7 Signs Of Avoidant Attachment Style
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- Опубліковано 25 тра 2024
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The "bids for connection" concept is HUGE. Understanding this has transformed how I interact with others a lot. Everybody has a slightly different way in which they bid for connection, and when it's not the same as mine, I have a better understanding of how to interact with them. They're not being annoying or controlling or needy or clingy, etc. etc. but they're vying for attention. It's nice to have a term for it :)
@seth_piano: read anything you find from John Gottman , he made the theory about "bids of connections"
Thank you for the informative content on attachment problems from male's perspective.
I want to see is more men speak about what healthy, secure or healed attachment is like.
I find it difficult to paint this image in my mind by only imagining the opposites of the negative aspects of unhealthy attachments.
Thank you for you work 🙏
Yet the DAs are very unlikely to be seeking solutions, often times they are not aware of their contribution to lack of emotional connection
1: if your partner is Avoidant= go no contact. These people most often never change. Many are narcissistic and have NPD. These are also abuseiv, neglectfull.
Also seek a therapist. Many people seek out avoidants because they think ( wrongly), that their withdrawls of affection/emotion and their hyper independence is a sign of confidence. It’s not. They are copeing from anxiety. And the partner can’t « fix» them, or « love them into health». The avoidant need therapy, not love. And most often the partner also need therapy.
2: If you are avoidant. Seek a therapist, who are educated in attachement styles. There is hope for you if you have the insight to see your own anxiety and toxic traits.
Also look to stoicism. This will help on the anxiety. And accept life as it is. Humans are imperfect, you are imperfect. This is ok
Never fails, every video on avoidant attachment has an endless parade of hatebags claiming all avoidants are narcissists and should be shunned at all costs.
Very healthy, very cool.
I think I might have avoidant attachment...
ok now tell me how to cure myself from being avoidant. don't just expose me like that
Check Adam Lane Smith.. he has great tips
He does have a longer video about just that from a while ago. ua-cam.com/video/nV-Zf8_MlvM/v-deo.html
Why are tou onky talkifn about this in the context of romantic relationships when 66% of young men are single????
This relates to friendships and relationships with family, as well
@@poeticeclipse forsure. But it seems he is talking in the Context of a romantic relationship. And most of his viewers on young men in which 70% are single. And the ones not single probably aren't watching this
@didafm Maybe there's a high percent of single men because they don't know their attachment style. It's definitely worth learning and growing from it.