Will My Arms Always Be So Small?

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  • @ninaappelt9001
    @ninaappelt9001 4 місяці тому +212

    Another shining example of Cole focusing on what he can do, instead of what he can't.

    • @leslieearnest9602
      @leslieearnest9602 4 місяці тому +5

      He’s the best! Alongside Charisma- these two are unstoppable and so very lovable ❤

    • @KC-qi7gn
      @KC-qi7gn 4 місяці тому +1

      @ninaappler9001 THAT PART

    • @ameleallard1210
      @ameleallard1210 4 місяці тому +2

      Hello to both of you! I LOVE your Channel! Im from Canada, Québec. Im in wheelchair too, i was born like it. Anyway you are such an inspiration for me.
      Anyway i wish you both a good evening !
      Amélie

  • @autumnmcclain5839
    @autumnmcclain5839 4 місяці тому +91

    I was surprised to hear that someone commented that you had small arms. I had not noticed. I noticed how large your shoulders are. How well you get around after the type of injury you had and how comfortable you are in your situation. How you stay positive and humble and strong. You are smart and handsome and kind and that is why you have been blessed with a smart and loving and beautiful wife. Great couple!

    • @KC-qi7gn
      @KC-qi7gn 4 місяці тому +7

      @autumnmcclain5838 I WAS SHOCKED TOO THAT SOMEONE WOULD ASK THAT TYPE OF QUESTION

    • @lettiegrant9447
      @lettiegrant9447 4 місяці тому +4

      Some people are just ignorant and don't know how to just enjoy watching their videos without asking unnecessary questions.

    • @tanastoiberg7981
      @tanastoiberg7981 4 місяці тому +4

      Totally agreed. 💞

    • @robiny.4395
      @robiny.4395 3 місяці тому +1

      I think it’s great that people are asking questions and that they get to educate people.

  • @ritabarnes2440
    @ritabarnes2440 4 місяці тому +61

    I am shocked that anyone would even comment on Cole’s arms being thin. I can truthfully say I haven’t noticed but I wouldn’t have said anything if I did.
    Seems people are rather rude while hiding behind a keyboard. Cole is a very attractive man and that’s what I see.
    Happy Birthday Charisma!

    • @LuziaSilvaMagalhaesOrest-pe2yx
      @LuziaSilvaMagalhaesOrest-pe2yx 4 місяці тому +1

      Isso nao e ser rude pura iveja a iveja os torna em péssimas

    • @sherrimartin1057
      @sherrimartin1057 4 місяці тому +2

      I completely agree ! Never noticed, seriously.

    • @KC-qi7gn
      @KC-qi7gn 4 місяці тому +2

      @ritabarnes2440 I SAID THE SAME THNG I WAS N STILL AM SHOCKED BY THE QUESTION N YES I WOULD'VE N DID CONSIDERD/CONSIDER IT RUDE N UNCALLED FOR UNLESS IT WAS FOR AN UNAWARENESS N UNEDUCATED PERSON ASKING THE QUESTION

    • @ritabarnes2440
      @ritabarnes2440 4 місяці тому

      @@LuziaSilvaMagalhaesOrest-pe2yx sorry but I don’t speak Spanish and no translation button😊

  • @berthagreen1620
    @berthagreen1620 4 місяці тому +58

    You two complement each other so well.Cole , I don’t think there’s anything wrong because the look Charisma gives you says it all.

  • @candisbar524
    @candisbar524 4 місяці тому +63

    I love your dad's surprise!! It was crazy fun watching Sophie's response to seeing him!!

  • @lindasanders7071
    @lindasanders7071 4 місяці тому +31

    I love how you guy explain so much about the smallest things in your relationship. Charisma, I owe you a huge apology. I was one who thought you were a little stand offish. I never thought about the make up situation. Makes a lot of sense. So here's me apologizing to you. I love your videos. As an educator, I truly appreciate all that you are teaching us. I take that information where ever I go, whether parking my car next to a handicap spot and making sure there's enough space for a van ramp, or asking someone in a wheelchair how can I help before assuming what they need. Thank you Cole and Charisma. Love the education! 🥰😊

    • @lettiegrant9447
      @lettiegrant9447 4 місяці тому +9

      Funny how you would think she was standoffish. She's certainly not. And you're an educator?

    • @ruelongcha
      @ruelongcha 2 місяці тому +1

      Was just gonna say Charisma has always had a super bubbly and open disposition, not unlike her namesake. It’s great that OP has come to a realization and apologized, but they should probably reflect on why they had such an impression in the first place.

  • @martysinq4831
    @martysinq4831 4 місяці тому +53

    You two are so fun to watch. So informative and supportive of each other. Your love shines.

    • @leslieearnest9602
      @leslieearnest9602 4 місяці тому +2

      It truly does ! They have the deepest respect /love for one another and it shows in every single video ❤❤

  • @kittybitts567
    @kittybitts567 4 місяці тому +48

    Happy Birthday Charisma!!! Lots of love to you both!!! 💞

  • @kavitadeva
    @kavitadeva 4 місяці тому +54

    I CANNOT believe anyone would care about Coles anatomy.
    Love you guys just the way you are.

    • @leslieearnest9602
      @leslieearnest9602 4 місяці тому +4

      Exactamente ❤

    • @KC-qi7gn
      @KC-qi7gn 4 місяці тому +3

      IKR IT CAN BE BOTH AN EDUCATIONAL THING (FOR AWARENESS FOR PEOPLE WHO DON'T KNOW N WANT TO KNOW FOR EDUCATIONAL,INFORMATIONAL N AWARENESS PURPOSES) N/OR COME OFF/ACROSS AS RUDE,UNCALLED FOR N INCONSIDERATE

    • @ExplorewithSarahlouise
      @ExplorewithSarahlouise 3 місяці тому +1

      I mean to be fair they have quite a straight talking channel and talk about his disability and anatomy a lot so maybe someone was just asking and genuinely interested. They seem pretty ok with answering all questions and don’t rly seem offended.

    • @kavitadeva
      @kavitadeva 3 місяці тому +1

      @@ExplorewithSarahlouise excellent point. I believe in complete transparency especially when you're wanting viewers to truly
      Understand something. It reminds me of a channel it's a autism channel it's just one little girl and her mom and dad and the parents are cool and the little girl she's 11 she's awesome she's nonverbal she's so cool though the thing I hate about their Channel is that they will never show ever their daughter who is autistic having meltdowns tantrums anything where their child is you know having a hard time punching a hole in the wall they won't show it. I emailed him and I said you know you always say your mission for having a UA-cam channel is so that people will totally accept totally embrace and totally include children and other people with autism. So I told him that he's not being honest and he is not really doing what he says his mission is all about because if you want people to understand something like autism then you need to show all of it the good the bad the ugly whatever. And his response to me was we will never show our daughter in a bad or negative way because how would you feel if somebody showed you in a negative way and I told him then change what you keep saying don't tell people that this channel is so people will completely understand autism and be able to be aware of it and accept it and include everybody. So I hope you can see that I am for complete and total honesty if you're going to be on UA-cam and sing these kind of things then show it all not just the good parts.

  • @joetinson1627
    @joetinson1627 4 місяці тому +94

    I have to say that seeing you guys's UA-cam how you guys reacting with one another is amazing because it gives me hope as well I'm disabled too and I can't walk but but that's not going to stop me from being happy so thank you both for making this channel

    • @---BAM---
      @---BAM--- 4 місяці тому +13

      Always have hope and never lose love for yourself. I found the love of my life 4 years ago and we got married last year. Life is so beautiful. ❤

    • @joetinson1627
      @joetinson1627 4 місяці тому +14

      @@---BAM--- happy for you I'm still keeping hope and that I found the same thing

    • @---BAM---
      @---BAM--- 4 місяці тому

      @@joetinson1627 ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @KC-qi7gn
      @KC-qi7gn 4 місяці тому

      @joetunson1627 I SECOND THIS I'M ALSO DISABLED N CAN'T WALK N I'M A WHEELCHAIR USER NOT ONLY CAN'T I WALK I HAVE NEVER WALKED N I AM ALSO PARALYZED FROM THE WAIST DOWN JUST LIKE COLE N I ALSO CAN FEEL LEFT LEG CAUSE OF HIP FLEXTION/SPAZIMING JUST LIKE COLE N I HAVE HAD 40 SURGERIES N I'VE BEEN A WHEELCHAIR USER SINCE THE AGE OF 2 I'M 34 NOW N I HAVE SB (SPINA BIFIDA)

  • @maryjackson2946
    @maryjackson2946 4 місяці тому +28

    HAPPY 30TH BIRTHDAY CHARISMA, AWESOME BIRTHDAY SURPRISE. SOPHIE WAS VERY HAPPY TO SEE YOUR DAD. YALL ARE A BEAUTIFUL FAMILY. MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL ALWAYS. HAPPY PALM SUNDAY. 🙂🙏🏿✝️❤🎂🍨🥳🎊🎈🎁🎉🎈🎊🎁🥳🎉🎊🎈🎁🥳🎉🎊🎈🎉

  • @mariselnegron9817
    @mariselnegron9817 4 місяці тому +52

    You both bring me so much hope. I shared your story with my cousin who lives in Puerto Rico. She is in a wheelchair and I'm praying that she will find true love just like the both of you.

  • @PoeticjusticeQueen
    @PoeticjusticeQueen 4 місяці тому +23

    🤣🤣🤣 when Cole said “if you really wanna loose weight, I recommend spinal cord injury”!! Cole I appreciate your dark humor! You are quick with it too!! Luv the banter you two have 🥰

    • @leslieearnest9602
      @leslieearnest9602 4 місяці тому +2

      He’s a whole mess 😂😂

    • @seipatitshabalala3540
      @seipatitshabalala3540 Місяць тому

      😅😅😅😅😅. I laughed so hard because I really wanna loose weight. You are so funny Cole. I love you guys.

  • @brendagiles359
    @brendagiles359 4 місяці тому +25

    Love these two.They are a beautiful couple❤❤

  • @tamikaqueen1203
    @tamikaqueen1203 4 місяці тому +14

    I think Cole's weight is normal and some people should not watch certain channels unless they read about different injuries. You guys are so patient. God bless.

  • @ReenaBINA
    @ReenaBINA 4 місяці тому +26

    You can feel the love watching these videos

  • @sharonc7031
    @sharonc7031 4 місяці тому +38

    That team dance was the bomb!

    • @leslieearnest9602
      @leslieearnest9602 4 місяці тому +1

      It brought the biggest smile to my face when I saw it the other day 🎉❤

  • @aquamarine3699
    @aquamarine3699 3 місяці тому +3

    😂How could anyone call you cold? You're charisma! Keep being yourselves and making the world a better place

  • @imveryhungry112
    @imveryhungry112 4 місяці тому +39

    Your arms actually look pretty good honestly.

  • @schandrikawilliams2792
    @schandrikawilliams2792 4 місяці тому +6

    I was thinking of how you nailed that dance not how small your arms are!? As a woman who uses a wheelchair (for most of my life) it still surprises me what people notice about people with disabilities. I’m 55 and still can be surprised 😂

  • @joandepies7133
    @joandepies7133 4 місяці тому +10

    Cole, I love your sense of humor. I laugh out loud just watching you.

  • @CUCHIE68
    @CUCHIE68 4 місяці тому +24

    You guys look incredible. Loving your shirt, Cole. Charisma you are so full of light & love. God Bless You Guys, love from SWFL, USA…..

    • @CUCHIE68
      @CUCHIE68 4 місяці тому +4

      Happy Belated Birthday, Charisma…..

  • @zamakhosimpanza3902
    @zamakhosimpanza3902 4 місяці тому +5

    You both are natural teachers. And I'm glad for that!

  • @lesliemeadows6980
    @lesliemeadows6980 4 місяці тому +7

    Relationship goals! Anyone can tell how much you love each other. You are both totally adorable and amazing ❤

  • @inezcarr605
    @inezcarr605 4 місяці тому +13

    Happy Birthday Charisma, God bless you both.

  • @teresacintron4778
    @teresacintron4778 4 місяці тому +22

    Happy Birthday to your wife. God Bless both of you ❤🇵🇷

  • @jenniferw1595
    @jenniferw1595 4 місяці тому +5

    Primer, concealer, and powder! It helps keep make up in place. But I also have oily skin so it’s basically a crap shoot if someone is gonna end up wearing bronzer. Love you guys 💕🌼

  • @millietagger3918
    @millietagger3918 4 місяці тому +6

    I love the way you both are so protective of each other ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jenniferpruden4059
    @jenniferpruden4059 4 місяці тому +17

    Happy birthday Charisma 🎉. I loved this video. Thanks for sharing your party and Dad arriving unexpectedly. Cole you are so good in explaining your disabilities which can help others. Well done to you and Charisma with her physio experience. You have learned so much since being married with her wanting you to be more able. I admire you both. Take care and keep safe all of you. XX 🙋🏡👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩🙏❤️🎂🍷🍷

  • @janicemichaloski5292
    @janicemichaloski5292 4 місяці тому +24

    Charisma your dad hiding in the car😅that was awesome

  • @missromiea
    @missromiea 4 місяці тому +12

    Happy birthday, Charisma. Hope you had a blessed & fun filled day.

  • @carleybutler1707
    @carleybutler1707 4 місяці тому +5

    I'm doing my dissertation on understanding the neural control of biceps and triceps and why they recover so differently after SCI so this video is extra interesting to me!

  • @helenmokom1569
    @helenmokom1569 4 місяці тому +15

    Happy Birth Day Charisma and God bless you both.

  • @SuperMjphillips
    @SuperMjphillips 4 місяці тому +36

    Everyone is different. That is what makes the world.

  • @MJ-kj8fs
    @MJ-kj8fs 4 місяці тому +2

    You guys are so open and honest- what a blessing to others in your situation.

  • @KyleGodNFamilyForever30
    @KyleGodNFamilyForever30 4 місяці тому +22

    Hello Checking In From Baton Rouge Louisiana... I'm A Big Supporter Watch You Guys Everynight Being Watching Since 2022 I'm Paralyzed From The Waist Down Born With Spina Bifida No Accident Just Was Born This Way Message To Y'all...Keep Grinding Major Love To Y'all Don't Let Nobody Stop The Shine In Y'all Straight To The Top The Only Way To Go..."Never Give Up"😇...#ChaseYaDreamsByAnyMeans🤞🏾
    THANKS FOR MAKING MY LIFE GREAT AGAIN I SUBSCRIBED POST NOTIFICATION ON ALL...‼️♿💜💙 WELCOME TO THE 30'S

  • @leticiagil
    @leticiagil 4 місяці тому +2

    You are alive and you are living... the life. That's all! God bless you both!

  • @marynamurray9385
    @marynamurray9385 4 місяці тому +5

    So great of your dad to surprise you on your birthday Charisma! Always informative when you speak about Cole's injury and Sophie looks gorgeous on Cole's t-shirt. 🌻

  • @sashac7002
    @sashac7002 4 місяці тому +17

    Happy DIRRRTYY THIRRRTTTYYY!!! Best decade yet for yall

  • @minniemurray991
    @minniemurray991 4 місяці тому +4

    Aww you both are amazing great example to the world love you guys 😘❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @peggykendell6805
    @peggykendell6805 3 місяці тому +1

    I love how open you are to educating people. There is so much that people have no clue about! Your the man!

  • @beverlydust5381
    @beverlydust5381 4 місяці тому +4

    Cole thanks for sharing your story and the information about your muscles, so helpful for newly injured people and students in PT and OT training. You work hard to maintain your strength and mobility of what you have. ❤😂

  • @debbiebailey1850
    @debbiebailey1850 4 місяці тому +6

    Happy birthday Charisma🎉🎂🎉
    Thank both of you for sharing your information.
    Stay positive 😊

  • @CurlyCookies
    @CurlyCookies 4 місяці тому +3

    ❤️❤️ I’ve been watching you guys forever this is what a supportive couple looks like 🥰

  • @janaeradack3865
    @janaeradack3865 4 місяці тому +2

    I love how informative you both are in your channel. I feel I understand some things much more. Thank you for sharing so much. Also big happy birthday charisma, 30 is so fun. I'm so glad you had an amazing birthday. Thank you both for spreading positivity no matter your situation. It definitely is spreading around your fans, I know I have started living in a positive way since watching your channel. 😊

  • @Ellepeah
    @Ellepeah 4 місяці тому +2

    Cole looks amazing! You are both adorable together. Happy birthday, Charisma!

  • @fabtastic8988
    @fabtastic8988 4 місяці тому +1

    Happy Birthday. Wishing you many more blessings, happiness and everything you wished for. Continued blessings to you, your family and everyone

  • @user-qr3bb7ej2i
    @user-qr3bb7ej2i 4 місяці тому +13

    Your love for each.other is so inspiring!❤

  • @ednanelson1897
    @ednanelson1897 4 місяці тому +5

    Happy belated birthday Charisma 🎂 🥳. Surprises are always fun. Your dad is so fun. Sophie missed him so much. I'm glad you guys are so transparent to honestly respond to people asking questions.😊😊

    • @LuziaSilvaMagalhaesOrest-pe2yx
      @LuziaSilvaMagalhaesOrest-pe2yx 4 місяці тому

      Tem gente sem noçao parabéns e todas as bençoes dos ceu alhas vcs 2 ja sao abençoados tem um a outro amor verdadeiro coisas de Deus

  • @user-mf6qx1hn2r
    @user-mf6qx1hn2r 4 місяці тому +1

    I love both of your shirts! I love how you two show the world how u do things & explain things so well.

  • @sheilabyrd2289
    @sheilabyrd2289 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for always thoughtfully sharing much needed information about your disability. I appreciate that you all provide education that is very much needed in society. Thank you for all you do to help this world become more inclusive & understanding of people with disabilities . See you two next time. God Bless.

  • @dianeknight8596
    @dianeknight8596 4 місяці тому +2

    Thanks guys for the love you show to each other, very uplifting

  • @darksarcasm4835
    @darksarcasm4835 4 місяці тому +1

    I just love y’all!❤❤❤don’t change anything Charisma-you’re lovely.

  • @DanielleLegacy
    @DanielleLegacy 4 місяці тому +3

    You guys both have great physiques and shouldn't have to explain yourselves to anyone. BUT, I can see why you do it and appreciate you educating the public by being so open. Great work! 👏👏👏

  • @tarnisaperkins6970
    @tarnisaperkins6970 4 місяці тому +3

    Charisma and Cole I praise God for you both for your love of each other, the Lord, your families, people…You are role models for disabled and able body people. Your struggles and successes in this life… Thank you. Many of us have “disabilities” and “diseases” not obvious. You mentor and motivate us all. Love you.❤❤

  • @sanelemotau8490
    @sanelemotau8490 4 місяці тому +3

    "I have to be strong... I wanna always be strong so that I can always help Chole whenever he needs it." 😭😭😭😭❤❤

  • @stussycat77
    @stussycat77 4 місяці тому +1

    I rarely comment on your videos… don’t know why. I always watch and like. But I just gotta say you two are incredible. A perfect match. Kind, caring, funny as heck. It’s so refreshing and inspiring to watch you both. I get a lot of joy out of watching your videos and seeing how much you love and care for each other. I hope you continue to be blessed and happy. ❤

  • @ralo4304
    @ralo4304 4 місяці тому +2

    I have no idea how my algorithm happened across your channel, but I do appreciate it! I have always wondered about things that your videos are about! Thank you for being brave and sharing your life❤❤.

  • @Flute_ShKi58
    @Flute_ShKi58 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for the explanations for the public. As a person who is a paraplegic, I get all sort of questions as well. I don't mind educating people about my disAbility, but be mindful of your questions due to curosity or judgement. I love you guys!!

  • @bleonard1803
    @bleonard1803 4 місяці тому +2

    Love Cole’s shirt! I’m going to have to look into getting one too! Completely agree with the sentiment! Glad to hear Charisma’s birthday was a good one! So cool that pops was able to surprise y’all!
    Loved all the body positivity in this video! I’m a T12 para, so I have the issues in my legs that Cole has with his arms. It bothered me for the longest time but I’ve reached the point where it doesn’t phase me anymore either. Gotta focus on the ‘cans’ rather than the ‘cants’.

  • @helenellis1045
    @helenellis1045 4 місяці тому +2

    Belated birthday blessings Charisma! You & Cole inspire so many 🎊

  • @dorisweems1510
    @dorisweems1510 4 місяці тому +5

    Happy birthday beautiful Charisma, love you two so much ❤❤🎉

  • @carolyncornelius1492
    @carolyncornelius1492 4 місяці тому +6

    OMG!! .. Cole And Charisma, You Make Us Laugh So Much!!! .. Your Love For Each Other is So Incredibly Beautiful To See! .. We Smile All Through Your Amazing Videos. . Happy Birthday To Charisma!! .. You Are So Beautiful And Super Sweet!! .. WOW!! We All Love How You Explain Everything Also! .. God Bless You Always, CC ❤❤🥰

  • @pdenise777
    @pdenise777 4 місяці тому

    You guys are so good together. I know that you put in the work, and may God continue to bless you!!!

  • @crountree10
    @crountree10 4 місяці тому +2

    Hello Cole and Charisma! I’m also a C5-7 quadriplegic. But I’m an incomplete injury. I have triceps and the forearm muscles. Every injury is different because even though I have more muscle function I can’t dress myself.

  • @BrLambert
    @BrLambert 4 місяці тому +3

    OMG, I didn't expect to hear Charisma say she is such a cougar, too funny.
    The education is amazing. These informational videos would be great for classrooms of all ages.

  • @lorrainerussell6049
    @lorrainerussell6049 4 місяці тому +1

    Happy Birthday Chrisma! You are a very beautiful person inside and out.

  • @shirley9008
    @shirley9008 4 місяці тому +9

    I just love you two and Sophie 😊❤

  • @LydiaLewis-gm3pg
    @LydiaLewis-gm3pg 4 місяці тому +1

    Hi Cole and Charisma...i just love your positve attitude...and the Love.... respect and support you have for each other are really an inspiration to all. I love watching your videos..From South Africa.

  • @bessy394
    @bessy394 4 місяці тому +9

    Happy Belated Birthday Charisma 🎉. You’re a very special and inspiring couple. You give positivity to life in general. Your family is a blessing to so many. ❤🇬🇧

  • @addielike3362
    @addielike3362 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you guys for sharing, people are so silly, keep being awesome

  • @monicag1510
    @monicag1510 4 місяці тому +2

    Aww was just about to ask about the shirt. Thank you guys for always doing educational videos for us. It really answers a lot of questions.

  • @CindyCaudle-of6jd
    @CindyCaudle-of6jd 4 місяці тому +11

    Happy Birthday Charisma!!🎉❤

  • @The2Unique4u
    @The2Unique4u 4 місяці тому +3

    Laura Mercier setting powder. I find reduces makeup transfer significantly and they have a brown skin tint! (About not transfer with fenty foundation)
    I don’t usually comment so while him here I’d like to thank you both. You have helped me during my lowest points of depression when I can’t remember life details from that time I remember all of your videos. I’m confident that you guys have what you need in each other family and friends to maintain both of your physical and mental health.
    Thank you for staying positive! 🤗

  • @ashleyllorens3654
    @ashleyllorens3654 4 місяці тому

    this made me feel so seen! 🥰 love y’all’s love & humor too! 🤍

  • @AltoGoddess
    @AltoGoddess 3 місяці тому

    I love listening to Charisma, and her journey and how things are affecting her. I may need to search your videos from the perspective of the able bodied person in the relationship 😊. It has to be some psychological effects too, and how to persevere ❤️💪🏽. I love you guys☺️

  • @mrsjeudy1115
    @mrsjeudy1115 4 місяці тому +2

    Do you even need make-up Charisma? You are a natural beauty!! But this was so educational...thank you guys for educating us. Love you guys!

  • @MoDavI-sl7iy
    @MoDavI-sl7iy 3 місяці тому

    Your JOY is contagious‼️

  • @micro-uhgresh-uhnn
    @micro-uhgresh-uhnn 4 місяці тому +14

    Random question: Can Cole be tickled? When he spasmed after Charisma touched him I wondered if his body was responding to touch like everyone else, like maybe it tickled a little. His neck is great! It makes him look like a former football player. Excellent video guys. I appreciate how patient you guys are with the misconceptions about you and your relationship. It’s a good reminder to the peanut gallery that we are only seeing a 2-dimensional and limited view of your relationship and you both as individuals, so relax down here in the comments. Let’s try giving each other the benefit of doubt more often. ❤

  • @lyndajoyce6243
    @lyndajoyce6243 Місяць тому

    You two are so inspiring! And Cole you are just so cute I never noticed your arms! Happy Birthday Charisma! ❤

  • @patriciarobinson5172
    @patriciarobinson5172 4 місяці тому +1

    Love ❤️ love the info 👏🏽 I learned a lot, even though I had a different experience with my son .

  • @user-ky6op6nh7w
    @user-ky6op6nh7w 4 місяці тому +3

    Hey,Cole! Your arms are not skinny! 💪💪
    Hello from Richmond, Va!

  • @onehappywife_
    @onehappywife_ 4 місяці тому +9

    Editing😂😂😂😂 When the music started I lost it😅

  • @alondraortiz6470
    @alondraortiz6470 3 місяці тому +1

    Hey cole and charisma ✨ I’m so happy to have found your channel. This video is quite interesting to me considering I have a brachial plexus injury, so my c5-t1 nerve roots on my dominant right arm/hand were avulsed (yanked out) from the spinal cord. So my right shoulder, arm, hand are paralyzed 😭 my injury unfortunately was severe and non graft-able. Nerve transfers wouldn’t take and surgeons didn’t want to harvest nerves from other parts of my working body when it wouldn’t be beneficial, in fact just like you said I’d be compromising my working body parts, so it’s been a very hard transition but seeing your guys UA-cam videos are motivating and oh so positive, thank you🌹
    I found quite interesting that because your lesion was at the C5 level your nerve roots have dissolved due to scar tissue. I really hope in the near future spinal cord injuries and nerve injuries have a breakthrough so that we may have better mobility and even better independence 🦾

  • @sistersistera
    @sistersistera 4 місяці тому +2

    You two are sooooo adorable. I just love your videos. A belated Happy Birthday 🎂🎈🎊

  • @user-sp1ke5mi9u
    @user-sp1ke5mi9u 4 місяці тому +2

    Happy birthday Charisma. Hope you have a fantastic day with Cole & family. Can’t believe you are 30 years old you looked more like 23 Year old. Lots of love❤🎉

  • @heidib9243
    @heidib9243 4 місяці тому +1

    Thankyou for your informative videos. I love watching you guys, you have so much love and happiness for each other, it's just beautiful.
    I'd love to know, if it's ok, what causes the spasms in Cole's legs. You've probably covered this before, but I've not seen it. All the best to you both and Sophie. 🥰🥰🥰

  • @user-yy2ng6fx9u
    @user-yy2ng6fx9u 4 місяці тому +2

    The two of you are such a cute couple!! Good for each other😊

  • @carenmontgomery2384
    @carenmontgomery2384 4 місяці тому +5

    greetings from San Diego, California, and Happy Birthday to you!

  • @hrhplease9119
    @hrhplease9119 4 місяці тому +1

    💥Forward is Never Straight ‼️💥You guys are a inspiration‼️💥 Keep on ROCKING ‼️💥

  • @LA-gf5re
    @LA-gf5re 4 місяці тому +1

    LOVE YOU BOTH❤THANKS FOR SHARING!!

  • @lurodriguez1836
    @lurodriguez1836 4 місяці тому +1

    Hay mi Dios, que gente opinando y opinando y a veces no para bien, paciencia chicos, gracias por compartir. Me encanta la imagen de Sophie en la ropa
    ❤🐕❤

  • @leslieearnest9602
    @leslieearnest9602 4 місяці тому +1

    Just read the “about” Cole and Charisma for the first time ever - been a subscriber for almost 5 years now so as you can see I catch on fast 😂 anywho- it’s written just like Cole talks so I assume he wrote the description- with Charisma nodding and agreeing that it sounds great- and it does!! I loved the “about” description and it’s a perfect fit for the channel 🎉🎉🎉 love you guys and I look forward to every single episode- you two make a perfect match for each other!! ❤❤ Keep on spreading awareness and “pawsitivity” - btw I WANT TO PURCHASE COLE and CHARISMA MERCH 🎉🎉🎉 luv you guys , mean it!

  • @sandrakindles9456
    @sandrakindles9456 4 місяці тому

    I love you guys' Spirit. God bless both of you.

  • @myrnaedmisten599
    @myrnaedmisten599 4 місяці тому +1

    Love these conversations between you two. You both know so much about Cole’s disability, the possibilities, the impossibilities. What a wonderful partnership!❤❤❤. Maybe Cole should try some self-tanner!!

  • @skating43
    @skating43 4 місяці тому +2

    With what you went through, thank God you look great!

  • @rhondadines3287
    @rhondadines3287 15 днів тому

    Thank you for being transparent.

  • @johannahenderson18
    @johannahenderson18 4 місяці тому +3

    I don't think it's important about how small a body part is. It doesn't even bring that to mind. Maybe because I was working with similar people. U are fine just as u are. U are such a a good supportive wife Charisma. U live each other that is more important. Saying prayers for u always. Keep up the great work both of u.

  • @selomiacochrane8342
    @selomiacochrane8342 4 місяці тому +1

    Happy belated birthday Charisma wish you many more blessed years to ❤❤

  • @suzybausch8587
    @suzybausch8587 4 місяці тому +2

    Interesting chat! Thx for sharing. 😊