Thank you for this I feel like I have been losing my best friend recently. We have been friends for 3 years and we have just not been hanging out or doing FaceTime like we did when we were close. I feel like this is my sign that it is ok if she isn’t my best friend anymore. Thank you 🫶🏼☺️
Bro. I lost all my best friends in just 3 months. All my school friends with whom I used to hang out all my life, are just gone. They were of my vibe. I search their vibe in every new friend i make 😭... They just left me like shit😭 crying. They broke my trust but they play the victim card blame it on me and leave....its so hard to move on from someone u loved so much...
same, my best friend and i went do seperate highschools and now she has other best friends and doesn’t seem to have time for me but always time for her new friends 😭
Needed to hear this, Lost a whole friend group and I’m a junior in highschool, it hurts so much that I feel so alone but I guess it’s ment to be this way for now
just officially lost the friend group i made my junior year of high school around 4 years ago . been a slow painful death of me asking why and then pretending like it’s not happening. my best friends and favorite group i’ve ever been a part of tbh but idk drugs change people a lot and moving away changes people a lot and most people don’t like talking about stuff . literally an hour ago or something i kinda read the room and understood
same there is a new girl who came to my school a few months ago and my best friend of 6 years completely abandoned me and my friendship group for her and then the other girls started sucking up to her and trying really hard to get into the new friendship group and they are all quite toxic looking back on it. i’m now close friends with the only other non toxic girl who used to be in the og group and sometimes i wish that the new girl had never come to our school
I feel so bad for this girl in my grade. Last year I was so close with this friend group, that was lasting for about 5 years. I always didn’t feel a real connection with them because we would always get into fights even though I did nothing wrong, they would always call me a lair, mean, etc. But since I’m a sensitive person and a people pleaser it was hard. But this one girl would always tell me that they weren’t the right people but I never believed her. This other girl always sat with us at tables but we wouldn’t really talk to her. Now, I’m out of that friendship and I’m actually very relived, I felt controlled, and scared of them. I’m best friends with both of those people and I could never be happier.
Helped so much! it's hurts knowing that's a 9+ year friendship has come to an end. I felt like I was fighting to keep it because of the number of years we've known each other. I hurt to know that even when she disrespected me multiples and I've given do many chances, she tried to turn the whole thing on me.
Lost my only girl group friends since 11 years friendship. It still hurts when I see them going out together without me, but I know time will tell. And i believe if I am genuine to people, one day there will be people who be genuine to me.
❤️ don’t worry everything is gonna be fine, I’ve lost two of my best friends this month and I’m also extremely hurt and confused cause I don’t know what I’m doing wrong even though is not my fault
hey i just lost 3 of my friends and it's been 2 months since your comment i was wondering if you are doing better and want have you done to make new friends if you have
I’m so sorry 😞 I feel the exact same rn and they are backstabbing me but I feel I have to be friends otherwise who will be my friend at school but yk what at the end of the day it doesn’t matter as long as you focus on school and like this video said they left your life for a reason it was meant to be I rlly needed to write this out as I’m losing two of my friends I thought were my best friends but obviously not since they lied abt somth I supposedly did which I never did I can’t believe they would lie like this but it’s fine I have another friend I can’t sit w at school instead of the fake friends I’m sry u probs didn’t care I just had to write this out
@@lilia_132 I do care. I'm so sorry you're going through this. You mentioned you were in grade school? I promise it gets better, as you get older you'll meet people that are just meant for you. So don't be afraid of losing your friends. The fact that you're losing them means they were never your friends to begin with.
Thank you for this, I feel like my “best friend” is leaving me for someone else. I’ve talked to her about it multiple times, and she keeps denying. She’s always saying, “oh you’re better than them” and “don’t worry about it” and “you’re always my favorite” but she never shows her words. Thank you again for this video 🩷🧸
same thing is happening with me. My bff is acting like she doesnt care about me anymore. And im okay if she doesn't want to be friends but i don't know what went wrong. I try to talk to her about it and she just ignores me like i just want to know why yoou don't wanna be my bff anymore. and the worst part, she's leaving me for one of my biggest frenemies. i don't know how im going to deal with us. i have other friends sure, but she was the only one i truly felt safe with.
Same here!!! just yesterday my best friend and I had plans to hang out and go to town and walk around their park because I don’t get out much. She made excuses of well it’s really hot outside and she got me to actually take that it was more my idea to cancel that plan and I said OK I’ll tell you what we won’t go to the park but why don’t you come over here and we can just hang out on my back porch in the evening. I’m one of the lucky people in our apartment area. That actually has a back porch area and it faces to where you can watch the sunset. I waited around for a few hours for her to come over until finally I said you know what forget it. I’ll go back out there myself and just enjoy the sunset myself and after I messaged her, it was probably a good 30 minutes and suddenly there she was she went over to her real best friends house and had spent the evening over there even though she said she was going to come over and spend time with me. And her and I had to talk about Me having issues with her doing that. Like I don’t mind you having other friends, but don’t cancel plans with me so you can spend time with them. The bad part is she tried to lie about it. But I had proof that she had been gone so she couldn’t lie. Then she gets upset when I say I’m the last resort friend. I am the friend she comes to when everybody else is busy. And I’ve been letting her son use my car so he can get to and from work for, several months now. And she doesn’t even care that once this friendship ends that car is not going to be there for him to use. I’m not that nice of a person. I wish I knew was never good enough and why people just constantly just use me
i lost my bff yesterday and for the second time the same thing happened first I lost my BFF then I got another bff who I thought was a true one but yesterday she texted me she doesn't want to be my friend anymore and now I saw her with another girl in my class it broke me
@@Marinafearlesstaylorswiftlover Me Too... We've been besties for like 6 years and now we're still kinda friends, as in we talk occasionally. And I'm sure we would be besties now, but his new friends hate me so much, and they're so clingy to him. That it's almost impossible to even talk to him anymore. But when we get the rare opportunity. It's a nice interaction, y'know. Miss him dearly, hate his new friends (they're actually so toxic ngl, accept one that's actually pretty chill). Sorry for the unlucky ones who lost their bestie.
I just lost a friend and i tired soo hard to stick with her. And when she started to block me and ignore my texts, it made me really sad and anxious. I said sorry many times but she didn't reply to me at all.I even tried to contact with her bestfriend to see if i could make it up. Her bestfriend thought it was a good idea and made a group chat and send messages to her from me. But she never replied to any messages from me at all. She was also kind of a leader of our friend group too, me not being friends with her, ment that the whole group didn't really like me as much as they did last time. Thank you for this video!
My Best friend of 7 years goasted me about a year ago, and it was hitting hard the other day. I don't care that she left, she was manipulative, but the memories keep coming back to me and I feel it was my fault even though I know it wasn't. My new friend group has gone through some stuff like that too, which might be why we are stuck together like glue.
I can relate so much tysm for sharing your story. This is how I feel rn. The other part of me is blaming me and the other part is telling me it is not my fault. It is frustrating but ik it is temporary. I trust my god and I just hope everything works out for everyone.
I still can’t process all this. It feels like we were laughing and having fun as best friends just yesterday. It’s been probably a year. She became toxic, replaced me, told me she didn’t wanna be friends anymore and everything. She doesn’t care that we are done. She said it to me. Even after all this she still means the world to me and I miss our bond so much.
The timing cannot be more perfect! Me, and my best friend of three years are going through a fight right now, and we haven’t been as close recently So, thank you so much, Nikki! Your help so much❤❤❤❤
I really needed this. All I said was "rude" and she made a whole argument she always does this. I don't have much friends only 5 but I only talk to 3 and soon going to be 2. I love this video ❤
I hope everybody else who has gone thro this is okay as I have gone through one with my 12 year freindship we broke up as freinds 1 year ago it was rlly hard but keen going 😊
No you don’t have to find a new one just continue with your life focusing on your self the right people will come and stay and those who aren’t meant to stay will go away sooner or later😊❤
I'm stuck in a situation where I feel like she's faking it now Just to show me that she's still friends with me idk why but I only have her and no other friends cuz I'm weirdly introvert and she's is the one whom I'm most comfortable with but ig not for long it's very disheartening for me to loose a best friend whom I met in 2nd standard someone please cheer me up I need it I have noone with whom I can share my feelings (I had fought with my family for her)
This advice would be helpful. Just one tiny problem: I’ve broken too many hearts. My friends never wanted me, but only to use me. And standing my ground was the worst decision I ever made. There are no right people for me because I am an anomaly; An alien, if you will.
Thanks, I needed this. I have been in a toxic friendship for nearly the whole of 6th grade and then today, I said something. Although it's kind of a relief, I feel kinda empty. So thanks for reminding me of this. ❤️
My friendship was 5 yrs and we are not friends anymore 😢 I miss her sometimes but she was not a nice person but still it’s so amazing that life is like this , A PERSONAL ADVICE DO NIT TRUST ANYONE EXCEPT FOR A FAMILY MEMBER WHO YOU THINK YOU CAN !
I really needed to hear this. I'm still trying to deal with loosing my friend. She joined our class in third year of high school and we immediately hit it off. I felt like I found a friend for a lifetime, but in fourth year (there are currently four years of high school in my country) we started to argue and there was some kind of compatibility issue - I was being unintentionally somewhat rude, because that's how I'm communicating with my close friends, and she became easily offended. We had a massive argument over something I said (irrelevant imo) and that was the last time we sent messages to each other, it was six months ago, two months after we exchanged our last words and I haven't seen her ever since. I know it wouldn't last if I had stayed myself and I don't want to change, the rest of my friends really like me for who I am, but I am still trying to deal with it. Sometimes she appears in my dreams and we are reuniting and I feel like my past is haunting me. I hope it'll get better
I lost my friend because I wanted to always be with them they saw me as clingy and I was stopping them from building their career this I really needed to hear this . . .
This made me feel better but my friend will always be part of my life and I see her everyday and my friends are friends with that person so I will feel betrayed if they don’t break up with her to but I can’t expect them to do that.
I lost my bestfriend almost this time last yr. When I say best friend like she was my sister not just best friend. It’s so crazy to me that nothing even happened between us. We didn’t get into a fight or nothing the just met this new girl and didn’t want to be friends anymore. That shit hurt. And it still does. I see her with her crying of laughter and hugging her friends like how we use to hug and it’s so fucken hard. It really is because I haven’t found that person to hug like that yet but she has group of them to hug like that. I don’t even want her back because when I see like photos I have and videos and it’s like she is remaking them with those girls and I’m here having to make plans to hangout with people instead of just saying I’m coming in 5 minutes. It’s a pain I wouldn’t wish upon anyone not even my worst enemy
Baby she ain’t shit and she not a real friend I went through some friends crap myself all because I reported her like damn where are friends when you need them. God bless you ❤🫶🏾 we will get through this bae
girl, I really needed that words. These quotes, I really needed it badly. Today is been a rough day for me. I almost cried, but I cannot. I am friendless now. It hurts to feel alone. so thank you that I stumbled your short video. It helped me a bit.
This year I’ve lost a lot of people who I thought were my “close friends”, I’ve put a lot of my heart into them only to get nothing in return. But things will get better 🥹
Oh my goodness, this made me cry, I had to let go of a two year long friendship last month because she was being super toxic, any time I set boundaries, she got mad at me and hanging out with her was super draining. Thank you for making this video ♥️
Yeah it’s true cause one of my besties started hanging out with other people and when we ask her why she left us she said “I have to hang out with my other friends” but the thing is you can do that but if your saying I have to talk to my other friends than why don’t you talk to us at least I have my best friend she is so sweet❤
My “friend” just posted a video of her and my ENTIRE a friend group at her house for a sleepover. I had no idea that was even happening. I really thought they were my friends
I just lost my bestfriend a month ago..We have been besties for 5 years and we rarely met up ever but when we used to it was always so much fun for the both of us.But nowadays she never texts me, calls me, never even replies to my messages.I feel really heartbroken and then I sent her a message of why she isn't communicating (I know that discussing stuff like this is better to do face to face but that wasn't an option in my situation atm) and she blamed it on me and we haven't talked ever since...I miss her so much because we used to have such a strong connection but now I just feel empty.💔You never know how hard losing a bestfriend really is until you do
I lost my best friend of 3 years. I have never had a friend like her but somehow things didn't work out between us. It took me a long time to realise that I wasn't meant to be with her. But once I realised it, it makes so much more sense to not be with her. I cried alot but I am okay now.
Thank you I want to tell this girl that if she wants to be friends but she is older than me please give me some tips on how to make friends that are older than me 😢❤
I’m the “friend group leader” and this video makes me feel like complete shit. I have a lot of friends, some I were closer to then than now and vise versa. And due to the fact than I’m “in control” I get tons of calls, tons of messages and I can’t keep up. I can’t lose friend and I can’t connect more…
Thank you for boosting my energy i had two bestfriends one of them we've been friends for 6y and the other one was 5y i felt horrible when i lost them they didn't die it truns out they where fake i hope you guys go through not a bad friend breakup
I lost some friends a few years ago because of distance and the inability to talk to each other so we just drifted apart but I’m going to school with a few of them next year for high school so hopefully this will be a chance to reconnect because they really were the greatest of friends
Thanks for saying this it means so much i feel like im the one doing the bad thing But i know in my hart i won’t do annyting to my friends, But allmost all of them arent as close to me as be fore and i feel like they Are angry at me and ofc i want them in my life and not lose them cuz i love them as a friend and i am sad that i feel this way and you’re channal has helped me allot whit my problems thank you so much really 🤗♥️
Thank you there is this one "friend" that me and her always compete to be the best and people favor her over me and I will admit I'm jealous but we just are not as close as we were because she got older an I got older and she likes boys and talking behind my back and being popular and more/typical girl behavior sometimes and it just hurts being her friend sometimes but you don't want to let her go because you have a huge friend group and don't want them to all leav you and you be alone and feel un loved but also if you stay with her you feel like it will get worse with you and her and nothing will be the same like it was so thank you for giving me encouragement with doing what is right I will updateyou after the Fiasco 😊
I've been trying for 34yrs. Moved to 3 cities, constantly invite people out, are there for them when they are sad. I still can't find someone who wants to be my best friend :( I constantly get excluded from every girl group I tried to get into. I'm loosing hope.
Thanks so much for this I've had a best friend for almost 9 years and now we're not even friends anymore and i miss her being my friend but she was never a real one
My friendship with a group was for 3 years,but through that whole time they abused my value and betrayed me,after leaving them I felt incredibly better.I promise you it will get better it will be happier after that,you just need to let them go.
I really needed this. Today I lost my friends after we’ve been together for almost 8 years and he false accused me at school and I think our friendship has came to an end.❤ really needed this, thanks so much! 😊
Thank you for cheering me up. My pre school best friend has recently been hard to keep because her sisters were being rude non- stop and she kept agreeing with her sisters and ignoring my presence...
I literally might cry. I thought I found my forever besties but ig not. Since 6th started they’ve gotten so many new friends and faded away from me. We had a twin day, nobody matched w me. When I walk with them it’s like I’m not even there. They just talk to other friends. My favorite one out of them. My absolute favorite. It’s like she doesn’t know I exist. We’ve been through the highs and lows, had arguments, everything. They say they love me back but I’m not so sure anymore. I’ve loved these girls so much, but I really needed to hear this, bc I’m starting to think it really wasn’t meant to be. I want to talk to them about it SO BAD but I’m scared they would think that I don’t love them enough to believe we’d be besties forever. Ngl I cried writing this, or even at the thought of losing them. And the worst part. The worst part is, they’re like my sisters. I cant bear going through another loss. Everyone end up ghosting me for some new friends.😞😞
I only had one friend up until now after we lost our two other members of our little group it was us against the world. until she started only wanting to hang up with the other people she met.. and even though we had been bffs for 4 years someone else took that place from me. and she didn't even notice.
Omg thank you! I have a sad story. So i made this friend on vacation and we were really close. We made so many sand castles and holes at the beach, we texted for a while until he stopped answering me. I kept trying to text him and keep him in my life until I started to tell myself “I don’t even need to be friends with this kid.” So I stopped texting him for like a week, but that phase quickly ended. So I kept texting him and trying to start conversations but I was lucky if I got an “ok,” or “good.” So one day I decided that enough was enough and that I was spending too much time trying to maintain our friendship. So just to make sure we were on the same page I texted him “are we good?” He replied “nuh uh.” So the. I ended it with the right then and there I said back “well ok bye!” And then 5 minutes later I thought I needed to say one last thing. “Nice knowin ya!” And that’s the last thing I’ve said to him. After that I was really sad because we were really close in person but when I saw this video, i realized we weren’t meant to be friends and that if it was that hard to maintain the friendship, it wasn’t right. Thank you if you listened! Also, don’t get too upset if you lose a friend. Like the video said. If the friendship is that hard to keep, it’s not a right. Btw, I am doing so great now and I have more time to think about other things. I have plenty of friends and I now realize that I didn’t need him in my life. ❤Keep going❤
When I was in grade one it was terrible. I met these grade 6 girls and I thought they were so nice. I had no other friends and I hung out with them whenever I got to. One day my mom said I can’t hang out with them but I can say hi. I didn’t care because they were so fun and even got me a gift for my birthday. At the end of the year I hung out with new friends and almost forgot about my older friends. When I was in grade three they left for high school and I really wish I could see them again. I loved them so much and I would litterly do anything to see them ❤
Thank you that actually helped a lot. I was so sad but when I saw your video it gave me a lot of advice. now when I think over it, I’m not that sad anymore thank you so much.❤❤❤❤❤❤
My bestie just ditched me for a worng conception about me after being friends for 3years. Seeing her and hanging out with someone else, who was also my friend (we were a trio) just breaks my heart😢
Ive known my “best friend“for 10 years and we’ve always been really close but we go to different schools now and k just feel like I’m losing her because we hardly ever talk during the day and make the same jokes we used to, when we meet up it’s just kinda awkward and tense and I hate it. It hurts so much seeing her with other people that she obviously cares about so much more than me… idk what to do
Thanks you so much for this video my freind recently got mad at me and started ignoring me because she thought something that was not true and now she is ignoring me and supper mad and I do feel like I have to fight to get her back or I feel worried about losing her because it happens again and again and I warned her that I am not a good freind but she keeps being my freind even though I slip a lot and say the wrong things it’s nice she still wants to be my freind but we made a promise if she has to take one more “break” from me then she has to stop being my freind and it hurts to know that some day that might happen but she knows it’s best for her it’s just I can’t stop thinking if we will split apart I have know her since I was two years old but now we are spreading apart she said she was really mad and so I guess it’s over this video made me realize that sometimes it’s not always a bad thing for friends to go so thank you but hopefully we will resolve this fight ❤
I’m losing my friend because we are in differnet classes and have no communication to eachother, I don’t even know what humor he likes anymore…. Sad :(
This really helped…I Had a lot of good friends, Best friends and we all sat at a lunch table together and one by one each one left to go to this one table. First one left because she kept leaving me out of things and she left to go see her theater friends, then one left because the first girl broke her leg and she needed help carrying her things and she told me “I like that table, I wanna stay there” then then 2 girls sat at a different table (not the one the other two went to) and one sat there first and invited the other to sit there and then they permanently sat there. So my other friend, was offered to sit there by the second friend and she sat there and she also loved it there and said she wants to stay there a the table. The last one, the one that said she would be by my side left. I went to Disney and it was a 2 person table and she didn’t wanna be alone at lunch so she said “I’ll sit there until you come back” and promised she would stay. I texted her and she got more quiet. Then when I was in the car I said “So your coming back to our table?” And she said “…” and I was confused then she said “to be honest with you I am staying there” I was completely heartbroken, I lost all of my friends because of that table. I felt like everything was gone and I was very dissapointed because all of the people I cared about in life just dropped me. I felt worthless. But this video did help a lot!
But she was the right person we always had fun together when we were alone at school not so much she got really popular with sports and stuff but I don’t like sports so she kind of just forgot about me but I can’t just forget our 6 years of friendship 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Thank you so much this just happened today during school and I cried but after that I watched during school I learned. Nobody is perfect for you because they don’t even know how much feelings you have and standing there like nothing is happening those fake ppl in ur life nobody should have you as a friend , and it’s tough but u will realize it and not be naive anymore I hope my message to all of you read this🫶
Thanks for this, one of my friends that I gotten very close within a year js started talking bad about me and when I confronted her she said I was toxic and that I was lying and making it up when I legit had a screenshot. But I’m kinda glad she’s out of my life it’s like a weight go off my shoulder.❤❤❤
Thank you for this I feel like I have been losing my best friend recently. We have been friends for 3 years and we have just not been hanging out or doing FaceTime like we did when we were close. I feel like this is my sign that it is ok if she isn’t my best friend anymore. Thank you 🫶🏼☺️
I feel you 💔
Have you tried voicing all of this to her? And reaching out to talk about how you feel and if she is feeling the same way or wants to fix it with you?
I have the same story as u, I know the feeling
I lost my bff today and I was friends with her sins 6 years:/
I feel you too!
Just lost a best friend. 15 years of friendship. It hurts but I am healing slowly and letting go....thanks for this video
Bro. I lost all my best friends in just 3 months. All my school friends with whom I used to hang out all my life, are just gone. They were of my vibe. I search their vibe in every new friend i make 😭... They just left me like shit😭 crying. They broke my trust but they play the victim card blame it on me and leave....its so hard to move on from someone u loved so much...
Same situation
same, my best friend and i went do seperate highschools and now she has other best friends and doesn’t seem to have time for me but always time for her new friends 😭
@@stormylee4123 I will suggest u to just leave her or before she leaves u. because same pattern was shown by my friend
15 years is a lot, i just lost a friend, 3 years of friendship, we still talk, but its not like how we used to anymore... :|
Needed to hear this, Lost a whole friend group and I’m a junior in highschool, it hurts so much that I feel so alone but I guess it’s ment to be this way for now
just officially lost the friend group i made my junior year of high school around 4 years ago . been a slow painful death of me asking why and then pretending like it’s not happening. my best friends and favorite group i’ve ever been a part of tbh but idk drugs change people a lot and moving away changes people a lot and most people don’t like talking about stuff . literally an hour ago or something i kinda read the room and understood
Same it hurts more than words can describe
I lost them today it hurts so much
Same our friend group was 6 and they have left me
same there is a new girl who came to my school a few months ago and my best friend of 6 years completely abandoned me and my friendship group for her and then the other girls started sucking up to her and trying really hard to get into the new friendship group and they are all quite toxic looking back on it. i’m now close friends with the only other non toxic girl who used to be in the og group and sometimes i wish that the new girl had never come to our school
"With right people it should meant to feeel easy , not like you have to fight to keep them" this line really got me❤
Wow that hit hard ❤
I feel so bad for this girl in my grade. Last year I was so close with this friend group, that was lasting for about 5 years. I always didn’t feel a real connection with them because we would always get into fights even though I did nothing wrong, they would always call me a lair, mean, etc. But since I’m a sensitive person and a people pleaser it was hard. But this one girl would always tell me that they weren’t the right people but I never believed her. This other girl always sat with us at tables but we wouldn’t really talk to her. Now, I’m out of that friendship and I’m actually very relived, I felt controlled, and scared of them. I’m best friends with both of those people and I could never be happier.
I lost two friends today. Ive only known them since august but they meant the world to me. Thank you so much...
Omg me too
So how abut family members?
Helped so much! it's hurts knowing that's a 9+ year friendship has come to an end. I felt like I was fighting to keep it because of the number of years we've known each other. I hurt to know that even when she disrespected me multiples and I've given do many chances, she tried to turn the whole thing on me.
Lost my only girl group friends since 11 years friendship. It still hurts when I see them going out together without me, but I know time will tell. And i believe if I am genuine to people, one day there will be people who be genuine to me.
I needed to hear this. A friend of almost a year and 6 months ended our friendship today. I'm extremely hurt right now.
❤️ don’t worry everything is gonna be fine, I’ve lost two of my best friends this month and I’m also extremely hurt and confused cause I don’t know what I’m doing wrong even though is not my fault
hey i just lost 3 of my friends and it's been 2 months since your comment i was wondering if you are doing better and want have you done to make new friends if you have
I’m so sorry 😞 I feel the exact same rn and they are backstabbing me but I feel I have to be friends otherwise who will be my friend at school but yk what at the end of the day it doesn’t matter as long as you focus on school and like this video said they left your life for a reason it was meant to be I rlly needed to write this out as I’m losing two of my friends I thought were my best friends but obviously not since they lied abt somth I supposedly did which I never did I can’t believe they would lie like this but it’s fine I have another friend I can’t sit w at school instead of the fake friends I’m sry u probs didn’t care I just had to write this out
@@vlogsWginger hey, sorry to reply so late. I'm doing just fine, I've been using all this solitude to focus on myself.
@@lilia_132 I do care. I'm so sorry you're going through this. You mentioned you were in grade school? I promise it gets better, as you get older you'll meet people that are just meant for you. So don't be afraid of losing your friends. The fact that you're losing them means they were never your friends to begin with.
Thank you for this, I feel like my “best friend” is leaving me for someone else. I’ve talked to her about it multiple times, and she keeps denying. She’s always saying, “oh you’re better than them” and “don’t worry about it” and “you’re always my favorite” but she never shows her words. Thank you again for this video 🩷🧸
Same here girl but it’s alright 😢❤
same thing is happening with me. My bff is acting like she doesnt care about me anymore. And im okay if she doesn't want to be friends but i don't know what went wrong. I try to talk to her about it and she just ignores me like i just want to know why yoou don't wanna be my bff anymore. and the worst part, she's leaving me for one of my biggest frenemies. i don't know how im going to deal with us. i have other friends sure, but she was the only one i truly felt safe with.
Same here!!! just yesterday my best friend and I had plans to hang out and go to town and walk around their park because I don’t get out much. She made excuses of well it’s really hot outside and she got me to actually take that it was more my idea to cancel that plan and I said OK I’ll tell you what we won’t go to the park but why don’t you come over here and we can just hang out on my back porch in the evening. I’m one of the lucky people in our apartment area. That actually has a back porch area and it faces to where you can watch the sunset. I waited around for a few hours for her to come over until finally I said you know what forget it. I’ll go back out there myself and just enjoy the sunset myself and after I messaged her, it was probably a good 30 minutes and suddenly there she was she went over to her real best friends house and had spent the evening over there even though she said she was going to come over and spend time with me. And her and I had to talk about Me having issues with her doing that. Like I don’t mind you having other friends, but don’t cancel plans with me so you can spend time with them. The bad part is she tried to lie about it. But I had proof that she had been gone so she couldn’t lie. Then she gets upset when I say I’m the last resort friend. I am the friend she comes to when everybody else is busy. And I’ve been letting her son use my car so he can get to and from work for, several months now. And she doesn’t even care that once this friendship ends that car is not going to be there for him to use. I’m not that nice of a person. I wish I knew was never good enough and why people just constantly just use me
Same! Except she didn't even try to reassure me she just said "well I'm allowed to have other friends right?"
Same here they bully me for looking like a girl she showed my face to him without my permission 💔
“You know your loosing your best friend when you have all the stories with no one to tell”
-unknown
I feel you
The fact people are hear watching this video just like me, I feel so sorry for whatever happened, I’m sure you will have a great life :3 😢
Thank you so much❤, I hope you'll have a great live too!
i lost mine about 2 years ago and felt really depressed without them, so many good memories
Keep ur head held high ur amazing u need to heal and be strong and move on ur doing great keep moving forward and you will achieve ur dreams❤
I’m so glad I lost my toxic friend 🎉.
I’m sorry to those who lost their besties
I lost my boy best friend …. 😢😩☹️😫😭🥺😖😣😕😑🙁🥺😕🥺😖😣😭😫☹️😩😢😭😭😭😭
@@Marinafearlesstaylorswiftloverme too.
i lost my bff yesterday and for the second time the same thing happened first I lost my BFF then I got another bff who I thought was a true one but yesterday she texted me she doesn't want to be my friend anymore and now I saw her with another girl in my class it broke me
Me to my ex bff was so toxic
@@Marinafearlesstaylorswiftlover Me Too... We've been besties for like 6 years and now we're still kinda friends, as in we talk occasionally. And I'm sure we would be besties now, but his new friends hate me so much, and they're so clingy to him. That it's almost impossible to even talk to him anymore. But when we get the rare opportunity. It's a nice interaction, y'know. Miss him dearly, hate his new friends (they're actually so toxic ngl, accept one that's actually pretty chill). Sorry for the unlucky ones who lost their bestie.
I just lost a friend and i tired soo hard to stick with her. And when she started to block me and ignore my texts, it made me really sad and anxious. I said sorry many times but she didn't reply to me at all.I even tried to contact with her bestfriend to see if i could make it up. Her bestfriend thought it was a good idea and made a group chat and send messages to her from me. But she never replied to any messages from me at all. She was also kind of a leader of our friend group too, me not being friends with her, ment that the whole group didn't really like me as much as they did last time. Thank you for this video!
It's sad
My Best friend of 7 years goasted me about a year ago, and it was hitting hard the other day. I don't care that she left, she was manipulative, but the memories keep coming back to me and I feel it was my fault even though I know it wasn't. My new friend group has gone through some stuff like that too, which might be why we are stuck together like glue.
I can relate so much
tysm for sharing your story.
This is how I feel rn. The other part of me is blaming me and the other part is telling me it is not my fault. It is frustrating but ik it is temporary. I trust my god and I just hope everything works out for everyone.
i have had this same experience. its hard because i valued her so much as a friend im still going through it but i hope this feeling wont last forever
Ur so lucky u found a kind friend group,I’m still tryna find one
@@frogdogcrewplays you got this!
@@Mr_Dogeee thanks but I kinda give up i maze as well just wait till next year
I still can’t process all this. It feels like we were laughing and having fun as best friends just yesterday. It’s been probably a year. She became toxic, replaced me, told me she didn’t wanna be friends anymore and everything. She doesn’t care that we are done. She said it to me. Even after all this she still means the world to me and I miss our bond so much.
Thank you so much I just lost my best friend that I knew since birth, and I love her so much
The timing cannot be more perfect! Me, and my best friend of three years are going through a fight right now, and we haven’t been as close recently
So, thank you so much, Nikki! Your help so much❤❤❤❤
I really needed this. All I said was "rude" and she made a whole argument she always does this. I don't have much friends only 5 but I only talk to 3 and soon going to be 2. I love this video ❤
omg relatable 😢
tysm i rly needed this💓
I hope everybody else who has gone thro this is okay as I have gone through one with my 12 year freindship we broke up as freinds 1 year ago it was rlly hard but keen going 😊
I’m currently losing a best friend of 8 years, thank you so much ❤
This made me smile 😊😊😊t thank uuuuu u just saved me from losing my mind cause I was too worried losing someone who didn’t even bother about me❤❤❤
Thank you. I was losing a friend of many many years from school and sports. Now that I have seen this, I have gotten over it. Thank you so much!
How do u get over it 😭😭 it always feels like there is a thing missing in my heart, it hurts, a LOT
@@NotYour_SelenGacha find a new one
@@Progamers10836 okay but I still can’t get over it 😭
No you don’t have to find a new one just continue with your life focusing on your self the right people will come and stay and those who aren’t meant to stay will go away sooner or later😊❤
I just got kicked out of a trio and it hurt so badly but I’m gonna take it as a good thing because like you said the right people will stick around
It's easy to say, but it's never the same. I don't wanna lose my BFF😭
Fr I am losing one rn
Same
@@Iam2cool4yousame
exactly. it's not that easy and it's not always up to them.
I'm stuck in a situation where I feel like she's faking it now
Just to show me that she's still friends with me idk why but I only have her and no other friends cuz I'm weirdly introvert and she's is the one whom I'm most comfortable with but ig not for long it's very disheartening for me to loose a best friend whom I met in 2nd standard someone please cheer me up I need it I have noone with whom I can share my feelings
(I had fought with my family for her)
This advice would be helpful. Just one tiny problem: I’ve broken too many hearts. My friends never wanted me, but only to use me. And standing my ground was the worst decision I ever made. There are no right people for me because I am an anomaly; An alien, if you will.
Am still upset by it all because they weren’t really my friends but I had good moments with them I wasn’t on my own
youtube.com/@grovesy333
,i agree,take care
dude! 👍
Same:(
Thanks, I needed this. I have been in a toxic friendship for nearly the whole of 6th grade and then today, I said something. Although it's kind of a relief, I feel kinda empty. So thanks for reminding me of this. ❤️
My friendship was 5 yrs and we are not friends anymore 😢 I miss her sometimes but she was not a nice person but still it’s so amazing that life is like this , A PERSONAL ADVICE DO NIT TRUST ANYONE EXCEPT FOR A FAMILY MEMBER WHO YOU THINK YOU CAN !
Thank you so much, Ive had a friend that was with me for ten years. And now, we barely talk.
I needed this, my friend of 7 years is becoming a stranger just bc I am changing schools and she won't have someone to complete with for grades. 😢
Thank you I just lost two of my friends and I have been trying to hold on to that friendship for so long.
I really needed to hear this. I'm still trying to deal with loosing my friend. She joined our class in third year of high school and we immediately hit it off. I felt like I found a friend for a lifetime, but in fourth year (there are currently four years of high school in my country) we started to argue and there was some kind of compatibility issue - I was being unintentionally somewhat rude, because that's how I'm communicating with my close friends, and she became easily offended. We had a massive argument over something I said (irrelevant imo) and that was the last time we sent messages to each other, it was six months ago, two months after we exchanged our last words and I haven't seen her ever since. I know it wouldn't last if I had stayed myself and I don't want to change, the rest of my friends really like me for who I am, but I am still trying to deal with it. Sometimes she appears in my dreams and we are reuniting and I feel like my past is haunting me. I hope it'll get better
Thanks that helped my friend. Started leaving me and my other friends. And only using is when we are the only people around.
Needed this....yesterday I lost four friends who had been with me since junior school, yeah...they weren't meant to stay.
I lost my friend because I wanted to always be with them they saw me as clingy and I was stopping them from building their career this I really needed to hear this . . .
Thank you I just got in a massive argument and I lost all 14 of my friends this really helped ❤
Thank you for this. My bestie for a year said that we shouldnt be friends anymore and then just acted like nothing happened 🙃
This made me feel better but my friend will always be part of my life and I see her everyday and my friends are friends with that person so I will feel betrayed if they don’t break up with her to but I can’t expect them to do that.
I lost a important person.. my best friend
As I start seeing them speaking behind my back😢😢
Me too
Thank you for the advice. I lost my only friend today.
It’s officially been 1 year since I lost my best friend. No contact since, I still wish everyday she was with me . We where best friends for 10 years
TY U MADE MY DAY BC MY BEST BEST FRIEND IS MY EMEMY❤❤❤❤❤
I lost my bestfriend almost this time last yr. When I say best friend like she was my sister not just best friend. It’s so crazy to me that nothing even happened between us. We didn’t get into a fight or nothing the just met this new girl and didn’t want to be friends anymore. That shit hurt. And it still does. I see her with her crying of laughter and hugging her friends like how we use to hug and it’s so fucken hard. It really is because I haven’t found that person to hug like that yet but she has group of them to hug like that. I don’t even want her back because when I see like photos I have and videos and it’s like she is remaking them with those girls and I’m here having to make plans to hangout with people instead of just saying I’m coming in 5 minutes. It’s a pain I wouldn’t wish upon anyone not even my worst enemy
Baby she ain’t shit and she not a real friend I went through some friends crap myself all because I reported her like damn where are friends when you need them. God bless you ❤🫶🏾 we will get through this bae
girl, I really needed that words. These quotes, I really needed it badly. Today is been a rough day for me. I almost cried, but I cannot. I am friendless now. It hurts to feel alone. so thank you that I stumbled your short video. It helped me a bit.
I really needed this 🙂
Thank you so much I just lost 2 of my friend of 4 years, I was devastated but they always seemed bored to hangout with me. I feel more alive now!
This year I’ve lost a lot of people who I thought were my “close friends”, I’ve put a lot of my heart into them only to get nothing in return. But things will get better 🥹
omg tysm! i have lost my bf and my 3 other friends bc i had to leave schools.
Oh my goodness, this made me cry, I had to let go of a two year long friendship last month because she was being super toxic, any time I set boundaries, she got mad at me and hanging out with her was super draining. Thank you for making this video ♥️
Bro I actually just lost all my friends lol
¿Are you ok?Did you find new ones?
Yeah it’s true cause one of my besties started hanging out with other people and when we ask her why she left us she said “I have to hang out with my other friends” but the thing is you can do that but if your saying I have to talk to my other friends than why don’t you talk to us at least I have my best friend she is so sweet❤
Thank you so much I feel so un included in my group so I left but it’s hard…
My “friend” just posted a video of her and my ENTIRE a friend group at her house for a sleepover. I had no idea that was even happening. I really thought they were my friends
I just lost my bestfriend a month ago..We have been besties for 5 years and we rarely met up ever but when we used to it was always so much fun for the both of us.But nowadays she never texts me, calls me, never even replies to my messages.I feel really heartbroken and then I sent her a message of why she isn't communicating (I know that discussing stuff like this is better to do face to face but that wasn't an option in my situation atm) and she blamed it on me and we haven't talked ever since...I miss her so much because we used to have such a strong connection but now I just feel empty.💔You never know how hard losing a bestfriend really is until you do
I lost my best friend of 3 years. I have never had a friend like her but somehow things didn't work out between us. It took me a long time to realise that I wasn't meant to be with her. But once I realised it, it makes so much more sense to not be with her. I cried alot but I am okay now.
I cried too she was my good friend 😢
Omg tysm for this it felt like u just understood me ty!❤this rlly helped
Thank you I want to tell this girl that if she wants to be friends but she is older than me please give me some tips on how to make friends that are older than me 😢❤
i just lost a best friend of ten years along with my whole friend group.
i have 2 people left. (that go to my school.)
I’m the “friend group leader” and this video makes me feel like complete shit. I have a lot of friends, some I were closer to then than now and vise versa. And due to the fact than I’m “in control” I get tons of calls, tons of messages and I can’t keep up. I can’t lose friend and I can’t connect more…
Thank you for boosting my energy i had two bestfriends one of them we've been friends for 6y and the other one was 5y i felt horrible when i lost them they didn't die it truns out they where fake i hope you guys go through not a bad friend breakup
‘True friends are never usually the ones who have been their forever. It’s the people who just come into your life and say I’m here for you.’
Thank you so much. I really needed this😢
Thank you i feel better Thank you so much🥲
Thank you for your kind words I would always lose them but I watch you then im pkay!!
Thank your for this ❤ I just lost a friend today and it’s been really hard . This made my day Tysm ❤❤
I lost some friends a few years ago because of distance and the inability to talk to each other so we just drifted apart but I’m going to school with a few of them next year for high school so hopefully this will be a chance to reconnect because they really were the greatest of friends
Thanks for saying this it means so much i feel like im the one doing the bad thing But i know in my hart i won’t do annyting to my friends, But allmost all of them arent as close to me as be fore and i feel like they Are angry at me and ofc i want them in my life and not lose them cuz i love them as a friend and i am sad that i feel this way and you’re channal has helped me allot whit my problems thank you so much really 🤗♥️
Thank you there is this one "friend" that me and her always compete to be the best and people favor her over me and I will admit I'm jealous but we just are not as close as we were because she got older an I got older and she likes boys and talking behind my back and being popular and more/typical girl behavior sometimes and it just hurts being her friend sometimes but you don't want to let her go because you have a huge friend group and don't want them to all leav you and you be alone and feel un loved but also if you stay with her you feel like it will get worse with you and her and nothing will be the same like it was so thank you for giving me encouragement with doing what is right I will updateyou after the Fiasco 😊
I've been trying for 34yrs. Moved to 3 cities, constantly invite people out, are there for them when they are sad. I still can't find someone who wants to be my best friend :( I constantly get excluded from every girl group I tried to get into. I'm loosing hope.
Thank u so much that made my day🎉❤
Ty I have bean losing a friend lately and your 100000% right
Thanks so much for this I've had a best friend for almost 9 years and now we're not even friends anymore and i miss her being my friend but she was never a real one
Thank you so much I lost a bff and we’ve been friends since my entire life and now we ended it❤
My friendship with a group was for 3 years,but through that whole time they abused my value and betrayed me,after leaving them I felt incredibly better.I promise you it will get better it will be happier after that,you just need to let them go.
thank you, I’ve been crying about losing this friend I have been trying to be friends with her again, but I don’t think I should but thank you
I really needed this. Today I lost my friends after we’ve been together for almost 8 years and he false accused me at school and I think our friendship has came to an end.❤ really needed this, thanks so much! 😊
Thank you for cheering me up. My pre school best friend has recently been hard to keep because her sisters were being rude non- stop and she kept agreeing with her sisters and ignoring my presence...
I needed to hear this.
Thank you i'm really sad😢because I lost my friend
You are the best person that understand me a lot
I literally might cry. I thought I found my forever besties but ig not. Since 6th started they’ve gotten so many new friends and faded away from me. We had a twin day, nobody matched w me. When I walk with them it’s like I’m not even there. They just talk to other friends. My favorite one out of them. My absolute favorite. It’s like she doesn’t know I exist. We’ve been through the highs and lows, had arguments, everything. They say they love me back but I’m not so sure anymore. I’ve loved these girls so much, but I really needed to hear this, bc I’m starting to think it really wasn’t meant to be. I want to talk to them about it SO BAD but I’m scared they would think that I don’t love them enough to believe we’d be besties forever. Ngl I cried writing this, or even at the thought of losing them. And the worst part. The worst part is, they’re like my sisters. I cant bear going through another loss. Everyone end up ghosting me for some new friends.😞😞
This is the most relatable comment i read today.
I only had one friend up until now after we lost our two other members of our little group it was us against the world. until she started only wanting to hang up with the other people she met.. and even though we had been bffs for 4 years someone else took that place from me. and she didn't even notice.
You made my day better
❤❤❤❤❤
My bestie is like losing her we have been bestie for 5 years and she has not been talking as much anymore!
Thanks 😊😊😊
Omg thank you!
I have a sad story.
So i made this friend on vacation and we were really close. We made so many sand castles and holes at the beach, we texted for a while until he stopped answering me. I kept trying to text him and keep him in my life until I started to tell myself “I don’t even need to be friends with this kid.” So I stopped texting him for like a week, but that phase quickly ended. So I kept texting him and trying to start conversations but I was lucky if I got an “ok,” or “good.” So one day I decided that enough was enough and that I was spending too much time trying to maintain our friendship. So just to make sure we were on the same page I texted him “are we good?” He replied “nuh uh.” So the. I ended it with the right then and there I said back “well ok bye!” And then 5 minutes later I thought I needed to say one last thing. “Nice knowin ya!” And that’s the last thing I’ve said to him.
After that I was really sad because we were really close in person but when I saw this video, i realized we weren’t meant to be friends and that if it was that hard to maintain the friendship, it wasn’t right.
Thank you if you listened!
Also, don’t get too upset if you lose a friend. Like the video said. If the friendship is that hard to keep, it’s not a right.
Btw, I am doing so great now and I have more time to think about other things. I have plenty of friends and I now realize that I didn’t need him in my life.
❤Keep going❤
When I was in grade one it was terrible. I met these grade 6 girls and I thought they were so nice. I had no other friends and I hung out with them whenever I got to. One day my mom said I can’t hang out with them but I can say hi. I didn’t care because they were so fun and even got me a gift for my birthday. At the end of the year I hung out with new friends and almost forgot about my older friends. When I was in grade three they left for high school and I really wish I could see them again. I loved them so much and I would litterly do anything to see them ❤
Thank you that actually helped a lot. I was so sad but when I saw your video it gave me a lot of advice. now when I think over it, I’m not that sad anymore thank you so much.❤❤❤❤❤❤
tysm, i really needed this, i just lost my two best friends of 3 years today and it’s been really hard for me all day 😭
My bestie just ditched me for a worng conception about me after being friends for 3years. Seeing her and hanging out with someone else, who was also my friend (we were a trio) just breaks my heart😢
Ive known my “best friend“for 10 years and we’ve always been really close but we go to different schools now and k just feel like I’m losing her because we hardly ever talk during the day and make the same jokes we used to, when we meet up it’s just kinda awkward and tense and I hate it. It hurts so much seeing her with other people that she obviously cares about so much more than me… idk what to do
Thanks you so much for this video my freind recently got mad at me and started ignoring me because she thought something that was not true and now she is ignoring me and supper mad and I do feel like I have to fight to get her back or I feel worried about losing her because it happens again and again and I warned her that I am not a good freind but she keeps being my freind even though I slip a lot and say the wrong things it’s nice she still wants to be my freind but we made a promise if she has to take one more “break” from me then she has to stop being my freind and it hurts to know that some day that might happen but she knows it’s best for her it’s just I can’t stop thinking if we will split apart I have know her since I was two years old but now we are spreading apart she said she was really mad and so I guess it’s over this video made me realize that sometimes it’s not always a bad thing for friends to go so thank you but hopefully we will resolve this fight ❤
I’m losing my friend because we are in differnet classes and have no communication to eachother, I don’t even know what humor he likes anymore…. Sad :(
This really helped…I Had a lot of good friends, Best friends and we all sat at a lunch table together and one by one each one left to go to this one table. First one left because she kept leaving me out of things and she left to go see her theater friends, then one left because the first girl broke her leg and she needed help carrying her things and she told me “I like that table, I wanna stay there” then then 2 girls sat at a different table (not the one the other two went to) and one sat there first and invited the other to sit there and then they permanently sat there. So my other friend, was offered to sit there by the second friend and she sat there and she also loved it there and said she wants to stay there a the table. The last one, the one that said she would be by my side left. I went to Disney and it was a 2 person table and she didn’t wanna be alone at lunch so she said “I’ll sit there until you come back” and promised she would stay. I texted her and she got more quiet. Then when I was in the car I said “So your coming back to our table?” And she said “…” and I was confused then she said “to be honest with you I am staying there” I was completely heartbroken, I lost all of my friends because of that table. I felt like everything was gone and I was very dissapointed because all of the people I cared about in life just dropped me. I felt worthless. But this video did help a lot!
But she was the right person we always had fun together when we were alone at school not so much she got really popular with sports and stuff but I don’t like sports so she kind of just forgot about me but I can’t just forget our 6 years of friendship 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Thank you for letting me know that friends can come and go
Thank you so much this just happened today during school and I cried but after that I watched during school I learned. Nobody is perfect for you because they don’t even know how much feelings you have and standing there like nothing is happening those fake ppl in ur life nobody should have you as a friend , and it’s tough but u will realize it and not be naive anymore I hope my message to all of you read this🫶
Thanks for this, one of my friends that I gotten very close within a year js started talking bad about me and when I confronted her she said I was toxic and that I was lying and making it up when I legit had a screenshot. But I’m kinda glad she’s out of my life it’s like a weight go off my shoulder.❤❤❤