yea jabroni
Yeah
“Nothing creates addiction like an inconsistent reward” #testify
Macy Harrell if u masterbate the reward is pretty consistent right so what You are saying makes no sense although I can understand what u are trying say.
Ray Fresh it’s saying the time at which you receive the reward must be inconsistent not the reward itself. Obviously if u masturbate ur gonna orgasm. That’s a horrible analogy. You totally missed her point.
#deep
My ex girlfriend is the Master Yoda of this technique.
This video basically just made me realize that we are all just messed up people floating through the world interacting with one another hoping things get better. I guess this is why ppl say we all need a therapist.
the human heart is desperately wicked and without cure and deceitful above all things. Who can know it ?
So true
I’ve been a victim of the Dennis Theory. And his name was Dennis. The irony.
Wooooooooow
Same sis
I was victim of someone with don Juan syndrome and his name was Juan. And I was addicted to him
Saaame! 😱
Omg, and he was a Taurus too.
Same 🤣
I feel like the people that do this do it because they’re insecure and need their ego stroked
They are terribly insecure how they treat others is a display of how they truly feel about themselves which is lower than low. There is barely any sense of self and a next to zero self esteem.
Well my wife did this to me and I'm not sure she knew what she was doing, and I did this to my ex like point by point and didn't realize this is what I was doing so... I mean it might be what you said in some cases ego and insecurity but that might not be a constant variable everytime
A narcissist used this on me and sometimes I use it to get keep a potential f*ckboy in line. I know the game like the back of my hand. Like a toy on a shelf.. TRY ME!
P A N D O R A Same here. I use this on fuck boys, and fuck boys ONLY!!!
@ethereal angel I like to bring my ego down a couple inches so it matches my penis size proportionally
This has been done to me so many times. It’s crazy after the neglect just when you’re starting to regain yourself (so you think) they pop back up feeding that part of your ego to where you’re willing to believe excuses about being ghosted for 5 days... even a whole month. I did the dumbest thing over the summer where I encountered a guy like this... he’d send me good morning texts, Text all day etc. Then, everyday turned into every other day, to a few times a week and so on to where it had been weeks. So, I did the dumbest thing after a month and I texted him a long paragraph telling him how I felt smh. He came back with excuses, I let him back in and he did it again. At that point I had to face my own insecurities and change my accessibility to him. Your presence is indeed a present and you deserve so much more than a person to constantly D.E.N.N.I.S you. (Me to Me to you conversations)
Me to me notes are my fav! I second that and thanks for sharing
Wow, I know someone who has done this to me and I never realized it. I was obsessed, confused, and sad for the longest time because of that relationship. Thanks Shannon
Come away with me mystery woman and be happy
This is important. If you fall for people fast, if you are an empath, if you have "higher expectations" in relationships than the average person of this generation, get him to fall for you, then you all will be on the same level 😂😂😂
I do this oh too well
Kimberly Cudjoe wow sis DRAG ME 😫 this is me I’m the comment
@@sos12484 😂😂😂
But howwww
I did that but it backfired... he fall in love with me dor some time but after when he stoped giving me what I wanted I becomed toxic af and super dependent on him ...and I felt huge amounts of love ..too much for my.own health.
@@solfh backfired on me as well. He was a fuckboy so he knew the games better than me
Some of these people do this because they like being chased.
Yes went through this recently.
Watching this to protect myself from love bombing and energy vampires
LOL @ "he came back like nothing happened", I feel attacked
in short DENNIS Theory = Narcissistic behavior. Got it. Thank you!
"Inspire Hope" Oh my goodness this is what always happens to me. Things will be going seemingly fine then they get very inconsistent communicating with me. When I think all is lost, I get a random text from them. I'm hooked again and feel so stupid for being happy they gave me the time of day.
I hold people accountable because I hold myself accountable. I’m working on myself and my flaws everyday, even the hard stuff because I want to be better. I also want anyone around me to be better too.
Listen y’all all ima say is this dating life is shit lmaooooo. There are so many games out there lmao I cant keep up
you're speaking the truth
You ain’t never lied. I pretty much gave up
Facts! Dating is just ughh at this point
It's very similar to the phases of a narcissistic relationship - idealization/love bombing, devaluation, and discard. I think it ends there or they go back and forth, but I think that if you are aware of it and don't fall helplessly into the empath/victim role, then you can maybe turn the tables and have control over them if you want to try dancing it out with them.
it's so interesting and scary how all these things are also done by cults.
Gabriela Pastafrola that is interesting! How so related to cults?
I've had this happen in work situations, and romantic ones that don't go far enough to bf/gf labeling. I call people out on their BS when I see it. But it still doesn't feel great when you find lots of these people consecutively.
Wow! This just helped me so much. I’ve been in an emotional purgatory from a man I dealt with in 2016. The one and off again applies to this Dennis Theory. It all makes so much sense now! And while I don’t think he did it intentionally, it’s definitely rooted in childhood trauma for both of us. I can finally justify my separation from this relationship. Thank you!
I was played and didn't even know it until watching this video. It was a vulnerable time in my life and despite how unreliable the relationship was it made me feel good- definitely lit up my reward center smh. Im kind of embarrassed now. I thought it was real, like some magical love story.
I think the emotional neglect and then coming back as if nothing ever happened has to be the worst
DENNIS Theory
D : Demonstrate Value. Find a way to make yourself indispensable, interesting and or worth having around.
E : Engage in an investment. Getting someone to do something so that they'll seek an ROI (Return on investment)
N : Nurture Dependence. Through (a), being someone they can rely on and talk to or (b) by isolating them, creating an us-versus-them dynamic.
N : Neglect emotionally (periodically). Inconsistent reward creates addiction.
I : Inspire hope. Give them a small dopamine hit.
S : Separate entirely. Disappearing until you want to approach them again.
Can you talk about gaslighting ? I think it’s been used on me in my past relationship, and I want to know how to recognize/avoid it.
Yesss next video on this topic for sure!!!
@@shanboody 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Would yoi kindly tell me the meaning of gaslighting?!
Ann Holl it means to manipulate (someone) by psychological means into questioning their own sanity
@@ShaiShoulders thank you, dear!
I really like that these types of manipulations are being shared to people who are interested in dating, literally my dream as a survivor from this type of abuse. I feel like all dating advice should start with these warnings.
Someday I hope that emotional abuse is just as well known to people as physical/sexual abuse. Getting this advice into dating and relationship resources and out of the "healing from narcissistic abuse" echo chambers is the first big step.
I like that you point out that people can be both the victim and abuser by asking your audience at the end. It's also really important that as the victim of this type of abuse you understand why you attract and stay in this kind of abuse.
Thank you for your work Shannon
Thanks for sharing this! What is the #1 red flag you’d like to warn others of?
@@shanboody Beware of those who put themselves on higher ground than you. Those that "know" more than you. And use information to trump your emotions. A really intelligent person will know they don't know everything, will want to learn from you and others and will abide by the same "standards they expect from other people (no one is exempt). It's hard to spot this one when you haven't dealt with a deep seeded self esteem issue, so fixing that first is key.
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I immediately block people like this… I seem to run across more and more of these types and it’s getting easier to block them 😇. Great info 💕- Trust is earned, not given freely.
This is brilliant, the way you broke down how emotional abuse and narcissistic personality can manifest in a relationship. Would definitely read your new book Shan.
being aware of these dark psychology is a thing, using it is another...
Getting people to get out of their mind for you can work amazingly (though karma will be next door waiting to kick on your ass) but getting people out of their mind against you is DANGAA
explain pls
Yeah man had a friend do this to me. They were physically moving to another state and I went out of my way to come see them before they left and they ignored me. It took me about 20 minutes of sitting in front of their house to realize that they never intended to say goodbye to me and they had been making less and less effort to see me weeks leading up to leaving. At that moment, I realized that I only want friendships were I feel enthusiastically wanted-never where I'm unsure. My closest and longest friends never make me feel unsure. So I drove home and texted that them I was leaving. Months later they texted me as if nothing happened. They were confused by my absence and lack of interest in responding to them. Eventually we talked it out but by then I didn't care anymore and had looked back and could recognize other patterns in their behavior that didn't sit with me well and it all made sense. I don't think they had malicious intent but this person was older than me and it the second distinct time I was put in the position of being the one to go out of my way to fight for the friendship so it wasn't worth it to. I'm not interested in chasing anyone. I don't deserve that. Lesson learned. No one is *that* cool or interesting.
I had that with a friend as well!! Even towards the beginning of our friendship I felt like aspects of this person was off, but I just felt like we had so much fun together that if God wanted us to not be friends, then I’d get the clear communication to let them go. It took 2 years. I now believe that I had to experience this friend to learn about my own patterns of accepting persons like that into my life. It’s been a life long pattern for me, but this year I just had enough of the manipulative tactics. Releasing toxic energy in my space🙌🏽 I pray the same for you and may you keep and attract the friends that genuinely love you without hidden motives. Sending warm light energy✨💎
DiamUnd Rouff I'm so glad you're out of the that situation and treating yourself better! Warmth and light received 😌ty! You seem delightful! Blessings to you💜
Can't thank you enough for bringing light to these topics x
I’ve been waiting for this video for so long! I have the audiobook and the book itself ! You are amazing Shan!!!!!!
I just purchased your book after watching both videos on love bombing and D.E.N.N.I.S. thank you for taking the time to present all of this information in such a concise and direct manner.
Wow. You're the first influencer who spoke honestly and treated us like equals.
You didn't say, "this has never happened to meeeee, but...." OR some condescending "better than thou" example like
"Okay, ONE TIME a guy was late and I said NO WAY, BUSTER"...
You gave us a real, intimate example from your past ❤️ For that reason, I think you shoot straight up to number once in my list of people with advice. You are the best!
Love the video and I ordered your book. It came in today. Can't wait to read it😁
Enjoyed this lesson and found value in it. Thanks for taking the time to put this together and share it with us!
Could you do a self sabotaging video next? I notice I do it in all aspects of my life wether that be liking someone or going for opportunities. I always find a way to feel like I don’t deserve this happiness or that I’ll mess it up so it’s better to bail or not try at all. Thankyou so much for your videos! So organized, compelling, and informed.
I am an extreme empath. I will learn all of these tactics, then melt when I see the guy. I feel sorry for him and think "why would I do that to him? " only for him to end up playing me 🙀🙀🙀
Woooow, I acc cannot believe how many times I've experienced this and never made the connection. Defo ordered the book yesterday- cannot wait for it to come.
I’ve 100% gotten DENNIS’d before 😅...seeing all the steps listed brought so many things to light! Yikes 🤭
I think the most cruel/unnecessary part of DENNIS is the ghosting. It takes literally 2 minutes to write an explanation about why things are ending.
Really sis ... ghosting ain't the most cruel part .. trust me
Not even two minutes
Watching the girls at the beginning made me realize that I'M manipulative one 😳
cool bpb same! 🥴😖
Y’all can change! It’s almost never too late for you to realise your ways, and change them. Be better, for you and others!
@Q Lock right they tried it
@Q Lock 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 u are bitter asf. Under every comment whining lmao
maraschino cherries fuckallat
I believe me and my husband have been DENNISing each other for years lmaoooooo. It’s perfect, we’re meant for each other 😂
Wow thank you so much for sharing this. I went thru this very recently and I kinda wish I heard this before this happened to me. This is so important.
I dated someone once that was doing the whole DENNIS theory. I was so aware of how insecure I was beginning to feel in myself. I realised this person was manipulative and abusive. I did not feel safe. They went from being super complimentary and attentive, to dead cold with barely any contact immediately after becoming intimate. I put some distance between us after an abusive call from him following A near physically abusive altercation. 2 weeks later after hearing nothing from me, this person sent me a WhatsApp message "hey stranger" trying to reel me back in as Shan described. I never ever responded. I was done. This put me on the path to look deeper at myself and the nature of dating. The terrifying thing is this all happened within the short period of 4 WEEKS. I nearly, completely lost my entire sense of self in under a month. I was literally a toy for him to play with and nothing more.
Robert Drake no it doesn’t, ever since I got to understand these hoes, I can’t ever be manipulated.
Saint del Deezy some of these handsome men are actually the devil in disguise . Literslly when I’m trying to do well some sexy ass dude comes along .. and brings me down. Makes me feel like I’m not good enough. But after so many lessons I finally realized you reslly gotta love yourself and tell yourself you’re amazing and there’s people who reslly are here to try to ruin you . Thanks to them I reslly hardened up my heart and now I gotta reslly protect yourself . Even if it’s a fling. I tried to do that and it backfired. It’s just never a good thing . It messed you up spiritual. I know I got needs but seriously it’s not worth sleeping with someone you know is not good enough for you and doesn’t deserve your loving
Wow.... Im almost mad at how simply watching this somehow made everything click...
Thanks for this Shan. Now I know what direction I need to work toward...hmmm....
You’re just dope af. Thank u for sharing your knowledge and always DOING U! Much love and blessings your way🦋
Never knew there was a theory behind this. As an empath, I'm livid! being that i was recently dennised, but...wiser overall.
No one wants to live safely in love anymore.
Just games, manipulation, and quest for a "bag" or two. A woman is only as valuable as her potential to earn these days. But money comes and goes... whereas the heart, spirit, and emotional intelligence sides of a human being are more valuable by far...
People are annoying.
DENNISed 😭 like Its Always Sunny in Philly?
Love this. ✨
"No one wants to live safely in love anymore."
And I tell people I don't believe love can exist in fear.
thanks so much for explaining. Sad to say but my ex bf played this same trick on me and I'm a little embarrassed to even tell others bc we were together for 2 1/2 years and I really thought I loved him and he felt the same way. He def had some narcissism in him. Eventually, I saw the red flags, even the ones i didn't want to acknowledge, and I had to get away. I will admit he helped me grow in a way no one else has ever helped me and he was a little mad that he "invested" so much in me for it to end how it did. I thanked him actually and told him that I'll be using the good he taught me to get what I want in life and the bad to help me not fall victim to this bullshit again. Thank you Shan BOODY!!!
Thank you so much for creating this video. it helped me a lot. wish you all the best in the world
Can you do a makeup haul or let us know what eyeshadow you use because I love the low key shimmer!
New to your channel. This is great video highlighting some excellent, and clear points. I have definitely experienced this type of toxic stuff in the past unfortunately
I never watch content like this but it’s so.... interesting im definitely hooked
The rat analogy was really good
I love this video ! I’m currently going through this. Hate the vibes.
This was so uncomfortable to watch. This is almost very dating experience I’ve had :/
You deserve better. take care💗
Cicada thank you 💖
Wow..
You've just earned yourself a subscriber
Keep up the good work. Much love
Love the content and the hat Shan!
I was Dennis'd, but after a few years got back with the guy. We're still kicking it, and closer now than we were before BUT a few months ago, I called him out on how he did me last time and told him, "if you meet someone new, just be a fucking friend and a man and let me know"... Then he got all quiet and awkward, talking about how he wouldn't want to lose my friendship, and if either of us met someone else (ps, we're long distance) we could still hang and visit... I answered that with a big NO THANK YOU. Felt so empowered, and honestly, being upfront with him and acknowledging how I felt has made me feel so powerful in our interactions now. He's my best friend, but I stand ready to walk away from him for good if need be. Same goes for anyone. Its empowering to not feel like you need any of these people who all have the potential to drain you dry...
Rant over. Lol 😁.. Great vid Shan
Beautiful story
I feel you!! ❤❤❤
Thank you Shan !! Omg this is why!!!!
I do this... I thought it was because I had an ability to implement emotion in causal sex & dating. When I leave from spending time, I also emotionally detach and others cannot.... I also truly hate texting. But I enjoy giving myself to an experience entirely. Geez.... thanks for this video. Working on figuring my toxic shit out and changing it.
Rachel ❤️❤️
I would love to hear more about your side. Are you bad at texting but genuinely do care or is it really like if you cared you’d be better at texting
Yep, I did the same for years and when I did enter a relationship that I wanted to be in, I didn’t know any other way than to be detached. It hurt my relationship badly. I was hot and cold. I did to others what my sons father did to me.
This was such a great video!!!
I feel like I am actually going through this recently. I had someone who I was so comfortable with and I needed him. And then he ghost me. Tells me that he isn't being any different. And then comes back and I think that I should have known better. But I fell for it again!!! I hope that I can learn to love myself enough to not put up with this stuff.
great video Shan
My heart is heavy I can’t believe I let this happen to me. I was blinded by her charm and character she was was portraying to be. I went from someone who she said was a blessing to someone she pushed away. I was left wondering what I did wrong when things were going so well then all of a sudden she distant herself. For days we didn’t talk and when we talk I couldn’t help to feel upset with her not communicating. She would turn around and try to put blame or she would say I was pressing her. Mind you I live in San Francisco and she’s in LA I would of thought if she really cared she would make an effort. But all I can do is learn from this and move on
I feel like the person I talk to we're doing this to each other
I fkn love you and thank the internet for you!
New subscriber from South Africa ❤
This is one of your best
Great video🎯!!
Holy crap!!!! I wish I saw this video years ago. It would've saved me so much time and heartbreak.
There are truly no tactics a man can do to “trap” my mind. I get bored of people super easily, never dated and I can’t bring myself to. Honestly don’t care to either.
you been ran thru too many times
@@ultrararesabra6159 Lol the carousel is treating her well.
Ultra Rare Sabra 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Same
Maybe that is the tactic used against you. You maybe convinced yourself you dont care to date and people bore you so you wont be hurt. Not wanting to date and not bringing yourself to do it doesnt correlate with boredom as much as fear of being taken advantage of. Staying the hard one, cold as ice, or the first one to be bored seems safe but its really just avoidance. This is not to say that some of us actually dont want relationships and are totally okay with that. Life can be complete for some people without having one but I tend to think most people want to experience one if they never have before so something caused the decision to not be bothered with it. Just butting in, hope you dont mind. I apologize for the psychoanalysis and only throwing around thoughts. Any feedback? thanks
Awesome video love the Channel
This was so informative I’m really gonna apply this to dating ♥️
I definitely experienced this with my first love interest. He was 5 years older than me and I was an inexperienced freshman in college. Things were great and the beginning and slowly but surely he started with the inconsistent rewards. It took years to get out of the cycle but I finally confronted him about his behavior and cut him off. The crazy part is he still tries to reach out to me all of these years later. If given the chance I’m sure he would start the cycle all over again.
Myah T we had the same experience exactly same ages too, I’m now about to turn 22 and I feel like I wasted my whole college years with someone who now has separated completely but still whenever he messages me to inspire hope I grasp at it because he was my first love and I still want him to be my friend but I think I need to cut it and move on completely
Tori It takes a few tries to completely separate but we’re you’re ready, it’ll really be over. I tried to be friends with my ex but he honestly never changed. Once you’re done, he won’t have that power over you anymore and it will be so relieving! Also don’t feel too bad for spending so much time on him, it’s not too late to move on and have new experiences.
Great conservation
Awesome stuff.
my favourite topic i know so many people like this an i don't even notice they are doing this until i find myself right in the middle of it they are almost always smart like clever and its rare to catch them off guard
Very interesting to know thank you x
Omg this is spot on. I got Dennis theory on. That shit hurt. Now I know the flags. Definitely getting the book
I'm dying for making the subtitles in Spanish for this 😍😍😍
Denise theory is definitely very interesting to me. Especially since I’ve experienced it
Thanks for sharing
Props for the Zorak clip.
I need to play this video once a week
this is true but im an asshole..so when she separated.... i was done....she tried to come back...was not having any of that BS...loving yourself is the greatest thing you can do.
How long did it take for her to come back? because I need to watch out
@@LC-cw2wx 2 months...then another 6....the second time after i was deep in self love was when i realize i feel nothing for her anymore
@Mia X sorry if you misunderstood...the asshole part was me, not wanting to let her back in....she was the first woman in my life in many aspects. Then out of the blue just started being distant, acting like she doesn't want me to touch her, or talk to her, but then "gave the hope" would come over and joke around and then back being cold...2 months of this....All the while I am asking what is wrong? If you can't tell me, write it down. If you can't do that, tell me when you will feel comfortable talking about it....she took none of those options, meanwhile I was getting tension headaches, anxiety attacks, losing weight etc. So one day I had had enough... Wrote her a 3 page letter, left it at her workplace and bounced.
and i have had to come to terms that i will never get answer as to why she did what she did..just a dry ass sorry that felt like she said it because it was what the circumstance warranted.
lawless8723 Im at that point right now 😏
OMG! DENNIS theory is totally what contractors do
Don’t know why I didn’t put my notifications on for your videos , a lot of mess could have been avoided if I saw it the day it came out , 🙃🙃
Wow...I knew I wear my heart on my sleeve, I’m an empath, and just sensitive as hell. But I never really understood why or what exactly was going on per say, with guys I was interested in.
Shit I know why now.
Game peeps game. Thanks!
Off topic how are your parents ! Plz do a video with them 😁❤️
Great info!! I loved the video. One question: are the people who do / use this tactic doing this with full awareness and intentionally? I would be interested what is going on in their minds. Because (without defending this behavior) I could imagine they do it for a different reason than winning somebody’s heart and intentionally hurting them?
I love this...🔥
Going to use your code right now!!!!!
If you are running game on me it’s working 😍
Love the contractor analogy. I have been Dennis and recognized it.
I think I am with a Dennis
Wow...I wasnt ready for that...
I had this guy try to do this to me but in the way he thought he was offering value in the beginning it wasn’t really a need for me so when he ghosted and tried to come back I just didn’t respond and he was really angry about that.
Shoot this video just made me realize that’s what this other is tryna do to and we’ll block button looking great
Omg me too lmao. I feel he must have deff looked this method up or read a book or something cuz he literally did all this crap. I was just wondering why it didnt work though. But yes its because he wasn't offering enough value (I guess he thought he was in his head)
Right I honestly feel like no one can offer me something that I a) can’t get for myself, Or b) can’t get from someone else. I’ve always felt that way so anytime someone ghosted me I ghosted them 🤷🏾♀️😂
This video had me cracking up, I was DY-INGGG 🤣🤣🤣