To Anyone Who Needs To Move On From A Breakup

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  • @joeykidney
    @joeykidney  2 роки тому +1108

    A gentle reminder that moving on is not a one day process. It takes time, but I promise that once you learn about yourself again, you will content and thankful

    • @SimplyBeauty13
      @SimplyBeauty13 2 роки тому +13

      it's been a year. i went through the motions of the breakup, then was good and happy and living my best single life, and now a year later I'm going through it again. I'm still the happiest I've ever been (despite losing him) but miss him dearly. I know things take time but I didn't think I'd be going through it for a second time, after all the self-growth, self-work, etc. I did. idk what to do anymore.

    • @Drazzgame
      @Drazzgame 2 роки тому +3

      What if I don’t know how to love myself

    • @bodalix18
      @bodalix18 2 роки тому

      Thanks for this. I'm going through a frustrating time dealing with my own thoughts and emotions about how I perceive things and how they really are. I'm a classic over-thinker, and hearing this helped a lot.

    • @vyhuynh1229
      @vyhuynh1229 2 роки тому +3

      @@SimplyBeauty13 Same. When I thought I was so content and happy with my life being single, the grief started to go back 🤷‍♀️

    • @SimplyBeauty13
      @SimplyBeauty13 2 роки тому +3

      @@vyhuynh1229 hi! wow it’s been 6 months since i commented that. im happy to report that was the last wave of grief and i’ve been doing super well :) i’ve definitely moved on

  • @KYLEAD13
    @KYLEAD13 Рік тому +291

    Found out my wife was cheating on me for the last year. I work 70 hours a fucking week boys. I am exhausted, I have no energy, but I put my work boots on every single day and get after it. I am not perfect, neither is she. But I loved her. And after I found out, she moved in with him. Literally a fucking week later. It’s been 6 months now and I share 50/50 custody with my daughter and I still work the same amount of hours. I’m tired. I’m so tired. But I have to keep going. This one hurts boys. This one really hurts.

    • @Whoknowsd1
      @Whoknowsd1 7 місяців тому +18

      Keep going for your daughter man and keep faith in God cause better days are always gonna come trust me. Always remember everything happens for a reason you’ll see

    • @snookmeister55
      @snookmeister55 7 місяців тому +4

      I'm getting over a divorce, 2 years ago. It's a slow process. Hang on one day at a time.

    • @onirud4869
      @onirud4869 6 місяців тому

      Hope u are feeling a little better now

    • @snookmeister55
      @snookmeister55 6 місяців тому

      TJ, you'll feel a lot better two or three years from now. It takes time.

    • @wallstreetgambler9151
      @wallstreetgambler9151 4 місяці тому +1

      I hope you've recovered. That's some serious bullshit. The girl I thought was my soulmate broke my heart five days ago. We dated for three months and knew each other for about five. I got love-bombed, hooked, and then she said she needed space. ADHD is a hell of a thing. Anyway, the music stopped. As Buffett says, "When the tide goes out, you see who's been swimming naked."
      I was married for six years, and my divorce was hectic, but it didn't break me like this did. It unlocked a new fear in me. So, I decided to hike 4,200 feet with a 35-pound bag just to beat myself and remind myself who I am. Still hurts but i am better today than i was yesterday. We move forward and forward only.

  • @mariamakiling6884
    @mariamakiling6884 2 роки тому +1844

    Guys if you’re still hoping that they’ll comeback please stop, don’t manifest them or wish them to comeback. If they want to? from the start they shouldn’t leave you, that they shouldn’t hurt you so badly that you are now in the phase of questioning if your existence is worthy. Stop please! motivate yourself to be better, to love yourself, find your peace only you can do it. Do it for yourself, do it cause you need to, you need to put the pieces back, protect your heart at all cost. Don’t stop yourself from healing. When you manifest them to comeback it will hinder you to heal and it will continuously hurt. So please we can do this!

    • @sarahluton6386
      @sarahluton6386 2 роки тому

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @sarahluton6386
      @sarahluton6386 2 роки тому

      Message him on Whatsapp

    • @maiflores4894
      @maiflores4894 2 роки тому

      Dear I will introduce you to the same Relationship Restorer from POLAND who restored my broken relationship, he can bring your ex back just fine he's a very good man

    • @maiflores4894
      @maiflores4894 2 роки тому

      Wh'atsapp him now

    • @mariamakiling6884
      @mariamakiling6884 2 роки тому +2

      Mai Flores i dont have money to pay

  • @d0n315
    @d0n315 2 роки тому +1867

    A doctor once told me
    *”Because you didn't want to lose them, you lost yourself in the process. Find yourself again and you will find happiness. Remember that if a relationship doesn’t help you become a better person, ending it does.”*

    • @wonderfall4522
      @wonderfall4522 2 роки тому +6

      Why do i remember steins;gate after reading this lol

    • @2wmttt
      @2wmttt 2 роки тому +4

      " Because you didn't want to lose them, you lost yourself in the process. Find yourself again and you will find happiness. " i like the quote like that

    • @sunflower7874
      @sunflower7874 2 роки тому +1

      he helped me become a better person.

    • @melmolina491
      @melmolina491 2 роки тому +2

      My ex now is going through the same thing. He had to end our relationship to find himself again. I can’t be mad at him bc I understand it’s hard. I currently have mixed emotions atm so I don’t really know what to feel. A friend gave me advice and said “just remember and tell yourself daily, there’s always hope at the end”.

    • @leesharg
      @leesharg 2 роки тому

      This made me cry. Thank you so much I needed this

  • @aice4910
    @aice4910 2 роки тому +623

    I've been crying non stop lately. But I realize that I need to move on because it's unhealthy for me to sob all day and not be motivated to do anything. I have to accept the fact that we're done. I have to put my damn self first. But my heart will always have a place for you, Tina. Thank you for everything.

    • @spiin1663
      @spiin1663 Рік тому +12

      Hey, are you okay or getting better? I'm going through it right now.

    • @paperboy91
      @paperboy91 Рік тому

      give us an update 🤌🏼

    • @Trafficfromsky
      @Trafficfromsky Рік тому +1

      Update time 😅

    • @catchcourtcourt
      @catchcourtcourt Рік тому +8

      I only get out of bed when I have to. I just want to lay there and cry.

    • @PChaimH
      @PChaimH Рік тому +4

      ​@@catchcourtcourt join the club i just lost 5 of my best freinds over the past 3 days 😭
      What am i doing wrong?! My life feel like nothing. I have no one whos here for me and listens to me when things get hard. Its hard 😭😭

  • @dantampham9115
    @dantampham9115 4 місяці тому +20

    "If it was the right person it would be the right time." That hit me deep.

    • @ElenaPalmer-i8d
      @ElenaPalmer-i8d 3 місяці тому

      Do you need help to restore your relationship. My relationship was Just Restored with the help of Dr Steve

    • @ElenaPalmer-i8d
      @ElenaPalmer-i8d 3 місяці тому

      On whatsaap 👍

    • @ElenaPalmer-i8d
      @ElenaPalmer-i8d 3 місяці тому

      ✛2347030894892👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽🔥🔥🪴🪴❄❄🔮 巴香港的决定令人高兴。

  • @colin.737
    @colin.737 Рік тому +110

    They came into your life then left, to force you to grow. The hard part is they need to stay gone to allow you to continue.

  • @naman3534
    @naman3534 11 місяців тому +101

    Leaving this comment here and hoping that whenever in future if I get to see this, I will think bout how bad this phase was and how strong I was.... literally at the rock bottom point of my self esteem rn.

    • @JohannusFandangulus
      @JohannusFandangulus 11 місяців тому +8

      Leaving a reply so that one day hopefully I find out you found fulfilment in life again. The pain at rock bottom is rough, but people can tolerate it and somehow move on. All the best

    • @kalebmoney7330
      @kalebmoney7330 7 місяців тому

      You good now? How’s it been? How does it feel like? What’s the process?

    • @lawrencepuyu3852
      @lawrencepuyu3852 6 місяців тому

      Hope you are doing well now

    • @ifeomaraphael9901
      @ifeomaraphael9901 4 місяці тому

      Leaving a reply for same reason 🥺

    • @aidenhopper1552
      @aidenhopper1552 3 місяці тому

      Does it get better?

  • @nallelycoro
    @nallelycoro 2 роки тому +221

    “Put your damn self first”
    1. Stop doing things for them to notice
    2. Stop acting like you are better for them, you are enough
    3. Stop living for them and it’s time to live for YOU
    -Now it’s time for you to move on
    -You have to put yourself back out there meaning that you need to do things that make yourself happy!
    2:35 “You know when you’re sitting on the couch thinking oh I should do something, that’s the thought I’m talking about, GET UP!” “Go do it, it’s time to do it for you”
    1.Accept the breakup
    2. Understand they weren’t the one
    3. Get closure
    4. Learn to love yourself again

  • @Magnus579
    @Magnus579 Рік тому +61

    The pain and grief in this comment section is so saddening. I'm going through the same horrible pain and i hope we all get through this come out of it as soon as possible. Stay strong my people, we can do this❤

    • @OlaQola
      @OlaQola Місяць тому

      How are you now?

    • @OlaQola
      @OlaQola Місяць тому

      does it get better?

  • @randomguy8800
    @randomguy8800 2 роки тому +19

    Dated her more than just a month, she was mistreated and broken when i met her. I healed her, i appreciated her loved her and what did she did? Left me for someone better....sucks to be me now

  • @littlemissyyy
    @littlemissyyy 2 роки тому +343

    Few days ago I was constantly bawling my eyes off now I’m back to feeling numb. It’s hard to pick yourself together; I have to constantly watch videos like these to remind meyself to get my ass up and moving. My heart will always have a place for you, Shenq.

    • @joeykidney
      @joeykidney  2 роки тому +38

      It is very hard, but you did it! And you should be proud

    • @littlemissyyy
      @littlemissyyy 2 роки тому +1

      @@joeykidney Thanks Joey 😊

    • @carterhanks1163
      @carterhanks1163 2 роки тому +10

      I feel for u girl but ngl when I saw “shenq” I laughed my ass off so Ty for the laugh

    • @Hykiee
      @Hykiee 2 роки тому +4

      It's been over 7 months now. How's the feeling?

    • @urhousernbro
      @urhousernbro Рік тому

      Its been a year how u doin

  • @jai3202
    @jai3202 2 роки тому +34

    this is agony. i know it will get better and everything like everyone says but god damn make the pain go away. i wanted to spend the rest of my life with him.

  • @MBAInnovator
    @MBAInnovator 2 роки тому +78

    My ex and I broke up 2 months ago from a 5 year relationship. I take full Accountability that I mistreated her many times throughout our relationship. I also found out I was codependent in our relationship. My world felt like it went upside down. My lifestyle has completely changed without her. The day of our argument I blew up and ended the relationship I just felt overloaded. I took my stuff to move out because I didn’t know how to handle it. Again I take responsibility of my actions. Now we haven’t spoken in 2 months. Even though I miss the hell out of her I don’t trust myself to be with her soon because behaviors don’t change overnight. It takes time and discipline just like working out when you want results. Even though I know this, I can’t help but face the reality she is gone forever from my life. With this in mind, I try my hardest to move on but I cry over this random times of the day. I guess I deserve it because I made her cry many times … the regret sets in very heavy. My hope has dramatically declined to rekindle. Again the thought of ever seeing her again is slim to none.

    • @katesmith3189
      @katesmith3189 2 роки тому +1

      My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve Who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back

    • @oroz6784
      @oroz6784 Рік тому +1

      Hey, so how are things looking now? Are you doing better? Did you learn to love yourself a bit more/ become more independent?

    • @laurenmorgan9946
      @laurenmorgan9946 Рік тому +1

      Same situation. 13 years and two kids. I took the steps to leave and I did I didn't want to. He was cheating with no remorse. None. I walked out after he fell asleep over a month ago and haven't seen him since. He's stopped texting and now I'm panicked. I left to prompt change in him, so he'd regret what he did, so he'd chase me back. My plan backfired on me and now I'm tormented.

    • @vismayboii
      @vismayboii Рік тому +1

      @559yourboy Mine and your story is exactly the same

    • @EliaraTafao_
      @EliaraTafao_ Рік тому +2

      I guess we are all here for the Same reason. 😢my heart hurts like that gut feeling man it’s painful

  • @clodu987
    @clodu987 2 роки тому +229

    Wow, the timing of this is impeccable.
    My first love, my girlfriend of a little over 2 years broke up with me on the 31st, just before we could celebrate getting into our 3rd year together. I feel so lost without her. Before she came into my life I didn't know who I was or what I wanted, and I held on to her so tight, she became my everything. And so when she broke up with me, I felt like my whole world crumbled. My mental health is not great as it is, but this felt like someone was taking my last breath from me.
    And even since then, I feel like I have been slowly dying. I'm so scared and so lost, but I know (or rather I hope) that I'll be better.

    • @jadehenzen
      @jadehenzen 2 роки тому +12

      You will, and you’ll feel stronger than ever.

    • @berenicevelazquez7397
      @berenicevelazquez7397 2 роки тому

      I feel you I’m in the process rn ever

    • @TheKFCManager
      @TheKFCManager 2 роки тому +3

      @@dennisokoro7290 how sick you gotta be to try scam people with their feelings crushed. karma will get you.

    • @alecbarrett3963
      @alecbarrett3963 2 роки тому +2

      Everything you said is my situation word for word, except I was 1 year going on 2. I am sorry. I am hoping for better days as well. Right now, all we can do is the little things that make us happy. Remember that you are always loved

    • @niksoundz_
      @niksoundz_ 2 роки тому +2

      So sorry to hear that man, I know it really sucks. Words cannot describe the pain you're feeling rn, but at least, I'd like to say "feel the pain all the way through, scream, shout and cry everytime you want to, don't hold any emotion in, let everything out" this helped me a lot in the last almost 6 months of breakup. Take care, love u

  • @nicolasteel4491
    @nicolasteel4491 2 роки тому +55

    I am three months post-breakup and can feel myself getting better each day, but there is something holding me back from letting him go. I find myself at random points missing him immensely. I think I am doing good, but then a wave of love I have for them comes rushing back. This breakup really broke me, I fell in love with someone who nine months later decided that they never loved me. He still has a lot of care for me and says I am his best friend, but I recently cut off all contact with him, as I knew it was something I needed to for me. Your videos are helping me a lot and I'm glad you have created such a welcoming environment in this comment section because even though it's a bunch of strangers, it is somewhat comforting and helping me a little a day at a time x

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

      Send him a message on Whatsapp.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

      ✛2347030894892(☉。☉)!

    • @Rose-yx7bg
      @Rose-yx7bg Рік тому +4

      i hope it doesn’t take 3 months, that’s so long to feel this hurt

    • @fredned1941
      @fredned1941 3 місяці тому

      Same thing happened to me yesterday. It hurts a lot

  • @Chevre-v6h
    @Chevre-v6h 2 місяці тому +4

    It hurts so much! I never thought it would hurt like this

  • @alek3016
    @alek3016 2 роки тому +32

    going through a break at this moment, the emptiness just feels like is growing everyday more and more, every thing we did it has an essence of her soul left over, this pain is something i’ve never went through. my absence is bringing her peace i need to let it go but i want to stay incase she comes back

  • @dafo112
    @dafo112 Рік тому +16

    I only knew her for two months but they were the best two months of my life. I cant stop thinking of her. I dream about her, and when
    I wake up and shes not beside me i feel so small. Its crazy how someone can have such an impact on you in such a small amount of time.

    • @reese4627
      @reese4627 10 місяців тому +1

      How you feeling now. Its been 3 months which is longer than the relationship lasted

  • @ntnweb
    @ntnweb 2 роки тому +278

    I'm a recent subscriber going through a fairly recent heartbreak. I cannot thank you enough for the content on your main channel and also the podcast, which definitely deserves wayy more views bc they are amazing, I listen to them on my daily walks. I can relate so much and take lots of advices and healing words from you so thank you Joey and keep making awesome content that really helps people!

    • @danieller9778
      @danieller9778 2 роки тому

      Where can I listen to the podcast? Xo

    • @ntnweb
      @ntnweb 2 роки тому

      @@danieller9778 it's on his other channel The Happy Times Podcast ^^

    • @danieller9778
      @danieller9778 2 роки тому +1

      @@ntnweb thanks!😌

    • @tamaghnabanerjee731
      @tamaghnabanerjee731 2 роки тому

      @@danieller9778 you can listen to it on Spotify or apple podcast too. its a great podcast. the happy times

    • @ryanseaton8805
      @ryanseaton8805 Рік тому +1

      How are you doing now? I’ve recently been broken up with and can’t imagine feeling happy again.

  • @helixproductions2k7
    @helixproductions2k7 Рік тому +42

    I’m not exactly dealing with a breakup, but the loss of my “best friend”. This same thing applies. Thank you…I needed to see this.

    • @tommyragnar2174
      @tommyragnar2174 Рік тому +1

      Going through the same thing here. Hope your well

    • @AA-fz3lj
      @AA-fz3lj 10 місяців тому

      Same

    • @benten1443
      @benten1443 10 місяців тому +2

      I lost both. The same person who was my best friend and girlfriend. She left, just like all the others, this statement is true, there's no right person and wrong time, if they truly loved you, they wouldn't leave.

    • @trill-r7g
      @trill-r7g 7 місяців тому

      Talk to me im goin thru dat rn ​@benten1443

    • @trill-r7g
      @trill-r7g 7 місяців тому

      ​@benten1443 talk to me I'm here goin thru this as we speak!

  • @mimokio6743
    @mimokio6743 2 роки тому +96

    I needed this so much, I need to better myself. I realize I was the one who ruined it all, and I feel terrible, the regret eats me up, sometimes it hurts to see him hurt. Being with him was the most amazing thing ever, but I realized that he would definitely want me to become better. It hurts like hell that we are still so much in love, but have to separate because I lost myself in the process. In one way or another, this helps me cope and want to be better. I still wish him all the best and all the happiness he deserves. Sometimes when you love a flower you let it grow, be in its nature and bloom in all its glory instead of picking it and holding it close as it wilts in your arms. I needed this. Thank you Joey, lots of love! xx

    • @Jxsee.
      @Jxsee. 2 роки тому +1

      Same 😪😕

    • @alicegoldberg2649
      @alicegoldberg2649 2 роки тому +6

      It sucks knowing you could’ve done things differently. I feel the same way and feel guilty all the time about it, but there was no way to have changed things or know what was going without experiencing something drastic like a loss. Hang in there :)

    • @luffysenpaiiii5239
      @luffysenpaiiii5239 2 роки тому +5

      Damn.
      I never understood her when she was with me and now she's gone I'm regretting everything I did to her .

    • @zam0674
      @zam0674 2 роки тому

      Love be good to yourself sweet pea when I was your age I let too many men bend me over and that left me naked and demoralised

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 роки тому

      Hi, I would Loved to recommend you to Dr Steve who can help you get your Ex Back to beg you for a second chance and also help you attract whosever you want in your life (Sp). He helped me restore my 6yrs broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep to his words and I would advice you seek his help now thanks.

  • @sean.mac16
    @sean.mac16 2 роки тому +33

    My break up happened about 2 months ago and she’s already moved on and I sadly still think about her everyday. I hate that it sets of my anxiety and always makes my heart hurt 😔

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

      ✛2347030894892(☉。☉)!

    • @rewindzzhd2m771
      @rewindzzhd2m771 2 роки тому +1

      How do you feel now buddy? I’m going through a break up over a month ago and it hurts so much

    • @sean.mac16
      @sean.mac16 2 роки тому

      @@rewindzzhd2m771 umm alot better i went to counselling for my anxiety, got really back into my fitness, focused alot on my university work. i still dont talk to her and thats my choice but things are slowly but surely mending and im stronger from it.

    • @zyn7670
      @zyn7670 2 місяці тому +1

      What about now do you feel okay?

  • @odsonabypaula6508
    @odsonabypaula6508 2 роки тому +35

    I think sometimes the closure is the way they left. It told you everything so you don’t need closure . Actions speak more than words just try to move on …

    • @joeykidney
      @joeykidney  2 роки тому +1

      Wow i love that

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

      Hi, I would Loved to recommend you to Dr Steve who can help you get your Ex Back to beg you for a second chance and also help you attract whosever you want in your life (Sp). He helped me restore my 6yrs broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep to his words and I would advice you seek his help now thanks.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

      Message him on Whatsapp

    • @donnagulin8665
      @donnagulin8665 2 роки тому

      Hello lovely I can Introduce you to the same powerful relationship restorer who helped me recover back my ex. He can help you to get back with yours with much love.

    • @donnagulin8665
      @donnagulin8665 2 роки тому

      What'sapp him;

  • @joysemsem4708
    @joysemsem4708 Рік тому +10

    There’s no right person wrong time , If he was the right person It would be the right time ✨🙌

  • @sergiomartinez8001
    @sergiomartinez8001 2 роки тому +243

    I needed to hear this, it had been 5 months of no contact with my ex and she finally reached out a week ago that she wanted to meet up and talk, I was debating to follow or not with that because I knew it was just going to bring me back all the memories and just seeing her was going to be tough , but I did promise I would be there for her no matter what , I didn’t know what was that she needed to talk to me about so at the end of the day I needed to do it besucase maybe she had changed her mind about the break up , but it turn out she just wanted to apologize for the way she treated me before she left , and the way she disrespected my family for not saying bye to them and ignoring them , we would of have been 6 years together on New Years , i think it’s time to move on.

    • @zam0674
      @zam0674 2 роки тому +5

      My love there is so many other man who would adore you as their one true love, just keep your faith you will get better love that the ex never could give you

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

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    • @couch_philosoph3325
      @couch_philosoph3325 2 роки тому +26

      I think it is good that she apologized, now you got closure and can move on. But i know it takes time. I was with my ex only for a year and it has been half a year since my break up. I did everything correctly for moving on, but i am not yet. I am doing good, but it still takes time

    • @vanshhsharma
      @vanshhsharma 2 роки тому +8

      How are you now bro?

  • @chrissyyyy6388
    @chrissyyyy6388 2 роки тому +57

    I really needed this. He was my only friend and he wounded my inner child beyond belief. I completely lost myself, deluding myself into believing I was deeply in love even now I still miss him. I miss him so much and I wish he would feel the pain he put me through. I haven't spoken about it to people because I don't have the friends nor the family too but this has been incredibly comforting almost as if I have that person

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      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

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    • @nicolettazenobini4632
      @nicolettazenobini4632 2 роки тому +4

      I'm so sorry to hear that, I'm going through the same thing right now... My ex boyfriend was more than just a partner: he was like an older brother and like a best friend, people I've never had in my life. The day he told me it was over ("we're just friends" he said), I felt like my entire world exploded and I was left alone... Two years later, I've seen him holding hands with another girl, kissing her like he used to do with me... I've finally realised it's time to let him go, leave the past behind and start living for myself again. Feeling sad and depressed won't make him come back to me. I (and you too) need to recover and move on from these people. We deserve to be happy again ❤️

    • @rudhrapanchal4049
      @rudhrapanchal4049 2 роки тому

      @@nicolettazenobini4632 I can feel you... You definitely deserve someone way better than that person!

    • @ishakhurana3424
      @ishakhurana3424 Рік тому

      I feel and understand what you are going through. It feels so shitty and we still live in delusion. It has been a year since I last spoke to him.. I still miss him terribly.

  • @kmrdxd
    @kmrdxd 2 роки тому +15

    i hope that everyone in the comments will get over it soon and feel better!!! hang in there things will get better ❤️

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      @maiflores4894 2 роки тому

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      @oceanonly8915 2 роки тому

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  • @amyli092
    @amyli092 Рік тому +20

    There's a song by Ed Sheeran with this one line that continues to run deep for me sometimes... "When love is real, there's never closure. I guess it's all part of life, but I can't help but feel low." Of course, he wrote this line in his song because he was grieving the loss of his friend, but in the context of relationships, I definitely feel like this can apply as well. Sometimes, certain feelings just need to be felt, and that's okay. I chose to not only break up with him, but I also decided to not turn back and not keep in contact with him. I was never good at allowing people to give their side of the story, but with this breakup in particular, I just needed my peace of mind. I didn't want to wait around and hear whatever it was he had to say.... it would just make leaving feel that much harder. Not all closures are good, but every now and then, I just can't help but wonder about him.

    • @Magnus579
      @Magnus579 Рік тому +4

      The one who broke my heart did the exact same things to me and I think that's not good you should not take away the chance from them to communicate how they felt by avoiding all kinds of contact. Maybe I'm wrong saying this but it's just this is how it happened to me and I'm broke as fuck because I got no chance to convey how I really felt and what I needed I had to bottle it all up

  • @Yaayy896
    @Yaayy896 4 місяці тому +2

    the memories which felt sweet and sad, are now haunting me, making me remember things and him through different stuffs is just so hurtful

    • @ElenaPalmer-i8d
      @ElenaPalmer-i8d 3 місяці тому

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      @ElenaPalmer-i8d 3 місяці тому

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  • @francescamaroun1477
    @francescamaroun1477 2 роки тому +64

    Thank you Joey. I needed this. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years last month. It was a really hard decision for me because we were together for so long and went through everything together and I loved him so much. He was my first boyfriend. So, thank you again. You somehow make videos exactly when I need it. ❤️

    • @zam0674
      @zam0674 2 роки тому +3

      Take it from me lovey, my husband died in the 90s, and life got better I got me back again, love your time alone while you can before someone wants to pull with your heart strings cut the cord your free

    • @lucylucky9430
      @lucylucky9430 2 роки тому +5

      I hope you’re doing okay. My bf of two years broke up with me, it’s been a week. For about a month we were in an on/off relationship, and then he finally ended it. I want/know that I need to move on. But I’m bargaining to have him back in the future, even though he wasn’t the right guy for me.

    • @blackdevil1502
      @blackdevil1502 2 роки тому +2

      Hope your doing fine now, I'm also struggling because of break up coming from a 3 year relationship... I'm having difficulties especially of our situations and I really want to heal, cause I'm suffering everyday.

  • @cjherbs
    @cjherbs 2 роки тому +33

    I have had a rough few years of change and "you now have to learn how to live for yourself" was super helpful. I let a friendship fall through after about a year of giving so much of myself to them and not getting anything back. Looking back they were kinda toxic and not caring of my feelings. I am finally learning that our friendship wasn't good for me and I deserved something better. I deserved the love that I continued to give to them. Still struggling with self worth after that and the reminder that it's okay to take time for yourself so you can feel okay is so helpful. To a new year of self realization and self care♡

    • @camille0704
      @camille0704 2 роки тому +3

      Same situation here. I hope you're feeling better, I know how hard it is to love yourself too and to learn that we deserve love ourselves too. I hope that you're doing well and that it is getting easier for you to love yourself, find things that you love doing and focusing on friendships and people that give you that love too, you deserve it ♡

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      @David-wj9tq 2 роки тому

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  • @thomasupton2664
    @thomasupton2664 7 місяців тому +5

    Never be the rebound guy. It will not end well.

  • @soledby-_-TaskmanSS
    @soledby-_-TaskmanSS 4 місяці тому +2

    I met this girl on June 2023. I don't think I ever felt like that for anyone else. I was dumb and well I was a dreamer, she is from Poland and I'm from Brazil. By far the prettiest girl I ever seen. We'd talk about everything and we had so much intimacy with each other. I wouldn't talk to anyone else cause I just wanted her, and she was the one. She was two years younger than me and at first she said she Real wanted to meet and all that but after a while, she stopped, she became distant and it's like all that mattered for her was pleasure.....I had my share of wrongs too but she was needy and wanted attention and I always did that. She went on a trip and after she got back she started telling me about this boy she met and how he was sweet to her, that was my first sign to leave, after all we were in a distance and it was obvious she didn't feel the same as me. I found out she is an atheist and I'd like to say I'm a Christian but honestly I'm just a sinner who needs the Grace of the lord. I was Really stupid to her and made fun of why she didn't believe in God. One day we started arguing and it went on for days until she said she didn't feel the same for me anymore. She didn't even explain it it was like she just didn't want to have anyone with me anymore. Before I used to invite her to call and watch movies together and all that stuff and she never really wanted it and kept on giving excuses, one day she said she was going to watch a movie with her friend a guy John and she said she Really liked him. When I asked if she Real loved me like she said, she said I do but as a friend and you'll never be my husband and we're not soulmates at all. Thing is a few months back I couldn't stop thinking about her name even before meeting her, I always thought that name was really beautiful. After she said she wanted to be with that guy I just vanished, she never text again or even show that she missed me, and thing is the guy wanted her for her body.
    After a while I had an experience with the lord and admitted my mistakes to her asking if she wanted to be friends again, and that I wouldn't make the mistake of being radical religious like I did on the last time, she just answered that it was good that I realized a healthier approach to religion. Nothing else.
    I still think about her till today and how she sounded like, I deleted all our 5 months of chatting and videos nothing left at all, I unfollowed her and pretty much tried to forget her but till this day, is hard....it affected my other relationships too and I have huge trust issues now.

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      @ElenaPalmer-i8d 3 місяці тому

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      @ElenaPalmer-i8d 3 місяці тому

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  • @ah8687
    @ah8687 2 роки тому +12

    We were together since I started high school all the way to my senior year. We spent Christmas’s, thanks giving, and all of the yearly events together. Our break up didn’t really feel like one, I feel as if it was never official. It’s been 4 hard months though since I’ve felt her warmth. She was my first for everything and the memories haunt me everyday.

  • @Jo-sk2nv
    @Jo-sk2nv 2 роки тому +23

    5 days post-break up, slowly learning to let go but I'm excited for what the future holds. Loved your video, helped put things into perspective 😊

    • @onoerbright7615
      @onoerbright7615 2 роки тому

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    • @oroz6784
      @oroz6784 Рік тому +1

      How are you doing nowadays? Does it get better?

  • @daviddavila7571
    @daviddavila7571 2 роки тому +9

    I'm tired of giving my heart out and getting crushed all the time

    • @lindabryan6854
      @lindabryan6854 2 роки тому

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      @lindabryan6854 2 роки тому

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  • @etherious552
    @etherious552 2 роки тому +17

    I had my heart broken for the first time about a week ago. I loved her with all my heart; we broke up due to her mental health issues, but about a month later she tells me she had no feelings for me and I’ve never felt so much pain. I’ve done everything I can think of, everything that is recommended to get over it. I’ve been sick with various colds, strep throat and now covid for the past month. Everything seems like it’s against me. Those little things that remind me of her make it so difficult. And I can’t sleep without those intrusive thoughts of what could have been if she hadn’t been sick. Your videos have helped, and I thank you for that- heh I guess I just had to blurt it all out.

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 роки тому

      Hi, I would Loved to recommend you to Dr Steve who can help you get your Ex Back to beg you for a second chance and also help you attract whosever you want in your life (Sp). He helped me restore my 6yrs broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep to his words and I would advice you seek his help now thanks.

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      @tracyspencer1674 2 роки тому

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    • @areebkhan2751
      @areebkhan2751 2 роки тому +1

      Hey,
      How are you doing now?
      Is there light at the end?

  • @cupofmojoe3715
    @cupofmojoe3715 2 роки тому +4

    i didnt expect to cry as much as i did but i needed that. Thank you

  • @hxrizon_szn
    @hxrizon_szn 2 роки тому +14

    Thanks Joey. Really just what I needed right now. My girlfriend just broke up with me, and honestly, I thought I'd never be the same again. Began to question myself and whether I'm actually good enough. But thanks for showing me that break ups are a part of life, and that it's alright to feel hurt at first, but you just gotta believe that there was a good reason for the break up happening. And that for it to have happened, it means they weren't the one. There are other people to meet in life, and when the right one comes, you'll definitely know. Thanks again man. Really appreciate it

  • @narimdraws6696
    @narimdraws6696 Рік тому +5

    It's hard to know the person I used to tell everything to is now someone I can't even speak to. I hope you'll be happy, Jamie. I won't fall behind, I'll catch up and become even happier than you

  • @willchrispie9080
    @willchrispie9080 2 роки тому +22

    its taken me a full year to properly begin the process of moving on from my ex, only now feeling like I properly am with a lot of help from your videos. You speak so honestly and with such a large focus on self love that I often forget. Thank you.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

      Hi, I would Loved to recommend you to Dr Steve who can help you get your Ex Back to beg you for a second chance and also help you attract whosever you want in your life (Sp). He helped me restore my 6yrs broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep to his words and I would advice you seek his help now thanks.

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      @donnagulin8665 2 роки тому

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  • @karinat.8260
    @karinat.8260 Рік тому +4

    Today I texted him for the last time to say goodbye. I was purposefully always posting on my stories for him to notice me, to say something, do something. Of course, he never replied, he never messaged. He never replied to my last message. So today, I decided to take the huge leap and remove him from my life. I don't want to live for him, I don't want to think about him when he doesn't think about me. The feeling is deeply painful yet so beautiful because I now feel free. I haven't fallen in love in a very long time but he was the one that reminded me of how painful love can be. To anyone who reads this, please protect your heart, protect your mind, protect your body from harm and don't fear putting yourself first. ❤️

    • @rebbybam230
      @rebbybam230 4 місяці тому

      How r you doing a year later ? Will it get better

  • @JuliusAu-ff4ip
    @JuliusAu-ff4ip 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you Joey for making this video. I come back to this one whenever I'm slipping back into thinking she'll come back but she never will.

    • @ElenaPalmer-i8d
      @ElenaPalmer-i8d 3 місяці тому

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      @ElenaPalmer-i8d 3 місяці тому

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  • @alyssamabelle
    @alyssamabelle 2 роки тому +9

    Hey Joey, I just wanted to say thank you for existing. My boyfriend and I broke up a month and a half ago from 2 years of dating. I started this year heartbroken and devastated. I wanted him to be my last... but you're right, people change, feelings change. Your podcasts and youtube videos helped me alot while I was going through my breakup/healing phase. Thank you so much for helping me get over him. Thank you for making me realize that I deserve better, and thank you for reminding me that I'm strong enough and beautiful! ❤️
    Much love,
    Alyssa from MTL

  • @ssspit
    @ssspit 5 місяців тому

    the love i poured into him, the depths of each other we reached in just 5 months was unexpected… despite how short lived it was, i cared for him in a way i never knew was possible… its always very disappointing when the fun is over, i dont date often, dont mingle much, no friends. i’ve spent the first 5 years of my 20s growing, learning, healing… i met him, and shared my tools, he took from me endlessly then ran back to the streets. that’s life. it’s only been 3 weeks and everyday since, i’ve told myself im getting better… it’s true. i spent days crying, obsessing, chasing, etc… as of lately i’ve been reflecting and sitting in the acceptance of it. so many bitter sweet emotions have consumed me. i’ll always have fond memories of the love that we shared.

  • @areebkhan2751
    @areebkhan2751 2 роки тому +8

    I’m going through a fresh break up. I’m there like a lot of you coming here right now. I see no light, I just want the person back and just want to snap back from this bad dream sooo bad.
    I’m dropping this comment so that I can come back a few months later and update you all of how it really is.
    I broke up because the person I was with changed and staying was becoming painful by the day.

  • @Kevin-dn6vl
    @Kevin-dn6vl 2 роки тому +2

    This is one of the best videos about a breakup/ heartbreak . This helped thanks

  • @blazedoesSHORTS
    @blazedoesSHORTS Рік тому +181

    the breakups didn't hurt,it's the memories
    note:i am heavily crying and sobbing rn

  • @jaydoelen
    @jaydoelen 6 місяців тому +1

    Joey everything that u said from 2:13 hits me so hard... I helped her so much but when i was the one with mental problems i got dumped and didn't notice it until now thankyou for telling this

  • @rubenyuh6779
    @rubenyuh6779 Рік тому +7

    me and my ex broke up only a few days ago its so hard because we were fr perfect but we broke up for a reason. everyone breaks up for a reason.

  • @tomiethegoat
    @tomiethegoat 4 місяці тому +2

    I really liked him, i liked him a lot. I made gifts for him, tried my best to give him all the time i had, always gave him a shoulder to cry on when he wasn't feeling well and overall gave my absolute best to keep him and myself happy.
    Only to find out he never had any intentions of building a future with me :) This happened 1 day ago and it hurts, it hurts super bad.
    To see someone i cherished and fell in love with tell me that he "can't maintain a relationship" after countless flirtings and love talks that we had about how we will be end game and strong together. I believe he had found someone else or was just afraid his friends wouldn't accept him for who he is for dating me. Still, it hurts and i cant tell whether its because i miss him or that i was so stupid that i gave my everything to someone who wasn't even comfortable being next to me.

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      @ElenaPalmer-i8d 3 місяці тому

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      @ElenaPalmer-i8d 3 місяці тому

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  • @kanekjellgren2934
    @kanekjellgren2934 2 роки тому +3

    I was with this girl for almost 2 years.. we had a messy break up and we hurt each other a lot during the course of the relationship. I know I haven’t moved on completely from her but I also know that I need to in order to move forward in my life. I always wished her the best after we parted and that I was thankful for all the things she taught me and the great memories we made. I told her that I would always have love for her even if I’m not by her side and I truly mean that. We catch up every now and then but I feel like that’s only making this process longer and more difficult for me to move on from her. She’s a great girl we just couldn’t stay together. She’s with a new bloke now and she does seem happier which is what I wished for her, (to be happy) now I gotta find my happiness, it may not be a new relationship… maybe just a fresh start in my early 20’s.

  • @anttheeditor
    @anttheeditor 13 днів тому

    I needed this today.
    It’s time to stop living hoping for something that isn’t going to happen and start living for me.

  • @vicky.editz.
    @vicky.editz. Рік тому +4

    Man u really helped me a lot 😭😭😭 i was going through one for almost 1 week and couldn’t help myself get over it and spend time for myself but after watching this video i can easily say that i learned that its just a bad chapter in a book but that doesn’t mean the book is bad

  • @tetoo_1115
    @tetoo_1115 2 роки тому +2

    I broke up 3 years ago and I always thought I would forget about them one day like none of these ever happened but I have finally realized they will always be there. They will always sit in some corner parts of you, some distant memories but they will never really fade away. And when you finally learn to accept that it will no longer sting you like it did the first time. You will smile at some good memories and most time learn from a lot of them. This will be your breakthrough, you will finally know what you want and don’t. You will open to love when you are ready, you will get through this. ❤️

  • @Slow.Chilll
    @Slow.Chilll 2 роки тому +5

    Thank you so much man I went threw a breakup two weeks ago and this is the worst pain I’ve ever felt in my life mainly because she’s my first lover but you have helped me so much I appreciate it

    • @mabelhukkins7029
      @mabelhukkins7029 2 роки тому

      My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve Who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back

  • @yianniathanasopoulos
    @yianniathanasopoulos 3 місяці тому +2

    Thank you for your wonderful words of encouragement.

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      @ElenaPalmer-i8d 3 місяці тому

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  • @garcia46j
    @garcia46j 2 роки тому +30

    I needed this! Found out a month ago that my ex cheated on me during our whole 5 yr relationship. It’s crazy that I still love him. But I’m so desperate to let go and be happy again. Thank you!

    • @chiadaphney3453
      @chiadaphney3453 2 роки тому +7

      Hey swthrt,I kno this feeling. My ex cheated on me in our 3yrs relationship as well..the whole 3rd yr,he treated me less,I was already crying in that relationship till I broke up with him,it was the hardest thing for me,I had sleepless nights,lost weight,was depressed, I went thru a very tough time but I believe I'm a good woman and I deserve better and u should believe that too..we all are queens,we deserve better..u got this ok..no matter what u go thru, you'll be fine I promise...it's been 4 months and I believe I'm better now

    • @garcia46j
      @garcia46j 2 роки тому

      @@chiadaphney3453 thank you ♥️ gives me hope that things will be ok

    • @chiadaphney3453
      @chiadaphney3453 2 роки тому

      @@garcia46j for sure luv

    • @zam0674
      @zam0674 2 роки тому +1

      Jessica you love the idea of him for how he met your needs, from now your independent woman who can get herself off without a man

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

  • @Mickey19890915
    @Mickey19890915 Рік тому +1

    My fiancee broke up with me after 11 years together. Your videos help me a lot. Thank you from my heart.

  • @ian8191
    @ian8191 2 роки тому +8

    This was posted the exact day we broke up and it 5months has passed and I am having a hard time to move on. It fucking sucks.

    • @olimpiagomez
      @olimpiagomez 2 роки тому

      :((
      you can go through this!!!!

  • @leesharg
    @leesharg 2 роки тому +1

    It’s not that I want to replace the memories, I don’t go to certain places because it reminds me of them, and then I remember that I’m there, alone this time, and I’ll never have that special moment with them again. It hurts to look at a good memory.

  • @DockClock-rp2ro
    @DockClock-rp2ro Рік тому +4

    I've been holding on for 3-months.
    She's happy, healthy and having fun without me.
    I've had lots of difficult things happen to me following the break-up, and it's all compounding.
    Sometimes it gets better, and I don't think about her, but sometimes it comes back.
    It's unhealthy at this point.
    I know she hasn't thought of me in a long-time.
    I don't want to think about her anymore; I have so much else to deal with.
    I just want to let go now, so it doesn't hurt anymore, and so I can move-on and better deal with the other difficulties in my life.

  • @rileyjjarrett
    @rileyjjarrett Рік тому

    I broke it off cause she said she loved me less, I know I did the right thing and I dont want to get back with her but I still miss her and care about her, I recently made fun of her and started acting egotistical about the fact I dumped her, I did it out of anger and pain and it was stupid and immature, she definetely did bad things to me but I should've been the bigger person and treated her nicely when things ended. It's going to be really hard to move on with my life but I keep telling myself to stay strong, and I keep reminding myself not to become a horrible angry person and still treat people with kindness and respect. I hope she does well without me and I know one day I'll be happy again, but for now I just have to remind myself she's gone and remind myself it's going to be ok without her. This video has helped me so much and I hope anyone going through the same thing continues getting the love and support they deserve.

  • @fritskeijzer6388
    @fritskeijzer6388 2 роки тому +6

    This just hurts so much more when you know you didn't break up over a valid reason but just because the universe decided so

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

      Hi, I would Loved to recommend you to Dr Steve who can help you get your Ex Back to beg you for a second chance and also help you attract whosever you want in your life (Sp). He helped me restore my 6yrs broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep to his words and I would advice you seek his help now thanks.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

      Message him on Whatsapp

    • @donnagulin8665
      @donnagulin8665 2 роки тому

      Hello lovely I can Introduce you to the same powerful relationship restorer who helped me recover back my ex. He can help you to get back with yours with much love.

    • @donnagulin8665
      @donnagulin8665 2 роки тому

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    • @do3258
      @do3258 2 роки тому

      This. It hurts so bad

  • @blackpearl_2024
    @blackpearl_2024 8 місяців тому

    Heartbreak is already a heavy burden to carry, and adding financial stress can definitely make it even more challenging to cope with.

  • @tibosoenen558
    @tibosoenen558 2 роки тому +3

    This video has openend up my mind to be the best version of myself instead for others. You have become one of my main inspirational characters in life. Thank you.

  • @dmckenzie87
    @dmckenzie87 Рік тому +2

    I’m about a month post break up from who I thought could have been my forever person. This video really helped me. Thank you so much

  • @nicolettazenobini4632
    @nicolettazenobini4632 2 роки тому +4

    This video is a blessing, thank you so much Joey for your wise words ❤️
    It's taken me two years to actually start moving from my ex boyfriend, it's a very painful process but now I can finally see a tiny ray of light beyond all the darkness that seems to have swallowed me during these past two years. He's dating another girl, and I now realize how much time I've wasted thinking and hoping he would have come back to me. I still can't figure out how we've ended up being like complete strangers, since we used to be very close, and I still don't understand what the hell I did to him to deserve all of this.
    But now it's time to let go and life my life: no more tears, no more regrets. Just optimism and happiness. He's happy in another's arms, I can be happy with someone else as well.
    Everyone of us going through a heartbreak deserves to be happy again. It's not an easy process but can do it ❤️

    • @David-wj9tq
      @David-wj9tq 2 роки тому

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      @David-wj9tq 2 роки тому

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  • @NotMordr
    @NotMordr Рік тому +1

    “No right person, wrong time, if it was the right person it’d be the right time” a friend of mine told me it could’ve been right person wrong time, but hearing this it hurts that she wasn’t the right person

  • @ninanguyen6381
    @ninanguyen6381 2 роки тому +4

    This was so gentle and yet so powerful. Thank you!

    • @David-wj9tq
      @David-wj9tq 2 роки тому

      Hello lovely I can Introduce you to the same powerful relationship restorer who helped me recover back my ex. He can help you to get back with yours with much love.

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      @David-wj9tq 2 роки тому

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  • @JF-xm6tu
    @JF-xm6tu 2 роки тому +2

    This is good advice to focus on yourself and put yourself first. But make sure to also consider your partner almost as much. If you give too little they will just leave. This is what happened to me 2 days ago

  • @boopdino8053
    @boopdino8053 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you so so so much, i recently went through a breakup where i made myself way too dependent on her, and trusted her blindly, so all of the things you mentioned are true, and resonate with me

    • @katesmith3189
      @katesmith3189 2 роки тому

      My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve Who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back

    • @katesmith3189
      @katesmith3189 2 роки тому

      W-hatsap him⏬

    • @musicforeverything4727
      @musicforeverything4727 2 роки тому

      Same bro, goodluck

    • @boopdino8053
      @boopdino8053 2 роки тому

      Thank you,i too wish you all the best

    • @RBNN69
      @RBNN69 2 роки тому

      @@katesmith3189 can you give me any advice? Simply my problem is that i showed her that she means a lot to me and i am so in to her .... and she started to take things for granted and slowly detached her self from me ....

  • @angelferrer1
    @angelferrer1 3 місяці тому +1

    thank you for this! this video is so therapeutic.. the way you deliver your words, I'm glad and happy that this is the first recommendation on youtube when i typed ''how to move on'', hihi salamat from Philippines

    • @ElenaPalmer-i8d
      @ElenaPalmer-i8d 3 місяці тому

      Do you need help to restore your relationship. My relationship was Just Restored with the help of Dr Steve

    • @ElenaPalmer-i8d
      @ElenaPalmer-i8d 3 місяці тому

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    • @ElenaPalmer-i8d
      @ElenaPalmer-i8d 3 місяці тому

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  • @meghyer5923
    @meghyer5923 2 роки тому +6

    I didn’t even know I clicked on your UA-cam notification, it was a complete accident. I didn’t know I needed this, this was strangely perfect timing. Thank you. 🥺♥️

    • @connoryemm2419
      @connoryemm2419 2 роки тому

      Completely agree

    • @joeykidney
      @joeykidney  2 роки тому +2

      Haha happy accidents eh

    • @David-wj9tq
      @David-wj9tq 2 роки тому

      Hello lovely I can Introduce you to the same powerful relationship restorer who helped me recover back my ex. He can help you to get back with yours with much love.

    • @David-wj9tq
      @David-wj9tq 2 роки тому

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  • @RBNN69
    @RBNN69 2 роки тому +1

    The worst moment is when you relise that its over but that only make you deaspirate to have them back but things will never be the same again .... and no word or action in the world will fix any thing.

  • @nathanb7145
    @nathanb7145 2 роки тому +2

    Just went through a break up today. I really need this.

  • @vincesantos2650
    @vincesantos2650 6 місяців тому

    My situational relationship ended recently. I want to blame myself for everything, most especially for not trusting her and being persuaded by the hearsay about her. I hope things get better. I just want to put this here as a lesson to not doubt your partners.

  • @gayathraperera5681
    @gayathraperera5681 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you for this. It's good to feel that
    I'm not alone in this

  • @joannepiasecka8449
    @joannepiasecka8449 8 місяців тому

    I wish I could meet him all over again and again and again.. I’d just keep pushing the rewind button again! Fu*k I’m hurting so dam much! It’s been over 2 months and the pain won’t go away!!!!!

  • @Christodophilus
    @Christodophilus 2 роки тому +8

    Serendipitous. I was just thinking yesterday, about making moves on something I have wanted to for a while. Then I thought, it would sure show my ex what they missed out on. I was referring to my growth as a person. Almost immediately, I pulled myself up, contemplating - this isn't about them any more. And why would I want to pollute my desire to grow, with thoughts of someone who rejected me? This video just confirms, I was on the right track to invest in yourself, for good reasons.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

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      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

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    • @angelic7855
      @angelic7855 2 роки тому +1

      Hi Chris. I really loved your idea of describing the offspring of growth from heartbreak as the maker and how it can sometimes pollute the essence of what self-growth actually is. I have never thought about it that way. All this time even though my ex and I are no longer in contact, I still try to justify this rejection with the idea of growing. Thank you good man.

    • @Christodophilus
      @Christodophilus 2 роки тому

      @@angelic7855 The temptation is certainly there, to make it about them. But we should also realise it's giving them indirect credit, for rejecting us. When choosing to grow for ourselves, is always about us. 😃Thanks for chiming in.

  • @AlexandraJoyceRRubio
    @AlexandraJoyceRRubio Рік тому +1

    this really helped a lot for me especially to the other people who wanted to move on from their ex's
    Ive been suffering for the past weeks since my ex's break up (dec 13, 2022 to jan 7, 2023)
    i havent ate that well and I've been feeling weak, numb,emotionally drained and exhausted, i lost myself because of his manipulation, toxic, hurtful side he showed, he couldn't handle me while i can handle him. i got very very traumatized when i was with him. but i am so glad that he broke up. it was the right thing to do and for the best for us.

  • @ProdRTBeats
    @ProdRTBeats 2 роки тому +4

    im a 17 yrs old boy, inloved with my bestfriend and had a great relationship, but now its over and being here, hearing joey's voice just calms me down and removes my anxieties thank you. i always stream on your podcasts every night for demons to not get near me

    • @maiflores4894
      @maiflores4894 2 роки тому

      Dear I will introduce you to the same Relationship Restorer from POLAND who restored my broken relationship, he can bring your ex back just fine he's a very good man

    • @maiflores4894
      @maiflores4894 2 роки тому

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    • @rudhrapanchal4049
      @rudhrapanchal4049 2 роки тому

      @@maiflores4894 hey, I also just got a breakup and I want my ex back... so if I message this person, will he help me too? I am in a desperate need of this!

    • @oceanonly8915
      @oceanonly8915 2 роки тому

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    • @oceanonly8915
      @oceanonly8915 2 роки тому

      He helped me bring back my ex permanently few days ago, without any delay, after six(6) years of separation🥰🥰

  • @lukeperry5007
    @lukeperry5007 2 роки тому +2

    2 months have passed 12 years and finished thanks for the video its hard but we can get past this

    • @katesmith3189
      @katesmith3189 2 роки тому

      My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve Who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back

    • @katesmith3189
      @katesmith3189 2 роки тому

      W-hatsap him⏬

  • @ToadSanin
    @ToadSanin 2 роки тому +3

    I love your videos. They help so much. This is only my second heart break. You weren’t around for my first one. But I’m sure glad you’re around for this one. Bless you and your messages. Thank you for your wisdom. I needed this so badly.

  • @paulababi7517
    @paulababi7517 11 місяців тому

    3 years and the loss of a child just to be right here in this space right now I feel incredibly low but one thing I will say is frequency allowed me to find this message and I really appreciate it I also hope that everyone who is dealing with a hurt heart be healed wholeheartedly as soon as possible

  • @jareddavidson3010
    @jareddavidson3010 2 роки тому +6

    I was there for my ex when she needed me because I loved her and from what she told me she loved me still and wanted things to work out, but after she was done using me for things I was jabbed at and then buried only to see that she had a new guy after only a few days

    • @exposethefraudsr.i.p.tokir3336
      @exposethefraudsr.i.p.tokir3336 2 роки тому

      Same bro and my ex work at my job she so stupid I saw her UA-cam channel where the guy commented

    • @laurenmorgan9946
      @laurenmorgan9946 Рік тому

      Damn. 14 years and two kids. I left due to his cheating I fucking left not him, it was hard. Over a month now he's stopped reaching out. I'm panicking. I did this to prompt change in him, to make a stand, to have him chase me back. My plan backfired and I'm tormented about leaving. Now it's worse than the relationship.

  • @Christopher21038
    @Christopher21038 9 місяців тому +1

    5 years ago and I still can’t get over her.

  • @niali8860
    @niali8860 2 роки тому +4

    you need more support for your channel u made me feel better just thank you..

    • @joeykidney
      @joeykidney  2 роки тому +2

      I appreciate yours!

    • @niali8860
      @niali8860 2 роки тому

      @@joeykidney i will try my best to share your channel for my friends and familly u actually deserve it !!!

  • @jaehlee4982
    @jaehlee4982 Рік тому +1

    She left me 8 months ago and I didn’t grieve but, the 7 month period after trying get back, I start to grieve like a ton of bricks hit me. Broke heart cried and prayed hard. Spoke to her a few time and even had a passionate moment with her. Still the dark cloud isn’t going away.

  • @Zimplygie
    @Zimplygie Рік тому +2

    So broke … can’t imagine how a beautiful story for 15 years ended in just one day of being confused … it was my fault maybe but i was him not to forgive me … it’s over 💔💔💔

  • @davaloss
    @davaloss 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much man, just got out of a 3 year relationship, 5 year friendship with her and coudlnt stop crying, saw your video and i feel better, Thank you for making me realize this ❤️

  • @taetae4508
    @taetae4508 2 роки тому +3

    It's been 4 months and I'm still struggling at times I am happy at times I am sad, but that's the healing process 😪

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

      Hi, I would Loved to recommend you to Dr Steve who can help you get your Ex Back to beg you for a second chance and also help you attract whosever you want in your life (Sp). He helped me restore my 6yrs broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep to his words and I would advice you seek his help now thanks.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

      Message him on Whatsapp

    • @donnagulin8665
      @donnagulin8665 2 роки тому

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      @donnagulin8665 2 роки тому

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  • @jrandallgilmore8907
    @jrandallgilmore8907 Рік тому +2

    Everything I hear says start living for myself. But how can I when nothing interests me anymore. All the things I wanted before are now dull and gray. I have no desire for anything. Im just going through my days being told I have to focus on myself and I’m just so empty inside. If one more person says I need to love myself I’m going to slap them. I go through periods of sadness, anger, grief, emptiness. I cry a lot. I’m so emotionally exhausted.

  • @sofyaa9667
    @sofyaa9667 2 роки тому +3

    I do want to add that although you will need closure, it does not have to come from them. Sometimes, they won’t give you closure, or will refuse to. That’s ok! Because you can give yourself closure, it comes from within, you can close your own chapter.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

      Hi, I would Loved to recommend you to Dr Steve who can help you get your Ex Back to beg you for a second chance and also help you attract whosever you want in your life (Sp). He helped me restore my 6yrs broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep to his words and I would advice you seek his help now thanks.

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 роки тому

      Message him on Whatsapp

    • @donnagulin8665
      @donnagulin8665 2 роки тому

      Hello lovely I can Introduce you to the same powerful relationship restorer who helped me recover back my ex. He can help you to get back with yours with much love.

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      @donnagulin8665 2 роки тому

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  • @murlishah6769
    @murlishah6769 3 місяці тому +1

    Everything ends like nothing had ever happened

    • @ElenaPalmer-i8d
      @ElenaPalmer-i8d 3 місяці тому

      Do you need help to restore your relationship. My relationship was Just Restored with the help of Dr Steve

    • @ElenaPalmer-i8d
      @ElenaPalmer-i8d 3 місяці тому

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      @ElenaPalmer-i8d 3 місяці тому

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  • @nathanielramlochan8724
    @nathanielramlochan8724 2 роки тому +4

    Broke up after 4 years and she found herself with someone a week later. Still even after that, I can't seem to let go of her and I still want to talk. But she's living her life and I just feel discarded. No messages, no calls, nothing. Then at some point loneliness sets in and my mind overthinks everything. Why can't I just let go.

    • @whatsappher738
      @whatsappher738 2 роки тому

      *Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back💔💔 again my ex is back to me with love and we are happily together I got help from a great man 💔❤️(Dr Manuel). He can bring your ex back*

    • @whatsappher738
      @whatsappher738 2 роки тому

      .

    • @derrera6derrera659
      @derrera6derrera659 2 роки тому

      I'm with you... it literally feels like my everything just left...like my best friend died... I would do anything to have her back, I swore i loved that girl so much spent 1.5 years texting and being with her 24/7... then it just disappears in a moments notice. I would give anything to just hold somebody again and just cry.

    • @whatsappher738
      @whatsappher738 2 роки тому

      @@derrera6derrera659 *W-hatsap him⏬⏬*

    • @whatsappher738
      @whatsappher738 2 роки тому

      @@derrera6derrera659 .

  • @carlawilliams5-26-27
    @carlawilliams5-26-27 Рік тому +1

    😢😢😢 thank you....

  • @Stinbeng
    @Stinbeng 2 роки тому +5

    I don’t get it, I dated her for 2 months and somehow grew so attached, she broke up with me for being clingy which she was right but in all my relationships anytime someone has broken up with me I’ve always respected their decision and cut all contact with them, not to be a dick but just to give them what they want which is not me, it’s been a month now I haven’t spoken too or heard from her and I still can’t get her off my mind. I’ve been in longer relationships before and gotten over them quicker but this one for some reason just won’t go away, I wish I could just lose the memory of her because its literal torture at this point, I just want to forget her and move on but I just feel like I can’t…

  • @Darkskies0
    @Darkskies0 Рік тому +1

    While reading these comments I realized that im not alone.i always thought what if one day.. She's feels the same way I feel about her.. But it's a grand deception i've been telling myself.. I'm not sure I'll be able to forget her.. But I think it's time for me to try to move on..
    If anyone's reading this.. "Hey I feel you mate I know the amount of pain you're going through trust me I do.. Even now while typing this comment my heart is completely broken.. But look this is time man.. She isn't person you once loved. Let's move on together..