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  • @HealthyGamerGG
    @HealthyGamerGG  3 роки тому +565

    Hey folks - Dr. K’s Healthy Gamer Coaching is a cutting-edge program tailored for the unique mental health needs of the internet generation. It can help with issues like lack of motivation, excessive procrastination, missing life purpose, repairing/building relationships, and more! All Healthy Gamer Coaches are trained personally by Dr. K!
    You can learn more here: bit.ly/35Xcpxx

  • @lovefirst6194
    @lovefirst6194 3 роки тому +4587

    these comments about micheal saving the day is undermining the work she went through to be able to be with someone again. she is so strong and i admire her so much.

    • @victoriatorres406
      @victoriatorres406 3 роки тому +44

      love this love this love this love this love this

    • @cayfire129
      @cayfire129 3 роки тому +152

      She was able to change herself so much that she was able to get into a happy relationship. Having Micheal there just made things better, it’s like the reward for all her hard work❤️

    • @amberisrad
      @amberisrad 3 роки тому +59

      i didn't even know who Lily was but after watching this entire thing and scrolling down to the comments and following her twitch and realizing she was in a relationship, im so happy for her. it must've taken a lot to be able to trust and love again, not to mention love PUBLICLY again. i wish her so much love

    • @rockraise1014
      @rockraise1014 3 роки тому +35

      This is truth, I also came from Michael Reeves's stuff. But credit where credit is due, everything she had been going through was hard and she did make it through in one piece.

    • @Nothing.nobody.
      @Nothing.nobody. 3 роки тому +11

      She is so smart and amazing. I could never do what she did and stay this strong and vulnerable at the same time. So Emotionally smart.

  • @GuyCN
    @GuyCN 5 років тому +13856

    Anyone who can talk about their feelings, especially in a very public space, is peak chad.

    • @VonniXfiles
      @VonniXfiles 5 років тому +581

      This. Lily is now chad

    • @GuyCN
      @GuyCN 5 років тому +432

      Chad Lilly
      Chad Lilly
      Chad Lilly

    • @VonniXfiles
      @VonniXfiles 5 років тому +71

      @@ezaf5989 Her voice is nice. Not sure if you forgot this (/s)

    • @igorrotar5341
      @igorrotar5341 5 років тому +7

      @@VonniXfiles and opera is good music?

    • @altf8
      @altf8 5 років тому +199

      @@ezaf5989 judging people on things they can't change isn't very chad

  • @newguidetoearth3030
    @newguidetoearth3030 5 років тому +2793

    I love how Anok is just coming in and psychologically cleaning up the gaming community, streamer after streamer.

    • @afscrew123
      @afscrew123 4 роки тому +189

      @Anzu Wyliei hence why he says in the beginning of every session with a streaming "I cant fix you over the internet" And why hes doing like serveral weeks of months with reckful now to actually make progress.

    • @newguidetoearth3030
      @newguidetoearth3030 4 роки тому +18

      ​@Anzu Wyliei Ok thanks for interpreting a jest as a thorough analysis

    • @newguidetoearth3030
      @newguidetoearth3030 4 роки тому +19

      @Anzu Wyliei Yes. Thats what I said. I made a joke and you treated it like a serious statement. But it isnt a serious statement.

    • @newguidetoearth3030
      @newguidetoearth3030 4 роки тому +8

      @Anzu Wyliei I think what you said can be clearly concluded by watching the video and as such a one sentence youtube comment not entirely mirroring the content of the video (in the sense you understood it) but still refering to the video as though having watched it most likely is a joke. Either way, if its just a misunderstanding theres no point in feuding over that, I apologise for being passive aggressive.

    • @theanonymoustalk
      @theanonymoustalk 4 роки тому +3

      @@newguidetoearth3030 yeah I took u seriously too, until I saw ur comment

  • @Philgob
    @Philgob 4 роки тому +6353

    "he cheated on me"
    "oh shit"
    lmao tht was funny how he was fully professional the whole time but then dropped this

    • @TofuAnimations
      @TofuAnimations 4 роки тому +7

      Philgob ikr

    • @duke9874
      @duke9874 4 роки тому +9

      Timestamp?

    • @duncanbeasley9280
      @duncanbeasley9280 4 роки тому +28

      @@duke9874 first 5 minutes

    • @Listlesseye
      @Listlesseye 4 роки тому +475

      It's not so much about being professional per say, it's about being relatable to the patient speech wise so they can lower their guard and what not, also he's a very casual chill guy if you've watched his stream or his other vids like this! XD

    • @lazyboi4937
      @lazyboi4937 4 роки тому +107

      @@duke9874 4:10

  • @_silverword
    @_silverword 5 років тому +4680

    Seeing Lily break down talking about the breakup is so heartbreaking. She's been so strong for the community these past couple months. What an amazing person

    • @ChiriConCarne
      @ChiriConCarne 5 років тому +133

      To think that she's been holding on to that emotion for months.

    • @matthewp4320
      @matthewp4320 5 років тому +11

      Time stamp?

    • @monsus7129
      @monsus7129 4 роки тому +10

      @@matthewp4320 4:40

    • @Ian6279
      @Ian6279 4 роки тому +69

      @@matthewp4320 when you skim vids and dont see the first 5 mins

    • @jetswept7427
      @jetswept7427 4 роки тому +13

      Shes been so strong for HERSELF nerd

  • @tankfire20
    @tankfire20 4 роки тому +5400

    Why is it so hard to find any constructive therapy in America, why is a twitch vod posted on UA-cam out of all places the best therapy I can find.

    • @eminemilly
      @eminemilly 4 роки тому +37

      True but at least I can talk to my therapist

    • @kingcurry5139
      @kingcurry5139 4 роки тому +316

      Well you see, some of the best and most constructive therapy, isn’t streamed for patient confidentiality. It takes balls to LIVESTREAM or make videos on therapy. Looking to other people’s therapy isn’t a good way to resolve or use it as catharsis for your own therapy.

    • @Billy-rz1jg
      @Billy-rz1jg 4 роки тому +128

      Unfortunately therapy takes going to a lot of different people until you meet one that works for you specifically. And in the US not all people are able to get therapy because of health insurance issues.

    • @mihirx27
      @mihirx27 4 роки тому +32

      Remember, it's not therapy though.
      *wink wink*

    • @mychaeljones7526
      @mychaeljones7526 4 роки тому +1

      STOP.

  • @kuroryu1638
    @kuroryu1638 4 роки тому +3048

    31:15 lily is saying that albert shouldn't get so much hate even thought she is hurting SOO MUCH, god you deserve the whole heaven

    • @cobi421
      @cobi421 4 роки тому +60

      bro what is so hard to understand that albert shouldnt get so much hate after losing friends and fans

    • @kuroryu1638
      @kuroryu1638 4 роки тому +242

      @@cobi421 he got hate AND losses friend because of what he did, not got hate and losses friend because of the hate

    • @madhavraghu
      @madhavraghu 4 роки тому +29

      @@kuroryu1638 Yeah, and she's saying that he shouldn't have gotten that much hate for what he did

    • @kuroryu1638
      @kuroryu1638 4 роки тому +138

      @@madhavraghu and for me its amazing that she did that because imagine your boyfriend cheated with your best friend, thats mental and even after that lily is still thinking about albert well being

    • @madhavraghu
      @madhavraghu 4 роки тому +5

      @@kuroryu1638 yeah that's true

  • @atomicsoupy69
    @atomicsoupy69 4 роки тому +2435

    I love this therapist. He makes sure that lily feels comfortable and doesn’t just jump in to like sensitive subjects. He sort of eases in to the topic and shows body language that he’s not judging her at all. I completely respect therapist and I commend them for the great job that they are doing.

    • @kessekg
      @kessekg 4 роки тому +57

      And that’s on being a Harvard graduate

    • @Tyler-bp4md
      @Tyler-bp4md 3 роки тому +38

      therapists are epic. just because how in depth and high level their job can be. learning how to make someone comfortable for instance can be one of the hardest things to do. its always very impressive to see how they do their job

    • @BlanBlan19901990
      @BlanBlan19901990 3 роки тому +17

      @@Bauernade it pretty much is a cookie cutter therapy session tbh

    • @roman_scan
      @roman_scan 3 роки тому +5

      I wish I had him as a therapist

    • @theotakusadventure5845
      @theotakusadventure5845 3 роки тому

      We all need people like him in our life ^^ must be great being part of his familly.

  • @Kwebicloz
    @Kwebicloz 5 років тому +1772

    "Nothing inspires hate as much as seeing the person that you could be." Such a powerful statement. Love these one liners from Dr. K

    • @AgainstThisWorld
      @AgainstThisWorld 4 роки тому +21

      people hate her because she has a easy life even though she doesn't do anything meaning to herself to the world or to society in short word is based on jealousy I don't hate her, but I won't watch her I find her friend worse than her that pokimane I think she has traits of a manipulative girl

    • @ELeonko
      @ELeonko 4 роки тому +55

      @@AgainstThisWorld But that feeling that she doesn't "do anything" comes from somewhere. It's when people see the end result that I think inspires jealousy. Everyone who has a computer or the internet has it easy compared to 50% of the entire world's population. Yet people in 1st world countries suffer more from suicides and depression than in poor countries. There are a lot of depressed people streaming on twitch (as well as people who have committed suicides that live on social media). If you're not happy with your life, you won't be after you become a streamer either.

    • @ELeonko
      @ELeonko 4 роки тому +27

      @Burak Ormanoglu Destiny is a rare example. He has been happy his whole life and he has never had any mental issues. Those people exist in all kinds of fields and they're not limited to only twitch. He appreciates what he has and I believe he would appreciate what he has regardless of streaming.

    • @smadworld8515
      @smadworld8515 4 роки тому

      Equal true

    • @smadworld8515
      @smadworld8515 4 роки тому

      Equal you right try’s jkap a twam

  • @Ghashlord
    @Ghashlord 5 років тому +7050

    i would NOT do this publicly, ever. BIG props to Lily, she has titan balls.
    Edit: Removing previous edit due to respect for Lily regarding the recent events.

    • @yayayuki8542
      @yayayuki8542 4 роки тому +315

      She's part of the boys after all

    • @Xavier-kg7bt
      @Xavier-kg7bt 4 роки тому +29

      @@yayayuki8542 TRUUUE

    • @flare-4779
      @flare-4779 4 роки тому +6

      Why not? Because of peoples opinions?

    • @Zero001
      @Zero001 4 роки тому +131

      I mean back in the day we always said Lily was a 10ft tall buff black dude with a huge dong(almost everyone skipped the last part, almost). Of course she has huge balls!
      But seriously, she is very brave

    • @GreenGoblinCoryintheHouse
      @GreenGoblinCoryintheHouse 4 роки тому +1

      Wait a minute

  • @supermonkeyyyyyy
    @supermonkeyyyyyy 5 років тому +1778

    Damn I saw it on stream and even though the doctor tries to stay neutral and didn't know her before you can tell he is touched by Lily's genuine kindness and really wants to help her.

    • @coop.r
      @coop.r 5 років тому +145

      supermonkeyyyyyy yeah you can tell he really wanted to help her because he was saying at the beginning of the stream “At the end of the hour” but then the whole thing ended up going on for like 2 hours and 30 mins.

    • @mm-dh2bs
      @mm-dh2bs 5 років тому +100

      Yeah you can cleary feel that when he trashtalks the haters and says he's being protective of her. I think that's genuinely really cute and great to see on Twitch.

    • @leonbishop7404
      @leonbishop7404 5 років тому +11

      i mean thats the best thing he can do to promote himself

    • @fliown5413
      @fliown5413 5 років тому +52

      @@leonbishop7404 are you hurt ?

    • @leonbishop7404
      @leonbishop7404 5 років тому +13

      @@fliown5413 what? This is true and there is nothing wrong with it

  • @iareanoob2277
    @iareanoob2277 4 роки тому +2387

    I'm glad she's happy with Michael now. I hope they stay happy and comfy

    • @UaenOnce
      @UaenOnce 4 роки тому +35

      And marry each other!!!! And live happily ever afteeer

    • @liamnoakes511
      @liamnoakes511 4 роки тому +4

      Yes.

    • @tilenHD
      @tilenHD 4 роки тому +39

      at least if they break up i just want too ses a nice break the one taht dosent Make me hate one of them

    • @Proger-sj8cj
      @Proger-sj8cj 4 роки тому +10

      tilenHD
      *That shit scares me , thinking if one of them moves away for some odd reason*
      Life is full of mysteries

    • @XTen1000DaysX
      @XTen1000DaysX 4 роки тому +3

      is she with michael?

  • @UltimateWaifuXD
    @UltimateWaifuXD 4 роки тому +1788

    It breaks my heart to see Lily cry. She's too good for this world. Definitely deserved better.

    • @PataJuzmo
      @PataJuzmo 4 роки тому +8

      Just like all the animals she eats.

    • @BigKingJordan
      @BigKingJordan 4 роки тому +32

      jussi ?

    • @andrewmemelord3561
      @andrewmemelord3561 4 роки тому +52

      jussi vegans go to hell :D

    • @pittaaaabread
      @pittaaaabread 4 роки тому +96

      @@PataJuzmo ????? How the fuck is that at all relevant to the current issue?

    • @DryAgedMignon
      @DryAgedMignon 4 роки тому +13

      Good thing her relationship with albert magically dissapeared

  • @jeffreyou19
    @jeffreyou19 4 роки тому +1394

    when he started talking about "how people come back to the shitty restaurant because of the food" everything added up and i saw how every single one of his arguments had a meaning to it. I know this is his job but it's really cool to see and super hard to describe. Mad respect for you and lily

    • @AquilaPainWhy
      @AquilaPainWhy 4 роки тому +2

      can you elaborate on what this means please?

    • @Michael-op1lj
      @Michael-op1lj 4 роки тому +100

      ​@@AquilaPainWhy I'm not 100% sure but I think @Quadril is referring to the way Dr K's observations are trying to make Lily realise how great she is, she is the "food" in a restaurant, even when she thinks that on the outside she is ugly, not deserving of her fame or her fans who always tune in to watch her.
      Dr K is saying that she has value in herself and her actual personality and what she does. He wants her to see that no matter what her outward presentation is (like the service at a restaurant), that the real reason people are there is for her and that what she does and who she is - what she does has value and helps people.
      For the first hour or so they have been discussing the ways that her sense of worth has suffered, related to her childhood [and her breakup which gave her attention on the internet also lead to her having more fans which she feels undeserving of, because in some way those people "showed up" due to her breakup; but actually 99% of her fans like her for her]
      Dr K is trying to make her see that "Lily 2" who is the part of her that is afraid of being a disappointment/doesn't feel she deserves her fame, that she should accept and reassure that part of herself and believe in her value - as she would reassure a fellow streamer in her shoes.

  • @bruhyote132
    @bruhyote132 4 роки тому +3990

    Lilly is one of those content creators I don't watch at all anymore, but I'll occasionally drop by her streams for a few minutes to see if she's changed at all since the last decade and I'm proud to see her always being her. I have to give mad respects to Lilly because I remember how, back when she hadn't even revealed her face yet, people were always going on about how "oh lilly's voice is so fake", "lilly's probably ugly irl", "lilly this lilly that". Yet... She's still managed to armor through a lot of shit through out all of these years.
    It's truly fascinating watching what people thought was this "feeble little girl" muscle through all of the psychological bullshit that's been thrown at her and keep pushing forward, I honestly can't think of many other content creators getting this much _undeserved_ hate and not quitting after a couple years. Key word "undeserved" because we all know everyone who's popular has haters, no shit, but I really don't think Lilly's done ANYTHING worthy of her getting all of the hate she's gathered through out all this time. It's sad, but it's good to see that she's strong enough to withstand all of this hatred.
    I'm definitely no simp, but I can respect Lilly as a fellow human being who knows how to take punches to the gut time and time again and keep getting up.

    • @VisualConnection
      @VisualConnection 4 роки тому +98

      I wish that I could thumbs up your comment twice!

    • @swergelflerberson4453
      @swergelflerberson4453 4 роки тому +27

      Gay

    • @MasterXiggy
      @MasterXiggy 4 роки тому +13

      Bruh Yote well spoken

    • @jie3135
      @jie3135 4 роки тому +37

      I hate to be the one to point this out, I really do, but just for future reference theres only one L in lily, also I 100000% agree with your statement and hope you have a good day :)

    • @Xadadadron
      @Xadadadron 4 роки тому +131

      @@swergelflerberson4453 If you have nothing valuable to add to a conversation, remain silent please :)

  • @JaisiTang
    @JaisiTang 4 роки тому +1107

    It scares me how many people hate Lily because of her voice, and how she shouldn’t be sad because she is “lucky”. Just because you’re “lucky”, or have money, doesn’t change the fact you can be sad when something horrible happens to you.

    • @christiandalecotes2320
      @christiandalecotes2320 4 роки тому +29

      The only reason I found her channel was because of her voice and her personality earned my sub.

    • @CarlsCozyCorner
      @CarlsCozyCorner 4 роки тому +86

      I think people who hate her for her voice are pretty insecure themselves.

    • @rafay564
      @rafay564 4 роки тому +17

      hate her for her voice man who tf are those people ? i love her voice

    • @dmkmn4612
      @dmkmn4612 4 роки тому +12

      Isnt she just speaking like some anime girl so weebs watch her and donate

    • @poggers4392
      @poggers4392 4 роки тому +46

      @@dmkmn4612 weak bait

  • @guhbuhfuh
    @guhbuhfuh 5 років тому +2263

    You can really see how she becomes more comfortable progressively through out the video
    He has an incredible gift

    • @iGrantWishes
      @iGrantWishes 5 років тому +316

      I agree that he's pretty incredible. But I think it's something he earned through years of work, study, and cultivating himself rather than a gift he just happens to have.

    • @ianparmley1566
      @ianparmley1566 5 років тому +86

      @@iGrantWishes He's proving that gifts can (and should) be earned

    • @ZishaMadeit
      @ZishaMadeit 5 років тому +6

      Indeed

    • @FirebladeXXL
      @FirebladeXXL 5 років тому +89

      he learned and improved. i think its so disrespectful to just say ppl are gifted or talented when they got where they are through hard work.

    • @rickirazerblade9983
      @rickirazerblade9983 4 роки тому +3

      @@FirebladeXXL if only anyone could get anywhere given enough hard work

  • @appleswithpears2667
    @appleswithpears2667 4 роки тому +835

    having these on Spotify as a "podcast" would be so great

  • @Yumi9426
    @Yumi9426 4 роки тому +786

    When my boyfriend cheated on me I wanted the world to know and hate on him. Lily is just so kind to feel bad for someone that hurt her I admire her so much

    • @KLil37
      @KLil37 4 роки тому +40

      Everyone copes differently in the face of emotional trauma

    • @XiaoOoGwei
      @XiaoOoGwei 4 роки тому +76

      incredibly kind, almost too kind. How can she blame herself for someone else cheating on her? Apparently Albert said the reason he cheated was because he wasn't happy. Like a cheater will ever say, because I'm greedy. Failure of a relationship can be blamed on two people; but the decision to cheat is ALL on the cheater.

    • @scsi2707
      @scsi2707 4 роки тому

      When I got cheated on, I felt the same but I got hated for absolutely no reason at all.
      Some people don’t deserve so much hate but some who cheat for the sake of it deserve hatred.

    • @gracealicemarie877
      @gracealicemarie877 4 роки тому +1

      Ok I understand nobody really cares but I need to say it. My ex boyfriend and I went to a dance and in that weekend he broke up with me over text. I never really found out but I'm pretty sure he was cheating on me with one of my friends and then was trying to dumb that friend and try to go for my best friend. That day was not fun because I was already dealing with so much crap. I'm so glad my best friend was there for me when it happened, I love her so much.

    • @scsi2707
      @scsi2707 4 роки тому +2

      Alice_Wolf _Gacha
      Only douches don’t care. I care, I understand your problems. I got cheated on for my good friend and they got cheated on for my other friend.

  • @beccamistic2218
    @beccamistic2218 4 роки тому +3168

    It just broke me seeing her cry at the beginning..I’m so happy that she’s with someone who truly loves her and wants to show the world how amazing she is right now.
    Big shout out to Michael Reeves to be always so considerate of Lily’s well being. If you watched her drunk stream, it takes a real man to think about the future and order food for her knowing she’ll be hungry. It takes a real man to accept all of Lily, her sad emotions, her low self esteem, and see her at her lowest point and still love her. He may be young and be quirky normally, but he takes his relationship seriously and puts in his best efforts to cherish Lily. I love them both so much (I’m crying like a proud father don’t judge 🤧🤧)

    • @sebjink.9037
      @sebjink.9037 4 роки тому +261

      Either that, or the excessive crack use is making him see into the future

    • @beccamistic2218
      @beccamistic2218 4 роки тому +24

      Sebjin K. Ahahaha trueeee

    • @rage9428
      @rage9428 4 роки тому +72

      yeah he also told her subtly to "cut down on oversharing" when she was drunk and here she says that she wishes the break up wasn't so public, he literally takes the sad possibility of an end into consideration right now or it's just me reading too much into it

    • @saritrisnawati9346
      @saritrisnawati9346 4 роки тому +77

      @@rage9428 well let's not read too much into it, just let them be happy for now. Me personally just take it as him being embarrassed if everyone knows every cute little things he do for his gf, not necessarily worried about what will happen if they broke up. Maybe I'm naive, but I just hope they're happy.

    • @wrenchguy2937
      @wrenchguy2937 4 роки тому +8

      Beccamistic i feel u man. Lilys a good person. Ur not the only one fam haha

  • @fayne3176
    @fayne3176 4 роки тому +1338

    Lily's streams are comforting and funny. She honestly has the only stream that can kick all my stress out the door and make me feel so warm inside. I honestly just wish for her to be happy.

  • @KGReads
    @KGReads 4 роки тому +1703

    She's griefing for her relationship, the future she imagined of that relationship. She not only lost her boyfriend, but her best friend. The person she thought got her completely. The one she thought had her back.
    Being cheated on, when in a long term relationship after 2-3 years no cheating no problems is hard. Even worst if they are part of your friendship group.
    I went throught this quite young, when I was 18-20 years old. I was at university and seperated from my SO. So it was a lot easier to distract.
    But he was 100% part of her life. In her videos, future trips.
    Thats fucking horrible.
    I feel for Lily

    • @ushjaba1067
      @ushjaba1067 4 роки тому +13

      YoshiKatherine and the facts she already in a new relationship. Apparently she’s dating Micheal reeves now

    • @moki9079
      @moki9079 4 роки тому +100

      If you look at her with Michael Reeves, you can tell shes super happy!! I admire Lily for being mature and leaving that past behind her. She’s looking forward.

    • @sophiayamagughi
      @sophiayamagughi 4 роки тому +14

      Exactly. Man, but for us fans, it really is sad to see. I saw lily and albert irl in may 2019 when they came to seattle and she looked so happy. Smh

    • @danielhewson4132
      @danielhewson4132 4 роки тому +66

      margobyun Michael is super affectionate towards her and let’s her be around him as much as she wants. He embraces her hugs openly and she can pour her love onto him. Albert barely let her hug him and he would collaborate with girls while she was gone. All her friends knew Albert was no good.

    • @juanpunchman5484
      @juanpunchman5484 4 роки тому +6

      @@ushjaba1067 To be fair If I was Lily I'd tap Micheal.

  • @finalflash98
    @finalflash98 5 років тому +2866

    I wish Etika had gone through something like this. It would have helped him come to terms with his different personas.

    • @milosniffer5293
      @milosniffer5293 5 років тому +8

      He had "different personas" ?

    • @caronimaca
      @caronimaca 5 років тому +38

      never really watched him, but yeah I agree. it’s pretty sad

    • @taku6541
      @taku6541 5 років тому +183

      Milo Sniffer I’m pretty sure everyone does u don’t act the same way with ur friends as u do with ur mom right?

    • @ianparmley1566
      @ianparmley1566 5 років тому +210

      @@taku6541 But it can get very confusing when you have to maintain different personas for different people, and it raises the deep question of: Who am I? Do I deserve to exist?

    • @YourTRANQUILITY
      @YourTRANQUILITY 5 років тому +3

      no one knows or could know if he had different personas other than him or someone who personally talked to him.

  • @kaiyuuyuu
    @kaiyuuyuu 4 роки тому +175

    At like 11:00 she tries to compliment his hair and I'm so sad, she's so sweet and I just wish her all the happiness in the world

  • @jinyboi
    @jinyboi 5 років тому +1651

    "a lot of people watchign twitch feels disappointment in themselves"
    hit the nail on the head lol

  • @natenso5291
    @natenso5291 5 років тому +568

    God, I've watched Lily since early 2012, and I've never seen her like this.
    I'm really glad she felt comfortable enough to truly talk about her emotions and how she feels.

    • @siegpasta
      @siegpasta 4 роки тому +23

      he's just a great psychologist with alot of confidence. that's why.

    • @orionl7406
      @orionl7406 4 роки тому +4

      Natenso i never knew she was an OG streamer PogChamp

    • @YoXeV
      @YoXeV 4 роки тому +5

      is he a real psychologist?

    • @siegpasta
      @siegpasta 4 роки тому +13

      @@YoXeV YES. One from Harvard University.....

    • @witchsorrowful1918
      @witchsorrowful1918 4 роки тому +6

      @@YoXeV He teaches and practices psychology at Harvard Med School.

  • @FirebladeXXL
    @FirebladeXXL 5 років тому +1101

    i think his style of therapy shows perfectly that you dont have to be empathic to be a good coach. he said it himself: his sociopathy scale is quite high, and yet he manages to do a very deep and cathartic session.

    • @bobbruh8538
      @bobbruh8538 4 роки тому +89

      Too many big words got confused

    • @wibblemu9
      @wibblemu9 4 роки тому +50

      I really enjoy the way he uses pointed questions

    • @matsab7930
      @matsab7930 4 роки тому +100

      DatVocals! In a sense his sociopathy might help him - I get sad just hearing her talk about it and am not sure I could be objective with my questioning and approach as a result of that.

    • @johnnyperry1471
      @johnnyperry1471 4 роки тому +176

      Sociopath's are incredibly observant of social cues, it is how they blend in with the emotional masses without truly feeling the same, imitation. They are incredible at picking things up subconsciously and using those things without any effort. An empath while being equally intuitive are unable to separate other peoples emotions from their own, they naturally take things more personally. His disconnect with his patient could be his advantage.

    • @FirebladeXXL
      @FirebladeXXL 4 роки тому +32

      @@johnnyperry1471 this. while you cant say sociopaths in general are that observant, when they are they absolutely have an advantage in therapy and coaching.

  • @matcha6029
    @matcha6029 4 роки тому +140

    Props to Lily for talking about her real emotions in front of so many people for HOURS. My therapy session lasts for 45 minutes and some days I’ll feel SO exhausted and would never want to talk about my feelings for the rest of the day. She’s talking about something she avoided by drinking yet here she is, accepting her weakness. LILY U R SO STRONG WE LOVE U SM

  • @danielhe9131
    @danielhe9131 4 роки тому +535

    “Nothing inspires hate as much as seeing the person that you could be.”
    - Dr. K
    2020

    • @nabeelfarooq3573
      @nabeelfarooq3573 3 роки тому

      1 year exactly and this is my first time watching the video and it really shows a more detailed lily

  • @unexpectedcolors5068
    @unexpectedcolors5068 4 роки тому +2380

    Holy crap. 3 minutes in, and the amount of intuition this man used to in the moment he asked Lilly to explain to the audience the topic was BRILLIANT to see.
    1) Was looking to get a base line of how comfortable she.
    2) Saw she was, not at ALL comfortable, and that pushing to hard here was a bad idea.
    3) Took a step back to talk about a more positive topic; Sleep. (Which, if you've ever done any research on sleep would be really obvious that this was a really good topic in which you could segway into a PLETHORA of deeper topics)
    4) Very, very good balance of asking for specific/tangible answers and making her dig a little deeper for them.
    And this was in the first 3 minutes... SUPER sensitive with the person he's conversing with.

    • @aurimasturkus289
      @aurimasturkus289 4 роки тому +155

      well, he's from Harvard. No wonder he is smart

    • @aurimasturkus289
      @aurimasturkus289 4 роки тому +139

      @illogicalrelish born and raised

    • @thomaskhan5021
      @thomaskhan5021 4 роки тому +239

      @@aurimasturkus289 In Harvard born and raised
      In the lecture hall is where I spent most of my days

    • @psy__guy__9884
      @psy__guy__9884 4 роки тому +227

      I'm a doctral clinical psychology student and I can tell you that this guy is the real deal. He has such an incredible way of building a therapeutic alliance with streamers. He makes it seem so effortless. I hope I can be half the clinician he is one day

    • @danielchun8420
      @danielchun8420 4 роки тому +75

      @@psy__guy__9884 Hey man I hope that you can get there one day. The world needs more people like you and Dr.K to help us through our struggles. Thanks for your efforts! :)

  • @jammie7822
    @jammie7822 4 роки тому +837

    "You're trying to take care of yourself as if you're a normal person, but you're not a normal person. You're just too full of love." 😢😢 Damn dude you didnt have to make me cry in front of my salad

  • @edwardseverinsen5598
    @edwardseverinsen5598 4 роки тому +306

    I love how he makes it clear that this chat isn't for the fans. If there's an awkward silence, so be it. This is about _her_ and not about putting on a show for the audience.

  • @nukebogdanov2577
    @nukebogdanov2577 5 років тому +807

    Every streamer getting in a public setting to discuss their problems with Dr. K is an absolute baller and has no idea how much they are helping us figure out and process our own problems. I can't imagine myself doing that, but for someone to have the balls to do it it's on a such a high level of courage that it deserves praise!!!! Gj Lily, LS, Reckful and all you other magnificent sons of bitches, thank you for doing your part.

    • @SparklessBubble
      @SparklessBubble 4 роки тому +2

      @@nicholastho4339 Those guys kinda came to mind prima vista, but I've watched all of the talks and I was able to get something out of every interaction on this channel.

    • @3InchesofLove
      @3InchesofLove 4 роки тому +1

      Very thankful for all of this. I’m a marriage and family therapist intern and watching him helps me so much to learn how to ask better questions and what kinds of things he notices

    • @pwnwin
      @pwnwin 4 роки тому +1

      want to like this so bad but its at 666, ugh, Satan why?

    • @bobbymanny8043
      @bobbymanny8043 4 роки тому +1

      I also think it’s important for us to see our favorite streamers/influencers in a more vulnerable (idk if that’s the tight word) light because I think it really helps us relate to them more as a person and it bring them down to our level in an emotional sense.

  • @kolbypham7318
    @kolbypham7318 4 роки тому +616

    I'm a neuroscience major looking into becoming a psychiatrist and Dr. K just keeps reminding me of the good I can put into the world some day.

    • @cameroncarley7958
      @cameroncarley7958 4 роки тому +25

      I know this is a little late but good for you man

    • @rockym.g.3827
      @rockym.g.3827 4 роки тому +6

      Keep it up bruh

    • @minamins22
      @minamins22 4 роки тому +4

      this is rly late but i'm rooting for you!!

    • @tailopezbutnolamborghini4862
      @tailopezbutnolamborghini4862 4 роки тому +2

      As a fellow vietnamese, I will also do good for the world by fixing teeth :)

    • @rockym.g.3827
      @rockym.g.3827 4 роки тому +1

      @@tailopezbutnolamborghini4862 I am 1/8 vietnamese, that counts too right?

  • @itspaxx4938
    @itspaxx4938 4 роки тому +5667

    when she said “i thought i’d marry him” i broke

    • @solistaVT
      @solistaVT 4 роки тому +414

      and that he wasn't happy :"((

    • @ijlala3799
      @ijlala3799 4 роки тому +345

      i know, how evil can albert the cheater be to leave this perfect flower

    • @serpentphoenix
      @serpentphoenix 4 роки тому +60

      when does she say that? I watched the entire thing and I feel like I missed it lol

    • @itspaxx4938
      @itspaxx4938 4 роки тому +20

      serpentphoenix idk i think it’s around 15-30 minutes in

    • @jeremylim2421
      @jeremylim2421 4 роки тому +17

      A lot of women seem to think that

  • @ryangil4435
    @ryangil4435 4 роки тому +184

    I'm not even 5 minutes in and I'm already crying along with Lily. She goes through so much but still puts on a smile and entertains and literally works to make us smile.
    God bless this woman honestly.

    • @ryangil4435
      @ryangil4435 4 роки тому +6

      Also HE CALLED OUT FED SO HARD AND DIDNT EVEN KNOW IT

  • @vlazurah789
    @vlazurah789 5 років тому +1553

    The talk about Lily 2 reminded me of Naruto and his struggle with the Waterfall of Truth. Loving the other side of you that is always in pain and accepting this pain, allows you to love yourself completely and become whole.

    • @OlPalJoe
      @OlPalJoe 5 років тому +143

      Looks like Dr. k is a Weeb lol

    • @neilghosh3821
      @neilghosh3821 5 років тому +19

      Carl jungs shadow analysis also fits in this no ?

    • @OlPalJoe
      @OlPalJoe 5 років тому +24

      @@neilghosh3821 *shadow clone

    • @AXharoth
      @AXharoth 5 років тому

      @@neilghosh3821 i dotn think shadow is hating yourself but idk could be

    • @bl4nk451
      @bl4nk451 5 років тому +3

      WEEBS DansGame

  • @Outlier117
    @Outlier117 4 роки тому +418

    “Where did you get the presumption that you have to control being sad?” Damn I felt that......

  • @owenconnaughton7088
    @owenconnaughton7088 5 років тому +292

    Damn, what an amazing quote from Dr. K, “nothing inspires hate like seeing the person you could be”

    • @blarblablarblar
      @blarblablarblar 4 роки тому

      a nigga
      TRUUUUUUUUUU

    • @ntw3394
      @ntw3394 4 роки тому

      1:33:00

    • @gameplaydesigner7329
      @gameplaydesigner7329 4 роки тому

      She wants to be a cheater

    • @reduXstereo
      @reduXstereo 4 роки тому

      It's not an amazing quote. It's just a jumbled version of saying jealousy inspires hate and strife. You shouldn't hate seeing the person you could be. You should learn from it not become hateful from it.

    • @arraikcruor6407
      @arraikcruor6407 3 роки тому +1

      @@reduXstereo he didn't say be hateful, he says that inspires hate. 2 completely different things.

  • @VIHXS_
    @VIHXS_ 4 роки тому +212

    Dr.K is literally a blessing on Twitch. I’m glad he came and did this with reckful and now seeing him helping and hearing out other streamers is amazing to see. Props to him

  • @yuyufool117
    @yuyufool117 5 років тому +546

    Lily is such a sweetheart. Wish her the best.

  • @smellyfish36
    @smellyfish36 5 років тому +3968

    God bless Dr K, the boomer savior of twitch

    • @AXharoth
      @AXharoth 5 років тому +51

      a boomer is someone who were born right after ww2 . so in around 45-50 so no hes not a boomer

    • @poppi3362
      @poppi3362 5 років тому +226

      @@AXharoth wooosh

    • @fredwho
      @fredwho 5 років тому +190

      @@AXharoth That is where the term originated from. Boomer is a term that can be attributed to any person of any age depending on whether they apply to the characteristics of an actual baby boomer. Boomer is attributed to Dr. K, jokingly partly due to his technological incompetence. I think i can speak for most people and say there is no ill intent in using it.

    • @6uzhombre
      @6uzhombre 5 років тому +9

      @@AXharoth k now go back to league and never come back

    • @barildan
      @barildan 5 років тому +1

      Just Dr Boomer

  • @mooncide_
    @mooncide_ 4 роки тому +312

    im so glad lily talked to this guy. you can tell by the end of this how much he seemed to watch over her and be protective of her. im so damn glad she had someone to finally allow her the space to have these deeper discussions and let out all her sorrows. ive always been interested in lily's opinions on stuff. she really is someone i relate too especially when it comes to being an empath and stuff like that. i really want lily to be so happy she really is one of the more sincere and loving people ive ever seen like it blows my mind.

  • @hakseuu
    @hakseuu 4 роки тому +1155

    this turned to a therapy session for me and he isnt even talking to me

    • @HalfNathan
      @HalfNathan 4 роки тому +7

      Ikr

    • @rockym.g.3827
      @rockym.g.3827 4 роки тому +173

      AoE healing

    • @minamins22
      @minamins22 4 роки тому +3

      trueeee

    • @thermdynamic4627
      @thermdynamic4627 4 роки тому +32

      @@rockym.g.3827 I'm reading comments while listening and this comment bursted me out of laughter.

    • @abbywho4142
      @abbywho4142 4 роки тому +13

      Im literally pausing every 10 minutes just bursting into tears.

  • @Alesanascreamokid
    @Alesanascreamokid 5 років тому +184

    I love his reassuring sentences towards her sometimes like: 'you're one step ahead (towards healing), etc. And also 'It blows my mind that you don't see how amazing you are". I love how he empowers her in this way! We stan this empowering Doc.

  • @void3793
    @void3793 5 років тому +1300

    I hate the way she thinks but you can't blame her for it. You can't blame someone for their mindset. But its really frustrating to see someone think like that. She blames herself for HIM not telling her his feelings and HIM cheating, damn that makes me angry.

    • @jameswest2875
      @jameswest2875 4 роки тому +29

      Simp

    • @GxmeyMusic
      @GxmeyMusic 4 роки тому +204

      @@jameswest2875 beta

    • @isaiah8047
      @isaiah8047 4 роки тому +168

      @@jameswest2875 Claps all around boys! He said THE word!

    • @wallr54
      @wallr54 4 роки тому +68

      Theres a lot of people that think that way. The downside of critically thinking too much about yourself is you begin to think that everything is your fault and on your shoulders. Ive been lucky enough to never be cheated on but every relationship thats ended in my life i think what I could’ve done better. Always without out a doubt is has to be my fault because if its not then i cant do anything to improve. I know how unhealthy it is and i can see that in people like lily but its been a struggle to come to terms with how i feel. I really felt lilys words about not feeling good enough and feeling lucky in life.

    • @Cuhsidy
      @Cuhsidy 4 роки тому +5

      simp

  • @cryfest
    @cryfest 4 роки тому +560

    Lily is MASSIVE CHAD. I would never do this.

    • @jojofuckingsucks9785
      @jojofuckingsucks9785 4 роки тому +2

      simp

    • @MFFLRicky
      @MFFLRicky 4 роки тому +22

      She’s an amazing person ☺️

    • @sweetbananapie99
      @sweetbananapie99 4 роки тому +6

      @Petal lanes chad: brave

    • @Huntracony
      @Huntracony 3 роки тому +2

      @@avrilisraven Oh, come on! It's LilyPichad!

    • @fungling7982
      @fungling7982 3 роки тому +1

      @matchafields chad is pretty much the personification of everything masculine lol

  • @PhoenixLive_YT
    @PhoenixLive_YT 4 роки тому +3615

    the moment she mentions her ex boyfriend he immediately switch his attention to something, what a madlad Lol

    • @Psydo
      @Psydo 4 роки тому +529

      @@WellBeSerious12 that shits bullshit way too broad

    • @WellBeSerious12
      @WellBeSerious12 4 роки тому +78

      @@Psydo
      Of course people would start getting aversive, defensive, or threatening with something they'd not understand.

    • @furkan10ky
      @furkan10ky 4 роки тому +25

      I just did the test and it says my personality is architect.

    • @meganutHUGE
      @meganutHUGE 4 роки тому +10

      @@furkan10ky i got logician, INTP-T

    • @nerdloser9987
      @nerdloser9987 4 роки тому +282

      @@WellBeSerious12 the whole personality type thing sounds like zodiac signs LOL

  • @adrian.joker1338
    @adrian.joker1338 4 роки тому +351

    she's honestly one of the most genuine streamers I've seen and I watch her just because she's just such a normal person that's just dealing with stuff we can all relate to, super brave to be talking about all this stuff on such a public platform.

    • @najrenchelf2751
      @najrenchelf2751 Рік тому

      Oh yeah, the existence of this VOD is a manifestation of the strength of Lily's soul - the fact she was willing to do this on stream gets crazier the longer I think about this! 💖

  • @itsameprincesspeach
    @itsameprincesspeach 4 роки тому +213

    This honestly made me cry. As he picked apart the points that lily talked about that held underlying issues some of them hit so hard and so accurately in myself, and it really made me feel like I should also be aware of these things. I know it makes you feel a little weird Lily, but I just wanted to thank you. This kind of actually really helped me in my own thoughts.

  • @auniquehandle
    @auniquehandle 4 роки тому +1274

    1:23:35 this guy just got ascended to the heaven for a second

  • @a_stinkyzoe2361
    @a_stinkyzoe2361 4 роки тому +206

    honestly watching this back now and seeing how michael treats her it makes me happy that he puts so much effort in....ofc i'm on the outside looking in and i never knew albert well at all or any of these content creators but just seeing how much pain she was in here compared to now just makes me so happy to see her happy, she deserves the happiness she's getting and i know some pain might still be there, also despite what albert did i hope he's doing ok mentally to and can maybe appreciate things more in the future.

  • @SmoothMofo
    @SmoothMofo 5 років тому +35

    Bro when he said “ I feel that alot of people who are watching on twitch feels disappointed in themselves and feel like the world is disappointed in them “ that hit me straight in the feels, he got that on point.

  • @depressedonion5610
    @depressedonion5610 5 років тому +56

    I honestly adore her. She seems like a nice genuine person.
    I hope she recovers wells.

  • @smashenchilada1101
    @smashenchilada1101 5 років тому +164

    I've wanted to be a psychiatrist for about 6 years now and recently I've recently been doubting myself a little. Dr. K, You've inspired me again to be a good human being just like you. Thanks for being such an inspiration.

    • @Alesanascreamokid
      @Alesanascreamokid 5 років тому +15

      really seriously dont doubt yourself. i never saw myself as an intelligent person, yet here i am doing my second degree in health care. give yourself time and trust yourself, good luck !

    • @smashenchilada1101
      @smashenchilada1101 5 років тому +5

      @@Alesanascreamokid that's amazing! thanks so much

    • @jamesbrook81
      @jamesbrook81 4 роки тому

      Are you sure you want to be a doctor?

    • @smashenchilada1101
      @smashenchilada1101 4 роки тому +3

      @@jamesbrook81 I'm pretty sure I do. Why do you ask?

    • @jamesbrook81
      @jamesbrook81 4 роки тому +2

      @@smashenchilada1101 because the road to be a doctor is really reaally hard.. I just hope that you have research well and be prepared to be a medical student. I've seen many of my friends regret to be in this path... I don'twant you to feel that way one day.. try to interact with other doctor or medical student that you know or find online communities that share the same thought as you.

  • @zori5503
    @zori5503 11 місяців тому +14

    i honestly want to say to lily that her talking about feelings is my favourite part of her content. thats genuienely one of the only things i watch and it gives me comfort

  • @franklle
    @franklle 5 років тому +71

    I enjoy watching Lily streaming every now and then but wow, does it break my heart seeing her sad. She is such a beautiful person! Hang on and get better soon!!!

  • @htaedWhoKnew
    @htaedWhoKnew 5 років тому +60

    I love this dude. He’s a genius and he found a way to actually help gamers instead of demonizing them...wish him the best.

  • @begyourpardon3224
    @begyourpardon3224 4 роки тому +200

    How could anyone hurt this beautiful human being? She’s such a strong woman..

  • @gamerbrain5633
    @gamerbrain5633 4 роки тому +146

    Broooo, when Dr.K was on the phone and said "Hello?" and Lily responded with "Hi" not knowing he wasn't talking to her, that was so fucking cuteeeeeeeeeeee dudeeee

  • @bloodwolf2609
    @bloodwolf2609 5 років тому +429

    We thought Destiny was the raid boss but he was just fodder, lily is the real endgame. She’s got like 10 phases and 4 different forms, this is gonna be nuts.

    • @lolmanittakesguts
      @lolmanittakesguts 4 роки тому +10

      Blood Wolf2609 dont even try to enter without Tier 2 BiS

    • @sinki19841984
      @sinki19841984 4 роки тому +8

      @@lolmanittakesguts I'm waiting for the how-to video

    • @wabbasMEpern
      @wabbasMEpern 3 роки тому

      Destiny abandoned his children to live the online edge lord "debate me bro" life. Complete pseudo-intellectual.

  • @mavodeli
    @mavodeli 4 роки тому +521

    The "why do intelligent people tend to get addicted to video games" part was very interesting. It makes sense, but I never really thought of it that way. (2:19:58)

    • @SoldJesus4Crack
      @SoldJesus4Crack 4 роки тому +23

      Mavodeli it might have made sense.
      nowadays gaming is so common, that it does not reflect what it might once have done.
      considering that about 80% (pulling numbers out of my ass here, cba to look up the exact percent) of todays generation play some form of videogames, but the IQ, statistically speaking is definitely not increasing.

    • @him6008
      @him6008 4 роки тому +80

      Well for some people it's just a way to cope with the stress of expectations.

    • @smeliscave
      @smeliscave 4 роки тому +9

      Thank you for putting a time stamp

    • @turquoise7817
      @turquoise7817 4 роки тому +2

      wtf that hit hard

    • @qaiser648
      @qaiser648 4 роки тому +4

      468er/ PeaShooter this feels kind of self masturbatory

  • @SeigiVA
    @SeigiVA 5 років тому +766

    Holy crap... Just watching this has made me think a lot bc I really feel the same as Lily about getting lucky for getting a following.

    • @IxtothezI1
      @IxtothezI1 5 років тому +5

      WHOmegalul?

    • @대야-g7y
      @대야-g7y 4 роки тому +14

      I'm glad you took something from this :)

    • @milesedgeworth110
      @milesedgeworth110 4 роки тому +14

      @@IxtothezI1 someone who is doing their thing and got followers because of that. Kid

  • @danjirocisnerosalvarez3724
    @danjirocisnerosalvarez3724 4 роки тому +1603

    Lily being sad:
    Michael: (Nightmare and goblin sounds intensifies)

    • @saftschinken2353
      @saftschinken2353 4 роки тому +32

      REEEEEEEEE

    • @bobthejester3105
      @bobthejester3105 4 роки тому +61

      Distant tazer sounds to protect his roomba. Reference when lily voice micheals roomba that curses.

    • @CarlsCozyCorner
      @CarlsCozyCorner 4 роки тому +23

      "DON'T WORRY, I'LL TAZE YOU BACK INTO A HEALTHY MINDSET!"
      ~Michael, probably

    • @drex5160
      @drex5160 4 роки тому +3

      @@saftschinken2353 CHUUUUU

    • @iwoodbustanut7380
      @iwoodbustanut7380 2 роки тому +4

      @@CarlsCozyCorner that's...both horrifying and wholesome, I've never seen these two words mix till now

  • @Vther
    @Vther 5 років тому +556

    "some of your colleagues are different in terms of their degree of empath and sociopathy"
    100% toast

    • @YoXeV
      @YoXeV 4 роки тому +10

      Are you saying that Toast is a sociopath?

    • @benjaminchristensen1646
      @benjaminchristensen1646 4 роки тому +22

      @@YoXeV That he probably rates high on the sociopathy scale

    • @ciello1195
      @ciello1195 4 роки тому +82

      Like they said in one of the offline "offline" podcast, it's the effort that matters. It's obvious to them that Toast does not necessarily like constant social interactions, but he also will not shy away from asking whether the other person wants to have company, and consider staying despite he doesn't necessarily want to.

    • @na3rial
      @na3rial 4 роки тому +118

      I think Toast likely has the highest degree of empathy and sociopathy than most of OTV. His persona is an aloof, big brain character that doesn't give a shit, but he's really good at reading a room and a conversation. He wouldn't be able to navigate that persona otherwise without constantly making off-hand comments that could be seen as rather distasteful, like Fed tends to do.

    • @Goophy7
      @Goophy7 4 роки тому +14

      I would add Poki to his point.

  • @thonatmo
    @thonatmo 4 роки тому +121

    I love that the host doesn't mind taking up the harder subjects, I see often when I or others try to comfort people that they try and fix the simple things and steer around the hard things. Very nice stream and I think you did very well

  • @MNoir
    @MNoir 4 роки тому +74

    I'm just 16 minutes in but I have to agree so so so much with dr. K when he says people follow Lily exactly because she's a complex human being with feelings. Sometimes watching youtubers that only share the positives of life makes me feel a disconnect & also makes me feel weird and aweful for not always having good days. The world needs more people like Lily who are so honest, so that maybe we can heal eachother a bit

  • @Apudurangdinya
    @Apudurangdinya 4 роки тому +3690

    meanwhile michael tazed his way into lily's heart

  • @tarapapi
    @tarapapi 4 роки тому +1995

    Good on Lily on finally embracing the 6 foot black man she truly is.

    • @ReyaadGafur
      @ReyaadGafur 4 роки тому +77

      this is a what moment

    • @mlotshwa100
      @mlotshwa100 4 роки тому +32

      @Ngu MU for real man only the ogs remember

    • @watyhu99
      @watyhu99 4 роки тому +20

      omg I haven't seen this one in a comment section of hers for sooo long. Anyone else remember the LilyRaichu channel? too bad all the content was removed from the channel. I remember when this joke was used on like every Lily and Nyanners videos I saw.

    • @camillegarcia8582
      @camillegarcia8582 4 роки тому +21

      Ahhhh its good to see an old fan. True fans know that's just a a korean actress that he hired✊😔

    • @iLLya_
      @iLLya_ 4 роки тому +20

      @@camillegarcia8582 true we all know tyrone the bald buff 6ft blackman is the man behind the voice

  • @Simrasil_
    @Simrasil_ 5 років тому +207

    I've only been watching lily for a couple of weeks, so I guess I'm part of the influx of viewers that she got from the drama.. but I don't watch her *because* of the drama. I watch her because she is one of the most wholesome and kind souls that I've seen. I really enjoyed this video, thank you for all the good you do Dr. K!

    • @hollanderson
      @hollanderson 4 роки тому +3

      I watch because I was concerned for her well-being and enjoy the updates once in a while because knowing her personality I believe it would be very difficult to deal with someone cheating on them. Once she manages to fully / partially recover I will leave not because she is boring or undeserving or anything, but simply that I can stop worrying and move on.
      Not sure if that makes any sense.

    • @gall9had
      @gall9had 4 роки тому +4

      I watch her because of Michael Reeves I realized he was a part of a group that I used to watch a little bit of and now Im a part of that fanbase

  • @ReyaadGafur
    @ReyaadGafur 4 роки тому +416

    1:10:52 "Every gamer is a little bit broken"
    Yes. Definitely. Broken from several places, like expectations, results, and escaping reality.

  • @violetplasma4061
    @violetplasma4061 4 роки тому +349

    1:32:27 deadass sounded like micheal

    • @violetplasma4061
      @violetplasma4061 4 роки тому +28

      i swear to gawd i think lily thought so too

    • @nat2057
      @nat2057 3 роки тому +1

      I've legit been thinking the same thing, the whole stream through

    • @essitchi5978
      @essitchi5978 3 роки тому +1

      YES EXACTLY UNDERRATED COMMENT

    • @mrlivingzombie1288
      @mrlivingzombie1288 3 роки тому

      Yea lol

  • @jayeerbowlsonarow2099
    @jayeerbowlsonarow2099 5 років тому +91

    Lily is incredible. She deserves all the support in da world.

  • @MissyJ
    @MissyJ 4 роки тому +404

    It hurts to hear someone as talented as Lily feel like she isn't good enough for the attention she's gotten.

    • @Ari-ne2yb
      @Ari-ne2yb 3 роки тому +12

      Ikr she can play games well, she can play music, sing, animate, sketch, make digital art, is a wonderful and genuine person, can stream well, is hilarious. It's so sad she feels this way.

  • @kjellandrejuklerd6659
    @kjellandrejuklerd6659 5 років тому +189

    What Lily proves here is that she is a genuine nice person

    • @mfttfalex
      @mfttfalex 5 років тому +19

      @@igorrotar5341 what

    • @pyxylation
      @pyxylation 5 років тому +6

      @@mfttfalex yeah, isn't everyone somewhere in between?

    • @DaNoVaz1805
      @DaNoVaz1805 5 років тому +6

      @@igorrotar5341 are you ok? lol

    • @-Shiino
      @-Shiino 5 років тому +5

      @@igorrotar5341 bro who hurt you?

    • @mattiloponen92
      @mattiloponen92 5 років тому +6

      @@igorrotar5341 You need help. Call doctor GG now.

  • @aweshumandy
    @aweshumandy 4 роки тому +75

    1:07:05 i'm literally crying bc we all wish you could see that lily.

  • @kuroryu1638
    @kuroryu1638 4 роки тому +1512

    Roses are red,
    Violets are blue,
    When lily's tears drop,
    Mine did too

  • @honesty1381
    @honesty1381 3 роки тому +24

    Lily apologizing for crying and being sad literally breaks my heart bc I love her so much and she doesn’t deserve this pain😭😭🤍

  • @Fate025
    @Fate025 5 років тому +55

    2:08:07 I would like to say “thank you very much!” To Dr K.
    The mediation technique of reversing the whole day’s events and emotions is really useful!
    I tried it twice so far and I can really feel my mind being unwound and being released from the emotional load of the whole day.

    • @a.s.7775
      @a.s.7775 3 роки тому

      what is that technique called? I'd like to google it more

  • @jhh-jiynks6568
    @jhh-jiynks6568 5 років тому +12

    im at the library watching this.
    i cant stop tearing up watching this.
    its just sooo real.
    lily, keep being you and i hope dr.k helps you grow to new levels

  • @Frerrva
    @Frerrva 4 роки тому +101

    You interviewing streamers is one of the major things that was previously missing from gaming culture. I feel like what you're doing is filling a void that needed to be filled, and my hope is you will keep doing this and expand your campain for gamers' mental health to become a staple of this culture.

    • @notashton8689
      @notashton8689 4 роки тому +1

      Fredrik Grape Also I think as a whole it really helps the community understand the streamer and shows people that everyone has flaws

  • @sweetbananapie99
    @sweetbananapie99 4 роки тому +52

    this is like a really nice dad cheering up their daughter yk when he’s like
    Dr K: “ *talk for who??* “
    lily: “ *flustered sputtering* “

  • @P-K
    @P-K 4 роки тому +21

    Breaks my heart to see Lily cry, but so brave of her to talk about it in public like this.

  • @MrSinBADDY
    @MrSinBADDY 4 роки тому +10

    Heart goes out to Lily. She's finding out through a bad breakup that she has a self-critical mechanism. I am literally the exact same thing but instead of finding out through a bad breakup, I'm finding out through studying abroad when I'm away from family. Getting better day by day, hope it's the same for you too Lily

  • @momo8563
    @momo8563 5 років тому +272

    seeing her breakdown so hard about albert rly maade me sad... and her issues with "lily2" i can relate to so hard lol... anyways drK is great i wish i could have one of those talks cuz oo boy i need that

    • @smam7667
      @smam7667 4 роки тому +15

      Talk to a Therapist. Can say out of expierience that its very similar

    • @ainke
      @ainke 4 роки тому

      what happened with albert? sorry, I am not regular twitch viewer.

    • @sai-bc9ug
      @sai-bc9ug 4 роки тому +6

      haze. he cheated on her with a mutual friend of theirs

    • @ainke
      @ainke 4 роки тому +1

      @@sai-bc9ug wow... I seen clips of them being together. I didn't know about this.

    • @some1else947
      @some1else947 4 роки тому +1

      Wtf is lily2 pls explain

  • @kenhuang1871
    @kenhuang1871 4 роки тому +76

    1:54:45
    "Living a life of security and comfort is not how you live a fulfilling life"
    Wow, this hits deep.

  • @satan4518
    @satan4518 5 років тому +535

    Man I cried like a baby everytime Lily started crying

  • @srccretdude123
    @srccretdude123 5 років тому +148

    I wish I knew lily and give her so many hugs :(

    • @AXharoth
      @AXharoth 5 років тому +5

      :)

    • @christiandiaz
      @christiandiaz 5 років тому +1

      :)

    • @woddenbukkit1016
      @woddenbukkit1016 5 років тому +5

      you just wanna hug her lol

    •  5 років тому +28

      @@woddenbukkit1016 oh what a monster!

    • @Igelme
      @Igelme 5 років тому +1

      @@markrutte5637 qt amazon (6'5) gf>smol qt asian gf

  • @kacheekyy
    @kacheekyy 4 роки тому +18

    You really know what you’re talking about, I’m only a few minutes into this video and you just so effortlessly talk to her without being demeaning and showing GENUINE interest in what she’s saying. You’re the therapist I always wish I had.

  • @zuzaosowiecka
    @zuzaosowiecka 4 роки тому +708

    this is very off topic and all but i think it’d be very interesting to see Sykkuno on one of these.

    • @shaddjimenez4524
      @shaddjimenez4524 4 роки тому +60

      It’s still on topic, no need to put a disclaimer. I also agree that Sykkuno would be interesting.

    • @srk3studios138
      @srk3studios138 4 роки тому +123

      Sykkuno has mentioned going on it very recently, but he said there are things he isn't ready to talk about yet.

    • @zuzaosowiecka
      @zuzaosowiecka 4 роки тому +25

      @@srk3studios138 ah yeah i wasn’t aware when i wrote the comment. thanks for letting me know :)

    • @87turtle6
      @87turtle6 3 роки тому +76

      @@zuzaosowiecka i feel like he would dodge a lot of the questions

    • @BigFanOfCocks
      @BigFanOfCocks 3 роки тому +5

      @Bot Robot I- that sounds really similar to what I do tbh... both Lily and Sykkuno try to understand the hater, knowing that the hater might be going through something and hating to somehow cope with that or is a result of it
      Both of them are so kind and patient, and I really admire that

  • @pivos111
    @pivos111 4 роки тому +5012

    And now Michael Reeves comes with the big boi emotional support so he upgraded to boyfriend material.

    • @liamnoakes511
      @liamnoakes511 4 роки тому +9

      pivos111 yes.

    • @lancehitt0548
      @lancehitt0548 4 роки тому +153

      And then upgraded again to best boyfriend

    • @Thewlieee
      @Thewlieee 4 роки тому +30

      The best boi❤️

    • @cereall9457
      @cereall9457 4 роки тому +259

      Michael has been working it up the ranks since the start, in a fedmyster vlog around 10 months ago he let lily win an arm wrestle, but later crushed Albert within seconds. He predicted the future and was protecting his queen gracefully, before she even knew she was in danger. To the simp king, I bow.

    • @akshhat
      @akshhat 4 роки тому +6

      @@cereall9457 which vlog was it? I'm curious

  • @aphect2463
    @aphect2463 5 років тому +154

    this was really helpful personally. between the interviews with destiny and lily and their differences and similarities it was helpful seeing them work through their own personal troubles.

    • @OlPalJoe
      @OlPalJoe 5 років тому +6

      I'm here from the Destiny interview as well. Very different cases, very interesting how many different ways there are to be a person.

    • @OlPalJoe
      @OlPalJoe 5 років тому

      @Guiuu Shurt he also said he'd kill a puppy for 100k, very different cases lol

  • @waddupbroskis1468
    @waddupbroskis1468 4 роки тому +15

    When she started talking about her high school depression, I swear, that was the most relatable thing i was ever told my whole life.

  • @nug9g
    @nug9g 3 роки тому +13

    There's something about Dr K that brings me comfort. Like when he talks about stuff I feel like I can focus on the topics that I can relate to or that I think are important. Because when I'm talking to my therapist I do it in the morning when I'm not really in the sad zone so I end up just ranting about stuff like racism and sexism etc. But I feel like when I watch Dr K before a session I feel like I can stay in the zone of thinking about what I can control. Thanks Dr K you really have helped me out too with the things you talk about with other people.

  • @uniworkhorse
    @uniworkhorse 4 роки тому +106

    1:31:50 when he starts talking about the origins of hate it's so insanely big brain wtg

    • @nephuneph
      @nephuneph 4 роки тому +2

      Hurt leads to fear, fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering. The path of the Dark Side that is.

  • @kyen0125
    @kyen0125 4 роки тому +87

    This is incredibly motivational. Relationships can have a tremendous toll on anyone, especially if they end in bad terms. Lily has such an amazing soul. When she spoke about Albert getting a lot of hate and how no one deserves it, you can see the purity in her heart. Big props to Dr. and Lily for such an amazing conversation that not only benefits Lily but others who might be going through similar things or need to know that it’s okay to feel weak sometimes.

  • @wh7988
    @wh7988 4 роки тому +21

    I love this so much because lily keeps asking people to "talk about feelings" but no1 ever seems up to it. Im glad she could have this conversation.

  • @marknguyen6
    @marknguyen6 4 роки тому +204

    2:09:50
    Dr. K: Did you have trouble sleeping last night?
    Lily: I have trouble sleeping every night.
    BREAKS MY HEART :(

    • @JesusInStripeZ
      @JesusInStripeZ 3 роки тому +2

      I wonder if she's been sleeping better these days or if that's something that's just gonna stick with her forever

    • @chillux9404
      @chillux9404 3 роки тому

      @@JesusInStripeZ o

  • @jorgedlgg
    @jorgedlgg 5 років тому +49

    thank you Dr. K for everything you do, youre a gem among twitch. these interviews have helped me a lot