Yes my situation is bed the narc is my mother and my kids are 23 and 20 then 7 and 3 she has already turned my older kids against me and they act just like her she used her money to buy nice things and make them a go against me she has been zero contact to me for the last 3 months now and I'm finally okay with that and I do not plan to be around her or let my kids go around her but she manipulate them and make them think that it's me keeping them away but really she's keeping herself away It's almost to the point where I want to hate her I know hate is a strong word but I have so much dislike in my heart for her she have deprived me from a normal relationship😢
Wow, I'm so sorry. It's so sad and such a waste of time playing these landmine games. I don't want to play anymore. I've been trying to figure out what to do. They LOVE power, control and punishing. They have no real empathy so for them it's the long game. For people who have empathy and are caring it's a nightmare. @@ladyredd6857
Same here, but I’m a few years older than you. Yes, no contact is the only way, mine is nearing the end of a life limiting illness. With the greatest amt of wrath and fury and dirty coercion that she has ever shown. Same with the father similarity too, all my life. I regretfully allowed her to triangulate my relationship with my son - anti-parenting and teaching her sneaky ways to him, shares her bitter grudges - old & new, now she’s trying to turn him into a flying monkey for her because her last disregard 2 weeks ago, is the final one that I’ll tolerate (yay!). He’s old enough that I can’t keep him away, I just try to help him recognise the guilt trips and manipulations. You deserve much better too, and to live a pleasant, peaceful life. Your older kids will see truth, some day, absolutely protect the younger ones. 🕊🍀
Mine sent the cops to my house for a well fare check up because I told him he could not disrespect me lmao almost got me locked up he does silent treatment and everything else I left him lmao and now just laugh
You are so spot on with this and is exactly what I am experiencing right now. My Narc discarded me a year ago and I’m still afraid to leave house. My adult children have sided with Narc and believe his lies.
Now your story sound like me then work the narcissist is my mother And she have disregarded me for 3 months and have turned my two adult children on me and she is now trying to turn my two younger kids but I'm going no contact this time because I refuse to let her poison my younger kids and me I am 42 years old her only child and she has been manipulating me my whole life very angry hate my dad takes it on me I feel because I look like him she's just a awful person I want to hate her but I believe in God so I'm just going to pray for her and stay away from her but I pray to the Lord that he can save my kids because she turned them against me😢😮😮💔
Thank you for doing such a great job! I feel validated. The narc I was involved with discarded me and threw the new supply in my face. I went no contact but he sent flying monkeys to keep tabs on me which feels like the abuse is being prolonged even though they’re not in your life. Sick! I wouldn’t wish narc abuse on anyone
My ex narc wife stole all my money ($500,000) left me living on social security and food stamps. I did not go for her control and did not comply and am still trying to figure how to get my money back. You are right on with this video, Thanks
Agree to disagree is the best dialogue with a narcissist. “You never loved me” Me: “If that is what you believe, that’s up to you”. “It’s your fault why the relationship ended”. Me: same answer above “You’re crazy” Me: You get the picture 👆🏿🤷🏾♀️ Hold your ground, stand in your truth. Conserve your energy. They will try to draw you into an argument. If you take the bait, it’s all over. You don’t have to explain yourself to a person who has no intention of listening. As soon as you feel the stirrings of irritation because let’s face it, these people are a carbuncle on society, walk away (if safe to do so). That is your right and your prerogative. Never let a narcissist try to cut you off from that basic right.
My dad has used the threat of disinheritance my entire adult life. I’m starting to understand that pathological narcs are not only empathy impaired but they don’t know love. Without love, all interactions are about getting as much as possible for themselves. Love is a state of being, not a transaction.
Another ture video; in my case that narc called the police on me, because I decided enough is enough, so I kicked his ass out of my house. Within 15 minutes he came back to my house with the police accused me of having a knife on him; we both was arrested. Spent 1 night in jail the case was dropped due to lack of evidence. I thank God I was able to end that toxic hell of a relationship. Thank you for sharing your video it's educational and informative. ❤
It amazes me how many people, including professional massage therapists, who are willing to engage in triangulation and harmful, unprofessional behavior to cause harm to someone the stalking narcissist hates.
You’re very good. On point I had been praying because I want to fix or be of help to my EX BF, but he doesn’t deserve me. He’s so cruel and. Lies and manipulates you helped open my eyes and tut words answered many of my confusion . I had been praying. Thank you for clarification of what I’ve been going through.
Please don't forget to give some input on the female narcissist. Because I feel they are the absolute worst. Because they're covert and bring the most vile, brutal, hate and evil a man could ever experience. Love your knowledge on the subject, it all helps.
My SIL is a female narc and I had kids with a male narc. My SIL is far more evil than my ex ever was. Im honestly afraid she may try to kill my brother.
I understand this fear 🙏🏻 but not a SIL & bro. Narc women are brutally dangerous, & damaging to good souls, especially infirm aged ones. Literal Prayers that you and I are wrong 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Remarkable. You just said SO much in this short clip that resonates in my life. Im SO glad you came through on my feed. Ive been studying this, trying to figure out what is wrong with me for YEARS, and you are just hitting on things i always felt were a part of it, but nobody else does. Thank you for this new perspective. Wow.
Thank you your info is brilliantly spot on. However ... and please forgive me for being blunt ... please slow the delivery down ! You come across as being far too excitable & seem to be rushing to get as much info out as possible ( you can even be heard at times ... as though having to catch your own breath ) No disrespect intended
D E M O N
It's a living nightmare, especially with grandchildren involved.
Yes my situation is bed the narc is my mother and my kids are 23 and 20 then 7 and 3 she has already turned my older kids against me and they act just like her she used her money to buy nice things and make them a go against me she has been zero contact to me for the last 3 months now and I'm finally okay with that and I do not plan to be around her or let my kids go around her but she manipulate them and make them think that it's me keeping them away but really she's keeping herself away It's almost to the point where I want to hate her I know hate is a strong word but I have so much dislike in my heart for her she have deprived me from a normal relationship😢
Wow, I'm so sorry. It's so sad and such a waste of time playing these landmine games. I don't want to play anymore. I've been trying to figure out what to do. They LOVE power, control and punishing. They have no real empathy so for them it's the long game. For people who have empathy and are caring it's a nightmare.
@@ladyredd6857
I feel you...38 yrs married and he disquarded me like a trash because i called him out on his lies and cheating ....
Same here, but I’m a few years older than you. Yes, no contact is the only way, mine is nearing the end of a life limiting illness. With the greatest amt of wrath and fury and dirty coercion that she has ever shown. Same with the father similarity too, all my life. I regretfully allowed her to triangulate my relationship with my son - anti-parenting and teaching her sneaky ways to him, shares her bitter grudges - old & new, now she’s trying to turn him into a flying monkey for her because her last disregard 2 weeks ago, is the final one that I’ll tolerate (yay!). He’s old enough that I can’t keep him away, I just try to help him recognise the guilt trips and manipulations.
You deserve much better too, and to live a pleasant, peaceful life. Your older kids will see truth, some day, absolutely protect the younger ones. 🕊🍀
He doesn't want to call the cops on me. He's a cocaine dealer.
Then you should be calling on him!
You hold your ground.
The obvious sense of pleasure they get from harming other people is troubling, I guess all sadism is tho.
Mine sent the cops to my house for a well fare check up because I told him he could not disrespect me lmao almost got me locked up he does silent treatment and everything else I left him lmao and now just laugh
You just explained what I went through, the trauma almost killed me, it’s been 7 months I haven’t talked to him or seen him
He was so terrified that I was going to leave that he threatened to kill me if I tried.
You are so spot on with this and is exactly what I am experiencing right now. My Narc discarded me a year ago and I’m still afraid to leave house. My adult children have sided with Narc and believe his lies.
Now your story sound like me then work the narcissist is my mother And she have disregarded me for 3 months and have turned my two adult children on me and she is now trying to turn my two younger kids but I'm going no contact this time because I refuse to let her poison my younger kids and me I am 42 years old her only child and she has been manipulating me my whole life very angry hate my dad takes it on me I feel because I look like him she's just a awful person I want to hate her but I believe in God so I'm just going to pray for her and stay away from her but I pray to the Lord that he can save my kids because she turned them against me😢😮😮💔
The truth will eventually prevail
Stay strong , nothing to fear, surround yourself with good people
Thank you for doing such a great job! I feel validated. The narc I was involved with discarded me and threw the new supply in my face. I went no contact but he sent flying monkeys to keep tabs on me which feels like the abuse is being prolonged even though they’re not in your life. Sick! I wouldn’t wish narc abuse on anyone
My big Smart 🤓 loving sister blessings
My ex narc wife stole all my money ($500,000) left me living on social security and food stamps. I did not go for her control and did not comply and am still trying to figure how to get my money back. You are right on with this video, Thanks
Tell her if she gives you the money back you will make her the benafisary of your 3 million 💰💵 dollar life on policy in stead of leaving it to charity
Life insurance policy
Agree to disagree is the best dialogue with a narcissist.
“You never loved me”
Me: “If that is what you believe, that’s up to you”.
“It’s your fault why the relationship ended”.
Me: same answer above
“You’re crazy”
Me: You get the picture 👆🏿🤷🏾♀️
Hold your ground, stand in your truth. Conserve your energy. They will try to draw you into an argument. If you take the bait, it’s all over. You don’t have to explain yourself to a person who has no intention of listening. As soon as you feel the stirrings of irritation because let’s face it, these people are a carbuncle on society, walk away (if safe to do so). That is your right and your prerogative. Never let a narcissist try to cut you off from that basic right.
My dad has used the threat of disinheritance my entire adult life. I’m starting to understand that pathological narcs are not only empathy impaired but they don’t know love. Without love, all interactions are about getting as much as possible for themselves. Love is a state of being, not a transaction.
Hes so lost that i broke the trama bond 😂 hes like your a ex drug addic i said yeah PRAISE GOD i quit your ass too! 😂😂😂😂
Another ture video; in my case that narc called the police on me, because I decided enough is enough, so I kicked his ass out of my house. Within 15 minutes he came back to my house with the police accused me of having a knife on him; we both was arrested. Spent 1 night in jail the case was dropped due to lack of evidence. I thank God I was able to end that toxic hell of a relationship. Thank you for sharing your video it's educational and informative. ❤
YOU ARE A GEM!
Faith 💫 hope 🤞💞 😊 💕
Worthy well able rich Happy -go-lucky full of joy blessed 💞⭐🕊️ woman of God 😊 💯
Thank you for this awesome knowledge and insight.❤
It amazes me how many people, including professional massage therapists, who are willing to engage in triangulation and harmful, unprofessional behavior to cause harm to someone the stalking narcissist hates.
You’re very good. On point I had been praying because I want to fix or be of help to my EX BF, but he doesn’t deserve me. He’s so cruel and. Lies and manipulates you helped open my eyes and tut words answered many of my confusion . I had been praying. Thank you for clarification of what I’ve been going through.
Please don't forget to give some input on the female narcissist. Because I feel they are the absolute worst. Because they're covert and bring the most vile, brutal, hate and evil a man could ever experience. Love your knowledge on the subject, it all helps.
My SIL is a female narc and I had kids with a male narc. My SIL is far more evil than my ex ever was. Im honestly afraid she may try to kill my brother.
I understand this fear 🙏🏻 but not a SIL & bro. Narc women are brutally dangerous, & damaging to good souls, especially infirm aged ones.
Literal Prayers that you and I are wrong 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Walk the hell away
Remarkable.
You just said SO much in this short clip that resonates in my life.
Im SO glad you came through on my feed.
Ive been studying this, trying to figure out what is wrong with me for YEARS, and you are just hitting on things i always felt were a part of it, but nobody else does.
Thank you for this new perspective.
Wow.
YOU PEOPLE HAVE BEEN WARNED ⚠️ IT GETS DEADLY
How is it possible to internalize others' traumas ?
He’s been vandalizing my car for going in 4 months now, but can’t prove it!
My car has not been the same since!
Very helpful. Beautiful voice. Thank you!
My twin took the grandkids away. It broke my mom's heart! I know she would have continued with dialysis. She chose to die!
I'm sorry but NO, I didn't let him threat me bad nor did I chase him around
Do you do one on one sessions?
Yes. You can email me at DJYANEZ81@GMAIL.COM
Thank you your info is brilliantly spot on. However ... and please forgive me for being blunt ... please slow the delivery down ! You come across as being far too excitable & seem to be
rushing to get as much info out as possible ( you can even be heard at times ... as though having to catch your own breath )
No disrespect intended