Why you can't just "choose" to be happy

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  • Опубліковано 30 лип 2024
  • #selfimprovement
    "tell me to delay gratification without telling me to delay gratification"
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  • @ItsMeRuff
    @ItsMeRuff  Рік тому +129

    YOU DIDNT HAVE TO CUUUUT ME OFF MAKE OUT LIKE IT NEVER HAPPENED AND THAT WE WERE NOTHIN'... CUZ YOU TREAT ME LIKE A STRANGER AND I FEEL SO *RUFF*
    join the discord: discord.gg/hC6jtyRned

  • @difevfx3275
    @difevfx3275 Рік тому +214

    Not me waiting for the 'OMG BABE RUFF UPLOADED' guy

  • @s_xm1z
    @s_xm1z 11 місяців тому +50

    I got up to do push ups and my cat woke up and decided to do push ups with me, you are truly inspiring, even for the animal kingdom

    • @djan71
      @djan71 11 місяців тому +2

      awww

    • @soupy7714
      @soupy7714 4 місяці тому

      Even my goldfish out here dropping and giving 5

  • @kaydenfoo-zv7wh
    @kaydenfoo-zv7wh 6 місяців тому +5

    Ngl I was abt to clap my hands when he said”if your happy and you know it..”

  • @Marsh-ml5hr
    @Marsh-ml5hr Рік тому +126

    Ruff chooses the best music and mixes it with banger content and the grind is paying off happy for you bro

  • @gravetunes
    @gravetunes Рік тому +57

    the immense growth on his channel in this short period of time is craaaazy

  • @ifrah392
    @ifrah392 Рік тому +6

    "you look like a question mark" took me off guard lmao

  • @mrjamfrog3286
    @mrjamfrog3286 Рік тому +14

    bro when he mentioned my posture I feel like he could see me through the screen

  • @aaronjohnson5182
    @aaronjohnson5182 Рік тому +12

    Just learn gratitude. I'm learning too. Be grateful for what you're given, and life becomes a brighter world.

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  Рік тому +2

      making a video on that separately because thats a whole different thing

    • @aaronjohnson5182
      @aaronjohnson5182 Рік тому

      @@ItsMeRuff Okay good, I only just learned it and it's definitely helped tremendously. The path to enlightenment is such a rewarding one. More people deserve to know the key

  • @jinsflsg
    @jinsflsg Рік тому +7

    Yeah i agreeee! A year ago or smtng i wrote in my notes app "i wonder if happiness is a choice or a consequence of our choices" i feel like this video explains it

  • @R_jenn
    @R_jenn Рік тому +27

    Ruff always makes me happy and laugh probably because how relatable this shit is, kinnda sucks knowing that ppl know how u feel 😭. I'm always waiting for a new upload. :)
    But seriously ruff should make a podcast I'll listen to it everyday
    Be happy btches.

  • @dosilebanana5087
    @dosilebanana5087 Рік тому +2

    I've been loving your a- videos very much, they've helped me understand some thoughs I didn't comprehend while going through some bad times.

  • @lilwateru7186
    @lilwateru7186 Рік тому +2

    your growth has been so damn rapid
    watching people like you just remind me that individuals still exist

  • @shempthedog8923
    @shempthedog8923 Рік тому +16

    You earned a new sub, this is some the realest stuff I’ve ever heard. You deserve a lot more recognition

  • @ash-lm4ob
    @ash-lm4ob Рік тому

    bro u put out the best content no joke , give out the best vibe to fr

  • @justarandomgirl7960
    @justarandomgirl7960 Рік тому +2

    I just love this kind of person

  • @theytis
    @theytis Рік тому +1

    i subscribed to you 2 days ago and you were at around 8K and youre at 9.73K today
    the growth is INSANE

  • @rcmlit9767
    @rcmlit9767 Рік тому

    bro your content is refreshing with being educational i dont know why people dont subscribe to you
    keep up the good work man i just found you like 3 4 days ago and i am addicted to your content idk why
    its like i relate to you like i relate to hamza

  • @Srv.0
    @Srv.0 Рік тому

    Love the videos man thank you for this video, in particular, I just lost a lot recently and I’ve been down so this helped me feel better. Keep it up new sub unlocked i’m going to watch all your videos right now muwah good luck:)

  • @The_Jazziest_Coffee
    @The_Jazziest_Coffee Рік тому

    that makes so much more sense, you're singaporean
    i used to live in singapore and am a filo myself, but i'm in australia rn so yay
    but in all seirousness, i'm glad you make these videos
    perhaps it's obvious as you learn these things as you develop, but it seriously helps to be given these kinds of videos to have different perspectives

  • @mamounebouabidii
    @mamounebouabidii Рік тому +4

    Dude you give gerbert, Hamza vibes but with a very unique style, glad i discovered this gem

  • @wasd-ut1qw
    @wasd-ut1qw 6 місяців тому +1

    I love so much those old Ruff videos

  • @solrise4045
    @solrise4045 Рік тому

    Road to 10k!! love your stuff keep it up 🤝

  • @lihinib2997
    @lihinib2997 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for the video ❤️❤️❤️

  • @swordofcronus0
    @swordofcronus0 Рік тому +3

    This guy is literally therapy

  • @Ali-fx6jd
    @Ali-fx6jd Рік тому +2

    Man I thank the youtube algorithem. I found ur channel like 3 days ago and its such a good channel. Oh and btw I stopped listening to muic for like the secound day now. I want music to be meaningful to me. Thank you very much

  • @axtr998
    @axtr998 Рік тому +4

    happy 9K man

  • @moosman4217
    @moosman4217 Рік тому +3

    you make amazing content fr

  • @bobityskopyas
    @bobityskopyas Рік тому +27

    you told us to do 5 push ups and that turned into 10 then 20 30 i am so motivated right now thanks

  • @divyamthacker2498
    @divyamthacker2498 Рік тому

    Your videos make me happy!

  • @balisongandlife
    @balisongandlife Рік тому

    Bro is just spitting banger after banger

  • @mahatma14
    @mahatma14 Рік тому

    RUFF ALMOST 10K WHAT UR GROWING SO FAST

  • @chununcut
    @chununcut Рік тому +5

    ur choices that you choose can you lead to more happiness.
    you cannot just switch mindset and be happy. you need to do something positive, productive and fulfilling to be happy.
    childlike happiness (yipee) is a lie.
    which is why alot of people think they cannot get happiness, they conflate happiness with childlike happiness.
    which is wrong.

  • @loleimi
    @loleimi Рік тому

    WHAT THE HELL UR ALMOST AT 10k ALREADY IM SO PROUD

  • @eternitytech9079
    @eternitytech9079 9 місяців тому

    One of your best videos

  • @nityareddy7554
    @nityareddy7554 Рік тому

    glad I found this channel.

  • @samarthnarang2184
    @samarthnarang2184 10 місяців тому

    I am watching your videos from india and they are still very relatable and helpful

  • @aspirant7445
    @aspirant7445 Рік тому

    He'll be on 100k this month, Trust me ! ❤

  • @papayerc
    @papayerc Рік тому +1

    When ruff uploads. I watch.

  • @sukrrx5887
    @sukrrx5887 Рік тому

    The 1st one!!!!! Love ya

  • @huda..
    @huda.. Рік тому +10

    i would be euphoric if i could spend life as a cat ngl

  • @likccle
    @likccle Рік тому

    It's fun listening to you

  • @liaheartfilia3118
    @liaheartfilia3118 11 місяців тому

    Thats why sadness in inside out is the main lesson of the movie not always joy

  • @djgi7215
    @djgi7215 Рік тому +3

    OMGG BABE WAKE UPPP RUFF JUST UPLOADEEEEEEEEED!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @furrybeater9138
    @furrybeater9138 Рік тому +1

    RUFF POSTED RUFF POSTED!!! HOLY MOLY SMHOLY BABE RUFF POSTEDDD

  • @AshiruTewagari
    @AshiruTewagari Рік тому

    Being younger than me and being wiser my man is really something.
    Specially when most ppl think of me as wise😂

  • @sarzawt
    @sarzawt Рік тому

    this kid is the most real chad on this platform ong

  • @guitarstuff1342
    @guitarstuff1342 Рік тому +1

    My guy has the wisdom of a 50 year old sage that lives In the forest inside of a cabin he built for himself and eats food he hunted/forgeried for.

  • @PenumbraDweller
    @PenumbraDweller Рік тому

    ngl choosing to be happy worked for me
    just had to remodel my mind to do so
    took me the better part of year

  • @hailhi-
    @hailhi- Рік тому

    You sir gained a subscriber

  • @vully1048
    @vully1048 Рік тому

    Ruff been him🗣🔥🔥🔥

  • @dominikmullner6616
    @dominikmullner6616 Рік тому +2

    10:02 If you happy and you know it clap your hands 😂

  • @Lemon_Lime_2
    @Lemon_Lime_2 Рік тому

    oh my god ruff uploaded GATHER AROUND BOYS

  • @DigitalDetox._.
    @DigitalDetox._. Рік тому

    1:10 this is so true you as person really inspire me thanks ruff for such quality content, watching you since 30k like since 2 weeks ago, I love your content keeping it all the very best for your future and also 100k coming soon in like 2 weeks bye

    • @scenetury
      @scenetury 11 місяців тому

      he actually did hit 100k in 2weeks lol

  • @marburg8697
    @marburg8697 Рік тому +1

    Its 1 am but gonna watch it anyway

  • @dion9120
    @dion9120 Рік тому

    10k this week
    trust

  • @colbyfroude2941
    @colbyfroude2941 Рік тому

    That push-up request caught me off guard but I did em 💪

  • @MissSOULGaming
    @MissSOULGaming Рік тому

    We all want to be happy. It just dumb when people come to me and tell me "Stop being depressed. Be positive. Be happy".

  • @squash9189
    @squash9189 11 місяців тому +1

    Ruff: you have trash posture
    Me: OH WHAT, HOW DID HE KNOW??? *confusion*
    Ruff: you look like a question mark
    dang bro, got me good there

  • @warmedpop6186
    @warmedpop6186 Рік тому +7

    Hey, ruff thank you for the videos you post there truly inspiring. You've inspired me to take a firm step in the direction to improve myself and I was thinking of making a youtube channel. but because i have no experience in improving myself I can't make videos like you but I'd like to start making some sort of content could you give me some tips for finding ideas? and if you don't end up responding to this thank you again for your content I can already see you as a big-time UA-camr in the future!

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  Рік тому +10

      set up ur phone camera and just talk for 30 minutes without distraction. whatever yr brain comes up with thats probably what u actually wanna talk about. u just need ur brain’s raw thoughts to come out. its probably gonna be stutter filled and awkward but u can cut those parts out. do that twice a week for 3 months and post whatever you’ve talked about regardless of what it is and use editing to make it as quality as possible. you’ll find yourself slowly latching onto ideas which u can develop on. but rn u have nothing to develop on so start first. u gotta upload a couple bad videos before u can make a good one

  • @eel7157
    @eel7157 Рік тому

    The facebook memorial part hit hard-

  • @akua802
    @akua802 Рік тому

    The push up at the end made my ribs hurt

  • @P_money10
    @P_money10 Рік тому

    🔥

  • @mrgibson04
    @mrgibson04 Рік тому

    YEEEEESSSSS SIIRRRR!

  • @jordain4440
    @jordain4440 Рік тому

    W vid as usual

  • @arnauadell4824
    @arnauadell4824 Рік тому +1

    Happiness is for people who have nothing to do.
    Imagine you're a bee in summertime. You can a) be happy and just enjoy the day, or b) work, collect honey, stock up for the winter. If you choose to be happy instead of performing, boom now winter is here and thousands of your sisters starve to death. Why are you sitting around trying to be happy, when you could be collecting honey? You want to avoid major unhappiness sources: too much stress + inability to rest, people around you who impact you negatively, etc. But, as a baseline, happiness is just your brain telling you "good job" after you've done the work. Seek happiness? Seek the praise of your brain? Work.

  • @ItsJanMV
    @ItsJanMV Рік тому

    Take action

  • @zakoncrack9805
    @zakoncrack9805 Рік тому +2

    9k let’s go

  • @ligth3977
    @ligth3977 Рік тому

    I enjoy pain. Without pain, happiness would be meaningless.

  • @jwt77
    @jwt77 Рік тому

    Just writing this to say i was here before he got bigger lol

  • @sonarikagod
    @sonarikagod Рік тому +1

    1:14 had me dying 🤣🤣👀

  • @utkarshsingh4489
    @utkarshsingh4489 Рік тому

    bro from 40 to to 9k this fast ! omg

  • @VedantThaplyal
    @VedantThaplyal Рік тому

    Road to 10K LESSSSGOOOOOOOOOO

  • @grimkid-
    @grimkid- Рік тому

    best yter

  • @yannecc
    @yannecc Рік тому

    bars

  • @somi1707
    @somi1707 Рік тому

    if ur not happy and waNNA BE HAPPY earn it

  • @hiephuynh853
    @hiephuynh853 11 місяців тому

    10:30 i was eating then stop when u count down then do push-ups , almost choking lol

  • @TheFlopster
    @TheFlopster Рік тому

    this man just made 100s of people do 5 pushups

  • @boystarheart9236
    @boystarheart9236 11 місяців тому

    when you start counting i somehow panicked and actually do the push ups whilst cursing you

  • @obido8971
    @obido8971 Рік тому

    w thumbnail

  • @SamuBraw
    @SamuBraw Рік тому +1

    Bruh. I like your videos but you should let the text on screen for a bit longer. I couldn't read it without pausing and i got to a point where i just gave up 😭😭. Anyways, keep it up

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  Рік тому +2

      its actually a tactic in youtube lol, since you pause and rewind you add watch time by rewatching a part again. and the more watch time a video gets the more i get paid. a lil sneaky but i think it also adds to the chaotic fast paced nature of the videos. ill tell my editors this so it'll stay on screen a lil longer :))

  • @TehHolySpudBoi
    @TehHolySpudBoi Рік тому

    I DID THE PUSHUPS RAAAAH

  • @shiewwws
    @shiewwws Рік тому +2

    top notch editing ruff, also how's your eye haha

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  Рік тому +1

      functioning :) the doctor was like “theres a 50% chance it will leave something permanent and 50% chance nothing will happen” like bro dis isnt infinity war ain’t no “perfectly balanced as all things should be” but im fine now

    • @shiewwws
      @shiewwws Рік тому +1

      @@ItsMeRuff glad your fine hope they dont dysfunction again [:

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  Рік тому +2

      thanks ruff

    • @shiewwws
      @shiewwws Рік тому +1

      @@ItsMeRuff mm right back at ya ruff mwah

  • @panshul520
    @panshul520 Рік тому +1

    I couldn't do the fifth pushup cuz of that hap-piness joke bro 😅

  • @anvi4811
    @anvi4811 Рік тому +2

    I have music exam tomorrow and u know what I'm human 🤧

    • @usha112
      @usha112 Рік тому

      Best of luck for your exam!

    • @anvi4811
      @anvi4811 Рік тому

      ​@@usha112 thanks bro but your best of luck didn't worked 😂😂

  • @SorcererKiller_68
    @SorcererKiller_68 Рік тому

    Why don't you have 100k Subs bro :/

  • @jeffyloh4712
    @jeffyloh4712 Рік тому

    8:23, I’m Sorry!

  • @Marimarya373
    @Marimarya373 2 місяці тому

    You should watch noman ali khan video about happiness in islam

  • @yeee3602
    @yeee3602 Рік тому

    H0ly sht you're growing fast

  • @spitefulbun
    @spitefulbun 6 місяців тому

    fun fact : those 3 steps might add up to a mile in only 2 years of doing that every day!!!!

  • @daved2756
    @daved2756 Рік тому

    Yo, this account is...interesting

  • @lennart3815
    @lennart3815 Рік тому

    Why you can't just "choose" to be happy; lie self limeting belive bro just be happy ez dont understand how people cant be happy its so esay

  • @Arvanq
    @Arvanq Рік тому

    there u are, 10k. 490k more to go.

  • @blackshadow3508
    @blackshadow3508 Рік тому

    This consistency? How? Share that secret

  • @0okupant
    @0okupant Рік тому

    Bro are you sub botting how are you at almost 10k now….
    (Nice job on the growth tho bro 💋)

  • @weglowing
    @weglowing Рік тому

    hey I love u

  • @tonysimps5071
    @tonysimps5071 Рік тому

    Your like Asian sneako XD also your blowing up super fast

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  Рік тому +2

      isnt sneako half asian? someone called me asian hamza and i was like bro hes born in pakistan hes literally asian

    • @tonysimps5071
      @tonysimps5071 Рік тому

      @@ItsMeRuff I think sneako is Hispanic and Asian lol

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  Рік тому +1

      his dad is from Haiti mom is chinese

  • @itsafish4600
    @itsafish4600 Рік тому

    Ruff

  • @chununcut
    @chununcut Рік тому +6

    happy homeless or depressed millionaire? is a stupid cope question that people use in order to justify their mediocrity.
    homeless are the MOST depressed, they sleep in horrible places, struggle to get food, often are victims of violent crime.
    and rich people are generally happier because they have the majority of their issues solved fiscally. (house,car,food, holiday, kids)
    If you are rich and unhappy you are fundamentally unhappy with a aspect of your life and no money will solve it. That is within.

    • @sparcuhms
      @sparcuhms Рік тому +1

      100% true fr

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  Рік тому +1

      bars.

    • @TyrellJr
      @TyrellJr Рік тому +1

      True I would not be happy if I was homeless

  • @anvi4811
    @anvi4811 Рік тому +1

    Can u make a video on how to journal