@Andrew Colin looks like she has the energy to do something very impulsive, doesnt need to feel to understand risk before doing something, hence she's prone to get hurted by her strong positive energy and INFJ cant stand seeing people get hurt. An INFJ will scream inside their head seeing impulsive act because their overthinking and overanalyze situations.
Infj me trying to read her : I only see happiness, appreciation and a glimpse of frustration with not being able to convey her emotions but overall this human MUST BE PROTECTED.
We can't say this to just any other type. For our own safety and also because they won't receive it as well. Entps will accept it for a while until they get bored or frustrated. Infps will be happy that we wanted to be with them, but might secretly be upset later for being called weird. Enfps don't mind being called weird and they don't get bored or frustrated as easily with us
"INFJ's go through life feeling like they understand everyone, but feel like no one understands them"- literally the life of an INFJ! When you smiled and said, you understand us. You spoke directly to my soul!
As an ENFP, two things: First: this girl is pretty much the ABSOLUTE embodiment of ENFP, down to the way she talks and uses hand gestures- Second: Literally every word she's saying here is 100% accurate, to all the INFJs out there, you are loved-
Firmly agreed! Also... Please research 'narcissitic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissits'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)! European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!! The are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim or damsel in distress, creating 'flying-monkeys', and paying others to attack (or at times kill) someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Elliott Till. ISFP (and ESFP) are the most complicit, narcissitic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependants' (look up the definition). SUMMARY: Evil personality: ESFJ, ESTJ [Secretly] Evil and narcissit-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP, ESFP. ☝️All of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict (and at other people's expense, truly evil). Spread the word! Thank you. ___________ #Save_Soil
YES! I thought the same! I’m also an ENFP and the similarities on how I speak and how she does is uncanny! I literally was texting my friend, who is an INFJ, and asked her if it’s similar too and she said yeah😂😂😂 It’s honestly so interesting and idk I feel happy just watching this so thanks
This is fascinating. I'm an INFJ, straight female, and I find this girl absolutely mesmerising. She is literally 'bubbling' over with excitement, which normally would annoy me and cause me to retreat, but I can't stop watching her and smiling at this video. I can physically FEEL her enthusiasm and bubbliness as she speaks. I love the way all her excitement gathers at once in her throat and the way her hands/fingers try to sort it all out as she catches her breath. She has so much to convey in so little time :) Absolutely adorable. I really enjoyed this video :)
Same :) Was confused at first if i was an infj or an enfp since i feel that i carry em both inside. But after this video i realized its cause i can symbiotic feel the enfp with a smile of understanding
I was thinking the exact same thing. She crinkles her fingers inward while sorting her thoughts and her eyes strike the top of her eye lids before she lets loose with with her energetically charged love for our personality type. She makes me feel like a rockstar!!
It's a classic trait of the INFJ, we love to watch people who get into doing their thing. We could watch them all day. We so appreciate and understand others that they are fun to observe, and when you get the special relationship and communication like she talks about here, it's even better. I'm a straight guy, and I love watching Frank James talk about the types. I am amazed by people who can put this stuff into words.
As an INFJ I ABSLOUTLEY LOVE genuine people. Sadly I've never met someone in my life as genuine as you are, the way you speak, your tone, hand gestures and facial expressions, just scream genuine excitement and no doubts genuine emotions.
I think that is what all of us INFJs are reading - that she is coming through loud and clear as a genuine person and it is amazing because we literally are not expensing any energy which is what happens with most others. People drain us most of the time.
I love the fact that ENFP’s are the most introverted of Extroverts, while INFJ’s are the most Extroverted of the Introverts..it’s like we met one another half way 🥰
INFJ female. I laughed and giggled all the way through. Then cried my eyes out at the end. I'll explain: My life is so bad atm and you gave me 40 mins of sheer joy, then I came crashing back to reality- I am chronically ill, bed bound with no hope of a cure. I can cope with that but I don't have any friends to talk to or visit me, as I had to move to another country. So thank you for 40 mins of PURE SUNSHINE. You cheered me up.
@@melissabd9762 Thankyou for asking. In a word, no. Nothing has changed. Except I caught COVID. But at least it was mild. I'm saving up for a motorised wheelchair, a Service dog and an emotional support dog. Hopefully those will help me get out the house.
As an ENFP who is unbelievably fortunate enough to be married to an INFJ for the last 20 years, I can confirm all of this. We never get tired of each other. On the surface, we seem completely different, but we're also exactly the same. I've never been able to be my real self with anyone else.
Interesting. Btw, since you're [allegedly] an ENFP, you're input/opinion would be helpful: Would ENFP make a "safe" partner? Or is it true that they are prone to 'losing' passion within a relationship and will attempt to look for the next 'stimulus'? Are a generally long or short term lovers? If they are prone to short term that makes them a risk for INXJ. Also, are ENFP sexually promiscuous? Do they generally have an extensive [sensual/sexual] "romantic" record (more than 2+ ex boyfriends and girlfriends)? Thank you in advance.
@@Human_01 We don't grow up very fast. And we tend to make devastating mistakes. We don't think things through very well and we're so resilient and forgetful and hopeful that we can usually keep making these mistakes long after other people would have learned from them. But that's also in your favor. If you get a mateurish ENFP (which will be tough) We can take anything, and we'll stick with you through anything. My wife is chronically sick. We don't have sex and have had very little in our 21 years together, because her illness makes her exhausted and in constant pain. Of course you know, it's very important to men in general and ENFPs in particular. I've had opportunities to cheat on her, but I never have. I actually went looking to do so, just out of desperation, but I couldn't do it. And of course, all of the active things I would like to do are impossible to do together. On my part, I was irresponsible with work and couldn't/wouldn't support us financially. That was mostly where I failed, and I could hardly have hurt her more. It took me a long time to finally get into a career. I was all about her and the kids though. Devotion to family is everything. We have four kids and a grandson and we're very close. I'd say our weakest point parenting is that we're too permissive. With all that, If I had everything to do over again, I would choose her every time, even knowing everything I know now. Especially knowing everything I know now. I think we're generally too odd to be very promiscuous. It's not that we don't want to be, but as extroverted as we are, and as paradoxical as it seems, we don't have an easy way with people. Unless a woman is throwing herself at us, I don't think it's much of a thing . I was a virgin until I was 19, and that was only because she did all of the approaching. I was only with a few women before my wife and I met when I was 24. I think if you can find an ENFP who's doing well with work, you'll do really well. That seems trivial, but it's probably the best gauge of their maturity. I know that was tmi, but I wanted to give you a good answer. I hope this helps you some! 🙂
@@Human_01 hmm and I was thinking about it. As far as your question about long or short term. I never left anyone I dated. It never occurred to me to leave them. caveots- things may have changed enough with tinder, ect. and women just doing more of the approaching now, that you might have a hard time finding an ENFP without a long sexual history, just because we're impulsive. But I don't think that nesseccarily translates into being prone to cheat and it certainly doesn't translate into being prone to leave when we're bored. If you are an INFJ, no one compares to you. I never found one before meeting my wife. And as devoted as I was to the people I dated before, there was no comparison. We were drawn to each other from across the room and that has never gone away. She is my other self.
@@Human_01 An ENFPin her 30s here. I only had few partners in my life. I think I'm demi sexual, I never had a one night stand and don't ever want one. I look for deep connection. I was in an 8 years relationship and only left, because I was hurting for a long time and he lacks emotional empathy and generally understanding emotions. He has alexithymia. He's not a bad person,but he can't read his own or my emotions at all and is unable to mirror or reciprocate. And I just felt so lonely in that relationship that I developed a heavy depression and what is called "cassandra syndrom" over the years. It's not his fault! He is kind! It was just too much for me to not have anyone who would want to cuddle with me, let me play with his hair, never says he loves me or do anything romantic at all. He listens though, even if he doesn't understand and likes to do practical stuff. I tried to tell myself over and over again that I don't need hugs and all of this. But as an ENFP with already low self esteem the way we talk with ourselfs, when we're in our headspace, became darker over the years. I'm fine without it, he has so many good qualities slowly became frantically self soothing like: I don't need it, I can live without it, there are so many ways to love! And eventually slowly turned into hating on myself, because I had emotional needs and not having them met hurt. Like: you're stupid! You're greedy! Isn't it enough what he gives you? If you're like this, maybe you don't deserve to be loved! Who could love such a greedy little thing anyway. Be satisfied. Even writing this, I feel so bad I want to sleep on the ground again, because I feel I don't deserve a bed. Hello depression 😂 Anyway I couldn't do it anymore. After that because I was emotionall deprived I fell for a love bombing narcissist and he almost destroyed me. I got panic attacks on top of my severe depression and I think I got some ptsd from it too. Now I'm in my mid 30s never dated only have few experiences, don't know how to trust again and think I will never be good enough to be loveable enough that someone would honestly try to cuddle with me. I dream a lot someone would lie his head on my lap and allow me to play with his hair. That's my experiences. I'm in therapy for 2 month now, so I'm fine and taken care of ✌️ Sorry if this was hard to read. I think about editing it to make it softer 🤔 I think a lot of ENFPs have strong emotions and stay very long in situations/relationships that are not good for us. And we seem to attract people who have problems with empathy. But maybe this is only when we're young and it changes as we mature? I don't have many experiences. I try to work on myself now, on self-worth, possible co-depenency, learn to better deal with my emotions. Learn to not make my intuition shup up ect. I wont be of any use, if I'm sitting somewhere crying. I try to be good and better, so hopefully, when I meet someone again, I can trust again and have healed enough, so that he won't run away again, because I'm too much. I don't want to hurt anyone. I'm scared I might hurt someone emotionally if my mental health isn't good. Like being too moody. Using the wrong tone, saying the wrong things. I'm working on myself! 💪
@@danika9411 I realize my response is a year later, but 'alleged' INFJ here, you are precious (in a not creepy way). (Also, I'm a female, btw. The username was from a childhood joke :P) You deserve so much more than him. I feel for you and even though I've not met you, I know you're deserving of sleeping in a very comfortable bed. Good job for going to therapy - that's not easy work. Learning self love can be a very hard, ongoing process. I am constantly learning that too. Sometimes learning to be okay with being single at least for a while (not meaning you have to be single for your whole life) is important too. Perhaps you're seeing someone now and what I said isn't relevant. Either way, to me, you fall into the 'protect at all costs' category. Hope you are doing well in life now, single or not single.
Aww. I always thought ENFPs overwhelm INFJs. I am so self-conscious about that. I am always on the search for an INFJ boyfriend but apparently I cannot find any. But I have loads of INFJ female friends and my bestfriends are mostly INFJs
@@diranadhirahbaharin9813 if you can't find an INFJ, why not try out an INFP or INTP if you'll feel overwhelmed? It's close to an ENFP or ENTP (which is also said to be compatible with INFJ).
@@diranadhirahbaharin9813 I'm an INFJ, dated a beautiful non-stop talking extrovert of some type. Yes, I couldn't take it, just tuned her out. Everyone liked her, I felt lucky to be in her presence, but I just had to leave. Total overload.
Ok, so after only about 10mins, it’s definitely safe to say we INFJs think you’re attractive af. You honestly make me desperately want to find an ENFP to date ASAP.😬
I'm just alone in my room screaming "YES!" while jumping in my chair. It's so accurate she knows everything i got so much energy i want to explode! I need an ENFP in my life right now aaaaahh
As an ENFP, it's incredibly exhilarating to encounter another ENFP who has been captivated by the INFJ charm. Your eyes speak volumes, conveying that indescribable connection we share. The experience of being completely understood, speaking a shared language, and genuinely appreciated for our unique and vibrant ENFP energy is nothing short of enchanting and intoxicating.
I'm an INFJ male. Watching this video I've got this goofy grin on my face that I can't wipe off. You're so pure and radiant. That ENFP charm makes me feel so happy. You're totally right. There's something really profound about this INFJ/ENFP thing. I need to find more ENFPs.
NOBODY else gets our sense of humor and notices our quirkiness and need for spontaneity and adventure! ENFPs see us for who we are, they are a beautiful haven that soothes our souls : )
I'm an INFJ. This probably is the sweetest love letter received. I love deep conversation. She's at the extreme end of the energy spectrum(in a good way of course), yet so calming. Loved this video so much!
When she said " I have so much love for my INFJ friends " my heart melted why can't I find these types of people ❤😥. Bro I want more of this i felt so good watching this it's almost scary.
Sean Brown there is a bit of this left in us, that we protect so fiercely, because we treasure it so dearly. She embodies the innocence of a child. We miss our innocence. We know too damn much....all the empathing and shit..
@@rosyjh6348 right. I need some more adventure in my life. As I was reading more about ENFP'S, I noticed that they are a lot like my childhood self. I thought and acted just like them. And yes, I agree with the comment that I miss that because I do :( and we work so well together as a team. 😭😭😭 I need more ENFP'S in my life!!
And girl. But it’s so much sweeter than this…we want to hide in the bushes looking for enfp predators; silently dispatch them, and keep her safe from harm, without her ever knowing it happened.
The spontaneity example is COMPLETELY accurate. I’m an INFJ and I was romantically involved with an ENFP. I always crave spontaneity in my life and I just can’t. But the ENFPs can give me that and it’s amazing. And she said I gave her a groundedness that helped her with her randomness. Perfect balance
You are officially the most adorable human being I have ever seen, i hope an enfp i meet has half the unique charm you do :) thank you so much for this video
As an infj, who just spent 3 hours of alone time trying to understand myself, I can tell you that this video is pure gold. I could keep listening forever.
I clicked out of curiosity, and then, became oddly enthralled. Please don't take this the wrong way, but you are absolutely adorable, yet in a beautifully high-minded sense. Like a divergent ball of energy. I'm terrified of heights, and plan to one day skydive in order to overcome it. Your type is the type of person I can see myself jumping with. That is the best way to describe it. Your video expanded my perception, thank you! I wish you well along your journey.
How do you explain magic? Your randomness is delightful. Your insight is exquisite. Your boldness is infectious. Your depth is unexpected. Your poetry in action is mesmerizing. Your invitation to play is enticing. Your humor is wicked, your tears, melting. Treasured soulmate, partner in crime. The only time I felt loved was by my ENFP. Poetry + music + spontaneity + humor + chemistry + ancient wisdom = combustion! -- Love Letter from an INFJ to an ENFP PS: Thank y'all for giving me permission to be ME. :-)
I don`t know why or how but I think I just fell in love with you in 40 mins. As an INFJ, I just wanna say thank you for being so lovely and talking so sweetly about people with the same personality type as mine. My heart made a flip every time you got excited, you`re absolutely adorable and it`s so endearing to see someone so excited and talking so passionately.
@@destree6348 They feel like instant best friends in a world of people I keep at arms length because I can't trust their motives. It's a welcomed break from the normal.
As an INFJ male, the attraction to this type of energy from an ENFP is immediate. I see others saying the same and clarifying they don’t mean it in a creepy way, and neither do i. Just funny because saying “not creepy” is such a male INFJ thing to say lol I will say, I have had a deep emotional connection to a female ENFP before and it’s electrifying. Not in a sexual or even relationship type of way, just an amazing, understanding and thoughtful relationship that I’ve rarely found with anyone else. That person has Since moved on and is no longer a prominent character in my life, and I often find myself reflecting on those times and wonder if I let my “soulmate” just walk out of my life. I am currently in a relationship with female ISTP and it is great, but there is a definitely a misunderstanding of how the INFJ brain works. She will never understand and “get me” quite like my ENFP friend once did.
The misunderstanding is so odd to me, since INFJ & ISTP use the same 4 cognitive functions the most! But, as we grow our Se, so can they grow Fe and therefore we become less overwhelmed with their suddenness as they gain empathy. But true that friendship is easier with ENFP. We can learn a lot from any type, but it's good to take a break sometimes too.
I found my INFJ friend in college before, just second hearing him talk already attracted to him. Like curious and want to be his friend and know him better, he have this mysterious aura and vibe around him. I told my other girl classmates express that im attracted to him i want to know him better, its a bad move. Because they started squealing and saying im in love. 😑 I wanted to know him as a whole person not because im in love of things like that.. But they couldn't understand that. When i started to talk to him about work assignment in class everyone else in the class start wooing and cheering for us. And i know that its making him embarrass and nervous, so i make it a quick conversation and leave him. Im embarrass of my other classmates smh i just wanna have a decent deep conversation but this monke 😂 around me is making it hard for me. Don't get me wrong i like everyone but cmon guys cut me some slacks. But i did have a good conversation with him in cafeteria one time, just us. He told me his anger issues, his childhood problem with his abusive dad.. I see him, I hear him and I felt him in every sense of his word.. And I can relate dad sucks speaking from own experience I tried to kill mine when im 7yr old 😂 ANYWAYS we're cool
I wonder if we are cursed with only two choices: being understood but open to chaos, or not being fully understood but in the safety of predictability. What would you choose?
A 39 minute adorable honesty explosion. Some people can be tricky to read and are thus exhausting. She is like a billboard with lights, glitter and fireworks. ENFP, "I want to tell you that I adore you and I feel...um...I feel like we really understand each other. And I love that I can be my crazy weird self and you can be your crazy weird self and we just enjoy the moment. I just want to tell you how I feel." INTJ, "I can tell."
You can be 100% sure you aren't an INFJ if you didn't watched this video until the end... Thanks for making this video. That was exactly what I needed - not only after this awful day, but for my life... thank you so, so much ❤
Agreed! I felt the same. I hope she's doing well IRL, and stays clear of narcissits (and other ill-personality types that pretend to be INFJ). What's more, genuine INFJ can be mistaken for INTJ. To reiterate: externally INFJ come across as INTJ, internally, they are a hybrid between INFP + INTJ. This is why they are less [perfect] robot and a little more human (INTJ are obviously human, but you know what I mean; they're a lovely bunch who's brilliance intimidates and is superhuman, most ppl can't relate, nor stand that). Also... Please research 'narcissitic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissits'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)! European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!! The are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim or damsel in distress, creating 'flying-monkeys', and paying others to attack (or at times kill) someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Elliott Till. ISFP (and ESFP) are the most complicit, narcissitic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependants' (look up the definition). SUMMARY: Evil personality: ESFJ, ESTJ [Secretly] Evil and narcissit-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP, ESFP. ☝️All of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict (and at other people's expense, truly evil). Spread the word! Thank you. ___________ #Save_Soil
@@Human_01 I'm actually one of those INFJ+INTJ mixes : ) But I think it's kind of bad to call some personality types the evil, and I don't agree that every European ESFJ is bad... as I live in Europe, I know many European ESFJs and many of them are really kind, openminded and have a good heart. It might be that many "bad" people are ESFJ and come from Europe, but I think it's wrong to call them all evil and say they all are manipulative etc. There is no MBTI type were everyone is a bad person...
When she said she reached out to the infj friend I was like: yeah someone just sending you a message like: hey why didn't we ever talk! That's the infj dream omg
@Dominic Tétrault yes, in a way it is exactly that, that is the problem. You reach out to someone in a meaningful gesture, but nobody seems to understand it as such. That is also precisely the reason that it seems wonderful to have someone do that to me
I can literally FEEL her energy flowing through my veins, and i was just literally kicking in the air and silent screaming "yes.. yES, YESSSS!!!!" if i ever have a soulmate THIS is what it's supposed to feel like!!! Like being partners in crimes!!! being able to share THAT one hidden crazy braincell within me that i never let anyone see that easily! when you were talking abt meeting a stranger in the middle of the night, I was like "THIS IS INSANE!! this is EXACTLY something I would do, but nobody actually expects ME to be the one to do it because they think of me as this very highly calm and composed and rational type of person... nobody imagines that i would do smth like, acting on mere impluse just bcz I FELT LIKE IT.. i never had an ENFP friend and now i regret it so much like never before...... I was smiling like a freaking 100000watt light bulb while staring at the screen all the time you were talking... I wish we were in the same country... i wish we were friends.. LOVE YOU Ms. ENFP!!!!!
Me, a female INFJ's immediate thought as I played the video was "If I was a guy I would marry her!" 😂😂 You're so adorable and sweet, I really enjoyed this video so thank you for recording it, also my eyes watered when you said "when someone loves you for the reasons society makes you feel like a weirdo for, I feel like that's the definition of love" I could feel how much you feel it and mean it, and I also relate to that, wish all happiness in the world❤️️
"ENFPs speak how INFJs think" absolutely! I was finishing your sentences as you spoke. Amazing. I get so frustrated when talking to people because it's like they don't understand anything I'm talking about when I start talking any deeper than surface level. Thank you for this video. It's good to know there are in fact people out there who understand us 🙏
I was with a ENFP and she was probably one of the most understanding person I’ve ever met. She was someone that actually listened to what I had to say and there was so much depth in the conversations we had and actually understood each other on a deeper level. I truly value ENFPs such beautiful souls and you can sense it every time they walk into a room
I think I had an ENFP professor in college. His discussions on literature were the best. I remember overhearing other students complaining but I loved his “lectures.” He would come into class with a pile of dog eared notes, pick one up, mumble a bit and then just launch into it.
As an INFJ empath, I've met very few people with whom I have an instant connection. Most people around me, I feel like it's work to maintain conversation. But I feel like I could listen to this girl, without any work, for days. Don't be self conscious about being scatter brained. We love it.
Every time you show your genuine emotion, it is such a treat for the INFJ, getting a chance to see the true you. I'm betting it's your authentic joyfulness that has allowed you to get so many subscribers and views so quickly. This video was truly a blessing. Thank you for sharing this. Now, please forgive me as I step away, and hope my heart will cease its overwhelming powerful beating.
hahaaaaa I feel you, don't worry guys, there is not a lot of smart chicks in this world but trust me, when you meet one you feel like it was worth waiting
Any other woman talks this much, I would have gnawed my wrists off by now…but this gal has tuned into a frequency in me that kept me spellbound with a smirk on my face!! How delightful!
As an INFJ male watching this, I can say that I've watched it with the same smirk on my face the entire video. You're fascinating to watch an listen to which makes it immediately adorable. An all of your mannerisms are something I completely understand. It's wild, I've not experienced this before.
This video makes me legitimately sad not to have a close ENFP friend. I want one sooooo bad. I feel like I could talk with you for hours and understand a whole new side to the world. Also, your positivity is infectious. I was smiling nearly immediately. *UPDATE* I found one :)
Yes! I'm also so happy for you! I'll go find an Infj friend hopefully soon too 😊🎉💕 You guys seem so nice with an awesome mind! Can't wait to talk with one 😍 ( Enfp here )
I'm an INFJ and watching you makes me feel at home in some weird way. While watching you, I didn't feel like I needed to know anything about you personally to know that we would get along well. It's a crazy experience for me, seeing this and then having these feelings without knowing more about you. As I said, yea, I feel at home. :)
Linda, It’s quite intriguing how your nostrils flare right before you’re about to explain a moment/idea that excites you immensely. And how you look to the your lower-left when finding descriptions of emotional feeling. And how you fight to stop from scratching your chest, when catching a small self-conscious anxiety fit. Please excuse my thorough observations. I just can see how challenging this video was for you, trying to stay on topic and give true admiration for INFJ’s and how well they work with ENFP’s.
As an INFJ I love this... so much. It's like watching fireworks expess itself so chaotically and beautiful. I could have a conversation with ENFPs for hours, they actually increase my heart rate. Mutually.
I found her cuteness is overload, omg... look how she tried to explained properly yet her brain and lips adorably not in sync 😂 Oh dear, Thank you for understanding us so deep. Please keep that lovely smile and positive energy ♥️ I know now why ENFP is easy to understand haha 😊
seeing the comment section saying she needs to be protected.. SHE REALLY NEED THE PROTECTION, SUCH A GENUINE AND SWEET PERSON. infj here and thanks for making this video even tho it was made 2 years ago :) p.s. the way she speaks with so much passion, I could feel it though the screen! i'm more accepting of being a weirdo now compared to the past and I felt so much better after accepting me for who I am tbh. Deep down felt so glad to have a fellow enfp understanding infjs so much.
I'm an INFJ myself and the "flow state" just happened while watching you talk, I was like mesmerised by how expressive you are. It's like you said, I don't have to stop and try figuring out what is going through your mind. ^^
2 minutes in and I'm madly in love with this girl! 3 and a half mintues in... I FREAKING LOVE YOU!!! 7:28 *explodes* 27:15 (the banter part) I literally jumped out of my chair and danced, shouting " WHAT IS THIS!? I NEED YOU IN MY LIFE!"- INFJ
I,m an older infj . Never in all my years have I seen such a vibrant lady in real life or on You Tube. I looooved seeing her talk with her lips and her eyes and her hands with perfect harmony. Also her lovely calm/excited voice tones. I continuously smiled watching her and listening to her. So wish I had internet when I was younger. But never too late to find love again. Will study ENFPs personality types thoroughly. Then find one for sure.
I felt such a connection within the first 20 seconds. You absolutely captivated me. Your energy and enthusiasm is enviable to a frequently drained INFJ like me. You spoke to my soul with every sentence and described me so well! I felt the immediate urge to protect you, I can tell that you are and easily excitable and sometimes impulsive person, which might sometimes get you into a bit of trouble, but you have so much fun with your life. I know now that I have to find myself an ENFP!
INFJ male here. Think I just fell in love with you, hahaha. Your energy is ridicilous and everything I am searching for in a partner. Thanks for making this video. Hope I'll find my own ENFP one day.
Hi yes, another INFJ here... i just wanted to say, Linda, don't ever lose the spark in your eye. This world needs more people like you, seeing you in this video made me realize what it's like to see true beauty. As evident by basically the entirety of this comment section, but it bears repeating; You are amazing!! Thank you for making this video!
(INFJ) This video was one of the most entertaining MBTI videos I've watched so far! Listening to your rambling is so fun, I understand exactly what you mean and it was very easy to follow through at least for me. Don't feel like you're annoying or talking too much around INFJs, we can get sooo talkative aswell around people like you because you bring sparks in conversations, it's always so easy to talk with ENFPs, I felt like we had a whole conversation together in this video haha
Colour me stunned. I am a 31 year old INFJ that stumbled on your channel by accident, but boy, that was the greatest "accident" I've ever had. Your energy and inability to even talk normally is such a charm that I am not sure many others (apart from INFJs) will fully understand. You literally had me crying from joy throughout most parts of the video. I would be ashamed of that fact in front of most, but here I feel as if this would be okay to share. You are such a gem and I sincerely hope you find someone to value you for what you are.
when she said it is intoxicating i felt it kjsdhf why does listening to her feels like i'm inhaling sugar and pixie dust xDD as a member of the INFJ's, we protect her.
I felt like I could listen for hours. You aren't crazy, just fast on your feet :) I really felt the love, so back at ya. I think I will start looking out for ENFPs .
You have the hope or dream or eagerness we don't have and that's why we envy you guys (ENFP) but in a good way. Thanks for the letter. it was beautiful. I felt like a stone giant listening to a fairy. Regards from an INFJ.
You are a body language enthusiast's dream. Someone skilled in Reading body language picks up on two things (at least) Genuine- you actually believe the things you say. Nothing makes me distrust people more than someone trying to convince themselves by convincing me. Innocence- there's no trick or illusion to what you're saying. Far removed from narcissism. Other types May see you as annoying or drawn out or scatterbrained but me as an infj I can't wait for you to say another word, say more words, say all your words. It's the perfect storm of one trying to express and one dying to listen. Believe me when I say that INFJs look for any sign in body language that is suspicious and especially in the one place you can never hide it, your eyes. I had almost given up that people could actually still be this way. I needed to see this video
I’m an INFJ (I think) and I usually get annoyed and/or irritated with this bubbly and talkative personality, but I felt very understood and the bubbly personality was contagious. Thank you.
Me, an infj: *five seconds into video* ...SHE MUST BE PROTECTED.
Haha! Spot on.
Dude same
@Andrew Colin looks like she has the energy to do something very impulsive, doesnt need to feel to understand risk before doing something, hence she's prone to get hurted by her strong positive energy and INFJ cant stand seeing people get hurt. An INFJ will scream inside their head seeing impulsive act because their overthinking and overanalyze situations.
LOL, right!
Dude!!! Right?!
Infj me trying to read her :
I only see happiness, appreciation and a glimpse of frustration with not being able to convey her emotions but overall this human MUST BE PROTECTED.
I just have got a mindfuck...👍🏾😊
I love her intensity😍😍i would receive this with wide large warm arm. I would just give her a Huge hug. I just Hope she is strong enough
Yes
Yes
✨Yes✨
“Let’s be weird together!” - This is my new INFJ battle cry.
Me four😭
This is legitimately why my ENFP friend and I are so close 😂
We can't say this to just any other type. For our own safety and also because they won't receive it as well. Entps will accept it for a while until they get bored or frustrated. Infps will be happy that we wanted to be with them, but might secretly be upset later for being called weird. Enfps don't mind being called weird and they don't get bored or frustrated as easily with us
As Uncle Grampa said U.U
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌
them : *there's no such thing as pure sunshine and rainbows as a person*
this video : *exists*
BAEEEEK😍
@@arththth8189 Wow, EXO-L?? 😍
"INFJ's go through life feeling like they understand everyone, but feel like no one understands them"- literally the life of an INFJ! When you smiled and said, you understand us. You spoke directly to my soul!
Thought no one would ever understand... feels great
Justin Napod. Infj here. Why do we never meet ENFP or INFP s. They are my faves.
Infj I’m told I have no filter either. I try to work on it.
Justin Napod. Yes no one understands us but we know others more than they know themselves. That’s why go GHOST a lot. And it’s final.
agree so much!!
“INFJs are true chameleons, but deep down...they’re super weird!” 🤣🤣🤣 Please give me back my soul when you’re done reading it. 30:33
HAHAHA I just commented this tooo!! XD
Never saw myself as a cameleon but now that she mentions it :v
Whereas infps are super weird on the outside, but saner than most on the inside. The stranger is a novel that captures this feeling perfectly.
Mark Casaje 🤣
@@TheTheode yes, yes and yes!!! NICE!!
As an ENFP, two things:
First: this girl is pretty much the ABSOLUTE embodiment of ENFP, down to the way she talks and uses hand gestures-
Second: Literally every word she's saying here is 100% accurate, to all the INFJs out there, you are loved-
Firmly agreed!
Also... Please research 'narcissitic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissits'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)!
European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!
The are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim or damsel in distress, creating 'flying-monkeys', and paying others to attack (or at times kill) someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Elliott Till.
ISFP (and ESFP) are the most complicit, narcissitic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependants' (look up the definition).
SUMMARY:
Evil personality: ESFJ, ESTJ
[Secretly] Evil and narcissit-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP, ESFP.
☝️All of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict (and at other people's expense, truly evil).
Spread the word! Thank you.
___________
#Save_Soil
YES!
I thought the same!
I’m also an ENFP and the similarities on how I speak and how she does is uncanny! I literally was texting my friend, who is an INFJ, and asked her if it’s similar too and she said yeah😂😂😂
It’s honestly so interesting and idk I feel happy just watching this so thanks
INFJ here. I get it! I'm just gonna go ahead and soak in all the positive vibes, don't mind me lol Love the pointing!! haha
Thank you, this is what I wanted to hear for a long time, but no one ever spoke out loud in my life. ❤
I know this sounds weird, but reading her is almost like looking at a Christmas tree, as a little kid.
i get that, rapid happy signals lol
She's a bright and vibrant individual. I get that ☺️
YES
Actress
@@jamaalharmon6305 what do you mean?
I was like "I'll check out a couple minutes of this"
40 minutes later...
"I love her"
Gabriel Knight same love her energy and voice 💯❤️
Lol, I feel you there :D
Exactly. Exactly.lol
Totally 😭😭💟💟💟
I watched it in 20 minutes. 2x speed
This is fascinating. I'm an INFJ, straight female, and I find this girl absolutely mesmerising. She is literally 'bubbling' over with excitement, which normally would annoy me and cause me to retreat, but I can't stop watching her and smiling at this video. I can physically FEEL her enthusiasm and bubbliness as she speaks. I love the way all her excitement gathers at once in her throat and the way her hands/fingers try to sort it all out as she catches her breath. She has so much to convey in so little time :) Absolutely adorable. I really enjoyed this video :)
But a relationship with one would wear me out, I think.
Same :) Was confused at first if i was an infj or an enfp since i feel that i carry em both inside. But after this video i realized its cause i can symbiotic feel the enfp with a smile of understanding
I was thinking the exact same thing. She crinkles her fingers inward while sorting her thoughts and her eyes strike the top of her eye lids before she lets loose with with her energetically charged love for our personality type. She makes me feel like a rockstar!!
Same!! It's amazing
It's a classic trait of the INFJ, we love to watch people who get into doing their thing. We could watch them all day. We so appreciate and understand others that they are fun to observe, and when you get the special relationship and communication like she talks about here, it's even better. I'm a straight guy, and I love watching Frank James talk about the types. I am amazed by people who can put this stuff into words.
As an INFJ I ABSLOUTLEY LOVE genuine people.
Sadly I've never met someone in my life as genuine as you are, the way you speak, your tone, hand gestures and facial expressions, just scream genuine excitement and no doubts genuine emotions.
I think that is what all of us INFJs are reading - that she is coming through loud and clear as a genuine person and it is amazing because we literally are not expensing any energy which is what happens with most others. People drain us most of the time.
This 💯! 😄
seriously? you think someone is genuine by watching a 38 minutes video of them? All the best in life.
@@LucianC137 yes
@@annam8983 exactly!
I love the fact that ENFP’s are the most introverted of Extroverts, while INFJ’s are the most Extroverted of the Introverts..it’s like we met one another half way 🥰
INFJ female.
I laughed and giggled all the way through.
Then cried my eyes out at the end. I'll explain:
My life is so bad atm and you gave me 40 mins of sheer joy, then I came crashing back to reality- I am chronically ill, bed bound with no hope of a cure. I can cope with that but I don't have any friends to talk to or visit me, as I had to move to another country.
So thank you for 40 mins of PURE SUNSHINE. You cheered me up.
🤍🤍🤍
You want to talk?
😭💕💕 can I give you a hug? Or just some love and support, whatever you need right now
🥺I know it's been a while now but are you fine? 🥺
@@melissabd9762 Thankyou for asking.
In a word, no. Nothing has changed. Except I caught COVID. But at least it was mild.
I'm saving up for a motorised wheelchair, a Service dog and an emotional support dog. Hopefully those will help me get out the house.
This video makes me wanna find a ENFP and MARRY THEM
YES 😄
Same
Marry them so hard!
@@shawndarudeone LMAO! Co-signed!
Im wondering from all the comments if I'm the only enfp watching this video
Me, an INFJ: I don't know why UA-cam recommended me this video but... **Sheds a single tear** I needed this.
As an ENFP who is unbelievably fortunate enough to be married to an INFJ for the last 20 years, I can confirm all of this. We never get tired of each other. On the surface, we seem completely different, but we're also exactly the same. I've never been able to be my real self with anyone else.
Interesting. Btw, since you're [allegedly] an ENFP, you're input/opinion would be helpful:
Would ENFP make a "safe" partner? Or is it true that they are prone to 'losing' passion within a relationship and will attempt to look for the next 'stimulus'? Are a generally long or short term lovers? If they are prone to short term that makes them a risk for INXJ.
Also, are ENFP sexually promiscuous? Do they generally have an extensive [sensual/sexual] "romantic" record (more than 2+ ex boyfriends and girlfriends)?
Thank you in advance.
@@Human_01 We don't grow up very fast. And we tend to make devastating mistakes. We don't think things through very well and we're so resilient and forgetful and hopeful that we can usually keep making these mistakes long after other people would have learned from them. But that's also in your favor. If you get a mateurish ENFP (which will be tough) We can take anything, and we'll stick with you through anything. My wife is chronically sick. We don't have sex and have had very little in our 21 years together, because her illness makes her exhausted and in constant pain. Of course you know, it's very important to men in general and ENFPs in particular. I've had opportunities to cheat on her, but I never have. I actually went looking to do so, just out of desperation, but I couldn't do it. And of course, all of the active things I would like to do are impossible to do together. On my part, I was irresponsible with work and couldn't/wouldn't support us financially. That was mostly where I failed, and I could hardly have hurt her more. It took me a long time to finally get into a career. I was all about her and the kids though. Devotion to family is everything. We have four kids and a grandson and we're very close. I'd say our weakest point parenting is that we're too permissive. With all that, If I had everything to do over again, I would choose her every time, even knowing everything I know now. Especially knowing everything I know now. I think we're generally too odd to be very promiscuous. It's not that we don't want to be, but as extroverted as we are, and as paradoxical as it seems, we don't have an easy way with people. Unless a woman is throwing herself at us, I don't think it's much of a thing . I was a virgin until I was 19, and that was only because she did all of the approaching. I was only with a few women before my wife and I met when I was 24. I think if you can find an ENFP who's doing well with work, you'll do really well. That seems trivial, but it's probably the best gauge of their maturity.
I know that was tmi, but I wanted to give you a good answer.
I hope this helps you some!
🙂
@@Human_01 hmm and I was thinking about it. As far as your question about long or short term. I never left anyone I dated. It never occurred to me to leave them. caveots- things may have changed enough with tinder, ect. and women just doing more of the approaching now, that you might have a hard time finding an ENFP without a long sexual history, just because we're impulsive. But I don't think that nesseccarily translates into being prone to cheat and it certainly doesn't translate into being prone to leave when we're bored. If you are an INFJ, no one compares to you. I never found one before meeting my wife. And as devoted as I was to the people I dated before, there was no comparison. We were drawn to each other from across the room and that has never gone away. She is my other self.
@@Human_01 An ENFPin her 30s here. I only had few partners in my life. I think I'm demi sexual, I never had a one night stand and don't ever want one. I look for deep connection. I was in an 8 years relationship and only left, because I was hurting for a long time and he lacks emotional empathy and generally understanding emotions. He has alexithymia. He's not a bad person,but he can't read his own or my emotions at all and is unable to mirror or reciprocate. And I just felt so lonely in that relationship that I developed a heavy depression and what is called "cassandra syndrom" over the years.
It's not his fault! He is kind! It was just too much for me to not have anyone who would want to cuddle with me, let me play with his hair, never says he loves me or do anything romantic at all. He listens though, even if he doesn't understand and likes to do practical stuff. I tried to tell myself over and over again that I don't need hugs and all of this. But as an ENFP with already low self esteem the way we talk with ourselfs, when we're in our headspace, became darker over the years. I'm fine without it, he has so many good qualities slowly became frantically self soothing like: I don't need it, I can live without it, there are so many ways to love! And eventually slowly turned into hating on myself, because I had emotional needs and not having them met hurt. Like: you're stupid! You're greedy! Isn't it enough what he gives you? If you're like this, maybe you don't deserve to be loved! Who could love such a greedy little thing anyway. Be satisfied. Even writing this, I feel so bad I want to sleep on the ground again, because I feel I don't deserve a bed. Hello depression 😂
Anyway I couldn't do it anymore.
After that because I was emotionall deprived I fell for a love bombing narcissist and he almost destroyed me. I got panic attacks on top of my severe depression and I think I got some ptsd from it too.
Now I'm in my mid 30s never dated only have few experiences, don't know how to trust again and think I will never be good enough to be loveable enough that someone would honestly try to cuddle with me. I dream a lot someone would lie his head on my lap and allow me to play with his hair.
That's my experiences. I'm in therapy for 2 month now, so I'm fine and taken care of ✌️ Sorry if this was hard to read. I think about editing it to make it softer 🤔
I think a lot of ENFPs have strong emotions and stay very long in situations/relationships that are not good for us. And we seem to attract people who have problems with empathy. But maybe this is only when we're young and it changes as we mature? I don't have many experiences. I try to work on myself now, on self-worth, possible co-depenency, learn to better deal with my emotions. Learn to not make my intuition shup up ect. I wont be of any use, if I'm sitting somewhere crying. I try to be good and better, so hopefully, when I meet someone again, I can trust again and have healed enough, so that he won't run away again, because I'm too much. I don't want to hurt anyone. I'm scared I might hurt someone emotionally if my mental health isn't good. Like being too moody. Using the wrong tone, saying the wrong things. I'm working on myself! 💪
@@danika9411 I realize my response is a year later, but 'alleged' INFJ here, you are precious (in a not creepy way). (Also, I'm a female, btw. The username was from a childhood joke :P)
You deserve so much more than him. I feel for you and even though I've not met you, I know you're deserving of sleeping in a very comfortable bed. Good job for going to therapy - that's not easy work. Learning self love can be a very hard, ongoing process. I am constantly learning that too. Sometimes learning to be okay with being single at least for a while (not meaning you have to be single for your whole life) is important too. Perhaps you're seeing someone now and what I said isn't relevant. Either way, to me, you fall into the 'protect at all costs' category. Hope you are doing well in life now, single or not single.
"Even though we share none of the same functions, we share the same language"
goosebumps
It's the language of acceptance
Before this video: I'm happily single
After this video: I must have an ENFP in my life!
Aww. I always thought ENFPs overwhelm INFJs. I am so self-conscious about that. I am always on the search for an INFJ boyfriend but apparently I cannot find any. But I have loads of INFJ female friends and my bestfriends are mostly INFJs
@@diranadhirahbaharin9813 I can't speak from much personal experience but when I watch videos of ENFP's I'm always filled with happiness.
😂i was too😂
@@diranadhirahbaharin9813 if you can't find an INFJ, why not try out an INFP or INTP if you'll feel overwhelmed? It's close to an ENFP or ENTP (which is also said to be compatible with INFJ).
@@diranadhirahbaharin9813 I'm an INFJ, dated a beautiful non-stop talking extrovert of some type. Yes, I couldn't take it, just tuned her out. Everyone liked her, I felt lucky to be in her presence, but I just had to leave. Total overload.
She has this sparkle in her eye. I just love it
As an INFJ, I've never connected with a video more than this one. WOW
Same here.
Ok, so after only about 10mins, it’s definitely safe to say we INFJs think you’re attractive af. You honestly make me desperately want to find an ENFP to date ASAP.😬
I’m glad I’m not the only one
Same here. Like wow. All that energy would normally turn an INFJ like me off of her. But I think I need to go find an ENFP now lmao
my bf is INFJ i am ENFP. holy shit it’s fucking great get yourself ONE!!!
Do you like enfp or entp more
@@emeryexe man i hope i find one
My soul ascended in the first 2 minutes, I know I'm a 100% INFJ now
Very very true. ENFPs really bond with us on a deeper level. It's sometimes surreal. Welcome Home INFJ 💖
Dude... MY soul ascended halfway through and I'm an INTP and not even certain I HAVE a soul.
Now, excuse me... Existential crisis mode activated.
Careful they are twin flame. They can destroy eachother.
I'm just alone in my room screaming "YES!" while jumping in my chair. It's so accurate she knows everything i got so much energy i want to explode! I need an ENFP in my life right now aaaaahh
ENFP here
As an ENFP, it's incredibly exhilarating to encounter another ENFP who has been captivated by the INFJ charm. Your eyes speak volumes, conveying that indescribable connection we share. The experience of being completely understood, speaking a shared language, and genuinely appreciated for our unique and vibrant ENFP energy is nothing short of enchanting and intoxicating.
the most genuine video on youtube award goes to Linda Pinda
What the actual heck are you doing here?
I'm an INFJ male. Watching this video I've got this goofy grin on my face that I can't wipe off. You're so pure and radiant. That ENFP charm makes me feel so happy.
You're totally right. There's something really profound about this INFJ/ENFP thing.
I need to find more ENFPs.
me right now... smiling so hard with tears in my eye
Same
Here is some enfp love❤️❤️❤️👍
İ feel same thing its so pure
Ugh why can’t I find one! Seriously ENFP is for sure my soulmate.
NOBODY else gets our sense of humor and notices our quirkiness and need for spontaneity and adventure! ENFPs see us for who we are, they are a beautiful haven that soothes our souls : )
I've noticed sometimes ENTPs get our humour and for that to happen ofcourse the ENTP should know atleast a few things about you :)
I'm an INFJ. This probably is the sweetest love letter received.
I love deep conversation. She's at the extreme end of the energy spectrum(in a good way of course), yet so calming. Loved this video so much!
When she said " I have so much love for my INFJ friends " my heart melted why can't I find these types of people ❤😥. Bro I want more of this i felt so good watching this it's almost scary.
We exist 😁 lol
I want it too 😢 the understanding n the adventures.
Sean Brown there is a bit of this left in us, that we protect so fiercely, because we treasure it so dearly. She embodies the innocence of a child. We miss our innocence. We know too damn much....all the empathing and shit..
@@rosyjh6348 right. I need some more adventure in my life. As I was reading more about ENFP'S, I noticed that they are a lot like my childhood self. I thought and acted just like them. And yes, I agree with the comment that I miss that because I do :( and we work so well together as a team. 😭😭😭 I need more ENFP'S in my life!!
I only draw self centered ppl
As an INFJ, I can say that you are dreamy. Stay you.
From reading the comments I think every single INFJ guy watching this had a crush on you within the first minute or two of watching this.
The girls as well... just sayin'
And girl. But it’s so much sweeter than this…we want to hide in the bushes looking for enfp predators; silently dispatch them, and keep her safe from harm, without her ever knowing it happened.
The spontaneity example is COMPLETELY accurate. I’m an INFJ and I was romantically involved with an ENFP. I always crave spontaneity in my life and I just can’t. But the ENFPs can give me that and it’s amazing. And she said I gave her a groundedness that helped her with her randomness. Perfect balance
This is exactly what my partner and I say/feel. She brings me the spontaneity in a way that I can't express how grateful I am for her.
I'm hoping that an INFJ man comes and sweeps me off my feet...on helps me keep my feet on the ground...either works! :)
@@visionarycatalyst18 you got an Instagram? I’d love to connect
You are officially the most adorable human being I have ever seen, i hope an enfp i meet has half the unique charm you do :) thank you so much for this video
100% true. I probably would not want to meet an ENFP like her. I'd be helpless 😂.
i just meet someone as awesome as her in my office, and shes my new work partner, i think im lucky :)
Oh, they do. ENFPs are a "thing", for sure.
Isn't she tho?
@@larrybloomfield4430 that's a great kind of hopeless though
Wow! Before watching this, I decided I only had the mental energy to watch a 1-2 min video. 39 minutes later, I wondered where the time went.
Exactly 🤣
As an infj, who just spent 3 hours of alone time trying to understand myself, I can tell you that this video is pure gold. I could keep listening forever.
I clicked out of curiosity, and then, became oddly enthralled. Please don't take this the wrong way, but you are absolutely adorable, yet in a beautifully high-minded sense. Like a divergent ball of energy. I'm terrified of heights, and plan to one day skydive in order to overcome it. Your type is the type of person I can see myself jumping with. That is the best way to describe it. Your video expanded my perception, thank you! I wish you well along your journey.
Unicorn she be.
why i am reading it with Yoda's voice 😄
How do you explain magic? Your randomness is delightful. Your insight is exquisite. Your boldness is infectious. Your depth is unexpected. Your poetry in action is mesmerizing. Your invitation to play is enticing. Your humor is wicked, your tears, melting. Treasured soulmate, partner in crime. The only time I felt loved was by my ENFP. Poetry + music + spontaneity + humor + chemistry + ancient wisdom = combustion!
-- Love Letter from an INFJ to an ENFP
PS: Thank y'all for giving me permission to be ME. :-)
The only time I felt understood was by my INFJ.
Read that using Mike Tyson's voice.
@@Robert-vj6fg oh my god that's... that's... just amazing, in a comedic way.
@Terry Vanzetti Yes, that was and is wonderful.
Please be you! (Fellow INFJ)
This is so beautiful
In the first 5 minutes of watching this video, as an infj, all I've thought was:
"Oh my god, why is she so precious? I SHOULDN'T BE FEELING THIS-"
I don`t know why or how but I think I just fell in love with you in 40 mins. As an INFJ, I just wanna say thank you for being so lovely and talking so sweetly about people with the same personality type as mine. My heart made a flip every time you got excited, you`re absolutely adorable and it`s so endearing to see someone so excited and talking so passionately.
Okay, damn. When she said "legacy", I had to pause the video and laugh hysterically. It's too true.
Me too!!
I don't give a fuck about a "legacy" but I do definitely care about leaving a positivie impact on the world... idgaf if I'm remembered for it tho.
@@LuvBugBlaqkHart The legacy is in the impact left on the world that continues long after we're gone, not whether we're credited for it or not :)
Yep! :D
"Impact" would also be a good word.
As an INFJ I just adore ENFP. They actually bring out my inner ENFP when I'm around them. They're like a breath of fresh air to me.
BG Liquidity so true
@@destree6348 They feel like instant best friends in a world of people I keep at arms length because I can't trust their motives. It's a welcomed break from the normal.
@BG Liquidity Yes! It kind of feels like the universe put you in each other's lives and it brings out the best in both ❤️
My exact thoughts! :)
So, this is what love feels like.
As an INFJ male, the attraction to this type of energy from an ENFP is immediate.
I see others saying the same and clarifying they don’t mean it in a creepy way, and neither do i. Just funny because saying “not creepy” is such a male INFJ thing to say lol
I will say, I have had a deep emotional connection to a female ENFP before and it’s electrifying. Not in a sexual or even relationship type of way, just an amazing, understanding and thoughtful relationship that I’ve rarely found with anyone else.
That person has Since moved on and is no longer a prominent character in my life, and I often find myself reflecting on those times and wonder if I let my “soulmate” just walk out of my life.
I am currently in a relationship with female ISTP and it is great, but there is a definitely a misunderstanding of how the INFJ brain works. She will never understand and “get me” quite like my ENFP friend once did.
The misunderstanding is so odd to me, since INFJ & ISTP use the same 4 cognitive functions the most! But, as we grow our Se, so can they grow Fe and therefore we become less overwhelmed with their suddenness as they gain empathy. But true that friendship is easier with ENFP. We can learn a lot from any type, but it's good to take a break sometimes too.
I found my INFJ friend in college before, just second hearing him talk already attracted to him. Like curious and want to be his friend and know him better, he have this mysterious aura and vibe around him. I told my other girl classmates express that im attracted to him i want to know him better, its a bad move. Because they started squealing and saying im in love. 😑
I wanted to know him as a whole person not because im in love of things like that.. But they couldn't understand that. When i started to talk to him about work assignment in class everyone else in the class start wooing and cheering for us. And i know that its making him embarrass and nervous, so i make it a quick conversation and leave him. Im embarrass of my other classmates smh i just wanna have a decent deep conversation but this monke 😂 around me is making it hard for me. Don't get me wrong i like everyone but cmon guys cut me some slacks. But i did have a good conversation with him in cafeteria one time, just us. He told me his anger issues, his childhood problem with his abusive dad.. I see him, I hear him and I felt him in every sense of his word.. And I can relate dad sucks speaking from own experience I tried to kill mine when im 7yr old 😂
ANYWAYS
we're cool
I wonder if we are cursed with only two choices: being understood but open to chaos, or not being fully understood but in the safety of predictability. What would you choose?
If all ENFPs are like you sign me up! I just had the one of the most exciting and relaxing 40 minutes in a long time.
A 39 minute adorable honesty explosion. Some people can be tricky to read and are thus exhausting. She is like a billboard with lights, glitter and fireworks.
ENFP, "I want to tell you that I adore you and I feel...um...I feel like we really understand each other. And I love that I can be my crazy weird self and you can be your crazy weird self and we just enjoy the moment. I just want to tell you how I feel."
INTJ, "I can tell."
Me, an INFJ here couldn’t stop smiling..
Also when I was reading her she was just happiness and joy. SHE MUST BE PROTECTED.
You can be 100% sure you aren't an INFJ if you didn't watched this video until the end...
Thanks for making this video. That was exactly what I needed - not only after this awful day, but for my life... thank you so, so much ❤
Agreed! I felt the same. I hope she's doing well IRL, and stays clear of narcissits (and other ill-personality types that pretend to be INFJ). What's more, genuine INFJ can be mistaken for INTJ. To reiterate: externally INFJ come across as INTJ, internally, they are a hybrid between INFP + INTJ. This is why they are less [perfect] robot and a little more human (INTJ are obviously human, but you know what I mean; they're a lovely bunch who's brilliance intimidates and is superhuman, most ppl can't relate, nor stand that).
Also... Please research 'narcissitic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissits'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)!
European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!
The are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim or damsel in distress, creating 'flying-monkeys', and paying others to attack (or at times kill) someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Elliott Till.
ISFP (and ESFP) are the most complicit, narcissitic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependants' (look up the definition).
SUMMARY:
Evil personality: ESFJ, ESTJ
[Secretly] Evil and narcissit-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP, ESFP.
☝️All of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict (and at other people's expense, truly evil).
Spread the word! Thank you.
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#Save_Soil
@@Human_01 I'm actually one of those INFJ+INTJ mixes : )
But I think it's kind of bad to call some personality types the evil, and I don't agree that every European ESFJ is bad... as I live in Europe, I know many European ESFJs and many of them are really kind, openminded and have a good heart.
It might be that many "bad" people are ESFJ and come from Europe, but I think it's wrong to call them all evil and say they all are manipulative etc.
There is no MBTI type were everyone is a bad person...
I need an ENFP in my life, come be weird with me.
Okey let's go to be weeeiirdd
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🤪 Yay all weirdos assemble 😂💕💐
@@danika9411 oooOOOOHHHHHHHH *weird intensifies*
lmfao
@@danika9411 🤪🤪🤪AVENGERS ASSEMBLE TIME TO BE LOCOOOOOO
- INFJ
wait aren't you the one I replied to on a Frank James video?? 🤔
ENFP here and this felt like watching myself give a lecture 😅. Great video, this is exactly how I feel about my INFJ
When she said she reached out to the infj friend I was like: yeah someone just sending you a message like: hey why didn't we ever talk! That's the infj dream omg
@Dominic Tétrault yes, in a way it is exactly that, that is the problem. You reach out to someone in a meaningful gesture, but nobody seems to understand it as such. That is also precisely the reason that it seems wonderful to have someone do that to me
I can literally FEEL her energy flowing through my veins, and i was just literally kicking in the air and silent screaming "yes.. yES, YESSSS!!!!" if i ever have a soulmate THIS is what it's supposed to feel like!!! Like being partners in crimes!!! being able to share THAT one hidden crazy braincell within me that i never let anyone see that easily!
when you were talking abt meeting a stranger in the middle of the night, I was like "THIS IS INSANE!! this is EXACTLY something I would do, but nobody actually expects ME to be the one to do it because they think of me as this very highly calm and composed and rational type of person... nobody imagines that i would do smth like, acting on mere impluse just bcz I FELT LIKE IT..
i never had an ENFP friend and now i regret it so much like never before...... I was smiling like a freaking 100000watt light bulb while staring at the screen all the time you were talking... I wish we were in the same country... i wish we were friends..
LOVE YOU Ms. ENFP!!!!!
You talk from your heart and that is the most beautiful thing any one can see in the world we live in...
Me, a female INFJ's immediate thought as I played the video was "If I was a guy I would marry her!" 😂😂 You're so adorable and sweet, I really enjoyed this video so thank you for recording it, also my eyes watered when you said "when someone loves you for the reasons society makes you feel like a weirdo for, I feel like that's the definition of love" I could feel how much you feel it and mean it, and I also relate to that, wish all happiness in the world❤️️
yeah, indeed!
I can verify this!! I’m an INFJ who has been dating a ENFP for almost a month! I already know I’m gonna marry this girl ❤️🥰
13 years strong over here : ) Make it happen!
YES! That was like my infj and I. We just knew. Together for 14 years now :)
Any updates? I'm excited to know? Enfp here
Me, an INFJ: *five seconds into video* ...SHE MUST BE CLONED.
"ENFPs speak how INFJs think" absolutely! I was finishing your sentences as you spoke. Amazing. I get so frustrated when talking to people because it's like they don't understand anything I'm talking about when I start talking any deeper than surface level. Thank you for this video. It's good to know there are in fact people out there who understand us 🙏
Literally watching this video, I can literally feel her emotions pouring out within the 1st min. Being pulled into the screen with intensity. - INFJ
Dear lord your personality permeates the screen and makes me feel less lonely.
I was with a ENFP and she was probably one of the most understanding person I’ve ever met. She was someone that actually listened to what I had to say and there was so much depth in the conversations we had and actually understood each other on a deeper level. I truly value ENFPs such beautiful souls and you can sense it every time they walk into a room
I am an ENFP and without any exaggeration I felt like this is ME describing my BEST FRIEND. Periodt. I love you
"LETS BE WEIRD TOGETHER, YAAAAAAAAA!!!"
Same fam, Same
Praying that every INFJ finds their own LindaPinda
Yesss
I think I had an ENFP professor in college. His discussions on literature were the best. I remember overhearing other students complaining but I loved his “lectures.” He would come into class with a pile of dog eared notes, pick one up, mumble a bit and then just launch into it.
As an INFJ empath, I've met very few people with whom I have an instant connection. Most people around me, I feel like it's work to maintain conversation. But I feel like I could listen to this girl, without any work, for days. Don't be self conscious about being scatter brained. We love it.
It is disarming and endearing as hell. Perfect
Every time you show your genuine emotion, it is such a treat for the INFJ, getting a chance to see the true you. I'm betting it's your authentic joyfulness that has allowed you to get so many subscribers and views so quickly.
This video was truly a blessing. Thank you for sharing this. Now, please forgive me as I step away, and hope my heart will cease its overwhelming powerful beating.
This is true.
Aaw it really is true
It's hard not to read this book, and not fall in love with it's story.
Please come back...you are missed. This place isn't the same without you. An Infj.
I will never tire of this person telling me how much she adores me. This feels so good, it must be contraband. Is it mermaids calling me?
She's not talking to you, son
Dad, we've talked about this. We're not sharing her.
As an INFJ struggling with relationships and finding someone to connect and grow with, I’m falling in love with this girl.
Me too .lol
same
Aren't We All
hahaaaaa I feel you,
don't worry guys, there is not a lot of smart chicks in this world but trust me, when you meet one you feel like it was worth waiting
@@geringxd Well damn I feel bad for those girls T_T they try their best in other areas lmao give them credit
Any other woman talks this much, I would have gnawed my wrists off by now…but this gal has tuned into a frequency in me that kept me spellbound with a smirk on my face!! How delightful!
She’s not interested in your kind. Back off.
As an INFJ male watching this, I can say that I've watched it with the same smirk on my face the entire video. You're fascinating to watch an listen to which makes it immediately adorable. An all of your mannerisms are something I completely understand. It's wild, I've not experienced this before.
This video makes me legitimately sad not to have a close ENFP friend. I want one sooooo bad. I feel like I could talk with you for hours and understand a whole new side to the world. Also, your positivity is infectious. I was smiling nearly immediately.
*UPDATE* I found one :)
I am sooo happy for you, bud!
Yes! I'm also so happy for you! I'll go find an Infj friend hopefully soon too 😊🎉💕 You guys seem so nice with an awesome mind! Can't wait to talk with one 😍 ( Enfp here )
Where did you find one? Are there more there? ;)
hi!! I was going to say that I could be your ENFP friend, but now I can happily say I can be your second one!!! :D
@@bebelmatson aww thank you :)
I'm an INFJ and watching you makes me feel at home in some weird way. While watching you, I didn't feel like I needed to know anything about you personally to know that we would get along well. It's a crazy experience for me, seeing this and then having these feelings without knowing more about you. As I said, yea, I feel at home. :)
@Cleverly relatable Username welcome home :)
ENFP here
SHE IS SO ADORABLE HOLY MOLY! She just makes me want to throw cupcakes and rainbows at everyone AH
Linda,
It’s quite intriguing how your nostrils flare right before you’re about to explain a moment/idea that excites you immensely.
And how you look to the your lower-left when finding descriptions of emotional feeling.
And how you fight to stop from scratching your chest, when catching a small self-conscious anxiety fit.
Please excuse my thorough observations.
I just can see how challenging this video was for you, trying to stay on topic and give true admiration for INFJ’s and how well they work with ENFP’s.
As an INFJ I love this... so much. It's like watching fireworks expess itself so chaotically and beautiful.
I could have a conversation with ENFPs for hours, they actually increase my heart rate. Mutually.
I found her cuteness is overload, omg... look how she tried to explained properly yet her brain and lips adorably not in sync 😂
Oh dear, Thank you for understanding us so deep. Please keep that lovely smile and positive energy ♥️
I know now why ENFP is easy to understand haha 😊
seeing the comment section saying she needs to be protected.. SHE REALLY NEED THE PROTECTION, SUCH A GENUINE AND SWEET PERSON.
infj here and thanks for making this video even tho it was made 2 years ago :)
p.s. the way she speaks with so much passion, I could feel it though the screen!
i'm more accepting of being a weirdo now compared to the past and I felt so much better after accepting me for who I am tbh. Deep down felt so glad to have a fellow enfp understanding infjs so much.
I'm an INFJ myself and the "flow state" just happened while watching you talk, I was like mesmerised by how expressive you are. It's like you said, I don't have to stop and try figuring out what is going through your mind. ^^
I need to find me an ENFP friend. Stat!
Right!? I have few of them in my life, other than my mother and best friend's mother. Also two friends, but they live far away ! :(
ENFP friends are awesome, im lucky my best friend is ENFP. Get yourself one
I could use a few ENFP friends 😄!!!
AY I GOT YOU!!!
I'M AN ENFP!😂👌💜
dreamwave.... was just thinking the same!
2 minutes in and I'm madly in love with this girl! 3 and a half mintues in... I FREAKING LOVE YOU!!! 7:28 *explodes* 27:15 (the banter part) I literally jumped out of my chair and danced, shouting " WHAT IS THIS!? I NEED YOU IN MY LIFE!"- INFJ
Lol :D this is great
PREACH!!!
I,m an older infj . Never in all my years have I seen such a vibrant lady in real life or on You Tube. I looooved seeing her talk with her lips and her eyes and her hands with perfect harmony. Also her lovely calm/excited voice tones.
I continuously smiled watching her and listening to her.
So wish I had internet when I was younger. But never too late to find love again.
Will study ENFPs personality types thoroughly. Then find one for sure.
I felt such a connection within the first 20 seconds. You absolutely captivated me. Your energy and enthusiasm is enviable to a frequently drained INFJ like me. You spoke to my soul with every sentence and described me so well! I felt the immediate urge to protect you, I can tell that you are and easily excitable and sometimes impulsive person, which might sometimes get you into a bit of trouble, but you have so much fun with your life. I know now that I have to find myself an ENFP!
INFJ male here. Think I just fell in love with you, hahaha. Your energy is ridicilous and everything I am searching for in a partner. Thanks for making this video. Hope I'll find my own ENFP one day.
I'm a straight INFJ female and I think I just fell in love with her too!! haha
You INFJs sound really cute to me! I really want to meet one some day
Aldro i’ve 100% fallen in love with her... god i want to just.. hug her so much
im a male INFJ and i can agree
Aurelia Avalon OOF rip
I mean this as the highest compliment I can give.......this INFJ just felt lonely for the first time in a very....VERY long time. Keep being you!
You're not alone, connect to your inner self (I consider my inner self as Lord Krishna) :) I've been where you are
Same. I can't remember the last time I felt lonely. She made me feel that and it was strangely... a good feeling.
Hi yes, another INFJ here... i just wanted to say, Linda, don't ever lose the spark in your eye. This world needs more people like you, seeing you in this video made me realize what it's like to see true beauty. As evident by basically the entirety of this comment section, but it bears repeating; You are amazing!!
Thank you for making this video!
(INFJ) This video was one of the most entertaining MBTI videos I've watched so far! Listening to your rambling is so fun, I understand exactly what you mean and it was very easy to follow through at least for me. Don't feel like you're annoying or talking too much around INFJs, we can get sooo talkative aswell around people like you because you bring sparks in conversations, it's always so easy to talk with ENFPs, I felt like we had a whole conversation together in this video haha
Colour me stunned. I am a 31 year old INFJ that stumbled on your channel by accident, but boy, that was the greatest "accident" I've ever had. Your energy and inability to even talk normally is such a charm that I am not sure many others (apart from INFJs) will fully understand. You literally had me crying from joy throughout most parts of the video. I would be ashamed of that fact in front of most, but here I feel as if this would be okay to share. You are such a gem and I sincerely hope you find someone to value you for what you are.
This video is so charming, you made my INFJ soul feel all fuzzy and warm! Thank you
ENFPs are like little kids. Everything they see and touch is magical and fun. I love them so much.
when she said it is intoxicating i felt it kjsdhf why does listening to her feels like i'm inhaling sugar and pixie dust xDD as a member of the INFJ's, we protect her.
I felt like I could listen for hours. You aren't crazy, just fast on your feet :) I really felt the love, so back at ya. I think I will start looking out for ENFPs .
Those were my exact thoughts yeah :)
You have the hope or dream or eagerness we don't have and that's why we envy you guys (ENFP) but in a good way. Thanks for the letter. it was beautiful. I felt like a stone giant listening to a fairy. Regards from an INFJ.
As an INFJ, I smiled after 5 seconds. She has a very cute energy. And what a nice intention she had by doing this video. Thank you
You are a body language enthusiast's dream. Someone skilled in Reading body language picks up on two things (at least) Genuine- you actually believe the things you say. Nothing makes me distrust people more than someone trying to convince themselves by convincing me.
Innocence- there's no trick or illusion to what you're saying. Far removed from narcissism. Other types May see you as annoying or drawn out or scatterbrained but me as an infj I can't wait for you to say another word, say more words, say all your words. It's the perfect storm of one trying to express and one dying to listen. Believe me when I say that INFJs look for any sign in body language that is suspicious and especially in the one place you can never hide it, your eyes. I had almost given up that people could actually still be this way. I needed to see this video
I’m an INFJ (I think) and I usually get annoyed and/or irritated with this bubbly and talkative personality, but I felt very understood and the bubbly personality was contagious. Thank you.
I'm an INFJ and you are intoxicating to watch... ❤️ My sister is an ENFP and I honestly don't know anyone else that gets me like she does.
As an infj, you brought me tears, loved your love letter. FELT IT... ALL OF IT...
She is so adorable. I'm an INFJ and I absolutely love her energy.