Here is the answer to the question: Get a comprehensive blood work panel done and consult a trusted doctor-someone who is unaware of your situation with the narcissist. Keep this consultation private to avoid alerting the narcissist and work discreetly to uncover any traces of unusual substances or altered medication levels.
I knew this was happening . I found pictures. I'm a deep sleeper but what's in the pictures I had to be drugged. This one time I woke up and I felt so good , better than I has in a long time . I sat up in bed and proceeded to projectile vomit and kept vomiting all day . Why would I be vomiting like that . He wanted me to look erratic and play me as a horrible crazy person to deflect from him and his drug use
Yes! These evil excuses for human beings will stop at nothing to destroy their chosen victims, they are disgusting! I have experienced this evilness first-hand. Thank you Danish for raising awareness.
I too have experienced this first-hand. It is a terrible, awful, criminal thing to do to someone, literally. We need guidelines for what to do as soon as we suspect an event like this has occurred. From what I've read, the date-rape drugs they often use leave the system quickly and are usually not detectable in the blood for very long. It would be life-saving to have a home test kit for this sort of thing. These disordered people have figured out a way to commit the perfect crime, and they keep getting away with it!
@melaniedeare5427 : The only way to find out is to get blood test to find out what kind of chemical the bastard is putting in your foods or drinks aside from the usual medications you are taking. This is scary.
This happened to me by my brother and mother. For 4 years I had migraines and was vomitting and had pain in my right side. I could not work and they stole all my money. I lost my job and became homeless.
I also would and I'm not a narcissist. I'm sorry you decided to do those drugs that you knew were addicting and got addicted like everyone said you would. Ffs.
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Psychedelic is the answer to most severe anxiety and depression. The use of magic mushrooms completely helps one get over depression and makes you feel like yourself.
OMG! How did I not think of this immediately?! So so true!! People going to Italy and EATING , and LOSING weight?! And feeling better?! It's just crazy!!
I believe this! My ex-husband did this to his baby mother! She was a drug addict, before I was angry at her but now I understand!! Making her look like the crazy one!! I pray for her everyday!! 🙏🏾
@@Spiralclarity I understand IT IS devastating!! I am holding onto GOD'S toenails to keep me from going over the edge! HOLD ON!! It is hard to see during this rejection that GOD could have kept you from something that could have killed you!! I will keep you in my prayers 🙏🏾 💕
Thank you for addressing this. I've been telling people for years that poisoning is WAY more common than people realize. Sometimes the goal isn't to kill you but to make you easier to control, or that sadistic pleasure of seeing you struggling and sick. But when the goal is to kill you and they succeed, it's almost impossible to prove in court. I'm sure poisoning and drugging is way more common than people realize. And...they also use the dark arts to curse food or drink (I never used to believe in that stuff, but watched some videos and yes, it seems to be real and people are doing that too).
Oh wow 😮 I got food poisoning a few times as a kid. I don't like to accept food off my mother anymore. I just get a feeling telling me not to eat it. Listen to your gut!
My father used to practice dark arts, some my colleagues I have been struggling from one sickness after another. They curse, they spoil and harm make you lose sleep. Only Jesus can save us.
@yuu_miran Amen! There was witchcraft in my family and a lot of it in my area. I wasn't raised Christian but am now. I have an icon of St Justina and often ask her to neutralize anything directed at me (sorcery was used on her, she prevailed through Christ, and converted the top sorcerer in the empire). This morning I read from Fr Chad Rippergers Deliverance Prayers for the Laity. I always feel something lift when I do that. Narcs like easy. Using the dark arts and spells is easy, and all online!
I never ever told anyone that my narc husband used certain drugs on me. I didn't think anyone would believe me. It seemed so far-fetched. Thank you, I feel vindicated after all these years of being in my own ❤
@@TR-nv3if it seems at this point some people don't believe in demonic possession anymore or if some still do then they sweep it under the rug, I've already not been believed when i admitted to seeing my mother's eyes turn black when she rages (the first time i saw it i thought i was seeing things, the second time i saw this happen i realize God was showing me what was on the inside), i suppose those who haven't yet asked God for the gift of discernment aren't able to see it
@@TR-nv3if i mean could you imagine the looks (and possibly laughter) on people's faces if i told them that I've been abused by a demon in a human's body (or in other words abused by a demon possessed person), some would think I'm crazy, i bring this is up because this is an important topic and a salvation issue, someone can get and be possessed without even knowing it and being possessed not only affects the possessed person but everyone around them as well
@@Anonymissus ~ and such a shame because God says He will FREELY give the gift of Discernment to anyone who asks!! Not so with all the other gifts of the Spirit, those are given to us as the Holy Spirit decides. But That gift is one He wishes for all to ask for! God bless!!!😇📖📖
Activated charcoal tablet can be used to neutralise the effects of poisoning to a large extent. Activated charcoal is routinely used in ER in hospital to deal with poisoning.
Isaiah 54:17 But in that coming day no weapon turned against you will succeed. You will silence every voice raised up to accuse you. These benefits are enjoyed by the servants of the Lord; their vindication will come from me. I, the Lord, have spoken! The foolish narcissists that weaponize drugs are doomed to fail, in the mighty name of Jesus, amen!
My mother always accused my husband of drugging me. Lately I have been wondering if it was an admission. I can't remember much of my youth and she always is forcing food on me. And my husband noticed that anytime I visit her I am very tired for about a week.
My father got me to depend on smoking the green. I now believe it was to keep me in a tripped out, unaware state, so i can feel empathy/sympathy towards him to make me feel bad. As if it was my fault for everything. Everytime i wanted to get better from anxiousness and depression, he would use it against me as a weakness. He never wanted me to be in control of my own life, instead making me feel bad, manipulating, belittling me. He even showed concerned, yet used my security and conditions against me. I'm away from him now. Not smoking anymore, things are getting a bit better, but left me in shit for my future. Everything he could to make me non funtional and to make my adulthood life hard to accomplish what i need to.
Me ex narc was a big green smoker & used to bully me to join him even though I wasn’t a fan…but after devaluation started, I would reluctantly join him as it was the only time he seemed to want to talk to me. He’d always insist on packing my (one small) cone himself….I thought it was my inexperience that had me completely fcked up & much more compliant & agreeable after one, where he would smoke ten & drink at the same time & seem completely fine. It took me waaaay too long to realise he was giving me “snowcones” ie. green mixed with another substance, most likely benzodiazepines. I broke up with him & told him to move out after I realized, but it took an extra 2 months to actually get him out of the house….so I started spiking his expensive liquor (that I paid for, same as everything else in the house) with liquid laxatives. Was it immature? Absolutely!! Was is hilarious to watch him suddenly rush to the bathroom everytime he over indulged? Yes, I felt like an evil genius. Did it makeup for the years of emotional, mental & financial torture he put me through? Not even a little bit. I still have no regrets about it though & 💯 would’ve done even worse to him now 😏
@@DandyDuh Lol thanks 😉 Almost 2 years of hardcore no contact regime now, and I’m much mentally tougher than I’ve ever been. Meanwhile it’s a small town so things do get back to me (which is why I tell NO ONE my business unless I want it to be gossip)…so he’s living with his toxic mother in the most run down, dangerous, ghetto part of town. He STILL has no job, no education and apparently still spends his time & money on killing brain cells locked in his room smoking (cigarettes & green) & drinking to excess whilst playing video games all day & night. As I’ve said before, narcissists live their karma every day 😏
Yea, my criminal neighbor and her felony friends have no limit to their murderous, slick behaviors. They excel at staging their crimes so they themselves look innocent. She claims to be a witch.
Scary! This makes me think of the entertainment industry and all the shady things they do. Poor kids are being forced into it 😢 Then they grow up and are seen as a problem for reacting. I feel for them.
Mine actually calmly said once, a few yrs ago,,” I’d never put rat poison in your food” and I thought “WTF”.? Why would you even say that to anyone? He said because he thought I’d do that to him..( I was shocked .. I grew up very honest, trustworthy, loyal ( that’s why I still stayed with him) I’d never do anything like that to my worst enemy ..swear to god.. he also drops food on the floor and eats it so I never eat out of stuff he’s been using as I do think he’d be unsanitary on purpose ( he would drop stuff on the floor and put it back in the container knowing I’d eat from it). Ex..a can of peanuts). They’re passive aggressive, vengeful..they’re very cagey and smart so they’d probably do something just enough to affect you but not end you… they become vengeful just if you are assertive or don’t agree with them .. they will act nice like they don’t care then a day, a we later, they’ll pounce..
YES! They do! We would long be over something but they are so vengeful!!! Mine will remember and break something of mine a month later when things seem perfectly calm. 😢
@@beckystrozenski5187yep mine would hide my stuff i use everyday and blame the girls for taking it and would use that to fight for months on end. He would say well you have to go buy new now and spend your money and laugh. I tried to save money and he would go shopping say before hand for groceries he would pay bring 20 and he would say thats all i have u have to buy everything at the checkout and try to make me irrational and mad at the cashier. I wouldn't just buy it and never went imto the store agsin. Very calculated everything they do.
My covert malignant narc parent got my other parent medically misdiagnosed and dependant on pharmaceutical pills. My narc parent was able to get this diagnosis through, because they always spoke on behalf of my other parent. Even convincing my other parent that they had that diagnosis. Unfortunately because of this, my other parent became very dependant on my narc parent for many years. However, my other parent did not actually have that problem, their symptoms were from narc abuse! Once my other parent was divorced from the narc, they realised what the narc had done, and were able to get healing from the real problem, narc abuse.
One day, my ex husband made a pack of meds fall on the floor, from his pocket. He placed his foot over the pk but I already saw it. So I picked it up and looked at the name but I didn't know that med. Then I asked him what he was using it for, he then told me that I stole his tablets although I was right there Infront of him with the meds. So I gave him it bk, but it was heavy on my mind. So I asked him what meds he's using and what he is using it for. No answer. So I asked to see the packet. He said it was in the bin. So I went to look for it. He said I won't find it because he already emptied the garbage. So I went to the larger outside bin to look for it. He said I will not find it because it far at the bottom. I said I don't care I'm searching for it. I found the pack but the name and dosage of the med was scratched off of the packet. That's how I realized I was being drugged, that's why I couldn't stay awake after 10 am . Then I stopped eating at home. Till after a month he said: like you don't eat anymore.
Yes!!! I'm in a very dark situation with my current husband who's first wife died from vicodin overdid in 2006!! When I first met my spouse in 2013 & he told me about how his wife died " I kept telling her t quit using more & more vicodin or she would die!". " She had chronic back pain & kept taking more & more"! Etc etc. He had her buried immediately without autopsy & after finally contacting his former step daughter last year she spilled the beans about everything! They wanted autopsy but he absolutely refused and including his step daughter saying how when she came home from school, finding marks on her mom's body & she would try to lie & cover it to her daughter so she wouldn't worry! From time I met him he's gotten anti anxieties from a know drug dealer & I have no doubt, murderous man in our town!! Karen's daughter also said her mom would be sipping on tea or pop, just a little bit, & would often complain to her daughter " I don't know why I feel so sleepy all of a sudden"!! This is true psychopathy & serial killers!! Thanks Danish!!
Hi! I got out of an abusive relationship with a man that turned me on to drugs. Please, get the fuck out of there as soon as possible! You are in tremendous danger! I fear few things more than a narcissistic, polysubstance addicted man. I'm so sorry but please, get out!!
Omfg, please reach out to experts for advice and a plan to get as far away as possible from him immediately 😫 Do not tell him anything you know about his past and grey rock until you can get out safely ❤️
@missbrooke666 Thanks Brooke!! Just did that last night- Finally!!! Got protection order & a bunch of my stuff & meeti g wuth divirce attorney next Thursday!! I'm in a wonderful hotel wuth my little rescue dog who's acting mire back to normal than she has in 2 years ^ have record showing one if his DV cases & jail time plus way more!! God's on my side not his! This is HIS baby to handle! To Him be all Glory & Victory that's coming! Love & blessings!!
@@barbaradecker4358 That’s FANTASTIC I’m ecstatic to hear it!!! I’m so so pleased you and your furbaby are safe and sound and have the law on your side. Go for broke and RUIN him!! 💪💪💪
Love your videos Danish! I was married to one for 3 years and I was damaged. One day he had one of his rages at me and when he went to bed I thought about killing him! Instead I threw some clothes and stuff in the car and left to never return! That was over 15 years ago but I still remember well the Hell he put me through. It took a year and therapy for me to begin to heal.
This is wild! I had a lot of stomach aches and problems with my digestive system constantly after I met him. I wasn't sure if it was just stress, I never thought about him putting something in my food, as he made me meals a few times. 🤯
@@MR-ly4xt mine only has to start verbally harassing me and I get immediate indigestion or stomach aches ( from stress) ive been getting out by myself a lot more now and its helped a lot
Watch out for sugary drinks, they used antifreeze in my drinks, no joke, I ended up with leukemioid reaction and the doctors couldn't figure out why, until I found out
Hmm, this sounds kinda familiar. I remember someone saying something about leukemia (possibility), despite no family history of it. Docs couldn’t figure why either
The most common quote by the bully is you are not that important while they are stealing your lunch money and of course its not the matter of importance its what kind of attention someone is getting indirectly.
If you are a survivor of childhood SA and have chronic pain, you are definitely extra vulnerable. Be wary of sudden medication changes by your doctor. Also blood pressure and statin medicines cause depression and a whole bunch of other nasty side effects. Great video.
@@awesomekidvids101dawnmcnic3 The people that tell me I have memory loss, are the ones that don't want to admit they did horrible stuff to me, and lied about it.
My God these are true demons living amongst us. The narc I was involved with always tried to get me to drink and I am a non drinker. He always wanted to make me a drink etc until he got tired and lost interest.
My cousin once told of bringing her ex husband his coffee after work and spiking it with Xanax so she wouldn't have to deal with him 😮 I thought it was a joke
My husband does the same with my coffee, he has to make it all the time and it always tastes different. I complain and say just let me make it and he never will.
There were times he would bring me a piece of cake or something. Then he kept pressing me to try it. For some reason I was wary and even said, you’re not poisoning me! He threw a fit because I wasn’t going to eat it. He tossed it in the trash. He was acting too weird and watched to see if I would take a bite.
This is absolutely true. My narcissistic psychopathic mother did this for years when I was growing up, she mainly ground up Ritalin and put it in my milk used for my cereal. I’m not sure what other chemicals she used, but I was the only one in the house who ate and drank all the same stuff everyone else did, but I always got sick, vomited, diarrhea, whatever it was I was ill from food or drink. It was her poisoning me to control and manipulate every aspect of my life
@@beckystrozenski5187 My dad felt that chocolate milk was healthy & insisted I drink it. I didn’t like it so I would balk; but he would insist. The problem was/is I found out later that I’m allergic to chocolate. He was just trying to keep me healthy. But I would always have sore throats, swollen glands & other allergy symptoms. Not even the Drs realized I had allergies.
Mine was an addictions counsellor. He would make me believe that i should not take my antidepressants because he said it was the same thing as being addicted to drugs. I was missing him again. Thank you for reminding me how vindictive he was. He passed away over 3 years ago. I could not go back to him anyway.
This is MUCH needed to be spoken of. It is extremely common for abusers to use drugs to control and further trap victims. In my experience, every dealer is either supporting their habit or it is a tool to manipulate women.
Oh wow I totally thought it was just me. My mom first gave me so much medication since I was a little girl, I got put in a hospital permanently at 11 and the next day my mouth wouldn’t even move! I didn’t understand why she gave me 17 Ativan at my dad’s funeral. I had a new baby in my arms. I finally got taken off that medication in 2016. I finally figured out I’m autistic not crazy at 42. I never understood it until now. Then I married one 3 years ago and I was going through the most painful time of my life. I never used drugs from the street but I just wanted him to love me and one day he said do you think you’re too good for that and at first I said yes but one day I did. He ghosted me and I was stuck. It’s still so hard to believe my mom wasn’t perfect like she said. I’m still so mad at all of the damage she did to my life and yeah, you are spot on about why she did it too
My narc admitted to trying to drug me with P C P in 2022 and that admission made me realize that he had successfully drugged me multiple times in the past. It's scary to live with a psycho for so long, not realizing the dangers you're in. This person also tried to unalive me multiple times. I am thankful everyday I got away but I still do not feel safe. Please stay safe everyone.
I’m sorry and I’m very glad you found the strength to leave. It took me awhile to realise my ex narc was successfully drugging me too. Are you extreme (HG Tudor style) no contact? Are there things you could do that would improve your security, like what I did immediately after & surrounded my entire house with security cameras, changed all the locks, put very bright motion sensor lights up where needed, alarmed all doors & windows etc? I’d already changed my number & email address (both very inconvenient but safer), blocked him everywhere obviously but also deactivated all my social media for almost 5 months (it actually helped a lot mentally. I avoided places in the unfortunate small town where he’d frequent, & also cut contact with all his friends & family- none of those ppl can be trusted, all flying monkeys. My main fear was him showing up at my house as I’d made it practically impossible for him to contact me any other way. Better to be paranoid and safe rather than underestimating these psychopaths- think about the things people with NO emotional empathy are capable of 😕
Yes. I was poisoned heavily throughout my entire life. I was given date rape drugs as a teenager by my mom. Lots of gaps of time lost. My dad gave me cocaine and alcohol as a child. I'm 51 now. Neither parent should be around anyone else. I know of some things that have to do with a death. So sad.
Some people are just ignorant trsh that want their kids to shut up. Cough syrup, or even whiskey, back in the day. It isn't all a plot, but it is out of selfishness, even if it isn't worse than that.
Oh so true 💯 I've seen it & experienced it first hand. Drug addiction isn't a joke!! I had this happen to me!! He tried to drug me . Because he's an addict! 😢💔💥
Thank you so VERY much for this enlightening video. Thankfully I have personally not experienced that, nonetheless our Cocker Spaniel was possibly/allegedly being drugged by our neighbor. He lived directly behind us, which was at the top of our steep embankment. Everything was fine when we had our Bloodhound Duke, as this neighbor really liked him. Unfortunately Duke had issues and we had toddlers who he was not very good around. We were blessed to find him a home with a couple who had a Bloodhound at the time, so all turned out great. My parents had a Cocker Spaniel who was a bit too active for them, so we adopted him from them soon after Duke left. Henry (the Cocker Spaniel) had been with my parents for 3 years and NEVER had any issues whatsoever. Once Duke left our home and Henry moved in, strange things began to occur. Whenever Henry ran up our embankment to say hello to this neighbor man, he would yell at him to get away and would spray him with a hose. Unfortunately the fence between our homes was wrought iron and we were able to clearly see each other. Strangely, Henry began to have seizures soon after moving in with us. We immediately took Henry to the Vet and he tested Henry. He then told us that our dog was being poisoned. We cannot say with absolute certainty that this man was poisoning our dog, but Henry never before had any seizures and once we stopped allowing him to go outside without us as well as kept him off of our embankment, he never again had any more seizures. When we moved from that home to our next home, Henry was free to roam our new back yard, as the potential threat was no longer there. Happily, Henry never again had any seizures. These evil possessed narcissists are EVERYWHERE, so be careful to not only guard yourselves, but your pets as well! TOTAL EVIL INSANITY! Always pray for God to surround you, your pets, your home, vehicles and all of your loved ones with legions of Angel armies and hedges of protection. You cannot pray enough for this amazing protection! Blessings and Stay Safe 🙏🥰
The narcissist I'm still dealing with the long term damage from was poisoning my service dog. Now she's got kidney damage from him. She went from healthy indoors only dog to sudden acute kidney FAILURE & was TERRIFIED to eat ANYTHING! NOT even BACON after he took care of her for 3 days when he'd had me falsely jailed. As soon as I got my rightful freedom back (3 days) she was SEVERELY TRAUMATIZED😭 She's doing better now, but if I'd not been able to take her back when I did she surely would be deceased by now. My rationalization is that he was probably poisoning her to try to make her death look like an accidental illness⁉️ Just like in your situation: WHAT KIND OF PERSON DOES THIS TO INNOCENT PETS‼️⁉️‼️ 🙏🏻🙏🏿🙏🏽🙏🏼Bless & Protect We Who Survive💜🖤✨
Danish, I went through this and barely survived it. My Daughter and I discovered this on complete accident after being ill for three years… Thank you for Making this video because it’s exactly how I e been trying to explain what my Family has been through.
💯 CONFIRMATION!!!! The 3 narcs in my lifetime have all done this to me !!! Proven with tests by the hospital 🏥 once admitted ..I never pressed charges & now I wished I had, but thee ULTIMATE JUDGE IS HANDLING THEM JUST FINE 😊 RIGHT ✅️ ALL THESE YEAR'S LATER 😂😂😂😂 GOD IS THESE BEST AT THE ULTIMATE VENGEANCE 🙌 🙏 HE KNOWS THE NARC BETTER THAN ANYONE ❤😢 LET GO & LET GOD 😊
I never realized this until I heard your video, he definitely keeps me high. Yesterday he tried to get the neighbor girl and him, to definitely be sexual. Clearly I was so uncomfortable and she felt the same way, thank God her family Interveined at the right time. This is truly scary. I am slowly understanding all these facts. Everything you are saying is 100% correct.
Please get out as soon as possible. And if you plan on leaving soon, make it very discreet, and very hidden. If you make it too obvious he will do everything he can to stop you. God is trying to show you that you are in danger. May the Lord protect you in Jesus name 💚
@@MarjyGTV Yes I second being extremely discreet and careful in planning to leave, according to statistics and stories of other survivors, when you try to leave is the most dangerous time. Please enlist help & backup from only your most trustworthy family & friends & stay safe ❤️
My mother would make up mental illnesses for us to tell a therapist so she could drug us as kids. She would convince us that we really had these mental illnesses.
My former pastor (a wolf) tried to pull this on me. It never worked on me and I fled his church. It was so scary. That dude has major issues since he is a narcissist after all.
As a teenager, I needed various medications for the mental health issues I was dealing with at the time. However, the narcissistic people who raised me never provided that medication. If I had received it, things might have turned out differently for me today.
@@daylilopez6350 I'm afraid you're mistaken; they (my older brother was smoking the herb at 14 years old)used to smoke, and I think they still do-the herb. I remember the woman always had to check the oregano bottles because one had the actual oregano, and the other had the 'other stuff.
If the people that raised you were truly narcissistic, they were causing you mental health issues. Seeing a psychiatrist regularly & being their guinea pig for medications is very expensive. Many of those meds now come with the disclaimer that they may cause suicide in teenagers. They almost killed me by the time I was 15,after turning me into a depressed,mentally & physically ill zombie. I will on the rare occasion mention it to my mom. Every time without exception, she'll snap at me, "You should've kept taking them!" I'd been on various ones for over 3 years & all they did was make me sick & depressed. She forced me to go to a complete tool that misdiagnosed me & poisoned me for years. He would listen to all of her bs & not a word I said. He treated me for depression when in actuality I had ADHD & strongly disliked her abusive new husband. Knowing what I know about those meds, most of them should never be given to a child! After following experiences with certain family members & videos like this, I now know my mom was trying to kill me with those meds, get me out of the way & sacrifice me for her new family. Also, I say all this as a mentally sound (besides ADHD & more recently anxiety) & balanced middle aged adult. 💙
It's funny because I do all the cooking now, and I watch my food, just because I have learned not to trust that he may not poison me. I don't drink open containers from the fridge.. I think I have already known this on some level.
Who are you? Troll? Narc? They destroy your sense of self, your confidence, your LIFE and possibly health if they are poisoning you! Aren’t you reading any of this?
Sometimes, it's overt. #3 partner. I had a painful back injury. He was on benzos and opioids at the time. Instead of assisting me to find help, he encouraged me to take his meds. I didn't look into it enough. I made him leave anyway. He wouldn't go on the mortgage with me, so that part was easy. The withdrawal was hideous, but I did it. Here's the very best part. About 2 years back, he hunted me down and wanted me to come back. That was after 13 years. Oh , yeah, ye used to steal my anti anxiety meds, too. I think everyone can guess how I responded to him.
Oof been there & benzo & opioid withdrawal is hell, so well done, and I’m so happy to got away from him 👏👏👏 Lol a hoover after 13 years? I’d believe it. I dated an overt narcissist dckhead in my early 20s for about 5 months, when I didn’t know anything about narcissists and had basically forgotten him & he friend requested me on SM….after 16 years!!! I thought I’d entertain myself for a bit (after rehashing the relationship in my mind & realising he was a narc) so was bemused when he seemed to be familiar and into EVERYTHING I was. He knew I was a tarot reader & Clairsentient & claircognizant (something that I’d only realised and embraced about 6 years prior) but I only posted more in depth stuff to friends only on my FB….and now he’s all the sudden telling me he’s a light worker 😂😂😂 I realised his younger sister was still on my friends list & he’d been basically stalking & studying up on me through her for months before making his own sparsely detailed account. I met up with him for a coffee and damn he was PATHETIC!!! He was 40 & literally had never moved out of his parents house, was still mowing lawns in his neighbourhood for cash payments (lol he referred to it as “landscaping”), and was still trying to be an actor despite only ever getting one national commercial when he was 14 & pretty nothing of note ever since, had replaced his old shiny new car he was so proud of with a dilapidated shtbox of a pickup truck & had never been in a relationship longer than a year 😂 But the best part was his looks! He was a skinny freckly ginger but back then you never noticed his v average looks as he was flashy expensive dresser & very charismatic. He was the vainest person I knew & I had to fight him for mirror space. So imagine my surprise when he showed up in shabby jeans, work boots, an oversized old sweater & baseball cap. He’d aged in banana years, his face weathered like an old baseball mitt, but I got the shock of my life when I playfully grabbed his baseball cap off to try it on, and he had the “George Costanza” balding style-only ginger 😅 He got super pissed off & accused me of being “very superficial & shallow & clearly not as ‘spiritually evolved’ as him” because I was wearing a few designer pieces & gone full glam that day, only because I was meeting up with someone who was a cheating asshole 🤷♀️ He was also clearly lying about his new “light worker” personality, as when I scratched the surface, it was clear he only knew a few buzzwords & had no idea about anything deeper. So I blocked him on the way home and relished the fact that narcissists do indeed get their asses handed to them by karma, and I’d just been lucky enough to witness it 🎉😂
I had a girlfriend of 5 years, my first big sign that i laughed at was the biggest sign, she hated animals, second was when I needed support she was drunk and said ohhh get out of here I'd never help you. I am the greatest at what I do and she is a lot levels under me, when people came around she never mentioned what I truly am but acted like i am a lot lower, and I always had to say sorry but I should currect her, I am ... and people seeing my work they were amazed and but it was not important to them thinking she didn't know. We all thought it's normal but to her it was a serious mathematical tactic, after a 2 years she started talking behind my back to her family & friends that I am controlling her, it was pure lie that when I found out she laughed and said but you are, and I asked are you freaking kidding me? I was in disbelief, cause i gave her so much and boosted her confidence that was dead when i first met her. She changed the topic hugged me loved me kissed me & became an angel said she was just making a point but its not important and they love me, long story short, here's the dangerous part, she was a nurse practitioner who loved witchcraft that i later found out from her old young years friend and she started showing her true colors when my success was rising up fast and i was happy for what I fought for all my life. She had a demon in her. An actual true demon, take this serious people. And here is the scary part, she never skipped church on Sundays. Again, long story short, I won cause I am a chosen one. She & the demon assigned in her lost the battle. God's chosens usually will never go down, we rise from the ashes and become better & better, kinder & kinder. My msg to you is for you to becareful people, these behaviors are called narcissism in this realm, but these are fallen angels and thry are pure demonic and carrey demons and are assigned to destroy many a chosens. This real is about a very important spiritual battle. It's deeper than you think. Anyways, Thanks for informing people about this my friend. you are 100% correct. There are a lott more to my story with her, but I can't go deeper. Blessings to all the loving, beautiful, caring true soul warriors out there.❤ always remember you are a chosen and that's why you get into attacks. Stand up and smile at life for it's making a warrior out of you. Trust God and choose love, to yourself and people around you. They lost their battle, their demons will turn against them, for they couldn't fulfill their missions. Have no empathy or sympathy, for they don't understand it. Move on quick and never look back. Best. Life is absolutely beautiful after you pass these levels, awaiting you. BR/SK
It is easy to leave a narcissistic partner unless you have kids. Narcissistic abuse is experienced worse when you are a child and the narcissists are your parents and relatives. I experienced this and hence today I avoid relations with people no less having a girlfriend. It does not interest me because a lot of women today are narcissists. If I were you, I would have cut the relationship early before I became fully enmeshed with that person. However, as a kid, you cannot leave, you have to be tied to your parents and when you are 18, if you were not able to get a job, then you will still be with them or they will discard you for you to be homeless. Not only this, you will suffer PTSD symptoms in early adulthood due to the nightmare you lived through which can cause devastating setbacks in your development as an adult. However, I understand what you went through but you should have left since you were now an adult man if she did not offer anything good as a person.
The Narcissistic brother in law bragged about getting my sister off her anti-anxiety meds while plying her with alcohol, knowing she was a recovering alcoholic. Its been a shambles around here since.
I got really sick and wouldn't get better and I wondered if he was putting something in my food. When he discarded me I started to feel better almost immediately. I may never know.
I've been researching this for a few years. Danish, I think you mentioned one of the symptoms people have with narcissistic abuse is a metallic taste in the mouth. Yeah, I always wondered about that my whole life, I got that sometimes. Oh, some poisons will cause that too. Once I asked a cop how common poisonings were. He said he didn't know, but thinks way more than people realize. Women were getting roofies for many years before it came to public attention. I know somebody who was being drugged for years by her house-mate, and getting sicker and sicker. She even saw a white powder residue when she poured out her coffee once. She thinks it was Ambien but not sure. When she found out, he tried to fatally poison her but she was wise to him and didn't take seconds of her favorite meal he "kindly" made her. She got real sick but lived. Incidentally, this guy had two previous girlfriends who did die, and most likely he had life insurance out on them. There should be a way to find out if anybody has life insurance out on you.
@@triciabaker8992I am trapped in my house, I can’t walk without falling, I know my phone is hacked ,anyone calling me gets his phone, I don’t know how but he switched it to go to his phone! I had a heart attack and triple bypass surgery in August of 2022 and I can’t get better! I switched insurance and doctors,he said I should switch to his insurance company, I didn’t! Am I paranoid or crazy? Awhile back I got my own fridge,because he’d hoard old food in ours and it stunk! I can’t lock my fridge but I never thought he was poisoning my food! He keeps telling me that I should be better by now and that there’s nothing wrong with me, they fixed your heart,he said and yet I can’t catch my breath, I’ve had diarrhea for a month with bleeding, I fall asleep while eating and my food tastes like metal! I’m scared to death and I’ve tried to get help from my doctor, all he said was that they don’t test for poison in my blood! I told the police,no help at all! I don’t know what to do, but I know I won’t last much longer! He’s even changed my username! I tried posting on here earlier and in the middle it was interrupted and posted! How is that possible? I’m no good with this electronic stuff, I don’t have a computer,this phone is my only source of communication and information! It’s my lifeline! I’m afraid I will die in here and no one will know!
Someone on a dating app told me after listening to my description that sounds like my partner maybe consuming drugs when he comes to meet me. I didnt think much of it and then months later my partner said next time i come to meet you i will take drugs and take you to cloud nine and my jaw fell to the ground. Freaked me out that i had been around an person out of their senses and felt so unsafe.
they can also tell people you are not taking your medication, when you are, to try and get you committed. When actually they are the reason you need medication in the first place. cognitive dissonance and cptsd is created by the narcissit, which causes mental and physical illness.
I love you bro ❤! Seriously if it wasn't for you and 2 others I've been watching id be still stuck dreading on the weird reason they are tge way they are! You the truth sir 💪👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
There was a time where I would sleep more than 18 hours a day and I physically couldn’t force myself to wake up. I know my abuser was drugging me and this video makes me feel so validated. Thank you
As a new born child , as told by my narc mother herself, she used to feed me poppy seeds preperation on daily basis which induces sleep... Because I used to cry a lot.... It was done to me for long time...until my grandfather noticed it.... As a child i was inactive and numb and it took me almost a decade to overcome the impact of that ... I had stammering issues, I was low in confidence..self esteem...
After I woke up to “him,” he tried everything to get me to use marijuana, Xanax, etc.. to veg out. Then he started to make the coffee in the morning & I had ended up with huge levels of arsenic & no one knew why? But it started to go down the longer we were apart. No proof, but it’s a fact.
This happened to me for 20 years, at least, the cuba libre drink.. So so much that I can't even describe right now. He destroyed my life and health. Used this to give me to other men.
I thank you for this video though I am late in seeing it. I work with this lady who hates me with a passion and has narcissistic tendencies. She ALWAYS insists on bringing me coffee every morning though I have begged not to. Its a good thing I always went and threw it away in the sink. Now I know why she brought the coffee. She wanted me fired, as she viewed me as competition. I don't know what it is that she put in the coffee. I could see it in her eyes like sort of questioning herself the reason why whatever she put in the coffee was not working.
LONG TERM JUSTICE IS NOT JUSTICE! IF I SHOW THEM HOW IT FEELS THEN I'VE BECOME JUST LIKE THEM! AND IT BECOMES A VICIOUS CIRCLE! WHAT CAN YOU DO? I DON'T WANT TO PLAY !
My friend divorced her narcissistic ex, amd moved to another state. He was still the listed benefactor on an insurance policy. He broke into her home and put drugs into her protein powders. He knew she used it daily. She started feeling icky and LUCKILY the doctor went the extra mile and asked her to bring in foods she ate regularly to test them, since he was suspicious, and found the drugs mixed into the powder. He meant to kill her for the $$ and revenge. When that didn't work, he broke into her company's business and hid in the attic until another employee heard him and called the police. He barely got any punishment and continues to try to find ways to destroy her, even though HE LEFT HER after a 25 year marriage for a drug addicted hooker. But could he let her move on? No. Wild!
Unfortunately when I was growing up many of my friends experimented with and used drugs of many different kinds and I suspect that this exact thing has happened too many people I used to know and it's one of the many reasons that I distanced myself from people that overindulged in drinking and drugs now that I'm older and wiser I don't use substances of any kind..
My father opened up my mother's chemotherapy capsules & emptied the contents into my grated cheese, sugar & flour. Not to mention lacing my dog's dry food with it! My dog died of testicular cancer after his were removed in puppyhood when I had him neutered. All because when my father beat me up (I was 38-46 years old), my dog went after him! I lost copious amounts of hair in 1 month. It took me almost a year to grow it back! All because I cried when my Mom died and missed her. My father didn't. He was happy and, in his delusional mind, I was supposed to be too?! Nope, not this girl!
My family did this to me. They convinced me i was some kind of druggie. They tricked me into a plot to "show" it. It was not true, but it became their narrative to justify their abuse.
I swear he poisoned me a couple times . When I was with him I got sicker than I've ever been in my life. I was hospitalized for a couple days to recover.
you are so right, My daughter did this to me, but found it so weird. I cant even begin to explain as I always imagined she loved me and probably taking care of me. But one of the med was making me so dizzy during the day
Yeah, i dealt with this type of behavior for many years. Try to report it once. Speak to someone that suppose to care. Thats when you get super paranoid. Because they will make you out to be the dilusional one, and empower the abuser. I learned its best to suffer in silence. It causes less harm then if you speak out.
Each words mentioned are true. After decades i understood and sensed the mentioned words. But it is too late. This kind of narassist are in each and every family and start playing this mind game from their childhood. Interesting thing in a family is nobody will sense that "something is going wrong". After decades with universe and God's grace some outsiders will give a hint about what going on on the family. If anyone in the family is smart will start to working. I personally witnessed and a survival. As mentioned someone told me about that "something is happening inside the family and someone is playing a drastic game", I started finding in the meanwhile lost parents and now moving forward with great and smart step. Those who are facing, increase your prayers so that someone directly or indirectly will give a hint to work upon. Thanks for sharing deep drive details.
These narassist ensure and play a mind game using drugs since their childhood to the entire family. I feel each and every person should be careful. The enemies are inside when compared to outsiders.
I'm caring for my mentally disabled adult brother at the time. He has to take a few powerful meds and while he stays with me, I have to administer his meds. When he is in my mothers care, she will sometimes "forget" to medicate him, and she also likes making public announcements about it, in his presence. "Hes Medicated." or "Hes not medicated, thats why he is acting like that." She literally has the lever to pull, not to mention medical treatment should be private. These meds also are partially intended to regulate my brothers appetite, which is another problem that can switched on and off.
100% on point. Step by step technique that these individuals use. The ‘poison’ was a mind virus for me: ‘unalive yourself already’, ‘you are shittty, shitty, shitty’
this is definitely not far fetched but so true, sad as it is. I was with a narc who was after my life insurance and wanted me to die. I quit, divorcing him before he could do any more harm. For months I had to live in the same house, locked in my own bedroom for fear he would do something like this. My therapist had warned me and I think he was right. Narcs who want you out of their lives would do anything.... in a very subtle way of course.
My mother conned me out of all my money 30 yrs ago and now is enjoying watching me starve .She is 97 and in a care home .I am on a antidepressant high dose and sleeping tablet . I have gone no contact for a year .She doesn't want to die.
In Italy we say “ the poisoned plant/ infesting plants never die”, l’erba cattiva non muore mai, it’s true. Many narcissist live longer than good people
I thought it was too monstrous to be believed, it took me 6 years to recover, thank God I am fully recovered. Doctors wouldn’t help me as all they wanted to do was hide the symptoms. Near as I can fathom, it was a sudden odorless tasteless overdose of fluoride served me in expensive fancy coffee prepare for my treat my my wife and her long term boyfriend. I was saved but barely.
Yes! Danish will go there! Thank you, Danish, foe exposing what others refuse to believe. May I syggest the classic fil "Notorious" where Ingrid Bergman is very slowly poisoned by her ultra controlling mother-in-law. An excellent film.
Here is the answer to the question:
Get a comprehensive blood work panel done and consult a trusted doctor-someone who is unaware of your situation with the narcissist. Keep this consultation private to avoid alerting the narcissist and work discreetly to uncover any traces of unusual substances or altered medication levels.
This is very scary.
@@narcabusecoach thanks ♥️
Thank you. I assume this would need to be done ASAP after the event?
I knew this was happening . I found pictures. I'm a deep sleeper but what's in the pictures I had to be drugged. This one time I woke up and I felt so good , better than I has in a long time . I sat up in bed and proceeded to projectile vomit and kept vomiting all day . Why would I be vomiting like that . He wanted me to look erratic and play me as a horrible crazy person to deflect from him and his drug use
Cant agree enough with that i kept telling them i was being poisoned ,they wouldn't even consider it and vital records went missing.
Yes! These evil excuses for human beings will stop at nothing to destroy their chosen victims, they are disgusting! I have experienced this evilness first-hand. Thank you Danish for raising awareness.
I too have experienced this first-hand. It is a terrible, awful, criminal thing to do to someone, literally. We need guidelines for what to do as soon as we suspect an event like this has occurred. From what I've read, the date-rape drugs they often use leave the system quickly and are usually not detectable in the blood for very long. It would be life-saving to have a home test kit for this sort of thing. These disordered people have figured out a way to commit the perfect crime, and they keep getting away with it!
@melaniedeare5427 : The only way to find out is to get blood test to find out what kind of chemical the bastard is putting in your foods or drinks aside from the usual medications you are taking. This is scary.
That's so true 💯
This happened to me by my brother and mother. For 4 years I had migraines and was vomitting and had pain in my right side. I could not work and they stole all my money. I lost my job and became homeless.
I have too. 😢
Always pray over your food! 😊
They also use your addiction against you if your in recovery too. Its very sickening and you have to be so strong as well. They have no shame.
@@joyporcella81 .. they use any mistakes against you.. its terrible
No-one wants to help me
When I was 17 my drug dealer did this to me and he was51. I went to detox twice and he gave me speed in hospital and coke the 2nd detox.
I believe you! Mine used thc and meth. I believe you.@@Paradeuxliaa
I also would and I'm not a narcissist. I'm sorry you decided to do those drugs that you knew were addicting and got addicted like everyone said you would. Ffs.
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
dr.zachary3 is the man
On Instagram?
Yes
Psychedelic is the answer to most severe anxiety and depression. The use of magic mushrooms completely helps one get over depression and makes you feel like yourself.
This is a perfect description about what is happening to all of us at the hands of the people in power.
Very very true and to the death of 140,thousand and counting just from fentanal alone then the big pharma then the water and food and on and on
OMG! How did I not think of this immediately?! So so true!! People going to Italy and EATING , and LOSING weight?! And feeling better?! It's just crazy!!
Amen.
I believe this! My ex-husband did this to his baby mother! She was a drug addict, before I was angry at her but now I understand!! Making her look like the crazy one!! I pray for her everyday!! 🙏🏾
Yikes! That's horrendous.
He told you she was a drug addict*
Please pray for me. Lost in this!
@@Spiralclarity I understand IT IS devastating!! I am holding onto GOD'S toenails to keep me from going over the edge! HOLD ON!! It is hard to see during this rejection that GOD could have kept you from something that could have killed you!! I will keep you in my prayers 🙏🏾 💕
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Thank you for addressing this. I've been telling people for years that poisoning is WAY more common than people realize. Sometimes the goal isn't to kill you but to make you easier to control, or that sadistic pleasure of seeing you struggling and sick. But when the goal is to kill you and they succeed, it's almost impossible to prove in court. I'm sure poisoning and drugging is way more common than people realize. And...they also use the dark arts to curse food or drink (I never used to believe in that stuff, but watched some videos and yes, it seems to be real and people are doing that too).
I agree. I think this is way more common than people realize. There needs to be greater awareness of it; more education, please!
Oh wow 😮 I got food poisoning a few times as a kid. I don't like to accept food off my mother anymore. I just get a feeling telling me not to eat it. Listen to your gut!
My father used to practice dark arts, some my colleagues I have been struggling from one sickness after another. They curse, they spoil and harm make you lose sleep. Only Jesus can save us.
@yuu_miran Amen! There was witchcraft in my family and a lot of it in my area. I wasn't raised Christian but am now. I have an icon of St Justina and often ask her to neutralize anything directed at me (sorcery was used on her, she prevailed through Christ, and converted the top sorcerer in the empire). This morning I read from Fr Chad Rippergers Deliverance Prayers for the Laity. I always feel something lift when I do that. Narcs like easy. Using the dark arts and spells is easy, and all online!
@@Sophie-ur2qb yeah, I'm starting to wonder about a few times when I got violently ill when young, and the timing.
I never ever told anyone that my narc husband used certain drugs on me. I didn't think anyone would believe me. It seemed so far-fetched. Thank you, I feel vindicated after all these years of being in my own ❤
@@junechapman7751 I hear ya.. I can't tell anyone about my narcs behaviors.. he is so beloved and such a great guy outside of the house
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@@TR-nv3if it seems at this point some people don't believe in demonic possession anymore or if some still do then they sweep it under the rug, I've already not been believed when i admitted to seeing my mother's eyes turn black when she rages (the first time i saw it i thought i was seeing things, the second time i saw this happen i realize God was showing me what was on the inside), i suppose those who haven't yet asked God for the gift of discernment aren't able to see it
@@TR-nv3if i mean could you imagine the looks (and possibly laughter) on people's faces if i told them that I've been abused by a demon in a human's body (or in other words abused by a demon possessed person), some would think I'm crazy, i bring this is up because this is an important topic and a salvation issue, someone can get and be possessed without even knowing it and being possessed not only affects the possessed person but everyone around them as well
@@Anonymissus ~ and such a shame because God says He will FREELY give the gift of Discernment to anyone who asks!! Not so with all the other gifts of the Spirit, those are given to us as the Holy Spirit decides. But That gift is one He wishes for all to ask for! God bless!!!😇📖📖
Activated charcoal tablet can be used to neutralise the effects of poisoning to a large extent. Activated charcoal is routinely used in ER in hospital to deal with poisoning.
Isaiah 54:17 But in that coming day
no weapon turned against you will succeed.
You will silence every voice
raised up to accuse you.
These benefits are enjoyed by the servants of the Lord;
their vindication will come from me.
I, the Lord, have spoken!
The foolish narcissists that weaponize drugs are doomed to fail, in the mighty name of Jesus, amen!
Amen!
Amen 🙏🏻
AMEN!!!
AMEN!!!🥰🙏
Thank you for this.
My mother always accused my husband of drugging me. Lately I have been wondering if it was an admission. I can't remember much of my youth and she always is forcing food on me.
And my husband noticed that anytime I visit her I am very tired for about a week.
Stress and trauma can do that, too.
Same story here
@@JezeBellaMorte333Rite. That's her nervous system telling her something is wrong!
He was arrested for that?
@@MiSSTiquE Secretly, collect some food and drink samples and get them tested for poisoning. Never know 4 sure.
My father got me to depend on smoking the green. I now believe it was to keep me in a tripped out, unaware state, so i can feel empathy/sympathy towards him to make me feel bad. As if it was my fault for everything. Everytime i wanted to get better from anxiousness and depression, he would use it against me as a weakness. He never wanted me to be in control of my own life, instead making me feel bad, manipulating, belittling me. He even showed concerned, yet used my security and conditions against me. I'm away from him now. Not smoking anymore, things are getting a bit better, but left me in shit for my future. Everything he could to make me non funtional and to make my adulthood life hard to accomplish what i need to.
Me ex narc was a big green smoker & used to bully me to join him even though I wasn’t a fan…but after devaluation started, I would reluctantly join him as it was the only time he seemed to want to talk to me. He’d always insist on packing my (one small) cone himself….I thought it was my inexperience that had me completely fcked up & much more compliant & agreeable after one, where he would smoke ten & drink at the same time & seem completely fine.
It took me waaaay too long to realise he was giving me “snowcones” ie. green mixed with another substance, most likely benzodiazepines. I broke up with him & told him to move out after I realized, but it took an extra 2 months to actually get him out of the house….so I started spiking his expensive liquor (that I paid for, same as everything else in the house) with liquid laxatives. Was it immature? Absolutely!! Was is hilarious to watch him suddenly rush to the bathroom everytime he over indulged? Yes, I felt like an evil genius. Did it makeup for the years of emotional, mental & financial torture he put me through? Not even a little bit. I still have no regrets about it though & 💯 would’ve done even worse to him now 😏
@@missbrooke666
😂😂😂😂😂 Genius❣️❣️❣️
They were a freaking a'hole😢
@@DandyDuh Lol thanks 😉 Almost 2 years of hardcore no contact regime now, and I’m much mentally tougher than I’ve ever been. Meanwhile it’s a small town so things do get back to me (which is why I tell NO ONE my business unless I want it to be gossip)…so he’s living with his toxic mother in the most run down, dangerous, ghetto part of town. He STILL has no job, no education and apparently still spends his time & money on killing brain cells locked in his room smoking (cigarettes & green) & drinking to excess whilst playing video games all day & night. As I’ve said before, narcissists live their karma every day 😏
One ex bf did that to me too
@@missbrooke666you can’t smoke benzodiazepines. The story with the laxatives is funny. 😂
All of this sounds so horrifying and next to like practicing witchcraft upon others 😮
U nailed it. Witchcraft is exactly what they do
Yea, my criminal neighbor and her felony friends have no limit to their murderous, slick behaviors. They excel at staging their crimes so they themselves look innocent.
She claims to be a witch.
It is‼️
It's not magic.
Yes it Is
Scary! This makes me think of the entertainment industry and all the shady things they do. Poor kids are being forced into it 😢 Then they grow up and are seen as a problem for reacting. I feel for them.
Mine actually calmly said once, a few yrs ago,,” I’d never put rat poison in your food” and I thought “WTF”.?
Why would you even say that to anyone? He said because he thought I’d do that to him..( I was shocked .. I grew up very honest, trustworthy, loyal ( that’s why I still stayed with him) I’d never do anything like that to my worst enemy ..swear to god..
he also drops food on the floor and eats it so I never eat out of stuff he’s been using as I do think he’d be unsanitary on purpose ( he would drop stuff on the floor and put it back in the container knowing I’d eat from it). Ex..a can of peanuts). They’re passive aggressive, vengeful..they’re very cagey and smart so they’d probably do something just enough to affect you but not end you… they become vengeful just if you are assertive or don’t agree with them .. they will act nice like they don’t care then a day, a we later, they’ll pounce..
YES! They do! We would long be over something but they are so vengeful!!! Mine will remember and break something of mine a month later when things seem perfectly calm. 😢
Oneof my family member tried to rat poison me to. Cooked me some food. I went to wash my hands throw the napkin away . I saw the empty box... sad
@@beckystrozenski5187yep mine would hide my stuff i use everyday and blame the girls for taking it and would use that to fight for months on end. He would say well you have to go buy new now and spend your money and laugh. I tried to save money and he would go shopping say before hand for groceries he would pay bring 20 and he would say thats all i have u have to buy everything at the checkout and try to make me irrational and mad at the cashier. I wouldn't just buy it and never went imto the store agsin. Very calculated everything they do.
My covert malignant narc parent got my other parent medically misdiagnosed and dependant on pharmaceutical pills. My narc parent was able to get this diagnosis through, because they always spoke on behalf of my other parent. Even convincing my other parent that they had that diagnosis.
Unfortunately because of this, my other parent became very dependant on my narc parent for many years. However, my other parent did not actually have that problem, their symptoms were from narc abuse!
Once my other parent was divorced from the narc, they realised what the narc had done, and were able to get healing from the real problem, narc abuse.
One day, my ex husband made a pack of meds fall on the floor, from his pocket. He placed his foot over the pk but I already saw it. So I picked it up and looked at the name but I didn't know that med. Then I asked him what he was using it for, he then told me that I stole his tablets although I was right there Infront of him with the meds. So I gave him it bk, but it was heavy on my mind. So I asked him what meds he's using and what he is using it for. No answer. So I asked to see the packet. He said it was in the bin. So I went to look for it. He said I won't find it because he already emptied the garbage. So I went to the larger outside bin to look for it. He said I will not find it because it far at the bottom. I said I don't care I'm searching for it. I found the pack but the name and dosage of the med was scratched off of the packet. That's how I realized I was being drugged, that's why I couldn't stay awake after 10 am . Then I stopped eating at home. Till after a month he said: like you don't eat anymore.
Woahhh.. I'm glad you got away from him
Diabolical!!!
Praying
This is real. Good job explaining how evil some people can be.
I wouldn't put anything past these evil people. Nothing would shock me. They have no morals, absolutely no character.
Yes!!! I'm in a very dark situation with my current husband who's first wife died from vicodin overdid in 2006!! When I first met my spouse in 2013 & he told me about how his wife died " I kept telling her t quit using more & more vicodin or she would die!". " She had chronic back pain & kept taking more & more"! Etc etc. He had her buried immediately without autopsy & after finally contacting his former step daughter last year she spilled the beans about everything! They wanted autopsy but he absolutely refused and including his step daughter saying how when she came home from school, finding marks on her mom's body & she would try to lie & cover it to her daughter so she wouldn't worry! From time I met him he's gotten anti anxieties from a know drug dealer & I have no doubt, murderous man in our town!! Karen's daughter also said her mom would be sipping on tea or pop, just a little bit, & would often complain to her daughter " I don't know why I feel so sleepy all of a sudden"!! This is true psychopathy & serial killers!! Thanks Danish!!
Hi! I got out of an abusive relationship with a man that turned me on to drugs. Please, get the fuck out of there as soon as possible! You are in tremendous danger! I fear few things more than a narcissistic, polysubstance addicted man. I'm so sorry but please, get out!!
Omfg, please reach out to experts for advice and a plan to get as far away as possible from him immediately 😫 Do not tell him anything you know about his past and grey rock until you can get out safely ❤️
@missbrooke666 Thanks Brooke!! Just did that last night- Finally!!! Got protection order & a bunch of my stuff & meeti g wuth divirce attorney next Thursday!! I'm in a wonderful hotel wuth my little rescue dog who's acting mire back to normal than she has in 2 years ^ have record showing one if his DV cases & jail time plus way more!! God's on my side not his! This is HIS baby to handle! To Him be all Glory & Victory that's coming! Love & blessings!!
@@barbaradecker4358 That’s FANTASTIC I’m ecstatic to hear it!!! I’m so so pleased you and your furbaby are safe and sound and have the law on your side. Go for broke and RUIN him!! 💪💪💪
Love your videos Danish! I was married to one for 3 years and I was damaged. One day he had one of his rages at me and when he went to bed I thought about killing him! Instead I threw some clothes and stuff in the car and left to never return! That was over 15 years ago but I still remember well the Hell he put me through. It took a year and therapy for me to begin to heal.
Is it normal to feel this way? I'm a really kind and gentle person but I have been driven to this feeling.😢😢😢
@@Spiralclarityyes it is
This is wild! I had a lot of stomach aches and problems with my digestive system constantly after I met him. I wasn't sure if it was just stress, I never thought about him putting something in my food, as he made me meals a few times. 🤯
Same here! I vomited every night!!! He appeared so caring and oddly wanted to see the vomit come out.
Wow! That is like….psychopathic! Scary! I hope you both are safely away from these monsters.
Same
@@MR-ly4xt mine only has to start verbally harassing me and I get immediate indigestion or stomach aches ( from stress) ive been getting out by myself a lot more now and its helped a lot
@@TR-nv3if I'm so sorry. I hope you can get away. 🙏
Watch out for sugary drinks, they used antifreeze in my drinks, no joke, I ended up with leukemioid reaction and the doctors couldn't figure out why, until I found out
Hmm, this sounds kinda familiar. I remember someone saying something about leukemia (possibility), despite no family history of it. Docs couldn’t figure why either
I'm glad you survived
The most common quote by the bully is you are not that important while they are stealing your lunch money and of course its not the matter of importance its what kind of attention someone is getting indirectly.
@Ithinkso222 very true indirect attention that's the kicker
I believe you!!!
If you are a survivor of childhood SA and have chronic pain, you are definitely extra vulnerable. Be wary of sudden medication changes by your doctor. Also blood pressure and statin medicines cause depression and a whole bunch of other nasty side effects. Great video.
Eat as healthy as you can and take cod liver oil.
Hi ! What signs of SA should I look out for? Sometimes the child has memory loss.
@@awesomekidvids101dawnmcnic3 I would google it. I know a big one, is wanting to push everyone away, no matter if they are benevolent or not.
@@awesomekidvids101dawnmcnic3 The people that tell me I have memory loss, are the ones that don't want to admit they did horrible stuff to me, and lied about it.
@@awesomekidvids101dawnmcnic3 I also said you should Google it. I know a big one is pushing people away, even if they are benevolent.
My God these are true demons living amongst us.
The narc I was involved with always tried to get me to drink and I am a non drinker. He always wanted to make me a drink etc until he got tired and lost interest.
My mom knew I quit pot and insisted I get some for her.
She is just evil. Never mind stealing pain meds after surgery. She is famous for that.
Same experience I had
@@Xcxc-kf8wl it’s both healing and a bummer to know this. At least we aren’t the only ones.
Yep, they are evil.
I wondered why he always insisted on bringing me my coffee in bed every morning. He refused to let me get my own coffee
OMG! he insisted to bring me tea with a smile every morning…. I was sick and confused the entire time we were together….
My cousin once told of bringing her ex husband his coffee after work and spiking it with Xanax so she wouldn't have to deal with him 😮 I thought it was a joke
My husband does the same with my coffee, he has to make it all the time and it always tastes different. I complain and say just let me make it and he never will.
@@beckystrozenski5187so make your own anyway. Why let him call the shots? Better still, leave. Block him on every channel, save your life.
@@beckystrozenski5187
Stop drinking it‼️‼️‼️
There were times he would bring me a piece of cake or something. Then he kept pressing me to try it. For some reason I was wary and even said, you’re not poisoning me! He threw a fit because I wasn’t going to eat it. He tossed it in the trash. He was acting too weird and watched to see if I would take a bite.
Wow! Their evil knows not limits
This is absolutely true. My narcissistic psychopathic mother did this for years when I was growing up, she mainly ground up Ritalin and put it in my milk used for my cereal. I’m not sure what other chemicals she used, but I was the only one in the house who ate and drank all the same stuff everyone else did, but I always got sick, vomited, diarrhea, whatever it was I was ill from food or drink. It was her poisoning me to control and manipulate every aspect of my life
OMG, I just realized I got sick after I had chocolate milk all. The. Time. 😭
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My dad felt that chocolate milk was healthy & insisted I drink it. I didn’t like it so I would balk; but he would insist. The problem was/is I found out later that I’m allergic to chocolate. He was just trying to keep me healthy. But I would always have sore throats, swollen glands & other allergy symptoms. Not even the Drs realized I had allergies.
Mine was an addictions counsellor. He would make me believe that i should not take my antidepressants because he said it was the same thing as being addicted to drugs. I was missing him again. Thank you for reminding me how vindictive he was. He passed away over 3 years ago. I could not go back to him anyway.
Stunning info im shocked listening
I thought i was the only one who experienced this thank god im free now
Accurate. God help us all.
This is MUCH needed to be spoken of. It is extremely common for abusers to use drugs to control and further trap victims.
In my experience, every dealer is either supporting their habit or it is a tool to manipulate women.
My narc. brother retired & started hanging at a drug house & I had to evict him & it was hell.
Thank you for speaking on this. It is so true!!!
This is really sinister but there was more then 1 incident that I became really confused , dizzy , nautious & an extricating head ache the next day .
Headache could suggest toxicity.
@@juliecarter2048Absolutely!
Sick sick sick sick!!! But God will punish them! Ohh guys!! If not in this life, for all ethernity!!
Narcissists live their karma every day 🙏
Thank you, Danish, for saying this out loud
Thus is 100% right ✅️. My Narc ex used to drug me forcefully. She used to say that I have anxiety and these drugs are a cure for anxiety.
Oh wow I totally thought it was just me. My mom first gave me so much medication since I was a little girl, I got put in a hospital permanently at 11 and the next day my mouth wouldn’t even move! I didn’t understand why she gave me 17 Ativan at my dad’s funeral. I had a new baby in my arms. I finally got taken off that medication in 2016. I finally figured out I’m autistic not crazy at 42. I never understood it until now. Then I married one 3 years ago and I was going through the most painful time of my life. I never used drugs from the street but I just wanted him to love me and one day he said do you think you’re too good for that and at first I said yes but one day I did. He ghosted me and I was stuck. It’s still so hard to believe my mom wasn’t perfect like she said. I’m still so mad at all of the damage she did to my life and yeah, you are spot on about why she did it too
My Mom gave me Ativan between 15 and 17. Finally off of it took me 30 plus years. Thank you I know it's not only me.
My narc admitted to trying to drug me with P C P in 2022 and that admission made me realize that he had successfully drugged me multiple times in the past. It's scary to live with a psycho for so long, not realizing the dangers you're in. This person also tried to unalive me multiple times. I am thankful everyday I got away but I still do not feel safe. Please stay safe everyone.
I’m sorry and I’m very glad you found the strength to leave. It took me awhile to realise my ex narc was successfully drugging me too. Are you extreme (HG Tudor style) no contact? Are there things you could do that would improve your security, like what I did immediately after & surrounded my entire house with security cameras, changed all the locks, put very bright motion sensor lights up where needed, alarmed all doors & windows etc? I’d already changed my number & email address (both very inconvenient but safer), blocked him everywhere obviously but also deactivated all my social media for almost 5 months (it actually helped a lot mentally. I avoided places in the unfortunate small town where he’d frequent, & also cut contact with all his friends & family- none of those ppl can be trusted, all flying monkeys. My main fear was him showing up at my house as I’d made it practically impossible for him to contact me any other way. Better to be paranoid and safe rather than underestimating these psychopaths- think about the things people with NO emotional empathy are capable of 😕
Yes. I was poisoned heavily throughout my entire life. I was given date rape drugs as a teenager by my mom. Lots of gaps of time lost. My dad gave me cocaine and alcohol as a child. I'm 51 now. Neither parent should be around anyone else. I know of some things that have to do with a death. So sad.
This is deep! I believe it. They want total control.
May God bless you Danish. The narcissist nemesis of my life is a doctor and she is doing that.
I know it for many years and now I hear it from you.
Scary stuff.
Life is hard enough.
Edit: I fear this has been used on me.
This man speaks 100% truth who ever says he's lying obviously has no real life experiance.
Yup that’s what my parents did for most part of my youth.
Some people are just ignorant trsh that want their kids to shut up.
Cough syrup, or even whiskey, back in the day. It isn't all a plot, but it is out of selfishness, even if it isn't worse than that.
This is so sickening 😭. It breaks my heart. Im going through this right now!!! Help!!! 😭
Even me too😢
Oh so true 💯 I've seen it & experienced it first hand. Drug addiction isn't a joke!! I had this happen to me!! He tried to drug me . Because he's an addict! 😢💔💥
I suspected this near the end. Absolutely evil & criminal .
Thank you so VERY much for this enlightening video. Thankfully I have personally not experienced that, nonetheless our Cocker Spaniel was possibly/allegedly being drugged by our neighbor. He lived directly behind us, which was at the top of our steep embankment. Everything was fine when we had our Bloodhound Duke, as this neighbor really liked him. Unfortunately Duke had issues and we had toddlers who he was not very good around. We were blessed to find him a home with a couple who had a Bloodhound at the time, so all turned out great. My parents had a Cocker Spaniel who was a bit too active for them, so we adopted him from them soon after Duke left. Henry (the Cocker Spaniel) had been with my parents for 3 years and NEVER had any issues whatsoever. Once Duke left our home and Henry moved in, strange things began to occur. Whenever Henry ran up our embankment to say hello to this neighbor man, he would yell at him to get away and would spray him with a hose. Unfortunately the fence between our homes was wrought iron and we were able to clearly see each other. Strangely, Henry began to have seizures soon after moving in with us. We immediately took Henry to the Vet and he tested Henry. He then told us that our dog was being poisoned. We cannot say with absolute certainty that this man was poisoning our dog, but Henry never before had any seizures and once we stopped allowing him to go outside without us as well as kept him off of our embankment, he never again had any more seizures. When we moved from that home to our next home, Henry was free to roam our new back yard, as the potential threat was no longer there. Happily, Henry never again had any seizures. These evil possessed narcissists are EVERYWHERE, so be careful to not only guard yourselves, but your pets as well! TOTAL EVIL INSANITY! Always pray for God to surround you, your pets, your home, vehicles and all of your loved ones with legions of Angel armies and hedges of protection. You cannot pray enough for this amazing protection! Blessings and Stay Safe 🙏🥰
The narcissist I'm still dealing with the long term damage from was poisoning my service dog. Now she's got kidney damage from him. She went from healthy indoors only dog to sudden acute kidney FAILURE & was TERRIFIED to eat ANYTHING! NOT even BACON after he took care of her for 3 days when he'd had me falsely jailed. As soon as I got my rightful freedom back (3 days) she was SEVERELY TRAUMATIZED😭 She's doing better now, but if I'd not been able to take her back when I did she surely would be deceased by now. My rationalization is that he was probably poisoning her to try to make her death look like an accidental illness⁉️
Just like in your situation: WHAT KIND OF PERSON DOES THIS TO INNOCENT PETS‼️⁉️‼️
🙏🏻🙏🏿🙏🏽🙏🏼Bless & Protect We Who Survive💜🖤✨
Danish, I went through this and barely survived it. My Daughter and I discovered this on complete accident after being ill for three years…
Thank you for Making this video because it’s exactly how I e been trying to explain what my Family has been through.
💯 CONFIRMATION!!!! The 3 narcs in my lifetime have all done this to me !!! Proven with tests by the hospital 🏥 once admitted ..I never pressed charges & now I wished I had, but thee ULTIMATE JUDGE IS HANDLING THEM JUST FINE 😊 RIGHT ✅️ ALL THESE YEAR'S LATER 😂😂😂😂
GOD IS THESE BEST AT THE ULTIMATE VENGEANCE 🙌 🙏 HE KNOWS THE NARC BETTER THAN ANYONE ❤😢 LET GO & LET GOD 😊
I never realized this until I heard your video, he definitely keeps me high. Yesterday he tried to get the neighbor girl and him, to definitely be sexual. Clearly I was so uncomfortable and she felt the same way, thank God her family Interveined at the right time. This is truly scary. I am slowly understanding all these facts. Everything you are saying is 100% correct.
Please please get proof & contact police and for your own sake, get away from him!!!!
Please get out as soon as possible. And if you plan on leaving soon, make it very discreet, and very hidden. If you make it too obvious he will do everything he can to stop you. God is trying to show you that you are in danger. May the Lord protect you in Jesus name 💚
@@MarjyGTV Yes I second being extremely discreet and careful in planning to leave, according to statistics and stories of other survivors, when you try to leave is the most dangerous time. Please enlist help & backup from only your most trustworthy family & friends & stay safe ❤️
Do you live in a fucking trailer park or something? lol
The neighbour girl? Her family? It sounds like the girl in question isnt even adult? Please call police and get away from him tf
My mother would make up mental illnesses for us to tell a therapist so she could drug us as kids. She would convince us that we really had these mental illnesses.
I am so sorry you experienced that. There is no excuse for that kind of manipulation 😞
My former pastor (a wolf) tried to pull this on me. It never worked on me and I fled his church. It was so scary. That dude has major issues since he is a narcissist after all.
Wow, like a Munchausen by proxy thing? 😮
Sounds like my mother, grandfather & husband. Wow !!!!
Shaunagosch
Sounds like Maunchausen by proxy. Where parents/caregiver makes the child/children sick on purpose.
As a teenager, I needed various medications for the mental health issues I was dealing with at the time. However, the narcissistic people who raised me never provided that medication. If I had received it, things might have turned out differently for me today.
They may have seen it as giving my child drugs no way 🤷♀️
@@daylilopez6350 I'm afraid you're mistaken; they (my older brother was smoking the herb at 14 years old)used to smoke, and I think they still do-the herb. I remember the woman always had to check the oregano bottles because one had the actual oregano, and the other had the 'other stuff.
If the people that raised you were truly narcissistic, they were causing you mental health issues. Seeing a psychiatrist regularly & being their guinea pig for medications is very expensive. Many of those meds now come with the disclaimer that they may cause suicide in teenagers. They almost killed me by the time I was 15,after turning me into a depressed,mentally & physically ill zombie. I will on the rare occasion mention it to my mom. Every time without exception, she'll snap at me, "You should've kept taking them!" I'd been on various ones for over 3 years & all they did was make me sick & depressed. She forced me to go to a complete tool that misdiagnosed me & poisoned me for years. He would listen to all of her bs & not a word I said. He treated me for depression when in actuality I had ADHD & strongly disliked her abusive new husband. Knowing what I know about those meds, most of them should never be given to a child! After following experiences with certain family members & videos like this, I now know my mom was trying to kill me with those meds, get me out of the way & sacrifice me for her new family. Also, I say all this as a mentally sound (besides ADHD & more recently anxiety) & balanced middle aged adult. 💙
It's funny because I do all the cooking now, and I watch my food, just because I have learned not to trust that he may not poison me. I don't drink open containers from the fridge.. I think I have already known this on some level.
But yet you stay
@@paulettelamontagne6992 🎯
Omgggg wtf LEAVE PLEASE 🙏🏽 😮😮😮😮
Idiot. He can slip that in anything. Speaking from experience. Get out now.
Who are you? Troll? Narc? They destroy your sense of self, your confidence, your LIFE and possibly health if they are poisoning you! Aren’t you reading any of this?
Sometimes, it's overt. #3 partner. I had a painful back injury. He was on benzos and opioids at the time. Instead of assisting me to find help, he encouraged me to take his meds. I didn't look into it enough. I made him leave anyway. He wouldn't go on the mortgage with me, so that part was easy. The withdrawal was hideous, but I did it. Here's the very best part. About 2 years back, he hunted me down and wanted me to come back. That was after 13 years. Oh , yeah, ye used to steal my anti anxiety meds, too. I think everyone can guess how I responded to him.
Oof been there & benzo & opioid withdrawal is hell, so well done, and I’m so happy to got away from him 👏👏👏 Lol a hoover after 13 years? I’d believe it.
I dated an overt narcissist dckhead in my early 20s for about 5 months, when I didn’t know anything about narcissists and had basically forgotten him & he friend requested me on SM….after 16 years!!! I thought I’d entertain myself for a bit (after rehashing the relationship in my mind & realising he was a narc) so was bemused when he seemed to be familiar and into EVERYTHING I was. He knew I was a tarot reader & Clairsentient & claircognizant (something that I’d only realised and embraced about 6 years prior) but I only posted more in depth stuff to friends only on my FB….and now he’s all the sudden telling me he’s a light worker 😂😂😂 I realised his younger sister was still on my friends list & he’d been basically stalking & studying up on me through her for months before making his own sparsely detailed account. I met up with him for a coffee and damn he was PATHETIC!!! He was 40 & literally had never moved out of his parents house, was still mowing lawns in his neighbourhood for cash payments (lol he referred to it as “landscaping”), and was still trying to be an actor despite only ever getting one national commercial when he was 14 & pretty nothing of note ever since, had replaced his old shiny new car he was so proud of with a dilapidated shtbox of a pickup truck & had never been in a relationship longer than a year 😂 But the best part was his looks! He was a skinny freckly ginger but back then you never noticed his v average looks as he was flashy expensive dresser & very charismatic. He was the vainest person I knew & I had to fight him for mirror space. So imagine my surprise when he showed up in shabby jeans, work boots, an oversized old sweater & baseball cap. He’d aged in banana years, his face weathered like an old baseball mitt, but I got the shock of my life when I playfully grabbed his baseball cap off to try it on, and he had the “George Costanza” balding style-only ginger 😅 He got super pissed off & accused me of being “very superficial & shallow & clearly not as ‘spiritually evolved’ as him” because I was wearing a few designer pieces & gone full glam that day, only because I was meeting up with someone who was a cheating asshole 🤷♀️ He was also clearly lying about his new “light worker” personality, as when I scratched the surface, it was clear he only knew a few buzzwords & had no idea about anything deeper.
So I blocked him on the way home and relished the fact that narcissists do indeed get their asses handed to them by karma, and I’d just been lucky enough to witness it 🎉😂
I thought about this many times.
I think my husband put dish soap in my Keurig machine were you put the water for the coffee machine😢😒👺
I had a girlfriend of 5 years, my first big sign that i laughed at was the biggest sign, she hated animals, second was when I needed support she was drunk and said ohhh get out of here I'd never help you. I am the greatest at what I do and she is a lot levels under me, when people came around she never mentioned what I truly am but acted like i am a lot lower, and I always had to say sorry but I should currect her, I am ... and people seeing my work they were amazed and but it was not important to them thinking she didn't know. We all thought it's normal but to her it was a serious mathematical tactic, after a 2 years she started talking behind my back to her family & friends that I am controlling her, it was pure lie that when I found out she laughed and said but you are, and I asked are you freaking kidding me? I was in disbelief, cause i gave her so much and boosted her confidence that was dead when i first met her. She changed the topic hugged me loved me kissed me & became an angel said she was just making a point but its not important and they love me, long story short, here's the dangerous part, she was a nurse practitioner who loved witchcraft that i later found out from her old young years friend and she started showing her true colors when my success was rising up fast and i was happy for what I fought for all my life. She had a demon in her. An actual true demon, take this serious people. And here is the scary part, she never skipped church on Sundays. Again, long story short, I won cause I am a chosen one. She & the demon assigned in her lost the battle. God's chosens usually will never go down, we rise from the ashes and become better & better, kinder & kinder. My msg to you is for you to becareful people, these behaviors are called narcissism in this realm, but these are fallen angels and thry are pure demonic and carrey demons and are assigned to destroy many a chosens. This real is about a very important spiritual battle. It's deeper than you think. Anyways, Thanks for informing people about this my friend. you are 100% correct. There are a lott more to my story with her, but I can't go deeper. Blessings to all the loving, beautiful, caring true soul warriors out there.❤ always remember you are a chosen and that's why you get into attacks. Stand up and smile at life for it's making a warrior out of you. Trust God and choose love, to yourself and people around you. They lost their battle, their demons will turn against them, for they couldn't fulfill their missions. Have no empathy or sympathy, for they don't understand it. Move on quick and never look back.
Best.
Life is absolutely beautiful after you pass these levels, awaiting you.
BR/SK
It is easy to leave a narcissistic partner unless you have kids. Narcissistic abuse is experienced worse when you are a child and the narcissists are your parents and relatives. I experienced this and hence today I avoid relations with people no less having a girlfriend. It does not interest me because a lot of women today are narcissists. If I were you, I would have cut the relationship early before I became fully enmeshed with that person. However, as a kid, you cannot leave, you have to be tied to your parents and when you are 18, if you were not able to get a job, then you will still be with them or they will discard you for you to be homeless. Not only this, you will suffer PTSD symptoms in early adulthood due to the nightmare you lived through which can cause devastating setbacks in your development as an adult. However, I understand what you went through but you should have left since you were now an adult man if she did not offer anything good as a person.
You are awesome man , like I could relate with all you shared thanks for sharing
I've always said they are demons and yes they attack the chosen ones but,with God on our side,we are more than conquerors
The Narcissistic brother in law bragged about getting my sister off her anti-anxiety meds while plying her with alcohol, knowing she was a recovering alcoholic. Its been a shambles around here since.
I made it back to recovery by the Grace of God and have been sober 20 years.
I got really sick and wouldn't get better and I wondered if he was putting something in my food. When he discarded me I started to feel better almost immediately. I may never know.
I've been researching this for a few years. Danish, I think you mentioned one of the symptoms people have with narcissistic abuse is a metallic taste in the mouth. Yeah, I always wondered about that my whole life, I got that sometimes. Oh, some poisons will cause that too.
Once I asked a cop how common poisonings were. He said he didn't know, but thinks way more than people realize. Women were getting roofies for many years before it came to public attention. I know somebody who was being drugged for years by her house-mate, and getting sicker and sicker. She even saw a white powder residue when she poured out her coffee once. She thinks it was Ambien but not sure. When she found out, he tried to fatally poison her but she was wise to him and didn't take seconds of her favorite meal he "kindly" made her. She got real sick but lived. Incidentally, this guy had two previous girlfriends who did die, and most likely he had life insurance out on them. There should be a way to find out if anybody has life insurance out on you.
As soon as you suspect, get a toxicology test. If your doctor won’t do it, pay for it yourself from a private doctor.
@@triciabaker8992I am trapped in my house, I can’t walk without falling, I know my phone is hacked ,anyone calling me gets his phone, I don’t know how but he switched it to go to his phone! I had a heart attack and triple bypass surgery in August of 2022 and I can’t get better! I switched insurance and doctors,he said I should switch to his insurance company, I didn’t! Am I paranoid or crazy? Awhile back I got my own fridge,because he’d hoard old food in ours and it stunk! I can’t lock my fridge but I never thought he was poisoning my food! He keeps telling me that I should be better by now and that there’s nothing wrong with me, they fixed your heart,he said and yet I can’t catch my breath, I’ve had diarrhea for a month with bleeding, I fall asleep while eating and my food tastes like metal! I’m scared to death and I’ve tried to get help from my doctor, all he said was that they don’t test for poison in my blood! I told the police,no help at all! I don’t know what to do, but I know I won’t last much longer! He’s even changed my username! I tried posting on here earlier and in the middle it was interrupted and posted! How is that possible? I’m no good with this electronic stuff, I don’t have a computer,this phone is my only source of communication and information! It’s my lifeline! I’m afraid I will die in here and no one will know!
Getting life insurance policy on another bot allowed any more for just that reason.🫂
Someone on a dating app told me after listening to my description that sounds like my partner maybe consuming drugs when he comes to meet me. I didnt think much of it and then months later my partner said next time i come to meet you i will take drugs and take you to cloud nine and my jaw fell to the ground. Freaked me out that i had been around an person out of their senses and felt so unsafe.
This happened to me!! how do victims of this type of abuse get justice when they get away with it all and no one believes you
He was also a pharmacist.
They usually use it to knock you out to do what they want or to go do what they want.
they can also tell people you are not taking your medication, when you are, to try and get you committed. When actually they are the reason you need medication in the first place. cognitive dissonance and cptsd is created by the narcissit, which causes mental and physical illness.
Right ...They create the problems you have ...and then you have to depend on them to help you with the problem they created in your life
I love you bro ❤!
Seriously if it wasn't for you and 2 others I've been watching id be still stuck dreading on the weird reason they are tge way they are!
You the truth sir 💪👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
My father spiked my drink at both my own wedding and when I was best man at my brother’s wedding.
That's awful 😢
I’m so sorry 🫂 I hope you have managed to distance/go no contact with him and begin to heal xx
So frightning!😢
But why
@@specialk8927 a demon. What else?
There was a time where I would sleep more than 18 hours a day and I physically couldn’t force myself to wake up. I know my abuser was drugging me and this video makes me feel so validated. Thank you
As a new born child , as told by my narc mother herself, she used to feed me poppy seeds preperation on daily basis which induces sleep... Because I used to cry a lot.... It was done to me for long time...until my grandfather noticed it....
As a child i was inactive and numb and it took me almost a decade to overcome the impact of that ... I had stammering issues, I was low in confidence..self esteem...
You poor soul, just a baby I am so sorry 😢
After I woke up to “him,” he tried everything to get me to use marijuana, Xanax, etc.. to veg out.
Then he started to make the coffee in the morning & I had ended up with huge levels of arsenic & no one knew why? But it started to go down the longer we were apart. No proof, but it’s a fact.
How did you figure out you had arsenic in you ? you asked a doctor to check that ??
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This happened to me for 20 years, at least, the cuba libre drink.. So so much that I can't even describe right now. He destroyed my life and health. Used this to give me to other men.
I thank you for this video though I am late in seeing it. I work with this lady who hates me with a passion and has narcissistic tendencies. She ALWAYS insists on bringing me coffee every morning though I have begged not to. Its a good thing I always went and threw it away in the sink. Now I know why she brought the coffee. She wanted me fired, as she viewed me as competition. I don't know what it is that she put in the coffee. I could see it in her eyes like sort of questioning herself the reason why whatever she put in the coffee was not working.
LONG TERM JUSTICE IS NOT JUSTICE! IF I SHOW THEM HOW IT FEELS THEN I'VE BECOME JUST LIKE THEM! AND IT BECOMES A VICIOUS CIRCLE! WHAT CAN YOU DO? I DON'T WANT TO PLAY !
My friend divorced her narcissistic ex, amd moved to another state. He was still the listed benefactor on an insurance policy. He broke into her home and put drugs into her protein powders. He knew she used it daily. She started feeling icky and LUCKILY the doctor went the extra mile and asked her to bring in foods she ate regularly to test them, since he was suspicious, and found the drugs mixed into the powder. He meant to kill her for the $$ and revenge. When that didn't work, he broke into her company's business and hid in the attic until another employee heard him and called the police.
He barely got any punishment and continues to try to find ways to destroy her, even though HE LEFT HER after a 25 year marriage for a drug addicted hooker. But could he let her move on? No. Wild!
I believe this happened to me with my ex. There were times when I felt drugged.
Unfortunately when I was growing up many of my friends experimented with and used drugs of many different kinds and I suspect that this exact thing has happened too many people I used to know and it's one of the many reasons that I distanced myself from people that overindulged in drinking and drugs now that I'm older and wiser I don't use substances of any kind..
Oh, you just described some of the abuse my ex-husband put me through🤔
My father opened up my mother's chemotherapy capsules & emptied the contents into my grated cheese, sugar & flour. Not to mention lacing my dog's dry food with it!
My dog died of testicular cancer after his were removed in puppyhood when I had him neutered. All because when my father beat me up (I was 38-46 years old), my dog went after him!
I lost copious amounts of hair in 1 month. It took me almost a year to grow it back! All because I cried when my Mom died and missed her. My father didn't. He was happy and, in his delusional mind, I was supposed to be too?! Nope, not this girl!
I feel for you - sorry you wen through all that..❤ 🙏🙏
@StellaClements-ml3wb Thank you for saying that!!!
My family did this to me. They convinced me i was some kind of druggie. They tricked me into a plot to "show" it. It was not true, but it became their narrative to justify their abuse.
I am glad you acknowledge this. I am going through this everyday…I am tired.
OMG it’s so true 😭😭😭
I can’t even go into it. It’s too horrible!
I swear he poisoned me a couple times . When I was with him I got sicker than I've ever been in my life. I was hospitalized for a couple days to recover.
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You look cute today, and i love your shirt ❤ thank you for your affirming content
He’s always cute!
Yup ...figured it out.....and escaped
you are so right, My daughter did this to me, but found it so weird. I cant even begin to explain as I always imagined she loved me and probably taking care of me. But one of the med was making me so dizzy during the day
Putting amatriptiline in my tea if I wouldn't have an alcoholic drink at night....I would wake up with bruises.
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These people are absolutely sick in the head.
Yeah, i dealt with this type of behavior for many years. Try to report it once. Speak to someone that suppose to care. Thats when you get super paranoid. Because they will make you out to be the dilusional one, and empower the abuser. I learned its best to suffer in silence. It causes less harm then if you speak out.
Each words mentioned are true. After decades i understood and sensed the mentioned words. But it is too late.
This kind of narassist are in each and every family and start playing this mind game from their childhood. Interesting thing in a family is nobody will sense that "something is going wrong".
After decades with universe and God's grace some outsiders will give a hint about what going on on the family. If anyone in the family is smart will start to working.
I personally witnessed and a survival. As mentioned someone told me about that "something is happening inside the family and someone is playing a drastic game",
I started finding in the meanwhile lost parents and now moving forward with great and smart step.
Those who are facing, increase your prayers so that someone directly or indirectly will give a hint to work upon.
Thanks for sharing deep drive details.
These narassist ensure and play a mind game using drugs since their childhood to the entire family. I feel each and every person should be careful. The enemies are inside when compared to outsiders.
I'm caring for my mentally disabled adult brother at the time. He has to take a few powerful meds and while he stays with me, I have to administer his meds. When he is in my mothers care, she will sometimes "forget" to medicate him, and she also likes making public announcements about it, in his presence. "Hes Medicated." or "Hes not medicated, thats why he is acting like that." She literally has the lever to pull, not to mention medical treatment should be private. These meds also are partially intended to regulate my brothers appetite, which is another problem that can switched on and off.
100% on point. Step by step technique that these individuals use. The ‘poison’ was a mind virus for me: ‘unalive yourself already’, ‘you are shittty, shitty, shitty’
this is definitely not far fetched but so true, sad as it is. I was with a narc who was after my life insurance and wanted me to die. I quit, divorcing him before he could do any more harm. For months I had to live in the same house, locked in my own bedroom for fear he would do something like this. My therapist had warned me and I think he was right. Narcs who want you out of their lives would do anything.... in a very subtle way of course.
Omg that sux . God bless you
No mine hated that I was always on to him that's why he was abusive he hated me for knowing who and what he really is
My mother conned me out of all my money 30 yrs ago and now is enjoying watching me starve .She is 97 and in a care home .I am on a antidepressant high dose and sleeping tablet . I have gone no contact for a year .She doesn't want to die.
In Italy we say “ the poisoned plant/ infesting plants never die”, l’erba cattiva non muore mai, it’s true. Many narcissist live longer than good people
well Heaven is our reward, having to stay on Earth is hell, it’s Satan’s domain.
@@beckystrozenski5187 I don’t wanna wait for Heaven 😎
I thought it was too monstrous to be believed, it took me 6 years to recover, thank God I am fully recovered. Doctors wouldn’t help me as all they wanted to do was hide the symptoms. Near as I can fathom, it was a sudden odorless tasteless overdose of fluoride served me in expensive fancy coffee prepare for my treat my my wife and her long term boyfriend. I was saved but barely.
Yes! Danish will go there! Thank you, Danish, foe exposing what others refuse to believe. May I syggest the classic fil "Notorious" where Ingrid Bergman is very slowly poisoned by her ultra controlling mother-in-law. An excellent film.