Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
If it's only been a month and you still want to try with your ex, then you can reach out to your ex after the 30-day "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: ua-cam.com/video/7PcfGeJqUYo/v-deo.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: ua-cam.com/video/t6I5k55pnCE/v-deo.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
If it's only been a month and you still want to try with your ex, then you can reach out to your ex after the 30-day "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: ua-cam.com/video/7PcfGeJqUYo/v-deo.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: ua-cam.com/video/t6I5k55pnCE/v-deo.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com
Time does help heal most, if not all, wounds. As I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved or if it was overall a dysfunctional/toxic relationship. It's your life and it's your decision.
@@BradBrowning Thank you for reaching out Brad. You are absolutely right, but regardless, everyone should learn what you are teaching. Your breakup videos are, well…for breakups, but they teach so much more than that.
1. If they bait you in an argument 2. If your ex wants to be friends. 3. If they want to sleep with you unless you get what you’re after. 4. If your ex wants the best of both worlds. 5. When they want to hang out. 6. If they want to play games with you. 7. If they ask for a favor.
Big no-nos. Watch the vid thoroughly though so you'll understand the concept as to why those are important and that way you can remember it easily and not slip if and when the situation calls for it.
Hey Brad, After my ex and I broke up, we hung out on August 15th, and during that time, I felt like I was able to rebuild some of the attraction we had. We were comfortable, shared some laughs, and it seemed like a positive step forward. However, as we got into late August, I started to overthink things and became anxious about losing her. I let my insecurities take over and began chasing too much, texting her frequently and worrying that she might be seeing other guys. This anxiety reached its peak when I sent her a message saying, ‘If you are seeing someone, I’m glad you’re moving on,’ which came from a place of fear, not confidence. We were together for 3 years, had a very intimate relationship, and I was her first love. Now, I feel like my fear of her moving on has pushed her further away. I’m looking for advice on how to step back, reset the situation, and potentially rekindle things without continuing to push her away.
Think you need to go full no contact now. I did something similar like try to rekindle memories of good times, but it's really just better to go silent. Try to take your attention and energy away from them yes I know how hard it is. Thoughts keep coming in waves through out the day. It's been 5 weeks since she left and I'm starting to feel a lot better but a long way to go. Weekends are the most difficult for me as we spent every weekend together. I try to organise days out or physical activity and spend time with my daughter from previous relationship. I still feel bitter about what she did, gave me 2 days notice before leaving. I don't want to hate on her but when I think on it helps me take her off the pedestal. She's a coward and her life won't improve unless she changes which I doubt. Try to pretend she doesn't exist anymore it's harsh I know but you need to move on (she has) and stay strong Bro.
Yeah, it most likely had but I'm glad you're aware of your own behaviour as some are completely oblivious to that. But uh oh...that was totally the wrong approach and I've talked about that here: ua-cam.com/video/juhamVEwsxU/v-deo.html You ought to review this first: ua-cam.com/video/L0hxYTCJ2hU/v-deo.html and in fact, apply the tips here too instead of taking the shortcut: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html In the future, if you're still not sure about what you're doing, I really suggest you sign up for my coaching program so I can assess your situation properly and guide you accordingly at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Coach she said me to move on and its of no use but i really love her ive been hitting workouts and all and tryna be mysterious. Weve dated for 4 years. And its been 2 months for the break up. We've been in no contact for 2 weeks. i really need her bad i pray to god and listen to your words but deep down i do not want to loose her i love her so much what do i do?? From my childhood ive never been loved and the way she did was something magical..
Hello there! What happened? Make sure to give her space first and don't bypass the no contact rule. Also, this vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/519e6C-H9zU/v-deo.html
@@BradBrowning due to my family issues i couldn't give her time which she was asking. And it went to her nerve and she was like "am done" and she knows that am dealing with abusive family.. she said things like "i dont trust/belive you AT THE POINT, AT THE MOMENT, idk anything right now" and all.. she was like "Am not done with you but am done with the situation" and after i begged and pleaded her she became cold. So i stepped back and went in no contact. We were in LDR.. and she was the girl who would cry even if id get a scratch on my body. Irdk i feel so messed up. And coz of her am leaving my abusive family and shifting to her city. Irdk how do i even approch her when am in her city. Shes become so cold that she's not listening anything.. shes been putting stories like "ive live with the memories of yours more than you" "if the love was real well meet again till that time were strangers with the memories" like the reels shes putting and as soon as i see the stories shes removing it. I really love her so much. Please help me brad. She was the one who kept me alive and stopped me from substance abuse. She gave me a hope to live. And we've been through same childhood traums. I just dont know what to do anymore. Am getting so bad mental breakdowns brad please help me. And she knows everything about what am going through. And plus i was very bad at communication coz of my past traums ive never opened up to anyone. Its been 2 weeks of no contact she doesn't open my snaps but comes on chat and leave the chat.
I begged my ex for 2 months. During this period, we had sex a few times and she never enjoyed it so much, and she missed me at one point, but I ruined my chance by arguing again. I went to her 18th birthday, and then we stopped talking for 2 weeks. After that, I made her cry and feel really bad (I don’t want to specify how). We were together for a year, and now it’s been almost 3 months since we broke up, she thinks that she had moved on. I don’t really know what to do, because we’re also classmates and she ignore me because she wanna keep distance. She said that she wanna be friends cuz I’m a very important person in her life but don’t feel love anymore. I envy her because she has friends to rely on (almost all male). She continues to reassure me that she has no intention of starting another relationship for a while, she says every time that she doesn’t want to get back together with me, even though she also mentions that I will treat my next girlfriend right.
How is she not enjoying it? Going out of your way to make sure she gets off too will make her feel special. Anyway arguments do tend to put a damper to your chances. Which step have you tried to take to get her back though? This would've been the route: ua-cam.com/video/gUBNd6pDINM/v-deo.html At this point though, try to see what your chances are at fixing this by taking my free quiz, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz
Hey brad bro My boyfriend and I had a fight and haven't spoken for 38 days, but we haven't blocked each other. The mistakes were his, and he has possessive, insecure, narcissistic, and toxic tendencies. He doesn't post my pictures or our outings on social media, and he doesn't show our relationship on social media at all. He only posts pictures of himself on his Instagram. He doesn't allow me to use Instagram because I talk to other boys. This is our third time going 38 days without speaking, and we've had lots of fights and breakups in our almost three-year relationship. Is it possible for him to come back to me this time?
With on-and-off relationships, oftentimes this is a sign of underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. It may be time to put things into perspective while it's still early because in 14 years spent as a relationship online coach alone, I find that a breakup is often NOT just one person's fault, so look at the roles that you've BOTH played that led to the breakup and if the issues have a chance to get resolved, and how to go about it. In most cases, the problems that led to the breakup can be resolved, but in some cases, it can't. So take time to evaluate, okay? However, I have to warn you not to ask the reasons from your ex. This is what I've discussed here along with other stuff that might help you, so this is a must-watch: ua-cam.com/video/zqAEi9PbEAA/v-deo.html But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot. Good luck!
Me an my ex broke up 4 months ago for 7weeks. She rang me out of blue after 7weeks saying she missed me. We got back together for another 7 weeks+ went away on hols together for 3 weeks. We had a fight on last night on hol and she ended again when we got back. That’s being two weeks ago, now. we met yday for coffee , spent 3 Hrs with her talking. she’s still adamant it’s over though. Made mistakes when she ended it 2 weeks ago. Just gonna go NC now and hope for best. FML lol
Fighting is the last thing you'd want to be doing with an ex you want to woo back into your life. It just sets you back big time. Were you two also like that when you were still in a relationship? What do you two always bicker about? Fighting is often unavoidable, but when it becomes too much, it’s time to nip the problem in the bud if you still can. So it's either that or you go on a break and discuss the logistics as well as how it should go and how long it should be. It's best to consider the relationship overall first, so watch this: ua-cam.com/video/XuJFf5Kch5o/v-deo.html Anyways it's best to give it time because all this arguing had taken a toll in your relationship. This may help: ua-cam.com/video/BBEhaY3gLIw/v-deo.html Perhaps you've both argued more than you had a good time with each other? It could also be you're too incompatible or stubborn to meet each other halfway. If the negatives outweigh the positives in the relationship, that's when an imbalance happens and the relationship will keel over wherein one or both people will likely abandon ship, as the case with your ex. It's time to reset things. Start with the 30-day "no contact" rule to get your ex into a psychological neutral. Here's how it can help you: y2u.be/zw0ChuXCEmw
When we first broke up the first time, he said that he is always there for me, and that he will always love me. To always reach out and he will be there for me to talk. I kind of ended the last text with kind of replaying that the second time around so as to not totally loose him in a bad way for a chance.
Hi! That's what I call the "check-in" text and believe it or not, your ex is somewhat expected to send one or more of these sooner or later and I've got just the vid for that. Discussed that in one of the vids, including how to handle that kind of message and when and/or how to reply, including what not to text, (so watch to the end of the vid) here: ua-cam.com/video/tev2-lrJq7o/v-deo.html
Does it count helping a wife in separated with if I changed her oil and checked tires. I only changed it because the kids are with her, but I can see how she would use this as a measuring stick
Yes, it does. But I think what's more important here is what caused her to want to separate in the first place. What were your issues in your marriage? On the other hand, if you don't have many issues, a separation can actually help. This vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/HHkwa5tbNC0/v-deo.html
Please never ever take an ex girlfriend back why would you do so, someone else better waiting on you please God who will love and adore and keep you I promise 😊😊😊
I've coached clients for more than a decade so I guess I'm qualified to answer this! :-) Everyone has different reasons for doing so, but a lot of the clients I've coached wanted to try to give it one last shot so they can move on without regrets or wondering about the what-ifs, particularly if the relationship and/or the person was a significant relationship to them. But in the end, it's always up to you since you know and your ex and the relationship better.
My wife contacted me yesterday telling me a funny coincidence (funny to her) in an email. She then proceeded to tell me some other things and lastly that she was hired to a new job. Mind you, a few days ago she told me I’ll never get her back and that she only wants to talk to me about the kids. So I said a few words in reply to her and then told her I was happy she was hired and congratulations. Then I said I don’t think we should communicate unless it’s about the kids. She replied with a thumbs up and I kept it at that. Was I wrong?
I'd rather say it's opening a can of worms. If you want to fix your marriage, your wife warming up to you, albeit slowly, is actually the goal and cutting her off like that may have been a mistake. Consider hiring me as your coach so you won't be making any more of these mistakes and I can monitor your progress and offer tips on what your best move is, at www.marriageguy.com/coaching
My Ex just texted me he wanted to check in and see how I’m doing. What should I say? It’s been a week today no contact I signed up for your one on one but don’t know how to answer this. I was gonna reply with I’ve been busy doing a lot of stuff. How have you been? That way he doesn’t get annoyed because he gets annoyed if someone doesn’t reply
That's what I call the "check-in" text and believe it or not, your ex is somewhat expected to send one or more of these sooner or later and I've got just the vid for that. Discussed that in one of the vids, including how to handle that kind of message and when and/or how to reply, including what not to text, (so watch to the end of the vid) here: ua-cam.com/video/tev2-lrJq7o/v-deo.html
Some weird advice... maybe it's aimed at late teens / early 20's? As we get older relationships are for more subtle than "No, unless you give me exactly what I want." Especially when they want to re-start low key with FWB / best of both worlds. That gives you a chance to show up differently - eg, if you were a moody b*tch or a whiney simp and drove them away you can stop that and reset their feelings for you. By turning them down in those situation you're hitting them below the belt by rejecting them in order to manipulate. For me, unless they're an obvious narc / fruit loop or toxic - in which case you're stupid to want them back - then rebuild how they want to re-build. Or maybe your control issues is what drove them away in the first place... 🤔
Rebuilding yourself and your own life is a must regardless of whether or not you end up wanting to try things again with your ex. No, it's geared towards 18 years and above since it's based on human psychology. The more history you have, the better.
Don't go straight into calling her as that can be intrusive for most people. Start with texting first. This vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/TlvzBynSa9o/v-deo.html but to prevent this kind of mistake, I recommend to read my Ex Factor Guide 2.0 to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy Good luck!
My ex came back after a year truned out a bad idea she left after a month i told her im not interested in being friends but we ended up sleeping together (she played the game well) turned out thats all she wanted
She misses something! You still play a role though. Watch and follow the tips here first: ua-cam.com/video/qoEZiPn9EH0/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/pXKPxAXaunc/v-deo.html but at the same time, also employ the following suggestions to get the ball rolling: ua-cam.com/video/gUBNd6pDINM/v-deo.html
@@BradBrowning this may either sound like a stupid question or make for a great video. But I'm a westerner and ex is eastern and there is lots of different dating and relationship differences do these things still apply similar from different cultures or relay on the same bases?
@@mjg4529it’s definitely not a stupid question. Cultural differences can play a part. So it would be great if someone can provide some insights about that regarding avoidant behavior for instance.
Hi! What sort of messages have you been texting her? Something that shows too much interest back is a huge no-no. Anyway this vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/p-xoY9oRY1M/v-deo.html and try to follow it up with the tips here: ua-cam.com/video/SeO0QXqY60w/v-deo.html but for the full step-by-step process on what to do, get my Ex Factor Guide 2.0 at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy Good luck!
Why is most of your videos on boyfriend and girlfriend? Dynamics of a marriage a different aren’t they? So why don’t you group things that are applicable to marriages versus boyfriend girlfriend? That would be a great help to someone like me as I start to watch your videos and then turn them off because it’s irrelevant.
Marriage is different. Indeed. I've posted a ton of marriage vids here on my channel. It's all a matter of searching for it. Here's one: ua-cam.com/video/7GL9-rFuy5k/v-deo.html
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
If it's only been a month and you still want to try with your ex, then you can reach out to your ex after the 30-day "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: ua-cam.com/video/7PcfGeJqUYo/v-deo.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: ua-cam.com/video/t6I5k55pnCE/v-deo.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
I feel you bro. I feel you. 3 years, 1 month, 5 days and she messages me saying she stopped loving me. Here is what I can tell you though bro. LOVE YOURSELF! It sounds generic, but please try and look for new hobbies, find a new diet, and honestly journal your daily life! Let your mind focus on you and work on who YOU are and slowly your ex will start to notice things (hopefully) and maybe one day they will come to their senses. Put yourself first, and slowly things will get better for you mentally. I’ve been single for a month now, but I’m in a better place with myself, but I’m willing to work things out when my ex is ready.
If it's only been a month and you still want to try with your ex, then you can reach out to your ex after the 30-day "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: ua-cam.com/video/7PcfGeJqUYo/v-deo.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: ua-cam.com/video/t6I5k55pnCE/v-deo.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com
Hi Brad ! Hope you doing well
Im your fan from Iran
Just wanna say thank you for your videos . Im working on it these days ... wish me luck 🙂
You're welcome. It's so kind of you to drop by and show your appreciation. Thanks!
Moving on will bring an ex out of the woodwork
Like clockwork
True story. But not all exes do.
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
If it's only been a month and you still want to try with your ex, then you can reach out to your ex after the 30-day "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: ua-cam.com/video/7PcfGeJqUYo/v-deo.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: ua-cam.com/video/t6I5k55pnCE/v-deo.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
If it's only been a month and you still want to try with your ex, then you can reach out to your ex after the 30-day "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: ua-cam.com/video/7PcfGeJqUYo/v-deo.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: ua-cam.com/video/t6I5k55pnCE/v-deo.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com
Men, it doesn’t matter. Never take them back. Time heals you and makes you wiser.
Time does help heal most, if not all, wounds. As I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved or if it was overall a dysfunctional/toxic relationship. It's your life and it's your decision.
@@BradBrowning Thank you for reaching out Brad. You are absolutely right, but regardless, everyone should learn what you are teaching. Your breakup videos are, well…for breakups, but they teach so much more than that.
1. If they bait you in an argument
2. If your ex wants to be friends.
3. If they want to sleep with you unless you get what you’re after.
4. If your ex wants the best of both worlds.
5. When they want to hang out.
6. If they want to play games with you.
7. If they ask for a favor.
Big no-nos. Watch the vid thoroughly though so you'll understand the concept as to why those are important and that way you can remember it easily and not slip if and when the situation calls for it.
Hey Brad, After my ex and I broke up, we hung out on August 15th, and during that time, I felt like I was able to rebuild some of the attraction we had. We were comfortable, shared some laughs, and it seemed like a positive step forward.
However, as we got into late August, I started to overthink things and became anxious about losing her. I let my insecurities take over and began chasing too much, texting her frequently and worrying that she might be seeing other guys. This anxiety reached its peak when I sent her a message saying, ‘If you are seeing someone, I’m glad you’re moving on,’ which came from a place of fear, not confidence.
We were together for 3 years, had a very intimate relationship, and I was her first love. Now, I feel like my fear of her moving on has pushed her further away. I’m looking for advice on how to step back, reset the situation, and potentially rekindle things without continuing to push her away.
Think you need to go full no contact now. I did something similar like try to rekindle memories of good times, but it's really just better to go silent. Try to take your attention and energy away from them yes I know how hard it is. Thoughts keep coming in waves through out the day. It's been 5 weeks since she left and I'm starting to feel a lot better but a long way to go. Weekends are the most difficult for me as we spent every weekend together. I try to organise days out or physical activity and spend time with my daughter from previous relationship. I still feel bitter about what she did, gave me 2 days notice before leaving. I don't want to hate on her but when I think on it helps me take her off the pedestal. She's a coward and her life won't improve unless she changes which I doubt. Try to pretend she doesn't exist anymore it's harsh I know but you need to move on (she has) and stay strong Bro.
Yeah, it most likely had but I'm glad you're aware of your own behaviour as some are completely oblivious to that. But uh oh...that was totally the wrong approach and I've talked about that here: ua-cam.com/video/juhamVEwsxU/v-deo.html You ought to review this first: ua-cam.com/video/L0hxYTCJ2hU/v-deo.html and in fact, apply the tips here too instead of taking the shortcut: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html In the future, if you're still not sure about what you're doing, I really suggest you sign up for my coaching program so I can assess your situation properly and guide you accordingly at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Coach she said me to move on and its of no use but i really love her ive been hitting workouts and all and tryna be mysterious. Weve dated for 4 years. And its been 2 months for the break up. We've been in no contact for 2 weeks. i really need her bad i pray to god and listen to your words but deep down i do not want to loose her i love her so much what do i do?? From my childhood ive never been loved and the way she did was something magical..
Hello there! What happened? Make sure to give her space first and don't bypass the no contact rule. Also, this vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/519e6C-H9zU/v-deo.html
@@BradBrowning due to my family issues i couldn't give her time which she was asking. And it went to her nerve and she was like "am done" and she knows that am dealing with abusive family.. she said things like "i dont trust/belive you AT THE POINT, AT THE MOMENT, idk anything right now" and all.. she was like "Am not done with you but am done with the situation" and after i begged and pleaded her she became cold. So i stepped back and went in no contact. We were in LDR.. and she was the girl who would cry even if id get a scratch on my body. Irdk i feel so messed up. And coz of her am leaving my abusive family and shifting to her city. Irdk how do i even approch her when am in her city. Shes become so cold that she's not listening anything.. shes been putting stories like "ive live with the memories of yours more than you" "if the love was real well meet again till that time were strangers with the memories" like the reels shes putting and as soon as i see the stories shes removing it. I really love her so much. Please help me brad. She was the one who kept me alive and stopped me from substance abuse. She gave me a hope to live. And we've been through same childhood traums. I just dont know what to do anymore. Am getting so bad mental breakdowns brad please help me. And she knows everything about what am going through. And plus i was very bad at communication coz of my past traums ive never opened up to anyone. Its been 2 weeks of no contact she doesn't open my snaps but comes on chat and leave the chat.
I begged my ex for 2 months. During this period, we had sex a few times and she never enjoyed it so much, and she missed me at one point, but I ruined my chance by arguing again. I went to her 18th birthday, and then we stopped talking for 2 weeks. After that, I made her cry and feel really bad (I don’t want to specify how). We were together for a year, and now it’s been almost 3 months since we broke up, she thinks that she had moved on. I don’t really know what to do, because we’re also classmates and she ignore me because she wanna keep distance. She said that she wanna be friends cuz I’m a very important person in her life but don’t feel love anymore. I envy her because she has friends to rely on (almost all male). She continues to reassure me that she has no intention of starting another relationship for a while, she says every time that she doesn’t want to get back together with me, even though she also mentions that I will treat my next girlfriend right.
How is she not enjoying it? Going out of your way to make sure she gets off too will make her feel special. Anyway arguments do tend to put a damper to your chances. Which step have you tried to take to get her back though? This would've been the route: ua-cam.com/video/gUBNd6pDINM/v-deo.html At this point though, try to see what your chances are at fixing this by taking my free quiz, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz
Well if me and my ex will be friends, I'd like to do that as casual. No hate, just friends:)
It's possible but depends on both of your personalities. This is my take on it: ua-cam.com/video/pv_cjzhVKAY/v-deo.html
Hey brad bro
My boyfriend and I had a fight and haven't spoken for 38 days, but we haven't blocked each other. The mistakes were his, and he has possessive, insecure, narcissistic, and toxic tendencies. He doesn't post my pictures or our outings on social media, and he doesn't show our relationship on social media at all. He only posts pictures of himself on his Instagram. He doesn't allow me to use Instagram because I talk to other boys. This is our third time going 38 days without speaking, and we've had lots of fights and breakups in our almost three-year relationship. Is it possible for him to come back to me this time?
With on-and-off relationships, oftentimes this is a sign of underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. It may be time to put things into perspective while it's still early because in 14 years spent as a relationship online coach alone, I find that a breakup is often NOT just one person's fault, so look at the roles that you've BOTH played that led to the breakup and if the issues have a chance to get resolved, and how to go about it. In most cases, the problems that led to the breakup can be resolved, but in some cases, it can't. So take time to evaluate, okay? However, I have to warn you not to ask the reasons from your ex. This is what I've discussed here along with other stuff that might help you, so this is a must-watch: ua-cam.com/video/zqAEi9PbEAA/v-deo.html But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot. Good luck!
Me an my ex broke up 4 months ago for 7weeks. She rang me out of blue after 7weeks saying she missed me. We got back together for another 7 weeks+ went away on hols together for 3 weeks. We had a fight on last night on hol and she ended again when we got back. That’s being two weeks ago, now. we met yday for coffee , spent 3 Hrs with her talking. she’s still adamant it’s over though. Made mistakes when she ended it 2 weeks ago. Just gonna go NC now and hope for best. FML lol
Fighting is the last thing you'd want to be doing with an ex you want to woo back into your life. It just sets you back big time. Were you two also like that when you were still in a relationship? What do you two always bicker about? Fighting is often unavoidable, but when it becomes too much, it’s time to nip the problem in the bud if you still can. So it's either that or you go on a break and discuss the logistics as well as how it should go and how long it should be. It's best to consider the relationship overall first, so watch this: ua-cam.com/video/XuJFf5Kch5o/v-deo.html Anyways it's best to give it time because all this arguing had taken a toll in your relationship. This may help: ua-cam.com/video/BBEhaY3gLIw/v-deo.html Perhaps you've both argued more than you had a good time with each other? It could also be you're too incompatible or stubborn to meet each other halfway. If the negatives outweigh the positives in the relationship, that's when an imbalance happens and the relationship will keel over wherein one or both people will likely abandon ship, as the case with your ex. It's time to reset things. Start with the 30-day "no contact" rule to get your ex into a psychological neutral. Here's how it can help you: y2u.be/zw0ChuXCEmw
When we first broke up the first time, he said that he is always there for me, and that he will always love me. To always reach out and he will be there for me to talk. I kind of ended the last text with kind of replaying that the second time around so as to not totally loose him in a bad way for a chance.
Hi! That's what I call the "check-in" text and believe it or not, your ex is somewhat expected to send one or more of these sooner or later and I've got just the vid for that. Discussed that in one of the vids, including how to handle that kind of message and when and/or how to reply, including what not to text, (so watch to the end of the vid) here: ua-cam.com/video/tev2-lrJq7o/v-deo.html
Does it count helping a wife in separated with if I changed her oil and checked tires. I only changed it because the kids are with her, but I can see how she would use this as a measuring stick
Yes, it does. But I think what's more important here is what caused her to want to separate in the first place. What were your issues in your marriage? On the other hand, if you don't have many issues, a separation can actually help. This vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/HHkwa5tbNC0/v-deo.html
Please never ever take an ex girlfriend back why would you do so, someone else better waiting on you please God who will love and adore and keep you I promise 😊😊😊
I've coached clients for more than a decade so I guess I'm qualified to answer this! :-) Everyone has different reasons for doing so, but a lot of the clients I've coached wanted to try to give it one last shot so they can move on without regrets or wondering about the what-ifs, particularly if the relationship and/or the person was a significant relationship to them. But in the end, it's always up to you since you know and your ex and the relationship better.
My wife contacted me yesterday telling me a funny coincidence (funny to her) in an email. She then proceeded to tell me some other things and lastly that she was hired to a new job. Mind you, a few days ago she told me I’ll never get her back and that she only wants to talk to me about the kids. So I said a few words in reply to her and then told her I was happy she was hired and congratulations. Then I said I don’t think we should communicate unless it’s about the kids. She replied with a thumbs up and I kept it at that. Was I wrong?
Nope. She made the rules and you're holding her to them. Let her feel the consequences of her actions.
I'd rather say it's opening a can of worms. If you want to fix your marriage, your wife warming up to you, albeit slowly, is actually the goal and cutting her off like that may have been a mistake. Consider hiring me as your coach so you won't be making any more of these mistakes and I can monitor your progress and offer tips on what your best move is, at www.marriageguy.com/coaching
My Ex just texted me he wanted to check in and see how I’m doing. What should I say?
It’s been a week today no contact
I signed up for your one on one but don’t know how to answer this.
I was gonna reply with I’ve been busy doing a lot of stuff. How have you been?
That way he doesn’t get annoyed because he gets annoyed if someone doesn’t reply
That's what I call the "check-in" text and believe it or not, your ex is somewhat expected to send one or more of these sooner or later and I've got just the vid for that. Discussed that in one of the vids, including how to handle that kind of message and when and/or how to reply, including what not to text, (so watch to the end of the vid) here: ua-cam.com/video/tev2-lrJq7o/v-deo.html
Some weird advice... maybe it's aimed at late teens / early 20's? As we get older relationships are for more subtle than "No, unless you give me exactly what I want." Especially when they want to re-start low key with FWB / best of both worlds.
That gives you a chance to show up differently - eg, if you were a moody b*tch or a whiney simp and drove them away you can stop that and reset their feelings for you.
By turning them down in those situation you're hitting them below the belt by rejecting them in order to manipulate.
For me, unless they're an obvious narc / fruit loop or toxic - in which case you're stupid to want them back - then rebuild how they want to re-build. Or maybe your control issues is what drove them away in the first place... 🤔
Rebuilding yourself and your own life is a must regardless of whether or not you end up wanting to try things again with your ex. No, it's geared towards 18 years and above since it's based on human psychology. The more history you have, the better.
After she blocked me i followed you advise..nd to day she unblocked me i call her but she not receiving..any chance
Don't go straight into calling her as that can be intrusive for most people. Start with texting first. This vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/TlvzBynSa9o/v-deo.html but to prevent this kind of mistake, I recommend to read my Ex Factor Guide 2.0 to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy Good luck!
My ex came back after a year truned out a bad idea she left after a month i told her im not interested in being friends but we ended up sleeping together (she played the game well) turned out thats all she wanted
She misses something! You still play a role though. Watch and follow the tips here first: ua-cam.com/video/qoEZiPn9EH0/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/pXKPxAXaunc/v-deo.html but at the same time, also employ the following suggestions to get the ball rolling: ua-cam.com/video/gUBNd6pDINM/v-deo.html
@@BradBrowning this may either sound like a stupid question or make for a great video.
But I'm a westerner and ex is eastern and there is lots of different dating and relationship differences do these things still apply similar from different cultures or relay on the same bases?
@@mjg4529it’s definitely not a stupid question. Cultural differences can play a part. So it would be great if someone can provide some insights about that regarding avoidant behavior for instance.
We started texting after NC she said she thinks of me every day, but now she doesn't text back again, ghosted. What to do?
Move on. If you text back, you lose. Forget her. Find someone else.
Hi! What sort of messages have you been texting her? Something that shows too much interest back is a huge no-no. Anyway this vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/p-xoY9oRY1M/v-deo.html and try to follow it up with the tips here: ua-cam.com/video/SeO0QXqY60w/v-deo.html but for the full step-by-step process on what to do, get my Ex Factor Guide 2.0 at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy Good luck!
Why is most of your videos on boyfriend and girlfriend? Dynamics of a marriage a different aren’t they? So why don’t you group things that are applicable to marriages versus boyfriend girlfriend? That would be a great help to someone like me as I start to watch your videos and then turn them off because it’s irrelevant.
Marriage is different. Indeed. I've posted a ton of marriage vids here on my channel. It's all a matter of searching for it. Here's one: ua-cam.com/video/7GL9-rFuy5k/v-deo.html
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
If it's only been a month and you still want to try with your ex, then you can reach out to your ex after the 30-day "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: ua-cam.com/video/7PcfGeJqUYo/v-deo.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: ua-cam.com/video/t6I5k55pnCE/v-deo.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
I feel you bro. I feel you. 3 years, 1 month, 5 days and she messages me saying she stopped loving me. Here is what I can tell you though bro. LOVE YOURSELF! It sounds generic, but please try and look for new hobbies, find a new diet, and honestly journal your daily life! Let your mind focus on you and work on who YOU are and slowly your ex will start to notice things (hopefully) and maybe one day they will come to their senses. Put yourself first, and slowly things will get better for you mentally. I’ve been single for a month now, but I’m in a better place with myself, but I’m willing to work things out when my ex is ready.
If it's only been a month and you still want to try with your ex, then you can reach out to your ex after the 30-day "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: ua-cam.com/video/7PcfGeJqUYo/v-deo.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: ua-cam.com/video/t6I5k55pnCE/v-deo.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com