No Contact Alone Will Not Get Your Ex Back

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  • Опубліковано 2 лют 2025

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  • @CoachCraigKenneth
    @CoachCraigKenneth  Місяць тому +8

    Do the work! If your motivation level is based on your Exes current interest level… you will fail! #TheKnowledge

    • @sailorjerry2090
      @sailorjerry2090 Місяць тому

      No contact with children involved please . I’m surprised there isn’t a video on that yet

    • @Zemohc
      @Zemohc Місяць тому

      @CoachCraigKenneth Hmm. I'm gonna do it. Was in Texas the other day. This girl out of the blue told me to have a blessed day. I was in work mode and I told her to have a blessed one too. Could've stopped and talked. But didn't.
      I wanna change that. Two questions. First, Knowledge work books or the CHC first? I got the first two workbooks. Second, I travel for work and it becomes tricky on a technical side to access these things and save them. Thoughts?

    • @RYama_33
      @RYama_33 Місяць тому

      What if you work very closely with the person? As in work with them almost everyday in the same room on part of the same team

  • @memalamimi2684
    @memalamimi2684 Місяць тому +4

    This is the best video in 2025 oh my god a real Knowledge thank you both Craig and Victoria your channel is the best

  • @AlphonseG-p2z
    @AlphonseG-p2z Місяць тому +11

    The avoidant woman I was so into best friend is reaching out to me but I ain’t falling for this breadcrumb. I know why she is hitting me up and will keep no contact while self improving myself to the max.

  • @siangabrielmasupat674
    @siangabrielmasupat674 Місяць тому +35

    My ex partner reach out to me this christmas

    • @priscillarodrigues7599
      @priscillarodrigues7599 Місяць тому +2

      mine as well

    • @princessafanwi7026
      @princessafanwi7026 Місяць тому

      Mine too

    • @robinharrison4902
      @robinharrison4902 Місяць тому

      Hard

    • @siangabrielmasupat674
      @siangabrielmasupat674 Місяць тому +2

      We talk a few like checking on each other and after that I go back to no contact, it took me 5 months of NC before she reached out. Right after we broken up she jumps into new relationship (Rebound) and I do believe she won't reach out again but the NC truly works for me she reached out this christmas through greetings

    • @denissky3129
      @denissky3129 28 днів тому

      ​@@siangabrielmasupat674 she probably had that next relationship before breaking up with you. Not everyone is a rebound. We just have to be strong. She should leave you alone since she's happily ever after 😏

  • @alex8449
    @alex8449 Місяць тому +4

    My avoidant ex dumped me in September when her beloved grandmother died. She asked me for a month apart and I didn't understand why and it caused fights, now thanks to these videos i understand she needed emotional space and time to process everything, she didn't want to break up but I pushed it too hard. Now I'm currently no contact for two weeks and these videos are like an instruction manual to my ex avoidant, everything Craig says she's done exactly, I wish I knew these things years ago and avoided drama and fights with my ex girlfriend.

  • @azoz158
    @azoz158 Місяць тому +10

    Girl. Run away. He wasn't there for you when a thief got into your house? He will leave you if something happened to you. People don't change easily, and that guy has dated people while you were healing yourself. He wasn't healing himself.

  • @Zemohc
    @Zemohc Місяць тому +7

    Every time i feel inspired to "do the work". "Success stories" involve forgiving and forgetting. I dont even have an opportunity to exercise the patience, empathy, understanding etc skills.

    • @Pianowithmitchy
      @Pianowithmitchy Місяць тому +4

      Maybe not right now…but that can change later ❤

    • @Zemohc
      @Zemohc Місяць тому +1

      @M_elliote34 Ya. Sure. He said 6 months is when they start migrating back. It's been going on for 2 years. So if not my ex then who?

    • @shaharmoskovich4794
      @shaharmoskovich4794 Місяць тому +1

      Someone better

  • @AlphonseG-p2z
    @AlphonseG-p2z Місяць тому +9

    Also, if she doesn’t come back I don’t care because I am leveling up even more than before.

    • @JoeMNPT
      @JoeMNPT Місяць тому +1

      “Leveling up” needs to be abolished from the English language. I cringe every time I hear it. 🤮

  • @priscillarodrigues7599
    @priscillarodrigues7599 Місяць тому +2

    sometimes even when they come back you dont know the reason they are back especially when they message randomly during the holidays, he hasnt tried or made efforts in having a proper conversation as yet. im learning how to control and regulate myself emotionally.

  • @Dnitro3348
    @Dnitro3348 Місяць тому +1

    My avoidant ex left me back in September, and i finally went, no contact for a month she reached out through text messages on Christmas and we talked for 2 hrs 1 day and texted for a couple of days and now its crickets. So she got her infor about how me and our dog are doing and my family. So now im back into no contact. It's at the point that too much time, hurt, and disrespect has gone by that i don't know if i want her back. I really love her, and she said she loves and misses me, but she is scared and confused to let me go

  • @SuperDagod1
    @SuperDagod1 18 днів тому

    I went full no contact
    No driving by house
    No texts, calls, emails, cut her off Facebook. We have zero way to get in touch unless she comes to my work or texts or calls me .
    I’m not making the first step. By then I will have moved on

  • @Adakataba
    @Adakataba Місяць тому

    Fantastic video My five-year relationship ended a month ago. The decision to part ways with the love of my life is something that truly consumes me. Though it's all in vain, I've tried everything to get him back, and I can't fathom my life with anyone else. Even though I've made every effort to quit thinking about him, I can't help but miss him and can't stop thinking about him. Why I am stating this here is beyond me.

    • @dazza8551
      @dazza8551 27 днів тому

      It's only been a month, trust me it will get better, you just have to live through the pain and pray that God gives you strength to get through this, read the book of Psalms every day out loud. May the Lord bless you 🙏

  • @rajwinderkaur7786
    @rajwinderkaur7786 Місяць тому +1

    Happy new year to the kanneth family.

  • @Blackdeath821
    @Blackdeath821 Місяць тому +1

    You guys should make a playlist for videos that talk about things to focus on while in no contact

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  Місяць тому +4

      Have you looked at our playlists?

    • @priscillarodrigues7599
      @priscillarodrigues7599 Місяць тому +2

      @@CoachCraigKenneth you mentioned the recommended list on this video. Ppl don't listen to you properly

  • @diverdan601
    @diverdan601 21 день тому

    I got all excited, because I thought it was gonna be a true success Story of them getting back together after having both made some positive changes. Well, they made the positive changes, but nobody reunited, so I don’t call that a success story.

  • @benjaminnielsen4288
    @benjaminnielsen4288 Місяць тому +5

    I really need to do these workbooks. Not to get her back (that boat sailed long ago) but to heal myself and move on. She lost her attraction for me, distanced me, friendzoned me, and got with someone else. The hell with her and NC, I just want to start new and move forward... Knowledg workbooks here I come! Thank you Craig, Victoria, and Margaret 😢❤

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  Місяць тому +3

      30 minutes a day! Check out the videos for what’s inside the Creative Healing course first!

    • @benjaminnielsen4288
      @benjaminnielsen4288 Місяць тому +1

      ​@@CoachCraigKennethThanks coach! Will do. Happy new year

  • @danielheit9487
    @danielheit9487 Місяць тому

    Thank you for sharing this, Happy New Year 🎉

  • @frederickschott2059
    @frederickschott2059 17 днів тому

    My Ex is a Dismissive Avoidant with many unresolved issues. She blames me for everything. Only God could help our Relationship. I have done No contact. She will reach out and text some nasty things. I am working on me.

  • @surfkat59
    @surfkat59 Місяць тому +4

    My ex tossed me out almost 2 years ago after a 14 year relationship. I pined for a year to no hope. I decided to give it up. I realized that all we would do is pick it up where it was left off pre breakup. Why bother. Im doing just fine without her in my life anymore. There are more than enough available women out in the world to be resuscitating a dead relationship. Move on and don't look back. I did. No regrets. "A lesson learned is a lesson earned". ❤😎✌️💥

    • @diverdan601
      @diverdan601 21 день тому

      The attitude that there’s always more fish in the sea just bothers me to no end. People aren’t a replaceable toy. You don’t just throw somebody away.

  • @suzlevin9430
    @suzlevin9430 Місяць тому +1

    Hi Craig,
    Just wondering why you don’t address NPD ? I would love to see a video from you about this terrible disease, that ruins people’s lives.
    Unfortunately I’ve been with 2 that have serious psychopathy/ NPD and many others with high Narcissistic traits.
    I have now blocked my ex who was very toxic. I trusted him and he was so unbelievably sneaky as was sleeping with upstairs neighbour and old friend that he said was just a friend. I suspect his ex wife and a girl from work too.
    Very sick and sad man. But unfortunately many of them are sick.
    He began cheating with the neighbour 3 days after meeting me and continued this relationship behind my back for over a year and sadly I was too trusting which I’m normally not.
    Thanks

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  Місяць тому

      I have at least 9 videos on it. Search the channel

    • @suzlevin9430
      @suzlevin9430 Місяць тому

      I have but have only found videos on avoidant
      Could you help me find it ? What is the description of the video.
      Thanks

  • @ytrebiLeurT
    @ytrebiLeurT Місяць тому +2

    What if she works in the store where I always shop and therefore she can't do "no contact"?

    • @rebecca3778
      @rebecca3778 Місяць тому +3

      Find a new store. I’d never have been able to heal and move forward if I didn’t do a total detox.

    • @ytrebiLeurT
      @ytrebiLeurT Місяць тому

      @@rebecca3778 I will

  • @user-yq4cd2ux8k
    @user-yq4cd2ux8k Місяць тому +2

    Thought I had anxious attachment but was just dating a guy who wouldn’t commit and wanted 3 girlfriends 🙃

  • @jakecraftlawrance7206
    @jakecraftlawrance7206 Місяць тому +2

    Ok, that's good to know. But I guess I've been kinda doing that.

  • @chainz7006
    @chainz7006 27 днів тому

    its been 8 months came back months ago to try and blame it all on me when it wasant my fault..blocked her than her friend tried to contact me..i blocked him to.

  • @rulonjjj
    @rulonjjj Місяць тому

    lol. She friendzoned the hell out of him and now she gets what she wants with no commitment on her end. She’ll end up hurting him….a lot.

  • @lady9175
    @lady9175 26 днів тому

    Does it work we broke up many times and there are parties

  • @chidinmadavidson527
    @chidinmadavidson527 Місяць тому

    My ex says she no longer have time for men 2 months after we broke up

    • @surfkat59
      @surfkat59 Місяць тому

      Why care? Thats HER problem not yours.

    • @AnimeNewsRadio101
      @AnimeNewsRadio101 Місяць тому +2

      Drop her, make her regret and start dating other people. You need to man up, stop thinking about her!

    • @bryan6rg
      @bryan6rg Місяць тому +2

      ​@@AnimeNewsRadio101"Stop thinking about her". I hate when people said that to me in the worst anxiety I've ever felt. Easy cause its not you.

    • @chainz7006
      @chainz7006 27 днів тому +1

      @@AnimeNewsRadio101 "man up" sounds like ur saying men arent allowed to have emotions..stop

    • @diverdan601
      @diverdan601 21 день тому +1

      @@bryan6rg Exactly. When you’re invested in somebody, it’s not easy to just shut off your emotions.

  • @hadiza1
    @hadiza1 Місяць тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @AlexIvanov-q7q
    @AlexIvanov-q7q Місяць тому

    Christ I give up it’s over 3 months now it’s hopeless

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  Місяць тому +3

      You’ll never get anywhere with that attitude!

    • @TheSketis
      @TheSketis Місяць тому +1

      3 months is nothing.

    • @AlexIvanov-q7q
      @AlexIvanov-q7q Місяць тому

      @@CoachCraigKenneth you’re right coach but I’ve been trying my best to change for the best and I’ve got nothing but she viewed my instagram story once so it really isn’t much im just so exhausted but I’m trying

  • @verarobinson6759
    @verarobinson6759 Місяць тому

  • @Nancy2551-g6i
    @Nancy2551-g6i Місяць тому

    Fantastic video My five-year relationship ended a month ago. The decision to part ways with the love of my life is something that truly consumes me. Though it's all in vain, I've tried everything to get him back, and I can't fathom my life with anyone else. Even though I've made every effort to quit thinking about him, I can't help but miss him and can't stop thinking about him. Why I am stating this here is beyond me.

    • @basicinfo2022
      @basicinfo2022 24 дні тому

      I use chatgpt as a accountability buddy to stay in no contact. Go no contact to call his bluff. He didn't propose to you in 5 years so he's wasting your time.