When is Timothy’s “FATHER” going to go on trial? You know…the guy who gave his SON to the THING that wasn’t supposed to be alone with him?!?! Where is HIS accountability in this????
exactly what I want to know-wth would he give his son to this beast, when the other children, who are adults now, knew she was a monster-then so did Timothy's "father".
@@PaulDiNardo-pt5mj the statement broke me because there was no reason for him to die. He shouldn’t be dead. He should be at home, with a loving family. And idgaf what u think about my comments.
@@Missstrishthis case disturbs me beyond belief. Obviously she's "intelligent" , there is no humanity in her. Why did she keep having children? The states of OK determined her unfit took her parental rights away! FFS She had a self diagnosed special needs child & not once took him to a doctor, a counselor? Claims because her ex husband didn't provide her with insurance info she was 100% prevented from seeking care! BS He should have been on Medicaid anyway. There are resources. She literally did not even try to get help for him. Or I know - I'll chain him up & strap alarms to him! Sick POS.
That was such a hard concept to accept but it was so true. Thank God the cpr didn’t work. Timothy rests peacefully in the arms of our Lord. God bless him.
@@sunnymorningday6537Amen 🙏 Timothy was beloved 😢just an innocent disabled child 😢one of the most precious in Jesus's eyes guaranteed 😢😢She gets more judgements later 😢
In addition to her sentence, I hope the Michigan BAR revokes her law license, and she is forbidden to assist other inmates with legal advice. Having everyone within earshot of her calling her “unintelligent” would be a real punishment for this animal.
Justice will not be served until the victim's father is also sentenced. He knew she was not supposed to be around the victim without supervision. She's a sadist 🤬
Yeah something has to come of that, I'm actually glad she didn't use that fact that she was not supposed to have custody as her defence as that probably could have got her a lesser charge.
I believe he is totally incapacitated due to a stroke. If you never knew anyone who suffered a massive stroke you're lucky because it is absolutely debilitating. Lose the ability to walk and talk, even make decisions.
Her public defender. Bless his heart. He tried for his client. That prosecutor though. He has a calming shot. He's not a flamboyant Baptist preacher but he's like a visiting pastor who makes the church say Amen. He was awesome. He tripped Shanda up so many times all she could say was "If that's what it says."
Yes! The prosecutor took all the wind out of her sails when he recognized....& successfully objected to....Shanda's attempt to blame everything on undiagnosed mental disorders she claimed to have. She wanted to blame things like PTSD, disassociation disorder & other ailments, all based on hearsay that a doctor supposedly told her, not on expert testimony offered in court in front of the jury. The judge ruled without the proper foundation from an expert, Shanda could not assign blame for memory lapses on specific "disorders"...as she set out to do right out of the gate. As soon as the judge made that ruling, Shanda's defense fell apart. In a jail phone call, Shanda was talking about how case law regarding PTSD would blow the prosecutor's allegations of 'intent' out of the water. As we saw, after Shanda was limited to what mental issues she could cite in her testimony, she was reduced to having to continuously claim she couldn't remember anything which made her look stupid. 😊
Yes. She thinks she is clever. Each one of those text exchanges with Paul shows u that she thinks it's clever to devise new ways to torture her defenseless son.
I’m glad she’s having to pay 💰 restitution because I’ve heard her jail calls! She spends $75 a week for commissary because she says the food isn’t up to her standards! The audacity of her to complain about food when she starved her child!
Maybe in prison food can be withheld, bread with hot sauce,the odd frozen burger,ice cold baths,abuse hurled at it and punishment when it moves when told not to….it doesn’t deserve anything else. This is a monster, the things it did to its own child are horrendous, how can you do such things to your child and how on earth can you make one child inflict such pain and suffering on a sibling ? Evil,cruel,sadistic,monster 🤬
The Judge from the Florida school shooting held back convincary from that little monster for at least 5 yrs so all he'll be eating is what they serve in the mess hall and it's not a lot for a grown man .😮😮😮
Yeah she just didn’t like Tim that why and she abused her other oldest and I’m sure she abused Paul so defenses attorney u sound stupid she evil that what wrong she abused her two oldest got taken from her I’m sure she abused Paul and then she took out on Tim
All she cared about during her sentencing was to make sure her paperwork stated that she had a doctorate in law. She did not care about her older children or care about Timothy! I agree, 100% of the comments made by the judge!
A JD and yet she was a paralegal! Great job but she was not pursuing her studies when it came to work . She worked hard to play the system and couldn’t even do that right
@@elizabethantoine9652 I believe there was confusion regarding employment. I believe she was a law clerk as opposed to a paralegal. Law clerks are required to have a JD. I could be wrong, and she was a paralegal, probably worked as a paralegal while in school. Paralegal and Law Clerk are not interchangeable.
All these corrections, she is telling her lawyer what to do! She wants to make sure, Everyone knows about her higher education and how smart she is! Glad she got Life!
@@gurutruecrimeguru1405 That's funny! So please allow me to Correct You! I Do have a higher education than her! And the only thing I'm mad about, is her Murdering her defenselrivi ess young son! That evil woman used her Insanity to Control others! It's obvious she felt herself, Above others, because of her higher education!
@@gurutruecrimeguru1405I would assume what makes him angry is the obvious. This monster is worrying about the details of the writing instead of the larger picture which is she tortured and murdered her son.
@@gurutruecrimeguru1405 Bro she went to fucking COOLEY law school. Which has multiple times been the worst law school in America. Shes just a narc who thinks shes ~so smart~ when anyone could get into that school.
That's a family of writers there. Very eloquent in their grief. We have an autistic daughter. She is 26. She is guileless. She is joyful. She is funny. She is happy. She is my favorite person.
I also have a special needs child and doing something like this to her makes me physically I’ll. She is 20 and yes often special needs children can be a challenge, but no one deserves even a part of this!
The mother is the only one that made the decision not to Feed her child. The torture she put him through. Was awful the Lord will take care of her in the end.😢😢😢😢
She made a lot more than one mistake. Saying yes wasn’t a mistake, it was her opportunity to exercise her sadism on her disabled son. Her lawyer’s comments are ridiculous.
Making her a victim, Blaming abuse from her father , “ She had no one to turn to”, She wanted control and this was her only way. These diagnoses can be used as an excuse way too much .
Of course they are ridiculous, He's a public defender with a client he's sure is guilty yet he still has a duty to do.... Don't confuse defence lawyers like this guy with the likes of Jose Baez (Casey Anthony's attorney), Who is an actual POS. He has to appear to be working in her best interests becasuse if he just said "She's guilty Your Honour" he'd get disbarred...
@@VIRGONOMICS She wasn't SA'd by her stepfather. After her mother passed away, she began an affair with him as told by her sister. It's all in court documents. Zav girl read them on her channel. She also kicked her pregnant sister in the stomach and she liost her baby weeks later. She attempted to attack the sister when again pregnant, but sisters husband stopped her. This bish is/ was pure evil. Pauls was accused with SA towards Timothy, but CPS stated it was unfounded. Shanda probably made that horrific accusation.
I guess on that exact time it spark a little wicked and insidious thought in her mind having wicked hobby a game of death before answering yes. Poor Timothy's fate got sealed at that moment. To her was like getting a new Xmas present she can engage with and destroy without being hold accountable. She is truly a wicked soul.
Her defense attorney was incredibly fair. Her tragic background and her high ability and drive were real, and he was right to point them out. We learn more about psychopaths from hearing details like this, and we desperately need to understand more. He took the right tack. "Someday, we're going to understand what's wrong with this woman and why anybody could be capable of what she did." That was really the only tack he could use. Not a denialist defense, just a sad indictment of the whole, horrible thing.
@@janebrown7231thank you for this comment. I agree. Defense attorneys get no credit. Often they are reviled. This attorney did a wonderful job and was the best she could hope for.
@jens9458 Thank you. Defence attorneys are constantly misunderstood by people taking a simplistic approach. Speaking in defence of the client doesn't mean the attorney likes the client or anything the client has done, but the legal process has to be observed to protect all parties, and that's what he is doing. People don't think clearly - if a defence attorney is seen not trying to defend the client, a mistrial can be declared, and justice is not served at all. All attorneys want to be on the winning side, that's where they make their reputations and their fees. I admire much more an attorney like this who will work for the losing side (there was never any doubt of that), take the flak, and still do his best.
She is not a Human being. She is a monster I don’t care what anyone says . Pure pure monster. I’m crying because of what this monster did . This is unbelievable.
Have you heard her jail calls? It's insane the amount of money she was blowing thru on .... food mostly because she claims "she can't eat the crap food and nothing spicy." Can't believe the level of them both whining about how horrible the food, temperature, and sleeping arrangements are.
@@promise372 One would think shame alone would keep them from begging for money for SNACKS & games. How can they ask for something different to eat after what they made Timothy eat? They should be raising money to repay Fund for Timothy’s funeral.
There wouldn’t even be a funeral to have to pay for if it weren’t for her…. She should be forced to pay every last dime.. and the fact that she doesn’t want to pay is infuriating.. she has zero remorse
After watching so many recent and ongoing cases of all these demon “parents” who kill their own children, I guess we can surmise that this country has essentially abolished (whether by law or by refusal to sentence ) the death penalty! So we, whose taxes are taken to facilitate whatever sentence the courts decide, have ALSO received sentences…. to house, clothe, feed, give medical coverage AND ongoing legal services to them for how many ever decades they live.🤬
It's so interesting she shakes her head no at never even getting a speeding ticket. She lost her rights to her children years prior to this incident. I'd much rather having 100 speeding tickets, as opposed to losing rights to my child. Raising my son is my most important job in life. I would be so ashamed if the state took my child away for insufficient parenting. It's honestly terrifying we have people like Shanda and Paul in society.
Her two older kids seem so normal, and so kind. Probably because they did get removed from her care early enough. I hate that they are living with this guilt and regret that they shouldn't feel, all because of two other people's actions.
ZERO reaction Linda. I cannot fathom that. I honestly dont understand why her attorney doesnt advise her to just SIT THERE, and respectfully listen to the judge as he gives her the sentence. While I realize it wouldnt help her in terms of her prison time, as an attorney you ALWAYS want your client to be portrayed as respectful, and as a human being, ESPECIALLY when your client is THE MOTHER of the victim. Put the pen down you animal, and sit there and listen. Youre not an attorney here, you are the DEFENDANT. God, my blood is boiling after seeing this case for the first time last night. I apologize.
There's a video of the prosecutor during closing arguments and the angle is such that when he reminds the jury of the photo Paul took weeks before Timothy's death, you can actually see the picture and dear god... The judge was absolutely right. He did in fact look like a Holocaust victim. I almost wish I had looked away for that second because it's just burned into my brain now.
Once again CPS drops the ball and another child dies. Timothy's sister says they were taken away from their parents at one point, but obviously given back. And then she had another son with a different man. All of her children were given back to her. This happens all the time. Im so sick of it. And i dont care what she went thru when she was a child its NO EXCUSE! I know people that have gone thru much worse and are the best of parents because they would never ever treat their children like they were treated. Im so sick of that excuse. Im so sick of children dying by the hand of their own parents and they say oh "i was abused!" What? who cares? thats all the more reason to treat your own children differently. Im so sick of Shondas fake tears and fake vomiting. Shes a monster. A liar. A manipulator. A child abuser and a murderer! I hope she gets what she deserves in jail. I hope she is put in general population and not kept away from all of the other mothers who are missing the children they love so much.
CPS took them and she relinquished her rights and his dad was given custody. The DAD gave him back. CPS did not have any knowledge of that. The DAD needs to be held accountable.
Exactly ! My grandkids were give. Back to a monster who several time twisted my baby grandsons lip - he was 1 yr old for crying !! That say my daughter got the kids back. Well they would’ve regardless because I was going after him !! HOW do people hurt children ?!?! HOW ?! Even babies !! I have to stop watching because I’m doing doing well thinking about what happened to my little baby boy and what happened and the misery that other little boy Timothy went threw. He’s in Gods loving arms now and that’s the only peace there is for this.
@@jimmiegabel CPS is supposed to stay involved with the case even after the child has been placed in a permanent home. This family failed Timothy on both sides. Mom and dad and both step parents, and his older brothers and sisters. Your right. Dad should be held accountable as well. EVERYONE failed this boy. Google how many children continue to be beaten, starved, neglected and murdered, with CPS invovled. There have been CPS workers that have been prosecuted for not doing their jobs. G ⁶⁶_g% m C
Shadra’s attorney claimed she had never been in trouble with the law yet her child say CPS tool them away. Seems nice child should have been allowed near her. I am amazed that her concern was making sure the record reflected her medication, work history and law degree BUT no remorse at all. Evil evil Woman.
She took a little boys life away, tagged and tortured him. Now she's going to be the one caged. For the rest of her life. Fitting. I hope she understands that karma never loses an address.
They were so worried about little things on paper that had errors and did not show the same concern for the little one that lost his precious life, Timothy! Typical narcissistic behavior. I had to skip her lawyers plea for her life because it was all about her and not the fact Timothy lost his life and was found in deplorable condition. RIP Timothy!
She is sadistic villan. She also made her kids watch porn videos and there is SA involved in her past. She wants legal control of little G her youngest son. There is a court case for this. I pray they keep little G well away from her. There is a lot more to this if you read all the statements from family, teachers, work colleagues. She makes my blood boil. There needs to be a new legal bill where is you lose custody of a child it goes on your criminal record. TIMS LAW. How did they vet her for the Bar? She does have a criminal past. She was a registered child abuser. Xxx RIP TINY TIM 💕😪 Xxx
PLEASE do not allow the guilty one to be occupied with court papers, chit chats, whatever takes away her listening to the sentence she is going to receive as this helps her to 'switch off' from what is going on around her. She should be made to stand up and listen and take it on board in order she must face the cameras too - cannot believe how she manoevres around to avoid every bit of contact including face to face, this is so wrong!
He absolutely deserves to be charged with first degree child abuse or at the very least first degree child endangerment. The courts gave him custody and her supervised visits. By letting her have Timothy just to make his life easier, he gave her that child, against court order he should absolutely be charged. HE had custody of Timothy. HE was responsible for Timothy’s care and well being. She got the right sentence but he should be charged to. Well, I hope that he got what he wanted, I hope his life is easier. He pawned off his child to someone Who is not supposed to have him without supervision, and he got the expected outcome that you would expect when you put your child with someone who’s not supposed to be in contact with them without supervision. He can’t act surprised this is why the courts have visitation with supervision. He should be charged with negligent homicide. He should have known that putting his child with somebody who isn’t supposed to be around them without supervision would result in some sort of tragedy. He is ultimately responsible for this Childs death. And hopefully he’ll have to live with that for the rest of his life. Although I can’t imagine either parent really cared about this child. It’s sickening.
I agree!!!! And he didn’t even check up on him!! He failed Timothy in so many ways and it cost that poor child his life. Timothy SUFFERED!! I am beyond heart broken about this child.
The way she keeps talking to her attorney while the prosecutor is speaking about her is infuriating. She think the world revolves around her. She is just a monster. Plain and simple.
What other court matter did she have? Her attorney is so petty. I cried the entire time Timothy brother and sister gave victim impact statements. No one cares about your degree or internship. She didn’t show a single emotion
Mr Roberts the Prosecutor blistered her evil hateful behind! He did his work on this case 👏 Great works Mr. Roberts ! As they say: You did the damn thing
10:47 Millie has me in tears, I am ugly crying right now. I can’t imagine the guilt she must feel. God Bless you and give you the strength and courage to get through this.
WooHoo she got what she deserved !! Now when are they gonna charge the FATHER for allowing that child to go live with her when he KNEW she wasnt suppose to be around Timothy ??? He ENDANGERED that child !!!!
Nolan and Millie, know that none of this is your fault! My heart breaks for your family! Timothy will stay with you always. Hes in your heart and on your side always... His story is reaching millions. And I hope 1 day the justice is served by changing the whole justice ystem. Not 1 time did shonda even look over to her children. She is sick. She is not capable of feeling remorse or guilt. All of her children deserved so much better. So much more. It's completely unfair the cards some of us are dealt. I hope you all can find peace in knowing your sweet little brother is no longer hurting. No longer looking for love. He knows you love him Millie and Nolan. He is forever with you. ALWAYS ❤
I love the judge’s statement on being happy that he’s no longer here for her to continue torturing him because she was just gonna keep going. Sad that he never had a chance to live to his fullest potential. Rest in Peace Tim!! You are no longer suffering and in pain🙏🏾💐❤️
Thank you I know how hard it was for your news crew to watch this and witness this We appreciate you guys for doing that I know it's very very very hard god bless you all
I tell you what counsellor, what this monster should have done was ask for help or give her children to people who loved them, she didn’t make one bad decision, she chose every day to abuse that poor boy and clearly she enjoyed it, she’s a sadistic witch, end of story, she got off on the power she wielded 😡
Mr. Brown is smarter to know what will prevent Ms Vander Ark from appealing her conviction but at the same time knowing she doesn't have a chance in hell at winning 😮😮
Paul should be next. He was a grown man. He had many opportunities to save his little brother. He demonstrated on several occasions that he had the capacity to say NO. He also did things beyond what his mother told him to do. He should not go Scott Free in this.
@@duckducknight Not slow enough to get away with murder. He demonstrated he knew right from wrong and he was rather articulate. I think it started with him trying to garner favor from his mom, but I think he learned to enjoy it and that is shown by his adding punishments that his mom did not request. He was partly responsible for his brother's death.
@@angelmissionexactly this! At 18 I was kicked out of the house, and here this 19 year old man is worried about what mommy would think or do if he didn't take part in abuse. Society treats people like children well into their 30s, and it makes me sick. It is Paul's fault for, number one, being a legal adult and taking part in felony crime. Number two, using the sanctuary his mother provided from preventing him from doing the right thing.
Paul is definitely special needs , functional but way from the norm ! Wake up … he acts so young , smart !!! BUT and he is special needs , with a normal family he would of been ok but with that ????
She should've never had any children after listening to her grown kids' speak. In fact, this is when a burning at the stake would be a proper punishment. Her facial expressions and her trying to talk to her attorney those statements shows how she's no mother and she has no conscience. No tears no expression of remorse at all when each person spoke. I've never seen a more evil human as her. She could've made a good life unlike what she had as a child but instead decides to be more evil while including her child as an abuser like he was her apprentice. Who cares about the education she supposedly worked so hard to get. All of that was a waste of time. She should've went to school to learn how to be a mother. This psycho cares only for one person and that's herself and should NEVER had children. It wasn't his fault she was abused as a child. She had one job that mattered most of all and failed miserably. All of the education she received means absolutely nothing when it's obvious she put herself over all of her children every time. I wonder if his caregiver who threw him away to her had any charges since she wasn't supposed to have him? No death penalty in that state?
The prosecuting, defence attorneys and teams and judge did very good work on this shocking case. Thank you all for your empathy. It seems that all the systems involved in this case, save for the child protection systems, did very well.
When is Timothy’s “FATHER” going to go on trial? You know…the guy who gave his SON to the THING that wasn’t supposed to be alone with him?!?!
Where is HIS accountability in this????
And Paul! He is not so innocent as some want to say!
@@angelmissionhes being sentence or has a trial on January 29th i believe
@@angelmission correction he'll be sentenced February 26
Yes he needs to be held accountable 💯. He knew he wasn’t supposed to be with her and he should be just as guilty as this demon.
exactly what I want to know-wth would he give his son to this beast, when the other children, who are adults now, knew she was a monster-then so did Timothy's "father".
The Judge is absolutely disgusted with her!
Yes, and Paul as well.
Forsure
Bloody oath
He held back the tears
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The judge is awesome he lóoked so upset and stressed over her🎉
The judges word “Timothy won” broke me. This judge was phenomenal
same
He didn't win he was tortured to death. He won? How's that?
@@PaulDiNardo-pt5mjmaybe watch the video and find out why the judge said it. Then u will know
@@katea6067 I did watch it. Your living in a fantasy he's dead how'd he win. Your not living in re a lity
@@PaulDiNardo-pt5mj the statement broke me because there was no reason for him to die. He shouldn’t be dead. He should be at home, with a loving family. And idgaf what u think about my comments.
Make her pay $$ restitution especially for funeral expenses. She doesn’t deserve any leniency. She’s appalling.
That's what the $5K order was for.
@@MrAmc1291she doesn’t even have any money and will never work again. It’s useless and won’t be paid
Yea this is her own son she should have to pay all funeral expenses. I would be embarrassed and humiliated
Nolan paid for Timothy's funeral. Timothy's father is a loser too.
@@Missstrishthis case disturbs me beyond belief. Obviously she's "intelligent" , there is no humanity in her. Why did she keep having children? The states of OK determined her unfit took her parental rights away! FFS
She had a self diagnosed special needs child & not once took him to a doctor, a counselor? Claims because her ex husband didn't provide her with insurance info she was 100% prevented from seeking care! BS
He should have been on Medicaid anyway. There are resources. She literally did not even try to get help for him. Or I know - I'll chain him up & strap alarms to him!
Sick POS.
When the judge said that thank god Timothy died because if they had revived him the torture would have continued. That said it all.
That was such a hard concept to accept but it was so true. Thank God the cpr didn’t work. Timothy rests peacefully in the arms of our Lord. God bless him.
@@sunnymorningday6537Amen 🙏 Timothy was beloved 😢just an innocent disabled child 😢one of the most precious in Jesus's eyes guaranteed 😢😢She gets more judgements later 😢
The state is on it!
The state is on it!
So sad but true. Death relieved Timothy from pain. His siblings words brought tears to my eyes, At least he was loved by them, and now by us.
In addition to her sentence, I hope the Michigan BAR revokes her law license, and she is forbidden to assist other inmates with legal advice.
Having everyone within earshot of her calling her “unintelligent” would be a real punishment for this animal.
I hadn’t thought of that. Can we get a petition started.
I agree so disgraceful what she did to her son he didn't deserve that he should have been loved
You would think that's a given! One would hope!!
There need to be a petition started that his father is going to trail … unbelievable what he dit to his boy
I hope so too...but they didn't revoke Alex Murdaugh license!!
Her ego never stops!! Wants her work record and College info correced????
Agreed - listening to the insanity of having her education update at her sentencing hearing for murder is insane.
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She is disgusting
Just think she can use her lawyer skills inside as currency for protection . I guess she wanted her qualifications quantifying for this purpose.
It will be but not how she thinks.
Justice will not be served until the victim's father is also sentenced. He knew she was not supposed to be around the victim without supervision. She's a sadist 🤬
💯 percent right
Yeah something has to come of that,
I'm actually glad she didn't use that fact that she was not supposed to have custody as her defence as that probably could have got her a lesser charge.
I would like to know where social services where and why there was no checks!
why wasn't he forced to testify??
I believe he is totally incapacitated due to a stroke. If you never knew anyone who suffered a massive stroke you're lucky because it is absolutely debilitating. Lose the ability to walk and talk, even make decisions.
The monster sits there like shes a lawyer and uses those papers as a distraction.
you nailed it !!! thats more important to her than this case
Yes trying to make herself look important like she's someone. Can't stomach her🎉🎉🎉
She didn't even want to pay for his funeral either. Evil to the core.
Omg. Not surprised. He would have been better in foster care.
@@debbiestinnett2987 He couldn't have been any worse off in foster care.
@@mainecoon6514 Truth.
THE JUDGE VOICED EVERYTHING THAT NEEDED TO BE SAID!!
CORRECT!!!
Yes yes yes
Well said
I'm still crying over this trial.... so heart breaking 😢😢😢especially for some of us that can't have kids 💔
This judge was quiet as a church mouse, but came with a vengeance for dear Timothy.❤
What the hell is she writing down??? You're done. You can write crap down for the rest of your hopeless life.
She's thinking she'll appeal and win cuz she's so smart! Lmao 🤣
She’s writing her appeal
@@katywuste9054 🤣🤣🤣
She’s writing “I will not chew gum”. Only to separate herself from having to look up and be engaged. She’s a monster!!!
@@ginarizzo1039 lol!
What a fantastic Judge the Honourable Matthew R. Kacel is. I am in total awe of this man.
EXTREMELY IMPRESSED with this prosecutor!!!🌟🌟🌟🌟
I love this prosecutor. He’s wonderful in this case and I’m sure he’s wonderful in all cases , God bless him and the wonderful judge
He did a wonderful job in the closing statement.
Her public defender. Bless his heart. He tried for his client. That prosecutor though. He has a calming shot. He's not a flamboyant Baptist preacher but he's like a visiting pastor who makes the church say Amen. He was awesome. He tripped Shanda up so many times all she could say was "If that's what it says."
Yes! The prosecutor took all the wind out of her sails when he recognized....& successfully objected to....Shanda's attempt to blame everything on undiagnosed mental disorders she claimed to have. She wanted to blame things like PTSD, disassociation disorder & other ailments, all based on hearsay that a doctor supposedly told her, not on expert testimony offered in court in front of the jury.
The judge ruled without the proper foundation from an expert, Shanda could not assign blame for memory lapses on specific "disorders"...as she set out to do right out of the gate.
As soon as the judge made that ruling, Shanda's defense fell apart.
In a jail phone call, Shanda was talking about how case law regarding PTSD would blow the prosecutor's allegations of 'intent' out of the water.
As we saw, after Shanda was limited to what mental issues she could cite in her testimony, she was reduced to having to continuously claim she couldn't remember anything which made her look stupid. 😊
Exactly. That’s why I say; she’s only book smart. Dumb as hell, on that stand.
Bet she thinks shes so clever finding all those mistakes, as she forgotten its her trial for what she did to her son 😡
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Right!!!! It's not the time to be patting yourself on the back crazy lady. 💯💯💯
That’s just the PTSD and dissociation from hearing about her husband’s stroke .
Yes. She thinks she is clever. Each one of those text exchanges with Paul shows u that she thinks it's clever to devise new ways to torture her defenseless son.
I’m glad she’s having to pay 💰 restitution because I’ve heard her jail calls! She spends $75 a week for commissary because she says the food isn’t up to her standards! The audacity of her to complain about food when she starved her child!
Yeah how long do you think that money's gonna keep coming in?
She should have been convicted to serve life + no commissary privileges after what she did to that baby
She should be forced to eat NOTHING but hot sauce and bread
And the nurse to complain about being COLD
Mother and son complain about being cold.... Haha
Having a degree does not defend malicious behavior
Right and it has nothing to do with her - in other words her degree means nothing from behind bars
Makes it worse 😔
Ted Bundy almost became a lawyer he had a really high IQ as well.
Maybe in prison food can be withheld, bread with hot sauce,the odd frozen burger,ice cold baths,abuse hurled at it and punishment when it moves when told not to….it doesn’t deserve anything else. This is a monster, the things it did to its own child are horrendous, how can you do such things to your child and how on earth can you make one child inflict such pain and suffering on a sibling ? Evil,cruel,sadistic,monster 🤬
The Judge from the Florida school shooting held back convincary from that little monster for at least 5 yrs so all he'll be eating is what they serve in the mess hall and it's not a lot for a grown man .😮😮😮
U sound like the mom version of her lol 😂😂😂😂 cold food burger
The prisoners will take her food. That's a guarantee.
Definitely should get a few slices of bread with hot sauce, and at least a dozen ice baths.
Yes and bells tied to her so she can’t move I hope the lovely lady’s waiting for her will give her the same punishment and Iam all for it
Evil woman doesn't want to compensate crime victims fund for payment of the poor boys funeral. Smh
Everytime you think you saw her rock bottom, she goes lower. I wonder how tolerant the other inmates will be of her?
Yeah she just didn’t like Tim that why and she abused her other oldest and I’m sure she abused Paul so defenses attorney u sound stupid she evil that what wrong she abused her two oldest got taken from her I’m sure she abused Paul and then she took out on Tim
Yup. She needs to rot
In a men's prison she would be in a very hostile position. In women's nobody will care. Modern women are monsters.
I know it's justice, law etc.........but imagine having to defend this woman in court!!!! No thanks
I bet some lawyers secretly hope they fail because I could NOT sleep at night knowing I helped someone like this make it back onto the streets
All she cared about during her sentencing was to make sure her paperwork stated that she had a doctorate in law. She did not care about her older children or care about Timothy! I agree, 100% of the comments made by the judge!
A JD and yet she was a paralegal! Great job but she was not pursuing her studies when it came to work . She worked hard to play the system and couldn’t even do that right
@@elizabethantoine9652and now she gets to be a high school drop outs prison sweetheart! Always have respect for people.
@@elizabethantoine9652 I believe there was confusion regarding employment. I believe she was a law clerk as opposed to a paralegal. Law clerks are required to have a JD. I could be wrong, and she was a paralegal, probably worked as a paralegal while in school. Paralegal and Law Clerk are not interchangeable.
Sorry but Shonda the monster doesn't deserve any respect @@Nba7yt
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This Judge is fantastic!!
All these corrections, she is telling her lawyer what to do! She wants to make sure, Everyone knows about her higher education and how smart she is! Glad she got Life!
@pawla519 Because she's more educated than you and better at school than you and that makes you angry?
@@gurutruecrimeguru1405 That's funny! So please allow me to Correct You! I Do have a higher education than her! And the only thing I'm mad about, is her Murdering her defenselrivi
ess young son! That evil woman used her Insanity to Control others! It's obvious she felt herself, Above others, because of her higher education!
@@gurutruecrimeguru1405I would assume what makes him angry is the obvious. This monster is worrying about the details of the writing instead of the larger picture which is she tortured and murdered her son.
@@gurutruecrimeguru1405 Bro she went to fucking COOLEY law school. Which has multiple times been the worst law school in America. Shes just a narc who thinks shes ~so smart~ when anyone could get into that school.
You can mess with her kids but don’t mess with her education levels!!
What an IDIOTIC THING TO SAY!!!!
That's a family of writers there. Very eloquent in their grief.
We have an autistic daughter. She is 26. She is guileless. She is joyful. She is funny. She is happy. She is my favorite person.
I also have a special needs child and doing something like this to her makes me physically I’ll. She is 20 and yes often special needs children can be a challenge, but no one deserves even a part of this!
My son is autistic 😢😢 this case will haunt me forever 😢😢Timmy couldn't go and get a job and an apartment 😢he was at her mercy 😢
Very profound and eloquent wors from Timothy's brother and sister.
The mother is the only one that made the decision not to
Feed her child. The torture she put him through. Was awful the Lord will take care of her in the end.😢😢😢😢
I’m sure you are loving parents. Can’t even call her a parent.
Victims impact words just broke my heart 😢 Poor little Timothy. 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 His beautiful little face. 😢 RIP Tim Tim
Wonder why she hated him unreal and ironically he was nothi v like her other siblings he was pretty handsome boy poor wee fellow
She made a lot more than one mistake. Saying yes wasn’t a mistake, it was her opportunity to exercise her sadism on her disabled son. Her lawyer’s comments are ridiculous.
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Making her a victim,
Blaming abuse from her father ,
“ She had no one to turn to”,
She wanted control and this was her only way. These diagnoses can be used as an excuse way too much .
Just doing his job. Doesn't mean he believes it.
Of course they are ridiculous, He's a public defender with a client he's sure is guilty yet he still has a duty to do.... Don't confuse defence lawyers like this guy with the likes of Jose Baez (Casey Anthony's attorney), Who is an actual POS.
He has to appear to be working in her best interests becasuse if he just said "She's guilty Your Honour" he'd get disbarred...
@@VIRGONOMICS She wasn't SA'd by her stepfather. After her mother passed away, she began an affair with him as told by her sister. It's all in court documents. Zav girl read them on her channel. She also kicked her pregnant sister in the stomach and she liost her baby weeks later. She attempted to attack the sister when again pregnant, but sisters husband stopped her. This bish is/ was pure evil. Pauls was accused with SA towards Timothy, but CPS stated it was unfounded. Shanda probably made that horrific accusation.
This defense attorney threw his testimony together. She’s done… “if she had said no he would be alive.” You’re damn right about that counselor.
I guess on that exact time it spark a little wicked and insidious thought in her mind having wicked hobby a game of death before answering yes. Poor Timothy's fate got sealed at that moment. To her was like getting a new Xmas present she can engage with and destroy without being hold accountable. She is truly a wicked soul.
@@kamranalaviall she cared about she smart wow many ppl are smart don’t kill my child
She has a very compassionate defense attorney. She doesn’t deserve it but she has it.
He had more compassion for Timothy than she did.
I felt bad for her lawyer, having to spend so much time and effort to defend the undefendable.
Her defense attorney was incredibly fair. Her tragic background and her high ability and drive were real, and he was right to point them out.
We learn more about psychopaths from hearing details like this, and we desperately need to understand more.
He took the right tack. "Someday, we're going to understand what's wrong with this woman and why anybody could be capable of what she did."
That was really the only tack he could use. Not a denialist defense, just a sad indictment of the whole, horrible thing.
@@janebrown7231thank you for this comment. I agree. Defense attorneys get no credit. Often they are reviled. This attorney did a wonderful job and was the best she could hope for.
@jens9458 Thank you. Defence attorneys are constantly misunderstood by people taking a simplistic approach. Speaking in defence of the client doesn't mean the attorney likes the client or anything the client has done, but the legal process has to be observed to protect all parties, and that's what he is doing.
People don't think clearly - if a defence attorney is seen not trying to defend the client, a mistrial can be declared, and justice is not served at all.
All attorneys want to be on the winning side, that's where they make their reputations and their fees. I admire much more an attorney like this who will work for the losing side (there was never any doubt of that), take the flak, and still do his best.
She is not a Human being. She is a monster I don’t care what anyone says . Pure pure monster. I’m crying because of what this monster did . This is unbelievable.
It’s a disgrace that she doesn’t want to repay fund for Timothy’s funeral.
She wont have a choice.
Have you heard her jail calls? It's insane the amount of money she was blowing thru on .... food mostly because she claims "she can't eat the crap food and nothing spicy." Can't believe the level of them both whining about how horrible the food, temperature, and sleeping arrangements are.
@@promise372 One would think shame alone would keep them from begging for money for SNACKS & games. How can they ask for something different to eat after what they made Timothy eat?
They should be raising money to repay Fund for Timothy’s funeral.
There wouldn’t even be a funeral to have to pay for if it weren’t for her…. She should be forced to pay every last dime.. and the fact that she doesn’t want to pay is infuriating.. she has zero remorse
God gave her a beautiful gift named, Timothy. It was awful what she did and she didn't deserve this gift. Now Timothy is back with God. RIH Timothy
What a cold hearted witch!!!!! God be with the her two kids that spoke up Against their mother for their poor bother Timothy ❤
Maybe they should have visited him or tried repeatedly to phone him or something...
@@gurutruecrimeguru1405..They did but Shanda and Paula would give an excuse why he couldn't speak to them.
OMG, these kind of people walk among us? At least this one wont.
After watching so many recent and ongoing cases of all these demon “parents” who kill their own children, I guess we can surmise that this country has essentially abolished (whether by law or by refusal to sentence ) the death penalty! So we, whose taxes are taken to facilitate whatever sentence the courts decide, have ALSO received sentences…. to house, clothe, feed, give medical coverage AND ongoing legal services to them for how many ever decades they live.🤬
Judge you’re a hero. Thanks for standing up to this abuser and honoring Timothy.
I have to give credit to her attorney. What a heartfelt and sweet man he is. Sorry he had a monster as a client.
He said after the sentence she is were she belongs life in prison.
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Ok defense attorney ALL of her kids were taken away from her WAYYYYYYY before this.. SOOOOOO she’s always been EVIL..
This female should go through what she put Timothy through. Every single act.
The beautiful snow falling in the background is such an ironic contradiction to the evil that is the woman sitting by the window.
Profound. I agree.
I thought the same thing.
Exactly what I thought as well. I live in Michigan... falling snow never gets old.
Yes I loved the snow and the cosines of the inside and all people together . The horror of what’s actually going on is such a juxtaposition
It's so interesting she shakes her head no at never even getting a speeding ticket. She lost her rights to her children years prior to this incident. I'd much rather having 100 speeding tickets, as opposed to losing rights to my child. Raising my son is my most important job in life. I would be so ashamed if the state took my child away for insufficient parenting. It's honestly terrifying we have people like Shanda and Paul in society.
She was more concerned her car was repossessed than Timothy dying from her torture and starvation of him.
Very well said!!! Thank you ❤️
It doesn't even phase her.. That's one sick woman.. 😮
It did because she got sick when she saw the pictures. If she shouldn't have been around him answers the charges for social services and the father.
@doreenbarton4499 She didn't get sick when she saw him like that before.. She was faking.. She is a sick murder..
Justice has been served. Rest in eternal peace Timothy ❤🙏🏼❤
Her two older kids seem so normal, and so kind. Probably because they did get removed from her care early enough. I hate that they are living with this guilt and regret that they shouldn't feel, all because of two other people's actions.
Thousands crying at victims impact statements and that monster doesn't bat an eye! R.I.P. Timothy! 😢
Why is Timothy’s father not being held responsible? He KNEW she wasn’t able to supply a safe home for Timothy.
She cries when her lawyer talks. But not the judge!!!!!
She pretends ! She is devoid of emotion.
ZERO reaction Linda. I cannot fathom that. I honestly dont understand why her attorney doesnt advise her to just SIT THERE, and respectfully listen to the judge as he gives her the sentence. While I realize it wouldnt help her in terms of her prison time, as an attorney you ALWAYS want your client to be portrayed as respectful, and as a human being, ESPECIALLY when your client is THE MOTHER of the victim.
Put the pen down you animal, and sit there and listen. Youre not an attorney here, you are the DEFENDANT.
God, my blood is boiling after seeing this case for the first time last night. I apologize.
Or her children in fact she didn't even look at them 😮😮
Or even her children's statements!
Thank god the Judge gave us a picture of a beautiful child and May she never see the light of day ever again -
There's a video of the prosecutor during closing arguments and the angle is such that when he reminds the jury of the photo Paul took weeks before Timothy's death, you can actually see the picture and dear god... The judge was absolutely right. He did in fact look like a Holocaust victim. I almost wish I had looked away for that second because it's just burned into my brain now.
Once again CPS drops the ball and another child dies. Timothy's sister says they were taken away from their parents at one point, but obviously given back. And then she had another son with a different man. All of her children were given back to her. This happens all the time. Im so sick of it. And i dont care what she went thru when she was a child its NO EXCUSE! I know people that have gone thru much worse and are the best of parents because they would never ever treat their children like they were treated. Im so sick of that excuse. Im so sick of children dying by the hand of their own parents and they say oh "i was abused!" What? who cares? thats all the more reason to treat your own children differently. Im so sick of Shondas fake tears and fake vomiting. Shes a monster. A liar. A manipulator. A child abuser and a murderer! I hope she gets what she deserves in jail. I hope she is put in general population and not kept away from all of the other mothers who are missing the children they love so much.
Jailhouse justice is sometimes the only real Justice these victims will receive
CPS took them and she relinquished her rights and his dad was given custody. The DAD gave him back. CPS did not have any knowledge of that. The DAD needs to be held accountable.
Exactly ! My grandkids were give. Back to a monster who several time twisted my baby grandsons lip - he was 1 yr old for crying !! That say my daughter got the kids back. Well they would’ve regardless because I was going after him !! HOW do people hurt children ?!?! HOW ?! Even babies !! I have to stop watching because I’m doing doing well thinking about what happened to my little baby boy and what happened and the misery that other little boy Timothy went threw. He’s in Gods loving arms now and that’s the only peace there is for this.
@@jimmiegabel CPS is supposed to stay involved with the case even after the child has been placed in a permanent home. This family failed Timothy on both sides. Mom and dad and both step parents, and his older brothers and sisters. Your right. Dad should be held accountable as well. EVERYONE failed this boy. Google how many children continue to be beaten, starved, neglected and murdered, with CPS invovled. There have been CPS workers that have been prosecuted for not doing their jobs. G
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@@jimmiegabel Exactly
I look forward to hearing the siblings give their testimonies at Paul’s sentencing hearing.
Shadra’s attorney claimed she had never been in trouble with the law yet her child say CPS tool them away. Seems nice child should have been allowed near her.
I am amazed that her concern was making sure the record reflected her medication, work history and law degree BUT no remorse at all. Evil evil
Woman.
Funny how she remembers all of that but can't remember any texts or actions she did....🤔
Bullshit! She did it! So treet you child like and. Animal
@@sassdersham Just a lying snake. So glad she's locked up for life.
There were allegations of abuse by her and Paul. This was physical and sexual towards Timothy
Never mistake education with intelligence..
Bam! Exactly!
She took a little boys life away, tagged and tortured him. Now she's going to be the one caged. For the rest of her life. Fitting. I hope she understands that karma never loses an address.
They were so worried about little things on paper that had errors and did not show the same concern for the little one that lost his precious life, Timothy! Typical narcissistic behavior. I had to skip her lawyers plea for her life because it was all about her and not the fact Timothy lost his life and was found in deplorable condition. RIP Timothy!
She is sadistic villan. She also made her kids watch porn videos and there is SA involved in her past. She wants legal control of little G her youngest son. There is a court case for this. I pray they keep little G well away from her. There is a lot more to this if you read all the statements from family, teachers, work colleagues. She makes my blood boil. There needs to be a new legal bill where is you lose custody of a child it goes on your criminal record. TIMS LAW. How did they vet her for the Bar? She does have a criminal past. She was a registered child abuser. Xxx RIP TINY TIM 💕😪 Xxx
Where would I go to read these? Please & thankyou 😊
Well done prosecutor and judge. Brother and sister spoke eloquently
Hearing all them years that she gotta do makes me smile
PLEASE do not allow the guilty one to be occupied with court papers, chit chats, whatever takes away her listening to the sentence she is going to receive as this helps her to 'switch off' from what is going on around her. She should be made to stand up and listen and take it on board in order she must face the cameras too - cannot believe how she manoevres around to avoid every bit of contact including face to face, this is so wrong!
8:24 Milly gives her statement 12:07 Nolan gives his statement 15:30 DA statement 21:09 Defense attorney statement 30:17 Judge statement COWARD CHILD KILLER MAKES NO STATEMENT
He absolutely deserves to be charged with first degree child abuse or at the very least first degree child endangerment. The courts gave him custody and her supervised visits. By letting her have Timothy just to make his life easier, he gave her that child, against court order he should absolutely be charged. HE had custody of Timothy. HE was responsible for Timothy’s care and well being. She got the right sentence but he should be charged to. Well, I hope that he got what he wanted, I hope his life is easier. He pawned off his child to someone Who is not supposed to have him without supervision, and he got the expected outcome that you would expect when you put your child with someone who’s not supposed to be in contact with them without supervision. He can’t act surprised this is why the courts have visitation with supervision. He should be charged with negligent homicide. He should have known that putting his child with somebody who isn’t supposed to be around them without supervision would result in some sort of tragedy. He is ultimately responsible for this Childs death. And hopefully he’ll have to live with that for the rest of his life. Although I can’t imagine either parent really cared about this child. It’s sickening.
I agree!!!! And he didn’t even check up on him!! He failed Timothy in so many ways and it cost that poor child his life. Timothy SUFFERED!! I am beyond heart broken about this child.
I'm very PROUD OF THE JUDGE
Listening to her lawyer attempt to defend her is just enraging. I know it's his job, but holy hell... Talk about reaching. 😩🙄
Cries for only herself.
The way she keeps talking to her attorney while the prosecutor is speaking about her is infuriating. She think the world revolves around her. She is just a monster. Plain and simple.
It’s called deflection.
What other court matter did she have? Her attorney is so petty. I cried the entire time Timothy brother and sister gave victim impact statements. No one cares about your degree or internship. She didn’t show a single emotion
Mr Roberts the Prosecutor blistered her evil hateful behind!
He did his work on this case
👏 Great works Mr. Roberts !
As they say: You did the damn thing
Ghoul...bye.
~Darling-dear Timothy, you are ,Loved and Missed. And, now you can Rest in Forever Peace Paradise.
And at the end she said to her attorney she was worried about having money to order stuff? What an evil woman.
What the hell is she writing. She's done. Lock the door and throw away the key.
Most likely asking about her appeals
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Millie has me in tears, I am ugly crying right now. I can’t imagine the guilt she must feel. God Bless you and give you the strength and courage to get through this.
iloved wen the judge sed "timothy won and he won because we know what you did to him now, ." i get teary eyed..
the judge was great! more power sir! ❤
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What a heartfelt and caring and compassionate Judge.. I am uglyyyyy crying again..
Yeah he got my ugly water works going too
WooHoo she got what she deserved !! Now when are they gonna charge the FATHER for allowing that child to go live with her when he KNEW she wasnt suppose to be around Timothy ??? He ENDANGERED that child !!!!
Hopefully street justice will get the dad. I bet he's running away like a coward
Demons walk amongst us. I keep my circle small.
This is one of the most horrific cases I’ve ever heard! What is wrong with these parents? 😢 RIP Timothy ❤
I hope the other prisoners that are missing their kids while in prison teach her a lesson.
For us survivors of nasssistic abuse, thank u judge for acknowledging that He won!!!
I lived it and still at 54 live it as long as my mother lives i am subjected to her abuse
Ty amen to that 😢
Nolan and Millie, know that none of this is your fault! My heart breaks for your family! Timothy will stay with you always. Hes in your heart and on your side always... His story is reaching millions. And I hope 1 day the justice is served by changing the whole justice ystem.
Not 1 time did shonda even look over to her children. She is sick. She is not capable of feeling remorse or guilt. All of her children deserved so much better. So much more. It's completely unfair the cards some of us are dealt. I hope you all can find peace in knowing your sweet little brother is no longer hurting. No longer looking for love. He knows you love him Millie and Nolan. He is forever with you. ALWAYS ❤
I love the judge’s statement on being happy that he’s no longer here for her to continue torturing him because she was just gonna keep going. Sad that he never had a chance to live to his fullest potential. Rest in Peace Tim!! You are no longer suffering and in pain🙏🏾💐❤️
Thank you I know how hard it was for your news crew to watch this and witness this We appreciate you guys for doing that I know it's very very very hard god bless you all
I tell you what counsellor, what this monster should have done was ask for help or give her children to people who loved them, she didn’t make one bad decision, she chose every day to abuse that poor boy and clearly she enjoyed it, she’s a sadistic witch, end of story, she got off on the power she wielded 😡
True.sadistic . heartless. How on earth could she do that? No compassion.
Yes she most definitely pat the $5,000.00 dollars because she sure never spent any money for food for Timmy
Poor little Timothy!
The State Attorney, in this case, has my deepest respect...
And certainly does the Judge who deserves the Title "Your Honor".
Wish this Judge would run for President & clean up the corruption in government & judiciary system- this Judge definitely earned the title HONORABLE!
Mr. Brown is smarter to know what will prevent Ms Vander Ark from appealing her conviction but at the same time knowing she doesn't have a chance in hell at winning 😮😮
Outstanding judge outstanding prosecutor defense attorney gave plea for mercy... excellent outcome..RIP with Jesus now Timothy..❤
Hope they feed her bread with hot sauce, and only allowed COLD showers!!
So very sad!! Timothy is a beautiful Angel now!!
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God Bless you Nolan and Milley..
Agree, this judge is amazing! Good for him!
Paul should be next. He was a grown man. He had many opportunities to save his little brother. He demonstrated on several occasions that he had the capacity to say NO. He also did things beyond what his mother told him to do. He should not go Scott Free in this.
From what I have seen of Paul he seems a little slow.
@@duckducknight Not slow enough to get away with murder. He demonstrated he knew right from wrong and he was rather articulate. I think it started with him trying to garner favor from his mom, but I think he learned to enjoy it and that is shown by his adding punishments that his mom did not request. He was partly responsible for his brother's death.
@@angelmissionexactly this! At 18 I was kicked out of the house, and here this 19 year old man is worried about what mommy would think or do if he didn't take part in abuse. Society treats people like children well into their 30s, and it makes me sick.
It is Paul's fault for, number one, being a legal adult and taking part in felony crime. Number two, using the sanctuary his mother provided from preventing him from doing the right thing.
Paul is definitely special needs , functional but way from the norm ! Wake up … he acts so young , smart !!! BUT and he is special needs , with a normal family he would of been ok but with that ????
The ONE thing she said after being sentenced to 50-100 years in prison was the restitution would prevent her from ordering stuff. Nuff said.
She should PRAY now and ask Forgiveness to our CREATOR!
The judge is #1, lets go
She should've never had any children after listening to her grown kids' speak. In fact, this is when a burning at the stake would be a proper punishment. Her facial expressions and her trying to talk to her attorney those statements shows how she's no mother and she has no conscience. No tears no expression of remorse at all when each person spoke. I've never seen a more evil human as her. She could've made a good life unlike what she had as a child but instead decides to be more evil while including her child as an abuser like he was her apprentice. Who cares about the education she supposedly worked so hard to get. All of that was a waste of time. She should've went to school to learn how to be a mother. This psycho cares only for one person and that's herself and should NEVER had children. It wasn't his fault she was abused as a child. She had one job that mattered most of all and failed miserably. All of the education she received means absolutely nothing when it's obvious she put herself over all of her children every time. I wonder if his caregiver who threw him away to her had any charges since she wasn't supposed to have him? No death penalty in that state?
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Uhmmm to the defense attorney, I look at the monster sitting to your right and I can CLEARLY SEE the tail, horns and pitch fork you mentioned.
The prosecuting, defence attorneys and teams and judge did very good work on this shocking case. Thank you all for your empathy. It seems that all the systems involved in this case, save for the child protection systems, did very well.
Made “a” mistake ? Oh boo hoo to the both of you 😡
The judge probably cried over this child he never even knew while the woman who gave birth to him can't shed one tear for him 😑