Ayisha Diaz Talks Dating Street Guys, Why She Puts Men In The FriendZone, Turning 30 & Keeping A Man
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Our Hosts Jada Blackwell, Erin The Renegade, Rico Hundo discuss with looksbylundon and Ayisha Diaz dating street guys, why she puts men in the Friend Zone, turning 30 and keeping a man.
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Love the panel for today! I rock with Rico and his train of thought in making and explaining his point. And making it make sense based upon the subject matter. Ayesha made a lot of sense too. I can appreciate everyone’s input. Keep on rockin’ it out with these subject matters! ❤
Thank you!
To Jada, the girl in the middle…
There are men an there are trash men. If she chooses to deal with trash men, that’s her problem. But she doesn’t get the pass to label men trash!
Trash choose trash
This ish urk me, how the women gonna blame older men for dating younger women but the women actively say that when they were younger they only liked older men, that's literally the younger woman's preference. The older men are just complying lol. Can't make this up
Women over 40 want a man
Who is more mature than them
More life experiences
More intellectual
More wisdom
Someone who can teach her something.
So it's bad for a man who is 45 to love a woman who is 18 or 19...an give her all that good ish that 40 year old women want In men.
Meanwhile old women with college degrees getting swindled by guys who ain't even got a GED.
I'm late. Ive seen clips. Glad i finally had time to watch.
Rico is the best in all subject .
he always go straight to point
Sometimes men want younger women, just because they look better
Bingo
Looks better
Feels better
Treat you better
Smell better
Just better period
With Less Baggage Potentially an Could DELIVER a BABY with Less Complications... ALL Them On This Panel Are THREATENED By Younger That's Why TRY to SHAME Into Dating Them Even Erin I Believe is INSECURE Of Younger Women and She's Married ....I Recognize The Beautiful Cocky Female Guess...The WALL is CLOSING In On These Lovely Ladies Sadly It's UNDEFEATED.
@@eddiedelarge12 facts ✅
That’s a fact. It’s really just that simple.
It's Really not complicated lol
The last topic about loving someone you date’s child is WILD! I completely agree with Rico and Ayisha, being married or having paperwork doesn’t make a person start to care, it’s about the bond and relationship. What’s even crazier is Ayisha is extremely beautiful, childless, financially successful and has a large social media following which gives her extreme value in both a male’s and a female’s perspective (for different reasons of course) and she still have more of a sense of understanding of love, loyalty and being feminine beyond our two sistas and it’s kind of embarrassing. I’m married to a Black woman going on 10 tens and PROUD OF IT! We have built our lives and went through the struggles of life together and have reach a level in life that we use to dream of and still elevating. That being said, if I were single and had to deal with this new mentality of our sistas, it would be EXTREMELY tough! I prefer my own ethnicity when it comes to women but I do see and understand why men who have it together in life chooses other wise. I’m blessed I have a Black wife that doesn’t think this way 💪🏽💪🏽
💯💯💯💯💯❣️❣️❣️
they are held responsible. No one would let it get to the legal stage if they weren't already treating the child well, making it official means you don't run out on a whim.
Grats on your marriage my brother that’s a beautiful thing. I would say this though she’s Dominican.. they were taught different far as catering and taking care of a man. There are some that do carry that western way of thinking but for the most part it’s instilled in their culture to act a certain way.
@@RonDon455 much appreciated Bro 💪🏽💪🏽
Typical "epiphany" phase of modern women.....
Give your best years to the bad boys and toxicity, and have the good guys deal with the trauma and baggage.
Same story, different woman.
Omg it’s almost like learning from your mistakes is a life long lesson that both men and women experience. 😂
Facts by ayisha did drop some gems 💎 though 💯
Exactly they act like men but when it comes to money they want the traditional man... Same ol bullshit
Fax
@@samiyaalkaline3800 yuh BUT ITS ALWAYS WHEN YOURE OLD AND NOT YOUNG. Is the point. And were not talking bout mistakes only the fact women dont look for a good man till dey titties start droppin
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The only way a 45 year old man is dating a 20 year old girl if there is no father in the picture. Because any real father is gonna put hands on that man when they see them around his little girl.
I don’t know about every father. Some dudes ain’t about that life. Unfortunately when someone’s grown they gonna do what they want.
9:40 the healthiest relationships start out as friendships. this would not even be an issue if women took more time getting to know a man before letting him beat the box. that's all that means.
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My man now we were friends in high school all through these years never dated until now and even before being together it took about 2 years to understand each other at our current ages now … no drama , no disrespect and honestly best decision ever
This episode was laidback . Bro in pink shirt in hood addition to show and Ayisha. Rico is always clutch 🙏🏿
The lady with the short hair is wrong and the lady in the black is right, if you date someone seriously married or not you better love that child like it’s yours. Children are sensitive and precious, you can’t just walk in and out of there lives, you have full autonomy to date someone with no children
Great Honest t Fun, Energy 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤❤❤❤❤
Gold diggers talking....
If you ain't got money they ain't checking for you
Erin saying 19 and 14 okay cause teen is common denominator like…. 20 and 15 gone be bad news for that couple
Erran (sorry if I misspelled her name) her hair is always gorgeous!!! 😢❤❤❤ love the shot blonde finger wave style!
Rico was sooooo comfortable. He found his match 🥰😌
At the 37:11 mark .. Older men deals with younger women over women his age because older women are in denial in "some" dating aspects... so until he finds his reflection... He'll just have fun with younger women to keep his stamina up to par
I'm 46 years old if a woman is over 30...I just want her for fun.. especially if her tubes tied. When I find a woman under 25 who wants to be wife and children....I'm dumping all chicks in my age bracket
Older men date women their age on the average. Every older man is not compatible with a young girl except for emotionally immature men. But most of the older guys I know 40+ not dealing with nobody under 35. They'll trick with young girls but they won't be with them
Yo lol they literally acting like you have to date a guy who has to go to jail. "That time will come and you have to be ready". How bout you don't date a mf that has a due date with a jail cell or a cemetery. Nobody is forcing you to live this kind of life 🤣🤣🤣 yo the delusion is wild
"you can't provide, I'm gon' hide." lol best line
It hurts my ears to hear some women repeatedly rationalize bad decisions they make and blame it on being young. Everybody hears from they are young don't touch a hot stove, the smart ones listen and don't do it, the stupid ones do. Which one are you? Smh🤔
Soon as Aiysha opened up her mouth it was a complete turn off. Pump n dump tho, but that's about it .
That’s always the case with beautiful women
Facts I was thinking the same thing that’s how you got to treat her all beautiful woman you can’t wife just pump and dump 🤷🏾♂️
@@abayomibrowne1532 that’s not the case the problem is that Preety girls get tired cause men just want them to fuck just to satisfy their little fantasy. Pretty girls get used most of the time. Y’all have this little world in your head of how girls are supposed to be but y’all don’t know what they go through.
You not nowhere on her radar to even say that. You’re invisible to her.
@@jasminegrisson5847exactly
We need her on every weeek
39:08 Erin was definitely dating older men in high school 😂😂. But 14 and 19 that’s a huge difference
39:45 "this person wants a tighter V.irginia. This person wants to control someone." Jokes on her! I don't care how old a woman is, I still want control. Picture me living a reckless life with someone who can't listen nor learn.
In my opinion, I feel like the topic should’ve been insecurities rather than the word jealousy. I feel as if it’s being misused. Emotional insecurity fits way better than emotional jealousy. Keep up the great discussions!
I haven’t watched the video yet. But let me say friendzone only works if the man puts the woman in the friendzone 💯
At least the one lady was honest when she said if you can't provide she's gonna hide.
When i was younger, i definitely thought I understood danger and risks and I did not lol I definitely acted as if death happened to other ppl but not to me and mine. You can be a mature 20yr old, but that doesn't mean 20yr olds arent still silly kids. Because in some ways we are. I look at back 20yr old me and wonder why I wanted to die so bad 😂😂😂
They answered their own questions nobody wants the damage anything no matter male or female
14 to 19 yea that’s a no go 🙅🏿♂️
My Girl Ayisha😎😏😎🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼
38:20 I agree with the women on this when the younger party (male or female) is under 25 and the older party is 10+ years older. When both parties are 25+ that’s when the accountability evens out for me. Until then - I side eye the older person on what their intentions are with wanting such a younger woman/man. There are exceptions to the rule. But let’s be real typicallllyyyyy when an older party is seeking such a younger partner it’s for the reasons that aren’t all morally correct IMO.
40:52 that parttt. He’s absolutely right on that part too. Regarding not having good women/proper parenting that can lead to a lot of women seeking much older men.
Every time Rico say somthing, the other dude like, “I disagree”. Every time rhe women say anything he like, “that’s a fact...right”. Dude lame asf. He want to be so cool. Dude a goof.
When confronted with statutory I pulled the cord. 2.4 yrs l8r we married. 17 yrs. l8r 🖖🏾WE G👀D!!!
I’m not going to lie he was right at the end. It’s about the relationship a person has with that kid !! On paper or not. That’s what that whole moive “A Thousand Miles” with Teyana was about. Just because it’s not on paper doesn’t mean it’s not real
Friends with benefits is what is it in 2023
Most these women not worth marriage
@@houseofmatrix6174 they not homie
@@TheBulletzgottishow20 true better hit and keep it moving
You guys are all attractive
And throughly enjoyed this episode❤
Cheating is cheating is cheating. Emotional cheating just evokes a different kind of hurt then sexual cheating but either way is an act of betrayal and that’s it.
It’s weird for 20 year old girl to even want a man that’s 30 -40 year old. Your only interested because of what he has
Loved the whole episode but the ending made me really disappointed on what the girl with a short cut was saying lmaooo butttt 😂 everyone has there own opinion
Erin the Renegade looking really nice.
Rico doesn't like competition.
Friends with benefits matter..
The issue I have is that anyone can manipulate anyone at any point in time at any age. Therefore, by saying women at 21 don't know any better is a cop out to accountability. As 21 you should have a good basis on how the world operates especially with social media. They let their emotions lead as they are aware someone is not good for them but the lifestyle and emotional highs keep them tied. Also, you can only let someone influence you as much as you let them, yes they can be enticed but to stay as long as they do after certain flags that are universally known as negative means they choose that life style with that person. Which goes hand in hand with how women like projects as well or men rough around the edges they think they can fix.
This podcast needs men that can hold it down because those women was 90 percent talk to hear themselves talk and nobody counter at all.
Jada is a lil annoying, maybe it was too much liquor. Then she kept interrupting Rico
Why even have this dialogue if its going to be set up to be 4 against 1. That other dude either a panderer or a homosexual. That’s the only types of people who just agree with women for the sake of agreeing knowing they are wrong.
😆 🤣 😂 😹..
It is completely natural for a woman to want to be with a man who can protect and provide for her that is natural. Younger women only date older men because of money and lifestyle .But women will try to say it is manipulation
I think kicking it with the older women is easier in most cases.
It’s amazing how women will have a million preferences for a man but when a man preferences is younger women? They call us all kind of insults!
Alisha seems like she's 💯
Ayisha 😮💨
it's true i didnt care how long me a guy were friends, because as soon as he showed me he wanted MORE, his AS$ got cut off!! 🙅🏽♀️ A man should be upfront that he wants to date you smh
That boy rico is afraid of competition
Diaz seem solid fr
None of these women take accountability. Everything is the man’s fault. To old, a manipulator, jail birds, street dudes. I guess women do no wrong and are perfect
I wish they would had let the guy in the pink talk more. Thwy kept cutting him off and Everyone's talking over each other but other than that this was a good episode. I liked the topics.
Theres a big difference between a 14 yr old girl, and a 19 yr old boy. The fact that she dont think so crazy. Tf. I wish a 19 yr okd wouod come sniffing around my 14 yr old. Me and her dad going to jail.
Only black women make this point of older men dating younger women when they are the ones who want to experience what life’s amenities are from the older man than try to spin it like he is the one taking advantage of her. Stop the cap! She wants to live a life she hasn’t earned while he is exercising his leverage of time and experience. I hate this narrative because it’s false
Rico has a good point. I think Jack Harlow made a song about. Once you get that sexual energy out men and women can talk looser at that point.
Isnt it funny that at no point are women attracted to men their own age.
When they’re younger they’re attracted to older men. When they’re older they’re attracted to younger men.
1:16:27 “it’s not real” what came first the action or the paperwork , I would say the action because it had to be documented to become law
Respectfully this is just a small sample size of and example of why Latin women are more desirable than most other races. Ayisha is beautiful, more down to earth, more civil, more able to have a productive convo without all the hostility than the other women on the panel. 🤷🏾♂️
Wassup?
These women deserve whatever comes with their decisions. They want a street nigga with life insurance and a retirement plan 😂🤣😂🤣
😂😂😂 that's tricky!
She had a whole man and booked a FLIGHT💸 to go and save her ex-boyfriends life.. you can't make this shii up
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Ayisha is so fucken beautiful ❤️
@33.53 in rico we trust!
Every relationship podcast= men get money
Recreational use only here in the states fasho
Diaz is capping. If she called those two friends to smash, they're going to do it.
Basically Kevin Samuels said it they using they prime wrong lol
They want street Gs to have life insurance and life savings! 😂
❌️❌️❌️❌️❌️❌️ Them shawties got ZERO shot here.... 😂😂😂😂🤷🏾♂️
Erin >
Field mob pine trees and light poles
The younger women will look past every Guy their age For what someone that is older can provide and experiences given
There’s some tension with Rico and Erin.
Street nigga for life 🫡
This is insane to listen too…
But if they take on that responsibility to adopt that child and take care of them till they’re 21 even if y’all aren’t together, why would that be the man you leave?
That male friendship is tricky people be fucking talking bout bro
Rico wanted to act hood in this episode to bad. Be you
“Woman” instead of “women” pains me every time.
It's so annoying
Didn't she use to mess with trey songz
rico makes no sense blaming someone who doesn’t know any better vs not blaming the one with experience. no, the girl doesn’t think they’re better they just believe whats being told to them, bc why? they dont know any better. and the older men KNOW that, they are to blame. period. thats logic
i don’t get what’s so hard to grasp, but hes trying to hard to spin the narrative bc he knows he fits the description
The only thing that’s clear about the age cap is that, someone being took advantage of yet if you really listen to what y’all are saying is this, don’t take advantage of the the person. Because as long as you’re teaching them and helping them be great it’s fine. I can understand the 19 and the 14 year old. But adults I don’t know about that one
Shorty clearly doesn’t realize that this legal document convo is BS. She would get the wool pulled over her eyes with that thinking. If you don’t love your person enough to naturally provide for they children outside of you than it is not real !! You don’t have to adopt for some one to be considered your step! It’s the same damn thing we do when we love certain friends so much and have such a bond we just call them cousin 🤷🏾♀️. But go off sis !
It's the cap when dating a younger person as a Man to date a younger female. Ex- Single Man with no kids @ 30yrs old but there are females. 1- is 27 w/3 kids by 3 different males. 2- is a 19 year old with 0 kids, in college, working, etc. Who does the man have more in common with really....
Why people need competition why you want to put other people down? You have to be in competition with yourself get better
46:26- 47:22 Jada just be talking to hear herself talk, or that bun on her head too tight
😂
She didn’t understand that when she gave an opinion of herself that she’s only been as fine as she’s always been so for average girls, that may not always be the reality
Thats cap trauma is generally delivered by younger men and women the fact your trying to blame that on an older person is crazy...who do you think these younger people are being abused and impregnated by?
This Table show is unwatchable..
A friend zone for a BW, hell no.
my fellow black men. you got 2 options.
Get a Becky or a Passport.
Ayisha a G
She was dropping jewels and they interrupting her making jokes
These women needed their fathers…
You have blood related parents that dork even care about their children but their bonded through blood. So paparwork really doesn’t matter either
WHY DOES A BLACK MAN SOMETIME DEAL W/ SO MUCH BS IN DEALING W/ A GOOD LOOKING BLACK WOMEN THIS 1 OF THE REASON SOME GUYS GO & THEIR PASSPORT & NEVER LOOK BACK