My Parents Were Pedophiles-Lisa
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- Опубліковано 24 тра 2023
- Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Lisa, a survivor of childhood trauma now living in Phoenix, Arizona.
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Hello to everyone and thank you for all the kind and thoughtful comments and support! I'm so very appreciative and I feel so blessed and uplifted. I hope to pass that on to others. As a survivor I feel I must try to make the world a better place for children and victims. I will continue to try to do that in any way that I can as a therapist and an advocate. I'm so grateful to be where I am at in life and I don't take that for granted. Please feel free to reach out for updates or for healing tools. Best wishes in healing and for all good always, Lisa
Lisa, you are amazing! You have gone thru hell and are like a phoenix rising from the ashes. Congrats on your profession. Question: I’ve heard that “the body remembers the trauma”. Well, how do you let you body release it? What does it mean to “do the work?” I am so very sorry that you were neglected and abused. I’m sorry you experienced those predators. Thank you for sharing and keep on.
Kept on going helping others in turn its helping you Being stronger everyday Forgetting the past is a hard but your doing it ❤ Keep in touch with us .
I am so very sad that you never had a caring parent, except for your step-dad as a kid. None of the harm inflicted upon you should have happened. Your soul is so beautiful and I am glad you are healing. You inspire me.
Good on you Lisa for fighting and having the courage to keep going, very inspirational. Thank you for sharing your story.
I am completely speechless by your story. I truly wish you the most loving journey on your way to inner peace♥️. Also, EMDR is awesome!
If we just started dating and you are asking to be alone with my children for any reason, that’s an immediate red flag
I don’t believe Lisa. None of us do. I speak for everyone when i say this.
@@MrGFloydSpoken like a true pedophile
lol wtf are you talking about. Read the rest of the comments. You're alone in this disgusting belief. Also, you NEVER have the right to "speak for everyone", especially with your crippling lack of intelligence and awareness.@@MrGFloyd
@@MrGFloydYou’re only speaking for Lisa’s abusers when you say this. We believe her.
@@MrGFloydYou speak for your bumh0le. Who’s everyone?
I’m only 11 minutes in and i have to say i LIKE that she uses names.. call them all out.
Yes! I am her book editor, and she is a fearless warrior! Even when she was treated miserably by the justice system, she showed up to testify and put pedophiles behind bars.
Me too. I caught onto that immediately
Yep!!
As it should be.
💪 Gotta shine the light on the darkness
That absolutely, legitimately scared me when she described her parents the way she did. They are everywhere hiding in plain sight
Watch predator poachers. They are ALL types.
They absolutely are all around us.
Why would detectives bring a child to the door of a murderer??
That’s what my question is. Im so glad she is stil here today, and now she can stand out for herself.
Kinda makes you wonder if that D was involved somehow
Presumably they were armed.
I thought that was crazy asf.
She 🧢🧢🧢
Imagine being treated this way your entire life. It is a miracle she grew up to be so kind and dignified.
By the grace of God.
@@joanofarcxxiif god was involved why was she being horribly sexually abused?
@@joanofarcxxigod isn't real. if he was, she never would've been so horribly sexually abused by adults in her life as a child.
@@ultraparanioa Sorry? Humans are made to have a free will, God has nothing to do with you or your choice on whether you decide to take a sh-t today or beat someone up instead: everything you do is up to YOU. Life will always HAPPEN, regardless of God’s existence, but what God can and will do is give you the strength and love to overcome these situations in your life. There’s a reason people say that God IS love, God is not some genie you can summon for everyone’s selfish needs and I am not talking about this lovely woman, but people who don’t believe and think God will just show up like the genie from Aladdin.
@@lgjcexactly.
"I didn't have the words"
Jesus that hits so deep. Bless your soul lady for surviving this horrific childhood.
This is the most intense thing I’ve watched all of 2024
I don't think I can watch it all. 😪
I agree made me feel sick
“A single mother with issues is a pedophile magnet”. Growing up with an alcoholic single mother w mental health issues, i can absolutely attest to this
Same. Alcoholic and drug abusing mom on my end. She actually caused my fathers death then married a pedophile when I was 6 months old. That's when the abuse started.
a lot of the time in cases of famous pedos like Jared Fogle and the guy from lost prophets, they would use their celebrity to lure in single mothers with young children, and actually convince the mothers to let them use their children. anyone who willingly and knowingly pimps out their own children has a reserved spot in Hell
When my ex-husband and I split I made a promise to my kids that there'd be no men in our home. The stats on abuse by a man who isn't the father of the children he lives with are hideous. So, no men in the home. Yes, it was lonely, but my kids came first.
Same. My mother didn't have addiction problems (that I knew of) but she had the lowest self steem and brought multiple pedos to our home when I was a child.
my mother was an addict and her boyfriend raped her and she let him walk her home. that same man touched me sexually and claimed he thought i was my mom… she said he would never come back around. low and behold, he supplied the drugs and affection so she kept him around. I stopped visiting her after that.
I’m so thankful my father had full custody. he protected me
from my uncle and was so big and scary looking that we were the last kids a pedo would try to assault.
broken, addict or not, single moms are super dangerous to children.
a father saying "Don't make a big deal out of it" to his kid getting molested is just fcking crazy insane. Makes my blood boil.
😭
"Yeah i know you got ravaged and traumatized but take a chill pill it's not a big deal" like how dense are you sir. Makes me so damn angry
Yeah, literally just rubbing her suffering in her own face.@@canismoved
I thought she was going to say her dad came and try to kill the guy or something and when I heard what he said I was just disgusted to say the least, disappointed for not hearing what I wanted to hear a dad say. Instead he was a HS teacher who liked young boys.
Learn more about narcissism, it will explain why the world is the way it is.
I was molested by my mother and stepfather and even though the situations are different there are so many similarities in how predatory people manipulate their victims. I was fortunate that my perpetrators were arrested and prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law. Lisa, you are a warrior! Keep speaking out!
I am so sorry 😢
I’m a victim of SA and I couldn’t get through 19 minutes of this without feeling physically sick
so am i. it was hard to finish. i hope you can heal the best you can. you are not alone.
I felt like I had to as triggering as it was.To be heard is so important. This is tge truth of so many.
when she described the pantsing situation in almost threw up because i experienced the exact same thing
Ikr I had to stop watching.
Mothers are there to protect their children not let them get violated unless they're jealous and want to destroy them
I know. Sick and angry.
The fact that she was smoking, drinking, and doing drugs since she was eight years old shows how much the abuse affected her and made her want an escape.
Exactly..I feel so bad for her.
Reminds me of Drew Barrymore.
Precisely. I wish people wouldn’t forget this when they look down upon addicts.
@@PneumaNoose it’s not the life choices that many look down on, it’s the effect that the addicts have on people around them. In the movie “Us,” everyone is sympathetic to the Tethered but everyone also feels good when they die.
For we all have sinned and fell short of the glory of God and the wages of sin is death and sin separates us from God and God doesn’t want us to be separated from him. And because he loved us so much, he sent Jesus Christ, his only son, to die on the cross for our sins and was buried. This made Jesus the perfect sacrifice for our sins. And 3 days later, he rose up so through him, we can have eternal life. He wants a genuine relationship with you. He Will be Coming Back Soon.
Do you desire to repent of your sins and live righteously to God? Then “believe in the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved.” Cast yourself upon Him. Trust in His death for your sins and His resurrection, which has the power to remove your sins and to replace them with the perfect righteousness of Christ. That if you confess with your mouth, "Jesus is Lord," and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.
Prayer : Dear Lord,
I admit that I am a sinner. I have done many things that don’t please you. I have lived my life for myself only. I am sorry, and I repent. I ask you to forgive me.
I believe that you died on the cross for me, to save me. You did what I could not do for myself. I come to you now and ask you to take control of my life; I give it to you. From this day forward, help me to live every day for you and in a way that pleases you.
I love you, Lord, and I thank you that I will spend all eternity with you.
Amen.
You weren't "forever naive", you were a child subjected to so much manipulation. Those monsters were everywhere.😢
Those monsters are sinister and effective. Their brainwashing and grooming techniques work on little innocent children. Parents need to warn their children against child predators and murderers. Never leave your child with a stranger, man or woman. And tell your child to never let anyone touch them. If they are trained from infancy they will be safer.
Let us also remember that "those monsters" were probably victims themselves who just never got the help they needed.
This is why therapy and talking to people about serious matters is so important.
Especially children.❤
@@Jxiaojthcuwonsbf1230I know a high percentage WERE victems themselves, however, two wrongs do not make a right!! Once an adult there IS NO EXCUSE to hurt a child and have NO sympathy for them. I was hurt but I am.not out there molesting children. I never got help, I didn't even tell anyone for years...I turned to drugs and alcohol so please, let there be NO EXCUSES FOR THESE PEOPLE, victems or NOT!!!
One of my molesters was shot and killed by his 14yo stepdaughter. She got too old for him and he was replacing her.
I was in therapy for years before the memories actually came together, and i understood why I acted out as I did. My parents knew. They hid the shame. My sister, brother, and I were all victims of 3 uncles, my dad's brothers. I'm sure that they(the brothers) were also sexually abused as well. But, they were old enough at the times that they abused us to know right from wrong. It's been a lifelong struggle for me to understand why my parents did nothing and continued to allow these monsters to come to our house and act like everything was normal. It probably why, as a 60 year old single woman that I can not even think about dating. I hate the thought of an old man touching me. It makes me physically ill.
Exactly 👏
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes, dr.porass. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place.
Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
He's constantly talking about killing someone.
He's violent. Anyone reading this
Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
Is he on instagram?
Yes he is dr.porass.
My jaw was on the floor this entire interview. Her perseverance is remarkable.
Pedophilia is so rampant in this world. I'm sorry that you had such creeps raising you. 😢You are really brave to share your story.
Yep, take a look at the comments on any news article about a female teacher and male student and you’ll see how rampant pedophilia is.
People have no issue with it and defend it but will freak out over things that aren’t a risk. Then they act high and mighty like they’re defenders of children. Meanwhile dismissing all of the community leaders and religious or family members that are pedophiles.
I’ll never understand.
I don’t want to believe this :( who looks at children like that? Like how can anyone possibly ugh it’s sickening 😢
I had no idea until I started watching this channel. I had such a basic childhood, with zero abuse and a lot of love. I thanked my parents profusely after watching this channel. Unreal what some kids go through.
Yeah there seems to be a higher prevalence nowadays
It's very concerning and I fear for children in this era
@@Notyourmanicpixiedreamgirl I think that once someone is a predator and has very predatory behaviours they can go down that path
The fact anyone thinks going to a “family nudist camp” is normal or not creepy is mind blowing
the fact that such a place even existed/exists
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I live in Central Florida where there are several nudist camps. I'm acquainted with a few people who are nudists & they are lovely people, hippies really. But they are acutely aware that there are people with bad intentions & they try their best to keep those bad seeds out. It's unfortunate that in 2024 there is such a huge threat to children. I feel like the tolerance we have now for alternative lifestyles opens the door for degenerates. Especially when they know they can accuse others of being hateful if they get called out for their behavior.
@@ashlimontgomery8780This literally has nothing to do with lgbt people. Statistically, they're the one being abused as kids.
@@ashlimontgomery8780 excuse you? Are you confused or what does LGBT has to do with pedophiles?
This is why sexual education is SO important!
"I didn’t have the words"
Sex ed is not just for teenagers to prevent unwanted pregnancy or to know what goes where.
Sex ed in simple words must be taught in Kindergarten. Teach them the correct terms for all parts of male and female bodies and for heavens sake explain consent.
I don't think that'll help because that's not what children should be thinking about, rather we need to be stricter on our leniency of sexual related things. If anything, we need to go back to being Puritans. This is a cause of early exposure to sexuality, and that is doing just that.
@@generalgrievous-My mom would sat me down ever since I was able to speak as a toddler to explain to me what parts of my body shouldn't be touched by anyone and that it didn't matter what they would tell me to threaten me to stop me from talking I could always tell her or grandma. Same goes for anyone trying to get me to touch them in particular places. She was very specific about that being true for anyone including my dad, my uncle's, cousins or even grandpa. My grandma did the same. I'm forever thankful for having that conversation so many times. I don't think it's needed to go further than that for young kids. I think this is better to be discussed within the family, but teachers should also do this.
There's no need to be explicit with children for them to understand what's not okay. But they need to know how to defend themselves. That's not sexualizing them. It's helping them learn boundaries.
Teach them basic anatomy and boundaries. That's all they need to know. It's not fair to steal their innocence through fear and adult material before they are old enough to comprehend it. Teach them their body parts with correct anatomical terms and that they are private..
@@humanbean1004 I have an 11 yer old son, and agree with all of this. Speak to them in terms they understand. Nobody wants to have to take innocence away from their kids, but they need to be aware. I've also had to explain internet sexploitation, and If it ever happens, he needs to not be embarrassed, and come to me or his dad. No matter what. Open communication is the most important thing.
@@kytruth1027 that's exactly what I meant. I didn't say show them hard core porn.
"I cant let that anger go inwards and be depression, so i have to put that anger where it belongs." This seriously changed so much about my thought process about where i am in my healing journey with similar experiences. Im really grateful to have been able to hear this story, thank you for sharing.
Yes. I felt that too.
it feels like every single person in her life has let her down, even as an adult and that is heartbreaking
I just finished watching the entire story, and I can't stop crying. She really became her own advocate. Incredible.
Her mother had one decent boyfriend that tried to fill the role of a good step father. But he was gone half of the time (merchant navy) and I think they split up when she was 12. But at least she got from him the confirmation that there ARE other relationships between kids and (step) father, and that she deserved better.
Seriously. It’s almost like it was all done on purpose that’s how terrible her story is. One thing after the next, after the next, after the next. Are people really this terrible on purpose?
@@franziskani it was also for just such a short time
@@adt4025 people tend to flock together if they are the same. Sadly she was born into a terrible state, she seemed to pull through but her siblings didn’t. We also don’t know how well she parents or how healthy her relationship is with her husband. I’m hoping she is at peace and breaking the emotional damage cycle
Damn really makes you think twice about the girls who were labeled as "sluts" in school :( i just want to scream at the adults and people who have failed people like Lisa
Yes, but why call girls sluts, ever?
@@thematriarchy2075 idk ask them, ppl have issues
Exactly how can a 10 year be a slut to a 30 year old man .. victim blaming
Thank you so much! I feel this and appreciate it. I hope to educate people in this area, junior high and high school was such a terrible experience for me. Appreciate you!
Blame the victim. Call a girl a slut and make sure everybody knows it and no one will believe the guy involved did anything improper, his mates will be envious of the stories he will tell and some will claim they were lucky with her too, simply because they don't want to be known as the guy who missed out, and that is how innocent girls get bad reputations. To be fair young boys get blamed for seducing their ugly old teachers and coaches and priests if they tittle-tattle. Age-old story, just don't know why people insist on believing such lies. Go to any courtroom and lawyers will be perpetuating the same old 'slut' stories. That ought to teach a victim to never open her|his mouth. Shame is big.
her mom saying "why didn't you tell me !!" and holding her close for the first time in front of detectives is not only absolutely infuriating but disgusting... only trying to save her own ass at her daughters expense
Lisa, you are so strong and unbelievably brave for not only enduring it the first time, but also sharing your story and reliving it with us here
wishing you the best in life !!!
You might be unbelievably gullible.
@@bo840Shut up. 🤡
I fully believe her mom was trafficking her. She was renting out her daughter to pedophiles for drug and party money. 😒
My body had such a visceral reaction to that. It was like someone hit me over the head with a pan and all I could hear was like muffled static. How sick.
I am a survivor of teenage SA.
When I had my own children, I was overprotective, and my husband and I decided to work shifts. My children were never to daycare.
I watched them like a hawk.
Even as they became teenagers.
I would go with them to concerts and always chaperone on school trips.
This lady is a survivor. She must have been so scared as a child it is horrible everything that has happened to her.
im very sorry for you experiencing this, but you should still give your kids room to themselves. if they cant do anything alone, they will sneak out and even worse stuff can happen. im just saying this, so people are aware of those kinda dangers
@@loveawayy
My kids are now 36 and 34 they are both in the Army and have successful careers.
They never did drugs they have a beer now and then.
When I asked them if they resented me being with them as a chaperone.
They say maybe a bit at the time, but the parents of our friends didn't care, and you did.
did anyone catch the moment her father told her "children dont remember anything before the age of 3"..chilling moment and very telling about his character and what hes done
That is a odd statement to make. Huge Red Flag
A guy on Reddit posted about his daughter who "wouldn't remember" while he calmly explained how his wife was 'asleep' during this time. one of his comments was, 'she will not remember anything before she is 3 anyway..'
there are so many of us who simply have no idea.
There were 10 likes on his post.
@@Lucid-1111 This is so sad. Why would anyone give a thumbs up? Our society is crumbling from lack of Love and decency.
The “all p3dos are philosophers” part stuck with me.
I missed that….her dad sounds like such a child expert now…doesn’t he? How could I have missed this effin’ gem of a comment? ♥️
What a harrowing atrocity of a childhood this woman had. She’s a survivor. Her resilience is incredible.
I’m 8 minutes in and I can’t stand to listen to this any longer. It makes me feel ill
I knew this woman growing up! She's my friend's mom, I saw her at church every single weekend. I can't believe how strong she is, I had no idea. I'm at such a loss for words. I can't believe something like this happened to someone who is so instrumental to my childhood
She was exposed from one creep to another. Its almost liked she lived in a creeper community.
It's very sad I'm sorry that nothing was followed through with. To give her a better childhood.
@@jaggirl The whole “let’s allow kids into a nudist colony” thing is UTTERLY INSANE. Like WTF!!! 🤬. The only nudity a child should be exposed to is their own. This story broke my heart.
@@Orfeo68 my parents were nudists so was i when i was little thank god nothing like this did ever happened to me but i don't think there is nothing inherently wrong with parents taking their kids to a nudist beach/colony.
As a person who is 22 but looks under age, you will be astounded by how common I experience creeps and perverts, it has halted my dating life due to lack of trust. Keep your children extremely close, people. I wish the absolute best for you and your family, Lisa.
same i have 30+ guys hit on me and then be dissapointed when i tell them im 24 and not a minor its disgusting
Yes very few people realize that for a lot of people , S* advances from strangers usually slow down or stop once you look like an adult.
I had to deal with that working retail. For looking so young (I’m actually pushing 30), it’s like to catch a predator fr
I feel literally sick to my stomach that this has and is happening to innocent babies and kids. People in the community should be allowed to pull these people apart in the streets as a demonstration that we do not accept pedophiles and they WILL be prosecuted accordingly. And ad a mother to a girl... atrocious and disgusting, that was no mother. How could you ever knowingly put your kids in danger what a failure as a mom. Dos sorry Lisa for what you went through, thanks for sharing your story and shedding light on this. Moms need to be aware of the danger thats always lurking.
Never in this life did I envision this level of child sexual abuse in the presence of their parent. Extremely disturbing! Lisa, I applaud your courage and resilience.
You would be floored.
Thank you Mark and blessings. Expose these animals
Thank you so much for your kind words
@@creolelady3930 Yes, they need to be exposed, I'm so grateful to have any opportunity to do that
@@LisaPlumbMFT oh Lisa, I was in tears throughout your story but especially when you would talk about how badly you were treated by not only your own parents and abusers but the people in law enforcement…You know, the ones that are supposed to believe and protect you!
I just feel so incredibly bad for you. I’m so so sorry hon. 😪😪😪😪
It's the Israelis with remote mind control weapons corrupting all the countries for their communist revolution.
The worst predator here is the mother who not only failed to protect her but actually threw her in front of the pedophiles. It's heartbreaking. The mother wanted the molesting to happen it seems. For me this woman is not only crazy, she's a monster. Dear, beautiful Lisa, I wish you so much love and healing. Thank you so much for sharing your story.
Yeah, the mom is actually a participant; especially letting the kids see her be with Larry.
She was probably getting money from pédophiles. Literally pimping child-prostitution.
I mean, her mom definitely had a hand in it. But the actual people who DID it are the worst pedophiles
There all fucking equally horrific. She didn't protect her because she knew and enjoyed it.
The dad is absent, and also asks her to forget her experience. Don't forget his role, he abandoned his little girl completely. The pedophiles are still the worst, and dunno if Larry threatened his gf
Her story is somewhat similar to Michelle Steven’s childhood who ended up with multiple personalities, but ended up becoming a psychologist. She wrote a book about her childhood trauma “SCARED SELFLESS”. I cried every time I read that book. The disgusting things pedos do to children had me in tears. Her mom was aware of everything as well n did nothing 😢
I will never accept nudism. Even if it’s only adults. But the thing NO ONE can say is normal, is taking your child’s chlotes off in public. Being nude isn’t normal. Children being nude around adults is MAD. I don’t know how it is legal to go on “family nude camps”. I really can’t belive I live in a world like this.
Thank you Lisa that you shared your horrifying story. I am so proud of how strong you are, and that you never gave up fighting. People like you inspire me. Sending you so much love❤️
i agree. nudist camps are weird and not normal but consenting adults can do whatever they want idc honestly. children should NEVER be allowed in a space like that. they can’t consent!!!
@@musicluvr0795Exactly! I don’t give a crap what consenting adults do in their free time, but making your children strip naked in front of god knows who should be illegal. WHY even risk it? Of course pedos would flock to those places, use common sense!
Absolutely agree!!!
Her language is heartbreaking. “Anyways”, “whatever” when recounting her story. Constantly being letdown by the people who are supposed to be there for her. But she’s impossible to pity. Most people would fold underneath her circumstances. So many people in her life failed her yet she still wants to help people and children that may have been in a similar position to her in the past. Incredible resistance, truly admirable. I wish her nothing but the purest joy life can provide
I get what you’re saying, but I also hear her saying “whatever” from a different perspective, such as when they were watching “Pretty Baby” at the campground-she said she was like, “whatever” about that. As if they’re these weird adults watching this weird creepy film, you know? And she’s going along with it. Like “whatever”. But I get what you’re saying too.
Its like shes remembering and its so sick the “whatever” or “anyways” erases in that moment the scene in her mind 🥺
Kind of like a defense mechanism sort of
@@madanelayne3530I do the same thing - grew up in a very violent home and as such I’ve permanent nerve damage that’s left me with mobility issues, and PTSD, I’m okay explaining the general gist of the abuse I faced but not the specifics, if I do I try to do it as quickly as possible and try to move on with “anyway”, “it’s whatever” as a coping mechanism of sorts to stop the potential oncoming flashbacks.
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I feel like her mom and bio dad were trafficking her. I feel like they were compensated. I’m so sorry Lisa, you deserved so much better
Yes of course. That's why they kept forcing her to travel with strangers
@@FC-hj9ub but where did all that money go?
@@elinaj3689drugs, expensive food, clothing, trips, pricey electronics
@@elinaj3689 Mom was a party girl remember? Living up the single lady life. Probably drugs, alcohol and gambling.
@@elinaj3689I mean if that happened it probably wasn’t a lot of money.
I experienced two different types of trauma in back to back years, in '21 and '22. Literally to the day. Thats quite recent. I lost 30 pounds and my hair is so thin now. I struggle in December, I hate Christmas music and the gatherings but christmas lights are okay. I want to hide, I hate January, I dissociate more often and seasonal depression is at an all time difference. I've recently moved in with my bf, he's the sweetest, most patient, gentle soul who tries his hardest to understand my worst days. I still disassociate after sex sometimes, even though its consensual and loving. I recognize Lisa's discomfort, the readjusting of clothes, the almost breathlessness, the wiping of the forehead, I wouldn't doubt she's shaking some too. Yet, I think to myself that she is so brave, so strong, trauma does not go away and wow look at how amazingly you can still shine! I think it takes years to untangle your jumbled up mind and even then you downplay your own experiences and feelings, naturally, unfortunately. The denial and naivety you go through...ugh. A vicious cycle. I was drinking everyday of 2022 and most of 23, I didn't want to think or feel anything, I still struggle, but I'm drinking less often now. Then of course there's the whole 'your mind forgets but your body remembers' aspect of trauma. So many dates of the year are different now, whether you're paying attention or not, your sub conscious is. And damn don't you react to everything differently, phew, its a deep...rage and so much hollowness. Lisa is so articulate, I hope to be able to articulate or at least make sense of my traumas one day. Any who, I can ramble on! 😅 I, and so many others, can relate to a lot of the feelings shared. Its the shittiest club to be in, but it can also turn you into someone inspiring and empathetic and *good*. Someone who can make a real difference. Like diamonds in the rough. The world won't stop for anyone, so we truck on like warriors!! Thank you for sharing your story Lisa
She reminds me so much of my mom and it breaks my heart. The fact that she was able to still be happy in life and have a loving family is just so amazing.
I did my interview with Mark about 8 or 9 months ago. A few months back I got a private message from Lisa telling me how moved she was with my story. She hinted that she wanted to tell her story as well. I told her to go for it. The telling of our trauma on our terms means that we are now in control of our pain, rather than our pain controlling us. We sit alone with our shame, and it just eats us up. It's better to share it with the world and not let it just be on our own shoulders.
Bravo Lisa for being able to articulate so well the horror you lived through. There are so many monsters out there, it's absolutely frightening the number of sick individuals running around. Well done, now go have a more peaceful life now that the burden you have carried is lifted.
Thank you ::: Lisa ::: ❤ 🧡 💛 & Thank you ::: Clark ::: 💚 💙 💜 for sharing your stories.
It means the world to us all. 🌎
I was guided to both of your interviews late last night. I , too, have a surgery mark. I wrote a comment on your interview feed as well as hers with an open, flowing heart❤ guided by grounded faith. I watched Lisa’s interview first and knew you had something to do with this. I felt it strongly . Hours later you wrote this. Inner peace with a quiet mind well earned is a powerful combination and CLARITY is priceless. ❤
I'll never forget your story Clark. I hope you and Lisa are doing well!
Thank you Clark. Has Lisa’s book been published ? I’d love to read it if so.
@@sharonbernhardt5387 thank you Sharon
I'm glad she talks about not only the abuse, but how the system consistently failed her for decades after the abuse. It needs to be heard by the institutions that fail these people.
It’s crazy how even when she was older too and had a whole family!! That’s insane…
Lisa, we love you. These life experiences NEED to be heard. Child trafficking needs to STOP. Voices of these children NEED to be heard!. KEEP TALKING!!!
Wow… I’m so proud of you! My mama instinct just wants to reach back through time and be your mama, and give you the love and hugs and encouragement and protection that you deserve!!! I’m furious with everyone that hurt you 🤬
I’ve had an NDE, so I’m obsessed with listening to other people’s NDE experiences. We have so many common threads. One of those is that we planned our suffering, for many reasons. I can’t help but think that you came here to catch those predators. That voice that told you to memorize the route… that’s part of it… I hope you can find solace in understanding that you helped catch those monsters! 🙌💪🥰
I have never had a NDE myself, but I have recently learned about them, and have been reading 1-2 stories daily since. I feel like it has helped me become more spiritually enlightened. Have you shared yours on nderf? I would love to read it. Definitely the part about the voice inside speaking to her. We are all connected, and our life has a purpose even the suffering. She seems like such a strong beautiful soul despite all of the evil around her.
I looked up Don Gordon's case and my jaw dropped. He spent 26 months in a mental hospital for his first pedo offense as an adult (who knows what he did before age 18.) Five years after his release, he was arrested again for crimes against 6 children, including Lisa. He was sentenced to 10 years in prison but was paroled after 5. Within 5 years of his release, he was arrested _again_ for molesting a child. He was sentenced to over 16 years, but was paroled after 8. Within 2 years, he was caught with kiddie porn. Hopefully he spent the rest of his life in prison, but considering how lax the system is with these monsters, he may have gotten out. It is unbelievable that the justice system keeps releasing these people to offend over and over again! It seems there is no regard for the well being of children.
@@taramcgavan7654 And parole boards.
Looked into it too and three of his victims were his children. Fucking awful.
Thank you for looking into it …devastating
I'm at the point where I think the Judges are in on it.
Why is he still alive? I thought inmates sort such people out in prison
This is absolutely horrific! All the adults should be in jail.
Just in jail?
Woodchipper !
Pig farm
so should the other kids that assaulted her
This is just an incredible episode. I could not stop watching till the very end, even though I had so many things to do this morning. Your story took me back to my youth and when you were speaking about that feeling of climbing through the mud, a trigger taking you back to the childhood trauma, and that PTSD rollercoaster, I know every thing and every feeling that you’re talking about. I lived through people ignoring me and not supporting me. Professionals in multiple fields that should’ve helped. I don’t think anyone can truly understand what we go through unless they’ve been there. It affects us forever. With my job, I help people every single day, with some having similar situations. Thank you for doing this Lisa. I think you’re amazing. You are an inspiration to me, God bless you.
If you happen to read this, please reach out to me. I would love to speak to you sometime.
Love MC 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
I send any child who suffered any sort of abuse at the hands of any adult like Lisa; the upmost strength, peace, love and happiness for the rest of their lives. Your resiliences is incredible 💪🙌
"you had a quite extensive sex life" I CANNOT BELIEVE A FATHER WOULD SAY SOMETHING LIKE THAT AFTER EVERYTHING SHE TOLD HIM. IT'S INFURIATING.
He was likely abusing her when she was an infant.
How dare you speak to like that ! 😡
Normally I scold people for using all caps, but for your comment, the letters should be even bigger! You're so right! How dared he, what a terrible father he was. 😢
@@ninashirley432Who are you referring to and what is your point?
@@staciacrick3373 probably about the father saying that, not the comment tht is rightly disgusted by it
She said something so sad: Once you’re labelled as used you become fair game. It’s true and it’s SO sick.
I needed to hear this. My father damaged me (sa) when I was six months one of the only times he saw me in childhood. It was the beginning of horrific abuse. My maternal Gpa, my adolescent uncle, my maternal gma all had sexually abused me by the time I was 2. I thought it was me, but this comment really made it click for me, so thank you.
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@@amandaserena2007 as a mum of 2 babies i found this extremely, extremely upsetting to read. I'm so incredibly sorry that happened to you
It’s so sick, to do this to any child. But from 6 months old to 2 years old, I can’t even wrap my mind around it. I’m very sorry
Yes, AND you become fair game at school and jn the dating and working world too. So you have to remove yourself from all of that and truly focus in order to get a descent partner who treats you normally and fairly. Men seem to be able to sniff it out.
This is the most devastating thing I've ever watched. Lisa, you are a shining light in a world full of atrocities. What you do makes a difference. The life you've created for yourself makes a difference. I am dismayed at how consistently you have been let down by the adults around you, and violated by so many others. Yet still, you have made something more of your life than what you have been subjected to. For that, for your courage to sow new seeds in your present in order to create a beautiful future, you deserve the world and everything more. Please keep being a voice against this while the rest of us will stand with you. Together, we will all be the difference. Sending so, so much love and healing energy your way. From another hopeful psychology student❤️
Lisa, thank you for sharing your life experience. So much trauma from such a young age & by so many. The lack of understanding or support from authorities is shocking. The one simple request for you to be updated of jury's decision & their failure to take 5min to make that call, followed by their response showed no empathy. Also, considering the obvious reasons for your request & concerns regarding safety, showed a total disregard for not only yours but also your children's welfare. It was so sad listening to you & the realisation that you basically didn't have any parental support or love that a child needs to be neutered correctly & protected. The strength & courage you have to go through such pain & be here to tell your story is unbelievable. You're an amazing person & I wish you all the very best for future ahead, because boy you deserve it. FYI: Just about to graduate myself to become a counsellor, so from one therapist to another... good luck doing the work. 👍
You didn’t have a voice as a child but you have a voice now. I’m proud of you for telling your story. You are courageous. Keep it up!
Thank you so much! ✊🏻🙏🏻
@@LisaPlumbMFTyou are beautiful blessed and loved. I’m hugging your 5 yr old self. ♥️🙏🏼👏
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@@LisaPlumbMFT so resilient and a downright hero!
Great comment !
People get 15 years for personal possession of drugs but literal serial child rapists will get like 3 years. We HAVE TO CHANGE THIS!!!! SOMEHOW, DOING DRUGS IS SEEN AS WORSE THAN ASSAULTING CHILDREN BY THE LAW?!?!?
Thank Regan!😊
Totalling shocking !!!
It's probably that way because the people sentencing the pedophiles are also pedophiles and want less time in case they get caught
One in Claremore okla. Got 9 months suspended. I'll never forget that horrible judge, she was 9yrs. The judge was probably a ped also.
It will never change, they are all pedos
Having cptsd i can really relate to many of the feeling she expressed. You're so strong to share your story with millions of people. I wish you'll find peace someday.
Thank You so much!! You are my hero!. Your wording of things after the 45:00 min mark. Just left me choking. You explained exactly what it was like,"walking through mud....". Just sending you so much love, the 'love you even though'. Big hugs.
You Helped me so much. Thank you.
My mother physically and emotionally abused me. My sister, 8 yrs older,SA me at the ages of 4-6. My mother beat me for saying she did.
Today, after .multiple other traumas and being an alcoholic for 14 yrs, I have been sober for 16 months Today Yeah. I am so grateful. I choose to be happy, even if I have to fake it until my happy engines get fully motivated. And I try to always help those who can't or won't protect themselves. Even if it means completely ruining my career; well, what I had not yet killed with the booze.
I am so proud of you. And honored to have heard it. I too have CPTSD and those triggers are so real.
Don't forget to mentally hug & love the child in your memories. It's nice to hear you speak of the good & bad times being so drastic. This happened to me after my last experience.
And when you speak of single, SA survivors, mothers that are prey. I have not been on a date since 2008, children were young. I trusted no one.
This lady is a badass. To go through so much and still have so much kindness, empathy and honesty. Just wow.
She’s worked really hard to get there. I think the natural human response oftentimes is resentment, anger, apathy, etc. I’m very happy she is where she is.
how do you know she possesses those things from this video lmao
The way she talks bout her situation and other people lmao
For all the "stranger danger" we're terrified of statistics show that child are in far more danger at home, with family or family friends, at a friend's house, at church or with any known person. Seriously.
Exactly!
Stepfather is the number 1 perpetrator of s*xual abuse... Especially towards girls.
Why? Because single mothers are magnets for paedophiles. The lady in the video hit the nail on the head. I see these kids for real. It's nearly always the same groups of people surrounding a child.
Don't forget Schools....
Yeah it’s usually not a stranger. Pedophiles who are family members feel as if their victim won’t tell because they have a connection or some time of familial bond. And it’s true because the child will be too scared to tell anyone else in the family out of fear of being shunned. Especially if it is a very close relative like a sibling, parent, cousin, you know.
Yes!
I wish I could come to you for EMDR therapy!!! I've been wanting to do it & would feel so much more trusting knowing what you have been through. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤
Heartbreaking. I’m so glad to see you’re advocating for others now.
I work in child welfare.. Lisa you are the reason I go to work everyday for the traumatized children. Thank you… you give me hope🙏🏾❤️
You are a HERO! Thank YOU for doing what you do!
I can’t imagine what you see in your line of work. My heart aches for you. Somebody has to stand up for the children. I am so thankful for you and for all of your work!
These children however, are likely becoming traumatized by your own doing... I don't know how anyone that works in child services can live with themselves. I haven't been made aware of kids getting sexually abused in my personal life, thank god, but I have seen more children irreparably traumatized by the foul, judgemental, and wholly uncaring and indifferent system that is child "protective" services.
Guardian Ad Litem's who take their own personal judgement of situations at the very beginning of cases, because they totally buy into the manipulation of the worse parent. Only to yoink the kid from their stable and loving home, and shove them into a home with an unfit, manipulative, terrible parent who has ZERO relationship with the kid, as this person just got out of prison, then run a case stacked with double standards, making it absolutely impossible for that kid to end up with the correct parent. So instead they get to live full time with a complete stranger, who just got out of prison, and has zero desire to raise this kid or have a relationship with them, and is not quiet about this fact either... He shows no interest in the child, the child absolutely DOES NOT want to live with him and its obvious... So how is it that he came to have custody? His insane girlfriend of six months went in there and manipulated absolutely NOBODY... Child psychologists have said custody should go to mom without a doubt, dad has zero interest blah blah blah... NO ONE thinks this kid should go with dad and crazy girlfriend... Oh wait, except the Guardian Ad Litem. When this all started I told my friend she wouldn't even have to try... Its so obvious her kid should be with her. I wasn't even considering that he might be able to win custody... And for good reason too, all of the professionals brought in thought the exact same thing. Nobody in their right mind would EVER consider giving this abusive POS custody of a daughter that's never spent a day with him, doesn't know him, he just got out of prison for beating up her mom and drugs... Where is the kid today you ask? Why, with the father who has FULL CUSTODY of her, is taking her out of her private school so they can homeschool her with their 6th grade education's (they won't actually). The kid is 6 and has recently developed an eating disorder, doesn't sleep well at all, her life is in shambles except the two days every other week she gets to leave her dad's... Dads house... Get away from her uncle who sells every drug under the sun and also lives with them and grandpa... And gets to go to her real home with mom.
This is just one of MANY stories I could have told. CPS takes kids from loving homes, just to be in the system until they are 18, because mom or dad struggled a little with substances, but never let it affect being there for their child. It happens constantly. And I do know there are people out there who's kids SHOULD be taken away, it just seems to me like they are the ones who have luck with protective services, and ample chances to continuously fail with... When people who absolutely should remain guardian of their children get their kids taken because one of the case workers hated the color of their blinds or something, and takes on a personal vendetta against that person... Disgusting. It happens ALL. THE. TIME.
@@derekspringer6448I think it's time to take your meds...
@@derekspringer6448you’re being very very judgemental and assuming yourself right now. you don’t know this person and you’re using other statements to blanket them.
The response her dad gave when she told him everything 🤯🤯🤯☹️☹️☹️
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Yeah. I nearly spat out my coffee. It caught me completely off guard.
What a piece of human excrement.
I (unfortunately) found the website of the North American Man Boy Love Association (the group she mentioned when talking about when they cleared his house).
I am sick to my stomach, and just perusing the site for 2minutes taught me exactly why his response was exactly that.
That the page is even online to find with a simple google search is soooo sooo sick.
Disgusting
Pretty sure they were all in on it basically
I SEE THAT NOT EVERYONE IS MEANT TO BE PARENTS.
This is so heartbreaking....so many children being abused, in the most horrific ways! I cried listening to what was happening to her.. My God, what kind of sick POS are out there.... I am so proud of how Lisa has made the best possible life for herself and her family.. She sure has done amazingly well... Thank you Mark for this amazing story.. I learn so much just from watching your video's and the way you just let them tell their stories.. Thanks for the great journalism...
I cried multiple times during and after I watched the whole thing. Lisa, you are so strong. Such a wonderful woman. Life can be good... I wasn't sexually assaulted continuously as a child (there was one event with my brother when I was young), at least not that I remember, but I grew up in horrific circumstances and it's a struggle even to this day to get through my life. I have a wonderful job as a nurse and a wonderful loving husband, but my family is gone except a sister I avoid at all costs and a brother I haven't seen in greater than 5 years. Sometimes I feel so alone, but being alone is so much better than being surrounded by people who only want to hurt and abuse you.
I am so sorry. Thank you for sharing. And thank you for making a difference in the lives of the children and people you treat.
The scariest part of this is how normal her parents seemed to society. And that it was happening right under everyone's noses. Horrifying. Lisa you are such an amazing survivor! So inspiring.
Lots if this has happened..that abducted in plain sight says exactly that...parents sold and still sell their kids
Honestly, it’s because people excuse tooooo many behaviors that are red and orange and yellow flags
That’s usually how it always goes ! Just like the biggest drug addicts and alcoholics are the rich living in big houses and actn like they’re better than everyone else
Literally described them as “straight out of a 1950s magazine”, so stereotypical nuclear family patents on the outside. For once “never judge a book by its cover” is a true statement.
@@JustWowNickShe is too young to have grown up in the 50's..... Honestly, the 70's and 80's had much higher rates of child abuse because that's when the hedonistic Sixties generation tried (and I emphasize, tried) to be parents and failed miserably.... Often bringing their hippie-dippy nonsense into their kids' lives.
I have a 5 year old. I broke down when she said she WAS 5 when she was abused for the first time 😢
@@boostedrex9460Bro I’m pretty sure she’s talking about the lady in the video? Not her own daughter
@@boostedrex9460Ur so dumb 😂😂😂😂 READ BITCH
@@ri1b Thank you! I didn’t think my comment would be misinterpreted
@@boostedrex9460 comprehension skills are important.
Same here 😭😭😭😭😭😭
I bet Lisa is a awesome therapist, because she’s been through so much. One issue I have had with therapists in the past is it feels like they don’t understand what I’m going through because they haven’t had any struggles
this is possibly the most strongest woman i’ve ever seen. there has been times i struggled with my own trauma and i thought no one would truly understand my pain. now I know it’s not just me, wow.. this woman is an absolute inspiration to not forget your past but also to keep moving forward. truly changed me seeing this
How in the world did this poor girl survive with so many monsters coming in and out of her life. The level of abuse she endured is mind boggling. Hope and pray that she has peace in her life now.
Some people don’t. But some people that go through horrific abuse come out smarter, stronger and unfortunately more cautious and anxious than most people. You learn to survive, because it’s the only thing you CAN do. She’s in survival mode forever. The resilience she shows is a trauma response, I know as a survivor myself.
Sounds like my mother so similar . Everyday I walk around dead inside
She had no other choice than to survive.. I’m still amazed though.
antinatalism strikes again
It seems like alot of victims have repeated abuse throughout their lives by many different perps, for some reason. Idk what it is
Not only those men molested her. The mother molested her too, letting your kids watch you having sex with the father /partner whatever, is sexual abuse too
Yes it is, thank you for caring 🙏🏻✊🏻🙇🏻♀️
That's terrible I cried when she said that
@@LisaPlumbMFT😢
Heartbreaking story😢 I have a 2 year old son and it seems out of this world to me that there’s people out there that do this to little children. Especially their own parents!!!! So sorry for you Lisa… little Lisa deserved better parents and love…
Duh.
I am a survivor. You make me want to work it out in therapy. I have monsters that are not in this world now but the scars are there. Thank you Lisa.
I feel so disturbed listening to everything she had to go through. My heart is broken into a million pieces. I feel sick to my stomach and I wanna throw up. I’m so shattered but so happy that Lisa is out of that hell. She is inspiring
I completely relate. I hate that this is the world that we live in. I'm so proud of Lisa for having had endured that and coming out of it such an amazing person.
Me too. I can't unfurrow my brows. This is rough.
Yeah the longer I listened the more depressing. So upsetting that people do this to children and teenagers. Thank God for a good ending 🙏❤️
And the feeling of helplessness…. knowing this goes on in the world. But we can’t do anything to save them. Its just so hopeless it seems. 🥺
I'm watching this with my 7 week old son on my chest and I can't understand that people could do something like this to (their own) children... I just want to protect my boy and raise him with love and safety 😢 this is horrific. Absolutely disgusting. Poor Lisa...
The lack of compassion from the detectives when she testified angers me. It's completely disgusting.
The detectives are probably the same as the people they investigate... pedos are EVERYWHERE. They hide in plain sight.
The fact that the investigator shut her down when she tried expressing herself is so fucked. They truly failed her. They ask her to essentially be retraumatized and face one of her perpetrators. And she had one simple request. And they couldn't even do that...
The detectives, the parole officers, all so fucking useless
Pedophiles/abusers stick together…
That was powerful! Lisa you are an amazing person. Thank you for sharing you story with the world.
Lisa, I can't believe what you've been through...all I can say is that you are an incredibly brave and strong woman and that your message is really important to those who have been on the same path. Having grown up in a safe environment, I found this video so difficult to watch...how can people hurt children so much? I hope you have great days ahead...you deserve it! Love and support from Argentina ❤
I’m so very sorry for everything Lisa endured. To say I’m filled with sympathetic rage is an extreme understatement.
I feel the same
Me as well.
I couldn’t have put it better myself. I wish her the very best. What a remarkable woman
YES YES YES….sympathetic RAGE 😤 🤬🤬🤬
Shame on Lisa's mother for not protecting her. What a brave woman. Loved listening to her story
Thank you so much
Her mom was the one soliciting these people
"Not protecting" as if she wasn't actively complicit
Her mother and father...
I loved listening to your story you are a powerful woman of God! I need to get a copy of your book!
Wildly inspired and moved by how you came out on this. You are amazing. So intelligent and well spoken. You should be extremely proud of yourself.
Lisa, I don’t know if you’ll see this but thank you. Thank you for being so brave and strong. Thank you for sharing your story. Thank you for raising awareness for current and future generations. Thank you for being the beautiful soul you are, even through all this harrowing trauma.
As many on here do, we all wish for you to live your happiest self. Finding peace is not easy with this level of trauma but, I hope you do find your own version of peace through everything that you do xx
it’s stories like these that make me sit and realize my childhood was an absolute blessing. Lisa, i hope you find peace with everything you have been through.
Same 😭 i wish these people didn’t have to experience such evil humans as innocent children.
Right!? These videos have shown me the same! My heart brakes for any child who falls victim to such sick adults. But if I've learned anything, it's that those sick adults were probably victims themselves, and the sickness gets passed on.
💜🙏same here.
We don't ever really find peace. We just try to cope on a daily basis for the rest of our lives. Coming from a guy who has been in treatment and recovery for decades.
I relate to her, not on this particular level but enough to lose my first spouse. I’m doing EMDR Therapy now and it’s been incredibly beneficial. Sending positive vibes her way 🙏🤍
The amount of negligence by EVERY SINGLE adult in this story is effing mind blowing. This is wild, i can't. I would have violent angry thoughts too.
They would rather protect their status/reputation than protect childrens. Im soo not suprised😢
My whole family too.
neglect?? . They just didn’t care.
@@XGRIMYONEX the definition of neglect is failure to care
@valeriebrousseau1053 yeah no kidding. It's despicable, I couldn't imagine holding my reputation at a higher value than any children. I can't wrap my head around it. It's insane how common these acts are. Wtf is wrong with people.
Blessings and thank you for your authentic share. It will save so many lives. Many of us feel very alone.
What a roller coaster! 😩😩😭😩
Thank you for sharing your story, Lisa! More healing and empowerment to you 🧡🧡🧡
“I have to put the feelings where they belong” is my new mantra. This woman is an incredible human being and I’m in tears. She has no idea how many strangers she has inspired by persisting and advocating and speaking out❤. Thank you
we need demand brook shields to condemn the pedophile film
My dad went to jail for domestic assault after finding out my uncle and his wife molested me. My dad explained to the police and the judge why he beat up my uncle and none of them invested it. My dad was able to get his record expunged but all 7 of my aunt and uncles kids were later removed from their home for child abuse and my uncle again got away with everything while his wife was sentenced to a mental facility.
your dad did the right thing. im so sorry this happened to you, and i hope you and your father are living peacefully right now
He should be given an award.
Your dad is a hero 💜 and I am so sorry for what you went through, you are so strong
your dad is truly one, pray your doing well now
The wife was held responsible for her husband's actions. WOW!!1
Sending you all the virtual love and hugs Lisa ❤️. Thank you for sharing your story, and for being a light in this dark world. It sounds like you helped take down some very bad people. I have heard amazing things about EMDR therapy. What an accomplishment you are able to help others work through their trauma. As hard as it may be, never forget that love and forgiveness can help set you free.
Im crying....i wish you all the best in Life 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 send u hugs from Germany
Holy smokes I cannot believe how many people failed this poor woman over and over and over again.
It feels like there were an unlimited amount of people in your story that kept hurting you or letting you down.
You're amazing to have kept going all these years.
I wish nothing but the best for you and your loved ones.
Including the detectives who used her to bust the ring. They kept her safe while she provided them with information and then dumped her back home with her abuser when they closed their case.
The system is so gross. It fails alot.
She wasn’t a woman she was a small child
But your words are great an add well is your heart
@@amandaotting3840 Yes, but I was referring to her as she is now, an adult.
My mother sold me in exchange for drugs, which lasted 8 years of my childhood, and even when I got away from her I still managed to get mixed in with pedophiles.
I'm so touched by Lisa's story and I'm happy she's come this far and has been able to tell the world. It really makes people who have struggled in this way feel seen, and not alone.
unfortunately it seems like once it starts, it keeps going by different people. im so sorry this happened to you.
I’m so sorry that happened to you… 💔
God bless and keep you. It's so difficult to talk about, and the pain is always there. Bless you with peace.
It breaks my heart to read this. I'm sorry...
I hope you are doing well now, also!! Heartbreaking!
You are a true example of strength. I’m so sorry you had terrible parents. I wish you continue your journey in the best way possible that it is Good for you. You are an inspiration. I view all the way from Italy !
This was so incredible to watch and it was such an honour to hear your story of survival, empowerment and resilience Lisa! So many people who let you down but your faith is what turned your life around. It’s amazing to have fantastic production available for those who want to share their stories.
You were groomed your whole early life, and then shamed by people who were callus and clueless. You are so brave to come forward to describe your pain and problems to order to help others. God bless you.
Dad knew .,..😢
@@taylorssquad3770 Dad made a point not to learn of (be botherred with) any details. The touching (the first incident by the first boyfreind) he was eager to gloss over. When her parents divorced it was contentious, and the children in the middle of it. But he chose NOT to go after his wife when he had an excellent justification to do so. He was really afraid HE would become the primary caregiver and would have to take care of the children.
He was obviously right to divorce his wife, but he should not have left the children with her. He is a bad parent as well, just not as terrible as the mother.
- The "mother" obviously sold her daughter (her boyfriends enjoyed it for free and mum dearest did not want to know) but the aquaintance Lisa obviously had an arrangement with the mother.
@@franziskani I had to stop reading your comment after a few sentences for too become psychically I'll and I ran to vomit. I have a serious emotional issue when people tell me they think I'm beautiful... My mother ... Hey favorite line was " this is my daughter, isn't she beautiful??" . Then she would go to her bedroom and shut the door. Waiting for the drugs and money I was given. Started at 14. Though I went thru m*lestain well before. I'm sorry I'm gonna be sick again I can't explain any more
@@AlexandraDingbat I am so sorry to hear this. I went through something pretty bad as a kid too that I don't like to talk about so I feel your pain. But God loves you. Cling to Jesus because the Lord says, "Vengeance is mine; I will repay."
Thank you so much for your compassion and best wishes, to you too!
this woman has faced so much fucking disrespect in her life, it's disgusting. the legal system is incredibly apathetic and unforgiving; i feel awful knowing so many people have been abandoned by the ones who are supposed to protect us. lisa is a truly beautiful soul to dedicate her life to helping victims. being a therapist is a grueling job, but lisa's empathy and care is so admirable. i'm glad she has a loving family now and can talk so openly about her traumas like this. if you see this, god bless you, lisa
Your words are my thoughts
❤
Amen💛🙏
People like you... is why we hold on with hope. Your fuckin awesome dude ❤️
As a victim I have no idea how she decided to become a therapist. She is incredibly strong that’s something I could never do myself. I just think that’s so admirable that she wants to use what she’s been through to help others who have been through the same. I would want her as my therapist. It really is hard to find a therapist that understands what you’ve been through, you would want this wonderful woman on your side. How she can put aside her own life tragedies to help with others-yeah. That just really resonates with me as well. An amazingly powerful human being.
This is so heartbreaking. I'm sorry this all happened to you, Lisa. I pray all of those who abused you get justice handed to them. I pray you can truly let go of all this trauma and heal completely. It is a loooooong journey. Thank you for sharing your story. You are very brave. It does indeed help survivors to hear that they are not alone, and that testifying gives them back their power!
the way this poor woman has been treated by our system makes my blood boil so much. lisa is one of the strongest people i've ever seen and i know so many people victims are not are proud of her hard work to put these people away and help others while dealing with her trauma. lisa, if you read this, thank you so much for being such a powerful voice and i really hope you and your husband and boys nothing but the best in this life because you really deserve only the best things life has to give you.
the way she's able to tell this story with out bursting into tears. this is horrible
She's probably all cried out and numb inside. Or on meds and therapy.
Complete dissociation. Obviously. She would be psychotically insane if not.
Maybe she has had a lot of therapy hours 😢
I noticed too that she often said "whatever" to sort of just casually dismiss things. Ties back with the mindset that she was trained with to "not make a big deal out of things." I hope she's healed a lot from that eventually
She commented five months ago and said that she is a therapist herself. I imagine she has worked through a lot of the trauma and is simply reciting the horrible story and has coping skills of how to deal with it, that’s why she’s not bursting into tears every time she talks about it.
My childhood wasn't perfect, but when I hear stories like this I realize how lucky I was, and how truly terrible the world is for some children. It's heart breaking that any child goes through this.
Same like I’m starting to heal my inner child but I have to realize when I hear these stories that my childhood wasn’t as worst like theirs.
You are valid too and everybody's emotions are valid. No need for comparing. Not saying it isn't true but often times seeing others have it worse make me completely feel like I'm a shitty person. So if anyone wanted to hear something like this YOU ARE VALID AND IM PROUD OF YOU.
@@rareben395 you don't realize how much this means. thank you for commenting this. God bless your soul. 💗
Your trauma is still valid. Another persons suffering doesn't lessen your own!!!
@@willowoodz ❤❤all love, you are loved !!! (and anyone else reading this)
Thank you for having the courage to speak about your life. I had a similar experience and the one thing that really resonated with me was your response to it. I was 3 years old and when that happens to you, you feel responsible which is so weird but it’s also having adults around you that keep confirming that it’s you. It really messes with your happiness as an adult too and makes you a magnet for abuse because no matter how shitty someone treats you, you feel responsible. Our children need protection more than most people can even begin to understand. Our greatest power is taking it out of the shadows and bringing it to the light without any shame.
Oh my Lisa I am SO sorry any of this happened to you & this honestly made me cry so much to know that everyone failed you from your parents to the school staff to the officers and honestly society as a whole.
I can't believe no one protected you, aside from that one detective who attempted to help the best he could within the laws.
This poor lady makes me wonder if some of the girls we knew in my school that seemed a little "fast" were actually victims of child sexual abuse. I know one of them told me years later that her stepfather had molested her regularly. She never told her Mom because he said they would have no money or place to live if he left. After going through therapy as an adult, she changed her name because of the way her stepfather used to say her name. Another girl had to have gynecological reconstruction at about age 12 and I didn't understand at the time why she needed that. I know now that it had something to do with her mother's boyfriend. I am so sorry that Lisa had to go through all of that as a child. She definitely deserved to be protected by her parents and not treated the way she was.
More than likely. I was young and fast...and a victim of SA.
I'm sorry to hear that. Best wishes to you!@@hannahm.9881
The answer is yes.
May I ask what you mean by fast?
@@Story_playerbasically doing sexual things at a young age
I used to hate my parents for being up in my business 24/7, always checking my phone and social media, always telling me I couldn't go places with my cousins or friends. Now that I'm older and hear more stories like these, I'm so grateful for them.
literally bro i could not be more grateful
This is however, not the world we should be living in.@@yeetrootthebeetroot3872
I remember being a kid and my mom not letting me go to sleepovers and being so mad and thinking how exaggerated she’s being when she told me ‘you never know behind close doors’. As an adult, I can see how true that is.
My mom didn’t tell me about my body or how to protect it. And I was free to do whatever the hell I wanted. Sometimes I feel like there may be gaps in my memory. I feel drawn to these stories and certain faces, family members and stuff pop into my head, but I can never be sure. All that being said, I would have been the perfect victim. I had no idea, and abusers could have groomed me easily. I had a very abusive home life. I was starved for affection, especially male affection. I’m forever grateful that somehow this woman’s story WASN’T mine. In the wrong circumstances it could have been.
@@gabrielle9412 i’m sorry that happened to you
This is so hard to listen too.
Lisa, your so brave to still be here and to speak up, i hope you continue to heal and have a better life.
Wow, woman! I can not even express in words how much this helped me today. Thank you, thank you, thank you a million times over for sharing your story, adding some education I hadn't thought about regarding my own PTSD, but most of all for the complete transparency. I AM MOVED!
“why didn’t you tell me” the audacity of this woman to act dumb when she KNEW damn well what was going on. thank you lisa for sharing your story! you are incredibly brave and resilient
She was doing it in front of the cops to bolster her innoncence
👏🏼 That 1000 % @@FC-hj9ub I wouldn't doubt if she sold her daughter to them. The incentive for her to go with them is a total red flag. A sicko, how she didn't go to jail is mind-blowing.
And was a participant