Ultimate Dating Advice for Friends with Benefits with Tim DeLaGhetto
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"The advice people give behind your back, is the advice you need to hear to your face." - Shan BOODY well said. Excellent content.
Why dude has to be a Janitor??? He laying pipe. The Dude is a Plumber. He's his own boss. lol
+Nigelb22 lol so true
The WHOLE time I was like....."she's trying to get with this dude...." But y'all got her LMAO!
Okkkkkk
Chick tried to act like she not 1 booty call away from falling in love
Anyone else completely down for a relationship podcast with Shannon and Tim? Because I'm so here for it. I've always liked when they do videos together
ShamelessBroadway She just picks guys she has good chemistry with.
ShamelessBroadway Tim has been in the yt for EVER and in a relationship for ever! I’ve always loved his stuff since way back when, and him doing vids now with Shan is just a cherry on top.
Tim's 18inch body wave bundle is everythiiiing
+Anele Malinga lol best hair comment
You should do a video on people who are in their late teens, 20s, 30s and older who never dated or had sex (not out of choice but just because it never happened) and how to navigate this world so focused on dating where all your family and friends are doing it and its all over tv and youtube. It would be cool to see your perspective on it since its the center of your career and you started dating and having sex at the "normal age".
Tamia Streeter 💯 I feel kinda left out
when Tim let's down his hair and gasp cause his hair looks better than mine
It is majestic :O
I said the same thing!
Tim's hair though. BUNDLES. It's so thick, dark and luscious, I'm actually in shock.
Onorode Adjarho yes! I was thinking the same thing
My heart smiled at 5:55 . I ALWAYS say this to people that I know. It's not okay to be super jealous and territorial all the time. I understand that under certain circumstances it's "normal", but it's not okay to be like that ALL the time. It's a recipe for disaster.
My current relationship started out as a friends with benefits thing where I thought the guy wasn't anywhere near my type and probably not the ideal partner for me, but the sex was so bomb and eventually after spending so much time together I realised that he is one of the most beautiful people inside and out and someone I wouldn't want to let go of, a potential life partner. 1 and a half years later we're going strong and since none of us wanted to let go of each other we're killing the LDR game. However, sometimes I still feel kind of guilty about the way I treated him in the beginning thinking he wasn't good enough for me.
Klimentina As long as you made up to him for how you thought of him in the past, it's all good.
Damn, lucky you❤️
@@sammymcclelland6037 haha only like a month and a half from the first time we slept together to the day he asked me to be his girlfriend. It all went really fast (sorry for late reply) oh and now we've been together for nearly 3 years
how did you progress it into a relationship? someone im becoming fwb with told me he liked me sooo now im like eeeee we're going with the flow tho
@@strawberryjpeg6000 we definitely had a go with the flow dynamic as well. tbh already at the beginning i was starting to realise how much i like him as a human, so i let go of the idea that i can control my feelings just because i didn't 'see myself with him' at first pretty fast. we were both honest about how we felt in the beginning whatever those feelings were. i was a bit more hesitant in the beginning and wanted to stay friends, but when he showed interest in another girl i realised i didn't want to let go of him. so we decided to be exclusive. after that it just sort of naturally evolved into a relationship dynamic. then when he asked me to be his gf i couldn't think of a reason to say no. so here we are 4 years later and about to move into our first apartment together.
I feel like she didn't really know what she wanted out of that call
Lex Gonzalez yeah I feel like she's one of those people that wants the kind of advice she likes to hear but not the advice she needs to hear and she probably gets the nice sugar coated advice a lot and that might be because she ignores the cold hard facts in order for her to be able to justify what she's doing to herself.
"What's Yo Phone number" is definitely a song. Erykah Badu's mixtape "But You Caint Use My Phone", Track 8.
Yes, this is the one I was thinking about!
Also throwback The Time 777-9311
"Hey baby, what's yo phone number?"
I laughed out loud when Tim said that they have to be ugly because that is SOOOOOO true! Not only ugly though, they gota be someone that you wouldn't even connect with on a personal level. Fwb never works of there's any other benefit attached.
That sounds like a fuck buddy to me
TIM'S HAIR IS EVERYTHING. I'M SHOOKETHENED
jasmine5reynita me too!!! I was thinking the same thing!
Same haha, looks so smooth, shiny, and soft gurlll
You always do great videos kept them coming 💯💯💋
Absolutely friggin love the structure of this content. Real people with real problems getting perspective!!
NEXT VID HAS TO BE TIMS HAIR ROUTINE CUZ THAT SHIT IS SHIMMERING. Damn.
Some great advice here. Thanks for this 🙏🏾
Shan is so beautiful and smart so is Tim I guess lol
I really want another one of these! It was really informative!
Those man buns be tricking you like 👀
Forget the dating advice, TIM WHAT'S YO HAIR CARE ROUTINE!! SLAYIN THEM INCHES ALL NONCHALANTLY N SHIT
It IS a song Shannon! Whats yo phone number by Erykah Badu! lol
i feel like you were LITERALLY TALKING TO ME 5:39-6:00 not because i think I'm not down for competition but i just can't be bothered with that even being a thought. Plus i need to focus on building my career...but i guess you're right being overly jealous is not okay....
I watched this twice because you guys said some real insightful stuff
+Zoe that's so awesome thank you!!
Shan, I have a question. This may seem a little odd, but I was wondering about fetishes, and why people have them. More specifically fetishes such as scat, watersports and emetophilia. I'm more intrigued than disgusted, as I like to keep an open mind and not just immediately shun something as society deems it as wrong. I would rather understand it.
That aside, I'm a 15 year old girl and my parents feel a little awkward teaching me about sex, and I found your channel and I feel you are helping me grow mentally and physically and helping me make the right choices in life. You are helping me shape my future and I can't be anymore grateful, sorry if this sounds silly and sorry for bothering you! This is my first comment on one of your videos and I just love you loads as a mentor and person!
Thank you! x
Jesus, when Tim released his hair i choked on my water.
Omg this was so awesome!! I loved you and Tim calling people and actually having a live conversation/advice! Would definitely want to see more of this! ^,^
Watched because of Shan BOODY, but the like goes to Tim's hair
+madzEr017 Lolol understandable
tell Tim to donate his hair for bundles :)
BRO THIS SHIT INTERESTED ASF. Please more of this Shan and Tim series!!!
Shannon I feel like her saying she doesn't like the female attention doesn't mean that she doesn't want a good looking guy. The reason why he gets so much female attention is probably because of his behavior around women. There are many good looking guys but the amount of female attention they get is really based on how they act around women. My boyfriend is very good looking and I have no problem with that. Of course every once in a while he will get girls trying to talk to him or staring but it's not like he gets A LOT of attention because he is loyal and doesn't give off a certain attitude towards women. I like that he's good looking but also doesn't get that attention from females cause that would be annoying and a lot to handle. I wouldn't want to be with a guy who gets A LOT of attention from females because you get what you put out. Just because I don't want a guy doesn't mean I'm insecure or jealous. The amount of attention you get from the opposite sex has to do with the way you act. Looks are obviously a factor too but a guy who likes having a lot of girls will always sweet talk and flirt to keep the girl wanting more.
Could you make more of these? You could always have other guests. I think it would be a great series which wouldnt get boring as you'd have different guests and always a different problem/scenario
OG Jeroy yes shanbody
this should have been longer & hear from more ppl & answer their questions!
You should make more videos with Tim!!!😂 there great 💯
I've been in relationships where I liked a person who I had amazing chemistry with and the sex was ahhhmazing but I didn't grow feelings for them. It was just something missing.
Oh and why Tim hair longer than mine. Love it Boi. 👍
So, to sum it up Tim is saying if you want a booty call that person has to be ugly or annoying otherwise you catch feelings 😂 Love the vids much love Shan xo 🙆
Lmfaooooo their analogies are so fucking on point
The best dating advice you can give somebody who is 20 is just date somebody that's really into you or you will catch feelings and get hurt when reaching for the stars.
Shan with the stomach on flat flat I👏🏽see👏🏽you👏🏽
I need actual dating advice, like how do I date someone lmaooo. I am so awkward and cancel on people all the time and just feel like idk how to date people. Only been in one short relationship and feel like I really need better advice on how to actually start dating people.
taylorfalco watch her show Shan body is your perfect date it actually is really informative but funny as hell at the same time
Be open minded, Dont friendzone too many men, personality over look,
Tim's hair looks luxurious!!!
This call was so awkward haha. But it seems she doesn't realize she likes him more than she thinks. It's crazy how young ones are now hahah. She is young and already wrapping her feelings around, aw.
I agree with you two. She is letting her heart emotions to play with her. I don't even think they are friends with benefits, it's just a guy wanting sex with her. I hope she moves off from him soon!
Really nice segment. I love your navy blue top Shan, where is it from?
Love this! And I'd love to watch more of these with Tim or different guests. It's really interesting to hear you guys actually talk to the person so that you can give a more in depth answer.
OMG TIM LET THAT HAIR DOWN MORE OFTEN AAAH SO NIIIIICE
damn tim!! that some Victoria secret hair!!!
it is a song by erykah badu -whats your phone number
Just turned 18 a few days ago, never dated... I've asked 3 guys out before & they've 100% rejected, uhh... help...
The one that looks Chinese wow you're brave enough to confess three times..gimme your courage
Tim's looks like "briziliian body waves " lol 😂🤣
Hahaha these guys are hilarious
I don't really like the idea of having this kind of relationship to someone, because for me i don't want to do it without love.
😳😳 omg Tim's hair....I'm shook
I love when you and Tim collab!
It's lit. Also congrats on the marriage proposal tim.
Always here and waiting for SHANNON!!!! like like like like. Also can we talk growth , creativity and hella perseverance! I'm soo here for your grind and how you are paving your own path.
Hahaha I'm going on a tinder date today and this guy's telling me that Tim told him to get tinder! So thanks for the date Tim 😂
You're such an inspiration. Just looked at that press kit and DANG girl! Keep pressing Queen! :)
Inspiring me to keep going and GET MY ISH TOGETHER!
+Amber Marie awwwww Amber this is so loving thank you!!
love this type of video.....would love to see more
Girl, you thinking about a chimichonga at the end fasho
Just turned 20 two days ago!!
Happy Belated
Just Justice just turned 20 yesterday lol happy belated my fellow Leo!
clearlycrystal Happy belated to you too! ❤️
EggParodyTv s Thank you!!
Just Justice ayyyy Leo gang 🎉 I turn 20 in couple of days
I love the format of this video! You should totally do more like this.
Tim better let down that bundle of hair! yaassss lol
Wow my clients and subscribers so need to hear your point of view.
Tims hair is marvelous!
Even if sum1 is attractive, even if they get loads of attention.. if that person puts up the stop sign on any1 outside of the relationship.. even a LOGICAL insecure person could work with that. The little voice might pop up but it's shot down with that stop sign.. which anyone should be doing.. Some people are just TOO friendly or nice and step over that line and that's when insecurity thrives and it sucks :\
Listening to Shan give advice: I need this type of friend/mentor/woman in my life 🙌🏾🙌🏾
I just celebrated my one year fucksiverary with my FWB. We have a fantastic sex-only relationship. I'd say we are fairly friendly at this point, but we only really chat when we have sex so it stays compartmentalized. The reason it works is that we both have primary partners who we're in romantic relationships with outside of each other. So we're both already getting our romantic needs met. That way, we can focus on just fantastic sex with each other.
Tim. Your hair is beautiful!
Melissa Lauder Girl sexy commercial hair 😍
Women are so crazy to think that sex for them is the same as sex for guys. He’s not gonna magically fall in love after a booty call.
Literally love you both! Do more phone call videos!
Y'all were being so realllll. But necessary!
When you're not a part of the notification squad and you watch this 10 days late.
Late squad!
Tim's hair is beautiful!
how do i get people to notice me. i go out but i can't meet new people, my phone stay dry. i mean friends and platonic relationships having a hard time
random question: were you an extra in mean girls cause I think I spotted you, love ya
Omg, this could not come at a better timing. Going through exactly what that girl is going through, like all the feelings and everything, but when I realized I started to like him I knew I had to stop because I know I'll only get screwed over in the end (and not the good kind). If the girl on the phone is reading this, (1) admit your feelings, I did, and it wasn't that bad since we already established that we would tell each the other in the beginning of our FWB relationship. (2) if he feels the same, awesome! If not, ask for a final round and BOUNCE THE FK OUT. Trust me, continuing to sleep with him while having a one-sided relationship is the absolute worst.
Although I just realized this video is like 2 months old, so I hope everything worked itself out already.
Tim got bundles in his head haha...I'm kidding I know it's his hair but my gosh it's so beautiful Them waves though..yes !
Great advice! I agree with Tim. If you're attracted to the person, and he or she has a dope personality and you vibe, it's easy to catch feelings. Shannon, your tan is on point. As always, love your content!
i really hope this is a series!!
Advise to your face... lol. Its sad that people so wanna make bootycalls the new norm...
Damn.. Tims hair is... beautiful
Hopefully you run into this comment, but I'm 23 I've just recently gotten out of a 4 year relationship and we split in February and she got into a new relationship around June- July (not sure) til this day my ex and I still text everyday and she always calls me and text me before or after she's done seeing her boyfriend, when we do talk she's always saying she misses me and she loves me and she doesn't even want to be with her boyfriend BUT I know that's not true because if that's how she felt she would just leave right? But idk how to just let go and move on I've been getting to know a few girls and compartmentalizing them is that healthy?
Marc G Bought had a heart attack reading this 😂 My ex is 23 and we were together 4 years and broke up in February only he's the one who immediately hopped into a new relationship not me. But hey, letting go sucks but just remember, this girl already let go. She is stringing you along it sounds like. My question was how can it be so easy for these people to get into something new so quickly? Especially after 4 years. It's loneliness and not being content with just yourself that they feel they need this attention from someone else. Be strong bro, find yourself before allowing another in your life.
Marc G so she can move on but you can't? She's basically playing w/ you & holding you back 'cause there's already that familiarity & she's taking advantage of it. What you need to do it cut all contact w/ her. It sounds harsh being that you were w/ her for so long but I feel like that's what needs to be done. Eliminate her from your life & start dating, pick up a hobbie or go out w/ your friends. Actually, you don't even have to jump into dating. Do you for a while, take care of yourself, cater to your needs, put yourself first for once.
Marc G the no contact rule! Stop texting her! Today, just tell her "hey. You left me. Stay away. It's not ok for you to string me around. I won't let you do it anymore, I have to live my life" or something like that and delete her from all possible forms of social media, and don't let your friends talk about her, throw away anything you have of hers, do what you have to do to move on. She chose not to be with you. She doesn't have the right to have one foot in and one foot out.
Marc G l
She just want to fuck lol
Can you please do a part 2 of this!!! this was so good to hear
Bruh Tim's hair is so glorious yo! 😍🙏🏽🤤
Damn his hair long didn't see that coming. Also loved these can't wait to see more
If y'all called me I would have had a true fan girl moment😍😍😍 . Then brought it back together to hear the answer to my question.
i like this kind of video. keep this coming
I'm a virgin. Would this advice actually help me? 😢
Holy crap Tim. I knew you were growing your hair and shit but dam I didn't think it would be that long. Time's really flying by.....
If you wanna go out with him.............. Ask him out
@Shanboody yes! More Dating Advice Episodes please. Love this! You and Tom should do more of these. Thanks. 💜
I think the girl want him to take her out not just be a sex machine even if she doesn’t want him as a partner
@7:26 ...”just because someone is a bomb ass janitor and they’re really good and you like them doesn’t mean you promote them to CEO...”
Preach!! 🙌🏾👏🏾
I love when you bring Tim to your channel!! It's so awesome to get a guys perspective sometimes, keep it up
I ❤️ when you and Tim do videos together! Always truthful!
1:24 bruh... Wait who was unsure if it was a joke? You or Tim? Lmao
I need to rewatch this video and take notes ! ❤️😂
Tim's hair is on POINT
Friends with benefits is so good at first, but it DOES NOT WORK OUT