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Imagine brooding over the love of your life for 30 years and a random bartender finds her and YOUR daughter in 90 seconds flat . 😂 . If it wasn't somewhat tragic it would be downright hilarious .
I wonder what issue they had with the man...why were they so intent on keeping him away?
I would not say somewhat tragic, I'd say very tragic. The daughter lost out on her dad and the dad lost out on being able to be a dad to his daughter
Maman Charlotte je te préfère avec les cheveux ondulés c'est beaucoup mieux tu es trop belle 😊
To be fair, he didn't even know what FB was
10 years ago that bartender was about 15. Not believable.
That poor pesto girl will never get a rest😂
I mean, call her crazy but she's never liked store-bought pesto.
it really is fucking crazy @@dawnchesbro4189
@@dawnchesbro4189 😂
Suzie will never live this down😂❤
Shop brought Pesto, is the besto.
He didn't "not *bother*" to look her up...he didn't know how. And he was told never to contact her again, and he respected that. It was entirely on her to reach out to him and tell him she had his kid.
And from his reaction to the possibility of that girl being his child, he'd probably would have reached out a looong time ago if he knew how to use Facebook. He clearly was heartbroken after the forced separation, so he cared and still cares
She was under pressure from her parents to not contact him. Sometimes that pressure lasts into peoples adult years and it probably never occurred that her parents had no sway over her life by that point. Hopefully they figured it out and he got to meet his daughter
@@jasp3rjeep13The parents may have lied to her too, saying he doesn't want to see her, or whatever. All things considered, the parents did everyone wrong.
she clearly didn't care. it was on him to find her out if she was the love of his life.
and this was 30 years ago, things like respect actually meant something, he TRIED, for WEEKS. a woman insulting him for "not trying" doesn't deserve to have a platform imo. no empathy, you don't care about these stories. honestly, you're worse than AI. none of your reactions have any merit if you're not even going to actually care. this whole story happened before the Internet, and Facebook is barely 15 years old. the fact that you put him down is an insult against men. i hope you get stalked.
Dude brooding over the lady for 30 years reminds me of the bears in Brother Bear where the lady is just "This year I lost my dear husband, Edger" and you just hear him off to the side "QUIT TELLIN EVERYBODY IM DEAD" "Sometimes i can still hear his voice!" lmfao
Oh my gosh, I haven’t seen that movie in sooooooooooo long. Wow what a blast from the past haha.
@DarkDreams948 I thought the same thing!! 😂
😂😂😂
“If only Edgar were alive”
“I told you I’m right here!”
I don't know the movie,
but that's hilarious! 😂
That ANGRY baby mama story made me ANGRY, too! HOW DARE that jerk of a father call the cops and report those kids abandoned. I hope the cops charge him with "FALSE REPORTING." Leaving older kids alone for an hour is the biggest NOTHING-BURGER to ever call the cops about. SO STUPID!
Never comment on youtube but this time I have to. "Nothing-burger" is just too damn good to scroll by😂
She needs to take his ass to court and get more money from his ass for this
That man-child is a douche
I'm just floored this is the first time you've heard it....@@ylvalundgren7409
I agree. This needs to be brought up with the courts. Completely ridiculous.
So disrespectful for parents to force their daughter to be a single mother AND wouldn't let the granddaughter know her father?!?!?!
I hate people😢 people are such scumbags. So many broken people out here, b'cuz someone somewhere thinks they're opinions are gospel. They inexplicably and irreversibly harmed their daughter and their granddaughter uggghhhhh
I truly hope the daughter and father were able to reunite
Very very sad and evil I don't think I could ever understand that
@marloeslovestea me too
That was my first thoughts about it. Then I started wondering about other details. He was “in his 50’s” thirty years later. That would put him in his 20’s when he impregnated a girl who followed her parent’s orders. That part of the story lacks a lot of detail. Something tells me she wasn’t in her 20’s, as well. The question might be -how young was she?
30 years is a long time to follow parental wishes that don’t reflect any of her own feelings.
I'm thinking maybe they threatened to take her out of their will??🤷
I hope the 50 year old man was able to make contact with his lost love and daughter. I feel like she never reached out because if he didn't know about facebook, he likely didn't really have any social media for her to be able to find him even if she wanted to. Remember that these two grew up during a time where the internet itself wasn't publicly available yet
i need closure for that story, a happy ending pleaseee
@@GalinaEv 'The one that got away' the woman, post a comment below, just search for it.
30 years ago there wasn’t so much social media. By the time there was, both had already failed to just call for a long time.
@@NilZed1 40 years actually since the bartender said the story was from 10 years back
@@NilZed1 she couldn’t call because if she did she could be kicked out. Obviously she doesn’t want to be a homeless single mother.
This happened to friends of my grandparents! Apparently, in their old age after each was widowed, they met each other again. Turns out, the woman’s mom had stolen all his letters to her, because she never got them. They ended up finally getting married, in their 70’s. 😍🥰
I watched a video where this soldier fell in love with a girl in France but had to go home after WWII. He went back to France for a reunion fifty years later. She showed up at the reunion. They were both widowed. He ledt her there again but she came to the US and they lived their twiight years together.
What a mean mom
I can't imagine being an adult with bills to pay worried about who does and doesn't follow you. And honestly, if thats a business relationship, that's a major professional boundary crossed
I’m not gonna lie, I have felt butthurt when certain people unfollow me on social media but I understand I should be a little embarrassed for that lol
It’s like the Family Guy meme when Peter says, “Oh my God, who the hell cares?” That’s how we all feel when we see someone rant on social media.
My father in law is that petty 😂 he used to bring up "you didn't like my last Facebook post" when I'd see him in person. Like you're a 45 year old man what is your problem 🤨🤨🤨🤨
Of course he's "just joking" though. Of course.
Fr. God bless you in the name of Jesus Christ, who is the name above all names & the only way to Heaven❤
Sounds to me like the business partner is in love with Kirby's boyfriend
He was laughing because he was able to mess with her while she was in London. He was hoping she'd have to leave London and ruin her trip. He didn't care if the children were safe or not.
exactly
I am 27 year old mother to three daughters (7,5,3) & just to not spiral & disturb my peace right now, I'm just going to say that my ex husband.... Is an evil/sadistic/malicious/arrested developmental NIGHTMARE just as the XY in this story is.
& I can't STAND anybody who says things to women like "you should've chose better" when there is woman after woman after woman after woman that has shared their stories about their partners whom held their mask for YEARS & ONLY drop the mask after something like marriage/pregnancy/recent birth/major life event causing the victim to then now rely on the covert abuser.....
Yep!
exactly this.
@@karmAnonymous On point, that's what destroys so many lives and they still blame the women that were deceived and desperately try to protect their child's mental and physical well-being
The London lady needs to get someone charged for making a false report
Not someone. Her ex. What a spiteful man.
an hour is NOTHING! ever heard of a latchkey kid? hell we used to literally be outside with a waterhose, sticks, a few broken toys, and bicycles from 4pm to sundown. we came in when the streetlights came on. gimme a break.
I heard parents of millenials in certain places have to be reminded at 9 pm where are their kids now via advertisement on tv 😂
@retnaningheryuanti6008 that was a real thing absolutely. my mom and grandma said my butt was inside when the street lights came on. if not they'd come check and I had to at least be in the yard.
I was a latchkey kid lol 😂😂 this stuff is so wild. My grandpa was the house across the street so if there was every an emergency I’d just go there. But an hour is child’s play 😂😂
there were times when i got home and the doorpad on our garage didnt work so id have to go to a neighbors house until my folks got home LMAO
My sister and I used to forget our keys all the time, and instead of waiting outside for a few hours before our parents got home we got very good at taking the screens out of the windows so we could break in. It was our norm, and an hour wouldn’t have hurt anyone
The girl Kirby who told the story of the guy doing business with her boyfriend trying to sabotage their relationship is dating a very attractive musician and singer in a band. I forget the name. It looks like the guy she was talking about is some record company big wig, and was trying to control the lives of their musicians. Good for her for setting boundaries, AND for telling the world about it.
He was also on the Tall Girl (movie or show) I think.
If you saw what her boyfriend looks like, you’d understand. 😂 Not that I condone that behavior. The business guy is shady af.
Luke Eisner. He was in Tall girl 1 and 2 and is half of the Duo Voila
I wanted to jump through my screen at the baby daddy who reported that there were "children abandoned" to the police after she had let him know he could spend more time with them while she was on her trip. The AUDACITY. I'm so angry for that woman, and this probably happened a while ago. And I will remain angry for a good amount of time.
It also might’ve been scary for the kids to talk to police officers, especially when they’re alone at home without their parents. He not only did it out of spite to his ex, but he could’ve scared the children and had them deal with worse consequences
Good God ... I can't say too much because I will spiral with anger but I completely agree with you guys
We stayed home alone all the time after school because my mom and dad both worked (I was 13 and my brother 8) Was that just a GenX thing?
Like Judge Judy says, you should love your kids way more than you hate your ex. The fact that this garbage human called the police to her house, and put his own children through totally unnecessary stress and upset, (just because he was jealous and too immature to communicate effectively with her) is beyond infuriating. These aren’t pet goldfish-dude, this woman has been asking you for months about taking care of human children…YOUR human children. That ish is complex; you can’t just wait until *past* the literal last minute to contact your ex about caring for 2 whole ass kids. It’s not like he can just throw some flakes in a fish-tank and call it good. These children have got entire lives, schedules, and needs they don’t deserve to have chaotically upended. And if he cared so much about their welfare, to call the police on their mom, he should have immediately made sure he was there as their *father* to care for them personally and make sure that they were cared for in a way that he felt was proper. Considering the TWO ankle monitors and house arrest, it’s not like he had to clear his busy schedule of plans other than scratching his sack while watching TV.
but also her mother he claimed it was her mother who called the cops so I guess her mom and dad might be divorced and the mom is a bit of a bit*h
“But I didn’t say I wouldn’t.” means “I was keeping my options open because I thought something better (than my own kids) would turn up but I struck out.”
I felt awful for the lady that went to London. When she got the part about 'do you hate me that much' it almost sounded like she going to start crying. That was someone she used to LOVE like someone that was in her heart...
As someone who works in the industry, it’s ultra common for dads in cps cases/dependency court to attempt to have kids removed from the mom. I’ve heard “they’d be better off in foster care” more times than I can count from deadbeat dads who’d never be able to get placement themselves. Be careful who you make people with, ladies.
Most men care more about "winning" than they do about their kids.
That last sentence is the crux of it all.
Every single father who has unfair or "unfair" relationships with their children and/or their mother, out. That one big, toxic clump of bias hurts everybody. Vice versa with the genders reversed or whatever the genders the f you like.
Ay, it's pretty complicated. But if only we could have such a rule, imagine the difference in j u s t i c e there would be.
That last sentence is usually irrelevant, since a lot of these guys pretend to be completely different people until you’re already pregnant. Then the true colors come from under the mask, manipulators/narcissists/liars exist.
This!!!! People really need to do a better job of preventing pregnancies. Birth control should be free.
Re the woman whose ex called the police about his “abandoned” children-She should ONLY communicate with him via e-mail or other written methods. Have a paper trail of incidents like this, in which she’d reached out to him repeatedly for MONTHS about taking the kids while she was away, without any response from him. Very valuable for any future legal confrontations.
And also preemptively call the police before going on a trip.
He trying to traumatize his kids bc he's petty? Poor woman
There’s actually parenting communication apps for people who have issues with their crazy ex’s.
@@Spooky_pookiethat's good to know!
We've gotten _way_ too used to having easy access to information.The older guy in the bar comes from a world where the only ways to find someone was to meet someone who knows the person in question, to run into the person themselves, or perhaps to ask neighbors or the new homeowners if they have the new address of said person. If you had a vague idea where they were, you could call the county register for that area and make some inquiries that way, but... not much you could realistically do.
It's so interesting to see the divide between the generations that grew up with the internet and technological connection vs. those who were introduced to those tools late in life and don't fully understand the potential behind them.
Well said! It's an important detail to point out
Old people have access to electronics, they choose not to adapt, I don't feel bad for them
@@CrAzYiNsAnEBaRbiE1987many do chose to adapt but it’s a way of thinking that’s almost impossible to change. If I grew up during that time then I probably wouldn’t assume finding someone would be that easy. Like I would kind of know but not automatically or as intuitively as I actually do.
Also your brain changes as you age. Learning and adapting aren’t as easy or automatic as when you’re younger and a lot of older people have had high exposure to lead, arsenic, even radioactive heirloom dishes. That definitely affects the way the brain learns.
I’m so glad I’m not as bitter as you. There is plenty of real complaints of older generations, like the world they left us but having trouble learning a whole new way of living and thinking in a way that no other generation in the whole of human history had to do? That’s not one of them. There are so many valid reasons
Of this 30 years, about 20 were before Facebook (or more) and you start to believe that it must have been their own decision as well. Maybe her parents even DID brainwash her into believing it was.
You lose your believe, ask yourself what might be wrong with you… then get depressed to a point where only bartender therapy is left for you (every bartender has stories like that, slow nights and a lonely person with an alcohol loosened tongue)
Honestly I am glad her story is at least kind of lovely. I had some downright traumatizing customers.
He’s not THAT much older. People older than him have been on the internet and social media all along. 50 is not nearly old enough to be too old to have any clue.
As someone who misplaces her phone so often (it doesn't help that we're goths, our current home has incredibly poor lighting, _&_ it has a black case) that I have a 2nd, pawnshop burner phone exclusively for calling the 1st one, I cannot judge final OP. 😂
I got an smart band for this same reason 😂 best purchase ever
In this situation he did that intentionally to mess up her plans. He thought that by not answering her she wasn't going to be able to go and when he found out that she was still able to go and she told him about the kids being alone. That was his perfect opportunity to hurt her again and he thought it was going to end her plans to go on her trip. He did that intentionally to hurt her. It wasn't even about the kids. He didn't even think about the fact that they wouldn't give the kids to him. These toxic men are something else 🤬
Classic narc move!
It’s about power.
You've explained the exact thinking! So common unfortunately...
The lengths that spiteful ex's that don't have any interest in being a parent will go to destroy a good person's life stun me every time, no matter how prepared I am.
You are absolutely right he was absolutely trying to get her kids taken away from her
She definitely seems like a good mother to me
Don’t let this lady fool u, u can tell they both care more about their themselves more than the children! She’s online spilling all the drama of these kids lives that will live online forever… had she cared about the children more than her ego, she would’ve known her children would’ve rather been with their dad than some random lady, therefore canceling the lady and reimbursing her for her time! At some point, someone had to stop the bs and be the adult and parent these kids need!! Chances r once he sees she’s done being a bitch hell stop being one too, but if not, atleast she can say she did what she needed to do for her children 100%!! I’m so sick of these parents screaming court papers this n that like it’s the courts that had these children! To these parents an all just like em, gtfufr!!
@@BrianAndresScott no she’s not, she’s just as bad as he is..
Makes you glad to have broken up with some people before having kids
@@isabella-lp3nwyes she is a good mother! The baby daddy's a bitter AH
I had a super toxic mother too and i hope one day the girl with delulu mother finds the strenght to set stronger boundaries or cut her out because that stress ruins your life. This is not just quirky cray cray behavior.
My mother is exactly like this, diagnosed narcissist by the way (oh so shocking.) Thinks everything is owed to her, had a favorite child (my brother) while also actively treating me like property.
It got worse as she got older but when it made me think and dig through my memories i realized she'd always been that way, it just wasn't as obvious until i was an adult.
-Every time i would get anything nice, she'd decide she either needed it more than me or it was more her style or anything along the lines of "this should be mine not yours" she also told me a lot about her dream to own lots of land so she could have her house and my house built next to each other so i'd never need to move away from her.
-When i moved to Sweden with my boyfriend, she started talking about moving not only to Sweden, but to the the exact, small, isolated location i moved to. (failed anyway. Immigrating to another country is not that simple, surprise surprise.)
-She also would insert herself in all my plans, she ruinned so many things because i could not spend time with anyone or do anything, or even have a job without her trying to have a hand in it. It ranged from trying to get hired at my work places to straight up going to my employers to tell them she didn't like my schedule because it was inconvenient for her and demanding they change it for what SHE wanted for me. (i was 22 at the time btw. My schedule literally didn't affect her she just wanted to control my life, as usual.)
-She'd throw in her health a lot too. "I haven't felt happy in weeks" "i have a problem with my knee" or even a vague "i have to go to the hospital again in 2 weeks" it was always something. Anything to keep to conversation about her.
-She also had that weird trait of trying to shove her sex life out in the open for everyone to hear, she'd always been like that, she loved telling me about how good her new husband was. (Yes it made me want to rip my skin off every time)
-And also sent random guys my way that would be "perfect for me".
And i tried so hard, for so long, to keep a relationship with my mother until i realized i did not need that kind of stress in my life. Nothing was every good enough for her, anything i told her about myself or anyone i knew, she had to give her unsolicited advice about it and what SHE would have done because she knew better than everyone and was smarter than everyone and would do so much better than everyone.
Honestly, cutting her out of my life and going no contact was painful for sure but it turned out to be the best thing i ever did for my mental health. I never realized just how bad it was until i didn't have to deal with it anymore and EVERYTHING in my life improved as a result.
That's not just delulu, that's literally textbook signs of narcissism. To want to be everywhere, replace everyone around you, to control everything, to make everything about them.
That baby daddy drama makes me SO HAPPY that I don’t have kids with any of my exes. (Or any at all, for that matter.)
My husband has a daughter with an ex. Trust me, it isn't worth it. The daughter hates me because I dared to lay down some ground rules in my own house, and the ex is trying to financially ruin us both. Stay away from the baby mamas!
Edit for clarification: His daughter is 20, but acts like she's five (with tantrums and everything).
*The first story:* he wants her to follow to find the tea on her in order to poison the relationship.
Then he would follow her, she doesn't have to follow him
Fact
@@ember13dpher account might be private so he would need a follow back to have access to her posts. What a weirdo tho
@@BrianAndresScott had that happen to me with an ex
The kids were still seeing the dad in the planning stages. He probably got the info from them…
I raised my second cousin. Her bio mom used to call police and dcs on me all the time! Of course, they never found anything wrong but I'd have to miss work, she'd have to miss school, and it was a huge inconvenience. I'm thankful children services were doing their job, but they shouldn't be able to make so many false accusations without consequences.
Omg people who make false claims should bare some kind of penalty.
@@kyliedee6079 I think the issue with penalties for false claims is that often in legitimate abuse cases a massive file of reports will build up before they find something. The Franke case is a good example. Lots of people seem to have called, but it took the kid escaping for action to be taken.
@@tiryaclearsong421there’s a difference between multiple, unrelated people calling and one person calling repeatedly. There should be, not a penalty per se but a forced priority ranking based on the number of times you have called, with zero results, as in 3 or more, you move to the back of the line. I know they are putting the child first but does it really behoove the kid to have a toxic adult using them as a pawn?
Her kids have phones. Maybe he called and questioned them.
And yet all those times a distant relative of mine left their kids in dangerous situations/left them places and had cps called on them no one did anything.
The story with the dad calling the cops and saying his kids had been abandoned BOILS my blood. That could literally be my ex-husband.
That man is 100% using his kids as a weapon to mess with their mom. Reprehensible.
Good lord, that whole leaving the kids alone for a couple of hours thing is absolutely wild to me. My parents first tested the waters leaving me alone for two hours when they went to the grocery store when I was 10.😂 By the time I was 16, I was trusted enough to be alone if they went away for an overnight thing. Not only that, but I was also trusted to look after family members little kids in similar circumstances. I know not every kid or family is the same but this extreme supervision is getting to be ridiculous.
I literally took care of a two year old and a four year old overnight at 14 for pay while their mom had a baby. I remember thinking I was so cool because I got to stay the night out like that four houses down from my own. 🤣😭
Agreed, she didn't feel bad about it, she was afraid, of a cop, being a dick.
He called her childish….. he is the one asking about the social media 😂
And trying to break them up because he has a crush on her man.
Kids are obviously old enough to be alone. Even the cops thought so
I need an UPDATE on that story!!! What happened?!!? Did he contact her!? Was it his daughter!? Did they all meet up!?! Did the daughter know!?!? Omg I need the details!!
Same! I wonder what happened after the information was given to him.
Has to be fake. If that was the 30th anniversary of losing her, the daughter wouldn't have turned 30 for another 8 months or so.
@izzozwiren Thanks a lot, Izzo!! I'd concocted a series of stories in my head of what "may" have resulted from that interaction with the bartender- all based on this story being TRUE- and all Happy, Positive outcomes! So that theory never crossed my mind, Haman!!! Lol (good song btw 🎵)
@@izzozwirenbut the child probably wasn’t conceived that night, if she’s “the love of his life” I can’t imagine that was the first date tbf
@JessaLynnC in order for her to have passed her 30th birthday, he would have seen the girlfriend later on her pregnancy. This looks more like she found out she was pregnant maybe a month or two into the pregnancy, then her parents cut ties with him, and she would have had the baby a while later, and therefore not have been 30 yet by the time this guy was mourning the 30-year anniversary of the loss of the love of his life.
Just a shout out to Charlotte's editing/graphic team, my goodness, very original and hilarious! This whole team, Petty Queen included, *chef's kiss* ✨️
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FACTS!!!!!?
Right? The lighting, the “glow”, the shine, etc like god damn I wish this was a filter
Bro her editors 😂 they’re some of my favorite.
“Charlotte’s Face On Things” is one of my most favourite things in the world 😂❤
Loved the bartender's energy. Bartenders do a better job than some therapists sometimes lol. What a heartbreaking story tho
Well they are basically a therapist that only gets paid if they are amazing and can pour a hell of a drink. 2 to 5 bucks a hour don't pay bills. And happy people tip better so therapy and booze. Plus it's hard to lie to yourself when your drunk.
That one with "julie" she mentioned facebook was new at the time. This means he couldnt have found her via social media, until facebook was made. Maybe in a phone book or something, randome like running into her on the street. So yeah it makes sense he was hung up on her and couldnt reach out.
Awww D: I feel bad for the second one. Poor guy.
I don't blame him for not knowing what Facebook was.
To clarify things for younglings in the audience, pre-cellphones phone time was strictly rationed in some households. In many homes kids were not allowed to make a single phone call without asking permission. Depending on the girls age there may have been several years where she was still living under her parents control. After a decade or two has flown by, so much have changed contacting him might have felt too weird.
yess that happened 40 years ago so in the 80s I don't think it was as easy to find someone as it is now
Def. No cell phones and no internet. People don't realize how much information they have access to now. So remember when you say boomers are dumb that they learned everything they know with having access to a fraction of the info thats available now.
If she had a kid and lives with her parents who don’t want her contacting him then she is stuck, if she calls she puts herself and her child at risk of losing their home.
I was "The one that got away" for my HS sweetheart. We were engaged to be married when he got cold feet and broke off the wedding. Runaway groom. Fast forward 23 years, and I get a FB request from a man I do not know in Arizona. Turns out my ex worked on a railroad in the middle of nowhere, and his coworker would spend their days hearing about me. My ex was planning to hire a private investigater to track me down when his coworker says, did you try Facebook? Long story short, we eventually made contact, he tried to pay my parents back for the wedding he ran away from. We've been married 6 years now.
He left as a boy and came back a man. Congrats on your happy ending!
That is crazy and amazing!
I feel sorry for the women he used in the meantime. Knowing he wanted you
@@mammadingo9165wtf. He probably didn’t “use” them. First off you have no idea If he was in any committed relationships. Second, you can go all in and try to make it work with someone new even if you still care about someone from your past. If you think there’s never a chance then you try your best to move on. The human heart is limitless. So all those people that get left by someone they still love should never try again? Once I love someone I will always love them. Even if I know it’s never gonna work and move on, I’m just that type of person
Or is it because they ended up getting back together? Like he could have predicted that. It also doesn’t mean he used anyone. It doesn’t mean he participated in these relationships in bad faith. It just means he never found someone that he could make it work either and then fell in love again when he got in contact to pay her parents back and catch up. They were different people by that tine. It would have been like meeting a new person and starting from the beginning.
This is just such an eye roll take. Best way I can describe it. It’s like you have to be purposefully dense to say this.
I know two people who found each other again as adults after their parents pulled that kind of thing. Like literally picked up and moved to another state to keep them apart. One had a baby the other didn't. Both times they told the daughter that he didn't want to ever see her again so they just accepted that
Meanwhile my 6 year old self had her own keys and was alone after school until the evening XD.
Get ready in the morning alone, make my lunch, forget it in the fridge, walk to school, walk back - repeat.
My parents pretty much only fought about custody to hurt each other, not because they wanted to take care of me.
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My kids dad did the exact same thing to me, I wasn’t out of country, but I was not home. I talked to the law enforcement officers over the ring camera in the living room as well. Police were wicked pissed when they realized my kids 14… and told me that they would be in touch with him to let him know that this is not what welfare checks are for😂 Wicked stressful though
I fully anticipate this with my oldest son’s father. Despite him being in FAMILY LAW, when it comes to his own son he will do whatever he wants to make sure my husband and I can’t make decisions for my son and it’s so aggravating. He uses his law degree to file ridiculous motions and papers all the time to make me look like a bad and negligent mother. As if the dude didn’t quit his job when I told him I was pregnant so he didn’t have to pay child support.
Too bad I’m thinking the next time it happens of calling his employer to let them know they have someone who uses law to intimidate an ex partner.
Barrio mom should file a false police report. She'll have the info of talking with him. And everyone around knows the plan. He'll get in trouble. Then you could take him back to court & get more child support & ask for full custody!
Honestly I think he was planning it the whole time. By not responding to her texts etc. he’s sounds like a real treat.
Story: Cops called: The Exes end game was for her to have to come back home,
ruining her trip to Spain. That's all he wanted to do, ruin her trip!!
you know you watch too much true crime when you start to think when the bartender goes on FB that she’s going to find a missing poster and the parents killed her or something awful. It ended up being a lil less crazy than I originally thought 😂
I totally thought that too!!!!!! LOL
SAME! I thought maybe the whole family got murdered. I like this outcome better😅
Same!! Omg too true with my true crime mind 🫣
Me and my roommate just realised after two years of living together we both watch your videos 🥰
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I’ll watch her video when I get notification,my husband (who has no access to a phone at his work) will get home and I’ll hear her voice while I’m cooking dinner or washing dishes. I got him hooked on her because I was laughing and he wanted to know what I was watching, I told him. ❤ to hear her two times a day!
This would be found out so quick in my house. I say HOW ARE YOU NOT EMBRASSED!?! all the time, in that exaggerated way Charlotte does. xD
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I heard my sons best friends mom also watches charlotte 😂
"There's no appreciation for the planners" my soul cried in understanding lmaoooo Virgo energy✨️✨️✨️
my heart breaks for that man who didn't know how social media works and was kept away from his own child
I literally just opened my YT and thought, “Hmm I don’t think she’s going to post today with the new schedule..” 🤷🏻♀️ and got sad for 2.5 seconds and then BOOM!! 💥 My day is made now lol 😂 LOVE YA GIRL! ❤❤❤
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Same!
SAME!!
Manifest queen 😂❤
What new schedule
That batender is the bartender we all need, but none of us deserve. MVP, GOAT, froy!mensch, absolute champion & total heroine. Take several bows, babe; _outstanding_ work.
That face at 20:53 is so relatable, I heard that and had to take a DEEP breath cos sometimes ppl are just. . too frustrating
My heart aches for those in the story about the "lost love". I can only speculate what the parents told her, did they lie and tell her that he abandoned them or did they threaten her she would be out of the house & on her own if she ever saw/spoke to him again? And the daughter...probably grew up thinking her dad walked away from her. I hope there was a happy ending to the story.
Secret daughter was the VERY first thing that popped into mind when hearing this story! 😳😳😳
My (F64) son (M37) have had a running joke for ages about sharing a home. When he was about 10, I told him that when I'm old and feeble I'd like him to support me in a manner to which I'd like to become accustomed. His response? "I don't have to LIVE with you, do I?" I told him no, but he could come for dinner every so often and he could do his laundry at my place if he paid my bills. 😂 Boundaries are important and apparently he and I understand them.
🫂 ❤ good man good mom
Ha! My mom and I used to joke about me building a tiny home for her in my backyard when she's retired. She retires this fall... I don't think the tiny home will be ready, lol!
I love this!! 😂
That spiteful ex that called the cops and gave a false report about his kids, ... he's a dirt bag.... I recognize that dirt bag behavior
LOOOOOOLL THAT RANT AT THE END WAS EVERYTHING!!!! I died when the emojis were falling out of your mouth!😂😂 You’re hilarious, your editor is hilarious, this channel is hilarious!!❤❤
Now that I've watched the video, I'd seriously caution the london woman to report his behavior to the courts. That's some unhinged drama he's serving.
Liking store bought pesto is not crazy. Store bought alfredo…straight to the nearest mental health facility! Love you Charlotte 😂
Liking either, straight to the nearest one, imho.
Lmao facts! I only make homemade Alfredo! 😂
Hey now! My homemade alfredo always turns out crappy 😅 so store bought alfredo saves my butt
@@AccidentTattoo lmfao I wonder why... I've never had an issue! It could be the cheese you're using!
storebought guacamole is evil😈🥑
Just laughing at the thought of that guy who is the administrator of that work Facebook group. If the first time he watches the video, is on Charlotte and he just sees Charlotte's reaction it. 🤣
The girl in the first video is Kirby Johnson, an actress, and her boyfriend is the actor Luke Eisner from the movie ‘Tall Girl’ (who is extremely attractive; in my opinion anyway). So I definitely think there is some jealousy going on were the guy likes her boyfriend. There is for sure some projection of his anger going on that he is placing on her because he isn’t getting the ‘respect’ he “deserves" or the ‘attention’ he “deserves”.
Businessman thinks women should be quiet and compliant. Misogynist. And definitely interested in the boyfriend.
Definitely.
Ugh true
The first story reminded me of one of my own😝
My first job I worked at a movie theater and was there for about 2 months. One day a manager was showing new people who might potentially work with us around the place and I was about to go on my break when he stopped me and asked if I had proper shoes on (I did of course) but the entire time me and this one guy from the group kept starring at each other . He was one of the people who got hired on and a different manager could tell that he and I were talking more and hanging outside of work . This manager pulls me aside one day and tells me that they think I should not be hanging around my coworker and a bad influence, blah ,blah, blah. Not long after we were both let go from there & got new jobs . About 10 years of being together later we now are married , have an amazing son and 2 dogs . Our old managers still work at that theater and every chance we get to go back to that theater we do and talk about how amazing our life together is . 😏
The way I relax is crocheting and watching charlotte ❤❤❤
My mum's retired and she's busier now than she was when she was working lmao. She's taken up hiking and she has some kind of art class every week (it's watercolour atm, she's done embroidery and glasswork too) and has multiple different friend dates with other retired people AND an allotment and garden that she's really intense about. She's only home to feed the cat and sleep lmao
to the first guy who hated Kirby- he was entirely in love with the dude. only "reasonable" explanation at that point
Yes. Kirbys bf, Luke, is a handsome man and she's used to lots of people hitting on him, sometimes, right in front of her! Lol
That dad saying “I never said I wouldn’t” when talking about seeing his kids sent me, like my brother in Christ, COMMUNICATE
I'm glad you're lurking in the comments 😂 I live for your hilarious facial expressions and your videos. I love you Charlotte! ❤️❤️❤️
One of my favorite things with your videos is the random characters with your face on them. I LOVE that!
That businessman is waiting for bf to make him an art room.
Great callback!
@@jimbobjones9330 duly noted
This comment caught me off guard… good one 😂
Oo subtle reference
If ya know, ya know... 😏
The shared custody to avoid child support happened to me too! This was nearly 15 years ago now but my ex insisted on shared custody so he didn't have to pay child support, then moved out of state. He's seen our son about once a year for 15 years (my son is 16) and I've never gotten a dime. Some people are fkn slimeballs but sometimes we don't know until we have kids 🙃
What the hell
Just asking couldn't go to court and prove he lived out of state and never saw his kid. I'm so sorry you had to go through that crap
@@BrianAndresScott thanks. I went to court but he got a lawyer to fight me (instead of paying child support w that money) and his mom lied on his behalf to say he had my kid a lot more than he ever did. I'm over it though because my kids turned out a lot better than he would have being raised by his entitled father.
@bobbii Oh man, I'm so sorry
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@@bobbii That's the conclusion I've come to. Baby daddy not being involved because he's dysfunctional and stingy is a win-win. Never pursued child support for that reason, didn't need the drama, ge wouldn't have paid anyways...
I just want to say, Charlotte i love your hair. 😊 And your videos. You make me smile everytime i watch one of your videos. Today you really cheered me up after a bad day. Thank you for being amazing 🤩
I love your energy in your videos it's so refreshing 💜
As a child who grew up with 2 parents, I & my sister's were left alone in the house for a few hours at a time, probably 3-5x a week. It's not that big of a deal!
8:13 in fairness, he didn’t know if *they* decided to cut contact or if *she* did. if I was him even after I grew up I wouldn’t have contacted her because of the possibility she would react badly. Combine that with it being more difficult to track someone down prior to the advent of social media and I wouldn’t blame him
Exactly. Additionally, her parents may have never told her he had called and made him out to be the bad guy. Sounds like a sad situation that hopefully had a happy ending.
Also, people are misunderstanding the lady telling the story. She says to keep in mind, *this conversation with the man happened TEN YEARS AGO*, when facebook was brand new.
Also she knew all this time that they had a child together. I think she has more of a responsibility to contact him rather the other way around
You can search and find someone without contacting them
@@Zbot8577_ Facebook started in 2008ish.
You always make me ugly laugh but this ending of the video was absolutely hilarious and pure gold😂 Thank you so much for your content and just being the awesome person you are charlotte, I love you so much❤
I love this shirt! Also you are the favourite for all my family and friends. Thank you for the excellent work!
Peach headband girl needs to BLOCK her mother 🙅🏻♀️🚫 The enmeshment is insane!
that's what you get with "cool" parents who treat their kids like friends not children
@@nyotauhura7412 no enmeshment is not at all like being a permissive “friend” parent… enmeshed parents are extremely emotionally manipulative and controlling.
I used to tell my ex the time when I’d be home or can’t give him the children. (Because of appointments, work etc.)He’d ALWAYS drop them off when I’m not home yet from work or at an appointment for them or myself. He would call police and tell them he’s dropping them off ALONE or there to pick them up as court ordered (this happened 3 times) so I’d park at neighbors he’d call police and notify them he’s not leaving them at an empty house, because he didn’t see my vehicle in driveway. After 4 times of doing this they filed false reports charges for wasting their time. He never got out of the car to knock or let the children use their keys to get in. I was actually in the house getting just got out of the shower when the police came and he said when I came out what are you doing here. I live here, was my answer. And then when I’d take him to court for nonpayment of child support he would bring up I’m never home, he has police reports. I showed the police reports of him wasting their time and his charges for filing false reports. And the months he never bothered with them. (Living in next town 10minutes away)He said in court on record he had a “new life and didn’t have time!”
You’re the best clothes folding entertainment I could ask for!❤
😂😂😂 The last one, I kept picturing “Cartman” from South Park saying to her………”You must respect my authoritay!!” 🤣🤣🤣
As a retired woman who's two grown ass children will not leave the nest....I am obsessed with the day they move out. hahahaha
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Check out rent prices. They'll never move out. Just make sure they give you some money for rent and utilities since they're grown or let it be known they need to go where they'll lend a hand.
Can confirm, your parents change after they retire 😂 My dad retired a couple years ago and we spend a lot more time with him and he's like a whole different person. Love him, though, and definitely appreciating the extra time with him.
The kirby story reminds me how this guy came to my elementary school to do a puppet show of kids fables (it was the 90's, and honestly, it was awesome) and I still remember the fable about the boy who would be mayor of this town if everyone in the town liked him.
So he went around trying to make everyone like him, but this ONE guy just didn't. He kept bringing him gifts, kept doing nice things for him, and eventually just asked "Why?! Why don't you like me?" The man said, "Because I don't have to. I don't hate you. I don't know you. You spend all your time making people like you that I don't know who YOU are." The boy learned that you can't make people like you and there was some part of the story that talked about needing to like yourself first....
Again, it was a puppet show from the 90's- but here I am like 20+ years later remembering that so...🤷♀ All to say, you aren't required to follow people back, to interact, or to like anyone just because. Also he wanted your man 1000%
Thanks for making the start of my day fantastic. Made me laugh lots! ❤
I have 4 grown children and 7 grandchildren. I've been retired full-time for 8 yrs. Not once have I obsessed over contact with them. They have full and busy lives and I remember raising children and how busy it is with full-time work so I respect their time.
Same. I'm glad my children have independent lives. My sister thinks it's crazy that I never see my kids and grandkids. She on the other hand is practically raising her grandkids. I'm the oldest of eight and had four kids young. I'm quite happy with my life the way it is!
I really didn't think people cared that much of someone doesn't follow them back. I'm really bad at social media, and I very rarely follow anyone back because I don't go on Instagram very often. Apparently, some people are going to be offended by that? 😂😂😂
Apparently. I'm 71 and didn't start using social media until later in life. I still find it hard to take that seriously.
@@PunguinYoga I'm not even 30 yet! I just can't imagine thinking social media is that serious.
I’m 25 and considering just deleting my facebook I don’t use it that much. (Twitter, on the other hand, I can actually find a few decent artists, and it’s fun directly blasting companies sometimes)
It is crazy how serious people take it. My aunt got pissed I broke in her “boohoo my family just isn’t close!!” (By her choice) by saying I loved her, so she unfriended and blocked me on social media, and went completely silent for weeks, before declaring to all the family “I had to teach that little *bitch* a lesson.😏” That ‘lesson’ directed at her 13 year old autistic niece who had prior worshiped the ground she and her crotch goblins walked on.
I said it then, and I say it now. People who get crazy about social media to the point of hurting their ‘friends and family’s’ feelings over minor things they see on these sites are *PSYCHOPATHS.*
@@queenbee137 same lol not even 25 and I have never really bothered following back on any socials unless they're close friends, family or actually post content I enjoy consuming. That's the only reason I need to hit "follow".
@@queenbee137 Great!
I watch your videos while washing the dishes. So thank you for uploading longer videos so I don't have to pick the next one with wet hands ❤
i love this video and this video made my day after my birthday your one of my favorite youtubers
GIRL your hair and dress is ON POINT✨️
Agreed
I've been battling severe depression since 2019 my mom died. And I got a cancer diagnosis a week later. 2020 my cat died. 2021 my dad got dementia and 2022 my dad died. I've been regularly watching you since October and your videos just bring such a light to my, and many others life's. Thank you for being you and such positive pettiness ❤
I'm so sorry. I had a few years like that too. All you can do is, go to your doctor's appointments, and feel better soon. (My mom died while I was having surgery, so I really get it.)
Wow. That sure is a lot.
I am sorry.
@@lotstodoomg how awful. I am so sorry 😢
@moniqueengleman873 thanks, that expression, When it rains, it pours' really can apply in real life.
I hope you're seeing a therapist.
The one that gets away is the ONE we think about and never look for
Charlotte I have been following you since pre-Covid you are my bestie Thanks for being there for me Keep doing you ❤
I wanna know what happened in the 2nd story! Did they reunite? Did he meet the daughter? Was it his daughter? I'm left with more questions than answers!! Give me answers!! lol
SAME!!! I WANT A FOLLOW UP @CharlotteDobre please 💖
How would the bartender know tho? And the man seemed a bit tech challenged so i dont think hes updating us either
6:48 I’m legit on the edge of my seat right now with the crazy bar story
I had to pause it and get some chocolate!
You're correct, Charlotte. "The one who got away" was just some i never followed up on.
I needed some Charlotte today. Well, every day!
First one, the guy is in love with your boyfriend.
Should be a crime to alienate a parent from an unknown child.
Oh, and give great thought to with whom you breed.
I agree to a point with not alienating a parent from an unknown child. The exceptions from my perspective would be if the child was as a result of rape or that the other parent (the alienated one) is abusive.
Well he was clearly committed to the woman with whom he bred
@@racheldebasitis8184 My son hasn't seen his father since 1994, I moved 1500 miles away from him to stay safe. Now that my son is 31, I don't have to worry anymore. My son is very close to his grandmother (I love my ex MIL), mother of my ex, and he lived with his uncle (his father's brother) for awhile.
For me it's always been important that my son knows his father's side of the family who are wonderfully kind, creative folks whom I love.
My ex did things that are so horrible, no one in his family has contact with him since the early 1990s.
People do love to judge, though, especially when they don't know the full story.
"The boy needs his father!" I've heard too many times.
No, he did not. Not this "father".
If I was trying to alienate my son from his father, I'd show him the Unsolved Mysteries episode in 1997, where Robert Stack describes the multiple crimes his father committed, in detail, with a reenactment of a murder. As far as I know, he's never seen it. I never watch it either because it belongs in the past.
@@ember13dpI think maybe the comment about being careful who you breed with was actually in regards to the story where the dad called the cops
I'm 73, retired, and living alone a full 6 hour drive away from my family. I'm so happy!! 😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤ PS I love my kids, adore my granddaughter. Of course I'd love to see them more often. But I'm living MY way for the first time in my life. Just me, my cat, and whatever I want to do on a fixed income. My family understands. When I can't live alone, I have loving family who want me. ❤❤❤ I did something right.😂😂😂
#goals 🔥
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This.
I think people forget that he did everything he could to get in contact with her, and got nothing. He couldn't even be sure she wanted to see him again. If SHE wanted to, she could have looked HIM up when she got out from underneath her parent's control. The ball was in her court all that time, and the fact that he didn't hear from her was evidence enough she wasn't interrested (at least to him).
FB discovery brought me to tears. I'm 70ish and can relate. Found my beloved after 50 years but she had just died. *sob*