How to Tell Your Surgeon You're Unhappy with Your Results!
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- Опубліковано 7 жов 2024
- No one likes to deliver bad news but your surgeon is there to help give you the results you're hoping for. The first thing you should do is to tackle the issue head on. And by that I mean: talk to your surgeon.
Dr. Jeremy Pyle tells us from his perspective what you should do!
Check him and his awesome staff out at DPraleigh.com!
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Had rhinoplasty, what asked before to be done, was told when heard no reply doctor was reviewing photos. Day of Surgery, was told could replicate images of the family nose from photos, and wouldn't be good for the face. This was discussed when being prepped to go into the operating room. And, already there were delays due to a surgeon before taking enough for surgery he was doing. Did my best, already having not eaten for twelve hours or being able to drink water and being slightly dehydrated. I'd waited a year, and, did my best to communicate with him before going in, now out, and while still swelled up, the shape was not what wanted, gave me more of a straight Roman nose, which didn't want, and when I asked for more of an upturned curve celestial shape nose, similar to my other grandmother. I could show him photos, because he waited too long to work or communicate with me, despite all the accolades he has, i feel this lack of communication has resulted in a nose that isn't bad but not what i wanted, and now looking at a revision, almost makes me sick to think about going through the pain again when this could have been fixed with proper time to communicate and make sure both on the same page.
any suggestions?
My surgeon told me I was a perfect triangle, said I could go bigger as I had some stretched out skin from having kids.
I have a wider rib cage, he was the one that said going bigger would give me more of the hourglass I was looking for.
85% I cared most about was volume up top, getting back that high “youthful” look.
Filling out clothing better, not having to wear a bra with every piece of clothing all to have some cleavage/bigger looking breasts.
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He said he would get me closest to a DD as he could. 415cc gummy implants.
I was a 34 B before.
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After surgery I knew right away he stayed small. Honestly I was confused for a few as they didn’t feel any bigger really.
I honestly thought oh no, did something happen & he wasn’t able to do the surgery.
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Next day at checkup a nurse starts giving off excuses, when I ask why he went so small on me.
First it was that I have good collegian & he didn’t want to thin my skin, then it was I had small pockets, then it was well had he put a bigger one you could have potentially gotten stretch marks on that area. & then the last reason/excuse was “Well this isn’t Beverly Hills, Dr (name) likes to stay on the more natural & smaller side when doing breast augmentation”. & I just remember my daughter looking at me like “what the hell, is she for real right now?” As I had the same thought.
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First off, we talked about it. He’s who said I should go bigger. We agreed on a size & service.
Nor was I ever told about these things beforehand. Not one of them.
… I paid for a service, a service I didn’t get any of my desired look out of, if anything I look worse off.
… I actually broke down crying at the 4 month mark in the check up room talking about it to the nurse.
I told her how I feel I look worse then before. At least I had cleavage, at least I didn’t have to tape my breasts to look nice in a dress or top. I’m literally having to wear padded push up bras just to have normal looking breasts, cleavage.
& you know what the nurse said to me? “Maybe if you wore something cuter then the baggy shirt your wearing you’d feel better about them”. Yes, she actually said that to me, & told
Me I should go shopping, buy cuter/sexier clothes to feel better in.
… Mind you I bought clothes & it did nothing cuz of the way they are.
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I was a 34 B before.
I’m only a C cup now. 1 size. & not even a full size as I have gapping up top in the C cup bra.
I didn’t get any volume at all.
The sit so far apart I look flat chested. I wear a bra with no wire, I look flat chested.
Yet it looks like 2 oranges sitting on the ends of my chest.
& because I had stretch to my skin, it’s actually loose skin so my boobs look like they would if you’ve had a kid or two.
… How in the heck is that even possible wirh a boob job?!
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My boyfriend had no clue I had implants. He’s like no way, they look like they are too natural, like you’ve had a kid, isn’t it supposed to be fuller up top? “
I actually had to show him the paperwork.
…. Friends would say “oh I thought you got your boobs done, did you change your mind & not do it?” Or “did you want to go that small?” Or “not to be rude but you seemed to have more volume, more cleavage before than you do now”. & so on.
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I live in Oregon. I paid $10,000.
Got them done 7 months ago.
I was supposed to be DD, 415cc gummy. .. Ended up 345cc, hardly a C cup.
… & was told if I want them redone it’s gonna cost me another $5,000.
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I thought I’d feel more confident & beautiful after getting them done. I already had felt that way before I just thought finally I’ll be able to wear clothes I didn’t before, fill out clothing better.
Happy like so many woman are after they get them done.
.. Sadly, that hasn’t been it at all.
I threw away $10k to look & feel worse, not including the hundreds of $ dollars I’ve had to spend on boob tape & push up bras, to have normal looking breasts & cleavage. .. 😔
I can feel each and every word, i am having the exact same scenario and i am super disappointed and not sure what can i do, the only thing i feel is lower self confidence!
@@nadinebh1232 I am so sorry you are feeling this way. It can be such a blow to how we feel about our body, especially when we see it every day.
… Just know you are beautiful no matter how your breasts look to you.
I know it’s hard but every day try to tell yourself that you are beautiful just how you look.