Its sick, they are talking about her love life and body parts. That is s**ual abuse even if she is of age and they even let minors see that chat. She should go NC with all of them and perhaps sue them for defamation or at least restraining order or to have a paper trail of what they've done to her for future.
If anyone ever talks about my daughter like that, whether it's my brother's uncle or anyone else in the family. the person will have to learn how to eat without teeth. Disgusting if parents would allow something like that
Bro has to be autistic, because that's the way I am. Brutally honest, and while I CAN lie (I was raised in a cult. You learn quickly.), I don't like to, and it's, like he said, exhausting to maintain a lie. It's just not worth it. However, I don't think he TA here, because he's aware of his honesty, and doesn't want to hurt his fiancee, and is looking for advice on how to reply in a way that doesn't hurt her, and in true reddit style, they just dogpile him. 🙄 He DOES need to learn how to manage his responses, that comment is true. "I love you found a dress that makes you happy." "If you love it, then I'm happy." And so on. Just because you're brutally honest doesn't mean you HAVE to be in a way that's hurtful, autism or not.
Wedding: So OP has a job that includes travel. So how does OP not spit out the truth to a client. Sorry,if he can handle a job with travel and clients and knows how to talk with them without insulting a client, no. He obviously doesn't "have to tell the truth". I call BS. Now the commenters who keep saying that his fiancee likes her dress. WRONG. His fiancee LOVES her dress. He basically said it himself. She was so excited that she Had to show him her dress now. She couldn't wait. What I'm wondering is whether the picture is the dress on the hanger or is his fiancee wearing the dress. With wedding dresses,it is quite common for dresses to look not very good when on the hanger, but once it is on a person, it'll be beautiful.
It's one of the harder questions. This is a very delicate topic at a delicate time. No way random Redditors are going to know the right answer. OP has to use all his knowledge of his fiance on how best to handle this
The child support story will end badly for OP sadly especially if her rich ex has a good lawyer because that money was given in good faith as a form of back support for their child OP gave it to parents for a house well that is a problem and they'll most likely have to sell the house to pay back the ex and she can get paternity established and then he'll just have to pay what the court says and he'll never give like that again to the detriment of the child and he'll likely get visitation until the child is older then ask for a custody order for partial or 50/50 and depending on how he's paid and the relationship built he'll get it what OP should have done was reject the money and say let's just go get a child support order he could have paid the restitution off in one go and then the co parenting would have been the last issue but by doing this he could possibly sue and win that money back and then what I get everyone is saying NTA because of emotions but that's not how that works in family law OP opened up herself and parent up to a possibly very bad situation I won't speak on morality of the situation because the law won't either.
Do you know how to avoid your kid going crazy when go to collage? Let them have a life before XD if you keep your kid in glass cage its whole life 99% of those kids will go nuts with newly acquiared freedom
Funny thing, this IS accurate. Parents are teachers and see it every time a big party with kids occur (something similiar to prom). Officially, no alcohol allowed, but you can't really control it. Kids from village/more lean on parents just take a vew shots and have a good night. City kids that never before had any occasion to drink are taken out when blacked out, lol
@@ritaerror7829 well, I remember how my case looked like - I was quiet and obedient kid, and my parents still were unhappy becouse some crazy standards they imagine themselves. Whole family of teachers (i think teachers are kind of broken inside) my parents were crazy overprotected, paranoid even, I couldnt do shit for most of my childhood "just be good and study" and around like 16 yo I started to rebel becouse of it - I started to ditch school, drink alcohol, smoke pot and much more. They were disappointed before so I thought "screw them, they were unhappy anyway". I did IT all mostly becouse I couldnt do Jack shit before so now I need to try everything, noone could stop me. Maybe if I had more freedom earlier in life things could be different.
tbh honest if they parents knew they raised you the right way they would know nothing will make you be loose easy and sleep around and very promiscuous no matter any place but I do understand parents views tho
Instead of being proud of how well they raised and homeschooled their child, they shame her??? So gross.
Its sick, they are talking about her love life and body parts. That is s**ual abuse even if she is of age and they even let minors see that chat. She should go NC with all of them and perhaps sue them for defamation or at least restraining order or to have a paper trail of what they've done to her for future.
OMG! 😳
Time to go NC. They're sick
If anyone ever talks about my daughter like that, whether it's my brother's uncle or anyone else in the family. the person will have to learn how to eat without teeth. Disgusting if parents would allow something like that
I’m painfully petty. For Story 1, I would have allowed rumors to spread out that my virginity was lost when home schooled.
Ouch. Love it.
Bro has to be autistic, because that's the way I am. Brutally honest, and while I CAN lie (I was raised in a cult. You learn quickly.), I don't like to, and it's, like he said, exhausting to maintain a lie. It's just not worth it.
However, I don't think he TA here, because he's aware of his honesty, and doesn't want to hurt his fiancee, and is looking for advice on how to reply in a way that doesn't hurt her, and in true reddit style, they just dogpile him. 🙄
He DOES need to learn how to manage his responses, that comment is true.
"I love you found a dress that makes you happy."
"If you love it, then I'm happy."
And so on. Just because you're brutally honest doesn't mean you HAVE to be in a way that's hurtful, autism or not.
Story 1 really needs an update
"I chose my boyfriend over my best friend" best friend chose OP's bf over her
S1: Someone talk like that about me or my siblings and they better be ready to throw hands
Wedding: So OP has a job that includes travel. So how does OP not spit out the truth to a client. Sorry,if he can handle a job with travel and clients and knows how to talk with them without insulting a client, no. He obviously doesn't "have to tell the truth". I call BS.
Now the commenters who keep saying that his fiancee likes her dress. WRONG. His fiancee LOVES her dress. He basically said it himself. She was so excited that she Had to show him her dress now. She couldn't wait. What I'm wondering is whether the picture is the dress on the hanger or is his fiancee wearing the dress. With wedding dresses,it is quite common for dresses to look not very good when on the hanger, but once it is on a person, it'll be beautiful.
It's one of the harder questions. This is a very delicate topic at a delicate time. No way random Redditors are going to know the right answer. OP has to use all his knowledge of his fiance on how best to handle this
Story 5 😊👌 tell the ex family's what you feel and what you reason and your ex reaction about it
The child support story will end badly for OP sadly especially if her rich ex has a good lawyer because that money was given in good faith as a form of back support for their child OP gave it to parents for a house well that is a problem and they'll most likely have to sell the house to pay back the ex and she can get paternity established and then he'll just have to pay what the court says and he'll never give like that again to the detriment of the child and he'll likely get visitation until the child is older then ask for a custody order for partial or 50/50 and depending on how he's paid and the relationship built he'll get it what OP should have done was reject the money and say let's just go get a child support order he could have paid the restitution off in one go and then the co parenting would have been the last issue but by doing this he could possibly sue and win that money back and then what I get everyone is saying NTA because of emotions but that's not how that works in family law OP opened up herself and parent up to a possibly very bad situation I won't speak on morality of the situation because the law won't either.
Story 2 stop visiting your dad.
Story 1 YES YOU ARE 70$ WORTH IT TO DESTROYED YOUR CONNECTION OFFAMILY'S
Your step mum was trying to Rob you and you didn't let her good for you.
Do you know how to avoid your kid going crazy when go to collage? Let them have a life before XD if you keep your kid in glass cage its whole life 99% of those kids will go nuts with newly acquiared freedom
chile folks be too dam nosey want to bet on someone else to spice their own messy lack of sex life lmao
Funny thing, this IS accurate. Parents are teachers and see it every time a big party with kids occur (something similiar to prom). Officially, no alcohol allowed, but you can't really control it. Kids from village/more lean on parents just take a vew shots and have a good night. City kids that never before had any occasion to drink are taken out when blacked out, lol
@@ritaerror7829 well, I remember how my case looked like - I was quiet and obedient kid, and my parents still were unhappy becouse some crazy standards they imagine themselves. Whole family of teachers (i think teachers are kind of broken inside) my parents were crazy overprotected, paranoid even, I couldnt do shit for most of my childhood "just be good and study" and around like 16 yo I started to rebel becouse of it - I started to ditch school, drink alcohol, smoke pot and much more. They were disappointed before so I thought "screw them, they were unhappy anyway". I did IT all mostly becouse I couldnt do Jack shit before so now I need to try everything, noone could stop me. Maybe if I had more freedom earlier in life things could be different.
tbh honest if they parents knew they raised you the right way they would know nothing will make you be loose easy and sleep around and very promiscuous no matter any place but I do understand parents views tho
Tbh means to be honest. So you said honest twice