It is a jaw dropping experience when you learn that someone in your life is this way. You literally start to see everything in your own perspective and they can't stand it. So much drama arises, and just pure annoyance from them. But truth is truth, and it is a hard pill to swallow for them when you're now not always their "yes men".
I was litterally thinking this...just this morning. We tend to get annoyed with ourselves too thinking how did we not see it. The unusual thing is.....I also then realised that none of her friends or family see it so reassures me that they do play the false role well
I just want to say thank you sweetheart I couldn't have done it without all you self-aware people and with all you counselors but I have a UA-cam channel coming out and it's called keeping it real with Phil okay I'm not trying to take any businesses I'm not trying to do anything I'm just trying to get this word out there but it is narcissistic awareness with a Twist people on social media or not real everybody on their is taking your information and they're using it in the wrong way okay because real people aren't on social media and you know who I'm talking about I'm not judging I'm not doing anything Pete you got to get the word out there and it's kind of like it's kind of like a serial killer promoting don't murder okay you see what I'm saying saying people with a high self-esteem and all that are not on social media so there's one way to destroy these people and if you have proof just tell them you're going to put them on social media then see if they call the cops these people are ruining the world they are ruining the world and we have to stop it and thank you very much for your channel because the more and more this happens the more and more it's going to get taken care of thank you if I was good people all work together we can all put our heads together and just keep coming up with new information right thank you
@@IndigoBlue-td9ho "none of her friends and family see it"..they dont, they are brainwashed and so were you. So was i. Its insane. It makes me worry for the next family, or idea or ideal that will fool me. It puts me on my guard, but maybe thats just the PTSD talking.
And then they finally have the balls they need to leave and finally you can rationalize the entire situationship and see how they have manipulated you from day one!!
Most times God doesn’t let us see their suffering because they know our kindness might not bear to see them suffer. Trust me they are. If we actually think back. We will see that they already started suffering small small before we left. I certainly did, and I used to wonder why does this woman have so much bad luck on her lol. Not knowing na their punishment Now just imagine how it is as youre not there to catch their fall. We laugh last
Everyone in my life was a narcissist except for my wife. Now I see them aging and reaping off what they have sown. And I am finally on top, happy and fulfilled.
Cool video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
I’m in the exact same situation as you. My wife of 16 years just left me unexpectedly two months ago, and is spreading complete lies about me to all her friends and family. I love her so much and have put in every effort to bring her back but she remains very cold. I’m realizing that there’s no getting through to a person like this, once they decide that they are done with you, and they need a new supply, nothing you can say will ever change her mind. Beware that she will try to come back, but you have to say no, or the whole nightmare will start all over again.
I have 3 kids, the two eldest, 17 and 15, have recently seen the side of their mother that I have known for a couple of years. It is a terrible time for them. She refuses to accept what they want, she moved in with a man after knowing him for three weeks. Now my 9yo is getting lovebombed by mum and the new partner. I try to protect him but sadly the law protects her and I have to stand by an be ready to put his broken heart back together when he realises the truth. Life is hard for the children of these creatures.😢
@@vunafunaki6946 too true. Luckily I have the girls 100% and sent my son one night per week. It takes time to “detox” him after that visit. But good will win my friend!
That is sad I have an ex narcissistic friend and just before we had our final argument she told me her adult daughter had not seen her in a year. The children do find out in the end it may just take a long time.
Really wonderful video. Empathy, reciprocity, intimacy, "we not me", togetherness, partnership - these are all alien concepts. I myself do not believe that any of this catches up to them, as such. I believe it's perhaps more accurate to say that, despite the carefully crafted image they sell to the world for years if not decades, at core they are actually the unhappiest people you will ever know. They just hide it extremely well. And if that works for them, good luck.
Thank you 🙌🏼 I work with older people at times and I definitely see this. They still continue to blame other people for their situations and circumstances, no ability to self reflect, introspect or change their behaviour
I was the first one to realize that one of our friends is a covert narcissist, I was his target. The envy gave him away. The other guys noticed something started calling him Hollywood boy. They seen the acting, I have seen behind the mask. When confronted, he denied everything and disappeared.
I had 2 people envying me. So sick. I always try to treat people as friends but I find it more and more difficult to do as envy doesn't allow some people to be friends with anybody (only with their flying monkeys).
Emotional toddler + intellectual manipulative Adult + double face DRAMA + Wicked HEART + making CONFUSION and making stress and wait for REACTION ----IF not leave You
Do not wish bad karma on anyone. The worst kind of karma is to wish or enjoy seeing or hoping harm on to others. Regardless of what they have done. It will come back on you. Only God can judge. Oddly your anger or want or wish for justice can be felt by a narc. Even from miles away. They will feed on this. Feed on you. Trust me they know. Get off on it. I have seen this too many times, and doing this will only weaken you. Forgive them. Heal. Stay calm. Go silent. Block, go no contact. Get stronger. Learn the Life Lesson for your next relationship. Know what to look for. Move on.
OK, I can't believe what you said in your post because you are 100% correct. I am proof of that. I wished a DUI on my ex female covert narc via karma and weeks later I recieved a DUI myself after the break up. My ex wife wished karma on me and my life fell apart. My dad fell broke his shoulder and hip & is bed ridden, I lost my girlfriend, DUI, and got fired. Now I exist just to pay my debt to sin. I didnt understand the backlash of summoning such powers to engulf me. I've never been this low in my life and I see no way it's getting better.
If you learned from this that is awesome. Forgive. Move on. But maybe the lesson is even bigger than that. Never drink and drive. Please. You could seriously hurt someone and even yourself. You just walked away with a ticket. Be thankful for that. It could have been a lot worse. Take the DUI as a lesson. If there is any real issue that you should take away from this is that. PLEASE DON’T DRINK AND DRIVE
My brother sent this text message to me, out of the blue: "I'm f-ng sorry you hate me. I love you with all my heart. You're the only true sister ever." Who the heck thinks they are the other person and that they "know" what the other person thinks and feels? And, what? A veiled slam against the other sister too. This isn't some young man- He's a 61 year old!
P.s.- I didn't respond to his text ^^^. Yet, it does personally bother me the way he "f.o.g."s at others, historically. Uses 'fear', 'obligation', and 'guilt'. Is a classic triangulator, manipulative, and a blamer/shamer Way Too Often.
It caught up with them early in life. Tragic for both victims and the narcissist. They really are both victims of fear and greed. We all fail to be what our potential has to offer. But in all social, family ,religious and political societies the most aggressive and manipulative take power. So civilizations etc have a life cycle. It's a lot more than the individual narcissist that collapse in the end.
I am about to derail the train. I currently have a order of protection against me, and when I walk into court I am going to hand them literally everything they want. I'm asking that this order of protection to be extended
Thank you Anouskha. I feel bad again because of a toxic relationship years ago which cant let go emotionally eventho I know on a logical basis that it makes no sense. This video helped. Thank yo again.
I’ve just tippled that there might be one in my family not really got a clue how to begin trying to get them out. Not 100% sure they are but listened to these videos it’s really really looking that way
I’ve been having a relationship with a narcissist, promises and stuff, and never follows through and always wanting control on how I keep my nails and always tell me to keep fresh
Disconnected from reality. Mine even said," I will hurt you ", when I first met him. He's hurting himself by taking anabolic steroids. He's on steroids for body building. So fake!
What is it with body builders?! I get that people who seek that kind of physical appearance will have certain personality traits but do they all have to be narcissists? I’m stereotyping but I do think people who gravitate to that sport should be approached cautiously, especially if you think steroids are involved.
I played the Atty for a whole year defending myself 😢🙄🥴Its over thank God for that and got my peace back finally. Definitely 💯 learned alot about myself and GREATFUL for that! Edit: I'm doing ok mentally and have my peace 🕊️ But he lives 8 doors down and it's the energy I still feel 🤷♀️not bad but it's there. Well he's acting like the "victim" go figure and I'm sending Love and Light with a bit of ⚡in between 😆💖🙏✨
Guy I know certainly showed these traits from an early age, really loved to bully, but he's married now, and has relationship issues with his wife. I got a feeling she's seeing what kind of person he really is, and is a little disappointed, perahps divorce eventually.......
many narcist want to use u to tell their problems to but yet provide nothing in return.u many times will find out when u all of a sudden have a problem and need to talk about.they will quickly revert back to talking about themselves.
got to take into account that Narcissus fell in love with his own reflection, and it appears that demons enter into people through mirrors, so demons are usually dominating the minds of narcs, it's quite spooky really, I suspected my ex was a narc, it was her love bombing that won me over, and later on, the belittling attitude that put me off her, but, when we lived together, I noticed that she had to spend an hour in front of a mirror before we went out, even just to go shopping, She dumped me a few times during the years we knew each other, maaaan. I was a bell end, lol
I do believe that a narcissist can change. The funny thing about listening to all counselors and therapists is that God seems to not be an integral part of the conversation. God can change anyone who desires to.
Is God still here or leave for an alternate universe or reality in disgust of just how bad most of the human race is. I say this because I have prayed and prayed for years and decades, but have yet to get an answer or any guidance.
They don’t want to change how can they. When no acknowledgment of any wrongdoing this older narcissistic person. Would intentionally say all the time I don’t see anything wrong with what there doing. He was a greedy thief and liar stilling from the government daily. Was proud of what and he doing down right proud of it.
The most important part of your comment is if they desire to change. You are right God can change anyone, the average narcissist doesn't believe in God.They are unwilling to acknowledge something is wrong and get help, so that's why they continue their toxic behaviours.God will never force himself on anyone.Whosever will may come!!
It's all coming to an end now for my mother and my sister will soon follow. They have never had close friends or been able to keep a relationship. They will be relying on their kids to have sympathy for them now they are older but their masks have finally fallen
@@mandywalker8641 my mom 's mask is coming down. she is old an let her self go. I don't feel sorry for her 😐. cheated 30 years with a married man. he never left his wife. I told her , " you showed me what not to do. "
When i confronted my partner about what she did to me. How she has nobody in her corner. No friends no family who care. She sends me an email stating she is sick of everyone. She doesnt care anymore. And included a pic of her holding a knife to her own throat. It was all for attention and sympathy. She never hurt herself.
@Ask Anoushka - How much of your work is theory in terms of how they fare when it all catches up with them and how much have you witnessed it first-hand? I've often wondered about that.
hi, just going to throw this out there, how does someone become a narc? like are these behaviours learnt from environment? adopted from family dynamics? or are they born with this 'defect?' also if a narc is acting like someone they are not, is the work of acting in itself a narcisstic profession to some sort? i mean most celebs are narc lets be real...sorry loads of questions...but i'm intrigued to the moon and back
My mother used to say that she wanted to be like my wife. My wife is 100% authentic and kind she is not acting this isn't a movie. I used to get hell from my two guy friends because my mother played a flirty Mary Poppins when they came to the door and I wasn't thrilled. They told me I had the best mother in the world and I was ungrateful.
When you say that, a narcissist can’t change, it implies that either they can’t be saved by Jesus because they won’t admit that they’ve sinned or if they’ve come to him they’re definitely saved by him because it’s not their fault that they’re the way that they are, which do you think it is that that’s a very confusing thing for me
Once I realized she used starvation via means of prioritizing her requests while delaying the required meals or not having food in the house to have the energy to accomplish said prioritized tasks, I left. There was absolutely no need for the constant BS. It was as if she would create new issues and continue to evolve them indefinitely for every situation, constantly moving the goal posts. Now the unfavourable opinion, I have not met a woman whom is not manipulative like a narcissist therefore I seem to have developed a hatred for women despite knowing otherwise. I would rather spend my life with a group of male monks than spend another minute trying to assess whether the woman across from me is evil or not.
if you discard these demons, their world falls apart. if you come back around them, whatever what was to happen, they don't get the full effect of Karma. Once you leave and go on with your life, Karma comes in and let's the demon has it. You get in the way of what Karma has for them. They keep you around because they know Karma doesn't come around with you in it. You have leave alone and live your life, get counseling, become your true self.
I was doing everything for my narc ex, still she had the audacity to say that I didnt do anything for her. My love, my time, my commitment, my mother also showered love to her. But she disregarded everything. One night I cried, then in the morning I broke up with her. As she belonged to an orthodox Indian family, where its very difficult to have a pre marital sex and relationships mostly, she was also lying to her parents about me. I went to her home and told them everything, she was begging me not to do it as her innocence infront of her parents will be over. But I did. And then cut all ties from her...
What are your thoughts on putting a hex on a narcissist? We can’t do anything in the physical world cause they’re so good at manipulating other people and playing the victim but what if we put a hex on them?
Whats your advice on dealing with a narcissist who you opened up to at the start of your job, caught onto, reported, nothing done, and is now smear campaigning everyone no matter how hard you work?? Also my parents are the worst flying monkeys to ever exist so they wont even let me leave my job because they work at the same place. My parents now don't trust me after he told them my secrets, I don't know what to do...
Consider on the down-low to seek employment positions elsewhere. Do not say a thing about it to anyone. Stack your cash, and make exit plan. Go, and don't look back.
The fantasy is Anoushka. All the hopes and dreams that she comes up with when she is with these people by herself. That’s kind of how it works. I don’t think of it as evil.
@@WF-j1m Telypethicaly people can torture other people without being spotted. It's called secret ways to hurt a person or victim intentionally. Since one month I've been suffering from this kind of attack, it's really dangerous.. Based on my research Very small number of people have this kind of skill or ability
You need strong mind boundaries. Self respect is an awesome blocker for the bullies voice in your head, for his anger and projected blame and undue hatred. You did YOUR best. You have your own principals. You should get used to not accepting or tolerating Johnny nonsense in your head and in real life. Use pith, reality truth, sarcasm and put down the shameless toad that puts you down. I literally step on my ex narcs face in my mind with every step I take into a much safer more peaceful calmer and less contrived drama filled narc show life. It empowers you to fight the narc. As you silence his nonsense and take your mind life and decision making back from the evilmask wearing gollum creature that faked it's foot in through your door. Vampires can only get in if you invite them. Mine doesn't love bomb me so much as self pity bomb me and id get sucked in and mangled for caring. Stop caring. That's the only way to take yourself back. Mirror THEM heart for heart. And respect yourself every step of the way. We fear things way more than they usually hurt us anyway. Concentrate on caring for you instead of fearing your intimidator and controller.g
@@stefanghabooli6483 it's not about bullies voice, so Just stop with your nonsense, you don't know about telepathy voice, Just do some more research, some people really have very special ability and skill that most of the people don't have, i experience it.. I'm not blaming anyone.. but yeah there are people who have this kind of skill or whatever you want to call. It was happened to other people too, I'm not the only one. Just look at the above my comment
@@stefanghabooli6483 for example i have some kind of special stomach capabilitiy to store the food and then control them also disappear them, i can do this for a week with eating & without any worry or medical help, but i never told this to anyone, not even to my family members. Because it's rare.. so i hope you understand 😂😂 I just want to tell you that there are people who have telepathy ability to give voice or message to other people it's also rare, i experience this too. But i know that people will not going to believe. WF-j1m this person were also experienced that kind of telepathy message Just like me.
Yep 3 months on from disgard / big bust up, shes posting passive agressive quotes and memes , dedpite senying new supply , its obv gone wronv already after love bombing lol...Her pists were ssying she diesnt care what peopke think amd shes never dating again etc etc ...😂 Same old drama she used to post up about me...Also shes saying she doesnt have to keep telling ger side of the story etc etc 😂
My neighbor was asked by management to clean her dog poop patio. So she bought a new patio umbrella and matching cushions for her lounge chairs. She added flowering plants. All for show! Because She Never Cleans The Poop!!! After two weeks, neighbor was FINED by management for dog poop on the patio. She bought another umbrella to hide the poop patio from the manager. She just got an eviction notice. And a DUI. Jesus is Hilarious!!!! ❤🙏🏽
@juliettecrossley4864 2 That is an extremely blasphemous thing to say about jesus who sacrificed his life for others and even on the cross while being executed cared for those next to him and for the pain his mother was experiencing watching her son be tortured. You should be ashamed of yourself… But at the same time you just revealed the ugliness inside you which leads me to believe you are only here to stop others from healing.
Because I have a sister Stepmother's Outlaws I call him now and all these people are drug addicts and I'm a drug addict right and all this stuff which I'm not but the fact of the matter is is drug addicts or whatever if you're not a drug dealer okay but if you're at home doing drugs you're hurting yourself okay but if you have to stay at home and put somebody down to make yourself feel better and you don't do drugs what are your excuses what's your excuse you're naturally a bad person that's all I can say get a life you know what I mean get a life sooner or later it's going to catch up to him it will it's going to catch up to them
It is a jaw dropping experience when you learn that someone in your life is this way. You literally start to see everything in your own perspective and they can't stand it. So much drama arises, and just pure annoyance from them. But truth is truth, and it is a hard pill to swallow for them when you're now not always their "yes men".
I was litterally thinking this...just this morning. We tend to get annoyed with ourselves too thinking how did we not see it.
The unusual thing is.....I also then realised that none of her friends or family see it so reassures me that they do play the false role well
I just want to say thank you sweetheart I couldn't have done it without all you self-aware people and with all you counselors but I have a UA-cam channel coming out and it's called keeping it real with Phil okay I'm not trying to take any businesses I'm not trying to do anything I'm just trying to get this word out there but it is narcissistic awareness with a Twist people on social media or not real everybody on their is taking your information and they're using it in the wrong way okay because real people aren't on social media and you know who I'm talking about I'm not judging I'm not doing anything Pete you got to get the word out there and it's kind of like it's kind of like a serial killer promoting don't murder okay you see what I'm saying saying people with a high self-esteem and all that are not on social media so there's one way to destroy these people and if you have proof just tell them you're going to put them on social media then see if they call the cops these people are ruining the world they are ruining the world and we have to stop it and thank you very much for your channel because the more and more this happens the more and more it's going to get taken care of thank you if I was good people all work together we can all put our heads together and just keep coming up with new information right thank you
@@IndigoBlue-td9ho "none of her friends and family see it"..they dont, they are brainwashed and so were you. So was i. Its insane. It makes me worry for the next family, or idea or ideal that will fool me. It puts me on my guard, but maybe thats just the PTSD talking.
And then they finally have the balls they need to leave and finally you can rationalize the entire situationship and see how they have manipulated you from day one!!
100%
Eventually i woke up...after trying trying and trying.🙏
i dont want revenge i just want JUSTICE why should they get away with it 😢😢😢
God does not sleep.😊
Our NO CONTACT is their karma.
they will pay for eternity.
Most times God doesn’t let us see their suffering because they know our kindness might not bear to see them suffer. Trust me they are.
If we actually think back. We will see that they already started suffering small small before we left. I certainly did, and I used to wonder why does this woman have so much bad luck on her lol.
Not knowing na their punishment
Now just imagine how it is as youre not there to catch their fall.
We laugh last
Justice??? Living inside their on skin is karma enough...
Everyone in my life was a narcissist except for my wife. Now I see them aging and reaping off what they have sown. And I am finally on top, happy and fulfilled.
Cool video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
I’m in the exact same situation as you. My wife of 16 years just left me unexpectedly two months ago, and is spreading complete lies about me to all her friends and family. I love her so much and have put in every effort to bring her back but she remains very cold. I’m realizing that there’s no getting through to a person like this, once they decide that they are done with you, and they need a new supply, nothing you can say will ever change her mind. Beware that she will try to come back, but you have to say no, or the whole nightmare will start all over again.
And once the mask drops, you can't unsee the truth anymore than you can unring a bell!!
I have 3 kids, the two eldest, 17 and 15, have recently seen the side of their mother that I have known for a couple of years. It is a terrible time for them. She refuses to accept what they want, she moved in with a man after knowing him for three weeks. Now my 9yo is getting lovebombed by mum and the new partner. I try to protect him but sadly the law protects her and I have to stand by an be ready to put his broken heart back together when he realises the truth. Life is hard for the children of these creatures.😢
So sad to have God's children in the care of that evil monster the devil himself or in modern term the narcissist
@@vunafunaki6946 too true. Luckily I have the girls 100% and sent my son one night per week. It takes time to “detox” him after that visit. But good will win my friend!
Heartbreaking for children especially. ❤
That is sad I have an ex narcissistic friend and just before we had our final argument she told me her adult daughter had not seen her in a year. The children do find out in the end it may just take a long time.
@@jamescomber5531 parental alienation. So sorry 😔
My narcissist (now ex) engineered what became a reverse discard, and her new supply (married) dropped her like a hot potato after I divorced her!..
It all caught up to my next narc. Almost 67yrs, had a massive stroke. Laid in his kitchen, for 4 hrs. Hes now in a nursing home. Lost it all!!!
Stay strong and send him grapes in the post😂
@@leonasweny1525 I would be inclined to send a congratulations card too 🤣
You are so right.
I see him as pathetic and sad.
Now he wants me now🤷
@@fallon7616 stay away ,remember they never change
@@fallon7616 don’t fall for his hoovering,run away as far as you can
Really wonderful video. Empathy, reciprocity, intimacy, "we not me", togetherness, partnership - these are all alien concepts. I myself do not believe that any of this catches up to them, as such. I believe it's perhaps more accurate to say that, despite the carefully crafted image they sell to the world for years if not decades, at core they are actually the unhappiest people you will ever know. They just hide it extremely well. And if that works for them, good luck.
They end up lonely and in pain
Anouska, you rock!! Keep speaking the truth!!❤❤
Thank you 🙌🏼
I work with older people at times and I definitely see this. They still continue to blame other people for their situations and circumstances, no ability to self reflect, introspect or change their behaviour
You are absolutely brilliant my lady!
I lived it a few times for I worn my heart on my vest = I was low hanging fruit.
Thank you for being there , there"s still beauty in this world !
And ye shall know the truth , and the truth shall set you free . Big love from Manchester UK ❤️🙏🃏 xx
I was the first one to realize that one of our friends is a covert narcissist, I was his target. The envy gave him away. The other guys noticed something started calling him Hollywood boy. They seen the acting, I have seen behind the mask. When confronted, he denied everything and disappeared.
I had 2 people envying me. So sick. I always try to treat people as friends but I find it more and more difficult to do as envy doesn't allow some people to be friends with anybody (only with their flying monkeys).
My husband used to call my sister Ms Perfect. I didn't catch on until 50 years later!! I get it now! 😂🤣
More words of wisdom to help me heal. ❤
I love her
We fell into the snare my dear.
Only God can change them ❤
Pharaoh? King of Tyre? Herod? Judas? Only with repentance or maybe resurrection.
So True
That was the main last thing I said to him in my parting.
It's been three weeks and one day, today
But I left (inside) 8 years ago
Emotional toddler + intellectual manipulative Adult + double face DRAMA + Wicked HEART + making CONFUSION and making stress and wait for REACTION ----IF not leave You
Do not wish bad karma on anyone. The worst kind of karma is to wish or enjoy seeing or hoping harm on to others. Regardless of what they have done. It will come back on you. Only God can judge.
Oddly your anger or want or wish for justice can be felt by a narc. Even from miles away. They will feed on this. Feed on you. Trust me they know. Get off on it. I have seen this too many times, and doing this will only weaken you.
Forgive them. Heal. Stay calm. Go silent. Block, go no contact. Get stronger. Learn the Life Lesson for your next relationship. Know what to look for. Move on.
OK, I can't believe what you said in your post because you are 100% correct. I am proof of that. I wished a DUI on my ex female covert narc via karma and weeks later I recieved a DUI myself after the break up. My ex wife wished karma on me and my life fell apart. My dad fell broke his shoulder and hip & is bed ridden, I lost my girlfriend, DUI, and got fired. Now I exist just to pay my debt to sin. I didnt understand the backlash of summoning such powers to engulf me. I've never been this low in my life and I see no way it's getting better.
If you learned from this that is awesome. Forgive. Move on.
But maybe the lesson is even bigger than that. Never drink and drive. Please. You could seriously hurt someone and even yourself. You just walked away with a ticket. Be thankful for that. It could have been a lot worse.
Take the DUI as a lesson. If there is any real issue that you should take away from this is that.
PLEASE DON’T DRINK AND DRIVE
Their karma is that you are no longer in their life and there's no way they will never get back in your life.
The more you listen to this channel, you know she is an expert on this topic.
PLEASE CONTINUE TO SHARE YOUR TRUTH.
During his cycle of self pity he runs to his sister
Emergency supply ie : pity.
@@nessauk2786 that's what I was thinking 😕🙄😥😳
My brother sent this text message to me, out of the blue: "I'm f-ng sorry you hate me. I love you with all my heart. You're the only true sister ever."
Who the heck thinks they are the other person and that they "know" what the other person thinks and feels? And, what? A veiled slam against the other sister too.
This isn't some young man- He's a 61 year old!
P.s.- I didn't respond to his text ^^^. Yet, it does personally bother me the way he "f.o.g."s at others, historically. Uses 'fear', 'obligation', and 'guilt'. Is a classic triangulator, manipulative, and a blamer/shamer Way Too Often.
Hi Anoushka.
Thanks for sharing and informing people.
Please continue with the topic.
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It caught up with them early in life. Tragic for both victims and the narcissist. They really are both victims of fear and greed. We all fail to be what our potential has to offer. But in all social, family ,religious and political societies the most aggressive and manipulative take power. So civilizations etc have a life cycle. It's a lot more than the individual narcissist that collapse in the end.
Thanks Anouska for your information 👍
I am about to derail the train. I currently have a order of protection against me, and when I walk into court I am going to hand them literally everything they want. I'm asking that this order of protection to be extended
Thank you for the advice,much love to you and everyone ❤
I love you so much
Spot on again. I disagree with your last video I watched but you are awesome, keep it up
Thank you Anouskha. I feel bad again because of a toxic relationship years ago which cant let go emotionally eventho I know on a logical basis that it makes no sense. This video helped. Thank yo again.
They spend a long long time in front of the mirror, practicing fake expressions
Or they record their voice over and over to master their manipulaton tone
In the long run, we all get what we give. Narcissists give malintent. They'll get malintent.
I believe everyone reaps what they sow, good or bad.
True.................. 110% TRUE.............
I’m a narcissist and I am changing and I discovered it on my own.
I respect and admire you for recognising and posting about this. Genuinely.
Seek God man is not that easy to beat I'm thru it and I'm trying to save more monsters like there is still hope
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Ur not a real narcissist then because they're demon 👿 possessed.. you have personality disorder 😮
Maybe you aren’t ? By all accounts , narcs don’t change . Maybe you just have some narc traits ??
I can only hope you are right. 16yr married to one before she found fault to divorce. I was in my new house 6 weeks. I hope she never gets closure.
I’ve just tippled that there might be one in my family not really got a clue how to begin trying to get them out. Not 100% sure they are but listened to these videos it’s really really looking that way
Their alleged fabulosity fades.☠️ 😈👍
I’ve been having a relationship with a narcissist, promises and stuff, and never follows through and always wanting control on how I keep my nails and always tell me to keep fresh
Thank you!
It's more than mental... it's spiritual.
I often think of how Howard Hughes had such a tragic end of life despite all the money in the world.
what?
Disconnected from reality.
Mine even said," I will hurt you ", when I first met him.
He's hurting himself by taking anabolic steroids. He's on steroids for body building. So fake!
Big arms & angry combined with a small wasted away dick can make a girl sick.
What is it with body builders?! I get that people who seek that kind of physical appearance will have certain personality traits but do they all have to be narcissists? I’m stereotyping but I do think people who gravitate to that sport should be approached cautiously, especially if you think steroids are involved.
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Low self esteem.. Much ego.
Well said and true.
They dicard you. When it's you, that should be discarding them.
I played the Atty for a whole year defending myself 😢🙄🥴Its over thank God for that and got my peace back finally. Definitely 💯 learned alot about myself and GREATFUL for that! Edit: I'm doing ok mentally and have my peace 🕊️ But he lives 8 doors down and it's the energy I still feel 🤷♀️not bad but it's there. Well he's acting like the "victim" go figure and I'm sending Love and Light with a bit of ⚡in between 😆💖🙏✨
Bring it on...hope they get whats coming good video..ive had plenty dealings with one
Spot on!
Guy I know certainly showed these traits from an early age, really loved to bully, but he's married now, and has relationship issues with his wife. I got a feeling she's seeing what kind of person he really is, and is a little disappointed, perahps divorce eventually.......
Guess this explains why the ex covert narcissist barely talked and gave short brief answers. Because he didn't want to tell on himself.
many narcist want to use u to tell their problems to but yet provide nothing in return.u many times will find out when u all of a sudden have a problem and need to talk about.they will quickly revert back to talking about themselves.
got to take into account that Narcissus fell in love with his own reflection, and it appears that demons enter into people through mirrors, so demons are usually dominating the minds of narcs, it's quite spooky really, I suspected my ex was a narc, it was her love bombing that won me over, and later on, the belittling attitude that put me off her, but, when we lived together, I noticed that she had to spend an hour in front of a mirror before we went out, even just to go shopping, She dumped me a few times during the years we knew each other, maaaan. I was a bell end, lol
THANK YOU SO MUCH.
It doesn’t always catch up with them. Of course it always does in the after life
Karma never disappoints.. ❤
Takes so long though.
I do believe that a narcissist can change. The funny thing about listening to all counselors and therapists is that God seems to not be an integral part of the conversation. God can change anyone who desires to.
Is God still here or leave for an alternate universe or reality in disgust of just how bad most of the human race is.
I say this because I have prayed and prayed for years and decades, but have yet to get an answer or any guidance.
They don’t want to change how can they. When no acknowledgment of any wrongdoing this older narcissistic person. Would intentionally say all the time I don’t see anything wrong with what there doing. He was a greedy thief and liar stilling from the government daily. Was proud of what and he doing down right proud of it.
The most important part of your comment is if they desire to change.
You are right God can change anyone, the average narcissist doesn't believe in God.They are unwilling to acknowledge something is wrong and get help, so that's why they continue their toxic behaviours.God will never force himself on anyone.Whosever will may come!!
, God may or may not exist
People can change on their own without a spirit lingering around
YAHOO! good news
Insightful 😊
It's all coming to an end now for my mother and my sister will soon follow. They have never had close friends or been able to keep a relationship. They will be relying on their kids to have sympathy for them now they are older but their masks have finally fallen
@@mandywalker8641 my mom 's mask is coming down. she is old an let her self go. I don't feel sorry for her 😐. cheated 30 years with a married man. he never left his wife. I told her , " you showed me what not to do. "
When i confronted my partner about what she did to me. How she has nobody in her corner. No friends no family who care. She sends me an email stating she is sick of everyone. She doesnt care anymore. And included a pic of her holding a knife to her own throat.
It was all for attention and sympathy. She never hurt herself.
@Ask Anoushka - How much of your work is theory in terms of how they fare when it all catches up with them and how much have you witnessed it first-hand? I've often wondered about that.
hi, just going to throw this out there, how does someone become a narc? like are these behaviours learnt from environment? adopted from family dynamics? or are they born with this 'defect?' also if a narc is acting like someone they are not, is the work of acting in itself a narcisstic profession to some sort? i mean most celebs are narc lets be real...sorry loads of questions...but i'm intrigued to the moon and back
We ALL hide behind certain personas. Self reflection is a very handy talent
My mother used to say that she wanted to be like my wife. My wife is 100% authentic and kind she is not acting this isn't a movie. I used to get hell from my two guy friends because my mother played a flirty Mary Poppins when they came to the door and I wasn't thrilled. They told me I had the best mother in the world and I was ungrateful.
When you say that, a narcissist can’t change, it implies that either they can’t be saved by Jesus because they won’t admit that they’ve sinned or if they’ve come to him they’re definitely saved by him because it’s not their fault that they’re the way that they are, which do you think it is that that’s a very confusing thing for me
She started dating my best friend like 3 weeks after. Ive been only 5 month with that girl and i'm still lost. Lost 2 people.
Woo hoo! 1st 😃
Lol 😂 someone had to be 1st 🏆
Once I realized she used starvation via means of prioritizing her requests while delaying the required meals or not having food in the house to have the energy to accomplish said prioritized tasks, I left.
There was absolutely no need for the constant BS. It was as if she would create new issues and continue to evolve them indefinitely for every situation, constantly moving the goal posts.
Now the unfavourable opinion, I have not met a woman whom is not manipulative like a narcissist therefore I seem to have developed a hatred for women despite knowing otherwise.
I would rather spend my life with a group of male monks than spend another minute trying to assess whether the woman across from me is evil or not.
Thats very true
if you discard these demons, their world falls apart. if you come back around them, whatever what was to happen, they don't get the full effect of Karma. Once you leave and go on with your life, Karma comes in and let's the demon has it. You get in the way of what Karma has for them. They keep you around because they know Karma doesn't come around with you in it. You have leave alone and live your life, get counseling, become your true self.
So true ☝
I was doing everything for my narc ex, still she had the audacity to say that I didnt do anything for her. My love, my time, my commitment, my mother also showered love to her. But she disregarded everything. One night I cried, then in the morning I broke up with her. As she belonged to an orthodox Indian family, where its very difficult to have a pre marital sex and relationships mostly, she was also lying to her parents about me. I went to her home and told them everything, she was begging me not to do it as her innocence infront of her parents will be over. But I did. And then cut all ties from her...
What are your thoughts on putting a hex on a narcissist? We can’t do anything in the physical world cause they’re so good at manipulating other people and playing the victim but what if we put a hex on them?
I was married to a Narc....he knows l am going to win. Paganism is so very powerful
We are best pals, l may even re marry him !
Whats your advice on dealing with a narcissist who you opened up to at the start of your job, caught onto, reported, nothing done, and is now smear campaigning everyone no matter how hard you work??
Also my parents are the worst flying monkeys to ever exist so they wont even let me leave my job because they work at the same place.
My parents now don't trust me after he told them my secrets, I don't know what to do...
Consider on the down-low to seek employment positions elsewhere. Do not say a thing about it to anyone. Stack your cash, and make exit plan. Go, and don't look back.
The fantasy is Anoushka. All the hopes and dreams that she comes up with when she is with these people by herself. That’s kind of how it works. I don’t think of it as evil.
Wish I could talk with you
I’ve noticed they’re poor copies following a narc authoritative leader
They are torturing me via telepathically like how it can be possible? 🙄
Yes. They can. It happened to me. Psalm 58 and lots of praying for 9 months finally helped me.
@@WF-j1m Telypethicaly people can torture other people without being spotted.
It's called secret ways to hurt a person or victim intentionally.
Since one month I've been suffering from this kind of attack, it's really dangerous..
Based on my research Very small number of people have this kind of skill or ability
You need strong mind boundaries. Self respect is an awesome blocker for the bullies voice in your head, for his anger and projected blame and undue hatred. You did YOUR best. You have your own principals. You should get used to not accepting or tolerating Johnny nonsense in your head and in real life. Use pith, reality truth, sarcasm and put down the shameless toad that puts you down. I literally step on my ex narcs face in my mind with every step I take into a much safer more peaceful calmer and less contrived drama filled narc show life. It empowers you to fight the narc. As you silence his nonsense and take your mind life and decision making back from the evilmask wearing gollum creature that faked it's foot in through your door. Vampires can only get in if you invite them. Mine doesn't love bomb me so much as self pity bomb me and id get sucked in and mangled for caring. Stop caring. That's the only way to take yourself back. Mirror THEM heart for heart. And respect yourself every step of the way. We fear things way more than they usually hurt us anyway. Concentrate on caring for you instead of fearing your intimidator and controller.g
@@stefanghabooli6483 it's not about bullies voice, so Just stop with your nonsense, you don't know about telepathy voice, Just do some more research, some people really have very special ability and skill that most of the people don't have, i experience it..
I'm not blaming anyone.. but yeah there are people who have this kind of skill or whatever you want to call.
It was happened to other people too, I'm not the only one. Just look at the above my comment
@@stefanghabooli6483 for example i have some kind of special stomach capabilitiy to store the food and then control them also disappear them, i can do this for a week with eating & without any worry or medical help, but i never told this to anyone, not even to my family members. Because it's rare.. so i hope you understand 😂😂
I just want to tell you that there are people who have telepathy ability to give voice or message to other people it's also rare, i experience this too. But i know that people will not going to believe.
WF-j1m this person were also experienced that kind of telepathy message Just like me.
Naw some of these narcissistic women find the right desperate low esteem guy who stays forever because they know no other woman desire them
OMG.
Change for the worse 🤔
Fake bubble reality
Crafting a fake reality
The show
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Yep 3 months on from disgard / big bust up, shes posting passive agressive quotes and memes , dedpite senying new supply , its obv gone wronv already after love bombing lol...Her pists were ssying she diesnt care what peopke think amd shes never dating again etc etc ...😂 Same old drama she used to post up about me...Also shes saying she doesnt have to keep telling ger side of the story etc etc 😂
I want justice how’s he suing me for a cruise he took me on. I never asked for anything smh just leave me alone
My neighbor was asked by management to clean her dog poop patio.
So she bought a new patio umbrella and matching cushions for her lounge chairs. She added flowering plants.
All for show!
Because She Never Cleans The Poop!!!
After two weeks,
neighbor was FINED by management for dog poop on the patio.
She bought another umbrella to hide the poop patio from the manager.
She just got an eviction notice.
And a DUI.
Jesus is Hilarious!!!!
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I don't think Jesus has a sense of humour at all. .in fact l think he was prob a bit of a Narc
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2 That is an extremely blasphemous thing to say about jesus who sacrificed his life for others and even on the cross while being executed cared for those next to him and for the pain his mother was experiencing watching her son be tortured.
You should be ashamed of yourself…
But at the same time you just revealed the ugliness inside you which leads me to believe you are only here to stop others from healing.
Their life is their karma if all you is destroy you will have to foolish to think it won't catch up with them narcissism is self hatred projected
It just doesn’t sound right “being fake your whole life”. It sounds like a Greek God talking down onto man saying such a statement .
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Because I have a sister Stepmother's Outlaws I call him now and all these people are drug addicts and I'm a drug addict right and all this stuff which I'm not but the fact of the matter is is drug addicts or whatever if you're not a drug dealer okay but if you're at home doing drugs you're hurting yourself okay but if you have to stay at home and put somebody down to make yourself feel better and you don't do drugs what are your excuses what's your excuse you're naturally a bad person that's all I can say get a life you know what I mean get a life sooner or later it's going to catch up to him it will it's going to catch up to them
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Diddy case
Girl get your own life. Stop focusing on some other person. You are sicker than they are.
@m.hughes2521 Then why are you here?
A life like yours with, nothing better to do than troll content providers.