Just Pearly | If Body Count Didn't Matter, Why Do Women Lie About It?
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- Опубліковано 8 лип 2024
- Full Episode: If Body Count Didn't Matter, Why Do Women Lie About It?
Rico Hundo, Lanie and @JustPearlyThings Talk About Body Count.
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Top Shaming Tactics by Women.
1. "Who Hurt you?"
2. " you're insecure"
3. "You're Controlling"
4. The list Goes on.
Don't let women shame you. It's not a shaming tactic if you don't feel the shame. Women will always try to lower you.
Shaming Tactics of Men.
It's all your fault and I blame you for everything.
@@zarario4444 yeah, it's called holding you accountable dummy
Yup
Women are the only product (men are products as well) who not only do not know what their consumer (men) wants AND compound the issue by
1) continuously doing things that only WOMEN value and then get mad at men for not accepting those things, THAT MEN Don’t VALUE
2) listen to OTHER UNVALUED PRODUCTS (other single/old/bitter/slutty women) about how they should FURTHER not care about what their consumer (men) want and ONCE AGAIN act confused by the results that they get.
Imagine a failing pizzeria saying “I don’t care what the customers want, they must just be INSECURE to pay the prices we charge, they just CANT HANDLE the nasty taste of our pizza. THEN they go to other FAILING pizzerias and proceed to MIMIC all the practices of those soon to be out of business stores
@@zarario4444 You perfectly demonstrated another female shaming tactic...deflection. He made an astute point, but you resorted to taking a cheap shot at men instead of just agreeing. Btw...if a woman is at fault, and she refuses to take accountability, it's not the man's job to take the blame, as you hinted.
Lonnie was salty the whole convo 😂😂😂
The argument in a nut shell: I don't want the consequences of my bad decisions to be negative towards me. This sounded like a conversation I've had in SPARK during middle school
Exactly, Pearl literally destroyed her when she asked her if it’s just about choice, then why are you arguing with him, because it’s about shame. She doesn’t like the fact that men can make a choice that brings shame to women like her
45:00 Lanie: "Men are selfish, they don't want to share you."
Me: "Why would you want to be shared with other men?
I caught that too 😂😂😂 I was like WTF are you talking about?
Same thoughts
She’s for the streets that’s why
Wtf 😂
Right! 😂
01:06:00
*Pearl names 3 solutions*
Girl off camera: *I didn't hear one solution*
🤦🏿♂️
She was tired of getting bodied by stats. She had to pick up her phone and check
I caught that too 😂. Then she couldn’t say nothing 😂
I dont care how perfect a woman is... 20 bodies at 25 is a hell to da nah
No perfection at all going with 20 bodies🤣🤣🤣
Bruh dis was da best show. Rico u owned as usual but, it was super funny wen pearly turned dem to Karen's. They started victimizing everything lol 😂😂😂
@JustPearl;yThings....I swear Pearl's attitude and how she maintains frame nd laughs negative push back is crazy inspiring...keep at it. great video 🔥🔥🙌🙌
Bruh I wZ thinkin the samething she levels the playing field
Yea I know they hate Pearl😂🤦🏾♂️
I don’t like the fact that she can have an opinion but not be on camera😂
And she literally brought the show to a halt when she started that whole "why are u attacking women" comment
45:33 they skipped over her whole dialogue lmao we not tryna here all that reaching and dodging accountability 😂😂😂😂
Agreed. She hurt the quality of the show with all those judgemental accusations
"I made poor decisions for me and my children which led to failure outcomes and its not funny"
She told her the study was done by the CDC. She just going say, OK she most definitely triggered 😂
She don’t care about no statistics or studies bro 😂 she only asked to try to invalidate Pearls argument. Most Women don’t care about facts or whether they make sense or not they just want to win the argument by any means necessary…
Pearl hit em wit the AI crossover they was cooked 😂😂😂
We live in a feminized society and this podcast just proved it, she literally just argued that shaming should not exist. Hence why there's fat phobia, homophobia and all other phobias cuz we live in a woman -centered world
"BUT BUT THE PATRIARCHY"😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I mean we should stop shaming people. Their inner critic Shane’s them enough.
Ultimately, it all comes back to money. Women own the majority of consumer debt and make more purchasing decisions, so they are the targets of most marketing campaigns. If men spent more frivolously, the marketing would follow the money.
Well homophobia is real but the other shi is lame.
@@Slimkidd730 NO. All unnatural acts should be shamed! Those 2 women on the panel, except for our sweet Pearl, should be shamed too!
Kudos to Ricco and Pearl for keeping the information and stats specific, yet keeping the truths "in-general". Unlike the ladies on the other side of the table that kept acting oblivious, and relating and responding to the statements as if they were on the witness stand defending their own personal experiences. My head starting to hurt. Great show tho.
They do that because they know what they’re saying is true and 9 times out of 10 the examples they used are them and facing the fact that people and especially men view their behavior as a net negative is unbearable because they’re embarrassed that they’re low key being called out. It’s a dead give away when you get defensive at a generalized statement, it’s because the generalized statement is you.
The one next to pearl was getting fried wit the crisco grease fam 😂😂😂
A yt walker perhaps that's about it 🤷🏾♂️
I remember an episode of The Good Doctor where a woman was supposed to go through surgery and this woman told them to not use anesthesia. Why? She used to have an opioid addiction and didn’t want any of that near her to prevent relapse. Her reasoning? She has a husband and daughter who she doesn’t want to see her descend into such a state. She was willing to stay awake and conscious while they cut her open to keep her family together. She accepted that her habits actively shaped her life and she was willing to go through that pain to keep that habit away. Why then would Loni say your habits don’t define you? If you sleep around, you’re a H03. Man or woman.
I knew a ex addict said the exact same thing
This is a great point well said.
YOUR BODY COUNT *CAN* EFFECT SOMEONE..BEING THAT DEFENSIVE SAYS YOUR BODY COUNT HIGH..
@@itshoney333
"Because no one REALLY cares about body count"..UNTIL THEY CATCH HIV OR AIDS..
💯
I was expecting him to ask her
Its crazy how it became so normal and accepted to dismiss what men values and preferences. Its really sad. It makes me want to stand on my ground even more. Being called selfish, insecure etc just because of my standards
Pearl: “If everyone gets a choice, then why are you still arguing with him?”
Ladies and gentlemen that was the killshot of this whole conversation, if she truly believed what she said, then she would have no problem with me asking about the body count, getting an honest response, and then making their CHOICE. The reason she has a problem with it though, it’s because she is being disingenuous, she understands that there is a stigma that comes with having a high body count, that’s what she refuses to be honest about. It was never about choice, it was always about shame.
Pearl literally killed her entire argument with that question, and actually made it look even worse for the women that are you against being truthful about the body count, that just means they want the ability to lie about their body count and avoid shame. Otherwise, they would be truthful and let them out and make a choice.
Pearl killed it 💪🏾😂🤣
Being unfaithful doesn't dictate how your grandfather was as a husband. If your grandmother was happy, you don't get to say she wasn't just because she endured something you wouldn't be able to. Different times and people.
Different people value different things. Just because her grandmother saw him as a good husband doesn't mean that she has to have to have same opinion of him. We are not required to approve of what other women tolerate. But I do agree with you. If she was happy then be happy for her, but that doesn't mean you have to be satisfied with the same things.
Granny could have been a hoe and grateful anyone chose her
@@joannamonique707 In the same way that men and women values different things.
@@joannamonique707 With this logic, you have a woman like B simone calling MLK a shitty man smh
@@joannamonique707 The issue is that she was trying to claim her grandmother wasn't happy or shouldn't have been happy. Her grandmother, like all women, had a choice of men and this was the man she chose. She knew his flaws but was happy to be his main chick that he chose to settle down with. At the end of the day we all have choices. Her grandmother likely could have chosen a less desirable man and had loyalty, but that wasn't what she wanted. Plenty of woman nowadays who do the same thing, choose to be with a man with many options than settle for a man they consider average. Both options are reasonable just so long as you can live with the consequences. We can't get everything. Many decisions are a give and take, want a top 20% guy? Then expect him to have side chicks. That's just the game.
I've never met or seen a woman on camera champion having a high body count and also be happily married
Sidenote you can tell by how argumentative and bothered this Lani lady is by every topic she's ran through also she made everything personal
That’s the thing that came off, and it’s funny because the guy actually made this point, that you don’t need to know her exact body count, just a conversation logging up with them will tell you, we have over an hour of this woman talking, and a lot of people in the comments came to the same conclusion, she has clearly been ran through
Pearl have the ladies on UA-cam shook🤣🤣🤣 the men are loving it!💯 Rico was making great points. Pearl get you some fighting lessons under your belt because one of these days the ladies are going to take the facts beyond just being offended.
Pearl is 6’4
@@fivehundrediq5212 I was gona say the same thing. All pearl gota do is fall back and work the jab 😂😂😂
@@MrSmith-zd4ej 😂😂
Loni is bitter and doesn’t want to take responsibility for her choices. I wish they had another black women on the panel that didn’t have as much trauma to balance things out. Because she doesn’t represent women like me at all.
Represent what?
@@duanewoodson9804 The only black woman willing to show her face on the show. The woman with the low body count. The woman that agrees women shouldn’t be whores.
@@starringunique There is a problem with you stating the one with the low body count. The man you want might think differently about your comment.
You spitting on here
Yes def giving bitter energy, her face looked bitter the entire time. The other woman off camera too, like why they have these women representing blank women, it’s giving old, tired, and resentful.
They wouldn't say it but the comment section can.
Lani was mad the whole episode and being passive aggressive towards Rico and the guest. She kept taking everything personal because most of everything that they discussed actually related to her. Ya'll come on these panels and want to say that the people you don't agree with are childish and/or stupid for having their viewpoint but they are extending wayyyyyy more grace than society does concerning the topics.
If you were a single mother and homeless then you need to tell the people (that care) ways to prevent situations like that rather than trying to promote it as a badge or a homage to you for being "strong".
Lani is the definition of lack of accountability.
“Why are you asking me this shit?! We could be making money!” *runs off* 😅
🤣 nice try on her part
Having things is always a cop out smh
😂😂😂
Pearly is funny as hell 🤣 and she still kicking facts.
- How do we stop alcoholism?
- stop drinking
- how?
Smh.
No, no no she said:
How do we stop alcoholism?
-̶S̶t̶o̶p̶ ̶d̶r̶i̶n̶k̶i̶n̶g̶
-Lie about drinking
LOL!
She is not the person to have generalized conversation with as she takes everything personally.
I cant stand women like that lol
Seriously
Because hit dogs holla.
When Pearl starts the finger guns, she means business! 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
🤣🤣TRUE🤣😂
Yoooooooooooo 🤣😂🤣💣💥🔥
😂😂😂 Facts‼️
She definitely has a high body count. You can see the pain and hear it after the 50 bodycount/debt comparison. Signs of being RAN-THRU 💯%
304 Alert ⚠️ 📢 #SheBelongsToTheStreets
Facts
If a girl argues about bodycount you already know that her bodycount is high asl
Loni keeps saying that men are selfish and insecure because they don’t want a woman who has a relatively high body count, not realizing those are the exact same reasons said women have high body counts. A secure woman doesn’t need constant validation that men she’s attracted to will sleep with her. An unselfish woman would not give away the thing that her future husband values the most to have her bills paid or live a luxury lifestyle in the short-term.
Loni and the other woman didn’t really seem to care about why this dynamic is important to marriage minded men because they are so dead-set on their extreme application of “judgement-free”. While I appreciate their attempt to be consistent, they are blurring the lines between “judgement-free” and “consequence-free”, and that’s where the big disconnect in this conversation was. I wish they would’ve slowed down the conversation when Rico tried to make this point against her obscure example. They tried to discredit it as a “pull yourself up by the bootstraps” type of thinking when it wasn’t.
I’m convinced that they play the “I don’t understand” card whenever they know that it will contradict their stance. The ladies have NO SOLUTION, but are challenging Rico and Pearl to give them the SOLUTION, then they find a problem with the solution
This was Such a REFRESHING conversation bring Pearl back again….
SHM. So much deflection, lack of accountability, gas lighting, 'the 1 exceptions' and even when Rico give Marie her the solution and facts she still won't accept. Her own words: " I agree but,,,," then Annie contradicts herself about the lying aspect. How sad.
Said “that was your grandmas choice” mad shade 😂😂😂😂
DAMMMIT
And it was. Because my grandma cut ppl. I don't condone it. Lol I'm just saying everyone didn't make the same choice. 😆
Pearl really is out here doing God's work. She makes the loss of the Godfather sting a lil less 😔
You sound sad 😂😂😂😂
This was the best episode I have seen keep up the great work
I love love loved this episode. I'm glad Rico stood on his square... Thank ya'll for this truth. I'm sorry but our sisters look so outclassed in these conversations with Pearl. Pearl argues along the lines of a factual and logical basis. The sisters argue based upon feelings and at times make things up in order to support a dysfunctional community with respect to promiscuity. As Pearl puts it, body count matters to men for many reason, the most important reason is "it just does". This idea that men should not care when they do is insane. Constantly, sisters respond by saying that it just shouldn't matter but refuse to acknowledge that men and women are different and then find out why it's matterd to men. A women that sleeps with many men repulses men.
The fact that Loni ignored when Pearl said the study was done by the CDC and she didn't responds shows you the disingenuous nature of Loni and women like her regarding this discussion.
When I know that woman has a high body count….it definitely repulses me. It’s cool that women are free and earn their own living, but I’ll never be able to normalize it. I’m not having my kids with a worldly woman.
💯 Very well put.
“The fact that Loni ignored…shows you the disingenuous nature…”,
And for this reason my friend, the healing these broken women need - takes so long to begin! 🤦🏽♂️
Loni is dangerous. Ignoring facts in aid of her bias. Even when it makes her look so intellectually disfunctional
@rmak2950 sadly, my friend.(1) I've come to learn that women like loni are abundant and (2) women generally do not care what men think when it comes to intersexual dynamics. This is why this conversation goes nowhere.
Sheesh she even got upset at pearl laughing wtf. She knows how to keep it light hearted and not take it personal, loni and Marie are being so combative and difficult and dismissive. Def helped me see how being delusional and argumentative ppl can see black women as. All the complaining and no solutions and then when pearl brings some up then that’s a problem too. Like it’s like they needed a white board to stay on point and give proper definitions. You can tell they are all on diff levels of understanding. Like you can’t be in a class with these types of responses. Then to bring up diff stats too like in text form on the screen and for these women to see bc this was crazy. I can’t believe I watched this entire thing, I have so much anxiety omg … they need a definition for generalizations and stereotypes. And no one is just gna stop loni, like what world are you living in? Just accept the facts! She saying the same thing over and over and it’s like wtf lady like why did they put these ppl together. Bring pearl back. Did some of these ppl go to school? Like they just talking with no facts or academic findings. Why does she think ppl lying about numbers or does she really mean herself? The rebuttals were so weak omg
Kiki said: "Society doesn't like hoes."
Theres two ways to respond to that
1. Don't be a hoe.
2. Lie about being a hoe.
Which one do these women default to as if the other option doesn't exist?
word! youll be alright sis!
It's baffles me sis
Great job Rico and Pearl keeping it to stats and facts. I'd like to see pearl on another episode with some of the other more outspoken members
Pearl is honestly top 5. She definitely made some people uncomfortable with this one, but its for the greater good. goat.
Thanks for having Pearly there, refreshing to hear her speak.
Bringing back shame >>>>
On multiple platforms, most of these women just end up looking like idiots next to Pearl. They’re so busy trying to be “right”, their ability to make a reasonable argument goes right out the window.
This episode was the best by far.
This whole thing is facts. Feelings explained on both sides and logic broken down on both sides. From like 1:10 on is like the tough pill to swallow
You can not make a 304 into a house wife. Nothing increases in value with time and use. This woman is the poster child for not being held accountable. Her decision making skills are so skewed she don't even believe herself.
Adults see the world and deal with it as it is. Children whine about the world not being what they want it to be.
Great show! This shit was funny as hell!! 😂😂😂 The hate is so clear from the other two women towards what Pearl was saying. Most women hate being put in a category even when it’s 💯 TRUE, distain taking accountability for their actions and have the biggest problem accepting reality. Just my factual observational opinion! 😉
Yet women love putting men in categories. Accountability is at an all-time low
“I got 3 kids “
Pearl: 😳
Shoulda asked "by the same man"?
Mic drop
LMAOOO
“ it was studied by the CDC “
Her: “ Ok “
Pearl : “ I mean you wanted to know “
It’s like one end is talking about the majority and the other end is talking about exception
Women's counter arguments are ALWAYS in Extremes or Exceptions i.e: "Well Jay Z Cheated on Beyonce and still stayed" 🤨😤
Pearl letting that chopper go…🤣🤣🤣
Great podcast brother ✊🏼
One thing is true:
UA-camrs should cooperate more.
Good chemistry!!!!
This was good it got wiLd but Rico's closing argument was beautifully done clear so they could hear
Woman having 10 bodies at 19 is kinda alot can't lie. If ur that woman's first body or second she will treat you different
Kinda? 😂😂
Not kinda, it is. If you assume a woman is losing her virginity in high school, so thats 15, she got 10 bodies in the span of 4-5 years. As a woman thats not good. The goal is to keep that number low if not zero.
Nice podcast. Always love to watch women get offended and emotional when Pearl states facts. Lol. Found this channel from the clips Pearl posted. I hope you guys keep having these kinds of conversations on your channel because more and more people need to have them.
best show so far that i have seen.
I would love for pearl and Erin to have a conversation cause Erin stay saying crazy shit
Hafeez punching the air right now lmaoo 🤣
At this point these wonderful conversations go in circles with no accountability or middle ground. Let's just see where single women and single men end up in 10 years from now.
Wow that lady Lanie spent the entire discussion being salty. Having a different opinion is one thing, but she took things way too personally. Sending her healing energy and peace.
48:20
Hilarious! 😂 Pearl was dropping the invisible mic! 🖐🎤
Also,I knew loni was going to be a problem when she introduced herself with the magic hands wave.
I fucking love pearl 🤣
I am so in love with Pearl and she isn’t my type her taught process and humor is on point!❤
I agree if you have chosen to sleep around accept the consequence of your action. It doesn't change because you are offended
Pearl hit the table 1987 times in this video. I thought she was making a beat🤣
Lady with kids checked out after getting owned by pearl over and over again lol. Talkin bout she wanna go watch a show with her daughter lmaoooo
You are hitting the nail on the head Pirl
Glad to see the women in the comments not agreeing with this sister
Bro broke it down with a simple example.
Loni you cant destigmatize a man's nature. Let's say that he doesn't know your body count. For most chicks, their mentality and actions will tell on them. The more bodies you have, the more you have been impacted emotionally and mentally by guys. Far too often, this leads to broken, combative, masculine chicks, neither of which are appealing to most guys, especially the top guys that most chicks be wanting. So rather or not you tell your exact number, you tell on yourself and it hurts your potential prospects as well as any guy who gets with you.
Exactly, they always tell omn themselves! All you gotta do is listen to them and they will tell you all you need to know.
@@dappa311 Facts. Let them talk. Works every time.
The funniest and saddest part of what you said, most women don't understand. Depending on the guy, we'll sniff that out within a week of "getting to know them".
They want to claim that it's just a number while they proceed to complain about all the baggage and trauma they've accumulated from the guys that did them wrong throughout their lifetime. The self denial is in overdrive.
She blew it wide open, when she said most men don't know the real body count of their wives.
Then..to cover her *ss, she comes back with "maybe they didn't ask".
Well...more like, they DID and were LIED to.
(I still can't believe she described her V on a podcast) Real class, there. 304 talk, right there!
Bodycount matters because most men care about it, every man wants what's special. so if you've slept about & giving your body to alot of men it doesn't become special anymore, gold would lose value if everyone had it, its the same logic.
No one can make you feel shame about decisions you are proud of.
Beautiful.. What a fabulous comment.
Stealing it.. Profound Renee
Women are wonderful and are people just like men and life is life. I've been Married over a decade .
Destigmatize what? Knowing if a football team has blown your back out? Do you believe anyone would wanna be with you if known that? Of course not
Perl made this episode gold 😂😂😂😂
Great episode with Pearl.
You the man Rico!!
This is not only a problem with women it's with young people in general.
And it still didn't work😂😂😂dem facts hurt but people rather take the comfortable lie. Living in their truths an all😂😂😂
It was simultaneously good and frustrating discussion. When Loni didn't agree that habits inform identity I had to tap out. Well adjusted adults accept consequences for their actions unfortunately modern women aren't
I’m with Rico on this and pearl got her point across with facts it goes to show that the other ladies don’t understand men, but it’s not their fault though and still❤❤❤ for all points of use from everybody
I swear if u listen to this whole thing and not get a headache after, you’re a superhuman
Right lol i just can’t
Absolutely
Definitely agree
It wasn't mass incarceration... it was multiple things combined. Welfare was a huge part, birth control, ect...
These women like thugs and bad boys. Those men are usually incarcerated a lot. That’s why that’s the problem in women’s eyes, instead of the obvious reality that all those other things are factors.
They love keeping it vague!!
Yo, I almost missed this. I saw that 8 in the background on her channel, and knew!
Don't allow a person to speak if you can't see their face.
Exactly
Also notice how when they state statistics their response is "how", " where you get that from?", " I don't believe that". Ok, so where are you ladies statistics? No they just using their family members.
Telling men to accept 304s is like telling women to accept a man, for example, that has a drug problem that keeps relapsing to just trust he won’t keep doing it again and shaming her because she doesn’t want to accept him and then tell her not to shame him for being a drug addict.
Rico tha Truth!🅿️👍🏿👏🏿💯🙏🏾🙌🏿💪🏿
Everytime I see y’all collaborate with other creators in the space the quality goes up. No offense to most of the content on this channel, but only the guest are able to articulate their ideas clearly. The real reason why this channel hasn’t grown as it should’ve is due to this. No matter how many viral moments, you get staying power from replicating success. That comes from having a succinct message that can be articulated no matter the circumstance.
All of her points are to shame men for pointing out poor decisions. She also tends to compare herself to the worst case scenario to make herself feel better.
Your past shouldn't define you...
But it's your walking resume...
It will open and close doors for you...
"You don get to categorize me, or anyone else".. Uhhh, yeah, we do.
Pearl always be spitting 💯
She's obviously single
She hinted at that when she talked about her kids, she said men still tell her she has a tight p*ssy, that could only happen if you’re still out here getting fucked by random dudes
The comments have spoken definitively #FACTSOVERFICTION
The solution is to stick to reality and not feelings, understand each other's differences as men and women, respect those differences and grow
6:07 according to who? According to Men.