Babysitter Interrogated After Brutally Murdering 2-Year-Old for Annoying Him

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 22 лис 2024

КОМЕНТАРІ • 7 тис.

  • @constancewashington9019
    @constancewashington9019 3 місяці тому +9923

    When a man tells you, your child is overwhelming me, that is a red flag.

    • @kenn1936
      @kenn1936 3 місяці тому +489

      Exactly, but she left that child with him, 5 days a week!!! This was a disaster waiting to happen. He was venting on the phone to the Mother... how does that work??? If he was texting her about his frustrations, she should have gone right home, and taken that time to find a new day care or sitter. How many clues does she want, that the man in her life does not want a child around, and absolutely does to want to take care of her!!!

    • @maxineadderley5378
      @maxineadderley5378 3 місяці тому +257

      @@kenn1936; the child's mother admitted that her daughter was not disciplined and she allowed her to do as she pleased. This young man is not a parent and is not accustomed to taking care of young children. He was overwhelmed and lost his temper.

    • @vanessaarnell
      @vanessaarnell 3 місяці тому +160

      ​@@kenn1936she is a classic example of what NOT to do as a young mom.. she should have never been left with one, a child that isn't his bio child and that she has only known for six months and two, anyone who complains about being overwhelmed with her child. That is a huge red flag

    • @vanessaarnell
      @vanessaarnell 3 місяці тому +65

      ​@@maxineadderley5378she seems like one of those moms that can't possibly admit that another child is cute and allows her to get away with murder. She was probably a spoiled brat that no one could stand to be around, let alone a man that isn't her father. She didn't deserve what happened to her but I blame the mom bc she should not have done the things she did and allowed her daughter to do whatever she wanted

    • @vtlovesdsfl
      @vtlovesdsfl 3 місяці тому +136

      @@maxineadderley5378 completely understand he got overwhelmed not a reason to beat on a child. Something has to be insanely wrong with people who do that

  • @shaylatorch
    @shaylatorch 3 місяці тому +6297

    Again, for the MILLIONTH time, women STOP leaving your children with boyfriends, especially ones you barely know!!!!! 🤬🤬🤬

    • @johnnyhughes5534
      @johnnyhughes5534 3 місяці тому +90

      Nothing wrong with leaving them with boyfriend if you know them well and builded a trust for years Roise need to be in jail too ķ

    • @bebevee4253
      @bebevee4253 3 місяці тому +175

      ​@@johnnyhughes5534no. That child should've been in daycare where he would have a break from childcare duties all day. A 2yo pee and poop and needs food and water and attention and make messes all day long. Mom should have left her with grandparents

    • @johnnyhughes5534
      @johnnyhughes5534 3 місяці тому +120

      @@bebevee4253 people talk and talk but maybe she doesn't have money for daycare she living in a motel maybe it's the last choice she have maybe grandparents don't fool with her you don't even know what she going through

    • @L0ck1n
      @L0ck1n 3 місяці тому +92

      @@bebevee4253 daycare’s aren’t better either 😭

    • @seńor_t007
      @seńor_t007 3 місяці тому +77

      @@johnnyhughes5534still, people need to learn to weigh pros and cons. Leaving your child with some you hardly know that does not have the experience to care for a child and is not the father or an adult family member, is pure negligence.
      Plus, leaving your child with someone you’ve only known for 6months, 5days a week while you’re at work???
      I am sorry for her loss but this is NEGLIGENCE on the mother’s part.

  • @yvonned627
    @yvonned627 3 місяці тому +5889

    So he’s blaming a two year old for being a two year old?! What a sad human being.

    • @PeetHobby
      @PeetHobby 3 місяці тому +186

      Seems like he claims the kid misbehaved, but that is normal for that age, and the kid was probably very bored and restless, sitting all day in that small room next to someone playing games.

    • @theRPGmaster
      @theRPGmaster 3 місяці тому +68

      "Human" is a strong word. I would use different language.

    • @Shay_TheUnpopularOpinion_
      @Shay_TheUnpopularOpinion_ 3 місяці тому +33

      And that whole life in jail, every single day being someone’s ‘b’ will definitely remind him

    • @oliviaanderson6720
      @oliviaanderson6720 3 місяці тому +41

      He’s NOT HUMAN at All

    • @mrspaghetti7461
      @mrspaghetti7461 3 місяці тому +30

      @@theRPGmasterYou’re right. Animals in the wild are known to kill offspring that are not their own.

  • @jewelsnoww
    @jewelsnoww 2 місяці тому +1778

    Having a man sleeping in the bed with your child & watching her without your presence that you barely know is absolutely insane!

    • @Please_Dont_Call_It_Frisco
      @Please_Dont_Call_It_Frisco Місяць тому +34

      I agree. Althought a mother and father are equally responsible for a child's care, most of the time it is left to us mothers. It's so important to put a baby's well-being before the very natural desire to seek a new relationship. That beautiful little girl had no business sharing a bed with a strange man. My heart breaks for Trinity and Rosie.

    • @aishadelva1623
      @aishadelva1623 Місяць тому +56

      That man is not her father. It's a random man

    • @Please_Dont_Call_It_Frisco
      @Please_Dont_Call_It_Frisco Місяць тому +6

      @@aishadelva1623 Exactly.

    • @sheff-eb6jb
      @sheff-eb6jb Місяць тому +6

      ​@Please_Dont_Call_It_Frisco left to u lot because you lot are single mums not hard to have a baby with a man and stay with him. You don't no what guy's your bringing around your kids

    • @Please_Dont_Call_It_Frisco
      @Please_Dont_Call_It_Frisco Місяць тому +24

      @@sheff-eb6jb are you speaking english? I have no idea what you are trying to say to me.

  • @veronicamarrs
    @veronicamarrs 3 місяці тому +3184

    I dated a man once, when my son was about 3. After about 6 months he told me i talked about my child too much, and that he could be annoying. I hadnt even introduced them at that point, and i dumped him before they could even ever meet

    • @Maylah1999
      @Maylah1999 3 місяці тому +272

      That mom instinct kicked in quick most women will still keep communicating with men like that I’m glad you caught it spot on 😩

    • @veronicamarrs
      @veronicamarrs 3 місяці тому +6

      @@Maylah1999 yeah I agree. That's a huge red flag. If you don't like me talking about him then you're definitely not going to like me putting him first. Those are the types of moms that end up in an interrogation room talking about how their boyfriends treated there kids

    • @samanthasmith6921
      @samanthasmith6921 3 місяці тому +72

      That's Right! I get moved with just toxic word or how a statement is made. She knew he was like this and left that poor baby with him anyways.

    • @Ade3758
      @Ade3758 3 місяці тому +59

      Yup i know someone who was getting to know this men. He was at her house and eas upset that her kids were up. He told her to put them to sleep. That was the last time she ever met with him

    • @CristinaF210
      @CristinaF210 3 місяці тому +35

      i dont know you and im infinitely so proud of you so so proud honey, that love you feel theres nothing like it, it moves worlds its the real thing

  • @Beinthesky
    @Beinthesky 3 місяці тому +5340

    This lady is still calling this man BABE and calmly speaking to him?! Absolutely not. You’d have to put me in cuffs if I suspected that demon hurt my baby.

    • @SoulforSale
      @SoulforSale 3 місяці тому +145

      Say hello to Pookie.
      The man all the women want.

    • @brendaedgehill7761
      @brendaedgehill7761 3 місяці тому +44

      Exactly

    • @mg2619
      @mg2619 3 місяці тому +188

      that’s what I thought too. why would she call him babe?? those police officers would need to keep me away from a man that would do that to my child

    • @idkaboutyou8377
      @idkaboutyou8377 3 місяці тому +28

      😂 ​@@SoulforSale. I know this is not a laughing situation but this part is funny

    • @tinamarie7568
      @tinamarie7568 3 місяці тому +89

      They would have had to drag me from my baby 1st. Then they would have to protect him from me

  • @ironwolf56
    @ironwolf56 3 місяці тому +11062

    I swear "mommy's new boyfriend" is always the statistically most dangerous person in a kid's life.

    • @Veracityseeker7
      @Veracityseeker7 3 місяці тому +149

      💯💯💯💯

    • @maxineadderley5378
      @maxineadderley5378 3 місяці тому +216

      Especially when the children are young and probably lack discipline

    • @doreenplischke2169
      @doreenplischke2169 3 місяці тому +139

      That is a fact proven through long term evidence based studies that are verified. Sadly the statistic is spot on!

    • @doreenplischke2169
      @doreenplischke2169 3 місяці тому +124

      @@maxineadderley5378that’s a rather peculiar statement. What do you mean? Lack discipline?

    • @doreenplischke2169
      @doreenplischke2169 3 місяці тому +131

      @@marcoman234well involves the dude as well no? Why is it always being looked at one sided? The problem isn’t the mom, but that there is no dad present. Both are responsible but why is it always the moms being left behind caring for the kids? Huh?

  • @fionamarr9868
    @fionamarr9868 2 місяці тому +803

    Who expects a 2YEAR OLD to just sit quietly on their tablet for hours while you play games

  • @Mr.Bronx83
    @Mr.Bronx83 3 місяці тому +4016

    STOP LEAVING YOUR KIDS WITH THESE RANDOM DUDES THAT YOU DON'T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT!!!!!

    • @RG-if4on
      @RG-if4on 3 місяці тому +19

      A,men...Mr. Bronx83

    • @Alie-kn4te
      @Alie-kn4te 3 місяці тому +46

      Agree . Hopefully younger girls see these videos. It's sad because some woman don't have family to help and some have to work because of course these days it's like the rolls have reversed men don't work and so woman go to work and some are nieve ( not all) but some don't think that their boyfriend or girlfriend will abuse their kids . Watch who you leave your kids with . It's scary and you have to trust noone especially someone you don't know very well .

    • @100Mickl
      @100Mickl 3 місяці тому +46

      He has no communication skills - he can’t string a sentence together without like being inserted - what did mother see in this dude ?
      Better to be in your own

    • @kayleamariie814
      @kayleamariie814 3 місяці тому +24

      Facts 💯 I’d never trust my child with a man I just met.

    • @maxineadderley5378
      @maxineadderley5378 3 місяці тому +16

      @@Alie-kn4te: too many people use children to get government assistance and they sometimes have trouble with childcare. It's better to prepare yourself by planning for children because it is a 24/7 job

  • @xhosagibran370
    @xhosagibran370 3 місяці тому +3271

    I will never understand people treating toddlers like adults.

    • @dennishutchins
      @dennishutchins 3 місяці тому +134

      With so many adults today acting like children it's easy to get the two confused
      /s

    • @awkwardautistic
      @awkwardautistic 3 місяці тому +57

      They're not very intelligent.

    • @xhosagibran370
      @xhosagibran370 3 місяці тому +55

      @@dennishutchins that’s the problem because those adults learned it from their parents and so on and so on. I don’t think this just appeared in a generation or two.

    • @helloliggy
      @helloliggy 3 місяці тому +8

      Thank 👏 you👏

    • @Sadlittlecloud
      @Sadlittlecloud 3 місяці тому +55

      Right like wdym you were arguing with the toddler??😭

  • @thalovelymissj
    @thalovelymissj 3 місяці тому +720

    That child was prob bored outta her mind and needed attention - positive attention, not sitting on a tablet for hours in a hotel room.

    • @Upyoyo
      @Upyoyo 3 місяці тому +59

      With a strange dude that didn't even like the mom just needed a place to stay

    • @pearlpearl3806
      @pearlpearl3806 2 місяці тому +45

      I couldn’t even stay in a hotel room all day and I’m an adult

    • @lo2740
      @lo2740 Місяць тому

      @@Upyoyo that is the hood cockroach mentality.

  • @timsmith8506
    @timsmith8506 2 місяці тому +309

    This is so heartbreaking. I’ve been in long term relationships with two single mothers of small children including one that became my wife and the mother of my children. I cannot imagine ever treating any child in an abusive way. Guys if you choose to be with a single mother then you absolutely need to step the f**k up and be an actual man. A real man would not, ever hurt someone that is weaker than him or defenseless.
    So heartbreaking. I hope this little angel rest in peace.

    • @zmg_paloma
      @zmg_paloma Місяць тому +9

      @@timsmith8506 thank you, Sir. Best comment I’ve seen today.

    • @Tmo2024
      @Tmo2024 29 днів тому

      😂 men kill their ex or wife every 8 days in my country
      Do you really think men care about others?
      Unfortunately women are not taught that phenomenon

    • @Michael-x7s3q
      @Michael-x7s3q 29 днів тому +5

      Facts bro ain't no way he should have put hands on this 2yr old I wouldn't even change My daughter or bath her out of respect for her ❤

    • @elenabuiles1370
      @elenabuiles1370 15 днів тому

      You’re both excellent men… not enough real man as both of you out there, that’s for sure!!! Thank you 🙏🏻

    • @user-bn3vj9yk6k
      @user-bn3vj9yk6k 8 днів тому +1

      Never date single moms under any circumstances

  • @jessicapichardo979
    @jessicapichardo979 3 місяці тому +2266

    Moved in with a man and had him sleeping in the same bed as your child within a month of knowing him. Damn! Make that make sense.

    • @divalizzous
      @divalizzous 3 місяці тому +6

      @jessicapichardo979 Desperate. These pathetic women are ok w/ their child being abused as long as they have a man.

    • @briiibriiibooo
      @briiibriiibooo 3 місяці тому +141

      She clearly didn’t give af about her kid

    • @ebonyqueen86
      @ebonyqueen86 3 місяці тому +119

      She needed a babysitter not a boyfriend

    • @kandicemorton4204
      @kandicemorton4204 3 місяці тому +81

      @@briiibriiibooo I just want to know why it’s ok for dads to have new women around their children but not moms? How about just say NOBODY should be around your kids

    • @D73ydo3
      @D73ydo3 3 місяці тому +1

      @@ebonyqueen86but a dude is crazy 😮

  • @jeaninehicks2907
    @jeaninehicks2907 3 місяці тому +5449

    Single Mothers, please dont quickly jump in a relationship with a different man when your child is under 5 yrs old. Your focus should be on caring for your child. You have no social life. Protect your kids at all cost.

    • @guccilady1017
      @guccilady1017 3 місяці тому +676

      My mom stayed “single” until her kids were out of the house. She had a significant other of 10 years and I never saw him in our home. I respect her so much for that.

    • @awkwardautistic
      @awkwardautistic 3 місяці тому +195

      Or over 5yrs old. Either stay married or wait until they're grown.

    • @timekademery
      @timekademery 3 місяці тому +176

      💯 Better yet, don't date at all until they are 18 or out of your house.

    • @Lastfirst333
      @Lastfirst333 3 місяці тому

      Some of these demon B’s dont care how old a child is they dont care

    • @Lastfirst333
      @Lastfirst333 3 місяці тому +60

      @@guccilady1017very smart woman!!!

  • @MaryJohnson-cv8kz
    @MaryJohnson-cv8kz 3 місяці тому +1251

    This happened to my grandson when my daughter left her two year old with new boyfriend. He was bruised all over his back from him trying to get him to breath after he left him in overflowing tub. My daughter made excuses for him. This man was violent and later went to jail. My grandson was lucky to survive. Please mothers don’t leave your babies with men who are not emotionally equipped to handle children. My prayers go out to this family for their tragic loss.

    • @mommakingithappen2223
      @mommakingithappen2223 3 місяці тому +8

    • @breestackss
      @breestackss 3 місяці тому +4

      💛❤

    • @trixiek2582
      @trixiek2582 3 місяці тому +59

      Shame on your awful daughter

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms 3 місяці тому +37

      Is your daughter making better decisions now?

    • @tgreg9542
      @tgreg9542 3 місяці тому +1

      FYI no man is equip to deal with this, period. Why don’t you women understand men. Stop leaving kids with men unless it’s theirs and even then that’s not safe. My friend from highschool killed his own son the same age, he told the judge “guess I whooped my kid to hard” 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @deniserobinson6210
    @deniserobinson6210 2 місяці тому +74

    I had a relationship who was a dog trainer and she told me my son was spoiled and I should hold him up against the wall like they do dogs to discipline them. This was like 1am in the morning in the winter. We had a big argument and I told her she had to go home and don't come back. This was 31 years ago, I never saw her again. When people show you who they'll believe it. NO SECOND CHANCES.

  • @Buttercup203
    @Buttercup203 3 місяці тому +1363

    He sat in a hotel room with a 2 yr old all day, every day? No playtime at a park or take a walk? Then gave her too much melatonin to put her to sleep? Omg! Poor Baby 💔💔💔

    • @striderman-
      @striderman- 3 місяці тому

      It wasnt the melatonin that killed that little girl it was that monster named kennedy. There has been absolutley zero cases of too much melatonin causing death.

    • @Blueleaf11
      @Blueleaf11 3 місяці тому +142

      Right? Locking her up in a room all day with just a tablet while he plays his video games, no stimulation, nothing fun to do, did she even have toys? Then he gives her sugary juice. Of course she's going to act up! He's a man child, should not have been watching that baby!

    • @angelacuthbert8603
      @angelacuthbert8603 3 місяці тому +11

      Yes I thought that too 😢

    • @honeyypainn
      @honeyypainn 3 місяці тому +37

      Yes and her just being given a tablet to occupy herself so she doesn’t interfere with his precious video game 🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @backgroundsoundmusic3078
      @backgroundsoundmusic3078 3 місяці тому +21

      @@honeyypainn Sadly this is what endless parents do....Way to many mums and days using tablets to baby sit their children. Shameful

  • @chromeoblack
    @chromeoblack 3 місяці тому +1679

    He sound so annoyed with her like he even annoyed she died

    • @AlexisCarter-l4o
      @AlexisCarter-l4o 3 місяці тому +130

      Big facts he annoyed he got caught

    • @musiccapricorn918
      @musiccapricorn918 3 місяці тому +5

      ​@AlexisCarter😂😢-l4o

    • @angienagtalon9691
      @angienagtalon9691 3 місяці тому +110

      he's annoyed she died bc now he's convicted for murder lol

    • @yonnat3255
      @yonnat3255 3 місяці тому +23

      i don’t agree i think he was in shock in very over whelmed honestly

    • @gamersplaygroundliquidm3th526
      @gamersplaygroundliquidm3th526 3 місяці тому +25

      @@yonnat3255 yeah i've seen some child killers that lost it on kids they didn't act like this, he seems genuinely shocked and confused the kid died

  • @Nonab
    @Nonab 3 місяці тому +3757

    Leaving your baby with a dude that isn’t the father is insane. For sure if it’s a girl.

    • @Xxpel6xx
      @Xxpel6xx 3 місяці тому +220

      I’m surprised they didn’t check for SA

    • @annmariegood37
      @annmariegood37 3 місяці тому +82

      A lot of times you can't do that either

    • @Luckimee
      @Luckimee 3 місяці тому +107

      I'd never leave my kid alone with their father. Y'all have to wake up

    • @chanparislynn8919
      @chanparislynn8919 3 місяці тому +268

      Girl OR boy it doesn’t matter

    • @vanessaarnell
      @vanessaarnell 3 місяці тому +101

      ​@@chanparislynn8919Girl!!! I happen to agree with you. I have two sons and two daughters. IDC when they were little , I had ONE person I trusted with my kids. They were never babysat by a male , never. I'm a grandmother now and my daughter treats her kids the way I raised her. It's nice to see her now being a mom and using the skills that I had taught her. She doesnt leave her kids with anyone but me and she don't play around , not even with their dad.

  • @thebirds3844
    @thebirds3844 2 місяці тому +57

    As an emt it’s hard going to calls involving kids. Especially when u lose em… literally break down every time. RIP baby girl 😢

  • @jeanstrand6011
    @jeanstrand6011 3 місяці тому +2367

    Everybody sucks here. The mother for leaving her baby with some random guy she met who already expressed frustration with the baby; the dude for killing her, and even the police for leaving that poor mother in the cop car for 90 minutes with no information. I can't even begin to imagine her anguish. What a sad situation all the way around.

    • @hairylilmangoseed1440
      @hairylilmangoseed1440 3 місяці тому +102

      💯 I agree with you with everything. If the mum was in contact with her family I don’t see why she wouldn’t leave her daughter in their care instead of that man child. Poor poor child.

    • @anti-ethniccleansing465
      @anti-ethniccleansing465 3 місяці тому +109

      Don’t forget the fact that she actually was the one to get the melatonin herself! She was totally fine with allowing this creep to drug the baby, to forcefully make her sleep throughout the day so that she would be quiet for him. 😡

    • @hannah999castillogamino7
      @hannah999castillogamino7 3 місяці тому

      ​@@anti-ethniccleansing465😢

    • @mokenfriendz7677
      @mokenfriendz7677 3 місяці тому +81

      When i lost my daughter i had to wait this long also. It seems like hrs. Its horrible. I knew it was over when the cop came amd hugged me. R.i.p Rozara Wallace she was 9months

    • @leesookij
      @leesookij 3 місяці тому +35

      @@mokenfriendz7677 Sorry for your loss. I hope she didn't have to suffer like Trinity

  • @Superman_305
    @Superman_305 3 місяці тому +1289

    Hearing this story makes me glad i was lucky and fortunate enough to have my grandma babysit me when i was a child instead of my mom having to have some random stranger or daycare to watch me. And that's why i will forever be thankful and grateful to my grandma.

    • @NotIfWhen
      @NotIfWhen 3 місяці тому +65

      I have 4 grandsons. I worked 16 hours last night. I slept three hours and am watching my grandkids right now. One just turned two. We never leave the kids in our family with anybody BUT family. I know not everyone is lucky like that. But you just can’t. Especially when they can’t talk yet. I don’t trust anybody. Especially immature men.

    • @AuthenticallyAlvarez
      @AuthenticallyAlvarez 3 місяці тому +15

      @Superman_305 Same for me. I am grateful for my parents leaving us with her and I have such great childhood memories because of it.

    • @J-ellO
      @J-ellO 3 місяці тому +12

      ⁠@@NotIfWhenBLESS YOU! We have a 2 year old in our family, And no matter what it takes she either goes with her parents or close family members watch her! There’s just too much risk these days!

    • @Kindred_37
      @Kindred_37 3 місяці тому +15

      This is absolutely a privilege. Even having extended family at all is

    • @filmtheory783
      @filmtheory783 3 місяці тому +3

      ​@@NotIfWhenwell maybe if you dont sleep instead of torturing youself youd trust people noone is forcing you to sleep only three just put your foot down say to the parents they need to be you know PARENTS

  • @BeeBeautiful-ye1kr
    @BeeBeautiful-ye1kr 2 місяці тому +1312

    He wanted to be jobless and play video games all day but was overwhelmed by a two year old? Sir you ARE a two year old

    • @majormarketing6552
      @majormarketing6552 2 місяці тому +1

      He wasnt jobless you quack

    • @GinaVerallo
      @GinaVerallo 2 місяці тому +7

      Sir?? 🤔

    • @mindzii8
      @mindzii8 2 місяці тому +26

      If you watched the whole video, he was also working a full time job.

    • @purplekush079
      @purplekush079 2 місяці тому +18

      @@BeeBeautiful-ye1kr you clearly missed the part where they say he works full time too.

    • @willlshredz
      @willlshredz Місяць тому +20

      How do they both have jobs but still can’t afford rent? Someone’s capping

  • @MrLealynnedrake
    @MrLealynnedrake 2 місяці тому +32

    Prayers for the healing of Rosie. I have a little girl named Trinity too. I'm sorry you had to go through this Momma. She was a beautiful baby.

  • @tashacampbell3881
    @tashacampbell3881 2 місяці тому +444

    The fact that she said from day one, “he must’ve been overwhelmed”, “he must’ve done something to her” is blowing my mind. Very VERY misguided on her part.

    • @Phoenix8Rising
      @Phoenix8Rising 2 місяці тому +33

      She knew.

    • @jewelsnoww
      @jewelsnoww 2 місяці тому +35

      mannn fr! I really wish she could be punished for her part in this. she failed protecting that baby man.

    • @reneethomas5548
      @reneethomas5548 2 місяці тому +7

      That is true. She had an idea he couldn't handle it.

    • @wendymariespeener5865
      @wendymariespeener5865 2 місяці тому +12

      Yes blame the mom for something she didn’t for see. Heartless

    • @merrigoodman3589
      @merrigoodman3589 Місяць тому

      Spot on.​@@jewelsnoww

  • @ArielHenry-uv5um
    @ArielHenry-uv5um 3 місяці тому +2479

    As the story kept unraveling the more disappointing the whole situation was. 6 months is not long enough to move in someone yet alone watch your kid.

    • @mrb5367
      @mrb5367 3 місяці тому +77

      It happens frequently

    • @AshendrisSilvermist
      @AshendrisSilvermist 3 місяці тому +81

      ​@@mrb5367 Indeed, especially when desperate for childcare.

    • @swiater1
      @swiater1 3 місяці тому +23

      I agree with you! If women/mother's valued themselves more, this kind of horror would not happen!

    • @danieltatum4262
      @danieltatum4262 3 місяці тому +42

      6 months is long but it’s still long enough to know somebody’s character, damn it some ppl get married after 6 months

    • @FranciscoMontalvo-m4p
      @FranciscoMontalvo-m4p 3 місяці тому +24

      You mean move in at a hotel like come on man kids need a stable home not a hotel like they were wrong from the very beginning

  • @ourtruth216
    @ourtruth216 3 місяці тому +1085

    Oh he admitted this wasn’t the first time he bruised that poor baby, she told him he needs to be more gentle because she bruises easily. Oh they BOTH need to be in jail!

    • @majormarketing6552
      @majormarketing6552 2 місяці тому +15

      You really are obsessed with jail

    • @ourtruth216
      @ourtruth216 2 місяці тому +96

      @@majormarketing6552 tf are you even talking about

    • @doriparker645
      @doriparker645 2 місяці тому +120

      @@ourtruth216 right! Mom is playing all innocent while she knows he was leaving marks on her baby! Lock them both up!!

    • @janicehazell5709
      @janicehazell5709 2 місяці тому +12

      I wonder if the mother went to jail? they never did say....

    • @theh60dbaby18
      @theh60dbaby18 2 місяці тому +10

      @@janicehazell5709 why would she ?

  • @jaihemphill6768
    @jaihemphill6768 2 місяці тому +69

    I don't understand why she would leave her little girl with someone she really didn't know. I don't know how she missed the signs. RIP baby girl 😢

    • @marv_line
      @marv_line Місяць тому +8

      She, she, she! Do you have ANYTHING to say about the actual murderer! 👂🏾

    • @jaihemphill6768
      @jaihemphill6768 Місяць тому +4

      @marv_line yeah he wouldn't have done it if SHE WAS NOT THERE!

    • @AnaParadisi
      @AnaParadisi Місяць тому +2

      @@marv_line Well, she put her daughter in a hotel room with a dead beat, useless guy because she wnated to have a man, any man, instead of taking care of her baby girl, so yes, she also has responsibility in her death. I'm sorry if do the same or if it was done to you, but women yave to stop putting men before their kids

    • @Kuda3guns
      @Kuda3guns Місяць тому

      @@marv_line they both deserve prison

    • @JordoSez
      @JordoSez 21 день тому

      TRINITY

  • @Fiilis1
    @Fiilis1 3 місяці тому +1455

    She knew the dude seemed frustrated with a kid and leaves her with him. WTF..

    • @briasworld8
      @briasworld8 3 місяці тому +23

      Right

    • @elephantdoodoo
      @elephantdoodoo 3 місяці тому +152

      Misogyny is deep, always blaming the Mother when this MONSTER killed her.

    • @MsCwebb
      @MsCwebb 3 місяці тому +62

      ​@@elephantdoodooit's her fault.

    • @latishabuckner8231
      @latishabuckner8231 3 місяці тому +124

      ​@@MsCwebbshe had to work and probably had no one else to keep her child at the time. Its the boyfriend fault for agreeing to watch her, knowing he couldn't handle it.

    • @bmajorblack
      @bmajorblack 3 місяці тому +36

      @@latishabuckner8231 It’s definitely mom’s fault.

  • @thalovelymissj
    @thalovelymissj 3 місяці тому +545

    So the child wakes up and then is given melatonin to go back to sleep 3 hours later bcuz he doesnt want to deal with her. That poor kid. What a miserable life. 😢

    • @anti-ethniccleansing465
      @anti-ethniccleansing465 3 місяці тому

      They didn’t even cover just how bad things got… I just read the details of his sentence and what came out in court about what Kennedy really did to Trinity the day of her murder. It was beyond shocking - I don’t even think UA-cam would let me write about it so you’d have to learn yourself if you want to.

    • @AllyKitsunee
      @AllyKitsunee 3 місяці тому +24

      She didn’t have a miserable life. More like what a miserable man for doing that to a child.

    • @Z-ef1rr
      @Z-ef1rr 3 місяці тому +21

      @@AllyKitsunee she most likely had a miserable life since she had to endure living with him

    • @aesparkless
      @aesparkless 3 місяці тому +14

      @@AllyKitsunee With that worthless mom agreeing to this and that psychopath she had a miserable life for sure.

    • @CHELLYMOU25
      @CHELLYMOU25 2 місяці тому +3

      ​@AllyKitsunee both!! Cause that baby didn't deserve any of that, and I bet the mom knew!

  • @YaYaPaBla
    @YaYaPaBla 3 місяці тому +1895

    Nope, don’t leave your babies with strangers!

    • @AllysonKing
      @AllysonKing 3 місяці тому +34

      He was her boyfriend but I agree

    • @BookishDark
      @BookishDark 3 місяці тому +69

      Okay but what do you think nanny’s and teachers are..?

    • @VictoriaLynn59
      @VictoriaLynn59 3 місяці тому +9

      Especially after telling him about treating her daughter .....unbelievable.

    • @maganalia
      @maganalia 3 місяці тому +27

      The mother told the monster to not pinch the baby so hard because she bruises easily. How sick is that????

    • @valealmirati
      @valealmirati 3 місяці тому +22

      @@maganaliaand she was giving melatonin to a 2 year old 😮

  • @SheedMoney141
    @SheedMoney141 Місяць тому +21

    Letting your new Boyfriend sleep in the same bed with your 2yr old daughter is insane

  • @maryannlohr7379
    @maryannlohr7379 3 місяці тому +840

    She is such a beautiful baby, how on earth could someone hurt an innocent child?

    • @Sheila-ju3th
      @Sheila-ju3th 3 місяці тому +25

      Toddlers are a handful they would try anyone's patience, it's the stage they go through, spilling from sippy cups,knocking over stuff. They don't call it the terrible 2's for nothing.

    • @n.y.f2490
      @n.y.f2490 3 місяці тому +82

      @@Sheila-ju3th Oh please...just STOP! 🛑✋ You are victim-blaming a BABY!!!

    • @silaslizzie43
      @silaslizzie43 3 місяці тому +21

      @@n.y.f2490 I think it's also an ugly reality. Children under two are the most vulnerable to abuse.

    • @kayjay407
      @kayjay407 3 місяці тому +26

      ​@Sheila-ju3th They are adorably a handful. That's why you take a deep breath before touching a child. Leave the room for a minute, or call someone. Do anything but put your hands on a child while you're angry.😢

    • @Refertech101
      @Refertech101 3 місяці тому +2

      Simple, not his, and in the way, welcome to evolutionary biology 101 it is cold & harsh, and in a certain culture atm it is much worse due to poor impulse control and emotional regulation.

  • @TongYabgu
    @TongYabgu 3 місяці тому +1513

    How someone trusts a guy like this as a baby sitter

    • @jean-baptistepoquelin5116
      @jean-baptistepoquelin5116 3 місяці тому +51

      Probably people like him...

    • @incineroar9933
      @incineroar9933 3 місяці тому +22

      He was her boyfriend who lived with them.

    • @terricaf4621
      @terricaf4621 3 місяці тому +101

      @@incineroar9933she barely knew him lmao

    • @Buckeyes216
      @Buckeyes216 3 місяці тому +79

      a woman who had a kid with someone not in the babies life and then dates someone who can’t handle a kid

    • @wcolautti
      @wcolautti 3 місяці тому +9

      @@incineroar9933She just began dating.

  • @draculaxspectacular1574
    @draculaxspectacular1574 2 місяці тому +152

    I cannot with his mumbling and incomplete sentences, these officers are so patient

  • @lindabonfonti3240
    @lindabonfonti3240 2 місяці тому +29

    Sad that innocent helpless children are brutally abused

  • @leklekjasmine416
    @leklekjasmine416 3 місяці тому +157

    This man never wanted that lady and definitely didn’t want her child, she was bringing home the money which is the only reason he was with her. Ladies, choose better

    • @Upyoyo
      @Upyoyo 3 місяці тому +5

      I want to feel sorry but this kind dude yall like someone who just needed place to stay. Pretty sure there were lot decent men that wanted her but she wanted a lowlife instead she needs to apologize to her daughter for not valuing her baby's life.

  • @sandyirizarry3491
    @sandyirizarry3491 3 місяці тому +324

    Stop chasing these men ladies. Your children come first, always.

  • @laurawentworth6237
    @laurawentworth6237 3 місяці тому +825

    What a creep the baby was already dead when mom came home and he said nothing to her

    • @DaughterOfTheKing_
      @DaughterOfTheKing_ 3 місяці тому +35

      He’s not a creep he just made a mistake. He’s young and he’s not a parent so like the child’s mother said it was overwhelming for him to babysit a energetic toddler

    • @cohenmandysangalang6302
      @cohenmandysangalang6302 3 місяці тому +242

      @@DaughterOfTheKing_he is the definition of a creep/ baby killer. He knew what he was doing was wrong

    • @youun
      @youun 3 місяці тому +138

      @@DaughterOfTheKing_ you lot sure do love defending bandits

    • @lorenzo2534
      @lorenzo2534 3 місяці тому

      ​@@DaughterOfTheKing_ he's a BUM 🥷

    • @Woozlewuzzleable
      @Woozlewuzzleable 3 місяці тому +65

      @@DaughterOfTheKing_ Are you serious?

  • @lisahawkins9187
    @lisahawkins9187 2 місяці тому +25

    I can't even imagine being in this situation. Young women thought this living arrangement was the ideal solution to help and her child.😢 it's too heartbreaking 💔

  • @wavybritt
    @wavybritt 3 місяці тому +493

    Hearing a mother cry after losing their child is so gut wrenching

  • @princessjade6259
    @princessjade6259 3 місяці тому +185

    The way the narrator spoke about the child’s life was beautifully done! RIP baby girl ❤

    • @paigeturner7788
      @paigeturner7788 3 місяці тому +1

      That’s not an actual narrator..just an A.i voice.

  • @chloek2207
    @chloek2207 3 місяці тому +251

    I can’t get over how adorable this precious little girl is 😢 her smile!!! how could anyone harm a hair on her head. 💔

    • @Sarah-ty5ev
      @Sarah-ty5ev 2 місяці тому +3

      Yes she was just an innocent baby 😭

  • @KimberlyRoberts-g4j
    @KimberlyRoberts-g4j 2 місяці тому +17

    She allowed him to pinch her face that's absolutely terrible,and then she calls him babe its sickening and he forced the child to sleep,,damn

  • @someonerandom256
    @someonerandom256 3 місяці тому +727

    Retitle it. Replace "Babysitter" with "Mom's Boyfriend."

    • @elloitspumpkin
      @elloitspumpkin 3 місяці тому +32

      Literally, trying to make it sound better.

    • @well.826
      @well.826 3 місяці тому +9

      Literally

    • @bobby6569
      @bobby6569 3 місяці тому +7

      literally what I was thinking!

    • @drcokepepper
      @drcokepepper 3 місяці тому +2

      ​​@@bobby6569yall saying it wrong
      It's pronounced Lit ter ral Lee.
      Or Lita ro lee or Litt tra lee.

    • @cjd5235
      @cjd5235 3 місяці тому +4

      I was about to comment the same thing. He isn't a babysitter, what a weird thing to make the title.

  • @leggs4113
    @leggs4113 3 місяці тому +534

    If you knew he was frustrated why leave your child with him. Who was watching her before you met? Stop leaving your kid with dudes you don’t know!

    • @Passionatelyfruits
      @Passionatelyfruits 3 місяці тому +30

      She took her "boyfriend" as free childcare......The same person who would take her baby's life

    • @blessedchildofgod9112
      @blessedchildofgod9112 3 місяці тому +17

      exactly choosing a man over her daughter

    • @hardwired8084
      @hardwired8084 3 місяці тому +22

      And then when the result is bad, they bawling and regretting, too late and I don't feel pity cuz. they freaking well knew, saw all the red flags and chose to repeat that curse!!! How many babies have to die like this, they see it on Social Media and still pretend they don't know.

    • @svperiorr
      @svperiorr 3 місяці тому +31

      Maybe because she literally can’t afford child care? It’s expensive and there’s nothing out there helping single moms.

    • @latishabuckner8231
      @latishabuckner8231 3 місяці тому +35

      Yall are acting like childcare is affordable. She was at work, what was she supposed to do? This is why a lot of women are refusing to have kids. Its too damn hard

  • @luvmyshihtzus7327
    @luvmyshihtzus7327 3 місяці тому +1389

    So he is a deadbeat…no job….while the girlfriend works. WHY are women attracted to guys like this? If you ain’t working, you got to go! This makes me sick to my stomach….an innocent child’s life was taken because she interrupted his game time. 🤬🤬🤬

    • @VictoriaLynn59
      @VictoriaLynn59 3 місяці тому +17

      💯

    • @PylesOfPepe
      @PylesOfPepe 3 місяці тому +143

      He had a job too if you listen. Not that he's any better of a person but try listen

    • @SoulforSale
      @SoulforSale 3 місяці тому +39

      This is exactly the type of men they chase.

    • @franchescamarcelle1819
      @franchescamarcelle1819 3 місяці тому +57

      He had a job, he doesn't work until later

    • @beepbopboop7727
      @beepbopboop7727 3 місяці тому +10

      Childhood neglect.

  • @Hindsight245
    @Hindsight245 26 днів тому +18

    I wish people wouldn’t victim blame or woman blame. This poor woman lost her baby. Yes, her motherly instincts and intuition were blatantly ignored. However, she did not want her poor baby to die. You have no idea if this woman had absolutely no support financially or with family or how her job looked or how much trauma she’s endured in life to trust an evil man. I bet she is torturing herself enough right now without all you judgmental people making it worse….

  • @johnwood2013
    @johnwood2013 3 місяці тому +422

    Im a single dad I got full custody of my son when he was 8 months old. First baby I ever held. I worked full time. Luckily I had family to help watch him. But I never let him stay with anybody I didn’t know

    • @realSimoneCherie
      @realSimoneCherie 2 місяці тому +33

      You didn’t have to - you had family

    • @Attackssha
      @Attackssha 2 місяці тому +40

      Sometimes you can’t even trust your own family smh

    • @LilyMoriarty-v9s
      @LilyMoriarty-v9s 2 місяці тому

    • @HWest-cf7ir
      @HWest-cf7ir 2 місяці тому +17

      I was a single Dad as well.
      Had my son since he was 30 days old.
      Had no help, no family.
      I never , nor would I ever leave him with anyone.
      He is 10 now.
      He still has never ever been left with anyone .
      ( except school (teachers)

    • @joutoob9
      @joutoob9 2 місяці тому +5

      @@realSimoneCherie She had family too, they were pictured at the beginning. Seemed pretty supportive since they had matching shirts for the birth.

  • @noreply3424
    @noreply3424 3 місяці тому +836

    Her parenting style is every predators dream. Shes naive, goes to work to keep a roof over their head while he stays at home with her children. They really need to mandate classes that educate women about men like this because women like her make it too easy to prey on. Letting a new boyfriend sleep in the same bed as you and your daughter is bizarre. But then again her whole reaction to her daughter being unconscious was bizarre. She really had no worries until the end and at first I thought she’s lucky, but then I realized I’m lucky that I have my intuition and common sense

    • @desdior1207
      @desdior1207 3 місяці тому +48

      Unfortunately she had to learn the hard way. Idk where he family was or the father but this was a completely avoidable tragedy. I really do hope this situation made her grow up and take life more seriously, especially if she ever decides to birth children again.

    • @ReneeFrenchgirl
      @ReneeFrenchgirl 3 місяці тому +40

      Yeah, she didn't seem that worried or upset until she was told her baby girl died.

    • @PylesOfPepe
      @PylesOfPepe 3 місяці тому +29

      He had a job too ..do you guys ever watch the video or just comment a quarter the way in.

    • @PylesOfPepe
      @PylesOfPepe 3 місяці тому +12

      The bf had a job too maybe listen next time.

    • @fionaburton5457
      @fionaburton5457 3 місяці тому

      She might have been in shock and struggling to process the gravity of the situation ​@@reneegardner2286

  • @McQueenMelissa
    @McQueenMelissa 3 місяці тому +315

    Stuck in a hotel room with someone not engaging with her, of course she was going stir crazy with ablot of pent up energy. He couldn't even take her to the park, or for a walk instead of putting her down to sleep?

    • @jueileen4599
      @jueileen4599 3 місяці тому +28

      No because he was too concerned with playing his video game.. just sad smdh

    • @claireajibola3287
      @claireajibola3287 3 місяці тому +6

      too lazy, that poor wee girl 😢

  • @EKCO0310
    @EKCO0310 3 місяці тому +427

    People in jail usually hate these kind of people

    • @ravenna9969
      @ravenna9969 3 місяці тому +33

      That’s myth most of em get out so that tells you that’s a lie

    • @gofeukurself6465
      @gofeukurself6465 3 місяці тому +48

      @@ravenna9969 getting out vs getting out untouched are very different things.

    • @FillyK80
      @FillyK80 3 місяці тому

      Everyone hates these kind of people

    • @inkedmomblu1510
      @inkedmomblu1510 3 місяці тому +6

      I bet he goes in PC or never tells his charges.

    • @denisesurber8176
      @denisesurber8176 3 місяці тому +8

      ​@@ravenna9969Maybe that's because these cowards are put in isolation.

  • @JenniferF2882
    @JenniferF2882 2 місяці тому +77

    He actually tried to blame a 2- year old for him harming her. What a lowlife.

  • @KathaleenMurphy-uh2el
    @KathaleenMurphy-uh2el 3 місяці тому +461

    His lack of verbal skills is maddening

    • @fungi42o0
      @fungi42o0 3 місяці тому +25

      dudes a t oo l

    • @Lesbian_NatSoc
      @Lesbian_NatSoc 3 місяці тому +2

      @@KathaleenMurphy-uh2el He has better verbal skills than I ever had

    • @JesseJane142
      @JesseJane142 3 місяці тому +3

      @@KathaleenMurphy-uh2el you get mad when people don't speak like you?

    • @Tattedlady60
      @Tattedlady60 3 місяці тому +12

      ​​@@JesseJane142 Funny how they got 233 likes since posting. Seems others agree

    • @JesseJane142
      @JesseJane142 3 місяці тому

      @@Tattedlady60 agree with what?

  • @jadephillips77
    @jadephillips77 Місяць тому +7

    If he KEEPS telling you over and over he can’t handle it, then it’s your fault too bro.

  • @lauriepolden6594
    @lauriepolden6594 3 місяці тому +740

    I know she’s a young mother, but you never leave a man that you don’t know with your child… I had a relationship with a man I knew for many years and I left my children with him to babysit one time I came home and my son was in the corner and he had been there for three hours according to my older daughter I went to ask him what he did wrong to be punished and he turned around and he had wet himself. He had been in the corner so long because the man would not let him use the bathroom, so immediately I went out there and I threw him out of my house. I was so angry. I thought took a chair to his head. I told him don’t ever come back. I never want you again and I never wanna see you again. The abuse was unbelievable.

    • @timekademery
      @timekademery 3 місяці тому +63

      💯 That's right, Mama Bear! A real mother that so many of us are unfortunate to have experienced.

    • @danieltatum4262
      @danieltatum4262 3 місяці тому +20

      Some ppl get married after 6 months so it should be enough time to read somebody’s character

    • @onelifedontwasteit8568
      @onelifedontwasteit8568 3 місяці тому +11

      Lie

    • @monicarenee7949
      @monicarenee7949 3 місяці тому +59

      I have a partner I’ve been with for a year and even though he and my daughter get along well I will never leave them together. I assume he would never hurt her but I don’t even want either one of them in that situation. Even her grandmother (her dad’s mom) beat her out of frustration one time. I don’t trust anyone with her.

    • @budgetbuilt8838
      @budgetbuilt8838 3 місяці тому

      This has nothing to do with men and everything to do with people you don't know. Gender doesn't matter.

  • @shannamcdonough9588
    @shannamcdonough9588 3 місяці тому +516

    So they meet in December- move in together in January- move to a hotel in April and the baby is dead by May 😳

    • @Veracityseeker7
      @Veracityseeker7 3 місяці тому +55

      Seems about right to me. And all of this could have been predicted.

    • @Dfranco1722
      @Dfranco1722 3 місяці тому +19

      Poor baby
      Poor mama
      This is heartbreaking 😢

    • @Refertech101
      @Refertech101 3 місяці тому

      @@Veracityseeker7 people really do not like to acknowledge reality and biology, the left has deluded people into thinking their fantasy is a reality, in reality if it isn't his, it is disposable, sorry for the cold harsh reality folks, this is why you really need to be discerning with whom you sleep with if there is ANY chance of a kid popping out from it!

    • @jlokeepinitreal
      @jlokeepinitreal 3 місяці тому

      ​@@Dfranco1722 mother is trash. She's not a mom. Mom is a term used for people who protect their baby.

    • @tomicoreynolds681
      @tomicoreynolds681 3 місяці тому +37

      These women need to stop being so desperate for a man and just leave her baby with a stranger 😢

  • @Marrttha
    @Marrttha 3 місяці тому +290

    he said “i keep telling her she does the most “ talking about a baby…. Rosie should’ve known just off that that he’s unfit to help out….

    • @beepbopboop7727
      @beepbopboop7727 3 місяці тому +16

      Especially when he was saying she should be “more strict with her”.

    • @pistashleyo5897
      @pistashleyo5897 3 місяці тому

      He said she's doing it on purpose. I hate men that think a baby is out to get them. Wtf

    • @marciawade9101
      @marciawade9101 3 місяці тому +8

      She KNEW he was unfit, because she told the officer that she told him to be gentle with her and if things don't work out, find someone else to step in.
      You need to re-watch that part.

    • @YamilexMessiah
      @YamilexMessiah 3 місяці тому +6

      she knew ! That’s why she bought the melatonin he had been complaining

    • @skydaniels6440
      @skydaniels6440 2 місяці тому +2

      He has terrible literacy skills

  • @aeprodbeatz
    @aeprodbeatz 3 місяці тому +228

    Sick to my stomach watching this. I’m a single father with full custody of my daughter, could never imagine doing that to a defenseless baby.

    • @MommaSullens
      @MommaSullens 3 місяці тому +12

      Real Man ☝️- I’m glad you commented.

    • @team1220kids
      @team1220kids 3 місяці тому

      Be careful. It’s stories of women killing children of their boyfriends’s children.

    • @NinaL
      @NinaL 2 місяці тому +2

      🤎🤎🤎

    • @majormarketing6552
      @majormarketing6552 2 місяці тому +1

      Doubt it

    • @marylnmonroe
      @marylnmonroe 2 місяці тому +1

      i felt like i was going to vomit watching this

  • @taylordominy6704
    @taylordominy6704 3 місяці тому +248

    Single moms, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE stop leaving your babies with these new boyfriends, I know finding child care is hard, but 20 years down the road you will never regret finding someone who will care for your child but you will regret leaving them with someone who hurt them even if just a little bit, your babies deserve it and they are worth it!

    • @tgreg9542
      @tgreg9542 3 місяці тому +5

      You just might tho, child care is scary

    • @MaritzaMendoza1018
      @MaritzaMendoza1018 2 місяці тому +2

      Oh gosh we know that. It's just some people who don't have common sense. I've been a single mom for 7 years and still continuing and I've never let a man take care of my baby nor be around her

    • @VeronikaJames-wg1lb
      @VeronikaJames-wg1lb 2 місяці тому +2

      You mean single parents. Many many cases when new gf killed bf’s baby as well

    • @tgreg9542
      @tgreg9542 2 місяці тому

      @@VeronikaJames-wg1lb naw you straight trippin. Most violent act are committed by men by far. Plus most single parents are women. 16% of men are single fathers that leaves 84% to the women. By that only there’s WAY more violent acts committed by boyfriends then girlfriends

    • @lyricgraysonsnikkie3122
      @lyricgraysonsnikkie3122 2 місяці тому

      With anyone .. PERIOD

  • @Hercasl
    @Hercasl 3 місяці тому +162

    Him: she always did the most.
    You sir did the most.

  • @mcclure964
    @mcclure964 8 днів тому +4

    He has not formed one full sentence through this whole interrogation. This is the kind of guy you put him in jail and throw away the key.

  • @mimipaulidor2286
    @mimipaulidor2286 3 місяці тому +344

    Ladies stop leaving yall kids with a bum pookie he should be working a 9-5 not playing video games

    • @JonnyHolms
      @JonnyHolms 3 місяці тому +15

      Bingo..

    • @deadinthewater218
      @deadinthewater218 3 місяці тому +7

      He did work. The detectives even said it.

    • @JonnyHolms
      @JonnyHolms 3 місяці тому +5

      @deadinthewater218 no the detectives didn't say that the perp did, and you think I believe that 🤣

    • @bigarie
      @bigarie 3 місяці тому +5

      @@mimipaulidor2286 in a hotel room at that like ain’t no way.

    • @TripleKO87
      @TripleKO87 3 місяці тому +8

      Damn right! The fact that he said his day "started normal"... Waking up at 10:40, he calls that normal??? That's the first red flag in a dude.

  • @olgateresatrevizo
    @olgateresatrevizo 2 місяці тому +109

    That investigator did an outstanding job. His interrogation skills were on point. He used the subtle approach and got the truth out of him. Well done.

  • @SamColeman-i2b
    @SamColeman-i2b 3 місяці тому +520

    I said this once I’ll say it a million times” YALL WOMEN NEED TO STOP LEAVIN YALL CHILDREN WITH JUST ANYBODY!!” Poor baby😢

    • @viktoriahharper1226
      @viktoriahharper1226 3 місяці тому +27

      It should be if Daddies would be present in their child’s lives Mommies wouldn’t have to look elsewhere for help. 😢

    • @phillymaidstone4829
      @phillymaidstone4829 3 місяці тому +20

      ...or stop making them in the first place with virtual strangers.....

    • @JanHerbatka
      @JanHerbatka 3 місяці тому

      @@viktoriahharper1226 Well mayby choose with your head rather then your crotch?

    • @divinelove249
      @divinelove249 3 місяці тому +3

      @@viktoriahharper1226 maybe he is deceased.

    • @cstover9058
      @cstover9058 3 місяці тому +7

      ​@@divinelove249yeah maybe he's overseas, maybe he's flying a moonlanding.... Or maybe anything else but the man is not in the house

  • @ayleen7558
    @ayleen7558 2 місяці тому +12

    Why'd they take so long to tell her?! As a mother I'd be going insane and they'd have to take me to jail.

  • @kathy8013
    @kathy8013 3 місяці тому +330

    Being a "single mother" is no excuse for trusting your child to all your hookups.

    • @MarieGeorge-m3y
      @MarieGeorge-m3y 3 місяці тому +26

      She was probably desperate and had no help from the biological father, family or friends. She stated not being able to afford childcare

    • @dragonire_dino0856
      @dragonire_dino0856 3 місяці тому +39

      Y'all really need to be realistic. She didn't have the money to pay for daycare, obviously the bio father isn't in the picture. What else was she supposed to do? She might have had family members but just because she has family members doesn't mean that that family is able to watch her kid

    • @MarieGeorge-m3y
      @MarieGeorge-m3y 3 місяці тому +4

      @@dragonire_dino0856 that is exactly the point I was making

    • @vanessahesser4461
      @vanessahesser4461 3 місяці тому +14

      All your hook ups??? I see one guy and 6 months is not a hook up.

    • @OneTheAndOnlyOne
      @OneTheAndOnlyOne 3 місяці тому +11

      *It's no excuses to be a single mom. Keep those legs closed. First get married and start a family. There would be a lot less single moms when women would do this...

  • @DylaneyDay
    @DylaneyDay 3 місяці тому +808

    The little girl was “acting up” because she’s trapped with her abuser 10 hours a day and is traumatized.
    Of course she’d be screaming… poor baby 💔

    • @english7451
      @english7451 3 місяці тому +42

      @@DylaneyDay you right she was already traumatized it was not the first time he did something because he was a boyfriend babysitter. Dangerous combination.

    • @nonya1350
      @nonya1350 3 місяці тому +12

      The mother just as bad as him.....that's probably why the little girl didn't listen to the mother either ...

    • @BlissMitchell-s3x
      @BlissMitchell-s3x 2 місяці тому +3

      @@nonya1350Wow how sickening to say

    • @nonya1350
      @nonya1350 2 місяці тому

      @@BlissMitchell-s3x no it's not they both deserve life she knew this would happen and now she free to FCK and live baby free that's sick af

    • @narobigaines5072
      @narobigaines5072 Місяць тому

      ​@@english7451Bingo

  • @chanparislynn8919
    @chanparislynn8919 3 місяці тому +392

    Poor baby was killed for being a kid. He’s a damn toddler himself.

    • @michelerenem
      @michelerenem 3 місяці тому +11

      he is a toddler, but a much bigger and stronger toddler.. Sad story.. Everything about it is horrible.

    • @chanparislynn8919
      @chanparislynn8919 3 місяці тому +15

      @@michelerenem exactly. A big cry baby who couldn’t deal with someone interrupting his game time.

    • @cavalrystyles8776
      @cavalrystyles8776 3 місяці тому

      Dumbasses forget that they themselves were once (highly irritating) toddlers at some point.

    • @NF40375
      @NF40375 3 місяці тому +8

      Please don’t insult toddlers and compare that demon to those innocent children

    • @sfwatxyo2162
      @sfwatxyo2162 3 місяці тому

      ​@@chanparislynn8919The mom is negligent and should be charged and sterilized.

  • @dominiquenelson6811
    @dominiquenelson6811 3 дні тому +4

    The Mother is to Blame, Stop leaving your kids with these men, The baby was acting like that because she didn't like him.

  • @lisaskatesIRL
    @lisaskatesIRL 3 місяці тому +823

    Playing video games whilt the woman works. What a "man"...... 🙄 ... And now a baby is gone.

    • @BennyMcGibbon
      @BennyMcGibbon 3 місяці тому +14

      Must have borrowed the game and his homie was needing it back.

    • @seriousorganizer
      @seriousorganizer 3 місяці тому +52

      they said right in the video he goes to work afterwards..

    • @ascribecalledtess7439
      @ascribecalledtess7439 3 місяці тому +80

      Did you not watch the whole video before commenting? He worked a full time job that he had to be at later that day. The guy is 🗑️ of the highest grade, but let's not create false narratives to support whatever prejudices you may harbor.

    • @onelifedontwasteit8568
      @onelifedontwasteit8568 3 місяці тому +2

      Whilst

    • @Sadlittlecloud
      @Sadlittlecloud 3 місяці тому +15

      Well he did work full time. They said that… It’s sad & what he did is sick but it probably was stressful trying to raise a kid that’s not even yours. That mom is bold to leave her child in the hands of a guy she was only dating 6 months. The whole situation was so preventable.. now a life is lost and another is ruined.

  • @letstalkaboutgermany8288
    @letstalkaboutgermany8288 3 місяці тому +169

    The patience and restraint that these two cops are displaying is truly commendable ….

    • @love.wildly.live.fearlessly
      @love.wildly.live.fearlessly 3 місяці тому +5

      I always am in awe of the detectives who have to be calm and “kind” to these… I don’t have a word bad enough for this type of evil. But those detectives have a hard job most like myself would want to just end it and be done instead needing to be nice and friendly to get a confession.

    • @tflg3257
      @tflg3257 3 місяці тому

      @letstalkaboutgermany8288
      Because the video will be used in court if this cretin doesn't get a plea deal. It's best to sit back and let him tell on himself.

  • @zenon7094
    @zenon7094 3 місяці тому +223

    They give a two year old girl melatonin to keep er quit? On a regular basis? This alone makes me sick to my stomach.

    • @TweetVuitton
      @TweetVuitton 3 місяці тому +24

      She’s sleeping all day baby may have brain fog when she wakes up then put quickly back to sleep that’s crazy

    • @boringfish
      @boringfish 3 місяці тому +11

      They make melatonin gummies for kids for bedtime. It's normal and safe but I'd never use it to keep a kid docile. That's horrible

    • @buttholemcgee6493
      @buttholemcgee6493 3 місяці тому

      @@boringfish Melatonin is not healthy for children, at all.

    • @Tmac19635
      @Tmac19635 3 місяці тому +3

      I have the same question. Are doctors prescribing melatonin for toddlers now?!? That's crazy

    • @shroomyk
      @shroomyk 3 місяці тому

      @@boringfish They market them for kids, but it is not normal or safe. They are a supplement and therefore not regulated by the FDA. They have inconsistent dosing, which means one gummy could have significantly more in it than another one in the very same bottle. Kids are dying from overdoses for this reason. They should not be given to children. I can't believe people are still unaware of this as it has been an issue that's been reported on for awhile now.

  • @ambers2783
    @ambers2783 2 місяці тому +46

    The fact that they moved in together after a month is crazy… RIP Baby girl❤️

    • @cherylkelley5586
      @cherylkelley5586 2 місяці тому

      So sad there are too many women who feel that cannot live/function without a man .

  • @lcdagkc
    @lcdagkc 3 місяці тому +167

    Who tf would let this dude babysit anybody’s child

    • @Veracityseeker7
      @Veracityseeker7 3 місяці тому +35

      I wouldn't let him water my house plants.

    • @billnye-d3e
      @billnye-d3e 3 місяці тому +16

      People start sleeping with people within 3 month of talking and they think they know the person

    • @lcdagkc
      @lcdagkc 3 місяці тому +11

      @@billnye-d3e shoot more like 3 hours these days

    • @Strawberries0000
      @Strawberries0000 3 місяці тому +2

      ​@Veracityseeker7
      Damn It's Like That
      🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣

    • @billnye-d3e
      @billnye-d3e 3 місяці тому

      @@lcdagkc ikr was trynna give the benefit of the doubt

  • @YaYaPaBla
    @YaYaPaBla 3 місяці тому +89

    Precious baby. Mom said she was already potty trained. Smart little one.

  • @CatCat-v5g
    @CatCat-v5g 3 місяці тому +125

    Trinity did not like, nor trust, this fool & she expressed it through her (natural & age approriate) behaviour as a defensless 2-yr-old. He was cruel, negligent & violent towards her, repeatedly, & she did her very best to communicate it the only way she knew how. She wasn't 'acting-up', she was expressing her fear, sadness & pain as she knew what she was in for, again.
    Babies never lie ('out of the mouths of babes'), they only know the truth. Sadly, her mother did't protect her either, & her actions on the phone & when the police arrived will never convice me that she doesn't know much more.
    Rest in sweet heavenly peace little one, no one will hurt you ever again..❤

    • @StoneTheCr0w
      @StoneTheCr0w 3 місяці тому +2

      No one asked

    • @Andre-ko8oz
      @Andre-ko8oz 3 місяці тому

      ​@@StoneTheCr0wAre you serious???!

  • @riorhisean5398
    @riorhisean5398 Місяць тому +12

    He’s a coward and a horrible person. But the mom was complicit, she knew he was beating that baby daily. Shame

  • @hollyjo6651
    @hollyjo6651 3 місяці тому +610

    Its always a boyfriend. Watch who you leave your babies with.

    • @ghostdetectorsuk
      @ghostdetectorsuk 3 місяці тому +25

      You can’t buy melatonin in the uk it has to be prescribed by a specialist 😮here’s a thought why didn’t he go to work and mom could have been with baby. He does not have the maturity or temperament to deal with a 2 year old 😢she was beautiful

    • @5thdimension954
      @5thdimension954 3 місяці тому +4

      Comment of the day!

    • @thecommonsensenetwork
      @thecommonsensenetwork 3 місяці тому

      Wmn do way more damage to children than men

    • @robdubent
      @robdubent 3 місяці тому +16

      News flash. PLENTY OF MOMS aren’t meant to be…

    • @ahhmzzbriightt1023
      @ahhmzzbriightt1023 3 місяці тому +9

      Especially pookie

  • @ghostdetectorsuk
    @ghostdetectorsuk 3 місяці тому +281

    He wanted to play his games and didn’t like being disturbed, and likely lost his cool

    • @Reign_Of_Is_REAL
      @Reign_Of_Is_REAL 3 місяці тому +11

      🎯

    • @abdoolidiots
      @abdoolidiots 3 місяці тому +9

      Men😂

    • @Angelonwheels24
      @Angelonwheels24 3 місяці тому +20

      That is so crazy this isn't the first time I've seen a man kill a baby because they were interrupting their game...

    • @DaughterOfTheKing_
      @DaughterOfTheKing_ 3 місяці тому +3

      THAT IS MOST MEN THOUGH 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @kellymurphy6667
      @kellymurphy6667 3 місяці тому +4

      "Men" implies maturity, mentally and emotionally this guy still wanted to be a kid who's girlfriend took care of him. He was jealous of any time and attention his gf had to give to some other man's child which he wanted for himself.

  • @magiegainey5036
    @magiegainey5036 3 місяці тому +343

    Poor Rosie. How horrible to come back from work and finding your child dead. What a nightmare. 😢

    • @seriousorganizer
      @seriousorganizer 3 місяці тому +75

      & then having to sit in back of a police car trapped!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @cbrown4293
      @cbrown4293 3 місяці тому +44

      ​@@seriousorganizerthat was it for me ,I live in ga and the way they treated her ,zero empathy or personal compassion

    • @miapeterkin1131
      @miapeterkin1131 3 місяці тому +26

      @@seriousorganizerI came to the comments to see if anyone else was as disgusted as I was about that 😡

    • @treehugger47
      @treehugger47 3 місяці тому +33

      I agree they treated her poorly, but I have to say she made really bad choices by trusting this guy with her daughter.

    • @cohenmandysangalang6302
      @cohenmandysangalang6302 3 місяці тому

      @@seriousorganizerF that, I’d have torn that care to pieces to get to my baby. Then him!

  • @Ellhasartistictalent
    @Ellhasartistictalent 14 днів тому +5

    Her cry broke me. You could hear the pain in mama's voice once she heard Trinity had passed.

  • @stephaniel1981
    @stephaniel1981 3 місяці тому +724

    Don't refer to a boyfriend to the mother as a babysitter. You can't assume they are there to protect that child.

    • @amandab60
      @amandab60 3 місяці тому +20

      That’s what he was. She was supporting both of them. So she was taking care of him to care for her child.

    • @laurafisher6531
      @laurafisher6531 3 місяці тому +24

      ​@@amandab60💯 let's put the blame on the woman, as per. I'm so sick of this ****.

    • @katherinea.williams3044
      @katherinea.williams3044 3 місяці тому +12

      I was taught to NEVER ‘assume’ or ‘expect’ ANYTHING. You’ll never be in anticipation or expecting X, Y and Z, from entity/person/life.
      From a very young age and am attempting to teach my 23 year old son.
      NEVER ‘assume’, NEVER ‘expect’.
      Incredibly sad; beautiful baby.
      Love & Light from Miami Shores🦚
      Stay safe mates✌🏼🌎

    • @richardtyler9368
      @richardtyler9368 3 місяці тому

      That’s average blks for ya. Unfortunate.

    • @dudeonthemoon3290
      @dudeonthemoon3290 3 місяці тому +6

      “Babysitter” is just a title.

  • @missthomas8754
    @missthomas8754 3 місяці тому +156

    The mother knew he was being abusive with her baby in the past, and I just don’t know why she would leave her baby with him knowing he has a short temper.

    • @Deedruh.
      @Deedruh. 3 місяці тому +7

      Low self esteem

    • @AngelFrench
      @AngelFrench 3 місяці тому +1

      She needed a babysitter and couldn’t afford daycare

    • @glogloCrosby
      @glogloCrosby 3 місяці тому +4

      So does that mean you leave a 2 year old with a dude that's already abusive? I hope she learned her lesson fr.

    • @JayDubbOfficial
      @JayDubbOfficial 3 місяці тому +3

      Needed a sitter & a place to stay and some company

    • @Deedruh.
      @Deedruh. 3 місяці тому

      @@JayDubbOfficial he's the one who needed a place, for sure... She was probably afraid of him having to face the world if she dropped him

  • @NotIfWhen
    @NotIfWhen 3 місяці тому +331

    Please!!! STOP LEAVING YOUR CHILDREN WITH YOUR BOYFRIENDS! I I know it’s hard and people have to work but it is too dangerous! Look at the statistics.

    • @JacquelineBrown-o8x
      @JacquelineBrown-o8x 3 місяці тому +5

      Agreed

    • @tharunsankar4926
      @tharunsankar4926 3 місяці тому +25

      When the boyfriend looks like… well… the usual suspects…

    • @JacquelineBrown-o8x
      @JacquelineBrown-o8x 3 місяці тому +15

      @@tharunsankar4926 please tell me that’s not a reference to the skin color?!?

    • @Solar_Corpus
      @Solar_Corpus 3 місяці тому

      @@JacquelineBrown-o8xprofiling is a thing for a reason….

    • @onelifedontwasteit8568
      @onelifedontwasteit8568 3 місяці тому +1

      You have no idea what the stats are

  • @T.me.up.A
    @T.me.up.A 2 дні тому +1

    The mothers screams absolutely broke me

  • @joshuabritton9124
    @joshuabritton9124 3 місяці тому +163

    The fact she calling him babe is crazy

    • @pk3
      @pk3 2 місяці тому +17

      Why are people harping on that minor thing. It was probably just out of habit. She just found out something happened to her child and was frantic and didn't know exactly what happened but probably that he screwed up somehow and was just addressing him that way out of habit. She didn't have enough information or time to think at that point to know exactly how he contributed to the problem.

    • @leebliss3622
      @leebliss3622 2 місяці тому +1

      It’s not crazy it’s habit it’s actually a sign of her total innocence which communicates just how much he was hiding from her, I’d bet he was straight up lying to her face about how much he didn’t want to do any of this babysitting

    • @dvlsh13
      @dvlsh13 2 місяці тому +1

      Totally agree…the fact she did not even check on her daughter straight away once she wss back, her whole behavior, disgusting

    • @reneethomas5548
      @reneethomas5548 2 місяці тому

      Yeah she went to work and left her baby without bruises. Then comes home to a non-responsive baby who has her face bruised up.

    • @betty_bewitched8226
      @betty_bewitched8226 Місяць тому +1

      Did you not hear say she knew he had been pinching her ??? She is far from innocent

  • @whosaidthat9265
    @whosaidthat9265 3 місяці тому +252

    They would have needed an extra body bag. Ain’t no way. Calling him ‘babe’ while trying to figure out what he did to your baby? She’s not very smart

    • @terricaf4621
      @terricaf4621 3 місяці тому +30

      He been hitting her kid she had bruises other times he babysat her

    • @whosaidthat9265
      @whosaidthat9265 3 місяці тому +58

      @@terricaf4621yeah I’m sick of all of these ‘parents’ who act oblivious and stunned when the worst happens. I can’t fathom putting anyone before my kid. Deplorable

    • @louniece1650
      @louniece1650 3 місяці тому +5

      ​@@whosaidthat9265 You're right.

    • @secretlifeofjill8927
      @secretlifeofjill8927 3 місяці тому +24

      Right!! And, at the very least she knew he had been pinching that baby!! WTF??!!!!

    • @whosaidthat9265
      @whosaidthat9265 3 місяці тому +36

      @@secretlifeofjill8927 the part where he said she told him the baby bruises easily made me furious. So it’s ok if he’s abusing her, just don’t leave bruises? She is just as responsible as he is

  • @mg4468
    @mg4468 3 місяці тому +423

    I don’t think anyone told this monster what they do in prison to punks who “pop” two year old babies to death. He knows now!

    • @Dylan-kv7op
      @Dylan-kv7op 3 місяці тому +21

      @mg4468 yea he's done for

    • @eddie1149
      @eddie1149 3 місяці тому +10

      What u think they going to do to him ?

    • @PylesOfPepe
      @PylesOfPepe 3 місяці тому +31

      ​@@eddie1149Worse than what he did to that baby that's almost forsure

    • @eddie1149
      @eddie1149 3 місяці тому +4

      @@PylesOfPepe why wouldn’t they put him in solidarity confinement if they know he about to get beaten ?

    • @younggoose7315
      @younggoose7315 3 місяці тому +3

      @@eddie1149PC*

  • @AnnalynnMichael
    @AnnalynnMichael 3 дні тому +2

    rest in peace, Trinity Maria Kyles🕊🕊

  • @yesseniaayala2664
    @yesseniaayala2664 3 місяці тому +224

    So the mom worked while the bum stayed home to abuse the child. Why do some women choose a bum over their own kid, I will never know.

    • @Kimi1968ful
      @Kimi1968ful 3 місяці тому

      Because she's a loser too.

    • @truecrimefan1433
      @truecrimefan1433 3 місяці тому +2

      😢 he is a evil man but it did say he worked full time too so wasn't a bum

    • @truecrimefan1433
      @truecrimefan1433 3 місяці тому +1

      😢 he is a evil man but it did say he worked full time too so wasn't a bum

    • @truecrimefan1433
      @truecrimefan1433 3 місяці тому +1

      😢 he is a evil man but it did say he worked full time too so wasn't a bum

    • @blessedchildofgod9112
      @blessedchildofgod9112 3 місяці тому +2

      crazy choosing a man over her daughter

  • @jaemeh09
    @jaemeh09 3 місяці тому +101

    Honestly I don’t feel like the mother is all that surprised that this happened. Never leave your child with a stranger or a boyfriend who doesn’t care about this child my mom was married for 6 years and never left any of her 4 kids with a man if you are low income there are plenty of programs for child care funded by the state

    • @thereserivera7691
      @thereserivera7691 3 місяці тому +2

      You are absolutely correct about child care.

    • @DavidRamirez-pz2kq
      @DavidRamirez-pz2kq 3 місяці тому +8

      “Child care” are still STRANGERS. Just because they got hired to do that job of taking care of children doesn’t mean their fit to. Women should start choosing to be real mothers and raising their own children. Marry a man who will do what men are suppose to do and work hard to support his family.

    • @nightmareoracle
      @nightmareoracle 3 місяці тому +3

      I got the same feeling. She knew

    • @briasworld8
      @briasworld8 3 місяці тому +2

      Right! She is talking normal.

    • @allisonphillips-mcclure6256
      @allisonphillips-mcclure6256 3 місяці тому +1

      Some states offer more assistance than others.

  • @idkaboutyou8377
    @idkaboutyou8377 3 місяці тому +101

    Sooo, its too much for him to watch her but not too much to be living off her mother, eating drinking, playing games, using electricity and water? He's really a kid himself

    • @hardwired8084
      @hardwired8084 3 місяці тому +1

      Mom should take a whole lotta blame for this ish!!

    • @allisonphillips-mcclure6256
      @allisonphillips-mcclure6256 3 місяці тому +3

      Even though he's a pos, he worked too. They worked opposite shifts.

  • @rebeccakey-gaskins3744
    @rebeccakey-gaskins3744 6 днів тому +1

    This is so sad. Ladies, please stop leaving your babies at the hands of boyfriends. This happens way too often. Prayers for the family.

  • @mckayabrown4548
    @mckayabrown4548 3 місяці тому +45

    He is disgustingly. The mother should be held accountable .

  • @rochelle2269
    @rochelle2269 3 місяці тому +63

    Kids act like “flipping out” when they’re cooped up all day in a little hotel room. Take her to the park for an hour. I mean, I just don’t get it.

    • @lpronovost84
      @lpronovost84 3 місяці тому +13

      Exactly. No toys, no books, coloring crayons? How about playing at the park?

    • @rochelle2269
      @rochelle2269 3 місяці тому

      @@lpronovost84 parks are free too!! 2yo are hard, I get it but when my 3 kids were little we lived at the park! Summer and winter. Outside cures!!

  • @nycava0520
    @nycava0520 3 місяці тому +75

    What a beautiful little girl. 😢 May Trinity rest in eternal peace 🕊️

  • @reginasreal7015
    @reginasreal7015 2 місяці тому +8

    My grandma taught me years ago don't spoil my baby because nobody is going to love him the way i do and when im not around people (friends, family, teachers) will mistreat him because they don't have the same love i have for my child. Best advice I ever received because people are ridiculous

    • @kellyglass1376
      @kellyglass1376 3 дні тому

      Girl, what?! Don't spoil your baby because no one is going to love him the way you do is crazy.

    • @reginasreal7015
      @reginasreal7015 2 дні тому +1

      @kellyglass1376 Yes don't turn your child into a spoiled brat no one is going to happily put up with that but you

  • @superwinkta4682
    @superwinkta4682 3 місяці тому +168

    "The sorts of fools that fills the world with ill-favored children."
    william shakespeare

    • @hardwired8084
      @hardwired8084 3 місяці тому +12

      Also William Shakespeare:- "None so blind as those who WILL NOT see" ... not that they cannot, but they WILL not, which is worse!

  • @DaliaDippolito.
    @DaliaDippolito. 3 місяці тому +149

    she left her baby with a new boyfriend who found the baby annoying in a motel room while she worked? oh what could go wrong? pfft

    • @Passionatelyfruits
      @Passionatelyfruits 3 місяці тому +7

      Poor baby left with a bum monster.....He cldn't get high in peace and became irritated, annoyed & impatient with the baby

    • @stjohnssoup
      @stjohnssoup Місяць тому +1

      She was naive, that doesn’t make her a criminal. You sound like you’re accusing her of something

    • @kiahenderson6818
      @kiahenderson6818 Місяць тому +1

      Isn’tu es

    • @DaliaDippolito.
      @DaliaDippolito. Місяць тому +1

      @@kiahenderson6818 I’m sorry .. ? … I just feel like this whole tragedy could have been avoided. Just when will this stop w the new boyfriends?