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It's not so much about being professional per say, it's about being relatable to the patient speech wise so they can lower their guard and what not, also he's a very casual chill guy if you've watched his stream or his other vids like this! XD
"You're trying to take care of yourself as if you're a normal person, but you're not a normal person. You're just too full of love." 😢😢 Damn dude you didnt have to make me cry in front of my salad
It's not an amazing quote. It's just a jumbled version of saying jealousy inspires hate and strife. You shouldn't hate seeing the person you could be. You should learn from it not become hateful from it.
these comments about micheal saving the day is undermining the work she went through to be able to be with someone again. she is so strong and i admire her so much.
She was able to change herself so much that she was able to get into a happy relationship. Having Micheal there just made things better, it’s like the reward for all her hard work❤️
i didn't even know who Lily was but after watching this entire thing and scrolling down to the comments and following her twitch and realizing she was in a relationship, im so happy for her. it must've taken a lot to be able to trust and love again, not to mention love PUBLICLY again. i wish her so much love
This is truth, I also came from Michael Reeves's stuff. But credit where credit is due, everything she had been going through was hard and she did make it through in one piece.
Holy crap. 3 minutes in, and the amount of intuition this man used to in the moment he asked Lilly to explain to the audience the topic was BRILLIANT to see. 1) Was looking to get a base line of how comfortable she. 2) Saw she was, not at ALL comfortable, and that pushing to hard here was a bad idea. 3) Took a step back to talk about a more positive topic; Sleep. (Which, if you've ever done any research on sleep would be really obvious that this was a really good topic in which you could segway into a PLETHORA of deeper topics) 4) Very, very good balance of asking for specific/tangible answers and making her dig a little deeper for them. And this was in the first 3 minutes... SUPER sensitive with the person he's conversing with.
I'm a doctral clinical psychology student and I can tell you that this guy is the real deal. He has such an incredible way of building a therapeutic alliance with streamers. He makes it seem so effortless. I hope I can be half the clinician he is one day
@@psy__guy__9884 Hey man I hope that you can get there one day. The world needs more people like you and Dr.K to help us through our struggles. Thanks for your efforts! :)
omg I haven't seen this one in a comment section of hers for sooo long. Anyone else remember the LilyRaichu channel? too bad all the content was removed from the channel. I remember when this joke was used on like every Lily and Nyanners videos I saw.
Dr.K is literally a blessing on Twitch. I’m glad he came and did this with reckful and now seeing him helping and hearing out other streamers is amazing to see. Props to him
I'm not even 5 minutes in and I'm already crying along with Lily. She goes through so much but still puts on a smile and entertains and literally works to make us smile. God bless this woman honestly.
Broooo, when Dr.K was on the phone and said "Hello?" and Lily responded with "Hi" not knowing he wasn't talking to her, that was so fucking cuteeeeeeeeeeee dudeeee
honestly watching this back now and seeing how michael treats her it makes me happy that he puts so much effort in....ofc i'm on the outside looking in and i never knew albert well at all or any of these content creators but just seeing how much pain she was in here compared to now just makes me so happy to see her happy, she deserves the happiness she's getting and i know some pain might still be there, also despite what albert did i hope he's doing ok mentally to and can maybe appreciate things more in the future.
I hate the way she thinks but you can't blame her for it. You can't blame someone for their mindset. But its really frustrating to see someone think like that. She blames herself for HIM not telling her his feelings and HIM cheating, damn that makes me angry.
Theres a lot of people that think that way. The downside of critically thinking too much about yourself is you begin to think that everything is your fault and on your shoulders. Ive been lucky enough to never be cheated on but every relationship thats ended in my life i think what I could’ve done better. Always without out a doubt is has to be my fault because if its not then i cant do anything to improve. I know how unhealthy it is and i can see that in people like lily but its been a struggle to come to terms with how i feel. I really felt lilys words about not feeling good enough and feeling lucky in life.
I've wanted to be a psychiatrist for about 6 years now and recently I've recently been doubting myself a little. Dr. K, You've inspired me again to be a good human being just like you. Thanks for being such an inspiration.
really seriously dont doubt yourself. i never saw myself as an intelligent person, yet here i am doing my second degree in health care. give yourself time and trust yourself, good luck !
@@smashenchilada1101 because the road to be a doctor is really reaally hard.. I just hope that you have research well and be prepared to be a medical student. I've seen many of my friends regret to be in this path... I don'twant you to feel that way one day.. try to interact with other doctor or medical student that you know or find online communities that share the same thought as you.
@Bot Robot I- that sounds really similar to what I do tbh... both Lily and Sykkuno try to understand the hater, knowing that the hater might be going through something and hating to somehow cope with that or is a result of it Both of them are so kind and patient, and I really admire that
The "why do intelligent people tend to get addicted to video games" part was very interesting. It makes sense, but I never really thought of it that way. (2:19:58)
Mavodeli it might have made sense. nowadays gaming is so common, that it does not reflect what it might once have done. considering that about 80% (pulling numbers out of my ass here, cba to look up the exact percent) of todays generation play some form of videogames, but the IQ, statistically speaking is definitely not increasing.
I first came across Lily from her League Of Legends UA-cam Promo Ad. From there, I subscribed to her UA-cam channel. From there, I discovered Offline TV, and the entire world of streaming. She has since become my favorite streamer. I love her Art, Music, but most of all, her Personality. She is truly beautiful both inside and out! As someone who registers as an INFP, (she registers as an INFP on the Myers Briggs personality scale) and as someone who has grown up in very similar environment, I can relate a lot to her personally. Keep on being YOU Lily! I don't care if you are depressed sometimes, because what I like most is YOU! (besides, I can relate to feeling paralyzed, being in bed all day, not taking care of myself, and just overall, sinking into a dark, deep, and depressing black whole. I can relate to feeling like I need to live up to certain expectations, that I need to play a game of catchup, that I'm never going to be good enough) When I say YOU, I am including everything else that goes along with it!
@@JiYeonKimFan Did you even watch the video? She mentions that she is afraid of coming across as too depressing. I'm trying to show that many people like her for her. I'm trying to show her that she is allowed to just be herself, regardless of being depressed.
Heart goes out to Lily. She's finding out through a bad breakup that she has a self-critical mechanism. I am literally the exact same thing but instead of finding out through a bad breakup, I'm finding out through studying abroad when I'm away from family. Getting better day by day, hope it's the same for you too Lily
I remember being there as a fan when she got doxed years and years ago. I remember talking to her and how it affected her. To this day I don't understand why people would do that.
Rayeloy Piano Yes people are like that. Do you not laugh when someone falls even when you’re not supposed to? That’s a low level representation but i’m sure you get what I mean. Don’t try to generalise people by saying nobody is like that. There’s 8 billion of us and the odds are higher than you think.
1:07:29 "You can't keep up an act that long" just reminds me of those delusional haters who've somehow convinced themselves that Lily's voice is an act that she's somehow managed to keep up for so long
@@lollylula6399 after a while of getting used to mine, she's actually managed to help me quite a lot! We talk every week. I would suggest hanging in there, you might just find a gem in the rough!
I can't even afford a therapist, the cheapest one's start from 500 liras in my country and minimum wage is 2k, rent is 1k, rest of 1k is also spent on bills and food to survive. We have no sanity left in us here, just surviving. Don't take your AI therapist for granted, at least you have some sort of help.
Wow. Just wow. I watched Michael's interview first, then came here. I'm a super introspective person, and I enjoy watching the content these people put out. I feel like I learned so much through the two conversations. The Michael conversation hit so many psychological resonance points for me and this conversation with Lily really nailed some emotional resonance points for me.
I feel like this young lady every day. I have been told that I have no value by my parents for so long, I don't know how else to feel. Every time someone tells me something good, I don't know how to take it.
damn, this is actually heartbreaking. Lily is such a good person, I started watching her videos a few months ago, and watching her videos always made me feel so happy, best of wishes lily!
Thank you so much for this video, I related to this because of Lily and her situation but also because I relate to so much of this to my own world and my own life. So much I need to address and change this was a therapy session myself and I'm grateful. Please keep doing this, the reason I love these people is because I relate to them and I can relate so much of these to myself.
@@SportLairVids I think this is just a misunderstanding.................what Tara Babcock meant to say is(my thinking) that she enjoys how Dr.K explains and helps lily..............not that she enjoys watching other people suffer or something..........no assumptions tho
This was such an amazing video, I have my degree in counseling and therapy and man the way you implemented so many techniques that I took years to learn so effortlessly was amazing. I'm looking forward to continuing to see your work. Lily has been one of my favorites for years and i'm glad you were able to help her comb through a lot of the things she's never gotten a chance to deal with under the supervision of a professional. Keep up the good work!
I’m so happy Michael came into her life she has become so much better mentally and physically I can tell that she and Michael are genuinely happy to be together I really hope they stay together.
That part where he talked about hate, and most disturbing hate coming from deep depression, so deep that it can disable you in life, resonated deeply. I have read a lot into hate and abuse from others in life , how it can be possible to be so manifest into such distasteful and inhumane acts and words... that segment tore off a piece of doubt in my core of being. I genuinely felt the issue resolve itself within watching this video and understanding more deeply into this issue. It still hurts to know, but at least now I have some sort of INCH of clarity in my mind. I got goosebumps all through listening to that. Over, and over again. (Starting 1:29:00, roughly this time, and 1:32:59) "The birthplace of anger is hurt"
I don’t know Lily so I wouldn’t know specifics, but in little snippets of videos I see. I always see her in videos & people just make fun of her. I can see how she can get different modes of sadness & negative thoughts, even though they are just jokes from friends. One or two of the friends I know have felt silenced because they feel weaker & it all comes down to self deprecating thoughts and social interactions that they overtime misinterpret :// I understand it is also things such as breakups & family matters that impact thoughts too. Also I love how Lilly used a percentage to tell him how much she felt. Maybe she got it from judging so many drawings but I just like that.
Damn when he started going into why lily felt she wasn’t good enough I realized that mine started a lot earlier than I originally thought. I originally thought my depression started in middle school but really my self deprecating thoughts started in elementary 😄
First video I'm watching of his and I'm already loving his "I'm gonna need a minute..." before he asks a SOUL PIERCING question or makes a major revelation and I love it
I used to have this very flawed view on breakups as something insignificant that only happened to people who simply chose the "wrong" person to trust or people who didn't have a "strong enough" relationship. As I've grown older, I can see how devastating it can be to have the same mindset as Lily and be cheated on. You begin to question what you did wrong and why you're not good enough despite knowing very well you would do anything to maintain that relationship. They broke your trust but you still love them and don't understand where it all went wrong. You feel hopeless because you had just lost the person you thought would be there with you for the rest of your life. It's truly devastating.
As someone disabled from depression and other things, those comments kinda hurt. I understand he was talking about the specific haters, but really it was worded in a way that paints all of us the same.
Surprisingly this conversation helped me understand my emotions more than any other I've watched on here, I feel really deeply just like her, have rumination from failed relationships, etc. Thank you both for making this.
Hey Dr. K. I'd recommend you to talk to Daniel Lord from his channel 'Hiding In My Room'. He has a plethora of videos that that are morally questionable & he's just off.
she got cheated on and cries because her ex gets more hate then he deserves. She even tweeted to good wishes to him after the break up. I first found her when she and micheal had their moments together which gave me back faith in love. Shortly after I started watching both of them not even remotely noticing that she got cheatet only a few month before. I don't even know what to say about this other than there should be more Lilys in this world. Maybe that's how she deserves her viewers. And I'm glad for her that she is not 'That one girl that got famous because of the breakup'. I didn't even know about the drama for a long time of watching her eventhough it happend just so short before I found her.
damn, i am also an emotional sponge- nice to hear the justification for me needing cry walks, music binges to purge my emotions, like SO much more often than my friends need
Well you see, some of the best and most constructive therapy, isn’t streamed for patient confidentiality. It takes balls to LIVESTREAM or make videos on therapy. Looking to other people’s therapy isn’t a good way to resolve or use it as catharsis for your own therapy.
Unfortunately therapy takes going to a lot of different people until you meet one that works for you specifically. And in the US not all people are able to get therapy because of health insurance issues.
Seeing Lily break down talking about the breakup is so heartbreaking. She's been so strong for the community these past couple months. What an amazing person
I love this therapist. He makes sure that lily feels comfortable and doesn’t just jump in to like sensitive subjects. He sort of eases in to the topic and shows body language that he’s not judging her at all. I completely respect therapist and I commend them for the great job that they are doing.
therapists are epic. just because how in depth and high level their job can be. learning how to make someone comfortable for instance can be one of the hardest things to do. its always very impressive to see how they do their job
@Anzu Wyliei hence why he says in the beginning of every session with a streaming "I cant fix you over the internet" And why hes doing like serveral weeks of months with reckful now to actually make progress.
@Anzu Wyliei I think what you said can be clearly concluded by watching the video and as such a one sentence youtube comment not entirely mirroring the content of the video (in the sense you understood it) but still refering to the video as though having watched it most likely is a joke. Either way, if its just a misunderstanding theres no point in feuding over that, I apologise for being passive aggressive.
Michael has been working it up the ranks since the start, in a fedmyster vlog around 10 months ago he let lily win an arm wrestle, but later crushed Albert within seconds. He predicted the future and was protecting his queen gracefully, before she even knew she was in danger. To the simp king, I bow.
Damn I saw it on stream and even though the doctor tries to stay neutral and didn't know her before you can tell he is touched by Lily's genuine kindness and really wants to help her.
supermonkeyyyyyy yeah you can tell he really wanted to help her because he was saying at the beginning of the stream “At the end of the hour” but then the whole thing ended up going on for like 2 hours and 30 mins.
Yeah you can cleary feel that when he trashtalks the haters and says he's being protective of her. I think that's genuinely really cute and great to see on Twitch.
Lily's streams are comforting and funny. She honestly has the only stream that can kick all my stress out the door and make me feel so warm inside. I honestly just wish for her to be happy.
@@AXharoth That is where the term originated from. Boomer is a term that can be attributed to any person of any age depending on whether they apply to the characteristics of an actual baby boomer. Boomer is attributed to Dr. K, jokingly partly due to his technological incompetence. I think i can speak for most people and say there is no ill intent in using it.
Lilly is one of those content creators I don't watch at all anymore, but I'll occasionally drop by her streams for a few minutes to see if she's changed at all since the last decade and I'm proud to see her always being her. I have to give mad respects to Lilly because I remember how, back when she hadn't even revealed her face yet, people were always going on about how "oh lilly's voice is so fake", "lilly's probably ugly irl", "lilly this lilly that". Yet... She's still managed to armor through a lot of shit through out all of these years. It's truly fascinating watching what people thought was this "feeble little girl" muscle through all of the psychological bullshit that's been thrown at her and keep pushing forward, I honestly can't think of many other content creators getting this much _undeserved_ hate and not quitting after a couple years. Key word "undeserved" because we all know everyone who's popular has haters, no shit, but I really don't think Lilly's done ANYTHING worthy of her getting all of the hate she's gathered through out all this time. It's sad, but it's good to see that she's strong enough to withstand all of this hatred. I'm definitely no simp, but I can respect Lilly as a fellow human being who knows how to take punches to the gut time and time again and keep getting up.
I hate to be the one to point this out, I really do, but just for future reference theres only one L in lily, also I 100000% agree with your statement and hope you have a good day :)
@@taku6541 But it can get very confusing when you have to maintain different personas for different people, and it raises the deep question of: Who am I? Do I deserve to exist?
i would NOT do this publicly, ever. BIG props to Lily, she has titan balls. Edit: Removing previous edit due to respect for Lily regarding the recent events.
I mean back in the day we always said Lily was a 10ft tall buff black dude with a huge dong(almost everyone skipped the last part, almost). Of course she has huge balls! But seriously, she is very brave
@@madhavraghu and for me its amazing that she did that because imagine your boyfriend cheated with your best friend, thats mental and even after that lily is still thinking about albert well being
when he started talking about "how people come back to the shitty restaurant because of the food" everything added up and i saw how every single one of his arguments had a meaning to it. I know this is his job but it's really cool to see and super hard to describe. Mad respect for you and lily
@@AquilaPainWhy I'm not 100% sure but I think @Quadril is referring to the way Dr K's observations are trying to make Lily realise how great she is, she is the "food" in a restaurant, even when she thinks that on the outside she is ugly, not deserving of her fame or her fans who always tune in to watch her. Dr K is saying that she has value in herself and her actual personality and what she does. He wants her to see that no matter what her outward presentation is (like the service at a restaurant), that the real reason people are there is for her and that what she does and who she is - what she does has value and helps people. For the first hour or so they have been discussing the ways that her sense of worth has suffered, related to her childhood [and her breakup which gave her attention on the internet also lead to her having more fans which she feels undeserving of, because in some way those people "showed up" due to her breakup; but actually 99% of her fans like her for her] Dr K is trying to make her see that "Lily 2" who is the part of her that is afraid of being a disappointment/doesn't feel she deserves her fame, that she should accept and reassure that part of herself and believe in her value - as she would reassure a fellow streamer in her shoes.
She's griefing for her relationship, the future she imagined of that relationship. She not only lost her boyfriend, but her best friend. The person she thought got her completely. The one she thought had her back. Being cheated on, when in a long term relationship after 2-3 years no cheating no problems is hard. Even worst if they are part of your friendship group. I went throught this quite young, when I was 18-20 years old. I was at university and seperated from my SO. So it was a lot easier to distract. But he was 100% part of her life. In her videos, future trips. Thats fucking horrible. I feel for Lily
If you look at her with Michael Reeves, you can tell shes super happy!! I admire Lily for being mature and leaving that past behind her. She’s looking forward.
margobyun Michael is super affectionate towards her and let’s her be around him as much as she wants. He embraces her hugs openly and she can pour her love onto him. Albert barely let her hug him and he would collaborate with girls while she was gone. All her friends knew Albert was no good.
people hate her because she has a easy life even though she doesn't do anything meaning to herself to the world or to society in short word is based on jealousy I don't hate her, but I won't watch her I find her friend worse than her that pokimane I think she has traits of a manipulative girl
@@AgainstThisWorld But that feeling that she doesn't "do anything" comes from somewhere. It's when people see the end result that I think inspires jealousy. Everyone who has a computer or the internet has it easy compared to 50% of the entire world's population. Yet people in 1st world countries suffer more from suicides and depression than in poor countries. There are a lot of depressed people streaming on twitch (as well as people who have committed suicides that live on social media). If you're not happy with your life, you won't be after you become a streamer either.
@Burak Ormanoglu Destiny is a rare example. He has been happy his whole life and he has never had any mental issues. Those people exist in all kinds of fields and they're not limited to only twitch. He appreciates what he has and I believe he would appreciate what he has regardless of streaming.
Every streamer getting in a public setting to discuss their problems with Dr. K is an absolute baller and has no idea how much they are helping us figure out and process our own problems. I can't imagine myself doing that, but for someone to have the balls to do it it's on a such a high level of courage that it deserves praise!!!! Gj Lily, LS, Reckful and all you other magnificent sons of bitches, thank you for doing your part.
@@nicholastho4339 Those guys kinda came to mind prima vista, but I've watched all of the talks and I was able to get something out of every interaction on this channel.
Very thankful for all of this. I’m a marriage and family therapist intern and watching him helps me so much to learn how to ask better questions and what kinds of things he notices
I also think it’s important for us to see our favorite streamers/influencers in a more vulnerable (idk if that’s the tight word) light because I think it really helps us relate to them more as a person and it bring them down to our level in an emotional sense.
When my boyfriend cheated on me I wanted the world to know and hate on him. Lily is just so kind to feel bad for someone that hurt her I admire her so much
incredibly kind, almost too kind. How can she blame herself for someone else cheating on her? Apparently Albert said the reason he cheated was because he wasn't happy. Like a cheater will ever say, because I'm greedy. Failure of a relationship can be blamed on two people; but the decision to cheat is ALL on the cheater.
When I got cheated on, I felt the same but I got hated for absolutely no reason at all. Some people don’t deserve so much hate but some who cheat for the sake of it deserve hatred.
Ok I understand nobody really cares but I need to say it. My ex boyfriend and I went to a dance and in that weekend he broke up with me over text. I never really found out but I'm pretty sure he was cheating on me with one of my friends and then was trying to dumb that friend and try to go for my best friend. That day was not fun because I was already dealing with so much crap. I'm so glad my best friend was there for me when it happened, I love her so much.
Alice_Wolf _Gacha Only douches don’t care. I care, I understand your problems. I got cheated on for my good friend and they got cheated on for my other friend.
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43 mins ago??
Ok
@Tom_Het 3 years and 43 minutes ago :D
Anyone who can talk about their feelings, especially in a very public space, is peak chad.
This. Lily is now chad
Chad Lilly
Chad Lilly
Chad Lilly
@@ezaf5989 Her voice is nice. Not sure if you forgot this (/s)
@@VonniXfiles and opera is good music?
@@ezaf5989 judging people on things they can't change isn't very chad
"he cheated on me"
"oh shit"
lmao tht was funny how he was fully professional the whole time but then dropped this
Philgob ikr
Timestamp?
@@duke9874 first 5 minutes
It's not so much about being professional per say, it's about being relatable to the patient speech wise so they can lower their guard and what not, also he's a very casual chill guy if you've watched his stream or his other vids like this! XD
@@duke9874 4:10
"You're trying to take care of yourself as if you're a normal person, but you're not a normal person. You're just too full of love." 😢😢 Damn dude you didnt have to make me cry in front of my salad
Salad cries with you
hahahha
@@drosnelochmir6346 the sauces just drip down the plate
Time stamp?
@@mellodiyas 1:34:15 or so
I'm glad she's happy with Michael now. I hope they stay happy and comfy
And marry each other!!!! And live happily ever afteeer
Yes.
at least if they break up i just want too ses a nice break the one taht dosent Make me hate one of them
tilenHD
*That shit scares me , thinking if one of them moves away for some odd reason*
Life is full of mysteries
is she with michael?
I'm a neuroscience major looking into becoming a psychiatrist and Dr. K just keeps reminding me of the good I can put into the world some day.
I know this is a little late but good for you man
Keep it up bruh
this is rly late but i'm rooting for you!!
As a fellow vietnamese, I will also do good for the world by fixing teeth :)
@@tailopezbutnolamborghini4862 I am 1/8 vietnamese, that counts too right?
Damn, what an amazing quote from Dr. K, “nothing inspires hate like seeing the person you could be”
a nigga
TRUUUUUUUUUU
1:33:00
She wants to be a cheater
It's not an amazing quote. It's just a jumbled version of saying jealousy inspires hate and strife. You shouldn't hate seeing the person you could be. You should learn from it not become hateful from it.
@@reduXstereo he didn't say be hateful, he says that inspires hate. 2 completely different things.
these comments about micheal saving the day is undermining the work she went through to be able to be with someone again. she is so strong and i admire her so much.
love this love this love this love this love this
She was able to change herself so much that she was able to get into a happy relationship. Having Micheal there just made things better, it’s like the reward for all her hard work❤️
i didn't even know who Lily was but after watching this entire thing and scrolling down to the comments and following her twitch and realizing she was in a relationship, im so happy for her. it must've taken a lot to be able to trust and love again, not to mention love PUBLICLY again. i wish her so much love
This is truth, I also came from Michael Reeves's stuff. But credit where credit is due, everything she had been going through was hard and she did make it through in one piece.
She is so smart and amazing. I could never do what she did and stay this strong and vulnerable at the same time. So Emotionally smart.
Lily being sad:
Michael: (Nightmare and goblin sounds intensifies)
REEEEEEEEE
Distant tazer sounds to protect his roomba. Reference when lily voice micheals roomba that curses.
"DON'T WORRY, I'LL TAZE YOU BACK INTO A HEALTHY MINDSET!"
~Michael, probably
@@saftschinken2353 CHUUUUU
@@CarlsCozyCorner that's...both horrifying and wholesome, I've never seen these two words mix till now
Holy crap. 3 minutes in, and the amount of intuition this man used to in the moment he asked Lilly to explain to the audience the topic was BRILLIANT to see.
1) Was looking to get a base line of how comfortable she.
2) Saw she was, not at ALL comfortable, and that pushing to hard here was a bad idea.
3) Took a step back to talk about a more positive topic; Sleep. (Which, if you've ever done any research on sleep would be really obvious that this was a really good topic in which you could segway into a PLETHORA of deeper topics)
4) Very, very good balance of asking for specific/tangible answers and making her dig a little deeper for them.
And this was in the first 3 minutes... SUPER sensitive with the person he's conversing with.
well, he's from Harvard. No wonder he is smart
@illogicalrelish born and raised
@@aurimasturkus289 In Harvard born and raised
In the lecture hall is where I spent most of my days
I'm a doctral clinical psychology student and I can tell you that this guy is the real deal. He has such an incredible way of building a therapeutic alliance with streamers. He makes it seem so effortless. I hope I can be half the clinician he is one day
@@psy__guy__9884 Hey man I hope that you can get there one day. The world needs more people like you and Dr.K to help us through our struggles. Thanks for your efforts! :)
Good on Lily on finally embracing the 6 foot black man she truly is.
this is a what moment
@Ngu MU for real man only the ogs remember
omg I haven't seen this one in a comment section of hers for sooo long. Anyone else remember the LilyRaichu channel? too bad all the content was removed from the channel. I remember when this joke was used on like every Lily and Nyanners videos I saw.
Ahhhh its good to see an old fan. True fans know that's just a a korean actress that he hired✊😔
@@camillegarcia8582 true we all know tyrone the bald buff 6ft blackman is the man behind the voice
Dr.K is literally a blessing on Twitch. I’m glad he came and did this with reckful and now seeing him helping and hearing out other streamers is amazing to see. Props to him
Roses are red,
Violets are blue,
When lily's tears drop,
Mine did too
kuro blacko does instead of did works better
its fucking sad bro
Simp
Simppppp
@@fluffyelino6707 real mature
I'm not even 5 minutes in and I'm already crying along with Lily. She goes through so much but still puts on a smile and entertains and literally works to make us smile.
God bless this woman honestly.
Also HE CALLED OUT FED SO HARD AND DIDNT EVEN KNOW IT
At like 11:00 she tries to compliment his hair and I'm so sad, she's so sweet and I just wish her all the happiness in the world
10:58 *
Broooo, when Dr.K was on the phone and said "Hello?" and Lily responded with "Hi" not knowing he wasn't talking to her, that was so fucking cuteeeeeeeeeeee dudeeee
honestly watching this back now and seeing how michael treats her it makes me happy that he puts so much effort in....ofc i'm on the outside looking in and i never knew albert well at all or any of these content creators but just seeing how much pain she was in here compared to now just makes me so happy to see her happy, she deserves the happiness she's getting and i know some pain might still be there, also despite what albert did i hope he's doing ok mentally to and can maybe appreciate things more in the future.
I hate the way she thinks but you can't blame her for it. You can't blame someone for their mindset. But its really frustrating to see someone think like that. She blames herself for HIM not telling her his feelings and HIM cheating, damn that makes me angry.
Simp
@@jameswest2875 beta
@@jameswest2875 Claps all around boys! He said THE word!
Theres a lot of people that think that way. The downside of critically thinking too much about yourself is you begin to think that everything is your fault and on your shoulders. Ive been lucky enough to never be cheated on but every relationship thats ended in my life i think what I could’ve done better. Always without out a doubt is has to be my fault because if its not then i cant do anything to improve. I know how unhealthy it is and i can see that in people like lily but its been a struggle to come to terms with how i feel. I really felt lilys words about not feeling good enough and feeling lucky in life.
simp
I've wanted to be a psychiatrist for about 6 years now and recently I've recently been doubting myself a little. Dr. K, You've inspired me again to be a good human being just like you. Thanks for being such an inspiration.
really seriously dont doubt yourself. i never saw myself as an intelligent person, yet here i am doing my second degree in health care. give yourself time and trust yourself, good luck !
@@Alesanascreamokid that's amazing! thanks so much
Are you sure you want to be a doctor?
@@jamesbrook81 I'm pretty sure I do. Why do you ask?
@@smashenchilada1101 because the road to be a doctor is really reaally hard.. I just hope that you have research well and be prepared to be a medical student. I've seen many of my friends regret to be in this path... I don'twant you to feel that way one day.. try to interact with other doctor or medical student that you know or find online communities that share the same thought as you.
this is very off topic and all but i think it’d be very interesting to see Sykkuno on one of these.
It’s still on topic, no need to put a disclaimer. I also agree that Sykkuno would be interesting.
Sykkuno has mentioned going on it very recently, but he said there are things he isn't ready to talk about yet.
@@srk3studios138 ah yeah i wasn’t aware when i wrote the comment. thanks for letting me know :)
@@zuzaosowiecka i feel like he would dodge a lot of the questions
@Bot Robot I- that sounds really similar to what I do tbh... both Lily and Sykkuno try to understand the hater, knowing that the hater might be going through something and hating to somehow cope with that or is a result of it
Both of them are so kind and patient, and I really admire that
The "why do intelligent people tend to get addicted to video games" part was very interesting. It makes sense, but I never really thought of it that way. (2:19:58)
Mavodeli it might have made sense.
nowadays gaming is so common, that it does not reflect what it might once have done.
considering that about 80% (pulling numbers out of my ass here, cba to look up the exact percent) of todays generation play some form of videogames, but the IQ, statistically speaking is definitely not increasing.
Well for some people it's just a way to cope with the stress of expectations.
Thank you for putting a time stamp
wtf that hit hard
468er/ PeaShooter this feels kind of self masturbatory
How could anyone hurt this beautiful human being? She’s such a strong woman..
I love this dude. He’s a genius and he found a way to actually help gamers instead of demonizing them...wish him the best.
God, when she started crying I broke, I feel so sorry for her T-T I hope she’s doing a lot better nowadays 😭
I first came across Lily from her League Of Legends UA-cam Promo Ad.
From there, I subscribed to her UA-cam channel.
From there, I discovered Offline TV, and the entire world of streaming.
She has since become my favorite streamer.
I love her Art, Music, but most of all, her Personality.
She is truly beautiful both inside and out!
As someone who registers as an INFP, (she registers as an INFP on the Myers Briggs personality scale) and as someone who has grown up in very similar environment, I can relate a lot to her personally.
Keep on being YOU Lily!
I don't care if you are depressed sometimes, because what I like most is YOU! (besides, I can relate to feeling paralyzed, being in bed all day, not taking care of myself, and just overall, sinking into a dark, deep, and depressing black whole. I can relate to feeling like I need to live up to certain expectations, that I need to play a game of catchup, that I'm never going to be good enough)
When I say YOU, I am including everything else that goes along with it!
@@JiYeonKimFan Did you even watch the video?
She mentions that she is afraid of coming across as too depressing.
I'm trying to show that many people like her for her.
I'm trying to show her that she is allowed to just be herself, regardless of being depressed.
Love him or hate him
He’s spitting straight facts
That's Harvard for ya
He speaks what he thinks might be potential truths, it all depends on the person he talks to
Damn this guy is really good on catching stuff and details on the fly and dissecting,organizing and connecting them
When she started talking about her high school depression, I swear, that was the most relatable thing i was ever told my whole life.
Heart goes out to Lily. She's finding out through a bad breakup that she has a self-critical mechanism. I am literally the exact same thing but instead of finding out through a bad breakup, I'm finding out through studying abroad when I'm away from family. Getting better day by day, hope it's the same for you too Lily
Boomer1 helping Boomer2
Lily is really full of love
I remember being there as a fan when she got doxed years and years ago. I remember talking to her and how it affected her. To this day I don't understand why people would do that.
Jealousy
people find happiness in the pain of others. that’s the cruel reality.
@@Neptunite No, no one is like that. It is anger. Anger due to jealousy. They talked about it in the video.
Rayeloy Piano Yes people are like that. Do you not laugh when someone falls even when you’re not supposed to? That’s a low level representation but i’m sure you get what I mean. Don’t try to generalise people by saying nobody is like that. There’s 8 billion of us and the odds are higher than you think.
Dr. K explained it pretty wel
1:07:29 "You can't keep up an act that long" just reminds me of those delusional haters who've somehow convinced themselves that Lily's voice is an act that she's somehow managed to keep up for so long
I wish he was my therapist, mine kind of feels like talking to an AI
Mine keeps coming up with these theories that just don't relate to what I've spoken about, and then is adamant she's got the correct version. Urgh!
@@lollylula6399 after a while of getting used to mine, she's actually managed to help me quite a lot! We talk every week. I would suggest hanging in there, you might just find a gem in the rough!
hey i dont know where you are now, but i hope you have a better relationship with your therapist now
I can't even afford a therapist, the cheapest one's start from 500 liras in my country and minimum wage is 2k, rent is 1k, rest of 1k is also spent on bills and food to survive. We have no sanity left in us here, just surviving. Don't take your AI therapist for granted, at least you have some sort of help.
I just want to hug her and make her understand how much we all appreciate and how much she deserve what she have.
Dont worry Michael will do that for all of us
Wow. Just wow. I watched Michael's interview first, then came here. I'm a super introspective person, and I enjoy watching the content these people put out. I feel like I learned so much through the two conversations. The Michael conversation hit so many psychological resonance points for me and this conversation with Lily really nailed some emotional resonance points for me.
God, I love Lily. Shes so much stronger than she knows. I really hope the best for her, and that she finally finds that true love she really wants.
I was listening to this at work, and when he said “when you were 15, you probably felt so alone.” I broke. I resonated so much.
1:25:45 "I feel like I'm breaking him, is he okay?" 💀💀💀
I feel like this young lady every day. I have been told that I have no value by my parents for so long, I don't know how else to feel. Every time someone tells me something good, I don't know how to take it.
damn, this is actually heartbreaking. Lily is such a good person, I started watching her videos a few months ago, and watching her videos always made me feel so happy, best of wishes lily!
Thank you so much for this video, I related to this because of Lily and her situation but also because I relate to so much of this to my own world and my own life. So much I need to address and change this was a therapy session myself and I'm grateful. Please keep doing this, the reason I love these people is because I relate to them and I can relate so much of these to myself.
I've never seen lilypichu on her own stream but she seems pretty real, to me
she just cries every other word I don't even know wtf is going on
@@fruit5984 she has already stated in many videos that she had depression while at school, she even said she didn't know she would make it this far.
I adore these! This is so fascinating!
@@SportLairVids Watched the entire thing. Not an empath, sorry. I watch these for the psychology, introspection, and honesty. Not to cry with someone.
@@SportLairVids It's pretty obvious why people adore Dr K's videos. Stop being presumptive and sensitive.
@@SportLairVids anyone who read her comment understood she wasn't saying she adored Lily's pain jesus cmon.
@@SportLairVids That's not how it works lol. What is this phsycology thing you're trying?
@@SportLairVids I think this is just a misunderstanding.................what Tara Babcock meant to say is(my thinking) that she enjoys how Dr.K explains and helps lily..............not that she enjoys watching other people suffer or something..........no assumptions tho
This was such an amazing video, I have my degree in counseling and therapy and man the way you implemented so many techniques that I took years to learn so effortlessly was amazing. I'm looking forward to continuing to see your work. Lily has been one of my favorites for years and i'm glad you were able to help her comb through a lot of the things she's never gotten a chance to deal with under the supervision of a professional. Keep up the good work!
What are some of these techniques he implemented? (I have no experience/training in therapy whatsoever, just curious...)
What are some of the techniques he implemented? (I have no experience/training in therapy whatsoever, just curious...)
it breaks my heart how lily is still caring after being broken. she's so kind i'm hurting.
I loved this talk so much! Lily is so sweet I hope she can find some peace of mind. She has a lot of supportive friends so I think she’ll be okay
Finally she found someone to talk about their feelings
2:08:07 The meditation of recalling your day backwards was very soothing and helped, like getting to all the different stress causes.
I’m so happy Michael came into her life she has become so much better mentally and physically I can tell that she and Michael are genuinely happy to be together I really hope they stay together.
I am always shocked by how much care Michael carries withing him, especially given how he chooses to be on camera a lot of the time! XD
That part where he talked about hate, and most disturbing hate coming from deep depression, so deep that it can disable you in life, resonated deeply. I have read a lot into hate and abuse from others in life , how it can be possible to be so manifest into such distasteful and inhumane acts and words... that segment tore off a piece of doubt in my core of being. I genuinely felt the issue resolve itself within watching this video and understanding more deeply into this issue. It still hurts to know, but at least now I have some sort of INCH of clarity in my mind. I got goosebumps all through listening to that. Over, and over again. (Starting 1:29:00, roughly this time, and 1:32:59) "The birthplace of anger is hurt"
this guys hair is absolutely flawless wtf
She is so pretty it's actually ridiculous. Glad she had the courage to speak up about these things
"i work with a lot of people that are sociopathic, I work with a lot of executives" - dr. K.
Nice
I don’t know Lily so I wouldn’t know specifics, but in little snippets of videos I see. I always see her in videos & people just make fun of her. I can see how she can get different modes of sadness & negative thoughts, even though they are just jokes from friends. One or two of the friends I know have felt silenced because they feel weaker & it all comes down to self deprecating thoughts and social interactions that they overtime misinterpret :// I understand it is also things such as breakups & family matters that impact thoughts too.
Also I love how Lilly used a percentage to tell him how much she felt. Maybe she got it from judging so many drawings but I just like that.
Damn when he started going into why lily felt she wasn’t good enough I realized that mine started a lot earlier than I originally thought. I originally thought my depression started in middle school but really my self deprecating thoughts started in elementary 😄
First video I'm watching of his and I'm already loving his "I'm gonna need a minute..." before he asks a SOUL PIERCING question or makes a major revelation and I love it
Streamers are in a very vulnerable position dealing with their own mental troubles along with chat's mental troubles as well.
My heart hurts...
Lily you're just a normal person with normal fears an insecurities, you're gonna get the hang of it, its alright.
I used to have this very flawed view on breakups as something insignificant that only happened to people who simply chose the "wrong" person to trust or people who didn't have a "strong enough" relationship.
As I've grown older, I can see how devastating it can be to have the same mindset as Lily and be cheated on. You begin to question what you did wrong and why you're not good enough despite knowing very well you would do anything to maintain that relationship. They broke your trust but you still love them and don't understand where it all went wrong. You feel hopeless because you had just lost the person you thought would be there with you for the rest of your life.
It's truly devastating.
As someone disabled from depression and other things, those comments kinda hurt. I understand he was talking about the specific haters, but really it was worded in a way that paints all of us the same.
Lily is the most precious, I just want to give her a big ol hug and tell her she's amazing as she is :)
Surprisingly this conversation helped me understand my emotions more than any other I've watched on here, I feel really deeply just like her, have rumination from failed relationships, etc. Thank you both for making this.
I feel like I've solved problems I don't even have by watching this.
Same😂
why the hell best therapist I found is on UA-cam.
Lily is so precious. If I could just protect her with all I've got. I'll do it without hesitation.
Hey Dr. K. I'd recommend you to talk to Daniel Lord from his channel 'Hiding In My Room'. He has a plethora of videos that that are morally questionable & he's just off.
Holy shit that would be a fantastic stream
I second this
Dude, this would actually be really interesting
i kinda feel that thank to Dr K. , Lily took a chance with Mykull
anyone else notice how the lily 1 and 2 analogy was basically the plot of celeste?
she got cheated on and cries because her ex gets more hate then he deserves. She even tweeted to good wishes to him after the break up. I first found her when she and micheal had their moments together which gave me back faith in love. Shortly after I started watching both of them not even remotely noticing that she got cheatet only a few month before.
I don't even know what to say about this other than there should be more Lilys in this world. Maybe that's how she deserves her viewers. And I'm glad for her that she is not 'That one girl that got famous because of the breakup'. I didn't even know about the drama for a long time of watching her eventhough it happend just so short before I found her.
You have faith in love cause two people who you have never met fell in love. Lmao. What a pathetic life you have.
Man, this guy is actually a really good doctor. Where do i find a mental health pro like him?
At least she has Michael now...
She needs a hug, omfg, she's literally Winnie the Pooh and even though I don't know her on a personal level, she deserves the best
damn, i am also an emotional sponge- nice to hear the justification for me needing cry walks, music binges to purge my emotions, like SO much more often than my friends need
Hashinshin could use some of this AoE healing
hash is solid.
Won't fix top lane
@@combatq8888 Atleast he will feel better playing top
@@opgroundzero2.0 Agreed :)
Yes we need the super top
All I can say is RESPECT.
For being so strong to share something like this on YT.
I dont know if I could be that strong to do the same.
Get tyler1 on here and ask why hes so alpha
Nothing inspires hate more then seeing the person you could be. Hit hard
Why is it so hard to find any constructive therapy in America, why is a twitch vod posted on UA-cam out of all places the best therapy I can find.
True but at least I can talk to my therapist
Well you see, some of the best and most constructive therapy, isn’t streamed for patient confidentiality. It takes balls to LIVESTREAM or make videos on therapy. Looking to other people’s therapy isn’t a good way to resolve or use it as catharsis for your own therapy.
Unfortunately therapy takes going to a lot of different people until you meet one that works for you specifically. And in the US not all people are able to get therapy because of health insurance issues.
Remember, it's not therapy though.
*wink wink*
STOP.
Seeing Lily break down talking about the breakup is so heartbreaking. She's been so strong for the community these past couple months. What an amazing person
To think that she's been holding on to that emotion for months.
Time stamp?
@@matthewp4320 4:40
@@matthewp4320 when you skim vids and dont see the first 5 mins
Shes been so strong for HERSELF nerd
I love this therapist. He makes sure that lily feels comfortable and doesn’t just jump in to like sensitive subjects. He sort of eases in to the topic and shows body language that he’s not judging her at all. I completely respect therapist and I commend them for the great job that they are doing.
And that’s on being a Harvard graduate
therapists are epic. just because how in depth and high level their job can be. learning how to make someone comfortable for instance can be one of the hardest things to do. its always very impressive to see how they do their job
@@Bauernade it pretty much is a cookie cutter therapy session tbh
I wish I had him as a therapist
We all need people like him in our life ^^ must be great being part of his familly.
I love how Anok is just coming in and psychologically cleaning up the gaming community, streamer after streamer.
@Anzu Wyliei hence why he says in the beginning of every session with a streaming "I cant fix you over the internet" And why hes doing like serveral weeks of months with reckful now to actually make progress.
@Anzu Wyliei Ok thanks for interpreting a jest as a thorough analysis
@Anzu Wyliei Yes. Thats what I said. I made a joke and you treated it like a serious statement. But it isnt a serious statement.
@Anzu Wyliei I think what you said can be clearly concluded by watching the video and as such a one sentence youtube comment not entirely mirroring the content of the video (in the sense you understood it) but still refering to the video as though having watched it most likely is a joke. Either way, if its just a misunderstanding theres no point in feuding over that, I apologise for being passive aggressive.
@@newguidetoearth3030 yeah I took u seriously too, until I saw ur comment
when she said “i thought i’d marry him” i broke
and that he wasn't happy :"((
i know, how evil can albert the cheater be to leave this perfect flower
when does she say that? I watched the entire thing and I feel like I missed it lol
serpentphoenix idk i think it’s around 15-30 minutes in
A lot of women seem to think that
And now Michael Reeves comes with the big boi emotional support so he upgraded to boyfriend material.
pivos111 yes.
And then upgraded again to best boyfriend
The best boi❤️
Michael has been working it up the ranks since the start, in a fedmyster vlog around 10 months ago he let lily win an arm wrestle, but later crushed Albert within seconds. He predicted the future and was protecting his queen gracefully, before she even knew she was in danger. To the simp king, I bow.
@@cereall9457 which vlog was it? I'm curious
Damn I saw it on stream and even though the doctor tries to stay neutral and didn't know her before you can tell he is touched by Lily's genuine kindness and really wants to help her.
supermonkeyyyyyy yeah you can tell he really wanted to help her because he was saying at the beginning of the stream “At the end of the hour” but then the whole thing ended up going on for like 2 hours and 30 mins.
Yeah you can cleary feel that when he trashtalks the haters and says he's being protective of her. I think that's genuinely really cute and great to see on Twitch.
i mean thats the best thing he can do to promote himself
@@leonbishop7404 are you hurt ?
@@fliown5413 what? This is true and there is nothing wrong with it
Lily's streams are comforting and funny. She honestly has the only stream that can kick all my stress out the door and make me feel so warm inside. I honestly just wish for her to be happy.
Lily*
same =)
You could say her stream makes you *comfy*???? Hmmmm???? I'm gonna stop, sorry...
Stay comfy
God bless Dr K, the boomer savior of twitch
a boomer is someone who were born right after ww2 . so in around 45-50 so no hes not a boomer
@@AXharoth wooosh
@@AXharoth That is where the term originated from. Boomer is a term that can be attributed to any person of any age depending on whether they apply to the characteristics of an actual baby boomer. Boomer is attributed to Dr. K, jokingly partly due to his technological incompetence. I think i can speak for most people and say there is no ill intent in using it.
@@AXharoth k now go back to league and never come back
Just Dr Boomer
Lilly is one of those content creators I don't watch at all anymore, but I'll occasionally drop by her streams for a few minutes to see if she's changed at all since the last decade and I'm proud to see her always being her. I have to give mad respects to Lilly because I remember how, back when she hadn't even revealed her face yet, people were always going on about how "oh lilly's voice is so fake", "lilly's probably ugly irl", "lilly this lilly that". Yet... She's still managed to armor through a lot of shit through out all of these years.
It's truly fascinating watching what people thought was this "feeble little girl" muscle through all of the psychological bullshit that's been thrown at her and keep pushing forward, I honestly can't think of many other content creators getting this much _undeserved_ hate and not quitting after a couple years. Key word "undeserved" because we all know everyone who's popular has haters, no shit, but I really don't think Lilly's done ANYTHING worthy of her getting all of the hate she's gathered through out all this time. It's sad, but it's good to see that she's strong enough to withstand all of this hatred.
I'm definitely no simp, but I can respect Lilly as a fellow human being who knows how to take punches to the gut time and time again and keep getting up.
I wish that I could thumbs up your comment twice!
Gay
Bruh Yote well spoken
I hate to be the one to point this out, I really do, but just for future reference theres only one L in lily, also I 100000% agree with your statement and hope you have a good day :)
@@swergelflerberson4453 If you have nothing valuable to add to a conversation, remain silent please :)
I wish Etika had gone through something like this. It would have helped him come to terms with his different personas.
He had "different personas" ?
never really watched him, but yeah I agree. it’s pretty sad
Milo Sniffer I’m pretty sure everyone does u don’t act the same way with ur friends as u do with ur mom right?
@@taku6541 But it can get very confusing when you have to maintain different personas for different people, and it raises the deep question of: Who am I? Do I deserve to exist?
no one knows or could know if he had different personas other than him or someone who personally talked to him.
i would NOT do this publicly, ever. BIG props to Lily, she has titan balls.
Edit: Removing previous edit due to respect for Lily regarding the recent events.
She's part of the boys after all
@@yayayuki8542 TRUUUE
Why not? Because of peoples opinions?
I mean back in the day we always said Lily was a 10ft tall buff black dude with a huge dong(almost everyone skipped the last part, almost). Of course she has huge balls!
But seriously, she is very brave
Wait a minute
31:15 lily is saying that albert shouldn't get so much hate even thought she is hurting SOO MUCH, god you deserve the whole heaven
bro what is so hard to understand that albert shouldnt get so much hate after losing friends and fans
@@cobi421 he got hate AND losses friend because of what he did, not got hate and losses friend because of the hate
@@kuroryu1638 Yeah, and she's saying that he shouldn't have gotten that much hate for what he did
@@madhavraghu and for me its amazing that she did that because imagine your boyfriend cheated with your best friend, thats mental and even after that lily is still thinking about albert well being
@@kuroryu1638 yeah that's true
having these on Spotify as a "podcast" would be so great
or sound cloud
Blackorwhite or pornhub... no? Just me? Okay...
piano tiles?
Apples with pears or Pandora.
Amazon basics?
the moment she mentions her ex boyfriend he immediately switch his attention to something, what a madlad Lol
@@WellBeSerious12 that shits bullshit way too broad
@@Psydo
Of course people would start getting aversive, defensive, or threatening with something they'd not understand.
I just did the test and it says my personality is architect.
@@furkan10ky i got logician, INTP-T
@@WellBeSerious12 the whole personality type thing sounds like zodiac signs LOL
when he started talking about "how people come back to the shitty restaurant because of the food" everything added up and i saw how every single one of his arguments had a meaning to it. I know this is his job but it's really cool to see and super hard to describe. Mad respect for you and lily
can you elaborate on what this means please?
@@AquilaPainWhy I'm not 100% sure but I think @Quadril is referring to the way Dr K's observations are trying to make Lily realise how great she is, she is the "food" in a restaurant, even when she thinks that on the outside she is ugly, not deserving of her fame or her fans who always tune in to watch her.
Dr K is saying that she has value in herself and her actual personality and what she does. He wants her to see that no matter what her outward presentation is (like the service at a restaurant), that the real reason people are there is for her and that what she does and who she is - what she does has value and helps people.
For the first hour or so they have been discussing the ways that her sense of worth has suffered, related to her childhood [and her breakup which gave her attention on the internet also lead to her having more fans which she feels undeserving of, because in some way those people "showed up" due to her breakup; but actually 99% of her fans like her for her]
Dr K is trying to make her see that "Lily 2" who is the part of her that is afraid of being a disappointment/doesn't feel she deserves her fame, that she should accept and reassure that part of herself and believe in her value - as she would reassure a fellow streamer in her shoes.
"a lot of people watchign twitch feels disappointment in themselves"
hit the nail on the head lol
4Head
agree
@@krippaxxuseredarlordofthes9940 Exhibit A.
Well, that applies to a lot of people... And "people watching twitch" are a lot of people. So obv
Technically that's true of anything
She's griefing for her relationship, the future she imagined of that relationship. She not only lost her boyfriend, but her best friend. The person she thought got her completely. The one she thought had her back.
Being cheated on, when in a long term relationship after 2-3 years no cheating no problems is hard. Even worst if they are part of your friendship group.
I went throught this quite young, when I was 18-20 years old. I was at university and seperated from my SO. So it was a lot easier to distract.
But he was 100% part of her life. In her videos, future trips.
Thats fucking horrible.
I feel for Lily
YoshiKatherine and the facts she already in a new relationship. Apparently she’s dating Micheal reeves now
If you look at her with Michael Reeves, you can tell shes super happy!! I admire Lily for being mature and leaving that past behind her. She’s looking forward.
Exactly. Man, but for us fans, it really is sad to see. I saw lily and albert irl in may 2019 when they came to seattle and she looked so happy. Smh
margobyun Michael is super affectionate towards her and let’s her be around him as much as she wants. He embraces her hugs openly and she can pour her love onto him. Albert barely let her hug him and he would collaborate with girls while she was gone. All her friends knew Albert was no good.
@@ushjaba1067 To be fair If I was Lily I'd tap Micheal.
"Nothing inspires hate as much as seeing the person that you could be." Such a powerful statement. Love these one liners from Dr. K
people hate her because she has a easy life even though she doesn't do anything meaning to herself to the world or to society in short word is based on jealousy I don't hate her, but I won't watch her I find her friend worse than her that pokimane I think she has traits of a manipulative girl
@@AgainstThisWorld But that feeling that she doesn't "do anything" comes from somewhere. It's when people see the end result that I think inspires jealousy. Everyone who has a computer or the internet has it easy compared to 50% of the entire world's population. Yet people in 1st world countries suffer more from suicides and depression than in poor countries. There are a lot of depressed people streaming on twitch (as well as people who have committed suicides that live on social media). If you're not happy with your life, you won't be after you become a streamer either.
@Burak Ormanoglu Destiny is a rare example. He has been happy his whole life and he has never had any mental issues. Those people exist in all kinds of fields and they're not limited to only twitch. He appreciates what he has and I believe he would appreciate what he has regardless of streaming.
Equal true
Equal you right try’s jkap a twam
meanwhile michael tazed his way into lily's heart
Best comment
might have actually tazed her heart as well
Aww, that's so cute.
What a wholesome relationship
*Through Lies and Deceit*
Every streamer getting in a public setting to discuss their problems with Dr. K is an absolute baller and has no idea how much they are helping us figure out and process our own problems. I can't imagine myself doing that, but for someone to have the balls to do it it's on a such a high level of courage that it deserves praise!!!! Gj Lily, LS, Reckful and all you other magnificent sons of bitches, thank you for doing your part.
@@nicholastho4339 Those guys kinda came to mind prima vista, but I've watched all of the talks and I was able to get something out of every interaction on this channel.
Very thankful for all of this. I’m a marriage and family therapist intern and watching him helps me so much to learn how to ask better questions and what kinds of things he notices
want to like this so bad but its at 666, ugh, Satan why?
I also think it’s important for us to see our favorite streamers/influencers in a more vulnerable (idk if that’s the tight word) light because I think it really helps us relate to them more as a person and it bring them down to our level in an emotional sense.
When my boyfriend cheated on me I wanted the world to know and hate on him. Lily is just so kind to feel bad for someone that hurt her I admire her so much
Everyone copes differently in the face of emotional trauma
incredibly kind, almost too kind. How can she blame herself for someone else cheating on her? Apparently Albert said the reason he cheated was because he wasn't happy. Like a cheater will ever say, because I'm greedy. Failure of a relationship can be blamed on two people; but the decision to cheat is ALL on the cheater.
When I got cheated on, I felt the same but I got hated for absolutely no reason at all.
Some people don’t deserve so much hate but some who cheat for the sake of it deserve hatred.
Ok I understand nobody really cares but I need to say it. My ex boyfriend and I went to a dance and in that weekend he broke up with me over text. I never really found out but I'm pretty sure he was cheating on me with one of my friends and then was trying to dumb that friend and try to go for my best friend. That day was not fun because I was already dealing with so much crap. I'm so glad my best friend was there for me when it happened, I love her so much.
Alice_Wolf _Gacha
Only douches don’t care. I care, I understand your problems. I got cheated on for my good friend and they got cheated on for my other friend.
this turned to a therapy session for me and he isnt even talking to me
Ikr
AoE healing
trueeee
@@rockym.g.3827 I'm reading comments while listening and this comment bursted me out of laughter.
Im literally pausing every 10 minutes just bursting into tears.