So, you mustn't even mention past trauma somewhere down the line so that you can understand each other better? It doesn't give much hope for finding a mutual, decent relationship just because your life hasn't been perfect before you meet someone who is a better match. We all learn from life experiences and become better people and make wiser choices.
*Men often test for loyalty and honesty, sometimes by watching how she reacts to little things. For example, how she handles situations involving trust or when there’s a need to be upfront and transparent.*
Yes. I'm not a child. Children play games. Adults do adult things. I've had adult relationships and know hiw to conduct myself in one. I would walk so fast from him.
Great comparison. Both sexes test each other. Women know their tests, but we are not always assessing how men are testing us. There is nothing wrong with testing~! It is how we determine whether someone is a good match for us. This was a sensible, honest, thoughtful evaluation of what men do..... and women do their own version Good information! Thank you.
Narc for 29 years and I’m super skittish! I’m giving up! Obviously I’m too damaged but all these men want to date me to have sx!!!! Damaged meaning I expect proof they are honest good men!!! I want proof thru actions!!! That’s my test! No games and authentic no be!
Narc for 29 years and I’m super skittish! I’m giving up! Obviously I’m too damaged but all these men want to date me to have sx!!!! Damaged meaning I expect proof they are honest good men!!! I want proof thru actions!!! That’s my test! No games and authentic no be! 29 years married to stranger and found so much out and abandoned children whom are adults now! I’m hot they say and get me and drop me very time!
i basically mentioned bout an ex and he was like you have an ex? and I summarized to "yea he just kinda love bombed me then left me for another girl" he was like "ah yea.. heard a lot bout those" ex topic ended lol
Good common sense observations + many more could be added , like social ease town & country, personal presentation, good character which is covers an umbrella ☂ of traits like integrity, conflict communication, longer term life style goals… etc. And for a woman that she feels “safe” with a man long term = stability of emotions, fidelity, physically safe including a home 🏡 , long term planning , financial prosperity … sexual attraction & interest in mutual pleasure in general male female hormons should be enough rather than escalating hoops & puzzles 🧩 + self development inner reflection, critical thinking skills & observations … etc!
Loyalty to the relationship was one. Handling intensity, like holding eye contact or allowing him into your personal space without flinching away. Family and friends -- what is your relationship like with them.
I don’t want an judgemental man to make me or my kids feel bad because their father abandoned them and me when I was sick!!!! That’s a bad human being! No thanks!!!! We need to discuss ex partners at some point as they will be involved in children’s lives🤦♀️🤦♀️. You have terrible advice on that one! People need to know what they are signing up for as coparenting or no coparent at all can be an issue!
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So, you mustn't even mention past trauma somewhere down the line so that you can understand each other better? It doesn't give much hope for finding a mutual, decent relationship just because your life hasn't been perfect before you meet someone who is a better match. We all learn from life experiences and become better people and make wiser choices.
These make me want to jump!
*Men often test for loyalty and honesty, sometimes by watching how she reacts to little things. For example, how she handles situations involving trust or when there’s a need to be upfront and transparent.*
They don’t want good women!
American men do not do these things, they are more focused on agenda. Games ruin any possibility of a relationship.
Yes. I'm not a child. Children play games. Adults do adult things. I've had adult relationships and know hiw to conduct myself in one. I would walk so fast from him.
Great comparison. Both sexes test each other. Women know their tests, but we are not always assessing how men are testing us. There is nothing wrong with testing~! It is how we determine whether someone is a good match for us. This was a sensible, honest, thoughtful evaluation of what men do..... and women do their own version Good information! Thank you.
How do we test? What?
If he is flirty with someone in front of you…. Run….
Friends are friends! Now if you want to be friends at first and build up to relationship that is different than just friends.
i failed the intensity test, i was feeling unwell (which I had communicated) and I snapped at him... havent heard from him since...
A powerful wake up call
What if the ex was abusive?
Narc for 29 years and I’m super skittish! I’m giving up! Obviously I’m too damaged but all these men want to date me to have sx!!!! Damaged meaning I expect proof they are honest good men!!! I want proof thru actions!!! That’s my test! No games and authentic no be!
Narc for 29 years and I’m super skittish! I’m giving up! Obviously I’m too damaged but all these men want to date me to have sx!!!! Damaged meaning I expect proof they are honest good men!!! I want proof thru actions!!! That’s my test! No games and authentic no be! 29 years married to stranger and found so much out and abandoned children whom are adults now! I’m hot they say and get me and drop me very time!
Time is needed to know these answers too.
i basically mentioned bout an ex and he was like you have an ex?
and I summarized to "yea he just kinda love bombed me then left me for another girl"
he was like "ah yea.. heard a lot bout those"
ex topic ended lol
Good common sense observations + many more could be added , like social ease town & country, personal presentation, good character which is covers an umbrella ☂ of traits like integrity, conflict communication, longer term life style goals… etc. And for a woman that she feels “safe” with a man long term = stability of emotions, fidelity, physically safe including a home 🏡 , long term planning , financial prosperity … sexual attraction & interest in mutual pleasure in general male female hormons should be enough rather than escalating hoops & puzzles 🧩 + self development inner reflection, critical thinking skills & observations … etc!
Great video! Thank you
Woww... This is the most practical video I have seen on UA-cam. Thank you for sharing these 😅
I saw 4 tests:
Corner
Jealousy
Sex
Ex
Where are the other 3?
Loyalty to the relationship was one.
Handling intensity, like holding eye contact or allowing him into your personal space without flinching away.
Family and friends -- what is your relationship like with them.
I don't have family so what than? 🙄
Oldschool info. 😎
Nice…have to agree…
I like your heart. Nice video
SIR: WHY??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? are USA SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO INSECURE? ABOUT EVERYTHING?
Hahaha!
Truths!
Thank you for the information
Bah. 'Wifey material.' This kind of thinking is so .... patriarchal.
Yeah, the new thing is go and just sleep with men for money and not want to keep them … sounds so empowering🤦♀️
I don’t want an judgemental man to make me or my kids feel bad because their father abandoned them and me when I was sick!!!! That’s a bad human being! No thanks!!!! We need to discuss ex partners at some point as they will be involved in children’s lives🤦♀️🤦♀️. You have terrible advice on that one! People need to know what they are signing up for as coparenting or no coparent at all can be an issue!
Isn't a fair assessment. Judge me and you will be judged
Omg.. terrible video.. look up Mathew hussey instead.. wish u guy in video all well..
Lol
Terrible ..to YOU, of course. And imposing what we should look up or not to look up is ... bad taste
Mathew is older….some ladies are young and they should be adviced by this man. I also I like Mathew, but I am 48 🤣