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"Your call has been forwarded to an automated voice messaging system."
Idk but i genuinely feel that Alyssa's friend did not pick up the call intentionally. That hurt.
Would have been amazing if she picked up the phone at the last second and apologized for the pain she caused to Alyssa.
Idk but ied
Whenever I’m in a UA-cam video where someone has the same name as me, I feel really weird lol
If I did one of these and my best friend answered I would start crying ..my friend meant a lot to me 💗
@@cindymarson9053 you should call her!
The guy in the blue shirt tried talking to a best friend that seemed so detached. She didn’t even sound happy or excited to hear from him.
L.Pasteur I felt very sad for him. She hardly showed anything and no emotions :(
Omgg, I know right. She whatsoever portrayed no kind of emotion.
This is exactly my situation since 1 year
it was probably really awkward lmao💀😳
It’s really painful when someone cuts you off even if it’s for whatever situation they’re going through. She has every right to feel the way she did. I’d be detached too.
Our society prioritizes romantic relationships so heavily above friendships, I think it's actually tragic.
@@Tania-rg7jp agreed
true i prefer friendships
But if she wants to be only friends I'm going to go for a romantic relationship instead it's going to get more of my attention
YES THIS
I have been saying this. The same way we are encouraged to have open and honest communication with our partners and to put effort into those relationships, we should be encouraged to do the same with friendships
I think the girl that was crying valued her friendship so much and that’s kinda rare. I hope the best for her whether that’s reconnecting with her friend or not.
I can feel her pain and it’s people like us that get hurt most
it's not healthy
@@klyzer5725 well it can't be help since she really sincere love her best friend so much (probably similiar with my situation back then)
Sorry for my bad english i hope you get what i'm trying to say :"
Nah. Not kinda rare. /
I could feel her pain bcz my bestfriend started ignoring me for our another common friend..she starting prioritising her more....and that's how we ended up being strangers...that hurts alot.....and when I tried to talk to her she said that we both are equally important to her but how can two people hold some positions at one place???? And now the girl that used to be our common friend is my kinda enemy now...she is always badmouthing me and spreading rumours...bcz she wanted my bff to be hers.....ughhhh....it's just sooo hurtful
The worst feeling is having to apologize for something that wasn't your fault to people who didn't even care
That's what I'm feeling rn sis 🙇🏽♂️💕☹
True
That is exactly what I am going through right now, but slowly I start to move on with my life 😅🙃
Then don't apologize, what's the problem.
@@user-lj8ul8op7w Lmfao
The worst part is when you go separate ways but you still can’t let go.
A friend moved 2 years ago and I remembered crying so much the same day she left. And I did move on, but I still can't let go
I don't know how to move on i realy want to it hurts :(
@Cynthia Same, my friend also moved about 2 years ago 🥺 and I had a dream about her last week 😭
its worse if you dont have them in your contact list and you dont know where they went
True 😭🥺 i’ve searched for them everywhere :(
The worst part comes when you realize that the other person feel distracted or bored while talking to you even though it's the same person whom you used to talk to randomly. It hurts to witness them as past tense... little little fun moments, affection, care, limitless phone calls, bickerings, hanging out & the list go on.
Is there anything to do to change this?
@@kwamesarpong2452 accepting the fact we will all unify into ONE, and we'll remain FOREVER
Yea I miss my friend and when I try to talk to them they seem bored blan and distracted miss them.
This!!! exactly:')
When I talk to my friend who I live two hours away from she never talks to me at all. If I could show you my texts to her you would see.
“Your call has been forwarded to an automated voice messaging system.”
My heart broke for both Alyssa and I. The amount of times I’ve heard that ringtone when trying to call my best friend is insane. It’s so bad I hear it in my head whenever I simply read the words of it. I am so sorry Alyssa, and you are so brave for leaving the voicemail. I wouldn’t. I know I just wouldn’t have the voice cords for it. I am not the crying type, but simply thinking about how our friendship has gone bad, and how if I try to reach out to her right now nothing will change makes me want to throw up. I started crying the moment you started talking about her because I recognize every voice crack, every sentence, every emotion you have felt. I feel it every time I remember her.
I just wish things didn’t turn out the way they did.
😭😭😭😭😭😭
Relatable tbh
hope everything is going well. praying for you
I had the exact same experience as you and when I heard Alyssa I was also tearing up
❤️❤️
it honestly really hurts to hear the crack in someone’s voice when they’re about to cry
I think its probably the only reason I actually cried
Ikr 🥺🥺
alyssa :(
I hate when people see or hear me cry and I just completely stop talking because I sound like a fourteen year old going through puberty cus of how much my voice cracks
@Keksmo that's really sweet of you, I'm okay though!! I hope you manage to help some people who need it!! 💌💓
The girl who left a voice mail honestly broke my heart. 😭
Same I'm now crying😢😭
Yep... :/
Abby Ik I’m actually about to cry
Heart cancer does that too.
Hearing that hurt me😭😞😞😞😞
As a person that lost her best friend I'd like to say,
"I wish our friendship was like those ones in movies".
well put.
"I wish you came to me, instead of listen to gossip... like in the movies" would be mine.
Same
" *Friendship isn't about whom you have known the longest* "
" *It's about who came and never left you alone when you needed someone the most* " 💓
That means I never had real friends, even if don't have friends.
@@vuedanto8576 mee too but its ok uk karma is a b*tch
Friend dumped after 18 years and I was always there supporting her LMAO!!! Got back with her ex and let all her male friends go to build trust, which is another way of saying he's a jealous mofo. The worst part is I even supported her relationship and hoped they are together a long time and was there when she was dumped hard....LMFAO!!!!! she blocked now breh, wished her well and said I always hope you're happy but you blocked now and to never contact me again.
@@siddhibajpai9595I don’t karma is a b****
Indeedr❤mr❤r
hearing someone's voice cracking and about to cry on a phone call is the worst feeling ever.
Especially when it's a voicemail
Yeah
T
It's even worse when the other person doesn't care
Mhm
Alyssa is so emotional. You can tell how hurt she is.
I relate to her, thinking about my best friend who I have not seen in one year, and last spoke to 10 months ago over the text... I get really damn emotional because I really, really miss her.
i wanna give her a hug
I miss my "best friend" i moved schools like 4 years ago and i got her insta last year (she only texted me a lil bit..) but she stopped texting me, she didn't even say she missed me while i did. She would always post about all her friends having fun together. It hurts. But i guess that's just life, I'll try my best to forget about her.
Can We get to 1,000 subscribers without videos ? I lost my bff moving and entering 6th grade I thought we would be friends again but we stopped talking and I miss her a lot
Yeah, I connected with her so much and it just made me want to cry every time I heard her voice in this video. You could hear the pain in her voice.
this just proves how important it is to communicate with the people we love, it’s how we keep our relationships going (family, platonic, friendships, romantic)
has to be a two way street though, it happens a lot in relationships. There is someone who cares and someone who neglects. You shouldn't be the one caring if they neglect you.
But i I feel like the people that were on the phone weren’t truly interested. There were more like “yeah alright I guess” and they moved on
As someone who lost childhood friends due depression, I totally get it.
Its _hurts_
I lost mine the same way. I wish I could be normal
We'll go through this together, comrades.
Me too the same problems
Same 😔
The girl who left the voicemail. I hope she’s okay. I can relate to her so much. I’m crying.
Me too, this video hurt so much to watch. I recently had to cut off my ex best friend because she got abusive and then ghosted me because of a boy. In the time she wasn’t talking to me I thought back on our friendship and I realized she really was treating me in toxic ways. I’d spend nights crying because of her. Yes I’m glad she’s out of my life but after I left her life she sent me a text saying I was awful for leaving. Thinking about her and how our friendship went down is really hard for me to think about and in this video I’d mention her and calling her would be the hardest thing to do.
I have a best friend and she lost her best friend so I always feel so useless because I can’t really help her get over him. 😔
Eye infections can also cause teary eyes.
@@finch9782 I can relate because my friend was toxic too I cut her off and felt bad about it and I'm still upset about it..
ME TOO
The second your best friend becomes a person who you don’t even recognize it’s literally the worst feeling in the world.
Becca’s life yes it really is😞
Becca’s life I moved on,..
it is..
yes, it is.
Tf it is
Imagine having a friend for 10 years only to find out that so called friend just used you and ended the relationship over an ego problem because I respected myself and stood my ground.
Friens r not as gd as u think.
who needs enemies when u have friends
Oh I don't need to imagine that because I'd well believe it!! 😄😄 As tragic as it is....
And we vent about our friendships, but unfortunately that's never going to get them back.
exactly the same happened to me after 11 years of friendship and so called “being a family” - wrote her a letter after an argument and never ever heard something again. that was three years ago now.
@@aliciaw8147 omg... My best friend dumped me back in April... I messaged him a few times but he says there's "no point" in talking. I'm finding it extremely difficult to deal with not talking, not messaging, not hanging out with him after being friends for 10 years... I'm also in my 30s now so I don't see myself making new best friends at this stage, and anyway it's just not the same.
losing your partner is bad enough, but most people don't know how bad it is to lose your best friend who has been there since the beginning.
The worst part is when you know it’s too late and it will never be the same
Samantha tbh my old friend moved schools and we stopped talking and I text her a year later and we just say hi and bye.
Sometimes it shouldn’t be the same, people aren’t always meant to stay in your life.
Ezekiel Turrecha sometimes the truth is, people don’t deserve you or your time. Especially when they hurt you and don’t truly care. You are worth more.
MAE...
yep... it is
it’s absolutely the worst feeling when ur bestfriend suddenly ignores u. like u never existed.
It happened to me :(
this is what's happening to me, my online best friend after 2 years of friendship, after we met in real life (i made 400km to meet her) just started ignoring me.... she blocked me on every social media and she's ignoring my messages, it's been 2,5 months now and i'm starting to accept the situation, even tho it hurts A LOT.
Happening to me as we speak :(
@@Casper_and_Max yeah same I didn’t have anyone else and he didn’t even care about me like no one cared
my bestfriend got a boyfriend. ya nice for her. i dont like him. but ya, as long as she's happy. im fine.
PLEASE do not ditch your friendship when you are in a relationship. Even if its having lunch with them every 4 months. Amazing friendships is harder to find than romantic relationship.
Exactly
I can relate to that crying girl. I never saw friendships as fleeting circumstances. I've learned the hard way that people will drop you for the smallest reasons. I wish I had a friend like that girl. She's rare.
"I asked God to protect me from my enemies....
And then I started losing friends.."
Where is that quote from
@@Silvia.Araujo I just saw it on pinterest 💀
JESUS loves you. JESUS is your king. GOD made you wonderful and beautiful in his image. JESUS CHRIST died for your sins..
They wouldn’t be your friends then, better off without them, always other people to meet
@@Tom-nj5ie that's the point lmao
why do i feel like the comment section is even more emotional than the actual video
i thought i was the only one-
same
Yess😭😭😭😭
I feel it too tho~ i better read the comment and their words really deeper than what i have thought!
😭😂😂😌
I watched this years ago when i have no idea losing a friendship would be that hurt, now I'm back and i understand the pain
I wrote a song about toxic friendships and the feelings you go through when you get let down by a close friend.
it’s called friend and my name is Jolina if you want to hear it on Spotify (or wherever you listen to music).
maybe the song can help you heal the way it helped me.
YOU DESERVE BETTER.
I had the craziest best friend you'd ever meet. He was off his rocker and so full of life he was almost childlike but in a charming way, he was the Bravest dude I ever personally knew. And will likely ever know. Rest in Peace Alex ❤️
I've lost all my friends.
@@vuedanto8576 sometimes I feel that way in a strange way...
@@vuedanto8576 same tbh
Im so sorry. My brothers friend died last month also. I had grown up with him,so i get it . again, im so sorry.
I hope this brings you some sort of happiness and peace but your best friend is definitely looking after you and always with you! I’m sorry for your loss.
Lack of communication is the downfall of every relationship
leslie cabanas couldn’t agree more
you are going to make me cry
Or neglecting (your parents) for your friends or your "true love" (even though they'll cheat on you by liking an Instagram post).
@@smileyx9407 I really couldn't
In my case, I tried to talk to her and tried to communicate but she just ends the conversation. Like she doesn’t want to talk anymore and its sad. I feel like i can’t do anything else
I expected “long lost friends” to be like YEARS
It feels like years when you go from being best friends with someone, and being the person that knows them best and vise versa, and the they just drop out of your life. Every day without them feels like a week. 😔
Grace Colker Totally! I’m not disagreeing, but I still think it’s not long enough to be referred to as “long lost friends”, though I can’t think of an alternative that isn’t super lengthy
months without talking to your best friend does feel like years though
Nicolaus Volentius i know right
Same,I Have Talked toMy Best friend for 2-3 years And for another one it has been 4-5 years,All three of us Would fool around togeather until the Second one moved away and then a few years later!I Moved away :c
I’ve reached out and reconnected with a few long lost friends, but it never works out in the long run. Its undeniable that reaching out to basic strangers that you used to know in hope of friendship is a sad thing to do and they will definitely look down on you for it. My advice is to keep marching on there in you’re past for a reason and I refuse to be rejected by the same person multiple times it’s soul destroying and we must protect our hearts at all cost.
I cannot agree with you enough. I’ve had to reach out to one friend multiple times, never them. The worst is when you have heart to heart talks with them and you can pick up on that they value someone else more than you and that for that person they do reach out, but never you.
Advice to you is keep on moving forward and don’t look back.
These nothing there anymore!
Love yourself because you’re a great person and a loyal friend.
It’s okay to make mistakes but never let them bring you down.
Be happy with a smile and start a new chapter in your life.
Not everyone deserves to be in your life!
Exactly! It is OK to move on from each other. That is a part of growth.
This made me emotional because I was finally able to talk to one of my dearest friends over the phone this week who I had not heard from for 8 months. We talked for over 2 hours and it was the most healing beautiful thing. Don’t give up on those important, special people in your life. Try to reach out, you may be surprised what can happen.
When she reached out, what did you want to hear her say? I'm asking because I pushed my dear friend away and haven't spoken to her in 6 months. I went into a deep depression and just lost interest in everything, including the people I loved. I'm in a better place right now and I want to reach out, but I have no idea what to say. I don't know how to even initiate the text to call her. & I'm so nervous she is going to reject me (though I wouldn't blame her). How did your friend reach out to you and what words did you want to hear from her?
@@pb4ugo19 just tell her what was going on, if she's a friend she won't be mad
@@MrTrollo2 I did that and she doesn't want to respond to my messages asking what's happening and asking her to catch up and her ignoring it. I don't know what I did at all and I don't understand it. It hurts so much.
@@dontletdonghaedrive let it go. just let it go
It’s seems like 8 months is the tipping point for a lot of these people 🤔
One of the worst feelings in the world is when it feels like you annoy the person you love the most.
Brooklyn Hanninton and one of the best feelings is when your best friend says that you never annoy them no matter what.
It just feels very sad. Their gestures and body language tells that they're annoyed. 😭 It feels horrible then.
@@AbdulHadi-ke5qc tru
Or your bf or gf or family.
This actually happened to me. I was in a really bad headspace that time and was a little bit annoying and never really took into consideration about how my best friend felt. A few days later she told me that i was annoying and ghosted me. She found new friends but i couldnt move on after all i was in a really bad headspace and she was the one i found most comfort to be with. Then i found a text from her saying if we wanted to hang out later because her new friends were being a-holes and only used her for her artistic talent. I said yes and we then made up. Still hurts me to this day to find out that my bestfriend was getting tired+annoyed of me but luckily that situation never happened again and we are still really close.
you think losing a boyfriend is bad, try losing your best friend.
bellyache that’s so deep but that’s life
they can be equally devastating
Madu Mahawaduge Was just about to comment the same thing. When your significant other is your best friend, and you lose them, that pain is .. a lot to deal with
My boyfriend is my bestfriend. So if we break up I'll probably die lol
Madu Mahawaduge Yeah, it honestly is impossible to get through. And most people just dont get how miserable it is so that doesnt help
As someone who has moved around a lot, backpacked across over 50 countries, and met more people than I can remember, I am a self proclaimed expert in surface-level friendships. You can meet amazing people, you can meet people who "get you" and everything just clicks. However, no friendship will ever be better than the best friend you lost in high school or just after college. It just won't because as we age our experiences harden us and they take away our innocence, our capability to feel as intense.
That is something that dawned upon me just like 6 months ago. It sucks but if I am to be honest with myself I don't think I am capable of having a best friend any longer.
I move around a lot too and I truly agree with u.
I agree with you. I too feel i cannot connect with anyone without purpose nowadays, its more networking less friendship.
I feel like I am incapable of having any friends. Usually, the people I connect with the most only are around for a couple weeks or months and move away or I move away. As I have gotten older I now keep to myself to avoid the pain.
@@kiana9941 I know the feeling and it sucks because relationships with other people make my day brighter and what makes life worth living. But I see myself growing more and more detached from people, unable to connect beyond any surface-level interaction. As another comment said, it's more networking than friendship.
I don't know if it's social media, the internet, or a fact of growing up but the reality is that most of the time I feel alone and I just fill my life with sporadic social interactions that don't really amount to anything. And it's not just other people's fault. It's my fault as well.
I kind of agree. My highschool friends were the best and beside one, I lost connection with everyone else. Now its so superficial.
"They're not friends, they're not enemies, they're strangers with memories."
- Pringles Cat
The worst part is when your best friend becomes a stranger to you
Iam a stranger to my BF now, I tried my best to talk to her but she is always ignoring me and now I have no friends
@@pen2cool4u it happens to me all the time that is why I don't upload on my account anymore (this account) because all of my friends feel like a stranger to me
Yeah, it does but you are enough- and you are loved and you will find a friend that cares deeply for you
If you guys ever need a friend I’m here for you-
Ong yes
The girl who left the voicemail for her friend. I truly hope her friend called her back
I want to know as well like a part 2
I know her, the sapposably best friend never called. She was heart broken
@@robertohernandez-os3hm really?
@@robertohernandez-os3hm oh noo
It's really upsetting but if she doesn't even have the time to call back or make sure she is okay after 8 months, than they are probably aren't the best person to be with especially for support. But that doesn't mean they are not fun to hang out with. But I pay my respects for another friend lost. F.
I feel so bad for Alyssa and my heart breaks for her because I know what that feels like keep strong and hopefully her friend will call her back
My friend had mental problems and ghosted me. I've sent her a voicemail a few days ago and she responded, saying "I'm just not someone who can be a friend."
I don't know what to feel.
When I talked to her, my life felt like it was healing in super speed; her humour, remarks, strange and resilient mind was so addicting I don't know how to accept her abandoning me.
I still love her a lot.
Thought we were together for the ride.
To make matters worse she was my only friend.
I can't search for anyone else.. without thinking it's her replacement.
My former best friend did the same thing. Hurts less with time
I can relate to that so much. It just came out of nowhere. And to make things even worse, she became friends with almost everyone in our common circle of friends (my only circle by the way).Two years and it still hurts. The worst part? I never got an explanation besides that her "conveniences and life style have changed" + I had an additional reason to leave those friends behind.
Welp I had quite the similar friend
Her relationship first distanced us bit by it then she did it herself and never told me why.
Whenever I asked her she said she is going through stuff mentally and can't do this even tho she talked to other people hehe..
I’m so terribly sad and terrified to go to highschool without my friend we will be splitting up and she is the only one who gets me, and I love her so much
just happened to me yesterday
I feel like Alissa was the only one who truly loved her friend. That kind of loss hurts so much more.
Fallen Eternal honestly
I feel like thats not exactly true i mean most of them cared to call them that's enough just to think about somebody and they were all emotional showing they truly loved these people.
Tell me about it. My friend traded me for someone who bullied me, they would threaten me for no reason. But, I got the help I needed and I feel much more confident in myself.
I am moving so I am glad I won’t have to go to high school with them. People that that do not deserve your friendship. Don’t let them take advantage of you.
There is ALOT more to this story so please don’t judge.
What I have learned from this experience is that YOU NEED TO stick up for yourself!!! It is WORTH it! YOU are worth it!!! I hope someone who needs this information sees it. Don’t give up!!!
@@mickeysofine6386 thank you tbh i have very few friends but I'd rather keep it that way cause those few you can really get close to , build a bond and trust ,there aren't many people that you can trust :)
@@mickeysofine6386 aww sorry. Same thing kinda happened to me in the past and I'm still kinda friends with her. It sucks 😞
the worst feeling is when you introduce your two friends to each other and they both ditch you and become best friends.
OMG FELT THAT
That's really...the saddest feeling ever
The worst worst worst
asdfghjk i have no words to describe this
Happened to me I had this gang of friends I introduced all of them to each other....and now I am the loneliest kid who well lost all her friends it sucks.a lot.
Friendships are the most important to me, I’m autistic and tend to get attached to people easy. I’ve had bad friends but I love them so much still, even though I’ve managed to distance myself from them I miss them so much, but I know they will hurt me if I go back again.
i am in the same situation too :(
@@sono._. stay strong and don’t forget the bad things they’ve done to you
I am autistic too!! I had such a nice friend for the past six years. She really understood me and communicating with her was easier than with anyone else. I felt safest with her and I could unmask easiest when I was with her. Last year, our friendship really reached a new heights. I thought this it, we are sisters. I am not alone anymore. But now we haven’t really hung out since my birthday in October. I tried so much to get in touch with her, I did my very best to not stress out. To keep my cool and do not force my friendship upon her, but I think it’s really over. She has new friends. She has a new boyfriend. She has a very nice job. I’m very happy for her but I am so sad that I cannot be part of it anymore. I don’t understand why, I truly don’t understand. I wish I could just understand. It’s like there’s a hole in my heart.
I am autistic and I have lost a friend because mostly I am bad at social rules, emotions understanding and regulations….and also due to lack of communication
I’ve never really had any friends at all. So seeing people with such deep connections to people they’ve lost is a first. I never thought people could have this deep a connection with a friend 🙂
@Memer didnt u go skl? u must have made some
Yeah. I've made friends but this ones are actually people you can be vulnerable around for them..😂😂I thought friends were to talk about future and then disappear to make it😂
samee
I'm having these experiences
i decided to communicate with new ppl
made new friends
i wish i did this earlier
@@E3boss2003 We are still talking about about a SCHOOL here, (but I understand your point there :-)
Same
The saddest thing in the world is the crack in someone’s voice when they’re about to cry.
tHe 7 dEaDLY sInS yep
Leaves from the vine
@@donnacorbett4364 "sIr mAlIoDiS"
Fr tho! That hit hard
sur mal lío das,w-w-What are u doing
The worst feeling for me is knowing you’re drifting from your best friend and you can’t do anything about it ;(
Tell me about it my homie is moving 113 miles away.
EXACTLY what’s happening to me
Angelina Johnson it sucks because you always wanna text them or call them but can’t cuz you haven’t talked in ages and you miss your best memories. It just sucks
Zakk ITS NOT THE Same, even if they’re far away, it won’t be the same anymore and it can drift you apart anyways.
That's how me and my best friend are right now and seeing this video just hurt A LOT so I hope we put the pieces together again one day 😔
i can tell the friendship meant a GREAT DEAL to alyssa. i’m also like that with my friends. recently my friend and i stopped talking and it’s been so hard mourning someone who’s very much alive. hopefully alyssa is doing alright wherever she is
“And what hurts the most is that ppl can go from people you know to people you don’t”
The girl whos friend didn't answer her words hit too close to home..
Definitely. Currently living that situation now. I have reached out to make amends and find out what went wrong but all I get is a deafening silence. It hurts to have a former best friend not want to be a part of your life anymore 😢
Ikr
I literally cried the first 2seconds of the video
Same
kennedy’s friend was my least favourite part of this. “no i never said that.” “you’ll call me when YOU have time” no sis the phone works both ways...
tay - YESS BIH TOTALLY AGREE I WAS LIKE WHAT AN ASS 😑😑😑
I thought he was nice LOL, cos he's respecting that she won't be free/want to pick up the calls if he just calls, so he's giving her the control.
Nancy Wang but for 8 months he let her believe that she was his second choice. not once in that span of time did he call or reach out to reassure that she could always call or rely on him... that’s all im sayin
@@tay-8757 No, for 8 months she THOUGHT she couldn't talk to him. SHE made the assumption and stopped talking to him. Did you even pay attention?
Bikers Suckass don’t get so riled up, i was just stating how i viewed the situation as a third party
Losing friends deeply hurt than anything else.
this made me realize that my best friend that I’ve known since I was four has slowly been drifting away for someone they have known for only like 2 years. they keep flipping me off randomly and throwing things like paper n stuff at me. it hurts to know that last year we were all a happy group.
Bros before Hoes. Remember that.
Im so sorry:(
alissa is too pure for the world. no one deserves her
døreen x wu what???!
She must be protected at all cost :
No one deserves her but she deserves everything
;-; likes are on 888 I can't do it
Bob Ross:
I’m not gonna lie. I wished someone missed me like that
I´m with ya bro. Feels sad to not have someone to miss you this way
It’s ok. The fact that your like “I’m not gonna lie” at least we know your not saying this for attention and I respect that
Im with you
red x17 I’m sure at least one person misses you
Michael V no u don’t want to have that. I have already been through it many times, it hurts, bad it’s like losing apart of your life. You should be grateful this hasn’t happened to you before, because you’ll regret the day you said you want it.
I met my female friend at my first job in a grocery store
She was amazing and still is.
We did almost everything together. She also was the first person who I generally shared a drink
What changed the most was when she got into a relationship and from there, we just stopped talking to each other.
That last time I spent time with her was when she asked me to help her with laundry
That was Jan or April of 2022
The last message I sent her was to not overwork herself to much
(She tends to do that) and to take care of herself.
That was in June 2022
I miss you Heidi
I had a childhood best friend. We’d known each other since we were 4. We would hold hands when we crossed the street and walk to the bus together. When we started growing up, he went to all my soccer games and I went to all his basketball games. We used to spend hours lying in the hammock in his back yard, just talking because being with each other was all we needed. I loved him, and he loved me too. We talked about everything, then one day he became a stranger. I never figured out what happened, or why he stopped talking to me but life goes on. Even now years later I’ll stumble along a photograph, or a board game we used to play and remember him. I wonder how he’s doing, and if he’s happier now then he was before. I hope he has found people to love him like I have.
it could be that he had/has mental health issues. My childhood best friend stopped reciprocating in our friendship for seemingly no reason in my mind. Turned out she had a rough home life and an abusive relationship with her boyfriend. I had no idea. She had depression and anxiety, and that was why she stopped talking to me. Anyways, if you want to, you should try reaching out if you have a way...I decided to reach out one day because I had nothing to lose, and it was so worth it. My childhood friend and I are close again, and we both missed each other.
You should seriously reach out to him
Seeing your best friends slowly turn in to strangers hurts the most.
depends on your opinion
No seeing your best friend become your torturer hurts more.
@hyeboi that's subjective
True
Aka middle school and high school😬
There's a reason why people from your past didn't make it to your future.
Yo, you just gave me goosebumps. I'm gonna steal your qoute😂✌
Yeah sometimes your actions are the reason.
100%
@Reee find people who are low maintenance.
@@halesvitkona9841 Or, get this. Its most likely the other person. Ikr mind blowing.
after having nearly lost all my close friends, one of them which I was super close to (way over 10 years now is a complete stranger) I've realized that becoming too attached to them ends up hurting us way more than it should. I love them all, but now I've seen that being more independent is better in the long run. i don't wish to stay lonesome forever but neither do I need nor desire to feel the same pain twice.
Same here. I am sensitive and I can no longer endure this breakup pain. It takes longer for me to get better.
@@chaku9906 i completely understand. but hang in there, pain or loneliness won't last forever. There's always meaning behind the struggle we face so it'll be worth it in the end✊🏼
I can relate that👋
Yah cant believe too much in other people.🙂
I agree
Imagine losing two best friends at the same time bc your going through depression and see one of them already replacing you with a new friend who they have even more in common with bc they have the same talent 😭💔
😢💔💯
The worst feeling is when your best friend just stops talking to you with no explanation. Nothing happened between the two of you. You just stop communicating until theirs nothing left but feelings of sadness and guilt as though you did something wrong.
@Sandra 'Sandy' I would say try talking to her before you lose all communication.
Same thing, and it really hurts when you two study at same school and every time when you see that they are having fun with others, treating you like a stranger, you just can't understand why, and you just start blame yourself and also you cannot make other friends because you are afraid that they also leave you or start thinking that no one wants to be friends with you
@@ving7515 Oh wow....I feel terrible rn. Are you okay? Because you WILL find somebody, everybody does.
funny that’s exactly what happened to me i met her in 6th grade and we were inseparable throughout middle school you would always see us together and since I’ve never had a best friend like that i thought i finally found the right person until we reached high school she stopped talking to me, we lost communication and has treated me like a stranger she still does and i always had this guilty feeling that it was my fault
I experienced this. She keeps in contact with her other friends, but not me.
"you can always call, ill be there" also them "your call has been forwarded to an automatic voicemail system"
Zachary Paradagomez i think i het her comment its mean like a person used to promise that they will always be there for u but at the end they re the one who leave first
Sadly my boyfriend..
What does 'forwarded to an automatic voicemail system ' mean??
@@farhanatasnim8948 They dont answer the call or declined immediately
whoever's reading this remember God loves you so much
Seeing my best friend as strangers is one of the worst things i ever felt ,it’s just so sad how close u get to someone and the everything changes
Yup i want to see my bestie so bad but simultaneously i dont because it hurts
"why can't you just be happy for me," i always hear that from people who do not want to acknowledge how they have hurt the ones they expect praise from
losing a best friend is the worst kind of heart break.
It's not tho
Agreed 😔
No what about when you make your mom sad and find out a couple hours later
NOTTHRDUDRFRU - N0cl0u7 if u ever felt someone that was always by your side, then u screw up and your whole friendship with that person just fades away, then i’d think u understand
@@aidanbarsano5684 depends on the person
"A true friend is someone who sees the pain in your eyes while everyone else believes the smile on your face."
i got no true friends
@@upper9170 i can be your true friend
MDLeeEnIxx v a true friend sees the plan in your eyes when everyone thinks your incident 😂❤️😊
Omg yes
Yeah... that’s no one, well it used to but not anymore 💔🥺😖
I cried watching this video. Losing a friend is the worst thing ever. It's also torture when you fear that your current friends will leave you eventually. At the end of the day, no matter what happens, you just have to be the best version of you and also the best friend you can be.
Not so easy at all for people that suffer from mental and emotional health issues
this gave me great insight on how human beings minds work and made me feel more comfortable with being vulnerable
UA-cam recommendations seems to be pulling my deepest and darkest feelings out of their caves
4MBER omg same
this is the most relatable thing I've seen this year
Some people grow up in caves.
damn..same.. 😫
Yep I think they are reading my mind
When Alyssa said “hey” I heard her pain.
Kudos to all of these individuals. I know I wouldn’t have the courage to call my “best friend”, especially after being the one who ended things. Hopefully they found closure with this.
OMG. I wanted to hug that girl that was crying. I hope she's doing well. Kudos to everyone brave enough to do that. Going through it myself and wouldn't have the courage.
Alyssa is precious. Protect her. Never let her get hurt again.
Sadly she will probably get hurt again hopefully she can overcome all her obstacles
Sadly the nicest people end up getting hurt the most
@@blaze2x569 hello fellow demon slayer fan who watches these
your always gonna get hurt in life you cant really prevent that from happening @Adelly bean
@@blaze2x569 This happens...
“And suddenly, they were strangers again....”
Man that's tragic
Yo XD rude
-they-
I tried this to ask forgiveness because I didn’t know what I did wrong.
Never heard back.
Sometimes some people are worth giving up.
Yeah they’re really worth giving up but it’s still hard knowing that they had an important part in your life
I know
It’s so crazy we spend so much time getting to know someone to only become strangers again.
Message: don’t cut of your friends because of a boyfriend/girlfriend
I’d have to disagree
Marie Tupou why?
It really depends on the circumstance
Marie Tupou
It depends
You're probably not in a relationship:)
I felt so bad for the girl who’s friend didn’t pick up 🥺🥺
It actually sounded like she declined.
That's not a friend
@@carlostobar4654 true true
@@jovialminer8583 ohhhh okay well that makes me feel even qorse 🤣
@@carlostobar4654 you have no idea what happened between them
I’ve had a few friendships fade away and have reached out to those friends to try and reconnect but it’s never the same. I’ve learned to live with that fact at least having the memories with those people that keeps me from thinking awful things about me or the other person.
It’s really hard and I feel Alyssa’s pain. She was really brave to leave a voicemail, I don’t know if I could.
"I wanna apologize for being selfish, I thought I needed to push people away to take care of my self " I felt that because it's what I do.
The worst feeling is..
When you have a best friend and they get a boyfriend and leave you because they have someone new now.
and they talk to you only when they need something :(
@@lukakojic5514 Thats so relatable for me right now,me and my best friend talk very often about her problems with her girlfriend and it annoys me that she doesen't want anything else to talk about.
so my best friend threw me into the darkness after 14 years. it means I thought that she is my best friend bt she's never think that way.
it's all happened when she found her new friends & boyfriend
or you try to keep them and they leave you anyway and only ask when they need something or their bf isn’t available
"Could you call them?
Everyone: "yes I can"
that one guy: "probably not."
The only guy I can relate to
Absolute madlad
When I read this comment this scene was played on the video
I wouldn't either, people don't deserve to beg them to be friends again
@@998576999 it's not exactly begging its just a chance to clear the air and find out why what happened did happen it's a great chance to fix the relationship even if they arent best friends again
I went through a bad "friend breakup" in March. She cut me off and said she couldn't handle me but didn't ever really explain why. I know I wasn't a perfect friend but I thought our friendship would last. Looking back I can see how our personalities made our friendship stressful but I wish we'd been able to talk about it. I never got a chance to talk about what went wrong with her or to try to fix things. She abandoned me when she was one of my closest friends.
"Ghosting" is such a painful thing to experience. I think for us as humans, who desire community and connection, it leaves us so wounded and abandoned. I wish it wasn't a thing.
))':
all these friendships have the one person trying to reach out and the people on the other line dont even care :(
or maybe both of them were care but they're too shy to reach out
@@ariqfajar5708 yep
@@ariqfajar5708 ya I agree bcz I am someone who won’t talk to unless talk to because I get scared and nervous I don’t text till text to bcz I think I’m annoying
@@louisenorrie5330 that's what I think sometimes
yes. exactly.
I feel exactly how the girl who cried , you miss that one friend but you know you tried and if you get nothing back from them it’s just time to leave it alone .
This really makes me a little emotional. This is great to see and also hurts. I can understand how these people feel and brings a lot of memories of all my most vulnerable/close friendships.
The worst feeling is:
When they start to hang out with the wrong group of people and you can slowly but surely see them change as a person for the worse over time. And there is nothing you can do to change it. And the next thing you know, 1 year passes and they are completely a different person. Same
Woah lots of likes
You just described everything
exactly what happened to me, just that it's only been a few months and she's completely different now
I see that in my best friend ... idk what to do
Omg this happened to me but the best thing for me and him was just to go our separate ways it kinda felt like 7 years of being loyal to him was wasted down the drain...
Yess literally the same thing happened to me. She was becoming such a bad person and when I got upset about it my mom told me that's its because of her parents divorce that she was becoming a bad person and talking about people badly.
Worst is, he or she was your only friend.
felt this
ñõ õñė čãrêś
Yesss!!! 😫😭
And I wasn't her or him only friend
@@zahraw4345 ouch
Closure is trying and knowing the end result. And now you can move on ! Build yourself up!
Love in other ways
I felt that. I reached out to my friend multiple times. After 2 months, 4 months, 9 months and 11 months. She read the first two messages but after that she didn’t bothered opening them anymore. I won’t reach out anymore and that’s fine I guess. Not everyone wants to stay in your life and that’s okay. It breaks my heart when certain songs come up on the radio and it reminds me of her. I hope she is happy and healthy. Maybe by any chance she reads this so happy newyear Ying! It’s been 1y 7 months and I miss you.
“You can always call me” he said, but he ain’t ever call her.
cuz he was scared
He seemed so mean to her like I would just forget about him.
Yea Ik he didn’t wanna talk to her and you can tell
Righttt
Yeah it was a total cop out. He basically said: I’m not going to contact you and I’m not going to try,so you can contact me if you want to do all the work.
I feel for Alyssa. At first she seemed like she was trying her best to act like the happiest person there but just lost it by the end. I hope everything's good with her and everybody else. ❤️
💖
I know 💔
I know when this happens it's always incredibly sad and I've experienced drifting apart from close friends and even completely losing contact. One thing I've learned though is we each go through different things in life and we meet these great people, sometimes just for a season so we can grow together, and then life pulls us our separate ways. To everyone out there who's going through something similar and feeling the pain of losing a friend, don't let it weigh you down, smile, be grateful for having known them and go out there and live your life. Trust me, you'll meet new amazing people to create more memories with ❤
This takes so much strength to do. So proud of these beautiful people.
I feel so bad for Alissa, like that is so hard to almost lose a friend.
Hopefully Alissa called again and they picked up! 😌😔
Its hard. i used to have a freind senc kindergarten to middle school he changed during middle school and didint rlly treat me the best idk he just becam my best freind to the worst it sucks...
I lost like 12 friends in a week
Ëkñøōr* Pùñïā yeah, I lost two in middle school and never recovered.
She wasn’t good for me but sometimes I just miss her...
Sadly, we all go through that. You just have to realize, that despite the pain of losing your friend, it made you a stronger and probably also a better person. We shouldn't hang out with people who bring out the worst in us.
Been there bro keep your head up you did what’s right!
I miss her all the time...
Also..heyy Baby Louis❤️
same for him 😔 i think we’re both definitely doing better off without each other tho but there are some days i do miss him and think about our good times 🥺
why do i feel the other she, my friend, might be also relating to this like i am
I regret so much not calling my best friend when i had the chance, i wish we didn't fall apart so much before he passed away. I really wish i could call him and tell him everything that we could have done together
i really hope your doing well, and i'm so sorry for your loss.❤🕊️
Alyssa's reaction made me cry so much. Losing my best friend was one of the hardest heart break of my life, if not the hardest. Especially when she is doing so much better without you and you are miserable without her.
we need to protect alyssa at all costs
yes.
Yeah, and I really wanna hug her, because she just seemed so broken..
Yes
@@rsq_2100 literally my thoughts
thanks 😏