Thank you, Ken! Especially for the hints how anxious people can work on their attachment style and on exploring and expressing their own needs while in a relationship.. I would love to hear more about your ideas regarding that. Also really appreciate your honesty about feeling "compassion fatigue" as an early warning sign for burnout. Please take care of yourself and have a good time recharging - the work you do is important! 🙏🙂
42:45 - "what are you gonna do, go mute?" That's pretty much where I ended up with my avoidant person. And not only did it crush my sense of self-esteem (feeling like anything I had to say was of no interest and just a burden to them) but it didn't improve the relationship one bit.
Take care of yourself, Ken. Thank you again for another amazing analysis. I especially appreciate the comments regarding ex back coaches and content. I share your perspective. ❤️
this was such a revelation. I've been watching you for a while but I'm finally starting to heal and move on, and the scenario in this video was spot on for me. Your responses were so helpful. Thank you so much for everything you do.
Your videos are so helpful. I had never heard of avoidant attachment until a recent experience with someone that felt so uniquely painful. It's comforting to know I am not alone in recovering from this!
Another great video! Thank you again for your time, Ken! Learning about these attachment styles opened a door to a whole new world. Looking forward to more videos!
Oh please do and call out these POS coaches that spread false information about getting an ex back. The money grab of it all is embarrassing! Also the techniques of people who have to contort themselves like they are employed by Cirque de Solei to handle with care getting this emotionally immature exes is aggravating! I'm 3 weeks outs of dealing with a DA and I am trying to heal and give myself grace for giving the best of me to be discarded and disrespected due to their lack of healthy communication skills. Why would I want to have that back!
Im 2 weeks post breakup, well been totally ghosted then blocked and yeah, why would we want that back. 2 years of fuckery. Im a mere shadow of my former self.
I suspect this lady may have been somewhat embarrassed of integrating him into all of her social activities as a couple. There is also her being reluctant to be a step mother.
Thank you, Ken! Especially for the hints how anxious people can work on their attachment style and on exploring and expressing their own needs while in a relationship.. I would love to hear more about your ideas regarding that. Also really appreciate your honesty about feeling "compassion fatigue" as an early warning sign for burnout. Please take care of yourself and have a good time recharging - the work you do is important! 🙏🙂
42:45 - "what are you gonna do, go mute?" That's pretty much where I ended up with my avoidant person. And not only did it crush my sense of self-esteem (feeling like anything I had to say was of no interest and just a burden to them) but it didn't improve the relationship one bit.
Take care of yourself, Ken. Thank you again for another amazing analysis. I especially appreciate the comments regarding ex back coaches and content. I share your perspective. ❤️
this was such a revelation. I've been watching you for a while but I'm finally starting to heal and move on, and the scenario in this video was spot on for me. Your responses were so helpful. Thank you so much for everything you do.
Your videos are so helpful. I had never heard of avoidant attachment until a recent experience with someone that felt so uniquely painful. It's comforting to know I am not alone in recovering from this!
Thank you ❤
I got a letter waiting for u my dude.
Another great video! Thank you again for your time, Ken! Learning about these attachment styles opened a door to a whole new world. Looking forward to more videos!
Yes please do the ex back coach smackdown
Oh please do and call out these POS coaches that spread false information about getting an ex back. The money grab of it all is embarrassing! Also the techniques of people who have to contort themselves like they are employed by Cirque de Solei to handle with care getting this emotionally immature exes is aggravating! I'm 3 weeks outs of dealing with a DA and I am trying to heal and give myself grace for giving the best of me to be discarded and disrespected due to their lack of healthy communication skills. Why would I want to have that back!
Cirque du soleil
Im 2 weeks post breakup, well been totally ghosted then blocked and yeah, why would we want that back. 2 years of fuckery. Im a mere shadow of my former self.
I get what u mean about coaches. Do ur thing
I suspect this lady may have been somewhat embarrassed of integrating him into all of her social activities as a couple. There is also her being reluctant to be a step mother.
Bpd comes to mind here with Luna if I’m honest bleeding into avoidant detachment 🥲