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  • what nobody tells you about being a grown up:
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 137

  • @ItsMeRuff
    @ItsMeRuff  Рік тому +86

    EDITED BY OUR SEXY EDITOR: (IG: @king_ofthe_aces)
    pls reply with what u like and dont like bout the editing and follow him too muah

    • @_Cruciality
      @_Cruciality Рік тому +19

      We need uncut footage, I want Skitzophrenic Ruff

    • @digitalstorm3028
      @digitalstorm3028 Рік тому +2

      Similar to previous, I see it as better

    • @sabidbirb9391
      @sabidbirb9391 Рік тому +2

      @@_Cruciality SAME

    • @scalenetomato5633
      @scalenetomato5633 9 місяців тому

      r u missed 1 responsibility at 9:37 but video was super helpful

  • @ABetterPlace332
    @ABetterPlace332 Рік тому +190

    I think the most important thing of "growing up" is to understand that everything is a choice. If you can take ownership of your choices you don't have to conform to anyone else's idea of what a grown up is. Because at the end of the day its you and this life.
    love you ruff

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  Рік тому +32

      based

    • @ABetterPlace332
      @ABetterPlace332 Рік тому +7

      @@ItsMeRuff Is it cool if I use a clip of you in my video as a reference? Your video about why Hamza changed inspired me to make my own version of it

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  Рік тому +11

      @@ABetterPlace332 go ahead

    • @ItsMeYolan
      @ItsMeYolan 11 місяців тому

      Bars

  • @roxycozy9780
    @roxycozy9780 2 місяці тому +4

    "Keeo the childhood dreams"
    ok guys, imma become a fairy mermaid princess 😋

  • @chaitanyadarbar9569
    @chaitanyadarbar9569 Рік тому +90

    i am 23 and frm india and i got into IT industry at the age of 19 and stared earning good but after 4 years i dont feel that good so even at this i am into changing carriers and am goint to start collage again until i am satisfied , so just one advice do what u want until u r satisfied.

    • @yeahwhateva4769
      @yeahwhateva4769 Рік тому +5

      Proud of your decision 🤍

    • @Infinite000
      @Infinite000 Рік тому +6

      Heads of to you hope your family understands your decision if there are the type of "typical Indian family" if not then is good

  • @andrei93
    @andrei93 7 місяців тому +13

    I'm currently a 16 year old on self improvement and I found this video very relieving. It's nice to see likeminded people commenting about the same worries that you have. I really feel like you would achieve a ton in life, Ruff. Thank you for your content!

  • @ABetterPlace332
    @ABetterPlace332 Рік тому +46

    NOT THE SNEAKO PATH!!!!

    • @ABetterPlace332
      @ABetterPlace332 Рік тому

      @@salehmir-gb1ph lmaooo ptsd is real rn

    • @raine8015
      @raine8015 Рік тому +2

      can u give a brief explanation on this, what’s the sneako path

    • @yummydougie
      @yummydougie 11 місяців тому +3

      @@raine8015pretty much the stuff stuff just said in the video lol, joke is because Sneako also went to film school for similar reasons for what I know

    • @raine8015
      @raine8015 11 місяців тому

      @@yummydougie thx

    • @CasterRational
      @CasterRational 8 місяців тому +1

      @@yummydougiebro now u just sound like u making fun of him. Not cool 👎

  • @hanapihlar482
    @hanapihlar482 8 місяців тому +1

    Man i love you i’ve been watching your videos for a month now and it is freaking awsome you helped me change my mindset so much!
    Keep going and growing

  • @cactus_ash5149
    @cactus_ash5149 11 місяців тому +19

    This, helped a lot.
    I was really, really considering just going into a medical field just because my mom wants me to.
    “If you don’t know what you want to do, just go to medical! Then at least you have a stable job.”
    I’ve always known that I never wanted to go into the medical field. But I don’t have my own passion, nothing that I can call my own.
    This video felt like a wake up call, that I shouldn’t be doing something just because people tell me I should, even if it’s my own parents. I don’t know what I’ll do yet, but I hope it’ll be something I enjoy.

    • @deIeted_userr
      @deIeted_userr 6 місяців тому +1

      damn im feeling the exact same way for 3 months now

  • @ulrixsilver
    @ulrixsilver Рік тому +5

    Great video! I just wrote this to make a point about "trying many thing in life" and "phases" on 2:00. It was clear for me what you said, but! You say, what it is not a phase, but, I think, in grand scheme of life it's still a phase! It's just another choice, and you have an every right to make a mistake. But I can agree on - that really sucks when you making a really big choice and it comes up as a wrong one, and it make your life just a pain in ass, but it's still okay - some things just need to be get overcome, I guess...
    Recently I just saw these videos, and surprisingly, through many others, yours are were the ones who hit close to me. Thx for this🤟
    P.S. Just saw that someone literally said same thing in just like 4 words🤣, but, I still think it was better to say it, than just lose it in my mind

  • @eac9349
    @eac9349 Рік тому +11

    I always love to hear you talk ruff. It's just so calming.

    • @bhavneetsamardeep7018
      @bhavneetsamardeep7018 Рік тому +1

      broo frrrrrrrrr no doubt in it............ he is the fucking good man I mean adult theheh

  • @ketiviv
    @ketiviv Рік тому +2

    you made my day again, thanks a lot ruff.

  • @TheBenYang_
    @TheBenYang_ Рік тому +18

    You gotta be one of the wisest 16 yr olds!

  • @rupenbolesmith2366
    @rupenbolesmith2366 Рік тому +11

    A big thanks to my family for letting me chose the shit I chose to study, now I got no one to blame.

  • @Money-Easy-xt1vx
    @Money-Easy-xt1vx Рік тому +2

    When I’m unsure of my next move bc I don’t want to fail again or face my feelings of being in pain or unsure, I feel like I don’t want to let go of u n keep u close haha 🥰❤

  • @Blebis
    @Blebis Рік тому +20

    I'm 16 and I am either graduating to college this year or next year and I got no idea what I want to do. What you said about finding a job that doesn't seem like work to me but is to others is some good advice I will most definitely use this to figure out what I want to do, thank you.

    • @infpboy
      @infpboy 9 місяців тому

      Bro same here 😭

  • @xendra1743
    @xendra1743 Рік тому

    I think your responsibility count is 16 after you mentioned counting it 🦆good video ngl keep it up man

  • @definitelyenisi345
    @definitelyenisi345 Рік тому +1

    What I find difficult is the fact that I know what kind of problems I want to solve in life, I know my talent and skills, I am very skilled in fixing computers and tech but I have no idea where to go. Everyone is choosing what university they want to go to, yet here I am, clueless and bad grades because I don't know where I'm gonna study.

  • @studiomocs3758
    @studiomocs3758 11 місяців тому

    If you’re doing film, i recommend getting some film and screenwriting books, especially the Save the Cat! series.

  • @alexmations3914
    @alexmations3914 Рік тому

    Great vids as always 👌

  • @zeroaspect1759
    @zeroaspect1759 Рік тому +5

    Bros In my head. Man has just talked about my thoughts Fr.

  • @Mizuki_2008
    @Mizuki_2008 11 місяців тому

    Hey Ruff , A request please make a video on "How to find your true passion? Or What you really want to do in your life?" Please 🥺 Ruff..❣️

  • @nothingdos
    @nothingdos Рік тому +3

    Tough luck for that bus driver

  • @justnerick
    @justnerick Рік тому

    Sensetional as always

  • @beun883
    @beun883 3 місяці тому

    I really love this video

  • @anvi4811
    @anvi4811 Рік тому

    Congratulations ruff 🎉

  • @erehh8381
    @erehh8381 11 місяців тому

    This boy is very similar to me in terms of mindset, I love his videos. 😂

  • @eyu854
    @eyu854 11 місяців тому +2

    This guy feels me

  • @azharbaloch8909
    @azharbaloch8909 Рік тому +6

    I am a medical student and I feel like I am studying for someone else dream. My grandfather wanted my mom to be a doctor but after his death, my mom quit studying and started doing a job. now she wants me to be a doctor. you know what I study really hard i push myself to the extra mile but I am not happy. now I am seriously tired. Every time I start studying I only question myself am I on the right path? I know that this is not my passion this is not what I wanna be and now I am so afraid of my future. I even have a chance to change it now but i am afraid to again shatter all dreams of my mom in front of me. For 16 year old me growing up sure is painful

    • @Nisha.lilac9
      @Nisha.lilac9 Рік тому +2

      Bro I'm an engineering student and got into that just because my father always says how no one guided him into the right path and financially supported him so he ended up being a businessman
      And yeah I'm also 16 and can study science and maths but I dunno why literature attracts me
      Its really very hard to face my parents sometimes especially when they ask *Are you able to do everything* and I say *yes everything's fine* but my mind's screaming *No I don't wanna do this anymore*

  • @taki536
    @taki536 Рік тому +2

    hi, I wanted to ask if you had any book recommandations? bc I kinda want to look even deeper into these whole things :) and thanks for the encouragement and motivation! ( Your videos kind of brought me back on the right path...)

  • @XiaNicoleJacob
    @XiaNicoleJacob Місяць тому

    I loveyou ruff you're now my therapist

  • @arhanbhat4730
    @arhanbhat4730 11 місяців тому +5

    but how do you find a passion? There’s so many things I sort of enjoy… but nothing jumps out at me. I’m 15 and I’m doing well, but I don’t know what I’m going to do in the future or have any super strong passion. Any tips?

    • @abhilashp4439
      @abhilashp4439 10 місяців тому +1

      Exact same question!!!!!!

  • @heroraindrop1614
    @heroraindrop1614 Рік тому +1

    goated influencer

  • @user-kl4bf1kc2u
    @user-kl4bf1kc2u 11 місяців тому +5

    I'm 16 and I'm very stupid.

  • @huismus111
    @huismus111 Рік тому +4

    Bro has pretty much had the same hobbies as me haha, i been in the speedcubing, card magic, chess etc.

  • @lordzockt1853
    @lordzockt1853 Рік тому

    Fr only opend yt for ur upload ty

  • @Mizo782
    @Mizo782 Рік тому

    HYPEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

  • @mooran
    @mooran 10 місяців тому

    what do you think about the book "so good they can't ignore you" by cal newport. i don't really remember much the content of the book, but i remember that it says to not follow your passion. it says to be good at something that is rare and valuable and like, so good they can't ignore you. by beeing so good at that thing, you could have the freedom, the control, and the fulfilment in work that you do. as someone who doesn't have any passion whatsoever, i generally agree with what he's saying in the book. but, as you said in your video, you've tried so many things and film making seems to be the one that clicked to you, something that you enjoy doing. i believe you should pursue that, or at least try to. by pursuing what you believe to be your passion, at least you won't have the burden of not trying what you believe you should do.

  • @user-te7xu7gw9z
    @user-te7xu7gw9z 9 місяців тому

    wow i can relate. I also lost my molar tooth this year.

  • @difevfx3275
    @difevfx3275 Рік тому +1

    Omg omg omgomg yesssssssssss 🥚

  • @SARAyhi
    @SARAyhi Рік тому

  • @sumyilaw3298
    @sumyilaw3298 Рік тому +1

    Hi Ruff. Where are you from? Your English is so good.

  • @difevfx3275
    @difevfx3275 Рік тому

    4:49 BARS FAM MY DAYS

  • @vedikadhonge6671
    @vedikadhonge6671 Рік тому +3

    What if you dont have anything you like? because at times youre interested in literally everything and the others, youre into nothing?
    idk if its just me but i dont have anything specific that i "like" or any "passion" as such lol

  • @thorn9382
    @thorn9382 Рік тому +5

    I turned 18 like last week lol
    I'm still in school tho cause some shit happened while I was growing up and I didn't get placed into school until a year too late

    • @youssefgamal8589
      @youssefgamal8589 11 місяців тому

      The same problem. and I failed a year due to some silly issues 😔

  • @eel7157
    @eel7157 Рік тому +3

    I like the passion path but continuously im told and reminded of the "craftsman's mindset", find something (not your passion but something that'll give you financiall security ikik) and work towards it with all your energy, which will make you like that something cause you're devoting all your energy and time into it, which in return will make you spent even more time in it and like it even more
    There are quite some flaws with this, but... No one's perfect
    :[ Opinion: this just makes me confused

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  Рік тому +10

      thats kinda gaslighting urself… thats like if u got married to a random person and just said “I MEAN IF WE’RE TOGETHER FOR LONG ENOUGH ILL GET TO LIKE HER EVENTUALLY RIGHT” i mean yeah its possible but theres got to be some logical foundation behind the choice.

    • @eel7157
      @eel7157 Рік тому +6

      @@ItsMeRuff As an Indian, that's fine 💀
      And the logic behind the craftsman's mindset is money, cause money gets you freedom to do things you want. Ofcourse time is not being highlighted here

    • @princess_zulica
      @princess_zulica Рік тому

      i think that could be true if you enjoy some aspects like for example if youre an attourney and you enjoy helping ppl out or something, but true fullfillment and drive comes from looking deep within and doing what you want. that drive makes you wake up everyday to achieve your dream passions. vs this mindset that forces you to grind so you can get money or smth like that. you could grow to love what you do, ofc thats possible, but isnt it much more amazing to find what you love and be able to grow from that?

    • @taki536
      @taki536 Рік тому +1

      ​@@eel7157but why do you wait and work for the money to do what you want to do if you could just do it rght now? the only thing to do is to START :)

  • @nasaoa
    @nasaoa Рік тому

    LETS GO BANNA SUOCE

  • @triakshkapoor7530
    @triakshkapoor7530 4 місяці тому +1

    9:36 missed this responsibility
    i should really get a life

  • @Mizo782
    @Mizo782 Рік тому +1

    You got an editor now bro?

  • @Infinite000
    @Infinite000 Рік тому +1

    1. Do I always do this mistake of connecting every whichever person to my bestfriend's older/future version because you bahaves 90% of time like my bestfriend and our english teacher also have the same way of taking and thoughts like her like the talking behaviour and way of behaving+ same energy level or or or every experienced (in a action way like when take or do many things you get more and more experience, right ) person / smart person talks this way and behaves this way and have these types of thoughts ?

    • @Infinite000
      @Infinite000 Рік тому +1

      2. The " schizophrenic line was a joke right?

  • @purpure_mushroom9208
    @purpure_mushroom9208 Рік тому

    wow ur videos are mad funny when u high sober to

  • @cosinnego217
    @cosinnego217 Рік тому

    chess mentioned

  • @viewthechannel
    @viewthechannel 4 місяці тому

    NO WAY THAT SCREENSHOT

  • @afritect1445
    @afritect1445 4 місяці тому

    The funny thing is that i enjoy numbers, so my parents have no problem 😂

  • @nasaoa
    @nasaoa Рік тому +1

    DABABY

  • @tatianamoonbeam
    @tatianamoonbeam 4 місяці тому

    he being a child at the start of the video, but at the end he damn he said the *** truth

  • @avinashkarthik8677
    @avinashkarthik8677 Рік тому +1

    w doctor

  • @ItsJanMV
    @ItsJanMV Рік тому

    Take action

  • @editorriri
    @editorriri 5 місяців тому

    11:20 I was so confused at what he was throwing at us in the end 😅

    • @Abrhm77
      @Abrhm77 5 місяців тому

      its cards

  • @jordain4440
    @jordain4440 Рік тому

    w video

  • @larkxd2660
    @larkxd2660 Рік тому +1

    10:38 zesty

  • @YesTheIII
    @YesTheIII Рік тому

    Yes

  • @whome3694
    @whome3694 Рік тому

    This is giving me sneako vibes.

    • @cosmos3128
      @cosmos3128 Рік тому

      na

    • @whome3694
      @whome3694 Рік тому +1

      @@cosmos3128 I’m talking about the old sneako. And he literally has sneako in the video you can’t deny it bro😭

  • @r.srinidhi7887
    @r.srinidhi7887 8 місяців тому

    How abt journalism or geography, literature, etc😅

  • @Dwoggo
    @Dwoggo Рік тому +1

    let my kids go

  • @mzamilbr
    @mzamilbr Рік тому

    I wonder when you enlist how life going to be? Why can’t you do Med and be UA-camr same time?

  • @araisboki5052
    @araisboki5052 Рік тому

    slayyyyyy

  • @yummydougie
    @yummydougie 11 місяців тому

    16 is considered an adult?

  • @beezybxyyy1131
    @beezybxyyy1131 Рік тому

    So i need more responsibilities for success

    • @princess_zulica
      @princess_zulica Рік тому

      you should find your passion, an important responsibilty of yours to fullfill, and work hard to achieve it no matter what others say, in order to be happy

  • @GamerBoy-bf9li
    @GamerBoy-bf9li Рік тому

    why the ending so long?

  • @evan_is_evil
    @evan_is_evil Рік тому +1

    im gonna write a 70 page essy on why AI wont take my job.... wRiTeN bY cHaT gPt oF CoUrSe...

  • @nasaoa
    @nasaoa Рік тому

    1st

  • @lion3914
    @lion3914 Рік тому +1

    Thought dude was 18 😮‍💨

  • @syinari8266
    @syinari8266 Рік тому +1

    bro is 16 bro the same age as me thought you were like 17 18 💀💀

  • @praisezlo
    @praisezlo Рік тому +2

    singapore's sneako

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  Рік тому +1

      welcome to rumble.

    • @praisezlo
      @praisezlo Рік тому

      ​@@ItsMeRuff It is only a matter of time until you start making wild conspiracy theory videos and go towards the Amos Yee or Sneako route after milking tf out of self-improvement talks LOL

  • @AlexEubankXTrenTwinsClips
    @AlexEubankXTrenTwinsClips Рік тому

    nah bro if u haven't tried to be a pro rubiks cuber in ur life idk then ur an npc

  • @saniarnadaf6138
    @saniarnadaf6138 Рік тому +1

    Ik ur smart

  • @MichalWck
    @MichalWck Рік тому

    Yo you do cycling?? What kind?

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  Рік тому

      i just cycle for fun i cycle as far as i can

    • @MichalWck
      @MichalWck Рік тому

      @@ItsMeRuff bro wtf i do literally the same just go out and ride wherever. Once did 50km out of nowhere

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  Рік тому +2

      im going cycling tmr so thats fun. you ever just feel the urge to cycle far from society and just explore i think das the ooga booga caveman inside of us just wanting us to explore

    • @MichalWck
      @MichalWck Рік тому

      @@ItsMeRuff yeah my "ooga booga" spirit calls me lol

  • @ShubhamSony-ky4ks
    @ShubhamSony-ky4ks 10 місяців тому

    Forgot the responsibility count at 9:38

  • @SheriffArthurMorgan
    @SheriffArthurMorgan Рік тому

    How old are you bro?

  • @proteenshaikh
    @proteenshaikh Рік тому +3

    bro is 16 wtf ?

  • @kaizenyasou6963
    @kaizenyasou6963 2 місяці тому

    Where is the bars

  • @dumpling_mochi521
    @dumpling_mochi521 Рік тому +1

    Not the chinese accent.

  • @coggymilk
    @coggymilk Рік тому +1

    This is perfect because I turned 18 today

  • @MarteenZack
    @MarteenZack Рік тому +1

    u need an instagram acc immediately (pls)

  • @eleanorcheung1152
    @eleanorcheung1152 Рік тому

    Literally helped w my inner conflict🫶thanks for vid