Narcissist Betrayal Trauma Causes Ego Death In You. This Is UR Power & Stature. Still I Rise!

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  • @heartofglass6697
    @heartofglass6697 19 днів тому +43

    I was betrayed and publicly humiliated on insane levels by multiple narcissists and then betrayed and publicly humiliated by a BPD family member (and that literally sliced my heart out like never before) But ultimately these things transformed me completely and now I'm basically dead to self. I don't fear anything now and nothing shakes me. I stay by myself and trust no one. I used to trust everyone. I'm so strong now that I don't need people anymore. I used to be extremely codependent. God used the pain to transform me and to weaponize me to war against these devils. He taught me my worth, he told me who I am. He taught me how to love myself. I come from a family full of narcissists too. My whole life was training grounds for my calling. And my calling is deliverance, intercession and spiritual warfare. God taught me everything I know. It's mind blowing. I love your channel God bless you. You're a warrior too.

    • @clarityofyah
      @clarityofyah 18 днів тому +12

      Hallelujah! 🙌🏽 I believe people who are targeted by narcissist have a very high calling in their life because their heart is different than the average. We are very loving and compassionate and forgiving. That is perfect for a narcissist to take advantage of but now that we know we do better and we put armor on in Jesus name. God bless you thank you for sharing your testimony.

    • @soldierupproductions
      @soldierupproductions  18 днів тому +6

      Thank you 🙏 God Bless You Right Back

    • @gsulli
      @gsulli 18 днів тому +6

      @heartofglass6697 Your words are my story as well. Godspeed. Prayed for you.

    • @janiced.hatcher1272
      @janiced.hatcher1272 17 днів тому +5

      @@heartofglass6697I think we were designed to be social creatures and have a sense of community, but not socializing with everyone and anyone and not a one man island. If only one worthy and trusted person blesses our life, unfortunately the world seems to be 90% narcassist, but I beleive their is someone worthy of connecting with you. Like shoes are a pair, hands, feet and cars have more than one tire.

    • @janiced.hatcher1272
      @janiced.hatcher1272 17 днів тому +3

      @@heartofglass6697
      I think we were designed to be social creatures and have a sense of community, but not socializing with everyone and anyone and not a one man island. If only one worthy and trusted person blesses our life, unfortunately the world seems to be 90% narcassist, but I beleive their is someone worthy of connecting with you. Like shoes are a pair, hands, feet and cars have more than one tire.

  • @kellieantoinette4183
    @kellieantoinette4183 18 днів тому +9

    I also wanted to say that, it is amazing that someone like you, who is anointed and has a burning passion to help your brethren battle these demons, in the name of Jesus… it’s amazing that your analysis is far more penetrating and poignant than that of the psychologists who speak on this topic!

  • @saracowherd3539
    @saracowherd3539 15 днів тому +3

    The Lord shook me mercilessly. In his GREAT mercy , 🙏

  • @kryptonica
    @kryptonica 18 днів тому +10

    This is so dead on it’s like you’ve read my diary

  • @kryptonica
    @kryptonica 18 днів тому +5

    At one point I had so many Narc designs on me, I was basically crippled, so many diff hooks into me and so many airs because of that, that I had no concept what was going on, death by a thousand papercuts. They don't realize we elevated to 5 Dimensional Chess even past their demonic spirits and intelligence.

  • @tomclancy8281
    @tomclancy8281 18 днів тому +4

    My first wife was a MALIGNANT OVERT NARCISSIST. She hired the dirtiest lawyer in our county. I started playing hard-core chess and got everything I wanted at the divorce. People in my county were stunned that I had beaten this scumbag lawyer. Then I married my second wife who was a BIPOLAR COVERT NARCISSIST. We had 4 boys in 5 years. At the 7 year mark I knew that there was no hope for the marriage but I had to get my 4 boys raised. Again, I started playing hard-core chess. I sent the boys to private Christian schools all the way through Pensacola Christian College. When the last boy got married, the demons in my second wife went absolutely insane because they knew the party was over.

  • @justmetryingtodobettertodaytha
    @justmetryingtodobettertodaytha 19 днів тому +12

    Hey buddy, i just came across your vidoes. You're apeaking the truth.
    Im just after uncovering another one, that came into my life. It has really rattled me , this guy is literally a wolf on sheeps clothing. Very fresh still, im just in disbelief it took 2 years. This was the best yet, he was a mind reader. Ive only come to my own realization, that i became like them, i couldnt understand how i went from a nice innocent young boy, to who i became, luckily im in recovery. But thats unfortunately where i met this guy.
    I never fit in. I came out of an orphange and was neglected all my life, unfortunately i became addicted, and went to the depths of hell. Luckily found christ in 2018.
    I was convinced by others ( parents/exes) i was a horrible piece of rubbish , but now i see how good i am, what a pure heart i have .
    Anyway i really resonate with your videos ❤
    John 14:6

  • @denali1122
    @denali1122 15 днів тому +1

    This is spot on.

  • @Veramamabear90
    @Veramamabear90 18 днів тому +4

    We feel convicted for staying because we know that with them we are constantly going back to fleshly ways of thinking.

  • @The-Vintage-Needlecrafter
    @The-Vintage-Needlecrafter 18 днів тому +3

    Wow truth!!!!

  • @Americangurl86
    @Americangurl86 5 днів тому

    You just shook me awake! I was in freeze all day. Your videos just woke me up and now I’m ready to leave. Thank you❤

  • @SLLiberty23
    @SLLiberty23 18 днів тому +4

    You are a frontline Soldier in His army. I feel very protected by you and thank you for helping heal my heart 🙏🏻♥️💯🕊️🛡️🇨🇦

  • @kryptonica
    @kryptonica 18 днів тому +5

    This pure articulated Gold refined several times

  • @Blac1010
    @Blac1010 18 днів тому +3

    Yeah- they came in to battle 😂

  • @kellieantoinette4183
    @kellieantoinette4183 18 днів тому +4

    I was inspired to come to the comments and make the statement, “You are brilliant!”
    Then, I saw that the very last comment left by another viewer was the same verbatim as what I was going to say. But, oh well, I’m gonna say it anyway, “This was absolutely brilliant!

  • @user-uh7pu8tk6x
    @user-uh7pu8tk6x 18 днів тому +1

    Best sermon I have heard in years in the best way. I shall keep this video saved and play it often as it is so truthful, a guide to walk onward. Thank you. It is scary and encouraging at the same time. Integrity, uncompromising and knowing self is necessary for committing to one's own boundaries and having the courage & strength to keep them intact. I agree working on childhood trauma is where to heal. Am seeing a therapist and it has been 1 year at the end of this month I went no contact. The damage was done but I am on the road back to something better that I have never had. God bless you.👣👣🦁

  • @EmilyAddington-y3c
    @EmilyAddington-y3c 18 днів тому +7

    Still I rise! 💜

  • @suzettewalsh2854
    @suzettewalsh2854 18 днів тому +5

    God dropped that in you head! Great

  • @annettehovey6105
    @annettehovey6105 17 днів тому +1

    100%🎯 ThankYou!

  • @suzettewalsh2854
    @suzettewalsh2854 18 днів тому +5

    Wow deep

  • @kellih2725
    @kellih2725 19 днів тому +5

    Amazing video!!!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙏🏼🙏🏼....this is me...straight up!! I have even cut out toxic family!! Talk about refinement through the fire!! #Starseed....thank you Abba Father for awakening me, protecting me, and the blessings in my life 🙏🏼🙏🏼💗💗...it took me to age 52 to realize all of this. Guess I'm a late bloomer 🤣🤣...but eternally grateful 🙏🏼 .

  • @billieburks1483
    @billieburks1483 18 днів тому +2

    You are always on point. I can honestly relate to everything I mean EVERYTHING you are saying..❤

  • @soldierupproductions
    @soldierupproductions  19 днів тому +8

    Please; Like Share & Subscribe
    Thank You For Subscribing ❤🎉

  • @autumnbauer785
    @autumnbauer785 3 дні тому

    At the end of this last narc relationship, he was recreating childhood wounds on purpose. Felt a lot like my dad. I immediately noticed and started to exit. I feel "saved."

  • @janiced.hatcher1272
    @janiced.hatcher1272 18 днів тому +23

    Uncanny
    Psalms 58:3- The wicked are estranged from the womb: they go astray as soon as they be born, speaking lies.
    Psalms 58:4- Their poison is like the poison of a serpent: they are like the deaf adder that stoppeth her ear;

    • @soldierupproductions
      @soldierupproductions  18 днів тому +7

      Yes agreed. Wow , Psalms 58:3 thank you. Yes, now I know thank you. Awesome, I am jumping on that scripture right now. Thank you again.

    • @forgiven5919
      @forgiven5919 18 днів тому +2

      Thanks for the verse.

    • @janiced.hatcher1272
      @janiced.hatcher1272 17 днів тому

      @soldierupproductions you do a good job. We all appreciate you.

  • @keallaricchardson3553
    @keallaricchardson3553 18 днів тому +4

    This is good stuff... Keep it coming ❤❤

  • @RhondaCarey-t5o
    @RhondaCarey-t5o 18 днів тому +2

    Another fantastic video. ❤❤

  • @clarityofyah
    @clarityofyah 18 днів тому +6

    Thank you again brother such good content!!! Hallelujah. Put your armor on and send your soldiers out!!! Angels from the kingdom of heaven fight for us and give us even more wisdom. Remind us Lord of who we really are. We are more that conquerors! 🙌🏽 keep shining brother. I really do appreciate this and it’s helping me.

    • @soldierupproductions
      @soldierupproductions  18 днів тому +2

      I am happy if I help. We do not fall back not now not ever. Okay. ✅

  • @PJAndersson733
    @PJAndersson733 18 днів тому +2

    This is so good. Very powerful stuff. I’m glad to find your channel. God Bless

  • @sharonshepard2628
    @sharonshepard2628 18 днів тому +3

    He use too tell me before I went threw the awakening he use to say he was scared of me.

  • @universitypayoffcol
    @universitypayoffcol 18 днів тому +5

    Amazing Class ! Stay blessed !

  • @cajuncrackerranch7990
    @cajuncrackerranch7990 18 днів тому +4

    Thank you 🙏 Soldier.
    Good stuff.
    Relentless…
    Resilient…
    It take a severe amount of pressure to make a diamond,
    Imagine what you, the Empath, can become when you radically accept the truth… they are the Cluster B.
    It is a spiritual battle of the soul and it is a 4:1 ratio of evil, NPD-BPD-HPD-ASPD against YOU.
    Not all make it out alive, but the ones who do and learn the truth… you will armor up.
    We all must forge and maintenance our boundaries daily to protect ourself from snakes that slither into our aura with malicious intent.
    2025 Stay alert! Stay alive!

  • @charlottehord9939
    @charlottehord9939 19 днів тому +4

    Bless you for your truth!

  • @SheilaRose-uo3of
    @SheilaRose-uo3of 18 днів тому +4

    You really spoke to my spirit ❤

  • @redfox6623
    @redfox6623 18 днів тому +3

    You are so appreciated. Thanks for taking the time to do these videos.

  • @FantasticalDelusion-r6d
    @FantasticalDelusion-r6d 18 днів тому +3

    So good. So much truth. You're receiving important wisdom ongoingly ..I think .. thank you for sharing it

  • @carriekelly3065
    @carriekelly3065 19 днів тому +5

    That was brilliant.

  • @lalunar8
    @lalunar8 18 днів тому +3

    I am no longer an option!!!🙏♥️💪

  • @user-yy9op7uo2c
    @user-yy9op7uo2c 18 днів тому +3

    Why is it that 95% of grocery cashiers want you to treat them like they are special? I ask how are they doing and say thank you after they check me out. Most times they will say your all set or there you go. This comes across as rude. I now try to gauge them and say Hi at the beginning and just say have a good one at the end. They act like I’m supposed to be extra excited that they are cashing me out. They are not really providing a service to me. It’s their job to see what I owe. Some tell me thank you and have a good day like a normal person. I also notice many employees of grocery store stare at customers. Do
    Grocery stores attract employees that are narcissists sociopaths? It’ seems like it.

    • @soldierupproductions
      @soldierupproductions  18 днів тому +2

      I use to tell people that when I go to places I am always thanking them and they generally don’t say anything. Cold world.

    • @user-yy9op7uo2c
      @user-yy9op7uo2c 18 днів тому +1

      Yea it seems like it’s getting cold. I think it’s rude especially when I heard them say thank you to the people in front of me. This is why I prefer self checkout. I’m referring to places that don’t have self check out.

  • @carol-ann2924
    @carol-ann2924 10 днів тому

    Thank you .

  • @jonhoxit1315
    @jonhoxit1315 18 днів тому +2

    Spot on brother! Another great video and teaching...Thank you🙏

  • @clarityofyah
    @clarityofyah 18 днів тому +4

    Firm boundaries!!

  • @whoisimani44
    @whoisimani44 19 днів тому +4

    I get great wisdom from your channel 🎉🎉❤

  • @TheIronman1508
    @TheIronman1508 19 днів тому +4

    This video helped me a lot man, you are helping a lot of ppl ❤️

  • @CoolioJairo
    @CoolioJairo 7 годин тому

    I honestly feel like I won the jackpot, finally I can stop the people pleasing and just want Jesus. Looking forward for the best is yet to come 🙌🏻 Because of Him not because of me 💯

  • @Zizi-m9p
    @Zizi-m9p 18 днів тому +4

    Love your videos!! ❤❤ keep 'em coming

  • @c.k.203
    @c.k.203 18 днів тому +2

    The truly wicked are estranged from the womb. ❤❤

  • @HarryBarker-yp1xv
    @HarryBarker-yp1xv 9 годин тому

    Slow learner due to being scapegoated, but God kept on nudging me. Seems like I was okay with being belittled, the betrayal is what made me turn the corner. Getting hoovered all the time but staying silent speaks louder than my words or actions would. I am done, I am free. Filling my cup now so I can serve God and help people

  • @Savannah-e6p
    @Savannah-e6p 18 днів тому +1

    Hey I hope your having a blessed morning i appreciate your videos a lot and I just wanted to clarify something you said in your video that the narcissist comes back and stalks again but how is that possible if stalking is supposed to be highly illegal doesn't there have to be a end of evil ?

  • @cmcmillon4427
    @cmcmillon4427 18 днів тому +2

    You are soo soon anointed? What is the name of your book? All these teachers have a self published book.

    • @soldierupproductions
      @soldierupproductions  18 днів тому +2

      I have nothing. No book just don’t know what to say. I have been changing. I spend a lot of time studying or thinking. This narcissist construct is evil and I don’t feel there is justice on this topic so I’m bringing it.

  • @ValerieDeGoes-ck3wm
    @ValerieDeGoes-ck3wm 18 днів тому +2

  • @BNyaB
    @BNyaB 19 днів тому +4

    🙋👍🙋

  • @feminazislayer
    @feminazislayer 17 днів тому +1

    Covert empaths...

  • @kellieantoinette4183
    @kellieantoinette4183 18 днів тому +2

    I was inspired to come to the comments and make the statement, “You are brilliant!”
    Then, I saw that the very last comment left by another viewer was the same verbatim as what I was going to say. But, oh well, I’m gonna say it anyway, “This was absolutely brilliant!

    • @soldierupproductions
      @soldierupproductions  18 днів тому +1

      You are amazing. Truly it’s my heart and Gods given word bc I didn’t even plan to speak on that but after I know it was a word from The almighty God. 🎉