I'm not sure... being trans idk the cis man culture only the trans man culture which is basically ever guy in a maid dress is so cute and I want (also FYI I'm ftm) :3
I think they said if you can read you are a girl so all the people who can read are girls so if you can read this and you like another girl(or person who can read) yes you are a gay lesbian
it's really sad that the person who threw the fist gender reveal party did so because she had some miscarriages before and she wanted to celebrate finally being far enough in a pregnancy to be able to know the baby's gender. she didn't expect gender reveal parties to become so popular and regrets it
@@FoodieDocMD yeah, the kid that the gender reveal was for came out as nonbinary and the family had a second gender reveal to announce it, as a throwback to the original. it was on that second gender reveal post that they said that they regret coming up w gender reveals.
Lol. I may be cis and hetero, but I have a trans boyfriend, and before I met him, I had no idea how privileged I truly am compared to those less fortunate. I have faced bullying as a child, but never to the extent my boyfriend has faced through his whole life by his own family. I am disgusted by some of the things people seem to think.
someone misgenders my moms dog: ohhh my goodness im so sorry i mean he’s a boy, he’s a good boy. good boy 😘 someone when my mom corrects them on my pronouns: *dirty look, walks away*
My brother was mistook for a girl from his birth to about 6 yrs and i was mistook for a boy. My mom never minded it and she swap our clothes to confuse people more. That was a fun time.
The mass amnesia is so wild... like “gender reveals” have only been around for maybe 15, 20 years, and the mum who initially popularized them has shared her personal stories behind it so many times...
Never even heard about gender reveal party till 2 years ago when i moved to the states. They confuse me a lot. Why celebrate the gender? It shouldn’t matter
@@Ratniko If I remember correctly, the woman who initially did it had been trying and trying for a baby, but kept having miscragies. She finally had a pregnancy that she could keep, so threw a baby shower to celebrate that she managed to have a baby long enough to even see what gender her baby was. So it became kinda a celebration to see the gender after a few moments. I honestly don't mind them, a lot of them are pretty tame. Only when they get extreme (like fireworks or smoke bomb things) do I really mind it. Like just cut a cake.
@@nightgaze4108 And we have Cis males to thank for that. Cutting a cake is to "girly". They want the world to know that their child's penis is a compensation for them not feeling like their own is adequate 🙃
Those baby shirts are disgusting a shirt telling boys that they can grow up to be sexual predators and girls that they should have body image problems. UGHH! •rage intensifies•
My uncle put a black collar on their dog and my aunt was like "how will they know shes a girl!1!1 people are gonna look at her and think shes a boy doggie!1!1" The cis were never ok
Love your pfp and same, my parents said the same thing when my dog Harley grew out her hair, she was a schnauzer so she had a cute curly beard, so they often never cut her eyelashes so it looked like she had incredibly long extensions. A queen with her giant eyelashes and curly beard. 💛
my dogs are one big boy n one small girl but we get their clothes on clearence, meaning most of the time the big clothes are pink dresses and the small ones are hoodies and shirts the cis cant register that it doesnt matter that my dogs wearing a pink dress
I was getting my parents' dog a custom collar made last Christmas and when I asked for his neck size, my stepdad was like "make sure it's a blue collar"
I hope they never encounter European shoe sizes, because in that system, size 6 would be 4 cm long. My own shoes are size 35 when I can find that or 36 if there aren’t any shoes that fit and suit me on the “size 35” shelf or in the children’s section.
My mom didn’t know what “cis” meant and she saw on the internet that it was an insult. So, she turned to me and was like, “Do you know what this means? I heard it was an insult” And I was like “Mom. It literally means you’re not trans. I’m Cis. You’re cis.” And she was cool with it. I guess there’s a bunch of people spreading the lie on the internet that “cis” is an insult to cis people. Which is...stupid? You can literally google it and google will tell you otherwise
The main reason why people thought it was a insult is because a lot of people used to think trans people are weird/different/not normal and then the term “cis” was made to make cis people sound different then normal to kind of make them seem different or not normal
It's a label...people don't like beeing put in some sort of broad category. also the term is used by some on the radical left spectrum in derogatory manners. Don't put people into boxes and dont tag labels on them... its as easy as that
@@YuriNoirProductions Labels are a touchy subject for me. I obviously wouldn't label someone who didn't like to be labeled. However, the labels of "gay" "trans" "straight" "cis" can help people understand others and help guide them when finding themselves. I'm demisexual, and- although I'm not a 100% fit into the label- it makes me feel at ease knowing that there are others similar to me. That I'm not alone. I can see where they can be a bad thing, but I also rely on the label as a sense of community- so it's not really derogatory to everyone is what I'm saying. Not meaning to debate with you or anything! Just letting you know my view :)
@@YuriNoirProductions then I assume you don’t want to be called a human. Or straight (if you are) cause those are labels too. Or maybe you admit that you’re trans then. Cause you’re not cis, so.... congrats? 😂
Even if that was 50 years ago, that disappointed me so much. Nobody should be exposing their CHILDREN to a stranger! That’s considered harm, and I would’ve whacked that woman with my NB purse if she pulled that in front of me. No child should go through such immature and indecency of their parents.
I love my men illiterate 😩/j Edit: I know there are many people out there who did not have a chance at education and that's okay! I am not trying to be insensitive and if I have offended anybody then I'm very very very sorry. Offending anyone was not my intention.
BRO IK RIGHT IT MAKES NO SENSE THEN THEY GET PRESSED WHEN U CALL THEIR DOG A HE BUT WHEN U SAY "Actually i use (Insert pronouns) " THEIR LIKE "Omg stop getting so pressed about it lol 🙄"
@@captainobvious90 Ummm, I think it depends. My trans friend has no problem with us or doctors asking his biological sex, which is a female, but everyone’s different. Just try not to ask them or talk about it unless it’s a must and respect their pronouns and you should be fine :)
@@captainobvious90 it isn't because it isnt throwing hate against the transgender person. It isnt homophobic to non binary people either because they were born of something, and it's okay to be curious but yeah as the person above me said, they might not wanna tell (unless you're a doctor or something then they have to tell you depending on situation and the trans person). But i mean if theyre a trans woman then its obvious which gender they were before
@@captainobvious90 Like if you call a transwomen a biological woman? I think it'd be more of a compliment if anything. If it's calling a transwomen a biological male, it isn't really transphobic (bc it's the truth) but they are not a male
Trying to explain to cis people who are bajiggity about the word "cis" that it's just a freakin' adjective is an exercise in futility. "You are a short woman." "Okay." "You are a dark-haired woman." "Yes." "You are a cis woma--" "NOW HOLD ON A SECOND!"
And the irony is that people who say "Don't call me cis. I am a man/woman and don't like to be classified as anything else" have just provided evidence that they may be classified as transphobes whether they like it or not.
a conservative once said "there is a war between christianity and lgbt" "christianity is an opressed minority" "lgbt is coming to christian houses and opressing us" keep up the fantasy one day you'll get a full netflix show
My daughter had pretty much no hair until she was 2 and a half. We very much put her in any clothes we thought were bright, colourful and fun - I remember one day an elderly gentleman telling me off (!) for putting her in a baseball cap because it confused him! Yes! My whole purpose as a parent is centred around what other people think of my child and what they are wearing! Gah. She's 6 and a half now and has pretty much never worn skirts or dresses, completely her choice from the time she was old enough to choose. It doesn't stop the occasional stranger commenting that she'd look "so pretty in a dress" arrrgh. I'm a huge believer in supporting a child to make their own choices from the time they are old enough to do so (provided they are safe choices for them and others). I don't get how so many people feel that things are their business (when they really aren't!) I also experience this as a disabled person and disabled parent. Some folk just need the drama I guess!
Yup, Conservatives like that may ignore stereotypically looking gay people walking, But have to come up to parents about their kids clothes being “anything out of the ordinary” 🗿
@@bluelad370 so trans children should just feel dysphoric for years without even knowing why? And what about children who've always known they were gay without knowing the word for it?
@@bluelad370 dude preventing children from knowing that lgbtq people exist is not gonna prevent them from becoming part of lgbtq, it's better that they know of these things early so if they do feel like that way they know they are not alone in the world
@@bluelad370 the minority doesn't out weigh the Majority, it like the internet most people use it for good but some people use for bad, so you suggesting we get rid of the internet no matter what it is some people will do something it not preventable
I was pretty much taught that what makes a boy a boy is liking girls and vice versa, and was always called a girl, so I thought I was straight and had fake crushes on boys (I basically said I liked them when I didn’t) and if I was never taught that it was possible to like girls as a girl I could end up becoming a giant homophobe and ending up with someone I didn’t love. I’m pretty young but based on what happened I have a good idea of what could’ve happened.
Yes, the whole pockets thing is super annoying, specially being an adult who only accepted being trans after decades of being use to having functional pockets it is even more frustrating for me because I am so use to "wallet keys phone" being in specific pockets where I feel like I am missing something if I am outside the house without them in their right pockets, even jeans that do have pockets the pockets are only like 2 inches deep and so are functionally useless except for coins and keys. As such I would even argue that it isn't just "P O C K E T S" but rather "FUNCTIONAL pockets", in my work pants that are from the men's department the pockets are 8.5" deep and I can easily have my wallet and keys in one pocket and phone in the other pocket and still have room to put my hand in the pockets to keep my hands warm, but in my cloths I actually want to wear from the women's department the pockets are 3" deep and yeah sure I can put my wallet and keys in one pocket (just barely) and half of my phone in the other pocket, nothing else fits in them and there is way to much of a risk of things falling out because of how shallow they are. I would argue that anything under 7" is not a functional pocket even if it is a technical pocket. If it is not deep enough to put a phone in then it is not functional.
I just gave up on trying to find clothing I like with pockets. Instead I asked my mom to sew me some skirts with pockets. They fit more, than I can put in them without losing my skirt due to the weight.
To be fair, children under 2 years are not supposed to wear masks (as far as I know I could be wrong), but that could be solved by... keeping them at home so there still is no excuse. Although not everyone has someone to take care of their child when they go out, so that could be a possible scenario where they would have their child out at a store or something without a mask. But they could take precautions like pulling the hood of the baby carrier over like a mask but not directly on their face
I'm cis woman and I don't understand people that say it's a slur. It is an adjective describing that I'm the gender I was born as. It's not offensive, just like saying someone is trans isn't offensive because they are transgender and don't identify as the gender they were born as. Why does the genitals of a person matter so much to people.
but shoulden't you be called a woman? Dhoulden't we call every woman, trans or not "woman"? As some trans prople don't like beeing called "trans ___", some cis don't like beeing called "cis ___"
@Lang lang but it doesn't tho, like gender has nothing to do with sex, it's just that people assume gender based on sex when they have no actual causitive relationship
look, "cis" literally means "on this side" and "trans" means "on the other side". We use cis and trans to refer to the structure of *oil molecules,* damnit, you can't just say it's a slur because it's new to you
Exactly! They are latin terms. The Romans used them for example to refer to the lands on their side of the Alps (the upper part of Italy) which was called cisalpine and on the other side of the Alps (what used to be Gallia and today is mostly France) which was called transalpine. They are words that are thousands of years old and are nothing more than descriptive terms, people don´t get to just claim they are slurs when they absolutely are not.
@@innessab7223 (This goes for trans- too) Except that there is a minority of people forcing this onto people to put ahead of the word they don't have any reason to alter. Just because YOU want people to use TRANS in front of the word woman or man and can't 'understand' why some don't wish to doesn't mean you get to speak over people or shame those who feel a real inner NO in using trans in front of their gender. Let's start a petition to just call people by their gender without any prefixes, who's with me? Cis woman, trans woman, all just woman now. Cis men, trans men, all just men now. And this goes for all my lovely enbies out there too.
The CishetsTM are honestly so confusing. They're all like "Trans woman will never be real woman! They're just a man in a dress!" Yet when a man wheres a dress they call him a woman. Make up your mind please ?
@@ocelotlesbian There was another comment that said Cisgenders: you can’t change your biological sex Cisgenders at men who read books: gIRL I didn’t make this, it was made by someone called Juliana Bee
"Gender" reveal parties are idiotic. Even the woman who started them wants them to stop. Also, should I be wondering if my husband is secretly a woman and that I am actually gay? "He" reads books and drives an automatic! This whole time I thought he was a cis-male. Please, help. Signed, Very Confused.
@@jw5386 yeah, and actually it's just a "genital reveal", so.. Please don't burn down forests to tell everyone what your child's genitals are.. That's really kinda creepy
Reminds me of the PhilosophyTube story of a woman who was at a place but saw shoes and found that they were.... Size 9? Then in a tired frenzy she drove home because she was afraid there was a trans girl there. ..................bruh.
@@lilybee6552 In the UK we have a different shoe size measurement. He's talking about a UK size 6, which is I think a 36 in Europe, American shoe sizes are larger
My middle child was bald for a year and I dressed her in a lot of neutral colors because that’s my style, and whenever people would say “he’s so cute!” I just said “thank you!” Idk why that’s so hard for people.
I mean sriously its a one year old... I believe they dont care about their gender because its a social construct like...is the baby gonna get offended?!😂
I saw this one ad it was like “scents for him, scents for her, and designer scents” and all I could think was Ah yes the three genders, Him, her and designer
Yes same. So my boyfriend will usually metamorph into a girlfriend based on how many pages they read, it can last to up to a month if it's a very long book. If they're listening to an audio book though they metamorph into a nonbinary person and if you're watching a series they don't have a gender at all. It's really cool. Yk just giving me the overall experience. XD
Me, a cis woman: "I am a cis woman. Are you a cis woman?" These cis women: "I AM A BIOLOGICAL WOMAN NOT A CIS WOMAN." Me, still a cis woman: "Yes, that makes you a cis--" These cis women: "STOP USING SLURS!" Me, a cis woman losing her damn mind: "Ok so what is the opposite of Trans?" These cis women: "NORMAL. You're either Trans or you're NORMAL." Blessed be the people with the patience to actually hold these discussions for longer than 5 minutes because they make me want to yeet myself off the face of this planet. They make me want to evaporate. They make me want to vanish and wake up in a better timeline where "Cis" and "Trans" are understood by most people as merely adjectives that are opposites just as "Strong" and "Weak" are opposites. xD I cannot with these people.
I don’t understand why people try to convince anyone of anything. I don’t even believe any more that it’s about educating people. People on both sides of any polarizing issue share exactly the same need to control the narrative and what other people think. It’s pointless and a waste of time, since most people are demonstrably unable to learn new concepts or to let go of their own preconceptions. Give it up. Nobody learns, nobody listens, everybody feels victimized.
@@ameliasellers6396 I’ll be honest, I didn’t know there was an actual word assigned it, I really got a “ _The More You Knoooow_ ” moment from this comment
Face it, there are a lot of uneducated people out there and a lot of people who have been "educated" by arseholes with a hatred of anyone not the same as themselves. Frankly, I want to find some place where cis gendered heterosexual people like myself *and* all manner of people of different genders, sexual orientations, gender expressions etc can live and enjoy our lives and not be plagued by uneducated haters. Sadly, there seems to be no place like that and we're forced to contend with total arseholes for whom *hatred* is more important than understanding. This is why I want to live long enough to see us build colonies and habitats outside of Earth - then perhaps we could build a colony elsewhere with decent "entry criteria": "Are you trans or cis..." "I'm NORMAL, DAMMIT!" "Application denied. Next, please!"
A lot of it, yes. Though even the woman who unwittingly created the whole phenomenon is saying "Please stop, gender is more complex than that, I never meant for you to take this so damn seriously, and BTW my daughter whose party started this is a bit on the genderfluid side."
As a cis straight girl, I found this video hilarious. It’s sad to think about how stupid some people are. I hope we can learn from their mistakes and be better.
That “masks are emasculating” one pisses me off. we are not saying masculinity is toxic. you can express your masculinity. It’s when you force it on others and start acting like a wanker, that it becomes toxic
So it turns out I'm a mum in a "grocery store", a dad in a clothes store and neither in a hardware store, I've never questioned my gender so much in my entire life...
My mom got my ears pierced at like 6 or 9 months old because I was bald and everyone around us called me a boy. Jokes on you mom, I'm neither. One story she tells me is I was wearing a pink dress and a man told her "he's going to grow up into a big strong man, you should be proud" It's my favorite story
I didn't know poetry was something you could major in, that's so cool! I don't know if I'm just an emo, but I feel like guys being into poetry makes them even more attractive. It makes me feel he's intelligent AND sensitive. Good combo.
Yeah why make a remote to control people into gender sterostypes! Come on you could have ruled the world with mind control and this is what you decide to do with all that power!? Some people are so dumb!
that one person to their boyfriend: "what is *that*?" their boyfriend: "oh, just a book". that one person: "a *book*? you're... literate?" their boyfriend: "uh, yeah". that one person: "I can't believe I dated a WoMaN. ReAL MeN CaN'T ReAD!!1!" fr though, what a weird thing to gender asdkgkgk.
...how the tables have turned. I had this ingenious thing to say about the whole subject but I lost my train of thought and I can’t even remember how I came to the conclusion so I’ll add it if I remember it.
I'm a fan of space and the first word that pops into my mind that also uses cis- is "cislunar space." It's used in all kinds of science if you look for it.
@@Eurus__ "Cis" in Latin means "on this side of" or "on the same side." In the context of gender, this just means that the gender you identify with aligns with the gender you were assigned at birth. As opposed to "trans," which means "on the other side of" or "across from" in Latin. Being transgender means the gender you identify with is different from the gender you were assigned at birth. Hope this helps!
Agreed! (Also a trans guy) I say looking like a fantasy character needs to be normalized by the fashion industry. No more of this “cosplay” stuff. I want to look like a Dúnedain ranger or Zindane from Final Fantasy IX without getting funny looks from the boringly dressed public! 🧐 I’ve got a pair of genuine medieval-style boots just lying in my closet, sad and longing for a Renaissance festival.
@Fucking grass Yes!! (Though I do trim my beard.) only reason I cut my long hair is that there wasn’t much difference between when I brushed it or not. xD Kept getting too tangled...I miss it though!
I have a thing that works for everyone: all Trans women are women, but not all women are trans. This also works by replacing women with men for others-
@@Audioventura Which is how ive(luckily) gotten some sense into previously transphobic people(and i’m still helping them get through their internal transphobia and their previous beliefs know knowing that they were wrong and now understanding that) and it’s always nice to see :)
@@ocelotlesbian exactly, what’s in your pants shouldn’t determine who you are as a person just like how your skin, eyes, shape and other uncontrollable things should not determine your identity
“Children should not wear masks, it is damaging to their growth..” Me, a 13 year old girl who feels anxious even going to check the mail without my mask on, and hasn’t gotten sick in over a year due to wearing masks, despite having a lung issue that does make me more susceptible to sicknesses like that, and overall just more comfy in a mask: Ah yes, I have a crash in my mental and physical health now.
My grandfather (a corrections officer for the colville confederated tribe jail) told me a story about a transgender women prisoner who wanted to be on the women’s side, (she didn’t) and the whole time he was telling me this story he kept referring to her as ‘he’ and ‘him’. After he was done, I told him that if she was a transgender women, then he should refer to her as such. And you know what he said? “Never stop teaching me”.
Regarding the "dad in the supermarket vs mom in the supermarket" stereotype... my parents are exactly like that but I, being a child and wanting to be like my dad for shockingly trans reasons, was more like my dad in that I hated shopping and hated taking forever in the market and hated looking at clothes and food and so on. But as I got older and took on the role of stay-at-home spouse to keep it tidy and clean, I noticed how drastic my shift was in shopping. Now I love looking at clothes, cleaning products, cooking stuff, so on... because it's things to help me care for the thing I spend the most time in and the most time caring for. It's a completely genderless experience. The more time you spend tending to something important, the more likely you are to be interested in buying the things needed to continue to tend to it, leading to "traditional" moms displaying those shopping behaviors as opposed to "traditional" dads, who just wanna grab something and gtfo.
I used to work at a Christian book store & Macdonald’s “Act Like Men” got recalled off the shelves, so we got to destroy the copies we had in-store. It was very satisfying.
@ReadingWriting&Ranting of course I’m being sarcastic. Destroying books just because you don’t agree with them sets a dangerous precedent. There’s plenty that I don’t agree with but I don’t think it should be destroyed.
@@jollytotjuice Unfortunately for any item that was recalled at that particular bookstore chain, there was no sending the product back to warehouses or anything. We were specifically given direction by corporate to destroy them before throwing them out so they couldn’t be scavenged and resold elsewhere (which people have tried to do before). There’s definitely precedent to disagree with that, but not on the basis that we were “burning” them because we disagreed with their messages.
Them: if ur boyfriend reads books, that’s a girlfriend Also them: Men, you have to Act Like Men and to do so you have to read this book about how to Act Like Men
Okay there's this image on Pinterest where it shows 3 books in a store that say "The pocket guide to girl stuff", "The pocket guide to boy stuff", and "The pocket guide to mischief". The caption below says: "Ah, yes, the three genders. Boy, Girl, and Mischief." Oh and that's not even the best part. There's also a random book in the back of the image with the glorious title "Everyone Poops 10 Million Pounds".
@@werelemur1138 I would correct you on two points Loki is gender fluid thus not a God. I would say Deity of mischief. And second is that they are a jotunn (a giant) raised by the Aesir (Odin).
“Comment down below to say what your favourite thing was” honestly ur personality you seem so sweet and kind I just want to give u a hug, I’m so glad you showed up on my recommended
"I can't get over the bit where they think that wearing masks is emasculating for boys. How?" It's quite simple. Wearing a mask protects other people, therefore implies that you care about people other than yourself. Caring about other people is feminine & cissy. Therefore, wearing a mask is emasculating! [/sarcasm]
@@PensiveOmen apparently people want to die, can't blame them for that wish! (But on a serious note, I'm not anti mask, wearing masks and having basic fucking hygiene are two very important things!)
More accurately, they think caring about your own health is weak. Remember that these are the same people who refuse to acknowledge that wearing a mask if for helping OTHERS, hence why everyone needs to wear one, so that everyone is protected. So they think it's only to protect YOU, and believing in the pandemic and caring about the pandemic means you're weaker than others, and thus emasculated.
@@makaniistorm8664 the sexes are female and male actually, but it would make sense if that was the logic. although they could have included non binary only for the purpose of the merch
do non-binary specific t-shirt fit different? or do you just feel more comfortable having a t-shirt that is labeled for a specific gender? genuinely asking and am curious!
I just like calling transphobic people ‘Cis’ and hearing them get all offended. “Well it’s not MY fault that this is my gender! YOU shouldn’t be discriminating against me just because of my pronouns! THAT’S UNFAIIIIIIRRRRRR! Not making fun of someone for their gender should be considered the societal norm!” Like bruh, *that’s how the trans feel.*
I was on a website buying some cool posters and there was some sections. One said 'Gifts for her', another said 'Gifts for him' and another said 'Gifts for them' and it just made me really happy, I've never seen that on a website before.
@@laylamyers3240 I assumed it meant gifts for girls, gifts for boys and gifts for non binary people, or those who go by they/them. Do correct me if I got that wrong though
@@emmamusicatso5535 Redbubble. They do clothes, posters, stickers, masks, and a whole bunch of other stuff, and there's tons of designs made by lots of different independent artists who can make money on the website. Its really cool actually
The "reading a book makes you a woman" is especially hilarious to me. Suddenly, every single president of the United states was a woman (except for Donals Trump ofc). Did you know that Einstein was a woman? And so was basically every other scientist, author, philosopher, politician etc. since the printing press was invented. Now I finally get those anti-feminists - women aleady are in power everywhere, and alway have been!
1600: if your woman reads she’s a witch
2000s: if your man reads he’s a girl
oh look, how the tables have turned.
@@toenailvolunteer3454 what tf is your username
@@averagefroggo5796 it's sexy
@@averagefroggo5796 gorgeous
@@averagefroggo5796 wonderful
"If your bf reads books, that's a gf"
Fellas, is it gay to educate ourselves?
About half the country apparently thinks so
I'm not sure... being trans idk the cis man culture only the trans man culture which is basically ever guy in a maid dress is so cute and I want (also FYI I'm ftm) :3
it's not gay if you keep your socks on and stay 5 feet away from the book
I think they said if you can read you are a girl so all the people who can read are girls so if you can read this and you like another girl(or person who can read) yes you are a gay lesbian
Yes because if a man can read that means he can see which means he can see other men, which is gay
transphobe: *insults the term cis*
IT HURT ITSELF IN ITS CONFUSION
Oh mah gawd-
Love the pkmn meme *wheeze*
This sounds like it was taken from a nature documentary and I love it xddd
Pokemon references for the win
"uhhh self burn...those are rare" cit.
it's really sad that the person who threw the fist gender reveal party did so because she had some miscarriages before and she wanted to celebrate finally being far enough in a pregnancy to be able to know the baby's gender. she didn't expect gender reveal parties to become so popular and regrets it
Also isn’t one of her kids non-binary and fully supported by their family
aww this is kinda sad now
In switzerland where I live I don't know anyone who's had a gender reveal party. It's just not a thing here and I'm very happy about it
@@FoodieDocMD yeah, the kid that the gender reveal was for came out as nonbinary and the family had a second gender reveal to announce it, as a throwback to the original. it was on that second gender reveal post that they said that they regret coming up w gender reveals.
I dont think they're bad. I didnt have one but I originally planned on it so I can get more free stuff for my kid lmao! Two baby showers basically
"If your boyfriend reads that's a girlfriend"
Men 100 years ago not letting women read: "Ah shit"
Then: “if you’re a woman who reads you’re a witch”
Now: “if you’re a boy who reads you’re a girl”
lovely how that works🐟
@@sarafrankenstein9622 yup
@Diya it was definitely a bit over 100 years ago, but like, 300 years ago the women would be considered a witch
@Diya I mean in many third world countries TODAY, women still don't know how to read.
@Diya I'm not being offensive, I am speaking historical fact here, I don't believe in this being right I just share information
Whenever I find out someone is pregnant I draw them a "congratulations it is a Human" card. And what can I say, I was never wrong
I want to do that too xD
@@MunthApollo do it!
Sudden twist: someone’s baby was a goat
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that first one really gave me “gay or european” energy
So stylish and relaxed
THIS MAN IS GAY AAAAAAANDDDD EUROPEAN!
@@decietfuldolphin986 I think his chest is waxed
@@galaxyshapeshifter8383 But they bring their boys up different there, its culturally diverse
@M It's not a fashion curse
“People are calling me cis, Im a biological male stop oppressing me”
People are calling me heterosexual, I’m straight, stop oppressing me 🥲
Lmao 😂
Lol. I may be cis and hetero, but I have a trans boyfriend, and before I met him, I had no idea how privileged I truly am compared to those less fortunate. I have faced bullying as a child, but never to the extent my boyfriend has faced through his whole life by his own family. I am disgusted by some of the things people seem to think.
That isn’t the same thing
@@Errupt 🗿 you must be really fun a parties
@@Otknoharuka ye I am
"if your boyfriend reads books, that's a girlfriend"
That's one way of admitting to being illiterate lol
“Hi, I’m Kyle. I’m 19, and I never learned how to fucking read”
BAHA-
Then you be lesbian checkmate
listen I am a stoopid thembo that can't read books but atleast Im not trying to cancel literature🙄
Fellas is it Gay to read
"If your boyfriend reads books, that's a girlfriend."
I guess my partner and I are lesbians instead of gay dudes 🤷♂️
360 full flip
Harold they're lesbians XD
Why's your name Amanda.. isn't that a women's name?
@@dailyremindertoshutup3670 if you must know, it's my deadname and I've had this profile longer than I've been out
@@amandakineman7322 Oh shit, sorry.
imagine if parents actively defended their trans kids gender like they do when someone misgenders their baby
someone misgenders my moms dog: ohhh my goodness im so sorry i mean he’s a boy, he’s a good boy. good boy 😘
someone when my mom corrects them on my pronouns: *dirty look, walks away*
@@useroffline9999 That's really sad. I'm sorry for you.
@@marb5423 meh, it only happens occasionally. the trash always takes itself out ;))))
@@useroffline9999 exactly!! how does that make any sense??
@sweeze true true
My brother was mistook for a girl from his birth to about 6 yrs and i was mistook for a boy. My mom never minded it and she swap our clothes to confuse people more. That was a fun time.
wow thats great! haha
oh dope
Lol
Same haha but our clothes weren't changed and ppl still thought we're the opposite genders. I'm trans now :)
@@warhawk3900mission failed successfully?
"I'm a boy"
"I thought you were British"
"im a lesbian"
"i thought you were american"
@@Blazequine how do I keep finding MCR fans
@@thealtpandapng easy, MCR made us gay, and the gaydar finds us ✨
@@thealtpandapng also, your username hurts me 💀
@@Blazequine they transed my gender!
The mass amnesia is so wild... like “gender reveals” have only been around for maybe 15, 20 years, and the mum who initially popularized them has shared her personal stories behind it so many times...
It's actually closer to twelve years
Never even heard about gender reveal party till 2 years ago when i moved to the states. They confuse me a lot. Why celebrate the gender? It shouldn’t matter
@@Ratniko If I remember correctly, the woman who initially did it had been trying and trying for a baby, but kept having miscragies. She finally had a pregnancy that she could keep, so threw a baby shower to celebrate that she managed to have a baby long enough to even see what gender her baby was.
So it became kinda a celebration to see the gender after a few moments.
I honestly don't mind them, a lot of them are pretty tame. Only when they get extreme (like fireworks or smoke bomb things) do I really mind it. Like just cut a cake.
@@nightgaze4108 And we have Cis males to thank for that. Cutting a cake is to "girly". They want the world to know that their child's penis is a compensation for them not feeling like their own is adequate 🙃
Normally it used to happen at the baby shower since there were color themes in the past. Unless I got hit with that Mandela Effect...
Ah yes, the two genders: British and Boys.
I am British 👌
I am both
I never knew British men were all bigender.
All boys from Britain are now bigender
I am a german girl, so I guess I'll just-
*slowly disapears*
“are you a boy or are you a british?”
american girl dolls: *sweat nervously*
*happy gaso* TRANS AMERICAN GIRL DOLLS-
*gasp
Ah yes my gender is British
i used to be OBSESSED with those and wanted one so bad holy crap
Underrated comment
"If your boyfriend reads books, that's a girlfriend"
_laughs in bisexual_
I feel this
*Bisexual powers: ACTIVATE*
*me and so many of my friend are laughing in bi and pan*
That’s exactly what I thought tooo 😂
s a m e
literally sksjgldjf
(btw, i see the woosan ;)
Cis genders: you can't change your biological sex
Cisgenders at men who read books: gIRL
Transphobes*
The conservative logic:
Trans women wears a dress: tHaT'S a MaN
Cis men wears a dress: tHat'S a GiRl
It's almost like, they don't have consistent statements and alter their own definitions to fit their agenda 🧐
@@evil_death_roll that’s just every conservative, tho
@@theautisticartist9370 Very much so, yes. Also, fellow autistic ace represent 👍🐛
*cis people:* driving anything but a stickshift and reading books makes you a GIRL.
*trans women:* WRITE THAT DOWN WRITE THAT DOWN-
69th like xD
@@fyrea well if you feel that way right now than right now you can be
Tried these but, already technically being a woman, neither worked. 1/10 life hack helps me pass in front of sexists I guess?
Lesbians:YES MA’AM
Cis people: Not like that
Yo this reminds me of the time I asked a dude in my class if he was heterosexual, and he straight up, all serious, told me: "Nah I'm straight.
Oh gosh
I probably didn’t know what the word meant. Cut him some slack?
What? 😂
@ShayAway yes I see that now 😅 think I saw it in the wrong context x
"If your boyfriend read books, that's a girlfriend"
Okay, Gaston.
😆
He'd also add: and if your girlfriend reads a book she's wasting her time.
Ohhh, that was so good
HAHAHAHA yeeees
This should have more likes than it does 😂
Those baby shirts are disgusting a shirt telling boys that they can grow up to be sexual predators and girls that they should have body image problems. UGHH! •rage intensifies•
Yeah I'm not one to make a fuss but if I saw these at a store I would probably go full Karen and ask to speak to the manager lmao
@@lionrence why
I once saw a pink baby onesie that said "I hate my thighs." Ick!
Hell yeah I never understood on why they would sexualize literal baby like tf
My uncle put a black collar on their dog and my aunt was like "how will they know shes a girl!1!1 people are gonna look at her and think shes a boy doggie!1!1" The cis were never ok
Love your pfp and same, my parents said the same thing when my dog Harley grew out her hair, she was a schnauzer so she had a cute curly beard, so they often never cut her eyelashes so it looked like she had incredibly long extensions. A queen with her giant eyelashes and curly beard. 💛
My dog has a bright purple collar on and people still call her a boy. I literally don’t care and neither does she
my dogs are one big boy n one small girl but we get their clothes on clearence, meaning most of the time the big clothes are pink dresses and the small ones are hoodies and shirts the cis cant register that it doesnt matter that my dogs wearing a pink dress
I was getting my parents' dog a custom collar made last Christmas and when I asked for his neck size, my stepdad was like "make sure it's a blue collar"
Oof my mom does the same thing and I’m just watching her like
"if your shoe size is larger than 6.."
as somebody who is a size 12 in womens i highly reccomend just stepping on them
🤣
“If your shoe size is larger than 6” then you’re a grown adult, congratulations
I hope they never encounter European shoe sizes, because in that system, size 6 would be 4 cm long. My own shoes are size 35 when I can find that or 36 if there aren’t any shoes that fit and suit me on the “size 35” shelf or in the children’s section.
"If your boyfriend reads books, that's a girlfriend."
Every guy in my class who is forced to read a book so they can pass: 😦😦
If your boyfriend cannot read please get him some help.
Darn public schools trying to make all the kids trans.
/s
This is so funny becouse they're trying to be heteronormative while they're actualy making a hetero relationship gay.
Read a book so they can pass, you say? I'll read a million books if I can pass.
the schoolteachers are forcibly transing the genders
My mom didn’t know what “cis” meant and she saw on the internet that it was an insult.
So, she turned to me and was like, “Do you know what this means? I heard it was an insult”
And I was like “Mom. It literally means you’re not trans. I’m Cis. You’re cis.”
And she was cool with it. I guess there’s a bunch of people spreading the lie on the internet that “cis” is an insult to cis people. Which is...stupid? You can literally google it and google will tell you otherwise
The main reason why people thought it was a insult is because a lot of people used to think trans people are weird/different/not normal and then the term “cis” was made to make cis people sound different then normal to kind of make them seem different or not normal
It's a label...people don't like beeing put in some sort of broad category.
also the term is used by some on the radical left spectrum in derogatory manners. Don't put people into boxes and dont tag labels on them... its as easy as that
@@YuriNoirProductions Labels are a touchy subject for me. I obviously wouldn't label someone who didn't like to be labeled. However, the labels of "gay" "trans" "straight" "cis" can help people understand others and help guide them when finding themselves. I'm demisexual, and- although I'm not a 100% fit into the label- it makes me feel at ease knowing that there are others similar to me. That I'm not alone. I can see where they can be a bad thing, but I also rely on the label as a sense of community- so it's not really derogatory to everyone is what I'm saying. Not meaning to debate with you or anything! Just letting you know my view :)
@@YuriNoirProductions then I assume you don’t want to be called a human. Or straight (if you are) cause those are labels too. Or maybe you admit that you’re trans then. Cause you’re not cis, so.... congrats? 😂
@@YuriNoirProductions Ok, not-trans person.
Let me get this straight: someone exposed their child's genitals to a stranger because they got annoyed at the child being misgendered??
Basically yes. Gosh I was so shocked. What's worse is that this person seems like they think it's a little funny story.
Why the fuck
I hope they got a visit from CPS
Even if that was 50 years ago, that disappointed me so much. Nobody should be exposing their CHILDREN to a stranger! That’s considered harm, and I would’ve whacked that woman with my NB purse if she pulled that in front of me. No child should go through such immature and indecency of their parents.
my aunt did that once, but she was the one everyone keep misgendering...
"if your boyfriend reads books, that's a girlfriend" ah yes real men are illiterate
I love my men illiterate 😩/j
Edit: I know there are many people out there who did not have a chance at education and that's okay! I am not trying to be insensitive and if I have offended anybody then I'm very very very sorry. Offending anyone was not my intention.
Lol imagine reading...
Cis people when a trans woman takes hormones and has surgery: still a boy tho
Cis people when a man reads a book: wOMAN
I didn’t know I was in a lesbian relationship. Thanks for telling me transphobes
these cis heteros are makin no sense
Yeah who knew being transitioning would be as easy asb picking up a book? /s
So all trans women have to do is read books, and trans men can never read anything ever again? Damn. I can't read suddenly, I don't know.
Cis heteros give me headaches. I’m cis and hetero but I mean like THOSE kinds of people
rando: "my dog is actually a girl"
transphobes: "okay"
rando: "my baby is a boy"
transphobes: "okay"
transwoman: "Im a girl"
transphobes: "boy."
BRO IK RIGHT IT MAKES NO SENSE THEN THEY GET PRESSED WHEN U CALL THEIR DOG A HE BUT WHEN U SAY "Actually i use (Insert pronouns) " THEIR LIKE "Omg stop getting so pressed about it lol 🙄"
Asking a real question here, if you classify a transgender to be a biological male/female, is that considered transphobic?
@@captainobvious90 Ummm, I think it depends. My trans friend has no problem with us or doctors asking his biological sex, which is a female, but everyone’s different. Just try not to ask them or talk about it unless it’s a must and respect their pronouns and you should be fine :)
@@captainobvious90 it isn't because it isnt throwing hate against the transgender person. It isnt homophobic to non binary people either because they were born of something, and it's okay to be curious but yeah as the person above me said, they might not wanna tell (unless you're a doctor or something then they have to tell you depending on situation and the trans person). But i mean if theyre a trans woman then its obvious which gender they were before
@@captainobvious90 Like if you call a transwomen a biological woman? I think it'd be more of a compliment if anything. If it's calling a transwomen a biological male, it isn't really transphobic (bc it's the truth) but they are not a male
Trying to explain to cis people who are bajiggity about the word "cis" that it's just a freakin' adjective is an exercise in futility. "You are a short woman." "Okay." "You are a dark-haired woman." "Yes." "You are a cis woma--" "NOW HOLD ON A SECOND!"
y e s
as a cis person we do not claim them like,,,, if you're okay being called straight why can't you handle being called cis
@@lillyw2695 we do not claim them as human beings. They are a different species
That reminds of that one girl that went “I ain’t no cis women! I am a NATURAL born women!”
And the irony is that people who say "Don't call me cis. I am a man/woman and don't like to be classified as anything else" have just provided evidence that they may be classified as transphobes whether they like it or not.
3:55 reminds me of a quote, “95% of conservatism is just making up situations in your head and getting mad about it”
Conservatives: Facts don't care about your feelings
Also Conservatives: These facts hurt my fee fees 😢 therefore the facts are wrong
a conservative once said "there is a war between christianity and lgbt" "christianity is an opressed minority" "lgbt is coming to christian houses and opressing us" keep up the fantasy one day you'll get a full netflix show
I swear they are destroying our future
@@blahajlife8259 Was it the Dryden Joss or whatever they call it?
Me a cis female:
Call me psychiatrist and tell him that I have both cisgender and female disorder, because I’m not British or a boy 😂
female disorder 💀💀
me a trans boy who is also british:
panik
“I diagnosis you with female”
F E M A L E D I S O R D E R
edit: OH SHIT WAIT
female disorder? dont you mean h y s t e r i a
@@samuel-zb4qn NO, YOU HAVE TO CHOOSE!
"If your boyfriend reads books, that's a girlfriend"
Also: 40 Days to Biblical Manhood BOOK
how the turntables
I won't ever look at priests and their bible as I used to
Men aren't allowed to read, yet women used to not even be taught how to read...
It hurt itself in its confusion
So, if _I_ read a book, would I become a girl? It would make my life a hell of a lot easier...
“if your boyfriend reads, that’s a girlfriend”
ig my transphobic dad is a girl....
Yes, that makes sense...
Congrats you have two moms/s
rip
Same
What-
My daughter had pretty much no hair until she was 2 and a half. We very much put her in any clothes we thought were bright, colourful and fun - I remember one day an elderly gentleman telling me off (!) for putting her in a baseball cap because it confused him! Yes! My whole purpose as a parent is centred around what other people think of my child and what they are wearing! Gah. She's 6 and a half now and has pretty much never worn skirts or dresses, completely her choice from the time she was old enough to choose. It doesn't stop the occasional stranger commenting that she'd look "so pretty in a dress" arrrgh. I'm a huge believer in supporting a child to make their own choices from the time they are old enough to do so (provided they are safe choices for them and others). I don't get how so many people feel that things are their business (when they really aren't!) I also experience this as a disabled person and disabled parent. Some folk just need the drama I guess!
I’d say something like “well I think YOU’D look cute in (thing they don’t want to wear), so go put one on and then we’ll talk”
Yup, Conservatives like that may ignore stereotypically looking gay people walking, But have to come up to parents about their kids clothes being “anything out of the ordinary” 🗿
"if your boyfriend breathes and/or cry thats a girl" -cishets
*some cishets
Fellas, is it gay to breathe
@@DuskNeko yes, hello fellow member of the LGBTQ+ community
cishets man..
chill out cishet a man can have feelings :skull:
@@DuskNeko XD
You heard it here first trans women, you don’t need to take estrogen and get surgeries, you just need to read books and you’ll be a woman.
@Zara Gupta I’m a cis woman but go off I guess lmao
that kinda implies they are men, but i get the joke an the idea
God don't I wish
Wait, but I've read loads of books! Where's my damn tiddies?!
@@caitthenerd7470 you can have mine 🗿
Cishet people: "don't force sexuality on children!"
Also cishet people: *makes t-shirt saying "lock your daughters up"*
@@bluelad370 so trans children should just feel dysphoric for years without even knowing why? And what about children who've always known they were gay without knowing the word for it?
@@bluelad370 dude preventing children from knowing that lgbtq people exist is not gonna prevent them from becoming part of lgbtq, it's better that they know of these things early so if they do feel like that way they know they are not alone in the world
@@bluelad370 the minority doesn't out weigh the Majority, it like the internet most people use it for good but some people use for bad, so you suggesting we get rid of the internet no matter what it is some people will do something it not preventable
I was pretty much taught that what makes a boy a boy is liking girls and vice versa, and was always called a girl, so I thought I was straight and had fake crushes on boys (I basically said I liked them when I didn’t) and if I was never taught that it was possible to like girls as a girl I could end up becoming a giant homophobe and ending up with someone I didn’t love. I’m pretty young but based on what happened I have a good idea of what could’ve happened.
@@bluelad370 25
What clothing stores try to sell women: *dresses, short skirts, skinny jeans*
What women really want: *P O C K E T S*
Yes, the whole pockets thing is super annoying, specially being an adult who only accepted being trans after decades of being use to having functional pockets it is even more frustrating for me because I am so use to "wallet keys phone" being in specific pockets where I feel like I am missing something if I am outside the house without them in their right pockets, even jeans that do have pockets the pockets are only like 2 inches deep and so are functionally useless except for coins and keys.
As such I would even argue that it isn't just "P O C K E T S" but rather "FUNCTIONAL pockets", in my work pants that are from the men's department the pockets are 8.5" deep and I can easily have my wallet and keys in one pocket and phone in the other pocket and still have room to put my hand in the pockets to keep my hands warm, but in my cloths I actually want to wear from the women's department the pockets are 3" deep and yeah sure I can put my wallet and keys in one pocket (just barely) and half of my phone in the other pocket, nothing else fits in them and there is way to much of a risk of things falling out because of how shallow they are. I would argue that anything under 7" is not a functional pocket even if it is a technical pocket. If it is not deep enough to put a phone in then it is not functional.
Right like i can’t imagine women actually wanting to wear what they sell there 💀
I just gave up on trying to find clothing I like with pockets. Instead I asked my mom to sew me some skirts with pockets. They fit more, than I can put in them without losing my skirt due to the weight.
“Wearing masks is unhealthy for children” you know what else is unhealthy for children? Dying.
Tell that to the anti vax moms
I guess they prefer that for their kids '-'
To be fair, children under 2 years are not supposed to wear masks (as far as I know I could be wrong), but that could be solved by... keeping them at home so there still is no excuse. Although not everyone has someone to take care of their child when they go out, so that could be a possible scenario where they would have their child out at a store or something without a mask. But they could take precautions like pulling the hood of the baby carrier over like a mask but not directly on their face
I meeaaan- Can you really be considered unhealthy if you're dead?
@@bayza7955 I was just about to comment this lmao
I'm cis woman and I don't understand people that say it's a slur. It is an adjective describing that I'm the gender I was born as. It's not offensive, just like saying someone is trans isn't offensive because they are transgender and don't identify as the gender they were born as. Why does the genitals of a person matter so much to people.
Exactly! It’s make no sense to me. Like would you like to be called trans if you don’t like the label cis?
You see, YHWH gets VERY ANGRY when people don't like his work... or so I'm told.
👏this👏
but shoulden't you be called a woman? Dhoulden't we call every woman, trans or not "woman"? As some trans prople don't like beeing called "trans ___", some cis don't like beeing called "cis ___"
@@archieraul5151 yes, but if they are explicitly asking if you are trans or cis I would say I'm cis. It still shouldn't be offensive
“I’m not cis I just identify with my birth sex” has the same energy as “I’m not straight I’m just attracted to the opposite sex”
gender, not sex
I don't like pizza, I just like bread with sauce, cheese, and pepperoni on it
@@RevCuck sex is the biological gender.
@@awildunus8847 i really wanna know what u mean by this
@Lang lang but it doesn't tho, like gender has nothing to do with sex, it's just that people assume gender based on sex when they have no actual causitive relationship
look, "cis" literally means "on this side" and "trans" means "on the other side". We use cis and trans to refer to the structure of *oil molecules,* damnit, you can't just say it's a slur because it's new to you
^ THIS!!!
That’s really interesting! I honestly didn’t know what the they meant or that they were used in other context. Thanks for sharing
Exactly! They are latin terms. The Romans used them for example to refer to the lands on their side of the Alps (the upper part of Italy) which was called cisalpine and on the other side of the Alps (what used to be Gallia and today is mostly France) which was called transalpine.
They are words that are thousands of years old and are nothing more than descriptive terms, people don´t get to just claim they are slurs when they absolutely are not.
@@qetsiyah3652 I was just about to mention Gallia
hey y’all I’m coming out, I’m an oil molecule!
(this is a joke, I’m trans-)
I can’t believe some cis people don’t understand that ‘cis’ is just a scientific term
technically its latin but yeah
@@RevCuck that too, but its also used in the biology field
this is what I needed to hear. I was confused about where it came from (English is not my first language) thank you :)
@@innessab7223 (This goes for trans- too)
Except that there is a minority of people forcing this onto people to put ahead of the word they don't have any reason to alter. Just because YOU want people to use TRANS in front of the word woman or man and can't 'understand' why some don't wish to doesn't mean you get to speak over people or shame those who feel a real inner NO in using trans in front of their gender.
Let's start a petition to just call people by their gender without any prefixes, who's with me? Cis woman, trans woman, all just woman now. Cis men, trans men, all just men now. And this goes for all my lovely enbies out there too.
"Cis" is a scientific term. "Cis people" is not.
The CishetsTM are honestly so confusing. They're all like "Trans woman will never be real woman! They're just a man in a dress!" Yet when a man wheres a dress they call him a woman. Make up your mind please ?
i am a trans demiboy who is 13. when i was out as lesbian i was always called a boy. now ill "always be our little girl" wtf
Simple solution. Trans women just need to read more. Problem solved.
@@samhainlegge9563 All fixed!
@@ocelotlesbian they are talking about the joke in the video ‘if your bf reads that’s a gf’
@@ocelotlesbian There was another comment that said
Cisgenders: you can’t change your biological sex
Cisgenders at men who read books: gIRL
I didn’t make this, it was made by someone called Juliana Bee
"how dare you have feet over size six, cut your toes off"
Cinderella's sisters: 👁️👄👁️
@@strxwb3rry.m0chii woah, crazy fact. the original commenter should’ve made a joke about that.
@@strxwb3rry.m0chii wow! no way!!! wish the original commenter made a joke about that!!
"People are calling me cis, I'm a biological male, stop oppressing me."
People are calling me a homosapien, I'm a human, stop oppressing me.
reminds me of "i am not homosapient i am heterosapient as millions of other people"
childish retort if the trans community wants respect then stop acting like spoilt entitled children
“I’m not homosexual, I’m gay”
People: Men don’t read books! If he does, he’s a girl!
Schools:
schools are girl factories confirmed
So my dad was actually a woman?
@@kellydalstok8900 I’m sorry, it seems so😔
"Gender" reveal parties are idiotic. Even the woman who started them wants them to stop.
Also, should I be wondering if my husband is secretly a woman and that I am actually gay? "He" reads books and drives an automatic! This whole time I thought he was a cis-male. Please, help. Signed, Very Confused.
Loved this 😂😂😂😂
I believe the woman who created thems child is came out as non-binary too (it could’ve been a joke but it’s what I heard)
@Louanne von Blottnitz I think because calling it a "sex reveal" would make it sound just as weird and low key creepy as the whole ordeal really is.
@@jw5386 yeah, and actually it's just a "genital reveal", so.. Please don't burn down forests to tell everyone what your child's genitals are.. That's really kinda creepy
Best comment so far lmao
"As a women any shoe size over 6 is a bit 🥴🥴"
Fellas, is it lesbian to have feet?
Almost every gay woman I've met has had feet 🤔🧐🤔 sus /j
It's pretty sus to have proportionate feet to your overall size ◖⚆ᴥ⚆◗
...the average size of woman’s feet is 8
Reminds me of the PhilosophyTube story of a woman who was at a place but saw shoes and found that they were.... Size 9?
Then in a tired frenzy she drove home because she was afraid there was a trans girl there.
..................bruh.
@@lilybee6552 In the UK we have a different shoe size measurement. He's talking about a UK size 6, which is I think a 36 in Europe, American shoe sizes are larger
My middle child was bald for a year and I dressed her in a lot of neutral colors because that’s my style, and whenever people would say “he’s so cute!” I just said “thank you!” Idk why that’s so hard for people.
I mean sriously its a one year old... I believe they dont care about their gender because its a social construct like...is the baby gonna get offended?!😂
“Forcing boys to wear masks that keep them safe is emasculating. Masculinity isn’t dangerous”
The contradiction here-
I saw this one ad it was like “scents for him, scents for her, and designer scents” and all I could think was
Ah yes the three genders,
Him, her and designer
Welp, I guess my pronouns are desi/gner
my pronouns are gucci/luisvuitton
Help, how do I come out to my parents that I'm a designer
@Cora Friend niccce
“If yOur bOYfrIeNd rEads BoOKs, hE’S a gOrl”
See, that’s why I’m bi.
Yes same. So my boyfriend will usually metamorph into a girlfriend based on how many pages they read, it can last to up to a month if it's a very long book. If they're listening to an audio book though they metamorph into a nonbinary person and if you're watching a series they don't have a gender at all. It's really cool. Yk just giving me the overall experience. XD
I am female but since I don’t read books I’m apparently a boy
You are sexually attracted to literate people? /s
oh, so that's why me and my friend are gays.
we read books!
it's that easy.
Euuuuu rantaro speaking facts
I'm glad that gender reveal parties aren't common in my country.
SAMEE
Same
Lucky. 😠
Me, a cis woman: "I am a cis woman. Are you a cis woman?"
These cis women: "I AM A BIOLOGICAL WOMAN NOT A CIS WOMAN."
Me, still a cis woman: "Yes, that makes you a cis--"
These cis women: "STOP USING SLURS!"
Me, a cis woman losing her damn mind: "Ok so what is the opposite of Trans?"
These cis women: "NORMAL. You're either Trans or you're NORMAL."
Blessed be the people with the patience to actually hold these discussions for longer than 5 minutes because they make me want to yeet myself off the face of this planet. They make me want to evaporate. They make me want to vanish and wake up in a better timeline where "Cis" and "Trans" are understood by most people as merely adjectives that are opposites just as "Strong" and "Weak" are opposites. xD I cannot with these people.
I don’t understand why people try to convince anyone of anything. I don’t even believe any more that it’s about educating people. People on both sides of any polarizing issue share exactly the same need to control the narrative and what other people think. It’s pointless and a waste of time, since most people are demonstrably unable to learn new concepts or to let go of their own preconceptions. Give it up. Nobody learns, nobody listens, everybody feels victimized.
@@ameliasellers6396 I’ll be honest, I didn’t know there was an actual word assigned it, I really got a “ _The More You Knoooow_ ” moment from this comment
i still can't get over the fact that people think cis gender is a seperate gender made up by "libtards"
Face it, there are a lot of uneducated people out there and a lot of people who have been "educated" by arseholes with a hatred of anyone not the same as themselves.
Frankly, I want to find some place where cis gendered heterosexual people like myself *and* all manner of people of different genders, sexual orientations, gender expressions etc can live and enjoy our lives and not be plagued by uneducated haters.
Sadly, there seems to be no place like that and we're forced to contend with total arseholes for whom *hatred* is more important than understanding.
This is why I want to live long enough to see us build colonies and habitats outside of Earth - then perhaps we could build a colony elsewhere with decent "entry criteria":
"Are you trans or cis..."
"I'm NORMAL, DAMMIT!"
"Application denied. Next, please!"
And then they all are terfs lol
I also don't think people are that upset about revealing the baby's gender as much as setting California on fire to reveal a baby's gender
The smoke looked pink from a plane
Orange from the ground
@@captainahab5522 and then the baby actually turns out to be non binary
A lot of it, yes. Though even the woman who unwittingly created the whole phenomenon is saying "Please stop, gender is more complex than that, I never meant for you to take this so damn seriously, and BTW my daughter whose party started this is a bit on the genderfluid side."
As a cis straight girl, I found this video hilarious. It’s sad to think about how stupid some people are. I hope we can learn from their mistakes and be better.
Same
Same here
Same
Same
Same
"Okay, but what's in your pants?"
"Fish and chips."
"cheap and ill fitting underwear"
"If your gonna creep on me a dissapointment"
Are the straights ok?
*Yesn't*
No, yes!
Jein
I can confirm that we are not ok
@@aquirkedupwhiteboy
How many times have u been hit
@@maxcarterrambling too many times :(
"If your boyfriend reads that's a girlfriend."
Me, a bisexual, looking at my boyfriend, who's reading a book: Well. I'm not complaining.
😂... that’s hilarious
"jokes on you i'm into that"
I love ur prp! :)
@@dont_blink3578 *blink blink*
Fuck im dead
As a bi girl I only get soppy with more feminine guys 😅 the het guys are like bros
“You wanna look like a lord of the rings extra?”
Me, a total geek and an enby: y e s
Aloiiiiis my dude
You literally have a demon butler who has to do anything you say. If your demon butler can't make you a hella cool costume, he's not worth his salt.
I have a solution! We shall all dress like elves!
But the armor shown is from Dark Souls not Lotr 😋
@@ronjakristina3616 yeah, I don’t think Artorias looks like he’s from lotr
That “masks are emasculating” one pisses me off. we are not saying masculinity is toxic. you can express your masculinity. It’s when you force it on others and start acting like a wanker, that it becomes toxic
Masculinity can be toxic and COVID is too
"If you read you're a girl!"
I didn't know Gaston was on that website.
If you don't eat 3 dozen eggs and you aren't roughly the size of a barge you can't be a man
"If your boyfriend read books, that's a girlfriend."
Me after reading like 3 books over the weekend: You fool. That's exactly what I want.
So it turns out I'm a mum in a "grocery store", a dad in a clothes store and neither in a hardware store, I've never questioned my gender so much in my entire life...
Based off of those diagrams I apparently have a couple kids running around that I didn’t know about
I love your pfp and user
According to those pictures I'm a full on Dad. 🤷♀️
@@lexa2310 same here.
My mom got my ears pierced at like 6 or 9 months old because I was bald and everyone around us called me a boy. Jokes on you mom, I'm neither.
One story she tells me is I was wearing a pink dress and a man told her "he's going to grow up into a big strong man, you should be proud"
It's my favorite story
This is talking about the cis™️. Not cis people on the whole.
I would know as I am cis.
THOSE cis people: If your boyfriend reads a book that’s a girlfriend
My brother, a poetry major: 👁👄👁
It’s okay if it’s not in a book
*your sister
I didn't know poetry was something you could major in, that's so cool! I don't know if I'm just an emo, but I feel like guys being into poetry makes them even more attractive. It makes me feel he's intelligent AND sensitive. Good combo.
FETCH THE ANCIENT SCROLLS
he's now a sister
the “women’s remote” is absolutely the most sociopathic thing I’ve seen all day
Nice pfp and yeah, I agree
I'm just here wondering why it is an existing product in the first place and slowly loosing more of my faith in humanity.
Yeah why make a remote to control people into gender sterostypes! Come on you could have ruled the world with mind control and this is what you decide to do with all that power!? Some people are so dumb!
Off topic but your voice is so incredibly calming and nice
that one person to their boyfriend: "what is *that*?"
their boyfriend: "oh, just a book".
that one person: "a *book*? you're... literate?"
their boyfriend: "uh, yeah".
that one person: "I can't believe I dated a WoMaN. ReAL MeN CaN'T ReAD!!1!"
fr though, what a weird thing to gender asdkgkgk.
The funniest part is that for a significant length of time it was only the boys who were even taught to read. Girls weren’t allowed to go to school.
@@samhainlegge9563 omg you're right, I didn't even think of that! that makes it even more ridiculous lol.
well that's just how it works sorry
Jared, 19, out here being the manliest man we've ever seen.
...how the tables have turned.
I had this ingenious thing to say about the whole subject but I lost my train of thought and I can’t even remember how I came to the conclusion so I’ll add it if I remember it.
People who get upset over the words 'trans' and 'cis' ... never had (or paid attention in) cytology.
Or chemistry
Or Latin
Or school in general.
I'm a fan of space and the first word that pops into my mind that also uses cis- is "cislunar space." It's used in all kinds of science if you look for it.
@@Eurus__ "Cis" in Latin means "on this side of" or "on the same side." In the context of gender, this just means that the gender you identify with aligns with the gender you were assigned at birth. As opposed to "trans," which means "on the other side of" or "across from" in Latin. Being transgender means the gender you identify with is different from the gender you were assigned at birth. Hope this helps!
“You want to look like a lord of the rings extra?”
Yes. Yes I do.
Under the armor there is no gender, but a warrior's heart.
Agreed! (Also a trans guy) I say looking like a fantasy character needs to be normalized by the fashion industry. No more of this “cosplay” stuff. I want to look like a Dúnedain ranger or Zindane from Final Fantasy IX without getting funny looks from the boringly dressed public! 🧐 I’ve got a pair of genuine medieval-style boots just lying in my closet, sad and longing for a Renaissance festival.
@Fucking grass Yes!! (Though I do trim my beard.) only reason I cut my long hair is that there wasn’t much difference between when I brushed it or not. xD Kept getting too tangled...I miss it though!
Same but I wanna be an elf.
@Fucking grass Sounds like you have excellent taste in both video games and style! 😁 (Know how that thinning hair goes...sounds very similar to mine.)
I have a thing that works for everyone: all Trans women are women, but not all women are trans. This also works by replacing women with men for others-
it actually works with any noun and any adjective: All red balloons are balloons but not all balloons are red balloons...
All squares are rectangles (rect(right)-angles) but not all rectangles are squares
@@Audioventura Which is how ive(luckily) gotten some sense into previously transphobic people(and i’m still helping them get through their internal transphobia and their previous beliefs know knowing that they were wrong and now understanding that) and it’s always nice to see :)
Only two minutes in and I'm confused by these cis people.
As a cis people, I wish I wasn’t. Why must we have genders it seems so pointless
@@ocelotlesbian exactly, what’s in your pants shouldn’t determine who you are as a person just like how your skin, eyes, shape and other uncontrollable things should not determine your identity
“Children should not wear masks, it is damaging to their growth..”
Me, a 13 year old girl who feels anxious even going to check the mail without my mask on, and hasn’t gotten sick in over a year due to wearing masks, despite having a lung issue that does make me more susceptible to sicknesses like that, and overall just more comfy in a mask: Ah yes, I have a crash in my mental and physical health now.
you're doing better than a lot of adults that come into my work place without a mask. stay safe :)
I wish masks actually kept people from getting sick, my friend and her bf wouldnt have gotten covid twice if they acted like an actual barrier
My grandfather (a corrections officer for the colville confederated tribe jail) told me a story about a transgender women prisoner who wanted to be on the women’s side, (she didn’t) and the whole time he was telling me this story he kept referring to her as ‘he’ and ‘him’. After he was done, I told him that if she was a transgender women, then he should refer to her as such. And you know what he said?
“Never stop teaching me”.
is that wholesome or transphobic help
@@mani-qj3np yes.
That's beautiful, I love that he is teachable and I pray my family will allow me to teach them but right now many are not willing to listen. :/
@@mani-qj3np It started off transphobic, but then the guy accepted correction, so I say it at least ended wholesomely!
@@MunthApollo no wonder why he’s a CORRECTIONS officer :D (haha sorry I had to)
Regarding the "dad in the supermarket vs mom in the supermarket" stereotype... my parents are exactly like that but I, being a child and wanting to be like my dad for shockingly trans reasons, was more like my dad in that I hated shopping and hated taking forever in the market and hated looking at clothes and food and so on. But as I got older and took on the role of stay-at-home spouse to keep it tidy and clean, I noticed how drastic my shift was in shopping. Now I love looking at clothes, cleaning products, cooking stuff, so on... because it's things to help me care for the thing I spend the most time in and the most time caring for. It's a completely genderless experience. The more time you spend tending to something important, the more likely you are to be interested in buying the things needed to continue to tend to it, leading to "traditional" moms displaying those shopping behaviors as opposed to "traditional" dads, who just wanna grab something and gtfo.
I used to work at a Christian book store & Macdonald’s “Act Like Men” got recalled off the shelves, so we got to destroy the copies we had in-store. It was very satisfying.
I’m glad you enjoyed your book burning. What’s next on the list?
@ReadingWriting&Ranting of course I’m being sarcastic. Destroying books just because you don’t agree with them sets a dangerous precedent. There’s plenty that I don’t agree with but I don’t think it should be destroyed.
@@jollytotjuice Unfortunately for any item that was recalled at that particular bookstore chain, there was no sending the product back to warehouses or anything. We were specifically given direction by corporate to destroy them before throwing them out so they couldn’t be scavenged and resold elsewhere (which people have tried to do before). There’s definitely precedent to disagree with that, but not on the basis that we were “burning” them because we disagreed with their messages.
I don’t condone destroying a lot of books, but if it was satisfying, go ahead I guess.
Them: if ur boyfriend reads books, that’s a girlfriend
Also them: Men, you have to Act Like Men and to do so you have to read this book about how to Act Like Men
Maybe it's just pictures inside XD
exactly
A Picture Book by Gaston
Okay there's this image on Pinterest where it shows 3 books in a store that say "The pocket guide to girl stuff", "The pocket guide to boy stuff", and "The pocket guide to mischief". The caption below says: "Ah, yes, the three genders. Boy, Girl, and Mischief."
Oh and that's not even the best part. There's also a random book in the back of the image with the glorious title "Everyone Poops 10 Million Pounds".
As an enby I Support being referred to as mischief
Loki, god of mischief, is genderfluid. Makes sense to me!
@phantom !! thank you my good mischief
@@werelemur1138 I would correct you on two points Loki is gender fluid thus not a God. I would say Deity of mischief. And second is that they are a jotunn (a giant) raised by the Aesir (Odin).
@phantom !! greetings fellow enby,
Unrelated but Double Trouble pfp?
"If your boyfriend reads books, that's your girlfriend"
Me, a massive book nerd, and also a trans women: **Valid trans noises**
the first one: exists
me whos british and a trans boy: *intense confusion*
press x to agree
Well, now you will just have to buy both.
@@lexa2310 adapt, improvise, overcome
You get to have both phone cases.
Congrats you're bigender
"are you a boy or are you a british?"
me, a british boy: *panic*
Is it true that some British people call us Americans Colonists still??😄
not just in casual conversation 😄 and yeah not really anyway, just maybe as a joke sometimes
y e s
No
But some of us just go ‘MURRICAAA, when anyone says something about the us
Anyone: "Cisgender"
Transphobes: "SOCIALISM!!"
I also love that they think democrats are leftists, because... they arent
Anything the alt-right disagrees with is labelled "socialism".
According to the alt right lol
Quality education = socialism
Equality = socialism
Proper pay = socialism
Affordable meds = socialism
@@Em_Elizabeth or communism if they’re feeling spicy
@@apersonwhomayormaynotexist9868 I thought those were the same haha can you explain the difference I have been wrong this whole time lol
“Comment down below to say what your favourite thing was” honestly ur personality you seem so sweet and kind I just want to give u a hug, I’m so glad you showed up on my recommended
"I can't get over the bit where they think that wearing masks is emasculating for boys. How?"
It's quite simple. Wearing a mask protects other people, therefore implies that you care about people other than yourself. Caring about other people is feminine & cissy. Therefore, wearing a mask is emasculating! [/sarcasm]
Even if it were emasculating, isn't that better than dead?
@@PensiveOmen apparently people want to die, can't blame them for that wish! (But on a serious note, I'm not anti mask, wearing masks and having basic fucking hygiene are two very important things!)
@@PensiveOmen Turns out in a zombie apocalypse a good bit of people would not run away from zombies because "iT's fAkE nEwS"
More accurately, they think caring about your own health is weak. Remember that these are the same people who refuse to acknowledge that wearing a mask if for helping OTHERS, hence why everyone needs to wear one, so that everyone is protected. So they think it's only to protect YOU, and believing in the pandemic and caring about the pandemic means you're weaker than others, and thus emasculated.
I keep finding non-binary T-shirts that are like “Woman or Man.” Like I-I’m non-binary that’s why I’m looking for non-binary shirts.
Ye but isn't men and women as in sex? Cause you have women cuts and male cuts to fit the bodies.
@@makaniistorm8664 the sexes are female and male actually, but it would make sense if that was the logic. although they could have included non binary only for the purpose of the merch
Unisex cuts
do non-binary specific t-shirt fit different? or do you just feel more comfortable having a t-shirt that is labeled for a specific gender? genuinely asking and am curious!
I don’t particularly like cut or shaped clothing, (like woman shirts, pants) so I always pick the male sizes or shop in the male section ^^
I just like calling transphobic people ‘Cis’ and hearing them get all offended.
“Well it’s not MY fault that this is my gender! YOU shouldn’t be discriminating against me just because of my pronouns! THAT’S UNFAIIIIIIRRRRRR! Not making fun of someone for their gender should be considered the societal norm!”
Like bruh,
*that’s how the trans feel.*
@Diya I’m sorry before I respond with what I was thinking, are you talking about making fun of transgender people or transphobes?
@Diya you’re not bias, you discriminate everyone equally. Nice
@Diya if you discriminate everyone equally, you have a pass. 😂
@Diya goddamn, mad respect 💕
Now I might be straight, and a Christian, but his videos always makes me smile! He is wonderful
"A real man would risk his fingers on a saw"
It's gotten to the point where I legitimately can't tell if this is supposed to be satire or genuine...
As a general rule, very few people bother trying satire, so, genuine is a good default to assume until you can confidently mark it satire.
That’s right a REAL man would chop his fingers right off!
Apparently my great grandpa was a real man then 🤔
I was on a website buying some cool posters and there was some sections. One said 'Gifts for her', another said 'Gifts for him' and another said 'Gifts for them' and it just made me really happy, I've never seen that on a website before.
I sort of... choked when I saw this comment. Whose THEM? And also what is this world coming to??? Never mind I know who them is.
@@laylamyers3240 I assumed it meant gifts for girls, gifts for boys and gifts for non binary people, or those who go by they/them. Do correct me if I got that wrong though
That's so cool :,)
what website ?
@@emmamusicatso5535 Redbubble. They do clothes, posters, stickers, masks, and a whole bunch of other stuff, and there's tons of designs made by lots of different independent artists who can make money on the website. Its really cool actually
The "reading a book makes you a woman" is especially hilarious to me. Suddenly, every single president of the United states was a woman (except for Donals Trump ofc). Did you know that Einstein was a woman? And so was basically every other scientist, author, philosopher, politician etc. since the printing press was invented. Now I finally get those anti-feminists - women aleady are in power everywhere, and alway have been!
"As a female, any shoes size over 6 is a bit *queasy face* "
Me, a female, looking down at my size 9 feet...
Jammi: Really? You want to look like a lord of the rings extra?
Me: YES.
Is that...bad? Of course I do-
"You want to look like a Lord of the Rings extra?"
Nobody tell Sir Artorias. He'd be pissed.
If the most exciting thing for a parent is knowing what their babies genitals look like... that's messed up. I don't think they should have kids.
god i keep thinking that. like y'all its genitals lets stop getting overzealous
@Diya That person who was mad about people wanting to get rid of gender reveal parties because it was "one of the most exciting moments" for a parent.
"If your boyfriend reads, that's a girlfriend"
Huh, I guess lesbians have more options then I thought