13 Ways to PUNISH The NARCISSIST | STOICISM
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- Опубліковано 10 тра 2024
- 13 Ways to PUNISH The NARCISSIST | STOICISM
🔍 Discover the principles of Stoicism to explore 13 empowering ways to navigate and overcome interactions with narcissistic individuals. Join us on a journey of resilience, self-empowerment, and practical wisdom as we discuss Stoic insights on dealing with narcissism. Embark on a mindful exploration of Stoic principles, discovering effective ways to deal with narcissistic behavior while maintaining your inner peace.
🌟 In this video, we cover:
✅ Stoically detach from emotional manipulation.
✅ Establish clear boundaries without unnecessary drama.
✅ Develop stoic indifference to narcissistic behaviors.
✅ Concentrate on your responses, not their actions.
✅ Stoically care for yourself amidst challenges.
✅ Find validation within; don't rely on external opinions.
✅ Stoically invest emotions where they truly matter.
✅ Understand that narcissistic patterns are transient.
✅ Release resentment for your own peace of mind.
✅ Stoically prioritize self-care and mental health.
✅ Silently build a supportive network around you.
✅ Channel energy into your personal growth.
✅ Release the need for revenge and focus on moving forward.
🌟 Join us on this empowering journey as we integrate Stoic insights into actionable strategies for navigating narcissism with resilience.
🔍 Here's what you'll learn:
00:00 - Intro
00:59 - 1. Go limited or no contact if you can.
03:49 - 2. Take authority away from them.
06:50 - 3. Stay calm when they’re trying to upset you.
09:52 - 4. Build your self-esteem.
12:53 - 5. Set clear boundaries.
15:37 - 6. Find a support system.
18:39 - 7. Expose their behaviour.
21:05 - 8. Trust yourself instead of buying into their lies
23:43 - 9. Trick them into doing you a favour.
27:04 - 10. Focus on self-care.
30:37 - 11. Avoid giving them an emotional reaction.
34:00 - 12. Build a support system to help you stay strong.
37:11 - 13. Recognize when you need help.
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Ignore toxic people at all gave me a power over them!!! Make them feel little and unimportant!! ❤Love your videos, how I wish I get round this video before I even know this kind of Pest of Societies.
Yes! Thank you!
Applause! 🎉 On Point! ☝️
No contact. They never change
Exactly this ... Unfortunately ...
I am 49 years old am just now fully accepting the truth of your statement.
Dam right 🙌🏾💯💯💯
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
SO true!
"The best revenge is to be unlike him who performed the injury." - Marcus Aurelius
How do you perceive the balance between seeking justice and maintaining your own peace when dealing with narcissistic behavior?
We're with them for a reason. My boyfriend drives me to anger (after a looong time of trying to be balanced, AND operating from love.
Great content, as usual. When Stoics engage others it's suggested not to act in a selfish or ego-driven manner while some would even speculate that avoiding evil is also a worthy goal when engaging the sensibilities of difficult people. Pushing people one way or another has built-in risks that can be completely unknown, even with the best intentions.
Interesting..and I can understand that.
💯 Agree! Alcoholics are the "worst manipulative jerk offs" they feel so "entitled" 🤨
It seems like I'm under constant scrutiny talked about hollering finger pointing im trying hard to keep silently as of now I have no support using doesn't help constantly. judge God made us equal gave all I could for twenty years im sandy I'm hurting and Im angry I do have boundaries 😢
I feel that in my relationship the narcissist the one that truly has abused me with his words throughout time the one had the one who has Honestly made me question my own judgments making myself think that I'm the narcissist and I'm the manipulator he's so well trained on being a narcissist I feel as if I've become like him
Go no contact, they try to get attention. When you ignore them, get on with your life, they find ways of tormenting you to get attention. Spray weedkiller over plants, take parcels from your doorstep, take bird food from your bird feeders. Neighbours make strange noises that annoy you, such as low bass sounds. Leave them on when they are out. Wake you at night with sounds that come from a speaker on their side of the wall or ceiling. What is a person being pursued by the narcissist meant to do?
Wonderful advice. Thank you.
You are so welcome!
What happens when you don’t have supportive people. What happens when the narcissist is your “wife”, who you share 2 young kids with and don’t want to lose your family? The answer can be expensive!
I’m here for answers too. My child’s father (whom I’m still in a relationship with) deems me to be a narcissist and KNOW DAMN WELL IT AINT ME…what shall I do??
Leave, it is better for your children.
Get help from a therapist
Hell NO never again!
Biggest narcissist. Is my older brother . I have my own fab shop. , plus another shop he wanted to split rent on . I help him doung metal work for him . Nothing in return . Hasnt paid his rent share for months yet thinks he has most authority over it , complain my sons truck is in the way . Yet his shit is always in the way , and i pay employees to move his shit around to access my stock some times . He wants wants wants , and take take take . When i get upset. Or bring it up . To start the unfairness of this deal. He cant understand why im angry? . Yet if ut was the other way around . I would never get away with it
Thanks for the information 🙂👍
THANK YOU
Thank you ❤❤
I'm going to try staring in peoples eyes more and utter less words. The pregnant pause, the looking at my watch. "Ill get back to you", and don't. Change my phone number with the first time they jump or try to jump my boundary. My peace is number 1.
I had to watch this one. You know the saddest thing about certain people vis they eventually kill the goose that lays the golden egg. Not because they're stupid, but because they're disconnected. And they're often the most courageous, intelligent people! That's why arguing with them often is impossible and they bring out your aggressive side. My boyfriend's ex twice attacked him with a knife. The 2nd time he was lucky to live. To his credit he refused to give evidence to put his ex away, because of the children. But he's something else.I must need this *ucking challenge!😂
yes!
When I go no contact, I’m accused of being a narcissist doing a narcissistic dump. What is it discard? That’s the word accusing me of doing a discard makes me just like them.
I have a narcissistic sister.
I learned how to be calm. But he just takes more advantage of me . And prolongs the not paying rent and get more shit for free . Takes what ever he wants when hes here
I thought this was how to deal with a narcissist, not what a narcissist. I’m looking for how to deal with someone who is one.
Nice
I’ve been punished I done with this foolishness
Sir my wife is a narcisissist she made my life hell , she has ruined my life physically , mentally , spirituality and financially , i am totally broken , I am suffering alone and excepting my death .
You won't die, you are worth being loved don't let yourself get gaslit into suicide because someone else hates himself and can't heal
It hurts very much. You never deserved that. Love yourself.
I have nothing to do with your hierarchy, and never will
I did
Thay r evil.mine is .after 20years I left.theirs so much to say but I can’t say all of it.i don’t have time.all i can say is run run like hell.
Pretend the person was out government
You must be a narcissist by just wanting to punish one. Is this a subliminal You needing punishment?
Haha you could be right!
I believe that was intended as a click bait statement.
Maybe, borderline.
When you have been through the pain of one, you won't care anymore
Too much emphases on professional help. Real strength is doing it on our own.