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  • @manikamayumi
    @manikamayumi 4 роки тому +6869

    The worst part is when you go separate ways but you still can’t let go.

    • @Cynthia-il8ju
      @Cynthia-il8ju 4 роки тому +57

      A friend moved 2 years ago and I remembered crying so much the same day she left. And I did move on, but I still can't let go

    • @chipchrome1769
      @chipchrome1769 4 роки тому +35

      I don't know how to move on i realy want to it hurts :(

    • @manikamayumi
      @manikamayumi 4 роки тому +15

      @Cynthia Same, my friend also moved about 2 years ago 🥺 and I had a dream about her last week 😭

    • @daisyjagong9198
      @daisyjagong9198 4 роки тому +21

      its worse if you dont have them in your contact list and you dont know where they went

    • @manikamayumi
      @manikamayumi 4 роки тому +10

      True 😭🥺 i’ve searched for them everywhere :(

  • @saraelfassielfehri4956
    @saraelfassielfehri4956 4 роки тому +23860

    The worst feeling is having to apologize for something that wasn't your fault to people who didn't even care

    • @muslimbrother7248
      @muslimbrother7248 4 роки тому +274

      That's what I'm feeling rn sis 🙇🏽‍♂️💕☹

    • @stutim3987
      @stutim3987 4 роки тому +36

      True

    • @veronikatramisak633
      @veronikatramisak633 4 роки тому +104

      That is exactly what I am going through right now, but slowly I start to move on with my life 😅🙃

    • @zatonozato
      @zatonozato 4 роки тому +115

      Then don't apologize, what's the problem.

    • @theresnothinghereatall
      @theresnothinghereatall 4 роки тому +42

      @@zatonozato Lmfao

  • @jordanjay8314
    @jordanjay8314 5 років тому +13569

    it honestly really hurts to hear the crack in someone’s voice when they’re about to cry

    • @widderx
      @widderx 5 років тому +104

      I think its probably the only reason I actually cried

    • @misou4107
      @misou4107 4 роки тому +12

      Ikr 🥺🥺

    • @vkimtaehyungsimp8881
      @vkimtaehyungsimp8881 4 роки тому +16

      alyssa :(

    • @kimberlycontreras7407
      @kimberlycontreras7407 4 роки тому +60

      I hate when people see or hear me cry and I just completely stop talking because I sound like a fourteen year old going through puberty cus of how much my voice cracks

    • @misou4107
      @misou4107 4 роки тому +2

      @Keksmo that's really sweet of you, I'm okay though!! I hope you manage to help some people who need it!! 💌💓

  • @joliejiang626
    @joliejiang626 2 роки тому +6571

    I think the girl that was crying valued her friendship so much and that’s kinda rare. I hope the best for her whether that’s reconnecting with her friend or not.

    • @Eira436
      @Eira436 2 роки тому +181

      I can feel her pain and it’s people like us that get hurt most

    • @klyzer5725
      @klyzer5725 2 роки тому +12

      it's not healthy

    • @paimilkeu319
      @paimilkeu319 2 роки тому +68

      @@klyzer5725 well it can't be help since she really sincere love her best friend so much (probably similiar with my situation back then)
      Sorry for my bad english i hope you get what i'm trying to say :"

    • @jordanjohnson9866
      @jordanjohnson9866 2 роки тому +10

      Nah. Not kinda rare. /

    • @kanika2155
      @kanika2155 2 роки тому +35

      I could feel her pain bcz my bestfriend started ignoring me for our another common friend..she starting prioritising her more....and that's how we ended up being strangers...that hurts alot.....and when I tried to talk to her she said that we both are equally important to her but how can two people hold some positions at one place???? And now the girl that used to be our common friend is my kinda enemy now...she is always badmouthing me and spreading rumours...bcz she wanted my bff to be hers.....ughhhh....it's just sooo hurtful

  • @bethanyr5741
    @bethanyr5741 5 років тому +3750

    Alyssa is so emotional. You can tell how hurt she is.

    • @adisturbedoneandi
      @adisturbedoneandi 4 роки тому +77

      I relate to her, thinking about my best friend who I have not seen in one year, and last spoke to 10 months ago over the text... I get really damn emotional because I really, really miss her.

    • @jimmyperkins97
      @jimmyperkins97 4 роки тому +17

      i wanna give her a hug

    • @snickerswo1f519
      @snickerswo1f519 4 роки тому +15

      I miss my "best friend" i moved schools like 4 years ago and i got her insta last year (she only texted me a lil bit..) but she stopped texting me, she didn't even say she missed me while i did. She would always post about all her friends having fun together. It hurts. But i guess that's just life, I'll try my best to forget about her.

    • @cherryloverxd
      @cherryloverxd 4 роки тому +3

      Can We get to 1,000 subscribers without videos ? I lost my bff moving and entering 6th grade I thought we would be friends again but we stopped talking and I miss her a lot

    • @froggyguts9623
      @froggyguts9623 4 роки тому +6

      Yeah, I connected with her so much and it just made me want to cry every time I heard her voice in this video. You could hear the pain in her voice.

  • @sunderius
    @sunderius 5 років тому +69716

    One of the worst feelings in the world is when it feels like you annoy the person you love the most.

    • @Ahmad-um2zr
      @Ahmad-um2zr 5 років тому +1849

      Brooklyn Hanninton and one of the best feelings is when your best friend says that you never annoy them no matter what.

    • @AbdulHadi-ke5qc
      @AbdulHadi-ke5qc 5 років тому +1336

      It just feels very sad. Their gestures and body language tells that they're annoyed. 😭 It feels horrible then.

    • @may-bl3jb
      @may-bl3jb 5 років тому +66

      @@AbdulHadi-ke5qc tru

    • @underthestarsoverthemoon4259
      @underthestarsoverthemoon4259 5 років тому +104

      Or your bf or gf or family.

    • @tekokitty9019
      @tekokitty9019 5 років тому +327

      This actually happened to me. I was in a really bad headspace that time and was a little bit annoying and never really took into consideration about how my best friend felt. A few days later she told me that i was annoying and ghosted me. She found new friends but i couldnt move on after all i was in a really bad headspace and she was the one i found most comfort to be with. Then i found a text from her saying if we wanted to hang out later because her new friends were being a-holes and only used her for her artistic talent. I said yes and we then made up. Still hurts me to this day to find out that my bestfriend was getting tired+annoyed of me but luckily that situation never happened again and we are still really close.

  • @lindaraka5748
    @lindaraka5748 5 років тому +12313

    The girl who left the voicemail. I hope she’s okay. I can relate to her so much. I’m crying.

    • @finch9782
      @finch9782 5 років тому +112

      Me too, this video hurt so much to watch. I recently had to cut off my ex best friend because she got abusive and then ghosted me because of a boy. In the time she wasn’t talking to me I thought back on our friendship and I realized she really was treating me in toxic ways. I’d spend nights crying because of her. Yes I’m glad she’s out of my life but after I left her life she sent me a text saying I was awful for leaving. Thinking about her and how our friendship went down is really hard for me to think about and in this video I’d mention her and calling her would be the hardest thing to do.

    • @mrs.piggywho6114
      @mrs.piggywho6114 5 років тому +18

      I have a best friend and she lost her best friend so I always feel so useless because I can’t really help her get over him. 😔

    • @asiandod325
      @asiandod325 5 років тому +5

      Eye infections can also cause teary eyes.

    • @_DearDarling_
      @_DearDarling_ 5 років тому +13

      @@finch9782 I can relate because my friend was toxic too I cut her off and felt bad about it and I'm still upset about it..

    • @jenniferd6606
      @jenniferd6606 5 років тому +5

      ME TOO

  • @eli3568
    @eli3568 2 роки тому +9608

    Our society prioritizes romantic relationships so heavily above friendships, I think it's actually tragic.

    • @angelredvivar
      @angelredvivar 2 роки тому +28

      @@Tania-rg7jp agreed

    • @redefinedliving5974
      @redefinedliving5974 2 роки тому +173

      true i prefer friendships

    • @damianburris4537
      @damianburris4537 2 роки тому +15

      But if she wants to be only friends I'm going to go for a romantic relationship instead it's going to get more of my attention

    • @alwaysshit
      @alwaysshit 2 роки тому +7

      YES THIS

    • @nevermindmyname813
      @nevermindmyname813 2 роки тому +112

      I have been saying this. The same way we are encouraged to have open and honest communication with our partners and to put effort into those relationships, we should be encouraged to do the same with friendships

  • @Publiclighthouse
    @Publiclighthouse 4 роки тому +7039

    The guy in the blue shirt tried talking to a best friend that seemed so detached. She didn’t even sound happy or excited to hear from him.

    • @ABirdOnTheMoon
      @ABirdOnTheMoon 4 роки тому +543

      L.Pasteur I felt very sad for him. She hardly showed anything and no emotions :(

    • @jamalchowdhury5953
      @jamalchowdhury5953 4 роки тому +211

      Omgg, I know right. She whatsoever portrayed no kind of emotion.

    • @yassinrider8982
      @yassinrider8982 4 роки тому +56

      This is exactly my situation since 1 year

    • @isabelle6622
      @isabelle6622 4 роки тому +89

      it was probably really awkward lmao💀😳

    • @sumaiyahj
      @sumaiyahj 4 роки тому +242

      It’s really painful when someone cuts you off even if it’s for whatever situation they’re going through. She has every right to feel the way she did. I’d be detached too.

  • @Sam-du7cm
    @Sam-du7cm 4 роки тому +13052

    The worst part is when you know it’s too late and it will never be the same

    • @roseturkey
      @roseturkey 4 роки тому +146

      Samantha tbh my old friend moved schools and we stopped talking and I text her a year later and we just say hi and bye.

    • @bittersweet3925
      @bittersweet3925 4 роки тому +164

      Sometimes it shouldn’t be the same, people aren’t always meant to stay in your life.

    • @bittersweet3925
      @bittersweet3925 4 роки тому +76

      Ezekiel Turrecha sometimes the truth is, people don’t deserve you or your time. Especially when they hurt you and don’t truly care. You are worth more.

    • @natalypaolacalvomejia9920
      @natalypaolacalvomejia9920 4 роки тому +2

      MAE...

    • @thischannelhasnofuture3325
      @thischannelhasnofuture3325 4 роки тому +2

      yep... it is

  • @jeanelee1305
    @jeanelee1305 4 роки тому +24152

    hearing someone's voice cracking and about to cry on a phone call is the worst feeling ever.

  • @moumitaganguly3982
    @moumitaganguly3982 2 роки тому +4181

    The worst part comes when you realize that the other person feel distracted or bored while talking to you even though it's the same person whom you used to talk to randomly. It hurts to witness them as past tense... little little fun moments, affection, care, limitless phone calls, bickerings, hanging out & the list go on.

    • @ViralclipcentralVCC
      @ViralclipcentralVCC 2 роки тому +7

      Is there anything to do to change this?

    • @maciejdziewit6822
      @maciejdziewit6822 2 роки тому +15

      @@ViralclipcentralVCC accepting the fact we will all unify into ONE, and we'll remain FOREVER

    • @shnakalaka3647
      @shnakalaka3647 2 роки тому +42

      Yea I miss my friend and when I try to talk to them they seem bored blan and distracted miss them.

    • @delisha3043
      @delisha3043 2 роки тому +1

      This!!! exactly:')

    • @malz240
      @malz240 2 роки тому +3

      When I talk to my friend who I live two hours away from she never talks to me at all. If I could show you my texts to her you would see.

  • @angee7763
    @angee7763 4 роки тому +3357

    The worst feeling for me is knowing you’re drifting from your best friend and you can’t do anything about it ;(

    • @nuttkraker2127
      @nuttkraker2127 4 роки тому +15

      Tell me about it my homie is moving 113 miles away.

    • @iikittydr8503
      @iikittydr8503 4 роки тому +3

      EXACTLY what’s happening to me

    • @raya2273
      @raya2273 4 роки тому +15

      Angelina Johnson it sucks because you always wanna text them or call them but can’t cuz you haven’t talked in ages and you miss your best memories. It just sucks

    • @yuncakes
      @yuncakes 4 роки тому +5

      Zakk ITS NOT THE Same, even if they’re far away, it won’t be the same anymore and it can drift you apart anyways.

    • @genesis1989
      @genesis1989 4 роки тому +7

      That's how me and my best friend are right now and seeing this video just hurt A LOT so I hope we put the pieces together again one day 😔

  • @Jydeboi
    @Jydeboi 5 років тому +14355

    I feel like Alissa was the only one who truly loved her friend. That kind of loss hurts so much more.

    • @eddyrivera6875
      @eddyrivera6875 5 років тому +28

      Fallen Eternal honestly

    • @rachelbrady7474
      @rachelbrady7474 5 років тому +327

      I feel like thats not exactly true i mean most of them cared to call them that's enough just to think about somebody and they were all emotional showing they truly loved these people.

    • @mickeysofine6386
      @mickeysofine6386 5 років тому +86

      Tell me about it. My friend traded me for someone who bullied me, they would threaten me for no reason. But, I got the help I needed and I feel much more confident in myself.
      I am moving so I am glad I won’t have to go to high school with them. People that that do not deserve your friendship. Don’t let them take advantage of you.
      There is ALOT more to this story so please don’t judge.
      What I have learned from this experience is that YOU NEED TO stick up for yourself!!! It is WORTH it! YOU are worth it!!! I hope someone who needs this information sees it. Don’t give up!!!

    • @rachelbrady7474
      @rachelbrady7474 5 років тому +5

      @@mickeysofine6386 thank you tbh i have very few friends but I'd rather keep it that way cause those few you can really get close to , build a bond and trust ,there aren't many people that you can trust :)

    • @kiana5548
      @kiana5548 5 років тому +4

      @@mickeysofine6386 aww sorry. Same thing kinda happened to me in the past and I'm still kinda friends with her. It sucks 😞

  • @beccatraxler192
    @beccatraxler192 5 років тому +4668

    The second your best friend becomes a person who you don’t even recognize it’s literally the worst feeling in the world.

  • @o.k.3287
    @o.k.3287 3 роки тому +4634

    “Your call has been forwarded to an automated voice messaging system.”
    My heart broke for both Alyssa and I. The amount of times I’ve heard that ringtone when trying to call my best friend is insane. It’s so bad I hear it in my head whenever I simply read the words of it. I am so sorry Alyssa, and you are so brave for leaving the voicemail. I wouldn’t. I know I just wouldn’t have the voice cords for it. I am not the crying type, but simply thinking about how our friendship has gone bad, and how if I try to reach out to her right now nothing will change makes me want to throw up. I started crying the moment you started talking about her because I recognize every voice crack, every sentence, every emotion you have felt. I feel it every time I remember her.
    I just wish things didn’t turn out the way they did.

    • @nareshjamwal5690
      @nareshjamwal5690 3 роки тому +13

      😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @Say2Cups
      @Say2Cups 2 роки тому +10

      Relatable tbh

    • @Karnam0
      @Karnam0 2 роки тому +31

      hope everything is going well. praying for you

    • @Eli-nj6mf
      @Eli-nj6mf 2 роки тому +7

      I had the exact same experience as you and when I heard Alyssa I was also tearing up

    • @ThatAyoBankole
      @ThatAyoBankole 2 роки тому +3

      ❤️❤️

  • @priserves
    @priserves 4 роки тому +9844

    "Your call has been forwarded to an automated voice messaging system."
    Idk but i genuinely feel that Alyssa's friend did not pick up the call intentionally. That hurt.

    • @Medicint20
      @Medicint20 4 роки тому +338

      Would have been amazing if she picked up the phone at the last second and apologized for the pain she caused to Alyssa.

    • @anaklusmos6179
      @anaklusmos6179 4 роки тому +26

      Idk but ied

    • @alyssca743
      @alyssca743 4 роки тому +58

      Whenever I’m in a UA-cam video where someone has the same name as me, I feel really weird lol

    • @cindymarson9053
      @cindymarson9053 4 роки тому +57

      If I did one of these and my best friend answered I would start crying ..my friend meant a lot to me 💗

    • @faezahsamyum8227
      @faezahsamyum8227 4 роки тому +21

      @@cindymarson9053 you should call her!

  • @amberho2541
    @amberho2541 5 років тому +16222

    UA-cam recommendations seems to be pulling my deepest and darkest feelings out of their caves

  • @rowenasantillan2477
    @rowenasantillan2477 4 роки тому +12343

    why do i feel like the comment section is even more emotional than the actual video

  • @adannayoutube4243
    @adannayoutube4243 3 роки тому +1095

    this just proves how important it is to communicate with the people we love, it’s how we keep our relationships going (family, platonic, friendships, romantic)

    • @aidanyun880
      @aidanyun880 2 роки тому +72

      has to be a two way street though, it happens a lot in relationships. There is someone who cares and someone who neglects. You shouldn't be the one caring if they neglect you.

    • @GamingPIPI
      @GamingPIPI Рік тому +2

      But i I feel like the people that were on the phone weren’t truly interested. There were more like “yeah alright I guess” and they moved on

  • @vee11-11
    @vee11-11 5 років тому +31371

    The girl who left a voice mail honestly broke my heart. 😭

  • @brileypayne1835
    @brileypayne1835 4 роки тому +3930

    all these friendships have the one person trying to reach out and the people on the other line dont even care :(

    • @ariqfajar5708
      @ariqfajar5708 3 роки тому +88

      or maybe both of them were care but they're too shy to reach out

    • @iamblasterdark
      @iamblasterdark 3 роки тому +2

      @@ariqfajar5708 yep

    • @louisenorrie5330
      @louisenorrie5330 3 роки тому +32

      @@ariqfajar5708 ya I agree bcz I am someone who won’t talk to unless talk to because I get scared and nervous I don’t text till text to bcz I think I’m annoying

    • @jakegames2736
      @jakegames2736 3 роки тому +9

      @@louisenorrie5330 that's what I think sometimes

    • @victoriawhisman8014
      @victoriawhisman8014 3 роки тому +2

      yes. exactly.

  • @the7deadlysins417
    @the7deadlysins417 4 роки тому +2424

    The saddest thing in the world is the crack in someone’s voice when they’re about to cry.

  • @dingdong_googie
    @dingdong_googie Рік тому +589

    As a person that lost her best friend I'd like to say,
    "I wish our friendship was like those ones in movies".

    • @RockerBoy77
      @RockerBoy77 Рік тому +1

      well put.

    • @kennysfdg471
      @kennysfdg471 Рік тому +4

      "I wish you came to me, instead of listen to gossip... like in the movies" would be mine.

    • @Memoona-zq7yo
      @Memoona-zq7yo Рік тому

      Same

  • @aubreywitt
    @aubreywitt 4 роки тому +2223

    losing a best friend is the worst kind of heart break.

    • @aidanbarsano5684
      @aidanbarsano5684 4 роки тому +3

      It's not tho

    • @cloudnine3721
      @cloudnine3721 4 роки тому +5

      Agreed 😔

    • @auffq
      @auffq 4 роки тому +8

      No what about when you make your mom sad and find out a couple hours later

    • @shoguns849
      @shoguns849 4 роки тому +12

      NOTTHRDUDRFRU - N0cl0u7 if u ever felt someone that was always by your side, then u screw up and your whole friendship with that person just fades away, then i’d think u understand

    • @Taco_Burrito39
      @Taco_Burrito39 4 роки тому +3

      @@aidanbarsano5684 depends on the person

  • @can_aan
    @can_aan 4 роки тому +4842

    The worst feeling is:
    When they start to hang out with the wrong group of people and you can slowly but surely see them change as a person for the worse over time. And there is nothing you can do to change it. And the next thing you know, 1 year passes and they are completely a different person. Same
    Woah lots of likes

    • @ivaylastoilova8483
      @ivaylastoilova8483 4 роки тому +91

      You just described everything

    • @yunyikwie3287
      @yunyikwie3287 4 роки тому +63

      exactly what happened to me, just that it's only been a few months and she's completely different now

    • @emmarose8563
      @emmarose8563 4 роки тому +32

      I see that in my best friend ... idk what to do

    • @megan_idk
      @megan_idk 4 роки тому +34

      Omg this happened to me but the best thing for me and him was just to go our separate ways it kinda felt like 7 years of being loyal to him was wasted down the drain...

    • @yolopewds3736
      @yolopewds3736 4 роки тому +17

      Yess literally the same thing happened to me. She was becoming such a bad person and when I got upset about it my mom told me that's its because of her parents divorce that she was becoming a bad person and talking about people badly.

  • @MilaSmith
    @MilaSmith 5 років тому +2547

    “And suddenly, they were strangers again....”

  • @lorib1819
    @lorib1819 2 роки тому +104

    I can relate to that crying girl. I never saw friendships as fleeting circumstances. I've learned the hard way that people will drop you for the smallest reasons. I wish I had a friend like that girl. She's rare.

  • @lesliecabanas207
    @lesliecabanas207 5 років тому +10233

    Lack of communication is the downfall of every relationship

    • @smileyx9407
      @smileyx9407 5 років тому +38

      leslie cabanas couldn’t agree more

    • @emmabrown429
      @emmabrown429 5 років тому +60

      you are going to make me cry

    • @asiandod325
      @asiandod325 5 років тому +27

      Or neglecting (your parents) for your friends or your "true love" (even though they'll cheat on you by liking an Instagram post).

    • @asiandod325
      @asiandod325 5 років тому +1

      @@smileyx9407 I really couldn't

    • @derekrivas1394
      @derekrivas1394 5 років тому +51

      In my case, I tried to talk to her and tried to communicate but she just ends the conversation. Like she doesn’t want to talk anymore and its sad. I feel like i can’t do anything else

  • @angela-kc3wc
    @angela-kc3wc 5 років тому +96146

    Seeing your best friends slowly turn in to strangers hurts the most.

  • @talayshiabobo5451
    @talayshiabobo5451 4 роки тому +5914

    The worst feeling is when your best friend just stops talking to you with no explanation. Nothing happened between the two of you. You just stop communicating until theirs nothing left but feelings of sadness and guilt as though you did something wrong.

    • @talayshiabobo5451
      @talayshiabobo5451 4 роки тому +53

      @@sandrasandy2175 I would say try talking to her before you lose all communication.

    • @ving7515
      @ving7515 4 роки тому +98

      Same thing, and it really hurts when you two study at same school and every time when you see that they are having fun with others, treating you like a stranger, you just can't understand why, and you just start blame yourself and also you cannot make other friends because you are afraid that they also leave you or start thinking that no one wants to be friends with you

    • @-oreo3786
      @-oreo3786 4 роки тому +17

      @@ving7515 Oh wow....I feel terrible rn. Are you okay? Because you WILL find somebody, everybody does.

    • @renedollz
      @renedollz 4 роки тому +23

      funny that’s exactly what happened to me i met her in 6th grade and we were inseparable throughout middle school you would always see us together and since I’ve never had a best friend like that i thought i finally found the right person until we reached high school she stopped talking to me, we lost communication and has treated me like a stranger she still does and i always had this guilty feeling that it was my fault

    • @charlinecharlostin3188
      @charlinecharlostin3188 4 роки тому +22

      I experienced this. She keeps in contact with her other friends, but not me.

  • @siddhibajpai9595
    @siddhibajpai9595 2 роки тому +2501

    " *Friendship isn't about whom you have known the longest* "
    " *It's about who came and never left you alone when you needed someone the most* " 💓

    • @vuedanto8576
      @vuedanto8576 2 роки тому +36

      That means I never had real friends, even if don't have friends.

    • @siddhibajpai9595
      @siddhibajpai9595 2 роки тому +9

      @@vuedanto8576 mee too but its ok uk karma is a b*tch

    • @cfjlkfsjf
      @cfjlkfsjf Рік тому

      Friend dumped after 18 years and I was always there supporting her LMAO!!! Got back with her ex and let all her male friends go to build trust, which is another way of saying he's a jealous mofo. The worst part is I even supported her relationship and hoped they are together a long time and was there when she was dumped hard....LMFAO!!!!! she blocked now breh, wished her well and said I always hope you're happy but you blocked now and to never contact me again.

    • @rojana28
      @rojana28 Рік тому

      @@siddhibajpai9595I don’t karma is a b****

    • @macrocosm4442
      @macrocosm4442 Рік тому

      Indeedr❤mr❤r

  • @mandeukie750
    @mandeukie750 5 років тому +17481

    The girl who left the voicemail for her friend. I truly hope her friend called her back

    • @maevewilliams2398
      @maevewilliams2398 5 років тому +679

      I want to know as well like a part 2

    • @robertohernandez-os3hm
      @robertohernandez-os3hm 5 років тому +911

      I know her, the sapposably best friend never called. She was heart broken

    • @-midnight_wolf-4616
      @-midnight_wolf-4616 5 років тому +37

      @@robertohernandez-os3hm really?

    • @benjaminxx9850
      @benjaminxx9850 5 років тому +24

      @@robertohernandez-os3hm oh noo

    • @CarlosRodriguez-fx6go
      @CarlosRodriguez-fx6go 5 років тому +543

      It's really upsetting but if she doesn't even have the time to call back or make sure she is okay after 8 months, than they are probably aren't the best person to be with especially for support. But that doesn't mean they are not fun to hang out with. But I pay my respects for another friend lost. F.

  • @bebodebo8183
    @bebodebo8183 5 років тому +3029

    the dude wasn’t selfish at all
    self-care is the best care and his mental state was more important than a relationship
    trust

    • @hadassah6563
      @hadassah6563 5 років тому +38

      Yeah, but unless the friendship was a problem, it's better to let someone help u, than to push everyone away. If the friend was toxic or somthing I would totally get it, but otherwise, it's punishing yourself

    • @xnisha_2581
      @xnisha_2581 5 років тому +8

      im in a similar situation right now and i dont know how i should tell the guy why i ghosted him so suddenly. i feel like it was really selfish of me to not let him know why i ghosted him. it started from me needing space and then got too anxious to message again because ive convinced myself that it was for our own good ; so that we wont get hurt anymore, but that backfired into me missing him, getting anxious when he messages me bc idk what to do, then i just ignore it. its hard to handle social anxiety, depression, people, and school all at the same time.

    • @xnisha_2581
      @xnisha_2581 5 років тому

      Aesthetic Flowers yes i also feel the same about wanting to sleep the days away. -i hope everything went/goes well for u. good thing u plucked up the courage to contact her :D

    • @ironmanmason4247
      @ironmanmason4247 5 років тому +2

      bebo debo well thats the problem men especially, because of the way society works, men often are afraid to share their thoughts/emotions because some will see them as weak. I feel like with my generation its getting better, but its still tough. Also mental health in general is so important in todays society, but nobody seems to talk about it, when there are so many people struggling.

    • @AnimeLover-hq3nf
      @AnimeLover-hq3nf 5 років тому +2

      @@xnisha_2581 im in the same situation as you, i had to stop talking to him cause i had to focus on my mental health first and the whole friendship was just unhealthy. Yeah i miss him, but i dont regret my choice. I hope that you are doing good rn

  • @olivia-qq6ys
    @olivia-qq6ys 3 роки тому +9435

    it’s absolutely the worst feeling when ur bestfriend suddenly ignores u. like u never existed.

    • @Casper_and_Max
      @Casper_and_Max 3 роки тому +136

      It happened to me :(

    • @dj03
      @dj03 3 роки тому +148

      this is what's happening to me, my online best friend after 2 years of friendship, after we met in real life (i made 400km to meet her) just started ignoring me.... she blocked me on every social media and she's ignoring my messages, it's been 2,5 months now and i'm starting to accept the situation, even tho it hurts A LOT.

    • @TheDominicKellmanPodcast
      @TheDominicKellmanPodcast 3 роки тому +46

      Happening to me as we speak :(

    • @hxnterxzv1727
      @hxnterxzv1727 3 роки тому +11

      @@Casper_and_Max yeah same I didn’t have anyone else and he didn’t even care about me like no one cared

    • @randomannas
      @randomannas 3 роки тому +14

      my bestfriend got a boyfriend. ya nice for her. i dont like him. but ya, as long as she's happy. im fine.

  • @deenanthekemoni5567
    @deenanthekemoni5567 3 роки тому +485

    I had the craziest best friend you'd ever meet. He was off his rocker and so full of life he was almost childlike but in a charming way, he was the Bravest dude I ever personally knew. And will likely ever know. Rest in Peace Alex ❤️

    • @vuedanto8576
      @vuedanto8576 2 роки тому +8

      I've lost all my friends.

    • @Darragh1
      @Darragh1 2 роки тому +3

      @@vuedanto8576 sometimes I feel that way in a strange way...

    • @divathakore5957
      @divathakore5957 2 роки тому

      @@vuedanto8576 same tbh

    • @justarandomakwardperson.8525
      @justarandomakwardperson.8525 2 роки тому +6

      Im so sorry. My brothers friend died last month also. I had grown up with him,so i get it . again, im so sorry.

    • @michelles2644
      @michelles2644 Рік тому

      I hope this brings you some sort of happiness and peace but your best friend is definitely looking after you and always with you! I’m sorry for your loss.

  • @jadeynrogers6518
    @jadeynrogers6518 4 роки тому +6925

    "you can always call, ill be there" also them "your call has been forwarded to an automatic voicemail system"

    • @wuyuaiend1659
      @wuyuaiend1659 4 роки тому +114

      Zachary Paradagomez i think i het her comment its mean like a person used to promise that they will always be there for u but at the end they re the one who leave first

    • @gracerobbins8505
      @gracerobbins8505 4 роки тому +17

      Sadly my boyfriend..

    • @farhanatasnim8948
      @farhanatasnim8948 4 роки тому +8

      What does 'forwarded to an automatic voicemail system ' mean??

    • @gracerobbins8505
      @gracerobbins8505 4 роки тому +27

      @@farhanatasnim8948 They dont answer the call or declined immediately

    • @thegamingkids_234
      @thegamingkids_234 4 роки тому +13

      whoever's reading this remember God loves you so much

  • @PanagiotaMaras
    @PanagiotaMaras 4 роки тому +1790

    When Alyssa said “hey” I heard her pain.

  • @janisquesadilla
    @janisquesadilla 5 років тому +5609

    I felt the saddest for the guy who didn’t want to call. I feel like that would also be me. It wasn’t rude or anything, it was probably more of just knowing that relationship is over or something much deeper.

    • @blackshogun272
      @blackshogun272 5 років тому +185

      Janis Quesadilla it's like resisting going across an old wooden bridge with whispers of ancient gold on the other side. You're tempted by the fortune (reconnection with friends) but cautious of the dilapidated wood and rope (time that has passed and changing of their lives without you).

    • @rawr7022
      @rawr7022 5 років тому +25

      BlackShogun 27
      SPEECH 100
      👏👏👏👏

    • @barnaclez
      @barnaclez 5 років тому +40

      I can relate to this so much. I always think about contacting my long lost friend until I think, they let me go so easily, that I just started feeling like I was always a bother. And, I’m so scared to say something, then finding out that they don’t need me anymore, and doing just fine without me. like I never even existed to them, or all the memories we had just disappeared. I regret even mentioning how I felt because right after that they let me go just like that. Even if I had to hide how unwanted I felt, I would still talk to them if I could. Literally meant the world to me, it’s been so long but I still can’t get over it. I just feel so much guilt and regret, for not having the one I wanted the most in my life anymore. I would blame everything on myself just to get them back, I feel like I would do anything. At this point I don’t even care about my feelings, I wouldn’t even speak about my feelings if I knew that would cause us to drift. Now I have this gap in my heart that I can’t fill.

    • @zurimahogany
      @zurimahogany 5 років тому +1

      Didn't want the other side of the story
      Maybe

    • @barnaclez
      @barnaclez 5 років тому +1

      sym is annoyed Aw, I’m sorry to hear. I hope things get better, I mean people are irreplaceable but you can find value in someone else for a whole different reason that made you close with your old friends. Also, I’m really grateful for you taking the time to read and reply, it was more of me venting because I had no one else to go to. Anyways, I hope you find that special friend you need. Take care of yourself and your health. ♥︎

  • @analauramorelrocha2383
    @analauramorelrocha2383 Рік тому +380

    As someone who lost childhood friends due depression, I totally get it.
    Its _hurts_

    • @MakinMisery
      @MakinMisery Рік тому +23

      I lost mine the same way. I wish I could be normal

    • @monolinny1817
      @monolinny1817 Рік тому +16

      We'll go through this together, comrades.

    • @OscarCabrera494
      @OscarCabrera494 Рік тому +4

      Me too the same problems

    • @00st307-m
      @00st307-m 8 місяців тому +1

      Same 😔

  • @neeners246
    @neeners246 4 роки тому +2902

    The worst thing about friends is when you were friends for such a long time then all of a sudden everything changed and you guys don’t talk to each other anymore and you go from BFFS to strangers in such a short amount of time that you don’t even get to say goodbye and it just ends of with one last glance at each other until you don’t even look at each for a second in the hallway

    • @xiuolo8116
      @xiuolo8116 4 роки тому +17

      I had the same experience. We've been friends since childhood ( I was six, she was five years old) We had so much fun together, but then her family moved to England.
      She came back to Kazakhstan two years ago, but we don't talk as much as before (like we had one meeting and that's it). The last message she sended me was the wish for my 15th birthday. Still love her :(

    • @zucc5330
      @zucc5330 4 роки тому +13

      I had a friend named Declan in grade 5 and he was a shorter kid and he had Tourette syndrome. He was so kind and funny and I loved him so much (as a friend). He didn't have many friends so he really wanted to exchange numbers so we could text and call eachother. He gave me his number multiple times and every time I lost the paper he would write it on. I remember once having it and writing it down in one of my sketch books. He had to leave and I can't find him at the school I go to now (middle school). Last week I remembered him and started crying because I didn't know if he was doing okay or not. I found the sketch book I had wrote his number in and opened it to the last page to find "My Friends Numbers" written at the top and nothing below it. I was in tears that night and I hope he is not getting bullied for his conditions. I feel almost broken because of this and I hate myself for being so clumsy and forgetful.

    • @willekeborst161
      @willekeborst161 4 роки тому +6

      @@zucc5330 Why don't you hit him up. And tell him you hope he is okay. Especially in times like these. My (ex)bestfriend send me a message not too long ago and it felt really good to hear from her. Even though we aren't friends anymore.

    • @smileyface8434
      @smileyface8434 4 роки тому +1

      I Purple You search for them on social media. I did it and found someone like that, but I’m scared to death to try to dm them or whatever, because I’m sure they’ve forgotten who I am.

    • @zucc5330
      @zucc5330 4 роки тому +1

      Willeke Borst I dont have his number or anything to be able to contact him

  • @adeleseeboth3137
    @adeleseeboth3137 4 роки тому +13220

    Alyssa is precious. Protect her. Never let her get hurt again.

    • @blaze2x569
      @blaze2x569 4 роки тому +300

      Sadly she will probably get hurt again hopefully she can overcome all her obstacles

    • @blaze2x569
      @blaze2x569 4 роки тому +380

      Sadly the nicest people end up getting hurt the most

    • @asteroyd4753
      @asteroyd4753 4 роки тому +44

      @@blaze2x569 hello fellow demon slayer fan who watches these

    • @nieee5727
      @nieee5727 4 роки тому +39

      your always gonna get hurt in life you cant really prevent that from happening @Adelly bean

    • @iscifion7122
      @iscifion7122 4 роки тому +5

      @@blaze2x569 This happens...

  • @dablackpanda1348
    @dablackpanda1348 4 роки тому +45469

    *"Not friends, not enemies... just strangers with some memories."* ❤

  • @khrntryn
    @khrntryn 2 роки тому +167

    I watched this years ago when i have no idea losing a friendship would be that hurt, now I'm back and i understand the pain

    • @jolina942
      @jolina942 2 роки тому +5

      I wrote a song about toxic friendships and the feelings you go through when you get let down by a close friend.
      it’s called friend and my name is Jolina if you want to hear it on Spotify (or wherever you listen to music).
      maybe the song can help you heal the way it helped me.
      YOU DESERVE BETTER.

  • @mirandamork8191
    @mirandamork8191 4 роки тому +2227

    The girl whos friend didn't answer her words hit too close to home..

    • @philipanderegg5973
      @philipanderegg5973 4 роки тому +27

      Definitely. Currently living that situation now. I have reached out to make amends and find out what went wrong but all I get is a deafening silence. It hurts to have a former best friend not want to be a part of your life anymore 😢

    • @cutthecameras7095
      @cutthecameras7095 4 роки тому +3

      Ikr

    • @cilla3389
      @cilla3389 4 роки тому +3

      I literally cried the first 2seconds of the video

    • @kpoplover-wb4nr
      @kpoplover-wb4nr 4 роки тому +1

      Same

  • @stijnvos796
    @stijnvos796 3 роки тому +14380

    the worst thing is when the person u made memories with becomes a memory

    • @msm592
      @msm592 3 роки тому +187

      Sweet and true comment, but that pfp is cursed

    • @kenfern2259
      @kenfern2259 3 роки тому +29

      the end in friendship

    • @ratemate458
      @ratemate458 3 роки тому +66

      It's sad when you lose friendship with someone you see regularly.. like me...when live school was still a thing. It's like so awkward when you come across them.. you don't really want to talk to them anymore even though just a year before they were one of the few people you could talk to. We aren't enemies we're just.... painfully indifferent to eachother. But I'm glad he got his new friends and so did I.

    • @Brawl_Tarts
      @Brawl_Tarts 3 роки тому +3

      Yes Dorita.

    • @christian2603
      @christian2603 3 роки тому +10

      @@ratemate458 same thing happened to me except with every friend I had and I didnt make any friends after

  • @mdleeenixxv4342
    @mdleeenixxv4342 5 років тому +7124

    "A true friend is someone who sees the pain in your eyes while everyone else believes the smile on your face."

    • @upper9170
      @upper9170 5 років тому +106

      i got no true friends

    • @therespectfullykid
      @therespectfullykid 5 років тому +22

      @@upper9170 i can be your true friend

    • @avery7679
      @avery7679 5 років тому +12

      MDLeeEnIxx v a true friend sees the plan in your eyes when everyone thinks your incident 😂❤️😊

    • @kavya914
      @kavya914 5 років тому +4

      Omg yes

    • @awesomefox4113
      @awesomefox4113 5 років тому +6

      Yeah... that’s no one, well it used to but not anymore 💔🥺😖

  • @dylanworthington1350
    @dylanworthington1350 2 роки тому +204

    I’ve reached out and reconnected with a few long lost friends, but it never works out in the long run. Its undeniable that reaching out to basic strangers that you used to know in hope of friendship is a sad thing to do and they will definitely look down on you for it. My advice is to keep marching on there in you’re past for a reason and I refuse to be rejected by the same person multiple times it’s soul destroying and we must protect our hearts at all cost.

    • @sonicxhunters8344
      @sonicxhunters8344 2 роки тому +18

      I cannot agree with you enough. I’ve had to reach out to one friend multiple times, never them. The worst is when you have heart to heart talks with them and you can pick up on that they value someone else more than you and that for that person they do reach out, but never you.

    • @raihan200
      @raihan200 Рік тому +10

      Advice to you is keep on moving forward and don’t look back.
      These nothing there anymore!
      Love yourself because you’re a great person and a loyal friend.
      It’s okay to make mistakes but never let them bring you down.
      Be happy with a smile and start a new chapter in your life.
      Not everyone deserves to be in your life!

    • @christinebaker7311
      @christinebaker7311 Рік тому +1

      Exactly! It is OK to move on from each other. That is a part of growth.

  • @katie228_
    @katie228_ 4 роки тому +11762

    One of the worst feelings:
    Seeing your "Best Friend" having the time of their life with someone new
    Edit: Thank you for all the likes ❤

    • @jubbydubby8275
      @jubbydubby8275 4 роки тому +212

      Something like that is rather complicated for me. While I definitely admit I envy whoever is able to bring them such happiness, I also can't dismiss the fact that I'm truly happy that they at least are able to be so happy with someone.

    • @kyaramoerike3457
      @kyaramoerike3457 4 роки тому +83

      JubbyDubby I completely get what your saying my best friend has a new best friend and it hurts she’s gone but I’m happy she looks so happy.

    • @mich497
      @mich497 4 роки тому +74

      my best friend is doing that in-front of me during school, it hurts so much. she doesn’t even look at me anymore.. 😭

    • @jimindontworryigotyojams2853
      @jimindontworryigotyojams2853 4 роки тому +39

      It hurts me now that me and my best had been best friends for like 7-8 years the fact that im always the one ignored when she's with her new best friend her new best if is my "best friend" too Idk why but her new best friend totally hates me for doing nothing to her at all tho I was the one who begged everyone to let her in our friend group since she was new and all lonely I always feel like crying on why I did that I seriously felt betrayed and ignored the and like the new one also framed me tho I wasn't even related to a lot of situations and on the my best friend didn't ever ask me "Hey are you okay?? Hope your feeling good" or something like that when I wasn't well and was going through harsh times and on that we had vacations that time which was totally free tho I don't blame her for that but like when she wasn't doing okay I actually missed one of my very important match just to check on her Im like literally crying rn like why, when I was with her for 7-8 years now can't believe it sorry if I said too much

    • @rogelynjocelramillosa4231
      @rogelynjocelramillosa4231 4 роки тому +2

      @@mich497 yeah...I feel it too

  • @rightthumbnail
    @rightthumbnail 4 роки тому +3343

    Someone, please tell Alyssa that she's the most beautiful soul I've seen in a while! wow, real.

    • @ISEEKSPACE
      @ISEEKSPACE 4 роки тому +91

      She's hurting...you can really see that. 😕 I hope she's okay.

    • @alyssakay8826
      @alyssakay8826 4 роки тому +20

      Kav604 aw thank you hahah i’m jkjk

    • @jaydajo8792
      @jaydajo8792 4 роки тому +5

      That the name of my ex bestfriend and we just stopped

    • @samfrench9326
      @samfrench9326 4 роки тому +1

      No

    • @jill.claire
      @jill.claire 4 роки тому +10

      Shes hurting😭

  • @eknoor2917
    @eknoor2917 5 років тому +3493

    I feel so bad for Alissa, like that is so hard to almost lose a friend.

    • @eknoor2917
      @eknoor2917 5 років тому +20

      Hopefully Alissa called again and they picked up! 😌😔

    • @fazeboy3498
      @fazeboy3498 5 років тому +9

      Its hard. i used to have a freind senc kindergarten to middle school he changed during middle school and didint rlly treat me the best idk he just becam my best freind to the worst it sucks...

    • @sebby324
      @sebby324 4 роки тому +5

      I lost like 12 friends in a week

    • @Serenities80sphase
      @Serenities80sphase 4 роки тому +3

      Ëkñøōr* Pùñïā yeah, I lost two in middle school and never recovered.

  • @codequeen1889
    @codequeen1889 2 роки тому +305

    This made me emotional because I was finally able to talk to one of my dearest friends over the phone this week who I had not heard from for 8 months. We talked for over 2 hours and it was the most healing beautiful thing. Don’t give up on those important, special people in your life. Try to reach out, you may be surprised what can happen.

    • @pb4ugo19
      @pb4ugo19 2 роки тому +12

      When she reached out, what did you want to hear her say? I'm asking because I pushed my dear friend away and haven't spoken to her in 6 months. I went into a deep depression and just lost interest in everything, including the people I loved. I'm in a better place right now and I want to reach out, but I have no idea what to say. I don't know how to even initiate the text to call her. & I'm so nervous she is going to reject me (though I wouldn't blame her). How did your friend reach out to you and what words did you want to hear from her?

    • @MrTrollo2
      @MrTrollo2 2 роки тому +7

      @@pb4ugo19 just tell her what was going on, if she's a friend she won't be mad

    • @dontletdonghaedrive
      @dontletdonghaedrive 2 роки тому +5

      @@MrTrollo2 I did that and she doesn't want to respond to my messages asking what's happening and asking her to catch up and her ignoring it. I don't know what I did at all and I don't understand it. It hurts so much.

    • @byzdgn
      @byzdgn Рік тому

      @@dontletdonghaedrive let it go. just let it go

    • @rubydefelice3034
      @rubydefelice3034 Рік тому

      It’s seems like 8 months is the tipping point for a lot of these people 🤔

  • @riley883
    @riley883 4 роки тому +2683

    I feel for Alyssa. At first she seemed like she was trying her best to act like the happiest person there but just lost it by the end. I hope everything's good with her and everybody else. ❤️

  • @michaelv8721
    @michaelv8721 4 роки тому +31131

    I’m not gonna lie. I wished someone missed me like that

    • @JunguianPhantom
      @JunguianPhantom 4 роки тому +600

      I´m with ya bro. Feels sad to not have someone to miss you this way

    • @omg1243able
      @omg1243able 4 роки тому +309

      It’s ok. The fact that your like “I’m not gonna lie” at least we know your not saying this for attention and I respect that

    • @VibezWithEli
      @VibezWithEli 4 роки тому +51

      Im with you

    • @omg1243able
      @omg1243able 4 роки тому +39

      red x17 I’m sure at least one person misses you

    • @inkyrilakkuma1040
      @inkyrilakkuma1040 4 роки тому +51

      Michael V no u don’t want to have that. I have already been through it many times, it hurts, bad it’s like losing apart of your life. You should be grateful this hasn’t happened to you before, because you’ll regret the day you said you want it.

  • @hanee08
    @hanee08 4 роки тому +8117

    "I asked God to protect me from my enemies....
    And then I started losing friends.."

    • @Silvia.Araujo
      @Silvia.Araujo 4 роки тому +63

      Where is that quote from

    • @hanee08
      @hanee08 4 роки тому +155

      @@Silvia.Araujo I just saw it on pinterest 💀

    • @alexiaanddan
      @alexiaanddan 4 роки тому +170

      JESUS loves you. JESUS is your king. GOD made you wonderful and beautiful in his image. JESUS CHRIST died for your sins..

    • @Tom-nj5ie
      @Tom-nj5ie 4 роки тому +39

      They wouldn’t be your friends then, better off without them, always other people to meet

    • @hanee08
      @hanee08 4 роки тому +11

      @@Tom-nj5ie that's the point lmao

  • @MichaelSpeaksHisTruth
    @MichaelSpeaksHisTruth 2 роки тому +485

    Imagine having a friend for 10 years only to find out that so called friend just used you and ended the relationship over an ego problem because I respected myself and stood my ground.

    • @springgal265
      @springgal265 2 роки тому +5

      Friens r not as gd as u think.

    • @kenfern2259
      @kenfern2259 2 роки тому +10

      who needs enemies when u have friends

    • @Darragh1
      @Darragh1 2 роки тому +2

      Oh I don't need to imagine that because I'd well believe it!! 😄😄 As tragic as it is....
      And we vent about our friendships, but unfortunately that's never going to get them back.

    • @aliciaw8147
      @aliciaw8147 2 роки тому +5

      exactly the same happened to me after 11 years of friendship and so called “being a family” - wrote her a letter after an argument and never ever heard something again. that was three years ago now.

    • @Darragh1
      @Darragh1 2 роки тому +10

      @@aliciaw8147 omg... My best friend dumped me back in April... I messaged him a few times but he says there's "no point" in talking. I'm finding it extremely difficult to deal with not talking, not messaging, not hanging out with him after being friends for 10 years... I'm also in my 30s now so I don't see myself making new best friends at this stage, and anyway it's just not the same.

  • @dreamer9375
    @dreamer9375 4 роки тому +1512

    4:39 That must've hurt more.
    I'm afraid Alyssa's long lost friend would just listen to that voicemail, shrug and forget about it. I really, really hope I'm wrong.

  • @likeaflowerinsun
    @likeaflowerinsun 5 років тому +2357

    "I thought in order to take care of myself you push people away..." This video broke my heart.

    • @MatejVelican
      @MatejVelican 5 років тому +36

      Sometimes, that's what helps - and nothing else would have same impact and healing on your own body and mind.

    • @qazedc3
      @qazedc3 5 років тому +1

      Me lol

    • @keamsilva
      @keamsilva 5 років тому +38

      honestly after graduating highschool stopped talking to everyone. I felt like i never understood who I was or what I liked. I finally found what most of my interests are, and who my real friends were. my friend count as of 1 year after graduating is 0. am I depressed? no, sad and lonely? sometimes. but that’s okay, i’d rather be alone than be near people who don’t mean anything to me, or me anything to them :(.

    • @likeaflowerinsun
      @likeaflowerinsun 5 років тому +3

      @@keamsilva yes that's true. That's what i'm having right now. I actually feel safe and secured.

    • @asiandod325
      @asiandod325 5 років тому

      Heart cancer does that too.

  • @edannegrin1345
    @edannegrin1345 4 роки тому +1541

    The toughest pill to swallow is knowing your ex-friend has moved on and you haven’t. That’s just sometimes the case and it hurts.

    • @chipey5227
      @chipey5227 3 роки тому +3

      Yea:(

    • @nxte4168
      @nxte4168 3 роки тому +1

      I feel u bro

    • @nophelekonyak639
      @nophelekonyak639 3 роки тому +1

      💔💔💔💔💔💔🤧 .
      So true

    • @Lili-tg7vg
      @Lili-tg7vg 3 роки тому +1

      Yes 🙁

    • @helooo-h2y
      @helooo-h2y 3 роки тому +7

      So true. I sometines wonder if I ever knew her. Like I expected our friendship to last long and it didn't. It hurts being replaced like that😕

  • @sidneyboo9704
    @sidneyboo9704 Рік тому +122

    PLEASE do not ditch your friendship when you are in a relationship. Even if its having lunch with them every 4 months. Amazing friendships is harder to find than romantic relationship.

    • @joshuabuchanan1141
      @joshuabuchanan1141 11 місяців тому +1

      Exactly

    • @HP-in8pl
      @HP-in8pl 3 місяці тому +2

      Had friends who put our friendship to the side once they got a girl. Nearly 10 years later, he tries to reconnect to "catch up." Nah, screw that. Trying to reconnect now that your circle of friends is declining is an insult. You don't need people like that

  • @alexsimion7190
    @alexsimion7190 3 роки тому +3522

    “You can always call me” he said, but he ain’t ever call her.

    • @purplepig4747
      @purplepig4747 3 роки тому +42

      cuz he was scared

    • @riverrevori4682
      @riverrevori4682 3 роки тому +130

      He seemed so mean to her like I would just forget about him.

    • @emilykeegan9246
      @emilykeegan9246 3 роки тому +67

      Yea Ik he didn’t wanna talk to her and you can tell

    • @iriskuo5841
      @iriskuo5841 3 роки тому +4

      Righttt

    • @guy8646
      @guy8646 3 роки тому +58

      Yeah it was a total cop out. He basically said: I’m not going to contact you and I’m not going to try,so you can contact me if you want to do all the work.

  • @pen2cool4u
    @pen2cool4u 4 роки тому +21152

    The worst part is when your best friend becomes a stranger to you

    • @user-rx9vm6rk5j
      @user-rx9vm6rk5j 4 роки тому +348

      Iam a stranger to my BF now, I tried my best to talk to her but she is always ignoring me and now I have no friends

    • @blackprofile6074
      @blackprofile6074 4 роки тому +87

      @@pen2cool4u it happens to me all the time that is why I don't upload on my account anymore (this account) because all of my friends feel like a stranger to me

    • @sophievandercook6826
      @sophievandercook6826 3 роки тому +41

      Yeah, it does but you are enough- and you are loved and you will find a friend that cares deeply for you

    • @sophievandercook6826
      @sophievandercook6826 3 роки тому +44

      If you guys ever need a friend I’m here for you-

    • @lytheprettygirl
      @lytheprettygirl 3 роки тому +4

      Ong yes

  • @josiegraceblack1268
    @josiegraceblack1268 4 роки тому +8060

    "Could you call them?
    Everyone: "yes I can"
    that one guy: "probably not."

    • @ciandro5005
      @ciandro5005 4 роки тому +535

      The only guy I can relate to

    • @testtester8492
      @testtester8492 4 роки тому +82

      Absolute madlad

    • @Xristina_Gretsista
      @Xristina_Gretsista 4 роки тому +46

      When I read this comment this scene was played on the video

    • @998576999
      @998576999 4 роки тому +70

      I wouldn't either, people don't deserve to beg them to be friends again

    • @juliapayne4511
      @juliapayne4511 4 роки тому +69

      @@998576999 it's not exactly begging its just a chance to clear the air and find out why what happened did happen it's a great chance to fix the relationship even if they arent best friends again

  • @yayayvette298
    @yayayvette298 3 роки тому +136

    I feel so bad for Alyssa and my heart breaks for her because I know what that feels like keep strong and hopefully her friend will call her back

  • @americccaaa
    @americccaaa 4 роки тому +1822

    Losing your best friend is so hard. To this day I haven’t claimed anyone else as my best friend because my ex best friend was literally like my sister. It sucks. ://

    • @hyunjinna824
      @hyunjinna824 4 роки тому +27

      It is (I lost my best friend 7 months ago because she found out I’m lesbian and she started bullying me and when I trued to commit suicide 2 months ago she tried to be friends again with me but now I have a girlfriend who’s my best friend and she’s still bullying me but I don’t care)

    • @appathepitbully2547
      @appathepitbully2547 4 роки тому +9

      That title is not easy to give for a lot of people. I dont even think I have a 'friends' column. It's either you're an associate or you're a best friend who'd I do anything for. I dont open up to people very easy so idk if I'll ever have another best friend again.

    • @alieenoir
      @alieenoir 4 роки тому +1

      I'm sorry for you I hope you maybe can get back to each other :(

    • @KL-xs5qq
      @KL-xs5qq 4 роки тому

      As hard as it is, maybe try move on, that person will always be special but you can have two best friends. It will be better for you ❤️

    • @KL-xs5qq
      @KL-xs5qq 4 роки тому +1

      RLink2
      I can relate. I moved left my sister behind with everything I knew and then when I went back home, everyone else had moved away overseas just like I did. I knew that, I just expected to see them, because part of me couldn’t believe it.

  • @basicallykaylee2205
    @basicallykaylee2205 3 роки тому +8247

    the worst feeling is when you introduce your two friends to each other and they both ditch you and become best friends.

    • @kaylee0000
      @kaylee0000 3 роки тому +320

      OMG FELT THAT

    • @medico1572
      @medico1572 3 роки тому +269

      That's really...the saddest feeling ever

    • @aria6709
      @aria6709 3 роки тому +139

      The worst worst worst

    • @sirsnailson7703
      @sirsnailson7703 3 роки тому +53

      asdfghjk i have no words to describe this

    • @hobis_sprite117
      @hobis_sprite117 3 роки тому +210

      Happened to me I had this gang of friends I introduced all of them to each other....and now I am the loneliest kid who well lost all her friends it sucks.a lot.

  • @cilan9639
    @cilan9639 4 роки тому +1980

    The saddest part is when you meet them at a random place and can’t really make any kind of conversation expect “hello how are you?” because it’s just so awkward. Kind of sad to see that the person who once used to make you so happy is know just a memory.

    • @gkotta_kedamono
      @gkotta_kedamono 4 роки тому +7

      Strangers with a memories.

    • @shereentablet9477
      @shereentablet9477 4 роки тому +7

      Imagine if your so called friend sees you and ignores you and when you ask her didnt you see me , she bluntly says no and doesnt care if that affected you or not and then you know she was lying because she did eye contact with you , that hurt me a lot because she was my bestfriend and she leaves me on read and never talks to me anymore even though she has my social media and she puts other people on her stories saying my bestfriend and i am like i was your bestfriend 2 until you stopped caring and talking with me 😕😢😢😢😢😢

    • @haeunaaa
      @haeunaaa 4 роки тому +9

      Cilan me and my ex best friend walks past each other like we never met and we don’t know each other. Whatever happened to all the good memories eh?
      Hope you are okay and can find better friends later on ❤️

    • @cilan9639
      @cilan9639 4 роки тому +2

      I don’t like you Thank you so much! It was quite hard at the start and I was alone at the school for a while but I made new friends now and it’s going well. I wish the same to you ❤️

    • @alayssia1783
      @alayssia1783 4 роки тому +1

      My ex best friend saw me in public with a group of our old friends and as they approached me, she looked at me and then looked away and pretended to see something and walked away as the others talked to me. It hurt so bad.

  • @AmarD87
    @AmarD87 2 роки тому +401

    As someone who has moved around a lot, backpacked across over 50 countries, and met more people than I can remember, I am a self proclaimed expert in surface-level friendships. You can meet amazing people, you can meet people who "get you" and everything just clicks. However, no friendship will ever be better than the best friend you lost in high school or just after college. It just won't because as we age our experiences harden us and they take away our innocence, our capability to feel as intense.
    That is something that dawned upon me just like 6 months ago. It sucks but if I am to be honest with myself I don't think I am capable of having a best friend any longer.

    • @かずみ-k1i
      @かずみ-k1i 2 роки тому +5

      I move around a lot too and I truly agree with u.

    • @exod.oswife
      @exod.oswife 2 роки тому +34

      I agree with you. I too feel i cannot connect with anyone without purpose nowadays, its more networking less friendship.

    • @kiana9941
      @kiana9941 Рік тому +8

      I feel like I am incapable of having any friends. Usually, the people I connect with the most only are around for a couple weeks or months and move away or I move away. As I have gotten older I now keep to myself to avoid the pain.

    • @AmarD87
      @AmarD87 Рік тому +12

      @@kiana9941 I know the feeling and it sucks because relationships with other people make my day brighter and what makes life worth living. But I see myself growing more and more detached from people, unable to connect beyond any surface-level interaction. As another comment said, it's more networking than friendship.
      I don't know if it's social media, the internet, or a fact of growing up but the reality is that most of the time I feel alone and I just fill my life with sporadic social interactions that don't really amount to anything. And it's not just other people's fault. It's my fault as well.

    • @sidneyboo9704
      @sidneyboo9704 Рік тому +2

      I kind of agree. My highschool friends were the best and beside one, I lost connection with everyone else. Now its so superficial.

  • @jellycube_27
    @jellycube_27 3 роки тому +24440

    We all had that one specific friendship in our minds while watching this video

    • @honeybunslimes2984
      @honeybunslimes2984 3 роки тому +113

      Yup):

    • @sv222k
      @sv222k 3 роки тому +86

      Yeah ):

    • @jyotirmaandas1393
      @jyotirmaandas1393 3 роки тому +46

      Yessir

    • @emmya1239
      @emmya1239 3 роки тому +204

      I have 2: my best friend I lost to cancer and my friend who simply walked away

    • @Sophie-kk2lx
      @Sophie-kk2lx 3 роки тому +43

      I don’t realllly. I’ve always had the same friends cause there is only 23 girls in my grade and we all have tight groups

  • @haunted.mirrorball
    @haunted.mirrorball 4 роки тому +12739

    I felt so bad for the girl who’s friend didn’t pick up 🥺🥺

  • @tay-8757
    @tay-8757 5 років тому +5874

    kennedy’s friend was my least favourite part of this. “no i never said that.” “you’ll call me when YOU have time” no sis the phone works both ways...

    • @behappy1523
      @behappy1523 5 років тому +209

      tay - YESS BIH TOTALLY AGREE I WAS LIKE WHAT AN ASS 😑😑😑

    • @Nanancay
      @Nanancay 5 років тому +246

      I thought he was nice LOL, cos he's respecting that she won't be free/want to pick up the calls if he just calls, so he's giving her the control.

    • @tay-8757
      @tay-8757 5 років тому +284

      Nancy Wang but for 8 months he let her believe that she was his second choice. not once in that span of time did he call or reach out to reassure that she could always call or rely on him... that’s all im sayin

    • @bikerssuckass8158
      @bikerssuckass8158 5 років тому +56

      @@tay-8757 No, for 8 months she THOUGHT she couldn't talk to him. SHE made the assumption and stopped talking to him. Did you even pay attention?

    • @tay-8757
      @tay-8757 5 років тому +37

      Bikers Suckass don’t get so riled up, i was just stating how i viewed the situation as a third party

  • @mimvsa3521
    @mimvsa3521 2 роки тому +90

    My friend had mental problems and ghosted me. I've sent her a voicemail a few days ago and she responded, saying "I'm just not someone who can be a friend."
    I don't know what to feel.
    When I talked to her, my life felt like it was healing in super speed; her humour, remarks, strange and resilient mind was so addicting I don't know how to accept her abandoning me.
    I still love her a lot.
    Thought we were together for the ride.
    To make matters worse she was my only friend.
    I can't search for anyone else.. without thinking it's her replacement.

    • @KalilIllinois
      @KalilIllinois 2 роки тому +2

      My former best friend did the same thing. Hurts less with time

    • @imeneezzeddine6449
      @imeneezzeddine6449 2 роки тому +5

      I can relate to that so much. It just came out of nowhere. And to make things even worse, she became friends with almost everyone in our common circle of friends (my only circle by the way).Two years and it still hurts. The worst part? I never got an explanation besides that her "conveniences and life style have changed" + I had an additional reason to leave those friends behind.

    • @WeeWee4204
      @WeeWee4204 2 роки тому +3

      Welp I had quite the similar friend
      Her relationship first distanced us bit by it then she did it herself and never told me why.
      Whenever I asked her she said she is going through stuff mentally and can't do this even tho she talked to other people hehe..

    • @Ceceeeeeee_
      @Ceceeeeeee_ Рік тому +2

      I’m so terribly sad and terrified to go to highschool without my friend we will be splitting up and she is the only one who gets me, and I love her so much

    • @sarayolo_y3al
      @sarayolo_y3al 8 місяців тому

      just happened to me yesterday

  • @madisoncaffey1509
    @madisoncaffey1509 4 роки тому +5630

    She wasn’t good for me but sometimes I just miss her...

    • @chasingstars5614
      @chasingstars5614 4 роки тому +146

      Sadly, we all go through that. You just have to realize, that despite the pain of losing your friend, it made you a stronger and probably also a better person. We shouldn't hang out with people who bring out the worst in us.

    • @teogulla
      @teogulla 4 роки тому +23

      Been there bro keep your head up you did what’s right!

    • @itsme596
      @itsme596 4 роки тому +24

      I miss her all the time...
      Also..heyy Baby Louis❤️

    • @celcstee
      @celcstee 4 роки тому +18

      same for him 😔 i think we’re both definitely doing better off without each other tho but there are some days i do miss him and think about our good times 🥺

    • @sugaiskindofreallysweet11
      @sugaiskindofreallysweet11 4 роки тому +4

      why do i feel the other she, my friend, might be also relating to this like i am

  • @Vanditha-th8oc
    @Vanditha-th8oc 4 роки тому +831

    the denim jacket girl's was the most true and heartfelt. damn

  • @nancy8328
    @nancy8328 5 років тому +17242

    i should be studying for finals instead of crying over a stranger's friendships

  • @nazkh3291
    @nazkh3291 2 роки тому +41

    i can tell the friendship meant a GREAT DEAL to alyssa. i’m also like that with my friends. recently my friend and i stopped talking and it’s been so hard mourning someone who’s very much alive. hopefully alyssa is doing alright wherever she is

  • @doreenwu5990
    @doreenwu5990 5 років тому +5134

    alissa is too pure for the world. no one deserves her

    • @bawn5813
      @bawn5813 5 років тому +6

      døreen x wu what???!

    • @No-nk3ro
      @No-nk3ro 5 років тому +53

      She must be protected at all cost :

    • @SJoh07
      @SJoh07 5 років тому +45

      No one deserves her but she deserves everything

    • @kazuha1748
      @kazuha1748 5 років тому +4

      ;-; likes are on 888 I can't do it

    • @yeahigotyouigotthisoncamer1838
      @yeahigotyouigotthisoncamer1838 5 років тому +4

      Bob Ross:

  • @aliyah7216
    @aliyah7216 5 років тому +661

    “Friends can break your heart too” and that’s the truth

    • @wonreiii
      @wonreiii 5 років тому +1

      Leah B yup I know how that feels and lot of time ()-()

  • @winkyworld6669
    @winkyworld6669 3 роки тому +12469

    People say that 8 months isn’t a long time to leave a friend
    8 months feels like 8 years when you leave your BEST FRIEND

  • @vzmelis
    @vzmelis 2 роки тому +62

    "They're not friends, they're not enemies, they're strangers with memories."
    - Pringles Cat

  • @joshyxd8365
    @joshyxd8365 4 роки тому +2331

    I wished someone cared for me like that
    my best friend for almost 10 years suddenly ignores me like i didnt exist

    • @aly5744
      @aly5744 4 роки тому +28

      same.. hope ur well

    • @josipportner7002
      @josipportner7002 4 роки тому +17

      may you can tell her how much you appreciate her and about the situation. I think it will strengthen your connection even further. Happy to hear she is still friends with you.

    • @morganweaver6903
      @morganweaver6903 4 роки тому +3

      This is happening to me right now . Friends for 10 years

    • @solo_fxiry403
      @solo_fxiry403 4 роки тому +1

      Mine also :( look at my comment and youll know what happened

    • @keelyforevaa
      @keelyforevaa 4 роки тому +5

      @@tea35 you need to tell her that will make her understand and tell her what's been going on so she can help you.

  • @Pillsburyjoytoy
    @Pillsburyjoytoy 5 років тому +15570

    I expected “long lost friends” to be like YEARS

    • @gracec6468
      @gracec6468 5 років тому +271

      It feels like years when you go from being best friends with someone, and being the person that knows them best and vise versa, and the they just drop out of your life. Every day without them feels like a week. 😔

    • @Pillsburyjoytoy
      @Pillsburyjoytoy 5 років тому +74

      Grace Colker Totally! I’m not disagreeing, but I still think it’s not long enough to be referred to as “long lost friends”, though I can’t think of an alternative that isn’t super lengthy

    • @p.a.t.t.y
      @p.a.t.t.y 5 років тому +68

      months without talking to your best friend does feel like years though

    • @kuyajayy
      @kuyajayy 5 років тому

      Nicolaus Volentius i know right

    • @tendouii.
      @tendouii. 5 років тому +6

      Same,I Have Talked toMy Best friend for 2-3 years And for another one it has been 4-5 years,All three of us Would fool around togeather until the Second one moved away and then a few years later!I Moved away :c

  • @bossds1796
    @bossds1796 4 роки тому +653

    It’s crazy how you could care about someone way more than they care about you

    • @majdabodaad4539
      @majdabodaad4539 4 роки тому +8

      Especially when they're literally your freaking family

  • @aexitis
    @aexitis 2 роки тому +73

    I had a childhood best friend. We’d known each other since we were 4. We would hold hands when we crossed the street and walk to the bus together. When we started growing up, he went to all my soccer games and I went to all his basketball games. We used to spend hours lying in the hammock in his back yard, just talking because being with each other was all we needed. I loved him, and he loved me too. We talked about everything, then one day he became a stranger. I never figured out what happened, or why he stopped talking to me but life goes on. Even now years later I’ll stumble along a photograph, or a board game we used to play and remember him. I wonder how he’s doing, and if he’s happier now then he was before. I hope he has found people to love him like I have.

    • @lindabalinda7887
      @lindabalinda7887 2 роки тому +10

      it could be that he had/has mental health issues. My childhood best friend stopped reciprocating in our friendship for seemingly no reason in my mind. Turned out she had a rough home life and an abusive relationship with her boyfriend. I had no idea. She had depression and anxiety, and that was why she stopped talking to me. Anyways, if you want to, you should try reaching out if you have a way...I decided to reach out one day because I had nothing to lose, and it was so worth it. My childhood friend and I are close again, and we both missed each other.

    • @LallanAlexHockstetter
      @LallanAlexHockstetter 9 місяців тому +1

      You should seriously reach out to him

  • @haileyroark9427
    @haileyroark9427 4 роки тому +3319

    The worst feeling is..
    When you have a best friend and they get a boyfriend and leave you because they have someone new now.

    • @zvakicauwu
      @zvakicauwu 4 роки тому +154

      and they talk to you only when they need something :(

    • @melthegreatestever
      @melthegreatestever 4 роки тому +34

      @@zvakicauwu Thats so relatable for me right now,me and my best friend talk very often about her problems with her girlfriend and it annoys me that she doesen't want anything else to talk about.

    • @sharmiacharjee8717
      @sharmiacharjee8717 4 роки тому +12

      so my best friend threw me into the darkness after 14 years. it means I thought that she is my best friend bt she's never think that way.

    • @sharmiacharjee8717
      @sharmiacharjee8717 4 роки тому +8

      it's all happened when she found her new friends & boyfriend

    • @audreywillis1399
      @audreywillis1399 4 роки тому +9

      or you try to keep them and they leave you anyway and only ask when they need something or their bf isn’t available

  • @silvesteramv4607
    @silvesteramv4607 5 років тому +854

    "I thought that in order to take care of myself I needed to push people away," same buddy same.

    • @hadassah6563
      @hadassah6563 5 років тому +4

      God bless dude. I hope your doing okay.
      Jesus luvs ya💜💜💜

    • @martinfromstrufve9584
      @martinfromstrufve9584 5 років тому

      @@hadassah6563 Jesus doesnt exist.

    • @hadassah6563
      @hadassah6563 5 років тому +2

      @@martinfromstrufve9584 dude, that's your opinion. It's my belief that he does

  • @kelo6k599
    @kelo6k599 3 роки тому +9114

    The girl who was crying has such a sweet soul, there’s something about her that very comforting and relaxing but I could tell she’s going through a lot of pain and suffering hope she realizes that she doesn’t really need her friend what she needs is to work on herself and learn to love herself I guesss

    • @injolemi
      @injolemi 3 роки тому +155

      Yeah, She looked so kind and soft.

    • @aqueladonao2982
      @aqueladonao2982 3 роки тому +171

      It's okay for her to be sweet and vulnerable. People do need each other. And if she loves her friend she should, as she said, try all she could do to have her back. That's not for her friend, that's for her. And then shell learn her lesson

    • @esthaponga
      @esthaponga 3 роки тому +205

      Her missing her friend has nothing to do with lack of self-love.

    • @calyssareimer3462
      @calyssareimer3462 3 роки тому +82

      @@esthaponga I love this truth. She is simply grieving the loss. We are all allowed to feel when things don’t work out with someone who means so much to us. It doesn’t mean she doesn’t love herself. It’s an act of self love to allow ourselves to feel those deep and raw emotions

    • @24jrjr
      @24jrjr 3 роки тому

      Well said

  • @Okay_KodaVODS
    @Okay_KodaVODS 2 роки тому +76

    Friendships are the most important to me, I’m autistic and tend to get attached to people easy. I’ve had bad friends but I love them so much still, even though I’ve managed to distance myself from them I miss them so much, but I know they will hurt me if I go back again.

    • @sono._.
      @sono._. Рік тому +4

      i am in the same situation too :(

    • @Okay_KodaVODS
      @Okay_KodaVODS Рік тому +5

      @@sono._. stay strong and don’t forget the bad things they’ve done to you

    • @GamingPIPI
      @GamingPIPI Рік тому +8

      I am autistic too!! I had such a nice friend for the past six years. She really understood me and communicating with her was easier than with anyone else. I felt safest with her and I could unmask easiest when I was with her. Last year, our friendship really reached a new heights. I thought this it, we are sisters. I am not alone anymore. But now we haven’t really hung out since my birthday in October. I tried so much to get in touch with her, I did my very best to not stress out. To keep my cool and do not force my friendship upon her, but I think it’s really over. She has new friends. She has a new boyfriend. She has a very nice job. I’m very happy for her but I am so sad that I cannot be part of it anymore. I don’t understand why, I truly don’t understand. I wish I could just understand. It’s like there’s a hole in my heart.

    • @NDGumballOc
      @NDGumballOc 11 місяців тому

      I am autistic and I have lost a friend because mostly I am bad at social rules, emotions understanding and regulations….and also due to lack of communication

  • @beamshark
    @beamshark 4 роки тому +2259

    I feel like I'm a backup best friend. If their original bff isn't there, they go to me. I thought I had a best friend but then I started connecting the dots. I'm switching schools next year and I'm pretty sure my 'friends' arent going to notice that I'm gone...
    💔

    • @catherynng4060
      @catherynng4060 4 роки тому +73

      I feel like that too, i refuse to believe that i'm a backup best friend cos it hurts me inside

    • @comeonletsdance5
      @comeonletsdance5 4 роки тому +23

      U deserve better get away from such toxicity ik u feel as if u will be alone but I'll find a better Nd true best friend

    • @repuslayshion
      @repuslayshion 4 роки тому +15

      Omg same. Since my "bff" betrayed me and used me I couldn't find another friend cause no matter how close we are we will always be just a friend and never bffs. I feel you

    • @laurenmialee9169
      @laurenmialee9169 4 роки тому +4

      me too...me too 😔

    • @devna0
      @devna0 4 роки тому +7

      Thats how I feel, my friend just left me and hanged out with me just because she needed a friend to look popular

  • @helenp.4695
    @helenp.4695 4 роки тому +4555

    I’m think I'm losing my best friend right now and this hurts.

    • @abearpossessedbyseveralrac7699
      @abearpossessedbyseveralrac7699 4 роки тому +94

      I'm sorry to hear that. I know it's hard and feels like it will hurt forever, but I promise you will find people who will love you and stay with you. Just give yourself the time you need to heal.

    • @ihuboo6244
      @ihuboo6244 4 роки тому +4

      Yeah. Sad

    • @hopefairy3066
      @hopefairy3066 4 роки тому +13

      I m pretty much in same situation. And i can truly understand your pain.

    • @Spartaan...
      @Spartaan... 4 роки тому +4

      We'll find a way out I promise 😭😭😭😪😪
      The pain just gets fresh everyday

    • @katerinamkrn.6160
      @katerinamkrn.6160 4 роки тому +9

      Losing mine too. Dont know what to do

  • @huabubble669
    @huabubble669 4 роки тому +4782

    we need to protect alyssa at all costs

  • @serbear0691
    @serbear0691 2 роки тому +181

    I’ve never really had any friends at all. So seeing people with such deep connections to people they’ve lost is a first. I never thought people could have this deep a connection with a friend 🙂

    • @E3boss2003
      @E3boss2003 2 роки тому

      @Memer didnt u go skl? u must have made some

    • @jaystone5036
      @jaystone5036 2 роки тому +7

      Yeah. I've made friends but this ones are actually people you can be vulnerable around for them..😂😂I thought friends were to talk about future and then disappear to make it😂

    • @NishantCosmos
      @NishantCosmos 2 роки тому +1

      samee
      I'm having these experiences
      i decided to communicate with new ppl
      made new friends
      i wish i did this earlier

    • @frhypeforfreedom5135
      @frhypeforfreedom5135 Рік тому

      @@E3boss2003 We are still talking about about a SCHOOL here, (but I understand your point there :-)

    • @Nanireactsss
      @Nanireactsss Рік тому

      Same

  • @elismith4040
    @elismith4040 4 роки тому +2223

    "People change, even satan used to be an angel" - NF

  • @NateKyng
    @NateKyng 4 роки тому +2197

    I lost contact with one of my friends, after he was sent off to Iraq and Afghanistan...he was never a fan of social media, so we didn't have that option and his number kept changing....so after not hearing about him for like 3-4 years, I went to look him up and the first thing I saw was, "Airman Brian Guerin Obituary". When I clicked the link, it was in fact my best friend of many years, who I grew into a man with....it was hard to see or really even fathom. I reached out to his family and found out that he had killed himself while incarcerated on weed related charges, due to mistreatment of his PTSD while inside. It never fully settled in that he had died until I visited his grave in Sacramento to say my goodbyes. Still think of him all the time, and wish I had that chance to be there for him.

    • @tizzle27_20
      @tizzle27_20 4 роки тому +74

      omg im so sorry

    • @indianaajoness
      @indianaajoness 4 роки тому +46

      Omg this is so much :( of all the stories this one hits the most. I’m sorry about this 😢😢😢

    • @kelliefranklin723
      @kelliefranklin723 4 роки тому +22

      Nate Kyng I’m so sorry for your lost may he Rest In Peace just know it’s not your fault prayers for his family and friends including you 🙏🏾💓

    • @chrisbanks1722
      @chrisbanks1722 4 роки тому +12

      Odd coincidence I live in Sacramento and you’re the first comment I fully read. My condolences to you and I hope he has found peace in the afterlife.

    • @mybrothernoah1
      @mybrothernoah1 4 роки тому +9

      I’m so sorry to hear that. It hurts to hear this story, let me know if you need anything

  • @ashironikko5860
    @ashironikko5860 4 роки тому +3274

    "he had a girlfriend,so he chose his girlfriend over me(bestfriend)"
    I prefer best friends more than boyfriend.
    Bestfriends stay for long time while girlfriends/boyfriends doesn't

    • @steffib6017
      @steffib6017 4 роки тому +45

      My boyfriend stayed 5 years and still counting.. my best friend didnt even try to stay more than 3..
      I know that mostly best friends stay longer together but some dont..
      To note: I had my boyfriend before.. so no one got replaced or needed to choose.

    • @ilanachawngthu5142
      @ilanachawngthu5142 4 роки тому +2

      Felt it too... been through this....

    • @dutchmx6
      @dutchmx6 4 роки тому +29

      Not true, everyone can leave , it depends on many factors

    • @subhradas7919
      @subhradas7919 4 роки тому +2

      Me too, I prioritise best friends over boyfriends.

    • @moonbased7796
      @moonbased7796 4 роки тому +1

      I always stick with my friends over boyfriends and or girlfriends cause you never know when you see your friends last because some friends drift apart and if I do end up with a relationship I will still hangout with my friends

  • @alexandrosglegles544
    @alexandrosglegles544 Рік тому +15

    I cried watching this video. Losing a friend is the worst thing ever. It's also torture when you fear that your current friends will leave you eventually. At the end of the day, no matter what happens, you just have to be the best version of you and also the best friend you can be.

    • @joshuabuchanan1141
      @joshuabuchanan1141 11 місяців тому

      Not so easy at all for people that suffer from mental and emotional health issues

  • @addiction2422
    @addiction2422 5 років тому +7097

    You know what really hurts...
    When you call someone your best friend but they call you a friend

    • @Lite_Me_Up
      @Lite_Me_Up 4 роки тому +57

      You know what hurts more they only call you bro or broski

    • @soumikd794
      @soumikd794 4 роки тому +31

      @@Lite_Me_Up isn't that good tho? What are the better terms?

    • @Lite_Me_Up
      @Lite_Me_Up 4 роки тому +22

      @@soumikd794 well she calls everyone that...... but, other people I never met in person she calls bestie.

    • @soumikd794
      @soumikd794 4 роки тому +11

      Yea Ik and I'm asking cos I tend to use that word a lot even to my close friends. So I wanna know what better terms there are

    • @Lite_Me_Up
      @Lite_Me_Up 4 роки тому +13

      @@soumikd794 idk I'm socially awkward so I don't have a lot of friends.......

  • @Sophia-to6rh
    @Sophia-to6rh 5 років тому +15386

    Message: don’t cut of your friends because of a boyfriend/girlfriend

    • @Marie-tm9uq
      @Marie-tm9uq 5 років тому +144

      I’d have to disagree

    • @lara9863
      @lara9863 5 років тому +103

      Marie Tupou why?

    • @yemioloyede2775
      @yemioloyede2775 5 років тому +521

      It really depends on the circumstance

    • @alaaye5237
      @alaaye5237 5 років тому +36

      Marie Tupou
      It depends

    • @Maria-ck7wv
      @Maria-ck7wv 5 років тому +64

      You're probably not in a relationship:)

  • @greatcat6818
    @greatcat6818 3 роки тому +1627

    The logic is simple: in a friendship or relationship, if one side loves the other more, it wont work out long. The love has to be equal for a friendship to last.

    • @fuchs.9994
      @fuchs.9994 3 роки тому +1

      @@saranshsrivastav7376 i feel you!

    • @gastonlagaffe5440
      @gastonlagaffe5440 3 роки тому +33

      Nothing is equal in life

    • @younglawrence811
      @younglawrence811 3 роки тому

      💯💯

    • @kenfern2259
      @kenfern2259 3 роки тому +5

      in nutshell fk one sided friendship

    • @chillpill2016
      @chillpill2016 3 роки тому

      Same. I am devoted to my friend, he took advantage of it and kept blocking me, UNFRIEND ing me and that. I’m ghosting him for 5 days so he learns I won’t come crawling back.

  • @knock_chauuu
    @knock_chauuu Рік тому +14

    “And what hurts the most is that ppl can go from people you know to people you don’t”