I took Brad's advice and went 1 month of no contact with my narc ex. After the period I gained much clarity of thought & decided that it was not worth it. Leaving him was the best decision ever
Good. I'm glad you got the clarity. Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision.
So..Brads advice has worked for me like 3 times lbs...that and prayers..i went over 31 days of NC..i actually sent an apology email and I begin to pray to move on...as I prayed..one day he showed up at my door to talk things out..we continued talking and worked thru hard conversation..and we bn tgthr
Thank you so much for that valuable information. Now I am going to build myself stronger and stop crying over someone who decided to walk away from me. He is the one who is going to regret . No contact is the way forward ✌🏻
That's right. The time apart is for you, mostly but it's also the first route towards getting your ex back if you ever want to give it a try again in the future. It's always best to take your time in deciding first so there'll be no regrets in the end. As I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision.
Yes, like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision.
After the break up I begged her and showed her my pathetic myself for 10 days, crying, telling her she was the love of my life... She told me she think benevolent of me but she was tired of the situation. Then I wrote her a farewell letter and since then I broke the contacts and never heard from her back.
Yeah, the letter was totally unnecessary, I think? Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ua-cam.com/video/OzVymYnQFTk/v-deo.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ua-cam.com/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/v-deo.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/6K3xufEwEFg/v-deo.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
Hi Brad, me and my girlfriend broke up a month and 6 days ago. Both of us continued talking, although we shouldn't have (learned that today, just found your channel, already bettering my mood), and things were actually okay. But yesterday we had a conversation in which she said she was a bit pulled away and that she had moved on with herself, i.e. in terms of not wanting a relationship at the moment, and that she thinks she doesn't feel the same like she used to. She also said that she couldn't be talking to me all day like we used to since she works during the day. Will the NC rule get me somewhere? I also took your quiz and got 72/100. Thanks in advance for your help :')
The no contact rule is your best bet. This vid should hopefully help you see things clearly about the importance of the "no contact" rule as well as the common challenges and how to overcome them: ua-cam.com/video/WVB0_l60SpM/v-deo.html Feel free to check out my other vids as well, especially this which should give you an idea on how to go about this: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html But for a comprehensive, step-by-step procedure though, consider getting my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
Trust me when I say he can feel this anxious energy you're putting out even if he's not around you. You've got to get yourself into "divine feminine energy". This takes time and you have to do the shadow work but believe me when I tell you I was very similar to you after my breakup and the amount of growth is so worth it. Idk if you're looking to get back together but once you put yourself into this divine energy he will be drawn back
Great video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
Tried everything including begging? Because that would absolutely dwindle your chances. Anyway getting an ex back is a gradual process, so there's no one-action solution for this. Okay? The "no contact" phase is a good start, so do that first if you haven’t yet, for 30 days. If you have, then I'm glad you've completed it. There are two more phases to go with a few other steps in between (in the right order). What I'm trying to say here is it's a 3-phase process, and it's a bit complicated to explain it all on here, but I made an overview in the hopes of making people understand, so watch it here: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html or read my guide for the entire process. Good luck!
Hey, how's it going? Did you mean you've tried everything including begging? Because that would've hurt your chances further and you'd be forced to really give her space after that. Anyway since it's been many months since the breakup, it's best to consider the facts I've mentioned here first as this lets you determine whether there's still a real shot or not: ua-cam.com/video/YVViZmY2x0I/v-deo.html and/or take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Indeed. The first path towards moving on and getting an ex back follows the same route. Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision.
Hi Brad, Thank you for your wonderful videos always. It helps me a lot and I have few questions it was not mentioned in your videos. Does your "No Contact" method also work for very social, popular and busy Ex (boyfriend in my case)? He said before that he never felt loneliness in his life. He is planning a month trip in 10 days and my no contact time will end soon. I am trying to use your No Contact method and it is now 30 days after we broke up and 20 days after our last email. Should I contact him now, or should I wait another 10 days (10 days after our last contact) just before his departure? Thank you in advance.
It's best to have a busy life yourself as well instead of relying too much on the outcome of this relationship. Take time to heal. If he's busy traveling, it may not be the best time to reach out just yet.
You ought to watch/review the tips here first, especially the first part, although I recommend you to watch the entire video to get the full gist: ua-cam.com/video/BLTA4yjTc2I/v-deo.html and a quick overview here: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html Once you've completed the "no contact" rule for at least 30 days straight, then it's time to RE-ESTABLISH CONTACT with your ex. Start out with the tips from here: ua-cam.com/video/XonMtLFo000/v-deo.html Also check out my other videos on my channel for more tips on what to do next and/or get my Ex Factor Guide for a comprehensive step-by-step process on how to go about this. Good luck!
Sounds like a whole lot of wishful thinking. I'm pretty sure my ex doesn't care a sh*t about me and is having fun with the next person. But at least no contact benefits me. Makes it easier to forget that POS.
And that's the beauty of No contact. You have time to think about letting go or if you want them back. For those who is feeling lonely or left out, better days are coming. Do the things you love and love yourself more!! No contact will not work if you just straight up ignore your ex for 30 says or more and did nothing better for yourself. Use no contact in a way to help yourself get back to your feet and be better in life.
The no contact rule is only supposed to last for 30 days. Watch this first to help manage your expectations: ua-cam.com/video/OzVymYnQFTk/v-deo.html I recommend you to employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: ua-cam.com/video/XonMtLFo000/v-deo.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
Brad it's been 30 days and I've heard nothing. Before that we would talk often. He's been in a rebound for over a year. He's told me the grass isnt greener but what should I do now
You ought to watch/review the tips here first, especially the first part, although I recommend you to watch the entire video to get the full gist: ua-cam.com/video/BLTA4yjTc2I/v-deo.html and a quick overview here: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html Once you've completed the "no contact" rule for at least 30 days straight, then it's time to RE-ESTABLISH CONTACT with your ex. Start out with the tips from here: ua-cam.com/video/XonMtLFo000/v-deo.html Also check out my other videos on my channel for more tips on what to do next and/or get my Ex Factor Guide for a comprehensive step-by-step process on how to go about this. Good luck!
Thank you for the advice Brad. Just curious, my ex and I had an initial break up, but after discussing it we decided to try a break instead for a while which unfortunately lead to her deciding to end things off. She still had feelings for me tho and I have been doing no contact after this which has been about a week, can things still work out if I do no contact?
You're welcome! It all starts with giving each other space because doing the opposite, which is keeping in touch will only make things worse between you and your ex. Yes, she may still have feelings for you but apparently not enough to wanna stay in a relationship with you. My program is all about regaining that lost attraction so give it a try at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy and refer to my other vids for more tips. Best of luck!
Hey, great content, helps me a lot, appreciate that 🤝🏼 one question though, if I still have my stuff at her place should I pick it after the NC, or before ?
If you can hold off, pick it up after the no contact rule. It's important you take time to recover and get to a much better place emotionally and mentally first, before interacting again with an ex. Here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: ua-cam.com/video/STLjybyiaBQ/v-deo.html
You're more than welcome! Glad you found it helpful! Thanks for the support… please like and subscribe if you haven’t already: ua-cam.com/users/bradbrowning”
just have one question. When me and my ex broke up I did not beg or plead. I allowed it to happen and said ok. We broke up on good terms and he wished me the best. I plan on doing the no contact rule until I get my disposable camera photos back. Which would be a month no contact. Would that be a good text to break no contact. Asking him or sending him those pics of us on vacation? We are long distance as well.
Yes, once you've completed the 30-day no contact rule, it's time to test the waters with your ex. Apply the tips from my other texting videos or better yet, get my Ex Factor Guide to get a step-by-step process of what you ought to do at www.breakupbrad.com/fbuy Good luck!
Hi Brad My ex can't stop talking to me and yet he ended the relationship. He wants me to continue as his friend. He always tells me his future plans and any progress in his life. Me I want to do no contact but he keeps breaking it yet I want him to commit to me if he's really a serious man. Help me out I am confused.
Unless your situation falls under one or more of the scenarios here: ua-cam.com/video/ek_4wpkV66c/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/W7iC-gHmZ2A/v-deo.html it's best you ignore contact from your ex. If your ex continues to reach out to you during the no contact stage, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. The only exception is if your ex asks for you back and is sincere about it. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. Discussed that in full detail here: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html So if your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses their power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: ua-cam.com/video/bgOG9s1fac8/v-deo.html
You ought to take it easy and test the waters first. Since it's been many years since the breakup, it's best to consider the facts I've mentioned here first as this lets you determine whether there's still a real shot or not: ua-cam.com/video/YVViZmY2x0I/v-deo.html and/or take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Hi Brad, Been 30 days today no contact. I’ve felt little breadcrumbs I feel like I’m 1 step ahead! Would you say this is the time where she will start feeling the breakup most?
My ex started communicating with me after over 2 months of no contact. Had sex. Then said he has tu learn to love himself first. He also has sex with our neighbour. We know eachother for 30 years. He knows her for 4 years. We all live in the same apt building. I can't afford 1on1 after my mother died. And I just got out of hospital after almost dieing myself. I really love the man very much. Don't know how to make him see how great things can be between us. He's killing me every time he meets with her. Any advice please?🙏🙏🙏
Your primary goal should be yourself. Make sure you don't end up being used. Make him work for it. Watch these first: ua-cam.com/video/qoEZiPn9EH0/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/pXKPxAXaunc/v-deo.html
How to get him back if it was "right person wrong timing " thing . We both were amazing for each other . We are soulmates but fate didn't favor us , we both still love each other and no one did nothing wrong to anyone
Hey Brad. I recently got broken up with after a 3 year relationship. We are long distance and she broke up with me a month ago. She started dating the guy she told me not to worry about. Then we got into a big fight and I'm blocked on everything. She leaves ro Guam in October and i don't think their relationship will last. Do you think there is hope for us?
Oftentimes, the distance becomes too much for most. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ua-cam.com/video/GQY4N04uvtA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/v-deo.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hi Brad, What if you have been together for 6 yrs and have to move your stuff out of the house and was told to let him know when you will be grabbing stuff and to take your time. All stemmed from a fight with house stress and diff opinions on how house issues should be handled. He was hysterical crying the whole time during breakup talk saying he knows it won’t work and he thinks we are no longer compatible. I need to move a whole house out a little at a time.
Sorry to hear that. After the honeymoon phase is over, life becomes more realistic and fights or disagreements are inevitable. But what do you two always bicker about? Fighting is often unavoidable, but when it becomes too much, it’s time to nip the problem in the bud if you still can. So it's either that or you go on a break and discuss the logistics as well as how it should go and how long it should be. It's best to consider the relationship overall first, so watch this: ua-cam.com/video/XuJFf5Kch5o/v-deo.html Anyways it's best to give it time because all this arguing had taken a toll in your relationship. This may help: ua-cam.com/video/BBEhaY3gLIw/v-deo.html Perhaps you've both argued more than you had a good time with each other? It could also be you're too incompatible or stubborn to meet each other halfway. If the negatives outweigh the positives in the relationship, that's when an imbalance happens and the relationship will keel over wherein one or both people will likely abandon ship, as the case with your ex. It's time to reset things. Start with the 30-day "no contact" rule to get your ex into a psychological neutral. Here's how it can help you: y2u.be/zw0ChuXCEmw
Hey coach i love your content i feel hopeless when during no contact with my ex all hope faith is gone i think she is gone for good all my social media is been block phone contact like whats app all have been block 🚫 all hope is gone i am sure she is gone
I don't see this as a cause for concern really, unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. So give it time. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ua-cam.com/video/5UT92IB5ugs/v-deo.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ua-cam.com/video/D1GpR5MApQk/v-deo.html Good luck!
I left him on read 30mn and then he blocked me after we had an argument. It’s 3 months now. Should I reach out to him first? I don’t think he will reach out to me first. He didn’t block me on everything (only in WhatsApp). Could you advise? Based on situation We both were wrong
When it comes to dealing with an ex, it's really not a good idea to incorporate drama into that. Try to keep things lighthearted and fun. But what did you two argued about? Forcing things to work when there's some incompatibilities in your vision of a future together or your goals and/or misalignment in plans in life will not work. Learn when to let go and when to fight for the relationship. To help you decide, sign up for my coaching program and/or take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz
Hi Brad, My guy is in some tensed situation, and he said I can not be in relation with you . When I asked him repeatedly he said I don’t want to leave you. But he stopped texting or calling me on his own like before. Once in a while he just checks on me. If I ask he will say I am busy. For a particular reason I have to be in contact with him to get my stuff from him, which I can get it in instalments. Can you tell if I can start doing no contact and contact only about getting stuff whenever I need to get them..? Will this help me to heal or to get him back..?
No contact should help you heal and that's pre-requisite to get him back. The rest depends on how well you play your cards. It's important to give him space especially since he's saying conflicting things. That kind of behaviour coming from your ex is somewhat expected after a fresh/recent breakup. A wide array of different emotions coming from an ex is somewhat expected when a breakup is still fresh and this includes the likelihood of your ex giving you mixed or weird signals. Watch this: y2u.be/siApAVtx8zE This is why I tell people to cut off contact for at least a month first and NOT deal with this ex. You both need to clear your minds first, all right? A breakup hurts both people in it regardless of who has done the breaking up. This is something I've discussed here, so watch it to learn a few tips to help you on how to go about it: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html
Although I'd like to offer a tip or two, there's simply too many elements to your situation that makes this too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for my Mend the Marriage coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation: www.marriageguy.com/coaching
Sorry to hear that, man. How are you now? This may help you process or deal with the breakup efficiently: ua-cam.com/video/7zp7SFbeCRU/v-deo.html but if you find yourself needing more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com or get my Ex Factor Guide if you want to try to get your ex back in the best possible way, at www.breakupbrad.com Take care!
Sorry, man, but chances are your girl has been at least emotionally cheating on you. Discussed that in depth here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA There's no easy way to say this but the answer is is to move on, especially if your ex doesn't seem to be regretting their actions and asking to get back together. Most of the time, a lot of people would move on, but a few would still fight for the relationship, so this all depends which side you're on and what your views are. But take into consideration about what I’ve mentioned here, too: ua-cam.com/video/m27TLeyUmwg/v-deo.html There is no right or wrong answer here because it is your relationship and it's personal to you. Make sense? Anyway men and women cheat for different reasons, but if you think your ex is worth it and if there's been a genuine connection between you two before the cheating happened, then try to see the roles that you BOTH played that led to all this mess and see once and for all if it can be resolved or not, okay? Whatever the case, it's important you forgive yourself because no one's perfect, and forgive your ex too. Really take your time before deciding though and be sure not to make any hasty decisions from an emotional place but never force things with her if you can see she no longer wants to try. Take care!
Hi Brad Great video alas always! I've been following your channel for a long time I've been in no contact for 2 years from a 2 and half year relationship, My sibling was friends with my ex and told my ex things I was upto and who I'm dating etc behind my back like a snake Ex has never contacted me and I've never contacted my ex for 2 years I seen ex on other side of the road and ex never seen me and still I never approached my ex No letters, no texts, no calls, no stalking, no stalking on social media, no asking family or friends No contact means no contact, its hard but not impossible to do I concentrate on my personal growth Thanks
It’s been 60 days today since we split. We’ve kept in contact almost always since. The 1st time I went silent for a week she tracked me down. We’ve seen eachother a few times. Should I still buy the ex factor and start no contact right now? Or is my hope lost?
Cut off contact for 30 days straight first. Get my Ex Factor Guide to know what to do AFTER this period at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy but as to what your chances are for getting your ex back, take my free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Here's the thing Mr. Brad no contact really worked for me when I did it I think he wants me back and at the same time it made me heal.. however whenever he messages me I do reply but I try to end the conversation right away and never answer his calls maybe because I thought I'm over it but its almost a month now and he just stops messaging i bet he got tired and I dont want to lose him i guess i dont know what should I do? Should I message him first this time because I feel like I acted distant towards him before
You're on the right path, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Be sure to check out my other videos for more tips on how to go about this, especially this: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Here's a short infograph to guide you in each process: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
My ex said he still loves me and would like to start talking again as friends after a week. Should I follow what he said or stick with 30-day no contact? We broke up due to my insecurities that I impulsively voiced break-up while after a few days I regretted but this has hurt him so much and can’t be rewinded. This was the third time I did that so he fed up but generally we enjoyed our time so much in 7-month relationship. I’ll try to seek counselling to deal with my own insecurities too as this has been a pattern of my couple of past relationships with the same consequences.
I suggest to stick to the 30-day rule for your own good unless you both agreed it's just a one-week break. But looking at your situation, I do think you need the space and time apart to get yourself right first. But don't be ashamed of where you messed up in this relationship. It's good to be self aware and to try to actively work on those issues you have with a licensed therapist. Take care!
I am asking myself the following. If the ex has started a relationship with someone else, will he have time to think about us. His emotion will be in the new relationship, probably at the beginning, and it will not be lonely
That's right but if your relationship was good overall then just remember that the new girl is not you. But if your relationship ended because it got toxic, then it's 50-50 chance with probability leaning towards it's over for good between you two especially if the new relationship is better. Regardless, here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: ua-cam.com/video/STLjybyiaBQ/v-deo.html Good luck!
@@BradBrowning Well, I define the relationship as good, we haven't fought. We even worked together on a project. Suddenly she reduced her contact with me. I felt there was probably one boy, then fate helped me make sure there was another.
Hi Brad, I have a question: I was dating someone i fell in love with, after only 2 weeks i already screwed up by giving her too much of me. When we ended it i immediately followed these rules. The night we broke up i was desperate and i called her way too many times. But on the day after when we were having this closing conversation i appeared happy, independent and i looked my best. I noticed her body language that she was interested during the conversation (playing with her hair) and now she sended me 2 snapchats (i didn’t open them yet and i will continue to not open them for as long as possible). Now i’m in the no contact phase but i’m affraid that 30 days is too much since we never got a real relationship and just dated for 2 weeks.. But she is the first girl i wanted to go all in for since the last 3 years. I really really like her so now it’s my mission to get her to want me again. My question is for how long do i need to quit the contact based on my situation? I think 30 days is too much and she will move on by that time. I know she has multiple options
Depending on what really cut the relationship short, it may be time to consider moving on from this. But don't rush. Always take the time to give each other space first, all right? Do a minimum of 3 weeks of "no contact" and see if you still want your ex and if your ex is receptive to contact AFTER that period. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html
Bread I admire you a lot with your no contact even though it’s so heard I live in Israel This is the second time me and my ex brick up and this time his mom got involved She told my ex if you go to her again I am not talking to you or she is never invited to my place Can I still save the relationship? And keep doing no contact ? Please respond Crying depressed sad angry ?????🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
You only have to do the no contact rule for 30 days. Here's a quick overview on what to do AFTER the "no contact" rule: ua-cam.com/video/xgR03RcU8mw/v-deo.html and what needs to happen in between so be sure to watch the vid to the end. For specific advice that’s tailored to your situation, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Talk soon!
😢 she was my everything. But my mistake took her away from me .. Still hope she will come Back one day . Cause I will never love any woman cause I am afraid of love
What happened and how was it your mistake? I suggest you heed my advice from this vid, first and foremost: ua-cam.com/video/jikW4YYC9yo/v-deo.html and from my other vid here: ua-cam.com/video/PN-07kAtIjw/v-deo.html but also make sure you aren't being defensive or deflecting the blame because that's as annoying as ever. It may help to apply the tips here first: ua-cam.com/video/qnE192fUKxI/v-deo.html Be patient and let things play out first. Let time do its job since it's your biggest ally at this point. Good luck!
After no contact it was going good.. but i asked her about the relationship and she got angry on me.. after that I left 12 days of no contact. Now i just texted her "happy journey" and left. No reply.. What next ?
Uh oh...that was totally the wrong approach and I've talked about that here: ua-cam.com/video/juhamVEwsxU/v-deo.html You ought to review this first: ua-cam.com/video/L0hxYTCJ2hU/v-deo.html and in fact, apply the tips here too instead of taking the shortcut: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html In the future, if you're still not sure about what you're doing, I really suggest you sign up for my coaching program so I can assess your situation properly and guide you accordingly at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
We broke up because he started using meth and moved in with a meth addict. She does nothing for him like I did. But with his abuse I went no contact since October 2023 so don’t know if it will work out for me since he’s numbing feelings with drugs
Hi, I may be an ex-back guru and I'm all for couples reuniting and giving their love a second chance... but not when it's no longer healthy for one or both people in it. It's sad to see but the relationship has turned toxic. I suggest you take steps to move on from this. I understand what you're going through. You know, moving on is a tricky process and the emotions come in waves. This video is for you: ua-cam.com/video/01wvLSaS9_I/v-deo.html And if you're still having a hard time, this should help you understand why in order to understand what you're going through: ua-cam.com/video/2CakOOSwIiY/v-deo.html or get my latest e-book Beat the Breakup guide as that will help you and your mindset to evolve from the breakup and therefore become the best version of yourself. Check it out at www.beatmybreakup.com
I've been in no contact mode for about 3 weeks now. Recently my ex reached out by saying "hope your doing well. Then a few days later sent me a photo of our grandson but I didn't respond! Should I continue with the no contact? It's Monday 8/7/2023 @. 11:55a
Assuming you've done the first phase properly, which is the 30-day "no contact" rule, then you should be in a position to be ready to test the waters with your ex. Here's how you can tell you're doing it correctly: y2u.be/f7zuXk-sVsI You may want to tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms Now once you're positive you've done all that's mentioned, you can proceed to contact your ex. Start with the tips here: ua-cam.com/video/KMMv9ljdrkk/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/v-deo.html but make sure to check out my other vids for more texting tips you can send your ex or get my guide for the complete step-by-step details on how to go about it. Best of luck!
Let her feel what it's like for you to be absent in her life first while you go do your own thing. Watch this, too: ua-cam.com/video/dqnqGWOk9NA/v-deo.html
Hey Brad, what happens if my ex started blocking me on every social media? What happens then? It doesn’t feel like I initiated no contact, so does it mean I still have a chance?
I don't see this as a cause for concern really, unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. So give it time. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ua-cam.com/video/5UT92IB5ugs/v-deo.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ua-cam.com/video/D1GpR5MApQk/v-deo.html Good luck!
my ex just broke up with me and said she could only be friends with me a few days ago. we broke up for a few days two months ago and got back together until now. she did not show me the right enerrgy the whole time and couldn’t love me the same. do i have hope?
Take my free quiz to know what your chances are, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz As to being friends, that's a bad idea. Don't do it, man. She's lost attraction for you and it's a terrible idea to be friends with her. You ought to cut off contact for at least 30 days first. Silence is key and here's why: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html If you continue being friends right away, the boundaries won't be clear and you're technically both free to date other people. Wouldn't it be pure torture if your ex dates a rebound in front of you because you're only "friends" now, don't you think? So it’s not a good idea, especially if you want this ex back. Watch these two videos so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, respectively at ua-cam.com/video/pv_cjzhVKAY/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/sS4V4IOcOgs/v-deo.html but read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with bonus materials for texting. Good luck!
Hi Brad, I split with my partner after 9 years together. Bad argument caused this. We have a 6 year old daughter together. My ex changed her phone number so i cant contact her, do you think the no contact method forced on me will have any effect on her feelings while we are apart. I have blocked her so she cant call me at the moment. Please give me advice if possible. Thank you, Andy
Time and space apart when things are no longer working out always helps. But you two have to address the issue sooner or later. What do you two always bicker about? Fighting is often unavoidable, but when it becomes too much, it’s time to nip the problem in the bud if you still can. So it's either that or you go on a break and discuss the logistics as well as how it should go and how long it should be. What were you two fighting or arguing about? It's best to consider the relationship overall first, so watch this: ua-cam.com/video/XuJFf5Kch5o/v-deo.html Anyways it's best to give it time because all this arguing had taken a toll in your relationship. This may help: ua-cam.com/video/BBEhaY3gLIw/v-deo.html Perhaps you've both argued more than you had a good time with each other? It could also be you're too incompatible or stubborn to meet each other halfway. If the negatives outweigh the positives in the relationship, that's when an imbalance happens and the relationship will keel over wherein one or both people will likely abandon ship, as the case with your ex. It's time to reset things. Start with the 30-day "no contact" rule to get your ex into a psychological neutral. Here's how it can help you: y2u.be/zw0ChuXCEmw
Also , I watched every single video of yours , but how to get an ex back who still loves you so much , and no one did wrong to anyone and breakup was on good terms
Sorry but the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my new version of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and the golden rules here: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html
Hi Brad, my ex just broke up with me yesterday because there are some things that I have done that makes him seem that he doesn’t get a lot of respect. I wanted to fix my mistakes and get back with him. What should I do?
Why you wanted to mske mistakes when he's around u believe me when i say it it happened to me too and I'm living it now she disrespected me she done mistakes with me even thought i want her i wouldn't even contact her not even if u want to cut my neck so trust me snd approach him first cz he won't
What did you do? I suggest you heed my advice from this vid, first and foremost: ua-cam.com/video/jikW4YYC9yo/v-deo.html and from my other vid here: ua-cam.com/video/PN-07kAtIjw/v-deo.html but also make sure you aren't being defensive or deflecting the blame because that's as annoying as ever. It may help to apply the tips here first: ua-cam.com/video/qnE192fUKxI/v-deo.html Be patient and let things play out first. Let time do its job since it's your biggest ally at this point. Good luck!
The 30-day "no contact" rule can work for you in the following ways: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html Your ex is diverting his/her attention to someone else, which is the easiest thing to do and is really just his/her way of coping. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: ua-cam.com/video/7KE6nb4-ndA/v-deo.html So that's what you ought to be doing too. Here, watch this: ua-cam.com/video/gUBNd6pDINM/v-deo.html so try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control whether the rebound ends up working out or not. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/TBtb34gy6zw/v-deo.html Now lastly, keep in mind that your ex is suffering too, even though they try to cover it up. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA
If you're asking about your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique and things aren't often black and white, I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz or sign up for my coaching program so I could take a closer look at what your situation and guide you accordingly at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
Hi Brad, on the 19 Day of No contact. I accidentally facetimed my ex while trying to delete his number from the history so I don't feel the urge to contact. It was a small ring and i know the call went through but i disconnected in just seconds. Ughh i hate myself right now. Would it make this No contact useless?
Pretty much, yes. Try to have the self discipline to restrain yourself from contacting your ex during this time. Use this time on more productive things instead like your hobbies, travel, etc.
If you wanted to move on, you wouldn't be here looking for advice. Be honest to yourself first. You are looking for someone else to decide for yourself? That's the reason probably why he/ she left you in the first place.
I'm not a fan of being passive. Why wait for your ex to run back to you? :-) I never said the "no contact" rule is supposed to go for weeks or months on end. I only said it's for 30 days in about 80% of my videos, didn't I? :-) Anyway getting an ex back, just like anything that's worth having, takes work, so make sure he's/she's worth it. Anyway the "no contact" rule is just the first phase. Here is the step-by-step process: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html There are two more phases to getting an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and to initiate communicate, this is the vid: y2u.be/XonMtLFo000
Hi Brad..my girlfriend broke me up and blocked me and she didn't want even to talk.After four days she started to talk to me back and thinking of meeting with me.The problem now is that meanwhile the period of no contacting me after break up I had sex with a girl one night because I was so sad and I was trying to forget her. Now my girlfriend asks me if I had sex with another girl during the period we didn't spoke.She telling me that I can't be with you if you had sex with another girl and I am trying to avoid the answer because I don't like lies and I am trying to say to her that we were not in relationship that period and I don't like these kind of questions because she broke me up.Plz any advice?
If you're no longer in contact with the other girl and it was purely a one night stand, then you can just do with a little white lie. Otherwise if you're still in contact, it's gonna be complicated because the truth does have a way of rearing its head at the most unexpected moment.
Your ex has the best answer for that q. But if you ask me, this isn't really a concerning issue, at least initially, unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/s52sRweJlm8 So give it time. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ua-cam.com/video/5UT92IB5ugs/v-deo.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ua-cam.com/video/D1GpR5MApQk/v-deo.html Good luck!
Visual Reconstruction of the moments of your ex with a new person and post it on social media. 😅😅 Definitely it will make the ex mad. It's all about playing mind games or hitting the mind with your actions. The attire which you wore in front of ur ex The places you went with your ex The song you sang for your ex The movie you watched with your ex The romantic things you said to your ex The romantic actions you did with your ex The romantic dance on the particular song you did with your ex. Now repeat all those visually with a new person, post it on social media and then see the reactions of your ex 😅😅😅😅 Sometimes it's good to be naughty 😅😅😅 Nice video come soon next time 👍
Brad she deserves to feel the pain after leaving me to die,I don't care it's over two months if and when they reach out I got some things to say because I'm going to ensure they work
Sounds like a plan as long as she's onboard as well! However, I suggest to take it easy/keep your conversations light when an ex first contacts... unless you just wanna rant and don't care about the outcome between you two. Good luck!
That's the thing. Chances are you both feel the same about the breakup, which is why it's very important to not mess things up by making unnecessary mistakes which will only affect your chances. The 30-day no contact rule is key and I can't stress this out enough. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/npuQb1APSaU/v-deo.html
As tough as it may be, it's always best to come to terms with the breakup and the fact that you're both single now. You doing the "no contact" rule neither prevents nor encourages your ex to go with someone new. In other words there's really nothing you can do to keep your ex from getting with someone new if they want to. This is something I've mentioned here: ua-cam.com/video/WVB0_l60SpM/v-deo.html So it boils down to two options, really. 1. Employ no contact and keep your dignity while respecting your ex's decision to breakup (why push yourself to someone who doesn't want you?) or Option 2: Do not do no contact and be pathetic. I always advise people to choose option 1 but really, which option you choose is ultimately up to you.
@@BradBrowning than you Brad. I am practicing No contact for almost 1 week. I decided that because nothing else helped to get my ex back. I still don’t know what will happen. If she will come back or not, but at least I’am starting to feel better now and more powerful
I suggest you do limited contact instead and keep any limited conversation you have strictly work-related. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/v-deo.html
I say generally it's still fair game unless you see most if not all the signs that your ex is over you. Here's the vid: ua-cam.com/video/ZyJRphwDca4/v-deo.html and especially if those signs prevail over a prolonged period of time. If you're asking about your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!
Only if you play your cards right from here on out and apply the no contact rule, assuming your ex is still receptive to contact after all that begging -- some are, others aren't so it really depends. But I suggest you redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ua-cam.com/video/OzVymYnQFTk/v-deo.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ua-cam.com/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/v-deo.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/6K3xufEwEFg/v-deo.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
The guy I was talking to was hot and cold. On my last text he didn’t reply until 2 days later and then I was so tired I haven’t responded since the last text I sent that he didn’t respond to until later. It’s Saturday. He said hello Wednesday and my last text was this past Monday. I hate that he never responds. I was always quick to respond to him because I always want to talk to him. This time I didn’t reply He is probably #3 angry because I went silent on him
Hey Brad! My Ex and I dated for a year, she even moved across the country for me and we moved in together. At the 10 month mark, I felt a bit smothered so I asked for an open relationship to explore other people. I moved across the country temporarily for a couple months and we still talked, while keeping open. When I came back, we reconnected romantically every day for a week. I felt she was pulling away though. We then fought at the end of the week, I got a bit needy and canceled dates out of jealousy, and she broke up with me over text and blocked me on everything. I went to go see her the next day butshe went on a tinder date with another guy and said that I'm not as patient as I claimed to be, but she may reach out again in couple months. It has been a month of NC, and she didn't reach out for my bday a few days ago. Should I reach out with an easygoing email? Or wait for her to reach out first?
Never suggest an open relationship if you're the jealous type...or at least calm down your feelings first. She's pulling away because you mentioned an open relationship and may be trying to not get too attached. You have to be smart at this as well. Is an open relationship still what you want? Since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
i instigated the breakup because i thought we had too many differences and i couldnt see a future… she was devastated… i started doing no contact yesterday and im still wishy washy and i feel horrible and unbearably guilty ill take any advice 😭😭😭😭😭😭
As most exes do. Here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: ua-cam.com/video/STLjybyiaBQ/v-deo.html
The "no contact" rule comes naturally to the dumpers. Learn the 3 basic phases I teach in my Ex Factor Guide because this lets you know the basics of my 3R system here first, so you'll have an idea on how to go about it on your end: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw
He reckon s he doesnt feeel that way for me anymore He said he hasnt me That there wont be an us again I reached out for the first 4 weeks I have now gone no contact I dont think i have any chance
Uh oh redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ua-cam.com/video/OzVymYnQFTk/v-deo.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ua-cam.com/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/v-deo.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/6K3xufEwEFg/v-deo.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule - let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
Is your ex's sister making an effort to be friends with you? Then yes, however try to balance it with your other friends as well because it will be challenging for you to actually heal, which should be your main priority right now.
Do limited contact instead and keep any limited conversation you have strictly work-related. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/v-deo.html
Sorry to hear that. I understand what you're going through. You know moving on is a tricky process and the emotions come in waves. This video is for you: ua-cam.com/video/01wvLSaS9_I/v-deo.html And if you're still having a hard time, this should help you understand why in order to understand what you're going through: ua-cam.com/video/2CakOOSwIiY/v-deo.html or get my latest e-book Beat the Breakup guide as that will help you and your mindset to evolve from the breakup and therefore become the best version of yourself. Check it out at www.beatmybreakup.com
Isn`t that just narcissistic behaviour? This behaviour is simply emotional blackkmailing and for sure it won`t benefit your relationship. You got to TALK to each other instead. If this is not possible, maybe you have to consider that your Ex wasn`t the right one.
Looking out for yourself, healing and taking the necessary time to accept the breakup and process what happened isn't emotional blackmail. The relationship ended, you part ways, therefore you need this time for yourself. There's really no sense in trying to fight for a relationship when one partner has already given up by breaking up with you. Learn to draw the line on when to keep trying and when to fight for things, yeah?
@@BradBrowning I could be wrong, but the topic was "how does your ex feel during no contact". Isn't the whole point of knowing that, to get him or her back? In that case, it would definitely be emotional blackmail. Otherwise, if you are definitely breaking up, why would you even care about his feelings? To me no contact is more about leaving the other person because it's more toxic and unhealthy not to do so. I speak from experience, that relationship was so painful, I didn't want to know anything about her feelings, not even for one second.
Why done my ex always come back to me and every times I laugh and my ex playing game want me but got new bf the next day so I keep laughing it funny because I know she will come back in a month or 3 or5 just to say me and my ex boyfriend broken up this is like her second boyfriend in just a week I got every picture to prove what she said to me and she told me not to text her and not to call her not a damm thing so should I just laugh
Yeah, continue to enjoy life but until the root cause of the issue of why you two break up is resolved, I'm afraid you'll have that dynamic constantly and it's only a matter of time before that becomes toxic and permanent.
This is what I'm here for! :-) I recommend you to watch my other videos to maximise all that you need to know. Anyway as what so many people here are already doing across my videos, you may also leave a comment detailing your situation (keep it concise, please) and I'll get back to you the soonest I can. So state your situation in a separate comment because I can't backtrack even if I wanted to, got to move on to hundreds of new comments added daily. However, if you need my full attention where I focus in on and prioritize your situation or need a response as soon as possible, feel free to sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
😂😂 After supporting my ex and her disrespectful daughter throughout the lockdown paying her mortgage and bills. She said it was over 2 months after the lockdown was finished. I went into no contact for 6 months. You know what no contact did for me??? She just found another sucker 😂😂 so no it doesn't work 😂
As tough as it may be, it's always best to come to terms with the breakup and the fact that you're both single now. You doing the "no contact" rule neither prevents nor encourages your ex to go with someone new. In other words there's really nothing you can do to keep your ex from getting with someone new if they want to. This is something I've mentioned here: ua-cam.com/video/WVB0_l60SpM/v-deo.html So it boils down to two options, really. 1. Employ no contact and keep your dignity while respecting your ex's decision to breakup (why push yourself to someone who doesn't want you?) or Option 2: Do not do no contact and be pathetic. I always advise people to choose option 1 but really, which option you choose is ultimately up to you.
Hey brad please reply I just want to know how to get him back when nothing went wrong, no one did wrong doings to anyone and everything was fine but the timing was not correct , we believe it was right person wrong timing, we still find each other as our soulmates who met at the wrong time and we still love each other but he broke up saying the timing is not right , how to get him back when we broke up on good terms but not being in contact
I never heard of no contact before until February. For me, no contact means just moving on with your life. Thank you for your service Brad, you have really helped me. You have a good way of explaining things in a way I can understand them.
no contact doesn't work with my current ex. hes such an odd man. i've never met a man like him before. even naturally men need space but when i was living with my ex he needed me more like a drug. he was like a female who wanted attention 24/7 which i loved & even now he dumped me for the 5th time (my fault each time) he's thinking with his heart and not head, whereas a man would naturally think with his head. my ex says that to heal he needs to talk to me daily, and he's telling me not to exist his life or do no contact cus then he'll drift away.
Wait. You ought to view the situation clearly. How was it your fault each and every time? With on-and-off relationships, oftentimes this is a sign of underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. It may be time to put things into perspective while it's still early because in 14 years spent as a relationship online coach alone, I find that a breakup is often NOT just one person's fault, so look at the roles that you've BOTH played that led to the breakup and if the issues have a chance to get resolved, and how to go about it. In most cases, the problems that led to the breakup can be resolved, but in some cases, it can't. So take time to evaluate, okay? However, I have to warn you not to ask the reasons from your ex. This is what I've discussed here along with other stuff that might help you, so this is a must-watch: ua-cam.com/video/zqAEi9PbEAA/v-deo.html But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot. Good luck!
Agreed. Everyone deals with loss differently. People go out, drink, bad habits while others confront, improve habits, and grow. Regardless of whatever type of woman she is, it's never easy....@@BradBrowning
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no contact should be for YOU to move on and help with YOUR healing! Not used as a manipulation tactic to get someone back when there’s a reason that you aren’t with them! Let them go and do this for you!!!
The first path towards moving on and getting an ex back follows the same route. It's always best to take your time in deciding first so there'll be no regrets in the end. As I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision.
I took Brad's advice and went 1 month of no contact with my narc ex. After the period I gained much clarity of thought & decided that it was not worth it. Leaving him was the best decision ever
Good. I'm glad you got the clarity. Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision.
why did you do no contact you left him?
Great video. My favorite part is the explanation on the suffering.
For those devastated, in grieve and in pain, don't lose hope! always believe in your self and hope you feel better soon.💙💙
True.
So..Brads advice has worked for me like 3 times lbs...that and prayers..i went over 31 days of NC..i actually sent an apology email and I begin to pray to move on...as I prayed..one day he showed up at my door to talk things out..we continued talking and worked thru hard conversation..and we bn tgthr
That's good. Happy for you!
Happy for you!
Thank you so much for that valuable information. Now I am going to build myself stronger and stop crying over someone who decided to walk away from me. He is the one who is going to regret . No contact is the way forward ✌🏻
Yes, it is.
Correct, no contact allows time for me, getting myself together, happier now, some people dont change, move on
That's right. The time apart is for you, mostly but it's also the first route towards getting your ex back if you ever want to give it a try again in the future. It's always best to take your time in deciding first so there'll be no regrets in the end. As I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision.
It's gotten where I don't care anymore. It's been almost 6 months and frankly I rarely even think about her. She wanted to leave now let her stay gone
Yes, like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision.
I really want my broken engagement to turn into marriage. Please pray for me if God listens to any of you 😭
If God wanted this person in your life then they would've never left
@@takingitslowly It happened because of my mistakes, but I loved him I still do . I tried to explain but he didn't forgive
I will pray for you, you made a mistake that's all ❤
Which God?
@@RichardChrystie Thank you so much just by saying that you made me felt good 🙏
After the break up I begged her and showed her my pathetic myself for 10 days, crying, telling her she was the love of my life... She told me she think benevolent of me but she was tired of the situation. Then I wrote her a farewell letter and since then I broke the contacts and never heard from her back.
Yeah, the letter was totally unnecessary, I think? Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ua-cam.com/video/OzVymYnQFTk/v-deo.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ua-cam.com/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/v-deo.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/6K3xufEwEFg/v-deo.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
Any update??
Hi Brad, me and my girlfriend broke up a month and 6 days ago. Both of us continued talking, although we shouldn't have (learned that today, just found your channel, already bettering my mood), and things were actually okay. But yesterday we had a conversation in which she said she was a bit pulled away and that she had moved on with herself, i.e. in terms of not wanting a relationship at the moment, and that she thinks she doesn't feel the same like she used to. She also said that she couldn't be talking to me all day like we used to since she works during the day. Will the NC rule get me somewhere? I also took your quiz and got 72/100. Thanks in advance for your help :')
The no contact rule is your best bet. This vid should hopefully help you see things clearly about the importance of the "no contact" rule as well as the common challenges and how to overcome them: ua-cam.com/video/WVB0_l60SpM/v-deo.html Feel free to check out my other vids as well, especially this which should give you an idea on how to go about this: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html But for a comprehensive, step-by-step procedure though, consider getting my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
Trust me when I say he can feel this anxious energy you're putting out even if he's not around you. You've got to get yourself into "divine feminine energy". This takes time and you have to do the shadow work but believe me when I tell you I was very similar to you after my breakup and the amount of growth is so worth it.
Idk if you're looking to get back together but once you put yourself into this divine energy he will be drawn back
Yes, it takes time. It takes conscious effort to do that and it all starts with the "no contact" rule.
Great video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
Tried everything including begging? Because that would absolutely dwindle your chances. Anyway getting an ex back is a gradual process, so there's no one-action solution for this. Okay? The "no contact" phase is a good start, so do that first if you haven’t yet, for 30 days. If you have, then I'm glad you've completed it. There are two more phases to go with a few other steps in between (in the right order). What I'm trying to say here is it's a 3-phase process, and it's a bit complicated to explain it all on here, but I made an overview in the hopes of making people understand, so watch it here: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html or read my guide for the entire process. Good luck!
Hey, how's it going? Did you mean you've tried everything including begging? Because that would've hurt your chances further and you'd be forced to really give her space after that. Anyway since it's been many months since the breakup, it's best to consider the facts I've mentioned here first as this lets you determine whether there's still a real shot or not: ua-cam.com/video/YVViZmY2x0I/v-deo.html and/or take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Never break no contact. Don't listen to clowns
Yes, unless it's an exception to the rule, which is only a rare instance. Discussed that here: ua-cam.com/video/ek_4wpkV66c/v-deo.html
I don’t want her back. No contact is working for me
Indeed. The first path towards moving on and getting an ex back follows the same route.
Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision.
I removed myself from my ex by going no contact for 28 years, I guess I over did it, NOT... 😂
lol the path towards moving on and trying to get an ex back follows the same path.
😂😂😂
Hi Brad,
Thank you for your wonderful videos always.
It helps me a lot and I have few questions it was not mentioned in your videos.
Does your "No Contact" method also work for very social, popular and busy Ex (boyfriend in my case)?
He said before that he never felt loneliness in his life.
He is planning a month trip in 10 days and my no contact time will end soon.
I am trying to use your No Contact method and it is now 30 days after we broke up and 20 days after our last email.
Should I contact him now, or should I wait another 10 days (10 days after our last contact) just before his departure?
Thank you in advance.
It's best to have a busy life yourself as well instead of relying too much on the outcome of this relationship. Take time to heal. If he's busy traveling, it may not be the best time to reach out just yet.
Getting close to 90 days and still no contact
thats tough. i remember one of my ex dumped me like 3 times and the longest he took to come back to me was 6 months. after that we never spoke again
You ought to watch/review the tips here first, especially the first part, although I recommend you to watch the entire video to get the full gist: ua-cam.com/video/BLTA4yjTc2I/v-deo.html and a quick overview here: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html Once you've completed the "no contact" rule for at least 30 days straight, then it's time to RE-ESTABLISH CONTACT with your ex. Start out with the tips from here: ua-cam.com/video/XonMtLFo000/v-deo.html Also check out my other videos on my channel for more tips on what to do next and/or get my Ex Factor Guide for a comprehensive step-by-step process on how to go about this. Good luck!
Sounds like a whole lot of wishful thinking. I'm pretty sure my ex doesn't care a sh*t about me and is having fun with the next person. But at least no contact benefits me. Makes it easier to forget that POS.
Yes, that's one of the benefits of the no contact rule. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html
And that's the beauty of No contact. You have time to think about letting go or if you want them back. For those who is feeling lonely or left out, better days are coming. Do the things you love and love yourself more!! No contact will not work if you just straight up ignore your ex for 30 says or more and did nothing better for yourself. Use no contact in a way to help yourself get back to your feet and be better in life.
That's right. This is something I discussed and more on this vid: ua-cam.com/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/v-deo.html
Been in no contact for 13 months don't think he's feeling this way
He's been in another relationship for 13 months..
The no contact rule is only supposed to last for 30 days. Watch this first to help manage your expectations: ua-cam.com/video/OzVymYnQFTk/v-deo.html I recommend you to employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw
So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: ua-cam.com/video/XonMtLFo000/v-deo.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
Am breaking up with my partner tonight over a letter, I hope to be strong for the consequences of my decision....😢😢
If there's no way for you to do it in person, then yes, a letter is second option.
Brad it's been 30 days and I've heard nothing. Before that we would talk often. He's been in a rebound for over a year. He's told me the grass isnt greener but what should I do now
You ought to watch/review the tips here first, especially the first part, although I recommend you to watch the entire video to get the full gist: ua-cam.com/video/BLTA4yjTc2I/v-deo.html and a quick overview here: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html Once you've completed the "no contact" rule for at least 30 days straight, then it's time to RE-ESTABLISH CONTACT with your ex. Start out with the tips from here: ua-cam.com/video/XonMtLFo000/v-deo.html Also check out my other videos on my channel for more tips on what to do next and/or get my Ex Factor Guide for a comprehensive step-by-step process on how to go about this. Good luck!
Thank you for the advice Brad. Just curious, my ex and I had an initial break up, but after discussing it we decided to try a break instead for a while which unfortunately lead to her deciding to end things off. She still had feelings for me tho and I have been doing no contact after this which has been about a week, can things still work out if I do no contact?
You're welcome! It all starts with giving each other space because doing the opposite, which is keeping in touch will only make things worse between you and your ex. Yes, she may still have feelings for you but apparently not enough to wanna stay in a relationship with you. My program is all about regaining that lost attraction so give it a try at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy and refer to my other vids for more tips. Best of luck!
Hey, great content, helps me a lot, appreciate that 🤝🏼 one question though, if I still have my stuff at her place should I pick it after the NC, or before ?
If you can hold off, pick it up after the no contact rule. It's important you take time to recover and get to a much better place emotionally and mentally first, before interacting again with an ex. Here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: ua-cam.com/video/STLjybyiaBQ/v-deo.html
@@BradBrowning thanks a lot
Thank you so much sir... it will going to help me a lot 🙏🤞🤞
You're more than welcome! Glad you found it helpful! Thanks for the support… please like and subscribe if you haven’t already: ua-cam.com/users/bradbrowning”
just have one question. When me and my ex broke up I did not beg or plead. I allowed it to happen and said ok. We broke up on good terms and he wished me the best. I plan on doing the no contact rule until I get my disposable camera photos back. Which would be a month no contact. Would that be a good text to break no contact. Asking him or sending him those pics of us on vacation? We are long distance as well.
Yes, once you've completed the 30-day no contact rule, it's time to test the waters with your ex. Apply the tips from my other texting videos or better yet, get my Ex Factor Guide to get a step-by-step process of what you ought to do at www.breakupbrad.com/fbuy Good luck!
30 day mark is nothing once you have to deal with an avoidant EX… months, or more.
Talked about that topic here: ua-cam.com/video/Xos3Z4h4HNE/v-deo.html
Years.
Hi Brad
My ex can't stop talking to me and yet he ended the relationship. He wants me to continue as his friend. He always tells me his future plans and any progress in his life. Me I want to do no contact but he keeps breaking it yet I want him to commit to me if he's really a serious man. Help me out I am confused.
Unless your situation falls under one or more of the scenarios here: ua-cam.com/video/ek_4wpkV66c/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/W7iC-gHmZ2A/v-deo.html it's best you ignore contact from your ex. If your ex continues to reach out to you during the no contact stage, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. The only exception is if your ex asks for you back and is sincere about it. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. Discussed that in full detail here: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html So if your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses their power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: ua-cam.com/video/bgOG9s1fac8/v-deo.html
After 3 years of no contact, i just Meet my ex and again and we broke again is no contact works now,
Because she is habituated with out me ?
You ought to take it easy and test the waters first. Since it's been many years since the breakup, it's best to consider the facts I've mentioned here first as this lets you determine whether there's still a real shot or not: ua-cam.com/video/YVViZmY2x0I/v-deo.html and/or take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Hi Brad,
Been 30 days today no contact. I’ve felt little breadcrumbs I feel like I’m 1 step ahead! Would you say this is the time where she will start feeling the breakup most?
Good question! This vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/dqnqGWOk9NA/v-deo.html
Thankyou brad....🙏watching from Philippines...feeling so low im hopinh i will heal fast!
Hi! You're welcome! Take care.
My ex started communicating with me after over 2 months of no contact. Had sex. Then said he has tu learn to love himself first. He also has sex with our neighbour. We know eachother for 30 years. He knows her for 4 years. We all live in the same apt building. I can't afford 1on1 after my mother died. And I just got out of hospital after almost dieing myself.
I really love the man very much. Don't know how to make him see how great things can be between us. He's killing me every time he meets with her.
Any advice please?🙏🙏🙏
Your primary goal should be yourself. Make sure you don't end up being used. Make him work for it. Watch these first: ua-cam.com/video/qoEZiPn9EH0/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/pXKPxAXaunc/v-deo.html
How to get him back if it was "right person wrong timing " thing . We both were amazing for each other . We are soulmates but fate didn't favor us , we both still love each other and no one did nothing wrong to anyone
I suggest you both live your lives and if you're both single, chances are you'll reconnect again in the future if you both choose to do so.
Hey Brad. I recently got broken up with after a 3 year relationship. We are long distance and she broke up with me a month ago. She started dating the guy she told me not to worry about. Then we got into a big fight and I'm blocked on everything. She leaves ro Guam in October and i don't think their relationship will last. Do you think there is hope for us?
Oftentimes, the distance becomes too much for most. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ua-cam.com/video/GQY4N04uvtA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/v-deo.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hi Brad,
What if you have been together for 6 yrs and have to move your stuff out of the house and was told to let him know when you will be grabbing stuff and to take your time. All stemmed from a fight with house stress and diff opinions on how house issues should be handled. He was hysterical crying the whole time during breakup talk saying he knows it won’t work and he thinks we are no longer compatible. I need to move a whole house out a little at a time.
Sorry to hear that. After the honeymoon phase is over, life becomes more realistic and fights or disagreements are inevitable. But what do you two always bicker about? Fighting is often unavoidable, but when it becomes too much, it’s time to nip the problem in the bud if you still can. So it's either that or you go on a break and discuss the logistics as well as how it should go and how long it should be. It's best to consider the relationship overall first, so watch this: ua-cam.com/video/XuJFf5Kch5o/v-deo.html Anyways it's best to give it time because all this arguing had taken a toll in your relationship. This may help: ua-cam.com/video/BBEhaY3gLIw/v-deo.html Perhaps you've both argued more than you had a good time with each other? It could also be you're too incompatible or stubborn to meet each other halfway. If the negatives outweigh the positives in the relationship, that's when an imbalance happens and the relationship will keel over wherein one or both people will likely abandon ship, as the case with your ex. It's time to reset things. Start with the 30-day "no contact" rule to get your ex into a psychological neutral. Here's how it can help you: y2u.be/zw0ChuXCEmw
Hey coach i love your content i feel hopeless when during no contact with my ex all hope faith is gone i think she is gone for good all my social media is been block phone contact like whats app all have been block 🚫 all hope is gone i am sure she is gone
I don't see this as a cause for concern really, unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. So give it time. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ua-cam.com/video/5UT92IB5ugs/v-deo.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ua-cam.com/video/D1GpR5MApQk/v-deo.html Good luck!
I left him on read 30mn and then he blocked me after we had an argument. It’s 3 months now. Should I reach out to him first? I don’t think he will reach out to me first. He didn’t block me on everything (only in WhatsApp). Could you advise? Based on situation We both were wrong
When it comes to dealing with an ex, it's really not a good idea to incorporate drama into that. Try to keep things lighthearted and fun. But what did you two argued about? Forcing things to work when there's some incompatibilities in your vision of a future together or your goals and/or misalignment in plans in life will not work. Learn when to let go and when to fight for the relationship. To help you decide, sign up for my coaching program and/or take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz
Hi Brad,
My guy is in some tensed situation, and he said I can not be in relation with you . When I asked him repeatedly he said I don’t want to leave you. But he stopped texting or calling me on his own like before. Once in a while he just checks on me. If I ask he will say I am busy. For a particular reason I have to be in contact with him to get my stuff from him, which I can get it in instalments. Can you tell if I can start doing no contact and contact only about getting stuff whenever I need to get them..? Will this help me to heal or to get him back..?
No contact should help you heal and that's pre-requisite to get him back. The rest depends on how well you play your cards. It's important to give him space especially since he's saying conflicting things. That kind of behaviour coming from your ex is somewhat expected after a fresh/recent breakup. A wide array of different emotions coming from an ex is somewhat expected when a breakup is still fresh and this includes the likelihood of your ex giving you mixed or weird signals. Watch this: y2u.be/siApAVtx8zE This is why I tell people to cut off contact for at least a month first and NOT deal with this ex. You both need to clear your minds first, all right? A breakup hurts both people in it regardless of who has done the breaking up. This is something I've discussed here, so watch it to learn a few tips to help you on how to go about it: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html
Hope my ex husband come back 7 month passed but i am not healed 😢😢
Although I'd like to offer a tip or two, there's simply too many elements to your situation that makes this too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for my Mend the Marriage coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation: www.marriageguy.com/coaching
I'm suffering, but my wife is happy at work and with friends, messing with other men after the breakup. I'm the only one unhappy here.
Sorry to hear that, man. How are you now? This may help you process or deal with the breakup efficiently: ua-cam.com/video/7zp7SFbeCRU/v-deo.html but if you find yourself needing more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com or get my Ex Factor Guide if you want to try to get your ex back in the best possible way, at www.breakupbrad.com Take care!
I just want her to fall back in love with me again. She left me because she said she isn't in love with me anymore and is in love with someone else.
Sorry, man, but chances are your girl has been at least emotionally cheating on you. Discussed that in depth here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA There's no easy way to say this but the answer is is to move on, especially if your ex doesn't seem to be regretting their actions and asking to get back together. Most of the time, a lot of people would move on, but a few would still fight for the relationship, so this all depends which side you're on and what your views are. But take into consideration about what I’ve mentioned here, too: ua-cam.com/video/m27TLeyUmwg/v-deo.html There is no right or wrong answer here because it is your relationship and it's personal to you. Make sense? Anyway men and women cheat for different reasons, but if you think your ex is worth it and if there's been a genuine connection between you two before the cheating happened, then try to see the roles that you BOTH played that led to all this mess and see once and for all if it can be resolved or not, okay? Whatever the case, it's important you forgive yourself because no one's perfect, and forgive your ex too. Really take your time before deciding though and be sure not to make any hasty decisions from an emotional place but never force things with her if you can see she no longer wants to try. Take care!
Hi Brad
Great video alas always!
I've been following your channel for a long time
I've been in no contact for 2 years from a 2 and half year relationship,
My sibling was friends with my ex and told my ex things I was upto and who I'm dating etc behind my back like a snake
Ex has never contacted me and I've never contacted my ex for 2 years
I seen ex on other side of the road and ex never seen me and still I never approached my ex
No letters, no texts, no calls, no stalking, no stalking on social media, no asking family or friends
No contact means no contact, its hard but not impossible to do
I concentrate on my personal growth
Thanks
That's good! Yes, it's always up to you and if you want to move on, cutting off contact until you move on is the best thing to do. Thanks for sharing.
It's been 2 years. You can contact them now. No Contact is not permanent, it's temporary. But WOW 😳 look at you. 2 whole years, I'm impressed!!!
It’s been 60 days today since we split. We’ve kept in contact almost always since. The 1st time I went silent for a week she tracked me down. We’ve seen eachother a few times. Should I still buy the ex factor and start no contact right now? Or is my hope lost?
Cut off contact for 30 days straight first. Get my Ex Factor Guide to know what to do AFTER this period at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy but as to what your chances are for getting your ex back, take my free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Here's the thing Mr. Brad no contact really worked for me when I did it I think he wants me back and at the same time it made me heal.. however whenever he messages me I do reply but I try to end the conversation right away and never answer his calls maybe because I thought I'm over it but its almost a month now and he just stops messaging i bet he got tired and I dont want to lose him i guess i dont know what should I do? Should I message him first this time because I feel like I acted distant towards him before
You're on the right path, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Be sure to check out my other videos for more tips on how to go about this, especially this: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Here's a short infograph to guide you in each process: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
My ex said he still loves me and would like to start talking again as friends after a week. Should I follow what he said or stick with 30-day no contact? We broke up due to my insecurities that I impulsively voiced break-up while after a few days I regretted but this has hurt him so much and can’t be rewinded. This was the third time I did that so he fed up but generally we enjoyed our time so much in 7-month relationship. I’ll try to seek counselling to deal with my own insecurities too as this has been a pattern of my couple of past relationships with the same consequences.
I suggest to stick to the 30-day rule for your own good unless you both agreed it's just a one-week break. But looking at your situation, I do think you need the space and time apart to get yourself right first. But don't be ashamed of where you messed up in this relationship. It's good to be self aware and to try to actively work on those issues you have with a licensed therapist. Take care!
I am asking myself the following. If the ex has started a relationship with someone else, will he have time to think about us. His emotion will be in the new relationship, probably at the beginning, and it will not be lonely
That's right but if your relationship was good overall then just remember that the new girl is not you. But if your relationship ended because it got toxic, then it's 50-50 chance with probability leaning towards it's over for good between you two especially if the new relationship is better. Regardless, here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: ua-cam.com/video/STLjybyiaBQ/v-deo.html Good luck!
@@BradBrowning Well, I define the relationship as good, we haven't fought. We even worked together on a project. Suddenly she reduced her contact with me. I felt there was probably one boy, then fate helped me make sure there was another.
Hi Brad, I have a question: I was dating someone i fell in love with, after only 2 weeks i already screwed up by giving her too much of me. When we ended it i immediately followed these rules. The night we broke up i was desperate and i called her way too many times. But on the day after when we were having this closing conversation i appeared happy, independent and i looked my best. I noticed her body language that she was interested during the conversation (playing with her hair) and now she sended me 2 snapchats (i didn’t open them yet and i will continue to not open them for as long as possible).
Now i’m in the no contact phase but i’m affraid that 30 days is too much since we never got a real relationship and just dated for 2 weeks..
But she is the first girl i wanted to go all in for since the last 3 years. I really really like her so now it’s my mission to get her to want me again.
My question is for how long do i need to quit the contact based on my situation? I think 30 days is too much and she will move on by that time. I know she has multiple options
Depending on what really cut the relationship short, it may be time to consider moving on from this. But don't rush. Always take the time to give each other space first, all right? Do a minimum of 3 weeks of "no contact" and see if you still want your ex and if your ex is receptive to contact AFTER that period. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html
Bread I admire you a lot with your no contact even though it’s so heard I live in Israel
This is the second time me and my ex brick up and this time his mom got involved
She told my ex if you go to her again I am not talking to you or she is never invited to my place
Can I still save the relationship? And keep doing no contact ?
Please respond
Crying depressed sad angry ?????🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
You only have to do the no contact rule for 30 days. Here's a quick overview on what to do AFTER the "no contact" rule: ua-cam.com/video/xgR03RcU8mw/v-deo.html and what needs to happen in between so be sure to watch the vid to the end. For specific advice that’s tailored to your situation, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Talk soon!
😢 she was my everything.
But my mistake took her away from me .. Still hope she will come Back one day . Cause I will never love any woman cause I am afraid of love
What happened and how was it your mistake? I suggest you heed my advice from this vid, first and foremost: ua-cam.com/video/jikW4YYC9yo/v-deo.html and from my other vid here: ua-cam.com/video/PN-07kAtIjw/v-deo.html but also make sure you aren't being defensive or deflecting the blame because that's as annoying as ever. It may help to apply the tips here first: ua-cam.com/video/qnE192fUKxI/v-deo.html
Be patient and let things play out first. Let time do its job since it's your biggest ally at this point. Good luck!
After no contact it was going good.. but i asked her about the relationship and she got angry on me.. after that I left 12 days of no contact. Now i just texted her "happy journey" and left.
No reply..
What next ?
Uh oh...that was totally the wrong approach and I've talked about that here: ua-cam.com/video/juhamVEwsxU/v-deo.html You ought to review this first: ua-cam.com/video/L0hxYTCJ2hU/v-deo.html and in fact, apply the tips here too instead of taking the shortcut: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html In the future, if you're still not sure about what you're doing, I really suggest you sign up for my coaching program so I can assess your situation properly and guide you accordingly at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
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We broke up because he started using meth and moved in with a meth addict. She does nothing for him like I did. But with his abuse I went no contact since October 2023 so don’t know if it will work out for me since he’s numbing feelings with drugs
Hi, I may be an ex-back guru and I'm all for couples reuniting and giving their love a second chance... but not when it's no longer healthy for one or both people in it. It's sad to see but the relationship has turned toxic. I suggest you take steps to move on from this. I understand what you're going through. You know, moving on is a tricky process and the emotions come in waves. This video is for you: ua-cam.com/video/01wvLSaS9_I/v-deo.html And if you're still having a hard time, this should help you understand why in order to understand what you're going through: ua-cam.com/video/2CakOOSwIiY/v-deo.html or get my latest e-book Beat the Breakup guide as that will help you and your mindset to evolve from the breakup and therefore become the best version of yourself. Check it out at www.beatmybreakup.com
I've been in no contact mode for about 3 weeks now. Recently my ex reached out by saying "hope your doing well. Then a few days later sent me a photo of our grandson but I didn't respond! Should I continue with the no contact? It's Monday 8/7/2023 @. 11:55a
Assuming you've done the first phase properly, which is the 30-day "no contact" rule, then you should be in a position to be ready to test the waters with your ex. Here's how you can tell you're doing it correctly: y2u.be/f7zuXk-sVsI You may want to tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms Now once you're positive you've done all that's mentioned, you can proceed to contact your ex. Start with the tips here: ua-cam.com/video/KMMv9ljdrkk/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/v-deo.html but make sure to check out my other vids for more texting tips you can send your ex or get my guide for the complete step-by-step details on how to go about it. Best of luck!
We have just broken up for a week and she says she is happier now than before how do you know if she would take you back when she says that too you
Let her feel what it's like for you to be absent in her life first while you go do your own thing. Watch this, too: ua-cam.com/video/dqnqGWOk9NA/v-deo.html
Hey Brad, what happens if my ex started blocking me on every social media? What happens then? It doesn’t feel like I initiated no contact, so does it mean I still have a chance?
Yes. Mine did the same thing and then she unblocked me after a few weeks and reached out to me a few weeks after that. They just block you temporarily
I don't see this as a cause for concern really, unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. So give it time. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ua-cam.com/video/5UT92IB5ugs/v-deo.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ua-cam.com/video/D1GpR5MApQk/v-deo.html Good luck!
my ex just broke up with me and said she could only be friends with me a few days ago. we broke up for a few days two months ago and got back together until now. she did not show me the right enerrgy the whole time and couldn’t love me the same. do i have hope?
Take my free quiz to know what your chances are, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz As to being friends, that's a bad idea. Don't do it, man. She's lost attraction for you and it's a terrible idea to be friends with her. You ought to cut off contact for at least 30 days first. Silence is key and here's why: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html If you continue being friends right away, the boundaries won't be clear and you're technically both free to date other people. Wouldn't it be pure torture if your ex dates a rebound in front of you because you're only "friends" now, don't you think? So it’s not a good idea, especially if you want this ex back. Watch these two videos so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, respectively at ua-cam.com/video/pv_cjzhVKAY/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/sS4V4IOcOgs/v-deo.html but read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with bonus materials for texting. Good luck!
Hi Brad, I split with my partner after 9 years together. Bad argument caused this. We have a 6 year old daughter together. My ex changed her phone number so i cant contact her, do you think the no contact method forced on me will have any effect on her feelings while we are apart. I have blocked her so she cant call me at the moment. Please give me advice if possible. Thank you, Andy
Time and space apart when things are no longer working out always helps. But you two have to address the issue sooner or later. What do you two always bicker about? Fighting is often unavoidable, but when it becomes too much, it’s time to nip the problem in the bud if you still can. So it's either that or you go on a break and discuss the logistics as well as how it should go and how long it should be. What were you two fighting or arguing about? It's best to consider the relationship overall first, so watch this: ua-cam.com/video/XuJFf5Kch5o/v-deo.html Anyways it's best to give it time because all this arguing had taken a toll in your relationship. This may help: ua-cam.com/video/BBEhaY3gLIw/v-deo.html Perhaps you've both argued more than you had a good time with each other? It could also be you're too incompatible or stubborn to meet each other halfway. If the negatives outweigh the positives in the relationship, that's when an imbalance happens and the relationship will keel over wherein one or both people will likely abandon ship, as the case with your ex. It's time to reset things. Start with the 30-day "no contact" rule to get your ex into a psychological neutral. Here's how it can help you: y2u.be/zw0ChuXCEmw
Also , I watched every single video of yours , but how to get an ex back who still loves you so much , and no one did wrong to anyone and breakup was on good terms
Sorry but the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my new version of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and the golden rules here: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html
Hi Brad, my ex just broke up with me yesterday because there are some things that I have done that makes him seem that he doesn’t get a lot of respect. I wanted to fix my mistakes and get back with him. What should I do?
Why you wanted to mske mistakes when he's around u believe me when i say it it happened to me too and I'm living it now she disrespected me she done mistakes with me even thought i want her i wouldn't even contact her not even if u want to cut my neck so trust me snd approach him first cz he won't
What did you do? I suggest you heed my advice from this vid, first and foremost: ua-cam.com/video/jikW4YYC9yo/v-deo.html and from my other vid here: ua-cam.com/video/PN-07kAtIjw/v-deo.html but also make sure you aren't being defensive or deflecting the blame because that's as annoying as ever. It may help to apply the tips here first: ua-cam.com/video/qnE192fUKxI/v-deo.html
Be patient and let things play out first. Let time do its job since it's your biggest ally at this point. Good luck!
But what if they’ve starting dating someone else? Been apart just over three months and they started dating pretty much straight away
This vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/TBtb34gy6zw/v-deo.html
what if the person is already dating
Then date her sister just to piss off your ex
The 30-day "no contact" rule can work for you in the following ways: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html Your ex is diverting his/her attention to someone else, which is the easiest thing to do and is really just his/her way of coping. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: ua-cam.com/video/7KE6nb4-ndA/v-deo.html So that's what you ought to be doing too. Here, watch this: ua-cam.com/video/gUBNd6pDINM/v-deo.html so try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control whether the rebound ends up working out or not. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/TBtb34gy6zw/v-deo.html Now lastly, keep in mind that your ex is suffering too, even though they try to cover it up. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA
Hey brad I did text her after the breakup after 10 days, but after that I apply the no contact rule. Do I still have a chance
If you're asking about your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique and things aren't often black and white, I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz or sign up for my coaching program so I could take a closer look at what your situation and guide you accordingly at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
Hi Brad, on the 19 Day of No contact. I accidentally facetimed my ex while trying to delete his number from the history so I don't feel the urge to contact. It was a small ring and i know the call went through but i disconnected in just seconds. Ughh i hate myself right now. Would it make this No contact useless?
Pretty much, yes. Try to have the self discipline to restrain yourself from contacting your ex during this time. Use this time on more productive things instead like your hobbies, travel, etc.
@@BradBrowning Thanks brad for replying. After that call, its already 30 days passed but he isn't reaching out. I'm loosing my calm.
she sent me a message that she misses me after a 10day no contact, i didn't respond as of right now, im confused if i wanted her back or move on.
yoiu can't ignore your ex, never ignore them when they reach out.
If you wanted to move on, you wouldn't be here looking for advice. Be honest to yourself first. You are looking for someone else to decide for yourself? That's the reason probably why he/ she left you in the first place.
Definitely take the time in making a decision.
That doesn’t mean anything. That’s just her sending breadcrumbs. Wait until she says something like she regrets the breakup and wants to talk
I haven't contact my ex from the last 6 months what should I do now
I'm not a fan of being passive. Why wait for your ex to run back to you? :-) I never said the "no contact" rule is supposed to go for weeks or months on end. I only said it's for 30 days in about 80% of my videos, didn't I? :-) Anyway getting an ex back, just like anything that's worth having, takes work, so make sure he's/she's worth it. Anyway the "no contact" rule is just the first phase. Here is the step-by-step process: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html There are two more phases to getting an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and to initiate communicate, this is the vid: y2u.be/XonMtLFo000
Hi Brad..my girlfriend broke me up and blocked me and she didn't want even to talk.After four days she started to talk to me back and thinking of meeting with me.The problem now is that meanwhile the period of no contacting me after break up I had sex with a girl one night because I was so sad and I was trying to forget her. Now my girlfriend asks me if I had sex with another girl during the period we didn't spoke.She telling me that I can't be with you if you had sex with another girl and I am trying to avoid the answer because I don't like lies and I am trying to say to her that we were not in relationship that period and I don't like these kind of questions because she broke me up.Plz any advice?
So if she cared why did she break up with you?
If you're no longer in contact with the other girl and it was purely a one night stand, then you can just do with a little white lie. Otherwise if you're still in contact, it's gonna be complicated because the truth does have a way of rearing its head at the most unexpected moment.
Trust Me, 100% she would have slept with a guy too, she just wants you to admit to doing the same so it makes her feel better
@@brendabenitez7359 Because we were arguing all the time
Weak society we live in. Pussy is such a lame thing to chase over love
Why did she block me on snapchat after 3 weeks of no contact ? I've never sent her anything but we had pictures of us in the convo
Your ex has the best answer for that q. But if you ask me, this isn't really a concerning issue, at least initially, unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/s52sRweJlm8 So give it time. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ua-cam.com/video/5UT92IB5ugs/v-deo.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ua-cam.com/video/D1GpR5MApQk/v-deo.html Good luck!
@@BradBrowning thank you so much
Visual Reconstruction of the moments of your ex with a new person and post it on social media. 😅😅
Definitely it will make the ex mad.
It's all about playing mind games or hitting the mind with your actions.
The attire which you wore in front of ur ex
The places you went with your ex
The song you sang for your ex
The movie you watched with your ex
The romantic things you said to your ex
The romantic actions you did with your ex
The romantic dance on the particular song you did with your ex.
Now repeat all those visually with a new person, post it on social media and then see the reactions of your ex 😅😅😅😅
Sometimes it's good to be naughty 😅😅😅
Nice video come soon next time 👍
Thanks for dropping by!
Brad she deserves to feel the pain after leaving me to die,I don't care it's over two months if and when they reach out I got some things to say because I'm going to ensure they work
Sounds like a plan as long as she's onboard as well! However, I suggest to take it easy/keep your conversations light when an ex first contacts... unless you just wanna rant and don't care about the outcome between you two. Good luck!
Why is everything u saying is what I feel I’m the one doing the no contact n yet I’m feeling like this my self going crazy
That's the thing. Chances are you both feel the same about the breakup, which is why it's very important to not mess things up by making unnecessary mistakes which will only affect your chances. The 30-day no contact rule is key and I can't stress this out enough. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/npuQb1APSaU/v-deo.html
I want to try no contact but my ex have a new boyfriend and I am scared that because of that no contact want help to get her back. What do I do?
As tough as it may be, it's always best to come to terms with the breakup and the fact that you're both single now. You doing the "no contact" rule neither prevents nor encourages your ex to go with someone new. In other words there's really nothing you can do to keep your ex from getting with someone new if they want to. This is something I've mentioned here: ua-cam.com/video/WVB0_l60SpM/v-deo.html So it boils down to two options, really. 1. Employ no contact and keep your dignity while respecting your ex's decision to breakup (why push yourself to someone who doesn't want you?) or Option 2: Do not do no contact and be pathetic. I always advise people to choose option 1 but really, which option you choose is ultimately up to you.
@@BradBrowning than you Brad. I am practicing No contact for almost 1 week. I decided that because nothing else helped to get my ex back. I still don’t know what will happen. If she will come back or not, but at least I’am starting to feel better now and more powerful
How do you maintain no conduct if u are working in the same department with him n also he's like your boss pls let me know.
I suggest you do limited contact instead and keep any limited conversation you have strictly work-related. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/v-deo.html
What are the chances of an ex coming back a second time if it seems like they have a rebound
I say generally it's still fair game unless you see most if not all the signs that your ex is over you. Here's the vid: ua-cam.com/video/ZyJRphwDca4/v-deo.html and especially if those signs prevail over a prolonged period of time. If you're asking about your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!
Will it work after 2 weak of begging and pleading??
Only if you play your cards right from here on out and apply the no contact rule, assuming your ex is still receptive to contact after all that begging -- some are, others aren't so it really depends. But I suggest you redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ua-cam.com/video/OzVymYnQFTk/v-deo.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ua-cam.com/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/v-deo.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/6K3xufEwEFg/v-deo.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
The guy I was talking to was hot and cold. On my last text he didn’t reply until 2 days later and then I was so tired I haven’t responded since the last text I sent that he didn’t respond to until later. It’s Saturday. He said hello Wednesday and my last text was this past Monday. I hate that he never responds. I was always quick to respond to him because I always want to talk to him. This time I didn’t reply
He is probably #3 angry because I went silent on him
The hot and cold behaviour is a red flag though.
Hey Brad! My Ex and I dated for a year, she even moved across the country for me and we moved in together. At the 10 month mark, I felt a bit smothered so I asked for an open relationship to explore other people. I moved across the country temporarily for a couple months and we still talked, while keeping open. When I came back, we reconnected romantically every day for a week. I felt she was pulling away though. We then fought at the end of the week, I got a bit needy and canceled dates out of jealousy, and she broke up with me over text and blocked me on everything. I went to go see her the next day butshe went on a tinder date with another guy and said that I'm not as patient as I claimed to be, but she may reach out again in couple months. It has been a month of NC, and she didn't reach out for my bday a few days ago. Should I reach out with an easygoing email? Or wait for her to reach out first?
Never suggest an open relationship if you're the jealous type...or at least calm down your feelings first. She's pulling away because you mentioned an open relationship and may be trying to not get too attached. You have to be smart at this as well. Is an open relationship still what you want? Since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
i instigated the breakup because i thought we had too many differences and i couldnt see a future… she was devastated… i started doing no contact yesterday and im still wishy washy and i feel horrible and unbearably guilty ill take any advice 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Don't give her false hopes if you intend to remain broken up.
If my ex felt any of this she hid it real well.
As most exes do. Here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: ua-cam.com/video/STLjybyiaBQ/v-deo.html
What if we both go no contact?
The "no contact" rule comes naturally to the dumpers. Learn the 3 basic phases I teach in my Ex Factor Guide because this lets you know the basics of my 3R system here first, so you'll have an idea on how to go about it on your end: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw
He reckon s he doesnt feeel that way for me anymore
He said he hasnt me
That there wont be an us again
I reached out for the first 4 weeks
I have now gone no contact
I dont think i have any chance
Uh oh redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ua-cam.com/video/OzVymYnQFTk/v-deo.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ua-cam.com/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/v-deo.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/6K3xufEwEFg/v-deo.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule - let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
The thing is, my ex has guys chasing her.
It's why you become the exception and don't chase.
Hey is it ok to be texting my ex girlfriend’s sister
Is your ex's sister making an effort to be friends with you? Then yes, however try to balance it with your other friends as well because it will be challenging for you to actually heal, which should be your main priority right now.
What if you are working together?
Ignore her
But if she asks for a favor help her .
Do limited contact instead and keep any limited conversation you have strictly work-related. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/v-deo.html
I’m hurting it’s been a while now since the brake up we got to catch up n now he’s hone
Sorry to hear that. I understand what you're going through. You know moving on is a tricky process and the emotions come in waves. This video is for you: ua-cam.com/video/01wvLSaS9_I/v-deo.html And if you're still having a hard time, this should help you understand why in order to understand what you're going through: ua-cam.com/video/2CakOOSwIiY/v-deo.html or get my latest e-book Beat the Breakup guide as that will help you and your mindset to evolve from the breakup and therefore become the best version of yourself. Check it out at www.beatmybreakup.com
Isn`t that just narcissistic behaviour? This behaviour is simply emotional blackkmailing and for sure it won`t benefit your relationship. You got to TALK to each other instead. If this is not possible, maybe you have to consider that your Ex wasn`t the right one.
Looking out for yourself, healing and taking the necessary time to accept the breakup and process what happened isn't emotional blackmail. The relationship ended, you part ways, therefore you need this time for yourself. There's really no sense in trying to fight for a relationship when one partner has already given up by breaking up with you. Learn to draw the line on when to keep trying and when to fight for things, yeah?
@@BradBrowning I could be wrong, but the topic was "how does your ex feel during no contact". Isn't the whole point of knowing that, to get him or her back? In that case, it would definitely be emotional blackmail. Otherwise, if you are definitely breaking up, why would you even care about his feelings? To me no contact is more about leaving the other person because it's more toxic and unhealthy not to do so. I speak from experience, that relationship was so painful, I didn't want to know anything about her feelings, not even for one second.
Why done my ex always come back to me and every times I laugh and my ex playing game want me but got new bf the next day so I keep laughing it funny because I know she will come back in a month or 3 or5 just to say me and my ex boyfriend broken up this is like her second boyfriend in just a week I got every picture to prove what she said to me and she told me not to text her and not to call her not a damm thing so should I just laugh
Yeah, continue to enjoy life but until the root cause of the issue of why you two break up is resolved, I'm afraid you'll have that dynamic constantly and it's only a matter of time before that becomes toxic and permanent.
Hello I need help
This is what I'm here for! :-) I recommend you to watch my other videos to maximise all that you need to know. Anyway as what so many people here are already doing across my videos, you may also leave a comment detailing your situation (keep it concise, please) and I'll get back to you the soonest I can. So state your situation in a separate comment because I can't backtrack even if I wanted to, got to move on to hundreds of new comments added daily. However, if you need my full attention where I focus in on and prioritize your situation or need a response as soon as possible, feel free to sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
😂😂 After supporting my ex and her disrespectful daughter throughout the lockdown paying her mortgage and bills. She said it was over 2 months after the lockdown was finished. I went into no contact for 6 months. You know what no contact did for me??? She just found another sucker 😂😂 so no it doesn't work 😂
30 days no contact is sufficient
You sound extremely bitter… you need therapy as well , most definitely give off narcissist 😊😊
As tough as it may be, it's always best to come to terms with the breakup and the fact that you're both single now. You doing the "no contact" rule neither prevents nor encourages your ex to go with someone new. In other words there's really nothing you can do to keep your ex from getting with someone new if they want to. This is something I've mentioned here: ua-cam.com/video/WVB0_l60SpM/v-deo.html So it boils down to two options, really. 1. Employ no contact and keep your dignity while respecting your ex's decision to breakup (why push yourself to someone who doesn't want you?) or Option 2: Do not do no contact and be pathetic. I always advise people to choose option 1 but really, which option you choose is ultimately up to you.
Hey brad please reply
I just want to know how to get him back when nothing went wrong, no one did wrong doings to anyone and everything was fine but the timing was not correct , we believe it was right person wrong timing, we still find each other as our soulmates who met at the wrong time and we still love each other but he broke up saying the timing is not right , how to get him back when we broke up on good terms but not being in contact
I suggest you both live your lives and if you're both single, chances are you'll reconnect again in the future if you both choose to do so.
I never heard of no contact before until February. For me, no contact means just moving on with your life.
Thank you for your service Brad, you have really helped me. You have a good way of explaining things in a way I can understand them.
Glad you found it helpful! Thanks for the support… please like and subscribe if you haven’t already: ua-cam.com/users/bradbrowning”
I miss him my ex
This vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/RSKJi8VK2g8/v-deo.html
no contact doesn't work with my current ex. hes such an odd man. i've never met a man like him before. even naturally men need space but when i was living with my ex he needed me more like a drug. he was like a female who wanted attention 24/7 which i loved & even now he dumped me for the 5th time (my fault each time) he's thinking with his heart and not head, whereas a man would naturally think with his head.
my ex says that to heal he needs to talk to me daily, and he's telling me not to exist his life or do no contact cus then he'll drift away.
Wait. You ought to view the situation clearly. How was it your fault each and every time? With on-and-off relationships, oftentimes this is a sign of underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. It may be time to put things into perspective while it's still early because in 14 years spent as a relationship online coach alone, I find that a breakup is often NOT just one person's fault, so look at the roles that you've BOTH played that led to the breakup and if the issues have a chance to get resolved, and how to go about it. In most cases, the problems that led to the breakup can be resolved, but in some cases, it can't. So take time to evaluate, okay? However, I have to warn you not to ask the reasons from your ex. This is what I've discussed here along with other stuff that might help you, so this is a must-watch: ua-cam.com/video/zqAEi9PbEAA/v-deo.html But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot. Good luck!
More like she’s bangin every dude she sees. They’re heartless bro
Not all women do, but yes, some do. It depends on the type of girl you're dealing with.
Agreed. Everyone deals with loss differently. People go out, drink, bad habits while others confront, improve habits, and grow. Regardless of whatever type of woman she is, it's never easy....@@BradBrowning
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Hey thanks for dropping by!
no contact should be for YOU to move on and help with YOUR healing! Not used as a manipulation tactic to get someone back when there’s a reason that you aren’t with them! Let them go and do this for you!!!
The first path towards moving on and getting an ex back follows the same route. It's always best to take your time in deciding first so there'll be no regrets in the end. As I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision.
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