Amanda, I think you are just genuinely funny. You have comedic timing and talent. I laugh quite often during your videos, which I appreciate. Of course I learn so much from you, also. I could relate to the early part of this one that’s for sure. Have a great week. ❤️🇨🇦
I loved this video. Three things.... keep doing these healing videos of healing conversations! Two, once you're as funny as you are, you'll always be funny. Even when I was "healthier" before my recent traumas, I joked about my childhood in humorous ways. It'll always be there. And three, if you're in Phoenix, I'm in Mesa, and I absolutely hope I run into you at some point! I love you and your culty crew!!!
I’m 43 and I’m learning so much recently about myself. Grew up in a critical environment along with “you’re the child, I’m the adult,” no voice, no opinions of my own allowed, angry discipline, and so I had a lot of self hate for a long time. Thankfully came out of self hate. Still unloading things as a people pleaser and learning healthy boundaries /standing up for myself.
Any time I get depressed about how things are for me, it pushes me to re-evaluate myself. Biggest questions I ask myself are: 1) am I unhappy because I let myself down? 2) am I unhappy about something I can not change? 3) am I unhappy because I am letting the negative in the world push me down? 4) Would any of the 5 people I love the most be as hard on me as I am on myself?
I gotta say big kudos to you for sharing so honestly. My thoughts regarding your sense of humour, is that as you heal your humour will evolve. And come from joy rather than trauma. My two cents
I put some of the really basic life things, like washing my face, on my to-do list everyday as a simple thing I can check off right away to make me feel like the day's off to a good start - it makes a big difference. I also like "done" lists in my nightly journalling, where I list all of the things I did in a day, no matter how small. That really helps me see that I AM accomplishing things even on days that don't feel as productive, even if they're not the things I originally planned to do that day
oh wow. I literally thought how I don’t wanna know deep down of myself, how I am so scared and drained to do it. And I didn’t even realize it until I start to think about it. I joined your Patreon yesterday I cant wait for exclusive content.
Sometimes if one is neurodivergent, it’s even more intense with everything, because add trauma and the dysfunctional patterns growing up and unlearning… whew. It’s so hard.
If someone is in polygamy should I report it to the police? Like my ex husband with my little sister etc? Maybe we’re divorced but this was happening probably for years. They are proud of it too calling me my moms sister pretty creepy
That’s pretty gross about your dad why wouldn’t the police get involved I don’t understand what their problem is and the community. We’ve had similar problems in CA
Amanda, I think you are just genuinely funny. You have comedic timing and talent. I laugh quite often during your videos, which I appreciate. Of course I learn so much from you, also. I could relate to the early part of this one that’s for sure. Have a great week. ❤️🇨🇦
I loved this video. Three things.... keep doing these healing videos of healing conversations! Two, once you're as funny as you are, you'll always be funny. Even when I was "healthier" before my recent traumas, I joked about my childhood in humorous ways. It'll always be there. And three, if you're in Phoenix, I'm in Mesa, and I absolutely hope I run into you at some point! I love you and your culty crew!!!
I’m 43 and I’m learning so much recently about myself. Grew up in a critical environment along with “you’re the child, I’m the adult,” no voice, no opinions of my own allowed, angry discipline, and so I had a lot of self hate for a long time. Thankfully came out of self hate.
Still unloading things as a people pleaser and learning healthy boundaries /standing up for myself.
It was very interesting, thank you very much
This video was very needed for me and also massively painful to realize how far I've let myself stray from myself
Any time I get depressed about how things are for me, it pushes me to re-evaluate myself. Biggest questions I ask myself are: 1) am I unhappy because I let myself down? 2) am I unhappy about something I can not change? 3) am I unhappy because I am letting the negative in the world push me down? 4) Would any of the 5 people I love the most be as hard on me as I am on myself?
I gotta say big kudos to you for sharing so honestly. My thoughts regarding your sense of humour, is that as you heal your humour will evolve. And come from joy rather than trauma. My two cents
I put some of the really basic life things, like washing my face, on my to-do list everyday as a simple thing I can check off right away to make me feel like the day's off to a good start - it makes a big difference.
I also like "done" lists in my nightly journalling, where I list all of the things I did in a day, no matter how small. That really helps me see that I AM accomplishing things even on days that don't feel as productive, even if they're not the things I originally planned to do that day
oh wow. I literally thought how I don’t wanna know deep down of myself, how I am so scared and drained to do it. And I didn’t even realize it until I start to think about it. I joined your Patreon yesterday I cant wait for exclusive content.
I really wish we got some more info like the pateon... only cause I can't afford it
Sometimes if one is neurodivergent, it’s even more intense with everything, because add trauma and the dysfunctional patterns growing up and unlearning… whew. It’s so hard.
Amanda, I love how you love ☕️ COFFEE 🥴!
i love those coffees! 46:42 that one is my favorite! i just moved close to an hmart and also bought like 12 of those lol
If someone is in polygamy should I report it to the police? Like my ex husband with my little sister etc? Maybe we’re divorced but this was happening probably for years. They are proud of it too calling me my moms sister pretty creepy
I laugh in very dangerous situations no people don’t think it’s funny lol. But sometimes it’s so ridiculous
That’s pretty gross about your dad why wouldn’t the police get involved I don’t understand what their problem is and the community. We’ve had similar problems in CA