The narcissist and mortification

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  • Опубліковано 31 лип 2023
  • Mortifying the narcissist.

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  • @PeterShaw-ne1yq
    @PeterShaw-ne1yq 9 місяців тому +41

    Anyone living with a narc should abandon all hope of reforming them; if possible, leave the relationship whilst you still have your sanity 😕

    • @Richualistik
      @Richualistik 8 місяців тому +1

      Sad, but true😢. I Had to 100% give up on my younger brother. There's nothing I haven't done for him in all his times of need. When I was down and out, he mocked me, was very anti-supportive, refused to offer any assistance, and ultimately relished in the possibility of me losing my house. I turned it around, started 2 business and have been very successful!😅 Now😅 he hates me with every breath he takes yet thinks I will help him by telling my mom to ask me to help him move!😂 Karma has been my best friend (both ways) the last 4 years!

    • @pamolipra8746
      @pamolipra8746 8 місяців тому +2

      You are truly amazing ! I love what you said. So true.

  • @James-mc5hc
    @James-mc5hc 8 місяців тому +32

    Do not mortify a narcissist
    They will kill your spirit.
    Narcissist are not humans
    They live in another world
    Where pain is food

  • @shooshoo9366
    @shooshoo9366 8 місяців тому +19

    Narcissist never change. I lived with one for 48 years always saying it will get better but it only got worse. I’m 4 months out of our marriage and him. They can pretend their going to therapy but it’s just more gaslighting. I’m 69 now and I can promise anyone living with one they will NEVER CHANGE! Don’t waste your whole life like I did on a narcissist … get out NOW!

    • @steadypace1262
      @steadypace1262 8 місяців тому

      Keep spreading the word it's about time all of these narc scoundrels get exposed. Take good care of yourself so you can outlive him.🕊

    • @user-dd3ny4xb3w
      @user-dd3ny4xb3w 5 місяців тому

      I'm 61 now, 23 yrs of my life that I will never get back. They do NOT change.

  • @God_Leads_My_Way
    @God_Leads_My_Way 9 місяців тому +25

    Vindication finally comes when they repeat the same story line with the new supply! Patience is a virtue ❤

    • @ladyvirgo9514
      @ladyvirgo9514 9 місяців тому

      Sadly that would make me feel better, my husband has been living with another chic since May. Crook

  • @lesliethurston2151
    @lesliethurston2151 9 місяців тому +18

    Heinous behavior, to their own blood even. Why are they not being subjected to the legal system?

    • @lamarlashley8738
      @lamarlashley8738 8 місяців тому +4

      Exactly

    • @jordanferguson2254
      @jordanferguson2254 8 місяців тому +3

      Because people don't take emotions, and therefore emotional abuse seriously. When it literally destroys lives and physical health.

  • @bryansperry9910
    @bryansperry9910 9 місяців тому +12

    I exposed mine and never went back.

  • @sheiladay-od2me
    @sheiladay-od2me 9 місяців тому +8

    I never react to their ridiculous pranks. They hate this.

  • @melanieknowles7002
    @melanieknowles7002 8 місяців тому +5

    After 30 yrs i stopped trying and let God step in. Am a widow today. Forgave him. Have a wonderful blessed healty life now. God heard and saw. Let go. Let God.

  • @4Mikes4Mindset4
    @4Mikes4Mindset4 Рік тому +12

    The movie "get out" should have been made for these creatures

  • @MagicalCreations-fw7pj
    @MagicalCreations-fw7pj 9 місяців тому +7

    You have their "Number"!!!
    This is exactly what happened to me precisely. A mere neighbor I didn't even know but was so good to her until the abuse began. I withdrew completely and she weaponized all other neighbors, apartment management and the Law. I was arrested one of her famous false accusations in retailiation. It costs me almost everything! Had to move to another state. All bc of her lies and manufacturing someone that didn't even exist in me. I had to battle this out with so many players she had enlisted. I was completely alone! I had so make the LE, DA and Court see the truth. When it was over, Many lost their jobs and careers. I survived but sure left many traumas. Thank You so very much for your detailed TRUTHS. You have to stay religiously attached to truth and facts to survive one of these spiritual weapons sent from the center of the abyss! Thank You again!

    • @MagicalCreations-fw7pj
      @MagicalCreations-fw7pj 9 місяців тому

      Worst of all, she was already identified with those same people as narcissistic! They long ago told me what and who she was yet, they became the very ones she enlisted and they all ganged up on me in some attempt to save themselves from her abuse. Just projected it all onto me. Left me wondering who the narcissists really were bc in the end upon reflection, It sure seemed they each and all were undercover narcissists! Flying Monkeys!

  • @seeUnique1
    @seeUnique1 8 місяців тому +3

    Thank You for this! I've found out/woke up recently that for 20+ yrs living with this monster and you nailed it! Working on leaving and never ever look back!☝️😭

  • @whoreofdixieland
    @whoreofdixieland 9 місяців тому +6

    Oh baloney. They consigned themselves to their misery, leave them be, I'm not a savior.

  • @johncrookston6111
    @johncrookston6111 9 місяців тому +7

    That was some excellent content!
    Thank you
    6mo's NC and getting better everyday,
    Living again in the favor of Almighty G-D
    Narcissists blaspheme G-D!
    Run!and don't get caught up in their karma,
    It's not pretty!

  • @DebraHernandez-le7sj
    @DebraHernandez-le7sj 8 місяців тому +3

    😢 thank you for this information I didn't understand it but now I do my boyfriend's been doing this kind of stuff at his apartment I've been with him for 17 years I didn't get it but now I do now I understand he talks about his neighbors his friends are all just like him he was treating me for me to talk back to him to react I'm so embarrassed

  • @vikingmike8139
    @vikingmike8139 8 місяців тому +3

    Great video and very informative. You have just described my last work environment. I am glad I quit. Cheers! 😊

  • @fuzails2
    @fuzails2 8 місяців тому +2

    Mortification of a narc happens. But mine had pre empted me by grabbing my right to equal space control in our jointly owned matrimonial home. She grabbed my study and put heavy beds in the name of my grand children in my study. So my adversary is no longer the narc but apparently I look as if I am taking the bedroom from my grand children. It is difficult to expose the narc. She has created a nuisance value.

  • @ValerieDeGoes-ck3wm
    @ValerieDeGoes-ck3wm Місяць тому

    I love listening to you.❤

  • @bigceefts8047
    @bigceefts8047 9 місяців тому +4

    It sounds like you are talking directly to me 😮

  • @angeleyes3
    @angeleyes3 9 місяців тому +6

    I don't know, I don't think mortifying a narcissist will lead to recovery, MAYBE a borderline.❤

  • @bedoflame
    @bedoflame 8 місяців тому +3

    helpful

  • @mavenbraun5701
    @mavenbraun5701 8 місяців тому +3

    Yes. I expose them. They will be accountable.

  • @PeterShaw-ne1yq
    @PeterShaw-ne1yq 9 місяців тому +2

    I offered to teach her son mathematics, she shouted at me that she had engineering mathematics after that treated me as the persona non grata.
    They are incurable as this persona they operate by is a lifelong construct and it serves them most of the time.

  • @jelenapiskin
    @jelenapiskin 8 місяців тому +3

    It was all love bombing at start...I felt like I was in a fairytale...I moved to another city, we married...and hell started. I was always guilty for everything, mocked, had to abort our third child....I stayed...years passed. I lost myself. He wasn' t huseband, he wasn't even dad to our two children...I felt so alone...i was physically abused. Also, I was a good provider to our family, payed all the bills, invested in his house, bought a car...I had enough. One day...I kissed another man out of a desperation. I hated my life, I hated myself. There were no emotions included, I was so hungry for love, attention, to be seen and heard. He kicked me out of his house and moved in another woman 6 months later...we haven't divorced yet. I know that hell is in front of me and he' s going to try to destroy me. I thought I love that man....At first I hoped to reconcile with him...now, I just want my freedom. I just want a piece of mind and my old, strong self back!

    • @mendey14
      @mendey14 6 місяців тому

      Run sister run Grab the hand of G-D and embrace Life Good Love 💕

    • @nicholecornes1915
      @nicholecornes1915 3 місяці тому

      I understand

  • @sheiladay-od2me
    @sheiladay-od2me 9 місяців тому +2

    Totally true!

  • @bustermarch8005
    @bustermarch8005 9 місяців тому +2

    My thoughts was he manipulated me to sleep with him, all promised was a future faking. I had been a fool and still carried on being a fool. I felt very embarrassed to be seen with him by people he knows. I must had been a laughing stock to them. So to exposed him was the last thing I wanted to do. I walked away because I was not happy with the situation. Now I know about narc smearing. I am quite sure he must have done it. Maybe it was good not to know anything about Narcissism until beginning of this year. It was 34 years since I left him, and was completely no contact.

  • @williambillbeck8902
    @williambillbeck8902 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for the candor about these unusual abnormal behaviors listed in the Bible 2 Timothy chapter 3 verses 1-9 about Godlessness in the last days. I think this describes the behavior of narcissists, which will increase as time goes on. You have been especially helpful in strategies of the healing of narcissistic behaviors, which is difficult, yet God can do anything.

  • @darrellbutler884
    @darrellbutler884 8 місяців тому +1

    In spite of all the demonic manipulation, you can have peace 🕊️. A day of reconning isn't far off. trust you own personal value. That, being mirrored because of their false persona. Mirage

  • @ainahaga
    @ainahaga 8 місяців тому +2

    Do you meditate daily Donielle and have you also met your twinflame? I met my twinflame 3,5 years before the narsisist. And my twinflame sendt me alot of healing while I was with the narsisist. I feel he knew that I was in danger. But Im glad I went through this! How long ago since you first met your narsisist and how long were you with yours? Before you got away?