How to Seduce Anyone!

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    What kind of a seducer are you?
    Remember seduction is not just about getting the eros love you want but can and should be used in EVERY relationship. It's a way of making others feel good by understanding and focusing on your strengths. How do you draw people into them and keep them wanting to comeback for more? How do you attract people to you? What makes you so likable? These are the questions seduction can answer. In this video I go over
    How to seduce people with your genuine curiosity
    How to seduce people with your charisma
    How to seduce people with your passion and strength
    How to seduce people with your wild side
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 300

  • @evolvingboard
    @evolvingboard 3 роки тому +507

    Me sitting here in my car eating nachos, wiping queso off my face with my hand: "I want to sit in my sexy"

  • @noneya7880
    @noneya7880 3 роки тому +251

    There's something about her energy that really makes it feel like she's speaking directly to you, not like most other UA-camrs where it's like you're just watching.

    • @Samson16436
      @Samson16436 2 роки тому

      Wow that is so accurate! I couldn't put my finger on what it is about her but you nailed it

  • @PM-yl6yy
    @PM-yl6yy 3 роки тому +354

    Ahhhh fenty sponsored our girl is getting her bag and we live for it ❤️

  • @djpartigirl
    @djpartigirl 3 роки тому +113

    This was probably the most genuine and aligned sponsor and content combination that I’ve seen on UA-cam in a long time 💓 Thank you Shan! xx

  • @ThanhMaiOFFICIAL
    @ThanhMaiOFFICIAL 3 роки тому +293

    Seduction is definitely more than just looks or physical aspects! It’s about the aura and vibes that you exude for sure 🙌💯

    • @rubenjr4908
      @rubenjr4908 3 роки тому +1

      Arden leigh is still the undisputed champ for both kinds of teachings.

    • @leondelafonte
      @leondelafonte 3 роки тому +2

      Looks fucking help Acton though. Men like attractive women. Shan Body wouldn't be AS popular, if she didn't look as good as she does.

    • @rubenjr4908
      @rubenjr4908 3 роки тому +9

      @@leondelafonte You're too in the extremes. Looks only matter to a point. Just like money only matters until you've reached a certain tax bracket. Someone's aura is just as strong if not stronger in most cases. For example marlyin manroe, and scarlett johanson are plain janes in the looks department. But their aura and seductive personas put them in the top tier of women.

    • @leondelafonte
      @leondelafonte 3 роки тому +4

      @@rubenjr4908 Scarlett Johansson & Marilyn Monroe aren't Plain Janes! Are you kidding me?!
      What planet full of Jessica Alba's and Gal Gadots do you live in, that Scarlett Johansson is considered a Plain Jane...plain Jane? What?

    • @rubenjr4908
      @rubenjr4908 3 роки тому +5

      @@leondelafonte Look at her before and after photos. Same with marilyn monroe. They were average, the kind of girls you see at the mall. You refuse to believe me because that's how powerful seduction personas are. As for jessica alba and gal gadot, yes they are naturally beautiful. But tell me who would you rather pick, wonder woman or black widow? Who's more iconic, jessica alba or the woman who was the first nude playboy model (marilyn)? You live in the extremes sir.

  • @WilliamsPinch
    @WilliamsPinch 3 роки тому +94

    The lingerie that you put us onto in that first video *STILL* serves me today, and I’m grateful! 💅🏽

    • @shanboody
      @shanboody  3 роки тому +17

      Word I wore that lingerie all throughout pregnancy because it was lots of full body suits made of that soft stretchy material 😍

  • @badasscoco3809
    @badasscoco3809 3 роки тому +81

    Jarred pulling down your bra was the moment. It put a smile on my face. 🙂

    • @SocialStudiess
      @SocialStudiess 3 роки тому +5

      Her swag was apparent by not saying anything about it.

  • @ranyahbullock5640
    @ranyahbullock5640 3 роки тому +43

    Can’t believe you had a baby.... bodied the look 😍

  • @prosperenfantinylosgeograf2721
    @prosperenfantinylosgeograf2721 2 роки тому +7

    The types if anyone else wants to see them at once:
    3:14 The Manifester
    4:18 The Nudist
    5:43 The Eve (although introduced before)
    6:30 The Playlist
    7:44 The Siren

  • @novaarabella6615
    @novaarabella6615 3 роки тому +50

    Girl you look flawless💅😍

  • @skylarofcourse
    @skylarofcourse 3 роки тому +54

    The Manifester is my go-to. I love bringing out the best in others and pushing them to be the best version of themselves. Let's get a Part 2 Shan!

  • @ginnyhoward9341
    @ginnyhoward9341 3 роки тому +1

    LOVE THIS THANK YOU!! 😍😍 can you do a video on tips on how to practice these?

  • @SunsetSunriseFullCircle
    @SunsetSunriseFullCircle 3 роки тому +2

    Definitely share a part 2!
    Great video, Shan ☺️ Would love for you to take us on your journey in another video of learning to sit with your siren side. Would even love to see deeper examples of each of these seduction styles! xo

  • @Eelah3
    @Eelah3 3 роки тому +1

    Please sure a part 2. This was good.

  • @marialovepeape
    @marialovepeape 3 роки тому +1

    Yes! We need a part 2 😍

  • @monicaDD
    @monicaDD 3 роки тому

    Love the update and for sure Savage X Fenty!

  • @daniellebaxter4504
    @daniellebaxter4504 3 роки тому

    Love this video! Can't believe how long I've been watching your channel! I'd love if you consider doing videos on building confidence and portraying confidence

  • @Betterme4lf
    @Betterme4lf 3 роки тому +1

    Series please... we need more of all of it🤓

  • @RachaelNalumu
    @RachaelNalumu 3 роки тому

    I really just love your videos. I’ve sporadically watched over the years but now being 30, it’s like I’m hooked LOL.

  • @dmoney8890
    @dmoney8890 3 роки тому

    - thank you for your candid expression of these topics

  • @993LD
    @993LD 3 роки тому +1

    Love you Shann this was greatttttt 💖🙏

  • @moneinoelle1155
    @moneinoelle1155 3 роки тому +2

    Your videos help me with my school study so much

  • @laureldudek8878
    @laureldudek8878 3 роки тому

    the best part abt this video is that i recognize myself in all these roles. thanks for the confidence boost, shan :)

  • @ggangpae4520
    @ggangpae4520 3 роки тому +1

    as a dude, I appreciate the open honesty/dialogue/distinction of your video! I feel I resonate most with the nudist in regards to having strong and unfiltered opinions because my opinions are filled with out of left field comments and profanity, which make people trust me because I'm not afraid to speak my mind with not only poise but also with passion

  • @lattelynni
    @lattelynni 3 роки тому

    Absolutely do a part two!!!!

  • @DaPoofDaPoofDaPoofDa
    @DaPoofDaPoofDaPoofDa 3 роки тому +11

    Shan is honestly so gorgeous

  • @bigcatenergy3707
    @bigcatenergy3707 3 роки тому +15

    Yes to part 2!!! 2 comfort zones: wo/manifester & the playlist + growth area: the siren

  • @reecsayz151
    @reecsayz151 3 роки тому +7

    Shan, I love your introduction to the different types of seducers. Could you please do another video that tells us "how" to do each one? I got more of a general description in this video, and the ability to identify a type of seducer, but not the "how." Thanks so much!

  • @rosx3245
    @rosx3245 3 роки тому +12

    Please do a part 2!! The things you mentioned in the video are amazing but as someone that is extremely shy I found these things to be very unrealistic for me. I know that seduction is not a one size fits all concept and is something that I’m really working on in an attempt to love my unconventional self. 💙

    • @rubenjr4908
      @rubenjr4908 3 роки тому +1

      No type of seduction will work for you because seduction us dependent on taking some amount of risks. Instead you have negative mental scripts that need to be addressed first. You can always do what every other girl does (yasss queen'ing) or you can do real work. If you actually want real results I recommend reading "average sucks" by michael burnoff. It's a game changer.

  • @MsNatna
    @MsNatna 3 роки тому +4

    Congrats on your sponsorship 🥰

  • @CharlotteIrvine
    @CharlotteIrvine 3 роки тому +1

    Love the overlays while utilising Voice Overs 🎬

  • @MsMonicLovesLife
    @MsMonicLovesLife 3 роки тому

    Bring it! I’d love to learn the other 5 seduction styles! Loved this! Congrats on the Savage X deal you looked amazing in it all! Been a VIP since day one 👅🔥❤️

  • @sag11gurl26atl89
    @sag11gurl26atl89 3 роки тому

    Shan you look amazing!! Work it girl!!!

  • @venusnympha
    @venusnympha 3 роки тому +21

    Would love to see a part 2! Also very creative how you changed outfits with every type of seducer. I also love you put Jared's music as the outro to your videos that is so brilliant

  • @anniajachele4859
    @anniajachele4859 3 роки тому

    YES!!! Thank you Shan!! 💜

  • @verifiedNiiNJA
    @verifiedNiiNJA 3 роки тому

    I’m definitely the playlist ✨

  • @valerie4912
    @valerie4912 3 роки тому

    The Playlist 🙋🏻‍♀️ Would love to be The Siren!
    Shan do you have any videos on women struggling with body issues to the point they avoid getting intimate?

  • @aleg.a1895
    @aleg.a1895 3 роки тому

    Very cool video! Looking more gorgeous everyday Shan 😍👍🏻

  • @prisk9816
    @prisk9816 3 роки тому

    that just made my confidence rise cause I realized that I'm most of these naturally (not to brag..). Most of them come with my personality and you just made me think about the "clubs" individually and how I can keep improving at indirectly (or directly) seducing ☺️

  • @acvo7
    @acvo7 3 роки тому

    My reflection is that confidence and not only self acceptance but self Love and Appreciation just shines from your core and makes you naturally ✨charming✨coupled with empathy is just *chef’s kiss*🌞💓💫

  • @robertgale5743
    @robertgale5743 3 роки тому

    Awesome videos I love your energy 👌🏼

  • @whisperywind8768
    @whisperywind8768 3 роки тому

    Loved this and the sponsorship plug was so apt and tastefully done! Unrelated (actually kinda is) but can you do another reunion with the women from AGOD? 🙏🏾 would love to see how they’re doing now.

  • @lalawheeler5435
    @lalawheeler5435 3 роки тому

    I loved that video im so glad we're getting a new one !!!!!!!!

  • @ivyvaughn7432
    @ivyvaughn7432 3 роки тому

    you are killing that Savage X Fenty!

  • @xee_bootiey
    @xee_bootiey 3 роки тому

    I down for a part 2!!!

  • @sharey125
    @sharey125 2 роки тому

    Hey Shan! Could you make a video showing like real life examples of all these styles

  • @Betterme4lf
    @Betterme4lf 3 роки тому +6

    I WANT TO LEARN IT ALL... MORE MORE MORE of these please😍

  • @TheAnaheim98
    @TheAnaheim98 3 роки тому

    Hi Shan, I know you probably won’t see this but maybe it’ll benefit your videos in some way. As a viewer for MANY years, I know that ya girl gotta get paid with the ads but with the length of your videos, sometimes I feel like I’m just watching sponsorships the whole time. I know that’s not true but I just would love to see more of you! Longer videos would reel me in as a viewer and who knows, maybe others! Also, I’m definitely the playlist!

  • @princessaleiah
    @princessaleiah 3 роки тому

    Part 2 please and thank you.

  • @nmjcme
    @nmjcme 3 роки тому +1

    I loveeeeee that outfit 😭😭😭😭

  • @Cel3stialBody
    @Cel3stialBody 3 роки тому +5

    I think my go to is the manifest style. Sometimes it can be hard to not lose myself in seeing other people’s highest self so I definitely relate!

  • @lovingqui9613
    @lovingqui9613 3 роки тому +1

    I love his energy, the guy in the video was everything lol

  • @TheChanty03
    @TheChanty03 3 роки тому +25

    I am definitely "The Playlist".. I want to be an Eve and a Siren also!

    • @leralto-khutjokarabokapa1646
      @leralto-khutjokarabokapa1646 3 роки тому +1

      Is it a coincidence that you have a purplish wallpaper thats just like the color of the outfit shan is wearing?

  • @ruthtesfay5148
    @ruthtesfay5148 3 роки тому

    could you do a video where you go in-depth with each of the styles

  • @Giv3intome
    @Giv3intome 3 роки тому +3

    The original video was the one that got me hooked on you!

  • @Amada__
    @Amada__ 3 роки тому +27

    ok can we talk about how good Shan looks?? 😍

  • @PhoenixBlade538
    @PhoenixBlade538 3 роки тому

    Definitely want another part! Also, I like Jared's new outro song, anyone know if it's on Spotify?

  • @marilynj.malara7821
    @marilynj.malara7821 3 роки тому

    I’d definitely like to apply the wo/manifestor & eve seduction styles into my life, just a lil. 😅❤️ All of these are so good!

  • @kayleechavira4329
    @kayleechavira4329 3 роки тому

    I'm most definitely the Playlist!!! A little bit of siren, I want to be more of the spice of life one

  • @kennisha1984
    @kennisha1984 3 роки тому

    Part II needed

  • @cerbuc546
    @cerbuc546 3 роки тому

    We waaaaaaant a part 2, of course!

  • @sarahsarpong3391
    @sarahsarpong3391 3 роки тому

    I would love a part 2

  • @JohannyM
    @JohannyM 3 роки тому

    Yess I loved this! Thanks for these, I think I'm more of a manifester and I also struggle with the siren

  • @razzdiamond6447
    @razzdiamond6447 3 роки тому +33

    Please reveal the other 5 seduction styles, because I barely even fit the description of the one I resonated with the most out of these, the Playlist! I AM a very empathetic man actually and that's a huge part of my overall charm as well, definitely specialize in making women feel comfortable with themselves around me in a dating context so they can continually express themselves

    • @rubenjr4908
      @rubenjr4908 3 роки тому +1

      I dont know how effective these seduction styles are with the exceptions being the siren and, to a lesser degree, the natural. They all are just the bare minimum, people skills necessary to attract people.

    • @sunvavachi
      @sunvavachi 3 роки тому

      I think being the playist is a good thing. We know how to get it on plus be empathetic. That is a great quality and you will find you'll find a keeper soon.

  • @PhoenixBlade538
    @PhoenixBlade538 3 роки тому

    Omg Shan!! Getting sponsored by Fentyyyyy???! Way to go girl, get that coin!

  • @tykeyaoneil1084
    @tykeyaoneil1084 3 роки тому

    Playlist is my bag but Siren is the one I struggle with as well

  • @yagirltee722
    @yagirltee722 3 роки тому

    Yaaaas give us 5 more!!

  • @RubyintheSky
    @RubyintheSky 3 роки тому +1

    I'd say the manifester fits me pretty well! I personally struggle with the Siren, I think because I'm afraid to seem /too/ pleased with myself? But I'd love to master it for sure

    • @rubenjr4908
      @rubenjr4908 3 роки тому

      I would recommend reading arden leigh's book. She's was a former dominatrix that specialized in that kind of seduction as well as other types of seduction.

  • @zzzzzmania123
    @zzzzzmania123 3 роки тому

    Manifester is definitely my go-to/the one that comes more naturally. gotta work on incorporating more of the siren tho

  • @Samson16436
    @Samson16436 2 роки тому +4

    Today I learned I'm a natural top tier seducer... Hell yeeeeaaaaaah this explains so much haha why do I feel so proud
    I'm confident in all the styles tbh, but like you I want to level up that last one. I can hold it down but I'm not always fully present in that "role" and sometimes I can get a little insecure.

  • @TheAnntonia23
    @TheAnntonia23 3 роки тому +1

    Part 2 please

  • @nvsty.n
    @nvsty.n 3 роки тому

    give us part 2 !

  • @jasminetribble9219
    @jasminetribble9219 3 роки тому +1

    love this and you! where you get that cushion chair sis?

  • @cloidclied3835
    @cloidclied3835 3 роки тому

    Her energy tho ❤️

  • @kenyanieves2284
    @kenyanieves2284 3 роки тому +2

    Yes! Part 2!!! I use a lot of these seductive moves at work lol
    Where my bartenders at!? 🖐🏼

  • @TheUWP
    @TheUWP 3 роки тому +1

    That thumbnail photo tho 😍😍😍😍😍

  •  3 роки тому

    The white set is 😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @ZahSoZen
    @ZahSoZen 3 роки тому

    You KILLED THIS VIDEO SHAN!!!🥵🥵🥵🥵 yes please part 2!!! 🇿🇦

  • @melissamcneil9903
    @melissamcneil9903 3 роки тому

    Part two please

  • @ceegee5287
    @ceegee5287 3 роки тому

    I need the thumbnail yellow set 😍

  • @lanisemckenzie5011
    @lanisemckenzie5011 3 роки тому

    I'm definitely a manifestor ft. got some heavy playlist although at times it can be draining and overwhelming as both. I'm actively working on increasing my siren and nudist skills and comfortability.
    Oh and it's pass bedtime so maybe I'll be in bed in 30mins?? I'll catch up on more episodes tomorrow. Mad love to Shan! Appreciate you!!

  • @sunvavachi
    @sunvavachi 3 роки тому

    I really liked towards the end just saying to sit comfortably in our sexy. I feel I am the playlist, manifester and at times the nudist. I do want to put more into the siren and the manifester. I got diagnosed with an STI recently and felt out of it but I will get through it. You've come such a long way Shan and I've been a follower from the gecko, happy you got sponsored by Savage X Fenty as you radiate that empowerment to be a spokesperson. You look wonderful. :)

  • @Taewills
    @Taewills 3 роки тому +31

    My top 2 are Nudist and Eve. And I have to say that I didn’t get better at nudist until my older, sexual peak years. 35-present day (40), I know what I want, I know who I am & grow into myself everyday. Very rarely ashamed of myself 😉
    Area of improvement: Siren

    • @shanboody
      @shanboody  3 роки тому +9

      Loved this comment! Beautiful self reflection

    • @kikib8434
      @kikib8434 3 роки тому +2

      Also 40, can confirm 😁😘

  • @dej.harris
    @dej.harris 3 роки тому +1

    YESSSS FOR THE FENTY AMBASSADOR

  • @emmacamarlinghi9572
    @emmacamarlinghi9572 3 роки тому +1

    Hey Shan☺️ do you believe butterflies can last the hole period of a relationship or that excitement and that feeling in the stomach is usually associated with the first moments of a connection? I’m starting to believe that it’s a feeling that is destined not to last, but I’d love to hear your opinion on that

  • @kenny6g6
    @kenny6g6 3 роки тому

    im a natural playlist guy. I can relate to most people and pull them in with great convo. I need them other seduction styles tho. ever good video.

  • @tykerionparrish5755
    @tykerionparrish5755 3 роки тому

    The playlist

  • @hazileqejet2920
    @hazileqejet2920 3 роки тому

    I’m definitely the playlist and a little Eve but I want to be more Eve and def a siren!!!

  • @sarahogvall
    @sarahogvall 3 роки тому

    So distracted, but yeees part 2.

  • @michelottens6083
    @michelottens6083 3 роки тому

    1. I can only really talk about deep opinions or ambitions with people, but am horrible at the simpler conversations needed to get there.
    2. I think I express physical confidence? Until I feel confused about a social situation, then I just shut down and run off because I need to process. Which happens a lot.
    3. I'm always earnestly playful and teasing when comfortable, but barely in any physical way. Just mostly challenging people with comments or questions.
    4. Not a music person, but I've been decent with intuiting stuff to watch or play, or museums to go visit. For hosting visitors, I rarely dress up or prepare much and am more about inviting people to act like they're at home. Which I'm not often communicating well, and it seems maybe too much to put on new people.
    5. Was probably shamed and traumatized out of being a 'siren' pretty early on, I think. Though I enjoy comments I get about my shirts, kilts, or a new haircut and such. Mostly a comfortable introvert living well enough with depression now, though, and I have my few friends and social hobbies. Just tend to withdraw rather than reach out to people, even while often noticing what I'm missing out on there.

  • @michelottens6083
    @michelottens6083 3 роки тому +1

    Any references of direct sources for this? I'd love an academically sourced book or such on this kind of stuff. I still tend to completely overlook it or misunderstand when people actively try to get close, or why I sometimes seem somehow attractive or convincing to others. Love the definition of seduction here, as a more general way of maybe making sense of how people get to know each other.

  • @eddylopezcitykid
    @eddylopezcitykid 3 роки тому +1

    Sleeping, working.

  • @ericanewcomb268
    @ericanewcomb268 3 роки тому

    5 more please 😍

  • @ep0913
    @ep0913 3 роки тому +28

    This video was right on time. 😎 I’ll be shooting my shoot at a new potential partner later this afternoon.

    • @devine.22
      @devine.22 3 роки тому +5

      You got this...

    • @Mademunroe
      @Mademunroe 3 роки тому +6

      Sending positive energy!!!

    • @xoReni
      @xoReni 3 роки тому +5

      Wishing you all the best 🥰

    • @kikib8434
      @kikib8434 3 роки тому +4

      Let us know how it went! 😁❤

    • @kimoramicheal8353
      @kimoramicheal8353 3 роки тому +2

      😍💯

  • @jadesimone_
    @jadesimone_ 3 роки тому +11

    I mean this in the most humble way...but I am all of them lol. Interesting stuff😜

    • @shanboody
      @shanboody  3 роки тому +5

      Yes Jade 👏🏽 👏🏽

    • @jadesimone_
      @jadesimone_ 3 роки тому +3

      @@shanboody totally fan girling right now!!!😭😭😭❤️

    • @Samson16436
      @Samson16436 2 роки тому

      Me too 🤭 I feel a little proud of myself ngl

  • @naww6091
    @naww6091 3 роки тому

    Sit in your sexy, girlie! I can relate to that discomfort. I am a shapely person so to certain standards, I have a “sexy body” but I have never felt comfortable “being sexy”. Those words of encouragement speak directly to me.

  • @blacklvrboy7683
    @blacklvrboy7683 3 роки тому +1

    C’mon fenty sponsorship 💪🏾💪🏾

  • @kirstinallan
    @kirstinallan 3 роки тому

    I will be going out to plant my new Roald Dahl David Austin Roses!

  • @MsSimixx
    @MsSimixx 3 роки тому +26

    Can't believe i've been here for more than 5 years...

  • @TaJuaMonica
    @TaJuaMonica 3 роки тому

    Shan ma’am I don’t know about everything else but I can even pay attention to the siren or the Eve seducer