I have a good friend not of our church who says, “God didn’t make me a judge but I am a fruit inspector.” “By there fruits ye shall know them. “ I’ve always appreciated her attitude.
Thank you for tackling the sometimes challenging topic of not judging and righteous judging- this is so important. Your case study is very relevant to what members are facing today. Thank you for addressing it with pure teachings from the Lord and his chosen leaders. You explained it soo well.
@@johnhiltoniiiJesus Christ said he was black in the Bible, the Angels are black and the 12 tribes of Israel who are scattered all over the world are black negroes
John, I love your classes. And this one was exceptional! It really got me to thinking. I know that I'm not perfect, nor do I always make the perfect choices. Let me share a few choices and my reasoning for each of those actions or reactions. At 17 and fresh out of HS, I met my future husband. He was Catholic and I attended the Friend's church pretty regularly. Neither of us had ever heard of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter- day Saints. But when I met Jim, after we began talking of marriage, I learned that he went out on weekends with his buddies to the bars. I told him in front of one of his friends.. you have to decide, me or the drink, you can't have both! Here is my reasoning...I grew up in an alcoholic home, parents and most of my siblings had horrible lives because of alcohol! At the age of 12, standing by myself, I told Heavenly Father that I wanted nothing to do with Alcohol in my family and I meant it! Next, 18 years later, when I learned about the Church through a very personal and unique way, when Jim was asked to sign for me to be baptized, he said "no"! When I asked him why, he said, "Because 6 months after a friend's wife joined, they got a divorce!" My reply is that if you keep me from joining this Church, there will be a divorce. Was I a bully? Religion had never meant anything to Jim. Once I joined, he started coming with me and loved what he saw and learned. And one more to share... our oldest and youngest daughters joined the Church with in a few months. Our oldest daughter's husband was working and going to school. After there 1st child was born, they decided to wait until after he finished school before they continue with their family. Two nights before she was going to the doctor, I learned in my institute class that President Kimball cautioned young adults "not to put off having a family" until after through college! That next day, as I was talking to my daughter, she told me what they had decided, and she had an appointment the next day. The Spirit whispered to me to share with her what I had learned the night before. I told her it isn't my decision, but I was inspired to share what I had learned. She and Walt would have to make that decision together. She was crying when she hung up the phone. But the next day she was happy because they prayed and got an answer. I was told by another sister that I was a meddling mother. I didn't care what she thought, I had to follow the Spirits prompting! The results... Jim gave up drinking. He never joined the Church, but supported the girls, the Church, our daughter that never joined, and me! A few months after his death, I was privileged to see him happier than I had ever seen him! And he was walking towards me with the biggest, brightest smile and arms wide open! I had never seen my husband stand or walk in our 43 years of marriage until that glorious vision! Something I treasure. Our daughter was expecting their 3rd child when Walt graduated and every promise President Kimball made was fulfilled! Each of those decisions I made as I did, because I had made a promise to Jesus to "follow him" at a very young age and He is my best Friend. He will never, no never no never forsake me!
Another wonderful lesson! Thank you! My husband and I have been married for 62 wonderful years. He is not a member of our church. I grew up in Germany, and there were no young men in our congregations at that time. I fell in love with him, and have tried to be a good example to him and our children. I do hope that at the right time he will be joining me!! That has been my prayer! ❤🇨🇦
With limited time, family and church obligations and a demanding job while preparing for the bar exam I prayed to know how to prepare given my circumstances. As I approached each potential exam topic clear impressions came to ignore some and focus on others. Then during the three day exam every topic I was led to focus on was on the exam and none of those ignored appeared. Driving home after the exam ended I was confident I passed. I told my wife and no one else. I passed. To this day a miracle that leaves me stunned. The Lord knows us, our needs, and the true intents of our hearts. He answers prayers.
This course has boosted my study time value by 2000%. I don't comprehend much of what I read. Bro Hilton's courses are so extremely helpful!!! I love them!!!
Beautiful class Brother John Hilton, Thank you for each class .It's different each person learning and things,I think whatever Prophets wants us to do is correct and proper Went to the hospital and didn't wear garments, other than that I wear my garments. Some family members don't understand why we do such things, I tell them I along with others have made covalent with God and Jesus Christ And them with us. Gave scriptures in different 📚 They still don't understand. I feel odd ,wrong not wearing them .Hopefully this helps others. I also watch Brother Welsh class Wonderful time today. 36:24
Great class. You talked about Jesus “raising the bar.“ It appears that Tami has a higher bar than Geoff. She’s not saying “he’s a bad guy“, but she wants to live an exact obedience standard.
You prayed for help and at that moment we’re trying to get your heart in the right place. The guy in the spiked leather jacket showed up at that moment. There are many translated beings on this earth and l think he may well have been one. The ministering of angels is part of the restored gospel.
Thank you for sharing your insights! I really enjoyed your object lesson and spending time considering the idea of judging. It was very helpful. And thank you for using such timely topics! I always look forward to your podcast!
The quotes from Elder Oaks sum it up for me and that has always been my perspective. The Savior's counsel regarding the wearing of the sacred temple garments is on the Church website and in Gospel Library in General Handbook section 38. That counsel is very clear, I believe. I ask in prayer as the Lord's child for inspiration and find it in the words of modern and ancient prophets and apostles. As for the case studies here, I like what one commenter added. We simply don't know all of the reasons behind someone's actions at all times.
Brother Hilton…before you said “The three Nephites “, I said it at the same exact time!!!! 😂 you never know!! It’s amazing how Heavenly Father helps us keep His commandments, by any and all means .
I had to comment on this one because it made me laugh out loud, and my name is Tammy. The question at the end - what would Tammy do? When I received my Patriarchal Blessing, I was advised not to compromise and would be guided to the man I should marry, who would be worthy to take me to the temple. Throughout my dating experiences, I referred back to my blessing for guidance. I knew I wanted to marry a returned missionary and a covenant keeper. I did marry him a year after he returned home from his mission, and we have been married for 35 years. I will always be grateful for my blessing, which provided guidance and direction and helped me not settle for less than what I expected and wanted for myself.
I think that our influence on others can be significant. If I express how important and sacred both the sabbath and the garments of the holy priesthood are and why. It can offer insight or be a deal breaker. However, there's more to this story that I don't know. But agency is a fickle thing as it's always in play so you may marry a returned missionary who looses their faith and influences your future children. Maybe this Sunday shopper is taking someone who can't go any other time. Maybe his garments are a limited amount as well as laundry facilities being readily available. Like you said if it's going to effect your future family you need to make prayerful decision. It's no accident we are here in life together so Heavenly Father will guide us if we let him.
I love the words of the Savior "Do not worry". I am afraid to be an anxious person. Regarding Tammy, I think that she should keep her covenants and commandments which mean that she should breakup with Jeff, since he does not have the same commitments. However, Tammy can remain a friend to Jeff and be an example. Who knows? Jeff might realize that he is not on the right path, repent and be faithful again. Then, there might be a happy ending... They will get married, have many children and be happy for ever. 😁 If not, well... She will meet Mr Right some time later. Once thing for sure that she should not do is marrying him, thinking that she would be able to change him... This often leads to heartaches and divorce, if not worse sometimes...
Marriage is hard enough, what with all the differences that arise that we never saw coming, without starting it off marrying someone with different standards and values than our own, no matter if they are religious standards or some other kind. I had a list of five things that I absolutely refused to marry someone with, and three of them had nothing to do with religion but would have caused deep, deep conflict if I had relented. I didn't see it as judging at all.
Thank you for your teaching and testimony on these essential doctrines and topics. I believe it can be helpful to distinguish between what constitutes a moral absolute, a moral principle, a moral value, and, consequently, the moral imperative or required conduct. Regarding the temple garment, it is not an absolute requirement that it be worn at all times, day and night, nor is it an absolute that it must be worn in situations where reasonable circumstances call for its removal. However, Latter-day Saints may differ in their views on what qualifies as 'reasonable.' I have observed that even a reasonable removal can be judged as “removing one’s covenant connection with Jesus Christ.” A similar challenge arises with keeping the Sabbath day holy. My intent is for us, as Latter-day Saints, to recognize that there is inherent variability within these laws. Both the law of the temple garment and Sabbath observance may not be as absolute as some might think, even when applied righteously.
I always love your videos and I always appreciate the fact that you take time to answer comments. Being a convert it always surprised me that God made men to be attracted to women but yet then tells us not look upon them with lust seems like there's a fine line. I think I'm doomed
Thanks James, I'm glad you got some good responses to your other comment about the temple garment. I don't think you're doomed! I'm confident that as you take your questions to the scriptures and the Lord you will find great peace and comfort!
Open up the healing through the savior guide in life help in the gospel library app and just read the 12 steps and pay attention to any that draw you to read further. This is as close to modern scripture as you can get.
I heartily agree with the previous comment that marriage is challenging in the best of circumstances. If Jeff is already so willing to disregard Jesus's commandments on relatively minor issues, he may soon disregard major issues like fidelity in marriage.
Wondered how to recognise 3 Nephites. Never thought of spiky jacket 😂. I sent son to Tai Kwon Do and he used it on sister so I joined children's class.
Hi John, I have began your BoM master class. When Martin Harris lost the 116 pages you mentioned that God told Joseph he is still chosen and to move forward with the work. Did Joseph recieve that revelation at that time? D&C was referenced so was he receiving D&C throughout his life and then compiled it all later? I thought the D&C was all done shortly before his death. Thank you for your response
Thanks so much for reaching out...the revelations were received throughout Joseph's lifetime, you can read the historical background for the sections under each heading. Sections 3 and 10 were given around the time of the lost 116 pages.
@@lindaolson8009 Brother Welch also recently described that very research on the temple patterns in 3rd Nephi 12-16 on this excellent video: ua-cam.com/video/9n2o6yomuFU/v-deo.htmlsi=iHIZGRGU9kXOd7RZ
Jed needs a good example as a friend. Just abstain from going with him on Sunday hunting or other activities that don't align with keeping the Sabbath.
Jesus didn’t come into the world to CONDEMN the world but to save the world. It has not been given to us to condemn others but to judge the situations. Pray for discernment and follow the spirit. I think it is important to teach children the difference between condemning and judging
DUMP the guy that says... "I keep the commandments my way, and you can do it your way". MAYBE it would be better to submit to the one you love that suggests that there may be a better way. One should marry a partner that makes them want to be a better man or woman. If that person does not inspire you to do better... keep looking.
I live in Arizona and in the summertime when it's up to 115 degrees or hotter it is so unbelievably uncomfortable for me to wear my garments. Do I just suffer through life. Is that really what heavenly father wants for us?
Hi! I live in Arizona as well. It definitely gets really hot in the summer and it can be hard. I've had the same question as you and decided to take my question to the Lord. When doing so, I felt a strong impression come to my mind that said, "This is one of the sacrifices that I'm asking you to make to become more Holy." This thought then brought me to the temple and the covenant that I've made to sacrifice whatever God asks of me to become Holy. I now think of this on those extremely hot days and focus on the gift the garment is in my life as I'm taking upon myself Jesus Christ. They don't feel so hot anymore. I would encourage you to take it to the Lord and see what He tells you. Cool weather will be here soon! We can do this! 💕
@@kday6809 thank you for your reply. I have spoken to my Bishop and he said that when I’m exercising that it’s up to me whether I wear them or not and I guess that’s because they get so sweaty and it made me think well they get so sweaty out in the summer sun and heat, so I definitely will take it to the Lord. Thank you for your suggestion.
115 degrees is hot and miserable no matter what you do. There are ways to work around the uncomfortableness. I am very glad we live in a modern society with air conditioning. My husband used to laugh at family in Northern Utah. "In Arizona we know how to stay in the shade and drink plenty of water, cover items in our cars, and stay inside in air conditioning". "Why is it every time we are with your family, we are always standing around in a parking lot in the hot sun, trying to decide what to do next". In other words, stay inside, plan ahead. With God's blessings, you've got this. Use ice packs. We are totally blessed.
@@SteeleAndrews I would love to go to cooler climate, but my wife’s family is all here and she won’t go with me. She keeps saying don’t forget to write. So I guess I’m stuck.
I don't think Tammy is being rigid in honoring commandments and I certainly wouldn't consider binding my life to a person so casual and selective in keeping them as Jeff is. Yes, he should be granted his choices and they don't make him a bad person, but marriage is a covenant between 3 people, the spouses and Jesus, and Jeff is clearly not givingJesus' teachings and expectations constant priority. Weak foundation for a marriage and family.
I have a good friend not of our church who says, “God didn’t make me a judge but I am a fruit inspector.”
“By there fruits ye shall know them. “
I’ve always appreciated her attitude.
"Fruit Inspector..." I've never heard that before!
Thank you for tackling the sometimes challenging topic of not judging and righteous judging- this is so important. Your case study is very relevant to what members are facing today. Thank you for addressing it with pure teachings from the Lord and his chosen leaders. You explained it soo well.
Yes, this is an important topic for us to consider!
@@johnhiltoniiiJesus Christ said he was black in the Bible, the Angels are black and the 12 tribes of Israel who are scattered all over the world are black negroes
John, I love your classes. And this one was exceptional! It really got me to thinking. I know that I'm not perfect, nor do I always make the perfect choices. Let me share a few choices and my reasoning for each of those actions or reactions. At 17 and fresh out of HS, I met my future husband. He was Catholic and I attended the Friend's church pretty regularly. Neither of us had ever heard of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter- day Saints. But when I met Jim, after we began talking of marriage, I learned that he went out on weekends with his buddies to the bars. I told him in front of one of his friends.. you have to decide, me or the drink, you can't have both! Here is my reasoning...I grew up in an alcoholic home, parents and most of my siblings had horrible lives because of alcohol! At the age of 12, standing by myself, I told Heavenly Father that I wanted nothing to do with Alcohol in my family and I meant it!
Next, 18 years later, when I learned about the Church through a very personal and unique way, when Jim was asked to sign for me to be baptized, he said "no"! When I asked him why, he said, "Because 6 months after a friend's wife joined, they got a divorce!" My reply is that if you keep me from joining this Church, there will be a divorce. Was I a bully? Religion had never meant anything to Jim. Once I joined, he started coming with me and loved what he saw and learned. And one more to share... our oldest and youngest daughters joined the Church with in a few months. Our oldest daughter's husband was working and going to school. After there 1st child was born, they decided to wait until after he finished school before they continue with their family. Two nights before she was going to the doctor, I learned in my institute class that President Kimball cautioned young adults "not to put off having a family" until after through college! That next day, as I was talking to my daughter, she told me what they had decided, and she had an appointment the next day. The Spirit whispered to me to share with her what I had learned the night before. I told her it isn't my decision, but I was inspired to share what I had learned. She and Walt would have to make that decision together. She was crying when she hung up the phone. But the next day she was happy because they prayed and got an answer. I was told by another sister that I was a meddling mother. I didn't care what she thought, I had to follow the Spirits prompting!
The results... Jim gave up drinking. He never joined the Church, but supported the girls, the Church, our daughter that never joined, and me! A few months after his death, I was privileged to see him happier than I had ever seen him! And he was walking towards me with the biggest, brightest smile and arms wide open! I had never seen my husband stand or walk in our 43 years of marriage until that glorious vision! Something I treasure. Our daughter was expecting their 3rd child when Walt graduated and every promise President Kimball made was fulfilled! Each of those decisions I made as I did, because I had made a promise to Jesus to "follow him" at a very young age and He is my best Friend. He will never, no never no never forsake me!
I appreciate your sharing these experiences with us!
Another wonderful lesson! Thank you! My husband and I have been married for 62 wonderful years. He is not a member of our church. I grew up in Germany, and there were no young men in our congregations at that time. I fell in love with him, and have tried to be a good example to him and our children. I do hope that at the right time he will be joining me!! That has been my prayer! ❤🇨🇦
Thank you for sharing your experience!
With limited time, family and church obligations and a demanding job while preparing for the bar exam I prayed to know how to prepare given my circumstances. As I approached each potential exam topic clear impressions came to ignore some and focus on others. Then during the three day exam every topic I was led to focus on was on the exam and none of those ignored appeared. Driving home after the exam ended I was confident I passed. I told my wife and no one else. I passed. To this day a miracle that leaves me stunned. The Lord knows us, our needs, and the true intents of our hearts. He answers prayers.
Wow, thank you for sharing this powerful experience!
Questions on 31:37 : Tammy is not judging Jeff but is actually judging the life she is potentially choosing to live.
Thanks for this insight!
I agree!
This course has boosted my study time value by 2000%. I don't comprehend much of what I read. Bro Hilton's courses are so extremely helpful!!! I love them!!!
I'm so happy that this course has increased the value of your study time!
these topics covered here could be a lifelong study one at a time! thanks for the good examples that help illuminate
Amen!
Thank you Brother Hilton.
What a great story by Elder Christensen.
Yes, powerful!
Beautiful class
Brother John Hilton, Thank you for each class .It's different each person learning and things,I think whatever Prophets wants us to do is correct and proper
Went to the hospital and didn't wear garments, other than that I wear my garments. Some family members don't understand why we do such things, I tell them I along with others have made covalent with God and Jesus Christ
And them with us.
Gave scriptures in different 📚 They still don't understand.
I feel odd ,wrong not wearing them .Hopefully this helps others.
I also watch Brother Welsh class
Wonderful time today. 36:24
Great class. You talked about Jesus “raising the bar.“ It appears that Tami has a higher bar than Geoff. She’s not saying “he’s a bad guy“, but she wants to live an exact obedience standard.
Thank you for sharing this perspective!
Thank you!! Excellent lesson!! It is too easy to lower you own bar when standing to close to one whose bar is lower than yours.❤❤
Thanks for sharing this perspective!
Thanks for what you do Br. Hilton,
You're welcome Mike!
You prayed for help and at that moment we’re trying to get your heart in the right place.
The guy in the spiked leather jacket showed up at that moment.
There are many translated beings on this earth and l think he may well have been one.
The ministering of angels is part of the restored gospel.
Presentation included excellent insight making it easy to process and understand.. Thank you!
I'm glad this was helpful for you!
Another great lesson. I love how you are able to apply the Savior’s teachings to every day life. Always good examples to ponder❣️
Thanks for your kind words Ruth!
Thanks Bro Hilton! Another fantastic lesson!
Thanks Dino!
I appreciate your lessons so much. Thank you.
You're welcome Mary!
Thank you for sharing your insights! I really enjoyed your object lesson and spending time considering the idea of judging. It was very helpful. And thank you for using such timely topics! I always look forward to your podcast!
Thanks Lorraine!
Thank you Brother Hilton...I needed these words, your words just now ❤️
I'm glad they came at the right time!
Thanks very much for sharing your time and insights on these scriptures!❤
Thank you for a lot of good content here!
Glad you're a part of the Master Class!
The quotes from Elder Oaks sum it up for me and that has always been my perspective.
The Savior's counsel regarding the wearing of the sacred temple garments is on the Church website and in Gospel Library in General Handbook section 38. That counsel is very clear, I believe.
I ask in prayer as the Lord's child for inspiration and find it in the words of modern and ancient prophets and apostles.
As for the case studies here, I like what one commenter added. We simply don't know all of the reasons behind someone's actions at all times.
Thanks for sharing these insights!
Another great episode, Brother Hilton!
Thanks for your consistent participation in the class!
Brother Hilton…before you said “The three Nephites “, I said it at the same exact time!!!! 😂 you never know!! It’s amazing how Heavenly Father helps us keep His commandments, by any and all means .
Haha, we're thinking along the same lines! :)
I had to comment on this one because it made me laugh out loud, and my name is Tammy. The question at the end - what would Tammy do? When I received my Patriarchal Blessing, I was advised not to compromise and would be guided to the man I should marry, who would be worthy to take me to the temple. Throughout my dating experiences, I referred back to my blessing for guidance. I knew I wanted to marry a returned missionary and a covenant keeper. I did marry him a year after he returned home from his mission, and we have been married for 35 years. I will always be grateful for my blessing, which provided guidance and direction and helped me not settle for less than what I expected and wanted for myself.
Thanks for sharing this experience with us Tammy!
I think that our influence on others can be significant. If I express how important and sacred both the sabbath and the garments of the holy priesthood are and why. It can offer insight or be a deal breaker. However, there's more to this story that I don't know. But agency is a fickle thing as it's always in play so you may marry a returned missionary who looses their faith and influences your future children. Maybe this Sunday shopper is taking someone who can't go any other time. Maybe his garments are a limited amount as well as laundry facilities being readily available. Like you said if it's going to effect your future family you need to make prayerful decision. It's no accident we are here in life together so Heavenly Father will guide us if we let him.
I'm glad you're sharing your thoughts on the case study!
Like children love to hear Fairy Tales repeatedly ❤
This would make an amazing Talk
I love the words of the Savior "Do not worry". I am afraid to be an anxious person.
Regarding Tammy, I think that she should keep her covenants and commandments which mean that she should breakup with Jeff, since he does not have the same commitments. However, Tammy can remain a friend to Jeff and be an example. Who knows? Jeff might realize that he is not on the right path, repent and be faithful again. Then, there might be a happy ending... They will get married, have many children and be happy for ever. 😁 If not, well... She will meet Mr Right some time later.
Once thing for sure that she should not do is marrying him, thinking that she would be able to change him... This often leads to heartaches and divorce, if not worse sometimes...
Thanks for sharing this perspective!
Marriage is hard enough, what with all the differences that arise that we never saw coming, without starting it off marrying someone with different standards and values than our own, no matter if they are religious standards or some other kind. I had a list of five things that I absolutely refused to marry someone with, and three of them had nothing to do with religion but would have caused deep, deep conflict if I had relented. I didn't see it as judging at all.
Thanks for sharing this perspective!
Thank you for your teaching and testimony on these essential doctrines and topics. I believe it can be helpful to distinguish between what constitutes a moral absolute, a moral principle, a moral value, and, consequently, the moral imperative or required conduct.
Regarding the temple garment, it is not an absolute requirement that it be worn at all times, day and night, nor is it an absolute that it must be worn in situations where reasonable circumstances call for its removal.
However, Latter-day Saints may differ in their views on what qualifies as 'reasonable.' I have observed that even a reasonable removal can be judged as “removing one’s covenant connection with Jesus Christ.”
A similar challenge arises with keeping the Sabbath day holy.
My intent is for us, as Latter-day Saints, to recognize that there is inherent variability within these laws. Both the law of the temple garment and Sabbath observance may not be as absolute as some might think, even when applied righteously.
Thanks for sharing this perspective!
I always love your videos and I always appreciate the fact that you take time to answer comments. Being a convert it always surprised me that God made men to be attracted to women but yet then tells us not look upon them with lust seems like there's a fine line. I think I'm doomed
Thanks James, I'm glad you got some good responses to your other comment about the temple garment. I don't think you're doomed! I'm confident that as you take your questions to the scriptures and the Lord you will find great peace and comfort!
Open up the healing through the savior guide in life help in the gospel library app and just read the 12 steps and pay attention to any that draw you to read further. This is as close to modern scripture as you can get.
@@tinandevrgub I’ll see if I can find someone to read it to me. Unfortunately, I’m visually impaired and reading doesn’t work out too well.
I heartily agree with the previous comment that marriage is challenging in the best of circumstances. If Jeff is already so willing to disregard Jesus's commandments on relatively minor issues, he may soon disregard major issues like fidelity in marriage.
Thanks for this perspective!
For Tammy, give another chance if there is a change then make a decision
Thanks for sharing this perspective!
Is it weird that I see “Talks” everywhere? I haven’t given a talk in years and am kinda terrified yet excited to give a talk.
Your time to give a talk may be soon!
Wondered how to recognise 3 Nephites. Never thought of spiky jacket 😂. I sent son to Tai Kwon Do and he used it on sister so I joined children's class.
haha way to go Peggy!
Hi John, I have began your BoM master class. When Martin Harris lost the 116 pages you mentioned that God told Joseph he is still chosen and to move forward with the work. Did Joseph recieve that revelation at that time? D&C was referenced so was he receiving D&C throughout his life and then compiled it all later? I thought the D&C was all done shortly before his death. Thank you for your response
Thanks so much for reaching out...the revelations were received throughout Joseph's lifetime, you can read the historical background for the sections under each heading. Sections 3 and 10 were given around the time of the lost 116 pages.
I can’t find the free Welch info. Can you help me!
It's in the "digging deeper" section of this page: johnhiltoniii.com/thebookofmormon/class-40-3-nephi-12-14-the-sermon-at-the-temple/
@@lindaolson8009 Brother Welch also recently described that very research on the temple patterns in 3rd Nephi 12-16 on this excellent video: ua-cam.com/video/9n2o6yomuFU/v-deo.htmlsi=iHIZGRGU9kXOd7RZ
Jed needs a good example as a friend. Just abstain from going with him on Sunday hunting or other activities that don't align with keeping the Sabbath.
Thanks for this perspective!
Jesus didn’t come into the world to CONDEMN the world but to save the world. It has not been given to us to condemn others but to judge the situations. Pray for discernment and follow the spirit. I think it is important to teach children the difference between condemning and judging
DUMP the guy that says... "I keep the commandments my way, and you can do it your way". MAYBE it would be better to submit to the one you love that suggests that there may be a better way. One should marry a partner that makes them want to be a better man or woman. If that person does not inspire you to do better... keep looking.
oh yeah... love the guy as a friend, just not as a husband.
Thanks for sharing this perspective!
I live in Arizona and in the summertime when it's up to 115 degrees or hotter it is so unbelievably uncomfortable for me to wear my garments. Do I just suffer through life. Is that really what heavenly father wants for us?
Hi! I live in Arizona as well. It definitely gets really hot in the summer and it can be hard. I've had the same question as you and decided to take my question to the Lord. When doing so, I felt a strong impression come to my mind that said, "This is one of the sacrifices that I'm asking you to make to become more Holy." This thought then brought me to the temple and the covenant that I've made to sacrifice whatever God asks of me to become Holy. I now think of this on those extremely hot days and focus on the gift the garment is in my life as I'm taking upon myself Jesus Christ. They don't feel so hot anymore. I would encourage you to take it to the Lord and see what He tells you. Cool weather will be here soon! We can do this! 💕
@@kday6809 thank you for your reply. I have spoken to my Bishop and he said that when I’m exercising that it’s up to me whether I wear them or not and I guess that’s because they get so sweaty and it made me think well they get so sweaty out in the summer sun and heat, so I definitely will take it to the Lord. Thank you for your suggestion.
115 degrees is hot and miserable no matter what you do. There are ways to work around the uncomfortableness. I am very glad we live in a modern society with air conditioning. My husband used to laugh at family in Northern Utah. "In Arizona we know how to stay in the shade and drink plenty of water, cover items in our cars, and stay inside in air conditioning". "Why is it every time we are with your family, we are always standing around in a parking lot in the hot sun, trying to decide what to do next". In other words, stay inside, plan ahead. With God's blessings, you've got this. Use ice packs. We are totally blessed.
James, that is easy. Your body is telling you that you need to a cooler climate where you are needed to serve. Kidding... sort of.
@@SteeleAndrews I would love to go to cooler climate, but my wife’s family is all here and she won’t go with me. She keeps saying don’t forget to write. So I guess I’m stuck.
I don't think Tammy is being rigid in honoring commandments and I certainly wouldn't consider binding my life to a person so casual and selective in keeping them as Jeff is. Yes, he should be granted his choices and they don't make him a bad person, but marriage is a covenant between 3 people, the spouses and Jesus, and Jeff is clearly not givingJesus' teachings and expectations constant priority. Weak foundation for a marriage and family.
Thanks for sharing this perspective!