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@@littlemissgwendolen1466I didn’t even realize this until o came to the comments and now either way it’s disgusting sd behavior possessive behavior and it’s horrific to be stuck with someone like that and it is dangerous I’m glad she nipped that in the bud quickly…
The first time my brother hit his wife with a closed fist she called me. I told her the truth about the violence we grew up with. She filed for divorce when my brother refused to get counseling. She never told him I told her. Neither did I. He bad mouthed her for the rest of his life, never admitting it was his fist that ended the relationship.
Sounds like my brother. He was an absolute jerk. He still complains about his ex whom I am still friends with. He would never admit that his own awful actions led to their breakup. Over 20 years on He complains. Meanwhile he was always a misogynistic cheating ass. My other brother and sister remain friends with his ex and we don't talk to him. He is so toxic.
Thank you for having lived it enough to be honest and not enable your brother. Not everyone is strong enough when they’ve been through that kind of trauma together.
OP’s brother’s only mad because he couldn’t “deflower the virgin” and brag about it to his friends. He’s as horrible and misogynistic as his father! OP helped that future bride dodge a whole firing squad, not just a bullet. Good for you, OP! It may not have been an easy thing for you to do, but you really did save the girl a lot of heartache and a horrible married life!! You have my respect.
Exactly! And nobody thinks about this, but if you sleep with someone under false pretenses (even by disguising your personality), that's a form of sexual assault. Brother will absolutely be abusive.
I’m a daddy’s girl , we were EXTREMELY close when he passed away. 2 days after I was laying in bed crying looking at photos of him. My husband said to me verbatim “are you crying? Oh my gosh it’s been two days” The next day was the funeral and my husband got mad at me because I was walking around talking to people (my family) and ignoring him. He got so mad he stormed out. Needless to say, he’s my ex-husband now. . I didn’t even know people could behave that way.
What there no signs of this behavior? What did he say when you left and didn’t you explain how gross this behavior is? Also did he try to get you be and be upset? Because if he did, I would say it’s been a couple days oh my gosh you’re still on this.
People are so strange. Why on earth would you invite a complete stranger to come and stay in your home, especially with a child there? Talking to someone over the internet does not mean you know them. They could be a serial killer. Wise up. Sister doesn’t need to apologize on the second story. The truth hurts and it’s brother’s fault his own behavior scared a good girl away.
Yeah sorry but homegirl is the one who messed up here. WTF?? How old is this broad? Who uses the verb BARK to mean someone arguing? I hate to repeat myself but WTF???
Woman who warned the other about her brother did the right thing. How dad and brother responded prove that they are what she says they are. She saved the "girlfriend" a whole lot of grief. I hope you find much happiness!
2:12 YOU INVITED A COMPLETE STRANGER TO STAY IN YOUR HOME WITH YOUR **CHILD** Seriously, wtf is wrong with her?!? When she locked herself in her bathroom out of fear, did she take her child with her or just leave him to fend for himself?! Either way, exposing your kid to a stranger is totally inexusable. Shame on her.
I was wondering the same. Did she brought her child with her? Like wouldn’t she said “we”, “me and my child” if she brought him with her? English isn’t my native language, so I’m confused.
The girl with the AH brother - anyone else realize that the gf ASKED HER?!? OP did NOT just put her nose in! She honestly and respectfully ANSWERED a DIRECT QUESTION... Like - SO NOT the AH
@@shadoewater 🤔🤔 probably. Heck, even the way she worded the question "I'm lucky! But, hasn't he ever dated?" (VERY roughly paraphrased) seems like she's been thinking "2+2≠4 here"... Young lady's got BRAINS - much to the surprise of AH brother, I'm sure 😆
I would have suspected the moment he'd tell me I'm hid first relationship. Correct me if i'm wrong but virgin boys ( I assume he meant that when he said she was his first gf..)would usually have a start with a more experienced girl or with a hoe... am I wrong?
Tattling sister is NOT the a-hole. My brother was same way. He ended up divorced and lost custody, then later when he was engaged to another girl, she asked me a similar probing question, and I, too told her the truth. She married him anyway, and hates me to this day, lol. Two fools that deserve one another! I tried to spare her. I sleep fine at night.
I've been in that situation before, it sucks. I had to cut all contract with my brother over it, but it isn't like I wanted to talk to him anyways, since he's a massive dong to literally everyone. He's even started going after our mom now. You can tell a lot about a man by how he treats his mom, and he treats our mom like a walking verbal punching bag.
Fr, I wldve told your brothers wife, "dont ask questions you dont want answers to, curiosity killed the cat." And to the brother of the AITA; I definitely would've played dumb like, "Oh? But I thought you were proud of playing women? I was just boasting about your prowess. You know my dumb female brain can't keep track of every girl you fvck when you just have so many hun. Besides, it's not like you actually liked her anyway, right?" He'd probably go along with that to keep face, and then I'd just ignore it him. Like, he only brought that girl around to show off and brag to his dad, and if he thinks all women are stupid than Id just act stupid and move in the shadows. 😂 "Oh, you're just so much smart than me. My dumb female brain got confused!" 😮
The first girl. She invited a total rando from tiktok, to her house, where her minor (I assume) child lives, and she's surprised he's a total psycho? Girlie has her priorities wrong.
Omg yes. I ran to comments to see if someone else caught that. She had a total rando psycho tiktok dude in her home with her minor child. Something is extremely wrong with that situation. Girlie # 1 and her son could've ended up in a true crime yt vid instead of Charlotte Dobre vid. She needs to rethink some things tbh.
When my sister died back in 1986 (I was 25), my ex told me, "I don't want to hear about it..." So I pretended I was 'over it' for years until I left him (he beat me up at the end, and I came to my senses). Then, years later when my mother died, all the grief from my sister came back that I hadn't been able to express and I had two deaths to process. My husband now (who I met a couple years after leaving my ex), was there for me 100%.
My partner was only dating me for 6 months when a fall triggered a major chronic pain disorder. It ramped up fast, aggravating and intensifying arthritis and many injuries from a lifetime of hypermobility. It ended up with me (who was the major breadwinner) out of my job, fighting for and finally getting disability, and losing almost all the ground I'd gained over the years of my life with my mental health. I'm now disabled, fighting agoraphobia, depression, anxiety, ptsd (along with severe ADHD and a few other private issues). and several surgeries and many doctors in and he's still here. Right by my side. It will be 11 years in October. Some partners really do know how to love no matter what. And when my young adult son was diagnosed with leukemia in 2021 and i was by his side in the hospital as often as the covid rules (or the nurses bending them) would let me, my partner was right there to drive this terrified mom to and from and holding me at night to cry on his shoulder after spending all day letting my baby boy cry on mine. (Oh and he's 3 years in remission and going strong!) 2021 sucked.
congratulations for your son! that must have been so terrifying, i cannot imagine. im sorry your health took a turn for the worse, it can be so aggravating when oen cannot do the things one used to. im really glad your husband was so supportive right from the getgo.
Congratulations to you for finding a great partner! Congratulations to your son for fighting and beating leukemia! That's wonderful! You found a good one, hang onto him!
Congratulations on ur son. I agree with u that 2021 sucked, it was worse than 2020 for me & my family bc my dad died in January of that yr. Anyway it sounds like u have 1 helluva man. After everything u've gone thru & are continuing to go thru, u deserve a good man. It's the least karma, God, fate, the universe or life in general could do for u to try & balance the scales. You seem like a good person who got thrown a very horrible curve ball in life & that the only way to go is up. My hope for u is continued success in ur relationship & that ur life is continuously filled with happiness & joy even if or when things get bad with ur physical/mental health, which I hope continue to improve. As a person with my own detrimental health issues I know how hard life can get, to the point of constantly feeling like ur drowning with no end in sight. No matter what we're going thru it makes it easier to handle when we have somone to lean on support. Glad ur able to have that
@christinalyons9038 my niece also passed away from a progressive seizure disorder while my son was in the hospital and our sweet little girl cat also had to be helped across the rainbow Bridge. So yeah. I don't need another 2021 ever. Thank you so much for your well wishes and sweet words. And also thank you to all the ones who commented above with such sweet words. Blessings on you all and I hope that you are all happy and healthy and safe. Virtual hugs to all(with consent of course) 🌻💜🌻
Due to a gall bladder surgery I went septic and spent a month in ICU and a month in a regular hospital room and then a month on bed rest at home. My husband came to the hospital EVERY DAY. He also did laundry and meals and took care of our dogs. I wouldn’t have made it without him. A good partner in your life is the biggest blessing in the world.
This! I'm so glad to read that you found a real man, my friend, who understood "in sickness and in health" and kept those vows 💖 I work in an ER and see an awful lot of patients and loved ones find out that their spouse isn't who they thought they were, during one of the lowest moments of their lives. It's heartbreaking. From no-shows, to two "spouses" turning up for the same patient. So it sounds like you have a keeper! Wishing you both every happiness 😎💖
Parker is pissed that he wasn't the one to toss Julie aside. His ego and 'reputation' is sullied because he got tossed. Poor Parker. Where's my violin?
Who uses "barking" over and over to mean yelling? Then again, she invited a stranger to stay in the house with her child, and she didn't ask him to leave right away at the abusive behavior. She talked about the smell, didn't ask him to leave for that reason either. She's...um...not very bright. She'll get herself or her child in a horrible situation one day.
My now husband moved in with me to my Mom’s when her Dementia was bad. We weren’t married yet, and he didn’t have to, as he lived an hour away. He really stepped up to a difficult situation as was there to the end of her Life, and 13 yrs later, is still here and we married at home so Mom would be comfortable and signed the license. He’s my Soul Mate & Bestie. ❤❤❤❤❤
That sister is a hero for telling that girl the truth about her brother. I hope she can get away from her family and live a good, happy, and healthy life.
I initially figured she meant ‘barking’ as chewing out people but the more the story went on… ‘barking through the window’…running fast back to the house, climbing trees……..girllll, I think she literally meant barking like a dog. 🤣🤣 cause he was sure acting like one. 😏
Love the sister that told the truth to her brothers girlfriend. Her lack of reaction makes me wonder if she had that feeling she just needed the confirmation. Sis saved her ❤️👏
He wasn’t embarrassed but was self aware enough to realise his true self would not be accepted by the gf. It was just pure manipulation and lies. That’s worse than embarrassment IMO.
The "we would have been married with kids" thing made me throw up in my mouth a bit, because he made clear he DIDN'T WANT KIDS and that was why they broke up. Oh if only I had stayed and FORCED HIM TO CHANGE HIS MIND. Run, dude. You aren't first on her list and it sounds like you don't want to be.
Anyone else catch she let some guy she didn’t know come stay in her house with her kid? Then when was scared locked herself in the bathroom. Did she bring her son in there? lol.
Ok I didn't connect the dots when she said "I invited someone I met on tiktok to live with me" and "I have a child" but when she said that she looked herself in the bathroom the first thing I thought was "and where is your son?!" the guy could have easily entered the house again and hurt the poor kid. Also when they went to the Fair she didn't mention her child so I am assuming she did not bring him with them (maybe left him with a babysitter but who knows) and that the guy was jealous of a 4 YEAR OLD KID for wanting to shake hands with her, so if he was already being posesive and jealous of a child what could have he done to her son?!. Sorry if I made any mistakes, english is not my first lenguage
Those were my thoughts, too! I stopped to comment when she said she had a son, but when she said she locked herself in the bathroom out of fear of this guy, I was so angry. She's like the mother that makes it out of the house fire while her children burn. She chose to save herself without a second thought for her child.😡
@@Lucinda_Jackson same thought here. She wanted to talk about a crazy ex but the only thing we hear is how she is not a good mother, in moments of crisis you know how the person is judging their actions and hers spoke loud and clear
To the girl who had the song written about her. Storytime. I dated an indy musician. He wrote me a few love songs and poems. They were all super intense and sappy. But he was more serious than I was. It got to the point where it was cruel not to dump him (even though I quite liked him. He just wasnt "the one"). Fast forward a few months. Im single. Im on a first date. Guy im on a date with says hes taking me to a concert. SURPRISE! Its my ex's band. And...hes got a new song. And its really REALLY good. But the lyrics?... Yeah, they are not very flattering. And very obviously about me. It was awesome.
Oh man I feel you lol. I was with a guy who was playing around on his guitar. Suddenly he breaks into a spontaneous song about how we couldn’t be together and then yelled “That was the most romantic breakup ever!!” 🙃
I dated a musician too, he was the ab-ew-sive kind, when I was finally able to get away, he sent me a message inviting me to one of his gigs cause he had written a song about me… you betcha I still don’t know how the song sounded, cause I didn’t show up lol
My dad recently had a stroke and my husband was super there and supportive of me. He was like "Take the trip out by yourself, its okay, I can handle the kids." I couldnt do it, I was torn and feeling guilty from both angles. I didnt want to inconvenience my husband, but it was tearing me up inside to not go be at my dads side.. So what does my husband do? Husband fully plans and budgets a two week road trip to see my dad. On the road he picks out spots to take breaks so the drive doesnt seem as long. He books hotels and air b&b, he plans EVERYTHING. He plans for things the kids will do EVERY DAY. Only thing I had to do was drive half portions on the way there and on the way back. I dont deserve my husband sometimes.. I wouldnt even have thought about the rest stops at kid's museums and stuff along the way.. and a lot of them were so awesome.. My phone gave me a notification of running out of storage space cause I took so many pictures of this wonderful family trip to see my dad.. If your partner cant be there when your parent is having issues... Thats such a huge RED FLAG.
thats what a spouse should do, support each other in times of grief. he really went all out! making it a family trip and taking the drive easy is a really wonderful idea. im very happy you had that experience
@nichol 1591- hands down- your husband should get Husband/Father/Son-in-Law/Brother-in-Law of the Decade Award. Talk about going above & beyond. I hope your father is on the road to recovery & may God bless you & your family.
I judge the first chick solely because she kept a dude around her son and home even though he never showered and stunk. Who tf endures something so nasty like that?!
The stink is the minor thing. He is possessive and controlling, abusive... AND A STRANGER. She let that in near her kid. Next is a pdf file and she will be crying to tiktok that she is the victim. She is a bad mother.
My now Ex-wife and I were together for 5 years. Through our relationship she had serious health problems and they required emergency surgery multiple times. These were surgeries that caused her to be in the hospital for weeks and then unable to be alone for her extensive rehabilitation. I stayed by her side and took care of her during each time it happened. Now, I had a major surgery and due to her own health problems she couldn't take care of me as much as I did her; no problem. 2018 rolls around and she has been better but not back at 100% and after I took on 3 jobs I was so worn down that I ended up getting pneumonia - 103° fever, too weak to walk, etc. Well, one night after we got back from the ER due to me being so sick she wanted some spicy time and I reminded her that I was in no shape for it. After I knocked out she went and cheated on me because I couldn't give her what she wanted. It was my fault she cheated, yada yada yada. To say that was the final straw and hurt like no other would be an understatement. I mean, I had been there through every single hospital stay, ER stint, changing dressings on wounds, etc but her being there for me (I was so weak I had to army crawl to the bathroom, ffs) was too much to ask. My stepdaughter was home that night as well so my Ex didn't just abandon me but also left her daughter to go get some with another guy who was married.
I appreciate that guy who was saying that your worst moments lead you to your best. I had an ex best friend who ended up being toxic and contributed greatly to my depression, but she introduced me to my current boyfriend and if it wasn’t for her I never would’ve met the love of my life. So I agree, your worst moments can lead to your best.
The second story with the sister telling her brothers business....women need to help women. Family or not if a man is a p.o.s to a woman and you have knowledge she should known...you tell that information. Especially when it comes to major trauma inducing things like a 26 year olds virginity. Someone making the choice she made is dedicated to the cause and what "Parker" would have done is major trauma inducing
With or without the fact that women gotta be helping each other, the girl also *asked* the sister. She did want to know because, honestly, she probably had a feeling of "this is too good to be true," which, considering how the brother is, was probably accurate. Maybe he was love-bombing her, and she had a gut feeling or something that told her there was somethin off.
I (26) had a coworker (24) who I’d known for about a month when we met my husband (24) and his brother (22) while out. She started dating my now brother in law and I obvs dated my husband. I knew she had a particular, common disease obtained by doing the horizontal mambo and asked her if she’d had the conversation with BIL. She said absolutely so I didn’t think it was for me to say anything to BIL, especially as hubby and I were casual at the time. I mean, they were both of age and should know how to discuss something like that. About 8 months down the road, BIL has ghosted her and she has moved on. I mention that it’s great because the guy she’s with has the same disease. BIL was driving and the car came to a screeching halt in the middle of a very busy road and he slow motion turned to look at me in the backseat. Twenty years later and it’s still a thing but he can’t bring it up because SIL doesn’t know our true origin story and he’d have to explain how much he slept around😂. I never had to say anything, anyways. Mom took care of it by telling him when he asked what she thought of SIL that she’d tell him if she was still around in 6 months.
That brother/gf story…….i have a sneaking suspicion that he told the gf he was a virgin as well, since he told her she was his first gf. That to me is so disgusting. He was most likely going to use that as an excuse for them to be each other’s “firsts”. I’m glad she was able to get out of there before she made a huge mistake.
He did do that, the gf told the sister that she "couldn't believe he'd never been with anyone before". It's what made the sister open her mouth and talk.
Yep!! & then have the nerve to get upset that his sister spilled the beans on his true character. It baffles me how crappy ppl dont mind being crappy ppl and NOT want anyone to know they're crappy ppl.
The second story broke me. I am so thankful for my husband. Shortly after we started dating when i went to meet him in person for the first time i had to cancle last second because my parents were in a serious car accident. I thought he would end things but stood by me. Shortly after we got engaged my dad was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer. So we rushed our wedding so he could see me get married (he could only attend via zoom) thankfully he beat it. Now the cancer came back and its spread to his lymphatic system. My husbands first reaction is to tell me to go visit him. So i leave monday to see my dad. My husband has to work but has supported me through it all everytime.
@@melissaweintraub5854 I am thankful I have a good man that supports me through all of life's ups and downs, and that I have a father that made me the person I am today. Also that I get to see him one last time. It's been hard but I am thankful.
My hubby’s the same as your’s…❤️ My Dad also died of cancer. 🥺 It “came on” suddenly and unexpectedly. It was a “very aggressive and rare” form of cancer. He was gone in just 3 months. (ALSO, he’d had a “triple bypass” just 9 months before the cancer was discovered!! He had a “clean ‘bill of health’ afterwards”!! ALL kinds of cancer, are on my “Paternal” side of the family. I’m “closely monitored” by several “Medical Specialists”. “JIC”) Take care of yourself and let your family “take care of YOU”!! You’re “not alone”!! 🙏🏻 Catherine, Florida ✌🏻❤️ Peace and Love!!
It's straight up horror movie logic. Forget final girl, if this was a horror movie she'd only be in the intro scene to introduce the psycho killer. The folks in "Scream" had better survival instincts, and only one of them made it.
@@transsnackOMG yeah, she's Drew Barrymore in the first Scream movie. Just unbelievably idiotic logic, to endanger her kid like that. Even without anything violent or sinister happening, she still exposed the kid to a smelly, loud weirdo that never should have been in the house.
@mcknight7811 yeah that annoyed me and she was asking other people to check when she invited him in..idk why people who want no responsibility keep having kids
The dude whose Dad was in a coma... ANYTIME a woman hesitates or makes your issues trivial. Period. She's not that into you. So, good u found out sooner than later.
I agree! My fiancé’s lung had literally collapsed on him one morning and he almost died since he also has complications with his lungs (since birth but they got “better” as he got older) I was there every single day and he was in the hospital for almost a month but I made sure I was there every single day. Granted I had to go pick up my daughter from her lazy dad because his “tire was flat” (he let the air out of the tire so he didn’t have to bring her back) but after that I made sure to bring him whatever he needed and then there was the hospital lock down due to a mass shooter (may all those people rest in peace) for a couple days so I couldn’t see him but I called him all the time both of those days even though he was coming home. If you actually love someone you will be there no matter what because you love them and actually care for them. I literally hate people like OP’s ex girlfriend but at least she showed her true colors.
Years ago when I was living in California I knew this wonderful lady. She was a stay at home Mom who was raising 5 children. She had dinner on the table every night when her husband came home, took care of the house, paid the bills, etc. She & her husband had been married 27 yrs!!! When she was in her 50's she was diagnosed with MS. Her husband didn't even hesitate to leave her & the kids high & dry. Started divorce proceedings within a month of her diagnoses & split......probably to find another slave to take care of him. It matters who you marry & what kind of character they have. The situation he left her in was completely heinous. There's a special level of Hell for people like this.
@brendaokuda2158 - absolutely disgraceful & unforgivable. I’m a strong believer in karma & I too believe there’s a special level of Hell for people like him. “As ye sow, so shall ye reap.”
Perfect marriages or relationships aren't real; each one is different. What makes one person content might not make another person content. But I've discovered that there's always a solution to every problem. Five years ago, my wife and I were facing divorce because of issues in our marriage, but we managed to resolve them. It was challenging, but we made it through.
I genuinely want to be happy as well. I'm in a relationship, and even though we're apart, I can't think of life without her; my love for her is solid. I really want her back, and I'm committed to making it work. We've tried different things, like therapy, to mend things.
Releasing someone you love is always a daunting task, but in my situation, I had the support of a spiritual advisor who prevented the disintegration of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Your guidance is well-received. I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; her absence is keenly felt.
I was married for 5 years we were happy, always out with friends and had a great social life. I found out we were having a baby, we were both overjoyed. Shortly after my mom past away after a hard fight with cancer, I lost the baby, then my father died. This all happened within 4 months. Two weeks after my father's passing, we were invited to a couples weekend away. I declined, my husband, told me, you have too much sadness around you, get over it. We separated that day.
You’re a warrior! I’m so sorry you lost so much so quickly 💔. I’m pleased you stood up for yourself and took the rubbish out on your own. Stay strong. It took me 4 years to grieve the death of my brother, mum(Nana) and Aunt within months of each other. My husband has been my rock. Therapy was phenomenal as well. I got out of bed every day but was a walking zombie for the first year. The only time I was strong was for my dad. Sending hugs, strength and comfort to you 🤗💚🙏
3:15 I’m so uncomfortable with the fact that she took this man home, where her innocent son was sleeping! Obviously the man is in the wrong, but that kid was put in a dangerous situation through no fault of his own, and that make me sad
At 13:00 she did not offer the information, she was asked a question and answered honestly. How would they feel if a guy deliberately misled and abused her [their daughter/sister]? ...it's all about The Sisterhood. GIRL POWER ❤ NOT the AH
That gi'ls karma helped her dodge a bullet, hopefully the sister will also do well and those sad excuses for human beings that her dad and brother are will also have some karma of their own. She did a good thing by helping that young girl
Op, you did that woman a favor telling her about Parker’s dating history. I’d even tell her about the “conquering land” comments. Hell don’t forget about STD testing either.
At 5:52 In sickness is the best way to see someone's true feelings and intentions. At the time I'd been dating my boyfriend for 2 months and was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis, we've been married 26 years and he's my biggest supporter. So happy this man has found his happiness after being with the worst.
She needs to take some of the blame for her predicament. I feel for her child, as she invited a controlling, abusive smelly guy she doesn't know in. Next is some pdf file. She is a bad mother.
I dated a man for about a year, things didn’t work out. It just wasn’t the right timing, but we remained good friends… and ONLY friends. He died very unexpectedly from a pulmonary embolism. This was about five months after I had started dating someone else. Now, let me remind you that I was still very good friends with my ex because friendship is what brought us together before anything else did. Understandably, I was devastated over his death. Because I was upset and crying the night he died, my boyfriend dumped me. Now I’m just talking about being upset and crying because one of my best friends and someone who I loved dearly died, not being dramatic or ridiculous in anyway over it. And he literally dumped me and left that night because I was not “paying enough attention to him on his night off”. There are some real pieces of shit in this world unfortunately.
People who leave or cheat the instant things get hard are weak and not worth it. About 5 years into my relationship with my now husband, he got B-Type Lymphoma. I was a very selfish significant other at the time, our relationship was rocky because of it. But I stepped up, I showed up to his treatments, spent time with him, helped him get cleaned up when he had a bad reaction during a treatment. Ever since then, things have been infinitely better. We've been together for 25 years (married 16) now, and he's in full remission. In sickness and in health really does apply to the whole relationship. That woman was awful.
The first woman… I’m sorry you invited a total stranger into your home with your CHILD. There’s making a mistake and then there’s being totally reckless with both you and your child’s safety. Predators literally target single mothers for unfettered access to children. The same reason they become teachers, coaches and other occupations with access to children. Her being embarrassed is the least of what could have happened.
But when it came to the girl with the misogynistic family, it really hurt my feelings because her mom is like not alive anymore to give her input to balance the situation. I could never understand how a man can have a daughter and steal feel like that type of thing is okay.. to use women like the first thing they should think of is if somebody did that to their own daughter
when my sister was alive she was BAD at taking in the sorriest of sorry SOB's. When i found out she had a dude she had JUST met online at the house, he had NO car and NO job and was stuck there until his 'friend' came to pick him up, and she had her 2 boys in the house... i RAN over there. I was LIVID! I would NEVER do that. She actually said to me "well you fuck guys you meet online" in front of my ex at the time... yes, cyber sex is JUST like having a TOTAL STRANGER IN YOUR HOUSE!!! I never understood her mentality. She was very selfish. ALL about her, no one else.
wait .... the first guy wasn't really "barking"? I'm laughing so much. Yup, I would have lived my whole life thinking he was going around saying "WOOF WOOF" HaHa
As someone whos ex passed away(hes also the father of my children and we were high school sweethearts) i can completely understand looking back at the relationship and thinking "maybe if we hadn't broken up he'd still be here today" and even evaluating of your choice in the breakup because maybe things could have changed. However, i would never have voiced those opinions to my current boyfriend especially because although it took me almost 2 years to fully grieve him i know we spilt up for a reason and we worked better as co-parents then in a relationship.
That's actually a classic test to see if your partner is weaponizing their incompetence. It's not hard to put effort into a painting, but it's telling to see who is willing to do so, because that's how it will be in the relationship. The painting is how they view you.
One guy did a masterful painting of his GF. JakeDontDraw is his username, literally is a master artist, teaches people how to make art via videos that hundreds of people actually found ground breaking success through. Yet her painting of him was the troll. Disasterpiece vs his masterpiece. My ex soulmate from many years ago was also a masterful artist. Paintings, sketches, the mathematics of art was also coursing through his veins. He understood art and loved art deeply. He taught me a lot even though he himself thought my art was surprisingly good too! coming from him any compliment was cherished. I still remember him fondly. ❤
Yep. A lady here in Arkansas met a guy on one of the dating apps(I forgot which one). She invited him to her home on the first date. He beat her unmercifully. She was blessed that she lived.
@@juanita_rocksteady2761 I hope they caught that sick weirdo, locked him up & threw away the key. Damn…when I was doing the dating ads, I’d always insist we meet at a public place where there’s lots of lights & people. NEVER throw caution to the wind. The life you’re saving may be yours ( or mine…) . Meet at least 4 or 5 times b4 you EVEN think about inviting a date to your home. Scary biz….
I agree on the sick part. My husband has stuck with me through a lot of health issues even before we were dating. He would offer to drive me to my appointments and when we made it official nothing changed. He still stood by me and still stands by me through my present medical issues. The good people will shine through during tough times
3rd story: Sister was trying to be honest and protect Julie from just being another one of Parker's throw-away girls. Hopefully, sister can find a friend to stay with so she can get away from her obnoxious dad and brother.
For the story about the sister telling the truth about her brother NTA. 80-90% of the time telling the truth is not an AH thing to do. If the person suffers consequences from their actions that is on them. There are things like identity and sensitive topics that are so specifically about the people involved it is none of your business. Cases like this where one person involved will likely be hurt by the lie you are not the AH.
People not telling the truth about family is what continues cycles of abuse tbh. Not saying it was that drastic, but we've got to get away from the idea we should protect someone from their own actions because of blood...
My sisters now husband but at the time her bf came to sit with our family before my mother passed. He and only meet the family a few times but we knew he was very serious and cared a lot about my sister when he stayed with us and her when my mother passed. Him and his mother whom had never meet any of us came to her memorial service. We are so blessed to have him and his boys in our family.
Wait...she brought a complete and total stranger into her house to live for weeks WITH A CHILD!!! WTH! If I were her ex or whoever the dad is, I'd be going back to court so fast her head would swim!
@@HoneyQuint I'll judge all I want and judge hard. I don't care what she does with her own life. She's an adult and it's her decision on whether she takes such risks with her life and safety. But her child had no say in this. She's a mother and her number one responsibility is to keep that child safe from danger and to keep herself safe so she can take care of him. Instead, she placed both of them in danger. THEN she got scared and what did she do? She ran and locked herself in the bathroom. Leaving her child unattended and in the house with a lunatic she was afraid of. Nope. Don't tell me not to judge her. As for the father? Those are some are some REALLY big assumptions you're making there. I repeat. If I were this child's father, I'd be in court getting custody.
@@HoneyQuint Chances are? Only 1 in 4 kids grow up without a father figure IN the home, that figure doesn't include fathers that live outside of the home. In certain demographics and areas, that stat could be higher or lower. While the father may not be involved in the child's life, there are many other possibilities. Dad could have a seasonal job away, truck driver, imprisoned, doesn't have visitation rights, fighting for visitation/custody, or doesnt want to be involved either. Also, the father may not know the kid exists or the mother may not know who the father is. There are so many possibilities that just vilifying a person that wasnt even mentioned makes zero sense let alone think its the most likely scenario.
This makes me so thankful for my man. We met 15 years ago, that year was really rough on me as my body was dying and no one could figure out why. About a week after we officially started dating, I was once again hospitalized but this time for a long time. Four, almost five months to be exact. I was told I wouldnt survive as they couldnt figure out why I kept losing weight, losing blood without bleeding anywhere, and I straight up looked like a dead body. My doctor once yelled out loud "Oh my God, I've only ever seen that color on a week old dead body!!" And she then slapped her mouth and apologized for her knee jerk reaction to seeing me. She couldnt understand how I was standing on my own two feet. It was really bad. I had to get blood transfusions randomly many times over the weeks and months, sometimes several times a week. I was tested with every possible way of testing a body, going radioactive, swallowing cameras, weird ass scans, bone marrow biopsies, cfs biopsies etc. My man came to the hospitals despite himself having extreme anxiety around medical staff. He met most of my family at the hospital and saw me lose a lot of friends. At several points I had to sit him down and ask him to leave me and find someone healthy and he kept saying he saw a long future for us. He's not a psychic or anything, tho he really did sound like it the way he spoke about how I was gonna make it and get better and we were gonna be happy. Nearing the fifth month, they found two large masses that somehow had eluded all other tests and they sent me to a fourth hospital, one that specialized in cancer. Long story long; it wasnt cancer, it was long lost remnants of appendicitis gunk that kept absorbing me up from the inside, from when my appendix had burst 8 years earlier. I spent a lot of years in and out of rehab hospitals and centers to rebuild my body, repair the damages and discovering more issues like Ehlers danlos syndrome that was infinitely made worse by the eight year long infections, and a bunch of other issues that often accompany eds. Im also currently undergoing new tests for other shit and yet again my man is right here, comforting me every step of the way, calming my anxiety and trauma responses. The past 15 years with him have been the best of my life. He makes me scream-laugh every day, calms my nerves, makes me smile all the time, always make me feel desired and beautiful. Right now Im giving it all back after he had a very bad knee injury during his floorball practice three weeks ago. They've discovered he has ruined knees and told him he shouldnt ever play floorball again. (We'll see about that. He loves that sport so much and is a several times champion, I dont see him staying away for more than one season)... So Im spoiling him every single day, making sure he has enough cold/heat treatments for his knee, always have something to eat and drink nearby, and make sure he reaches his playstation controllers and other gear. I've already talked to my physical therapists to get him in with them the second he's cleared for physio. I absolutely hate seeing him in this state. He is not made for sitting on his butt all day and not being up and about, and I hate seing him in pain, but that man deserves everything I can possibly do for him so I lowkey love that I can finally be the one to take care of him after all this time! I have no idea how I found such an amazing guy, but I have loved him since the second I laid my eyes on him. I still remember the first day I saw him and how he took my breath away, all the while thinking such a guy would never look twice at me. Yet he chose me. And he treats me like a queen, which I dont deserve! How he has stuck with me all this time I will never understand. So many left my life when I got sick, and especially when I was dying. Yet he still chose to be with me. He came to see me in the hospital every chance he got. I had to learn to let him see me without my hair and makeup done so fast!! But he's the best! He makes my life so rich, I dont miss a thing! We celebrated 15 years together back in May and I've loved every single moment.
If he is still with you after all the years of sickness, and so on and does his best to make you laugh and get the serotonine doses you need , then you deserve him! Do not think or say you don't ,there must ne something you do that makes you also deserve him. All the best ofr you both, beautiful story!!
I remember my Mother telling me that it's expected for men to sleep around before marriage, but women should remain virgins. I was about 11.....looked her straight in the eye & said, "So....who are these men sleeping with then?". She was NOT pleased. This was in the early 70's when the free-love movement was taking over. She was bound & determined that they weren't going to get me! I'm over 60 now & really wish I'd listened to her. I've read enough romance novels to admit I probably missed out on some really special stuff...... JS
Nothing in romance novels is real, just like nothing in romance movies is real. Real life and real love doesn't work that way. Someone who truly loves you doesn't give a shit about how many people you slept with before you got together. My husband and I didn't care about any of that from the beginning, and to this day are truly just happy spending time together and being around each other. He is my biggest supporter and safe space, all the while we are still really romantic and sexually attracted to each other. Our sex life now is better than it ever has been. And it is all that way because of the foundation we have always had since the beginning which is built on 3 things: full trust in one another, complete respect for each other, and always having open and honest communication (even when we may be annoyed or mad at each other). That is what a healthy and long term relationship/marriage is supposed to be. It's not anything like this BS we are fed through the media and whatever else, especially all misogynistic crap that some men (and women) try to pass off as reality when it is so far from the truth it is just so ridiculously laughable.
@@jeanams07 Uhm that may be a cultural thing (or a “western” thing), because a lot of minorities and certain belief systems value someone who hasn’t had a lot of partners (& that goes for both the men and women). So to say “if someone really loves you” they won’t care, is generalizing and just untrue. They may very well love the person deeply, but also feel very strongly about their beliefs… and that’s okay, they’re allowed to have those beliefs, just as you’re allowed to have yours.
Wow your mom was at least trying to be honest with you about what happens at an age where you could start thinking about it and not be peer pressured by some guy. A lot of young women at that time their mothers didn't talk to them at all mine didn't. She wasn't even truthful about her own situation. Wasn't honest about being shoved into a marriage by a guy that was too old for her and that he got drunk and beat her and killed the baby she was carrying and she was only 20 at the time. Was going through the death of her father just a few months before he met her and her mother had abandon her and left the state due to the death of her dad. Thus leaving her a vulnerable victim. She never even told her own daughter I found this out because I became very close to her mother who admitted that by her own destructiveness she'd put her daughter in harm's Way. If mothers would talk truthfully to their daughters about what they've been through maybe their daughters wouldn't go through s***. As far as the virginity thing yeah I wish I had been more careful. I really did fall in love deeply with someone but his values of wanting a virgin in honorable person He tried he tried really hard to understand that I wasn't a virgin We even got married but it didn't work I just won't go into it but it didn't work His parents couldn't let it work There were other things but there's nothing worse than having your spouse call you a w****.
7:39 literally one of the worst things I’ve ever gone through emotionally with my daughters father ended up being such a blessing. I just consider it now as God removing the trash from my life. Bc I ignored a ton of signs and red flags so finally I was given a situation that while it hurt like hell… I couldn’t ignore it. And led to me finding my partner I’ve now been with for 7yrs 🎉
My husband has been with me through my MS downfall for the 8 years before we got married! He nearly giggled when he was doing the "in sickness and in health" part of our vows ❤
The most amazing is when a sickness becomes the cause of the reason why you meet your partner. My hubby saw my Facebook profile on a group about the decease we both have and the fact we both have a ostomy, no one can understand each other as we do and the fact is incurable and we both are "rare" case. He's just a awesome human being, a amazing father for both of his children (who I love so much and as I didn't been able to have mine I'm super close) and just imagine a hubby who love your mom and accept her to the point she live with us. ❤
First girl is garbage for not protecting her child. Seriously someone needs to step in for that kid if she just lets randos come stay with her. Let’s hope there’s someone in that child’s life who can step in.
@@Nobby76 it’s not being over dramatic. It’s common sense. She shouldn’t be having this guy she had only just met in person come stay in her home with her child there.
@@Nobby76 it's not dramatic at all. The risk of child abuse goes up a ridiculous amount when inviting non related men into the home. She spent even know this guy, he had access to her kid for potentially 2 weeks and he so fucked up that he's out here barking at people. He's not a safe person to have around a kid
@@Nobby76Ah, so you think someone who rips stuff out of peoples hands when they don't do what they want is a safe person around a child? Someone who tries to force someone to kiss them in front of a camera is a safe person around kids? You sound like one of those horrible, neglectful mothers who lets anything with a bulge into the house without giving a single hoot about your children's safety or happiness. Like, idk, I don't know you, but this is exactly what one of those moms would say.
I remember when I first saw that 1st girl’s TikTok and remember thinking what a terrible mum she had to have been to let a stranger stay with her MINOR child for two weeks?! He could have caused serious mental or physical harm to not just her but her poor child! She was extremely lucky to come out of it fairly unscathed!
9:11 I just want to say, sometimes when people say “you don’t want me anymore because I’m sick” it’s not because they’re being petty & an asshole.. it’s because they’re so sick that they know they can no longer give you the things you want like produce children for you, live long enough to possibly get married & buy a house & sometimes you don’t want them to watch you get sicker & you would rather them be able to go out & find someone that can still give them the things they want & be there for the long haul & someone they won’t have to watch lose their hair & have nose bleeds & throw up from chemo & radiation & be unsure if you’re gonna live or die
Me neither. I have been on the receiving end of it from people who I deeply supported through their darkest hours yet the moment I needed their support, crickets. I am glad to say those people are no longer in my life. My heart went out to that guy and ai am so glad he found someone who does support him.
Same. My husband and I sometimes won't talk if we are upset, but we know at the end of the day we are coming together, staying in the same bed, and making it work.
I used to manage a warehouse with a dozen guy's between 25 and 34. I used to tell them to marry someone that they know would be there for them if they were sick or had to have surgery. The crazy passion fades. You need your best most loyal friend/spouse in to the end.
My husband stuck by me when I lost my hair due to autoimmune problems. I spend a lot of time feeling unwell and exhausted. But he's still here and I'm so grateful for that fact. I know that a fewI dated before wouldn't of stuck around and put up with my heath conditions.
Tbf, I'm not great at taking care of my husband when he's sick BUT I'm able to help & be there during crises. He's AMAZING at both (but he's had a LOT of practice caring for me through health and family losses, excessively). I feel bad for him because I am different since I woke up from the coma in February. The other stuff we survived together.
I hate to say but yeah, I would give the guy a chance because maybe he's never been told because that is an awkward thing to tell someone but if he wasn't willing to do the things necessary to fix it like shower, use deodorant, wipe/wash his butt (somethingthe internet has taught me that a surprising number of men don't do 🤮), and wear cologne occasionally, yeah I couldn't either because I have too strong of a sense of smell!
Same. Yes,there are some rare medical conditions that cause a foul odor. Fish body odor syndrome is one,but this is straight up no hygiene at all. Plus, random Internet stranger, AND OL GIRL HAS A CHILD IN THIS MESS
Mann... the first chick . After her several bad decisions, the fact he was unable to control himself at the fair and she STILL took him home... i hope someone is keeping an eye out for that kid cuz she obviously isn't thinking of his safety or care if he's comfortable in his own home
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“I thought he was woof woof barking” GIRL SAME!!!! I thought homegirl meant he was literally being a chihuahua not that he was loud and mean
YES! I thought he was literally barking 😂😂
Might be a cultural slang thing. I feel like she has a Northeastern US accent.
Wait is she not talking about actual barking? Lol I've never head anyone refer to yelling as barking like that.
@@littlemissgwendolen1466I didn’t even realize this until o came to the comments and now either way it’s disgusting sd behavior possessive behavior and it’s horrific to be stuck with someone like that and it is dangerous I’m glad she nipped that in the bud quickly…
Wait he wasn't?
To the sister that was honest about her brother, when asked by his girlfriend.
Your mother is smiling down from heaven, very proud of you.
Absolutely!! 🎉❤ the brother is for the streets!!
I would have apologized like, "Oh I'm sorry, I didn't get the new list of the lies I'm supposed to tell people about you!"
Her mother purposely bred TWICE with that complete twot!!!
yup
@@mornasev or say: "I apologize after you do" and then tell him to apologize to every woman/gf he's mistreated...
The first time my brother hit his wife with a closed fist she called me. I told her the truth about the violence we grew up with. She filed for divorce when my brother refused to get counseling. She never told him I told her. Neither did I. He bad mouthed her for the rest of his life, never admitting it was his fist that ended the relationship.
Counseling doesn't fix abusers anyway... They'll always be abusive
Accountability...why is it not more common???
Sounds like my brother. He was an absolute jerk. He still complains about his ex whom I am still friends with. He would never admit that his own awful actions led to their breakup. Over 20 years on He complains. Meanwhile he was always a misogynistic cheating ass.
My other brother and sister remain friends with his ex and we don't talk to him. He is so toxic.
It’s nice that you told her and didn’t stick up for your brother just because he’s family though x
Thank you for having lived it enough to be honest and not enable your brother. Not everyone is strong enough when they’ve been through that kind of trauma together.
OP’s brother’s only mad because he couldn’t “deflower the virgin” and brag about it to his friends. He’s as horrible and misogynistic as his father! OP helped that future bride dodge a whole firing squad, not just a bullet. Good for you, OP! It may not have been an easy thing for you to do, but you really did save the girl a lot of heartache and a horrible married life!! You have my respect.
Exactly! And nobody thinks about this, but if you sleep with someone under false pretenses (even by disguising your personality), that's a form of sexual assault. Brother will absolutely be abusive.
All the respect 🫡 she has a beautiful heart ❤️
She wasn't a bride, she was a new gf thank goodness
Yep. So gross.
He probably said he got her, anyway. No way he would ever admit he didn’t.
I’m a daddy’s girl , we were EXTREMELY close when he passed away. 2 days after I was laying in bed crying looking at photos of him. My husband said to me verbatim “are you crying? Oh my gosh it’s been two days”
The next day was the funeral and my husband got mad at me because I was walking around talking to people (my family) and ignoring him. He got so mad he stormed out.
Needless to say, he’s my ex-husband now. . I didn’t even know people could behave that way.
Really sorry. Glad he's an ex.
i’m so sorry you had to deal with his behaviour! I’m so happy you got away from him and condolences for your dad, you deserved to feel your feelings ❤
That’s actually insane !!!
Yeah he sounds like a pos!
What there no signs of this behavior? What did he say when you left and didn’t you explain how gross this behavior is? Also did he try to get you be and be upset? Because if he did, I would say it’s been a couple days oh my gosh you’re still on this.
People are so strange. Why on earth would you invite a complete stranger to come and stay in your home, especially with a child there? Talking to someone over the internet does not mean you know them. They could be a serial killer. Wise up. Sister doesn’t need to apologize on the second story. The truth hurts and it’s brother’s fault his own behavior scared a good girl away.
welcome to the world
That is true about ANYONE, people live with serial killers and don’t even know it.
Thats what I was thinking, your child comes first
Literally watched a true crime show last night and the woman got cut up into pieces and put in different people's recycling bins (Ingrid Lyne).
Yeah sorry but homegirl is the one who messed up here. WTF??
How old is this broad? Who uses the verb BARK to mean someone arguing? I hate to repeat myself but WTF???
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YES
Woman who warned the other about her brother did the right thing. How dad and brother responded prove that they are what she says they are. She saved the "girlfriend" a whole lot of grief. I hope you find much happiness!
2:12 YOU INVITED A COMPLETE STRANGER TO STAY IN YOUR HOME WITH YOUR **CHILD**
Seriously, wtf is wrong with her?!? When she locked herself in her bathroom out of fear, did she take her child with her or just leave him to fend for himself?! Either way, exposing your kid to a stranger is totally inexusable. Shame on her.
I was wondering the same. Did she brought her child with her? Like wouldn’t she said “we”, “me and my child” if she brought him with her?
English isn’t my native language, so I’m confused.
That bit about LEAVING HER VULNERABLE CHILD - while she feels so scared she locks HERSELF in the bathroom..... WOW!
Yeah she was delulu too for that
I thought that too!!! She didn't say she took her child into the bathroom with her!!! 😳🤯🤯🤯
She turned the comments off on that video.. oop
The girl with the AH brother - anyone else realize that the gf ASKED HER?!? OP did NOT just put her nose in! She honestly and respectfully ANSWERED a DIRECT QUESTION...
Like - SO NOT the AH
I wonder if the brother accidentally let something slip in a conversation, which led to the suspicion...
@@shadoewater 🤔🤔 probably. Heck, even the way she worded the question "I'm lucky! But, hasn't he ever dated?" (VERY roughly paraphrased) seems like she's been thinking "2+2≠4 here"...
Young lady's got BRAINS - much to the surprise of AH brother, I'm sure 😆
And OP's "family" seemed to be ok with how the "dad" just manipulated her brother? And just straight up blame OP instead?
it's actually refreshing, too many girls are oddly in love with their brothers and blindly defend them at all costs
I would have suspected the moment he'd tell me I'm hid first relationship. Correct me if i'm wrong but virgin boys ( I assume he meant that when he said she was his first gf..)would usually have a start with a more experienced girl or with a hoe... am I wrong?
Tattling sister is NOT the a-hole. My brother was same way. He ended up divorced and lost custody, then later when he was engaged to another girl, she asked me a similar probing question, and I, too told her the truth. She married him anyway, and hates me to this day, lol. Two fools that deserve one another! I tried to spare her. I sleep fine at night.
I've been in that situation before, it sucks. I had to cut all contract with my brother over it, but it isn't like I wanted to talk to him anyways, since he's a massive dong to literally everyone. He's even started going after our mom now. You can tell a lot about a man by how he treats his mom, and he treats our mom like a walking verbal punching bag.
Fr, I wldve told your brothers wife, "dont ask questions you dont want answers to, curiosity killed the cat."
And to the brother of the AITA; I definitely would've played dumb like, "Oh? But I thought you were proud of playing women? I was just boasting about your prowess. You know my dumb female brain can't keep track of every girl you fvck when you just have so many hun. Besides, it's not like you actually liked her anyway, right?" He'd probably go along with that to keep face, and then I'd just ignore it him.
Like, he only brought that girl around to show off and brag to his dad, and if he thinks all women are stupid than Id just act stupid and move in the shadows. 😂 "Oh, you're just so much smart than me. My dumb female brain got confused!" 😮
@transsnack exactly how my uncle treats his mom, ie my grandma. He's a raging misogynist prick.
Thas wats up!!!
To quote Kat Williams "If you wanted me to talk better about you, then you should have treated me better" lol
The first girl. She invited a total rando from tiktok, to her house, where her minor (I assume) child lives, and she's surprised he's a total psycho? Girlie has her priorities wrong.
I just said the same. She's the type that will risk her childs well being in search of "love"
Noooo kidding!! She's CRA-CRA to have done that!!!
I scream I scrumpt when she said she invited this stranger into her home with her child!
Omg yes. I ran to comments to see if someone else caught that. She had a total rando psycho tiktok dude in her home with her minor child. Something is extremely wrong with that situation. Girlie # 1 and her son could've ended up in a true crime yt vid instead of Charlotte Dobre vid. She needs to rethink some things tbh.
My thoughts exactly.
When my sister died back in 1986 (I was 25), my ex told me, "I don't want to hear about it..." So I pretended I was 'over it' for years until I left him (he beat me up at the end, and I came to my senses). Then, years later when my mother died, all the grief from my sister came back that I hadn't been able to express and I had two deaths to process. My husband now (who I met a couple years after leaving my ex), was there for me 100%.
I am so sorry for both of your losses!! So happy that you have found your person and happiness! Keep your head high!!!
I totally sympathise with what you went through. You need to get one of Charlottes " Recovering People Pleaser" shirts like I do girlfriend.
That’s horrible. I’m sorry he did that to you.
My deepest condolences 💐 Thank you for sharing about your pain, and your wonderful partner. May you be well, healthy and blessed ❤
That brother is mad because he had planned to hit it and quit it. So kudos to her for saving that girl.
Yup. Definitely the kind of guy who would do that
I remember hearing about a conquest list that guys would show each other. Maybe it was a TV show.
Yep she saved her I don't care what anyone says she saved her a lot of pain. If it becomes abusive it would've been harder to get out.
Because she's not very good at the sex stuff😢!!!
He just wanted to pop that cherry. He would've shown his true self after he got his cherry.
My partner was only dating me for 6 months when a fall triggered a major chronic pain disorder. It ramped up fast, aggravating and intensifying arthritis and many injuries from a lifetime of hypermobility. It ended up with me (who was the major breadwinner) out of my job, fighting for and finally getting disability, and losing almost all the ground I'd gained over the years of my life with my mental health. I'm now disabled, fighting agoraphobia, depression, anxiety, ptsd (along with severe ADHD and a few other private issues). and several surgeries and many doctors in and he's still here. Right by my side. It will be 11 years in October.
Some partners really do know how to love no matter what.
And when my young adult son was diagnosed with leukemia in 2021 and i was by his side in the hospital as often as the covid rules (or the nurses bending them) would let me, my partner was right there to drive this terrified mom to and from and holding me at night to cry on his shoulder after spending all day letting my baby boy cry on mine. (Oh and he's 3 years in remission and going strong!) 2021 sucked.
congratulations for your son! that must have been so terrifying, i cannot imagine. im sorry your health took a turn for the worse, it can be so aggravating when oen cannot do the things one used to. im really glad your husband was so supportive right from the getgo.
Congratulations to you for finding a great partner! Congratulations to your son for fighting and beating leukemia! That's wonderful!
You found a good one, hang onto him!
Wow. God bless you in the name of Jesus Christ, who is the name above all names & the only way to Heaven❤
Congratulations on ur son. I agree with u that 2021 sucked, it was worse than 2020 for me & my family bc my dad died in January of that yr. Anyway it sounds like u have 1 helluva man. After everything u've gone thru & are continuing to go thru, u deserve a good man. It's the least karma, God, fate, the universe or life in general could do for u to try & balance the scales. You seem like a good person who got thrown a very horrible curve ball in life & that the only way to go is up. My hope for u is continued success in ur relationship & that ur life is continuously filled with happiness & joy even if or when things get bad with ur physical/mental health, which I hope continue to improve. As a person with my own detrimental health issues I know how hard life can get, to the point of constantly feeling like ur drowning with no end in sight. No matter what we're going thru it makes it easier to handle when we have somone to lean on support. Glad ur able to have that
@christinalyons9038 my niece also passed away from a progressive seizure disorder while my son was in the hospital and our sweet little girl cat also had to be helped across the rainbow Bridge. So yeah. I don't need another 2021 ever.
Thank you so much for your well wishes and sweet words. And also thank you to all the ones who commented above with such sweet words.
Blessings on you all and I hope that you are all happy and healthy and safe.
Virtual hugs to all(with consent of course)
🌻💜🌻
Due to a gall bladder surgery I went septic and spent a month in ICU and a month in a regular hospital room and then a month on bed rest at home. My husband came to the hospital EVERY DAY. He also did laundry and meals and took care of our dogs. I wouldn’t have made it without him. A good partner in your life is the biggest blessing in the world.
Aww..♥️
I had mine out,too.
Mine was rotting inside me,and full of gallstones.
Surgery was supposed to be like a half hour.
It took almost four hours
This! I'm so glad to read that you found a real man, my friend, who understood "in sickness and in health" and kept those vows 💖
I work in an ER and see an awful lot of patients and loved ones find out that their spouse isn't who they thought they were, during one of the lowest moments of their lives. It's heartbreaking. From no-shows, to two "spouses" turning up for the same patient. So it sounds like you have a keeper! Wishing you both every happiness 😎💖
So I've heard... I'm happy you've got it, Girly-pop!!!
@@rochellethundercloud346I thought you were talking about your bf😂😂😂
Parker is pissed that he wasn't the one to toss Julie aside. His ego and 'reputation' is sullied because he got tossed. Poor Parker.
Where's my violin?
Here let me help! 🎻🎻🎻🎻🎻🎻🎻 😂
Lol exactly
Sister: "Parker, I'm sorry i told your girlfriend the truth about your past behavior towards women "
The overuse of bark has me wondering if he was woof woof 🐶 barking.
I am sure he was
He ended up in a tree. He was totally actually barking. And without the bathing and whatnot, maybe he thinks he's a dog?
Yes barking...
Me too! I just typed it before I saw your comment
Who uses "barking" over and over to mean yelling? Then again, she invited a stranger to stay in the house with her child, and she didn't ask him to leave right away at the abusive behavior. She talked about the smell, didn't ask him to leave for that reason either. She's...um...not very bright. She'll get herself or her child in a horrible situation one day.
My now husband moved in with me to my Mom’s when her Dementia was bad. We weren’t married yet, and he didn’t have to, as he lived an hour away. He really stepped up to a difficult situation as was there to the end of her Life, and 13 yrs later, is still here and we married at home so Mom would be comfortable and signed the license. He’s my Soul Mate & Bestie. ❤❤❤❤❤
That sister is a hero for telling that girl the truth about her brother. I hope she can get away from her family and live a good, happy, and healthy life.
I initially figured she meant ‘barking’ as chewing out people but the more the story went on… ‘barking through the window’…running fast back to the house, climbing trees……..girllll, I think she literally meant barking like a dog. 🤣🤣 cause he was sure acting like one. 😏
Me too.
same
Yeah. This is a person with mental health issues.
I was expecting her to say at some point it was an actual dog or a parrot
According to other comments, they said in her comment section she confirmed she meant literally barking at her and other ppl
Love the sister that told the truth to her brothers girlfriend. Her lack of reaction makes me wonder if she had that feeling she just needed the confirmation. Sis saved her ❤️👏
The sister that ratted her brother out is a queen 👸
"If it's not something you're proud of...." exactly!!! Bro was working some bs on her. Sis clued her in. I respect sis 👏 🙌 💯
He wasn’t embarrassed but was self aware enough to realise his true self would not be accepted by the gf. It was just pure manipulation and lies. That’s worse than embarrassment IMO.
The "we would have been married with kids" thing made me throw up in my mouth a bit, because he made clear he DIDN'T WANT KIDS and that was why they broke up. Oh if only I had stayed and FORCED HIM TO CHANGE HIS MIND. Run, dude. You aren't first on her list and it sounds like you don't want to be.
Maybe he woul be alive....miserable and resenting me but he would be "alive"
Anyone else catch she let some guy she didn’t know come stay in her house with her kid? Then when was scared locked herself in the bathroom. Did she bring her son in there? lol.
Absolutely reckless and inexcusable behavior.
Ok I didn't connect the dots when she said "I invited someone I met on tiktok to live with me" and "I have a child" but when she said that she looked herself in the bathroom the first thing I thought was "and where is your son?!" the guy could have easily entered the house again and hurt the poor kid. Also when they went to the Fair she didn't mention her child so I am assuming she did not bring him with them (maybe left him with a babysitter but who knows) and that the guy was jealous of a 4 YEAR OLD KID for wanting to shake hands with her, so if he was already being posesive and jealous of a child what could have he done to her son?!. Sorry if I made any mistakes, english is not my first lenguage
Those were my thoughts, too! I stopped to comment when she said she had a son, but when she said she locked herself in the bathroom out of fear of this guy, I was so angry. She's like the mother that makes it out of the house fire while her children burn. She chose to save herself without a second thought for her child.😡
@@Lucinda_Jackson same thought here. She wanted to talk about a crazy ex but the only thing we hear is how she is not a good mother, in moments of crisis you know how the person is judging their actions and hers spoke loud and clear
Bro yeah that's what I'm saying! Like it's not her fault the guy was insane, but her seemingly having absolutely no protective instinct is worrying
In my best Charlotte’s voice “Allow me to pay the worlds smallest violin” 🎻 For Parker 😂😂😂
I can't even handle how "All rise for Honorable Judge Charlotte" has devolved into abbreviated turkey noises...
It makes my entire day!! 😂😂😂😂😂
To the girl who had the song written about her.
Storytime. I dated an indy musician. He wrote me a few love songs and poems. They were all super intense and sappy. But he was more serious than I was. It got to the point where it was cruel not to dump him (even though I quite liked him. He just wasnt "the one"). Fast forward a few months. Im single. Im on a first date. Guy im on a date with says hes taking me to a concert. SURPRISE! Its my ex's band. And...hes got a new song. And its really REALLY good. But the lyrics?... Yeah, they are not very flattering. And very obviously about me. It was awesome.
Oh man I feel you lol. I was with a guy who was playing around on his guitar. Suddenly he breaks into a spontaneous song about how we couldn’t be together and then yelled “That was the most romantic breakup ever!!” 🙃
what would they even sing about if it weren't for you though? a happy family? 😆
Knowing how this girl lied about her dad in several videos, I don't believe a word that is coming out of her mouth now. Sad for her
I dated a musician too, he was the ab-ew-sive kind, when I was finally able to get away, he sent me a message inviting me to one of his gigs cause he had written a song about me… you betcha I still don’t know how the song sounded, cause I didn’t show up lol
@@carolemg Wait, who lied about her dad? The girl in Charlotte's video or this commenter?
3:35 I literally WAS picturing woof woof barking… the entire time 🤣🤯😳🤣
Me tooooo lol
He WAS, if he was just yelling she would have said some of the words he yelled, no. 🐶 actually barking
Me too... my brother in law had a phase that he would bark at people. He thought it was so funny.
Like that guy on the plane who got thrown out for chewing on his mask and barking like a dog.
Yeah I thought it was a joke and the “guy” was a new pet dog…
The guy admitting that dating for looks is idiotic is GOLD. ❤ More men need to hear that.
My dad recently had a stroke and my husband was super there and supportive of me. He was like "Take the trip out by yourself, its okay, I can handle the kids." I couldnt do it, I was torn and feeling guilty from both angles. I didnt want to inconvenience my husband, but it was tearing me up inside to not go be at my dads side.. So what does my husband do?
Husband fully plans and budgets a two week road trip to see my dad. On the road he picks out spots to take breaks so the drive doesnt seem as long. He books hotels and air b&b, he plans EVERYTHING. He plans for things the kids will do EVERY DAY. Only thing I had to do was drive half portions on the way there and on the way back.
I dont deserve my husband sometimes.. I wouldnt even have thought about the rest stops at kid's museums and stuff along the way.. and a lot of them were so awesome.. My phone gave me a notification of running out of storage space cause I took so many pictures of this wonderful family trip to see my dad..
If your partner cant be there when your parent is having issues... Thats such a huge RED FLAG.
thats what a spouse should do, support each other in times of grief. he really went all out! making it a family trip and taking the drive easy is a really wonderful idea. im very happy you had that experience
@nichol 1591- hands down- your husband should get Husband/Father/Son-in-Law/Brother-in-Law of the Decade Award. Talk about going above & beyond. I hope your father is on the road to recovery & may God bless you & your family.
I judge the first chick solely because she kept a dude around her son and home even though he never showered and stunk. Who tf endures something so nasty like that?!
The stink is the minor thing. He is possessive and controlling, abusive... AND A STRANGER. She let that in near her kid. Next is a pdf file and she will be crying to tiktok that she is the victim. She is a bad mother.
Yeah, that's really unsafe for a child.
lack of hygiene is a serious sign of severe mental illness, the type of illness requires a psychiatrist and not just a therapist.
I think he was actually barking.
L😂l@@lotstodo
My now Ex-wife and I were together for 5 years. Through our relationship she had serious health problems and they required emergency surgery multiple times. These were surgeries that caused her to be in the hospital for weeks and then unable to be alone for her extensive rehabilitation. I stayed by her side and took care of her during each time it happened. Now, I had a major surgery and due to her own health problems she couldn't take care of me as much as I did her; no problem. 2018 rolls around and she has been better but not back at 100% and after I took on 3 jobs I was so worn down that I ended up getting pneumonia - 103° fever, too weak to walk, etc. Well, one night after we got back from the ER due to me being so sick she wanted some spicy time and I reminded her that I was in no shape for it. After I knocked out she went and cheated on me because I couldn't give her what she wanted. It was my fault she cheated, yada yada yada. To say that was the final straw and hurt like no other would be an understatement. I mean, I had been there through every single hospital stay, ER stint, changing dressings on wounds, etc but her being there for me (I was so weak I had to army crawl to the bathroom, ffs) was too much to ask. My stepdaughter was home that night as well so my Ex didn't just abandon me but also left her daughter to go get some with another guy who was married.
I'm so sorry you went through that. I hope you are in a better place now
I hope you find someone who treats you the same way you treated her with love and lots of support
That's terrible.
Heal n stay alone. When the time is right the right person will come along. Take care
How horrible. I’m sorry. Best wishes to you.
I appreciate that guy who was saying that your worst moments lead you to your best. I had an ex best friend who ended up being toxic and contributed greatly to my depression, but she introduced me to my current boyfriend and if it wasn’t for her I never would’ve met the love of my life. So I agree, your worst moments can lead to your best.
The second story with the sister telling her brothers business....women need to help women. Family or not if a man is a p.o.s to a woman and you have knowledge she should known...you tell that information. Especially when it comes to major trauma inducing things like a 26 year olds virginity. Someone making the choice she made is dedicated to the cause and what "Parker" would have done is major trauma inducing
That dude was so handsome! Glad he dumped the narcissist and has a wonderful woman. Looks won’t get you through the hard times!!
With or without the fact that women gotta be helping each other, the girl also *asked* the sister. She did want to know because, honestly, she probably had a feeling of "this is too good to be true," which, considering how the brother is, was probably accurate. Maybe he was love-bombing her, and she had a gut feeling or something that told her there was somethin off.
I (26) had a coworker (24) who I’d known for about a month when we met my husband (24) and his brother (22) while out. She started dating my now brother in law and I obvs dated my husband. I knew she had a particular, common disease obtained by doing the horizontal mambo and asked her if she’d had the conversation with BIL. She said absolutely so I didn’t think it was for me to say anything to BIL, especially as hubby and I were casual at the time. I mean, they were both of age and should know how to discuss something like that. About 8 months down the road, BIL has ghosted her and she has moved on. I mention that it’s great because the guy she’s with has the same disease. BIL was driving and the car came to a screeching halt in the middle of a very busy road and he slow motion turned to look at me in the backseat. Twenty years later and it’s still a thing but he can’t bring it up because SIL doesn’t know our true origin story and he’d have to explain how much he slept around😂. I never had to say anything, anyways. Mom took care of it by telling him when he asked what she thought of SIL that she’d tell him if she was still around in 6 months.
That brother/gf story…….i have a sneaking suspicion that he told the gf he was a virgin as well, since he told her she was his first gf. That to me is so disgusting. He was most likely going to use that as an excuse for them to be each other’s “firsts”. I’m glad she was able to get out of there before she made a huge mistake.
He did do that, the gf told the sister that she "couldn't believe he'd never been with anyone before". It's what made the sister open her mouth and talk.
Yep!! & then have the nerve to get upset that his sister spilled the beans on his true character. It baffles me how crappy ppl dont mind being crappy ppl and NOT want anyone to know they're crappy ppl.
The second story broke me. I am so thankful for my husband. Shortly after we started dating when i went to meet him in person for the first time i had to cancle last second because my parents were in a serious car accident. I thought he would end things but stood by me. Shortly after we got engaged my dad was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer. So we rushed our wedding so he could see me get married (he could only attend via zoom) thankfully he beat it. Now the cancer came back and its spread to his lymphatic system. My husbands first reaction is to tell me to go visit him. So i leave monday to see my dad. My husband has to work but has supported me through it all everytime.
I’m so sorry.
@@melissaweintraub5854 I am thankful I have a good man that supports me through all of life's ups and downs, and that I have a father that made me the person I am today. Also that I get to see him one last time. It's been hard but I am thankful.
I’m so sorry to hear about your Dad. 😔
I am happy that you have an amazing husband that supports you through everything. ❤
My hubby’s the same as your’s…❤️ My Dad also died of cancer. 🥺 It “came on” suddenly and unexpectedly. It was a “very aggressive and rare” form of cancer. He was gone in just 3 months. (ALSO, he’d had a “triple bypass” just 9 months before the cancer was discovered!! He had a “clean ‘bill of health’ afterwards”!! ALL kinds of cancer, are on my “Paternal” side of the family. I’m “closely monitored” by several “Medical Specialists”. “JIC”)
Take care of yourself and let your family “take care of YOU”!! You’re “not alone”!! 🙏🏻
Catherine, Florida
✌🏻❤️ Peace and Love!!
Thank you guys for your kind words. I am headed out to see him tomorrow and thankful that I get to see him one last time.
Chlorophyll 😂 Your “photosynthesis” thinking cap was everything. 😅❤️
Blue eye shadow thought it was a good idea to bring a complete stranger into her home WITH A CHILD!!!!
It's straight up horror movie logic. Forget final girl, if this was a horror movie she'd only be in the intro scene to introduce the psycho killer. The folks in "Scream" had better survival instincts, and only one of them made it.
And when he was coming back into the house she ran into the bathroom and locked the door. Not her son’s room?
@@transsnackOMG yeah, she's Drew Barrymore in the first Scream movie. Just unbelievably idiotic logic, to endanger her kid like that. Even without anything violent or sinister happening, she still exposed the kid to a smelly, loud weirdo that never should have been in the house.
That's exactly what I was thinking. Hunny, your choices are really really really bad!!
@mcknight7811 yeah that annoyed me and she was asking other people to check when she invited him in..idk why people who want no responsibility keep having kids
Julie is bright enough to feel like Parker was not telling her the truth. You just confirmed her suspicions. NTA
This. There is a reason she asked her.
The dude whose Dad was in a coma... ANYTIME a woman hesitates or makes your issues trivial. Period. She's not that into you. So, good u found out sooner than later.
100%, I would have rocked up with his favourite take-out to cheer him up and make sure he was eating
I agree! My fiancé’s lung had literally collapsed on him one morning and he almost died since he also has complications with his lungs (since birth but they got “better” as he got older) I was there every single day and he was in the hospital for almost a month but I made sure I was there every single day. Granted I had to go pick up my daughter from her lazy dad because his “tire was flat” (he let the air out of the tire so he didn’t have to bring her back) but after that I made sure to bring him whatever he needed and then there was the hospital lock down due to a mass shooter (may all those people rest in peace) for a couple days so I couldn’t see him but I called him all the time both of those days even though he was coming home.
If you actually love someone you will be there no matter what because you love them and actually care for them. I literally hate people like OP’s ex girlfriend but at least she showed her true colors.
When I have a shitty day and feel anxiety these videos of/with charlotte give me some peace of mind ❤️ thank you
I didn't know he wasn't "woof woof" barking until you said so 😂😂
Same!😂
I still think he was woof woof barking lmao she didn't clarify
That "conquered land" metaphor gave me the ick.
Years ago when I was living in California I knew this wonderful lady. She was a stay at home Mom who was raising 5 children. She had dinner on the table every night when her husband came home, took care of the house, paid the bills, etc. She & her husband had been married 27 yrs!!! When she was in her 50's she was diagnosed with MS. Her husband didn't even hesitate to leave her & the kids high & dry. Started divorce proceedings within a month of her diagnoses & split......probably to find another slave to take care of him. It matters who you marry & what kind of character they have. The situation he left her in was completely heinous. There's a special level of Hell for people like this.
Ugh. That’s awful.
@brendaokuda2158 - absolutely disgraceful & unforgivable. I’m a strong believer in karma & I too believe there’s a special level of Hell for people like him. “As ye sow, so shall ye reap.”
I hope so
Perfect marriages or relationships aren't real; each one is different. What makes one person content might not make another person content. But I've discovered that there's always a solution to every problem. Five years ago, my wife and I were facing divorce because of issues in our marriage, but we managed to resolve them. It was challenging, but we made it through.
I genuinely want to be happy as well. I'm in a relationship, and even though we're apart, I can't think of life without her; my love for her is solid. I really want her back, and I'm committed to making it work. We've tried different things, like therapy, to mend things.
Releasing someone you love is always a daunting task, but in my situation, I had the support of a spiritual advisor who prevented the disintegration of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Your guidance is well-received. I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; her absence is keenly felt.
You should
This comment and chain are BOTS 😂 don't believe anything written here
I was married for 5 years we were happy, always out with friends and had a great social life. I found out we were having a baby, we were both overjoyed. Shortly after my mom past away after a hard fight with cancer, I lost the baby, then my father died. This all happened within 4 months. Two weeks after my father's passing, we were invited to a couples weekend away. I declined, my husband, told me, you have too much sadness around you, get over it. We separated that day.
Omg
Some people can't follow your grief
I'm so sorry you went through that❤ I hope you're doing ok now and ur ex is rotting in his own crap
🤯😱 what the hell!!! Wow im so sorry you had to go through that.
You’re a warrior! I’m so sorry you lost so much so quickly 💔. I’m pleased you stood up for yourself and took the rubbish out on your own. Stay strong. It took me 4 years to grieve the death of my brother, mum(Nana) and Aunt within months of each other. My husband has been my rock. Therapy was phenomenal as well. I got out of bed every day but was a walking zombie for the first year. The only time I was strong was for my dad. Sending hugs, strength and comfort to you 🤗💚🙏
That line about the brother shaped bullet WAS A BAR
The brother effed around and found out 👏🏾 well done to the sister
3:15 I’m so uncomfortable with the fact that she took this man home, where her innocent son was sleeping! Obviously the man is in the wrong, but that kid was put in a dangerous situation through no fault of his own, and that make me sad
At 13:00 she did not offer the information, she was asked a question and answered honestly.
How would they feel if a guy deliberately misled and abused her [their daughter/sister]?
...it's all about The Sisterhood. GIRL POWER ❤
NOT the AH
That gi'ls karma helped her dodge a bullet, hopefully the sister will also do well and those sad excuses for human beings that her dad and brother are will also have some karma of their own. She did a good thing by helping that young girl
“I thought the smell -“ cuts to unskippable ads for Secret deodorant AND Tide.
I see you, UA-cam. Well played.
Lol, I didn't notice 🤪
Op, you did that woman a favor telling her about Parker’s dating history. I’d even tell her about the “conquering land” comments. Hell don’t forget about STD testing either.
At 5:52 In sickness is the best way to see someone's true feelings and intentions. At the time I'd been dating my boyfriend for 2 months and was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis, we've been married 26 years and he's my biggest supporter. So happy this man has found his happiness after being with the worst.
You bring a man you met off TikTok who smells into the same house as your child?
*sips tea* mmm okay
Yea that’s odd
lol I was judging her so hard 😂😂😂
@alexandrajean3912
My thoughts, exactly!!!???!!! She allowed a *strange man* into her apt/house...and she _HAS A KID??!!!_
She needs to take some of the blame for her predicament. I feel for her child, as she invited a controlling, abusive smelly guy she doesn't know in. Next is some pdf file. She is a bad mother.
I dated a man for about a year, things didn’t work out. It just wasn’t the right timing, but we remained good friends… and ONLY friends. He died very unexpectedly from a pulmonary embolism. This was about five months after I had started dating someone else. Now, let me remind you that I was still very good friends with my ex because friendship is what brought us together before anything else did. Understandably, I was devastated over his death. Because I was upset and crying the night he died, my boyfriend dumped me. Now I’m just talking about being upset and crying because one of my best friends and someone who I loved dearly died, not being dramatic or ridiculous in anyway over it. And he literally dumped me and left that night because I was not “paying enough attention to him on his night off”. There are some real pieces of shit in this world unfortunately.
Wow. He did you a favor. Good for you for letting him go & taking care of yourself. I’m so sorry you lost your friend.
i absolutely love how "All rise for the honourable judge Charlotte!" has turned into "BLBLBLHHH SMACK" 🤣🤣
It's the crazy turkey sounds for me 😂😂😂
@@PigeonFluff Right lmao
People who leave or cheat the instant things get hard are weak and not worth it. About 5 years into my relationship with my now husband, he got B-Type Lymphoma. I was a very selfish significant other at the time, our relationship was rocky because of it. But I stepped up, I showed up to his treatments, spent time with him, helped him get cleaned up when he had a bad reaction during a treatment. Ever since then, things have been infinitely better. We've been together for 25 years (married 16) now, and he's in full remission. In sickness and in health really does apply to the whole relationship. That woman was awful.
The first woman… I’m sorry you invited a total stranger into your home with your CHILD. There’s making a mistake and then there’s being totally reckless with both you and your child’s safety. Predators literally target single mothers for unfettered access to children. The same reason they become teachers, coaches and other occupations with access to children. Her being embarrassed is the least of what could have happened.
She locked herself in the bathroom and didn't mention the baby. Like if he ran outside she should've locked the door
But when it came to the girl with the misogynistic family, it really hurt my feelings because her mom is like not alive anymore to give her input to balance the situation. I could never understand how a man can have a daughter and steal feel like that type of thing is okay.. to use women like the first thing they should think of is if somebody did that to their own daughter
I just posted the very same thing
Thought the same thing smh
when my sister was alive she was BAD at taking in the sorriest of sorry SOB's. When i found out she had a dude she had JUST met online at the house, he had NO car and NO job and was stuck there until his 'friend' came to pick him up, and she had her 2 boys in the house... i RAN over there. I was LIVID! I would NEVER do that. She actually said to me "well you fuck guys you meet online" in front of my ex at the time... yes, cyber sex is JUST like having a TOTAL STRANGER IN YOUR HOUSE!!! I never understood her mentality. She was very selfish. ALL about her, no one else.
Hey Charlotte, you're closing in on 2 million subscribers! Congratulations on everything! Love our Petty Potato Queen 👸
Thank you so much!!
wait .... the first guy wasn't really "barking"? I'm laughing so much. Yup, I would have lived my whole life thinking he was going around saying "WOOF WOOF" HaHa
As someone whos ex passed away(hes also the father of my children and we were high school sweethearts) i can completely understand looking back at the relationship and thinking "maybe if we hadn't broken up he'd still be here today" and even evaluating of your choice in the breakup because maybe things could have changed. However, i would never have voiced those opinions to my current boyfriend especially because although it took me almost 2 years to fully grieve him i know we spilt up for a reason and we worked better as co-parents then in a relationship.
English is not my first language, so I was SURE dude was actually barking.
I'm pretty sure he was! 😂
English is my first language and I was sure this guy was actually barking as well!!! 😂😂😂
English is my first language and I thought the same thing 😉❤
@@therewillbecatswithgwenhwyfarI went to her tictoc he was actually woof woof barking
I’m still sure he was actually barking and English is my first language lol!
Not the a-hole. You saved a life. This will bless you. Worth it. You are a good person.
That's actually a classic test to see if your partner is weaponizing their incompetence. It's not hard to put effort into a painting, but it's telling to see who is willing to do so, because that's how it will be in the relationship. The painting is how they view you.
One guy did a masterful painting of his GF. JakeDontDraw is his username, literally is a master artist, teaches people how to make art via videos that hundreds of people actually found ground breaking success through. Yet her painting of him was the troll. Disasterpiece vs his masterpiece.
My ex soulmate from many years ago was also a masterful artist. Paintings, sketches, the mathematics of art was also coursing through his veins. He understood art and loved art deeply. He taught me a lot even though he himself thought my art was surprisingly good too! coming from him any compliment was cherished. I still remember him fondly. ❤
I don’t think those men were feeling embarrassed. They just knew the manipulation was over.
For the first one….this how we get murdered
Yep her and her son could've ended up in a true crime vid instead of Charlotte's vid. Extremely risky behavior.
or lose custody of your kid to their father.
Yep. A lady here in Arkansas met a guy on one of the dating apps(I forgot which one). She invited him to her home on the first date. He beat her unmercifully. She was blessed that she lived.
It’s scary out there, kids. Be careful 💕
@@juanita_rocksteady2761 I hope they caught that sick weirdo, locked him up & threw away the key. Damn…when I was doing the dating ads, I’d always insist we meet at a public place where there’s lots of lights & people. NEVER throw caution to the wind. The life you’re saving may be yours ( or mine…) . Meet at least 4 or 5 times b4 you EVEN think about inviting a date to your home. Scary biz….
Why would the woman allow a strange man in her house with her son? Poor kiddo, mom's need for a mate seems to put him in a precarious situation
I agree on the sick part. My husband has stuck with me through a lot of health issues even before we were dating. He would offer to drive me to my appointments and when we made it official nothing changed. He still stood by me and still stands by me through my present medical issues. The good people will shine through during tough times
3rd story: Sister was trying to be honest and protect Julie from just being another one of Parker's throw-away girls. Hopefully, sister can find a friend to stay with so she can get away from her obnoxious dad and brother.
For the story about the sister telling the truth about her brother NTA. 80-90% of the time telling the truth is not an AH thing to do. If the person suffers consequences from their actions that is on them. There are things like identity and sensitive topics that are so specifically about the people involved it is none of your business. Cases like this where one person involved will likely be hurt by the lie you are not the AH.
People not telling the truth about family is what continues cycles of abuse tbh. Not saying it was that drastic, but we've got to get away from the idea we should protect someone from their own actions because of blood...
My sisters now husband but at the time her bf came to sit with our family before my mother passed. He and only meet the family a few times but we knew he was very serious and cared a lot about my sister when he stayed with us and her when my mother passed. Him and his mother whom had never meet any of us came to her memorial service. We are so blessed to have him and his boys in our family.
As a male 57, I can say the sister who told about the A-hole brother was being a friend and totally in the right to do so.
Chlorophyll! That’s the substance plants use for photosynthesis and you can use as a supplement. 🌱
Thank u!!! I checked the comments for this lol!!!!
The eye shadow girl lost me when she locked HERSELF in the bathroom. Not her AND her son...just herself.
Same here.
I was hoping the child as at school or something. Jaw dropping for sure.
I was thinking the exact same thing!
Didn’t she also say she left her friend out to deal with him too?
I hate that girl
Wait...she brought a complete and total stranger into her house to live for weeks WITH A CHILD!!! WTH! If I were her ex or whoever the dad is, I'd be going back to court so fast her head would swim!
Stop judging. Unless u r perfect. And chances are he dumped her and the child and did not want the kid. Thought of tbat?
@@HoneyQuint
I'll judge all I want and judge hard. I don't care what she does with her own life. She's an adult and it's her decision on whether she takes such risks with her life and safety. But her child had no say in this. She's a mother and her number one responsibility is to keep that child safe from danger and to keep herself safe so she can take care of him. Instead, she placed both of them in danger. THEN she got scared and what did she do? She ran and locked herself in the bathroom. Leaving her child unattended and in the house with a lunatic she was afraid of. Nope. Don't tell me not to judge her.
As for the father? Those are some are some REALLY big assumptions you're making there. I repeat. If I were this child's father, I'd be in court getting custody.
@@HoneyQuint Chances are? Only 1 in 4 kids grow up without a father figure IN the home, that figure doesn't include fathers that live outside of the home. In certain demographics and areas, that stat could be higher or lower. While the father may not be involved in the child's life, there are many other possibilities. Dad could have a seasonal job away, truck driver, imprisoned, doesn't have visitation rights, fighting for visitation/custody, or doesnt want to be involved either. Also, the father may not know the kid exists or the mother may not know who the father is.
There are so many possibilities that just vilifying a person that wasnt even mentioned makes zero sense let alone think its the most likely scenario.
@@UnicornsPoopRainbows
YES! THIS!!!!
The second story is so true. Folks be aware of those who are fake.
This makes me so thankful for my man. We met 15 years ago, that year was really rough on me as my body was dying and no one could figure out why. About a week after we officially started dating, I was once again hospitalized but this time for a long time. Four, almost five months to be exact. I was told I wouldnt survive as they couldnt figure out why I kept losing weight, losing blood without bleeding anywhere, and I straight up looked like a dead body. My doctor once yelled out loud "Oh my God, I've only ever seen that color on a week old dead body!!" And she then slapped her mouth and apologized for her knee jerk reaction to seeing me. She couldnt understand how I was standing on my own two feet. It was really bad. I had to get blood transfusions randomly many times over the weeks and months, sometimes several times a week. I was tested with every possible way of testing a body, going radioactive, swallowing cameras, weird ass scans, bone marrow biopsies, cfs biopsies etc. My man came to the hospitals despite himself having extreme anxiety around medical staff. He met most of my family at the hospital and saw me lose a lot of friends. At several points I had to sit him down and ask him to leave me and find someone healthy and he kept saying he saw a long future for us. He's not a psychic or anything, tho he really did sound like it the way he spoke about how I was gonna make it and get better and we were gonna be happy. Nearing the fifth month, they found two large masses that somehow had eluded all other tests and they sent me to a fourth hospital, one that specialized in cancer. Long story long; it wasnt cancer, it was long lost remnants of appendicitis gunk that kept absorbing me up from the inside, from when my appendix had burst 8 years earlier.
I spent a lot of years in and out of rehab hospitals and centers to rebuild my body, repair the damages and discovering more issues like Ehlers danlos syndrome that was infinitely made worse by the eight year long infections, and a bunch of other issues that often accompany eds. Im also currently undergoing new tests for other shit and yet again my man is right here, comforting me every step of the way, calming my anxiety and trauma responses.
The past 15 years with him have been the best of my life. He makes me scream-laugh every day, calms my nerves, makes me smile all the time, always make me feel desired and beautiful. Right now Im giving it all back after he had a very bad knee injury during his floorball practice three weeks ago. They've discovered he has ruined knees and told him he shouldnt ever play floorball again. (We'll see about that. He loves that sport so much and is a several times champion, I dont see him staying away for more than one season)... So Im spoiling him every single day, making sure he has enough cold/heat treatments for his knee, always have something to eat and drink nearby, and make sure he reaches his playstation controllers and other gear. I've already talked to my physical therapists to get him in with them the second he's cleared for physio. I absolutely hate seeing him in this state. He is not made for sitting on his butt all day and not being up and about, and I hate seing him in pain, but that man deserves everything I can possibly do for him so I lowkey love that I can finally be the one to take care of him after all this time!
I have no idea how I found such an amazing guy, but I have loved him since the second I laid my eyes on him. I still remember the first day I saw him and how he took my breath away, all the while thinking such a guy would never look twice at me. Yet he chose me. And he treats me like a queen, which I dont deserve! How he has stuck with me all this time I will never understand. So many left my life when I got sick, and especially when I was dying. Yet he still chose to be with me. He came to see me in the hospital every chance he got. I had to learn to let him see me without my hair and makeup done so fast!! But he's the best! He makes my life so rich, I dont miss a thing! We celebrated 15 years together back in May and I've loved every single moment.
This is absolutely beautiful.. bless you both . So glad you found one another
Wow. I never reply to the comments but your story is so 😢awesome. Be well. He sounds special but YOU are too if he loves you so.
Your love story is so BEAUTIFUL! ❤️❤️❤️🥰
Hello, fellow EDS Babe! What a nightmare you've been through, and I am so glad that you are doing better! x
If he is still with you after all the years of sickness, and so on and does his best to make you laugh and get the serotonine doses you need , then you deserve him! Do not think or say you don't ,there must ne something you do that makes you also deserve him. All the best ofr you both, beautiful story!!
I remember my Mother telling me that it's expected for men to sleep around before marriage, but women should remain virgins. I was about 11.....looked her straight in the eye & said, "So....who are these men sleeping with then?". She was NOT pleased. This was in the early 70's when the free-love movement was taking over. She was bound & determined that they weren't going to get me! I'm over 60 now & really wish I'd listened to her. I've read enough romance novels to admit I probably missed out on some really special stuff...... JS
Couldn't imagine having this type of conversation at eleven with my mother. We wouldn't even talk about this now.
Nothing in romance novels is real, just like nothing in romance movies is real. Real life and real love doesn't work that way. Someone who truly loves you doesn't give a shit about how many people you slept with before you got together. My husband and I didn't care about any of that from the beginning, and to this day are truly just happy spending time together and being around each other. He is my biggest supporter and safe space, all the while we are still really romantic and sexually attracted to each other. Our sex life now is better than it ever has been. And it is all that way because of the foundation we have always had since the beginning which is built on 3 things: full trust in one another, complete respect for each other, and always having open and honest communication (even when we may be annoyed or mad at each other). That is what a healthy and long term relationship/marriage is supposed to be. It's not anything like this BS we are fed through the media and whatever else, especially all misogynistic crap that some men (and women) try to pass off as reality when it is so far from the truth it is just so ridiculously laughable.
@@jeanams07
Uhm that may be a cultural thing (or a “western” thing), because a lot of minorities and certain belief systems value someone who hasn’t had a lot of partners (& that goes for both the men and women).
So to say “if someone really loves you” they won’t care, is generalizing and just untrue. They may very well love the person deeply, but also feel very strongly about their beliefs… and that’s okay, they’re allowed to have those beliefs, just as you’re allowed to have yours.
@@The.Hawaiian.Kingdomshut up and go crawl back under your rock
Wow your mom was at least trying to be honest with you about what happens at an age where you could start thinking about it and not be peer pressured by some guy. A lot of young women at that time their mothers didn't talk to them at all mine didn't. She wasn't even truthful about her own situation. Wasn't honest about being shoved into a marriage by a guy that was too old for her and that he got drunk and beat her and killed the baby she was carrying and she was only 20 at the time. Was going through the death of her father just a few months before he met her and her mother had abandon her and left the state due to the death of her dad. Thus leaving her a vulnerable victim. She never even told her own daughter I found this out because I became very close to her mother who admitted that by her own destructiveness she'd put her daughter in harm's Way. If mothers would talk truthfully to their daughters about what they've been through maybe their daughters wouldn't go through s***. As far as the virginity thing yeah I wish I had been more careful. I really did fall in love deeply with someone but his values of wanting a virgin in honorable person He tried he tried really hard to understand that I wasn't a virgin We even got married but it didn't work I just won't go into it but it didn't work His parents couldn't let it work There were other things but there's nothing worse than having your spouse call you a w****.
"If you're dating a musician, listen to the lyrics they're writing." That's absolutely true lol (as a musician).
applies to poets, too
Novelist too because that man wrecked me like it was his personal goal😮💨😂😂😂
@@analea6531😂 they definitely write out their true feelings and beliefs in it😂
7:39 literally one of the worst things I’ve ever gone through emotionally with my daughters father ended up being such a blessing. I just consider it now as God removing the trash from my life. Bc I ignored a ton of signs and red flags so finally I was given a situation that while it hurt like hell… I couldn’t ignore it. And led to me finding my partner I’ve now been with for 7yrs 🎉
So glad im not the only one who thought he was barking like a dog 😂
I honestly thought he was going “RUFF RUFF” too.
I think Charlotte is wrong I think he was actually barking like a dog
I thought it was a joke story and she adopted a dog
@@heidi.midget9880I am thinking he was actually barking like a dog.
I truly thought he was woofing😂😂😂😂😂
My husband has been with me through my MS downfall for the 8 years before we got married! He nearly giggled when he was doing the "in sickness and in health" part of our vows ❤
The most amazing is when a sickness becomes the cause of the reason why you meet your partner. My hubby saw my Facebook profile on a group about the decease we both have and the fact we both have a ostomy, no one can understand each other as we do and the fact is incurable and we both are "rare" case. He's just a awesome human being, a amazing father for both of his children (who I love so much and as I didn't been able to have mine I'm super close) and just imagine a hubby who love your mom and accept her to the point she live with us. ❤
You have to go through the worst kind of people, to recognise the importance of good people 😊😊
First girl is garbage for not protecting her child. Seriously someone needs to step in for that kid if she just lets randos come stay with her. Let’s hope there’s someone in that child’s life who can step in.
Oh behave. stop being so over dramatic
Maybe if she meant yelling and abusive for barking, her child is really a dog. Let's hope. Most dogs can and will defend themselves.
@@Nobby76 it’s not being over dramatic. It’s common sense. She shouldn’t be having this guy she had only just met in person come stay in her home with her child there.
@@Nobby76 it's not dramatic at all. The risk of child abuse goes up a ridiculous amount when inviting non related men into the home. She spent even know this guy, he had access to her kid for potentially 2 weeks and he so fucked up that he's out here barking at people. He's not a safe person to have around a kid
@@Nobby76Ah, so you think someone who rips stuff out of peoples hands when they don't do what they want is a safe person around a child? Someone who tries to force someone to kiss them in front of a camera is a safe person around kids?
You sound like one of those horrible, neglectful mothers who lets anything with a bulge into the house without giving a single hoot about your children's safety or happiness. Like, idk, I don't know you, but this is exactly what one of those moms would say.
I remember when I first saw that 1st girl’s TikTok and remember thinking what a terrible mum she had to have been to let a stranger stay with her MINOR child for two weeks?! He could have caused serious mental or physical harm to not just her but her poor child! She was extremely lucky to come out of it fairly unscathed!
I like that Rude Advice guy. I'm glad his dad recovered. I'm disappointed his toxic ex-g/f lacked any empathy, but glad he found someone better.
9:11 I just want to say, sometimes when people say “you don’t want me anymore because I’m sick” it’s not because they’re being petty & an asshole.. it’s because they’re so sick that they know they can no longer give you the things you want like produce children for you, live long enough to possibly get married & buy a house & sometimes you don’t want them to watch you get sicker & you would rather them be able to go out & find someone that can still give them the things they want & be there for the long haul & someone they won’t have to watch lose their hair & have nose bleeds & throw up from chemo & radiation & be unsure if you’re gonna live or die
I’m so glad my wife knows she can come to me for whatever she needs. I can’t understand folks that back out at the slightest upset.
Me neither. I have been on the receiving end of it from people who I deeply supported through their darkest hours yet the moment I needed their support, crickets.
I am glad to say those people are no longer in my life. My heart went out to that guy and ai am so glad he found someone who does support him.
Same. My husband and I sometimes won't talk if we are upset, but we know at the end of the day we are coming together, staying in the same bed, and making it work.
I used to manage a warehouse with a dozen guy's between 25 and 34. I used to tell them to marry someone that they know would be there for them if they were sick or had to have surgery. The crazy passion fades. You need your best most loyal friend/spouse in to the end.
Funny you mention that as it's usually the men that leave when there's a cancer diagnosis or a disability delevops
My husband stuck by me when I lost my hair due to autoimmune problems. I spend a lot of time feeling unwell and exhausted. But he's still here and I'm so grateful for that fact. I know that a fewI dated before wouldn't of stuck around and put up with my heath conditions.
Tbf, I'm not great at taking care of my husband when he's sick BUT I'm able to help & be there during crises. He's AMAZING at both (but he's had a LOT of practice caring for me through health and family losses, excessively). I feel bad for him because I am different since I woke up from the coma in February. The other stuff we survived together.
That’s an absolute deal breaker for me. If you habitually smell bad, I CANNOT!
I hate to say but yeah, I would give the guy a chance because maybe he's never been told because that is an awkward thing to tell someone but if he wasn't willing to do the things necessary to fix it like shower, use deodorant, wipe/wash his butt (somethingthe internet has taught me that a surprising number of men don't do 🤮), and wear cologne occasionally, yeah I couldn't either because I have too strong of a sense of smell!
Same.
Yes,there are some rare medical conditions that cause a foul odor.
Fish body odor syndrome is one,but this is straight up no hygiene at all.
Plus, random Internet stranger,
AND OL GIRL HAS A CHILD IN THIS MESS
Likewise!
What about the barking or the possessiveness or the climbing in trees or the lying or the forced affection?
@@elizabethparsons1071 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 No. It wouldn’t get that far.
Mann... the first chick . After her several bad decisions, the fact he was unable to control himself at the fair and she STILL took him home... i hope someone is keeping an eye out for that kid cuz she obviously isn't thinking of his safety or care if he's comfortable in his own home
I think the word you were looking for is Chlorophyll @ 05.50
Plants have chlorophyll which helps with photosynthesis.
People add it in smoothies.