So crazy. The only reason I even looked at the comments on this video was to see if anyone felt the same way. Well played Linda. Subscribed! Now I need to watch all the rest.
honestly, I'm a female INTJ as well, throughout my life I've never considered having a relationship as something that is, necessary... to be blunt. And people tend to find me hard to approach anyways. However, that kinda changed when out of nowhere this guy whom later I found out to be an ENFP came knocking at my door (literally), and later managed to knocked down my walls (figuratively) haha, that is after I turned him down countless times. I find him..... interesting, though sometimes frustrating xD.
My wife and I are an INTJ male and ENFP female, but one of the couples we're friends with is an INTJ female and an ENFP male. It is possible, keep the faith.
I'm an INTJ, and my husband is an ENFP. We were immediately drawn to each other. He told me I was mysterious and intelligent, and I was drawn to his engaging, fun nature. Though we definitely had some significant struggles early in our relationship due to our personality differences, we matured together and learned to communicate with one another in the ways that work best for each person. We share similar visions of the future and have similar values. He "gets" me and gives me my alone time, and can often understand what I'm feeling even when I don't. I've learned to validate his feelings and give him reassurance. We've been together 13 years now, so it definitely can work.
I am INTJ too and almost a year married to my ENFP. Same, we found strong connection right on with the first cup of coffee and also realized the many differences right away, but we just blend so well. I'm not so crazy about him, but I love him. (Can't get crazy enough about anything I guess except beagle puppies)
@@Scoring57 well what you could share with INTJs? You just have to think to know them, also why ENFP knows INTJ, because their NE aware of your NI. THAT'S INTJ ARE ACKNOWLEDGED BY ENFP, AND INTELLECTUAL PARTNERS FOR ENTP. That's why and i am here, your neighbor of Ni-dom, infj.
As an INTJ female I am really thankful for ENFP’s. My best friends are ENFP’s. And without them, making any friends would be really hard - since my strategy for friend making is basically standing in a crowded room waiting for an ENFP to scent out my INTJ vibes and find and adopt me.
When you're an INTJ straight female, but somehow this girl makes you question your sexual preferences... I'm not complaining though. (Edit: turned out to be ENTJ btw, still haven't changed my mind tho)
oh hello sister from the same brain cells !!! i just wanted to tell you to take care of yourself INTJ females are rarest than us (0,8% of the population)
Y'all are the order to our chaos 🥰 the anchor to our hot air balloon. A tasty tricky intelligent riddle for us to unravel and delve into, that also sees and appreciates the wisdom and intellect we offer (that other people often overlook). All without raining on our parade. 💕
She is EXACTLY like one of my female best friends. I think I understand better why we get along so well. My friend has literally told me some of the things she said in this video, just appreciating me for my intelligence, my calm demeanor, and being drawn to me because I was "mysterious". Seriously, what is it about us that makes us INTJ's mysterious? Is it just that we hide our emotions better than other people so we're harder to read?
Hello Linda, Let me , an INTJ guy, tell you that ENFP’s have an enchanting combination of curiosity, intellect and emotional spontaneity that awakens joy in our hearts. We are a little bound up in our super-rational world. You express what we feel but don’t have the freedom to emote. So,you are very dear to us! I loved your thoughtful and adorable presentation. God bless!
As an INTJ I find ENFPs amusing and kind of adorable. The carelessness, almost clumsiness, the talking and the open emotions I would find annoying in any other person, the ENFP mixes it in a way that you just can't hate. Also I find that I want to solve all their problems, like helping them manage their time better or organising their stuff. My bff is an ENFP and we always joke that we complete eachother. Like Yin and Yang. So to me, ENFPs are the splash of humanity I can truly appreciate.
INTJ's are very loyal and devoted but only to a chosen few. Not a general group like the INFJ's. Therefore we can focus our love and attention much better... assuming we have any ;)
It's true that INFJs have a tendency toward group loyalty, but it's more to do with the vision of what the group can do together to reach tremendous goals in society (each person attributing a particular quality/talent, so that not one person is overburdened with a tasks unnatural to them). Just as INTJs might put the best parts in play in their machines; INFJs draw out the best qualities in people so that they can reach their maximum potential.
@@zunumren4954 bro love yourself first and accomplish your goals and everything you set your mind to... don’t worry about the opposite sex or whatever your preference is... love is not the lost important thing and to be honest most people change or start showing their true colors down the road and if your an INTJ you know we don’t like it when we don’t know something or when we are blindsided but you know what won’t change and what won’t leave or stop loving you or take half your money through divorce and all the bullshit? Your goals and your accomplishments would never leave you they will always be there ... pussy will come along with it trust me(I’m crude but it’s the truth) and if you are looking for love or be loved and understood,which seems like you hope to find it one day lol, loving yourself first will guarantee that the person will love you because you will be able to show them how to love you...
She talks way more than the amount I can usually handle but I ended up listening because she looked so excited to tell about the topic, it makes me want to stay and listen. She is cute! It's like, she has this "sunshine and bubbles" aura when she talks. Also, she is smart and understands things that normal humans can't about us. ~ female INTJ
She is genuine and excited. There is passion you can sense coming from her. It's same kind of passion I get when I click with something and I love this feeling. I love seeing it in others too.
Did you seriously join UA-cam, drop this absolute banger of a video making all of us INTJs fall in love with you, and then like a true ENFP disappear after 1 month to go and start an alpaca farm or something?? Come back and tell me more about my stoic gaze! 😄
In the same way that INTJs have a calming presence for ENFPs, ENFPs have a warming presence for INTJs. I.e. you make us feel warm inside: part entertained, part admiring, part excited, in a way that we don't normally feel. I can pick the feeling up just watching your video.
As an INTJ I absolutely melt when I feel that someone both appreciates and understands me. This video made me melt. Let's see so I'm the 630th comment on this video, which means that I am the 630th INTJ to fall for Linda's adorableness.
INTJ here. That piercing look may actually be our fascination with your reaction, the way you literally manifest your feelings around your chest, touch your neck, arms etc it reads like a book. Your hoping from one topic to another yet it's so transparent and carefree expression both amusing and unachievable to me. I could just look at your expressions and turn off the volume what you've said and still be intrigued. It's endearing ... I hope that helps...
Thank you, Linda, for making this video. INTJ's are very fond of ENFP's too. You know what they say. Opposites attract. I find the ENFP's extraverted nature makes them in a strange way more trustworthy because they are far less likely to keep secrets because of their constant babble. lol Just sit back there and watch and look at her go. lol Fascinating... and adorable!
Fonch Z That might be true but isn't it better to speak for yourself? Even though they seem cool, it looks like ENFP's can also be draining because they're so hyperactive. So for many Intj's they might not be all that great. Fun, but only to a certain extent. Maybe ENFP's that can cool it a little would be a better match. They seem to have cute personalities though
Scoring57 we are people as well, we aren’t loud and bubbly and screaming all the time.. at most we’d just be loud and have you INTJ to listen to our babble
@@kaytee7226 Well like I said if they're able to slow down a little then it should be fine. Also if they're cool with us just listening and not expecting a reaction out of us that'd also be a good thing. Would be less emotionally tiring that way. The best relationships are the kind where you can be yourself right?
@@Scoring57 An INTJ, that's in the mood, can say nothing to an ENFP for 30 minutes and they will keep talking. You just have to pay attention. My wife is ENFP, and ill tell her you have 6 minutes and then I have something tk do. She'll talk straight through and be extremely happy. And then let me get back to whatever I want to do. At times, I'll tell her she's getting off on the highway exit and to get back on track. Just be honest with them and they are happy. They do need affection regularly. Hugs, kisses on the forehead, and other stuff keep them going.
@@obcane3072 Well that's good. The only thing that annoys / stresses me out sometimes is people expecting me to engage with and react to everything they say/do. And when you don't it seems like you're rude. People are always telling little jokes and saying things they seem to think are so amusing or should at least assume me and it rarely is. Then I feel like I have to laugh or nod my head just so they don't feel awkward or ignored. Just saying if you're able to let me be me then we're good. If you want a reaction though at least you actually have to be funny or say something interesting. I just like being honest in everyway possible and that includes what I actually think about the story or joke you're telling (not going to be mean but not going to fake enthusiasm either)
i'm an ENFP and my husband is an INTJ. we've been together for over 11 years now and married since almost 9 years now. Our relationship has been full of ups and downs. Tears and laughter. Like any other couple, actually. but between us, we have a connection that we could never have with anyone else. he is very witty and smart. Goal oriented and an unbending will. loyal and loving. Funny and humble. yet so honest and blunt. sharp and unforgiving. he is just a walking, breathing and living AAWESOMENESS! and best part is, he thinks i'm just as great (with different qualities of course) which is astonishing! and he loves me, this i can bet my life on! INTJs are great people. but my husband is my favorite INTJ of all time! :3 P/s: INTJs, y'all awesome! never forget that! sincerely, an ENFP
INTJ Eyes: Eyes are piercing but gentle, dominant but non threatening, edgy but not hateful, boring but not prying. A gaze that can cut a room, but never leave anyone bleeding ENTP: those were the feelings I could not articulate
As an INTJ i have always been attracted to ENFPs without knowing it, simply because their personality just stood out so much more than everyone else’s. Being very observant of people, to an Intj an ENFP just seems alive, everyone else seems one dimensional.
You just made every INTJ watching this video your friend. I always thought we were repelling people. It's nice to hear that there are people who see us the way you describe us.
You rambled around the point so many times, I got frustrated. Then you answered my question in detail and I loved it. Listening to you is a real roller coaster ride for me. I can see why many INTJ's would appreciate you.
I used to think ENFP'S were too crazy for me but when i finally met one I'll be honest I fell in love as an INTJ as I felt like she was an escape from the reality which is my mind like finally something to stop my continuesly racing mind for a bit but at the same time she was also like a battery to make me more energetic like we added onto eachother but I think the only hard thing is that she is very sensitive with her emotions and can get easily overwhelmed so it was difficult to say something logical and have her feelings not hurt or overwhelmed
The "not hurting her feelings" is so damn hard. I'm just too stupid to realise that she's taking everything so personal, while I only have the best intentions in mind.
Woah as an ENFP with an INTJ boyfriend it makes sense now. That explains why I get my feelings hurt by things but my boyfriend doesn’t really and just sees it as something logical😲
That piercing look, the short answer is cold logic. We're analysing and weighing everything. The reason you can't replicate it is because as an ENFP you exist on emotions, even your logic is emotional. INTJs often have the opposite problem we often add emotion as an afterthought, or at least as a conscience choice. Cold logic is our default outward state. Also on a side note, I absolutely love that panic you get into after you've said your peace. I can just see you mentally scolding yourself: "You're rambling! Stop it! You're going to scare them off! Oh my god! You're still rambling! End the video!" It's cute and endearing, mostly because your points were very valid, yet you're humble enough to be unsure.
INTJ female here (over 40 and never married). ENxPs are a breath of fresh air to me. They are the most amusing people to talk with. I have been told more than once that I am hard to know. I think the bluntness can be off putting and also the work of asking questions to learn about a person is too much for those who are accustomed to constantly volunteering their entire life's story. ENxP seem to enjoy the exploration of getting into the mind of an INTJ. I thoroughly appreciate that. :)
giulia ribeiro maybe because INTJ are so open minded 🤔 Nah but in general there are plenty of girls who I think are, objectively speaking, cute, or pretty but I don’t find them attractive/I’m not attracted to them.
@@claracatlady9844 me too akhdjahsjs but then I saw birds of prey and mary elizabeth winstead there made me feel hella gay and since then I'm like "girl be honest with yourself... you wanna be her friend or are you being gay again?"
giulia ribeiro I think girls are way prettier than guys (most people, especially artist can agree on this, I mean just look at the fine arts). It has mostly to do with shapes and proportions, which the eye considers to be pleasing. Nevertheless I don’t find girls physically attractive. It’s kinda weird
Was nice to smile for straight up 30 minutes while listening to you. Randomly felt proud when you could express your thoughts at ease and I could easily understand the message and emotion.
You are such a gem for being so real and human in this explanation of the very special and unique relationship between an ENFP and INTJ - especially the INTJ personality type. I'm ENFP and my husband is INTJ. You've explained so much truth about the special connection we have with each other. No one else BUT ME understands that big heart and beauty of an INTJ under the very real hard exterior they so forcefully keep on their exterior. I feel soooo special to be one of my husband's trusted and intimate other half. I must say, when an ENFP and INTJ start conversing with each other, there will be a natural feeling of in-sync vibrations. I personally can vouch on that fact. Such a great expressional and informational video. Well done!!
Dr Mona Howard My older brother is INTJ and my best friend and man! We don’t even speak on full sentences, everything is said in shorthand references that only we understand, we have hundreds of bookmarks in wide ranging conversations that can be brought up on a whim and we are right back into it. It’s crazy. It’s like intj just want to say the damn thing, and enfps have so much to say. We speak extremely quickly to each other, it’s almost manic, anyone who sees interact think it’s crazy and that we are the same person but I always laugh at that cuz they don’t understand how completely different we are. Although intj can be such pains in my fucking ass when it comes to them understanding other people’s emotions, maybe not understanding the emotions but accepting them and validating them as acceptable and important. Love intjs, although am only aware of my brother being one. I love him a ton. And loyalty too. That man has got my back no matter WHAT. I return the favor. I know how frugal he is with his trust and love so it’s means so much to me. And he has made it very clear in typical INTJ/Michael corleone fashion that if I ever betray him he will “disown” me and I totally believe him haha. Also there is this underlying fear I have of him too but that just might be because he’s my big brother, and after a decade and a half of getting my ass kicked as little brother it has become ingrained in me that I shall fear and respect thy older brother hahah:))
I am a female INTJ, my husband is ENFP, and that's what attracted me to watch your video (long, but quite entertaining to watch!). The way I could never predict when you are going to move on to your next point is very much like him! My husband shares a very similar perspective with me (intuition) but reaches his goals in very unconventional and unpredictable ways. That attracts me yet annoys me at times. After 10+ years of being together I'm glad to say that we've learnt how we can complement each other as a team. I can count on him in dealing with things that drain me (e.g. talking to others in social events, being my "emotional radar"), and obviously for me I help him organise his life systematically so he is in less of a chaos now ;) His social, creative and unpredictable personality makes my life so much more colourful. I can imagine what a sunshine you are, and the INTJs in your life would be really blessed by you.
Omg haha an ENFP here and everything you're doing feels like looking at a mirror, even the way you gesture, speak and have a notepad to refer to when it comes to talking about points in case of going off tangent as always. Because I do that too!!
Me too and she gives me a smile on my face just because she is so sympathetic and has a fresh positive attitude. Also the pausings she made is so me...because i think about every word in detail, while i am explaining something. So that makes the explanation longer and is not that efficient as INTJ would rather have😂 its more complicated and not on point. Just because i mainly try to explain how i feel about something and feelings are complex to describe..
Ikrrrr, I was like is this me from an alternate universe that was accidentally wormholed here? But then I was like, no it can't be... she's too pretty to be me XD
ENFP attempting to demonstrate INTJ stare lololol. I think what you’re trying to describe is piercing yet intentionally glazed over (not really making direct eye contact with the person). I do it all the time to avoid seeing things in people I don’t want to see and to not allow people to really look at me.
So are all ENFPs like this? I have zero explanations as to how I have gone 30 years on this planet and not learned about the existence of actual angels on earth! Keep it up 🤙🏻
ENFP girls I believe sometimes do this stare exaggeration with opening up smile that is transforming into laugh when you stare at them (my male friend does that sometimes too). Even your stoic, focused, serious self will start cracking under this pressure and you will also genuinely smile or laugh back. It's like they are cracking the code, seeing through you and making you open up before you even exchanged one word with them. This is when I feel happy but also stupid, immature and vulnerable. And as weird as it sounds, I don't mind these feelings that would normally indicate weakness because I intuitively know that I can be vulnerable next to this person which is extremally rare situation. I wish I could meet ENFP's more often ;-;
26:34, the intj death stare. when you witness this, the intj is no longer there with you. their conscience is somewhere else planning, calculating the future based on the trends of past experiences. don't fret they will return after a short while. some say the intj appears aloof. and everybody knows that 'aloof' when spelled backwards is 'plotting'
I’m an INTJ; I’m still not sure what happened, however, I would like to know if this is what love feels like? I can’t tell but I could not turn this video off. I think more research should be done.
I am INTJ male who just randomly found this video. I love the way you communicate like soft voice, acting while talking and not try to become someone else make me feel "Oh. This girl is strangely cute and interesting". I guess your ENFP character attracts me as the theory said. If you have no boyfriend, a lot of INTJ males like me will open up to you for sure :)
I would have to disagree, it’s because we use it so much on ourselves, our goals, our accomplishments because there are two things that are engraved in every INTJ... is that we can survive anything as long as we have our brain and that our goals and purpose would never abandon is like people would or change their feelings in matter of hours... our love for ourselves is sometimes greater, that we can’t possibly fathom anyone loving us like we can
@@ClaudioAguileraMunoz hmmm how so? Legit interested because to me it sounded like OP was talking about love. When you said “ it’s because we don’t use it enough” if you weren’t talking about love then yeah I might have mixed up what I said but if you were referring to love then it still stands. But again I curious as to why you you think I have mixed up?
It's a love/hate relationship. They love us with all their being (rainbows and unicorns) and we lovingly pretend to hate them to protect our introverted nature until we are sure about that particular ENFP.
Just happened to come across your video here Linda. I'm a happily married, much older INTJ and I want to say you have a great thing here with your channel. Your personality is infectious and you could really do something big here. I saw that you stopped posting 3 months ago. Don't give up. You have so few videos, but they are really tearing it up! Keep going. Jump right back in. You've got this!
This really taught me something about myself. Apart from your apparent beauty, if you are a typical ENFP then what would makes you attractive to an INTJ is your ability to clearly articulate what you like and what you feel, this removes the need to read signals and work out if she's interested or not. You're appreciation for the socially inarticulate traits of the INTJ is quite humorous.
INTJ woman here… 1. You’re adorable! 2. I get what you mean about the clothing. I can’t wear pastels tho, washes me out! If we find an item of clothing we like and feel good/comfortable in we will buy it in every colour/pattern available 😂 3. ENFPs are Labradors…and who doesn’t love a Labrador?
Where are all of you? There are supposed to be way more ENFPs than INTJs and yet I have never found a relationship with one. Yet if I ran into a girl like you I think I'd fall in love.
You did not scare me away from ENFP's, as a matter of fact, I absolutely loved watching al the thoughts bounce around behind your eyes whenever you are trying to make a point. Absolutely adorable.
I'm an ENFP! You really word perfectly how I fell in love with first serious long term girlfriend. Your way with words and verbalizing what seem like my thoughts is incredible, I hope to see more content from you soon.
@Enrique G Because their emotions are taking over and they are really excited to be around you so they can't help it. I can be quite childlike at times as an ENFP, but I think I would be very nervous around someone I like and maybe seem a bit more childlike around that person! But honestly, the last time I liked someone I just avoided that person since I got so nervous haha
Great video, adorable person. When she tried to "dig" through the layers and said I wanna know everything about you I just got a little startled and distanced myself from the screen. I was like "woah easy there". That was kind of funny and engaging. Glad to have found the video, and it is nice to see that bubbly, and vivid people (who are not annoying) still exist. Kind of fascinating. You gave me hope.
I am always instantly attracted to people who initiate with me. When it comes to the first move, I am very shy and/or sizing you up as a potential partner. Someone who initiates conveys they are curious, open minded, likely less judgmental, and will take the brunt of the socializing. To me that is very attractive
The thing with her is that you don't have to analyze nothing about her no dots to connect what she is how she feels what is thinking it's all right there out in the open so you don't have to wonder if there is any hidden meaning to them
As an INTJ, I’m intrigued by ENFPs open expressiveness. I can’t at all relate so I can’t understand it in that sense, but I do understand that it lends itself to my being able to trust you, just that genuine openness and expressiveness, which is why this can be a great relationship for INTJs.
INTJ guy here, your video is so accurate and your energy is lovely. Just want to put it out there that some INTJs (because of their jobs or whatever) have learned to develop great social and emotional skills, but don't be deceived. After awhile our INTJness will show and we'll go back to having that "death stare" look. Also, because we can be skeptical of people's intention, we won't notice if you're flirting with us and just assume you're always that friendly. Keep hacking away at our hard exterior, we'll notice the recurring pattern and ask you about it.
I am an INTJ frenchman and I could not resist telling you, Linda Pinda, that I LOVED your video to the core; maybe it is the best video among the hundreds I have binged all over the Internet concerning the MBTI You obviously *LOVE* being around INTJs, to the point of willing to live with one of us - "till death do you apart" - from the bottom of your heart, and I think I feel the same for ENFP females now : I have to find an ENFP girlfriend as lively and emotionally vibrating and inspiring as you are! I hope every ENFP woman out there is like you. You were so breathtaking in your presentation, thank you for the awesome guidance!
This was so lovely to read! I hope you find your princess and keep making this world a better place, I sure hope that a divine INTJ knight can come and save me, but not from this world because it is, in my mind, incredibly beautiful and wonderful and full of possibilities!!
Being an INTJ is a wonderful trait and a brilliant, powerful mind to have. Unfortunately, the society the world over is largely made for ESFJ/narcissits, and their enablers.
Agreed! 😀 Also... Please research 'narcissitic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissits'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)! European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!! The are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim or damsel in distress, creating 'flying-monkeys', and paying others to attack (or at times kill) someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Elliott Till. ISFP (and ESFP) are the most complicit, narcissitic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependants' (look up the definition). SUMMARY: Evil personality: ESFJ, ESTJ [Secretly] Evil and narcissit-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP, ESFP. ☝️All of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict (and at other people's expense, truly evil). Spread the word! Thank you. ___________ #Save_Soil
Not really. Just the weaknesses of being an INTJ but you can’t have it all - anyways life is boring otherwise. I agree with your first sentence though.
Fellow ENFP girl here! I was amazed while watching your video since you essentially reminded me of a (slightly) physically different version of myself with all the hand movements and gestures. I thought I was the only one XD it makes me happy to know I'm not alone! Also I feel like you nailed everything about INTJs, I've fallen hard for one myself (and had a crush on another in the past) and everything you described about how they instantly click and "get" each other made total sense! Keep on doing your videos! You're a knowledgeable and awesome person
I agree with my fellow INTJ’s below. Even as an INTJ female, I found your video very adorable. I prefer white than black but other than that the clothing explanation was spot on. Lots of clean cut whites, neutral, black, and pop of favorite colors.
You're positively gushing! As if you just can't get over how much you like INTJ's. You have these moments where you pause as if you no longer have words to describe the attraction. It is 30 friggin minutes of adorableness. and, yes! I am an INTJ.
So this is what love at first sight feels like... Honestly when I was listening to you speak, I really did not notice that the video is actually 30 minutes long, only when I was done watching the video - my eye caught that fact. I somehow know that it would be incredibly interesting and fun to talk to you and be around you. I want to meet an ENFP now. I would greatly appreciate if you would make a video about how to spot ENFP's.
Minute 1: She should’ve written a script to avoid jumping between topics, derailing her thought process, and babbling about. Minute 3: She seems genuinely excited about this. Is there a pattern or system to her chaotic speech? Minute 5: I can understand why I might enjoy engaging with someone like her. Minute 30: Ok. What just happened? I feel like she’s a friend. What in the world? I need to watch this again.
Dude... I always wondered *why* I felt attracted to this one guy who is *not* my usual type at *all* and I realized he’s an INTJ, which explains a lot, honestly.
Why INTJ's love ENFP's: You took the time to understand and explain us so we don't have to. Because talking about feelings and such is exhausting.
HAHAHAHAHA, finally a confession from intj
True.
Fucking True, to process what is a waste of time, but at the same time is something necessary
Amen
Ahhh, yes, useful ENFPs indeed
Every INTJ guy who has watched this video is now in love with you. Well played.
Very well played
hahaha...
thats true
Yep.
So crazy. The only reason I even looked at the comments on this video was to see if anyone felt the same way. Well played Linda. Subscribed! Now I need to watch all the rest.
it's nice to know love for an INTJ is possible lmao. though, im a female INTJ so.....rip
honestly, I'm a female INTJ as well, throughout my life I've never considered having a relationship as something that is, necessary... to be blunt. And people tend to find me hard to approach anyways. However, that kinda changed when out of nowhere this guy whom later I found out to be an ENFP came knocking at my door (literally), and later managed to knocked down my walls (figuratively) haha, that is after I turned him down countless times. I find him..... interesting, though sometimes frustrating xD.
You're in luck. There are more INTJ and ENFP males than INTJ females, so whichever one you like better, you can find one.
Same her , i don't see it necessaty for me to be in relationship , i don't see point mostly. Maybe in the future when i older but definitely not now
My wife and I are an INTJ male and ENFP female, but one of the couples we're friends with is an INTJ female and an ENFP male. It is possible, keep the faith.
As a female INTJ I find INFJ's to match best with me romantically but I get along really well with ENFP males as friends
I'm an INTJ, and my husband is an ENFP. We were immediately drawn to each other. He told me I was mysterious and intelligent, and I was drawn to his engaging, fun nature. Though we definitely had some significant struggles early in our relationship due to our personality differences, we matured together and learned to communicate with one another in the ways that work best for each person. We share similar visions of the future and have similar values. He "gets" me and gives me my alone time, and can often understand what I'm feeling even when I don't. I've learned to validate his feelings and give him reassurance. We've been together 13 years now, so it definitely can work.
" often understand what I'm feeling even when I don't"
this is so true that it scares me (a female INTJ who has a male ENFP friend)
And here i am, just recently letting go my ENFP.. i miss him so much it hurts..
I am INTJ female btw
You really gave me hope. 😍
@@ditaanggraini4330 oh no :/
I am INTJ too and almost a year married to my ENFP. Same, we found strong connection right on with the first cup of coffee and also realized the many differences right away, but we just blend so well. I'm not so crazy about him, but I love him. (Can't get crazy enough about anything I guess except beagle puppies)
2 minutes in looking at comments: Sweet lord fellow INTJs, get a hold of yourself.
10 minutes in: Ah ok, I get it now. Signed.
Hahahaha made me laugh.
😂😂😂
lmfao!!!!!
It’s almost freaky how you know so much about INTJ's. It's scary knowing that there are people out here who knows a lot about how we really are
abadi
Maybe we need to stop talking and sharing so much..
Right? We need to start using misdirection tactics. Every INTJ, lets collaborate to accomplish that separately.
@@Scoring57 well what you could share with INTJs? You just have to think to know them, also why ENFP knows INTJ, because their NE aware of your NI. THAT'S INTJ ARE ACKNOWLEDGED BY ENFP, AND INTELLECTUAL PARTNERS FOR ENTP. That's why and i am here, your neighbor of Ni-dom, infj.
Now you freak me out
@@Scoring57too late. we already love you, guys
As an INTJ female I am really thankful for ENFP’s. My best friends are ENFP’s. And without them, making any friends would be really hard - since my strategy for friend making is basically standing in a crowded room waiting for an ENFP to scent out my INTJ vibes and find and adopt me.
Same!
Hahaha...the image tickled my funny bone ... clever strategy...may borrow...hahaha.🇨🇦
infp same😭
When you're an INTJ straight female, but somehow this girl makes you question your sexual preferences...
I'm not complaining though.
(Edit: turned out to be ENTJ btw, still haven't changed my mind tho)
I’m an ENFP bi woman, but I find her really cute
I felt that too. She's so adorable
😂
I wasn't expecting to find this comment but DAAAMN UR RIGHT 🤣
oh hello sister from the same brain cells !!! i just wanted to tell you to take care of yourself INTJ females are rarest than us (0,8% of the population)
"we know there's more to you than people realize."
Me: *giggled silently*
There are layers. Like ogres. I mean onions.
Omg 😳 I giggle too! Are you an ENFP
Chris Weekes the way I crackleeed💀💀🤚🏽 I do be having layers tho
I'm an ENFP with an INTJ male and everyone in his life has called him a robot 😂 I never saw it
I came here to see why ENFPs like INTJs, but I found out why INTJs like ENFPs...
Yes I’m an INTJ
They understand us 😭
Lmao... I know exactly how you feel buddy
Y'all are the order to our chaos 🥰 the anchor to our hot air balloon. A tasty tricky intelligent riddle for us to unravel and delve into, that also sees and appreciates the wisdom and intellect we offer (that other people often overlook). All without raining on our parade. 💕
Wooohooo 🎉
Aw man, that was really beautiful. -INFJ
I'm an intj straight female but she's adorable, i love her already. She's very friendly and warm :)
Same. 10 seconds into this video I said, out loud, "she's adorable." And I mean that in the most uncondescending way possible.
She is EXACTLY like one of my female best friends. I think I understand better why we get along so well. My friend has literally told me some of the things she said in this video, just appreciating me for my intelligence, my calm demeanor, and being drawn to me because I was "mysterious". Seriously, what is it about us that makes us INTJ's mysterious? Is it just that we hide our emotions better than other people so we're harder to read?
i was about to comment that kahsksgdja her accent is lovely
Hello Linda, Let me , an INTJ guy, tell you that ENFP’s have an enchanting combination of curiosity, intellect and emotional spontaneity that awakens joy in our hearts. We are a little bound up in our super-rational world. You express what we feel but don’t have the freedom to emote. So,you are very dear to us! I loved your thoughtful and adorable presentation. God bless!
Yes she is.
I need to find an ENFP boyfriend or just friends.
As an INTJ I find ENFPs amusing and kind of adorable. The carelessness, almost clumsiness, the talking and the open emotions I would find annoying in any other person, the ENFP mixes it in a way that you just can't hate. Also I find that I want to solve all their problems, like helping them manage their time better or organising their stuff. My bff is an ENFP and we always joke that we complete eachother. Like Yin and Yang. So to me, ENFPs are the splash of humanity I can truly appreciate.
YAAAAASAS!
INTJ's are very loyal and devoted but only to a chosen few. Not a general group like the INFJ's. Therefore we can focus our love and attention much better... assuming we have any ;)
Fonch Z I know an INFJ and this makes so much sense now.
I'm an ENFP and that's one of the qualities I have always wanted in a man :3 haha
It's true that INFJs have a tendency toward group loyalty, but it's more to do with the vision of what the group can do together to reach tremendous goals in society (each person attributing a particular quality/talent, so that not one person is overburdened with a tasks unnatural to them). Just as INTJs might put the best parts in play in their machines; INFJs draw out the best qualities in people so that they can reach their maximum potential.
"Assuming we have any". So I'm not the only one who feels so unrelatable that I'm unlovable
@@zunumren4954 bro love yourself first and accomplish your goals and everything you set your mind to... don’t worry about the opposite sex or whatever your preference is... love is not the lost important thing and to be honest most people change or start showing their true colors down the road and if your an INTJ you know we don’t like it when we don’t know something or when we are blindsided but you know what won’t change and what won’t leave or stop loving you or take half your money through divorce and all the bullshit? Your goals and your accomplishments would never leave you they will always be there ... pussy will come along with it trust me(I’m crude but it’s the truth) and if you are looking for love or be loved and understood,which seems like you hope to find it one day lol, loving yourself first will guarantee that the person will love you because you will be able to show them how to love you...
me, a female straight INTJ, 2 minutes into the video: why is she so fucking adorable. what kind of sorcery is this.
I TOTALLY agree.
It’s called ENFP lol 💕☺️😎
Same. She's super adorable.
I fear for the time when I grow older, people of my age will also be this mature and adorable
She needs to be protected at all cost
She talks way more than the amount I can usually handle but I ended up listening because she looked so excited to tell about the topic, it makes me want to stay and listen. She is cute! It's like, she has this "sunshine and bubbles" aura when she talks. Also, she is smart and understands things that normal humans can't about us.
~ female INTJ
She is genuine and excited. There is passion you can sense coming from her. It's same kind of passion I get when I click with something and I love this feeling. I love seeing it in others too.
It's freaking scary how accurate you are..yet your adorable way of presenting your points makes it fun to watch.
are you ENFP?
Even to the fact that I'm currently wearing a maroon t-shirt and nearly all my t-shirt are navy and black.
Alright INTJ's, let's all focus our effort on cloning and mass producing this one...
😂😂😂
😂😂
Did you seriously join UA-cam, drop this absolute banger of a video making all of us INTJs fall in love with you, and then like a true ENFP disappear after 1 month to go and start an alpaca farm or something?? Come back and tell me more about my stoic gaze! 😄
Oh she did it to us too, ya know…-INFJ
In the same way that INTJs have a calming presence for ENFPs, ENFPs have a warming presence for INTJs. I.e. you make us feel warm inside: part entertained, part admiring, part excited, in a way that we don't normally feel. I can pick the feeling up just watching your video.
As an INTJ I absolutely melt when I feel that someone both appreciates and understands me. This video made me melt. Let's see so I'm the 630th comment on this video, which means that I am the 630th INTJ to fall for Linda's adorableness.
The understanding is an illusion bro there is no understanding life is short and cruel grab what you can while you can .
@@atheistsince1210 that sounds like a miserable existence. I'll pass on that mindset thanks.
The ENFP energy in this video is palpable
This is more or less exactly how my ENFP partner talks haha
I'm a simple ENFP: I meet an INTJ, I fall in love.
I did too :D
Oh yes.
Where are you!?! I am married, but it would be nice to be around someone who half understands me! nevermind fully ! I will settle for half! ha!
INTJ here. That piercing look may actually be our fascination with your reaction, the way you literally manifest your feelings around your chest, touch your neck, arms etc it reads like a book. Your hoping from one topic to another yet it's so transparent and carefree expression both amusing and unachievable to me. I could just look at your expressions and turn off the volume what you've said and still be intrigued. It's endearing ... I hope that helps...
Perfectly articulated.
I love love how she touched on how loving and loyal INTJ's are toward *their* people. Such truth! ❣️
Thank you, Linda, for making this video. INTJ's are very fond of ENFP's too. You know what they say. Opposites attract. I find the ENFP's extraverted nature makes them in a strange way more trustworthy because they are far less likely to keep secrets because of their constant babble. lol Just sit back there and watch and look at her go. lol Fascinating... and adorable!
Fonch Z
That might be true but isn't it better to speak for yourself? Even though they seem cool, it looks like ENFP's can also be draining because they're so hyperactive. So for many Intj's they might not be all that great. Fun, but only to a certain extent. Maybe ENFP's that can cool it a little would be a better match. They seem to have cute personalities though
Scoring57 we are people as well, we aren’t loud and bubbly and screaming all the time.. at most we’d just be loud and have you INTJ to listen to our babble
@@kaytee7226
Well like I said if they're able to slow down a little then it should be fine. Also if they're cool with us just listening and not expecting a reaction out of us that'd also be a good thing. Would be less emotionally tiring that way. The best relationships are the kind where you can be yourself right?
@@Scoring57 An INTJ, that's in the mood, can say nothing to an ENFP for 30 minutes and they will keep talking. You just have to pay attention.
My wife is ENFP, and ill tell her you have 6 minutes and then I have something tk do. She'll talk straight through and be extremely happy. And then let me get back to whatever I want to do.
At times, I'll tell her she's getting off on the highway exit and to get back on track. Just be honest with them and they are happy.
They do need affection regularly. Hugs, kisses on the forehead, and other stuff keep them going.
@@obcane3072
Well that's good. The only thing that annoys / stresses me out sometimes is people expecting me to engage with and react to everything they say/do. And when you don't it seems like you're rude. People are always telling little jokes and saying things they seem to think are so amusing or should at least assume me and it rarely is. Then I feel like I have to laugh or nod my head just so they don't feel awkward or ignored. Just saying if you're able to let me be me then we're good. If you want a reaction though at least you actually have to be funny or say something interesting. I just like being honest in everyway possible and that includes what I actually think about the story or joke you're telling (not going to be mean but not going to fake enthusiasm either)
i'm an ENFP and my husband is an INTJ. we've been together for over 11 years now and married since almost 9 years now. Our relationship has been full of ups and downs. Tears and laughter. Like any other couple, actually. but between us, we have a connection that we could never have with anyone else. he is very witty and smart. Goal oriented and an unbending will. loyal and loving. Funny and humble. yet so honest and blunt. sharp and unforgiving. he is just a walking, breathing and living AAWESOMENESS! and best part is, he thinks i'm just as great (with different qualities of course) which is astonishing! and he loves me, this i can bet my life on! INTJs are great people. but my husband is my favorite INTJ of all time! :3
P/s: INTJs, y'all awesome! never forget that!
sincerely,
an ENFP
INTJ here. I feel understood and so encouraged by you when I listen to this video when I am depressed because I feel no one understand me.
INTJ Eyes:
Eyes are piercing but gentle, dominant but non threatening, edgy but not hateful, boring but not prying.
A gaze that can cut a room, but never leave anyone bleeding
ENTP: those were the feelings I could not articulate
That is such a good discription of the eyes of INTJ's. :)
Can be dominant and threatening if someone tries to dominate in my environment. I don't submit.
INTJs
most videos: "Get to the point this is taking so long"
this video: "Please don't stop talking"
As an INTJ i have always been attracted to ENFPs without knowing it, simply because their personality just stood out so much more than everyone else’s. Being very observant of people, to an Intj an ENFP just seems alive, everyone else seems one dimensional.
You just made every INTJ watching this video your friend. I always thought we were repelling people. It's nice to hear that there are people who see us the way you describe us.
11:13 that hit hard.
15:59 that's very accurate
You rambled around the point so many times, I got frustrated. Then you answered my question in detail and I loved it. Listening to you is a real roller coaster ride for me. I can see why many INTJ's would appreciate you.
I used to think ENFP'S were too crazy for me but when i finally met one I'll be honest I fell in love as an INTJ as I felt like she was an escape from the reality which is my mind like finally something to stop my continuesly racing mind for a bit but at the same time she was also like a battery to make me more energetic like we added onto eachother but I think the only hard thing is that she is very sensitive with her emotions and can get easily overwhelmed so it was difficult to say something logical and have her feelings not hurt or overwhelmed
The "not hurting her feelings" is so damn hard. I'm just too stupid to realise that she's taking everything so personal, while I only have the best intentions in mind.
Woah as an ENFP with an INTJ boyfriend it makes sense now. That explains why I get my feelings hurt by things but my boyfriend doesn’t really and just sees it as something logical😲
I find it rather disturbing that you seem to know about 80-90% of my wardrobe having never met.
IKR. Was like Hmm should I change it up to make it less obvious...No it could take to much time to research fashion trends.
That piercing look, the short answer is cold logic. We're analysing and weighing everything. The reason you can't replicate it is because as an ENFP you exist on emotions, even your logic is emotional. INTJs often have the opposite problem we often add emotion as an afterthought, or at least as a conscience choice. Cold logic is our default outward state.
Also on a side note, I absolutely love that panic you get into after you've said your peace. I can just see you mentally scolding yourself: "You're rambling! Stop it! You're going to scare them off! Oh my god! You're still rambling! End the video!" It's cute and endearing, mostly because your points were very valid, yet you're humble enough to be unsure.
“Get away body, come here efficiency!” 😂
INFP here, but I hear you sis
INTJ female here (over 40 and never married). ENxPs are a breath of fresh air to me. They are the most amusing people to talk with.
I have been told more than once that I am hard to know. I think the bluntness can be off putting and also the work of asking questions to learn about a person is too much for those who are accustomed to constantly volunteering their entire life's story. ENxP seem to enjoy the exploration of getting into the mind of an INTJ. I thoroughly appreciate that. :)
I come here whenever I need a heart squeeze. Yeah, even as an INTJ I might need those.
daw~
Me, INTJ female, very much into guys: “omg she is so cute, adorable 🥰 ....wait WTH AM I DOING!”
I'm coming to the conclusion that all intjs are deep down very very bi
giulia ribeiro maybe because INTJ are so open minded 🤔
Nah but in general there are plenty of girls who I think are, objectively speaking, cute, or pretty but I don’t find them attractive/I’m not attracted to them.
@@claracatlady9844 me too akhdjahsjs but then I saw birds of prey and mary elizabeth winstead there made me feel hella gay and since then I'm like "girl be honest with yourself... you wanna be her friend or are you being gay again?"
giulia ribeiro I think girls are way prettier than guys (most people, especially artist can agree on this, I mean just look at the fine arts). It has mostly to do with shapes and proportions, which the eye considers to be pleasing.
Nevertheless I don’t find girls physically attractive. It’s kinda weird
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As an INTJ I couldn't help but smile throughout the video. And I don't usually do that.
"I have an eye for Ni doms" haha. Your energy is contagious, Linda. Great video!!
Was nice to smile for straight up 30 minutes while listening to you. Randomly felt proud when you could express your thoughts at ease and I could easily understand the message and emotion.
Nobody understands INTJs as well as ENFPs do.
Loved the video. Brought a smile on an INTJ's face.
She is so alive in the video, totally ENFP.
You are such a gem for being so real and human in this explanation of the very special and unique relationship between an ENFP and INTJ - especially the INTJ personality type.
I'm ENFP and my husband is INTJ. You've explained so much truth about the special connection we have with each other. No one else BUT ME understands that big heart and beauty of an INTJ under the very real hard exterior they so forcefully keep on their exterior. I feel soooo special to be one of my husband's trusted and intimate other half.
I must say, when an ENFP and INTJ start conversing with each other, there will be a natural feeling of in-sync vibrations. I personally can vouch on that fact.
Such a great expressional and informational video. Well done!!
Dr Mona Howard My older brother is INTJ and my best friend and man! We don’t even speak on full sentences, everything is said in shorthand references that only we understand, we have hundreds of bookmarks in wide ranging conversations that can be brought up on a whim and we are right back into it. It’s crazy. It’s like intj just want to say the damn thing, and enfps have so much to say. We speak extremely quickly to each other, it’s almost manic, anyone who sees interact think it’s crazy and that we are the same person but I always laugh at that cuz they don’t understand how completely different we are. Although intj can be such pains in my fucking ass when it comes to them understanding other people’s emotions, maybe not understanding the emotions but accepting them and validating them as acceptable and important. Love intjs, although am only aware of my brother being one. I love him a ton. And loyalty too. That man has got my back no matter WHAT. I return the favor. I know how frugal he is with his trust and love so it’s means so much to me. And he has made it very clear in typical INTJ/Michael corleone fashion that if I ever betray him he will “disown” me and I totally believe him haha. Also there is this underlying fear I have of him too but that just might be because he’s my big brother, and after a decade and a half of getting my ass kicked as little brother it has become ingrained in me that I shall fear and respect thy older brother hahah:))
I am a female INTJ, my husband is ENFP, and that's what attracted me to watch your video (long, but quite entertaining to watch!). The way I could never predict when you are going to move on to your next point is very much like him! My husband shares a very similar perspective with me (intuition) but reaches his goals in very unconventional and unpredictable ways. That attracts me yet annoys me at times. After 10+ years of being together I'm glad to say that we've learnt how we can complement each other as a team. I can count on him in dealing with things that drain me (e.g. talking to others in social events, being my "emotional radar"), and obviously for me I help him organise his life systematically so he is in less of a chaos now ;) His social, creative and unpredictable personality makes my life so much more colourful.
I can imagine what a sunshine you are, and the INTJs in your life would be really blessed by you.
Omg haha an ENFP here and everything you're doing feels like looking at a mirror, even the way you gesture, speak and have a notepad to refer to when it comes to talking about points in case of going off tangent as always. Because I do that too!!
SAMEEE🤣🤣
Me too and she gives me a smile on my face just because she is so sympathetic and has a fresh positive attitude. Also the pausings she made is so me...because i think about every word in detail, while i am explaining something. So that makes the explanation longer and is not that efficient as INTJ would rather have😂 its more complicated and not on point. Just because i mainly try to explain how i feel about something and feelings are complex to describe..
Ikrrrr, I was like is this me from an alternate universe that was accidentally wormholed here? But then I was like, no it can't be... she's too pretty to be me XD
ENFP attempting to demonstrate INTJ stare lololol. I think what you’re trying to describe is piercing yet intentionally glazed over (not really making direct eye contact with the person). I do it all the time to avoid seeing things in people I don’t want to see and to not allow people to really look at me.
So are all ENFPs like this? I have zero explanations as to how I have gone 30 years on this planet and not learned about the existence of actual angels on earth! Keep it up 🤙🏻
Awww...
This is literally the only video I don’t watch on 2x speed
Sometimes youtube algorithm just knows what i need...
We INTJs love you ENFPs too! You're all friendly but are actually interested about us and our thoughts and care about us
ENFP girls I believe sometimes do this stare exaggeration with opening up smile that is transforming into laugh when you stare at them (my male friend does that sometimes too). Even your stoic, focused, serious self will start cracking under this pressure and you will also genuinely smile or laugh back. It's like they are cracking the code, seeing through you and making you open up before you even exchanged one word with them. This is when I feel happy but also stupid, immature and vulnerable. And as weird as it sounds, I don't mind these feelings that would normally indicate weakness because I intuitively know that I can be vulnerable next to this person which is extremally rare situation. I wish I could meet ENFP's more often ;-;
I definitely smile and laugh randomly when people stare at me BSHSB, i love it when people giggle back its so comforting!!
Enfp here and i couldn't stay focused on the video but i listened while reading the cute comments.
26:34, the intj death stare. when you witness this, the intj is no longer there with you. their conscience is somewhere else planning, calculating the future based on the trends of past experiences. don't fret they will return after a short while. some say the intj appears aloof. and everybody knows that 'aloof' when spelled backwards is 'plotting'
AAAHHHHH
I’m an INTJ; I’m still not sure what happened, however, I would like to know if this is what love feels like? I can’t tell but I could not turn this video off. I think more research should be done.
M O That was like the most INTJ comment I’ve ever seen.
This is so me 😂
@@voidepiphany That double negative is bothering me
Edit: Field research exists
I am INTJ male who just randomly found this video. I love the way you communicate like soft voice, acting while talking and not try to become someone else make me feel "Oh. This girl is strangely cute and interesting".
I guess your ENFP character attracts me as the theory said. If you have no boyfriend, a lot of INTJ males like me will open up to you for sure :)
"I guess they have the biggest hearts"... 🥺 That's because we don't use it very much
😂
I would have to disagree, it’s because we use it so much on ourselves, our goals, our accomplishments because there are two things that are engraved in every INTJ... is that we can survive anything as long as we have our brain and that our goals and purpose would never abandon is like people would or change their feelings in matter of hours... our love for ourselves is sometimes greater, that we can’t possibly fathom anyone loving us like we can
@@mcdick3637 I'm sorry, but you are mixing a chemical reaction with emotional strength and intellectual determination.
@@ClaudioAguileraMunoz hmmm how so? Legit interested because to me it sounded like OP was talking about love. When you said “ it’s because we don’t use it enough” if you weren’t talking about love then yeah I might have mixed up what I said but if you were referring to love then it still stands. But again I curious as to why you you think I have mixed up?
@Su Us or he's actual INTJ and is just not aware of his emotions yet
Intj female definitely love enfps they shoot us with rainbows and unicorns with sprinkles on top!
Shhh... Don't tell them we love the sprinkles.
It's a love/hate relationship. They love us with all their being (rainbows and unicorns) and we lovingly pretend to hate them to protect our introverted nature until we are sure about that particular ENFP.
@@13vatra And we see right through that so we insist on loving you :P!
You’re such a scatter brain. I love it 🥰
LONG LIVE LIBERTY 😕😒😞
Is it weird that I'm kind of like her when I'm talking about something I'm passionate about, but I'm Ni dom?
@@thatguybutitsactuallyagirl5384 same honestly.. once i get going.... mmm.. im gone.
Just happened to come across your video here Linda. I'm a happily married, much older INTJ and I want to say you have a great thing here with your channel. Your personality is infectious and you could really do something big here. I saw that you stopped posting 3 months ago. Don't give up. You have so few videos, but they are really tearing it up! Keep going. Jump right back in. You've got this!
This really taught me something about myself. Apart from your apparent beauty, if you are a typical ENFP then what would makes you attractive to an INTJ is your ability to clearly articulate what you like and what you feel, this removes the need to read signals and work out if she's interested or not. You're appreciation for the socially inarticulate traits of the INTJ is quite humorous.
INTJ woman here…
1. You’re adorable!
2. I get what you mean about the clothing. I can’t wear pastels tho, washes me out! If we find an item of clothing we like and feel good/comfortable in we will buy it in every colour/pattern available 😂
3. ENFPs are Labradors…and who doesn’t love a Labrador?
Aye inn tea jay hear, eye dew de egg zack same. thing
Yeah I liked her clothing descriptions
Where are all of you? There are supposed to be way more ENFPs than INTJs and yet I have never found a relationship with one. Yet if I ran into a girl like you I think I'd fall in love.
"Come here, efficiency!"
Okay I'm sold, that was, like, the sexiest thing I've ever heard.
- INTJ
You did not scare me away from ENFP's, as a matter of fact, I absolutely loved watching al the thoughts bounce around behind your eyes whenever you are trying to make a point. Absolutely adorable.
I'm an ENFP! You really word perfectly how I fell in love with first serious long term girlfriend. Your way with words and verbalizing what seem like my thoughts is incredible, I hope to see more content from you soon.
I'm an enfp happily married to an intj 😁💞💞
@Enrique G Because their emotions are taking over and they are really excited to be around you so they can't help it. I can be quite childlike at times as an ENFP, but I think I would be very nervous around someone I like and maybe seem a bit more childlike around that person! But honestly, the last time I liked someone I just avoided that person since I got so nervous haha
Where do i find enfps? 😂 i rarely go out as an intj lol
@@demitimmer4805 Tricky question, Enfps can be everywhere. Trying something new somewhere new. You generally have to leave the house though :p
I'm an infj happily married to an intj. They are magnificent human beings!
Hello I’m an enfp 😁
Absolutely, infectious, awesome energy. That was an experience watching this.
I have one friend who's an ENFP, and I love her personality so much.
Easily my favorite type
I'll find an ENFP one of these days...
Wish you luck.
Your ENFP will be desperately looking for you too :)
Oh it's been a year... hope you've found one by now
Great video, adorable person. When she tried to "dig" through the layers and said I wanna know everything about you I just got a little startled and distanced myself from the screen. I was like "woah easy there". That was kind of funny and engaging. Glad to have found the video, and it is nice to see that bubbly, and vivid people (who are not annoying) still exist. Kind of fascinating. You gave me hope.
I am always instantly attracted to people who initiate with me. When it comes to the first move, I am very shy and/or sizing you up as a potential partner. Someone who initiates conveys they are curious, open minded, likely less judgmental, and will take the brunt of the socializing. To me that is very attractive
I'm an ENFP, but you are like the quintessential ENFP. Lovely expressiveness!
The thing with her is that you don't have to analyze nothing about her no dots to connect what she is how she feels what is thinking it's all right there out in the open so you don't have to wonder if there is any hidden meaning to them
0:07 - every INTJ instantly becomes attracted
True.
She put a smile on my face :) - INTJ
Naw, not into chicks, I do want to be her bestie though lol
As an INTJ, I’m intrigued by ENFPs open expressiveness. I can’t at all relate so I can’t understand it in that sense, but I do understand that it lends itself to my being able to trust you, just that genuine openness and expressiveness, which is why this can be a great relationship for INTJs.
INTJ guy here, your video is so accurate and your energy is lovely. Just want to put it out there that some INTJs (because of their jobs or whatever) have learned to develop great social and emotional skills, but don't be deceived. After awhile our INTJness will show and we'll go back to having that "death stare" look. Also, because we can be skeptical of people's intention, we won't notice if you're flirting with us and just assume you're always that friendly. Keep hacking away at our hard exterior, we'll notice the recurring pattern and ask you about it.
Oh man! Where are/were these enfp women when we needed them!
All h(Ear)
I could look at you all day - INTJ
I am an INTJ frenchman and I could not resist telling you, Linda Pinda, that I LOVED your video to the core; maybe it is the best video among the hundreds I have binged all over the Internet concerning the MBTI
You obviously *LOVE* being around INTJs, to the point of willing to live with one of us - "till death do you apart" - from the bottom of your heart, and I think I feel the same for ENFP females now : I have to find an ENFP girlfriend as lively and emotionally vibrating and inspiring as you are! I hope every ENFP woman out there is like you. You were so breathtaking in your presentation, thank you for the awesome guidance!
This was so lovely to read! I hope you find your princess and keep making this world a better place, I sure hope that a divine INTJ knight can come and save me, but not from this world because it is, in my mind, incredibly beautiful and wonderful and full of possibilities!!
😭😭😭. جعلني كلامك اقفز enfp عربي
Wah! My heart fluttered! We ENFPs need to buy all the confetti cannons for when the moment arrives!
Fake INTJ's want to be INTJ's
Real INTJ's hate being INTJ's
Great video. You're very likable.
- an INTJ :)
Being an INTJ is a wonderful trait and a brilliant, powerful mind to have. Unfortunately, the society the world over is largely made for ESFJ/narcissits, and their enablers.
Agreed! 😀
Also... Please research 'narcissitic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissits'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)!
European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!
The are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim or damsel in distress, creating 'flying-monkeys', and paying others to attack (or at times kill) someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Elliott Till.
ISFP (and ESFP) are the most complicit, narcissitic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependants' (look up the definition).
SUMMARY:
Evil personality: ESFJ, ESTJ
[Secretly] Evil and narcissit-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP, ESFP.
☝️All of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict (and at other people's expense, truly evil).
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True. It's a curse in a way.
Not really. Just the weaknesses of being an INTJ but you can’t have it all - anyways life is boring otherwise.
I agree with your first sentence though.
You don’t seem to hate it, too TOO much though…
I kept smiling for the whole 30 minutes while listening to you, and i dont usually smile, like ever!
you are adorable, from an intj male
Your personality makes my heart melt. It’s as if women like you are the key to my vault that holds my deeper emotions.
Fellow ENFP girl here! I was amazed while watching your video since you essentially reminded me of a (slightly) physically different version of myself with all the hand movements and gestures. I thought I was the only one XD it makes me happy to know I'm not alone! Also I feel like you nailed everything about INTJs, I've fallen hard for one myself (and had a crush on another in the past) and everything you described about how they instantly click and "get" each other made total sense! Keep on doing your videos! You're a knowledgeable and awesome person
I agree with my fellow INTJ’s below. Even as an INTJ female, I found your video very adorable. I prefer white than black but other than that the clothing explanation was spot on. Lots of clean cut whites, neutral, black, and pop of favorite colors.
Black and white goes with any color especially with bright colors
As an INTJ woman, I find myself being comfortable as I watch your video. Kudos.
To your last point, nope, you're not crazy. Let's be friends - Signed, INTJ
I love that I am a fetish for ENFPs.
As a very conceited INTJ, this pleases me.
You're positively gushing! As if you just can't get over how much you like INTJ's. You have these moments where you pause as if you no longer have words to describe the attraction. It is 30 friggin minutes of adorableness. and, yes! I am an INTJ.
INFJ here!! Enfp/Intj legend couple = Elizabeth and Mr. Darcy.
I can understand anything you tell me , your energy it’s something we admire.
I watched this and was so amussed watching you struggle through this and it was amazing. Good job setting this trap for all us INTJs
I am an INTJ female and ENFPs still love me, including in platonic relationships. This describes our interactions pretty well.
So this is what love at first sight feels like... Honestly when I was listening to you speak, I really did not notice that the video is actually 30 minutes long, only when I was done watching the video - my eye caught that fact. I somehow know that it would be incredibly interesting and fun to talk to you and be around you.
I want to meet an ENFP now. I would greatly appreciate if you would make a video about how to spot ENFP's.
Minute 1: She should’ve written a script to avoid jumping between topics, derailing her thought process, and babbling about.
Minute 3: She seems genuinely excited about this. Is there a pattern or system to her chaotic speech?
Minute 5: I can understand why I might enjoy engaging with someone like her.
Minute 30: Ok. What just happened? I feel like she’s a friend. What in the world? I need to watch this again.
I just found this and I must say thank you lol. I have someone to look for now, the hunt to an ENFP. Also I hope you plan to make more content soon.
Dude... I always wondered *why* I felt attracted to this one guy who is *not* my usual type at *all* and I realized he’s an INTJ, which explains a lot, honestly.