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not so easy to deal with when your offspring are Narcissists...

She called me a narcissist I did not know what that was when I looked up this everything you all are saying and what I have learned from the channels is everything she did to the T I can't believe there are so many people like this I've seen close but nothing like this I thought it was just her that's why I say to her everyday before she discard me 40 million time how are you so stupid this time I was discarded for someone else I never did Chase cry and look for her but I did get small Hoovers

How can my ex narc be watching me. He's blocked me everywhere.

In less than my two months of being discarded - I broke the trauma bond and healed. I read tons of books and watched hundreds of videos about narcissistic relationships. It helped to accelerate my healing! ❤️‍🩹

They DONT CARE

Nice !!!!!

A disorder not to disorder ‼️what ! 15:14

Seriously .. a new piece of me ? 😊 13:59

The most on spot video out there about Narcs!!!!

The fact that you ❤'d random comments on this video that seeked nothing more than to just attack Christian faith for no apparent reason other than to hate on Christians is pretty disturding.

Exquisite Truth...I needed this...l Iove how you explain it ..now I know I wasn't tripping... September will be a year... I've been out. Moved to different state....

It’s not hard to leave but to have nowhere to go children stuck with perp cause they take your children the whole stuff is truely just beyond comprehension and evil driven

It’s not easy to go wounded left alone in a car after going thru it with what’s meant to be support people from original perp narc and they end up being like them like it’s all a trade off I guess the narcs gaslighting brought them all in

It’s hard when one has to live in a car to escape it mentally emotionally wounded with no money a housing crisis and no proper efficient support to counteract the demise Even though wasn’t a romantic partnership just seem to have got sucked into one narc after the other do I live in car alone and scared

Took me 10 years to break free. Once you see it and know what you are dealing with, missing them ends. Freedom

I don't think my X gf ( Malignant Narc. ) will ever comeback, I do miss her... Idk why. She's the most evil person I've ever known in my life. She destroyed my home, my life, she went on a Narc Rage on my home. She's facing a grip of Felonies, ofcourse its all my fault ??? Her new bf literally had her handed to him on a silver platter. I actually kicked her out 1st. I got her out. Later she got me in trouble w the law. I didn't do anything, in fact I called the police on her.. She had gone off on me prior and after a year of The best Sex of my life 6-8 months, then my dream girl turned into a Demonic nightmare. She I can't even talk about it anymore. But I have to go to pretrial next month. Her New Supply bailed her out after a month in jail. So I guess their doing ok. She hasn't contacted me in months... she changed her number. I wish I never met her.. But i was raised in a Roman Catholic home. And the Malevolence is real. I saw the Demon in her eyes

U r the best. Thank u 4 being so honest & so realistic with us. Every thing u mentioned about the narcissist is facts. I experienced everything u mentioned about a narcissist & their behavior off & on for two years. God delivered me from that toxic , pathological liar. Narcissist r so phony & so pathetic. Oh my gosh.

Thank you for this video!❤❤ Very imformative and filled with encouragement. The interesting part you mentioned about a narc is rejection at childhood and their minds manifest into imaginary thinking. Just like Narcs convice others whom the Narc is not friends or aquantances and or family that someone is a bad person or criminal and smear the victim in public and online causing job loses, false imprisonment, public harrassment, stalking and bullyung into suicide, devorces, break up best friends, organized mobb assault with 5 10 or more people who are accomplices causing destruction or property, riots bodily harm to the victim or victims up to being murdered in cold blood. This has happens so often around the country and around the world in private and leaving communities, churches, schools, family households mentally, emotionally, socially, relationally and unlawfully damaged. All in honesty i survived a Narc whom i was related to and after i left, i got counseling for mental health, educated myself about people who suffer from NPD (Narcissistic personality disorder) and got a good support of friends. My heart goes out to anyone who suffered at the hand of a narc i understand what thats like God Bless you and keep moving forward. When you focus on rebuilding you your loses will be your gain. Peace be with you! ✌️✌️✌️ if you read this comment section, Thank you.

First time commenting on one of these channels. After 30 years (including several years apart during breaks, discards) of marriage, 4 children and a successful 20 year business that I allowed to fail, I have been punted again. This time my adult children rallied to my side and educated me on covert narcissism and informed me of the abuse they endured from their mother. This was shocking for me as I always believed her one saving grace was that she was a great mother. I worked to much. I’ve been no contact for 45 days now and suffered rumination and the trauma bond. After learning about narcissism on UA-cam for a few weeks now things didn’t get much better UNTIL I watched this video. Thank you, your a beautiful and strong influence that I needed. Don’t quit, and I won’t either. Gonna buy your book, can’t wait. I use self talk post-it’s where I can see them stating “Don’t worry, It’s just the Trauma Bond”. That helps me remember your words and your message. My son and I have started a new Plumbing Business and things are moving fast, I live with his young family and support my daughters that followed me there. It’s the complete opposite of past times I’ve been discarded when I was alone and she had everyone with her. I guess things couldn’t have worked out better except that I truly do love my ex. Best wishes to all.

If I had you in person right now I would give you hugs kisses.. a limo for the week...a steak dinner with cocktails and trip to Nordstroms...a chariot ride......

We don t need validation from the invalid , it s all comedy lol 😂

Wow I could've used this a month ago. I found out my "GF" of 6 years is Engaged to another man. Not only that but her twin sister said she's been with 4-5 guys in the time we've been together, she keeps a harem shed full of potentials and exes on standby, and there was a whole other relationship 3 years ago that I never found out about. There were dozens of times when I smelled men on her clothes or she vanished for 3 days at a time without explanation, and so many male friends while telling me that if I spoke to any woman about anything that would be cheating. When I found out about all this, I confronted her. She accused me of being crazy and paranoid at first, then ignored me for a full day. Finally when she realised I was serious she admitted to some things she knew I already knew. There was a drip drip of information, all making her look more reasonable than anything I knew or heard. Then she said we weren't even a couple since she'd been denying me sex for 3 years! News to me, I thought we were in love but that her body was damaged due to Menopause and Covid. She kept me on as an emotional support dog for 3 years! Then she showed up at my house after I went no contact. She was banging and shouting for 30 minutes about how she would get my kids taken away from me with some BS accusations from 3 years ago that she suddenly remembered after 3 years of telling me I'm the only source of colour in her life, no room for anyone else in her heart, etc. After that, she reached out and offered to tell me everything. Like a fool I went and listened. She fed me more drips of information. TBH even what she told me was bad enough: That she called a counsellor 3 years ago, he resigned and took her number, they met for a weekend away and that nothing happened... honest! So why have I never heard of him, or this trip? Why all the secrets and lies? Why did I still not know about the Engagement guy as well? Why was I the only person she WASN'T sleeping with!? Finally, I decided I would never know the full truth but that it's not my problem anymore. I don't care whether she slept with 5 guys or just had emotional affairs with 2. It's enough to know she's a compulsive liar and hypocrite that I do not want anything to do with. Blocked on all media. If there are accusations, I will look forward to proving my innocence. Snakes only shed their skins to become bigger snakes.

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He had me fooled during the covid pandemic. At first it was great then suddenly my sweet man started to change. I thought at first he might have Asperger's because of his outbursts but one day I realized it was all an act. Such a long story but he tried to kill meband get me fired. All so crazy looking back now. I am glad I had strength to kick him out. It's hard when you love someone but you just know you are done

Quantum entanglement, her and i are connected so very deeply. She is my Heaven on Earth. Period, and she has shared my heaven so now i am living in my hell..

When my wife discarded, me and told me she was filling for divorce, I laughed and told her it was the best thing she ever did for me, apparently I was to beg and chase, but I don't do that.

When I heard you say, “when you grew up in a narcissistic family, you were used to to being gaslighted all the time”. You are so right. I was used to not trusting my decisions and thoughts. So I leave home unprepared and how to deal with with people like this! I was book smart but not life smart!! I always doubted myself when it came to making decisions. But wow, did I eventually learn. I married a horrible narcissist who did a number on me. It was mind boggling at first. He was so nice at first. But as soon as I stood up for myself and questioned things, it became bad. He started devaluing me and saying some really nasty things. I could never do anything right! But I was determined to get out of this mess!! My divorce took over 3 years because he kept coming to court without bringing proper paperwork. Funny thing is, he initiated the divorce proceedings this time and he kept stalling. I think he thought I would take him back. I finally got through the divorce and moved to another state. We had a son who is now 29 years old. He tried to use him to get to me but it doesn’t work. My ex is 64 years old, he brags about sleeping with multiple people, lies , health issues and still the same way! So glad I moved on. It’s scary when I look back and wondered how I didn’t see this in the first place. Trauma bonds are not joke. It took a lot to overcome it, but I did. Thanks to God and a lot of tears.

Going on 9 years trying to get him out.

My ex narc held a grudge against me when I broke off our 8mth relationship. 15 years later I took him back. I spent the next 4yrs being emotionally abused in an insidious way. He found every way possible to bring me down, make me feel insignificant and running off here and there being the sexual predator that I eventually found out he is. I went no contact and it was the best decision ever. He was out to destroy me, but he failed miserably.

Yes I watched the new supply copy me , it was really strange

thank you

I think they adore other narcissist more than us nice and loving people, as they are hard to get, hard to satisfy, arrogant and something they have to fight for. Dear nice people: get this arrogant, hard to satisfy person for this narcissist and the pain is over!

I wondered why I’m the one with posts aimed at me online, he tried to marry the lady who is his security blanket within days of my birthday (definitely a covert malignant narcissist here), he’d scream when I kindly told him I think you might have this narcissism/borderline, or something, (I think whole dark triad). Of course I never had anyone treat me so bad, waking to “GM, learned your lesson yet?” after my first silent treatment. He would scream you’re a narcissist normally when I only brought up what I think he had to try and help. One day he got quiet on the phone and said: I looked up that narcissist, and I might be…then he said, but I’m happy. I thought wow, this is huge, he looked up what I told him he might have. I don’t buy he’s happy. I saw quivering lips about to bawl before when his more BPD side came out, and he was just plain nasty when the psychopath side came out. I even researched him online under web dockets & Intellius to see what I was dealing with, of course many arrests, unpaid child support, unpaid taxes, and kids he never mentioned he never pays support for. Intellius lists people’s email addresses they’ve used, get this: lol….. Peoplelikeustakeover@gmail.com 😂😂😂 oh my…. He runs his record label I escaped like a cult. One thing I am happy about, that he looked it up, and admitted he might have it. I care about him and do hope he gets some help. Sadly, ASPD doesn’t look too hopeful. If happy, as he claimed, he wouldn’t have told me how frustrated he was to not be able to feel love…plus, he said early on, I don’t understand why people think I’m an ahole. Both I feel did bother him. Maybe I am one who made him realize what he has, he’s definitely aiming or doing stuff to punish me.

Put as well as I've ever, heard it described

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My hair started falling out when I was with him. I was in the hospital 2 weeks. Crying, with kidney infections. My body was breaking down. Poor evil at its best! I am super healthy away from him now.

Sounds so good, your voice is so soulful. I love your channel and your content really opened up my eyes to see what type of people I've been dealing with

Tried TRIANGULATING me with the New supply, straight up told her " I'm DUMPIMG YOUR ASS " NEVER looked back but now I'm living in Peace, Love, Joy & Happiness

This is 💯 correct 😮

Halleluyah glory to Yahushua's holy name for this, vitally informative and important information, very detailed analysis of what is going with these , tormented,lost souls 🥺 Absolutely,100% on point. These people are totally plastic surgery,once you turn up the heat,they melt like wax mummies and mutants 🥶 2ND TIMOTHY 3 VS 1-9

Oh he is always watching even in his sleep.

It took me almost 2 yrs of healing.it was horrible...but now I'm good;)

Dear Donielle I have listened to a number of people on youtube try to describe what you have so succinctly described. 10 out of 10. You are the best without a doubt. You were talking about my previous relationship with a female narcissist for 18 months. I am an empathetic male of over 70, I see and hear things that most people miss out on due to my background. I trust my instinct and senses, where others over-ride them because of that fuzzy thing called love. We even went to a counselor, and she fooled her. She was a different person when with the counselor. It was amazing. She denies, lies, gaslights, and projects, and that exactly what I repeatedly told her when I finished it for the final time. She was busted, and I was a happy man walking away from her. Narcissists are cold, remote, distant and completely without compassion and empathy. We had some great experiences together, there was love, but there was always the unsettling stench of narcissism in the air. Thank you.

Huge!!!!

I feel similar, I got sick of the drama and how I was feeling. They didn't know what happened to me, why I don't miss them. I don't miss having all that confusion, and I just can't live like that.

Thats 🤢 sick

Loved this video and your voice and you explain very good 🫶👏

It has been so hard to give up on someone I fell in love with but you have to you can't help them every thing has been a lie and make believe

Demons. Narcs are dEMONs

Thank you so very much..... God bless you.