How to START APPROACHING WOMEN (RESULTS GUARANTEED!!)
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Some good advice is to start the approach with honesty. If you've said hello to a girl because you thought she had a cute smile or a nice outfit, tell her. Nothing is better than authenticity.
Just be yourself (chadlite) theory
@@__-bz7wh This only works if 'yourself' is actually a good person, but... authenticity ties in nicely with self improvement - which is all about becoming the best version of yourself possible!
what if I'm approaching her because she got a fat ass?
true
@@TTInfiniteGaming just tell her you find her physically attractive and would like to have the pleasure of getting to know her over a cup of coffee or what ever she likes to drink
The way I do it personally Is I think to myself “yo i’m literally never gonna see this girl again so there is no risk.” always does the trick
Thanks bro will keep this in mind :)
the next day at college: oh shit
@@Lenny-zn8hn well see i’m just talking about in public, like you see someone cute while walking and go up and talk to them kinda thing!
Same, I'm talking to a girl right now , it's been about one month since I started talking to her, and I just talk about anything I want, because I just think "well, it's now or never" and then I do it
@@Lenny-zn8hn Don't put your wink in where you ink.
Aa a former loner who found a possible wife thru game, I bow to your advice, sir. Of all my day approaches over several years, 100% were positive. Nothing else in my life was ever 100% positive. Hell, the girls stuttered more than I did, just out of shock and surprise.
Get out of your heads, my dudes. Small steps. Just start.
We're all gonna make it.
Will listen to this advise brother, personally just being confident and stoic has worked wonders for me but for others, being funny and outgoing also works
Just don't fake happiness and funniness, fake stoicness instead
We’re all gonna make it brahs 😩💪
No, some of us are going to make it.
@@__-bz7wh you blew my high wit that one😐😭
Do you cold aproach in Portugal??
As someone with various social disorders. I've had a massive improvement talking to others by watching videos like your own. It's important to incorporate your own personality into it. Being yourself but confident, is the key.
better idea be alone and save up money,
@@apolloonmars709 Thats not a winners perspective, at all
@@lynic-0091 I know I was joking lol, didn't think y'all would take it seriously
I think there is a lot of advice online that makes social anxiety worse when trying to incorporate it. Hamza does a good job of giving advice that can easily be implemented into someone's own personality. Instead of someone having to go through a dialogue tree of "what would a chad say in this situation?!", he gives advice to boost your genuine personality.
Remember that when he says go up to her as fast as possible he doesn't mean approach her like you're rushing B.
But comrade... :(
Oh man, you just destroyed my plans of running them all over :(
Thanks for the tip G
Ik some guys watching this would take it too literally and approach the girl like the guy running from Get Out
you have to go through mid for a B hook instead
We had a English speaking exam not too long ago I remember people brining a full script up to the front of the class room and still stuttering and struggling, with many of them just scraping a pass. I had a idea and a theme and went of the top of my head. The speech went perfectly it was funny, informative and given with confidence you can never know what to say in life until you have to say it.
good advice
@Elias Productions same, i make a script, but just to know stuff about the theme. It works very well.
Can you elaborate more about the idea and the theme ?
This is exactly me. I can’t act on my life, and scripts are really awkward imo.
YO such a good point! i do a similar thing in my french class; all of my classmates go up to the front of the class and are stuttering even though they're reading words off their paper, but whenever I would go to the front without *knowing* what to say, i felt more proud when i finished, and improved my french more!
You’re a real one Hamza, letting people know the exact truth instead of just throwing advice out for views
This is hardly the exact truth. It's close though.
@@__-bz7wh so what is? make a video on it then since u got so much knowledge and u get soooo much females
@@Elusivemoney1 bud one vid can’t possibly cover everything at the same time. You have to get in the field to understand what the game is
@@__-bz7wh p
@@Elusivemoney1 chill out
Walks up to girl
Doesn't know what to say
Says bababooy
She looks uncomfortable
Does backflip into a wall
Gets up
She's gone
Awkwardness avoided
Realizing you're in the first backroom level
Bro wtf
@@zigl0s481 he is the first level
Chad
Rejection is probably gonna happen just remember you just approached your already doing better then most men who stay inside doing nothing learn from it and on to the next one
Exactly
*probably* It is going to happen.
Just approach ask her out and that's it if no who cares you did it and there is nothing wrong
@@daysgoneby3527 Atleast get jacked and wear nice clothes, and a nice perfume. Stimulate her on more senses
You will never stop fearing an approach. Even when you get used to the fear, you'll still feel it. Once you stop feeling the fear, you're either so good that you cannot make mistakes or you will make mistakes, and I mean stupid ones. Fear is natural and should be harnessed; its the fuel to courage, or as I journaled recently "Fear is liquid courage, which must be moulded into your desired actions."
Hamza is 100% right with this video: focus on internal measures rather than external. Your time to approach from noticing her is a measure of success, with that time getting smaller being improvement. If you focus on how many numbers you get, how many dates you set up, how many question a girls ask you, your putting your self-value and improvement into the hands of someone else, defeating the point of self improvement.
My friends and I have this saying called "No Hezi" which is short for no hesitation. Basically, if we ever see a girl that's bad, we say "no hezi" and approach. Literally seconds of seeing her. The rush of approaching that quickly is so rewarding, that it doesn't even matter if we get the number or not. We tally who had the most approaches, not the most #s at the end of the day because that's what translates to the most success like Hamza said.
ahaha thats fkn great, whats ur score
bro i usually just make a small comment or just say hi, u got any tips on better conversation starters? im stuck with the - i got nothing to start the convo - phase, if its a girl in uni or someone that i mutually know, then talking is ez
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Bro I basically did a "No Hezi" earlier in Tesco and I got the girls number💪
@@MK-zf6or In the conversation don't talk about anything that matters in the beginning, whatever the topic when you talk try and be flirtatious and teasing here and there without showing any strong intention to win the girl over, to her it should seem like something you do with every girl, in fact you should practice mini flirting here and there with the female friends you have around you all the time it helps to build that skill and generally makes you more desirable to girls because it's a mark of confidence, have hobbies in your life and talk about them if the girl seems interested ask if she'd like to join you next time around. Look into a girls eyes throughout the conversation no matter how difficult it feels and end convos by asking for her number and do it kindly be honest with yourself if a girl looks apprehensive or uninterested cut your losses.
From a girls point of view:
1. Be yourself. What do you like? What do you not like? Live the life you want so you attract people who enjoy the same things.
2. Work on your humour. It’s not enough to just make jokes, you need to TAKE jokes at your expense. This shows people around you that you’re extremely self-confident.
3. Please people think of your hygiene! Daily showers, face wash, shower gel, creams. If you can’t even put basic effort into looking after YOURSELF how can you convey to people that you can look after them or that they should look after you.
4. Hang out at places YOU like. If you don’t like going to nightclubs then stop going! Go to the museum you like, the park, the skatepark!
5. Think about AND decide what kind of life YOU want to have. Do you want marriage? Do you want kids? Do you want to move to London? Do you want to own a farm? Be authentic about the life you’re creating so you attract people who want the same life.
*furiously writing in note book*
Sorry but I don't listen to the fish, I listen to the fisherman
@Giovanni Tellez I don't know how I feel about that brother, but will consider your words
@@Sohelanthropus That’s what all the sheep say
@@yanan7801 that's what cautions people say, do you believe everything everyone tells you?
Lost 70 pounds these past 8 months and finally gaining confidence, exercise is key in building confidence 🙌
I lost 58 pounds as a British person
@@batflashzyzz lmao why u need to mention that you British hahahaha
im 6ft and 62kg im tryna gain weight idk what to do.
@@davonheria739 food
@@davonheria739 calorie surplus
If you find it difficult to talk to women, start off just talking to anyone. Men, women, young, old, at the checkouts, queuing for a train, at the gym. The situation doesn't matter. You'll find that being generally sociable makes it a lot easier.
Facts
this is what i need. idk how to have regular conversation
If you want to get good at approaching. Take a sales job. You will get over your fear of rejection quickly doing sales as you get 500 nos, and 50 yes.
10 nos to 1 yes in sales is pretty high i think
Yes! The skills you learn in sales are invaluable
Yes but , you have to sell yourself if you are 5.3 like me it doesn't matter how you sell it , they don t need this product.
@@ab-mj1tx what does being 5’3 have to do with anything? There are plenty of girls who are under 5’3 out there, for example me I’m 5’0. Try not to let insecurity get in the way and just go for it
@Personal Yea I know that most girls want a guy taller than them, I was just saying that there are a lot of short girls out there. I think guys overthink too much when it comes to girls. I always cringe when I hear girls talking really loudly about another guy saying “he’s so ugly” because I just think of the other guys that are listening and I’m like dang that’s probably why they’re so insecure. The same thing goes for girls though because guys say some really mean stuff about girls out loud. But as a girl, it’s good to be picky, but I don’t think it’s nice to be rude about it. Anyways, I’m proud of you for making positive changes in your life, your future girlfriend will really appreciate the effort and hard work you put in
100%. I approached a girl for the first time a few weeks ago on the bus. We had a nice conversation, exchanged socials and exchanged a few messages. She left me on read in the end, but it doesn’t bother me. I approached just to test myself and try it out
Be prepared to experience this a hundred times over then. Even if you think she was genuine. Confidence is an asset, not the key. Rather try improve on (or accept) your level of looks/money/status before you burn yourself out on frustration.
Good job man.
Yeah they do that but nw
What did u say that got u left in read
@@stayawayfromthewoke3412 you could say all the right things and she would still left u in read, it does not matter really
Doesn't matter what you say, it matters if and how you say it
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how to talk to women: talk to women
change my mind: 5:21 neck workout is brilliant!
I have to say. Women likes when someone approach them. Like it doesnt really matter what you look like or what will you tell. They just like attention, validation and self-esteem boost. So even if she rejects you, you've got the STEP UP with this experience. Just grind it further. No grinding - no results.
OK. That's a pretty useful advice. Thanks :)
It’s not even attention they seek. Some people like having conversations. Acting like having someone come up to you means u like validation is pretty toxic. Having a conversation with someone because they approached u is completely normal.
I don't know if they like it but the experience does work the issue not many people have the self esteem to do it without it crushing them but this is good advice
its ok to approach if u look good, otherwise ure a creep
@@manee2412 Pretty much that's the most important thing of them all.
What most successful people don't realise is what brought them to the success in the first place - be it in love, work or games. Most will say "oh hard work etc etc" - which in some cases might be true. But sometimes hard work alone won't give you any results.
Let's give some examples:
1. Advice about "just approaching" - I've a friend that was this shy nerdy type of person. Very intelligent, but he was way below average when it came to looks. Guess what - one day he took similiar advice to "just talk to them". More than half of the conversations ended in unpleasant way for him. Rest were rather short with clear lack of interest on the other part.
2. I played the game "league of legends" at professional level. I didn't realise at that point why i actually made it instead of thousands of others who would work even harder than me. The answer i came to after 3 years was "i was actually VERY talented analyst". To the point i knew every weakness of enemy player by just watching their stream once.
Point is, most of advices that rely on "just git gud" won't work for everyone. If you lack something crucial - no amount of work will make up for it. Especially when your looks aren't up to the standard - sure, you can put some nice clothes etc. But you can't really change how your face looks like. Unless you can, but then you wouldn't have problems like these in the first place coz of money lol.
I had my first date are 15. I was nervous as hell. Bought us drinks and whatever. Dropped the drink on the table right in front of her because i was shaking. She laughed at me and drank the half full drink. The waitress also gave us a new drink. Good wingman. After that i forgot my bag so we had to walk back to the cafe after a long walk away from it. . Ended up dating that girl. Lesson: by your clumsy, stuttering self, as long as you're confident in your mistakes and don't make yourself look insecure. She WILL fall for you hard. Edit: she is beautiful. Definetly had options
Damn man I am 15 myself gimme advice
@@Shermuhammad78333 just do it
@@ZuhScare still need to work on applying this myself unfortunately
@@Shermuhammad78333wait when you’ll become 16
Another piece of advice:
If you ever get overwhelmed with fear when you approach any girl, put this into your mind.
"I'd rather get a no, than missing this opportunity"
and you'll do it - Good luck out there, you got this!
Dang Prince Jamal Minhas, some golden words right there
what would be a good opener to approach wenn u see a hottie? Obv u dont wanna put her on pedestal as she is getting attention and validation often. Appreciate it!
Freaking brilliant words
Very wise words from the one and only, Mr. Prince Jamal
Thats what i needed man. Thank you for the motivating words.
Tried 6 times to ask random girls for their number, got refused 5 times and ghosted once, but I can tell I gained a huge amount of confidence and courage in myself along with confort when interacting with girls.
W this is better than not approaching in the first place
W
Tried first time today got truned down brutally
@@utsav743 doesn't matter bruh, keep it up
I figured out all this he said on my own and now he confirms it…it’s really true, y’all should just walk up to them and talk even though you’re literally dying inside😂. I met this girl at the movies one time, and I didn’t even think much I just started talking and at first I thought I was messing up but it ended up alright…we were just chatting and laughing,and I can’t even remember what the movie was all about 😅
"Jeffry spends 40 Days and 40 Nights trying to learn how to approach woman". this reminds me of a movie about semen retention
Ah i think ive seen it,is it where a guy makes a bet with his friends and hes the last one standing?
Of Josh Hartnett
Getting into the flirt-zone with an observing eye of what she's doing and how she's doing it really helps me engage and polarize.
I used to approach girls and had low approach anxiety when I did it regularly. I haven't approached girls in years. I'm about to get in the game again. The very first time I "beat" approach anxiety, it took me months to overcome. Even after such a long break, I'm no more than a few weeks from doing it regularly again. It's like skeletal muscle memory. You're a bit rusty, but it comes back quick.
im inspired
fck i never knew i was on the right track all this time on my own was depressed 2 yrs ago now am very confident can literally talk to anyone and do anything lol why didnt i find ur channel 2yrs ago i wish could have speeded the process but well u doing good job bro. guys this legit is the only way to have a better life plus focus on income too
I agree 100%. When I first started uni I was so nervous and inexperienced when it came to chicks. I was at uni 5 days per week at the time. I decided to talk to at least 1 person per day. Ideally more like 4-6 people a day but Minimum 1 person. After 10 weeks of this I was a completely different person. I wasn’t trying to get the number of every girl I talked to i just practiced talking to them.
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It's funny because back in the old days of UA-cam there used to be a guy called David Wygant. He was one of the first dating coaches even before PUA got big. All the stuff that's mentioned about like just start a conversation, get out of your head, get outside and talk to people. Were things he mentioned, and his programs focused on. It's funny 11 years later the game has changed but the rules are still the same.
Hamza's like the big brother I never had but always wanted. Love your content, keep it going
Bro, that whole script thing was so relatable. I'm glad you mentioned that to be honest because every time I've written a script on an occasion it's gone worse than if I were to just speak what's on my mind.
brto you have no friends and you mom dfoesnt love you
Hamza is right but if u wanna know what to say it’s “hey how r u” that’s it .don’t overthink and by time u will be more creative and smooth in what u say and u will get better trust me
Shitt. I was just going to make this mistake. Thanks Hamza
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:00 🚫 Negative mindset prevents action: A negative mindset towards approaching women can hinder you from taking any action.
00:41 🌞 Success in daytime approach: Approaching women during the day (day game) can be successful if you have the right mindset.
01:52 🧠 Mindset for approaching women: Focus on success as simply approaching, not on advanced outcomes like getting her number or going on a date.
03:18 💪 Building the habit of approaching: The most crucial step is consistently approaching women, even if the initial conversations are not perfect.
04:15 😃 Positive interactions: Most often, approaching women in a friendly way leads to pleasant interactions, not negative reactions.
05:41 📜 Avoid overthinking: Don't script your approach; instead, focus on taking action, especially when you don't feel like it.
The editing with your voice overs for this video have me busting out laughing lmao. Well done.
Also a weird thing with approaching is that even if you fail, you still feel confident and accomplished compared to not doing it at all. It's a very weird feeling and a high I can't explain.
Your prove to yourself you have courage
Thanks for doing this type of Videos, it really helps alot to improve myself
Hamza... you have no idea how you have changed my life. I am so grateful that I found your channel and that YOU make these videos. A depressed boy can change into a happy man in just under 2 months. Thank you ♥️
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Assuming that the convo will go well no matter what helped me alot
4:34 "Please breed me" 😂😂😂😂😂
It worked, I didnt even speak human, i entered in with the classic: "Shwabalaba dup dup" 10/10, works everytime.
Approaching women is pointless unless you have your shit together. First fix and improve yourself before setting yourself up for failure.
Failure is the mother of all sucess
Ayoooo, this right here, this is some good advice. I used to always overthink when i would want to talk to people male or female and end up not talking at all. Today i told myself i will just say hi and to my suprise, my mouth was flowing like a river and i actually started having some good conversations.
ive had bad experience with my ex girlfriend who has anti social personality disorder. i remember being scared of saying the bad thing because shed ghost and get mad at me if i did. after i broke up with her, i got in a habit of being scared to approach girls and it was really hard to talk to them. however with watching some videos here and there i started just being myself around girls in class and such and i can easily strike up and talk to girls in parties or clubs or whatever. so just be yourself and dont let 1 girl, who seemed rude when you approach her ruin your game.
Learn to speak to others with charisma, emotion, intellect, and passion. You should practice this by talking to random people when a subject you’re interested in pops up at any given time in public. Its something I did alongside learning to control my stress and anxiety through breathing techniques. I also like using L-theanine and agmatine sulfate as stress relievers, both are naturally occurring nootropics with no sides. Agmatine has a lot of other benefits too. After only a week of use I already feel less stressed, I feel stronger in the gym, I feel more confident, my life makes more sense to me now and I matured over these past few months, learning that self respect is far more important than love and I learned what love really was. I feel like I don’t have to prove myself to anyone. In fact I feel like I have a huge mental edge on others. But I’ll still be a listener. I’ll still be there for people I like. I feel like I see a bit of myself in Arnold, the joker, Arthur Morgan, and Mike Tyson. I don’t feel defined by what anyone says about me at all.
I don t only have stress i also have anhedonia even pussy is not interesting , what to take for this :(
Thanks for the supplementation info
Story time:
One very fateful day I was sitting on the bus with the female I was attracted to sitting about 2 rows north of me, the entire bus ride I was considering going over to sit next to her and confess my feelings toward said girl.
I am not gonna lie to whoever is reading this comment I was really god damn nervous, But I gained the courage to walk over to her, I took a seat next to her and got straight with the point she said that she wanted to talk about it tomorrow but I think we all know what she really meant...
I told her that she can tell me no and she proceeds to apologize.
I walk back to my original seat feeling like an absolute chad.
Stay strong fellas I know that it is hard to deal with heartbreak, when you get rejected just get back to grinding and eventually you will be maxed out. Love you guys and stay strong🔥🔥
i follow this channel from 40k and the editing quality is only getting better
done my 1st awkward conversation today 27/11/22.. gonna edit the progress :)
Talked to 2 girls at book store (about books)
1/1/23 said hi and u look cute and i just slowly walk away 😅
Nice bro 😎
W,dont give up
You guys, my friends encouraged me to ask out my crush for a school dance. Sure, she said no, but the feeling of just approaching a girl with confidence is so rewarding. Like that boost of dopamine as you’re talking to her feels just as satisfying as her saying yes. My point is, rejection isn’t that bad, and you approaching someone in the first place is so rewarding. You got this guys!!!
I approached a lot of girls. Iam 23 now. And just to note iam really really really ugly face. So no they dont even talk to me. They always tell me: Damn u ugly go away etc. So If u are ugly dont approach girls just dont. U will never get anything out of it. Dont listen to people like him. If u are ugly u will stay a virgin like me. It doesnt matter what you do. He is good looking. And dont get me wrong i workout, have money etc. But my face is just ugly af so no girls for me.
Hamza changed my life . No cap .
Our*🛐
The only thing stopping me from approaching a lady is not because of rejection but the number the manner in which they rejected me , very rude and harsh and after that they gone and tell their friends about that's and they start laughing and making fun of you that when ever you see her and her friends you want to hide from them, i think if ladies adopted a nice and gentle way of rejecting men when they approach them it would be very helpful to them, because this is why some of them don't get guys approaching them and they come on to social media and be winin and complaining about it.
Well you dodged a bullet. Who would want to date someone like that!
I like this guy. As an Indian i relate to this guy a lot.
The best tip I can give is to just be grateful for everything you have, because when you do thats when you at your highest self and you have the most confidence, thats what works for me and should for everybody else. If you want to make people smile and have fun with them think about yourself first , imagine youself in a high energetic state and then do what you wanted to do, have fun, workout
Alright here's a quick upgraded hamza approach line i just invented for you poor fellas who don't know what to say, just like me in the past:
Note: this is for people to get a good idea of what it would be like if they actually made an effort to embarrass themselves. Just to get you a little less anxious :)
Preparation
-Stop being a sperg
-(Optional if you're EXTRA anxious) Get to know the importance of body language, tone of voice, public speaking (The Charisma Myth by Olivia Fox Cabane is really helpful with that), and train them into your speaking patterns. DO NOT TRY TO MEMORIZE THEM
-Meditate, and stop overthinking. Especially before the approach, like hamza said, approach instantly. You cannot deliberately wait, the more you think, the worse. The more you FEEL, the better.
"Hey do you know when [Gym, or any other place] [closes, opens, what's the time]?"
"Umm... yeah [here it doesnt matter what she says lol]
"Nice... I actually already knew that i just wanted to get to know you :) So how are you doing? My name is Chris:) ."
"[This will probably make her laugh, she WILL be polite, if you're handsome even better (looks matter bros, sadly, good thing we can improve them (ua-cam.com/video/s4r-cyXrYb4/v-deo.html)) and introduce herself]"
This is the part where you need common topics. 1stman's video helps you out exactly with that "Why men can't talk to women (ua-cam.com/video/KAXBpV2ez6Y/v-deo.html)
Good luck boys.
I guess I was overthinking, I can’t be so hard on myself
back in the day I used to try that multiple times. See a girl go over there and ask her about anything, say something funny about a cat nearby or whatever. literally THE WORST situation that ever happened to me was that the girl looked at me, kept nodding her head and smiling until I was done talking, then she waited until I turned the other way and she left.
Girls are programmed to be nice, forget about the bullshit you see in movies where a nerd approaches a cheerleader and she makes fun of him, this shit literally never happens, just like spiderman will never happen.
Pro tip: pretend you are talking to your sister or your mother, be normal, be relaxed.
Chad doesnt approach, he gets aproached by women😎🥶
I don’t think you should go completely blank. I’ve done that and it feels awkward. What I’ve found is ask something super general depending on where you’re at helps ease things for both to feel more relaxed
Grocery store? - what are you making?
Park? - what brings you outdoors?
Gym? - what are you working on today?
Just a simple question to keep the conversation going if you run into a small rut.
This
W, king
Lmao this is the worst... The first question is ok but the park and gym ones? You just sound like a creep. They too obvious you just tryna hit and not actually interested in the answer
@@trazcap9775 but ......that is the intention that the girl is interested in you
IMO, i think there is an implicit understanding that a normal human being can't be so blank as not to know how to ask basic context appropriate questions; its sad that some people have to be told what to ask a girl in a gym.
"Succes equals aprraoachinf instantly"
Personally don't believe in approaching, but it's a great skill to have in your back pocket.
BUBBUBUUT HAMZA!!!! WWWWWH WH WH WHAT ABOUT THE JAWLINE AND TH TH TH THE HU HU HUNTER EYES???
Quick Tip, don’t spit game to a female while she is with her friends. That’s a death sentence
yea but hamza you didnt tell us what to say, how are we supposed to find that out
Can confirm this at 4:00 , no one cares about what you say, it is about how you say it. Just chill out bruhs & approach. From my experience I literally just approach if I find a girl attractive.
If you pull it off? - cool
If you don't? You didn't lose anything
Bro why are your videos filled with these jumpy attention grabbing animations. It's almost like your assuming your audience has the attention span of the people your dissing
Don’t overthink it. Pretty much all of my approaches have started with “hey you’re _______ look really nice what’s your name” and then shake hands and introduce yourself🤝 that’s lit all u need to say
i gotta say this is very true. Working at fedex definetly helped me become way more confident of speaking towards not just random women there but in general. I don''t feel as uncomfortable to talk to people in public as I used to. Literally all you gotta say to her is Hello with charming smile on your face. btw I got covid right now but im taking it like a champ.
True every single one of my approaches were super positive, the only negatives were When the girl walked away fast or when didn't know how to speak english. The vast majority were girls who at least spoke to me, gushed but said "I have a bf". I learned that line is said when she is nervous because everytime i left, she followed. One girl I saw twice in the street. I approached her 1 time and she told me she has a bf for 7 yrs, I said "then i dont wanna barge, have a good day". Her face looked disappointed. 1 week later, I see her in the street again and this time she recognized me and staring at me standing near me hoping I approached her again.
Hamza you better be paying your editor good money for this man. I'm not even watching this for the advice anymore, just the sheer creative work at display.
Honestly, this video helped me. I've been going to the gym consistently but my mental health has been incredibly fucked up. I've seen incredible progress by comparing myself to how I would talk to women and even my friends and how I do it now. Now, that I've once again started taking huge interest in in someone who's out of my league I lost a lot of my confidence I gained by being with other girls. But, reminding myself of the basic principles and how even talking to people about time, weather or anything is better than not talking at all. I am meeting her again in a month, wish me luck lads.
Good luck my g
How did it go brother
yo bro what happened ?
*approaches a girl*
*t-poses*
*yelling "I shit my pants"*
Success
5:01 nocap i laughed for a good 30 sec. who edited this vid the man is a legend
hahaHAHAHAH didn't even notice that
Wierd cos in this video I didn't see any approaches - just a kid sat in his dressing gown talking about an imaginary friend.
Man, I watched this video like 3 months ago. Yesterday I saw this one girl that just caught my attention immediately at school. Usually I would've kept walking and I don't know what hit me this time but I just went up to her, didn't overthink or anything. I was just plain honest with her, I told her that I thought she was pretty and asked for her snap while stumbling over my words. She gave it to me, now granted I texted her and asked her out and she said she's talking to someone (whether that's true or not who knows but it's kinda clear to me she aint interested so I'm just not really gonna text her anymore) but the fact of knowing that I was able to approach just gives me the confidence of being able to say in the future "You did it once, now do it again".
Asked a girl where the healthy snacks are already feel like a chad brah 😎
I love how he uploads so consistently at the time I am free to watch the vid :DD
Boys, deadass just say the first thing you think to the girl as a starting point (don't be a fucking weirdo and say you got a nice ass, please).
For example I remember there was this one chick in my gym who had purple hair and I thought that was fucking sick(I am a sucker for the colour purple). So I deadass went to her and said "Random af, but I love your hair". Wanna know what's wild? In my mind script, I wanted to use a different word other than "love" because it sounded too cheesy, but the word love was the one that was most authentic. Be authentic boys, it works 90% of the time
Thanks for the tip , but than how did it went whit the girl? Just curios . I saw a girl at my school , she is always alone whit her friend and i wanted to approach her ( btw fun fact she has my same jacket so it could be unkward i don't know ahaha)
@@dinusson3994 she had a boyfriend (or at least that's what she said), to which I said, "all good, just take it as a compliment". But now I have someone at the gym that smiles and waves at me everytime we see each other. And this was so nice because it broke the fucking belief in my mind that "if I get rejected, they'll see me as a looser from now on"
@@dinusson3994 bruv, literally just say something like "damn, you trying to copy me with that jacket?". It don't matter what you say, if you say it with conviction, it will work. Hamza deadass used to say in clubs "I shat myself" to girls. Imagine that, and he still pulled
@@humansnake2091 thanks again, school start on friday , if i see her outside school i'll just go to talk to her
@@dinusson3994 remember to update me on how it goes. I believe in you man, just walk up to her the second you see her(assuming it's appropriate, aka you are not all sitting down)
0:25 this guy is genuinely funny 😭
I think this whole video is built on weak fundamentals
Women are people.
Personally I've always had spontanious conversations with girls, just like I did with men, because I don'see them as a wierd creature
I really don't undestand all this stress when approaching someone
Edit: not hating, Hamza's videos helped me change my mindset and got me into the whole self improvement thing.
I just don't get this video in particular
His videos are aimed at all thise guys in their moms basement who see women as aliens they wanna try to impress. They all have the wrong mindset and approach in the first place. He tell them to do it in a better way. This is more usefull than some weird guy trying to say they gonna do some magic tricks that could end in far worse situations
@@nuggamcnugget8335 true
@@nuggamcnugget8335 I dont think people watching are all like that but ok ahah I get your point
Haha I could see how it seems like he’s gaslighting us but I think it’s really an if-the-shoe-fits type of thing
@@bkpedroxrojobk6856 Not all guys (or girls for that matter) is this way. But his content is aimed at this group and this group only
I really needed to hear this today.. Thank you brother!
Imma be a King in 2023 started Nofap a week ago and im trying to train my mand starting at young age so I wont regret my future
Get the right year first of all...
@@adama6509 tf this my motivation to be a better me next year
How is it going?
What are you talking about ?Adonis doesn't need to approach women ... Women approach Adonis
sometimes i really feel bad for the guy named Jeffrey who watches hamza
Your approach works for you as you are a relatively good looking bloke. But the cold harsh reality is most guys are not attractive, more like below average That being said we are at a disadvantage straight away. Some guys find it hard to cope with rejection as it can damage your already diminished self-esteem.
Make mistakes. Is the first advice. I mean we all start a job and career making mistakes but are fine beforehand and learn to be better.
with women its like we’re supposed to be james bond. NO! make mistakes. its fine. No one will hunt you down for it but you.
You definitely need some kind of plan my friend approached his first ever girl yesterday and his starter was “hey can I take some of your time for a minute” and she told him to screw off
“Do the Hard work especially when you don’t feel like it.”- Hamza
One of the greatest rules to live by
Have you forgotten what is haram and what is Halal ?
Bro, just being able to approach women is like step 0. Even when you get their number it's not guaranteed you gonna meet them in person.
4:10 to be fair people don't expect strangers to stop them in the middle of the street and start talking to them.
Agree, if you had no choosing signals or huge smile we shouldn't be going up to random women
@@cv6176 Why not
Bruh why the chick in the thumbnail look like the crying cat meme lmao
This mindset for progress in any regard though is great
I was watching wheat waffle black pill vid I’ve just realised the black pill looks at the extreme situations and life in a black and white lens when life is usually just everyday situations and is just grey
That’s a good way of looking at that. There’s always the psychology of physical attractiveness but if you’re only seeing it on that level you’re ignoring all possible connections that can be made on another level, and thus limiting yourself. Ironically it’s called the black pill because you poison yourself with a toxic mindset and create self fulfilling prophecies
@@ZeRo-yc7zf yeah it’s really damaging philosophy and doesn’t really help anyone
Fuck the black pill. It’s literally just being a whiny bitch and giving up completely. Who the hell benefits from giving up?
@@GoldenMushroom64 yeah fuck the black pill
yes it works approach a girl n say anything yes that really works...
I've just yesterday approached girls for the first time in my life. Got a "no" each time, but as a beginner I expected this. REJECTION feels AMAZING! I thought it's just slightly less annoying than regret of not approaching at all. It is not. The satisfaction of doing it in the first place is immense.
Every day for the last two weeks I've been trying to approach and all I could do was walking in the direction of the girl, and in the last second deciding not to say anything. After 70-100 such failures I've finally decided "enough is enough. It's not like the girls are gonna kill me or something".
I'm gonna focus on how to talk and how to natuarly lead the conversation to asking for the girl's number, but I think I'm about to be done with fear of approach. Sure, I still sometimes hesitate, but I am gonna stop eventually. Gotta at least find myself a girl to go to a friend's wedding with. I am not going there alone.
We're all gonna make it.
Yes brother you’re right. It’s better to say something than nothing at all.
Amazing? 😂😂😂
Hey man I just went into This shop to talk to this beautiful girl and ahh man I fucked up badly bro I couldn’t even control my facial expression my face literally felt numb I think she seen that and was just put off right away , I guess that’s experience and I need to come back harder now and sort my stupid life out
Just speak in the moment
Only in the bronx they will fight you 😂
New York Women are different Hamza
I actually searched a video like that on your channel yesterday. What a perfect timing
✝️ “Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it. ❤️(Matthew 7:13-14 NIV)