Bride Struggle To Convince Protective Mum This Is Her Dream Dress I Say Yes To The Dress UK

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  • Ginny-May brings her mum along to her appointment for an honest opinion. But mum and daughter might have slightly different ideas of what the bride should wear on her wedding day.
    From season 3 episode 18.
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  • @suzannecoffman5741
    @suzannecoffman5741 2 роки тому +1067

    First time I've seen Brogan. I love the way she offered the bride options. And put the choice in the bride's hands, right in front of the mother. Go, Brogan! And good for the bride for sticking to her guns.

  • @adiarainfoster
    @adiarainfoster 2 роки тому +566

    I will never understand how so many mothers think it's perfectly fine to bully their daughters into dresses they don't want. Hey, mum, it's not YOUR dress. YOU are not wearing it!!

    • @graedot
      @graedot 2 роки тому +9

      I saw a mom not sure if her child truly loved a dress. And given the bride didn't hate the first dress, let her try on more.

    • @lindap8101
      @lindap8101 2 роки тому +7

      She wasn’t bullying.

    • @annedalton289
      @annedalton289 2 роки тому +9

      It’s like bully mothers never got their own way growing up so they have to dominate their kids 😡😡😡

    • @annedalton289
      @annedalton289 2 роки тому +15

      @@lindap8101 were you watching same program as rest of us 🤷‍♀️ she’s a horrible bully ! Her way or no way !!!
      Mum Saying “if she’s not fighting for it she doesn’t want it “ No she’s not fighting because she’s terrified and because you will sulk till you get your own way mum

    • @lindap8101
      @lindap8101 2 роки тому +5

      @@annedalton289
      What it’s like is you guys are so easily manipulated by these videos. lol

  • @kathyhester3066
    @kathyhester3066 2 роки тому +144

    First: Cheers to Brogan. You handled the bride & domineering mother correctly! Second: Yes the mother is domineering. Listen to daughter; its HER wedding. Third: Bride needs to stand up for herself now otherwise mother will also be running the marriage.

  • @NighthawkMeow
    @NighthawkMeow 2 роки тому +17

    Why should she have to "fight for it"? I feel sad for brides whose mums can't see that it's their daughter's day and not theirs. When my daughter and I shopped for her dress, I was thrilled to see her light up when she found THE DRESS. Didn't matter if I loved it or not because I love her!

    • @leiaclark8388
      @leiaclark8388 Рік тому

      The “fight for the dress” wasn’t the mother being a jerk. It was “let’s make sure that the £2000 dress is absolutely the right one, and not in a week having her change her mind.” It’s a lot of money, and you do it once, so you want to make sure the dress is THE DRESS!
      I have a problem with impulse buying, especially when I’m around people whose opinions I value. I now get done shopping, take a lap around the store, then transfer all my stuff from one cart to another so I have to look at everything. Quite often I find that I changed my mind on an item, or 12.

  • @Willowy13
    @Willowy13 2 роки тому +80

    Dear Mothers Everywhere: IT IS NOT YOUR WEDDING!!!
    Lesson: Never allow you mother to pay for your dress. She will blackmail you into something you dislike.

    • @Δήμητρα-χ9β
      @Δήμητρα-χ9β 2 роки тому +4

      true so true..it was an enormous mistake letting her pay for it..

    • @jworth7203
      @jworth7203 2 роки тому +3

      IF you have a mom like this. I told my daughter’s consultant to not tell her the prices because I didn’t want “too expensive” to sway her opinion. She’s a very frugal girl. 😂 She only found out about two years after her wedding because she decided to sell it and needed to know the original price. I’m not sure she has recovered yet! Other than budget, she was completely in charge of everything else.

    • @NLR759
      @NLR759 Рік тому +3

      But the dress mom chose suited her body much better than the dress the bride chose. The bride's choice didn't suit her body at all, she looked flat and shapeless in it. The top did not look right, mom was correct.

    • @Tootsie806
      @Tootsie806 Рік тому

      @@NLR759Exactly what I thought.

  • @kathyboschen6719
    @kathyboschen6719 2 роки тому +80

    I am a mother and it sucked my guts out to see all those control issues her mother has.
    It’s her day!
    “Hand her over” she’s her own person!

    • @deseuryderia
      @deseuryderia Рік тому

      the mom obviously only is paying so she can have control over her dress too, gross.

  • @janetlowden5960
    @janetlowden5960 2 роки тому +6

    Mom is feeling scared of living alone and it’s coming out as drama and tension about the wedding dress. Daughter is excited about her future. I’m proud of her for reaching for reaching for what she wants.

    • @m.c.w1455
      @m.c.w1455 Рік тому

      I think my mom has been the same when I’ve been planning my wedding

  • @nomorecensoringme
    @nomorecensoringme 2 роки тому +17

    A sweet and lovely young woman who looked beautiful in each dress. Her choice is perfect for her.

  • @bookworm4174
    @bookworm4174 2 роки тому +4

    Mom has good taste IMO. That first dress was lovely.

    • @artsyhyd
      @artsyhyd 2 роки тому +1

      Ikr she looks great in the second dress but the first dress was amazing

  • @josephinemiller4780
    @josephinemiller4780 2 роки тому +11

    I agree with her mom. The top isn’t flattering

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    • @mariesmith1616
      @mariesmith1616 Рік тому

      Too petite and flat chest for that style

  • @cheekypiper512
    @cheekypiper512 2 роки тому +1

    Mum shouldn't have to make her fight for it.

  • @9094nancyj
    @9094nancyj 2 роки тому +2

    Note to self: only bring one friend with you, and try to pay for it yourself - that way no one can dictate their style to you

  • @heididepotter8136
    @heididepotter8136 2 роки тому +13

    She s stunning in that dress!!!!!

  • @TheResistance8969
    @TheResistance8969 2 роки тому +2

    Karen is a very sweet mother in law.. she is lucky with that

  • @TheLadyk53
    @TheLadyk53 2 роки тому +2

    This appointment had nothing to do with the mom liking the dress or not. This mom was not going to like anything her daughter liked because this mom felt like she was losing her daughter ("when I have to hand her over to "groom" will be hard") just hit the nail on the head.

  • @naturalPaths
    @naturalPaths 2 роки тому +13

    Mother of the groom looks so sad, and it doesn’t seem to be about the bride. Indeed, I suspect that she may actually be a good mother in law. (Retired jury consultant here, used to get paid to ‘read’ people!) I want to know her story.

    • @SpiritDragoness
      @SpiritDragoness 2 роки тому

      I think the bride is marrying so young only so that she can run away from her mother as soon as possible.

    • @naturalPaths
      @naturalPaths 2 роки тому

      @@SpiritDragoness You certainly have a point. Somehow, I don't think a husband will get in mom's way.. 😬

  • @tundeannadioszegi4645
    @tundeannadioszegi4645 2 роки тому +3

    She picked a dress that really suits her.

  • @wsfggf
    @wsfggf 2 роки тому +1

    that consultant is too pushyy, respect it when the bride says she wants to try another one, i doubt she used that dress, she didnt look convinced in it.

  • @m.theresa1385
    @m.theresa1385 2 роки тому +1

    I’m surprised that she wasn’t given a third choice. There had to have been other slim fitted beaded gowns there . Nonetheless, once properly tailored it’ll be stunning on her.

  • @karenhouser4123
    @karenhouser4123 2 роки тому +2

    These dominant mother's drive me crazy! If she's old enough to marry, she can make up her own mind about her wedding dress!

  • @julieannewriter
    @julieannewriter 10 місяців тому

    The second dress was stunning on her. Such a shame her mum wasn’t as supportive. She didnt end up having this dress afterall.

  • @bilbybloom
    @bilbybloom 2 роки тому +1

    I hope they tried on more dresses than the 2 they showed us. She only tried on one other dress and immediately picked that one? Theres so many dresses! I can see why the Mum was pushing her to try on more lol

  • @zoricamicunovic4970
    @zoricamicunovic4970 7 місяців тому

    Mama is like psychic 😂

  • @nancycook9120
    @nancycook9120 2 роки тому +1

    My mom didn't try to influence me she let me have my day and loved what I loved, she is in Heaven now and I miss her so much.

    • @m.c.w1455
      @m.c.w1455 Рік тому

      Im sorry to hear about your loss

  • @graedot
    @graedot 2 роки тому +3

    I was with the mom on this one and that's unusual. I know the mom really hated that dress, but bless her soul, she sucked it up and gave her her blessings. I didn't like it either. It swallowed her up and kinda spit her out. I also hated the first dress. Really wish we could have seen more. Such a beautiful bride!! Edit. How did I miss the consultant telling the girl what she thought. Woah. The consultant just pulled a mom. Have her try on another dress. For heavens sakes.

  • @whatevergoesforme5129
    @whatevergoesforme5129 2 роки тому +1

    I like the first dress for her. It is simple so she wants more sparkle than can be done with a sparkly belt or a sparkly adornment.

  • @pamm3776
    @pamm3776 2 роки тому +3

    These moms that always say they “know” what the bride likes but really doesn’t, make me crazy. It’s not mom’s wedding.

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  • @2user000
    @2user000 Рік тому +1

    It wasn’t HER pick, that’s what was wrong🙄 Moms paying for the dress, not wearing it. She should let the bride choose

  • @Gigi-14
    @Gigi-14 2 роки тому +2

    Don’t cave and go with your Mom’s pick! I made that mistake and all these years later, I still regret it and think about the dress I really wanted.

  • @suzylu333
    @suzylu333 2 роки тому

    first dress is better than the second dress but its good she went with her pick

  • @lorid6544
    @lorid6544 2 роки тому +1

    Watch it again & this time watch the future mother-in-law. She's a saint as she listens to the mother rant about her giving her daughter to her fiance. Ginny-Mae it's your day, not your mom's.

  • @eleanor4122
    @eleanor4122 Рік тому

    I don't think you should believe that you know exactly what someone wants. I don't agree with controlling someone. People can change and I like my freedom to do what I want and wear

  • @michelledefrank6601
    @michelledefrank6601 Рік тому +1

    What is it with these mothers pressuring their daughters with the whole "I am paying for it"...I know it's partly for show ratings here but I also know there are moms that really do that as well...feel bad for those daughters

  • @deawallach3404
    @deawallach3404 2 роки тому

    I hate it when someone in the entourage doesn't realize that's the dress they're wearing is not going to fit perfectly and it's not the actual dress that they're going to be wearing that day.. it's a sample dress!! That's why when you look at the back of the Bride you'll see clips and pins and all sorts of things to get it to look as good as that particular size dress can on that bride!

  • @qtaro-7097
    @qtaro-7097 2 роки тому

    this bride look so pretty

  • @pamelafox7677
    @pamelafox7677 2 роки тому +5

    I love a slip dress on a willowy girl. Mother had issues.

  • @erinjaynes
    @erinjaynes 2 роки тому +22

    Your dress choice is not different, Mom. This dress gets tried on in almost every show and I’ve seen several brides choose this.

    • @beautifulbutterfly5578
      @beautifulbutterfly5578 2 роки тому +1

      Because it's wonderful dress, mom has very good taste. Mom always knows best.

  • @ayshamuhammad5315
    @ayshamuhammad5315 2 роки тому +2

    The bride is definitely pretty anyways ❤️🥰

  • @equestrianfeminist9097
    @equestrianfeminist9097 2 роки тому

    The bride is so beautiful. She looks a bit like a golden blonde Lana Del Rey. She has that beautiful old Hollywood otherworldly essence to her.

  • @justycecarey3166
    @justycecarey3166 2 роки тому +1

    I can't wait to find my dress. I don't care what anyone thinks of it. They all had their chance to get their dream dress, and so will I someday.

    • @marilynwillett804
      @marilynwillett804 2 роки тому +1

      I'm so glad in this world young women are still looking towards their wedding day.

  • @RAQUI1982
    @RAQUI1982 2 роки тому +1

    Even if we think it doesn’t fit her figure , it’s what she loves and she is the one wearing it. Just saying !!!

  • @starnejme6902
    @starnejme6902 2 роки тому

    Beautiful Beautiful bride

  • @rfbarron9871
    @rfbarron9871 2 роки тому +1

    What is it with all the girls who have to have their mother’s approval?? She feels like it’s just as important to her mother as her? 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @humaneleaguelancPA
    @humaneleaguelancPA 2 роки тому

    The mother thought the second dress was too low cut...hmm, the dress Mom picked was even lower.

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  • @cjPagan87
    @cjPagan87 Рік тому +1

    She should have tried more dresses first instead of trying to alter that one. There's tons of dresses.

  • @hansvandenberg6464
    @hansvandenberg6464 2 роки тому +1

    I m glad I m not a bride to be, my goodness, I would never invite all these outspoken mom's, grannies, and aunts to go shopping for a weddingdress. they all think about themselves what they want, not what the bride wants. They all have the excuses that they want "the best for their children" but they decide what is best, and not listen to what their childen think and feel make them happy. Brogan, well done. And in general I love the people working in these bridal shops who know to listen to what a bride wants, and sometimes step in to put the reigns back into the bride's hands.

  • @stephaniebaros8349
    @stephaniebaros8349 2 роки тому

    OMG! Is that my mom! 😂 she's just like her!

  • @krisk677
    @krisk677 2 роки тому +2

    If she's not fighting for it, she doesn't really want it??? So she has to stand up to you mum to have something that she chooses? You're not winning mum, you're lacking grace.

  • @rev_isle
    @rev_isle Рік тому +1

    This nonsense with the mom right here is why I make my own money so I can spend it on what I want regardless of another's opinion.

  • @lilysamuel1237
    @lilysamuel1237 2 роки тому +1

    It will be better if the sales person / assistant less talk... And dont overrule what ever the family said

  • @audreymaqks
    @audreymaqks Рік тому +1

    If your old enough to get married you do jot need your mother's approval

  • @Shasha8674
    @Shasha8674 2 роки тому

    Other people's opinion should not matter.

  • @marilynwillett804
    @marilynwillett804 2 роки тому

    Has anyone ever seen a dress with a delicate stand up type of 'collar' and long elegant sleeves that princess Grace might have worn? perfect for a slim blonde.

  • @hotrod66ify
    @hotrod66ify 2 роки тому

    I think the daughter is a little too forgiving of Mum and her attitude. How many times did she say she loved the First dress? Nope, no pressure there.

  • @imakefoodhappen
    @imakefoodhappen 2 роки тому

    The mom was right. The dress does nothing for her. She is very slim, she would disappear into the crowd in her own wedding in that straight dress. The best dress for her would have some volume somewhere. Something that demands some room so she can demand attention.

  • @misstique3046
    @misstique3046 2 роки тому +1

    The first dress was classy, the second one was nothing special

  • @veronicacrabtreehill6608
    @veronicacrabtreehill6608 Рік тому

    What happens to these Mothers after the daughters get married ? Do they move in with the couples ?

  • @ayshamuhammad5315
    @ayshamuhammad5315 2 роки тому +1

    Why is the consultant almost forcing the bride to like this dress horrible consultant let her try more dresses please annoying consultant

  • @YaYaPaBla
    @YaYaPaBla 2 роки тому

    2nd dress suits her, it’s pretty.

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  • @nialasingsing1303
    @nialasingsing1303 Рік тому +1

    Yes mom is bossy but that first dress was Gorgeous

  • @SooperFusion
    @SooperFusion 2 роки тому

    Best consultant

  • @elizabethedwards7082
    @elizabethedwards7082 2 роки тому +4

    Daughter's wedding not mum's She needs to be objective not bossy.

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  • @audreymcleod4076
    @audreymcleod4076 Рік тому +2

    Lovely bride, mother is a nightmare , I pity the husband / son in law.

  • @D2J8
    @D2J8 2 роки тому +1

    Man, I wish the bride would’ve tried on some more styles. After she closed up the slit in the front, the whole dress looked like a glitzy slip of lingerie. A fuller skirt and a neckline to compliment a smaller chest would’ve been perfect for her.

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  • @mariesmith1616
    @mariesmith1616 Рік тому

    The consultant is a lazy bully. She just wanted to make a bigger commission with the more expensive dress that did not fit her well, she did not even show any other options and manipulated the girl to say yes

  • @afa577
    @afa577 Рік тому

    “If she’s not fighting for it she doesn’t love it” omg such a toxic comment

  • @windorsolarplease4314
    @windorsolarplease4314 2 роки тому

    I liked the second one better than the first dress, the first dress swallowed her up. I wish she would have tried on more. Trying on two dresses is not enough. Would have liked to seen her in a Slight A-Line and a Fit and Flair.

    • @joyfuljaj
      @joyfuljaj 2 роки тому +1

      I thought she looked extra young in the first one and the sheath gave her a more mature look. Hopefully she tried on more but they used these for the show because she kept going back to number 2. Of course, often brides end up wearing a dress other than what we see on the show.

    • @windorsolarplease4314
      @windorsolarplease4314 2 роки тому

      @@joyfuljaj Agree that first one just did not look right on her. Yes the sheath did give her a mature look. However, I'm not a fan of sheath on petite tiny ladies, they don't give them a shape, they tend to look like a pencil. I think a Fit and Flair helps with the illusion of having curves and a Slight A-Line usually looks ok on everyone. I also don't like mermaids on short ladies, as it cuts off their legs and makes them look shorter. Usually a ballgown is just too much for a short lady, but if she has to have a ballgown then box pleated helps, it gives them vertical lines.

  • @naowright9308
    @naowright9308 Рік тому

    This mother pushes my buttons. The daughter says she really likes the dress and she wants it but the mother degrades her and plays with her mind till she doesn't know. Having gone through this with my in-laws it really triggers me.

  • @steveking5163
    @steveking5163 2 роки тому

    Beautiful.

  • @sageshroom
    @sageshroom 2 роки тому

    does anyone know the name of the first dress? i can't find it in the collection and i loved it 😭

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  • @montanalilac
    @montanalilac 2 роки тому

    i don’t understand why all these brides go to appointments with their hair down. They can’t see the tops of the dresses without messing with their hair. Put it up, for pete’s sake, you’ll probably wear it up for the wedding anyway.

  • @NLR759
    @NLR759 Рік тому

    I didn't like the dress she chose. I thought it made her look very small and shapeless, and the top did not look right. Mom is correct. It's not the best dress for a super-thin body like hers. The ball gown looked much more dramatic and suited her body better, that's why mom picked it. But to each their own.

  • @cl5193
    @cl5193 Рік тому

    This one seemed a little harsh on the mom. Mom wasn't bad at all, and the daughter did seem a little less than enthusiastic.

  • @hargs_4309
    @hargs_4309 2 роки тому +4

    The bride is so pretty

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  • @maiNmusica
    @maiNmusica 2 роки тому +1734

    Hats off to the lovely consultant making sure she got her dream dress!

    • @barbaracook7142
      @barbaracook7142 2 роки тому +40

      utterly YES ! the mum didn't seem to realise , or chose Not to realise , how much she makes her daughter lose confidence in her own opinions

    • @zineguri8515
      @zineguri8515 2 роки тому +26

      the consultant just pushed the same dress on the bride. They should have let her tried on a few dresses - thats the whole point of the appointment. instead she was like - okay whats not right lets fix it. I dont get this push for bride to choose the first dress she tries on. You can tell the bride herself wasnt very decisive about the dress - usually that means they're not sure if its THE dress. and the mother was right the top just looked awkward on the bride

    • @surlygale1082
      @surlygale1082 2 роки тому +8

      @@zineguri8515 I hope it will look less awkward when it's sized specifically for her body. I agree w/your feeling the consultant was pushy (tho just to clarify, it was the second dress she tried, not the first).

    • @zineguri8515
      @zineguri8515 2 роки тому +7

      @@surlygale1082 I know but it was the first that wasn't her mothers pick (which she really only tried that to please her mother) but in the style she was after she only tried one.

    • @jenniferconley1192
      @jenniferconley1192 2 роки тому +6

      @Zine i agree the daughter was looking for moms approval but i agreed with mom. the top didn't flatter the daughter and she has small cleavage and the dress top didn't look good on her. but if she loved the dress trying on others wouldn't have hurt and she would go with what she loved and not what her mom wanted.

  • @alyzu4755
    @alyzu4755 2 роки тому +557

    Parents need to STOP using paying for the gown as a way to control what the bride wears.

    • @graedot
      @graedot 2 роки тому +14

      Or the bride could say "thanks, Mum, but I've got this."

    • @tammymcceig6518
      @tammymcceig6518 2 роки тому +8

      They do it because it was done to them.

    • @innerjourneysascendingnow7937
      @innerjourneysascendingnow7937 Рік тому +10

      I totally agree!! It ruins their day & their wedding 💒

    • @jpcomp5159
      @jpcomp5159 Рік тому +18

      & brides need to STOP asking/having parents pay for gown = she's an ADULT

    • @Ladywolf2263
      @Ladywolf2263 Рік тому +2

      THANK YOU !

  • @gabrielagiro
    @gabrielagiro 2 роки тому +1384

    The mom said she didn't like the dip in the second dress and that it exposed "too much" but the dress the mom picked out first had an even bigger dip!! On top of that the sides of the dress were sheer, even though the bride said she wanted to be a bit more modest. It really feels like the mom is only trying to pick it apart and blame minuscule things for not liking the dress. AND THEN the mom says she doesn't like it because the daughter didn't say it's the one?!? She's waiting for your approval how oblivious can she be... I feel so bad for the bride.

    • @hlondon2408
      @hlondon2408 2 роки тому +84

      Their ought to be a sign in bridal dress shops that says:
      "All mothers need to listen to their daughters and remind themselves that it is their daughter who will wear the dress!"
      This mum pushed her daughter too far. The mum deserved to be put in her place.

    • @dalilarocha4562
      @dalilarocha4562 2 роки тому +99

      @@hlondon2408 I also hate the Money move parents always make. "Yes! I agree on gifting you the dress, now I have the power to make you wear what I WANT" excuse me? NO, A gift is a gift! If you want to control it do not agree to pay for it. Geez

    • @scottydoggymama
      @scottydoggymama 2 роки тому +11

      absolutely agree with you

    • @francescalegrand4520
      @francescalegrand4520 2 роки тому +5

      Me too. I hope she goes home with her dream dress !!

    • @victoriousvalentine9779
      @victoriousvalentine9779 2 роки тому +19

      I feel sorry for Callum! This will not end when Ginny is married!

  • @evitagilman9636
    @evitagilman9636 2 роки тому +764

    This young lady had the best sales woman ever. She looked beautiful!

    • @sarmarmarsar2223
      @sarmarmarsar2223 2 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/sVyb5UxBUlU/v-deo.html

    • @kanyebreast6072
      @kanyebreast6072 Рік тому +2

      She's a terrible sales woman. She showed the bride 2 dresses, only one of which she chose and even though it was obvious the bride wasn't sure of it, she kept pushing and pushing it on to the bride anyway

  • @WiccanRai
    @WiccanRai 2 роки тому +291

    I agree with the consultant, Ginny seemed much more able to express how much she loved the dress in the changing room. I actually felt she was a little afraid to be more open with her mum present, and the mum misinterpreted that as Ginny not loving the dress as much as she kept saying how much she liked it. Still, with the consultant's help, and bless her for that, she was able to stick to her guns. The dress was lovely and she looked great in it.

    • @traceyhuntstreasure2890
      @traceyhuntstreasure2890 2 роки тому +1

      I could see the Mum trying to read her daughters eyes. She simply wants what is best for her girl. Plus they only show us what they want us to see.

    • @bakoyma
      @bakoyma Рік тому +1

      @@traceyhuntstreasure2890 Shouldn't she be able to read her daughter better by now? If she can't maybe she should trust her daughter's words more. I wish people would stop justifying controlling behaviour like this with "mother's love"...

    • @traceyhuntstreasure2890
      @traceyhuntstreasure2890 Рік тому

      @@bakoyma lol perhaps in their home life she was controlling but there was nothing in this video showing it. Her Mother supported her throughout, she just didn't love the dress as much.

    • @bakoyma
      @bakoyma Рік тому +2

      @@traceyhuntstreasure2890 lol if she is controlling in their home life she probably wont stop being that way at the bridal shop. I didn't see a mother "supporting her daughter through and through", I saw someone who was too domineering because she thinks she knows better than her daughter what's best for her.
      But agree to disagree.

  • @amah91
    @amah91 2 роки тому +402

    This is exactly why I paid for my own dress. I picked one that I loved and kept going back to it. My group that I brought did not like it cause it was too revealing, but I didn’t care! If you love it then get it! Pay for your own dress that way you don’t have to please anyone but yourself

    • @aprilchow-chee5281
      @aprilchow-chee5281 2 роки тому +29

      I so agree with you. I'm taking me myself and I to my appointment

    • @JodiLeaSnakeQueen
      @JodiLeaSnakeQueen 2 роки тому +1

      💯💯💯

    • @grievousangelic
      @grievousangelic 2 роки тому +11

      Amen. Pay for it yourself, get what YOU like! I did it, and went by myself to most of the appointments, and I'm glad I did.

    • @sararomero7090
      @sararomero7090 2 роки тому +2

      @@aprilchow-chee5281 Aw when are you getting married?! Congratulations! 🥳🥰

    • @coryrain
      @coryrain 2 роки тому +7

      Good for you. I also bought my own dress. No one could hold money over me to influence me. Just me and my mom, an hour in the shop and I was done. No fighting. It was lovely.

  • @SD-ip2wb
    @SD-ip2wb 2 роки тому +694

    It’s something in the way that mother’s face is set that suggests she is difficult to deal with. Daughter is beautiful

    • @graceaxisa4213
      @graceaxisa4213 2 роки тому +37

      I agree. That intense stare was unsettling.

    • @marilynwillett804
      @marilynwillett804 2 роки тому +7

      mom is no phoney, how easy would it have been for the cameras? her daughter is her only focus.

    • @cherylmaclean4349
      @cherylmaclean4349 2 роки тому +17

      I think it was because she didn't choose the dress... She was mad about that. What a sour mom.

    • @nakaharakarin8315
      @nakaharakarin8315 2 роки тому +12

      She is a jealous mum, probably

    • @juliannecox380
      @juliannecox380 2 роки тому +11

      I have a narcissist mother and I could see on the moms face the same look in my own mom’s eyes. Just sayinggggggg

  • @evitagilman9636
    @evitagilman9636 2 роки тому +64

    Hate gifts with strings attached 😒.

    • @SpiritDragoness
      @SpiritDragoness 2 роки тому +4

      Totally agree. My mom was the same. When i was a kid, i wore out all my clothes till they had holes in them coz i just didn't want to tell my mom that i needed new ones. I still feel uncomfortable accepting gifts coz at the back of my mind is always that though "what will it cost me". My husband drags me by force to the store to buy me something nice.
      These kind of parents can be very traumatising. The way the brides face changed when speaking to her mother reminded me so much of my experience. That also could be the reason why this girl is marrying so young... To run away. Hope she is with the right person and nicer people around her.

    • @M.A.Y.Y
      @M.A.Y.Y 2 роки тому +3

      @@SpiritDragoness sameee my boyfriend has to drag me to a sore and be extremely stubborn with me for me to get something new cause all that's running through my mind is all the strings that will be attached to it. even though that the polar opposite of his ways and he would never fantom being that way, it really traumatizes you to the point where you cant help but be skeptical of every gift.

  • @leebug4718
    @leebug4718 2 роки тому +129

    These “indecisive” brides tend to have a really outspoken immediate family member. Almost like they second guess themself because they’ve been told they’re wrong so many times 🤔

    • @SpiritDragoness
      @SpiritDragoness 2 роки тому +18

      Narcissistic parents do that to their kids. Those kids doubt their own judgment.

    • @survivedandthriving
      @survivedandthriving 2 роки тому +10

      agreed. Every time I see a bride declare herself 'indecisive' on one of these shows I make a bet with myself at least one person in her family is going to be overbearing. I have never bet wrong yet.
      Often too, the bride isn't indecisive at all - she knows what she likes but is told by the overbearing person that she is wrong about her understanding of what she likes. It is a form of gaslighting by the overbearing person, and it is abusive.
      As @SpiritDragoness noted, narcissistic parents do that to their kids. (other types of abusive parents do so as well).

  • @sshms414
    @sshms414 2 роки тому +194

    For a young lady the sales assistant was very outspoken and pro bride well done for standing up for her

  • @samsampleman2439
    @samsampleman2439 2 роки тому +260

    The dress she chose is so gorgeous 😊

    • @jpcomp5159
      @jpcomp5159 2 роки тому +4

      I agree - & I think the alteration did improve it, it became more modest & traditional like she wanted

    • @leelahollandnutritionistna6457
      @leelahollandnutritionistna6457 Рік тому

      Perfect for her body shape. The big puffy one, although beautiful, overwhelmed her body shape and personality.

  • @mayeewong4047
    @mayeewong4047 2 роки тому +327

    I do not know why the saleslady did not let the bride try a few more similar glizzy tight-fitting gowns. There are so many choices out there! The bride may like the third or fourth one even better. That could keep everybody happy.

    • @brandyb2931
      @brandyb2931 2 роки тому +62

      Because we didn't see their entire interaction, just snippets and she knew this was the dress the bride wanted.

    • @Positivekitten
      @Positivekitten 2 роки тому +58

      These shows are very heavily edited. For all we know, she tried on 50 dresses and they just edited down to show those two.

    • @sandyprofilio4170
      @sandyprofilio4170 2 роки тому +24

      I know so silly to limit the amount of dresses she tries on. Also the top of the dress she chose would suit someone with a slightly bigger bust . It doesn't look amazing..She looks so tiny she can wear so many different styles

    • @joralemonvirgincreche
      @joralemonvirgincreche 2 роки тому +20

      @@sandyprofilio4170 Exactly. She (her bust) was swimming in the dress, I think that's what her mother was hinting at but didn't want to say. Hopefully after alterations the top will fit much better.

    • @Positivekitten
      @Positivekitten 2 роки тому +10

      @@sandyprofilio4170 Again, this show is heavily edited and we don’t know the amount of dresses she actually tries on.

  • @Poisenivy5
    @Poisenivy5 2 роки тому +235

    I really love that sales lady! Just kept the positive energy up and kept the bride strong ❤️

  • @NicciCatherineP
    @NicciCatherineP 2 роки тому +14

    Ginny's mother is a control freak, straight up. No wonder the poor girl is so timid and indecisive.

  • @einodmilvado
    @einodmilvado 2 роки тому +35

    I think the mom is right...something about the upper part of the dress is not really fitting her daughter's body...but she is beautiful regardless

    • @Songbirdstress
      @Songbirdstress 2 роки тому +7

      I agree, the dress doesn't do anything for her. Salesperson should have let her try another dress. You can always come back, but here they just steamroller the personnpaying.

    • @marilynwillett804
      @marilynwillett804 2 роки тому +1

      @@Songbirdstress EXACTLY, we know it.

    • @Maz-zb9uf
      @Maz-zb9uf 2 роки тому +1

      Peak sake dress two was beautiful the mother had herself in mind

  • @livinwonder6432
    @livinwonder6432 2 роки тому +65

    Hang on, the mothers pick had a much more dramatic plunging neckline?
    Seems like she just wanted to find 'something' wrong with it as she didn't pick it!

    • @kyliepechler
      @kyliepechler 2 роки тому +3

      Exactly.

    • @mariesmith1616
      @mariesmith1616 Рік тому

      No mom did want to say that the bride was not bustier enough for the second dress

  • @MLMLW
    @MLMLW 2 роки тому +94

    That is one excellent customer service oriented bridal shop! They did a wonderful job. I loved her dress.

  • @baalah7
    @baalah7 2 роки тому +77

    *Understanding Consultant needs to be given a raise immediately and retain her always* 🙌🏽

  • @zhmw
    @zhmw 2 роки тому +43

    I hope when this young woman gets married, she and her new husband moved away from her mom with enough distance so they can establish their own life together - without her mom interfering, manipulating and being controlling. Because after their wedding, she won't stop. The dress is beautiful and I hope they have a beautiful wedding.

    • @SpiritDragoness
      @SpiritDragoness 2 роки тому +7

      Totally agree! This is the reason why my mom was never at my wedding. My husband got to see her for the first time at her funeral. I know that sounds cruel...

    • @survivedandthriving
      @survivedandthriving 2 роки тому +5

      @@SpiritDragoness for those of us with 'That Type' of mother, it doesn't sound cruel. It sounds wise.
      Actually it sounds like the end of the cruelty. The end of the cruelty suffered at That Type of mother's hands.
      I went no contact with my own That Type of mother (and by extension enabling father and siblings) more than 10 years ago. If I am in a serious romantic relationship, that guy will never meet her.
      I am glad that you were able to find your own love and family and freedom from that cruelty.

    • @SpiritDragoness
      @SpiritDragoness 2 роки тому +5

      @@survivedandthriving yeah, her death was a weird experience. The weirdest combo of emotions, sadness mixed with "the witch is dead" kind of relief.
      I too went no contact with my mom for the last 4 years of her life, and cutting contact with all of my extended family coz my mom was into by proxy cruelty too. Took a while to restore my relationships with my extended family (many of them are the sweetest people ever. I am turning 40 this year, and only now I am begining to build a relationship with my grandfather coz during her life I wasn't allowed, I was sent to my room every time he visited, coz he is HER father but never my grandfather.)
      Glad you too had the strength and courage togo no contact. It is the best but also the scariest decision I have had to make. These kind of parents never change, they only get worse with age.

  • @Princess-st7kk
    @Princess-st7kk 2 роки тому +22

    1st dress suits her. She has a small petite body, a ball gown or a line dress will be perfect for her.

    • @larubiadl2400
      @larubiadl2400 2 роки тому +1

      NO. She's so delicate - what she chose is perfect for her slender figure; once they do alterations, they can add a bit of sewn-in padding at the bust to balance the top better.

    • @mariesmith1616
      @mariesmith1616 Рік тому

      Absolutely the first dress was way better for her. The second dress didn’t do anything for her body type.

  • @alexj7977
    @alexj7977 2 роки тому +39

    I get where the mom was coming from. The problem wasn’t so much the dip on the top, it just sits strangely on her chest overall. Anyone else seeing this? 🧐

    • @joralemonvirgincreche
      @joralemonvirgincreche 2 роки тому +6

      She's too small busted for that particular dress or size. Hopefully alterations fixed it.

    • @marilynwillett804
      @marilynwillett804 2 роки тому +3

      Of course, that dress is wrong for her body. She needed more of a dress.

  • @pennylehrer1306
    @pennylehrer1306 2 роки тому +26

    Nothing like a dominating mother. There's nothing that mom can pick out that she doesn't like about the dress.....except that it wasn't HER decision.

    • @lysem4392
      @lysem4392 Рік тому

      That was exactly my impression. It wasn't not the dress that the mother didn't like, it was that her daughter was taking control away from her.

  • @danielangom
    @danielangom 2 роки тому +82

    I don't understand why so many women are struggeling when they love it. It is their special day, they have to feel like a real bride, they must be happy with the dress ❣️❣️❣️
    I love real puffy princess style with tons of bling bling and embroydery in purple Satin.
    I found my dream dress and honestly I don't ask anybody if they like it cause I love it and that is the most important point 😜✊💝

    • @terrib627
      @terrib627 2 роки тому +16

      They struggle because they never learned to have boundaries.

    • @ladyjustice1474
      @ladyjustice1474 2 роки тому +17

      Women have been brainwashed into being pleasers, and to avoid conflict. When we do stand up for ourselves, we called all kinds of foul names, or accused of all manner of things.

    • @Derthlin
      @Derthlin 2 роки тому +5

      True. I only tried four dresses, the first three on one occasion, didn't feel it except for a illusion top with lots of sparkle... Then I was walking by a store and saw it on the window, tried it on and that was it. It was my dress.

    • @NBC09
      @NBC09 Рік тому

      RIGHT

  • @kendalr6982
    @kendalr6982 Рік тому +28

    I love how Brogan spelled it out in a way that says 'look what you're doing to your daughter and how you are making her doubt herself and feel bad for liking something you don't like' and a lot of these people that brides bring need to hear that and be reminded of that.
    I also love the MIL's face when sitting next to the brides mom it like 'God give me the strength so I don't slap this woman.'

  • @missingmimic
    @missingmimic 2 роки тому +22

    I know she was just dead set on deferring to the mom but I'm just not convinced she loved that dress 🤷‍♀️

  • @rhyfelwrDuw
    @rhyfelwrDuw 2 роки тому +25

    Deep down I think the mother wants to keep her daughter as she's been with her for so long, on her own! It is difficult to let go of your children, but they have to move on with their lives eventually!