You nailed it! 😊 When a guy opens up about his feelings and experiences, it’s a sign he’s seeking a genuine, deeper connection. If you’d like more insights on building this kind of emotional bond, I’m running a FREE live coaching course next month. It’s a beta launch, and I’d love for you to join! masteryofconnection.com/ 💖
An American guy did this with me, an Indian girl, for 3+ years. Right down to the remembering the little things and childhood stories part. Traveled to meet me in India. He showed all the signs mentioned here, and more. Told him I want to be exclusive, and he started citing 100 different excuses. He wanted the girlfriend experience without any relationship responsibilities. Our connection and bond was intense but he probably had the same with more women. Left me heartbroken and with a big lesson - to decentre men from my life. If it takes so much effort to just become a girlfriend, I don't want it. I want to decentre men from my life. That's the only way to live with peace of mind and without pain, as bad as the loneliness can get at times.
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I’m not sure about the jealous thing. I knew that I was going to marry my husband when I was scheduled for a layover and told him that I would be going out with a female co-worker and he asked me to please take the Captain or First Officer with us to keep us safe. Married 40 years now!!
That's such a sweet story! 😊 It sounds like your husband’s request came from a place of genuine concern, not jealousy-he just wanted to make sure you were safe. Congrats on 40 amazing years together! 🥳 If you’d like to dive into more tips on love and connection, I’m doing a FREE live coaching course next month. It’s a beta launch, and I’d love for you to join! masteryofconnection.com/ ✨
Aw, thank you! 😊 I’m definitely happier sharing relationship advice than practicing law-it’s much more rewarding! If you’d like to explore more insights on love and connection, I’m doing a FREE live coaching course next month. It’s a beta launch, and I’d love for you to join! masteryofconnection.com/ ✨
I watched another coach saying - dont ever ask a guy what he's feeling, that kills masculine, testosterone or something, only ask what he thinks and share whay you feel... So which one is it? 😅
That can be confusing! Both ways can work-ask what he thinks and share your feelings to find a balance. By the way, if you're interested, I’ll be part of a FREE live coaching love + relationship course starting this month. It’s a great opportunity to join the beta launch! You can learn more and sign up here: masteryofconnection.com/
New Subscriber. I have a two questions if you don't mind answering: when walking with a man (her date) does it matter for the woman to walk with him on the left side or the right side; second question when going out on a date does the man ask the woman choose the name of the restaurant or does he chose the name of the restaurant?
I really enjoy the delivery of the information. Keep up the good work. (I saw some of the negative comments, you always have to get some a hole keyboard warrior). Please ignore the negativity, it’s just someone having a bad day / week / life 😅
You are so helpful in all of your videos, the explanation helps to link the things you explain to other aspects of human interaction beyond the falling in love, like friendship too! Btw, are you wearing your shirt upside down?
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Thanks for dropping by and sharing your thoughts! So happy this hit the spot for you. 😉 By the way, if you're interested, I’ll be part of a FREE live coaching love + relationship course starting this month. It’s a great opportunity to join the beta launch! You can learn more and sign up here: masteryofconnection.com/
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We live in different States but the issue is, he’s not making time for me. We broke up but ended up being rematched on a dating site a month later 🤦🏻♀️ he asked if “Prince Charming” swept me off my feet yet… we started talking again but back to not seeing each other… talk daily but that’s it… I’m not happy with this but we keep boomeranging - what is this?
@@a_chill_dude. not helping… I’m not behaving the same, he did despite initiating contact… creating your own narrative for my attention is just insanity!
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What if you see a lot of these signs but he wants to stay anonym even after 2 years of speaking and he even said sorry about drawing a picture about himself (told lies) that is too good - what does this man feel? (Age gap 20 years younger than the woman. She is not anonymous).
Hi Mat. Today I told a guy that I want to be friends with him. He is my healer. I feel this strong spiritual connection with him which is not romantic but more like a friend. I told him that it is this type of connection I feel. He accepted. When he left after the healing session he held my face and gave me two very gentle kisses on my cheeks. He always gives me long hugs. He gave me the hugs well a bit shorter than usual. He never contacts me in between sessions or does anything u are mentioning here. I am curious can a man have secret feelings for a woman but still act professional? Not show any other signs.
Thank you for being brave and sharing your pain. We’re all here to support you. 💓 By the way, if you're interested, I’ll be part of a FREE live coaching love + relationship course starting this month. It’s a great opportunity to join the beta launch! You can learn more and sign up here: masteryofconnection.com/
I am a healer and kisses, even on the cheeks, and long hugs are a big red flag. He needs to be a neutral space for you. He can be your healer or your friend, not both. The fact you are even having to question his feelings is not a good sign. Find a new healer and decide if you want to pursue any kind of friendship with this man after a few months of space.
I appreciate your openness and honesty. If you're wondering about your readiness to start dating again, our 'Are You Ready to Date Again?' quiz could offer some clarity. 🌟 mat-nlcmdzyq.scoreapp.com/
Smile, make eye contact, and say hi! 😊 By the way, if you're interested, I’ll be part of a FREE live coaching love + relationship course starting this month. It’s a great opportunity to join the beta launch! You can learn more and sign up here: masteryofconnection.com/
Glad you enjoyed it! 😊If you’re interested in more relationship insights, I’m hosting a FREE live coaching course next month. It’s a beta launch, and you’re definitely invited! masteryofconnection.com/ 💖
@ALEJANDRAAGUILAR-um1Dear sister, Mat is a likeable guy, but the content is repetative, it's not original nor creative, it's plain mansplaining from last last year.
Interesting, I find it inspiring even when it’s a repeat of something I may have heard in the past it still is nice to hear things to keep my mind from going to the wrong place. I appreciate his information.
Um, don't watch if you already got the message? Just because you got it doesn't mean it has lost its worth. You're just an ungrateful person all in all.
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On the Mat challenge, I shared with my container, my community, and I wish you all the best in the launch. Good luck brother!!!
Happy to hear that!
I’m so goes I found this on time
He opens up about his feelings, fears, or experiences, indicating trust and a desire for deeper connection.
You nailed it! 😊 When a guy opens up about his feelings and experiences, it’s a sign he’s seeking a genuine, deeper connection. If you’d like more insights on building this kind of emotional bond, I’m running a FREE live coaching course next month. It’s a beta launch, and I’d love for you to join! masteryofconnection.com/ 💖
An American guy did this with me, an Indian girl, for 3+ years. Right down to the remembering the little things and childhood stories part. Traveled to meet me in India. He showed all the signs mentioned here, and more. Told him I want to be exclusive, and he started citing 100 different excuses. He wanted the girlfriend experience without any relationship responsibilities. Our connection and bond was intense but he probably had the same with more women. Left me heartbroken and with a big lesson - to decentre men from my life. If it takes so much effort to just become a girlfriend, I don't want it. I want to decentre men from my life. That's the only way to live with peace of mind and without pain, as bad as the loneliness can get at times.
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Your feelings are valid, and I’m here to support you. 💔 By the way, if you're interested, I’ll be part of a FREE live coaching love + relationship course starting this month. It’s a great opportunity to join the beta launch! You can learn more and sign up here: masteryofconnection.com/
@@Mat_Shaffer lol. I just said I'm done with men and relationships. Don't need a course. Sorry.
YES MA'AM.
@@AyushiTripathi good for you🎉🎉
God removes the wrong ones from our lives so we can find the right one.
A return to the tried & tested traditional values is what will save our civilisation. It will never go out of fashion.
for sure!
This is exactly what my husband said while watching this!
With this speed of consumption it won't.. read Jem Bendell. But I get what U saying.
I’m not sure about the jealous thing. I knew that I was going to marry my husband when I was scheduled for a layover and told him that I would be going out with a female co-worker and he asked me to please take the Captain or First Officer with us to keep us safe. Married 40 years now!!
That's such a sweet story! 😊 It sounds like your husband’s request came from a place of genuine concern, not jealousy-he just wanted to make sure you were safe. Congrats on 40 amazing years together! 🥳 If you’d like to dive into more tips on love and connection, I’m doing a FREE live coaching course next month. It’s a beta launch, and I’d love for you to join! masteryofconnection.com/ ✨
If a man has come out of a very abusive relationship and is very shy, will he still do all of these things?
Your hair looks great
This was great…easy to listen to, well paced and great voice Mat. Glad you’re no longer a lawyer!
Aw, thank you! 😊 I’m definitely happier sharing relationship advice than practicing law-it’s much more rewarding! If you’d like to explore more insights on love and connection, I’m doing a FREE live coaching course next month. It’s a beta launch, and I’d love for you to join! masteryofconnection.com/ ✨
I watched another coach saying - dont ever ask a guy what he's feeling, that kills masculine, testosterone or something, only ask what he thinks and share whay you feel... So which one is it? 😅
That can be confusing! Both ways can work-ask what he thinks and share your feelings to find a balance. By the way, if you're interested, I’ll be part of a FREE live coaching love + relationship course starting this month. It’s a great opportunity to join the beta launch! You can learn more and sign up here: masteryofconnection.com/
All the men on the tictoc game creators, all do this‼️
Thank You for the reassurance! Good to know 😊
absolutely you are so welcome! :)
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New Subscriber. I have a two questions if you don't mind answering: when walking with a man (her date) does it matter for the woman to walk with him on the left side or the right side; second question when going out on a date does the man ask the woman choose the name of the restaurant or does he chose the name of the restaurant?
Great Video, thank you so much
so welcome! :)
I really enjoy the delivery of the information. Keep up the good work. (I saw some of the negative comments, you always have to get some a hole keyboard warrior). Please ignore the negativity, it’s just someone having a bad day / week / life 😅
You're a great coach
I appreciate that!
You are so helpful in all of your videos, the explanation helps to link the things you explain to other aspects of human interaction beyond the falling in love, like friendship too! Btw, are you wearing your shirt upside down?
Thank you so much, I really appreciate hearing that from you. By the way, if you're interested, I’ll be part of a FREE live coaching love + relationship course starting this month. It’s a great opportunity to join the beta launch! You can learn more and sign up here: masteryofconnection.com/
This would all be wonderful. I wish I could have that.
you can!! :)
This is so useful 👌.
Thanks for dropping by and sharing your thoughts! So happy this hit the spot for you. 😉 By the way, if you're interested, I’ll be part of a FREE live coaching love + relationship course starting this month. It’s a great opportunity to join the beta launch! You can learn more and sign up here: masteryofconnection.com/
The phrase is "without further ado" not "without further a due", which is what you said.
Get a life, respectfully.
Without further ADO, NOT ADIEU.
Close enough
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Yeah
Ado
Get a life, respectfully.
We live in different States but the issue is, he’s not making time for me. We broke up but ended up being rematched on a dating site a month later 🤦🏻♀️ he asked if “Prince Charming” swept me off my feet yet… we started talking again but back to not seeing each other… talk daily but that’s it… I’m not happy with this but we keep boomeranging - what is this?
Sounds like insanity
Repeating the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result
@@a_chill_dude. not helping… I’m not behaving the same, he did despite initiating contact… creating your own narrative for my attention is just insanity!
Thank You 🙏🏼
Matt….
Never Ass U Me
Make an Azz out of U & Me 😆
Take Care & see
U next time ❤️
HAHA so true!
@@Mat_Shaffer
Smiling 🥰
😍😍😍
Yes on our second date this happened
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What if you see a lot of these signs but he wants to stay anonym even after 2 years of speaking and he even said sorry about drawing a picture about himself (told lies) that is too good - what does this man feel? (Age gap 20 years younger than the woman. She is not anonymous).
Hey!!MS How are you?
This is spot on 👍
Good! Your comment made my day! Keep shining and being fabulous. ✨
@@Mat_Shaffer thanks Mat . Keep showing up 😚💪
That's very sweet.
Can I ask your advice my fella is always moaning and isn't affectionate anymore how can I change this we row alot to
I thought guys didn't know how to read their feelings. Just their thoughts.....?
3:40 mark - JEALOUS is correct spelling
Haha, didn't catch that
😂 and it's Mat not Mark
Thank you for bringing this to my attention. Your feedback helps me improve and grow.
Let’s define the word “subtle” 😂
''Subtle” means not obvious; it’s gentle and understated. Want to know more? 😂
Hi Mat. Today I told a guy that I want to be friends with him. He is my healer. I feel this strong spiritual connection with him which is not romantic but more like a friend. I told him that it is this type of connection I feel. He accepted.
When he left after the healing session he held my face and gave me two very gentle kisses on my cheeks. He always gives me long hugs. He gave me the hugs well a bit shorter than usual. He never contacts me in between sessions or does anything u are mentioning here.
I am curious can a man have secret feelings for a woman but still act professional? Not show any other signs.
Thank you for being brave and sharing your pain. We’re all here to support you. 💓 By the way, if you're interested, I’ll be part of a FREE live coaching love + relationship course starting this month. It’s a great opportunity to join the beta launch! You can learn more and sign up here: masteryofconnection.com/
@@Mat_Shaffer I already joined
I am a healer and kisses, even on the cheeks, and long hugs are a big red flag. He needs to be a neutral space for you. He can be your healer or your friend, not both. The fact you are even having to question his feelings is not a good sign. Find a new healer and decide if you want to pursue any kind of friendship with this man after a few months of space.
Thank you so much! 🥰🥰🥰
That makes sense. A healer should be neutral. Taking time apart sounds like a good idea to find clarity. Thanks for the advice!
Yeah nah. Sadly, I haven’t met any of those men and I’m not sure I’m capable of believing it.
This resonates😢
I appreciate your openness and honesty. If you're wondering about your readiness to start dating again, our 'Are You Ready to Date Again?' quiz could offer some clarity. 🌟 mat-nlcmdzyq.scoreapp.com/
Great video, great content. I’d rethink the white splatter behind the text tho. It’s giving nsfw. 😂
Please tell how to seduce a guy that i don't know but i see everyday
Smile, make eye contact, and say hi! 😊 By the way, if you're interested, I’ll be part of a FREE live coaching love + relationship course starting this month. It’s a great opportunity to join the beta launch! You can learn more and sign up here: masteryofconnection.com/
Why do you look like Jesus?
haha all the hair probably?!
We are all made in his image
😅😅😅
🤗😍 🥰😅
Meeeennn! My thaughts.
😅😅😅
Now contrast this with wanting to be a gbff.
❤❤❤
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
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He does all of those thing's but he is married for 20 years ..😅 poor me but i dont see a future in it😢
Why does the married ones aways be the ones that give you all the sweet attention 😢
@@ermaking8335 I know right? They try to escape their reality or try to cheat, they are really good at it😱😅😓
Why would you even think about it a future 😂 HE IS MARRIED! Girl bye
Really girl? How would you like it if your husband was interested in another woman. Put yourself in someone else’s shoes, fucker
God i hate women like this
After listening to this I came to the conclusion: you should've stayed a lawyer.
Why do you think that? I'm curious
@ALEJANDRAAGUILAR-um1Dear sister, Mat is a likeable guy, but the content is repetative, it's not original nor creative, it's plain mansplaining from last last year.
Interesting, I find it inspiring even when it’s a repeat of something I may have heard in the past it still is nice to hear things to keep my mind from going to the wrong place. I appreciate his information.
Um, don't watch if you already got the message? Just because you got it doesn't mean it has lost its worth. You're just an ungrateful person all in all.
haha I definitely should not have stayed a lawyer... that career would have killed me by now 😂
First time here. I’m so grateful
I found this , I dated a narcissist for 6 years…. Now I have his child I want to disappear 🫠