5 Signs You're Under a Narcissist's Spiritual Attack

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  • @narcabusecoach
    @narcabusecoach  18 днів тому +53

    Register for the upcoming webinar: Release Grief After Narcissistic Abuse
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    • @HeavenlyRainPath
      @HeavenlyRainPath 18 днів тому +5

      Hello Danish. Do you think it's the Golden Child that usually ends up being the narcissist in the family is the one that ends up practicing black magic behind the other family member's backs? Making sure nobody gets ahead of them in life? Or maybe the entitled bitter scapegoat?

    • @HeavenlyRainPath
      @HeavenlyRainPath 18 днів тому +3

      Their is a book called "Evil Family Members" by Lufile Abendgio on Amazon that talks about stuff like this. I made a comment about my cousin who had the nickname princess.

    • @HeavenlyRainPath
      @HeavenlyRainPath 18 днів тому

      I started doing spiritual warfare and taking back my energy from whoever was stealing it. My energy was especially drained on the weekends but my relative(occultic) full of darkness has energy? I started taking it back in the spirit realm and it worked. Praying against evil altars that may have been set up to drain me of my energy. I was violent about it. The violent take it by force. No you cannot have my energy!! It's been like six weeks, and I haven't been drained on the weekends like I usually am. That feeling of heaviness. Yes, having a strong prayer life, but some things you have to go to war over!! You have to do diagnostic testing! Is it a familiar spirit, is it an altar, is it a curse, is it something you're saying out of your own mouth, is it your diet, is the area where you live under witchcraft, does it have to do with the people who lived in the place before you, do you have cursed object in your house, do you spend time around an energy vampire(negative person), what kind of music, books, and movies do you view or listen too....

    • @katjay3125
      @katjay3125 18 днів тому +2

      That was my younger sister..she died from her wicked attempts against others

    • @katjay3125
      @katjay3125 18 днів тому +4

      The Bible clearly says our biggest enemies could be in our own household.

  • @jessicahoskins8606
    @jessicahoskins8606 18 днів тому +233

    It is very important to heal your wounds because a narcissist will figure out what your weak spots are, and they will attack you there repeatedly

  • @blickydkhar1279
    @blickydkhar1279 18 днів тому +362

    Dear God please hear us and protect us from the demonic..toxic and abusive people around us 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @JesuisLord
    @JesuisLord 18 днів тому +538

    Vengeance is the Lords , no weapon formed against me shall prosper ❤️😊🙌 praise Jesus

  • @therealaayan
    @therealaayan 18 днів тому +356

    Don't think narcissists are living a happy life by making others' lives difficult. Their misery runs deeper than you can imagine. Trust me!

    • @KLEOPATRA2.0
      @KLEOPATRA2.0 18 днів тому +30

      I connected with his core in empathy, his darkness was unbearable🙈🥺😱

    • @namastea
      @namastea 18 днів тому +26

      So true!! They are so miserable

    • @mr.vargas5648
      @mr.vargas5648 18 днів тому +37

      The narc is no longer a human once they swear allegiance to evil.

    • @yuu_miran
      @yuu_miran 18 днів тому +28

      Yes they are the most miserable people on this earth even though we might think that miserable are sick, poor and unlucky ones. Narcs have everything but nothing.

    • @shirlspark_stardust
      @shirlspark_stardust 18 днів тому

      @@mr.vargas5648demons took over their vessel

  • @arus2539
    @arus2539 12 днів тому +52

    1. Persistent body aches & pains. Pain in stomach. Foggy mind. Intrusive thoughts. Nothing resolves.
    2. Always tired. Chronic fatigue. Feeling drained.
    3. Irrational panic, anxiety, fear. Losing confidence. Self doubt. Waiting for the next attack. Don't feel safe. Heaviness.
    4. Cannot connect with God. Irritation. Can't feel emotions. Disrupted.
    5. Judgemental voices & hatred & jealousy. Pressure & force. Intrusive thoughts. Spiritual attack. They want you to feel how they are feeling. It's demonic energy attacking you.
    Be a detached observer, visualize light covering you and you are safe.

    • @cmauj7688
      @cmauj7688 7 днів тому +3

      Thank you 😊

    • @FaithlnHim50_
      @FaithlnHim50_ 5 днів тому

      Spot on!!!!

    • @youcanstickit
      @youcanstickit 4 дні тому

      😂😅😂

    • @virginiamckenzie3410
      @virginiamckenzie3410 4 дні тому +4

      Wish there were more therapists out there who understand what's going with energy and spiritual attack. Thank you very informative and validating for those of us who are in this situation!❤🙏

    • @jacquib256
      @jacquib256 3 дні тому +1

      Great comment! Thank you I am dealing with this right now with an Airbnb guest who has traumatised my home for last week! She was removed from property after calling police on me for challenging her behaviour and alleged a multiple assault by me at 1.30am… luckily she showed her true colours and hopefully is now getting professional help in a psych ward! Demonic 🙆‍♀️ she refused to leave and kept saying ‘I have to stay here with you I feel safe!’ Now I get why

  • @bebahojt
    @bebahojt 18 днів тому +178

    After being gang stalked by narcissists for YEARS, I struggle with chronic fatigue. I have had to self isolate in order to heal. I seem to trigger people's inner demon, whenever they are around me. And most people seem to have a demon attached to them in some way. Then I am susceptible to them as they are always trying to manipulate the relationship to become an energy vampire and siphon my energy. There are so many of them.

    • @kiasunray
      @kiasunray 18 днів тому +45

      I seem to trigger demons as well. It’s like just about every partner I’ve had tries to extinguish my light. I’m not dating anymore.

    • @loriolson1143
      @loriolson1143 17 днів тому +11

      I am the same way

    • @InstructionBrave
      @InstructionBrave 17 днів тому +20

      Make yourself take a break, travel abroad to Europe for a weekend or more. You will not be the same when you return. Gods Speed!

    • @InstructionBrave
      @InstructionBrave 17 днів тому +16

      ⁠Same with me, and I also have no desire to date anymore.

    • @naturalhealingmexico
      @naturalhealingmexico 16 днів тому

      I totally relate to your comment, in my case it was since childhood, there were always kids and adults trying to hurt me either physically or emotionally, I never understood why... But now as an adult I see there are demons in human form: narcissists they are not possessed as many people think, but also there a people with God's light in them, narcs will try to take or steal this light by any means necessary, the world it's infested with demons some physicals others ethereal. Gang stalking it's real, it has happened to me, never react to it, that's what they want, ignore it and eventually they stop persisting. This is a spiritual battle , those with light within will Winn this battle

  • @hettykoster9447
    @hettykoster9447 18 днів тому +190

    It’s a Spiritual Warfare❤️‍🔥 , but Jesus is Victorious ❤️🙏🏻

    • @RhondaPorter-y1p
      @RhondaPorter-y1p 16 днів тому +5

      Yes! ❤ and we can tighten the belt of truth when we are under attack. ❤✝️💛

    • @hettykoster9447
      @hettykoster9447 16 днів тому

      @@RhondaPorter-y1p Amen sister !❤️thank you !

    • @hettykoster9447
      @hettykoster9447 16 днів тому

      @@RhondaPorter-y1p Amen !!❤️

    • @hettykoster9447
      @hettykoster9447 16 днів тому

      Amen !!❤️ @ Ronda

    • @jacquelinemarie1078
      @jacquelinemarie1078 16 днів тому +3

      Jesus is spiritual. At least the bibles I read indicated so.

  • @Anna-ww4pv
    @Anna-ww4pv 6 днів тому +19

    I don’t want to hurt the narcissist. I just want them to stay away.

    • @MicheleMichele-p1m
      @MicheleMichele-p1m 2 дні тому

      Mine have been around for 20 years it's hard to get rid of them

    • @jamwithak
      @jamwithak День тому +1

      :) so deep. Their love bomb seemed so real

    • @karenknight7170
      @karenknight7170 9 годин тому +1

      I've heard that we need to pray for them. I find it difficult

    • @MicheleMichele-p1m
      @MicheleMichele-p1m 9 годин тому +1

      @@karenknight7170 do you know when you pray for your enemies God pours hot coals on their head pray hard 🙏

    • @karenknight7170
      @karenknight7170 9 годин тому

      @@MicheleMichele-p1m didn't know that. Revenge makes me ill

  • @casperinsight3524
    @casperinsight3524 18 днів тому +85

    Chronic fatigue is a strong indicator of energy depletion, especially when your family or significant other is draining or running on your energy sucking you dry as a bone 🦴

  • @RhondaPorter-y1p
    @RhondaPorter-y1p 16 днів тому +105

    If you’re a believer, it’s called tightening the belt of truth. It is a piece of our spiritual armor. It is good to put on all the armor, because it is a spiritual battle.❤

    • @jacquelinemarie1078
      @jacquelinemarie1078 16 днів тому +4

      Yes!!!

    • @skymeadow7762
      @skymeadow7762 13 днів тому +1

      Amen, good reminder 🙏

    • @Nerine98
      @Nerine98 12 днів тому +2

      I believe in God. God is the Truth and Light, and God is among us all the time, we are with God all the time as God is with us, all the time. Please, remind me... Who are you fighting against, by the way? What kind of paranoia is that we need to fight? Against.. Whom? Ourselves? Or against our kin?

    • @RhondaPorter-y1p
      @RhondaPorter-y1p 8 днів тому +2

      @@Nerine98 we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against spiritual wickedness in high places. It’s in the spirit world.

    • @Nerine98
      @Nerine98 8 днів тому

      @@RhondaPorter-y1p fine, I was worried people want to "wrestle" against themselves, it sounds like that at times

  • @JesuisLord
    @JesuisLord 18 днів тому +167

    I call my energy back to me 🙏

  • @elijahdeluna9187
    @elijahdeluna9187 16 днів тому +48

    Danish is the best source for information about narcissistic abuse. He is willing to go into subject matter that science can't describe. This is absolutely a spiritual matter.

  • @QuantumInspired
    @QuantumInspired 17 днів тому +56

    They have such powerful negative , aggressive energy bottled up , when they are directed to you , you will feel like a bomb hit you, because your body absorb this , that's why it's important to get away asap.

    • @jenbodhi1133
      @jenbodhi1133 12 днів тому +2

      💯

    • @KymsueBrown
      @KymsueBrown 6 днів тому

      I agree 👍🏽. I experienced this drain for a year and half, I was tortured by my landlord. She was so evil and demonic.
      I'm free now and it feels so good. The solution is to get away, far away.

  • @michaele0322
    @michaele0322 18 днів тому +125

    Philippians 4:8
    “Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.”

  • @rahulm2827
    @rahulm2827 18 днів тому +123

    This is so important for ppl to know. Thank you for helping victims Danish.
    You risk a lot by stating these things because they cant be said or proven in a scientific way. But they are 100% point on. Narcissists cause spiritual harm!!!!! That is the exact point survivors need to know.
    Demons and possessed ppl dont come around like in horror movies, they come like narcissists. This is exactly the truth that survivors need to know.

    • @brii6427
      @brii6427 18 днів тому +7

      🤯💯💯💯🙌✨️🙏

    • @TataShiku
      @TataShiku 18 днів тому +6

      Now That is spot on

    • @reesedaniel5835
      @reesedaniel5835 18 днів тому +10

      They also cause physical harm. Immune problems, insomnia, psoriasis, gastrointestinal problems, lupus, cancer, etc.

    • @shireenramnarain4005
      @shireenramnarain4005 17 днів тому +11

      They destroy u spiritually too n copy ur spiritual ways thereafter to mock u😮

  • @DianaSanders-ie6wp
    @DianaSanders-ie6wp 18 днів тому +59

    They are very unhappy people! They will anything to mess up your life, no peace at all.God is my healer and will heal me from it all❤❤❤

    • @rhondabaldridge2583
      @rhondabaldridge2583 15 днів тому +5

      @@DianaSanders-ie6wp A narcissist will cut off their own nose despite knowing they have a face if they think it will hurt you

    • @adolcristin3526
      @adolcristin3526 День тому

      Having a traumatic childhood is not an excuse to justify horrible abusive behavior to others. It's just their victim mindedness the truth is that it's their very nature to harm people deep down. If not why find pleasure on someone else's suffering? Never ever childrens of god enjoy evil unless it's Satan's children anyways.

  • @hollyduggan8139
    @hollyduggan8139 18 днів тому +51

    An experience I had with a narcissist in my life - he visited me unexpectedly and when he left my home, it felt heavy and dense, really icky. I couldn't settle for days afterwards. My energy levels were so weak, I could barely walk. I felt like he had taken my life essence away so I prayed to God to restore my life energy to the way it was and bring back what he had taken. I felt an energy blast through my body and about 5 mins later I could walk no problem. Pray for your energy to be returned to you. It works. Thanks Danish!

    • @Swiss-s4b
      @Swiss-s4b 17 днів тому +10

      They have disconnected themselves from God who is the source of all Energy/ Life. So they have to steal the energy/life from others. If only they could submit to God but pride prevents them from going to God…. Because when we approach God, who is Light, He sheds light on us and narcissists don’t want to see the darkness they are in.

    • @mariafihn6874
      @mariafihn6874 9 днів тому +3

      Same type of thing with my ex, I would see things at night. They would wake me up. I don’t if I was dreaming I still don’t know, but it was always after my kids would see my ex that night. I would have these weird things happen. I got the priest to come over. Bless me, bless the house And since then I am being left alone. Praise God, Almighty, but it’s just too ironic that it was only after the kids saw him then whatever it was came around his mother also had satanic books in her home. I would never let the kids visit her.

    • @hollyduggan8139
      @hollyduggan8139 9 днів тому +2

      @@mariafihn6874 So happy you are left alone now Maria ❤ God Bless you ❤

    • @Swiss-s4b
      @Swiss-s4b 8 днів тому +2

      @@mariafihn6874 some bad spirits from other people can attach to us, and to Objects. That’s why in Proverbs we are told not to keep the company of an angry friend because we will learn to be angry too. I hope your kids’ Behaviour wasn’t affected at those times. Praise God for sending your way a kind Priest and for God’s protective cover over your life. Peace 💙💙💙

  • @pradeeshalbert1625
    @pradeeshalbert1625 18 днів тому +136

    PSALMS 91 :God the Protector.

  • @johannabergstrom5030
    @johannabergstrom5030 18 днів тому +28

    I appreciate that you include the spiritual aspect in psychology.

  • @NicoleBlackwell-w6m
    @NicoleBlackwell-w6m 16 днів тому +21

    Forget therapy, this right here helped me so well.

  • @laralexa454
    @laralexa454 16 днів тому +51

    What happened to me: a member of my immediate family who’s a narcissist (we no longer live in the same household) sent me a very artistic, hand-made & hand-painted clay rabbit, in a little wooden coffin. My family & friends have running jokes over the years about me not liking rabbits (my inner Elmer Fudd haha), and the relative made this for me as a Halloween decoration. They sent it early for Halloween- at the start of August. It was all really cool on the surface of it- but the instant I held it in my hands, I felt this very distinct, dark foreboding. I was telling myself, what’s wrong with you? There’s nothing wrong with this, & it’s perfect for Halloween. My teen son saw it & I told him my concern. His response: “this is really cool! Idk why you feel that way.”
    It was still almost 3 months before Halloween, so I put it in a drawer & forgot about it…but not before I noticed that on the interior lid of the coffin, this relative had painstakingly glued tiny printed phrases, all referring to death. I also noticed a rust-red smear on the bottom of the wooden coffin. It looked like blood. I told myself nah…it couldn’t be!
    Weird things started happening in our home a couple weeks later, seemingly paranormal. I started to feel that I was being watched in otherwise empty rooms, especially the room this relative had slept in during visits. Finally about 5 wks later, my husband & I were watching a movie, when this strong thought came into my mind: “DO NOT SLEEP ANOTHER NIGHT with that rabbit/coffin in your house!” It was like a bolt of electricity & I knew it was the Holy Spirit. I’d forgotten about the rabbit. We destroyed it (and prayed) while burning the wooden coffin. There’s more to the story, but this is long enough except to say that I knew that night that this relative, who has dabbled in the dark arts, had attached a demonic entity to that thing and sent it to me as a gift, like a spiritual Trojan horse. Later, I saw a picture on their social media of a book on “Blood Ritual Magic.”
    We had zero issues after the thing was destroyed, with prayer.
    Thank you, Danish! Most think the idea of demonic, narcissistic attack is crazy. It’s not.

    • @rosiemcking72
      @rosiemcking72 16 днів тому

      Well done for getting rid of it. There are many items in our homes that are cursed or bring bad spirits.. Please STOP celebrating Halloween dear lady. Please research why this occasion could not be more demonic and evil, find out the dark origins on YT here and why believers should NOT acknowledge this celebration in any form. Be blessed...

    • @arus2539
      @arus2539 12 днів тому +2

      Yes Indeed! I've experienced this as well. Thank you for sharing your story!

    • @mobutter2879
      @mobutter2879 11 днів тому +1

      Never accept gifts from people you don’t trust! Especially food!

    • @starbright8792
      @starbright8792 9 днів тому

      I took have experienced their witchcraft. They been after my whole family including my daughter. It is so bad and evil she is seeing demons in the sky. WE FEEL LIKE JESUS HAS BLESSED THEM AT OUR EXPENSE. My brother who murdered our mother on June 1st, 2022 and a narcissist aunt as lead investigator for the Las animas county government WE CALL THE QUEEN OF ORGANIZED CRIME belongs to a cult who performs rituals on a daily basis

    • @Kristel280
      @Kristel280 6 днів тому

      Oh My God. 😮 You are very blessed because God told you to get rid of that rabbit. So good you did it. I know what you are talking about. This is witchcraft. I have this problem in my family right now. So worried, I am calling my mom and grandma all the time just to check on them. I turned my back on another family member because she is also into dark arts. I had two candle bowls in my home, left here by her, and I kid you not, one of those candle bowls moved from a shelf to the kitchen table. I discovered it in the morning and was a little freaked out at first, but since I have seen this kind of things happen before, I calmed down.
      Now, a few weeks later I threw these things out. After that, we had a fall out and stopped communicating. I blocked her on social media and warned my mom and grandma about it. As soon as I told her off and blocked her, a job opportunity opened up for me. I am working now and so thankful!❤
      In the beginning of this week this person visited my grandma and left a note there for me to read. I am going to burn it without reading it. The door is closed in Jesus name. Amen ❤

  • @kittykatjagirl
    @kittykatjagirl 18 днів тому +71

    I told my parents over two years ago I was going to get baptized and my mother, in particular, took offense to that. She asked sincerely if I was really going to dedicate my life to Christ, all because I didn’t “honor thy father and mother” daily. And that was her only complaint she reiterated. I said it was the direction I wished to take my life and she followed to my room to dispute my decision some more, saying I wasn’t worthy and never committed to anything long term in my life “so why would this be any different” spiel. Because of this, it made me come to a realization my mother had been manipulatively using the Lord’s word to put me in my place my whole life and it pushed my resolve further to be closer to God than my parents.
    It’s funny, I ended up going no contact 2-3 months after the baptism they never wanted me to have, and my life has only gone up since then.

    • @goodpony1971
      @goodpony1971 18 днів тому +3

      wow this is what i've suspected. my dad was driven to suicide even. I felt his soul we have his body just months after my half sister spiritually attacked us both and I knew he was a goner. He died less than six months later and I'm still being attacked constantly. Tell me what I can do! I'm going down so fast and hard, but I thought I had a grip but it just continues

    • @joseenoel8093
      @joseenoel8093 18 днів тому +4

      Isn't that something, I had a civil ceremony (Banff Springs Hotel), outdoor patio (didn't want my family there, couldn't be bothered with my husband's) but both kids baptised
      and best parties we ever had! My mom told me women got their period to pay for the sins of Eve (I thought she only had one), luckily I knew she was a whacko at 12!🎉

    • @kittykatjagirl
      @kittykatjagirl 18 днів тому +5

      I wasn’t alone in fighting off the attacks. My then boyfriend now husband helped me through SO much of what I had with. He constantly insisted on 1.) seeking a trusted congregation that does not take advantage of you, some fights are not meant to be fought alone and 2.) keep steadfast in prayer, your faith is what is being attacked; if you give into the attacks, you are doing what they wanted in the first place. Be steadfast and don’t let them win you over, you are loved and heard.

    • @katherineirvin7464
      @katherineirvin7464 18 днів тому +5

      @@goodpony1971 if you are or are not a believer in Jesus Christ alone, call out to Him - He IS Lord. Give Him all of it in prayer. Pray Psalm 91 and The Lord’s Prayer daily. He speaks primarily through His Word [Bible] which is described as Living. His Word is spirit and life. Meditating on it and speaking His promises in His Word, especially promises for protection and provision and healing. He will not let you down and He can do MORE than you could ever ask.

    • @ThankYouJesusTheChrist
      @ThankYouJesusTheChrist 18 днів тому

      @@goodpony1971 their demons can enter you . Ask God to send Archangel Michael to remove any attachments that may have come in through your family, and anything not from God, in the Name of Jesus we ask 🙏
      I just had to do this myself and it works! In minutes!

  • @AhmadIzzatShahmierRosdi-gi1ug
    @AhmadIzzatShahmierRosdi-gi1ug 18 днів тому +85

    In conclusion,all negative people only will trapped by devils in this temporary world 💯

  • @Cutare-rb2ei
    @Cutare-rb2ei 18 днів тому +56

    Ask your guides/angels to return any energy that isn't for your highest good back to its original source, with your love. Ask for their continued protection and don't forget to thank them! It works for me.

    • @laughsalot3992
      @laughsalot3992 18 днів тому +11

      This is new age and it’s not of Almighty God. Spirit guides are demons, and we can Not pray to angels …👉🏽. We have to ask Heavenly Father for protection, Psalms 91…for God’s angels to take charge over us, to keep us in all thy way..etc…in Jesus Name. Amen. Thank you Jesus. ✨🤍👑🕊️✨🙌🏽🙌🏽💗🥰

    • @JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht
      @JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht 17 днів тому +1

      My angels are definitely returning that negative energy back to them

    • @mariestefanou6123
      @mariestefanou6123 17 днів тому

      3:50 ​@@laughsalot3992

    • @jacquelinemarie1078
      @jacquelinemarie1078 16 днів тому +1

      @@laughsalot3992 I do not believe in Jesus, but I allow others to without judgement. I am spiritual - - - never religious, never!!! I would never take your advise, to be its empty. You should let people believe the way they want. I believe the bible is a scam, why???? because I read, I research, but would never tell you to think like me. there are other thoughts, not all are religious in nature.

    • @monikaleszko5343
      @monikaleszko5343 11 днів тому +1

      I did this and the next day I woke up with peace. Love and calmness in my heart ❤

  • @kaycampbell8532
    @kaycampbell8532 18 днів тому +25

    My first step to break away was to go NO CONTACT. It takes a long time to heal but you can do it. Seek help with advise. I found Danish's videos and he it 100% accurate because he has lived this nightmare himself. Be patient and kind to yourself..... you didn't deserve the abuse. You are worthy of a happy life. Keep people around you who lift you up....not tear you down. God bless you and help you. He loves you and never forget that.

  • @lizh6420
    @lizh6420 17 днів тому +15

    Thank you I needed to hear this message. This situation has just happened to me. After the first phone call I have been sleepless, no energy, unable to focus and somewhat annoyed because I knew he was spinning me a sob story, while lying to me, looking for sympathy. On the second phone call a week later I just listened and didn't say much, more lies spurted out his mouth. I'm left feeling drained again. Another week goes by and I'm getting physically ill. The next time he called I said to him "We all have problems, I am dealing with my own stuff and to be honest I can't be bothered listening to you. I'm hanging up. Bye". After I hung up I felt so awful, but I am not going to ring him back. I'm absolutely over pity parties and lies. In some ways it's a small victory for me because I have never said that before.

  • @leafyveins4985
    @leafyveins4985 9 днів тому +3

    My sister had been so nice to me for almost 3 years. I really thought we were becoming closer. But it was an act. She was just gathering information on me. Over the weekend, we all got together with our childhood friends and she treated me horribly. Isolated me from everyone, ostracized me, insulted me, talked over everything I said, triangulated everyone away from me. I was so shocked that I didn't know how to respond in the moment, so I frequently just walked away from her. A few days later, I knew I needed to say something to her. I texted her: I don't appreciate being treated that way. I started shaking, sweating, got dizzy, afraid, and nauseous after I sent it. My heart was pounding painfully. I asked myself what my punishment would be for standing up for myself would be.

    • @leafyveins4985
      @leafyveins4985 9 днів тому +1

      I guess I can let go of the concept of us ever being friends. That hurts but at least it's real. I don't have to feel confused, uncertain, under spiritual attack all the time.

  • @Nat77ification
    @Nat77ification 18 днів тому +34

    The Holy Spirit delivered me from this. 🙏🏽✝️🕊✨
    For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. ~ Ephesians 6:12

    • @yuu_miran
      @yuu_miran 18 днів тому +6

      Amen❤

    • @starbright8792
      @starbright8792 9 днів тому

      Jesus has been blessing the narcissist I been fighting with for over 5 years now at my expense. I am going up against a whole bunch involved in a cult.i will never have the same relationship with the Devine I had before this attack

  • @jennyrlewis
    @jennyrlewis 18 днів тому +28

    My physicalls symptoms were the thing that finally made me really accept what was happening.

    • @jacquelinemarie1078
      @jacquelinemarie1078 16 днів тому

      That is exactly what woke me up. A pace maker, another heart surgery, and one more in two months. I'm a mess. But I do believe this is spiritual in nature, and that is exactly how I am approaching it now a days. The best to you - - - be happy.

  • @monanaheed1333
    @monanaheed1333 17 днів тому +12

    Narcissist r miserably empty souls who lost their childhood in abusive relationships
    They r pity don’t need to scared from them
    Just increase ur prayers & faith on God almighty
    U will b safe InshaAllah

  • @denzilme123
    @denzilme123 16 днів тому +14

    When I told her about my chest and breathing issues...she laughed at it and did not even care to ask about my health later. Like she knew exactly what was happening to me

    • @louhortonsculpture
      @louhortonsculpture 12 днів тому

      Woah. I had a similar experience. This one was constantly saying she was sick, so when I was sick, I guess she thought I was lying. But maybe it’s darker than that!

    • @Xll148
      @Xll148 11 днів тому

      🙏🏾

  • @kiasunray
    @kiasunray 18 днів тому +11

    Yes! I would wake up in the middle of the night at his house with a strong urge to LEAVE! It kept getting stronger until the whole relationship imploded. We started going to mass on Sundays, per his request. I didn’t mind at the time. I’d never been. That was a mistake. One time he was just staring into my eyes not saying anything. I am having nightmares. I’ve restarted my own spiritual work to fight this dark energy. I lost EVERYTHING when I was with him. I even started having seizures in April. I don’t have a history of epilepsy. That man DESPISED me.

  • @carolynchristy
    @carolynchristy 18 днів тому +13

    Placing myself in a protective bubble of light was a very real help to me escaping from the attacks of the narc. I could meditate and even sleep as long as I remembered to surround myself with positive energy. I also began blessing my house with sage every time I cleaned it. Truth is always stronger. Refuse to be bullied. Send that negativity back to them. They will become so busy dealing with their own mess that they won't have time for you.

    • @jacquelinemarie1078
      @jacquelinemarie1078 16 днів тому

      Right on. I am doing the same right now. My Son started me on Neville Goddard, and I joined Gaia on the internet. I'm using the bubble of light as well. You are doing great, "you can do it." Sending love and healing your way and thank you for sharing.

  • @jacquelinebrown1305
    @jacquelinebrown1305 18 днів тому +15

    They are very connected to the spiritual realm/your dreams, the attack feels very real

  • @Smokinaces321
    @Smokinaces321 10 днів тому +8

    Nobody can tell me a narcissist isn't demonic in some way. The evil in their eyes when they switch is uncanny.

  • @Wench1888
    @Wench1888 17 днів тому +8

    I have been separated from my narc husband for a little over 3 years. So just been getting on with life. Then through mutual friends I was told he has a new partner. Since then it’s been constant aches and pains and a heavy feeling inside me.
    One night when I was out and coming along the street to my house I thought I saw him go towards my front door. The same build the same height the same dark clothing he wore. It was night time so I walked quickly towards my house. As I was getting closer to my house I convinced myself I was seeing things. Then the neighbour across the road said to me about seeing someone go towards my door. That confirmed it to me. So I asked her who was it ? She said you know who it is. At that I ran across the road got into my house and shouted for my son to come downstairs. I told him what had just happened and he searched the house. I searched the back garden and the shed and looked at the wall and there was no sign of ladders against the wall. There was no sign of him in the house. My son wasn’t sure what I saw and was a wee bit dismissive. So I text my neighbour and she verified what she had saw and my son said, that is so very very strange.

  • @jennifergodwin29
    @jennifergodwin29 18 днів тому +18

    He’s kept my black cowgirl boots, my robe and my makeup, hair brush, toothbrush and toothpaste. So weird he keeps my things. Sometimes I wonder if he’s using my things to somehow connect to me spiritually as you’ve spoken about here.

    • @kiasunray
      @kiasunray 18 днів тому +9

      I experienced the same! He would withhold my belongings if I didn’t want to come over the next day! My kids (adult aged) went to his house and demanded my stuff! Why are these people so evil???

    • @deborahbarnham6683
      @deborahbarnham6683 9 днів тому +3

      Negative energy is their currency. 😔

  • @cindys.9688
    @cindys.9688 18 днів тому +11

    🌹 I've had that neck, shoulder, and back pain pretty much my whole life. My mom was narcissistic and so is my sister.
    🌹 Everything you taught is identifiable to me. I've experienced all of your points in one way or another. I don't like being in my own head sometimes - but that's something I NEED to do.
    🌹THANK YOU for your advice on how to relax my mind and my body, relax in my connection with God thru prayer, and stop being fearful.
    🌹You are so exactly right! The narcissist is filled with hate, and its been directed at me my whole life. I'm 63 now and the pain is always there.
    🌹But...I'm trying! I'm listening to your counsel and working on my healing process. I pray for those "voices" to quit nagging me. Saying all of those negative things.🤦🏼‍♀️

  • @shydreadness
    @shydreadness 16 днів тому +11

    All 5 signs that you have explained is exactly what I'm still going through with my so called "Christian" Covert, Toxic, Narcissistic mother. She's very provoking. She knows that I get angry fast and she purposely does that pretending that she's "Worshipping God" very loudly when I'm around. I am still trying to ignore her antics, show her love from a distance, and try to stay calm, Gray-Rocking techniques. I can hear her being more passive-aggressive, envious, angry tone in her voice. I'm in my mid 30's. I constantly feel like my heart racing anytime I'm around her.

    • @JessicaIngbretson-px3zf
      @JessicaIngbretson-px3zf 14 днів тому +2

      That's the worst honestly, I'm sorry that happened to you. I hope that didn't skew your relationship with God. My father on law is a covert Christian narc and it was the hardest to see through and then deal with because they hide their abuse behind "God".

    • @iambella081
      @iambella081 9 днів тому

      It's called spiritual abuse. Jesus called out the Pharisees for that exact behavior. It's evil, not of God.

    • @JessicaIngbretson-px3zf
      @JessicaIngbretson-px3zf 8 днів тому

      @@iambella081 Tell me about it. We went no contact with his entire family. They all "Christian" narcs. They think they're saved and are filled with evil. It just makes me sad that other people are going through this. My family was just extremely violent overtly. I had never experienced violence behind a mask of fake niceness and "God". Tbh it's worse, way worse. I'd rather have someone cuss me out and throw a punch then experience the "Christian" narcs "love". My relationship with God is stronger than ever and it would be sad for someone to think that's what Christianity really was or worse that that was who God was because of those experiences. Did you go through that?

  • @atharva-upclosingnature2423
    @atharva-upclosingnature2423 18 днів тому +28

    This video is at its perfect timing 🎉

  • @Nat77ification
    @Nat77ification 18 днів тому +22

    Loving the kitty’s random appearances. 😻🤗

    • @willwinl
      @willwinl 18 днів тому +4

      Super cute! Totally agree! 😽😽😽

    • @shaziasadar9147
      @shaziasadar9147 16 днів тому +2

      Yes I noticed the cat too. It's very cute ! 😺

    • @louhortonsculpture
      @louhortonsculpture 12 днів тому +1

      Me too!! Such a beautiful kitty!

  • @beverlyadams7205
    @beverlyadams7205 18 днів тому +27

    Figuring out how to connect with my authentic self or as I call her, my inner child, has saved my life. Your videos strike to the bone. They say the absolute rock-bottom truth about these evil people. And they are evil.

  • @robinbown7060
    @robinbown7060 16 днів тому +5

    Finally! Finally someone explains exactly how tired ,drained one can become under the influence of the narcissist. For me it’s been forty years and I feel close to death though I clearly remember my energetic always optimist self. Thank you so much for speaking on this today(4:42 am)., Mr. Bashir.

  • @cautiouslyoptimistic1962
    @cautiouslyoptimistic1962 16 днів тому +13

    #5 Is the worst attack. Even in his death after 34 years of marriage and all of the non stop abuse he put me through. I finally got away. My oldest friends saved my life. He would tell me about how he had seen blood and gore and that he'd dreamed he killed me. So when I left, I said one last prayer at my home. I said Father , I leave him in your hands, because your hands are so much bigger than mine. I left and moved over 2400 miles away. (I like to say I put some serious real estate between us.LOL) Well I was gone 6 weeks. I had a furnished 2 BR apartment, and just had cabled/internet installed. I brought my daughter up there. I had ghosted him after he kept saying you need to come home. I'd say II am home. I didn't hear from him after he left a message about the bank. I tried to call him no answer. His known way of life was if he wasn't super drunk he was asleep. I had a bad feeling so I sent someone to check on him. Door locked, TV on, no answer. I asked him to pop out a window and go in. What if he'd fallen down? He found him deceased from hurting himself. I had to come back. Pissed off everyone I knew, but not one of his family would do anything about him being in the morgue. (by the time I was able to get back he was there 8 days) I buried him in the most respectful way possible. I had gotten home, and then this happened. My mind went to a bad place. I am a devout believer. My mind said, well you left him in God's hands... see where that got you? It dented my faith large. It took a while for me to process that.

    • @auroradvm
      @auroradvm 14 днів тому +4

      The enemy delights in torturing us with guilt

    • @FunnyShellBear
      @FunnyShellBear 12 днів тому +5

      @cautiouslyoptimistic1962 - It wasn’t your fault, please know that. He chose to leave the planet at his own hand. Maybe that was how God decided to deal with him, as after 34 years of abuse I think it’s safe to say he wasn’t going to change. Maybe he’s having a spiritual ‘do-over’ and now it is time for you to do the same, and live the life God planned for you, without all the abuse? Please don’t punish yourself, you have been set free. ❤

    • @louhortonsculpture
      @louhortonsculpture 12 днів тому +2

      Sounds like you were keeping him alive and when you left, he was left to his own devices and… God let him suffer the consequences of his own actions.

  • @adm0924
    @adm0924 17 днів тому +7

    You literally got me over my ex. Thank you for your knowledge and expertise in narcissism. It’s real our symptoms are real and you sir are THE REAL DEAL!

  • @_Bunmi
    @_Bunmi 18 днів тому +8

    Exactly what is happening to me presently... unnecessary tiredness and weakness, I haven't done anything tangible since I entered the house for past two months except by drugs and supplement just because I confronted the narcissistic man of his undecent behavior and his insultive manner.... Thanks for this episode, I told my landlord earlier today that I'm shifting, I don't even wait for next storylines...❤❤❤

  • @waxayub5346
    @waxayub5346 18 днів тому +20

    Praying salah/namaz on time is quite a legit defense against all evil and demonic people/creatures, narcissists are one of them.

  • @Shoofly000
    @Shoofly000 18 днів тому +11

    This validated my fears on so many levels. I saw in my mind's eye that my narcissistic mother was standing behind me. Everytime I feel some progress in my mental and spiritual health, some conflict happens between me and her and I'll go back to square one. All my progress will go down the drain and I'll have to start from the ground up.

    • @naturalhealingmexico
      @naturalhealingmexico 16 днів тому +2

      It happened to me just the same as you, you need to pray to God, that was the only method that helped me, and still helping me in the recovery, these people are demons in human form not possessed. Also pay attention to your dreams, God will send you meaningful dreams.

  • @Resilience13
    @Resilience13 18 днів тому +11

    God says in Tsaiah 54:17 No weapon formed against me shall prosper. No weapon🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @mariafihn6874
    @mariafihn6874 9 днів тому +1

    I am recently divorced from my narcissistic person. I have had “dreams “ of something ( and I knew it was evil!) crawling up behind me trying to snuggle me!!!! I rebuked it 4x and prayed to God!! It finally left me alone ! It oddly enough was after my children had contact / saw him earlier that particular day! So thank you

  • @yourbodyandyou
    @yourbodyandyou 18 днів тому +13

    Thank you. Sometimes I feel like the pain and anxiety are with me to stay. This gives me hope.

  • @casperinsight3524
    @casperinsight3524 18 днів тому +7

    They may have material possessions ...a nice house with nice things but its just a box with windows at the end of the day. A house is not a home

  • @lori-annefay4138
    @lori-annefay4138 16 днів тому +6

    No being can weaken my connection with Divine Source. The best thing you can do is call on God, and turn this person over to him. When you truly do that, and put yourself under protection. Then live in your peace and joy! Of course go no contact and protect your assets. Remember your happiness is your best weapon. God makes me safe and I will relax in him. You must cut energetic chords. Killing the memory and emotion takes time, but living well truly is the best revenge people and and moving through your day with faith and graditude is key. Know what not to "pick up", whether it's the phone, the news, a demand, or a memory. Claim your center, peaceful place and take time out to check in with how you feel, and remember, let no one steal your joy, happiness is your choice. Now blaze with your Christ white light of love, that is your purpose. All good things come to me.

  • @Dibdgvsd3773
    @Dibdgvsd3773 18 днів тому +10

    I know what is like to feel disconected from yourself and from God. Ask people to pray for you/with you in those times

  • @rhondabaldridge2583
    @rhondabaldridge2583 18 днів тому +26

    I make sure the screen and door is locked all the time. I make sure all windows are locked. I feel my narcissist sister may show up anytime at my door even though she has no transportation. My neck and shoulders tighten up so badly I have to use Salonpa pads and lay down. I am still protected by my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ

    • @joseenoel8093
      @joseenoel8093 18 днів тому +3

      I fear mine too, I'm on memory quick dial to call cops and state trespassing, she's never been here, I've been living here 25 yrs, she's almost 70, chain smoking 🚬 for over 5 1/2 decades, unfair she lives while others die!

    • @shereebarends1997
      @shereebarends1997 18 днів тому +2

      Keeping yourself locked up gives you temporary feeling of safety. If you have a gate lock that too. After a few months of doing this I believe you. Ll feel less on edge. In the meantime play by yourself play all your favorite music,take long soak baths, sort out your car, your wardrobe and personal drawers,wear your saved up perfume, wear your special clothes when you go out, red lipstick does wonders as a BB cream. Hope this helps with the solitude.

    • @ConradClarke-jh3gb
      @ConradClarke-jh3gb 18 днів тому

      This brother speaks some truth,however,he doesn't realise the world extent of these people.

    • @rhondabaldridge2583
      @rhondabaldridge2583 17 днів тому

      @@shereebarends1997 Yes I have my gates locked so she can’t get to my front door

  • @antoniapana7131
    @antoniapana7131 17 днів тому +5

    This is so accurate, it's scary how we go through the same experience. Currently I am under serious attack by my boyfriend's twin sister who is a narcissist, but only I know and act on that fact in a proper way since the beginning, staying away from her and grey rocking. She is a covert, malignant kind of evil narcissism in its prime, presented as socially caring and talkative social butterfly. My boyfriend knows about what I saw in her. He saw her in a rage against me in July, but he still cannot understand the implications. I see this more and more as a lost cause, because I have experience. I had my painful recovery from my own extended family and close friends and don't want to deal with another's person recovery and awareness journey. I don't think most people want to see the truth and prefer to live in an illusion when it is a family matter. For me a narcissist is just that - something to remove, family or not.

  • @stylist62
    @stylist62 18 днів тому +6

    He who is for me is greater then he who is in the world, No weapons formed against me shall prosper 🥰🙏🙏🙏🌺good explanation
    The demons in them can’t stand angy or anybody, let them keep the evil they dish out. Trust your intuition

  • @alexperkins8361
    @alexperkins8361 18 днів тому +9

    It's crazy how accurate this video is. Thanks

  • @Vanes218
    @Vanes218 18 днів тому +44

    Ever since a child, my narcissist mom used to tell me, "l curse you!"

    • @ashleysigurdson6982
      @ashleysigurdson6982 18 днів тому +28

      That's disgusting, I'm so sorry

    • @joseenoel8093
      @joseenoel8093 18 днів тому

      Holy shebang, what a horrible person, not that my lot isn't, good luck keep watching and learning, this stuff's fascinating and we are your heaven sent angels, believe it! Sounds like your mom needs an exercism! She's a nobody that's why she bullies you!

    • @TooPrettiShow
      @TooPrettiShow 18 днів тому +19

      I'm sorry 😞 no one should have to experience that.
      Sending love ❤❤

    • @rabiyahabib1007
      @rabiyahabib1007 18 днів тому +6

      Mine cursed me, spcly when there were maids or my cousins around.. she never called my name.

    • @JamericanRose
      @JamericanRose 18 днів тому

      My birth parent told me that I was cursed when I was about 12 or so. Yeah, she was a total evil p o s.💯

  • @Sophie-ur2qb
    @Sophie-ur2qb 18 днів тому +10

    Yes! It feels like she's all around me. Like I can't escape her.
    I've always kept my spiritual beliefs to myself. I think even as a child, I must have known she would have tried to take that from me.

  • @growingonthegriddle4945
    @growingonthegriddle4945 18 днів тому +11

    He read my journals, he went through my drawers....he's been dead for over a year now and even dreaming about him scares the crap out of me! I am still very exhausted! I find it hard to listen to Danish because it brings it all back up....but I've realized that until I face it all I will never get better.

    • @WalksfortheSoul77
      @WalksfortheSoul77 18 днів тому +1

      Sending you love, strength, compassion, and vitality. My favorites to call on for spiritual protection are Archangel Michael and Hindu Goddess Kali. Kali is a protector of women and a serious badass who will take care of any lingering energy from him. I also call on Mother Mary because her sweet energy makes me feel comforted and loved when I most need it. Negative energies will be repelled by this love she brings. Take care...

    • @Swiss-s4b
      @Swiss-s4b 17 днів тому

      @@WalksfortheSoul77Please Sister don’t mix Hindu gods with the Almighty God. The Blessed Mother is the mother of the Redeemer and Michael is the Almighty’s Angel. They have nothing to do with the other many gods.
      We believe in ONE God. Mixing beliefs is becoming double minded/ unfaithfulness. Choose One path and be faithful. I wish you peace & love in your search and journey of life💜

    • @WalksfortheSoul77
      @WalksfortheSoul77 17 днів тому

      @@Swiss-s4b There is nothing in this world or in God's world that is less than another.

    • @Swiss-s4b
      @Swiss-s4b 16 днів тому +2

      @@WalksfortheSoul77 That’s true- in this world of MATTER. One who knows the Father wouldn’t mention other gods as equal to him. It’s one thing to hear or read about God-- It’s another to know Him intimately as a Father. One who mixes beliefs doesn’t know God, but simply have read of Him or heard of him from others but hasn’t known intimacy with Him (Yet)

    • @WalksfortheSoul77
      @WalksfortheSoul77 16 днів тому

      @@Swiss-s4b Please don't pretend to know God more than others. It is the ultimate lack of humility. I offered my experiences to someone who is struggling the way I had been very recently. And I offered what helped me. That's really it. You are free to believe whatever you'd like, but I am not going to be told I don't know God.

  • @ivanaveselikova6188
    @ivanaveselikova6188 13 днів тому +2

    When under some narc influence, not being able to do my easiest day chores, I try, at least would like to, meditate or use any useful techniques. But unable to do anything. Just sit, stare and feel miserable. Now it has been confirmed why ... Some narcs´ evil energies are so strong one feels líke dying. Please God protect us from such beings, please. Thank you. 😇

  • @forumicebreaker
    @forumicebreaker 18 днів тому +19

    On the energetic sense, in my experience, the energy vampire term is accurate.
    For example, the other half takes the kids and goes to the in-laws for the week for a holiday. I'm just home, working, and doing my thing alone...., and after a couple days I started to feel a more creative and fun sense.... It's like, stuff I used to like to do I started to revisit some of this, and it's fun.
    And then when the other half comes home, it's just a sense that was lost.

    • @LoraineMayes
      @LoraineMayes 18 днів тому +2

      I totally understand. You're not alone. I seek JESUS.

  • @amywilliams6637
    @amywilliams6637 17 днів тому +4

    I absolutely resonated with this video! I’ll pray for all of you if you’ll pray for me!! Thank you Danish!

  • @NothingCompares2U
    @NothingCompares2U 18 днів тому +10

    Then the narcissist tells you that they are going to take you away to the mental hospital again. It acts like being so cold as to send someone away to an asylum is something it is proud of or a testament to their divine greatness.

  • @WealthNMe
    @WealthNMe 18 днів тому +17

    Thank you for creating this video.

  • @pennyacme380
    @pennyacme380 18 днів тому +4

    Thank you, Danish. My narc mother has been around me since her death in 2015. I realize when I get angry and annoyed for no reason it's her trying to effect me. Just recently, my friend, who is psychic told me she was around and in my home. She confronted her about her narc behavior and moved her on. It took a few days to feel like she was gone, but I'm noticing a lightness around me now. I continue to use protection and so far it's been good. Guess it wasn't a coincidence I found your talk about this issue. Thanks again for what you do ❤

  • @MicheleMichele-p1m
    @MicheleMichele-p1m 2 дні тому +3

    Do not let them take over your life ignore them

  • @Analist_altijd_elegance
    @Analist_altijd_elegance 18 днів тому +8

    Your videos are very specific and special. They are very unique. I wish you a lot more subscribers, views. You deserve it.

  • @frannyfriends2852
    @frannyfriends2852 День тому

    You are the first person who truly understands exactly what a person goes through when being married to someone who is a narcissist and manipulative person so scary. Thank you, I m healing a little bit at a time but it takes a very long time. In gods name AMEN 🙏🏼♥️🌹

  • @emeralddragon1712
    @emeralddragon1712 15 днів тому +1

    They are either possessed or have dark entities attached to them. Detach as much as possible. Do your inner work and pray, cleanse and maintain strong boundaries and no contact as much as possible

  • @latinamamai18
    @latinamamai18 6 днів тому +3

    Omg this is so true and the only way to fix this is to leave them for GOOD, FOREVER! When I gave him even a little bit of access via text message I could feel his nasty energy. They want to live in your head and your body will feel them as pain. You have to cut those spiritual cords. Absolutely No communication whatsoever!!!

  • @thespirituniversity3527
    @thespirituniversity3527 11 днів тому +1

    Danish, thank you so much for talking about the spiritual side of this issue. I think more people have struggled with this than are willing to admit. It's so nice not to feel alone or crazy with these experiences.

  • @DIVINGSTRONGER
    @DIVINGSTRONGER 16 днів тому +6

    I’m actually in the market for a trauma specialist psychiatrist/therapist. I am in the process of going through conversion and forgive my words but it’s kicking my ass all that stress. All the unnecessary trauma has put me through has made me the most unhealthy person I’ve ever been in my life I don’t smoke. I don’t drink I like to stay really active now. I smoke weed to get rid of my anxiety because I feel like it’s a better remedy as opposed to Xanax etc. Have a lot of work to do. I didn’t realise how much baggage I have accumulated 20+ years of marriage thank God I had enough sense, about five years ago to divorce him although the divorce did not go through until a year ago Lord have mercy😩

  • @karenzilverberg4699
    @karenzilverberg4699 17 днів тому +2

    Thanks, Danish. You are 100-percent correct. The narcissist lives out their life on the dark side. I know spiritual warfare and I find it exceptionally helpful.

  • @joseenoel8093
    @joseenoel8093 18 днів тому +7

    Gonna skip I'm freaked out enough! Have a nice week everyone from Montreal!😊

  • @Theodora-ci1bf
    @Theodora-ci1bf 12 днів тому +2

    Meditation. Your power comes from within

  • @aramsipan623
    @aramsipan623 16 днів тому +1

    Thank you Danish, I really appreciate for all your support and good motivation that you given to us, and to get rid of the narcissistic attack on our life.
    I really get better after I listening to your videos and other specialist. I have been attacked from my close friend and I find out after many years he try and he wants to make me sad and angry or even he wants me to be jealous over his money 😂 he is really sick, I haven’t talk to him for long time now and I’m getting better day by day…
    Thank you so much for your spread awareness and all your efforts 🙏💚

  • @flowergirl1234
    @flowergirl1234 18 днів тому +4

    Danish, You are so RIGHT... I HAVE ALL THESE THINGS....😢..... THANK YOU FOR POINTING THEM OUT , COZ I THOUGHT ITS JUST SOMETHING THAT I HAVE!

  • @Joy-w9v
    @Joy-w9v 17 днів тому +1

    Danish, I couldn’t thanked you enough. You’re helping a lot of people to cope up just like me. May God provide you more wisdom to share it.

  • @savedbygracealone55
    @savedbygracealone55 16 днів тому +1

    Danish, thank you for your enlightening and genuinely HELPFUL perspective and teachings. Your videos have been such a special and unique source of healing for me, for a while now. The way you are able to discern the very thin line between the psychological and spiritual, along with your own life experience, plus formal education, is what makes your perspective and teachings so genuine and unique.
    I've been my "mother's" 24/7 caregiver for three years. She is in her late 80's and has dementia and Alzheimer's disease, diagnosed last year. The doctor said to her, "Nothing you do is your fault. It's the disease. Never feel bad..." THE biggest green light she has ever had in her life. He had no idea who he was talking to. Or maybe he did. The beast was unleashed. I've been living with this woman's abuse for over 50 years and it's strange to say, but despite the horrific things she has done, just being in my home for the last three, and being in this "caregiver/patient" dynamic, has been the most hellish. My only sibling is deceased, along with my father.
    She's lied about me and to me to over 50 years and to our entire extended family, including my children. Everyone is gone, essentially. She has accused me of abusing her, and people I have never even met, who knew her (church friends) believed her allegations, which she had apparently been making all my life. After he passed it only got worse to the point I was investigated by the state, twice. She wrote it all down as well, so there are written confessions feet high. She kept files on everyone in our family. She abducted one of my children many years ago, and I found mother's day cards from my child to her, hidden in a box under her dresser. My mother told everyone she could that my child was "the daughter she never had". I have it in writing. My support is a few friends and my Savior. He, is the only "local" support I have. I had to sort through the paperwork, files and journals, by myself after my father's death, and saw things that removed any shred of doubt. Every word you say is factual. It is not theoretical.
    I am a believer. I practice my faith and it's why I am alive to write this comment. The last year has been the worst. It's just as you've explained, and my personal assumption it could be because her body is getting closer to death. My experience with my "mother", I'm also adopted, has proven to me that these things are real, beyond any doubt. Thankfully I have a spiritually minded therapist, but she isn't in my home and doesn't live with this energy. I cannot leave my "mother" alone and cannot afford respite care. Three solid years in the presence of, and essentially forced to interact with and care for it, what I can only describe as a demon, has been one of the hardest climbs of my life's journey. Thus far, and God willing. Every single thing you said is one thousand percent happening to me right now.
    She's living in an in-law suite on the other end of the house, because she wanted her privacy and "independence", and I can feel her from my room. I always feel it, it never goes away. My animals feel it. There is a smell that comes from her room, even though it's clean and with the door closed, that almost smells like death. She grins at me and laughs at me. She picks fights out of nothing. Gaslighting, shaming, entitled, sadistic, calculating, pathological lying, fake kindness, and the list goes on and on. She HATES me SO much, even my boyfriend can clearly see it. He has experienced negative physical effects being around her.
    She has stayed in her room for almost the entire three years, refuses to interact with me unless she needs some service from me. After a couple of years of her "wanting" me to read her scriptures and discuss faith and her salvation, I had to let it go. She doesn't want that. Factual statement. HUGE realization. I have to make serious life decisions for my own future and can't think straight. I am beyond exhausted, and it's not normal caregiver burnout. I can be feeling good and had a good day, exercise, prayer, time with animals, work, but when I go into her room in order to care for her, it leaves me almost in a state of shock. Even when I prepare myself with prayer. I just told my bf today that I feel "blank". The headaches that radiate, the stomach pain, TMJ, migraines, I have lived with all my life. Now there is pain in other parts of my body like my lower back, that came out of nowhere.
    Caring for her full time has drained my financial resources so I have to sell my home and change my life plans and path again, because of her needs. She knows this, and has become as demanding, hostile, manipulative, sneaky, mean, and overbearing as possible. The strangest, most surreal, and interesting observation I have made, is how incredibly difficult it is to differentiate between her "personality", and the dementia. Both conditions of extreme delusion. I understand there are a lot of mental illnesses or conditions that are very real, chemical, biological, physical. Then there is one area, one, where there isn't even treatment, nothing. Many in the field won't even try. There can only be one reason why. This "condition" is a spiritual one.
    I will fall down seven times, and I will stand up eight. I cannot thank you enough, as the professional you are, with experience, to be as spiritually aware and discerning enough, to see it and speak it, for what it is. It is The Great Spirit coming through you, to guide us and comfort us on our journey. The only way out is through. As a seed grows up through the earth to become a tree. We learn and grow. They leave the same as they came, projecting their internal hell onto others. In the end, they have no one to turn it on but themselves. I am seeing and feeling it happen in real time.
    I really needed to hear this today. No coincidences, all energy. I figured it was time for me to thank you, and participate with everyone here. Peace be with you, Danish, and channel family. Thank you for caring enough to read this. I know it's long, but also a long time coming, for me. The understanding here is life changing. You are all beautiful and brave souls, who I admire and respect very much. -Melissa

  • @annawhiteley3128
    @annawhiteley3128 18 днів тому +3

    I escaped! Because of daily meditation. I trained myself to do it even when he was screaming at me. I escaped even though I couldn't walk very well. My angels are badass.

  • @MR-ly4xt
    @MR-ly4xt 18 днів тому +2

    When you talked about the pain, that really resonated with me. I'm experiencing constant digestive problems, headaches, lethargy, a few days ago I started suffering severe dizziness for no reason, my body feels like it's always suffering inflammation. Also severe anxiety. These are all symptoms I never ever suffered before meeting the narc in my life. Nothing I take herbally seems to help. It's awful. I've always been very healthy before and never suffered anything.😢

  • @Pluto4EverPlanet
    @Pluto4EverPlanet 23 години тому

    Before I was married I kept a clean house, was organized and ambitious.
    I was married and knew I made a mistake right after I said my vows.
    We’ve been married 27 years and have three children.
    I have been so drained, depressed and unorganized. I slept most of the time.
    I was constantly bombarded with criticism and him telling me what a terrible person I was.
    I was so buried deep in despair I
    Didn’t realize I was married to a narcissist. My brother pointed it out after I decided to leave.
    He was so controlling. He’d stand by the trash bin and go through trash 🚮 I put in.
    Go through it to make sure I
    Hadn’t thrown anything away that could be recycled: Make sure paper was separated from plastic. He blamed me for everything.
    After I left he apologized (not for being a narcissist), but for how bad he treated me. It was all an act. He didn’t want to lose face in getting a divorce.
    So many things I haven’t shared with anyone. Sorry for novel. 😂

  • @mr.vargas5648
    @mr.vargas5648 18 днів тому +7

    This is actually true even when the narc is gone they're evil lingers.

    • @yuu_miran
      @yuu_miran 18 днів тому +4

      Yes! Even after their death it may take lots of prayer and time to finally feel like you are free and alive.

    • @mr.vargas5648
      @mr.vargas5648 17 днів тому +2

      @@yuu_miran Yep they are living rent free in our minds.

  • @bonniekelley1130
    @bonniekelley1130 10 днів тому +2

    Pray that I live long enough to forgive all the evil done to me over 17 years before I caught on to the malignant covert narcissist. He dropped the mask when I retired at age 67.

  • @CoachHadassah
    @CoachHadassah 18 днів тому +3

    Thank you so much for this video. I resonate with this information and has experienced every scenario play out except the migraine headaches. In fact, the narcissist was experiencing those migraine headaches instead because during that time they were in an adulterous relationship while I kept my focus on healing, homeschooling our children and continuing my education. It still is very challenging however the key is to stay disciplined in your spiritual practice.

  • @mamashiraz
    @mamashiraz 5 днів тому

    I needed this! I feel free now that he’s passed on but I have to get back to my spiritual work again. I’ve been so disconnected and in so much inner turmoil. Thank you for this!

  • @beingilluminous
    @beingilluminous 18 днів тому +1

    Thank you for these details. The pains ramped up the week before my birthday, being low/no contact. I finally put out a video to "catch up" with folks and to give all those who were worried about me some sort of evidence that I live. Until I released that video, the random headaches were increasing. I was using my massage gun on my neck/shoulders more. I would stretch more, and made an appt with my Dr as well. As you name off the symptoms (and how my symptoms have been since the video was released), it's more spooky that I ever imagined. Increasing my Spiritual Hygiene, as well as adopting a healthier perspective, I trust will continue to lead me on a path of true freedom. Wishing you the best!

  • @elizabethbettencourt1116
    @elizabethbettencourt1116 18 днів тому +4

    Amen! Thank you Danish! Amazing work! Stay in the Bubble of Light! Love that ❤

  • @zandershutterhandmishra6770
    @zandershutterhandmishra6770 9 днів тому +1

    Best video till date😊.
    Showering light and bubble of protection save me😊.
    Thank you Almighty God 💞 for protecting my body and soul 😊.

  • @margiechism
    @margiechism 18 днів тому +5

    Handling it this way ■ I ask the Father and agree, "I do not receive these narcissist actions and I do not give or allow my goodness be received by them; in Jesus name." This means I do not let their ugliness be allowed in my life, and I do not allow myself be taken by them; they will have to be destroyed by themselves. M

  • @Patricia-nx1so
    @Patricia-nx1so 9 днів тому +1

    I got anxiety and fibromyalgia when I date my husband and when we got married I had chronic fatigue and depression… I am convinced he made witchcraft on me day one…after 23 years on marriage I left without a word. He is in a rage phase but I don’t care I am free , I am me again and I am no more sick! The best relationship you can have with this kind of individual is to not have relationship of any sort! My advice : try to find a way out , leave and never come back Period.

  • @prabhar5244
    @prabhar5244 17 днів тому +1

    So so true. Everything you said i experience both physically amd spiritually. I forced myself to get back to praying.

  • @TraceyElizabeth
    @TraceyElizabeth 10 днів тому

    When life is experienced, just as you point out in your videos, then what you say is known to be true. Everything true❤

  • @dianenyc4664
    @dianenyc4664 18 днів тому +5

    The kitty behind Danish is so cute!!!❤

  • @mac01590
    @mac01590 16 днів тому +2

    Spiritual warfare, I received a lot of healing by fasting and praying. In this time I'll tell God how I'm feeling and ask him to heal me. Lord I'm angry plz take away my anger, Lord I feel vulnerable plz protect me and so on and so forth...etc.

  • @ericae6611
    @ericae6611 13 днів тому +1

    I had a dream about them and the next day the narcissist called my phone. I didn't know he was a narcissist because the last we dated was when we were 13 years old. But over the next month, he called me nonstop and monopolized my time. I was so exhausted. My job performance became terrible. It was like he was sent to get me caught up in my emotions but his ultimate goal was to destroy me and make me completely dependent on him.

  • @suzannarichards3424
    @suzannarichards3424 10 днів тому

    You speak to our hearts and open up understanding where there was none. Thank you