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Hey there, it's Charlotte Dobre! Buckle up for a rollercoaster of entitlement. Join me as we explore the wild world of entitled exes, where breakup drama reaches new heights. From outrageous demands to jaw-dropping antics, get ready to be shocked and entertained!
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Hi, I'm Charlotte Dobre. I'm an actor, reactor, singer and sometimes (not really) comedian. On this channel I do reactions, commentary and occasionally I make a joke or two. I love poking fun at social media, weddings, entitled people, tiktok and OF COURSE petty people. I upload daily, usually 7 days a week, unless life gets crazy or I get lazy. Come hang out, it's a good time.
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"This morning I was in a parallel universe, otherwise known as the bus."
That SENT me. 🤣
I used to ride the bus in San Francisco…. I was sitting down when a woman got on. I was texting someone. She got mad at me for controlling her mind with my phone. I laughed until I realized she was serious.
@@debrajauss7967 Oh my goooood. I would have no idea what to even say in that situation.
lol, I had no idea what to say! I’ve never seen so many crazies as when I worked in SF! I am much happier and safer in Ohio!
The best stories come from the bus. I remember once going to my golf class during university and being stuck next to these people talking about living in compounds, weapons, and fighting the system. I wanted to get off the bus as soon as possible because I was worried about what these people were carrying on them.
I've seen this story so many times and I just have to listen every time because wtf bro? That's entertainment 😅
The FBI trains at Quantico, VA, not Washington DC. Also, "if you tell the truth, you don't have to have a good memory."- Judge Judy.
I used to work with DEA Agents, most were married, and a couple were single. I doubt the single ones went around telling everybody who they worked for to impress them, smh.
Yep 💯👏👏👏
Was just about to comment about this. I watch too much tv to not know about Quantico
@@mlamaranaand read to many police procedurals type books so yeah. Also from MD so I know
Dude was married with family, 90% sure.
Lol, there's a scene in criminal minds where the female agents are out at the bar and one comes over and says "you're not going to believe this! This guy works for the FBI!" And they all start fawning over him and ask about his job which "can't answer because it's top secret"
Then one of them asks to see his badge and he says "I can't show it"
"Oh, well does it look anything like this?" And they all pull out their FBI badges.
Love that scene!
I do too. It’s always funny no matter how many times I see it!😂
Yesssssss 😂 The best
👩🏻Tell me Brad dose it look anything like this🪪
👱🏻♀️Or this 🪪
👩🏻🦰 Or this 🪪
🤵🏻…
Yessss😂
The girl with the pink hat talking about Ashley is hysterical. She needs to be a stand-up comedian. She’s awesome.
Omg yes!! She was absolutely hilarious!!! 😂😂😂
Yeah-"the pincers" (Charlotte's remark) remark had me cracking up.
She does!!😂😂😂
She is hilarious, you gotta more of her content
"Ashley's elevator doesn't go all the way to the top" 😭
“Anybody who is that obsessed with cheating is cheating themselves” 💯facts 💯
Perhaps, perhaps not. I will say that people usually think others are like they are. So, if he is accusing you of cheating, he may not be cheating, but he is certainly thinking about it.
Yeah I do agree it's a good indicator but personally I've never cheated, but I have self esteem issues and have been cheated on in the past. I dont accuse my man of cheating but I do express my fear that he will because im afraid I'm just not good enough. In any case, a partner 'obsessed' with cheating definitely needs therapy or some form of personal help. When they say "no one can love you until you love yourself" it's more like, your insecurity and fear of abandonment pushes people away even more. They can love you but eventually get worn down by needing to prove it over and over.
Or they have been cheated on. Possibly even by that partner.
Exactly! A friend’s ex husband kept accusing her of cheating. While talking to her, this is what she said “when?! When would I have the time?!” She and her (then) husband have 2 kids, the 1 at the time was a toddler (both kids are the spitting image of their dad), she was taking nursing classes at the time, working 2 jobs (1 at a nursing home and 1 at a gas station), and very little help from her (then) husband, who had plenty of time to cheat. When did she ever have the opportunity? Never. But he certainly did (and he did).
This has definitely been my experience! 🤷🏼♀️ My ex kept accusing me of cheating (when I hadn’t) and it was because he was sleeping with other women behind my back. As soon as I caught him, the relationship was over. Once a cheater, always a cheater and I didn’t have time for that.
It takes AT LEAST 7 attempts to leave... and it's so frickin hard to pick yourself up after you've been brainwashed into thinking you're nothing without them.
So true! It is easier said than done
The gaslighting alone can be hard to get out of 😢
Not to mention, the most dangerous time for a domestic violence victim is when they leave.
Not me, I just left.
After 11 years and many attempts to leave I finally left
My friend’s husband was actually an FBI agent. He was a normal man, husband and dad. He was very quiet but awesome on the barbecue. He was respectful and polite.
“It could be sur-ious!” Had me rolling 🤣🤣
Now I gotta go look up the pattern for her beautiful crocheted hat 😍
I guarantee you she is from the DC area 😊 her commentary was top tier 👌😁
First one ex husband is a complete narcissist!!! Run away from a guy like that red flags should be a deal breaker..
That and this is an abusive relationship. I’m glad she’s not with him anymore.
I had a narc ex. They target people who may not know what a narc even is. I learned what a narc is after living with one for years and started looking for answers
I bet the divorce was hell! Narcissists absolutely HATE losing their victims!
I completely agree. Red flags are more like red gazebos at this point
The first one sounds like my ex husband. These guys are absolutely the worst! Time to get rid of all these abusive POS dudes
The girl with the flower hat: her vibes are gossip perfection!! Old lady telling her girl friends what's what with her daughter's drama.
Old lady?! Wtf
She’s definitely the friend you make sure to invite for brunch because you’re going to get the best stories (gossip) while drinking mimosas.
I love that hat too, I just saw it as the ombre hat😂😂😂😂she's beautiful and funny
She reminds me of Tiana from Princess and the frog in all the best ways.
Her smarts, style, and personality are enchanting. Wouldn't she be just THE coolest Sister, cousin, or neighbor?
The woman with the 'phone name changer cheater dude' is my hero, she's freaking hilarious and smart. Love it
That's why she's wearing a hat looking like a big 🧠 , she's looking smart.
Changing them all, so he won't get confused (so, there was more than one...?)
I am pretty sure that pretending to be an FBI agent is a federal crime punishable by a maximum penalty of three years in prison and a hefty fine.
When my ex told me one day I folded his laundry wrong, that day I stopped doing it. He also never wished me a happy birthday or was even nice to me on my birthday. He tried to isolate me from friends and family. And told me I would be alone forever if I left him. It took me years to get the courage to leave him...and by then being alone sounded so peaceful. Life after him is so much better.
Men really do tell on themselves. You would have been alone for ever if he trapped you in a relationship.
Glad you got away
Narc. I had one as well. Took me two years to get over the cPTSD
I’d rather be single anyway that deal with that dude
Glad you made it 👍
"Anybody that is that obssessed with cheating, is cheating themselves" - Queen Charlotte Dobre! I need that on a t-shirt!
I think you maybe heard it wrong, it’s ‘obsessed with cheating’ not ‘upset with cheating’ (surly everyone would be upset if their partner cheated 😅)
If you get it on the tshirt make sure you actually get the correct quote because that's not it XD
She said obsessed, not upset. Meaning, anyone constantly accusing you of cheating is doing it bc they’re cheating themselves. Well unless they think you’re cheating bc you have in the past.
My love, hopefully you’ll make sure that you get the quote right before you put it on a t-shirt… it is obsessed*^ not upset! 🫶🏽
The better T shirt would be:
If they'll do it with you they'll do it to you, has a more rhythmic roll off the tongue 😂😂😂😂plus you didn't correctly quote Charlotte 😂😂
"I'm too far gone baby, you ain't gone never catch up" YAAASSSSS!!! I aspire to be this woman!
I will never forget in my second year of college there was a guy an ex girlfriend of this guy (don’t really remember why they broke up but pretty sure cheating was involved) but she waited until the very last day of the add/drop period of the next semester (for those that don’t know what i mean it’s usually the first week of the semester where you can make any last minute edits to your class schedule after trying it out and seeing the syllabus I.e. drop classes that obviously will be too much, add a class that fits your schedule better, etc) and dropped him from ALL of his classes so he basically had to drop out of school for a semester because the schedules were finalized now and he had no classes. Which subsequently meant he also had to move out of the dorms because he was not a full time student.
Exes can be scary.
the Ashley story…. my goodness that woman can tell a story!!! i was entertained AF!! leaning in, eating my popcorn like “and then what happened baby????” 😂 I hope she’s doing well in life ❤
same!!! i was sooo entertained!
I agree. Not only was she lovely but so funny. She sounds like a friend who would always have you laughing or have your back when needed.
Love every moment lol
Me too!! She's so good!!
She's awesome! I wish she had a youtube channel 😅
Oh my gosh the chick with the pink hat, the Ashley cheat, brilliant storytelling, nailed it !!!!
She was excellent. Fantastic delivery!
I agree
I need her to have a contract with Audible or something to read out some books and then I’ll be able to download the app for once.
That was HILARIOUS 😂😂😂
I wish I was like her. My now ex husband of 20 years cheated on me. I found the texts hidden under his work number. Instead of being calm like the lady in the pink hat, I threw the phone at his head and screamed "who the fuck is Julie!" I now regret this and wish I'd gone back through the texts to find out when they met and forwarded all the texts to me but I didn't. I found this on a Wednesday and gave him until the weekend to find somewhere to live cos I'm an idiot!!!
The lady in the car with the cute hat, I could watch her for hours! These stories were too funny! Thanks Charlotte 🤣😍
2:36 This is why I have taught my son from when he’s little to acknowledge birthdays, Mother’s Day and Valentine’s Day! I make clear it’s not about the amount of money but about the time and care you put into it.
Hoping his cooking gets better than toast with whipped cream and gold fish crackers on top! 😂 At least he puts his whole heart into it.
omg ur raising a dreamy little boy ❤
The woman who answered the phone was amazing! Her story about Ashley and the man running after her car...LOL I would watch her read the ingredients of a cereal box, she's that good!
I was gonna say she has an amazing voice I could listen to no matter what she says
I want this lady as a friend. She sounds like a badass.
I was so invested in the story
She sounds a little like Niecy from Clean House.
Fun fact: FBI agents don't train in DC! They train in Quantico Virginia. And in case anyone else tries to pull this on you: CIA trains in Langley Virginia and secret service trains in Glynco Georgia, then 17 weeks in DC and finally in Laurel Maryland.
So if anyone actually wanted to date someone that's in the FBI, CIA, or Secret service, one can actually ask questions, like where they train, for how long, etc.. who is your boss? I always wondered about it.
The people I know..who got close to me..all make sense now. 🤔 😳🤦🏼♀️🤣😵💫 Hope they weren't hoping for more than they got 😂💀☠️
I came here specifically to say 'don't they train in Quantico?' I don't know tons about American government agencies, but I know that much (thanks, Criminal Minds reruns perpetually on my mum's TV)
Another fun fact: impersonating an FBI agent is punishable by law, you can receive up to 3 years in federal prison for that. So, knowing that I would recommend to that girl to call her local FBI branch and give this guy's personal details. Lets give him one last time FBI experience he never forgets ;)
The FBI also has it printed everywhere in casual labeled wind breakers and other generic government clothing. Like, they aren't just active field agents.
The girl in the flower knit hat was sooooo awesome! She was brilliant as a real FBI agent, comedian and story teller!
The girl talkin bout ashlee was freaking phenomenal omg, I so wanna be her friend🤣🤣
That first one hit close to home. I left my abusive narcissistic ex fiance and he retaliated by getting a restraining order on me. Forced me to be financially dependent on him, made me beg him for money and keys to the car to feed our daughter, and then told the judge that me begging for money to feed our daughter was harassment and the judge AGREED WITH HIM!!!!!
I didn't have a lawyer, obvy, because I didn't have money, he did.
Edit: Meant to mention that the DA told me that that particular judge ALWAYS rules in favor of the man of there is a woman in court. Yes, I am having an investigation against this judge.
I'm so sorry you had to go through that. The first one also hit very close to home for me. Got out of narcissistic relationship after 8 years and it truly does take so long to get out. I'm proud of you for being able to leave! And I hope you get justice against that judge.
I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Funnily enough I was just about to say before I got to the last bit, something tells me that judge is a divorced man, or just some red pill fool that somehow managed to get a position as a judge!
This happens far too often to too many women. I'm very sorry this happened to you and that you and your daughter are safe and secure now.
Record and save everything to cya!
Wow. I swear, there should be a separate entity that reviews judges every year to see if they are corrupt or prejudiced or not. And they should be easier to disbar if there is clear cut evidence showing they are abusing their power. 😑
Abusers rarely show their true colours in the initial honeymoon phase. The abuse starts subtle and slow. The abused party ends up isolated and with a diminished sense of self worth, and often this happens to people before they know enough of the world to know different, especially if they had an unhappy upbringing.
I can confirm that what you said is true. My ex did this to me and it was just a downward spiral spanning a year until one day I said enough is enough. Had all my stuff out of his house in less than 2 days! My heart goes out to those who feel trapped or that they will be nothing without said partner!
Yep wasn't till he moved in that the first hit came, made my parents think it was my fault and that I was the crazy one.
Totally agree. What I fail to understand, however, is how the victim will have children with them on purpose. Look what you just did to that child. It's bad enough what the victim goes through, but the kids can't make any choice whatsoever. They are literally hostages.
@@kanditraxelThe narcissist doesn’t care. To him, the child or children are nothing but tools to use against the woman.
My first boyfriend was like that. I am very grateful I got out.
The woman telling the FBI story and the woman telling the Ashley story are phenomenal story tellers and I'd love to hear them tell all their other drama stories 😂
every time someone says "lowkey" all i can imagine is a miniture Loki popping up on screen saying "you called" XD
Me too
That first story is absolutely 1000% ABUSE. If your partner makes you question your own sanity, please, leave them! It’s not worth years of your life. Know your worth babes ❤
Edit: Before I get a hundred more comments about how you can’t “just leave,” I know. Believe me, I know.
wish i could... on dialysis and no help.
@@lauraarvizu6809 That's shitty ☹ girl you've got to *find a way* Keep talking to everybody, sooner or later someone will drop a golden opportunity in your lap👍
Her ex was exactly like mine
Easier said than done.
Women’s centers, local DV shelters, are an asset to finding escape, and life in which you can be safe and thrive! They know the predictable creatures that manipulate you, and will teach you to want better for yourself. They will be the light in your darkness. 🙏🏻💜🙏🏻
The girl telling the story about the Ashley on the phone, her monologue was giving Angela Bassett vibes. I'm here for it ❤
KEKE Palmer. She copied KEKE monologue on “sorry to this man” 🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱
The amount of times that my facial expressions changed from shock to normal to shock during the second story was wild. Jfc, that was a trip
That moving in the shadows is so me. By the time my partners were accused of cheating I had enough evidence that not even Loki could get out of😹😹😹
The person that told the Ashly story was amazing and adorable. Not everyone could pull of wearing that hat like she does. As a life long crocheter ( I am 74) I love seeing people be able to wear crochet stuff. I also thought see looked like a flower. The combination of her personality, her ability to tell a story and her ability to pull of wearing that hat is top notch entertainment :-)
Completely agree.
YES!!! I love her hat, it’s gorgeous and she does look like a carnation. 😂 I would absolutely wear that.
Bonne nuit maman Charlotte 😊😊❤️
She reminded me of Amber Ruffin 😊
i also crochet and admire her hat and how goood she looks in it! ❤️🌈✨
She struck when the iron was hot. I loved that she answered the phone and said hello to Ashley. I love this lady. She is right. Ashley didn't have the right to drop her life problems on her.
I feel like Ashley thought she was the main woman...and Rose was the "other woman" 😂
Idk, I feel like she was maybe caught off guard & trying to understand. Not to unload her problems to someone else but to figure out what the truth was. Plenty of women in this situation share stories, sometimes plan revenge together, sometimes even become friends! Nothing wrong with being honest with each other & outing the a-hole imo. 🤷♀️ Assuming she didn't know, she's also the victim.
I’m confused, did Ashley know he had another girl? Because it sounded like to me that Ashley found out he had a girl right then and there when she answered the phone so decided to help by telling her everything. Did Ashley know he had a girl and go along with it until last minute to turn the tables?
Charlotte I just asked my dog if he wanted to be a member of the "We move in the shadows" gang and he got very excited. So now we have a loveable Aussie Shepard who also moves in the shadows 😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂 the lady with the flower hat is a QUEEN!!
That first story was so relatable. Ex basically wanted a 1950's housewife, to stay at home, cook, clean, take care of him. Not have a job, not have friends, not have a voice. Just shut up and stand there. Just like how his mother is (should have been red flag #1, I know). I finally decided to do something for myself and went to pharmacy school and he tried to sabotage it all 4 years bc I would be making about 3x more money than him and knew I wouldn't have to rely on him for $$ anymore. I prevailed and left him right after I graduated! The most craziest, nit-picky thing he said to me? That I couldn't have the blinds open in my bedroom (we slept in separate bedrooms) because the sun would come through the windows, heat up my bedroom, and therefore heat up the house, kicking the AC on. 🤦♀ Once you realize your worth, you'll be embarrassed by the sh*t you settled for!!
The first girl. Why did you marry this douche? Why?
Then they complain "All women today just want to be independent" this👆, this is why.
Nothing wrong with it as long as the woman wants iy also
Nah he wanted a housewife who wasn't a housewife otherwise he would have never complain about her not having a job. He wanted an emotional punching bag
👏 you did SO amazing for yourself!! standing up for yourself, going to school and leaving him! you deserve SO much better then him!
I dated the equivalent of an FBI Agent in my country for a year.
1. He told me immediately about his job and I told about mine at the first date.
2. He talked about his work, but never about actual cases and never mentioning details.
3. He had years of study and so on, there's no course or shortcut.
4. I met his friends, even colleagues without problems.
5. After 6 months of relationship, he had to go on a "special mission" (lol), in reality, it was some kind of surveillance. It was unclear, how long it was going to be, so he gave me an emergency number, I could call and somebody would reach out to him.
The relationship ended sadly because of his job. We weren't compatible. His job is dangerous and although it isn't likely that something happens to him, you feel on edge and stressed.
Exactly, it isn’t for everyone. It also isn’t unpredictable like that usually. Like, sooooooo much planning goes into covert missions like that, so they know when it’s coming.
lol the FBI isn't the CIA or the NSA. They are pretty much like any police detective but on a federal level and with better training.
I know two people who work for spooky government agencies. They are also very upfront about their agency, but give absolutely no details about their job.
It's very different than the people I know who claim to be "secret agents" or "spies". People who are delusional tend to struggle with story telling (not keeping details straight, obsessed with making it the focus, bring it up purely as a brag or excuse, etc).
FBI agent? Call the FBI and explain that you have a partner claiming to be an FBI agent and you need to verify. It’s a federal crime to impersonate one.
I dated someone from nasa who had top security clearances
Lmao I can’t read or say audacity without it being in queen Charlottes voice “the Awh daaaac it deeee” 😂😂😂😂
LOVE the way the chick talks who changed up Ashley's name ❤😂
The one telling the story about Ashley....she needs a story telling channel! I love her!!
Right?! She would have gotten a follow today!
She does have a very entertaining page on Instagram. The video gives you her profile name. The first time I came across her account, I binge watched all her videos.
I’d watch it 😂
SAME. I was in and about ready to roll if asked lol
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Maybe he had a different definition for FBI, maybe he was a “Female Body Inspector,” or a “Frozen Burrito Interrogator,” you never know these days what it could possibly stand for.😂
😂😂😂😂😂
This comment is hilarious 😂😂😂
Frozen burrito interrogator, I’m dead! Hahahaha
😂😂😂😂
Frozen burrito interrogator is crazy 😂😂😂😂😂
Story 2 has such strong Cluster B energy. 🤣
FIB dude must have been one of the new 87,000 IRS agents 😂😂😂
A real life scammer, without an Indian accent.
The women answering the phone is HILARIOUS, they way she tells a story is solid gold.
"Now what I will say is, he probably would've caught up to me a lot faster, if he had his own car. You ain't hearing this from me, but word on the street is, he's still chasing behind that car to this day, the only problem is I'm too far gone, baby you'll never catch up." Spilled. That's what's up 😂 that was exquisite!
Flower lady was hilarious! Love her!
FYI: If you ever met someone who really works for the government and couldn't disclose their real occupation, you aren't going to know it, especially if you aren't married to him or her.
You are going to know their cover story and whatever occupation that is a part of their cover story.
He's a solid dude. Specifically his brain. Solid rock. So dense. Nothing ever actually gets in. Also very smooth.
Brain so smooth thoughts just slide right off
That's called a river rock. 😂
Boys got a brain like granite.
@@bobbiesticker6281 Slimey and wet, with green, or brown hair.
My grandfather was a CIA agent, and no, they won't tell you shit! We didn't figure it out until he had been dead for 30 years! The most bizarre thing that happened during his career was when the family lived in Iran, and the entire family moved suddenly when my father and uncle were in school and didn't tell them. My father was 7 and came home to a completely empty home. A neighbor had to tell him and my uncles (the oldest was 9, the youngest was 5) where they went.
They just left two minor children alone???
I love when people lie and then lie again, forgetting what they previously told you. But you said - - -
@@geminidragonreadsyeah that makes no sense
*cough* bulls--t! *cough*
@geminidragonreads it was 1960. The kids were in school and they had to move immediately but were never able to say why. They lived on the army base, so I guess there were only so many places they could have moved to. No idea why the neighbor knew unless they worked with my grandfather. I never knew my father's parents but I've head some disturbing shit. My grandfather died 6 years before I was born and my grandmother had some major psychiatric issues so she wasn't allowed to have any contact with us. I doubt she even knew the extent of why they moved that day. Prior to the job he had had a dangerous job in the army during WW2. It had to do with the targeting system for missiles. He was one of the soldiers who had a gunman with him to shoot him if they were ever under threat of being captured. I wish he had written some of his life down. But my dad has always told us anything that he related to him and the oldest uncle had done a bunch of research into his army career and after so that's how we found out he was in the CIA.
That first guy is the very reason the 4B movement was made 👌
That lady with the flower hat!.... I love her!!... I'd love to meet her and have her as a friend. She's incredible ❤❤❤❤
''So I changed the name back... Hello Ashley'' ... Killa 🤣
Married to a vet, I've only heard him say "that's classified" ONE TIME, and I was with him while he was active duty. dude lmfao
It took me way too long to figure out why a veterinarian would be in a war zone.
@@lisasteel6817. 😂. I bought a house once and my realtor told me a vet lived next door. I thought he was a military vet…but he was a veterinarian! Goes both ways….😂
@@lisasteel6817hahaha same. I was like what the hell could a veterinarian be doing that is so classified. I had to give my brain a little slap afterwards at how stupid I was in that moment lol
@lisasteel6817 😂 same!
@@lj0727 same. Thought it was like personal information about the office or something
The way she said Aaahhshley! Pure Southern perfection.
only a minute in and i already want to cry, the tone of her voice as she explains how horrid her husband is/was :c AHHH, i truly hope these people in the end have had things turn around for them :c
My abuser had a problem with my showers.
If I showered at night he would accuse me of getting ready to cheat.
He would pretend to go to work, drive down the street and watch the house all day.
When he told me this, I said, well don’t you feel foolish.
He said No, because he was obviously not watching on the right day.
If I showered during the day while he was at work, I was cheating and had to wash the smell of the other man off of my skin before he came home.
The whole time he was the one cheating.
He would tell me he cheated but expect praise for him telling me the truth.
I stopped cleaning the house. If I cleaned it meant some other man was coming over.
Hope you didn't stay with him
@@jessrokeby3587 No, I didn’t. That was almost 11 years ago. I still don’t date. I probably never will again. I ignored so many red flags early on. No one who knew me would’ve ever imagined that I would allow anyone to treat me like that.
I'm so sorry to hear that hun wish I could help take the pain away
@@jessrokeby3587 bless you. I love your supportive reply ❤
I had a similar situation with my ex. He would tell me that I was spending us out of house and home when, in fact, he was getting credit cards in my name and SS#, sign himself on as a secondary card holder. When the cards came in the mail, he would destroy mine and then max out the account at st**p clubs and bars and leave me with a $1,000+ balance that I knew nothing about. 😮🙄😒😐😑
7 times to leave..... Girl I was in an emotionally bad relationship for 8 years until I finally realized how bad it was. When I finally got the guts and courage to leave. Realized it wasn't the end of the world. Now I'm happily married and loving my life.
I wish UA-cam had DMs I'd love to pick ur brain
I’m so happy to hear you’re doing better!!😊
@CharlotteDobre 🥰 thank you, your the bestest. 😀🥔means a lot. it was a journey but I came out stronger. And watching yo. ur content helps brighten everyday🥰
I love the girl telling about Ashley! She’s a hoot! I could listen to her tell a story all day!
17:26 OMG the girl who switched the names in the phone has such a gift for storytelling!
"How they treat you on your birthday is an indicator."
This is so true! My ex-husband never did anything for my birthday. He never made money so he always used the excuse that he would just be spending my money anyway. In 8 years he didn't so much as make a card for me in the 8 years we were together while I 100% funded our lives.
I swear i hate when men/women make the whole "I'm broke" excuse. I'm a stay at home mom right now and have been for 2 years but i bought arts and crafts stuff(with his money) and made my man a birthday card with a ton of detail, i also taped a picture of mine and his son together on the back and he truly loved it. It's the thought that counts. Showing no interest in even trying is a huge red flag that should never be ignored.
The woman telling the Ashley story has so dang much CHARISMA! My god she is ENTHRALLING! 🍿😲
She's really pretty too, and that hat, so, so cute! Why would that jerk cheat on her? SMDH
The fact she kept calm the entire time made it hilarious!!
Charlotte, these videos are entertaining but also educational. You have so much learned wisdom that you pass on to all of us. Thank you.
You definitely have to say it louder for the people in the back 😂😂😂😂. You’re freaking fantastic ❤❤❤.
I felt that 1st one! The gaslighting of “oh babe just stay home with the kids, it’s ok, I’ll take care of you. You don’t need to work and if I do change my mind and tell you to get a job, you will only work where I say you can” now during our divorce it’s “she did nothing to contribute financially so I don’t owe her anything!”
My ex husband was Nucking Futz!
It’s true what they say about how they treat you on your birthday is an indication of how they are as a person.
I always take my birthday off of work so I can have some quality time on my own where I don’t need to think about anything or do anything for anyone else.
On the last birthday where we were together, he said that he was going to take the day off of work. I told him no, I wanted/needed a day to myself (with my daughter) and that we’d see each other after work. He took the day off anyway.
I planned to go out for cupcakes with my daughter, so he tagged along, ordered a cupcake for himself and after taking a bite said he didn’t bring his wallet or have any money on him, so I’d have to pay for his. I was naturally pissed.
I had planned to treat my daughter for lunch, to go to the library together etc. and to take a drive out of the city, however he was being an a$$ the whole time and I wasn’t going to subsidize his meal on my birthday, so we ended up going home.
He yelled at and berated me for not treating him better, pouted, literally stomped up the stairs (despite being in his 30s) and slammed the bedroom door shut.
After a couple of hours of him pouting, he came downstairs, which I thought was to apologize.
Nope!
In front of my daughter, he told me that he wanted a divorce, that he’s done and that we’re through.
Best worse birthday of my life.
You don't need his cr*p. Remember, the best revenge is living well. Now you have time to find someone who deserves you. 😊😊😊
How dare you put yourself first... on your birthday. Haha
good grief. I'm in my 30s (though not a man lol). He was acting like a child, though mind you some children would behave better. I'm glad you got out of that relationship. Best wishes to you and your daughter :)
I love Lynee singing that line from Shaggy's "IT WASN'T ME" LOL
strike --> struck
The girl with the pink hat talking about Ashley. Oh I love her. Get her on the stage, Emmy, Oscar, all of them, queeeeeeeeen.
When you work for the American Federal government, you were told to never put a Target on your back. You don't tell people who you work for and what you do, and if you were in a uniform you have to cover up when you leave work. And I kid you not, we were told to never take the same route to work every single day. Because some people will either follow you to work and then back to your home.
This risk is real. One of my dad’s friends received a parcel bomb on his doorstep, and lost both hands. Back in the 60s.
Grey man!
Truth. Retired Air Force program manager. And you don’t joke about it or throw out hints.
OMG!!! The beauty with the pink hat needs her own podcast!! She could make reading the phone book exciting 😂
The Bus Story from Dadchats! One of my favorites! I LOVE this story!
Dadchat's is like that SNL skit "I'm gonna get that boy back"🤣
I can confirm as a wife to someone. Who ACTUALLY works for the government ....lol he would NEVER tell you he works for said FBI. My husband never addresses who he specifically works for. Just DHS or government worker...... 😂 These were Definitely delulu stories!!!! LOVE YOU CHARLOTTE!!! God bless 🙏🏼
Depends on which area you work for within the agency. My uncle was in the military, but we never actually knew what he did...for said military.
Yes .. but this losers fbi was the fart, belch & itch department. They’re not as secret.
lol when she said, ‘he didn’t wish me happy birthday until I was almost asleep…’ I shouted out “I beg your finest pardon! Absolutely not!” Mike just looked at me and said. “You’re watching Charlotte aren’t you?” 😂LOL
That beautiful lady with the flower headband was so, so funny! 😂❤️ How on earth was he cheating on her when she’s not only beautiful but hilarious too?! He must be crazy!
I had a rough day. Really needed this. Thanks. And your hair looks great.
My husband, boyfri4nd at the time, was disappearing and staying late for our first Christmas a lot. We lived with my mom at the time and she's the one that noticed this behavior. So when she brought it to my attention I said, "look if he is cheating, then I'll tell him go be with the other chick. But I'm nor about to accuse him because I ain't got time to care right now. I'm in college and have a job. So when I do have time ill figure it out." Turned out he was making a shadow box filled with our best memories from that year. He was going to his friends and having him help get glass cut and getting the box together. I know it's not a bad story but I thought you'd all like it.
Also, FBI agents are allowed to tell people they are an agent. Now if they're on a job and you are being investigated they may not tell you until they have finished the job. FBI agents are federal cops essentially so a daily basis means that they don't have to operate in secret.
Your husband is a gem and so are you
I knew my now ex-husband was running around but of course he denied it, said "I" was crazy. One night his phone rings and he takes it off his belt clip and says hello. Then says there was no one there and hung up. Funny thing was, the ringing never stopped. The ringing was coming from a second phone that was in his pants pocket. He still tried to gaslight me. I made an appt with a divorce attorney the very next day.
😂 now it's not funny that it happened to you. But these men make me laugh. When I was pregnant my ex had been gone alot. He came home one night, trashed. I decided to go through his phone. It took me forever to get in but I did! I found a hidden app that had a message that he got someone else pregnant too. I woke him up screaming at him. Later on after he deleted everything he told me it was there and that I never seen that lol. Like come on! To this day (no im not with him) he will tell our daughter, that I might tell her one day that he's a liar but that she shouldn't believe me because IM THE LIAR. lol
@@Pam_Beesly They just can't comprehend the fact that we can see through them. You know, I even laughed in his face when it happened. It didn't hurt me because, by that time, I no longer cared. It was just the thing that finally made me do what I needed to do. He still tries to keep up with what's going on in my life. He texts me but I ignore every one of his messages. Once, he even had the Sheriff's Deputy do a well check on me. They couldn't tell me who had requested it (don't know why not). Anyway, I told them I knew it was my ex-husband and explained all the nonsense he was doing. They were quite put out with him. Haven't heard from him for awhile. Hope he has learned his lesson.
The girl with the pink hat had such charisma speaking i was LISTENING listening😂💖
Every time my ex tries to reach out to me again (every 6 months but he’s blocked now) I hear your voice in my head, saying, “THE AUDACITY”
I mimic Charlotte to people having an audacity attack, alllllll the time. It catches them off guard when you call them out in such a funny way!
"Anyone that obsessed with cheating is cheating themselves" - Charlotte Nietzsche , eminent philosopher of the modern age , circa 2024 . 😊
I don't understand how this isn't obvious to EVERYONE 😂
The ashley story is golden 😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤ slay Queen. That was indeed a masterpiece
2 minutes in and I'm shook, glad she's out of that mess
... In that second story sent me over the edge. He's seeing her on Friday.!?!?!?😮
I know right! I don't know her side of it, but why do guys keep going back for more helpings of the crazy? I'm sure some men stay away, but every guy I've ever known have kept going back to crazy town and usually say, But the sex is amazing! WTF guys
How hot is she, actually? Helen of Troy level?
As an older woman who's taken public transportation for years it's wild! I always read on the bus because weirdos are less likely to bother you if they can't make eye contact plus you can eavesdrop 😅
I'm now concerned - is he being threatened/blackmailed, did she promise to leave him alone if they go out Friday, has he been brainwashed? *Someone find out cuz it's terrifying*
Sex :)😂
That "FBI Agent" was pretty dumb. He could have said that he has to retrain every year or two instead of blaming COVID.
It would be fun to hire a PI and see what he really does all day.
A LOT of scammers/liars are not very good at it.
The subscription story got me. My ex did the same thing with my family’s Netflix, except this was after he decided he couldn’t take being friends, blocked me on everything, and sent a dramatic good bye text.
Flower hat woman was an absolute queen
For the woman who dated an FBI agent... I've got a bridge in Hawaii that I inherited. I really need the money, though, so I can give you a great deal...
Are you also a Nigerian prince? Cause that sounds totally legit! 😂
@@lizajane2971😂😂😂
The lady with the Ashleigh drama...I loved her voice, she'd be super cool at telling stories 😂
In relation to the story at 9:00
A tour guide for Alcatraz worked for the government. Her mother also worked for the government. They weren't allowed to share details about their jobs. She told the story of how once she asked her mother what she did for the government and her mother simply responded "I keep the lights on".
She's an incredible tour guide. If you end up visiting Alcatraz at all and run into Miss Constance, she's a riot of a human being.
haha, charlotte talking about just slicking mangos as i'm slicing my mangos 🥭✨💛
My grandma (83) has been married to my psychological abusive grandpa. Last few months (after she broke her leg and got a cancer diagnoses) she finally opened up about living with him and why she stayed. It’s so sad and we told her so many times to run and get help but she never did. An abusive partner can be so fucking hard to leave
Blaming people who stay is not the thing to do. Helping people out of bad situations is the better way. So many people are in danger and are often hurt or killed when trying to leave. People need a support system.
Take her on a Grandma visit to yr home/apt., & nvr hv her move back.
Make her guest room too small for grandpa to move in w/her.
Run interference.
Lotsa tea & cookies whn he visits. If she is still recovering, she cn stay in her room til he leaves.
Make it a friendly (cheerful) maze for him to maneuver til he's too tired to handle u all. Thn he will back off.
Bullies need fuel to start a fire. Ths takes the wind outta his sales. Get psychologists to help grandma..& ALL of u.
Learn skills in social & verbal self-defense. Professionals only as yr teachers.
Also, "Games People Play". A book from the 70s my professor dad always hd around. Oldie but goodie.
Helps u quick-type wht kind of social manipulation or emotional orchestration game they r playing w/u.
It is not the gospel of my life. I only type ppl whn I run into narcissists, personality disordered egotists, & patent bullies.
Quick, easy, good predictor of behavior, & no muss, fuss, or bloodshed.
But, everyone needs help in the art of social self defense. It's a skill not always taught in the home.
Something to think abt.
Because they give you trinkets of "good times" which confuse you into hopefully believing that he has changed
I wish wish wish "FBI Agent"'s girl had been a fan of Criminal Minds. XD There is literally a scene at the beginning of an episode where the 3 female team members are out drinking and one comes back with drinks and a guy who is a "REAL fbi agent!" and they proceed to grill him and then humiliate him by asking to see his badge which he says is "classified", and then whipping out their own badges. It at the very least would've given her a moment of "hm... are we sure this isn't a criminal minds moment?" when he said he was FBI. Alas.
I remember that scene so funny
Oh yeah, I remember that to.
Hahaha I was thinking about that scene too!
“Quan-tee-co?”
“Can we see your badge? …Does it look like this?”
I just had that scene pop up in my head after hearing that story. 😂
I paused this video to look it up. There's a clip of that scene on UA-cam… from 12 years ago. Also it's from S02E21 apparently. Which aired in 2007 I think.
Hello fellow old-timers!
I think I have a thing for the flower-hat girl, her energy was immaculate
Absolutely love your content, you really brighten my day much love from the UK ❤❤❤❤❤
My brother once rejected a girl and her reaction was to throw eggs at our house and leaving, uh, propaganda(?) around our neighborhood and their college. Lots of photocopies of a caricature of his face with mocking words underneath.
Mind you, they never even dated, this was all because he said no.
Our neighbor is a retired soldier, and helped us by scaring her away during one of her egging missions. Sometimes I wonder what happened to her after that.
The girlfriend in story two is unhinged. Most people who feel unjustly spurned might do something to humiliate the one who broke up with them, but she potentially ruined his life. He's a bit of an idiot to want to hook up though.
The first lady made me feel better about the toxic relationship I walked away from.😂 I felt really stupid for tolerating and being patient with him after I realised that I was just a placement holder and he never loved, let alone, liked me. He used therapy as a tool to manipulate me in believing his behavior was a result of his issues. I'm so glad we didn't get married and have kids together.
Birthday. Yes. My hubby and I are in Cancun right now because I was having a bad bout of depression and I hugged him and cried: I just wanna go to an island alone with you!!! Monday I turned 41…but Saturday he gave me flowers and a card that said “open NOW.” I did and it said, “happy birthday! We leave Tuesday for Cancun. I love you.” All money aside: that’s a loving husband.
I absolutely love dadchats and momchats!!!! The ranch devil videos are hilarious
I’m an avid reader and have been since I was little. When I was married to my first husband if he was watching something on television that I didn’t like I would still stay in the living room with him but I would be reading. He used to get mad and throw a fit because he thought I wasn’t paying enough attention to him. It was so ridiculous.
My ex was a football fanatic and watched it all the time, I hated football so I would read, in the same room he was in, I was called rude an he got really annoyed because I was reading and not talking to him, but if I tried to talk to him I got told to shut up he was watching football ! Entitled or what.
Sounds familiar to me also.
@@megfreeth4377 exactly. Mine was also during football or NASCAR. Things I absolutely had no interest in watching. We lived in a small town and I decided to get him off my back one year and watch March Madness with him. Our Newspaper was having a $500 prize for the person who guessed who was going to win and the final score. I guessed the exact score and teams and won and he was livid. Which I didn’t understand because we had a new baby at home so who cares where the money came from?
After spending almost 20years with a very similar narcissist, it like not being able to see the forest through the trees. Whether is gaslighting or just delulu, you question yourself and what you can do better, never them. It doesn’t help how charming and charismatic they can be adding to the gaslighting. Divorced 6 years and still working through the trauma while also being the adult parent and not trauma dumping on my kids. At the end of the day, he is still their dad and they will determine their relationship, not me.
Exactly. My ex would put me down nonstop and even say things just to control me(that I'm starting to realize isn't even true, but at the time I believed him because low self esteem). Why did I let him determine my self worth? I should be the one knowing my own worth!!! It's unfortunate that I had to experience many bullies and an abusive partner to finally realize I am worth so much more. After I kicked out all my abusers and bullies out of my life it marked my new journey towards self acceptance. I am done letting others tell me what I am worth! I am the one who knows my own value!!!! I am bettering my life for myself! I am doing all the scary things I used to be too scared to do. I have walked through hell and back and I survived it all! I turned 30 a month ago, and 12 years ago I tried to kill myself, and I was suicidal even up to age 27... I never thought I would live to 30 but here I am, improving every day! I am proud of myself for that at least! I am proud that I never gave up through literal hell and my demons chasing me everyday. I am resilient beyond even my own understanding.