Someone needs to create a meme roast “he was narcissistic, self centered , manipulative ,sensation seeking ,cold ,callous had a sense of entitlement and was exceedingly creepy. 💀
If your estranged husband/boyfriend wants to "have a heart-to-heart" with you, alone, DO NOT ACCEPT. He's not sorry, he doesn't want to make up, he is going to k*ll you. Leaving a narcissist is the most dangerous thing a woman can do, because HE WILL come for you.
Both genders scorned can be psychotic... If you're ever in such a position, treat it like a first date with a stranger. Go somewhere very public and with loads of cameras like McDonald's. Have a friend take you and bring you home again. You probably should have the friend sit in on the whole meeting like a lawyer in a police interview so you don't agree to something stupid. Remember - it's a first date of sorts... Don't rush back in. Have a few more dates.
@@Kerry-od4clsure it is. While men and women should be able to be careful when dealing with narcissistic partners who have being caught cheating and wants to meet to deal with the issue alone best for either the man or woman victim not go alone.
What an absolute scumbag evil! His wife gave up her career to care for their kids while he was cheating on her. And don’t let me get started on the other woman. What kind of woman will sleep with a married man knowing full well he had a family. What a beautiful lady Maria was! This is so infuriating and sad!
I agree with everything except the part about giving up her career. Her career is her family and her children. That is what a woman should be doing, although the Adultery was of course wrong and I thought she was much more attractive than his mistress.
@@vickichristensen422no it is not. Women are not one dimensional and we are capable of being equal to our partners. Women being at the mercy at men end up in situations like this.
@@seanceknowles2911 It has nothing to do with equality, unless you're implying that a life dedicated to raising children is somehow less than a career outside the home while leaving your kids with strangers all day. If a woman prefers staying at home to raise her children, that's honorable, selfless, and noble. If a woman wants a career outside the home, that's fine as well. Most women can do most jobs as well as well or better than a man. But she shouldn't have children that she'll outsource for their upbringing.
That depends... If the ultimatum is regarding cheating, then yes. If it's about something like hoarding of old newspapers, there's a much higher chance.
@@tin2001 Watch a few episodes of hoarders and you might change your mind about that. Often chronic hoarders are given an ultimatum by their partner and often they choose their filthy hoard OVER their partner. It's nuts!
the sweetie is never worth killing your wife and going to jail for. If Joel had been halfway as smart as he thought he was, he would have ended the affair. He'd still be a free man.
I trusted my wife more than anyone else on the planet. ...until I learned she's been having an affair for the last two years. She's done as soon as I get proof so that she doesn't get to profit from MY ASSETS.
I couldn’t forget about it, I would move on. I also could not take a man from his wife and kids. It’s awful. If you aren’t in love just go but the bouncing back and forth wouldn’t be me.
@@tinawindham6958 sometimes trying to understand things like that is just pointless. We're not dealing with rational individuals. These are human beasts guided by raw emotion
I know murderers are a rare breed in society, less than 2 percent. But the amount of stories Grande reviews makes it seems like an everyday occurrence.
All of these cases where one spouse kills another over infidelity, particularly when the cheater is the one committing the crime, seem to borne strictly out of evil.
Janet is just as culpable as the cheating husband. They deserve each other. Poor Maria. And those poor children growing up without parents. Very tragic.
This is such bullshit. Some men (myself) start going to the gym to become more attractive to our wives. In this scenario obviously this wasn’t the case but telling women they should beware of their husbands trying to better themselves is just gross.
My husband has ALWAYS been into fitness even way before we got together. It is only could be a tell tell sign if it’s accompanied with other behaviors.
Dr Grande is comforting. I absolutely cherish and love this guy! Everything about him, his voice, mannerisms, delivery, sense of humor, word choices etc - it all has this wonderful way of making one feel safe and protected.. I am a grown man who was raised in the 60s, I need no safe spaces or protection to be happy. but listening to Dr Grande give me this wonderful feeling of exactly that, of being safe and protected... Don't fully understand it - maybe Dr G can explain it! LOL
I don’t understand how an adult (or so-called adult) doesn’t care enough about his kids to simply divorce and accept the financial hit as the cost of his cheating behavior?
Super weird how you people rush to suggest abandonment rather than the optimal: being faithful in your marriage. Its like suggesting you should punch someone in the face rather than unalive them. Both are evil to some degree. I see a lot of comments like this. Maybe im missing something but it seems like a promotion of divorce
He's a cheater! Why would she wonder what to do. He says in the interview "I love my gf" and then sleeps with his ex. The guy doesn't know what love is. Don't waste your time on people like him!
My ex-husband was a police officer. He went to the gym every day. Unbeknownst to me, I strongly believe (looking back on the situation) he was using steroids. He tried to choke and kill me, he had bouts of rage that would come out of nowhere. Crazy stuff.
One minute in, I’m hearing about another cheating and abusive partner. I had to put the video in my saved list. I’ll watch it later. I love Dr. Grande, but I don’t have it in me today.
The fact that the dude was okay hurting the Mother of his children speaks to the selfishness of his character. It's a pattern of behaviors I've seen in other adults I've known who have toxic relationships--the only thing that matters are the selfish, hedonistic desires. The children become weapons the cheater uses to hurt the other partner. (On a side note, I am no longer associated with the people I referred to. Too much BS)
How is it that there is such lax accountability for drugs from that hospital? When I was active as a perfusionist, all medical personnel had to sign out and fully document everything. There was ongoing surprise drug testing as well. What has changed and how did the hospital not suspect something was going on? (The pharmacy, OR/ER depts should have seen the discrepancies from one week to the next or one month to the next.)
Perhaps this man was involved with the paperwork or indicated he used more drugs than he actually did in legitimate treatments, and then tool the "surplus".
If you’re in a situation like this and don’t know what to do, listen up. Let him/her go and enjoy his/hers new love interest, sit tight and watch how they themselves end up in a horrible situation. If the spouse comes back imploring you take them back, avoid doing so at all costs. Value yourself and find someone that respects your value. Hope it helps and yes, it is that simple.
He administered enough drugs & in combination to kill an elephant. I audibly gasped out loud. No person would do this to themselves - they alone would pass out before completing this cocktail of 7 different drugs. The Narcan was just so he could say 'I tried to revive her.' Absolutely wicked.
@@Hatbox948 Yup, his bs explanation about "trying to calm her down" is honestly pathetic. He tried to calm her down but injected her with a substance which at best would make her unconcious and at worst would take her life? Sure, Jan...
To anyone watching this that got “that feeling” you’re not alone. Stop forgiving the unfaithful partner. Make a plan to leave and do it. Don’t tell anyone except your own family. You got this. 🥹🫶 it hurts but so does a paper cut it stings really bad but this one you never have to feel again. Protect your peace, your heart, your life.
Maria’s girlfriends all said there’s no way she’d let Joel inject her. They said they KNOW he drugged her favorite coffee drink to knock her out in order to put that catheter in her arm, so that he could kill her. The Narcan was a ruse by Joel to cover himself for when he knew he’d have to tell the authorities that he tried to save her from “her” overdosing herself. He knew he gave her too many drugs to survive, and that little bit of Narcan wouldn’t save her, but he thought it would help support his story of trying to revive her since he claimed she took the drugs herself.
Trying to leave a pathological narcissist is the most dangerous time in the relationship. And cannot follow the same protocols one would follow with a normal person.
Listening to your cases & all the other crime stories, I realize I'm so disappointed & disgusted by many most humans. Great breakdown & pics. Thanks Dr G😊🤎🤎
So sad that the children lost their mother. So sad Maria never got the respect and love she deserved. Joel is a scumbag as is the woman willing to help destroy a family.🙏
What a cad. Her poor children. Inconceivable. And that horrible side chick. Please. Come on. Stop messing around on your spouse or go after married people.
WHY🤔 TF would he kill her? ...& to do it so soon after requesting a reconciliation sit-down is beyond logic -IF - expecting to get away w/ it. I feel for those boys who have now lost BOTH parents. 😢
@Softtwilight • I get that, but it just chaps my ass to see how one can not value the life of another, especially one they claim to have love for 🤷🏾♀️😔.
This one made me ill, so many people work in a field that is meant to help people,doctors' nurses, arrogant self-centered manipulative'narcissistic sometimes even psychopathic, it is too bad that pretty young woman was not strong enough to get away from that freak. What a waste.
Propofol!!!! As a nurse anesthetist, he could have access to the same drug that killed Michael Jackson. You bet your sweet bippy, as they used to say on Rowan and Martin's Laugh-In he's guilty. Sad, tragic story 😢
My wife wanted me to change when I wanted the best of both worlds. I thank god I returned to my wife and came to my senses. Stayed married for46 years until her untimely death. RIP my dear. 🌹
The best of both worlds is being married but also having a mistress? Even putting it that way sounds like you thoroughly enjoyed it. IMO, men who cheat do not love their wives, and women who refuse physical intimacy don’t love their husbands, unless they physically are not able to.
Thank you Dr. Grande, another great analysis. She was so young, and she died because she loved him, he is evil, selfish, he didn't just kill her, he left a family without their loved one, worse yet... left his own children without their mother.
Their poor children will suffer the most.
Always. What a nasty man.
As usual in cases like this 😢
Someone needs to create a meme roast “he was narcissistic, self centered , manipulative ,sensation seeking ,cold ,callous had a sense of entitlement and was exceedingly creepy. 💀
It’s like in the film ‘9 to 5’ when they tell the boss (in their fantasies) that he’s, “A sexist, egotistical, lying, hypocritical bigot.”
Don’t forget Grandiose!
Bars
No don’t blame him alone cause she chose him over millions others
@@TheBOG3 No don’t blame him alone cause she chose him over millions others
If your estranged husband/boyfriend wants to "have a heart-to-heart" with you, alone, DO NOT ACCEPT. He's not sorry, he doesn't want to make up, he is going to k*ll you. Leaving a narcissist is the most dangerous thing a woman can do, because HE WILL come for you.
@@Kat-tr2ig and leaving a narcissistic woman; both can definitely be lethal when they don’t get their ways!
Both genders scorned can be psychotic... If you're ever in such a position, treat it like a first date with a stranger. Go somewhere very public and with loads of cameras like McDonald's. Have a friend take you and bring you home again. You probably should have the friend sit in on the whole meeting like a lawyer in a police interview so you don't agree to something stupid.
Remember - it's a first date of sorts... Don't rush back in. Have a few more dates.
@@Kerry-od4cl Male or female, narcissists can be very dangerous when things do not go their way.
👌@@Kerry-od4cl
@@Kerry-od4clsure it is. While men and women should be able to be careful when dealing with narcissistic partners who have being caught cheating and wants to meet to deal with the issue alone best for either the man or woman victim not go alone.
What an absolute scumbag evil! His wife gave up her career to care for their kids while he was cheating on her. And don’t let me get started on the other woman. What kind of woman will sleep with a married man knowing full well he had a family.
What a beautiful lady Maria was! This is so infuriating and sad!
I agree with everything except the part about giving up her career. Her career is her family and her children. That is what a woman should be doing, although the Adultery was of course wrong and I thought she was much more attractive than his mistress.
@@vickichristensen422no it is not. Women are not one dimensional and we are capable of being equal to our partners.
Women being at the mercy at men end up in situations like this.
Maria was beautiful inside and out.
@@vickichristensen422 You know full well what "career" is referring in the above context.
@@seanceknowles2911 It has nothing to do with equality, unless you're implying that a life dedicated to raising children is somehow less than a career outside the home while leaving your kids with strangers all day. If a woman prefers staying at home to raise her children, that's honorable, selfless, and noble. If a woman wants a career outside the home, that's fine as well. Most women can do most jobs as well as well or better than a man. But she shouldn't have children that she'll outsource for their upbringing.
The answer is simple. If you have to say ultimatum, it's already over.
That depends... If the ultimatum is regarding cheating, then yes.
If it's about something like hoarding of old newspapers, there's a much higher chance.
@tin2001 , the context here is the relationship not hoarding etc..
Devil
@@tin2001 Watch a few episodes of hoarders and you might change your mind about that. Often chronic hoarders are given an ultimatum by their partner and often they choose their filthy hoard OVER their partner. It's nuts!
Hoping he completes his full sentence and doesn't get out any sooner. Sorry for the victim and the children. Good video.
the sweetie is never worth killing your wife and going to jail for. If Joel had been halfway as smart as he thought he was, he would have ended the affair. He'd still be a free man.
He won't be popular there, that's for sure.
I would never forgive a man who cheats on me. Trust has been broken. There’s no repairing that for me.
I trusted my wife more than anyone else on the planet. ...until I learned she's been having an affair for the last two years. She's done as soon as I get proof so that she doesn't get to profit from MY ASSETS.
No one should. If a man cheats, he doesn’t love his wife, he’s selfish, and he’s weak. There’s no reason to believe he won’t do it again.
Forgive and move on to a real man ❤
@@cuppycakey5013 - And if a woman cheats she is strong and empowered? Is that right?
I couldn’t forget about it, I would move on. I also could not take a man from his wife and kids. It’s awful. If you aren’t in love just go but the bouncing back and forth wouldn’t be me.
Good money.. good looking women… and now he’ll be taking his good looks to prison until he’s 74 years old.🤩
Can’t make sense of it. I’ll just go to prison and give away everything instead of splitting up with my wife👍🏻 steroids maybe???
@@tinawindham6958 sometimes trying to understand things like that is just pointless. We're not dealing with rational individuals. These are human beasts guided by raw emotion
I know murderers are a rare breed in society, less than 2 percent. But the amount of stories Grande reviews makes it seems like an everyday occurrence.
everyday people who follow the law normally don't make the news
Two percent? That would be insanely high and make a society unlivable
@ I said less than…
Yeah 2 percent seems pretty high. Maybe 0.2? Or less
@ it is technically.01 percent. But, had to look it up. Still less than 2. I was going off the cuff. Give a guy a break, sheesh.
All of these cases where one spouse kills another over infidelity, particularly when the cheater is the one committing the crime, seem to borne strictly out of evil.
"Exceedingly Creepy" that's my Dr Grande bingo card for the day.
Rest in Peace Maria💔
Now two kids have to grow up without their parent❤😢RIP Maria
both parents
@@adotintheshark4848True, but he wasn't worth being considered a parent.
If you cheat on your spouse, you’re a POS. If you knowingly sleep with a married person, you’re also a POS.
The more you know 💫
"Exceedingly creepy" doesn't begin to describe this guy. He is diabolical.
Why was that girl ever with that man to begin with??? Far out of his league in every way - most importantly in the way of actually having a soul
Thats very common, lots of pretty hard working girls having kids with unattractive overly jealous losers
She was way more attractive than the other girl. Its very unfortunate shes gone😢 The guy is stupid and blind🤦
@ both women were too beautiful for him. The other woman was morally bankrupt for knowingly cheating with a married man, though.
@@Nok112 true
Kindness/in love/love b*mbing/father of the kids and a family and not superficial or just loved him?
Rest in peace Maria, I hope those boys are doing okay! Thank you Dr. Grande for another interesting video!
His wife was gorgeous.
Perv
I was thinking the same thing, he was an idiot.
so was the sweetie
Yup...
Lust can never be satisfied
Janet is just as culpable as the cheating husband. They deserve each other. Poor Maria. And those poor children growing up without parents. Very tragic.
Not just as culpable but shes not good
We call them home wreckers. POS, they are.
When a married man starts focussing on their appearance and going to the gym more often to look buff - Beware!
This is such bullshit. Some men (myself) start going to the gym to become more attractive to our wives. In this scenario obviously this wasn’t the case but telling women they should beware of their husbands trying to better themselves is just gross.
Or taking better care of their oral health and wearing Italian imported shoes.
My husband has ALWAYS been into fitness even way before we got together.
It is only could be a tell tell sign if it’s accompanied with other behaviors.
No that’s not true I know a few married men who are really into fitness before and after marriage this doesn’t mean a red flag for a relationship.
Maybe you mean, if a spouse suddenly goes out doing things outside of their routine. That should ring a bell.
Those poor children 😢
Disgusting that he couldn't even love his kids enough
Narcissist only love themselves. They have no soul or heart
So heartbreaking for Maria and her boys. 🙏🏽
I hope the scumbag rots in prison.
Dr Grande discussing ridiculous people is strangely comforting to me.
Dr Grande is comforting. I absolutely cherish and love this guy! Everything about him, his voice, mannerisms, delivery, sense of humor, word choices etc - it all has this wonderful way of making one feel safe and protected.. I am a grown man who was raised in the 60s, I need no safe spaces or protection to be happy. but listening to Dr Grande give me this wonderful feeling of exactly that, of being safe and protected... Don't fully understand it - maybe Dr G can explain it! LOL
@@jasonbender2459I agree. I’m always glad to see a new video drop.
@@jasonbender2459 This is such a great comment & compliment to Doc. You explained exactly what I feel too 😊
I don’t understand how an adult (or so-called adult) doesn’t care enough about his kids to simply divorce and accept the financial hit as the cost of his cheating behavior?
Yup…. Total loser
Personality disordered
Super weird how you people rush to suggest abandonment rather than the optimal: being faithful in your marriage. Its like suggesting you should punch someone in the face rather than unalive them. Both are evil to some degree. I see a lot of comments like this. Maybe im missing something but it seems like a promotion of divorce
@@IconoclastX Humans are not biologically monogamous. Humans are also fickle. So let’s be realistic here.
@jasminecruz No, they are. You are just a 304
He's a cheater! Why would she wonder what to do. He says in the interview "I love my gf" and then sleeps with his ex. The guy doesn't know what love is. Don't waste your time on people like him!
I would cheat on you
love and sex (the concepts) are as unrelated as apples and jet engines...
@@jasonbender2459 You sound like a complete joy... and a moron 🙄
@@jasonbender2459 You sure about that, chief 😂
She wanted his money more than her self respect.
"Babe, you're getting too worked up. Let me help calm you down with an injection of seven different drugs." Yeah, right.
SO sad how parents are too focused on their own pleasure over their kids’ wellbeing!
Love bed 🛏️ desire of love ❤️ passion of love ❤️ different love 💕😘😘😘😘
Joel was thinking with the little head instead of the big one.
Watching with rare snow ❄️ outside, just home from work! Thanks, Dr. Grande! Always coming through with the quality content! ❤
Watching this on Maria's birthday. R.I.P. Maria and happy heavenly birthday ❤️
So heartbreaking 💔 I work at a trauma center. The operating rooms lock from the inside because of thieving creeps like him. Rest in peace, Maria.
I like to see a study linking the use of anabiotic steroids to this type of behavior or action. I think it’s a pretty common catalyst.
Anabolic steroids
Probably a transitive connection through narcissism.
@@nathanfoss2838yeah
More s*x obsessed and sensation seeking but narcissism and more options. I think its not just one thing but am curious
My ex-husband was a police officer. He went to the gym every day. Unbeknownst to me, I strongly believe (looking back on the situation) he was using steroids. He tried to choke and kill me, he had bouts of rage that would come out of nowhere. Crazy stuff.
He killed the mother of his kids.
This is so sad.
Agreed.
Maria was so pretty. She deserved so much better! I hope her two sons are ok.
One minute in, I’m hearing about another cheating and abusive partner.
I had to put the video in my saved list. I’ll watch it later. I love Dr. Grande, but I don’t have it in me today.
The fact that the dude was okay hurting the Mother of his children speaks to the selfishness of his character. It's a pattern of behaviors I've seen in other adults I've known who have toxic relationships--the only thing that matters are the selfish, hedonistic desires. The children become weapons the cheater uses to hurt the other partner. (On a side note, I am no longer associated with the people I referred to. Too much BS)
I hate cheaters.
How is it that there is such lax accountability for drugs from that hospital? When I was active as a perfusionist, all medical personnel had to sign out and fully document everything. There was ongoing surprise drug testing as well. What has changed and how did the hospital not suspect something was going on? (The pharmacy, OR/ER depts should have seen the discrepancies from one week to the next or one month to the next.)
Perhaps this man was involved with the paperwork or indicated he used more drugs than he actually did in legitimate treatments, and then tool the "surplus".
@@tenderstepsPaul In any case, I'm sure his employer was "put on notice" by the attorney handling Maria's estate.
If you’re in a situation like this and don’t know what to do, listen up. Let him/her go and enjoy his/hers new love interest, sit tight and watch how they themselves end up in a horrible situation. If the spouse comes back imploring you take them back, avoid doing so at all costs. Value yourself and find someone that respects your value. Hope it helps and yes, it is that simple.
Absolutely heartbreaking for poor Maria & the kids
The husband was so sloppy, he was practically begging to be caught.
Did he hope to have her cremated quicker than an autopsy 🤷🏽♀️🤨
Yes, hard to fathom.
And with all the medical paraphernalia in the house.
Boy , you really let him have it Dr. Grande.
For the first time , i felt you were personally affected by the cruel fate this woman suffered ... ❤
He’s a girls girl by heart. A husband and father by faith and he is a real man by choice. We love these men. We protect them. As they protect us. 🥹✌️
He administered enough drugs & in combination to kill an elephant. I audibly gasped out loud. No person would do this to themselves - they alone would pass out before completing this cocktail of 7 different drugs. The Narcan was just so he could say 'I tried to revive her.' Absolutely wicked.
FYI, Propofol also killed Michael Jackson. It's not a drug to be used outside of anesthesia settings.
Yeah, taking propofol (in Jackson's case) for sleep is like taking fentanyl for a slight headache...
It sure isn't used to calm people down.
And not suspicious at all that he brought home IV equip and propofol 🤣
@@Hatbox948 Yup, his bs explanation about "trying to calm her down" is honestly pathetic. He tried to calm her down but injected her with a substance which at best would make her unconcious and at worst would take her life? Sure, Jan...
@@Kerry-od4cl I'm suprised that he didn't face additional charges for even having this stuff at home...
requested a "heart to heart but what he really wanted was a heart to stop" 🤣☠ WOAH that came hard! Sign me up!
Came here for the "exceedingly creepy" content. Thanks Dr Grande!
I'd like to understand how Maria could remain in love with her husband, but I can't.
To anyone watching this that got “that feeling” you’re not alone. Stop forgiving the unfaithful partner. Make a plan to leave and do it. Don’t tell anyone except your own family. You got this. 🥹🫶 it hurts but so does a paper cut it stings really bad but this one you never have to feel again. Protect your peace, your heart, your life.
Quite a coincidence that Dr Grande makes a video on a topic right after I watch the 48 hours episode on the same topic on UA-cam. Keep it up Doc!
That’s not a coincidence that’s the algorithm but yeah. Coincidence is a fleeting phenomenon these days. Everyone has an agenda. You’re someone’s NPC.
48 Hours is a great show too
Maria’s girlfriends all said there’s no way she’d let Joel inject her. They said they KNOW he drugged her favorite coffee drink to knock her out in order to put that catheter in her arm, so that he could kill her. The Narcan was a ruse by Joel to cover himself for when he knew he’d have to tell the authorities that he tried to save her from “her” overdosing herself. He knew he gave her too many drugs to survive, and that little bit of Narcan wouldn’t save her, but he thought it would help support his story of trying to revive her since he claimed she took the drugs herself.
I can't stand that guy. Very selfish schmuck. Maria could have replaced him instantly.
It's crazy that Maria would've been 36 exactly today. Very sad situation. RIP Maria 😥
Trying to leave a pathological narcissist is the most dangerous time in the relationship. And cannot follow the same protocols one would follow with a normal person.
Yes! And younger people usually don't know this! So sad!
I love hearing Dr Grande say "ho-el" 200 times
Rip Maria. You didn't deserve this
He's from Puerto Rico. His actions don't surprise me ❤
Maria had beautiful eyes 😢
Thanks!
If my boyfriend/husband cheats on me, he’s going to be the last person to learn that I know.
He had zero concern. Such a sad truth.
So he cheats but she dies???!!! Unbelievable
Listening to your cases & all the other crime stories, I realize I'm so disappointed & disgusted by many most humans. Great breakdown & pics. Thanks Dr G😊🤎🤎
The word insidious comes to mind. RIP Maria. You deserved so much better. I also pray for the boys. :(
Excellent analysis. Thank you, Dr. Grande.
Thank you for all your interesting videos.
Poor Maria. Poor kids. Joel is a monster.
And now he'll never experience the companionship and care of a woman ever again. Lost out all over.
He killed a beautiful woman
Seems true yet irrelevant. Unattractive people matter too.
Hello Dr. Grande, thank you for your informative analysis on this case! I hope the new year is treating you and yours well!
guilty as hell!!
poor kids tho' they lost both parents
Thanks Doc, have a good weekend.
She should had divorced him. It is bad enough he was cheating on her, but took his girlfriend on an overseas trip. That is insane.
Evil guy
He exudes sleaze.
Exceedingly creepy was on my Dr Grande bingo card!
Whats sad is that a tragedy has to happen for Dr Grande to make a video. Whats great is that Dr Grande will never run out of content to produce.
Those are both sad, actually.
Maria was a BABE! Dude not satisfied with a wife like that doesnt deserve ANYONE.
He had zero consideration for his children.
So sad that the children lost their mother. So sad Maria never got the respect and love she deserved. Joel is a scumbag as is the woman willing to help destroy a family.🙏
Another video where children are left with no parents. Dr. G knows how to pull at them heart strings 😫
What a cad. Her poor children. Inconceivable. And that horrible side chick. Please. Come on. Stop messing around on your spouse or go after married people.
The lover realized she might be in danger in he ever gets bored of her
WHY🤔 TF would he kill her? ...& to do it so soon after requesting a reconciliation sit-down is beyond logic -IF - expecting to get away w/ it. I feel for those boys who have now lost BOTH parents. 😢
He didn’t actually want to reconcile. It was a devious ploy.
I think requesting a reconciliation was a trap to get her off her guard so he could kill her.
@Softtwilight • I get that, but it just chaps my ass to see how one can not value the life of another, especially one they claim to have love for 🤷🏾♀️😔.
Yo, Grande. Keep them rolling
😢her writings are heartbreaking 💔 😊
Cut and emotionally run… never try to rationalize with an estranged partner.
Your channel is growing so fast! congrats 👏
Due to his job he would have plenty of knowledge as to how much to give to calm down. Guilty and hopefully he will leave the prison in a casket.
Always learn something new from you, especially in how to analyze people!
Thank you Dr. Grande.
How does a man cheat on such a beautiful woman?? Its insane to me. He was so lucky to have her, and then he does this? What a piece of trash he is!
typically, pretty chicks get to have their choice of men. they quite often choose... poorly....
Do you only see outter beauty ? Or would a common looking woman who had morals, integrity and intelligence be out of the running?
Definitely gorgeous
Men cheat on beautiful women all the time.
@@Traderjoe dude was on roids
Poor Maria.
Poor girl.
This one made me ill, so many people work in a field that is meant to help people,doctors' nurses, arrogant self-centered manipulative'narcissistic sometimes even psychopathic, it is too bad that pretty young woman was not strong enough to get away from that freak. What a waste.
Totally agree with the analysis and feel really bad for Maria.
"Is pee stored in the balls?"
"Well, this is just a theory, my opinion..."
ahhh a fellow med student I see
😂 Funny how the perp always says, "We don't need a lawyer."
Propofol!!!! As a nurse anesthetist, he could have access to the same drug that killed Michael Jackson. You bet your sweet bippy, as they used to say on Rowan and Martin's Laugh-In he's guilty. Sad, tragic story 😢
My wife wanted me to change when I wanted the best of both worlds. I thank god I returned to my wife and came to my senses. Stayed married for46 years until her untimely death. RIP my dear. 🌹
What's "best of both worlds?"
The best of both worlds is being married but also having a mistress? Even putting it that way sounds like you thoroughly enjoyed it. IMO, men who cheat do not love their wives, and women who refuse physical intimacy don’t love their husbands, unless they physically are not able to.
Thank you Dr. Grande, another great analysis.
She was so young, and she died because she loved him, he is evil, selfish, he didn't just kill her, he left a family without their loved one, worse yet... left his own children without their mother.
There are lots and lots of morally bankrupt men and women like them.
His wife was gorgeous. What a fool.
Maria was being narcissistically abused and gaslit--she probably had no idea about narcissism….RIP Maria 🩷🌸♥️…..Justice was served