Anybody who thinks charisma is in this for the money are just jealous idiots! people who are in it for the money do not last very long .money isn't going to make you want to take care of somebody if it's not in your heart to do it !she is definitely in this because she loves him and she's a caring and loving person and the fact that he loves and adore her so we can ignore the haters and I pray that you will have a blessed and successful relationship!
Ships don’t sink because of the water around them; ships sink because of the water they get in them. Don’t let what’s happening around you get inside you and weigh you down. You two have something that most people will never experience in a lifetime love compassion commitment pray for those people who only sneak negatively because they’re hollow.May God continue to bless the both of you
People need to mind their own business. I see two people that love each other very much. She married you because she loves you. I love and enjoy watching your videos.
I live in Jamaica and all the episodes in less than a month so you have become a part of me. It's a reason God made our mouth cross ways and it's to chat so that's what they are doing chatting and not talking.
It’s sad that some people are in such a dark place in their lives and can’t hide their envy of the beauty of true love and heaven made marriage! Cole and Charisma! You are the epitome of true love ❤️
People can be very disrespectful and callous when they're hidden behind a keyboard. Don't ever let other people's sociopathy cast a shadow on your happiness!
I’ve been watching from the beginning of your relationship. First car transfer, getting Cole into your parents house, the dreaded fall in the hotel and how the two of you worked as a team and didn’t have to call the fire department. When Charisma got sick and Cole was there doing what he could to de-stress her. All of those challenges and your relationship continued to grow. You both are truly blessed and complete one another.❤️❤️❤️❤️
A educaçao familiares a bondade de. Anbas as 2 familias derao a eles o aporte sobre generosidade bondade determinaçao e eles estao ai vivendo o amor deles mesmo com tantdas invejas fora isso a muitas pessoas que horao por eles a inveja esta em quem nunca foi feliz
As a caregiver for my only son who is now 22, I understand the sacrifices Charisma had to make for love. Disability check or not unless you have been or walked in their shoes please never assume anything. No amount of money will make you sacrifice your freedom as an able body person, trust me
I agree. People who make those statements are incapable of unconditional love. They are lost. To do what she is doing takes great compassion, sacrifice and genuine love... and don't talk about dedication and commitment. Also think about all she had to go through with septics as a young woman and still push through. Don't forget how old she was when she decided to be with him! True and pure and Godly love still exist. Never underestimate the human spirit.
I hope they have some soon especially so they can be old enough to help her out with Cole as they get older. She gonna get tried or Better yet I pray by some miracle he is able to walk or at least have more function in the very near future.
Cole I think you have grown in ways that you never would have, and it's a good thing! You are going to give a voice to so many people. Charisma, you are a ray of sunshine! You both are so well spoken, and have a great future in front of you.
Whoever's reading this, We pray that whatever your going through gets better and whatever your struggling with or worrying about is going to be fine and that everyone has a fantastic day! Amen
There are times I really get down in the dumps. Then I watch Cole and Charisma and remind myself that I have so much to be thankful for. Same goes for Hannah and Shane (Squirmy and Grubs). This couple doesn't deserve the hate they get. Social media is a jungle, but I hope you guys still manage to find good human beings out there. You guys remind me that, even in the face of uncertainty, there is still something to smile about everyday. I hope to meet you guys someday. You guys are such a genuine couple. 😊
Hey Cole and Charisma, Happy Sunday. Ignore what the naysayers say about you both, You both are an amazing couple and we enjoy watching your videos all the time. Sending love 🫶🏾🫶🏻❤️
Thank you for addressing the disability check myth that SSI or SSD recipients are just flush with cash. We get paid ONCE. A. MONTH. That $500 you mentioned had to pay all your bills and utilities and rent for an entire month. People think it’s like regular paychecks and comes every 2 weeks. Uh uh. The first Friday of the month. That’s why stores are so busy at the beginning of the month, people spending their disability money for the month. Congratulations for finding a way off that hellish ride. So happy for you that everything is going well! Continued good luck and good health!!
I was my boyfriends caregiver before he passed away. That check while a help does not cover much. We used it to cover his personal needs and the rest was on me. On top of that we had to wait like three years before they even approved him for it. I really enjoy watching y'alls videos and both of you are so sweet.
My condolences also.. people like you "Caregivers" are heaven sent. I know it was your boyfriend but not alot of people have that in them to deal with that. I did the same for my pop whom passed in July 2019 at age 71...he had Multiple Scerolois "MS"
Cole, i hope you are also auditioning for "able-bodied" or undetermined roles. Just because the handsome, clean cut guy in the drama or sitcom isn't stated to be in a wheelchair, doesn't mean he can't be!
I know what it’s like for people to have assumptions about you, she shouldn’t have to explain anything to anyone because quite frankly it’s none of their business. I think both of you are doing a great job and look so happy together, 😍🥰😘
I love how you guys have grown as a couple and as individuals. Thank you for sharing a small portion of your lives with us. It is so inspiring to see you guys go after your dreams.
A wonderful sensitive mature happy "young" couple whom I thoroughly enjoy. A lot of couples on media are whining and arrested development, complaining. You two are realistic and practical. You say this is life, OK, let's deal! From an elder, Thank you.
Thank you both for showing interable couples can work. There is a couple in the UK who are also interabled and had a baby a few months ago. Keep breaking down those stereotypes.
I have been married for over 35 year .i love the relationship the two of you share.. my husband Family never accepted me never new love of a family. Love watching you 💓
I saw the thumbnail and giggled because I remember the video of how you met and she had a good career and was obviously doing well for herself so she certainly didn't get with you for the money. I think more people need to go back and watch your full story before making assumptions.
Hi Cole & Charisma, I just wanted tell you both how amazing you are. Charisma I don’t know how you manage the line between wife & caregiver so well, but I know personally how tough it can be as I have Sickle Cell Disease. No one ever chooses a tragic life altering accident or disease but the caregivers around us can make more of a difference than anybody on the outside looking in can see, & sometimes a caregiver can be as instrumental as the cause itself, so I applaud you & Cole being able to navigate through such a healthy marriage & not letting Cole’s disability come between your marriage & always actively making sure that you are well mentally & emotionally so that you’re able to be that strength for each other rather than hitting frequent burnouts, making sure to have your own space individually plows for greater communication & support for each other & your love is shining so brightly because of it!!! Ahhhh the good ole disability check fortune… I will never understand how people even get to the assumption that having a disability check every month means you are banking (this is the govt we’re talking about) my disability is only in the upper $700’s per month & it took raising a little hell to get to that amount even as Cole stated it was just $500 something at 1st, so yea definitely not a pot of gold.
That girl give that boy life again, happiness again, a joy to live. I have been watching these two for a very long time now and believe me both love have grown. She is not with him for his money at all. This is the meaning of true love, this is the meaning of being a man.
Love y'all 🤗❣️ your inspiration for the able and none able bodied community to show that with being with someone in a wheelchair it's a lifestyle and it's not easy but when you love you go through great lengths to stay together. Your strength shows there is always hope no matter your disability or your condition. Love comes in all shapes and sizes, and forms. Long time fan here. I'm in a wheelchair to this is all truth. Keep doing y'all. ❤️ p.s. being with someone in a wheelchair is a different type of love and is the new 🌊 seriously. Be happy and be you. If the shoe fits wear it. Don't knock it till you try it. You want a good man or women try it with someone in a wheelchair you will see you wont regret it we have the biggest hearts. And whoever is going thru a tough time right now your not alone I love you 💕
You two are gorgeous together. And Cole, you look really good for the position you are in. Watching you guys have inspired me to the point where I say to myself, "stop making excuses. Stop settling for way less than I desire." Continue to have fun and love each other. You are doing way more than some of us that are not physically challenged. Stay Positive. Love you guys.💕🤗
I learned long ago not to make assumptions about people or their relationships, I only go by how that person interacts with me. I hope that you enjoy your current home and work life. Definitely developing good communication skills is critical to a successful long-term relationship.
Love watching Charisma blush when she talks about intimates times questions. Closeness is so important and you two have it had it from the beginning of your relationship watching you together. Love watching now even closer.💕
Oh my gosh kids….it’s universal that men like physical reinforcement of affection. It’s also universal that women can feel overwhelmed with physical touch. When young children are added to the mix it can be really overwhelming…..but that passes. I’m 68 and can tell you it’s a lifetime of ebbs and flows. You guys are really succeeding at your relationship. Kudos!
He could be doing whatever he want to and she could be doing whatever she want to...From what I can tell they want to be together...Awesome and I pray Gods Grace and Blessings for them now and forever...
I love this. This is so wonderful that you care enough to answer questions you shouldn't have to. On the other side it is nice to hear for those in a situation who are wanting love or in the early stages of what you already went through. There is nothing like positivity and encouragement. Being disabled doesn't have to mean living a life of sorrow. My husband and I have had conversations of what if we were in the same position. The incredible things you share help us know that it can be done and well and happily.
Cole and Charisma, I truly think you should open a foundation for quadriplegic and other types of disabilities that prevent people from pursuing their career dreams in Hollywood.Auditioning,staying determined and setting up goals,etc..You two are so positive and very inspiring ❤
Cole and Charisma, I love how you explain every journey and milestone in your lives. Communication is definitely key in any relationship. You are a great couple, and a huge inspiration to many. Thank you for sharing.
I think you two are genuine in your love and persona. I think that you try to show the positives of your life, even though Cole is paralysed you can still lead a happy and fulfilling life. I think some people may be jealous unfortunately, for whatever reason. I think you give people hope, that when something bad happens you can overcome it. We all need inspiration and love.
I'm actually commenting under my husband's page since my pyis cracked but I used to watch these two constantly.. I come back over a year later and people still are being ignorant and hurtful?? Just baffles me...God Bless you two 🙏🏽❤️
The whole ‘arguments’ discussion is so real and yeah, normal in a relationship. I love how you both are happy with transparency and share with us out here in the world. Thank you!
Hey guys! Loving the new hairstyle Charisma! So happy to see your love is still going strong. I am so sorry you guys even have to hear statements like this. People are so..... ugh. A lot of times when people speak they are projecting their feelings about themselves onto you. So when someone says, "She's only with him for the money", what they are really saying is, THEY would only do it, if money were involved. What people say, says more about them, and less about you. Some people may have genuine questions and concerns for their own lives and relationships, but some people are downright ignorant and want to stay that way. So while we do appreciate you guys coming on and clearing up some misconceptions about your lives and relationships, it is my hope that neither of you ever feel as if you owe us an explanation or have to defend or explain your relationship in any way. Unfortunately the more your channel grows the more ignorance you will see. Blessings to you both!
Cole and Charisma, please try and avoid reading negative post from negative people. I have been watching you for years. I see the love you have for each other. I love watching you.
Love you guys you are a inspiration and such a cute couple hugs and kisses to you both! I have a granddaughter who lost her limbs from a flesh eating disease going to college in August very nervous even though she has a chance to be independent. Just hoping she accepted and treated with respect.
That's bullshit, She had her own money and life that she sacrificed and shared out of love for the man in her life. It is so sad how people put their own personal views of themselves on other people. People need psychiatrists not the internet. Blessings to this couple and take care. Peace.
Thank you. Folks keep forgetting that Charisma had a whole life before meeting Cole. She sacrificed a lot of her life goals for their new life. She is still happy but folks forget how much she gave up. Folks who think she was in it for the money have small minds.
It probably would be different if his disability was caused by someone and he won some multi-million $ settlement. Perhaps the person didn't realize this is not what happened to Cole.
Money can't buy love. Thank God people have different love languages. It is clear as day that you are soul mates . Continue to stay positive and ignore any doubters. God loves you and so do we
I don’t think you need to defend your relationship to anyone! My hubby is 12 years older than me and I overheard my cousins say (we were all taking a walk and they were right behind me): he’s too old for her! - like I couldn’t hear them! I just turned around and just smiled, ran up to where my hubby was and gave him a big kiss!! Lol! I have s little piece of advice for Charisma tho - take care of your back honey! Make sure you do stretch’s, exercises and lift weights to keep it healthy! I took care of my parents for a while and had to lift, push, etc to help them out. I didn’t take care of my back like I should have then and now have issues. I wish I knew then what I know now!
Thank you so much for sharing just how “rich” you get from disability payments because people need to realize how absolutely ridiculous it is to assume those things 🥰
Like the song says. Two whole hearts that beat as one, my wife and I where two single parents, 20 years later, and 10 grand babies 🥰 I’m crazy about her and her about me 🥰 just hang onto each other tight, we see the love in both your eyes 😍😍
When I first stumbled across your channel, my question was about how did Cole's mom feel about trusting a young lady to take care of Cole. When I saw the story of how they met, I assumed that Charisma's profession made it easier for his mom to trust her.
Hey guys, thank you for your honesty and your positivity. You are both inspiring role models. I always have a smile on my face, and sometimes a tear in my eye while watching! Hugs to Sophie! I love you and your beautiful families. 💞
Sending you both positive vibes ✌️ and love from the Coast of Oregon!!🌴 I dislike when people say that I am lucky being disabled ♿ because they are jealous..... I don't have to work and get to stay home watching TV all day!! 😢 Oh, how I miss working, socializing and contributing to society!!🇺🇲 #davesandersstepdaughter 🤗
I am so glad y’all cleared up those assumptions. It was never my thoughts. I just really loved the vibes that y’all give off to each other I think the love between the two of you is so beautiful. I enjoy watching you and keep up your positivity. Maybe you will inspire someone else. God bless you two and your marriage. Stay positive!
I only see pure love between you both. People without Agape love will say negative nasty comments. We love you both and please keep tuning entertaining us. Let Father God be the rightful Judge. Stay POSITIVE🤝🙌💖💖👍👍
Great job answering tough questions, I like to say intimacy questions should never be asked, that personal and private, you don't ask anyone about private matters between a married couple.
Hey Cole and Charisma!! You both are so kind hearted and good natured!! Your willingness to share your life and thoughts with your viewers is so awesome!! Keep being who you are and don't let any negative people change you!! God bless you both!! Love your videos🙏💖
There’s always assumptions about relationships, but in SCI world, it’s very different and hard. My boyfriend also have c5-c6 SPI, we’re together for 7 years now and alot of people always ask about our intimate life, and they’re thinking that we can’t have a child anymore because of his condition. Alot of patience is needed to tackle this kind of people and their assumptions! Btw, more power to you Cole and Charisma, you inspire us all esp. the Interabled couples out there💕💕💕
This was fun 👏! I remember that you two met when Charisma was your PT but I'm glad you didn't let her help you when you were dating because that I'm sure that helped you bond simply as just a couple 👍
Charisma's blushing and smile answered ALL the intimate questions!! Well done, Cole and Charisma. (Now you folks can stopped dipping in their personal live. NO MORE QUESTIONS!).
So happy to see you both happy and loving one another in life that counts and you're happiness go through everything together and love ❤️ God bless you both
Some people are idiots. I love both of you and I have followed you from day one. Charisma does what she do out of love. There is no amount of money that can pay for all she do out of love.
This is what the world needs more of. More power to you two, I'm sure it's not always easy. Lunch is on me if you're ever in town. Cheers from overcast Vienna, Scott
Wish you would do a video on what is needed to make a place accessible for someone in a wheelchair. Like height of toilet, sink, door width, etc...We are redoing an older house and want to make it more accessible to use as an Air B & B but finding accurate info doesn't seem to be too easy! Maybe in conjunction with Squirmy and Grubs as the needs can be different?
She’s obviously in it for the handsome man who loves her to the moon and back, duh
I say duh too lol
She need a job
Anybody who thinks charisma is in this for the money are just jealous idiots! people who are in it for the money do not last very long .money isn't going to make you want to take care of somebody if it's not in your heart to do it !she is definitely in this because she loves him and she's a caring and loving person and the fact that he loves and adore her so we can ignore the haters and I pray that you will have a blessed and successful relationship!
@@chellarisemendoza8247 she has a job taking care of her husband and she's a therapist if I'm not wrong! Hater just jealous! 🤡
He is really handsome! They are amazing together
Ships don’t sink because of the water around them; ships sink because of the water they get in them. Don’t let what’s happening around you get inside you and weigh you down. You two have something that most people will never experience in a lifetime love compassion commitment pray for those people who only sneak negatively because they’re hollow.May God continue to bless the both of you
I like this from my heart
Powerful
Amen
Love this...
Verdade sbre esse assunto do navio
People need to mind their own business. I see two people that love each other very much. She married you because she loves you. I love and enjoy watching your videos.
I live in Jamaica and all the episodes in less than a month so you have become a part of me. It's a reason God made our mouth cross ways and it's to chat so that's what they are doing chatting and not talking.
It’s sad that some people are in such a dark place in their lives and can’t hide their envy of the beauty of true love and heaven made marriage! Cole and Charisma! You are the epitome of true love ❤️
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Exactly 💯
People can be very disrespectful and callous when they're hidden behind a keyboard. Don't ever let other people's sociopathy cast a shadow on your happiness!
Amor verdadeiro esta protegido por Deus a inveja matá
If this isn't genuine love and a match made by God I don't know what else is. Keep on loving and caring for each other. Blessings!
Real love still exist! And I can tell that this is a beautiful and loving couple. Everything in life is not always about money! Love your videos 🥰🥰🥰
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It's hard for me to believe as a person who has been in an emotional abusive marriage.
@@zen_mindset1 I know but one day you will find real love dear 🥰🥰🥰
I’ve been watching from the beginning of your relationship. First car transfer, getting Cole into your parents house, the dreaded fall in the hotel and how the two of you worked as a team and didn’t have to call the fire department. When Charisma got sick and Cole was there doing what he could to de-stress her. All of those challenges and your relationship continued to grow. You both are truly blessed and complete one another.❤️❤️❤️❤️
Loved the flashing back to those hard days to the present.
We need more disabled people to play disabled roles. I hope you get one Cole! Disability representation matters!
and model.
@@superwisewomenmaga9727 right!
There are rolls that can be adapted to a person in a chair.
@marilyn148 no, I want real disabled actors to play disabled roles in movies and TV
A educaçao familiares a bondade de. Anbas as 2 familias derao a eles o aporte sobre generosidade bondade determinaçao e eles estao ai vivendo o amor deles mesmo com tantdas invejas fora isso a muitas pessoas que horao por eles a inveja esta em quem nunca foi feliz
As a caregiver for my only son who is now 22, I understand the sacrifices Charisma had to make for love.
Disability check or not unless you have been or walked in their shoes please never assume anything.
No amount of money will make you sacrifice your freedom as an able body person, trust me
I agree. People who make those statements are incapable of unconditional love. They are lost. To do what she is doing takes great compassion, sacrifice and genuine love... and don't talk about dedication and commitment. Also think about all she had to go through with septics as a young woman and still push through. Don't forget how old she was when she decided to be with him! True and pure and Godly love still exist. Never underestimate the human spirit.
Anyone that has been following you guys, know, you are genuinely in love. It comes through the screen 💖
Your love for each other really does come through your videos.
Exactly.👍
I loved it when Charisma said ‘ and trying for babies is really fun’ the spunk and excitement she said it with....lol
Ha ha. Understatement!!
I hope they have some soon especially so they can be old enough to help her out with Cole as they get older. She gonna get tried or Better yet I pray by some miracle he is able to walk or at least have more function in the very near future.
Cole I think you have grown in ways that you never would have, and it's a good thing! You are going to give a voice to so many people. Charisma, you are a ray of sunshine! You both are so well spoken, and have a great future in front of you.
Whoever's reading this, We pray that whatever your going through gets better and whatever your struggling with or worrying about is going to be fine and that everyone has a fantastic day! Amen
Amennm.. Thank you for the 🙏 prayer same to you
Amen🙏🙏
Amen. 🙏🏿
Thank you, I really needed this today.
Amen, thank you
Pls don't prove yourselves to anybody we your fans love you
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You can just see how together you two are. I love watching you, almost feels like your my grandkids.
There are times I really get down in the dumps. Then I watch Cole and Charisma and remind myself that I have so much to be thankful for. Same goes for Hannah and Shane (Squirmy and Grubs). This couple doesn't deserve the hate they get. Social media is a jungle, but I hope you guys still manage to find good human beings out there. You guys remind me that, even in the face of uncertainty, there is still something to smile about everyday. I hope to meet you guys someday. You guys are such a genuine couple. 😊
Same ❤️🙏🏾❤️
Hey Cole and Charisma, Happy Sunday. Ignore what the naysayers say about you both, You both are an amazing couple and we enjoy watching your videos all the time. Sending love 🫶🏾🫶🏻❤️
Yup !!!!!!!
💛💚💙❤💛💚💙❤💛💚💙💛💚❤
So so true . They are amaizing. Loving caring 💕. Meant to be together. Blessings. Love love you.
People will always talk, it doesn't matter what others think. Be happy together, and stay together ❤.
Hello God bless you I love your coep
Thank you for addressing the disability check myth that SSI or SSD recipients are just flush with cash. We get paid ONCE. A. MONTH. That $500 you mentioned had to pay all your bills and utilities and rent for an entire month. People think it’s like regular paychecks and comes every 2 weeks. Uh uh. The first Friday of the month. That’s why stores are so busy at the beginning of the month, people spending their disability money for the month. Congratulations for finding a way off that hellish ride. So happy for you that everything is going well! Continued good luck and good health!!
I was my boyfriends caregiver before he passed away. That check while a help does not cover much. We used it to cover his personal needs and the rest was on me. On top of that we had to wait like three years before they even approved him for it.
I really enjoy watching y'alls videos and both of you are so sweet.
My condoleances although late
My condolences also.. people like you "Caregivers" are heaven sent. I know it was your boyfriend but not alot of people have that in them to deal with that. I did the same for my pop whom passed in July 2019 at age 71...he had Multiple Scerolois "MS"
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Thank you for sharing 👍
What a wonderful couple, I wish them all the happiness that life has to offer. 🎉
Y’all are both individually beautiful, but even more beautiful together. Love y’all!! ♥️❤️♥️
Cole, i hope you are also auditioning for "able-bodied" or undetermined roles. Just because the handsome, clean cut guy in the drama or sitcom isn't stated to be in a wheelchair, doesn't mean he can't be!
Soooo true.
Yup. And Cole is certainly blooming handsome 😅
Beautiful couple ♥️ I love all of your videos! God has really blessed the both of you!
I know what it’s like for people to have assumptions about you, she shouldn’t have to explain anything to anyone because quite frankly it’s none of their business. I think both of you are doing a great job and look so happy together, 😍🥰😘
Those hateful comments are a sign of "I wish I had someone to love me like this." We've been here to know this love story 🥰
Exactly! It's just envy.
Exactly!
If you watch their videos and see anything other than genuine love then you have issues. Love these two🥰
I love how you guys have grown as a couple and as individuals. Thank you for sharing a small portion of your lives with us. It is so inspiring to see you guys go after your dreams.
Congratulations 🎊 You have over 700,000 subscribers 👏 Wow !
Blessings 🙌
I have watched dis couple for years.
I just love them to death.
God bless you guys.
A wonderful sensitive mature happy "young" couple whom I thoroughly enjoy. A lot of couples on media are whining and arrested development, complaining. You two are realistic and practical. You say this is life, OK, let's deal! From an elder, Thank you.
Thank you both for showing interable couples can work. There is a couple in the UK who are also interabled and had a baby a few months ago. Keep breaking down those stereotypes.
I have been married for over 35 year .i love the relationship the two of you share.. my husband Family never accepted me never new love of a family. Love watching you 💓
I love your honesty and willingness to to be so open. You are a blessing to us all.
I saw the thumbnail and giggled because I remember the video of how you met and she had a good career and was obviously doing well for herself so she certainly didn't get with you for the money. I think more people need to go back and watch your full story before making assumptions.
You guys are such a solid loving couple. Most people aspire to have that kind of relationship. I so enjoy your channel!
I love your relationship so much. You two are such an inspiration. I wish you a long and happy life together!
Me too!!!🥰
Please don't let anyone take your joy.
Hi Cole & Charisma, I just wanted tell you both how amazing you are. Charisma I don’t know how you manage the line between wife & caregiver so well, but I know personally how tough it can be as I have Sickle Cell Disease. No one ever chooses a tragic life altering accident or disease but the caregivers around us can make more of a difference than anybody on the outside looking in can see, & sometimes a caregiver can be as instrumental as the cause itself, so I applaud you & Cole being able to navigate through such a healthy marriage & not letting Cole’s disability come between your marriage & always actively making sure that you are well mentally & emotionally so that you’re able to be that strength for each other rather than hitting frequent burnouts, making sure to have your own space individually plows for greater communication & support for each other & your love is shining so brightly because of it!!!
Ahhhh the good ole disability check fortune… I will never understand how people even get to the assumption that having a disability check every month means you are banking (this is the govt we’re talking about) my disability is only in the upper $700’s per month & it took raising a little hell to get to that amount even as Cole stated it was just $500 something at 1st, so yea definitely not a pot of gold.
Atleast cole puts himself out there most people would think life was over and its nice to see he doesnt
That girl give that boy life again, happiness again, a joy to live. I have been watching these two for a very long time now and believe me both love have grown. She is not with him for his money at all. This is the meaning of true love, this is the meaning of being a man.
Love y'all 🤗❣️ your inspiration for the able and none able bodied community to show that with being with someone in a wheelchair it's a lifestyle and it's not easy but when you love you go through great lengths to stay together. Your strength shows there is always hope no matter your disability or your condition. Love comes in all shapes and sizes, and forms. Long time fan here. I'm in a wheelchair to this is all truth. Keep doing y'all. ❤️ p.s. being with someone in a wheelchair is a different type of love and is the new 🌊 seriously. Be happy and be you. If the shoe fits wear it. Don't knock it till you try it. You want a good man or women try it with someone in a wheelchair you will see you wont regret it we have the biggest hearts. And whoever is going thru a tough time right now your not alone I love you 💕
You two are gorgeous together. And Cole, you look really good for the position you are in. Watching you guys have inspired me to the point where I say to myself, "stop making excuses. Stop settling for way less than I desire." Continue to have fun and love each other. You are doing way more than some of us that are not physically challenged. Stay Positive. Love you guys.💕🤗
I learned long ago not to make assumptions about people or their relationships, I only go by how that person interacts with me. I hope that you enjoy your current home and work life. Definitely developing good communication skills is critical to a successful long-term relationship.
Cole is so like my youngest nephew And he is getting married to an awesome woman 70+ days. I am really enjoying your videos. So FUN!!!!
Love watching Charisma blush when she talks about intimates times questions. Closeness is so important and you two have it had it from the beginning of your relationship watching you together. Love watching now even closer.💕
Oh my gosh kids….it’s universal that men like physical reinforcement of affection. It’s also universal that women can feel overwhelmed with physical touch. When young children are added to the mix it can be really overwhelming…..but that passes. I’m 68 and can tell you it’s a lifetime of ebbs and flows. You guys are really succeeding at your relationship. Kudos!
I just love your transparency and admire the lovely relationship you have.
Cole, your strength and self- control put you in the top 10 of men I have ever seen.
These are only two of your great attributes.
He could be doing whatever he want to and she could be doing whatever she want to...From what I can tell they want to be together...Awesome and I pray Gods Grace and Blessings for them now and forever...
I love this. This is so wonderful that you care enough to answer questions you shouldn't have to. On the other side it is nice to hear for those in a situation who are wanting love or in the early stages of what you already went through. There is nothing like positivity and encouragement. Being disabled doesn't have to mean living a life of sorrow. My husband and I have had conversations of what if we were in the same position. The incredible things you share help us know that it can be done and well and happily.
Because of their first names I call them the CC Conection and they are an awesome couple and I wish them continue happiness.
Cole and Charisma, I truly think you should open a foundation for quadriplegic and other types of disabilities that prevent people from pursuing their career dreams in Hollywood.Auditioning,staying determined and setting up goals,etc..You two are so positive and very inspiring ❤
Cole and Charisma, I love how you explain every journey and milestone in your lives. Communication is definitely key in any relationship. You are a great couple, and a huge inspiration to many. Thank you for sharing.
Charisma your doing this out of love ❤️. Don’t listen to the haters !! I love u guys
I think you two are genuine in your love and persona. I think that you try to show the positives of your life, even though Cole is paralysed you can still lead a happy and fulfilling life. I think some people may be jealous unfortunately, for whatever reason. I think you give people hope, that when something bad happens you can overcome it. We all need inspiration and love.
Exactly
I'm actually commenting under my husband's page since my pyis cracked but I used to watch these two constantly.. I come back over a year later and people still are being ignorant and hurtful?? Just baffles me...God Bless you two 🙏🏽❤️
I have none been a subscriber for a while and I can tell you you two love eachother and make a good team it’s been fun watching your relationship grow
Cole & Charisma always look forward to your videos. Your honesty is admirable. Stay strong stay blessed.
The whole ‘arguments’ discussion is so real and yeah, normal in a relationship. I love how you both are happy with transparency and share with us out here in the world. Thank you!
People can say wat ever .Cole and charisma are a match made in heaven
You guys are so mature. The communication thing wasn't given as advice but I'm taking it the way.
Hey guys! Loving the new hairstyle Charisma! So happy to see your love is still going strong. I am so sorry you guys even have to hear statements like this. People are so..... ugh. A lot of times when people speak they are projecting their feelings about themselves onto you. So when someone says, "She's only with him for the money", what they are really saying is, THEY would only do it, if money were involved. What people say, says more about them, and less about you. Some people may have genuine questions and concerns for their own lives and relationships, but some people are downright ignorant and want to stay that way. So while we do appreciate you guys coming on and clearing up some misconceptions about your lives and relationships, it is my hope that neither of you ever feel as if you owe us an explanation or have to defend or explain your relationship in any way. Unfortunately the more your channel grows the more ignorance you will see. Blessings to you both!
😂😂 At the image of Charisma picking something up for Cole and putting it back on the floor.
I love this hair style for you short looks great with your face shape. 😍
I continue to pray for a miracle for you Cole, there's nothing to hard
For God❤️
I haven't watched y'all since the California move (and I live in LA myself). It was nice to check in and see what's up!!!
Cole and Charisma, please try and avoid reading negative post from negative people. I have been watching you for years. I see the love you have for each other. I love watching you.
Love you guys you are a inspiration and such a cute couple hugs and kisses to you both! I have a granddaughter who lost her limbs from a flesh eating disease going to college in August very nervous even though she has a chance to be independent. Just hoping she accepted and treated with respect.
You guys are in Love, if other people don’t see it ,it is their worries. You two are special. God bless.
That's bullshit, She had her own money and life that she sacrificed and shared out of love for the man in her life. It is so sad how people put their own personal views of themselves on other people. People need psychiatrists not the internet. Blessings to this couple and take care. Peace.
Thank you. Folks keep forgetting that Charisma had a whole life before meeting Cole. She sacrificed a lot of her life goals for their new life. She is still happy but folks forget how much she gave up. Folks who think she was in it for the money have small minds.
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It probably would be different if his disability was caused by someone and he won some multi-million $ settlement. Perhaps the person didn't realize this is not what happened to Cole.
I love you guys may God always bless you..
If I understood correctly, I thought that Charisma was his physical therapist during the beginning of his injury. So she had her own life before Cole.
Money can't buy love. Thank God people have different love languages. It is clear as day that you are soul mates . Continue to stay positive and ignore any doubters. God loves you and so do we
So happy you communicate even the things that are frustrating. This was one of the nicest videos because I feel like I saw more of you personally.
I don’t think you need to defend your relationship to anyone! My hubby is 12 years older than me and I overheard my cousins say (we were all taking a walk and they were right behind me): he’s too old for her! - like I couldn’t hear them! I just turned around and just smiled, ran up to where my hubby was and gave him a big kiss!! Lol! I have s little piece of advice for Charisma tho - take care of your back honey! Make sure you do stretch’s, exercises and lift weights to keep it healthy! I took care of my parents for a while and had to lift, push, etc to help them out. I didn’t take care of my back like I should have then and now have issues. I wish I knew then what I know now!
Thank you so much for sharing just how “rich” you get from disability payments because people need to realize how absolutely ridiculous it is to assume those things 🥰
Stay beautiful and continue loving!
You guys are the best couple ever. You two are amazing. I can see you have so much love for each other.
I appreciate y’all for sharing y’all’s lives because y’all didn’t have too. I love seeing y’all’s love
Always waiting for your posts on Sunday!you guys really cheer me up.love your humor and your love tor each other..bless your souls!
Like the song says. Two whole hearts that beat as one, my wife and I where two single parents, 20 years later, and 10 grand babies 🥰 I’m crazy about her and her about me 🥰 just hang onto each other tight, we see the love in both your eyes 😍😍
When I first stumbled across your channel, my question was about how did Cole's mom feel about trusting a young lady to take care of Cole. When I saw the story of how they met, I assumed that Charisma's profession made it easier for his mom to trust her.
You are one of the haters. These are grownups.
Trust her! He is lucky a woman is beside him. He's crippled
WTF Cole's mum was relieved, the trouble is off of her. Caring for him must be bothersome
Hey guys, thank you for your honesty and your positivity. You are both inspiring role models. I always have a smile on my face, and sometimes a tear in my eye while watching! Hugs to Sophie! I love you and your beautiful families. 💞
Sending you both positive vibes ✌️ and love from the Coast of Oregon!!🌴
I dislike when people say that I am lucky being disabled ♿ because they are jealous..... I don't have to work and get to stay home watching TV all day!! 😢 Oh, how I miss working, socializing and contributing to society!!🇺🇲 #davesandersstepdaughter 🤗
I am so glad y’all cleared up those assumptions. It was never my thoughts. I just really loved the vibes that y’all give off to each other I think the love between the two of you is so beautiful. I enjoy watching you and keep up your positivity. Maybe you will inspire someone else. God bless you two and your marriage. Stay positive!
I only see pure love between you both. People without Agape love will say negative nasty comments. We love you both and please keep tuning entertaining us. Let Father God be the rightful Judge. Stay POSITIVE🤝🙌💖💖👍👍
This was awesome! Keep the love flowing and going. Glad you don’t mind the naysayers. Love each other even more.👍🏼❣️
The good thing is that you both knows how to make each other happy an your form of communication/understanding is really cool👌💕👌
Love you guys so much..I Admired the love that you both share with each other .
Great job answering tough questions, I like to say intimacy questions should never be asked, that personal and private, you don't ask anyone about private matters between a married couple.
I totally agree with your comment 👍
OMG, I thought that question about their sex life at 14:40 was so rude and outrageous to assume they didn't enjoy it. Why are people so rude????
Hey Cole and Charisma!! You both are so kind hearted and good natured!! Your willingness to share your life and thoughts with your viewers is so awesome!! Keep being who you are and don't let any negative people change you!! God bless you both!! Love your videos🙏💖
There’s always assumptions about relationships, but in SCI world, it’s very different and hard. My boyfriend also have c5-c6 SPI, we’re together for 7 years now and alot of people always ask about our intimate life, and they’re thinking that we can’t have a child anymore because of his condition. Alot of patience is needed to tackle this kind of people and their assumptions! Btw, more power to you Cole and Charisma, you inspire us all esp. the Interabled couples out there💕💕💕
You are both amazing and meant for each other!!!! Ignore the negative people and their stupid comments!!
This was fun 👏! I remember that you two met when Charisma was your PT but I'm glad you didn't let her help you when you were dating because that I'm sure that helped you bond simply as just a couple 👍
Charisma's blushing and smile answered ALL the intimate questions!! Well done, Cole and Charisma. (Now you folks can stopped dipping in their personal live. NO MORE QUESTIONS!).
So happy to see you both happy and loving one another in life that counts and you're happiness go through everything together and love ❤️ God bless you both
I love your transparency. It’s refreshing, for sure.
Continue on your journey of happiness, dears.
I love and appreciate you guys, truly!
Some people are idiots. I love both of you and I have followed you from day one. Charisma does what she do out of love. There is no amount of money that can pay for all she do out of love.
Can we talk about how amazingly cute your babies are gonna be?!? Look at that bone structure on y’all
My Lord you are so correctly on point. That's gonna be one beautiful baby.
@karen,babies,Oh yeah😁
about time we revisit that subject again ..
This is what the world needs more of. More power to you two, I'm sure it's not always easy.
Lunch is on me if you're ever in town. Cheers from overcast Vienna, Scott
Wish you would do a video on what is needed to make a place accessible for someone in a wheelchair. Like height of toilet, sink, door width, etc...We are redoing an older house and want to make it more accessible to use as an Air B & B but finding accurate info doesn't seem to be too easy! Maybe in conjunction with Squirmy and Grubs as the needs can be different?
I jus love these two together.