Lies. I need space I need time for myself I need to work on myself I don’t have time to commit to a relationship rn Maybe in the future we can again Whole time they’re just saying they got someone else.
Those reasons are usually because you've been spending too much time together, just go no contact and they'll come back when they're ready. Women emotionally bond to men, and as long as she's not totally turned off, she'll come back after a few weeks.
Yeah, quite a record-breaker, your ex! :-) Here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: ua-cam.com/video/STLjybyiaBQ/v-deo.html You're welcome. Don't forget to check out my other videos and/or my 2.0 Ex Factor Guide, at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy so you'll know what to do next after the 30-day "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html Best of luck!
My situation is kinda hard. I broke up with my gf about a month ago. I begged and pleaded as hardly as i could, but she didn't even care. All of a sudden, i decided to start the no contact rule, and then i broke it one day. She told me that she doesn't even want to be my friend, and she never wants to chat to me again. Then, one week after, i saw her, but i pretended that she didn't exist. After that, she started to chat with me and apologized about how badly she had treated me. I chatted back, and we talked for around 3 days. Then i asked her if she wanted to meet me, and she agreed (she also stated that we were not gonna be together again). I wrote a letter stating why should we take time for us and why we should be together someday after all this crap. And i gave the latter when i saw her, and i also told her that she could only read the letter unless she thought we could be together again. I didn't beg and plead when we talked. She was interested in how I've been doing and she was also happy to see me after all these days. After that, i decided to restart the no contact period because I had already written all the things that i wanted to say in that letter. She keeps saying that she wants to be my friend after 2 years of being together. Finally, i wrote in the letter that the best way to deal with it is working on ourselves. I'm not gonna talk to her, I'll wait until she changes her mind. I really messed up, i did a lot bad things, and there's no way to sweep up all that mess. She seems like she got over me. It looks like that. I don't know what should i do because i want to be with her so badly. She also told me that she doesn't love me anymore because of things i did to her. I know that i messed up, if only i could change all those bad moments. She's too convinced that she made the right decision, probably it was, but i want to change so badly, and i wanna spend my lifetime with her as we wanted at first. The only action that i can do right now is give her her space, and change who i am, not for her, for me.
My ex texted me recently, but it was just a pointless message. The only thing that I could've said was, "Oh nice." I decided not to reply after her message. After that, she text me again, but as before, it was just another pointless message. Certainly, I think she's seeking my attention. She has shown desperate behavior after I ignored her. Should I keep ignoring her? As I said, she is texting me seeking my attention desperately, but I ignored her. Should I wait until she text me something meaningful or until she wants to meet me?
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Good to know. Did you broke up with the same person though? An on-and-off relationship often signifies underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!
She was the one being disrespectful and misbehaving so when I broke up with her the las 4 months she left for 3 months without texting or calling until one day she called me asking for a phone number of a friend I didn’t mind her she used that to got my attention again but I told her I don’t need anything to do with her again but she toke it as a joke and keep trying to make me say I want her again then could get back together but I don’t want a relationship with her I chose to let her out of my life forever.
Yep, that's your call. Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision.
Hi! Yeah, like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved.
Please some advice. My partner has left me after 6 months . I thought he was the one. He remained friends with his ex and most recently went on a walking trip for a week with other people but shared a room with her. He list his son in Dec 2023 and she supported him throughout . He came back from the holiday saying it was truly platonic . On the day he came back he said we weren’t right for each other and the timing wasn’t right, He’s disappeared from my life. I’m devastated . She had dumped in the past twice . I’m heartbroken I fell so hard for him 😢
Really sorry to hear that. I could be wrong but it looks like he maintained a pretty close relationship with this ex? Is this the same ex he shares a child with? I hate to say this but him leaving you out in the cold that easily after only 6 months could mean he's not over his ex at all; he's used you as a rebound in the process. In this case, the breakup looks like a blessing in disguise and this may help you process or deal with the breakup accordingly: ua-cam.com/video/7zp7SFbeCRU/v-deo.html but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com Take care!
Thanks so much for your reply. This isn’t the ex who is father to his late son. They were only together for 4 months broke up a year ago after she left him twice but have since been on two vacations together. I guess I was a rebound I just wish he would stop saying the timing was wrong. He told me that no one has ever in his life showed him so much love and attention as I did. I will heal and thanks again 🙏
Hey Brad!been in situationship with the girl for 7months now. We are both 27yrs old and want the same thing in life. We broke up with me 2 weeks ago because she couldnt fall in love but everything else was perfect! I went no contact and she just recently drunk calling me telling me that she misses me but she still didnt regret her decision. I told her no to contact me unless she tells me that she regret it. What do i do from here? I really want her back! But i want her to commit!
What kept you two from turning this situationship into a full blown relationship? Just because of how she feels? How were you treating her to make it easy for her to fall for you? In this situation, it's important to give attention and space equally. Were you too smothering? Have you created enough sexual chemistry to build some tension? Since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
As long as there's no basis of truth in it, there's nothing to worry about. Unless your relationship was that toxic and in which case, you ought to think twice if you really want that type of dynamic back into your life. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/obpVHGeNxJs/v-deo.html
My ex her mother split us up to make my girlfriend end the relationship but we still talk everyday but doesn't want to be in a relationship and we was ingaged before this happened any help would be a blessing
She broke up 2 months ago and we are in no contact since 47 days after a fight. She had me blocked initially but later unblocked me from everywhere. She even put a Whatsapp story for me (which i knew was for me). Later she kept blocking and unblocking me from the 26th day to 34th day of no contact. Since then she has not done anything. Im unblocked. I cannot see her Whatsapp about section which suggests that she deleted my number. Any suggestions if i should contact her or no ?
That must have been a huge fight. What do you two always bicker about? Fighting is often unavoidable, but when it becomes too much, it’s time to nip the problem in the bud if you still can. So it's either that or you go on a break and discuss the logistics as well as how it should go and how long it should be. What were you two fighting or arguing about? It's best to consider the relationship overall first, so watch this: ua-cam.com/video/XuJFf5Kch5o/v-deo.html Anyways it's best to give it time because all this arguing had taken a toll in your relationship. This may help: ua-cam.com/video/BBEhaY3gLIw/v-deo.html Perhaps you've both argued more than you had a good time with each other? It could also be you're too incompatible or stubborn to meet each other halfway. If the negatives outweigh the positives in the relationship, that's when an imbalance happens and the relationship will keel over wherein one or both people will likely abandon ship, as the case with your ex. It's time to reset things. Start with the 30-day "no contact" rule to get your ex into a psychological neutral. Here's how it can help you: y2u.be/zw0ChuXCEmw
@@BradBrowning she kept reaching out after the breakup and we had a chat where she told me she has added a random guy on snap because she was feeling lonely and it's fun talking to him . She also told me that she put a Snapchat story and forgot to remove that new guy and he saw how my ex looks. This raised my suspicion and I told her that she purposely put that story for the new guy to see her . She got angry, called me cheap for thinking such low about her. Called me trash, and blocked me
I don't see this as a cause for concern really, unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. So give it time. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ua-cam.com/video/5UT92IB5ugs/v-deo.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ua-cam.com/video/D1GpR5MApQk/v-deo.html Good luck!
My ex boyfriend broke up with me and he said he loves me and he doesn't hate me but he had already made up his mind that he don't want to marry or any relationship. I am now day 3 of No contact with him. Is there any chance and hopes of getting him back😢
Your ex is most likely lying about the reason of the breakup so try not to fall for that. Discussed that here: ua-cam.com/video/ZuHWCWeG1xs/v-deo.html However, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my new version of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and the golden rules here: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html
Be positive and you'll attract the same kind of energy into your life. However, beware of toxic positivity and make sure you're seeing the situation with realistic eyes. The no contact period should help you get your bearings together and think clearly which is why it's the most important step to all this. Take care!
I met my ex on online dating. I thought he came off but realized he was still on it after him breaking up with me for trivial reasons. My mistake was keep calling him back after he broke up with me. I was lonely and wine had alot to calling him back because I felt lonely. I wasted years on finding the right man.
Sorry to hear that. Have you two ever met though? If it was a long distance relationship, you may want to check out the tips here: ua-cam.com/video/GQY4N04uvtA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/v-deo.html
My ex came back to me after no contact,after some months she broke up with me again claiming a guy asked her out during our 30 days no contact, that I was late, do you think i should go back to no contact, because she still get jealous. When i talk with other girls, but claims she is no longer in a relationship with me
Since it's been a while since the breakup, if you want to see how it goes and give it another shot, then it's best to consider the facts I've mentioned here first as this lets you determine whether there's still a real shot or not: ua-cam.com/video/YVViZmY2x0I/v-deo.html and/or take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Hi brad!! My 4 year bf and I have broken up 6 months ago, he actually contacted me after 4 months of no contact and asked for a second chance, then we agreed to be friends initially and after a month he said he no longer wants a relationship saying that I am not the one for him but I know for sure that the reason is that he dis not get the treatment he was waiting for and he hopes that we stay friends of course I went no contact again but he shares and posts about being happy and that there are beautiful girls everywhere which hurts alot. What should I do
Exactly! It’s not our job anymore, I usually avoid sharing about being happy and stuff just not to hurt him but he what I get in return .. nothing but cruelty thru his social media. I am happy that it’s over for u do not contact him ever again.
Hi there! Sorry to hear that. Continue with no contact. See when a breakup happens, most of the time this means he has lost attraction for you, hence, it's a bad move to be friends with him. You need to cut off contact for at least 30 days first. Silence is key and here's why: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html If you continue being friends right away, the boundaries won't be clear and you're technically both free to date other people. Wouldn't it be pure torture if your ex dates a rebound in front of you because you're only "friends" now, don't you think? So it’s not a good idea, especially if you want this ex back. Watch this video so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, at ua-cam.com/video/pv_cjzhVKAY/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/yd6pvNVeHjI/v-deo.html but read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with free bonus materials for texting. Good luck!
I dated a much younger girl she wanted kids I had older ones and from the beginning we talked how the relationship wasn't going to last because we were in different phases of our life. She ended abruptly . I was hurt she said she was too. She meet someone her age but text me every few days. One day she said she was leaving work because she was feeling very emotional entry come over my house to talk. Tells me she misses me and she doesn't know if she made the right decision but did tell me she had sex with him a few times and it killed me. I told her I was going to block her so I could get over her then she said she's fine with me blocking her. Why did she tell me she slept with this guy other than really trying to hurt her??
She could be doing it out of spite. But it sounds like a mismatch from the very beginning since your goals don't align. Even if you two get back together, you both will be unhappy. So I suggest to consider moving on from this. This may help you process or deal with the breakup accordingly: ua-cam.com/video/7zp7SFbeCRU/v-deo.html but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com or get my Ex Factor Guide if you want to try to get your ex back, at www.breakupbrad.com Take care!
My ex gf dump me and im in no contact now, my ex gf are in a rebound relationship and i feel its goin into end and my ex gf start posting sad quotes and sad songs. Is she miss me now?
Sure,I could say they're was another guy, I could blame the constant arguments. Lack of communication, or lack of effort. I could tell myself any excuse that I wanted to understand why she didn't want to be with me But the truth is, she simply just didn't want to be with me
The arguments would've played a big role. What did you two bicker about anyways? Fighting is often unavoidable, but when it becomes too much, it’s time to nip the problem in the bud if you still can. So it's either that or you go on a break and discuss the logistics as well as how it should go and how long it should be. It's best to consider the relationship overall first, so watch this: ua-cam.com/video/XuJFf5Kch5o/v-deo.html Anyways it's best to give it time because all this arguing had taken a toll in your relationship. This may help: ua-cam.com/video/BBEhaY3gLIw/v-deo.html Perhaps you've both argued more than you had a good time with each other? It could also be you're too incompatible or stubborn to meet each other halfway. If the negatives outweigh the positives in the relationship, that's when an imbalance happens and the relationship will keel over wherein one or both people will likely abandon ship, as the case with your ex. It's time to reset things. Start with the 30-day "no contact" rule to get your ex into a psychological neutral. Here's how it can help you: y2u.be/zw0ChuXCEmw
Hi Brad and everyone. When I broke up with ex I begged her alot and sent her nice necklace to say sorry. This is something I should not have done but my anxious emotions made do it at the time. She never mentioned anything about the necklace when she unblocked me. Is there a chance she kept the necklace or threw it away in a river or trush bin?
What were you apologizing for? As to your question, I'm afraid the only person who can answer that is your ex. However, it's really a bad time to be talking to your ex right now. Learn to pull back and give her the space she needs to process her feelings first.
Pull back no contact until your 60 then maybe you'll have a .0000000000001% chance of smelling her fart as she walks by. No contact has been proven to fail in the modern dating scene. It's so easy to find someone in those 2 or 3 months and move on.
Stop being emotionally vulnerable when he has just dumped you. Give him space instead and work on yourself and try to be happy without your ex in it. Also be mindful of the tips here: ua-cam.com/video/_yzUkP3DhfU/v-deo.html
You are aware you risked sounding sexist though? Men do it too. But no, when a breakup happens, it's NOT always because there's someone else although that is certainly a huge possibility!
Hi brad is it ok not to see my girlfriend every day or is it ok to see my girlfriend once a week and do you think my girlfriend will miss me if I don’t see her
You two need to talk this out because each relationship is different. What's important is you both agree and are happy with what the other proposes, coz that's where your compatibility is seen and from there you can see if it's worth continuing or not.
brad i'm curious, i follow ur for like at least 6 years now Did you had a client telling you that her Ex seem to be a girl that in fact " dosnt like guy or " i mean the only girl i'm meeting are the type " late virgin " ( 20/22y is late now ...and they aint fat they are pretty and girly ) are you familiare with this type of personnality ? I'm very curious about them, they feel like they can't give love, they don't need love ... They are so focus on their career ... Help please :D seem a good challenge for you
Hey, thanks! Unless you're implying she's a lesbian, when it comes to attraction and relationships, there's really no need to complicate things, man. It's either there or not there. Someone who's into you will show it one way or another. Try to see if you see signs she's into you. Otherwise you can assume she's not and she's just letting you down easy.
no, they are not lesbians, just girls who are not interested in love and listening to them (on the other hand, they spend their lives watching romances on Netflix) they agree to have children, agree to flirt and laugh but really don't seem interested in the sexual act, I have the impression that it's even repulsive for them, I don't think she masturbates Maybe I'm too bad of a seducer because if I understand correctly, according to you, either I'm a good horse for them and she makes it easier for me or I'm not and all the locks will be closed ?@@BradBrowning
Hey Brad, what about if your ex gf unblocked you exactly 1 month after no contact didn’t reach out and waited a few days and re blocked you this was on instagram by the way.
@@OLDPEDOJOE it’s been 2 weeks since she did that, I’m still blocked and she hasn’t reached out. It’s been 1.5 months no contact now….. I will stay silent if she wants to talk to me she knows what to do.
Lies.
I need space
I need time for myself
I need to work on myself
I don’t have time to commit to a relationship rn
Maybe in the future we can again
Whole time they’re just saying they got someone else.
Those reasons are usually because you've been spending too much time together, just go no contact and they'll come back when they're ready. Women emotionally bond to men, and as long as she's not totally turned off, she'll come back after a few weeks.
True. People often make excuses to avoid hurting someone's feelings. It's why it's very important to back away and give space once a breakup happens.
@@OLDPEDOJOE few months normally
@@ismarcus00500 If it's a few months, she's dating other dudes and none of them worked out; never be a back up plan, don't take her back after that.
true she is a bad person she is fake its all lies she dont love me i hate her
My ex had to find 3 dudes to hang out with at the same time to make up for what i offered in the relationship thats a confidence boost for me
Yeah, quite a record-breaker, your ex! :-) Here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: ua-cam.com/video/STLjybyiaBQ/v-deo.html You're welcome. Don't forget to check out my other videos and/or my 2.0 Ex Factor Guide, at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy so you'll know what to do next after the 30-day "no contact" period, to contacting your ex down to re-attracting, and what to do in between those phases and how to transition to actually getting your ex back. Here's a quick overview: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html Best of luck!
Brad, you give me hope.
My situation is kinda hard. I broke up with my gf about a month ago. I begged and pleaded as hardly as i could, but she didn't even care. All of a sudden, i decided to start the no contact rule, and then i broke it one day. She told me that she doesn't even want to be my friend, and she never wants to chat to me again. Then, one week after, i saw her, but i pretended that she didn't exist. After that, she started to chat with me and apologized about how badly she had treated me. I chatted back, and we talked for around 3 days. Then i asked her if she wanted to meet me, and she agreed (she also stated that we were not gonna be together again). I wrote a letter stating why should we take time for us and why we should be together someday after all this crap. And i gave the latter when i saw her, and i also told her that she could only read the letter unless she thought we could be together again. I didn't beg and plead when we talked. She was interested in how I've been doing and she was also happy to see me after all these days.
After that, i decided to restart the no contact period because I had already written all the things that i wanted to say in that letter. She keeps saying that she wants to be my friend after 2 years of being together.
Finally, i wrote in the letter that the best way to deal with it is working on ourselves. I'm not gonna talk to her, I'll wait until she changes her mind. I really messed up, i did a lot bad things, and there's no way to sweep up all that mess. She seems like she got over me. It looks like that. I don't know what should i do because i want to be with her so badly. She also told me that she doesn't love me anymore because of things i did to her. I know that i messed up, if only i could change all those bad moments. She's too convinced that she made the right decision, probably it was, but i want to change so badly, and i wanna spend my lifetime with her as we wanted at first. The only action that i can do right now is give her her space, and change who i am, not for her, for me.
My ex texted me recently, but it was just a pointless message. The only thing that I could've said was, "Oh nice." I decided not to reply after her message. After that, she text me again, but as before, it was just another pointless message. Certainly, I think she's seeking my attention. She has shown desperate behavior after I ignored her. Should I keep ignoring her? As I said, she is texting me seeking my attention desperately, but I ignored her. Should I wait until she text me something meaningful or until she wants to meet me?
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You help me during my first break up. It was something I needed. No contact work
Good to know. Did you broke up with the same person though? An on-and-off relationship often signifies underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!
She was the one being disrespectful and misbehaving so when I broke up with her the las 4 months she left for 3 months without texting or calling until one day she called me asking for a phone number of a friend I didn’t mind her she used that to got my attention again but I told her I don’t need anything to do with her again but she toke it as a joke and keep trying to make me say I want her again then could get back together but I don’t want a relationship with her I chose to let her out of my life forever.
Yep, that's your call. Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision.
The HELL NOOOO ! I wouldnt take her back after knowing she bannged soneone else . Im not no second choice sloppy seconds 😡😡
Hi! Yeah, like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved.
Please some advice. My partner has left me after 6 months . I thought he was the one. He remained friends with his ex and most recently went on a walking trip for a week with other people but shared a room with her. He list his son in Dec 2023 and she supported him throughout . He came back from the holiday saying it was truly platonic . On the day he came back he said we weren’t right for each other and the timing wasn’t right,
He’s disappeared from my life. I’m devastated . She had dumped in the past twice . I’m heartbroken I fell so hard for him 😢
Really sorry to hear that. I could be wrong but it looks like he maintained a pretty close relationship with this ex? Is this the same ex he shares a child with? I hate to say this but him leaving you out in the cold that easily after only 6 months could mean he's not over his ex at all; he's used you as a rebound in the process. In this case, the breakup looks like a blessing in disguise and this may help you process or deal with the breakup accordingly: ua-cam.com/video/7zp7SFbeCRU/v-deo.html but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com Take care!
Thanks so much for your reply. This isn’t the ex who is father to his late son. They were only together for 4 months broke up a year ago after she left him twice but have since been on two vacations together. I guess I was a rebound I just wish he would stop saying the timing was wrong. He told me that no one has ever in his life showed him so much love and attention as I did.
I will heal and thanks again 🙏
Yes, she held on to my collection of silver coins and onto the legally obtain firearms.
Hey Brad!been in situationship with the girl for 7months now. We are both 27yrs old and want the same thing in life. We broke up with me 2 weeks ago because she couldnt fall in love but everything else was perfect! I went no contact and she just recently drunk calling me telling me that she misses me but she still didnt regret her decision. I told her no to contact me unless she tells me that she regret it. What do i do from here? I really want her back! But i want her to commit!
What kept you two from turning this situationship into a full blown relationship? Just because of how she feels? How were you treating her to make it easy for her to fall for you? In this situation, it's important to give attention and space equally. Were you too smothering? Have you created enough sexual chemistry to build some tension? Since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
My ex has feelings for me but someone has said worst words against me behind my back .this has caused negatively in her mind and bad image for me.
As long as there's no basis of truth in it, there's nothing to worry about. Unless your relationship was that toxic and in which case, you ought to think twice if you really want that type of dynamic back into your life. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/obpVHGeNxJs/v-deo.html
Thank you Brad for educating us on breakups and how to deal with it. Appreciate you 🖤
Glad you found it helpful! Thanks for the support… please like and subscribe if you haven’t already: ua-cam.com/users/bradbrowning”
My ex her mother split us up to make my girlfriend end the relationship but we still talk everyday but doesn't want to be in a relationship and we was ingaged before this happened any help would be a blessing
She broke up 2 months ago and we are in no contact since 47 days after a fight. She had me blocked initially but later unblocked me from everywhere. She even put a Whatsapp story for me (which i knew was for me). Later she kept blocking and unblocking me from the 26th day to 34th day of no contact. Since then she has not done anything. Im unblocked. I cannot see her Whatsapp about section which suggests that she deleted my number. Any suggestions if i should contact her or no ?
That must have been a huge fight. What do you two always bicker about? Fighting is often unavoidable, but when it becomes too much, it’s time to nip the problem in the bud if you still can. So it's either that or you go on a break and discuss the logistics as well as how it should go and how long it should be. What were you two fighting or arguing about? It's best to consider the relationship overall first, so watch this: ua-cam.com/video/XuJFf5Kch5o/v-deo.html Anyways it's best to give it time because all this arguing had taken a toll in your relationship. This may help: ua-cam.com/video/BBEhaY3gLIw/v-deo.html Perhaps you've both argued more than you had a good time with each other? It could also be you're too incompatible or stubborn to meet each other halfway. If the negatives outweigh the positives in the relationship, that's when an imbalance happens and the relationship will keel over wherein one or both people will likely abandon ship, as the case with your ex. It's time to reset things. Start with the 30-day "no contact" rule to get your ex into a psychological neutral. Here's how it can help you: y2u.be/zw0ChuXCEmw
@@BradBrowning she kept reaching out after the breakup and we had a chat where she told me she has added a random guy on snap because she was feeling lonely and it's fun talking to him . She also told me that she put a Snapchat story and forgot to remove that new guy and he saw how my ex looks. This raised my suspicion and I told her that she purposely put that story for the new guy to see her . She got angry, called me cheap for thinking such low about her. Called me trash, and blocked me
I sent this to my ex. She blocked me.
I don't see this as a cause for concern really, unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. So give it time. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ua-cam.com/video/5UT92IB5ugs/v-deo.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ua-cam.com/video/D1GpR5MApQk/v-deo.html Good luck!
My ex boyfriend broke up with me and he said he loves me and he doesn't hate me but he had already made up his mind that he don't want to marry or any relationship. I am now day 3 of No contact with him. Is there any chance and hopes of getting him back😢
Your ex is most likely lying about the reason of the breakup so try not to fall for that. Discussed that here: ua-cam.com/video/ZuHWCWeG1xs/v-deo.html However, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my new version of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and the golden rules here: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html
So I saw something that said if you are being positive and happier that he will come back b'cuz your spirits and hearts are connected. Thoughts?
Be positive and you'll attract the same kind of energy into your life. However, beware of toxic positivity and make sure you're seeing the situation with realistic eyes. The no contact period should help you get your bearings together and think clearly which is why it's the most important step to all this. Take care!
22 years 15 married
..before things started crumbling, I supposed?
I met my ex on online dating. I thought he came off but realized he was still on it after him breaking up with me for trivial reasons. My mistake was keep calling him back after he broke up with me. I was lonely and wine had alot to calling him back because I felt lonely. I wasted years on finding the right man.
Sorry to hear that. Have you two ever met though? If it was a long distance relationship, you may want to check out the tips here: ua-cam.com/video/GQY4N04uvtA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/v-deo.html
My ex came back to me after no contact,after some months she broke up with me again claiming a guy asked her out during our 30 days no contact, that I was late, do you think i should go back to no contact, because she still get jealous. When i talk with other girls, but claims she is no longer in a relationship with me
Open your options and start considering them seriously until your ex proves to you she has changed. Also be ready to fully move on from her.
i don't know its been two years . i doubt she misses me at all
Since it's been a while since the breakup, if you want to see how it goes and give it another shot, then it's best to consider the facts I've mentioned here first as this lets you determine whether there's still a real shot or not: ua-cam.com/video/YVViZmY2x0I/v-deo.html and/or take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Hi brad!! My 4 year bf and I have broken up 6 months ago, he actually contacted me after 4 months of no contact and asked for a second chance, then we agreed to be friends initially and after a month he said he no longer wants a relationship saying that I am not the one for him but I know for sure that the reason is that he dis not get the treatment he was waiting for and he hopes that we stay friends of course I went no contact again but he shares and posts about being happy and that there are beautiful girls everywhere which hurts alot. What should I do
Exactly! It’s not our job anymore, I usually avoid sharing about being happy and stuff just not to hurt him but he what I get in return .. nothing but cruelty thru his social media. I am happy that it’s over for u do not contact him ever again.
If they have a new girlfriend right after she was already there.
Hi there! Sorry to hear that. Continue with no contact. See when a breakup happens, most of the time this means he has lost attraction for you, hence, it's a bad move to be friends with him. You need to cut off contact for at least 30 days first. Silence is key and here's why: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html If you continue being friends right away, the boundaries won't be clear and you're technically both free to date other people. Wouldn't it be pure torture if your ex dates a rebound in front of you because you're only "friends" now, don't you think? So it’s not a good idea, especially if you want this ex back. Watch this video so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, at ua-cam.com/video/pv_cjzhVKAY/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/yd6pvNVeHjI/v-deo.html but read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with free bonus materials for texting. Good luck!
I dated a much younger girl she wanted kids I had older ones and from the beginning we talked how the relationship wasn't going to last because we were in different phases of our life. She ended abruptly . I was hurt she said she was too. She meet someone her age but text me every few days. One day she said she was leaving work because she was feeling very emotional entry come over my house to talk. Tells me she misses me and she doesn't know if she made the right decision but did tell me she had sex with him a few times and it killed me. I told her I was going to block her so I could get over her then she said she's fine with me blocking her. Why did she tell me she slept with this guy other than really trying to hurt her??
She could be doing it out of spite. But it sounds like a mismatch from the very beginning since your goals don't align. Even if you two get back together, you both will be unhappy. So I suggest to consider moving on from this. This may help you process or deal with the breakup accordingly: ua-cam.com/video/7zp7SFbeCRU/v-deo.html but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com or get my Ex Factor Guide if you want to try to get your ex back, at www.breakupbrad.com Take care!
My ex gf dump me and im in no contact now, my ex gf are in a rebound relationship and i feel its goin into end and my ex gf start posting sad quotes and sad songs.
Is she miss me now?
How long has it been since the breakup and was there any contact between you two? Here are the signs she does: ua-cam.com/video/KDJz0_vBk48/v-deo.html
@@BradBrowning its been 3 months and im in no contact for 2 months now
Sure,I could say they're was another guy, I could blame the constant arguments. Lack of communication, or lack of effort. I could tell myself any excuse that I wanted to understand why she didn't want to be with me
But the truth is, she simply just didn't want to be with me
The arguments would've played a big role. What did you two bicker about anyways? Fighting is often unavoidable, but when it becomes too much, it’s time to nip the problem in the bud if you still can. So it's either that or you go on a break and discuss the logistics as well as how it should go and how long it should be. It's best to consider the relationship overall first, so watch this: ua-cam.com/video/XuJFf5Kch5o/v-deo.html Anyways it's best to give it time because all this arguing had taken a toll in your relationship. This may help: ua-cam.com/video/BBEhaY3gLIw/v-deo.html Perhaps you've both argued more than you had a good time with each other? It could also be you're too incompatible or stubborn to meet each other halfway. If the negatives outweigh the positives in the relationship, that's when an imbalance happens and the relationship will keel over wherein one or both people will likely abandon ship, as the case with your ex. It's time to reset things. Start with the 30-day "no contact" rule to get your ex into a psychological neutral. Here's how it can help you: y2u.be/zw0ChuXCEmw
My ex has a set of my car/house keys
You can politely ask for those back or have a friend pick it up/ drop them for you...
Hi Brad and everyone. When I broke up with ex I begged her alot and sent her nice necklace to say sorry. This is something I should not have done but my anxious emotions made do it at the time. She never mentioned anything about the necklace when she unblocked me. Is there a chance she kept the necklace or threw it away in a river or trush bin?
What were you apologizing for? As to your question, I'm afraid the only person who can answer that is your ex. However, it's really a bad time to be talking to your ex right now. Learn to pull back and give her the space she needs to process her feelings first.
Pull back no contact until your 60 then maybe you'll have a .0000000000001% chance of smelling her fart as she walks by.
No contact has been proven to fail in the modern dating scene. It's so easy to find someone in those 2 or 3 months and move on.
This doesn't apply to narcissists, correct?
Here's a vid for that to help you ponder: ua-cam.com/video/0jBl_lD35JQ/v-deo.html
He Does Not Know What He Wants
That's a red flag.
Hi Brad. Me and my ex broke up 3 months ago. I texted him that I miss him he said he is over it. I didn't beg him. What should I do to get him back?!
Stop being emotionally vulnerable when he has just dumped you. Give him space instead and work on yourself and try to be happy without your ex in it. Also be mindful of the tips here: ua-cam.com/video/_yzUkP3DhfU/v-deo.html
If a woman wants to break up, there is only one reason: another man.
You are aware you risked sounding sexist though? Men do it too. But no, when a breakup happens, it's NOT always because there's someone else although that is certainly a huge possibility!
Hi brad is it ok not to see my girlfriend every day or is it ok to see my girlfriend once a week and do you think my girlfriend will miss me if I don’t see her
You two need to talk this out because each relationship is different. What's important is you both agree and are happy with what the other proposes, coz that's where your compatibility is seen and from there you can see if it's worth continuing or not.
Hi brad
Could you please talk about divorce ?
I would like to know if it’s the same
I did. Here: ua-cam.com/video/7GL9-rFuy5k/v-deo.html
brad i'm curious, i follow ur for like at least 6 years now
Did you had a client telling you that her Ex seem to be a girl that in fact " dosnt like guy or " i mean the only girl i'm meeting are the type " late virgin " ( 20/22y is late now ...and they aint fat they are pretty and girly )
are you familiare with this type of personnality ? I'm very curious about them, they feel like they can't give love, they don't need love ... They are so focus on their career ...
Help please :D seem a good challenge for you
Hey, thanks! Unless you're implying she's a lesbian, when it comes to attraction and relationships, there's really no need to complicate things, man. It's either there or not there. Someone who's into you will show it one way or another. Try to see if you see signs she's into you. Otherwise you can assume she's not and she's just letting you down easy.
no, they are not lesbians, just girls who are not interested in love and listening to them (on the other hand, they spend their lives watching romances on Netflix)
they agree to have children, agree to flirt and laugh but really don't seem interested in the sexual act, I have the impression that it's even repulsive for them, I don't think she masturbates
Maybe I'm too bad of a seducer because if I understand correctly, according to you, either I'm a good horse for them and she makes it easier for me or I'm not and all the locks will be closed ?@@BradBrowning
Hey Brad, what about if your ex gf unblocked you exactly 1 month after no contact didn’t reach out and waited a few days and re blocked you this was on instagram by the way.
you missed the windows to act
She's dipping her toe in the water to see if you're still interested, stay strong and don't talk unless they contact you.
@@6700adam so she wanted me to reach out to her?
@@6700adamI don't think so
@@OLDPEDOJOE it’s been 2 weeks since she did that, I’m still blocked and she hasn’t reached out. It’s been 1.5 months no contact now….. I will stay silent if she wants to talk to me she knows what to do.