Would I Be with My Wife if I Weren't Disabled?
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Welcome to the official Roll with Cole & Charisma UA-cam channel! Since the start of our relationship we've gotten a lot of questions about our experiences as not only an interracial couple, but an interabled one as well. On this channel you can catch us doing travel and adventure vlogs, challenges, our inclusion series, couple first times, music, and so much more! We started this vlog to bring people into our lives, to answer some questions about how we navigate the world, and hopefully raise awareness surrounding accessibility and dating in a wheelchair. You'll quickly see in our episodes that we're all about inclusion and keeping a great attitude no matter your circumstances, so if that's what you're into, you're in the right place!
Neither one of them would not have a problem finding anyone, they are very attractive people inside and outside....They just love one another, period, it is obvious.
Thank you! ☺
@@coleandcharisma You're most welcome, giving credit where credit is due. You're both an awesome couple!
Cole is very handsome. Charisma is gorgeous and they are perfect for each other 😍 I think that was an inappropriate question to ask them. I wish the guy I had a crush on when I was younger had taken me seriously. Cole, he was in that phase of thinking he didn't have much to offer and I was cut pretty harshly.
Thats so funny that anyone could assume cole somehow settled for charisma!! lmaaaoo!! i was like what?! charisma is fine as hell! lol and cole is an attractive man his self! and to even bring up interracial dating as if this is the 1950s is hella weird!! lmao! you guys answered that with way more grace than I would have! haha love you both!!
I love how people act as if they're cool could not have picked another woman other than Christmas or charisma could not have picked another man other than him they act as if so neither one of them had choices in life when both of them are smart and attractive beautiful people and could have attract any mate they wanted the people are so ignorant and so stupid and I know where this is all coming from as we all do but it is stupid and dumb and insensitive to ever assume that these people were not attracted to each other other than the fact that they loved each other!
I’ve been disabled since I was sixteen. You two are always fun and inspiring to see. Not enough interabled couples out there to break the negative stereotypes around dating with a disability. Btw y’all are fantastic!
At age 67, I would marry a man with a disability without question. I would need assistance with the caregiving aspect due to my health issues. Don't ever give up on finding that special person.
totally agree that it'd be great to see more and more interabled couples out there!
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@@rubybrown3803 Youth has its advantages. This is a young couple in.the prine if their lives. Why would a senior with health problems make such a claim. That could only exacerbate your illness(s) and/or lead to a premature demise. If you are super rich and can afford a staff of live-in help, that's another story.
@@sandraatkins2539 I stated that help would be needed. I can look beyond a person's disability.
Don't listen to negative people you are perfect for each other
People need to stop asking personnel questions and mind their business
do you mean that the same as not listening to what people say BAD about you?
their jealous I bet they keep watching them also because their miserable and jealous obviously have racial prejudices need a life and stop worrying about other's lives.
@@Lisa-kz7vw that person who asked that's stupid ass question is a fucking racist! If he or she is not, why ask that question?
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The ratio and disabled questions are ridiculous at this point. I've watched you guys since Charisma came into and into Cohl's life.. You guys are really really cool people individually and it is fantastic that you found each other and you're living your best life. That's the reason why I started watching you guys and that's the reason why I keep watching you guys. I want to see how your life unfolds As long as you guys are willing to share it. God-bless you and keep Living your life fearlessly , it's kind of wonderful.
I agree.👍
We appreciate that so much, thank you!
They're so in tune to each other. The way they communicate, look at each other, don't interrupt, plan their lives together etc is super beautiful; they're definitely meant for each other. If you follow, you know they are truly soul mates. 💕
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aww, you're so kind, thank you!
Yeah absolutely ☺️
Hi guys,
You two remind me of me and my husband when we were young.
We’ve been married for 33 years now.
I’m black and he’s white, and we met in college. We both knew we were going to be together forever once we finally realized how much we long to spend time together.
Find comfort in that as time goes on those ridiculous questions people ask will not bother you as much.
You two make an amazing couple, and I’m so glad you guys are together. Blessings to you both, and Stay Positive.😊
Wow that's great I been married 23yrs to a beautiful Black woman who supported me while I was off in the military. We both have great families that support us. I wish I wouldve met her sooner so I could've spent more of my life with her, but I look forward to the coming years we will have
Hi Rose I'm a woman of color also, ( native to New Zealand) and my husband is white. When I first met him I knew he was the one and we too have been married for 33 years. He loves me unconditionally and I love him the same. Although we have no children together, I have 4, all grown up, he was quite happy for it to be just he and I and same. I'd like to wish Charisma and Cole a very long and happy life together.
You are all so sweet and gracious for sharing your stories. They truly inspire and encourage us! ❤
@@charlottelougher628 why are u lying on here?
You guys are quite transparent about the ups and downs.... there's always quite an enthusiastic, positive loving balance between you both 💞 Thanks for sharing 🤩🤩
If truth be told, I think there are still a lot of people who cannot wrap their head around your relationship as an enabled couple and that it is working! Both of you willingly came into the relationship fully understanding what it would mean. You both love each other and that is what matters.
Though we wish it weren't the case, you're probably right. Hopefully people's perspectives will change!
After a short while, you don't mind the wheelchair, it's merely an accessory. I believe we love others because they need us and show it in everyday life. It's as simple as that. Basic ingredients in a relationship is respect and humour, you've got that!
@@coleandcharisma Attitudes change when they see it's working!
My husband was attracted to black girls for a large part of his teenage years but had only dated white girls. So sometimes you do know. I'm black and had an attraction to a few white guys but had only dated black guys. Weve been together for 24 years, married for 19. Wish you guys the best.
Love the way Carisma moved her hand around w/ sparkles in her eyes and said “… because Cole is also an executive producer …” I can tell she is super proud of him 😊😊😊. I’m proud of him too.
Glad to know you all are embracing marriage and moving forward. ❤
Me too.😊
I'm so lucky to have her 🤗
You are both human beings. He’s handsome and she is beautiful. They are adorable together. Color should NEVER play into a relationship. I don’t like those questions or sarcastic answers either.
Such an awesome informative video, so happy for your life, God bless you both!💛
May God bless you. People will not stop talking. Enjoy your marriage. POSITIVITY GUYS!!!!!
Those questions have to be asked and continue to be asked
Questions about race should always be asked. It's a question that ppl seem to avoid. We have different races in America and the world and we should always learn about each other's history and not just the one taught in our school books. I hate when ppl raise other race children and say we're going to raise our kids as humans. That not fair. All people need to learn where they come from. America is supposed to be a melting pot right!!!??? So address all races.
That yellow outfit looks really good on Charisma it really brings out your color. And it's good to have a respite when you need too.
Wishing you both continued happiness. Keep being inspirational to us. Unconditional love is the best love ever.
Thank you for the Q&A! I’m so glad that you both found each other. Here’s to many more years of family happiness!
I love to watch your videos because your viewers can tell you two really love each other. You look at each other with so much love and affection. I especially love the way Cole looks at Charisma as if to say," I am proud to have her as my Queen ". He never shies away from showing the world how much he loves her. Every woman who loves a man should have a man look at her that way. Charisma always supports Cole to be the best person he can be. Charisma shows the perfect example of a loving woman who stands by her man. Most of your views, like myself, just see two people who love and care each other. Period!!! Thank you for sharing your journey with us!!
I appreciate your authenticity and honesty in responding to the questions!
So much wisdom from you both. Nicely done!
She's beautiful and a kind human being. She's a Angel 😇. I wish I had a daughter like her!
Your videos are my Sunday treat!!. Questions well answered and your love radiating through. Soul mates indeed.❤️ No wonder why I smiled throughout the whole presentation. Continue to stay positive .love and hugs xx
The two of you have a level of maturity that most people never achieve.
You two are such special humans!! I adore your families too, so the apple didn’t fall far from the tree! I love that you have your priorities in check and don’t let influences change you! ❤️❤️
you guys are young and so levelheaded fun to watch!!! you both can do it all…. love you both🙏🏽⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
I love you and Cole relationship, you show so much love for each other. You both are very blessed to have each other. Stay positive ✨️
These are two amazing young people who love one another for who they are as a person. Love is love, it does not see color, disability’s or all the other 100 things I could throw out there. The fact is, they met, there was a spark, they acted on it, fell in love and have chosen to make a lifelong commitment to one another so kudo’s to both of them. I personally think both of them are just super people. Charisma, your parent’s sure picked the perfect name for you. You are a beautiful, wonderful, loving spark of life, Cole, the same goes to you as well. Despite having an unforeseen accident you’ve chosen to take the path of life instead of self pity. You have a way of finding humor and the light in what at times I’m sure has seemed like a very dark place. May the good Lord shower you both with His abundant blessing’s in all you do. ❤
Love when you do a Q and A. It's a shame you have to keep answering the same questions. Your love for each other is so obvious to us. Thank you for being so candid 💕.
I think its pretty obvious that you two are meant for each other- that you got a special connection. You are so sweet together - the way your love shine through your eyes when you look on each other or speak about each other- that is really beautifull to see. Congratulation to finding each other 😀😃🙂🙃
You guys are so brave. People are so cruel these days and are very busy bodies, and the media is their way are feeling good about themselves. They are very jealous because they don't have what you have. So stay strong and keep up the good work.
All I want you both to do is “STAY POSITIVE.” That's all that matters. You both are a loving couple. ❤❤❤
you got it 🤗
Such a beautiful honest couple. Love you guys ❤
God put you two together! It has nothing to do with race or disability! It's a beautiful gift directly from our Heavenly Father!
Love you guys. I think you really help people who are disabled, and let them see that their disability doesn't have to define them. I appreciate your honesty, and I am sorry that people are not always nice. Can't wait to find out what Charisma is working on. Take care and never give up on your dreams.
So many people go through life lonely and unhappy (even people who are married/in relationships) but you each found someone who you truly love and brings you joy. I really think the people who feel the need to downplay how amazing that is by speculating you wouldn’t be together if not for Cole’s injury are just jealous of your happiness. I love that you guys have each other and I love your channel, but when watching you two at times even I feel a little envious (maybe sad is a better word) that I haven’t found that person yet. So I can imagine if someone is bitter or a more hateful person those feelings can manifest into making those nasty comments. Glad to see you two are secure in your relationship and don’t let people’s rudeness get to you. 💜
Thanks so much for your honesty. Your person is out there ❤
@@coleandcharisma that was a really sweet thing to say! I too believe that @My UA-cam 🙏❤️
Thanks for doing this Q&A. A little surprised you guys are still getting the race question. I hope Cole gets more acting gigs! You always seem so natural in front of the camera!
I hope so, too! 😂
They look so good together the love shines through wish them a long happy life hope they have children
They have a great chemistry! I believe hands down they were destined for each other!
You brighten up social media. Stay positive as well.
I believe your EVENT IDEA ROCKS! I hope that you will fully pursue it!
With you two I can clearly see that it’s genuine Love. Charisma is so pretty!I mean like WHAT! I wish I was as gorgeous as she is, she’s just a beautiful person inside and out And she loves and takes care of her man; and he is so fine! And honestly who the heck is looking at color, it’s silly! And as for Cole, when I’m sitting here listening to the two talking, I seriously forget that he’s disabled! He have such a big beautiful personality, and he protect and hold and comfort his woman better than most men I know. I love you two together and there’s definitely a standard set here for love. Souls mates for sure, without a doubt! ❤
The problem I have with the race-ralated questions is that they seem to be based on the assumption that one race is somehow inherently better than the other (just like being disabled is inherently worse than being able-bodied). So wrong. There is no settling for something here... you just fall in love with the person for who they are or you don't.
That's not the assumption. We just have a complex history and country STILL based on raced. And it's a fairy tail to believe that doesn't play into who you choose to be with. It's important to be aware of it so you can get it out the way.
For me I wonder how the height difference between them would have affected them.
@@Vitaluvoh common everybody has the same freedom as whom they like to MARRY and DIVORCE. Any race have the same freakin RIGHTS as everyone else. You're acting like people are being forced to marry and stupid enough that they don't know their rights. Even in the communist/dictator countries or even in the tribes/bush nowadays are free to marry whoever they like. Stop with the slavery race bait nonsense. The one who cries for racism usually are the racist ones. What rights that the white man have that I, an Asian, don't have or can't have? Tell me.
It's very obvious that Cole and Charisma were attracted to each other's inner beauty/spirit. Their marriage is God's plan and it's beautiful to watch them grow/glo.
Awesome Q&A video! I enjoyed it very much. Thank you for sharing so candidly!
I don't remember how I found y'all. But been following y'all the last couple of years. Just love y'all so much!
You are 2 unique individuals who compliment each other and great to see!
Watching from Kingston, Jamaica West Indies 🇯🇲I love watching you guys 🥰
It really doesn't matter. You two love one another. Your love is a very beautiful thing..These people are just envious of your relationship. Just be happy and enjoy life to the fullest. Blessings to you two. Many blessings for a long, happy, victorious and prosperous life.
I wish you guys all the Love and happiness this world has to offer. My daughter is disabled and if it would’ve been possible for her to experience this type of pure Love for just a moment would’ve meant the world to me. God doesn’t make any mistakes and he didn’t start with bringing you guys together. There was a purpose even on that horrible day that changed the course of Coles life and in the darkest point of his life he found his greatest joy his beautiful soul mate his wife his next of kin Charisma. The Love you share has no color continue to be Blessed 🙏🏾🙌🏾💕
You are such a special couple. You inspire many of us! I wish you many blessings!
I love watching you both how happy and comfortable you are together and Cole’s disability does not change anything - May God’s Love continue to surround you both and strengthen you for many more years ahead! ❤️🙏🏽❤️
I love you two. I love how you earnestly answered all the questions. One thing this old, wise lady would suggest from this point forward: Do not revisit that question anymore. You have been patient enough with those people in this post and in some from the past. You have no further need to explain to “those” people that race played no part in your finding the one that God prepared for you. Period.
Amen to Deborah comment you don't have to keep explaining your self about why you are together . Keeping loving ea other. God bless you both.
Heart you right back, C&C. Next time you’re in Texas to see grands, let me know. It’s an easy drive from Dallas to where you are. I’ll be your Dallas granny! You would love me just like I love you, promise!
*can't wait to see you all reach 1 million*
*Your long overdue*
I have a lot of admiration for both of you guys!
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My wife and I occasionally get looks and questions since we’re a binational couple. Too many people think she married me to get a green card. She actually wanted me to move to her country at first. Others think I married her for her long hair. 🤷🏾♂️ I stopped being bothered by people who don’t pay my bills.
facts! 😂
You guys are awesome! Keep up the good work, especially taking care of yourself.
All I know is I’m glad you’re together. ❤ You two were meant to be together. Always in sync and positive 🥰 Thanks for always being so open with your journey.
Can't get enough of you two since I discovered you. Can't get going without my daily dose of C&C. Just keep on trucking...❤ love and admire you both.❤
Such a humble couple!!!! ♥️ your friend in Minnesota
You two are so cute together. You can see how much excitement and love you have for one another when they stare at each other. I don't understand why people are bothered that you're an interracial and interabled couple. I just don't understand how people can be so hateful. You two are so sweet. Thank you both for opening up about your lives, good and bad.
This is awesome, you guys are beautiful. There will always be negative people but your love for each other tops all of it. Love the maturity in both of you about life with each other. Others should get a clue. Ahhh, riding together on the power chair is so sweet. ❣️❤️👍🏼❤️You both handles the Q & A very well.
Have been tracking your journey from the start, and have mad respect for both of you...Keep up the good work. R Good.
That was a good one. Though there were some silly questions and some that are just common sense but you took your time to answer. I really enjoyed listening to and laughed with you guys. You two make a perfect couple and also you inspire so many. Keep being you and don't mind about some negative ones. Much love from Arizona ❤❤❤
I love watching you both. The Lord put you two together! I enjoyed this one a lot.
Thanks for the Q/A Session... I have watched Cole gain much independence in the last 3 or so years. What tasks, Cole, have you tried that has led to more independence and what are some tasks that you have had to give in and need help with? Love love love the updates...wish you could do a couple a week... take care!
Primarily figuring out how to help out with menial tasks around the apartment throughout the day to lighten Charisma's load. What's ben tough is dressing myself. I really struggle in that department
@Roll with Cole & Charisma Thank you for answering my questions. Yes, I can see certain clothing would be more difficult to do than others. Cole, You still have gotten lots of skills and new routines to be a huge help to Charisma. Yall are awesome!!! Can't wait until the next video!
Thanks for all the answers, some the questions and statements are so Annoying. One thing with this lovely couple you are very loving and respectful to each other.
Y’all are absolutely two beautiful people inside and out! Just a awesome couple!
You both are a match made for each other, don’t ever be perturb ed , may you guys touch lives as you go along👏🏽✌🏽💪🏾
You both are a beautiful power couple. You both are very articulate & know what you both want in life as a couple. You both are going to achieve so much 😊
You guys are such a beautiful couple! I have followed you for the last 2 1/2 years before Charisma moved in Cole's parents house. Stay positive beautiful people!🤷🏽♀️
When I see you guys together I don’t think of race. You guys are so cute together. You can tell that you truly connected and both of you are gorgeous.
As you can see they are very HAPPY together so be considerate of them and just be HAPPY for them.
I know that race question is annoying but yall answer it so gracefully. Also take us on a trip to the grocery store with yall. Thanks for the questions and answers session.....
*I have no doubt the question to the title is of course*
*You can actually see Cole and charisma in love*
They Really Are So Much In Love, You Can See It! It Is Sooo Beautiful, It was God Ordained from the Very Beginning, it Was and Is Meant To Be, WOW, He’’s Got His Gal, WOW, She’s Got Her Guy, A Real TEAM!!!! TRUE LOVE, 1st. Corinthians 13.
@@robincrawley311 *as happy as I am for them, I'll admit, I dream of the day when it's my turn FINALLY*
*thanks for the love and recognition Cole and charisma*
Love you two. You can see the love you have for each other.
You two are great together......keep on rolling. I've been married for 42 years now and I wouldn't change a thing.
I like the way Charisma looks in Cole's eyes u can see that true love exist there. They are truly soul mates.
You are a beautiful couple so full of love and happiness. You two are good for each other. I admire you both.
Some people are just so shallow and jealous of other people no matter the circumstance that they try to justify their own insecurities by projecting these insecurities verbally in such a negative way to try to compensate for that they lack in their own lives. Continue to stay strong living your life with happiness and love to the fullest.
Two intelligent, gifted, and articulate people. Enjoyed the video and plan to watch others.
Love you guys! Cole and Charisma!
I absolutely love how you both are in love with each other. Keep doing life together, enjoy and ignore the negativity!! ❤️❤️👍🏾👍🏾
You both are wonderful people whom we love to see do awesome things. Keep being wonderful and awesome. Blessings
Love doesn't look at color or disabilities! When you look at the way you two look at one another, from when I first started following you two on your TED Talk, the love in your eyes for one another was obvious! Praying for you two always, and thank you for being the example of true love, for all ages! You're not perfect, but you're perfect for each other! I was with my husband 40 years before he passed; I know you two will have a long happy marriage! Peace and blessings to you both! 💕💕
Hello VeRita, how are you doing and where are you from?
omg, Cole's happy wiggle when Charisma said "he's a catch" was so adorable
Love the way you guys said you thought you'd stay put but also that you've been wrong about every previous prediction about your future 😂 I felt that lol. But nice to see you two embrace the uncertainty while enjoying where you are. -Emily from HHL ❤
Great answer on the question about would you two be together. I absolutely agree.
Love is a commitment not a color. Love the union!
Hey Cole and Charisma, Happy Sunday. How's your feet doing Cole? Today's video was so heartwarming to watch. Sending love ♥️♥️
Haven't really been on too much since the pandemic but so good to see you guys again. Sorry that the ignorant questions are still abundant! Both of you are adorable and clearly could be with many others, if you chose to! Some "haters" need to focus on finding love for themselves instead of trying to diminish those lucky enough to have captured it! Looking forward to catching up(didn't know you were in California) and Cole is acting(you get it Cole!) Love ya both!
Amen, Cole and Charisma Love is all knowing and you two are blessed! God is Love and we all should exercise His blessings.
VA stand up proud of you two keep shinning. Gods speed...
Y'all 2 fit together so well that if you were a lot older, I'd think you had been married a long time. You fit together perfectly!
All I have to say is that I got mad love and respect for you guys 🙏 God is good to you both and y'all are blessed. There's always negative folks out there but remain humble and keep shining 🌟☺️
I can truly see the love with this couple. My husband and I were the first mixed could to date in high school in Virginia nearly 40 years ago, we have 2 children and 2 grand babies. God is so good!!
40 years? That's incredible!
I am so glad that you mentioned taking care of yourself, as you look tired sis.
I can relate my husband is more laid back and I’m type A, work, work, work. It’s great that you balance each other out. ❤
I love you guys and i am so happy you didn't let these negative people get to you .
Blessing to you both in all your plans. You are a beautiful couple❤❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽,don't let negativity get to you all.
Charisma and Cole are both perfect,and they both can have almost anybody they want,and they want each other.
I love the intimate setting! I love y’all. I’m a new fan! ❤
I love you two. Been following you before you got 1K subscribers, now you're almost 1M
Thanks for sticking with us! ❤
You both are awesome people. I hear you about the black/white thing. My husband is Jamaican, I am Irish. We have been happily together for 35 years. Two beautiful sons. I don't see color, neither does he. It is love, plain and simple. Thank you for sharing your journey. I love watching your channel.
Darlings, continue loving each other. Love has no boundaries or color. It is what it is! Folks that question your love are lonely, miserable and envious people. Let them stay in the dark space that they built for themselves and continue walking into your light of truth and harmony. I pray that you both have a happy, healthy and prosperous life journey. Sending you both loads of love and positive energy.
You guys are fabulous. There will always be what I call people with the “ crab in the barrel mentality”. Which means they live in the cellar of hate and are miserable and can’t be happy when others are doing well. Congratulations on the success in your life together and in both businesses. I’m including the one Cole keeps giving away 🤐😊💕💕
Can I use your example of crab in the barrel? That is SO perfect! My guardian went sky diving and like Cole, didn't let much stop him.
@@bluekimchiandrea4476 absolutely ❤️❤️
We should all be lifting each other up, not pulling each other down!
Good luck with the film, I know it's not an easy industry. My son graduated last Dec from JMU (he's a Hanover boy!) in Media Arts and Design and is still struggling to find that first job. The pandemic caused him to miss his opportunity to do an internship, which would have helped greatly. I keep telling him to watch for even UA-cam opportunities since he loves editing so much. He's so talented but thinks I'm just saying that because I'm his mom...no I'm an artist and seeing the talent. 😊 Anyway, I may have to let go of apron strings and let him go west if he desires but since he loves documentaries the most that could take him anywhere! You two are so wonderful together, wish you SO much success.